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Speaker 2: Hi, Teekis, I'm a big fan of your music and

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Speaker 2: I've been a huge fan of you, your mom, and

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Speaker 2: your whole family. When someone says something negative about your family,

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Speaker 2: I get very defensive and want to protect you guys. Anyways,

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Speaker 2: my question is I wanted to know, since you know

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Speaker 2: would think of of everything that's going on with you

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Speaker 2: the actions of some of your family members. Would she

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Speaker 2: good question?

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Speaker 1: You guys always get me. You guys always give me. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I've thought about this a lot, actually, because there are

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Speaker 1: And we have been in this situation lawsuit for a while,

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Speaker 1: to be honest, But knowing my mother, all I'm doing

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Speaker 1: So I don't know. Petra, help me pray because I've

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Speaker 1: Are these emotions like like what am I feeling and why?

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Speaker 1: comes from Patty. Patty's asking us a question. Let's see, hi, Cheeky's.

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Speaker 1: Best, Oh Patty, thank you big heart, and kiss to you.

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Speaker 4: Let's see Hi Cheeky, love the show, love your podcast

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Speaker 4: and everything. I hope you're doing well. I just needed

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much, oh Juan, thank you, thank you

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Speaker 1: I'm glad that he's supporting the things that you like. Okay,

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