1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:05,160 Speaker 1: Bellahamine contributed to our little little sheet here that we 2 00:00:05,240 --> 00:00:08,920 Speaker 1: have little shared document and people write their ideas for 3 00:00:09,000 --> 00:00:13,440 Speaker 1: the show into or in contribute whatever, And you said 4 00:00:14,360 --> 00:00:19,320 Speaker 1: sending to the effect of who am I supposed to 5 00:00:19,360 --> 00:00:25,160 Speaker 1: share graphic details about my life with if not my husband? 6 00:00:25,560 --> 00:00:26,079 Speaker 2: Exactly? 7 00:00:26,760 --> 00:00:31,560 Speaker 1: So the question was how much mystery do you leave 8 00:00:31,760 --> 00:00:32,879 Speaker 1: in your relationship? 9 00:00:33,520 --> 00:00:34,880 Speaker 3: So I'll put it out there? 10 00:00:35,080 --> 00:00:39,680 Speaker 1: Eight five's where's the line? Well, no, she'll tell her 11 00:00:39,720 --> 00:00:41,519 Speaker 1: story and she'll go back in. No, don't worry, Jason. 12 00:00:41,840 --> 00:00:43,400 Speaker 1: You're a full time member of the show. You get 13 00:00:43,440 --> 00:00:48,400 Speaker 1: to stay. Jason's immediate meat is to do someone else's job. No, No, 14 00:00:48,680 --> 00:00:50,599 Speaker 1: I want you to sit right there. She's gonna tell 15 00:00:50,640 --> 00:00:52,240 Speaker 1: her story and then go do her job. You don't 16 00:00:52,280 --> 00:00:54,760 Speaker 1: have to do everyone else's job. Do we have to 17 00:00:54,760 --> 00:01:00,640 Speaker 1: have that speech today? You do everyone else's job and 18 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:03,440 Speaker 1: you don't have to. I want you to relax, put 19 00:01:03,480 --> 00:01:07,080 Speaker 1: your feet up if you want. Well, they're probably not, 20 00:01:07,120 --> 00:01:10,080 Speaker 1: because I don't worry about it, you know. I just 21 00:01:10,120 --> 00:01:13,720 Speaker 1: love how Jason's the first one to step up to 22 00:01:13,880 --> 00:01:17,440 Speaker 1: do somebody else's job. You don't have to do it. So, yeah, 23 00:01:18,000 --> 00:01:20,720 Speaker 1: what what is the situation ahead? What is the example 24 00:01:20,760 --> 00:01:23,680 Speaker 1: that you have. When did this present itself in your relationship. 25 00:01:24,360 --> 00:01:27,600 Speaker 4: Well, a couple of days ago, I had to use 26 00:01:27,640 --> 00:01:33,559 Speaker 4: the restroom and I'm scared, and I tell I'm not shy. 27 00:01:33,720 --> 00:01:36,319 Speaker 1: No, well, I mean maybe a little shy, remember that 28 00:01:36,400 --> 00:01:38,560 Speaker 1: this is the radio, but I mean not too shy. 29 00:01:38,920 --> 00:01:41,280 Speaker 2: I'm just like, I hope I can say this word 30 00:01:41,280 --> 00:01:41,880 Speaker 2: on the radio. 31 00:01:42,040 --> 00:01:42,480 Speaker 5: You can't. 32 00:01:42,760 --> 00:01:43,040 Speaker 2: I can't. 33 00:01:43,080 --> 00:01:48,000 Speaker 4: Okay, medical thing, it's a medical okay, perfect. So I 34 00:01:48,040 --> 00:01:50,800 Speaker 4: tell Ben everything, like literally everything. And so the other 35 00:01:50,880 --> 00:01:53,000 Speaker 4: day I went to go out to the bathroom and 36 00:01:53,120 --> 00:01:54,200 Speaker 4: I had hemorrhoids. 37 00:01:54,360 --> 00:01:56,920 Speaker 2: And I went and well, I don't know if it's hemorrhoids. 38 00:01:57,240 --> 00:01:59,080 Speaker 5: I talked to my doctor, But you make things up. 39 00:01:59,120 --> 00:01:59,920 Speaker 3: Okay, No, we don't. 40 00:02:00,040 --> 00:02:01,880 Speaker 1: We don't. We don't have to get to and okay, 41 00:02:01,920 --> 00:02:04,280 Speaker 1: we don't have to get to in a detail about Okay. 42 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:06,640 Speaker 1: So there's something going on in the in the in 43 00:02:06,680 --> 00:02:08,240 Speaker 1: the booty area, yeah, exactly. 44 00:02:08,320 --> 00:02:09,760 Speaker 2: And so I went to tell him. 45 00:02:10,080 --> 00:02:12,480 Speaker 3: So I went to tell him. The first thing you 46 00:02:12,560 --> 00:02:13,600 Speaker 3: thought to do is tell him? 47 00:02:13,840 --> 00:02:15,799 Speaker 2: Yeah, of course I would tell him. And so I 48 00:02:15,840 --> 00:02:17,080 Speaker 2: told him. I'm like, hey, babe, I think I got 49 00:02:17,160 --> 00:02:17,560 Speaker 2: him rights. 50 00:02:17,600 --> 00:02:19,040 Speaker 4: And then he like turns to me and he's like, 51 00:02:19,280 --> 00:02:21,560 Speaker 4: you know, you don't have to tell me everything. 52 00:02:22,520 --> 00:02:25,320 Speaker 2: And I was like, so who am I supposed to tell? 53 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:28,760 Speaker 2: I had to tell somebody, and you signed up for this? 54 00:02:29,720 --> 00:02:32,840 Speaker 3: Well he did? Did he sign up to hear about 55 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:34,680 Speaker 3: everything going on with you? I? 56 00:02:34,720 --> 00:02:39,840 Speaker 2: Sure, hope. So we've got eternity. That's beautiful. We have 57 00:02:39,880 --> 00:02:41,200 Speaker 2: eternity to check him out. 58 00:02:41,360 --> 00:02:47,639 Speaker 1: Like I stopped, looks stop, yes, stop, but you've made 59 00:02:47,720 --> 00:02:49,079 Speaker 1: Mike look at your well. 60 00:02:49,120 --> 00:02:51,480 Speaker 6: No, I've never had that problem. But like I would, 61 00:02:51,680 --> 00:02:53,280 Speaker 6: if he was like, there's something wrong with my butt, 62 00:02:53,400 --> 00:02:54,440 Speaker 6: I'd be like, okay, let me see. 63 00:02:54,480 --> 00:02:55,600 Speaker 5: You can't like those. 64 00:02:57,480 --> 00:02:59,120 Speaker 3: I think you think you can think. 65 00:02:59,320 --> 00:03:00,400 Speaker 2: I think you mine. 66 00:03:00,440 --> 00:03:00,880 Speaker 5: We're okay. 67 00:03:02,040 --> 00:03:03,760 Speaker 1: They're like outside I think I think you can get 68 00:03:03,840 --> 00:03:07,079 Speaker 1: most times from what I understand, I too have. I 69 00:03:07,240 --> 00:03:09,120 Speaker 1: thought I had all kinds of things going on, and 70 00:03:09,120 --> 00:03:12,880 Speaker 1: it turns out I've had I've had ganders of all 71 00:03:12,960 --> 00:03:15,240 Speaker 1: parts of my body because I'm a hypochondriac and I'm 72 00:03:15,240 --> 00:03:16,360 Speaker 1: convinced that I've had everything. 73 00:03:16,919 --> 00:03:20,440 Speaker 3: I'm convinced that I had stars and you can see 74 00:03:20,480 --> 00:03:24,040 Speaker 3: everything bad ones. Oh you just went ahead and googled that? 75 00:03:24,760 --> 00:03:26,359 Speaker 3: Is that what you did? I don't know. 76 00:03:26,400 --> 00:03:28,160 Speaker 1: I don't know where that I can't see so I 77 00:03:28,200 --> 00:03:30,400 Speaker 1: know where that came from. You can see the bad 78 00:03:30,440 --> 00:03:32,800 Speaker 1: ones pulled them up on your phone or side. 79 00:03:33,160 --> 00:03:35,080 Speaker 2: I don't actually know if I have them. I don't. 80 00:03:35,080 --> 00:03:36,640 Speaker 2: I don't want to get to I mean, I don't know. 81 00:03:36,920 --> 00:03:37,800 Speaker 3: We no, no, we don't. 82 00:03:37,840 --> 00:03:38,160 Speaker 5: We don't. 83 00:03:38,360 --> 00:03:40,960 Speaker 1: Again, you don't need to tell us either, Okay, why 84 00:03:40,960 --> 00:03:42,160 Speaker 1: do you tell us everything? 85 00:03:42,640 --> 00:03:43,640 Speaker 2: And I need to tell him? 86 00:03:43,640 --> 00:03:46,240 Speaker 1: But I wanted to where's the line in your relationship? 87 00:03:47,880 --> 00:03:49,840 Speaker 1: Thank you, Bella. Now you can go into if anyone 88 00:03:49,920 --> 00:03:52,160 Speaker 1: chooses and about your issue. 89 00:03:52,200 --> 00:03:54,280 Speaker 2: It's okay, But you. 90 00:03:54,200 --> 00:03:57,040 Speaker 3: Tell him everything? Oh yeah, everything. 91 00:03:56,920 --> 00:03:58,760 Speaker 2: Everything you could think of. I tell them. 92 00:03:58,840 --> 00:04:00,880 Speaker 3: But why okay, where you go answer the phone? 93 00:04:00,920 --> 00:04:01,040 Speaker 7: Then? 94 00:04:01,320 --> 00:04:03,960 Speaker 3: Why why is it important for him to know? 95 00:04:04,640 --> 00:04:07,240 Speaker 1: It's not It's like I don't know whatever's happening in 96 00:04:07,280 --> 00:04:07,800 Speaker 1: your body. 97 00:04:08,120 --> 00:04:09,960 Speaker 2: I just like telling him everything. I don't like being 98 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:12,200 Speaker 2: the only one to know this stuff. But I'll tell 99 00:04:12,240 --> 00:04:14,520 Speaker 2: him anything, like I'll tell everyone anything. 100 00:04:14,600 --> 00:04:17,000 Speaker 1: But there's stuff going on with you. I'm sure that 101 00:04:17,120 --> 00:04:19,640 Speaker 1: there's nothing he can do about it. Yeah, he's not 102 00:04:19,680 --> 00:04:22,080 Speaker 1: as though you're like sick and he can care for you, 103 00:04:22,160 --> 00:04:25,039 Speaker 1: like this is a personal issue, and at some point 104 00:04:25,120 --> 00:04:27,160 Speaker 1: you probably want him to do things in that area, 105 00:04:27,800 --> 00:04:30,279 Speaker 1: you know, that general area, and I don't know, and 106 00:04:30,320 --> 00:04:32,080 Speaker 1: I don't know about that, but you know what I mean, 107 00:04:32,680 --> 00:04:34,600 Speaker 1: the nether regionally. 108 00:04:34,000 --> 00:04:35,680 Speaker 2: Never done it before in her life. 109 00:04:35,720 --> 00:04:38,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, mom, And I don't know why a guy or 110 00:04:38,839 --> 00:04:42,320 Speaker 1: a girl needs to have that information. I believe that 111 00:04:42,360 --> 00:04:44,599 Speaker 1: we like to call it around here, preserving the sexy, 112 00:04:45,040 --> 00:04:47,680 Speaker 1: like there's there's such thing as too much information. 113 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:51,760 Speaker 2: I honestly don't care. We've been together since we were seventeen. 114 00:04:51,720 --> 00:04:52,719 Speaker 3: But that doesn't mean that. 115 00:04:52,760 --> 00:04:55,080 Speaker 1: I think the reason he's telling you that is because 116 00:04:55,080 --> 00:04:56,600 Speaker 1: he's like, I don't need it. I don't need to 117 00:04:56,640 --> 00:04:58,560 Speaker 1: know that, Like he's he's the one saying this, not me. 118 00:04:58,880 --> 00:05:00,479 Speaker 2: He said, I was getting grafted about it. 119 00:05:00,520 --> 00:05:02,560 Speaker 4: He said it was fine that I told him, but 120 00:05:02,839 --> 00:05:06,760 Speaker 4: the details were they should have left them necessary necessary. 121 00:05:07,839 --> 00:05:11,480 Speaker 7: Thank you, very nice, thank you, yes, very nice. Right 122 00:05:11,520 --> 00:05:15,159 Speaker 7: now we're going down with him, she said, don't tell me, 123 00:05:15,200 --> 00:05:19,800 Speaker 7: She said, I'll tell you on the radio. Okay, tells 124 00:05:19,839 --> 00:05:20,440 Speaker 7: me that he does. 125 00:05:20,600 --> 00:05:22,359 Speaker 8: He's held against as well, like he doesn't want to 126 00:05:22,400 --> 00:05:24,200 Speaker 8: know these things, but that is the type that will 127 00:05:24,640 --> 00:05:26,760 Speaker 8: like tell him just because she feels like it's the 128 00:05:26,800 --> 00:05:27,440 Speaker 8: right thing to do. 129 00:05:27,520 --> 00:05:29,200 Speaker 1: Like you come in here, Pauline and talk about all 130 00:05:29,320 --> 00:05:30,000 Speaker 1: kinds of different things. 131 00:05:30,160 --> 00:05:30,960 Speaker 5: Sorry, open, do you. 132 00:05:30,920 --> 00:05:32,160 Speaker 3: Tell all these things? 133 00:05:32,200 --> 00:05:32,800 Speaker 5: Absolutely not? 134 00:05:33,040 --> 00:05:35,039 Speaker 3: Absolutely not, And he clearly doesn't listen. 135 00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:37,640 Speaker 5: No, no, he stopped doing that before we got married. 136 00:05:37,640 --> 00:05:38,760 Speaker 2: He's an you better. He's smart. 137 00:05:38,800 --> 00:05:40,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, he is smart. 138 00:05:40,120 --> 00:05:42,799 Speaker 2: It's a smart man. Literally. 139 00:05:43,160 --> 00:05:47,120 Speaker 8: I will tell him if things affect him or pertain 140 00:05:47,240 --> 00:05:50,080 Speaker 8: to him, but I don't get graphic, you know, I'll 141 00:05:50,080 --> 00:05:51,520 Speaker 8: just bigure this is happening right now. 142 00:05:51,880 --> 00:05:53,320 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, stuff like that. 143 00:05:54,040 --> 00:05:54,240 Speaker 9: You know. 144 00:05:54,880 --> 00:05:57,360 Speaker 3: Well, yeah, I guess. I don't like. 145 00:05:57,320 --> 00:05:59,440 Speaker 8: Explain or you know, make like a power point for 146 00:05:59,560 --> 00:06:01,040 Speaker 8: him and him things like that and. 147 00:06:00,880 --> 00:06:02,000 Speaker 3: Do all that. Well that's good. 148 00:06:02,080 --> 00:06:03,080 Speaker 5: Yeah, I stopped doing that. 149 00:06:03,160 --> 00:06:05,040 Speaker 1: And Jason, you would actually have you had to do 150 00:06:05,080 --> 00:06:06,040 Speaker 1: the inspection before. 151 00:06:06,800 --> 00:06:10,799 Speaker 3: No, not there, No, I would if he had a problem. 152 00:06:10,839 --> 00:06:13,320 Speaker 1: But they have physicians for this, like there are people 153 00:06:13,360 --> 00:06:15,359 Speaker 1: whose job it is to go ahead and take a 154 00:06:15,360 --> 00:06:17,479 Speaker 1: look and help you, people who actually know what they're 155 00:06:17,480 --> 00:06:17,920 Speaker 1: looking at. 156 00:06:17,960 --> 00:06:19,400 Speaker 6: But like you know, in the moment we were like, 157 00:06:19,440 --> 00:06:21,360 Speaker 6: oh my god, what is that? And we can't see it? 158 00:06:21,480 --> 00:06:23,039 Speaker 6: Like I'd be like, can you just look at this? 159 00:06:23,080 --> 00:06:24,960 Speaker 6: Like what does it look like, like what's going on 160 00:06:25,000 --> 00:06:27,440 Speaker 6: back there? And then I would let him take a look, 161 00:06:27,520 --> 00:06:28,960 Speaker 6: and then I would go to a doctor. I wouldn't 162 00:06:28,960 --> 00:06:31,200 Speaker 6: trust his medical advice, but like, what's going on back there? 163 00:06:31,680 --> 00:06:36,640 Speaker 6: Show me, I don't know, it's been almost fifteen years, 164 00:06:36,880 --> 00:06:38,719 Speaker 6: like it literally there's nothing there. 165 00:06:38,600 --> 00:06:40,400 Speaker 3: So we just give up. Then we just give up 166 00:06:40,440 --> 00:06:41,440 Speaker 3: after fifteen up. 167 00:06:41,480 --> 00:06:44,200 Speaker 6: It's just a lover of comfort, like there's nothing that 168 00:06:44,279 --> 00:06:47,280 Speaker 6: he doesn't know or hasn't seen in vice versa. I 169 00:06:47,320 --> 00:06:50,000 Speaker 6: think it's comfort, it's not giving up. I think it's 170 00:06:50,040 --> 00:06:53,040 Speaker 6: comfort and trust, Caitlin. I know I know the answer 171 00:06:53,320 --> 00:06:58,960 Speaker 6: you probably well. I mean, he took your vaginal subpot stories, 172 00:06:58,960 --> 00:07:01,120 Speaker 6: so there's obviously a lot of imunication between. 173 00:07:00,839 --> 00:07:03,080 Speaker 3: The two of you, but we ingested those. 174 00:07:03,960 --> 00:07:07,680 Speaker 1: Well, I said, I don't know if yeah, he yeah, whatever, 175 00:07:07,720 --> 00:07:09,360 Speaker 1: he I don't think. I don't think you put him 176 00:07:09,400 --> 00:07:11,960 Speaker 1: in his vagina. So I think everybody knew what took 177 00:07:12,000 --> 00:07:12,840 Speaker 1: meant but well. 178 00:07:12,760 --> 00:07:14,000 Speaker 5: I meant like that was on his own time. 179 00:07:14,040 --> 00:07:15,320 Speaker 10: I didn't know he was doing that, or I would 180 00:07:15,320 --> 00:07:19,760 Speaker 10: have stopped him. But I know I still preserve some things. 181 00:07:20,080 --> 00:07:22,320 Speaker 10: But like we've already I mean, we've only been together 182 00:07:22,320 --> 00:07:24,200 Speaker 10: for a little over a year. But like we've already 183 00:07:24,360 --> 00:07:27,160 Speaker 10: like gone through some health issues where like I've had 184 00:07:27,160 --> 00:07:28,920 Speaker 10: to go to the emergency room with him, Like I've 185 00:07:28,960 --> 00:07:31,600 Speaker 10: had to help him throw up. So I mean we've 186 00:07:31,640 --> 00:07:35,160 Speaker 10: gotten there. But I don't do poop stuff. I don't 187 00:07:35,280 --> 00:07:37,800 Speaker 10: too in front of him. I will get a good 188 00:07:37,800 --> 00:07:42,120 Speaker 10: belch out. Yeah, so I tried to. But we have 189 00:07:42,200 --> 00:07:44,440 Speaker 10: a one bedroom. We have no fan in our bathroom, 190 00:07:44,440 --> 00:07:46,480 Speaker 10: which I am so pissed off about. 191 00:07:46,520 --> 00:07:48,360 Speaker 2: Still, so there's. 192 00:07:48,120 --> 00:07:50,000 Speaker 10: Been a little you know, things that maybe he could 193 00:07:50,000 --> 00:07:51,120 Speaker 10: have heard on accident. 194 00:07:51,160 --> 00:07:52,520 Speaker 5: But I don't do. 195 00:07:52,600 --> 00:07:56,240 Speaker 11: Duty stuff, okay, and Kiki oh, I don't do nonheing. 196 00:07:56,280 --> 00:07:59,960 Speaker 11: I don't play with bodily function, thank you. But big Tim, 197 00:08:00,280 --> 00:08:03,400 Speaker 11: he's very open about anything that he doesn't care. But 198 00:08:03,520 --> 00:08:06,680 Speaker 11: I'm very like h No, like Jason. I will put 199 00:08:06,680 --> 00:08:09,040 Speaker 11: a tripod on a phone and take a picture of 200 00:08:10,240 --> 00:08:11,120 Speaker 11: So I. 201 00:08:11,080 --> 00:08:13,200 Speaker 1: Am trying to take pictures of places on my body 202 00:08:13,200 --> 00:08:16,560 Speaker 1: I can't see before I would ask anybody to help 203 00:08:16,600 --> 00:08:18,440 Speaker 1: me with that. I mean, there's no one in my 204 00:08:18,440 --> 00:08:20,120 Speaker 1: house and by myself, but I mean I would go 205 00:08:20,120 --> 00:08:22,720 Speaker 1: to a doctor before I would ask the person who 206 00:08:22,720 --> 00:08:24,000 Speaker 1: I'm making love to. 207 00:08:24,920 --> 00:08:28,040 Speaker 10: Now with my girlfriends though it's any and everything. I mean, 208 00:08:28,080 --> 00:08:30,520 Speaker 10: my friend just offered to get an ingrown that I 209 00:08:30,520 --> 00:08:32,440 Speaker 10: had going on that I couldn't really see. So with 210 00:08:32,559 --> 00:08:36,319 Speaker 10: my friends were we've been through this life for long. 211 00:08:36,280 --> 00:08:38,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, and people are texting like he watched me 212 00:08:39,000 --> 00:08:39,440 Speaker 1: have a baby. 213 00:08:39,440 --> 00:08:42,080 Speaker 3: There's no line I was gonna say. I mean, I guess, 214 00:08:42,160 --> 00:08:45,600 Speaker 3: but yeah, we don't have to. We don't have to, 215 00:08:45,960 --> 00:08:46,160 Speaker 3: you know. 216 00:08:46,280 --> 00:08:48,200 Speaker 1: I mean like there's certain times where, yeah, that would 217 00:08:48,200 --> 00:08:50,400 Speaker 1: be a time where you know everything's out there because 218 00:08:50,720 --> 00:08:51,920 Speaker 1: you don't want to miss that moment. 219 00:08:52,320 --> 00:08:53,240 Speaker 3: But I don't. 220 00:08:53,440 --> 00:08:55,760 Speaker 1: I could miss the moment where you have a pimple 221 00:08:55,800 --> 00:08:58,880 Speaker 1: on your butt. I could miss that moment, Like I 222 00:08:58,880 --> 00:08:59,559 Speaker 1: don't need I don't. 223 00:08:59,559 --> 00:09:00,400 Speaker 3: I'm not. I don't know. 224 00:09:00,600 --> 00:09:02,320 Speaker 6: And I think there's something to say that, like it 225 00:09:02,360 --> 00:09:04,960 Speaker 6: doesn't disgust me, right, Like I think that just means 226 00:09:05,000 --> 00:09:07,600 Speaker 6: that like it's another level, right. 227 00:09:07,480 --> 00:09:08,240 Speaker 3: Like I don't know. 228 00:09:08,360 --> 00:09:11,360 Speaker 10: Yeah, think of relationships like video games and like you 229 00:09:11,400 --> 00:09:13,200 Speaker 10: access different levels. 230 00:09:12,720 --> 00:09:14,400 Speaker 3: Like I've reached the final boss. 231 00:09:14,280 --> 00:09:17,760 Speaker 10: Right, and there's like a love there that's like unconditional. 232 00:09:17,920 --> 00:09:18,679 Speaker 5: You don't look at it. 233 00:09:18,679 --> 00:09:19,439 Speaker 2: It's the same thing with. 234 00:09:19,400 --> 00:09:20,160 Speaker 5: My sister, Like I. 235 00:09:20,120 --> 00:09:22,640 Speaker 10: Don't look at you differently because I hit this level 236 00:09:22,640 --> 00:09:24,520 Speaker 10: of love for you that it's really not affecting. 237 00:09:24,600 --> 00:09:26,439 Speaker 1: But that's the point is maybe we don't need to 238 00:09:26,480 --> 00:09:29,200 Speaker 1: cross that line. Maybe maybe we don't need to find 239 00:09:29,200 --> 00:09:31,880 Speaker 1: that level, that level of comfort. Like I don't need 240 00:09:31,920 --> 00:09:33,280 Speaker 1: you to have the same love that you have for 241 00:09:33,320 --> 00:09:34,920 Speaker 1: your sister for me. I need you to have the 242 00:09:34,960 --> 00:09:36,440 Speaker 1: kind of love where you want to like do it 243 00:09:36,440 --> 00:09:38,800 Speaker 1: to me all the time and you and I don't 244 00:09:38,800 --> 00:09:41,920 Speaker 1: need to remind you that, like, oh, I don't know, 245 00:09:42,080 --> 00:09:44,520 Speaker 1: my stomach hurts. You know, all day long, I've had 246 00:09:44,559 --> 00:09:46,440 Speaker 1: this stomach issue, But do it to me, you know. 247 00:09:46,480 --> 00:09:49,600 Speaker 1: It's like I can handle this myself, and I don't 248 00:09:49,640 --> 00:09:52,360 Speaker 1: necessarily need to tell you about it because well, I 249 00:09:52,480 --> 00:09:54,199 Speaker 1: you know it's going to go away someday, and I 250 00:09:54,200 --> 00:09:55,360 Speaker 1: don't need you to remember it. 251 00:09:55,640 --> 00:09:57,880 Speaker 10: Sometimes you can't hide it, like when you live with 252 00:09:57,920 --> 00:10:01,440 Speaker 10: someone sometimes things accidentally know, but like full time, like 253 00:10:01,480 --> 00:10:06,320 Speaker 10: sometimes like yeah, you really can't, Like there's calamity the bedrooms, right, 254 00:10:07,040 --> 00:10:09,439 Speaker 10: It's like if you accidentally are doing one thing and 255 00:10:09,520 --> 00:10:11,520 Speaker 10: something else happens, like you know. 256 00:10:11,559 --> 00:10:13,640 Speaker 1: I must be some deity or something because I don't 257 00:10:13,640 --> 00:10:16,600 Speaker 1: have these I don't have these emergency situations on the regular. 258 00:10:16,760 --> 00:10:17,360 Speaker 5: I'm so lucky. 259 00:10:17,440 --> 00:10:19,559 Speaker 3: I just don't. I don't know why. I don't understand, 260 00:10:20,080 --> 00:10:21,640 Speaker 3: like I don't, I don't know. 261 00:10:22,240 --> 00:10:23,640 Speaker 1: I'm the same how to hum and the rest of 262 00:10:23,720 --> 00:10:25,280 Speaker 1: you guys are, But I don't put my pants on 263 00:10:25,320 --> 00:10:26,360 Speaker 1: a regular I just don't. 264 00:10:26,400 --> 00:10:27,640 Speaker 3: It never happens when you. 265 00:10:27,600 --> 00:10:30,360 Speaker 5: Have like a lady of the night over or you want. 266 00:10:30,240 --> 00:10:42,600 Speaker 12: To let's one of those escorts, right right, you mean 267 00:10:42,640 --> 00:10:43,320 Speaker 12: the Asian ones? 268 00:10:43,400 --> 00:10:46,800 Speaker 1: Yeah? No, I mean what are you talking about. I 269 00:10:46,840 --> 00:10:48,640 Speaker 1: mean people already think a lot of things about me. 270 00:10:48,720 --> 00:10:50,120 Speaker 1: Let's not put that out there, Okay. 271 00:10:50,200 --> 00:10:51,120 Speaker 5: I met like when you have. 272 00:10:51,360 --> 00:10:53,040 Speaker 1: When I have a gas you have a guess, someone 273 00:10:53,080 --> 00:10:57,000 Speaker 1: who I'm interested in there on their own, on their 274 00:10:57,040 --> 00:11:01,199 Speaker 1: own volition, someone who's choosing to be there, and it's 275 00:11:01,240 --> 00:11:02,400 Speaker 1: not being compensated. 276 00:11:04,840 --> 00:11:06,360 Speaker 3: Well, that's what a lady of the night is. 277 00:11:06,400 --> 00:11:09,800 Speaker 5: Okay, say that, and I guarantee she didn't. 278 00:11:09,559 --> 00:11:11,400 Speaker 3: Know what that meant so much. 279 00:11:11,440 --> 00:11:14,400 Speaker 5: I'm not I'm not above a lot of things. 280 00:11:14,400 --> 00:11:17,640 Speaker 1: But I can honestly tell you that everyone who's who 281 00:11:17,720 --> 00:11:20,280 Speaker 1: stopped by the house has done so because they chose 282 00:11:20,360 --> 00:11:25,319 Speaker 1: to and wanted to correct. There was no currency exchange 283 00:11:25,360 --> 00:11:32,560 Speaker 1: of any kind, you know, friend, like when you. 284 00:11:33,679 --> 00:11:36,280 Speaker 3: When you order those ladies, you know, when you engage 285 00:11:36,320 --> 00:11:42,480 Speaker 3: in prostitutiones you know. No, I don't know. This is 286 00:11:42,520 --> 00:11:43,960 Speaker 3: how people say things to me. 287 00:11:44,840 --> 00:11:47,679 Speaker 5: None of that today. 288 00:11:47,760 --> 00:11:50,800 Speaker 1: Okay, so that that's never occurred. So now what so 289 00:11:50,840 --> 00:11:53,400 Speaker 1: when I have a guest over, what I know anymore? 290 00:11:53,520 --> 00:11:56,680 Speaker 8: Well, we have a guest over, like you're telling me, 291 00:11:56,720 --> 00:11:59,600 Speaker 8: it's so easy to conceal everything, Like when you hold 292 00:11:59,600 --> 00:12:00,199 Speaker 8: in that one. 293 00:12:00,080 --> 00:12:01,880 Speaker 5: Part where like it pretty much goes up your spine 294 00:12:01,920 --> 00:12:02,400 Speaker 5: to your brain. 295 00:12:02,520 --> 00:12:05,920 Speaker 3: Like yeah, well, if. 296 00:12:05,840 --> 00:12:07,560 Speaker 1: I was able to hold it and went to my brain, 297 00:12:07,600 --> 00:12:09,240 Speaker 1: then I guess I never No one knew about it, 298 00:12:09,280 --> 00:12:10,520 Speaker 1: but none the wiser. 299 00:12:10,640 --> 00:12:14,160 Speaker 5: There's like noises I get made. I don't know, I won't. 300 00:12:14,520 --> 00:12:16,960 Speaker 1: What I worry about is I can conceal most of 301 00:12:17,000 --> 00:12:19,319 Speaker 1: that stuff I feel like I feel and even if 302 00:12:19,360 --> 00:12:21,400 Speaker 1: even if I'm not, I'm really trying hard. 303 00:12:21,520 --> 00:12:22,920 Speaker 2: What is that ice cream or beer? 304 00:12:22,960 --> 00:12:24,319 Speaker 5: Because I know those are issues for you. 305 00:12:24,320 --> 00:12:25,319 Speaker 3: For both at the same time. 306 00:12:25,360 --> 00:12:27,600 Speaker 10: Yeah, I mean sometimes I do that your your usual 307 00:12:27,600 --> 00:12:28,600 Speaker 10: beer and ice cream times? 308 00:12:28,640 --> 00:12:28,840 Speaker 3: I do. 309 00:12:29,840 --> 00:12:32,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's yeah, it's it's a great Tuesday night 310 00:12:32,679 --> 00:12:37,640 Speaker 1: for me. I do my own kegstands by myself. You 311 00:12:37,640 --> 00:12:40,160 Speaker 1: should see it. I brought myself up and then and 312 00:12:40,200 --> 00:12:42,520 Speaker 1: then I get my soft served machine out and I 313 00:12:42,600 --> 00:12:45,600 Speaker 1: just sit there and just consume the dairy. You know 314 00:12:47,040 --> 00:12:49,320 Speaker 1: that some people that's what I figured you were like, 315 00:12:49,920 --> 00:12:52,240 Speaker 1: That's what I do. That's why I come in here Wednesday. 316 00:12:52,240 --> 00:12:57,319 Speaker 1: I'm skinny, man. It's a calm, I don't. I just 317 00:12:57,600 --> 00:13:00,560 Speaker 1: make every effort to conceal it. And I don't know. 318 00:13:00,800 --> 00:13:02,800 Speaker 5: I guarantee someone's heard you before, just so you know it. 319 00:13:02,840 --> 00:13:04,839 Speaker 3: Don't want to maybe, but at least I made every 320 00:13:04,880 --> 00:13:05,720 Speaker 3: effort for them not to. 321 00:13:06,000 --> 00:13:09,160 Speaker 5: That's all you can do to say anything. It's them 322 00:13:09,160 --> 00:13:10,680 Speaker 5: out before they can hear any of it. 323 00:13:11,960 --> 00:13:12,400 Speaker 3: Your uper. 324 00:13:12,640 --> 00:13:14,960 Speaker 1: I mean, that might be a kind thing to do 325 00:13:15,120 --> 00:13:17,160 Speaker 1: if if I'm not feeling well, it might be a 326 00:13:17,240 --> 00:13:18,320 Speaker 1: kind thing to do to be like, you. 327 00:13:18,600 --> 00:13:19,800 Speaker 3: Gotta go right, all right. 328 00:13:19,880 --> 00:13:22,920 Speaker 10: I'll try to put my boyfriend out. 329 00:13:21,120 --> 00:13:23,720 Speaker 5: Any us out there. 330 00:13:24,120 --> 00:13:25,880 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm I know I'm the weirdo, but I 331 00:13:25,920 --> 00:13:28,120 Speaker 1: just I don't I think there's It's not that I 332 00:13:28,160 --> 00:13:31,200 Speaker 1: don't care, it's not that I don't empathize, but like, 333 00:13:31,280 --> 00:13:33,959 Speaker 1: I don't know if you if you're having certain issues, 334 00:13:34,040 --> 00:13:37,280 Speaker 1: like female issues or whatever, like tell me about it. 335 00:13:37,320 --> 00:13:39,040 Speaker 1: If there's something I can do for you, I will. 336 00:13:39,080 --> 00:13:41,320 Speaker 1: But other than that, I don't know what else to say, 337 00:13:41,360 --> 00:13:44,600 Speaker 1: Like I can't like if you get into graphic detail 338 00:13:44,640 --> 00:13:46,560 Speaker 1: with me about it. It's like, it's not that I don't, 339 00:13:46,559 --> 00:13:49,840 Speaker 1: I don't know what I think. That's I think sometimes. 340 00:13:49,920 --> 00:13:52,080 Speaker 1: I mean, there are immature men out there who like 341 00:13:52,160 --> 00:13:54,760 Speaker 1: think it's gross or whatever. I don't think that at all. 342 00:13:54,840 --> 00:13:58,000 Speaker 1: I just I can't offer you anything, you know, so 343 00:13:58,160 --> 00:14:00,120 Speaker 1: like I think sometimes when are like might you know, 344 00:14:00,160 --> 00:14:02,280 Speaker 1: guys don't understand and they don't. They don't they don't 345 00:14:02,320 --> 00:14:04,200 Speaker 1: listen to me talk about this stuff the way they should. 346 00:14:04,320 --> 00:14:05,880 Speaker 1: It's not that I mean, I grew up with women. 347 00:14:05,960 --> 00:14:08,240 Speaker 1: It's just I don't. I can't unless I can go 348 00:14:08,280 --> 00:14:11,000 Speaker 1: buy you something or give you medicine, help you get medicine, 349 00:14:11,080 --> 00:14:13,480 Speaker 1: or like warm up a heating pad for you or 350 00:14:13,480 --> 00:14:15,439 Speaker 1: something like, I don't know. Like this just it makes 351 00:14:15,440 --> 00:14:19,600 Speaker 1: me uncomfortable because it's like, uh, okay, I'm sorry. 352 00:14:20,280 --> 00:14:22,240 Speaker 3: I mean, like what am I supposed to do? 353 00:14:22,640 --> 00:14:24,960 Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, and just listen to me. Nothing you 354 00:14:24,960 --> 00:14:27,560 Speaker 5: can do. You can't take this pain away, cramps away? 355 00:14:27,760 --> 00:14:28,240 Speaker 3: Oh man. 356 00:14:28,320 --> 00:14:30,320 Speaker 1: Nothing well worries me, though, is the stuff that happens 357 00:14:30,320 --> 00:14:32,280 Speaker 1: when I'm asleep, because I'm sure that I toot when 358 00:14:32,280 --> 00:14:35,040 Speaker 1: I'm asleep. Yeah, and that's embarrassing and you can't obviously 359 00:14:35,120 --> 00:14:36,920 Speaker 1: do anything about that. But this is why I was 360 00:14:36,960 --> 00:14:40,760 Speaker 1: saying yesterday, yesterday, yesterday. Where's this New York accent coming from? 361 00:14:41,080 --> 00:14:42,680 Speaker 1: This is why I was saying yesterday or the day 362 00:14:42,720 --> 00:14:49,120 Speaker 1: before or whatever, that I would probably be the skinniest 363 00:14:49,240 --> 00:14:51,720 Speaker 1: person you've ever seen if I live with somebody, because 364 00:14:51,800 --> 00:14:52,840 Speaker 1: all this fat. 365 00:14:52,600 --> 00:14:55,360 Speaker 3: Stuff I do. That's not true that all of fat 366 00:14:55,400 --> 00:14:55,960 Speaker 3: stuff I do. 367 00:14:56,080 --> 00:14:57,960 Speaker 1: No, I'm serious, Like the stuff like I where I 368 00:14:58,040 --> 00:15:01,080 Speaker 1: just eat like with reckless of and then like where 369 00:15:01,080 --> 00:15:03,240 Speaker 1: I order half the menu on a Friday night after 370 00:15:03,280 --> 00:15:05,160 Speaker 1: I may or may not have stumbled upon a gummy 371 00:15:05,400 --> 00:15:08,080 Speaker 1: like or eat ice cream or whatever it is. Like, 372 00:15:08,280 --> 00:15:10,880 Speaker 1: I would not be messing around with these things if 373 00:15:10,920 --> 00:15:13,160 Speaker 1: I were if I live with somebody, because I wouldn't 374 00:15:13,200 --> 00:15:14,560 Speaker 1: want you know, the aftermath. 375 00:15:14,720 --> 00:15:17,920 Speaker 5: Oh you do it in the car, Yeah, you do 376 00:15:18,240 --> 00:15:19,760 Speaker 5: it on the way home, but. 377 00:15:19,680 --> 00:15:21,160 Speaker 3: Then the aftermath still happens. 378 00:15:21,240 --> 00:15:22,680 Speaker 5: Yeah, would you go and do it? 379 00:15:22,920 --> 00:15:23,280 Speaker 3: Okay? 380 00:15:24,280 --> 00:15:26,760 Speaker 1: No, I wouldn't want the judgment Honestly, I'm gonna lose 381 00:15:26,800 --> 00:15:29,360 Speaker 1: fifty pounds if I ever get married. I'm telling you 382 00:15:29,400 --> 00:15:33,320 Speaker 1: this because no, well no, because some people say it's comfortable, 383 00:15:33,320 --> 00:15:35,720 Speaker 1: I'll be uncomfortable really because I don't want to get 384 00:15:35,720 --> 00:15:36,120 Speaker 1: caught up. 385 00:15:36,160 --> 00:15:37,600 Speaker 3: I don't want to be tooting in my sleep. 386 00:15:37,680 --> 00:15:39,480 Speaker 1: So I'm not going to eat the bag of Freedo's 387 00:15:39,480 --> 00:15:41,560 Speaker 1: before I go to bed or whatever I do occasionally 388 00:15:41,600 --> 00:15:43,320 Speaker 1: when I, you know, am indulging? 389 00:15:44,040 --> 00:15:49,240 Speaker 3: What does this? Liz? Yes? I Liz? What is you do? What? 390 00:15:49,360 --> 00:15:49,800 Speaker 3: And who did? 391 00:15:49,800 --> 00:15:50,000 Speaker 9: What? 392 00:15:50,000 --> 00:15:50,280 Speaker 7: What is? 393 00:15:50,400 --> 00:15:50,600 Speaker 1: Who? 394 00:15:54,320 --> 00:15:56,080 Speaker 9: Yeah? Are you? 395 00:15:56,280 --> 00:16:00,440 Speaker 3: Are you in hot tub right now? No? I just wondering. 396 00:16:00,480 --> 00:16:01,360 Speaker 3: Are you taking a bath? 397 00:16:02,440 --> 00:16:02,560 Speaker 7: No? 398 00:16:02,680 --> 00:16:03,840 Speaker 9: My phone just sucks? 399 00:16:04,280 --> 00:16:07,080 Speaker 1: Oh that too? Okay, So what what is the level 400 00:16:07,120 --> 00:16:09,600 Speaker 1: of comfort in your relationship? Or I guess former? 401 00:16:10,920 --> 00:16:14,640 Speaker 9: Yeah, so my ex had a hemorry in her butt, 402 00:16:14,800 --> 00:16:16,760 Speaker 9: so she was like, can you put a hemorhy cream? 403 00:16:16,800 --> 00:16:19,480 Speaker 9: And I was like yeah. So, bouncing back on what 404 00:16:19,600 --> 00:16:23,000 Speaker 9: Jason said, I feel like it's the level of comfort 405 00:16:23,040 --> 00:16:23,920 Speaker 9: and trust. 406 00:16:24,920 --> 00:16:27,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, we don't need it here. You know, we don't 407 00:16:27,200 --> 00:16:28,600 Speaker 1: need it. You're a nice person, but we don't. We 408 00:16:28,600 --> 00:16:29,920 Speaker 1: don't need it, Thank you, Liz. 409 00:16:30,080 --> 00:16:33,600 Speaker 3: Can't I say? I just I don't need their level 410 00:16:33,600 --> 00:16:35,560 Speaker 3: of trust or comfort. I don't. We can we can 411 00:16:35,600 --> 00:16:38,479 Speaker 3: stop right there. 412 00:16:38,000 --> 00:16:41,080 Speaker 1: You know, like right like emergency contact status, but not 413 00:16:41,200 --> 00:16:42,720 Speaker 1: putting things in my butt kind of stuff. 414 00:16:42,760 --> 00:16:44,280 Speaker 10: You do you have something I need for you to 415 00:16:44,320 --> 00:16:46,320 Speaker 10: look at them during the song. 416 00:16:46,520 --> 00:16:48,760 Speaker 1: Well, we're not intimately romantic, so go ahead, come over. 417 00:16:49,080 --> 00:16:52,000 Speaker 1: I mean I'll look at it and go oh damn 418 00:16:52,040 --> 00:16:54,400 Speaker 1: and then makes you feel bad. Headlines are next.