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Speaker 1: My babysitter is getting too close with my husband. I

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Speaker 1: think something's going on parenting tips.

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Speaker 2: That's it.

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Speaker 1: Well, I'm still trying to process this in my mind

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Speaker 1: while typing this out. My husband and I have been

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Speaker 1: together for six years and married for four. We have

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Speaker 1: two children, a two year old and a four year old.

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Speaker 1: Both of us work full time. I'm a realtor and

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Speaker 1: husband owns his own business. We've had a number of

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Speaker 1: different nannies in the past. Sometimes our parents end up

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Speaker 1: watching the kids.

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Speaker 2: Why did that need that?

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Speaker 1: All I'm saying is, you know, the apple don't fall

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Speaker 1: far from the tree. Mother in law, you know she's

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Speaker 1: doing good. She has her yoga, she's drinking her green juices.

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Speaker 1: He's who knows what? Op he's up with? The husband's

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Speaker 1: up to Okay, who knows?

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Speaker 3: Who knows?

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Speaker 2: Anthony pop quiz. How many Hall passes does Opie have? Uh,

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Speaker 2: it's six years, one and a half and two kids.

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Speaker 2: Technically one? Technically one? Is that another factor? There can't

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Speaker 2: be a half? Yeah, it's a step function.

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Speaker 4: No, No, he it's three because there's two kids and they've

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Speaker 4: been together for four.

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Speaker 2: Sorry, I've forgot about the kids. Is there another variable?

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Speaker 2: With the kids.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, what is it? One?

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Speaker 2: Each kid is a whole pass that so it's.

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Speaker 5: Four all passes. No three, he said, two kids and

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Speaker 5: a two year old. No, they are two kids and

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Speaker 5: a two year old. That's two children. A two year

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Speaker 5: old and a four year old children, that's two. They

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Speaker 5: just named the ages.

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Speaker 2: But you know what else? Okay? Sorry? This came from

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Speaker 2: Direct Caterpillar seventy seven on.

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Speaker 5: Our side open stories there.

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Speaker 1: But about eight months ago, my husband told me that

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Speaker 1: one of his friend's daughters will call we'll call her Ella.

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Speaker 1: Twenty female was looking for a part time job during college.

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Speaker 2: What kind of job? But not there. We live in

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Speaker 2: a small college town, so we're keep mute. Won't be far.

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Speaker 1: We tried out one night and it went pretty smooth.

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Speaker 1: Op needs to there's I feel there's too much a

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Speaker 1: new endo here.

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Speaker 2: I think she's getting to she's getting to the meat,

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Speaker 2: that's true. I think she's.

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Speaker 5: About like, Oh, we're not seeing nothing yet.

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Speaker 2: Shold on.

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Speaker 1: This is a family friendly show. So she's always been

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Speaker 1: nice to me and the kids. Love for Ella the babysitter.

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Speaker 1: My suspicions started last month when I came home early

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Speaker 1: to find my husband had been home. Ella was also

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Speaker 1: at the house babysitting. I asked my husband why he

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Speaker 1: didn't send her home if he was also home. His

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Speaker 1: response was, she's just trying to make a little more

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Speaker 1: money and the kids were having fun.

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Speaker 2: Were the kids the only ones having fun? Mm?

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Speaker 1: Then two weeks ago, I drove by my husband's office

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Speaker 2: Was parked there at his office. Oh.

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Speaker 1: I asked my husband later about what Ella was doing

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Speaker 1: Ella is always dressed up more and has her makeup

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Speaker 1: done and and heals on.

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Speaker 5: No, is she trying to get a job?

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Speaker 2: Is that the deal?

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Speaker 6: Though?

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Speaker 2: What kind of job are you getting that require you?

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Speaker 5: Kimberly fine? I see you kimberly Fine in the chat.

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Speaker 5: I won't say it. I won't say it. You said it?

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Speaker 2: Oh God, No, Okay, she's going continue all right.

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Speaker 1: Well, two days ago I found strands of blonde hair

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Speaker 1: in the back seat of my husband's truck and they

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Speaker 1: weren't mine.

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Speaker 2: No, she said, I have blonde hair.

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Speaker 1: I have blonde hair too, as the next line indicates,

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Speaker 1: But this was closer to Ella's shade. Also, I don't

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Speaker 1: since he's six six and two hundred and forty pounds.

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Speaker 2: That's a big dude. That's a big dude.

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Speaker 1: Last night I found the opportunity to check on my

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Speaker 5: See, I don't I don't like this. The bigs never

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Speaker 5: step one. Yeah, well look into the phone. You got

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Speaker 4: The rule we have with that is if your partner's

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Speaker 4: Like you know how like a police officer looks into

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Speaker 2: There's cocaine. Let me go investigate that. Yeah, but you

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Speaker 5: A conversation of hey, have you been chatting with this person?

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Speaker 2: Nah?

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Speaker 5: Can I see? And they're like no, and you're like

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Speaker 1: The uh the the text is like if you're just

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Speaker 1: water Moji excited for this tonight, Peach Peach, Peach, see.

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Speaker 2: No sign of any.

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Speaker 5: Trust your water park? Yeah, good fruits, it's Britney Beach.

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Speaker 5: I see you keep going.

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Speaker 1: We'll do find any romantic text between them, but I

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Speaker 1: could definitely tell that text messages had been deleted. If

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Speaker 1: you read the conversation, it didn't make sense because it

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Speaker 1: has a type. Blonde women like op l At falls

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Speaker 1: perfectly into that category. Should I confront him right now

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Speaker 2: I want to talk with Anthony. Guys, let's let's pull

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Speaker 2: En Cap on this.

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Speaker 1: So Anthony, you just said, you know, the first thing

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Speaker 1: should be a conversation, Yes, which is exactly what it

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Speaker 2: Op I think took the depths out of order.

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Speaker 1: It's like, talk to the husband and ask yeah to

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Speaker 1: I don't know, have you or anyone you've known ever

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Speaker 1: I'm like I'm an open book, like go for it,

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and that's how everybody should be. Yeah, And I

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Speaker 5: asking them about it isn't a problem. Yes, But why

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Speaker 5: wouldn't you ask them about it unless you're worried that

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Speaker 5: it's like, okay, well, if you're mad that they don't

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Speaker 2: Anyway, now here's the ultimate question.

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Speaker 1: Can you, like, like in real court, if it is,

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Speaker 5: Unfortunately, it can't be. It can't relationship.

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Speaker 2: It's like, yeah, the court of relationship.

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Speaker 3: But we have enough.

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Speaker 1: The nanny is currently in the house right I tracked

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Speaker 1: talk with you about that in a second, and he's

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Speaker 1: headed home. He's also headed home on the thirty minute drive.

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Speaker 1: They both think I'll be working until seven pm today.

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Speaker 1: my husband gets home unannounced. Not sure what the plan

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Speaker 1: his business. She hope he's trying to snoop through everything,

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Speaker 1: like let me, let me go through his full data history.

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Speaker 5: I understand like wanting to have more to go off

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Speaker 5: of for this conversation that happens. Better to have him

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Speaker 5: as well. I have like reasonable like you know, doubt

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Speaker 1: quick pitstop. Is it okay if you've shared your locations?

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Speaker 2: There's anything fishy going on?

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Speaker 5: The active nature of it is a little interesting. It's

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Speaker 5: definitely you don't trust them, you know, if you're actively

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Speaker 5: And then it's like, okay, obviously not so I won't

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Speaker 1: But so if it's being used nefariously, maybe that's following

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Speaker 2: Or the wrong it's a lack of trust.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel I feel like if anything, like I'm

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Speaker 1: I'm kind of like what you said earlier, I want

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Speaker 2: To like do that.

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Speaker 1: But checking the location of like, oh hey, that is

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Speaker 1: I think it's more of a gray area, but it's

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Like it's just information that we both know each

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Speaker 5: other have and we've already you know I have your

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Speaker 5: like that's something we both share with an agreement, it's

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Speaker 5: already open. But when you're like being all snoopy with it, yeah, interesting,

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Speaker 5: But let's see what happened.

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Speaker 2: Let's see update number two.

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Speaker 1: I wasn't able to get the concrete evidence I was

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Speaker 1: looking for, but some more circumstantial evidence. I tracked my

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Speaker 1: is exactly what you just talked about. I decided to

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Husband got home at five thirty pm. Ella was scheduled

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Speaker 2: Big Mama in the house. Now, Mama Opie, we.

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Speaker 1: Have a long gravel driveway that leads up to her house.

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Speaker 1: I decided to park near the barn right nice, so

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't be heard pulling up to the house. I

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Speaker 1: walked in the front door and found Ella feeding my

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Speaker 2: Today.

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Speaker 1: She had on a tight top skirt and platform heels.

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Speaker 1: I asked if she knew where my husband was. She replied,

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Speaker 2: How do you know, I didn't even think about that.

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Speaker 5: Talk, don't test like all these crazy like oh, I

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Speaker 1: Paul says one hundred percent cheating one hundred percent. It's

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Speaker 1: But your wife is home is like yo, watch out Kimberly, fine,

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Speaker 2: He's trying to wash away the fish market. The fish market.

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Speaker 5: Listen, there was a lot of vendors out there that day,

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Speaker 5: and Kimberly, you know.

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Speaker 2: I hear that, just do it? That? Why would you ever? Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, she doesn't include anybody in these or read it

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Speaker 1: I won't tell anyone except thousands of strangers. Wait, Riley,

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Speaker 2: Reasonable question.

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Speaker 1: Reasonable question, And I told him everything that I've noticed

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Speaker 1: He denied everything and said it was all in my head,

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Speaker 2: I honestly don't.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, So maybe we like either hire a new one

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Speaker 2: Would you agree? Yeah? Is Opee the a whole for.

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Speaker 1: The way she went about trying to figure this out?

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Speaker 5: The other night, I fell asleep early at six thirty

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Speaker 5: Never the start of a trustworthy story. Nevertheless, I'm sorry, Ophie,

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Speaker 5: There was nothing in the phone particularly damning except a

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Speaker 2: does that? Who does that? This is I'm so and

443
00:21:21,160 --> 00:21:23,040
Speaker 2: I'm like, is this actually that?

444
00:21:23,400 --> 00:21:23,600
Speaker 3: Hey?

445
00:21:23,600 --> 00:21:25,440
Speaker 2: Can we meet up so you can buy me some sunglasses?

446
00:21:25,480 --> 00:21:29,159
Speaker 2: Are you kidding me? So weird?

447
00:21:27,640 --> 00:21:30,560
Speaker 5: So first of all, and it's not like, oh, we're

448
00:21:30,560 --> 00:21:32,159
Speaker 5: both out and we're on this walk and there's a

449
00:21:32,160 --> 00:21:36,920
Speaker 5: sunglasses shop and buy me something. Anyway, Okay, I was upset,

450
00:21:37,040 --> 00:21:39,800
Speaker 5: obviously he lied to me. I got really depressed, and

451
00:21:39,800 --> 00:21:43,760
Speaker 5: I decided I would move past it. Unfortunately, my body

452
00:21:43,800 --> 00:21:47,160
Speaker 5: refused to let me move on, and it was painfully obvious.

453
00:21:48,280 --> 00:21:51,720
Speaker 5: I had asked him about her specifically because I'd always

454
00:21:51,760 --> 00:21:54,320
Speaker 5: been wary of their relationship. I met him when he

455
00:21:54,440 --> 00:21:56,879
Speaker 5: was out with her on his birthday, and he hardly

456
00:21:56,920 --> 00:21:59,600
Speaker 5: paid attention to me. It honestly turned me off. That's

457
00:21:59,640 --> 00:22:03,879
Speaker 5: always top. That's a red flag for sure. We started

458
00:22:03,920 --> 00:22:06,840
Speaker 5: talking more, and he explained he could never be with

459
00:22:06,880 --> 00:22:09,919
Speaker 5: a girl like her. He's never slept with her. She tried,

460
00:22:10,160 --> 00:22:13,880
Speaker 5: but he's always turned her down. She regularly goes through

461
00:22:13,920 --> 00:22:16,920
Speaker 5: guys she met on Tinder, and on his birthday, she

462
00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:21,000
Speaker 5: met with three guys just while I was there, like.

463
00:22:21,040 --> 00:22:25,040
Speaker 2: Three Tinder days. Yeah, I'm always the one.

464
00:22:25,119 --> 00:22:31,600
Speaker 5: I'm always amazed at people's like tender abilities, their lifestyle

465
00:22:31,680 --> 00:22:35,760
Speaker 5: with Tinder, Like they got just in the in the bank,

466
00:22:35,840 --> 00:22:37,360
Speaker 5: that got some people they can hit up.

467
00:22:37,359 --> 00:22:40,400
Speaker 1: There's one point where Riley one, you could technically argue

468
00:22:40,440 --> 00:22:41,600
Speaker 1: he dated eight people at once.

469
00:22:42,320 --> 00:22:46,280
Speaker 2: Dang, you can argue anyways, we're gonna argue that. We're

470
00:22:46,280 --> 00:22:47,760
Speaker 2: not gonna argue that. Why would we do that? Okay,

471
00:22:47,880 --> 00:22:52,040
Speaker 2: I invited eight girls to a potlug once. That's that's

472
00:22:52,080 --> 00:22:54,640
Speaker 2: the argument. That's a crazy thing to do.

473
00:22:55,000 --> 00:22:57,960
Speaker 5: Yeah, it didn't work out, that's not that's like a

474
00:22:58,040 --> 00:23:02,160
Speaker 5: Nickelodeon show, drink a job. Yeah. Oh, and then you're

475
00:23:02,200 --> 00:23:03,959
Speaker 5: like going back and forth on the party making sure

476
00:23:04,359 --> 00:23:06,000
Speaker 5: they don't see each other anyway.

477
00:23:05,960 --> 00:23:08,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, they saw each other tough.

478
00:23:09,840 --> 00:23:13,080
Speaker 5: My husband could tell something was up and asked me.

479
00:23:13,720 --> 00:23:16,800
Speaker 5: I said, I was just feeling insecure. I was feeling depressed.

480
00:23:17,119 --> 00:23:20,400
Speaker 5: We got home and I worked on my schoolwork, then

481
00:23:20,480 --> 00:23:23,119
Speaker 5: passed out early. When we woke up this morning, we

482
00:23:23,200 --> 00:23:26,360
Speaker 5: cuddled as usual and then I remembered. I just told

483
00:23:26,440 --> 00:23:28,399
Speaker 5: him I loved him, and he started asking me about

484
00:23:28,480 --> 00:23:31,480
Speaker 5: what was wrong again, what was wrong? I could tell

485
00:23:31,600 --> 00:23:35,520
Speaker 5: he knew. I knew, so I started asking questions about

486
00:23:35,560 --> 00:23:39,400
Speaker 5: our time apart. He swore that he only worked during

487
00:23:39,440 --> 00:23:41,639
Speaker 5: that time and went out a couple of times.

488
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Speaker 2: That's all turks.

489
00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:45,119
Speaker 5: I asked her if he would ever cheat on me,

490
00:23:45,200 --> 00:23:49,560
Speaker 5: and he said no, he didn't cheat. He only drank weird.

491
00:23:50,920 --> 00:23:54,040
Speaker 5: I asked how he would know if he blacked out

492
00:23:54,080 --> 00:23:57,200
Speaker 5: those nights. He said that was true, but he knows

493
00:23:57,240 --> 00:24:00,840
Speaker 5: he didn't cheat. I asked again about Emily. I asked

494
00:24:00,920 --> 00:24:03,399
Speaker 5: if he had drank with her. He said no, but

495
00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:05,600
Speaker 5: he ran into her one of those nights at a

496
00:24:05,640 --> 00:24:08,760
Speaker 5: bar she frequents, at a bar she frequents. I just

497
00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:11,480
Speaker 5: kind of looked at him and repeated what he said.

498
00:24:12,200 --> 00:24:15,040
Speaker 5: He confirmed, and I said, but that's not what happened,

499
00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:17,720
Speaker 5: is that you met up with her. You specifically went

500
00:24:17,800 --> 00:24:20,600
Speaker 5: up to meet with her. He said, okay, so you

501
00:24:20,640 --> 00:24:22,960
Speaker 5: looked at my phone. I did meet up with her.

502
00:24:23,760 --> 00:24:26,000
Speaker 5: I just didn't tell you because I knew you couldn't

503
00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:32,480
Speaker 5: handle it. Classic that's the through line of today. I

504
00:24:32,480 --> 00:24:35,639
Speaker 5: didn't want to tell you because you were incapable of

505
00:24:35,760 --> 00:24:36,600
Speaker 5: handling the.

506
00:24:36,600 --> 00:24:46,760
Speaker 2: Truth Terminators law with your phone Paul law.

507
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Speaker 5: We started laughing. I looked at him and said, you

508
00:24:50,080 --> 00:24:53,200
Speaker 5: didn't buy her those You did buy her those sunglasses,

509
00:24:53,240 --> 00:24:55,280
Speaker 5: didn't you. He tried to deny it, and I told

510
00:24:55,320 --> 00:24:57,680
Speaker 5: him just to admit it. I saw the text where

511
00:24:57,680 --> 00:24:59,760
Speaker 5: he said he wanted to get the sunglasses she wanted.

512
00:24:59,800 --> 00:25:02,480
Speaker 5: He finally fest up and I just started laughing at him,

513
00:25:02,720 --> 00:25:07,400
Speaker 5: laughing at the whole situation. It seems so juvenile. Lock

514
00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:11,720
Speaker 5: him up, Lock him. I asked him to block her.

515
00:25:12,240 --> 00:25:15,399
Speaker 5: He did, he didn't have the numbers saved, so I

516
00:25:15,440 --> 00:25:18,520
Speaker 5: asked him to go on to the text thread. He

517
00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:21,520
Speaker 5: had already deleted it. He says, our relationship is more

518
00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:24,800
Speaker 5: important than her by a long run. The only thing

519
00:25:24,840 --> 00:25:27,359
Speaker 5: they had in common was that they drank the same

520
00:25:28,040 --> 00:25:37,960
Speaker 5: What does that even mean? They drank Nobody else drinks

521
00:25:38,040 --> 00:25:42,639
Speaker 5: like like what, that's a weird thing to share, and

522
00:25:42,680 --> 00:25:45,960
Speaker 5: he doesn't even drink anymore. We stopped drinking because that

523
00:25:46,080 --> 00:25:49,200
Speaker 5: is the root of our problems. Respect, I respect that

524
00:25:49,880 --> 00:25:52,760
Speaker 5: I forgave him, told him I'd never bring it up again,

525
00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:58,320
Speaker 5: and almost instantly felt better. Now he's freaking out about

526
00:25:58,520 --> 00:26:01,879
Speaker 5: thinking I'm going to revenge cheat on him. I'm sorry,

527
00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:04,199
Speaker 5: but the thought of sleeping with anyone else makes me

528
00:26:04,320 --> 00:26:08,320
Speaker 5: sick my stomach. Interesting, by the way, you can join

529
00:26:08,400 --> 00:26:10,880
Speaker 5: us live on YouTube every week at three pm.

530
00:26:11,080 --> 00:26:13,439
Speaker 2: That doesn't make me sick to my stomach. I said it,

531
00:26:13,600 --> 00:26:14,280
Speaker 2: he said it does.

532
00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:20,520
Speaker 5: It doesn't doesn't sleeping with somebody else, it doesn't. Yeah,

533
00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:23,320
Speaker 5: this does not. This makes me. I've never felt better.

534
00:26:23,359 --> 00:26:27,800
Speaker 5: It makes knowing that information. Damn, I don't need no pepto.

535
00:26:28,040 --> 00:26:32,159
Speaker 5: There we go, Okay, what do we think that? No,

536
00:26:32,359 --> 00:26:35,080
Speaker 5: it's I'm just checking in with the people. I'm just

537
00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:35,680
Speaker 5: doing one of.

538
00:26:35,600 --> 00:26:37,520
Speaker 2: Those checking checking.

539
00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:39,080
Speaker 3: I.

540
00:26:39,720 --> 00:26:44,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm anxious that somebody's gonna revenge cheat. Weird.

541
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Speaker 7: Weird.

542
00:26:44,560 --> 00:26:47,280
Speaker 2: Another I only feel anxious if I actually did cheat.

543
00:26:47,680 --> 00:26:55,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh another projectionetion. Yeah, I think I think that

544
00:26:55,320 --> 00:26:59,920
Speaker 1: op is like very clear at the minimum. Maybe it's

545
00:26:59,920 --> 00:27:02,879
Speaker 1: like an emotional affair and like and hiding it, hiding,

546
00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:06,080
Speaker 1: tampering with evidence, you know, yeah.

547
00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:06,479
Speaker 2: Deleting it.

548
00:27:06,520 --> 00:27:08,720
Speaker 5: Oh, you're you're so much more important. That's why I

549
00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:10,520
Speaker 5: deleted our whole conversation.

550
00:27:10,760 --> 00:27:15,000
Speaker 2: I cheated for you. Jea Sophia Callen. But yeah, I

551
00:27:16,119 --> 00:27:19,280
Speaker 2: bro is just not helping himself. He's not helping himself

552
00:27:19,280 --> 00:27:19,640
Speaker 2: at all.

553
00:27:19,680 --> 00:27:23,600
Speaker 5: Let's see what happens. I can't even imagine it. I

554
00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:26,360
Speaker 5: had opportunities when we were apart, but never acting on them.

555
00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:29,960
Speaker 5: All I did was miss him when we did our

556
00:27:30,080 --> 00:27:36,320
Speaker 5: hard reset, setting the stage. He's so paranoid now he

557
00:27:36,359 --> 00:27:38,639
Speaker 5: says if I cheat on him, he will just leave.

558
00:27:38,720 --> 00:27:41,680
Speaker 5: But I have no intention of doing this. I'm too

559
00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:44,920
Speaker 5: focused on my schooling, saving money and improving my credit score.

560
00:27:45,040 --> 00:27:47,520
Speaker 2: Babe. My credit score is a six hundred. I cannot

561
00:27:47,600 --> 00:27:48,480
Speaker 2: cheat it right now.

562
00:27:50,320 --> 00:27:55,080
Speaker 5: It's risen seventy five points. Hard to do, hard to

563
00:27:55,160 --> 00:27:59,760
Speaker 5: do respect in the past couple months. I also intend

564
00:27:59,840 --> 00:28:02,800
Speaker 5: on joint to join the military soon. Wow, there is

565
00:28:02,880 --> 00:28:08,920
Speaker 5: no room for any negativity in my life. Yeah, how

566
00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:11,040
Speaker 5: can I make sure he knows I love him and

567
00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:14,960
Speaker 5: I won't take revenge? I believe he didn't cheat. Anytime

568
00:28:15,080 --> 00:28:18,000
Speaker 5: Emily comes up on a conversation, he just talks about

569
00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:19,919
Speaker 5: how she's tried to get with him and he turns

570
00:28:19,920 --> 00:28:23,840
Speaker 5: her down because he's disgusted by her, and she usually

571
00:28:23,840 --> 00:28:28,879
Speaker 5: has the newest tender stranger with her. Okay, well that

572
00:28:29,040 --> 00:28:36,119
Speaker 5: was a somewhat unfulfilling. Yeah, we basically got that she

573
00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:41,880
Speaker 5: that he almost kind of cheated maybe flipped it on

574
00:28:42,040 --> 00:28:45,440
Speaker 5: her and was like, man, I'll die if you cheat

575
00:28:45,480 --> 00:28:46,480
Speaker 5: on me, And so now.

576
00:28:46,360 --> 00:28:49,600
Speaker 2: She has to prove to him that she's not gonna cheat.

577
00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:54,440
Speaker 2: Would well, first question, would you? Would you? Uh?

578
00:28:54,520 --> 00:28:56,560
Speaker 1: Do you think it's wise to leave a relationship at

579
00:28:56,600 --> 00:28:58,800
Speaker 1: the first point where he was like, you know, buying

580
00:28:58,800 --> 00:29:01,240
Speaker 1: her the sunglasses and that kind of do you think

581
00:29:01,280 --> 00:29:02,960
Speaker 1: that's break up territory?

582
00:29:03,920 --> 00:29:08,000
Speaker 5: It's it's it's definitely conversation territory. Yeah, do you think

583
00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:10,280
Speaker 5: this is a normal thing to do? Like, how do

584
00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:14,320
Speaker 5: you feel about this sunglasses incident? And if he's like, yeah,

585
00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:20,960
Speaker 5: totally normal, but he seems super shady about it. Yeah,

586
00:29:21,160 --> 00:29:23,320
Speaker 5: obviously denied it. So that means he thinks it's a

587
00:29:23,360 --> 00:29:26,959
Speaker 5: certain type of as he thinks it's best. You know,

588
00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:29,200
Speaker 5: all these little things like if they think.

589
00:29:29,040 --> 00:29:31,640
Speaker 2: It's and it's like you can't handle you can handle

590
00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:32,000
Speaker 2: the truth.

591
00:29:32,120 --> 00:29:35,000
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's like who it's still a weird thing to

592
00:29:35,040 --> 00:29:38,040
Speaker 5: do to text somebody about a pair of sunglasses that

593
00:29:38,120 --> 00:29:38,520
Speaker 5: you want.

594
00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:41,480
Speaker 2: Crazy, I wouldn't even do that. I don't know. I

595
00:29:41,480 --> 00:29:44,240
Speaker 2: wouldn't do that. Friends, I wouldn't do Yeah, I'd be like, oh.

596
00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:48,280
Speaker 5: My god, you're somewhere go buy me and friends, Yeah,

597
00:29:48,280 --> 00:29:49,920
Speaker 5: like let's go meet up so we can buy this

598
00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:50,960
Speaker 5: pair of sunglasses.

599
00:29:53,160 --> 00:29:55,040
Speaker 2: Weird, what weird and that.

600
00:29:55,200 --> 00:29:58,200
Speaker 1: But honestly, the major smoking gun for me is the

601
00:29:58,200 --> 00:30:01,160
Speaker 1: fact that he's like now like projecting so hard. It's like,

602
00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:03,600
Speaker 1: oh my gosh that I'm like, I don't I don't

603
00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:04,520
Speaker 1: want to be in that relationship.

604
00:30:04,600 --> 00:30:08,640
Speaker 5: That is a strategy I use in like game like

605
00:30:08,840 --> 00:30:13,160
Speaker 5: board games, like you cheat them in like Secret Hitler

606
00:30:13,280 --> 00:30:15,400
Speaker 5: or those types of games like What's the Other One,

607
00:30:15,520 --> 00:30:17,680
Speaker 5: where like everybody has an identity and you're like trying

608
00:30:17,720 --> 00:30:19,720
Speaker 5: to prove who's mystery or yeah, you're trying to prove

609
00:30:19,720 --> 00:30:21,640
Speaker 5: who's on the right side, and you're like, oh my god,

610
00:30:21,640 --> 00:30:23,760
Speaker 5: I can't believe you. You go so far and you

611
00:30:24,000 --> 00:30:25,719
Speaker 5: guilt trip people, and you're like, why would you ever

612
00:30:25,760 --> 00:30:27,920
Speaker 5: do that to like sort of prove the gas Yeah,

613
00:30:28,080 --> 00:30:29,800
Speaker 5: Gaslight City, let's go.

614
00:30:30,640 --> 00:30:34,840
Speaker 2: Dang, it's it's just a weird. I don't like this guy.

615
00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:39,640
Speaker 1: The especially at the end, the going so harder, Like

616
00:30:39,680 --> 00:30:40,880
Speaker 1: if you ever cheat, I'll leave.

617
00:30:40,960 --> 00:30:42,760
Speaker 5: I'm like I feel so bad for her that she

618
00:30:42,840 --> 00:30:45,960
Speaker 5: has to like even think about proving that because you

619
00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:48,280
Speaker 5: should never have to prove that exact relationship.

620
00:30:48,480 --> 00:30:52,239
Speaker 1: That it's just gonna be literal, constant stress. If they

621
00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:55,080
Speaker 1: keep going for the they retire relationship and it's like

622
00:30:55,160 --> 00:30:56,920
Speaker 1: is it worth it? That point the trust is like

623
00:30:56,960 --> 00:30:58,680
Speaker 1: the trust is gone, it's gone without trust.

624
00:30:58,680 --> 00:31:01,200
Speaker 2: What you have? What do you have? That's the foundation

625
00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:08,000
Speaker 2: love exactly? That's is that it, That's it, that's all

626
00:31:08,040 --> 00:31:10,040
Speaker 2: we got, that's all we do. That's all she wrote.

627
00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:13,280
Speaker 1: Literally, guys, it's been great seeing you. I'm glad I

628
00:31:13,320 --> 00:31:15,160
Speaker 1: could join on this episode and I'll see you very soon.

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630
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631
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634
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635
00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:35,400
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Speaker 3: This is an episode from Deep within the Archives.

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Speaker 1: Time for okop Rewam. I'm frustrated my girlfriend had her

640
00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:56,680
Speaker 1: ichy period, ruined the dress I bought her and made

641
00:31:56,720 --> 00:31:57,760
Speaker 1: me lie about it.

642
00:31:58,040 --> 00:32:00,720
Speaker 2: I'm furious at her. But here's what she said to me.

643
00:32:01,240 --> 00:32:04,640
Speaker 2: Did she say, stop being such an ahole in period?

644
00:32:04,680 --> 00:32:05,200
Speaker 3: Shaving me?

645
00:32:05,400 --> 00:32:08,040
Speaker 2: Seriously? Can you actually be a supportive partner?

646
00:32:08,200 --> 00:32:08,440
Speaker 3: Yeah?

647
00:32:08,560 --> 00:32:11,120
Speaker 7: Can you maybe like not mind a little you know,

648
00:32:11,320 --> 00:32:13,280
Speaker 7: ketchup on the hot dog? Hey, you know what I'm saying.

649
00:32:13,320 --> 00:32:14,480
Speaker 7: It happens. It happens.

650
00:32:14,560 --> 00:32:15,120
Speaker 3: It happens.

651
00:32:15,320 --> 00:32:17,480
Speaker 2: Some even prefer condiments if you get one.

652
00:32:17,520 --> 00:32:21,360
Speaker 7: I'm a sight Hey, I definitely prefer condiments without the.

653
00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:24,320
Speaker 2: There you go. There you have it, ladies and gentlemen,

654
00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:26,760
Speaker 2: quick prediction a whole or not? Man, I'm always I'm

655
00:32:26,760 --> 00:32:29,760
Speaker 2: always thrown by these titles. Right, it's tricky.

656
00:32:30,120 --> 00:32:33,280
Speaker 7: I mean I'm gonna say, like, I can't not say

657
00:32:33,320 --> 00:32:37,000
Speaker 7: a hole. I cannot say the egg exactly.

658
00:32:38,040 --> 00:32:39,760
Speaker 2: We got all the books. Let's let's see.

659
00:32:39,760 --> 00:32:42,320
Speaker 1: My girlfriend and I have been together for over two years.

660
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Speaker 1: She's always been very neat, tidy, and very polished. I

661
00:32:46,640 --> 00:32:50,080
Speaker 1: love a good polished woman. Like, it's kind of a weird,

662
00:32:50,280 --> 00:32:52,720
Speaker 1: Like I would never call my girlfriend knee tidy and.

663
00:32:52,880 --> 00:32:56,360
Speaker 2: Polished, unless like she's like the queen. Yeah, maybe like

664
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Speaker 2: like a royal family member.

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00:32:58,080 --> 00:33:01,520
Speaker 7: Maybe what he's actually saying is knee tidy and Polish

666
00:33:01,720 --> 00:33:04,520
Speaker 7: and he just like you know, wants to mention the

667
00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:05,280
Speaker 7: country parent.

668
00:33:06,400 --> 00:33:09,120
Speaker 2: You know you respect, respect your your your roots.

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Speaker 7: Shout out my Polish people. Yeah you yes, speak of

670
00:33:13,160 --> 00:33:13,760
Speaker 7: in the comments.

671
00:33:13,760 --> 00:33:17,880
Speaker 2: Maybe throw those flags down there? What is their flag?

672
00:33:17,920 --> 00:33:20,360
Speaker 2: You know that's embarrassing. I don't know.

673
00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:21,760
Speaker 7: I know.

674
00:33:23,320 --> 00:33:25,680
Speaker 2: You're like Alec Baldwin's wife.

675
00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:31,640
Speaker 7: I just shot myself in the foot. That's true. Hopefully

676
00:33:31,680 --> 00:33:33,400
Speaker 7: Alec Baldwin isn't going like you.

677
00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:37,400
Speaker 1: Know she but she was born in Boston and speaks

678
00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:41,240
Speaker 1: in a Spain Spanish accent. How why that's what the

679
00:33:41,280 --> 00:33:45,560
Speaker 1: people ask Spain like like from Spain? Like not like Spain, Yeah,

680
00:33:45,680 --> 00:33:47,840
Speaker 1: not like any other like Hispanic country.

681
00:33:47,880 --> 00:33:48,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, weird.

682
00:33:48,840 --> 00:33:51,000
Speaker 7: Not the weirdest thing Alec Baldwin has done, though, this

683
00:33:51,120 --> 00:33:55,000
Speaker 7: is true. On a plane, he's he's not it, bro,

684
00:33:55,200 --> 00:33:57,760
Speaker 7: He's kind of not it.

685
00:33:58,000 --> 00:34:01,840
Speaker 1: But Alex bald and Pede on a plane, this situation

686
00:34:02,240 --> 00:34:05,040
Speaker 1: makes no sense to me. We are at a very

687
00:34:05,080 --> 00:34:07,200
Speaker 1: fancy event with a few of my friends. There were

688
00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:10,360
Speaker 1: social distancing rules, everyone wore masks, et cetera. My girlfriend

689
00:34:10,440 --> 00:34:13,919
Speaker 1: was wearing a beautiful white dress which I recently bought

690
00:34:13,920 --> 00:34:20,359
Speaker 1: for her stunning stunning. The dress was very expensive, How expensive, John,

691
00:34:20,920 --> 00:34:25,440
Speaker 1: very high class. You can see the polish this.

692
00:34:27,840 --> 00:34:29,560
Speaker 2: She's absolutely.

693
00:34:30,600 --> 00:34:34,000
Speaker 3: The queen has a rod, a royal.

694
00:34:33,760 --> 00:34:36,200
Speaker 2: Go and we we're all having a great time.

695
00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:39,520
Speaker 7: Party like it's eighteen thirty two and the freaking royal

696
00:34:39,600 --> 00:34:42,480
Speaker 7: family is at its height. Therey go now just peeking,

697
00:34:42,800 --> 00:34:47,320
Speaker 7: peaking now it's it sucks a suck it suxy sucks.

698
00:34:47,440 --> 00:34:47,760
Speaker 2: Sorry.

699
00:34:47,880 --> 00:34:51,480
Speaker 7: You only can take so many countries by forrest and

700
00:34:51,560 --> 00:34:55,280
Speaker 7: you get away with it. People were like, yeah, you rock, Yeah,

701
00:34:55,320 --> 00:34:56,839
Speaker 7: I love the monarchy.

702
00:34:57,800 --> 00:35:00,719
Speaker 1: However, at one point my girlfriend excus herself to go

703
00:35:00,760 --> 00:35:02,920
Speaker 1: to the bathroom and then I didn't see her again

704
00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:06,440
Speaker 1: until she sent me a text from the car asking

705
00:35:06,520 --> 00:35:07,279
Speaker 1: if we could go home.

706
00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:08,799
Speaker 3: John, I got a crazy story for you.

707
00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:11,040
Speaker 7: Okay, So I was at the Korean Spa this past

708
00:35:11,080 --> 00:35:13,880
Speaker 7: weekend and I walked past this guy and he literally

709
00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:14,880
Speaker 7: had two dogs.

710
00:35:15,040 --> 00:35:16,279
Speaker 3: They were right next to each other.

711
00:35:16,360 --> 00:35:18,960
Speaker 7: They looked completely functional, and they were long his head,

712
00:35:19,000 --> 00:35:20,239
Speaker 7: And honestly, I was like.

713
00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:22,040
Speaker 2: Do they both get hard at the same time.

714
00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:25,399
Speaker 1: What's even crazier is that blue Chow can get them

715
00:35:25,520 --> 00:35:27,239
Speaker 1: rock hard no matter what.

716
00:35:27,440 --> 00:35:31,320
Speaker 2: Try blue Chow Free when you use our promo code. Okop,

717
00:35:31,719 --> 00:35:33,600
Speaker 2: just pay five bucks shipping back to the story.

718
00:35:33,840 --> 00:35:35,360
Speaker 3: Oh make it?

719
00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:41,640
Speaker 7: Oops oops oops, great friend, I shot myself and tried

720
00:35:41,640 --> 00:35:42,720
Speaker 7: it all over the mirrors.

721
00:35:44,200 --> 00:35:47,000
Speaker 3: What if she just read rum and poop.

722
00:35:46,719 --> 00:35:47,040
Speaker 6: On the mer?

723
00:35:47,360 --> 00:35:51,120
Speaker 1: What if as revenge she projectileed diarrhea on his like

724
00:35:51,200 --> 00:35:53,880
Speaker 1: in his car? Dude, that would be or forget projectible

725
00:35:53,880 --> 00:35:56,360
Speaker 1: Diarrhe we got a diarrhea, we got we got other things,

726
00:35:56,480 --> 00:35:59,200
Speaker 1: you know, just just down like four burritos and just

727
00:35:59,320 --> 00:36:01,000
Speaker 1: like five away.

728
00:36:01,120 --> 00:36:09,480
Speaker 7: A plainting this image in my head images. But there's

729
00:36:09,480 --> 00:36:11,440
Speaker 7: such thing as projectile diarrhea.

730
00:36:11,600 --> 00:36:14,720
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, yes, yes, how far?

731
00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:15,800
Speaker 3: How far you've projected?

732
00:36:15,920 --> 00:36:18,120
Speaker 1: I was like Elon Musk's rocket about to lift off

733
00:36:18,120 --> 00:36:20,880
Speaker 1: that toilet. Definitely, could you like do one of those things?

734
00:36:20,960 --> 00:36:22,840
Speaker 1: You know, like have you ever seen those graffiti artists

735
00:36:22,880 --> 00:36:25,719
Speaker 1: that like spray paint out of a fire extinguisher, Like,

736
00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:26,440
Speaker 1: could you do that?

737
00:36:26,600 --> 00:36:29,520
Speaker 2: You know? I could move, but I would not be

738
00:36:29,560 --> 00:36:30,960
Speaker 2: able to do anything.

739
00:36:32,320 --> 00:36:34,319
Speaker 7: Art piece. Yes, I want you to paint a wall.

740
00:36:34,440 --> 00:36:36,799
Speaker 7: That's where you'll see me next, after some taco bell.

741
00:36:36,920 --> 00:36:40,600
Speaker 7: That's my final evolution. I'm here for it. I think

742
00:36:40,640 --> 00:36:44,160
Speaker 7: the Okay gang we'll show to show thank you, guys.

743
00:36:44,200 --> 00:36:45,359
Speaker 3: I might stink though now.

744
00:36:45,400 --> 00:36:48,160
Speaker 1: Obviously I was slightly annoyed because I didn't want to

745
00:36:48,280 --> 00:36:50,760
Speaker 1: leave so soon. When I reached the car, I asked

746
00:36:50,760 --> 00:36:52,960
Speaker 1: why she wanted to go home, and she told me

747
00:36:53,239 --> 00:36:55,399
Speaker 1: that she got her period unexpectedly.

748
00:36:55,680 --> 00:36:57,040
Speaker 2: Oh oh oh.

749
00:36:57,160 --> 00:37:00,840
Speaker 1: I asked why she didn't bring any extra tampons or

750
00:37:00,960 --> 00:37:03,320
Speaker 1: pads or use a tracking app.

751
00:37:03,520 --> 00:37:05,359
Speaker 2: Why why aren't you tracking your shit?

752
00:37:05,480 --> 00:37:07,960
Speaker 1: She tried to defend herself by saying that she did

753
00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:10,280
Speaker 1: everything she could and that she had a period stain

754
00:37:10,360 --> 00:37:12,040
Speaker 1: and didn't want to stay because of the stain.

755
00:37:12,200 --> 00:37:15,520
Speaker 7: I mean to be fair, sometimes period layers come and

756
00:37:15,840 --> 00:37:16,719
Speaker 7: like a wind.

757
00:37:16,600 --> 00:37:17,960
Speaker 2: You never know one hundred percent.

758
00:37:18,000 --> 00:37:20,040
Speaker 1: And dude to be at a fancy event in a

759
00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:23,719
Speaker 1: white dress and had like no advil, know, nothing like

760
00:37:23,920 --> 00:37:25,160
Speaker 1: that would suck.

761
00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:26,840
Speaker 3: Okay, But I got a solution.

762
00:37:27,040 --> 00:37:30,279
Speaker 7: Take a ketchup bottle into the bathroom and paint the

763
00:37:30,560 --> 00:37:32,839
Speaker 7: entire dress red and then they won't know. Then he'll

764
00:37:32,880 --> 00:37:34,040
Speaker 7: come out. I was like, Oh my god, did she

765
00:37:34,120 --> 00:37:36,480
Speaker 7: just do a little Cinderella change? Damn, she looks good

766
00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:38,560
Speaker 7: in that red dress. What are you wearing? Oh, I'm

767
00:37:38,600 --> 00:37:41,880
Speaker 7: wearing Hines Designer craft Craft.

768
00:37:42,400 --> 00:37:44,600
Speaker 1: She asked me to lie to my friends and tell

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Speaker 1: them that she was feeling unwell. She wanted me to

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00:37:47,360 --> 00:37:49,520
Speaker 1: say all this so she could go home. She had

771
00:37:49,560 --> 00:37:52,040
Speaker 1: a man's jacket a mutual friend of ours covering her

772
00:37:52,120 --> 00:37:53,080
Speaker 1: legs and.

773
00:37:53,239 --> 00:37:54,680
Speaker 2: The nasty stain.

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00:37:54,560 --> 00:37:57,120
Speaker 1: And pleaded with me to take her home so she

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00:37:57,200 --> 00:38:00,359
Speaker 1: could shower and unwind. I took her home and lied

776
00:38:00,400 --> 00:38:02,640
Speaker 1: to my friends. When she was getting out of the car,

777
00:38:02,880 --> 00:38:07,160
Speaker 1: the stain was very noticeable. It was very big and

778
00:38:07,280 --> 00:38:10,799
Speaker 1: essentially ruined an expensive dress which I bought. She also

779
00:38:10,960 --> 00:38:15,200
Speaker 1: made me purposefully lie because she wasn't prepared enough, and

780
00:38:15,320 --> 00:38:18,399
Speaker 1: made me miss an event with my friends. Needless to say,

781
00:38:18,520 --> 00:38:20,080
Speaker 1: I was extremely pissed.

782
00:38:20,239 --> 00:38:21,480
Speaker 3: Oh God, he just.

783
00:38:21,560 --> 00:38:24,799
Speaker 1: Keeps getting better, aging like fine wine in this story.

784
00:38:24,680 --> 00:38:27,160
Speaker 3: Hoping this last paragraph you redeem yourself.

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00:38:27,239 --> 00:38:30,520
Speaker 1: So she said that I was not being considerate and

786
00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:33,200
Speaker 1: went to go lie down because she had a headache.

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00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:35,960
Speaker 1: Quote unquote she wanted to lie down. She woke up,

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00:38:36,040 --> 00:38:39,320
Speaker 1: and I haven't spoken to her properly until she apologizes

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00:38:39,400 --> 00:38:42,600
Speaker 1: and gives back the friend's jacket. I don't think I'm

790
00:38:42,600 --> 00:38:44,799
Speaker 1: an a hole, but when I told my friend, the

791
00:38:44,840 --> 00:38:47,160
Speaker 1: same friend who gave her a jacket. He told me

792
00:38:47,360 --> 00:38:49,879
Speaker 1: that I was the A hole, and my girlfriend kind

793
00:38:49,920 --> 00:38:51,480
Speaker 1: of agreed. Am I the A hole?

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00:38:51,560 --> 00:38:53,400
Speaker 3: Before I give my judgment?

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00:38:53,640 --> 00:38:56,560
Speaker 7: Guys in the comments, please tell me what you think

796
00:38:57,200 --> 00:39:01,440
Speaker 7: is opda hole? Is this dress ruining girlfriend?

797
00:39:01,480 --> 00:39:02,040
Speaker 3: The ale?

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00:39:02,200 --> 00:39:03,799
Speaker 2: There is an edit, by the way, so give us

799
00:39:03,800 --> 00:39:05,120
Speaker 2: your quick take and we'll.

800
00:39:04,960 --> 00:39:08,960
Speaker 7: Quick take Opie a thousand percent the ale Unless something

801
00:39:08,960 --> 00:39:11,480
Speaker 7: in this edit, I don't know what it could be

802
00:39:11,560 --> 00:39:12,239
Speaker 7: like unless.

803
00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:17,239
Speaker 1: You donate his life savings to yeah instial cycles anonymous.

804
00:39:16,719 --> 00:39:21,640
Speaker 7: Or maybe it's his like grandmother's dress and it turns

805
00:39:21,680 --> 00:39:25,560
Speaker 7: out that his girlfriend just wanted to ruin it and

806
00:39:25,640 --> 00:39:31,160
Speaker 7: actually the whole tracker period and with an inside job,

807
00:39:31,200 --> 00:39:35,120
Speaker 7: and she actually hates her friends, she brought on her

808
00:39:35,200 --> 00:39:39,160
Speaker 7: period early because that's a thing. Maybe unless all that

809
00:39:39,280 --> 00:39:42,360
Speaker 7: is true, there is no way that op is not

810
00:39:42,520 --> 00:39:45,080
Speaker 7: the A hole. And I hope this edit is him

811
00:39:45,160 --> 00:39:47,280
Speaker 7: being like, oh shit, I guess I was wrong.

812
00:39:47,239 --> 00:39:48,319
Speaker 2: It I guess on the A hole.

813
00:39:48,480 --> 00:39:51,280
Speaker 1: I logged out of its account about an hour after

814
00:39:51,400 --> 00:39:55,399
Speaker 1: posting because the response was terrible, and then came back

815
00:39:55,560 --> 00:39:58,640
Speaker 1: a ton of responses calling me the a hole. After

816
00:39:58,719 --> 00:40:01,239
Speaker 1: my girlfriend came home from returning of the jacket she

817
00:40:01,360 --> 00:40:04,799
Speaker 1: apologized for ruining the dress. I apologize for being a

818
00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:08,360
Speaker 1: idiots and not understanding the whole period thing. Once again

819
00:40:08,400 --> 00:40:11,120
Speaker 1: with the quotes. Come on, bro, she forgave me. Then

820
00:40:11,160 --> 00:40:13,840
Speaker 1: we went off for ice cream, rewatched her favorite movie,

821
00:40:13,880 --> 00:40:16,480
Speaker 1: and that is the end of the story.

822
00:40:16,840 --> 00:40:20,839
Speaker 7: Okay, well, at least there's silver lining. So just again,

823
00:40:20,840 --> 00:40:22,320
Speaker 7: I would love to do what everyone else in the

824
00:40:22,360 --> 00:40:24,000
Speaker 7: commons thinks, write it down below.

825
00:40:24,160 --> 00:40:27,080
Speaker 3: I want to read those things. But OPI is.

826
00:40:27,040 --> 00:40:29,920
Speaker 2: Definitely the A hole. But the edit saves OP a

827
00:40:29,960 --> 00:40:30,399
Speaker 2: little bit.

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00:40:30,480 --> 00:40:32,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, like OPI's still the A hole, but

829
00:40:32,360 --> 00:40:34,840
Speaker 1: now the difference is OP knows that he was the

830
00:40:34,880 --> 00:40:35,520
Speaker 1: A hole.

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Speaker 7: Which honestly kind of reverses a little bit of the

832
00:40:38,239 --> 00:40:41,960
Speaker 7: a wholeness. At least he's redeemed himself a little bit, right, Like, ideally,

833
00:40:42,040 --> 00:40:44,400
Speaker 7: in a perfect world, all A holes realize their A

834
00:40:44,480 --> 00:40:46,880
Speaker 7: holes become less of an a hole in the future,

835
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Speaker 7: and I think OP has done that a little bit.

836
00:40:49,520 --> 00:40:51,680
Speaker 7: But all right, let's let's go over some things. Periods

837
00:40:51,680 --> 00:40:55,920
Speaker 7: can be unpredictable. She's not intentionally sabotaging the dress you

838
00:40:56,000 --> 00:40:58,200
Speaker 7: buy or your friends party or whatever.

839
00:40:58,360 --> 00:40:59,439
Speaker 3: Stop putting all this shit.

840
00:40:59,640 --> 00:41:02,880
Speaker 7: Quote like one it's annoying to us reading because we

841
00:41:02,920 --> 00:41:05,040
Speaker 7: have to say quote and two it makes you look

842
00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:07,960
Speaker 7: like a gaping butthole. And three maybe actually less of

843
00:41:08,000 --> 00:41:10,800
Speaker 7: an asshole. I guess he is nice to his friend

844
00:41:10,880 --> 00:41:12,800
Speaker 7: for making sure she returns the jacket.

845
00:41:12,840 --> 00:41:15,640
Speaker 1: I love how he was like so concerned, like the jacket,

846
00:41:15,920 --> 00:41:18,040
Speaker 1: the jacket must be returned.

847
00:41:17,640 --> 00:41:20,520
Speaker 7: At the expense of his relationship. Another thing in the

848
00:41:20,640 --> 00:41:24,839
Speaker 7: not a whole category that he's winning on is the apology.

849
00:41:25,000 --> 00:41:26,120
Speaker 7: You nailed the apology.

850
00:41:26,160 --> 00:41:26,399
Speaker 3: Op.

851
00:41:26,760 --> 00:41:29,480
Speaker 7: Maybe one less quote would have done you well, but

852
00:41:29,800 --> 00:41:32,759
Speaker 7: nailed the apology. And this is what we can hope

853
00:41:32,800 --> 00:41:34,640
Speaker 7: for all of our am I the A whole stories

854
00:41:34,680 --> 00:41:36,520
Speaker 7: that the A holes realize that they are the A

855
00:41:36,600 --> 00:41:38,920
Speaker 7: holes and become less of an a hole in the future.

856
00:41:38,960 --> 00:41:40,239
Speaker 7: So thank you for being one of those.

857
00:41:40,360 --> 00:41:40,520
Speaker 2: Yeah.

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00:41:40,560 --> 00:41:43,120
Speaker 1: I think long Tail, like you probably received so many

859
00:41:43,200 --> 00:41:45,080
Speaker 1: messages it was just undeniable.

860
00:41:45,239 --> 00:41:47,680
Speaker 7: Oh yeah, yeah, I mean it's so obvious that he's

861
00:41:47,719 --> 00:41:50,160
Speaker 7: the A hole. So I'm glad that he actually realized

862
00:41:50,160 --> 00:41:51,920
Speaker 7: it and took the heart and made some changes in

863
00:41:51,960 --> 00:41:53,319
Speaker 7: his life to make it better.

864
00:41:53,360 --> 00:41:55,759
Speaker 2: Every once in a while, an A hole becomes just

865
00:41:55,800 --> 00:41:56,719
Speaker 2: a good old cheek.

866
00:41:56,800 --> 00:41:57,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, good old cheek.

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00:41:57,760 --> 00:42:01,760
Speaker 7: No, no, no sphincter at all, no hole to be seen,

868
00:42:02,480 --> 00:42:04,400
Speaker 7: just to be just peer between the butt cheeks.

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00:42:04,400 --> 00:42:06,319
Speaker 2: It's just it's just skin.

870
00:42:06,480 --> 00:42:10,399
Speaker 7: It's just it's just no hole to It's like, yeah,

871
00:42:10,440 --> 00:42:14,879
Speaker 7: it's too like like a ass pit exactly, Yeah, an

872
00:42:14,880 --> 00:42:18,399
Speaker 7: ass pit. It's like it's like an armpit, you know. Yeah,

873
00:42:18,440 --> 00:42:20,920
Speaker 7: but the cheeks for cheeks, they're still hair in there

874
00:42:21,000 --> 00:42:22,319
Speaker 7: gets a little sweaty, but no hole.

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00:42:22,600 --> 00:42:25,400
Speaker 1: The true redemption arc is I don't think OPI is

876
00:42:25,480 --> 00:42:26,960
Speaker 1: quite out of it. He did the apology, which he

877
00:42:27,080 --> 00:42:29,759
Speaker 1: needed to do. I think the full redemption arc is

878
00:42:29,760 --> 00:42:33,040
Speaker 1: a final update where Opie in the wild hears another

879
00:42:33,120 --> 00:42:35,520
Speaker 1: man saying the same thing and he's like, sit down, brother,

880
00:42:35,760 --> 00:42:38,239
Speaker 1: I have something to tell you. That is that's the

881
00:42:38,400 --> 00:42:39,600
Speaker 1: final piece in his.

882
00:42:39,600 --> 00:42:44,360
Speaker 7: He's like mentoring other men who don't understand women, making

883
00:42:44,400 --> 00:42:45,799
Speaker 7: the world a little bit better.

884
00:42:45,920 --> 00:42:48,239
Speaker 1: He should have apologized, and you know, things happen, you

885
00:42:48,280 --> 00:42:50,200
Speaker 1: mess up, and then you apologize and you move on

886
00:42:50,280 --> 00:42:52,480
Speaker 1: from it. But that I think that if we're truly

887
00:42:52,520 --> 00:42:55,839
Speaker 1: talking from a hole to angel, if that true transitions

888
00:42:55,840 --> 00:42:59,560
Speaker 1: to happen, he needs to crusade for menstrual cycles.

889
00:42:59,560 --> 00:43:06,600
Speaker 6: Bro, It's like Captain Period, the menstrual missionary, exactly faster

890
00:43:06,680 --> 00:43:13,560
Speaker 6: than his speeding tampon, inserting himself into every conversation, soaking

891
00:43:13,640 --> 00:43:14,600
Speaker 6: up all the knowledge.

892
00:43:14,680 --> 00:43:21,120
Speaker 7: And but John, I got some nonsense for you to

893
00:43:21,160 --> 00:43:23,560
Speaker 7: soak up. Hit me with it, baby, Yeah, I have

894
00:43:23,600 --> 00:43:27,640
Speaker 7: some nonsense for you about not wanting to split the inheritance.

895
00:43:27,800 --> 00:43:31,080
Speaker 7: Oh God, I want to keep all that money to myself,

896
00:43:31,120 --> 00:43:33,080
Speaker 7: like an evil dragon in the top of a mountain

897
00:43:33,200 --> 00:43:33,760
Speaker 7: to cheer.

898
00:44:00,080 --> 00:44:00,239
Speaker 4: Yeah.