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Speaker 1: Hey people, I have another update on entitled cousin. He

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Speaker 1: is the douche canoe that said I should bend to

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Speaker 1: the will of the family. I'm out of ideas of nicknames.

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Speaker 1: Douche Canoe is great. We're still waiting for the court meeting,

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Speaker 1: but some charges are being added next to vandalism and

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Speaker 1: destruction of personal property. No, he didn't scratch our cars

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Speaker 1: or slash our tires this time, smart man. The word

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Speaker 1: is instead he got to meet Froo through our neighbor's

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Speaker 1: dog and our neighbor. As it is summer, my husband

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Speaker 1: and I decided to go on a holiday in our

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Speaker 1: own country again due to the VID. We didn't feel

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Speaker 1: going abroad to our holiday home. We are vaccinated, although

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Speaker 1: our children are not. We had a blast. Kids could

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Speaker 1: go to the pool a couple of times, we had

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Speaker 1: to make some reservations and made friends with the other kids.

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Speaker 1: Halfway through a holiday, we got a call. My little brother.

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Speaker 1: He's younger than me, taller little brother of mine hauled

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Speaker 1: to tell the entitled cousin had been arrested again. Oh

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Speaker 1: my god, this time the douche canoe actually found our home.

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Speaker 1: And you, lovely people can ry and guess what he did. Oh,

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Speaker 1: my god, I don't want to Did he try to

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Speaker 1: throw rocks at the windows? No? Okay? Did he spray

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Speaker 1: graffiti on the house again? No? No, mister smarty pants

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Speaker 1: tried breaking it a Our home has a big wooden

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Speaker 1: fence around our backyard, but the position of the wooden

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Speaker 1: planks makes it a possible or at least difficult to

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Speaker 1: climb them. Entitled cousin had come in the dead of

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Speaker 1: the night slash early morning hours and use the ladder

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Speaker 1: to climb the fence. So he's in our backyard now,

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Speaker 1: tools in hand. He starts getting busy trying to open

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Speaker 1: the back door. Good luck with that. Our neighbor walks

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Speaker 1: her dog Frufrew early in the next morning, so our

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Speaker 1: neighbor takes Frufrough out for his walk for a little

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Speaker 1: pee and poop for the day, quite early. Our neighborhood

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Speaker 1: loves the guy and his loyal friend. More than once

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Speaker 1: he has found people at homes who should not be there.

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Speaker 1: Our neighbor and doggy freofreu walked fine themselves looking at

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Speaker 1: a ladder standing against the fence of my house. Our

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Speaker 1: neighbor knows the situation and that we are not home.

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Speaker 1: So the neighbor hears some noise at our back door

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Speaker 1: and realizes what is happening. So what does he do?

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Speaker 1: He lets doggy Frufru climb the ladder and jump into

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Speaker 1: our heart. That's amazing. Uh, Frufrou season titled cousin starts

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Speaker 1: growling and who's Frufru is a sweet, caring, funny and

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Speaker 1: protective as heck cane corso of our neighbor. So type

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Speaker 1: of dog? How did he get the name of Frufrou? Well,

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Speaker 1: our neighbor's wife loves beautying the beast and the little

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Speaker 1: dog turns seat as the name so entitled cousin sees Frufruit,

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Speaker 1: who is not amused at seeing a stranger in his yard.

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Speaker 1: Entitled cousin is apparently not so smart and throws a

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Speaker 1: couple of tools in Frufrew's direction. Frufru is, having none

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Speaker 1: of it, barks and charges. Entitled cousin barely manages to

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Speaker 1: climb onto a table before Frufruit gets to him. Frufrou

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Speaker 1: is a trained dog, so he doesn't bite until order. Meanwhile,

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Speaker 1: our neighbor is standing on the ladder pissing his pants.

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Speaker 1: At the girly screams of entitled cousin while calling the cops.

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Speaker 1: Entitled cousin is taken away in the back of a

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Speaker 1: police car and has to stay in jail until his hearing.

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Speaker 1: Our lawyer demanded that he not be released until is here.

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Speaker 1: The no contact order is apparently not sufficient to keep

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Speaker 1: him away, though. We managed to send a security footage

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Speaker 1: to the legal people involved, and froufrou got some nice

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Speaker 1: doggy snacks and neighbor and his wife were also fak.

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Speaker 1: I have to admit one thing though. When we got back,

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Speaker 1: the kids went to spend the night at their friends

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Speaker 1: for some slumber party time. Husband and I went to

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Speaker 1: watch the footage and it was gold and yes, we

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Speaker 1: grabbed ourselves some drinks and popguard to watch again and again.

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Speaker 1: Next part. I received several messages of cousins who heard

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Speaker 1: through a lot of people that I had money. Not

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Speaker 1: more cousins. Please bro at this point, At this point,

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Speaker 1: are we not on like seventh cousins, eighth cousins and

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Speaker 1: ninth cousins. Bro, The whole world is hearing that ops money.

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Speaker 1: This is not good. This is not good. Oh. When

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Speaker 1: I read this, I was mentally preparing for yet another

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Speaker 1: shit storm. Yep, they were pissed. They wanted to know

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Speaker 1: why I didn't tell anyone. One of them ranted and

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Speaker 1: raved about how unfair everything was, and I could have

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Speaker 1: let them know. YadA, YadA, YadA. When she was finally done,

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Speaker 1: I asked, perhaps rather rudely, if she was done and

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Speaker 1: if I could explain. I made one group and I

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Speaker 1: wrote the whole story of what happened. In that I

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Speaker 1: ended with the words in bold, underline, huge letters, this

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Speaker 1: is why I never told you. Yeah, because the other

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Speaker 1: family grouped up and attacked her. Okay, please let the

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Speaker 1: cousins stop. Please, got guys can me yo, We're a

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Speaker 1: No more cousins in the comments section, please no more

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Speaker 1: cousins for good divorce chance, No more cousins, No more cousins.

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Speaker 1: I'm done. Several were shocked that what happened did happen.

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Speaker 1: I asked them why they were upset I didn't tell them.

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Speaker 1: No one really answered that until I said that maybe

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Speaker 1: because they wanted to benefit from Some said no way,

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Speaker 1: and how can you think that of I answered that

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Speaker 1: the reason I think is because of all the crap

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Speaker 1: that has hit my fan, I have lost trust people

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Speaker 1: in general because of this. To make a long story

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Speaker 1: store A couple of them asked if they could get, yes,

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Speaker 1: get not borrow some money. Others said they would like

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Speaker 1: to borrow some if possible. So I uploaded a document

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Speaker 1: of my cousin who got the certified loan that I

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Speaker 1: had signed. Told them what was stated in the documents

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Speaker 1: were the rules they could read it or not. One

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Speaker 1: cousin asked if I could give him a call. I did.

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Speaker 1: Turns out his daughter has a severe illness. Without treatment,

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Speaker 1: she'll likely pass away. I won't name it for ananimity's sake.

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Speaker 1: There is a treatment in the US that could help her.

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Speaker 1: Chances remain slim. But but if it is a success,

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Speaker 1: his daughter might live and live a somewhat good quality

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Speaker 1: of life. Unfortunately, that treatment is not paid for by

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Speaker 1: the insurance company. I didn't trust it after so many

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Speaker 1: stories and ask for details. He asked if I could

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Speaker 1: come visit his daughter was in the hospital. He didn't lie.

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Speaker 1: God that girl. She's in her early twenties, but still

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Speaker 1: trying to do some homework. I could almost see the

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Speaker 1: fact that she was passing away, standing at her shouldered waiting.

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Speaker 1: She was so there. We had a talk and eventually

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Speaker 1: her attending doctor came in and explained. A bit later,

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Speaker 1: I went with the doctor to his office, explained the rest.

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Speaker 1: I went home afterwards. He verified the doctor's name and field,

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Speaker 1: et cetera. Once again, I have to say, I don't

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Speaker 1: know where this cousin is located. And also like the

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Speaker 1: millionth cousin that's come out of the woodwork. But my god,

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Speaker 1: again Op just goes above and beyond like OP has. Really,

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Speaker 1: I'm just an Ope's corner. I'm sorry, I'm an OPI's

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Speaker 1: corner of cousin and I talked again on the phone.

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Speaker 1: I told him that I hadn't made a decision yet

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Speaker 1: the daughter would go to the US and they had

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Speaker 1: money to cover her expenses. It would be tight, but

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Speaker 1: they wanted only money for the medical costs. Husband and

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Speaker 1: I talked and we agreed. We agreed to help, but

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Speaker 1: again with strict rules. We would only pay the amount

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Speaker 1: we were given. The US hospital gave them a number

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Speaker 1: we would pay the hospital directly and other important detail.

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Speaker 1: Only thing we asked in return is that in the

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Speaker 1: event of success and failure, they would put a certain

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Speaker 1: amount of money towards research in installments if necessary. A

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Speaker 1: tragic but I will give it to op a smart

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Speaker 1: thing to do. Our lawyer drew up the contract and

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Speaker 1: asked another lawyer to review it. This lawyer is specialized

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Speaker 1: in the medical field. I called his cousin again and

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Speaker 1: I told him I had thoroughly examined the entire situation.

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Speaker 1: I had been played and lied to. I was attacked

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Speaker 1: in many ways, and I had lost my trust in people.

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Speaker 1: I thanked him for his honesty in the situation, commented

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Speaker 1: how hard it must be for him. I then asked

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Speaker 1: him if his wife was listening. She wasn't, but he

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Speaker 1: or maybe the hospital lawyer to review. If they agreed,

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Speaker 1: we could sign. Later. Their daughter called, same story as

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Speaker 1: going to arrange the financial details once the contract has

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Speaker 1: been signed between my cousin and I. Other family members

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Speaker 1: of mine have done the greedy grabby hand No. This

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Speaker 1: answer was simple. Alongside the number of investment advisors, I

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Speaker 1: told them good luck, and I blocked all the beggers.

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Speaker 1: I don't worry as much about them finding out where

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Speaker 1: I live. My parents, brother, his wife, my sister in

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Speaker 1: law can win a tight lipped contest with an oyster.

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Speaker 1: I have an update once more on the whole saga.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if more updates will follow, but if

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Speaker 1: something happens, I'll post here. The good news is that

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Speaker 1: most of my family members have stopped bothering me and

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Speaker 1: my husband. Finally, editors, can we get a glorious Hallelujah

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Speaker 1: background and angel noise? Finally, eldest has a social media

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Speaker 1: account that we go through together, and he has received

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Speaker 1: some nasty things on Elvis. Blocked them, reported them, and

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Speaker 1: it got relatively quiet once again. Those with a no

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Speaker 1: People husband and I haven't spoke to slash with in

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Speaker 2: Family members.

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Speaker 1: Do you have I can't anymore? A titled cousin had

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Speaker 1: to pay several fines, damages, and two years of probation.

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Speaker 1: Remember that's someone that snuck into their house with He

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Speaker 1: tried to threaten us again. We told him frufru would

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Speaker 1: love to meet him again. My blabermouth sister in law

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Speaker 1: knows in which town we've lived now. Entitled cousins seems

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Speaker 1: We hope she stays away as per the no contact

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Speaker 1: order from the freaking courts. The bad news is about

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Speaker 1: my cousin with a sick daughter. She was eventually allowed

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Speaker 1: Same goes for the dad and the mom. They hardly

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Speaker 1: allowed visitors over. Elder children had quarantined, tested themselves before

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Speaker 1: et cetera. They took every measure to heart, and they

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Speaker 1: were warned that the VID would slash could be the

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Speaker 1: would be scarce. They took some sort of subscription to

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Speaker 1: get groceries delivered to their house on a weekly basis.

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Speaker 1: The driver, bless his heart, found out about the situation

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Speaker 1: and even went as far to disinfect in masks himself,

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Speaker 1: even though he only put the groceries at the door.

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Speaker 1: He also wiped the handles of the crates in the bags.

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Speaker 1: The dad and the mom managed to work from home

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Speaker 1: the entire time, but it was hard on them. I

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Speaker 1: will cut the story shorter. Daughter did pass away. She

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Speaker 1: be on the safe side. The likely source a relative

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Speaker 1: Our nice neighbor and his wife have offered Freofroo for

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Speaker 1: And Ladies and gentlemen, one final update to the story.

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Speaker 1: just received the news huge butt wiggle from me and

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Speaker 1: a small update as I don't have a lot of

430
00:22:40,000 --> 00:22:41,960
Speaker 1: tell on this, but I thought you might want to hear.

431
00:22:42,240 --> 00:22:44,760
Speaker 1: Titled cousin in Blabermouth are still getting used to their

432
00:22:44,800 --> 00:22:48,760
Speaker 1: new environment aka prison. They are not going to be

433
00:22:48,800 --> 00:22:52,320
Speaker 1: released again until trial. We hope they won't change. So

434
00:22:52,480 --> 00:22:55,760
Speaker 1: happy dance for us. But entitled cousin met someone else

435
00:22:55,920 --> 00:22:59,879
Speaker 1: and that one is karma and karma is a bee.

436
00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:02,679
Speaker 1: I was informed of this by none other than entitled

437
00:23:02,720 --> 00:23:05,880
Speaker 1: Cousin's wife, henceforth known as a wonder woman. His wife

438
00:23:05,960 --> 00:23:08,119
Speaker 1: came to my house not to yell at me, cursed me,

439
00:23:08,240 --> 00:23:11,280
Speaker 1: or threatened me. No, she came to thank me. I

440
00:23:11,359 --> 00:23:14,480
Speaker 1: was apprehensive and didn't allow her inside. But what she

441
00:23:14,600 --> 00:23:17,159
Speaker 1: did through the mail slot to me made me invite her.

442
00:23:17,200 --> 00:23:21,879
Speaker 1: In her story entitled, cousin was apparently financially and emotionally abusive.

443
00:23:21,960 --> 00:23:23,960
Speaker 1: He never laid a hand on her or their children,

444
00:23:24,080 --> 00:23:26,960
Speaker 1: and never abused their children, but whatever money she made,

445
00:23:27,080 --> 00:23:30,000
Speaker 1: he made sure he got it. She was only allowed

446
00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:32,119
Speaker 1: to work for cash so he could get his hands

447
00:23:32,119 --> 00:23:35,280
Speaker 1: on it easier. Whatever saving she had, he had forced

448
00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:37,679
Speaker 1: her to surrender in the name of we are a

449
00:23:37,800 --> 00:23:40,920
Speaker 1: union and discussed. This man is being discussed. We already

450
00:23:40,960 --> 00:23:43,520
Speaker 1: know that. We already know that she was broken and afraid.

451
00:23:43,680 --> 00:23:46,480
Speaker 1: He had threatened divorce in taking the children because no

452
00:23:46,720 --> 00:23:49,880
Speaker 1: judge would ever give her custody since she couldn't support them.

453
00:23:49,920 --> 00:23:52,240
Speaker 1: In that case, he wouldn't allow her to see them,

454
00:23:52,320 --> 00:23:55,080
Speaker 1: as she was a bad wife and mother for leaving him.

455
00:23:55,800 --> 00:23:58,359
Speaker 1: But now that he was behind bars, she found the

456
00:23:58,400 --> 00:24:01,040
Speaker 1: rest of the courage. She needed access to all of

457
00:24:01,080 --> 00:24:03,719
Speaker 1: the bank account joined in her own, as well as

458
00:24:03,800 --> 00:24:07,560
Speaker 1: other important things. She already had contact with a divorce layer,

459
00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:09,640
Speaker 1: but was too afraid to go through with it. Her

460
00:24:09,680 --> 00:24:12,200
Speaker 1: parents had talked to her many times and told her

461
00:24:12,240 --> 00:24:14,879
Speaker 1: to get some real legal advice. She finally did what

462
00:24:15,040 --> 00:24:18,640
Speaker 1: was biding her time so when entitled cousin got arrested

463
00:24:18,640 --> 00:24:21,119
Speaker 1: and was sent to prison for a longer stay. This time,

464
00:24:21,240 --> 00:24:24,240
Speaker 1: she got the locks, changed the houses in her name, inheritance,

465
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Speaker 1: et cetera, put all the things in boxes, closed a

466
00:24:27,200 --> 00:24:30,080
Speaker 1: joint account after dividing the money equally, and did a

467
00:24:30,080 --> 00:24:32,720
Speaker 1: whole list of other things I can't remember. And on

468
00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:35,199
Speaker 1: the same day he was served with the papers, his

469
00:24:35,400 --> 00:24:37,720
Speaker 1: parents got a lot of boxes with stuff and a

470
00:24:37,800 --> 00:24:41,600
Speaker 1: letter she was divorcing him the stack of papers. She

471
00:24:41,680 --> 00:24:45,040
Speaker 1: gave me a copy of the divorce paper. She was crying.

472
00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:48,840
Speaker 1: She was and has been so afraid. Apology after apology

473
00:24:48,840 --> 00:24:51,240
Speaker 1: about not being able to stop him from doing all

474
00:24:51,280 --> 00:24:53,840
Speaker 1: of those things. The reason she came was to let

475
00:24:53,840 --> 00:24:58,160
Speaker 1: me know this and how me getting attacked and entitled

476
00:24:58,160 --> 00:25:01,040
Speaker 1: cousin breaking the bail was the mirror she needed. She

477
00:25:01,080 --> 00:25:05,760
Speaker 1: apologized because my misery enabled her escape. I told her

478
00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:09,560
Speaker 1: I wasn't angry at her. Wow, she did what she could.

479
00:25:09,800 --> 00:25:12,240
Speaker 1: I was a bit surprised about the speed of everything,

480
00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:15,120
Speaker 1: but with help from her parents, her family, and her friends.

481
00:25:15,200 --> 00:25:18,080
Speaker 1: She had been planning her flight to freedom, as she

482
00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:20,399
Speaker 1: called it, for at least seven to eight months. What

483
00:25:20,480 --> 00:25:23,479
Speaker 1: set her in motion was the visit all the cousins

484
00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:25,600
Speaker 1: coming over if you remember from the very beginning of

485
00:25:25,600 --> 00:25:28,800
Speaker 1: the story, and along with that he had said about

486
00:25:28,840 --> 00:25:31,600
Speaker 1: it all, it lifted whatever blindness she had had. She

487
00:25:31,680 --> 00:25:36,040
Speaker 1: finally believed those words others had said about her husband.

488
00:25:36,040 --> 00:25:38,679
Speaker 1: It took some time, but after getting help, she started

489
00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:43,040
Speaker 1: planning everything. She's afraid but relieved, crying tears of joy, fear,

490
00:25:43,080 --> 00:25:46,240
Speaker 1: and sadness all at the same time, and she kept apologizing,

491
00:25:46,280 --> 00:25:49,000
Speaker 1: although I ensured her she had nothing to be sorry about.

492
00:25:49,119 --> 00:25:51,600
Speaker 1: Her parents are helping out financially for the moment. As

493
00:25:51,600 --> 00:25:54,119
Speaker 1: she's looking for a job, I asked her about what

494
00:25:54,480 --> 00:25:57,159
Speaker 1: she used to do. After telling me, I gave a

495
00:25:57,200 --> 00:25:59,280
Speaker 1: call to an old friend of mine. I knew he

496
00:25:59,359 --> 00:26:01,200
Speaker 1: was looking for some one and asked if he could

497
00:26:01,200 --> 00:26:03,720
Speaker 1: send the job description as I know someone who might

498
00:26:03,720 --> 00:26:06,720
Speaker 1: fit it. She looked and told me that this might work. Friday,

499
00:26:06,800 --> 00:26:09,399
Speaker 1: she called me saying that she has an interview next

500
00:26:09,480 --> 00:26:11,840
Speaker 1: week fingers crossed. We had a good chat and I

501
00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:13,840
Speaker 1: gave her my number so she could call me if

502
00:26:13,840 --> 00:26:16,440
Speaker 1: she needed help. I'm good at budgeting, and next week

503
00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:18,479
Speaker 1: I'm going to her and it's gonna help her. So

504
00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:21,760
Speaker 1: entitled Cousin is in prison for the time being, But

505
00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:24,720
Speaker 1: when he gets out sooner rather than later, I would

506
00:26:24,800 --> 00:26:27,400
Speaker 1: rather later, it will be crappy for him. He will

507
00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:31,439
Speaker 1: have no job, no home, no wife, no support from friends.

508
00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:33,960
Speaker 1: His buddy told a friend group everything and they dropped

509
00:26:34,000 --> 00:26:36,560
Speaker 1: him so fast as if he was a live grenade

510
00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:39,320
Speaker 1: a record, and he might not be able to go

511
00:26:39,359 --> 00:26:42,520
Speaker 1: to his parents, and his father is furious. Anna has

512
00:26:42,600 --> 00:26:45,119
Speaker 1: disowned him. And that is how up until this point.

513
00:26:45,280 --> 00:26:49,159
Speaker 1: Titled Cousin Meets Karma, Let's see what else life and

514
00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:54,640
Speaker 1: hopefully Karma has in stock four entitled Cousin Let's take

515
00:26:54,640 --> 00:26:58,120
Speaker 1: a breath together ready. Wow, we have been through it.

516
00:26:58,200 --> 00:27:00,879
Speaker 1: Everyone watching this show, if you've made it this, I

517
00:27:00,920 --> 00:27:04,879
Speaker 1: appreciate you hanging with me for all this time. No Sam,

518
00:27:04,960 --> 00:27:09,000
Speaker 1: I've been missing Sam this whole episode. Wow. I mean,

519
00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:11,719
Speaker 1: there's so many things you can say here. One. I

520
00:27:11,840 --> 00:27:15,520
Speaker 1: think that Opie has been through it. When I say

521
00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:18,399
Speaker 1: been through it, I mean that is an understatement. I

522
00:27:18,440 --> 00:27:20,880
Speaker 1: think it honestly kind of opens your eyes to empathy

523
00:27:21,000 --> 00:27:24,720
Speaker 1: through people who may come across you know, good fortune,

524
00:27:24,840 --> 00:27:28,200
Speaker 1: like Opie did. Opie did, I think the absolute best

525
00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:30,800
Speaker 1: she could have done, and did way, way, way, way,

526
00:27:30,960 --> 00:27:34,520
Speaker 1: way way way more than she ever needed to do,

527
00:27:35,000 --> 00:27:40,000
Speaker 1: and she was punished in the most gruesome, disgusting, awful

528
00:27:40,240 --> 00:27:44,760
Speaker 1: way imaginably possible. It seemed like she held her head

529
00:27:44,840 --> 00:27:48,760
Speaker 1: high through all of that, that she you know, still

530
00:27:48,760 --> 00:27:50,439
Speaker 1: tried to look for the best in people in so

531
00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:53,040
Speaker 1: many areas. But and then finally did kind of reach

532
00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:55,080
Speaker 1: this point where she's like, I need to make sure

533
00:27:55,080 --> 00:27:57,880
Speaker 1: I'm protecting myself and my family and everything else, which,

534
00:27:58,040 --> 00:28:00,640
Speaker 1: of course, and I'm so glad that she came to that.

535
00:28:02,359 --> 00:28:05,000
Speaker 1: Just a disgusting turn of events for the family. I mean,

536
00:28:05,040 --> 00:28:08,360
Speaker 1: imagine your own family turning on you, like just beyond off,

537
00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:11,440
Speaker 1: you know, the twenty cousins coming up, Uncle Bob, the

538
00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:15,360
Speaker 1: entitled cousin Blabermouth, like all of these people. It's it's

539
00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:18,600
Speaker 1: so insane to think of how money, even money given,

540
00:28:18,680 --> 00:28:23,600
Speaker 1: and Blabermouth received so much, so much from everything and

541
00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:27,280
Speaker 1: still did all of this to her. I'm hoping the

542
00:28:27,320 --> 00:28:30,159
Speaker 1: best for op and for her family. I'm glad that

543
00:28:30,240 --> 00:28:33,640
Speaker 1: Opi at least got some, you know, great resources and hopefully,

544
00:28:33,680 --> 00:28:36,040
Speaker 1: outside of all of this stuff, a good life. It

545
00:28:36,040 --> 00:28:38,720
Speaker 1: seems like she has a very very very level head

546
00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:42,360
Speaker 1: on her shoulders. I wish the worst for entitled cousin Blabermouth,

547
00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:44,720
Speaker 1: all of all of the cousins and family that did

548
00:28:44,760 --> 00:28:49,360
Speaker 1: all of that awful, disgusting and unspeakable things to Ope

549
00:28:49,640 --> 00:28:53,240
Speaker 1: and most of all, And again, I thank you for

550
00:28:53,320 --> 00:28:55,719
Speaker 1: being with me on the story. I don't know, I'm

551
00:28:55,760 --> 00:28:59,680
Speaker 1: feeling much closer to you, guys after reading this story

552
00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:02,640
Speaker 1: doing a solo episode. We've spent a lot of time

553
00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:07,440
Speaker 1: together on this solo episode, So all I guess I

554
00:29:07,480 --> 00:29:10,480
Speaker 1: have to say is thank you for watching. I hope

555
00:29:10,520 --> 00:29:12,840
Speaker 1: this show helps you. You know. We get comments with people

556
00:29:12,880 --> 00:29:15,640
Speaker 1: saying that you know they're going through a hard time,

557
00:29:15,800 --> 00:29:18,800
Speaker 1: spouses in the hospital, something like that. We always hope

558
00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:21,240
Speaker 1: that the show is a place of solace you can go,

559
00:29:21,640 --> 00:29:24,200
Speaker 1: you can hang with your friends, Sam and John. I

560
00:29:24,240 --> 00:29:26,240
Speaker 1: know this story had ups and downs. I hope that's

561
00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:28,200
Speaker 1: what it was for you today. I hope you have

562
00:29:28,280 --> 00:29:31,560
Speaker 1: the bestie ever. Me and Sam love you have a

563
00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:34,520
Speaker 1: great one. See you on the next episode. This is

564
00:29:34,520 --> 00:29:40,960
Speaker 1: an episode from Deep Within the Archives. Time for okop Relam.

565
00:29:41,080 --> 00:29:43,480
Speaker 2: My best friend of twenty four years born to male

566
00:29:43,640 --> 00:29:45,320
Speaker 2: is now a transgender woman.

567
00:29:45,400 --> 00:29:46,760
Speaker 1: I'm in love with her, and I'm not sure what

568
00:29:46,800 --> 00:29:49,640
Speaker 1: I should do. Here we go. This is I'm excited

569
00:29:49,800 --> 00:29:52,120
Speaker 1: to read this because it's, you know, like, hey, if

570
00:29:52,120 --> 00:29:55,240
Speaker 1: you got the feelings, you got the feelings. He's got

571
00:29:55,240 --> 00:29:57,840
Speaker 1: the feelings. Hey, he's's got the feelings.

572
00:29:57,920 --> 00:29:59,560
Speaker 2: We'll see where these feelings lead us.

573
00:29:59,640 --> 00:29:59,959
Speaker 1: Let's go.

574
00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:02,760
Speaker 2: My friend and I, both twenty four years old, have

575
00:30:02,840 --> 00:30:06,400
Speaker 2: been best friends our entire lives. Were practically brothers. Our

576
00:30:06,440 --> 00:30:08,520
Speaker 2: parents grew up together, went to the same schools, and

577
00:30:08,560 --> 00:30:10,400
Speaker 2: my friend and I were together ever since we were.

578
00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:11,320
Speaker 1: Little baby beats.

579
00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:14,040
Speaker 2: We've always had each other's back, protected one another, cared

580
00:30:14,040 --> 00:30:16,400
Speaker 2: for one another when the whole world felt like it

581
00:30:16,440 --> 00:30:19,360
Speaker 2: was against us. Both of us knew we could always

582
00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:22,960
Speaker 2: look out for each other. That's beautiful friendship, beautiful friendship.

583
00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:25,360
Speaker 2: My friend is an amazing person, someone I can go

584
00:30:25,440 --> 00:30:28,280
Speaker 2: to and trust completely. I'm blessed to have this person

585
00:30:28,320 --> 00:30:31,720
Speaker 2: in my life. Well, my friend transitioned to a female

586
00:30:31,800 --> 00:30:36,800
Speaker 2: a few months ago. She's completely physically a woman and goddamn,

587
00:30:36,840 --> 00:30:41,160
Speaker 2: she saw as fuck. Oh yeah, she's been through hormone

588
00:30:41,240 --> 00:30:44,320
Speaker 2: replacement therapy these past few years, and seeing her becoming

589
00:30:44,360 --> 00:30:48,320
Speaker 2: so much happier is amazing to see. I'm absolutely proud

590
00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:50,720
Speaker 2: of her. It's beautiful to see my friend now be

591
00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:53,640
Speaker 2: so free, being comfortable with herself, and always having the

592
00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:56,440
Speaker 2: greatest smile on her face. But I'm falling in love

593
00:30:56,480 --> 00:30:59,080
Speaker 2: with her, and these feelings they are going away.

594
00:30:59,760 --> 00:31:00,280
Speaker 1: They eight.

595
00:31:00,920 --> 00:31:03,280
Speaker 2: I'll admit that I'm in love with my friend, the

596
00:31:03,360 --> 00:31:06,040
Speaker 2: friend I've known for twenty four years, who was stealing

597
00:31:06,080 --> 00:31:07,600
Speaker 2: my heart, and I have no idea what to do.

598
00:31:07,720 --> 00:31:08,280
Speaker 1: I don't want to.

599
00:31:08,200 --> 00:31:10,320
Speaker 2: Lose my friend, but my feelings of friendship for her

600
00:31:10,400 --> 00:31:14,840
Speaker 2: are turning to romantic sexual feelings of attraction. So after

601
00:31:14,880 --> 00:31:17,680
Speaker 2: my friend transitioned, we continued hanging out and talking like

602
00:31:17,760 --> 00:31:21,440
Speaker 2: nothing changed. We continued going out to clubs, bars, the movies, restaurants,

603
00:31:21,440 --> 00:31:24,240
Speaker 2: playing video games. Nothing changed. We just kept doing what

604
00:31:24,280 --> 00:31:26,480
Speaker 2: we always did. But during this time, that's when my

605
00:31:26,480 --> 00:31:28,400
Speaker 2: feelings started to change and started falling in love with her.

606
00:31:28,680 --> 00:31:31,959
Speaker 2: And you know what attracted me to her, her the

607
00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:34,800
Speaker 2: way she is. I spoken to another close friend of

608
00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:37,320
Speaker 2: mine about this, and I just got made fun of.

609
00:31:37,680 --> 00:31:40,720
Speaker 2: He was like, haha, you want to fuck your bro seriously,

610
00:31:42,760 --> 00:31:43,920
Speaker 2: that's practically what I got.

611
00:31:44,440 --> 00:31:46,320
Speaker 1: Hey, so what if he wants to fuck his bro

612
00:31:46,560 --> 00:31:47,560
Speaker 1: and that's not his bro.

613
00:31:47,880 --> 00:31:50,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's okay to be a homi sexual.

614
00:31:50,600 --> 00:31:57,320
Speaker 1: That's right. Yeah, I'm fucking with my homies. Okay, stop it.

615
00:31:58,000 --> 00:32:00,360
Speaker 2: They didn't understand where I was coming from, and they

616
00:32:00,360 --> 00:32:03,920
Speaker 2: didn't understand what an insanely amazing person my friend is. Hey,

617
00:32:03,920 --> 00:32:07,520
Speaker 2: love is love, man, Dude, Come on, this friend of

618
00:32:07,520 --> 00:32:09,920
Speaker 2: mine feels it's creepy and nasty. I'm falling for my

619
00:32:09,960 --> 00:32:13,400
Speaker 2: best friend. But they also aren't taking my friend's transition seriously,

620
00:32:13,400 --> 00:32:15,880
Speaker 2: which is another reason they're acting me mature. I'm just

621
00:32:15,880 --> 00:32:18,240
Speaker 2: scared of losing my friend. Well, our families think what

622
00:32:18,280 --> 00:32:20,000
Speaker 2: happens to my friend and I do end up together,

623
00:32:20,160 --> 00:32:23,440
Speaker 2: and our families suddenly start to panic. Plus, if I

624
00:32:23,480 --> 00:32:25,800
Speaker 2: plan to even confess my feelings for her, I'm gonna

625
00:32:25,800 --> 00:32:27,800
Speaker 2: have to do it soon because she's always being asked

626
00:32:27,800 --> 00:32:29,960
Speaker 2: out on dates. But she tells me she's looking for

627
00:32:30,000 --> 00:32:31,720
Speaker 2: the right person to spend time with.

628
00:32:34,120 --> 00:32:36,440
Speaker 1: I know someone you could spend some time with.

629
00:32:36,680 --> 00:32:40,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, who you spend it all the time playing video games,

630
00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:43,000
Speaker 2: going off to restaurants and doing stuff with Oh Pete,

631
00:32:43,280 --> 00:32:46,560
Speaker 2: you know, so just do it. I feel like this

632
00:32:46,600 --> 00:32:48,680
Speaker 2: is my opportunity to confess, but I don't know if

633
00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:50,560
Speaker 2: I should. I just don't want to confess how I

634
00:32:50,600 --> 00:32:53,120
Speaker 2: feel and ruin my relationship with my friend. If you

635
00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:56,240
Speaker 2: have any advice, please share it. I have no clue

636
00:32:56,520 --> 00:32:58,959
Speaker 2: what to do. So John, what are your thoughts?

637
00:32:59,000 --> 00:33:03,040
Speaker 1: You know, we are clearly so qualified to as to

638
00:33:03,600 --> 00:33:06,440
Speaker 1: cis white straight males. We have all we have all

639
00:33:06,480 --> 00:33:08,840
Speaker 1: the answers and everything you need here.

640
00:33:08,920 --> 00:33:13,560
Speaker 2: But anyway, so I'm wondering, like like I'm wondering, So

641
00:33:13,720 --> 00:33:18,120
Speaker 2: is it because the transition that oh he's feeling all

642
00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:21,320
Speaker 2: these feelings like oh damn, like like like like is

643
00:33:21,360 --> 00:33:22,160
Speaker 2: O piece straight?

644
00:33:22,520 --> 00:33:22,720
Speaker 1: Right?

645
00:33:22,760 --> 00:33:25,640
Speaker 2: And that is like oh shit, my best friend is

646
00:33:25,680 --> 00:33:27,960
Speaker 2: now girl and now I'm attracted.

647
00:33:27,640 --> 00:33:31,000
Speaker 1: Right like like hey, I'm usually attracted to women women,

648
00:33:31,160 --> 00:33:33,000
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So it's like now my

649
00:33:33,040 --> 00:33:35,480
Speaker 1: friend is transitiond to a woman, and it's like he

650
00:33:35,560 --> 00:33:38,120
Speaker 1: already clearly had that love as like a friend and

651
00:33:38,240 --> 00:33:40,720
Speaker 1: like spending time with you other, like you know, my

652
00:33:40,800 --> 00:33:42,360
Speaker 1: girlfriend is like oh this is my best friend, Like

653
00:33:42,400 --> 00:33:43,760
Speaker 1: I love just hanging out with her, you know what

654
00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:47,480
Speaker 1: I mean, So I could totally see how like now

655
00:33:47,520 --> 00:33:50,480
Speaker 1: that it's like okay, now I'm like physically attracted to

656
00:33:50,520 --> 00:33:56,440
Speaker 1: her as well, so you know yeah, and it's like

657
00:33:57,040 --> 00:33:59,360
Speaker 1: it's so wild because like I mean, I think I

658
00:33:59,360 --> 00:34:01,440
Speaker 1: think the big the crux of the issue here is

659
00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:04,920
Speaker 1: like op is like sexually confused. It's like, Okay, he

660
00:34:04,960 --> 00:34:07,800
Speaker 1: probably identifies as straight, but he's like, Okay, now I

661
00:34:08,320 --> 00:34:10,040
Speaker 1: like am falling in love with this trans woman? Like

662
00:34:10,080 --> 00:34:12,120
Speaker 1: what does that make me? And is like there's a

663
00:34:12,200 --> 00:34:15,400
Speaker 1: lot of confusion there, which like I don't know what

664
00:34:15,480 --> 00:34:19,120
Speaker 1: to tell you there, but I will say it's like, look,

665
00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:22,200
Speaker 1: if you like it's it's hard. It's hard to find

666
00:34:22,320 --> 00:34:25,160
Speaker 1: like a partner that you like, really love. So it's like,

667
00:34:25,680 --> 00:34:29,640
Speaker 1: if this is someone that you love, like share your

668
00:34:29,680 --> 00:34:31,400
Speaker 1: real feelings and give it a shot. Yeah, you know

669
00:34:31,400 --> 00:34:37,759
Speaker 1: what I mean. And John, there's an update. Oh screw it.

670
00:34:37,880 --> 00:34:40,600
Speaker 2: I'm going for it. I'm going to ask out my friend.

671
00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:43,000
Speaker 2: It's Saturday, one pm right now. I'm going to see

672
00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:44,640
Speaker 2: if she wants to go on a date tonight. I'm

673
00:34:44,640 --> 00:34:46,360
Speaker 2: going to message her to see if she's home and

674
00:34:46,400 --> 00:34:48,560
Speaker 2: I can stop by and while I'm there, I'm gonna

675
00:34:48,560 --> 00:34:52,719
Speaker 2: ask her out. Oh yeah, update too, I got a

676
00:34:52,800 --> 00:34:53,400
Speaker 2: date tonight.

677
00:34:53,560 --> 00:34:53,960
Speaker 1: Hey.

678
00:34:54,160 --> 00:34:56,360
Speaker 2: I can sayally nervous walking to my friend's house, but

679
00:34:56,400 --> 00:34:59,279
Speaker 2: I can't stop smiling. Wow, I actually got a guess

680
00:34:59,280 --> 00:35:01,839
Speaker 2: from my friend. One issue I had was where it

681
00:35:01,880 --> 00:35:03,439
Speaker 2: was the date going to be. I had no idea.

682
00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:06,080
Speaker 2: I remember, she loves this eighties bar grill that has

683
00:35:06,160 --> 00:35:09,520
Speaker 2: karaoke every night and tacos. So that's where we're going tonight.

684
00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:12,240
Speaker 2: Is going to be tacos, drinks, eighties music and karaoke.

685
00:35:12,719 --> 00:35:14,640
Speaker 2: Sounds like a freaking perfect date.

686
00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:15,439
Speaker 1: It does.

687
00:35:18,080 --> 00:35:20,719
Speaker 2: I told her pretty relaxed and did rushed into it,

688
00:35:20,760 --> 00:35:22,920
Speaker 2: showed up, started talking like usual, and that's when I

689
00:35:22,960 --> 00:35:24,879
Speaker 2: asked her. I told her I would love to take

690
00:35:24,880 --> 00:35:26,600
Speaker 2: her out on a date tonight and have been wanting

691
00:35:26,600 --> 00:35:28,440
Speaker 2: for the longest time. I definitely tried to hide my

692
00:35:28,480 --> 00:35:30,839
Speaker 2: face from blushing because she had a huge smile when

693
00:35:30,840 --> 00:35:33,160
Speaker 2: I asked her out. She's even extra excited because we're

694
00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:35,319
Speaker 2: going to her favorite place. I feel like asking her

695
00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:37,680
Speaker 2: out made her feel comfortable to flirt with me. She

696
00:35:37,719 --> 00:35:40,200
Speaker 2: started complimenting me and even kissed me on the cheek

697
00:35:40,239 --> 00:35:43,239
Speaker 2: before I left. She definitely felt more intimate, if that

698
00:35:43,280 --> 00:35:46,360
Speaker 2: makes sense. She says she's going to get extra pretty

699
00:35:46,400 --> 00:35:48,719
Speaker 2: for the date tonight. I'll admit I'm really looking forward

700
00:35:48,760 --> 00:35:50,719
Speaker 2: to that, although it's impossible for her to get extra

701
00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:53,719
Speaker 2: pretty seeing as she's already gotten that pretty already.

702
00:35:53,920 --> 00:35:58,040
Speaker 1: Opie, come on, you're too sweet. So there's another update.

703
00:35:58,160 --> 00:36:00,480
Speaker 2: Hey, all of you were right about her roping hints

704
00:36:00,520 --> 00:36:02,560
Speaker 2: at me, because she said she was dropping so many

705
00:36:02,640 --> 00:36:04,560
Speaker 2: and I never caught on to them, which it was like,

706
00:36:04,600 --> 00:36:06,839
Speaker 2: you know that hinter she dropped where she was like, oh,

707
00:36:06,880 --> 00:36:08,759
Speaker 2: like I wish I could find someone to spend time with.

708
00:36:09,040 --> 00:36:10,759
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, gotcha.

709
00:36:10,960 --> 00:36:13,560
Speaker 2: I admit I suck at stuff like that. We laughed

710
00:36:13,560 --> 00:36:15,680
Speaker 2: it off and we're happy to finally be on a date.

711
00:36:16,080 --> 00:36:18,359
Speaker 2: My biggest goal of the night was to kiss her.

712
00:36:18,760 --> 00:36:21,120
Speaker 2: She kept winking at me the entire night. I was

713
00:36:21,120 --> 00:36:23,239
Speaker 2: being hesitant to kiss her. I was worried a kiss

714
00:36:23,239 --> 00:36:25,960
Speaker 2: can be too much. This was me overthinking again. I

715
00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:28,040
Speaker 2: feel like she knew I was being a hesitant, so

716
00:36:28,440 --> 00:36:31,760
Speaker 2: she ended up kissing me and didn't hold back either.

717
00:36:32,440 --> 00:36:34,239
Speaker 2: Wrapped her arms around me and I did the same.

718
00:36:34,280 --> 00:36:35,920
Speaker 2: For the moment we kissed. My nerves the rest of

719
00:36:35,960 --> 00:36:38,640
Speaker 2: the night were completely gone. We didn't act like friends anymore.

720
00:36:38,719 --> 00:36:40,960
Speaker 2: We acted a lot more than that. We became more

721
00:36:41,000 --> 00:36:45,080
Speaker 2: and more intimate with each other and about being about

722
00:36:45,080 --> 00:36:50,200
Speaker 2: a boom. Seems like they're dating. So happy for you,

723
00:36:50,239 --> 00:36:51,600
Speaker 2: O Pie. It seems like it all worked out.

724
00:36:51,640 --> 00:36:53,040
Speaker 1: You crushed it. I'm loving this