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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and I Heart Radio podcast.

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Speaker 1: Good morning everybody, it's still morning, right, we're scrubbing in.

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Speaker 1: I am I Will. Woke up with construction outside my

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Speaker 1: window at seven am this morning, and it literally I

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Speaker 1: thought they were coming into my window. Oh that's the worst. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I feel out of it today. I am brutal. Man.

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Speaker 1: Tania wakes up at like four in the morning, so

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Speaker 1: she was like rolling her eyes at me right now.

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Speaker 1: But I am a brutal It is. It is when

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Speaker 1: you go to sleep at one thirty am. Um, how

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Speaker 1: is Coachella? Oh my god, so good. I'm so sad.

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Speaker 1: I almost had Becca. I almost had her on Saturday.

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Speaker 1: I literally was packing a bag to drive up, but

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Speaker 1: I couldn't find a ticket last minute. But you did

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Speaker 1: get a ticket and I said, just no, I couldn't

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Speaker 1: by the time I want. Yeah, yeah, I was gonna

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Speaker 1: We're gonna frolic Her and watched Beyonce together. Yeah I know.

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Speaker 1: I Actually I really missed you this weekend. I missed you.

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Speaker 1: I was texting her the whole weekend saying like I

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Speaker 1: wish you were here because I had, like we had

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Speaker 1: a house and the bed that I had in my

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Speaker 1: room was huge. You could have easily fit in it.

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Speaker 1: And I had my own and I had my own bathroom,

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Speaker 1: so like I had this whole like section and I

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Speaker 1: didn't have like a buddy. I know. I feel like

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Speaker 1: I was like I like and she like. We did

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Speaker 1: texts all weeken, but it wasn't as like consistent as

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Speaker 1: you normally are because it was only because of the service. Okay, yeah,

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Speaker 1: it was like, oh, my bud's gone. I know, Sad,

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Speaker 1: I really wish you would have been there. Yeah, it

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Speaker 1: looked amazing. I did watch the Beyonce live stream, which

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Speaker 1: I almost was like, this is really cool watching it

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Speaker 1: because I saw it up close on that my Giant TV.

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Speaker 1: I watched it Sunday night from my house, and I

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Speaker 1: was like, this is actually way better for you than

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Speaker 1: I had the show. I'm sure like the energy of

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Speaker 1: being there was amazing, but it was really she's have

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Speaker 1: you been to Coachella before, Becca or is it not

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Speaker 1: your vibe? I did. I went last year. But here's

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Speaker 1: the thing, this is my deal with Coachella. I went

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Speaker 1: for work, and so the whole time it was like

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Speaker 1: going to parties and events and like having to post

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Speaker 1: certain pictures at certain times, and I think that aspect

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Speaker 1: of it. I didn't love that, Like, if I were

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Speaker 1: to go, I'd want to go layout by the pool

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Speaker 1: a day, get ready to go to the show, and

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Speaker 1: not have to worry about like taking photos, being in

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Speaker 1: like the perfect outfit. You know. Yeah, it is like

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Speaker 1: a lot because I go for work also and it

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Speaker 1: is very stressful, like trying to like get everything done.

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Speaker 1: So we were trying to get everything done during the day.

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Speaker 1: So I was going to festival, like I got there

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Speaker 1: before the gates opened on but that's just in general,

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Speaker 1: there's an event, she's there before the doors open, but

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Speaker 1: we were there before the doors up, and so we

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Speaker 1: wanted to get like a ton of stuff done, like

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Speaker 1: when it was like light out and it was just

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Speaker 1: like it was a lot and the best celebrity siding

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Speaker 1: of the weekend Jackson Avery, But why don't you talk

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Speaker 1: to him? So I remember Becca has had a run

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Speaker 1: in with Jackson a very before. Yeah, and so I

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Speaker 1: just go and mentally all this is going through my

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Speaker 1: head because I was like, should Air drop him, should

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Speaker 1: I talk to him? Should I get a photo? I know?

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Speaker 1: And then my boss was with my boss and Beaudle

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Speaker 1: was like, just pretend he's a hot guy at Coachell

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Speaker 1: and you don't even know who he is. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I can't pretend that he's a hot guy. So I

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Speaker 1: decided to just just forego and I didn't ask him

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Speaker 1: for anything because I just didn't want to taint like

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Speaker 1: the sweet image I have in my head of him.

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Speaker 1: But it's tainted, right because Becca had chalk it up

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Speaker 1: to a bad day. But if he was double do

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Speaker 1: you remember, like even at the Paley Fest thing we did,

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Speaker 1: he just like blocked. He just has a too. But

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Speaker 1: you also had a great experience with Ellen Pompeio and

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Speaker 1: we had that caller who told us all about that

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Speaker 1: I didn't have. I made that up in my head,

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Speaker 1: remember that, like it was just anticipated happening if I

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Speaker 1: asked her. But um, Jackson Avery was not. And his wife,

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Speaker 1: his ex wife, I guess now, was so rude. Maybe

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Speaker 1: now he's in a better place because he is Sand's wife.

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Speaker 1: Maybe yeah, maybe maybe he's like happier and nicer. I know,

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Speaker 1: I just couldn't do it. And I'm gonna tell you

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Speaker 1: I brushed shoulders with him, like I literally like felt

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Speaker 1: Jackson Avery, it was could have been a very quick

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Speaker 1: like oh my gosh, I love you. Can I get

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Speaker 1: a photo? I don't love that? As an open line. No,

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Speaker 1: I think we've established that the best way to go

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Speaker 1: about this is to say like, oh my gosh, I

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Speaker 1: to say hi and see the reaction of that before

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Speaker 1: you moved for the photo. I think it's it's better

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Speaker 1: to like approach them with like a compliment and just

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Speaker 1: just said words. I couldn't even I couldn't get I

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Speaker 1: couldn't get words. It was just like you know when

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Speaker 1: you see have you ever seen actually never seen a ghost,

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Speaker 1: but I imagine if I saw ghosts, that's what I

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Speaker 1: would look. I would look at him and I just

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Speaker 1: felt like this, I'm sure he saw they can't see

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Speaker 1: your face, but like her mouth was half open and

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Speaker 1: she just like stared at all stars in her eyes

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Speaker 1: and just my head just went a total three sixty

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Speaker 1: like an owl. I saw you. I bet he saw

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Speaker 1: you were like some of his friends saw you or something.

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Speaker 1: He was like security, keep an eye on her. Are

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Speaker 1: we coming around? It? All? On? Dr Avery and Maggie

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Speaker 1: not even at all. Did you watched this week? I

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Speaker 1: didn't watch it, Oh, Tanya, that should be homework. I

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Speaker 1: was like Coachella. You watched Coachella last night, that could

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Speaker 1: have been time to watch Grace. Yeah, it was my party,

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Speaker 1: b But when you're watching, you're doing couch ella last night.

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Speaker 1: You could have been watching Grace anatomy I watched. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Well yeah, I'm not coming around on Maggie and Jackson. Well,

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Speaker 1: we can't spoil it now for Tania, Oh, well, they

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Speaker 1: could spoil it. I mean they just mean they what

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Speaker 1: consummated their relationships? I guess. But she was mad at

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Speaker 1: him the whole episode because she found out that April

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Speaker 1: had kissed. Remember the end of the episode Jackson and

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Speaker 1: Maggie had sex. Well, yeah, I mean it was insinuated.

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Speaker 1: I guess it's not you, But what is there is

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Speaker 1: something you? It's not them, Like it's not like physically

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Speaker 1: looking at them having sex. It's like it's like it's

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Speaker 1: the thing that I don't like about them together, their siblings.

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Speaker 1: It's not that, it's just something else. I can't like.

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Speaker 1: Pinpoint why I don't like it. It's just not there

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Speaker 1: for me. I love Jackson April together so much that

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Speaker 1: I'm like, it's almost like a Meredith and Derek thing.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, well, well, anyone ever compared to Derek. I

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Speaker 1: don't think so. No, but Scott Speedman, the guy from

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Speaker 1: last week. He's been gone, but I do like him.

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Speaker 1: But April and Matthew we might be getting some seeds planned.

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Speaker 1: It could be sweet. I think that could be a

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Speaker 1: nice ending. Matthew Hurt, the guy that she left at

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Speaker 1: the altar his wife died and calls her like spiral basically,

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Speaker 1: but I still don't know what's going to happen with Like,

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Speaker 1: so what she Where does she go from here? Alive?

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Speaker 1: Assuming that she doesn't get killed? I don't know. I

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Speaker 1: just thought like the idea of she and Matthew maybe

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Speaker 1: they were always meant to be. I know I like

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Speaker 1: that too. It's to be exactly. Um, can you tell

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Speaker 1: us about your spray tend eventually? The other night beers.

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Speaker 1: I think it's so funny. Yes, Becca is heavily involved

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Speaker 1: in this as well. Yeah. Um, so I wanted to

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Speaker 1: get a spright hand before Coachella and our friend Crystal

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Speaker 1: she has like a mom and pop spray tan oh

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Speaker 1: it's a it's not a mom and pop. It's like

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Speaker 1: a mobile spray dan business. She started herself a mom

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Speaker 1: and Paul. Isn't that like she started it herself. It's

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Speaker 1: so she comes to you and she sprays you. So

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Speaker 1: I got all my STI like, at, you've got all

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Speaker 1: puts like the hat on you don't get your hair,

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Speaker 1: So I'm like, it's okay, it's totally fine. We'll get

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Speaker 1: some flashlights. It's all good. And she's like, no, my

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Speaker 1: But then Crystal had to go and swarry someone in

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Speaker 1: saying the money there was like she was like squeezing

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Speaker 1: me and essentially so that she couldn't go Tobecca's house.

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Speaker 1: That there's a woman in a car that drives around

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Speaker 1: And then Becca bless her heart, Becca was best friend

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Speaker 1: the electricity couldn't I couldn't get out of the garage.

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Speaker 1: So Becca drove me to these random people's apartment to

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Speaker 1: get my spright hands. And I go to a random

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Speaker 1: HiT's his girlfriend's apartment and his little sister or her

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Speaker 1: Demilvato's assistant Kelsey, that I've known through work for like

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Speaker 1: the last year and a half. What are the odd world?

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Speaker 1: and vegetables. But what's interesting is I never even thought

425
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Speaker 1: about it when it came to feminine care. I never

426
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Speaker 1: in a million years would think, oh I need organic.

427
00:22:52,480 --> 00:22:56,159
Speaker 1: But I didn't realize that they they bleach the cotton

428
00:22:56,280 --> 00:22:58,560
Speaker 1: that you use in like on a with a tampon.

429
00:22:59,040 --> 00:23:02,040
Speaker 1: They bleach that and then you're putting it. Oh. Yeah,

430
00:23:02,240 --> 00:23:04,399
Speaker 1: I guess I didn't realize that either. Yeah. So the

431
00:23:04,680 --> 00:23:10,000
Speaker 1: organic feminine hygiene products are like a game changer. Yeah,

432
00:23:10,760 --> 00:23:13,280
Speaker 1: that's actually very interesting. I've never thought of it either.

433
00:23:14,119 --> 00:23:17,680
Speaker 1: Um Lola is female. It's female founding company. They offer

434
00:23:17,880 --> 00:23:22,440
Speaker 1: a line of organic tampons, um cotton tampons, pads, and liners,

435
00:23:22,960 --> 00:23:25,800
Speaker 1: They started their company with a simple and seemingly obvious

436
00:23:25,880 --> 00:23:29,080
Speaker 1: idea that women shouldn't have to compromise, especially when it

437
00:23:29,160 --> 00:23:32,200
Speaker 1: comes to feminine care products, which is so interesting because

438
00:23:32,200 --> 00:23:35,400
Speaker 1: I bet a ton of people are listening probably haven't

439
00:23:35,400 --> 00:23:38,040
Speaker 1: thought of this either. Um. The Lola products are a

440
00:23:38,080 --> 00:23:40,520
Speaker 1: hundred percent natural, They're a hundred percent easy to feel

441
00:23:40,560 --> 00:23:44,879
Speaker 1: good about. Um. They offer complete transparent transparency about the

442
00:23:45,119 --> 00:23:49,000
Speaker 1: ingredients found in their tampons, pads, and liners. Um, and

443
00:23:49,080 --> 00:23:51,399
Speaker 1: they're so great. They're so great. I actually got my

444
00:23:51,480 --> 00:23:54,440
Speaker 1: period on Friday at Coachella Convenience and I was so

445
00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:57,639
Speaker 1: upset that I didn't. I didn't. I didn't know I

446
00:23:57,720 --> 00:23:58,920
Speaker 1: was gonna get it, so I didn't pack any of

447
00:23:58,960 --> 00:24:02,000
Speaker 1: my Lola products. But um, I was like so mad,

448
00:24:02,080 --> 00:24:03,479
Speaker 1: So how to go to the grocery stow and by

449
00:24:04,040 --> 00:24:07,600
Speaker 1: the regular one, the regular ones. So something that's really

450
00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:11,159
Speaker 1: cool about Lola. They have a customizable subscription so you

451
00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:14,000
Speaker 1: don't have to make another frantic trip to the drug store,

452
00:24:14,359 --> 00:24:17,760
Speaker 1: which is I didn't I mean a subscription. I always

453
00:24:17,840 --> 00:24:21,000
Speaker 1: forget and then the time comes and I'm like no, Yeah,

454
00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:23,240
Speaker 1: it's kind of nice because you don't have to think

455
00:24:23,280 --> 00:24:27,800
Speaker 1: about it. And my sister's that's what we're sad and

456
00:24:27,920 --> 00:24:31,280
Speaker 1: they use them all. I'm like, do y'all or maybe

457
00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:33,560
Speaker 1: you'll buy some sometimes, but we don't have to worry

458
00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:36,320
Speaker 1: about that. Now you don't have to um something else.

459
00:24:36,359 --> 00:24:38,399
Speaker 1: That's really cool. You can build your box of eighteen

460
00:24:38,440 --> 00:24:41,679
Speaker 1: tampon so you can pick like if you want light, regular, super,

461
00:24:41,800 --> 00:24:44,359
Speaker 1: super plus, and then with pads, you can build your

462
00:24:44,359 --> 00:24:48,120
Speaker 1: box of twelve pads by mixing ultra thin or nightpads.

463
00:24:48,600 --> 00:24:56,600
Speaker 1: It's really amazing make it completely customized to your personal blow. Yeah,

464
00:24:57,080 --> 00:25:00,560
Speaker 1: it's actually very true because they always give you like

465
00:25:01,200 --> 00:25:04,840
Speaker 1: thirty lights and like five heavy ones, and it's like

466
00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:07,920
Speaker 1: I need them. I need that switch, thank you very much. Yeah.

467
00:25:08,600 --> 00:25:11,440
Speaker 1: So for off y'all's first order, you can visit my

468
00:25:11,680 --> 00:25:14,480
Speaker 1: lola dot com and enter the promo code Becca. That's

469
00:25:14,760 --> 00:25:17,960
Speaker 1: m y l o l a dot com and get

470
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Speaker 1: off when you enter the promo code Becca again, that's

471
00:25:21,920 --> 00:25:27,280
Speaker 1: my Lola dot Com promo code Becca. So it's seriously

472
00:25:27,320 --> 00:25:29,600
Speaker 1: so it's so true though, Like I've been actually complaining

473
00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:31,879
Speaker 1: about the fact that I didn't know that it was

474
00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:34,040
Speaker 1: bleach in my tampons for the longest time. I know

475
00:25:34,119 --> 00:25:36,520
Speaker 1: I feel like that's something probably a ton of people

476
00:25:36,640 --> 00:25:38,600
Speaker 1: don't know. Majority of people probably don't know. So it's

477
00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:40,399
Speaker 1: not just that it's organic and all this stuff. It's

478
00:25:40,400 --> 00:25:42,200
Speaker 1: shifted right to your house however you want to be

479
00:25:42,400 --> 00:25:47,080
Speaker 1: customize beautiful. Yeah, Mystic MICHAELA is on the line. Oh

480
00:25:47,080 --> 00:25:49,160
Speaker 1: I'm so excited. I'm so nervous. What are you gonna

481
00:25:49,160 --> 00:25:53,120
Speaker 1: ask her? Mystic Michaela? Are you there? Yes, i am,

482
00:25:53,240 --> 00:25:56,320
Speaker 1: How are you? I'm really great. I'm kind of nervous.

483
00:25:56,359 --> 00:26:01,840
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. It's okay. How are you? I'm great?

484
00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:03,960
Speaker 1: Thank you for having me on. It's just like I'm

485
00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:06,399
Speaker 1: having a fan moment. I have to be honest with you.

486
00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:10,520
Speaker 1: I am, thank you, I'm really excited. I'm never I

487
00:26:10,680 --> 00:26:13,520
Speaker 1: was just talking earlier before we got you on the line.

488
00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:16,639
Speaker 1: I've never talked to a psychic, a mystic. Nothing. I

489
00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:20,480
Speaker 1: was kind of raised in, you know, a very um

490
00:26:21,160 --> 00:26:24,159
Speaker 1: Christian I am Christian, but I I was raised in

491
00:26:24,240 --> 00:26:28,320
Speaker 1: a very church dominant where it wasn't necessarily you didn't

492
00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:31,800
Speaker 1: talk to a psychic or any anyone about anything like that.

493
00:26:31,960 --> 00:26:34,360
Speaker 1: So this is I'm kind of nervous and I'm excited.

494
00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:37,840
Speaker 1: So and I tell people. I tell people too. You know.

495
00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:39,920
Speaker 1: The way that I work is that I don't like

496
00:26:40,160 --> 00:26:44,720
Speaker 1: challenge any belief or something like that. It's about authenticity,

497
00:26:45,080 --> 00:26:47,760
Speaker 1: getting closer to yourself where you know God lives. So

498
00:26:48,119 --> 00:26:50,360
Speaker 1: that's kind of my message for people. But I see

499
00:26:50,440 --> 00:26:53,399
Speaker 1: colors around people. That's like my thing. It's like the

500
00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:57,240
Speaker 1: aura colors. So there's like an energy around everybody. And

501
00:26:57,320 --> 00:26:59,760
Speaker 1: I had to pull up like I do, follow you

502
00:26:59,800 --> 00:27:03,040
Speaker 1: guy on Instagram, So all right, I'll help a picture.

503
00:27:03,119 --> 00:27:05,199
Speaker 1: So I'm looking at a picture of you Antonia right now,

504
00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:08,520
Speaker 1: and I can see colors around you. And I just

505
00:27:08,640 --> 00:27:10,800
Speaker 1: do this naturally in my life. I always see colors

506
00:27:10,840 --> 00:27:14,680
Speaker 1: around people. It's like the life energy. And there's five

507
00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:18,320
Speaker 1: main colors and they all mean something and those people

508
00:27:18,359 --> 00:27:20,920
Speaker 1: have a combination. And even though there's only five or

509
00:27:21,000 --> 00:27:24,160
Speaker 1: of colors, I have never read the same or as plice.

510
00:27:24,160 --> 00:27:28,840
Speaker 1: They're like no blakes. So that's that's basically what I do. Well,

511
00:27:28,920 --> 00:27:34,399
Speaker 1: what colors did you stay around the antime? Well? You Becca?

512
00:27:34,520 --> 00:27:37,840
Speaker 1: All right? So Becca your very purple. You have a

513
00:27:37,960 --> 00:27:40,439
Speaker 1: huge couple aura with blue. But this isn't forest thing

514
00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:44,359
Speaker 1: because like I said, I people's colors don't generally change,

515
00:27:44,400 --> 00:27:48,080
Speaker 1: but they can like move around depending on like what

516
00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:50,680
Speaker 1: you're doing in life, and it will make sense in

517
00:27:50,720 --> 00:27:53,320
Speaker 1: a second because like when you were originally on I

518
00:27:53,400 --> 00:27:55,800
Speaker 1: think your first season, when I watched you on The Bachelor,

519
00:27:56,320 --> 00:27:58,919
Speaker 1: I was like, um, you were flip flaps. You were

520
00:27:58,960 --> 00:28:01,360
Speaker 1: more blue than purple. So I think it all makes

521
00:28:01,520 --> 00:28:06,880
Speaker 1: sense once I explain a few So purple means you know, artistic, intuitive,

522
00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:08,920
Speaker 1: Like I feel like you're good at kind of reading

523
00:28:09,080 --> 00:28:13,040
Speaker 1: energy on people, um, you know, really quickly people's intentions,

524
00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:15,960
Speaker 1: things like this. I feel like as you've grown, as

525
00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:19,320
Speaker 1: we all do, um, if we're paying attention, as you've grown,

526
00:28:19,400 --> 00:28:22,000
Speaker 1: that part of you've gotten bigger and you know, just

527
00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:26,000
Speaker 1: like your um, you know, how's your career has progressed

528
00:28:26,080 --> 00:28:29,760
Speaker 1: and whatnot. It's more of a purple reflective career, you know,

529
00:28:29,880 --> 00:28:33,479
Speaker 1: like spotlight. Um, just things like that, like where your

530
00:28:33,560 --> 00:28:35,640
Speaker 1: voice is heard and you don't find it so much

531
00:28:35,760 --> 00:28:39,120
Speaker 1: like the blue which will always see there that's your

532
00:28:39,520 --> 00:28:42,200
Speaker 1: heal or help or like that. When I see a

533
00:28:42,280 --> 00:28:45,280
Speaker 1: blue person, usually they work like in the medical field

534
00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:50,040
Speaker 1: or they're like teachers. Yeah, so you're you're very purple

535
00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:52,640
Speaker 1: with blue. So I feel like you the way that

536
00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:55,520
Speaker 1: you have a platform. I feel like if you use

537
00:28:55,600 --> 00:28:58,640
Speaker 1: it to kind of relate to people and give messages

538
00:28:58,760 --> 00:29:01,520
Speaker 1: and relate and how and make people feel not so alone.

539
00:29:01,560 --> 00:29:03,160
Speaker 1: And you're like that fraind of this thing. You're like

540
00:29:03,240 --> 00:29:05,720
Speaker 1: a like a good friend to people. That's what I

541
00:29:05,800 --> 00:29:09,840
Speaker 1: get from now. Um, so that's show me to do

542
00:29:12,360 --> 00:29:16,040
Speaker 1: all right. So, Tany and you're super yellow and purple,

543
00:29:16,120 --> 00:29:18,720
Speaker 1: so you both have that purpball in you, but the

544
00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:23,120
Speaker 1: yellow but you, Tanya is like that man like yellow

545
00:29:23,160 --> 00:29:25,600
Speaker 1: people get sucked on. So like yell like that's like

546
00:29:25,720 --> 00:29:27,880
Speaker 1: you're organized. I feel like you don't mind like a

547
00:29:28,000 --> 00:29:30,800
Speaker 1: ton of projects. Like well, I mean just in your

548
00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:35,320
Speaker 1: role is get your a producer right in like this world? Yeah,

549
00:29:35,440 --> 00:29:38,080
Speaker 1: so like that is that's a very like the way

550
00:29:38,160 --> 00:29:40,320
Speaker 1: that you do produce. I feel like you're organized about it.

551
00:29:40,400 --> 00:29:41,960
Speaker 1: Like maybe you don't feel organized, but I feel like

552
00:29:42,000 --> 00:29:44,280
Speaker 1: other people looking at you would be like, Okay, Tanya's

553
00:29:44,320 --> 00:29:46,560
Speaker 1: got this. I feel like you don't. I'm pretty organized.

554
00:29:46,760 --> 00:29:50,760
Speaker 1: I'm pretty organized. And I get stepped on all the time.

555
00:29:51,480 --> 00:29:58,320
Speaker 1: Yeah right, like literally literally, but no, I feel like

556
00:29:58,400 --> 00:30:02,520
Speaker 1: I get stepped on a lot in for sure. Yeah,

557
00:30:02,560 --> 00:30:04,680
Speaker 1: you've got to learn to like advocate that, like your

558
00:30:04,800 --> 00:30:07,640
Speaker 1: thing is, I feel like you will logically talk yourself

559
00:30:07,720 --> 00:30:13,280
Speaker 1: out of being treated a certain way. You single right now, Okay,

560
00:30:13,360 --> 00:30:15,720
Speaker 1: So I feel like in relationships if we can go there,

561
00:30:15,840 --> 00:30:18,680
Speaker 1: I don't know, are we allowed to go there? There?

562
00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:22,440
Speaker 1: It all right? So like in relationships because like when

563
00:30:22,480 --> 00:30:24,840
Speaker 1: we see ourselves better, we can like choose better, you

564
00:30:24,880 --> 00:30:27,840
Speaker 1: know what I mean. So like with you, I feel

565
00:30:27,880 --> 00:30:30,560
Speaker 1: like you're very like yellow people are very logical, so

566
00:30:31,040 --> 00:30:33,440
Speaker 1: you can come up with but your purple which teams

567
00:30:33,440 --> 00:30:37,680
Speaker 1: are very emotional and energetic and artistics. So just because

568
00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:39,960
Speaker 1: you have a feeling about somebody, I don't always feel

569
00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:42,000
Speaker 1: like you always listen to that. You'll kind of go

570
00:30:42,200 --> 00:30:44,440
Speaker 1: more to the well, you know, and you'll kind of

571
00:30:44,520 --> 00:30:48,360
Speaker 1: explain it out to yourself. So in relationships like meeting people,

572
00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:52,560
Speaker 1: I feel like it in work relationships and certain friendships

573
00:30:52,640 --> 00:30:55,520
Speaker 1: things like that, Um, you have to be careful that

574
00:30:55,640 --> 00:30:58,680
Speaker 1: you don't talk yourself into being treated a certain way

575
00:30:58,720 --> 00:31:00,840
Speaker 1: just because it makes sense from or end of things.

576
00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:03,520
Speaker 1: Like you, if you have a feeling, it's dude, this

577
00:31:03,760 --> 00:31:08,880
Speaker 1: is so crazy because I totally feel that, and it's

578
00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:12,160
Speaker 1: just until like really recently that I've started to kind

579
00:31:12,200 --> 00:31:15,560
Speaker 1: of fight back a little bit and like like kind

580
00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:20,400
Speaker 1: of not letting myself be treated crappy anymore, right, because

581
00:31:20,480 --> 00:31:23,920
Speaker 1: the way that you treat people, you know, it's not

582
00:31:24,080 --> 00:31:26,000
Speaker 1: that way like I feel like you're very considerate and

583
00:31:26,040 --> 00:31:28,960
Speaker 1: you're very and you're very you know that way. But

584
00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:31,800
Speaker 1: the way that I feel like you allow people to

585
00:31:31,920 --> 00:31:34,040
Speaker 1: treat you when this is everybody by the way, like

586
00:31:34,240 --> 00:31:37,640
Speaker 1: you will tract relationships that are reflective of the one

587
00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:40,680
Speaker 1: you have with yourself. So with you, as you said,

588
00:31:40,720 --> 00:31:43,680
Speaker 1: like you're starting to be like fight back a little bit,

589
00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:46,280
Speaker 1: you're probably also within yourself starting to pay attention a

590
00:31:46,320 --> 00:31:48,120
Speaker 1: little bit to like, hey, I don't feel so good

591
00:31:48,160 --> 00:31:50,960
Speaker 1: about this interaction I just had with this person and

592
00:31:51,280 --> 00:31:53,280
Speaker 1: I don't like that, and like you're open to it

593
00:31:53,360 --> 00:31:55,720
Speaker 1: instead of and I feel like in your world to

594
00:31:55,960 --> 00:31:57,960
Speaker 1: like with with work and career and I don't know

595
00:31:58,040 --> 00:32:00,280
Speaker 1: anything about that, but a lot of it's like kind

596
00:32:00,320 --> 00:32:02,680
Speaker 1: of like, um, I guess like where you are on

597
00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:05,800
Speaker 1: the chopping block a little bit, Like it's like hierarchy

598
00:32:05,960 --> 00:32:09,640
Speaker 1: kind of stuff. But don't translate that to dating, okay,

599
00:32:09,760 --> 00:32:12,320
Speaker 1: Like that's differently you are the queen church life, like

600
00:32:12,480 --> 00:32:15,360
Speaker 1: I literally live in church life. I'm actually freaking out

601
00:32:15,480 --> 00:32:19,320
Speaker 1: right now Wait I want to hear about my relationship

602
00:32:19,560 --> 00:32:25,920
Speaker 1: life now, yeah, okay, So with you with relationships, you

603
00:32:26,840 --> 00:32:30,560
Speaker 1: I okay, you're You're sorry. How do I put this?

604
00:32:30,640 --> 00:32:32,520
Speaker 1: You're very psychic. I know like you grew up in

605
00:32:32,560 --> 00:32:35,720
Speaker 1: this life world while Um like a religious I was.

606
00:32:35,800 --> 00:32:38,360
Speaker 1: I was raised Catholic truth, so I actually really get it. Um.

607
00:32:38,520 --> 00:32:40,400
Speaker 1: But you're a raised person. I understand that. But you're

608
00:32:40,480 --> 00:32:44,040
Speaker 1: very intuitive. So I feel like you own other people's

609
00:32:44,080 --> 00:32:46,800
Speaker 1: emotions and you kind of wear them on yourself, so

610
00:32:47,400 --> 00:32:50,400
Speaker 1: like you'll and I feel like you do this, but

611
00:32:50,520 --> 00:32:53,120
Speaker 1: you've learned how to compart to menalize it so that

612
00:32:53,280 --> 00:32:56,640
Speaker 1: you don't get so effected anywhere. Like Purple people can

613
00:32:56,760 --> 00:33:00,960
Speaker 1: watch a scenario and like eat pop earn and be like, Okay,

614
00:33:01,000 --> 00:33:04,720
Speaker 1: this is interesting. Blue people can absorb it and kind

615
00:33:04,760 --> 00:33:06,720
Speaker 1: of like internalize and be like, oh my god, how

616
00:33:06,880 --> 00:33:09,560
Speaker 1: is this my fault that I'm being treated this way?

617
00:33:09,640 --> 00:33:11,640
Speaker 1: Obviously it's not. So I feel like you've flip flopped

618
00:33:11,720 --> 00:33:14,480
Speaker 1: with that, and now you're more in relationships. I feel

619
00:33:14,520 --> 00:33:17,480
Speaker 1: like you're projecting down the road a little bit. Like

620
00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:20,320
Speaker 1: if you meet somebody, you're like, oh, well, this, this, this,

621
00:33:20,440 --> 00:33:21,800
Speaker 1: and this is gonna happen, so I don't know if

622
00:33:21,840 --> 00:33:27,480
Speaker 1: it's gonna work. Oh my god. Yep. Sometimes you gotta

623
00:33:27,520 --> 00:33:30,120
Speaker 1: let things play out. Like if you pay attention as

624
00:33:30,120 --> 00:33:32,560
Speaker 1: your emotions and you're feeling so much, this is great.

625
00:33:32,960 --> 00:33:36,320
Speaker 1: But sometimes like you'll you'll skip to the end already,

626
00:33:36,520 --> 00:33:37,960
Speaker 1: you know. So it's kind of like you have to

627
00:33:38,080 --> 00:33:41,760
Speaker 1: let other people show themselves to you, even if you

628
00:33:41,880 --> 00:33:44,280
Speaker 1: have what you do a good vibe, but who they are.

629
00:33:44,600 --> 00:33:47,240
Speaker 1: I also feel like the guys that you attract docta

630
00:33:47,480 --> 00:33:50,520
Speaker 1: have been too green. You have to date read people.

631
00:33:50,600 --> 00:33:55,600
Speaker 1: And I'm gonna explain this personally. I want to know

632
00:33:55,640 --> 00:33:58,440
Speaker 1: who the green ones are and who the red ones are. Okay,

633
00:33:58,520 --> 00:34:02,000
Speaker 1: Like green people like are like this is very general

634
00:34:02,120 --> 00:34:05,280
Speaker 1: and everybody is different, but like green people are usually

635
00:34:05,360 --> 00:34:07,960
Speaker 1: like they come I'm super strong, so all of a sudden,

636
00:34:08,000 --> 00:34:09,879
Speaker 1: they're like all over you and it feels like really

637
00:34:09,920 --> 00:34:12,759
Speaker 1: intense and it's really past met and are all over

638
00:34:12,960 --> 00:34:15,440
Speaker 1: and then they like so they're like where did they go?

639
00:34:15,719 --> 00:34:18,799
Speaker 1: Like what was that about? Like who are Like? That's

640
00:34:18,840 --> 00:34:21,200
Speaker 1: a that's a good example of like an unbalanced screen.

641
00:34:21,239 --> 00:34:23,920
Speaker 1: I feel like they're attracted to because who are very mysterious,

642
00:34:24,320 --> 00:34:27,319
Speaker 1: so like people want to like understand it and then

643
00:34:27,440 --> 00:34:29,800
Speaker 1: want to see them because green people don't like to

644
00:34:29,880 --> 00:34:33,280
Speaker 1: be seen. They're like really like emotionally like to front

645
00:34:33,520 --> 00:34:36,160
Speaker 1: a lot, so like they'll come across the way they

646
00:34:36,239 --> 00:34:38,960
Speaker 1: want you to see them. They'll project something and like

647
00:34:39,120 --> 00:34:41,040
Speaker 1: you're like, oh, let me figure you out and then

648
00:34:41,120 --> 00:34:42,719
Speaker 1: let me tell you about you, and then they like

649
00:34:42,800 --> 00:34:45,240
Speaker 1: runaway because they don't want to be seen or whatever.

650
00:34:45,520 --> 00:34:46,879
Speaker 1: I feel like you need more of like a red

651
00:34:47,120 --> 00:34:50,239
Speaker 1: red guy. So like red people are like people. They're

652
00:34:50,280 --> 00:34:54,160
Speaker 1: like leaders. I mean like they're in charge of teams

653
00:34:54,280 --> 00:34:58,360
Speaker 1: of people. They're like business people. They're like business owners.

654
00:34:58,560 --> 00:35:02,640
Speaker 1: Screen people are usually like, um, it's different. It's more

655
00:35:02,680 --> 00:35:05,399
Speaker 1: like corporate in charge of things like whereas red people

656
00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:07,560
Speaker 1: are more like hands on in charge of things, if

657
00:35:07,640 --> 00:35:10,200
Speaker 1: that makes sense. They're more like risk takers. The green

658
00:35:10,280 --> 00:35:12,880
Speaker 1: people are more like strategic. I mean, this is a

659
00:35:13,040 --> 00:35:15,520
Speaker 1: major le down. If I had like pictures of people

660
00:35:15,680 --> 00:35:18,279
Speaker 1: I do better like individually. But I feel like you

661
00:35:18,360 --> 00:35:21,719
Speaker 1: need to stay away from green. No more greens. You

662
00:35:22,400 --> 00:35:24,200
Speaker 1: just a little bit more about red. Like what's a

663
00:35:24,280 --> 00:35:27,480
Speaker 1: red like characteristics like can you say, can you like

664
00:35:27,640 --> 00:35:30,800
Speaker 1: name anyone like off the top of your head, celebrity wise,

665
00:35:30,840 --> 00:35:34,359
Speaker 1: and it's like a red red like a red person. Yeah, okay, yeah,

666
00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:36,560
Speaker 1: that's a good one. Um oh my god, Like this

667
00:35:36,760 --> 00:35:38,320
Speaker 1: is no lie. The first person that came to my

668
00:35:38,400 --> 00:35:41,680
Speaker 1: mind was Judge Duty, like I know this time, but

669
00:35:41,960 --> 00:35:44,520
Speaker 1: that's the first thing I was thinking of. Like red

670
00:35:44,640 --> 00:35:48,480
Speaker 1: people's saying you alwaysn't read. But this is a terrible example.

671
00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:52,880
Speaker 1: Like Ari from last season, Ari Aluin, I'll never be

672
00:35:52,920 --> 00:35:55,479
Speaker 1: able to say his last name like he was red,

673
00:35:57,400 --> 00:36:00,279
Speaker 1: but he's like red purple and that's like narcissist kind

674
00:36:00,320 --> 00:36:03,680
Speaker 1: of energy to get a lot of red people are

675
00:36:03,800 --> 00:36:07,560
Speaker 1: like in charge like let me, Um, you know, I'm

676
00:36:07,600 --> 00:36:10,480
Speaker 1: not gonna network my way and I'm going to be

677
00:36:10,600 --> 00:36:14,080
Speaker 1: the person people have to network too, Like, um, what's

678
00:36:14,120 --> 00:36:16,319
Speaker 1: another are you saying? Like are they like the hard

679
00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:20,640
Speaker 1: workers who like build their being there themselves, like they

680
00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:24,239
Speaker 1: don't feel their name themselves. Yeah, like in your in

681
00:36:24,320 --> 00:36:27,600
Speaker 1: the entertainment world, it's mostly green people and like the

682
00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:30,440
Speaker 1: quote real quote world, it's a lot of red guys.

683
00:36:30,719 --> 00:36:34,040
Speaker 1: Like they're usually like um uh yeah, like I do

684
00:36:34,160 --> 00:36:36,200
Speaker 1: see a lot of fire fights by your men, like

685
00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:38,839
Speaker 1: police office. Like those people are red, like I see

686
00:36:39,600 --> 00:36:42,640
Speaker 1: um a lot of like like business business owners, like

687
00:36:42,719 --> 00:36:45,480
Speaker 1: they own a chain of whatever, Like they're red, Like

688
00:36:45,640 --> 00:36:49,200
Speaker 1: that's the color. I feel like you need Rebecca's purposes,

689
00:36:49,640 --> 00:36:51,600
Speaker 1: Like I feel like you need somebody to kind of

690
00:36:51,680 --> 00:36:54,400
Speaker 1: just come in and like who do you off your

691
00:36:54,440 --> 00:36:57,840
Speaker 1: feet and protect you and just be like front. Usually

692
00:36:57,840 --> 00:36:59,480
Speaker 1: they're very up front, even though they can be a

693
00:36:59,520 --> 00:37:03,440
Speaker 1: little coop rolling, whereas green people are more like micromanaging,

694
00:37:03,520 --> 00:37:05,840
Speaker 1: which is different. Like green people will care. It's like

695
00:37:05,920 --> 00:37:08,160
Speaker 1: what are you wearing? Like green people getting out now?

696
00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:11,400
Speaker 1: Like what? Like I don't like that at all, you know,

697
00:37:11,680 --> 00:37:15,759
Speaker 1: he does. Not that I'm putting green people down. It's

698
00:37:15,840 --> 00:37:18,239
Speaker 1: just that I feel like, for you, Becca, you've got

699
00:37:18,360 --> 00:37:20,719
Speaker 1: to stay away from the green. Yeah. I think it's

700
00:37:20,760 --> 00:37:22,879
Speaker 1: like I don't think you're saying anything bad about people.

701
00:37:22,920 --> 00:37:25,640
Speaker 1: I think certain people don't mesh well. And I think

702
00:37:25,680 --> 00:37:28,239
Speaker 1: that's how I'm trying to explain, like some green people

703
00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:31,080
Speaker 1: like Dr Oz is green, you know, like some I'm

704
00:37:31,120 --> 00:37:35,200
Speaker 1: trying to think, like, um, you know, then Higgins was

705
00:37:35,360 --> 00:37:37,640
Speaker 1: really green, like he was really he was like green

706
00:37:37,719 --> 00:37:39,600
Speaker 1: and blue and that was like a whole other issue.

707
00:37:39,719 --> 00:37:43,000
Speaker 1: But like and then who else like Chris Souls, I'm

708
00:37:43,000 --> 00:37:47,080
Speaker 1: just thinking bad like for something like Chris was really green.

709
00:37:47,440 --> 00:37:52,680
Speaker 1: Like so they're kind of like ums won as you

710
00:37:52,800 --> 00:37:56,040
Speaker 1: start to see them, they start to shut down a

711
00:37:56,120 --> 00:37:59,000
Speaker 1: little bit. And with you, Becca, you always are going

712
00:37:59,040 --> 00:38:01,640
Speaker 1: to see somebody in side it out like there's people

713
00:38:01,719 --> 00:38:04,200
Speaker 1: can't have secrets from you. You're like a lie detector

714
00:38:05,480 --> 00:38:08,279
Speaker 1: for people. I've always felt like I had this like

715
00:38:08,360 --> 00:38:14,359
Speaker 1: a weird ability to like yeah, but I just thought

716
00:38:14,440 --> 00:38:18,200
Speaker 1: it was like what you'd like tell me everything about you,

717
00:38:18,320 --> 00:38:20,160
Speaker 1: like writting on your forehead, and these people just like

718
00:38:20,320 --> 00:38:24,640
Speaker 1: are like tell you everything when people try to lie

719
00:38:24,680 --> 00:38:30,480
Speaker 1: to me, I know. And even if yeah, it's an

720
00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:32,759
Speaker 1: energy thing you like you'll feel it when somebody's being

721
00:38:32,800 --> 00:38:35,200
Speaker 1: just honest and like you tn you to like you,

722
00:38:35,920 --> 00:38:39,399
Speaker 1: but you can handle a green person or a red

723
00:38:39,480 --> 00:38:41,759
Speaker 1: person like it doesn't matter so much because like you're

724
00:38:41,760 --> 00:38:44,640
Speaker 1: always going to be really not that you're not back

725
00:38:44,680 --> 00:38:47,120
Speaker 1: the but like you you're super independent, Like I feel

726
00:38:47,120 --> 00:38:50,120
Speaker 1: like you're always gonna need to have your own lights.

727
00:38:50,320 --> 00:38:53,160
Speaker 1: That's like super about. Like it's busy and it's you

728
00:38:53,360 --> 00:38:56,719
Speaker 1: and it's like there's identity that's like distinct, and a

729
00:38:56,840 --> 00:38:58,719
Speaker 1: green person would be good for you because they're the

730
00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:02,600
Speaker 1: same way usually so like they need it so like

731
00:39:02,760 --> 00:39:05,000
Speaker 1: it's it's like nobody will take it personally, if that

732
00:39:05,120 --> 00:39:06,560
Speaker 1: makes sense, you know. I like, you do your thing,

733
00:39:06,600 --> 00:39:08,160
Speaker 1: I'll do my thing. We'll meet for dinner. It's cool

734
00:39:08,239 --> 00:39:12,000
Speaker 1: you like that kind of a thing. Um, hi is

735
00:39:12,160 --> 00:39:16,879
Speaker 1: my pleasure. That's essentially what's happening here. If I see

736
00:39:16,920 --> 00:39:21,640
Speaker 1: any green like swap people, yeah, like just make sure

737
00:39:21,680 --> 00:39:24,160
Speaker 1: if they're green, that could get no part of it.

738
00:39:24,640 --> 00:39:29,239
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, well this is actually really really what's

739
00:39:29,280 --> 00:39:34,840
Speaker 1: the word I'm looking at spot on? Yeah, I'm lightning.

740
00:39:34,920 --> 00:39:37,560
Speaker 1: That's the word of lightening. What color is Tim Tebow?

741
00:39:38,000 --> 00:39:42,560
Speaker 1: Oh my god, he's green? He's green? You let me

742
00:39:42,640 --> 00:39:48,759
Speaker 1: say because yeah, yeah, I believe he's green. Um. Athletes

743
00:39:49,360 --> 00:39:54,279
Speaker 1: I notice are usually red, but the ones who like

744
00:39:55,160 --> 00:39:58,480
Speaker 1: make crazy names for themselves, like, um, who's the guy

745
00:39:58,600 --> 00:40:01,239
Speaker 1: on here? I am, I'm I'm being a girl right now.

746
00:40:01,520 --> 00:40:03,480
Speaker 1: Who's the one the quarterback guy that just lost the

747
00:40:03,480 --> 00:40:07,799
Speaker 1: Super Bowl? Tom Brady? Thank you? Okay, Like he's very

748
00:40:07,920 --> 00:40:12,799
Speaker 1: green and now they're very strategic, you know, like their

749
00:40:12,840 --> 00:40:14,719
Speaker 1: heads in the game, they're like, Okay, I do this,

750
00:40:14,880 --> 00:40:17,799
Speaker 1: I do that. Um. Also, like the Tim Tebow, he's

751
00:40:17,880 --> 00:40:21,200
Speaker 1: very strategic, like with his image, so he's really good

752
00:40:21,400 --> 00:40:24,760
Speaker 1: at like presenting himself different ways. Strategically. He's green purple,

753
00:40:25,120 --> 00:40:29,000
Speaker 1: so like he's he's um. He knows exactly how he's

754
00:40:29,040 --> 00:40:31,799
Speaker 1: coming off the people. He knows. He usually green people

755
00:40:31,840 --> 00:40:34,560
Speaker 1: do have like a global perspective on things, like they

756
00:40:34,600 --> 00:40:36,200
Speaker 1: want to touch a lot of people all at the

757
00:40:36,280 --> 00:40:39,600
Speaker 1: same time, Like you'll see them in high influence situations.

758
00:40:39,640 --> 00:40:43,600
Speaker 1: So that's that's interesting. All right, Well, thank you so much,

759
00:40:43,840 --> 00:40:48,640
Speaker 1: really really appreciate the time. Thank you for all Thank you.

760
00:40:49,120 --> 00:40:51,480
Speaker 1: Will you tell everyone your website so they can check

761
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Speaker 1: check you out. I'm people are gonna be curious about this.

762
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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and I love doing my little write ups

763
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Speaker 1: on auras and celebrities on my Instagram Anikaela and my

764
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Speaker 1: website isakla dot com. Amazing. Thank you so much. It

765
00:41:05,920 --> 00:41:11,200
Speaker 1: was so fun. Thank you so much. Bye bye, dude. Wow,

766
00:41:12,520 --> 00:41:15,520
Speaker 1: I'll look at it later. But you're less skeptic now.

767
00:41:16,120 --> 00:41:21,719
Speaker 1: Tania is independent though. That was like and like it's

768
00:41:21,760 --> 00:41:26,120
Speaker 1: interesting because I do feel like I'm independent, super independent

769
00:41:26,400 --> 00:41:29,400
Speaker 1: but um by yourself. I mean that's independent. Yea, you

770
00:41:29,480 --> 00:41:32,080
Speaker 1: are independent in certain ways. Yeah, like could you could

771
00:41:32,120 --> 00:41:35,520
Speaker 1: throw me into a party by myself and thrive? But

772
00:41:35,600 --> 00:41:38,239
Speaker 1: I enjoy spending time with people, like I really do

773
00:41:38,440 --> 00:41:42,840
Speaker 1: enjoy like like, yeah, I think I'm not glory. So

774
00:41:43,040 --> 00:41:45,160
Speaker 1: I'm like a little bit stressed about that. If I was, like,

775
00:41:45,280 --> 00:41:47,879
Speaker 1: I don't know. She was giving you like an example, right,

776
00:41:48,560 --> 00:41:51,719
Speaker 1: independent doesn't mean loners. So you are independent? Am I

777
00:41:51,840 --> 00:41:58,319
Speaker 1: a loner? You're independent? Definitely independent? But in my independent loan,

778
00:41:58,480 --> 00:42:01,920
Speaker 1: you enjoy a loan. Yeah, you're a hint of a loner,

779
00:42:02,760 --> 00:42:06,839
Speaker 1: but it's because you enjoy it. Right. That was interesting. Yeah,

780
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Speaker 1: I liked that, dude. Yellow. I was like, I'm so

781
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Speaker 1: yellow in my head yellow. I think of you as yellow,

782
00:42:14,800 --> 00:42:16,480
Speaker 1: But I think of you as yellow because of like

783
00:42:16,760 --> 00:42:20,000
Speaker 1: sunshine and like happiness and like that kind of thing,

784
00:42:20,160 --> 00:42:23,359
Speaker 1: not necessarily like being stepped on, Like I'm the gum

785
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786
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787
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Speaker 1: when she started describing it, I was like, how you

788
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789
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Speaker 1: into somebody treating me like which is so bad. Yeah, yeah,

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842
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Speaker 1: In this book is seriously amazing. It gives you a

843
00:45:57,719 --> 00:46:00,040
Speaker 1: new inside in today's dating world, changed your perspect of

844
00:46:00,160 --> 00:46:02,239
Speaker 1: its faith based. At the end of the book, the

845
00:46:02,280 --> 00:46:04,479
Speaker 1: author proposes taking a year off from dating to become

846
00:46:04,520 --> 00:46:07,440
Speaker 1: the person you're looking for is looking for? Do you

847
00:46:07,520 --> 00:46:09,759
Speaker 1: get that? To become the person that you're looking for

848
00:46:10,280 --> 00:46:12,640
Speaker 1: is looking for? I'm really wanting to try this year off,

849
00:46:12,680 --> 00:46:14,880
Speaker 1: and I'm a little hesitant. I wanted to get some

850
00:46:14,960 --> 00:46:16,839
Speaker 1: input from y'all on things you all do to stay

851
00:46:16,880 --> 00:46:19,839
Speaker 1: preoccupied when in a single season of life. But also

852
00:46:20,560 --> 00:46:22,360
Speaker 1: what do you do to work on yourself, your character,

853
00:46:22,440 --> 00:46:25,640
Speaker 1: your passions, your professions, self reflection, all this stuff. She'd

854
00:46:25,680 --> 00:46:27,400
Speaker 1: love to hear about this stuff. She says, thanks for

855
00:46:27,480 --> 00:46:30,600
Speaker 1: creating such an inspiring podcast. Seriously, a breath of fresh

856
00:46:30,680 --> 00:46:33,440
Speaker 1: air for young women everywhere. And Becca, I would happily

857
00:46:33,520 --> 00:46:37,440
Speaker 1: forego the year off for your brother. Seriously, he seems perfect.

858
00:46:37,640 --> 00:46:40,840
Speaker 1: He is that's so cute. Well he is in Texas. Brianna,

859
00:46:43,600 --> 00:46:45,239
Speaker 1: this is Yeah. I feel like you can really speak

860
00:46:45,280 --> 00:46:47,560
Speaker 1: to this because you did this right. So I did

861
00:46:47,600 --> 00:46:49,920
Speaker 1: it in a little bit of a different intention because

862
00:46:49,920 --> 00:46:52,000
Speaker 1: I did it because every guy was going on a

863
00:46:52,120 --> 00:46:55,000
Speaker 1: date with I was putting the pressure on, is this

864
00:46:55,080 --> 00:46:56,880
Speaker 1: guy going to be my husband? So I said, if

865
00:46:56,880 --> 00:46:59,839
Speaker 1: I committed being single for a full year, I'm at single,

866
00:47:00,000 --> 00:47:01,960
Speaker 1: not in a relationship, but I was still dating. Oh

867
00:47:02,040 --> 00:47:05,360
Speaker 1: that's right. You would go on dates without expectation, without expectations,

868
00:47:05,400 --> 00:47:07,480
Speaker 1: and it helped me a lot because I literally would

869
00:47:07,480 --> 00:47:10,040
Speaker 1: get approached by a guy. And if you like, uh,

870
00:47:10,400 --> 00:47:12,719
Speaker 1: the one guy that was like young, he's twenty five,

871
00:47:12,760 --> 00:47:14,600
Speaker 1: and immediately I would write him off like that, I'm

872
00:47:14,640 --> 00:47:16,480
Speaker 1: not going to marry this guy. He's too young for me,

873
00:47:16,800 --> 00:47:19,120
Speaker 1: blah blah. And then I was like, why not, like

874
00:47:19,600 --> 00:47:21,120
Speaker 1: get to know somebody, you know what I mean, and

875
00:47:21,160 --> 00:47:23,759
Speaker 1: see if it goes somewhere, and you know, take that

876
00:47:23,920 --> 00:47:26,319
Speaker 1: pressure off. And I think it helped me a lot.

877
00:47:27,080 --> 00:47:31,279
Speaker 1: You're looking at the end instead of just drink of

878
00:47:31,280 --> 00:47:34,319
Speaker 1: a straw. You don't like when you think by I'm

879
00:47:34,360 --> 00:47:36,680
Speaker 1: never going to marry you, not worth my time, totally

880
00:47:36,960 --> 00:47:41,600
Speaker 1: drinking out of a straw. Yeah, oh oh my gosh.

881
00:47:42,040 --> 00:47:43,800
Speaker 1: Like when he gets a drink, like you know you

882
00:47:43,920 --> 00:47:46,560
Speaker 1: should like pull the straw back and drink it like

883
00:47:46,640 --> 00:47:49,880
Speaker 1: a man. Yeah, I mean, not sipping it like you

884
00:47:49,920 --> 00:47:54,680
Speaker 1: sipping like the beach in Hawaii like, but sometimes like

885
00:47:54,920 --> 00:48:00,719
Speaker 1: drinking through a straw keeps your teeth white unhealthy. I'm

886
00:48:00,760 --> 00:48:04,000
Speaker 1: pro straw don't look like. I love straw. So I'm like,

887
00:48:04,040 --> 00:48:06,040
Speaker 1: I don't I see someone wanting to use one. I

888
00:48:06,160 --> 00:48:08,080
Speaker 1: get what you're saying. However, I don't know if it'd

889
00:48:08,080 --> 00:48:10,279
Speaker 1: be a deal breaker for me. Yeah, So I don't

890
00:48:10,320 --> 00:48:13,200
Speaker 1: know about like taking an off of dating completely, So

891
00:48:13,440 --> 00:48:15,440
Speaker 1: like if somebody asked her out, would she say no?

892
00:48:15,640 --> 00:48:18,200
Speaker 1: I think that's a good advice, though, Oh, I think

893
00:48:18,320 --> 00:48:19,920
Speaker 1: what you're doing is giving good advice. I think I

894
00:48:19,960 --> 00:48:22,840
Speaker 1: think if someone asks you out, you say yes, but

895
00:48:23,000 --> 00:48:24,520
Speaker 1: knowing you're going to be single, that this is not

896
00:48:24,640 --> 00:48:26,320
Speaker 1: going to be the person you marry. Probably you're just

897
00:48:26,400 --> 00:48:28,440
Speaker 1: gonna get to know this person a little better. That's

898
00:48:28,440 --> 00:48:30,600
Speaker 1: a better attitude to have going into any date. I

899
00:48:30,640 --> 00:48:33,920
Speaker 1: think I'm interested in wondering what the book says though

900
00:48:33,960 --> 00:48:36,280
Speaker 1: about it that has her inspired to do this, because

901
00:48:36,400 --> 00:48:38,359
Speaker 1: clearly there was something in it that she's like, wait,

902
00:48:38,400 --> 00:48:40,720
Speaker 1: I want to do that, you know. But I also

903
00:48:40,800 --> 00:48:44,080
Speaker 1: think sometimes you meet people and you don't expect to

904
00:48:44,200 --> 00:48:47,040
Speaker 1: meet them, and they come out of nowhere, and sometimes

905
00:48:47,760 --> 00:48:50,399
Speaker 1: like you plan for things, like you plan and date

906
00:48:50,480 --> 00:48:52,800
Speaker 1: for a year, but then someone might come along and

907
00:48:52,920 --> 00:48:55,200
Speaker 1: change everything. So I think you have to be prepared

908
00:48:55,280 --> 00:48:58,360
Speaker 1: for maybe that happening, and like maybe you think about

909
00:48:58,400 --> 00:49:01,640
Speaker 1: it more before you just start dating them, or you know,

910
00:49:01,760 --> 00:49:03,960
Speaker 1: maybe there's more thought put into it. But I think

911
00:49:04,040 --> 00:49:09,279
Speaker 1: that you are optimistic about what could happen in that time.

912
00:49:10,000 --> 00:49:12,600
Speaker 1: But I should read this. I know I'm interested. And

913
00:49:12,719 --> 00:49:19,840
Speaker 1: I also love the the concept of being like being ready,

914
00:49:20,560 --> 00:49:23,400
Speaker 1: like being a for when you meet someone, so that

915
00:49:23,520 --> 00:49:26,759
Speaker 1: you're not looking to be fulfilled by them, like you're

916
00:49:26,800 --> 00:49:28,920
Speaker 1: already a complete person by the time you meet them.

917
00:49:29,000 --> 00:49:31,719
Speaker 1: Like I'm all, I'm very big on that. So this

918
00:49:31,920 --> 00:49:34,600
Speaker 1: is interesting and I'm like curious to see how this goes,

919
00:49:34,800 --> 00:49:36,440
Speaker 1: and I want to read the book too. I think,

920
00:49:36,600 --> 00:49:39,960
Speaker 1: for um, for me, when I got out of my

921
00:49:40,520 --> 00:49:44,560
Speaker 1: serious long relationship, I um, I feel like I lost

922
00:49:44,680 --> 00:49:47,040
Speaker 1: a lot of like myself, Like I was so anxious

923
00:49:47,040 --> 00:49:50,080
Speaker 1: about going to like a wedding by myself, and like

924
00:49:50,239 --> 00:49:52,680
Speaker 1: I had planned so much and I did everything for

925
00:49:52,920 --> 00:49:54,960
Speaker 1: this one man, Like I didn't even know what I

926
00:49:55,200 --> 00:49:58,200
Speaker 1: enjoyed doing anymore. That makes sense, Like I knew what

927
00:49:58,239 --> 00:50:00,440
Speaker 1: I enjoyed doing, but I was so wrapped up in

928
00:50:00,480 --> 00:50:02,799
Speaker 1: this relationship that I lost so much sight of things.

929
00:50:02,840 --> 00:50:04,279
Speaker 1: And I think that it's like a lesson I had

930
00:50:04,320 --> 00:50:07,080
Speaker 1: to learn because now I'll never I'll never make that

931
00:50:07,160 --> 00:50:10,920
Speaker 1: same mistake again. Yeah, I think it's very interesting. I

932
00:50:11,080 --> 00:50:13,600
Speaker 1: um so. I think by like taking your really developing

933
00:50:13,680 --> 00:50:16,840
Speaker 1: like yeah, like self reflection, like what you want to do,

934
00:50:16,920 --> 00:50:19,040
Speaker 1: what your passion is what like what you like to

935
00:50:19,080 --> 00:50:20,480
Speaker 1: do in your free time. I think that's the right

936
00:50:20,600 --> 00:50:24,120
Speaker 1: good thing to do. Yeah, excellent. Here's our next one

937
00:50:24,320 --> 00:50:27,799
Speaker 1: from an anonymous emailer. I think I know the answer

938
00:50:27,800 --> 00:50:29,239
Speaker 1: to this one, but I think it'll be fun. May

939
00:50:29,320 --> 00:50:31,520
Speaker 1: being found of the podcast listen every Monday morning. But

940
00:50:31,600 --> 00:50:33,400
Speaker 1: I recently met a guy in need some dating advice.

941
00:50:33,480 --> 00:50:34,600
Speaker 1: I met him a wee could go at a bar.

942
00:50:34,680 --> 00:50:36,920
Speaker 1: We hit it off and I was definitely attracted to him.

943
00:50:37,440 --> 00:50:39,879
Speaker 1: We exchanged numbers and we're texting for a couple of days,

944
00:50:39,880 --> 00:50:42,719
Speaker 1: and he wanted we wanted to hang out, and he

945
00:50:42,880 --> 00:50:47,200
Speaker 1: suggested going to the gym. His exact words were, wanted

946
00:50:47,239 --> 00:50:49,560
Speaker 1: to the gym tomorrow night. I just feel like this

947
00:50:49,680 --> 00:50:52,120
Speaker 1: is a decent data idea for some reason, that's the quote.

948
00:50:52,920 --> 00:50:54,520
Speaker 1: I didn't know how to respond to this because I've

949
00:50:54,560 --> 00:50:56,480
Speaker 1: never been asked on a date like this. I can't

950
00:50:56,480 --> 00:50:59,839
Speaker 1: tell if he's trying to be creative or different some back.

951
00:51:00,000 --> 00:51:02,319
Speaker 1: And I'm twenty three, he's twenty seven. We didn't hook

952
00:51:02,360 --> 00:51:04,480
Speaker 1: operating in the night. We just exchanged numbers and we've

953
00:51:04,520 --> 00:51:06,400
Speaker 1: been trying to get to know each other. Thank you, Becca,

954
00:51:06,480 --> 00:51:08,920
Speaker 1: Tania Mark, Amy Easton can't wait to hear back from you.

955
00:51:09,320 --> 00:51:12,280
Speaker 1: I'd run for the hills from this guy. I'm just kidding.

956
00:51:13,400 --> 00:51:15,480
Speaker 1: I don't like I'm just saying because I don't I

957
00:51:15,560 --> 00:51:18,520
Speaker 1: don't go to the gym, so I don't like it either.

958
00:51:18,560 --> 00:51:21,440
Speaker 1: Are you kidding? If you can't plan a day? I

959
00:51:21,560 --> 00:51:23,640
Speaker 1: just feel like this is a decent date idea for

960
00:51:23,760 --> 00:51:27,960
Speaker 1: some reasons, It's no, it's how can I still get

961
00:51:28,000 --> 00:51:30,320
Speaker 1: my gym in for the day, try to see you

962
00:51:30,800 --> 00:51:33,239
Speaker 1: and make it all work on my time, in my

963
00:51:33,440 --> 00:51:37,040
Speaker 1: convenience by I don't like that for a day, especially

964
00:51:37,120 --> 00:51:39,720
Speaker 1: you're just getting to know each other. Like, I'm sorry,

965
00:51:39,840 --> 00:51:42,319
Speaker 1: but I personally am not someone who looks cute at

966
00:51:42,360 --> 00:51:43,920
Speaker 1: the gym, Like I'm not trying to go to the

967
00:51:44,000 --> 00:51:48,000
Speaker 1: gym and be like, oh, let's lift some weights. It

968
00:51:48,080 --> 00:51:50,000
Speaker 1: sounds like, hey, you want to go to the launcherman

969
00:51:50,000 --> 00:51:53,120
Speaker 1: and do some launch date idea. For some reason, that's

970
00:51:53,160 --> 00:51:55,520
Speaker 1: exactly how I feel about the gym to east and

971
00:51:55,640 --> 00:51:59,160
Speaker 1: I compared to do it. Are we always wonder on

972
00:51:59,239 --> 00:52:02,359
Speaker 1: the show could guy be less invested in these things?

973
00:52:02,560 --> 00:52:05,879
Speaker 1: And the guys continue to lower the bar and he's like, well,

974
00:52:05,920 --> 00:52:07,759
Speaker 1: I'm on my way to the gym if you want

975
00:52:07,800 --> 00:52:12,960
Speaker 1: to come along, and I want like the girls that

976
00:52:13,120 --> 00:52:14,880
Speaker 1: listen to our podcast that I read about on the

977
00:52:14,920 --> 00:52:18,279
Speaker 1: Facebook group and send an emails like I genuinely think

978
00:52:18,520 --> 00:52:21,360
Speaker 1: y'all are so amazing and so to even have to

979
00:52:22,000 --> 00:52:25,040
Speaker 1: question if this is okay, Like you are so much

980
00:52:25,120 --> 00:52:27,080
Speaker 1: better than this, Like you deserve a guy who's like

981
00:52:27,320 --> 00:52:29,480
Speaker 1: I would love to take you out, Like, let's have

982
00:52:29,560 --> 00:52:32,200
Speaker 1: a fun night together. What do you like to do? Oh?

983
00:52:32,320 --> 00:52:35,120
Speaker 1: You like sushi. I have an amazing sushi place I'd

984
00:52:35,160 --> 00:52:36,680
Speaker 1: love to take you to. You know what this is?

985
00:52:37,040 --> 00:52:39,160
Speaker 1: This is a fifty percent off coupon. You're giving this.

986
00:52:41,560 --> 00:52:43,120
Speaker 1: It is if you go out with him, you're giving

987
00:52:43,160 --> 00:52:45,560
Speaker 1: him a cop and you don't want that. I'm going

988
00:52:45,640 --> 00:52:47,759
Speaker 1: to be in the Frozen Foods Island Ralph for about

989
00:52:47,800 --> 00:52:50,320
Speaker 1: ten minutes later if you want to be there. Honestly,

990
00:52:50,840 --> 00:52:53,319
Speaker 1: we're driving on Fairfax. You're going to wave as I drive.

991
00:52:53,760 --> 00:52:58,439
Speaker 1: Forget it? Well, I have something, Oh yeah, way threw

992
00:52:58,520 --> 00:53:01,880
Speaker 1: it to y'all. You're gonna see if any um. I

993
00:53:02,080 --> 00:53:04,640
Speaker 1: was just talking to our Britt and we were talking

994
00:53:04,680 --> 00:53:08,880
Speaker 1: about dating apps and bumble and so on. Bumble for

995
00:53:09,000 --> 00:53:10,640
Speaker 1: those of you who know you know this, but for

996
00:53:10,680 --> 00:53:12,520
Speaker 1: those of you who don't know, the girl is in charge.

997
00:53:12,560 --> 00:53:15,000
Speaker 1: So once you match, the girl has to reach out first.

998
00:53:15,080 --> 00:53:18,279
Speaker 1: The guy can't. He literally cannot make the first move. Um.

999
00:53:19,200 --> 00:53:20,600
Speaker 1: But we were talking about it and she was like, yeah,

1000
00:53:20,640 --> 00:53:22,880
Speaker 1: my friend was telling me or I said, what's your

1001
00:53:22,920 --> 00:53:25,360
Speaker 1: opening line on bumble? Like I'm so curious to know

1002
00:53:25,440 --> 00:53:26,959
Speaker 1: what people say, like do you try to be funny

1003
00:53:27,040 --> 00:53:29,040
Speaker 1: or sarcastic? And she's like, I literally just send the

1004
00:53:29,719 --> 00:53:32,000
Speaker 1: emoji with the girl like with her hand up like hi,

1005
00:53:32,280 --> 00:53:34,879
Speaker 1: but it's no words or anything. So almost I'm saying

1006
00:53:35,080 --> 00:53:37,120
Speaker 1: I'm putting it out there, but he's making the first

1007
00:53:37,200 --> 00:53:39,239
Speaker 1: move as far as what is said. And then she

1008
00:53:39,360 --> 00:53:44,160
Speaker 1: said she never asked questions, so like if he's saying like, hey,

1009
00:53:44,239 --> 00:53:46,600
Speaker 1: what did you do today, she's like, oh, I had

1010
00:53:46,680 --> 00:53:48,600
Speaker 1: work and then I went to the gym and then

1011
00:53:48,640 --> 00:53:50,680
Speaker 1: I went home and had a glass of wine, but

1012
00:53:50,840 --> 00:53:53,520
Speaker 1: never says like what did you do? And got yeah,

1013
00:53:53,680 --> 00:53:55,560
Speaker 1: she said she did it. And it was like I

1014
00:53:55,680 --> 00:53:57,520
Speaker 1: just had the guy like eating out the pull of

1015
00:53:57,560 --> 00:54:00,160
Speaker 1: her hand because it's like I always end of a

1016
00:54:00,280 --> 00:54:04,480
Speaker 1: question every single message, because your goal is to keep

1017
00:54:04,520 --> 00:54:08,400
Speaker 1: the conversation going. Goal is to keep kind of a

1018
00:54:08,480 --> 00:54:12,439
Speaker 1: status situation, the upper hand in the conversation, making him

1019
00:54:12,600 --> 00:54:14,800
Speaker 1: ask the question kind of jump through some hoo. And

1020
00:54:14,840 --> 00:54:17,359
Speaker 1: I wonder if justin I don't know if in real

1021
00:54:17,480 --> 00:54:19,560
Speaker 1: life obviously, if you're on a date face to face,

1022
00:54:19,680 --> 00:54:23,600
Speaker 1: you're like, I think it's polite to say, oh, what

1023
00:54:23,719 --> 00:54:26,680
Speaker 1: are you doing? But I wonder if on these apps

1024
00:54:26,800 --> 00:54:29,800
Speaker 1: to have the interest or to make things different or

1025
00:54:29,880 --> 00:54:32,120
Speaker 1: maybe a little more challenging from the next girl that

1026
00:54:32,239 --> 00:54:35,000
Speaker 1: he might match with. If this is a but think

1027
00:54:35,040 --> 00:54:36,719
Speaker 1: about it if he so, she says that I went

1028
00:54:36,760 --> 00:54:38,040
Speaker 1: to the gym and then went home, and then she

1029
00:54:38,080 --> 00:54:41,080
Speaker 1: says what did you do? Then he says, oh, I

1030
00:54:41,200 --> 00:54:42,920
Speaker 1: went to the class and I did this, and then

1031
00:54:42,960 --> 00:54:45,560
Speaker 1: I watched the Game of Thrones. Now it's on her

1032
00:54:45,800 --> 00:54:48,560
Speaker 1: to keep it going right right. I love keeping the

1033
00:54:48,640 --> 00:54:51,800
Speaker 1: ball on his cart, Dude, I know it's a game changer.

1034
00:54:52,320 --> 00:54:55,680
Speaker 1: This just rocked my world because every message I sent

1035
00:54:55,800 --> 00:55:00,040
Speaker 1: has a question what do you do? The difficult? A

1036
00:55:00,120 --> 00:55:03,320
Speaker 1: breaking Oh my gosh, what's your feeling? Do you like

1037
00:55:03,440 --> 00:55:07,680
Speaker 1: your I mean God's name. Yeah, I'm like the interviewer

1038
00:55:07,840 --> 00:55:12,160
Speaker 1: on isn't I know? I'm fascinated. So I'm curious to see, like,

1039
00:55:12,360 --> 00:55:16,239
Speaker 1: what what happens if we use this tactic? Yeah, that's

1040
00:55:16,239 --> 00:55:18,760
Speaker 1: a good one. Actually, I is in the building, building

1041
00:55:18,840 --> 00:55:21,480
Speaker 1: and get you on the micro quick. Hey, can you

1042
00:55:21,520 --> 00:55:24,640
Speaker 1: get on that micro quick? It's been I know. I

1043
00:55:24,719 --> 00:55:27,000
Speaker 1: feel like I was seeing you like for a while

1044
00:55:27,120 --> 00:55:30,520
Speaker 1: and then I just haven't seen your face. Also going

1045
00:55:30,600 --> 00:55:33,239
Speaker 1: to see you guys. I don't know how she wants

1046
00:55:33,239 --> 00:55:35,719
Speaker 1: to go to all this weekend. I'm not gonna lie.

1047
00:55:35,760 --> 00:55:38,640
Speaker 1: I had some It was like weird between having fomo

1048
00:55:38,800 --> 00:55:41,400
Speaker 1: and then being so happy I wasn't. There was like extreme.

1049
00:55:42,280 --> 00:55:45,160
Speaker 1: I text you to be like, how happy are you

1050
00:55:45,320 --> 00:55:50,560
Speaker 1: right now? I was just like Saudia loves socializing constantly though.

1051
00:55:50,680 --> 00:55:53,280
Speaker 1: That's the thing she like, even if it's work related,

1052
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Speaker 1: she loves it. Yeah, he doesn't get spent. I wish

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Speaker 1: I think in my head, I wish I would have

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Speaker 1: the pool, late out during the day, gone to the

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Speaker 1: show when I wanted to see someone and not done

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Speaker 1: like the work and the parties and stuff. I think

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Speaker 1: that was where I felt like I missed out a

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Speaker 1: little bit. But it's okay. I almost literally almost did.

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Speaker 1: I really did. What did you do? You were like

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Speaker 1: to where were you? Um? I went to batting cages. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: there's this place in Sherman oak because that has an

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Speaker 1: arcade as batcades so much fun. So I kind of

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Speaker 1: killed at the softball last time I went. I didn't

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Speaker 1: hit a ball, and then this weekend just like boom,

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Speaker 1: have you been practicing just going by yourself bucket a

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Speaker 1: ball Sherman Oaks. Look at that. I said it was

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Speaker 1: because I was wearing a sundress and it was allowing

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Speaker 1: me full moving at my bachelor party. So the castle

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Speaker 1: has been around what you're saying, Kanya, Um, I do

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Speaker 1: Coachella over the weekend because it has like a yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: on Thursday, I had to light probably how many candles

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Speaker 1: do you think I had? It smells like a like

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Speaker 1: a candle bomb in my loving life. She was like,

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Speaker 1: use it even once. You don't get me started on

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Speaker 1: that one lotion to oh my gosh um Okay, So

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Speaker 1: just quick. To the Facebook groups scrubbing in with Becca

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00:59:33,280 --> 00:59:35,200
Speaker 1: Tilly on Facebook, a lot of stuff they want to

1118
00:59:35,240 --> 00:59:40,160
Speaker 1: know if Becca and Dean or an item not an item,

1119
00:59:40,200 --> 00:59:43,000
Speaker 1: And I would just like to say I'm about to

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Speaker 1: go on a little rent right now before we wrap up.

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Speaker 1: Please do because if I think you're still going to

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00:59:46,400 --> 00:59:48,000
Speaker 1: say what I think you're gonna say, I'm gonna jump

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Speaker 1: on it. Okay. Dean is one of my favorite people

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00:59:51,920 --> 00:59:54,680
Speaker 1: that I know. I love him so much. He is

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Speaker 1: not only he is, I will say, one of the

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00:59:57,760 --> 01:00:00,000
Speaker 1: most stunningly beautiful men I've ever seen in my entire

1127
01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:02,880
Speaker 1: of life. But he has the sweetest soul in such

1128
01:00:02,920 --> 01:00:05,960
Speaker 1: an amazing heart and so kind and everyone that meets him,

1129
01:00:06,320 --> 01:00:09,480
Speaker 1: I feel like, feels this way about And so for

1130
01:00:09,640 --> 01:00:12,280
Speaker 1: me to have a friend that people bash because he

1131
01:00:12,600 --> 01:00:15,480
Speaker 1: tried to have a relationship on TV that didn't work out,

1132
01:00:15,960 --> 01:00:18,680
Speaker 1: I don't think it's fair to judge someone based on that.

1133
01:00:18,880 --> 01:00:21,280
Speaker 1: I will get the same mess because I saw him

1134
01:00:21,280 --> 01:00:22,320
Speaker 1: a lot. I spent a lot of time with him

1135
01:00:22,320 --> 01:00:25,280
Speaker 1: actually Coachella this weekend, and I was posting videos and

1136
01:00:25,280 --> 01:00:26,920
Speaker 1: I was getting the same thing. I was getting messages

1137
01:00:26,920 --> 01:00:29,320
Speaker 1: of people saying, like, really mean things, and I was

1138
01:00:29,440 --> 01:00:33,960
Speaker 1: going to town because first of all, it's so not

1139
01:00:34,200 --> 01:00:36,960
Speaker 1: okay to just say that about somebody. First of all,

1140
01:00:36,960 --> 01:00:38,760
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, we all like judge. We know, we

1141
01:00:38,840 --> 01:00:42,200
Speaker 1: all talked about celebrity life and whatever. But he is

1142
01:00:42,960 --> 01:00:46,080
Speaker 1: so kind and he like lights up a room like

1143
01:00:46,240 --> 01:00:48,160
Speaker 1: I'll never forget. Like you know, a lot of people

1144
01:00:48,200 --> 01:00:50,000
Speaker 1: coming in out of these hallways and like they don't

1145
01:00:50,040 --> 01:00:53,080
Speaker 1: necessarily say hi to everybody. Dean's one of those people

1146
01:00:53,160 --> 01:00:56,280
Speaker 1: that literally says hi to everybody. He makes people feel included,

1147
01:00:56,440 --> 01:00:59,360
Speaker 1: he makes people smile, and it just breaks my heart

1148
01:00:59,400 --> 01:01:02,520
Speaker 1: that he's getting me. I'm sure he's probably getting gnarly message.

1149
01:01:02,640 --> 01:01:05,560
Speaker 1: That's the craziest thing. People can like villainize somebody for

1150
01:01:05,760 --> 01:01:10,800
Speaker 1: a relationship ending, like for a relationship ending. And I

1151
01:01:10,840 --> 01:01:14,320
Speaker 1: feel like I'm missing something though, because after out of

1152
01:01:14,480 --> 01:01:18,200
Speaker 1: all the Bachelor contestants, Dean gets it the worst because

1153
01:01:18,280 --> 01:01:21,520
Speaker 1: he's just the best and people need to know him

1154
01:01:21,560 --> 01:01:24,160
Speaker 1: in order to get that. And maybe maybe there's a

1155
01:01:24,240 --> 01:01:27,080
Speaker 1: stigma because he is so good looking. They're like, oh,

1156
01:01:27,160 --> 01:01:29,520
Speaker 1: he's good looking, and they want they almost want to

1157
01:01:29,560 --> 01:01:31,760
Speaker 1: come up with something bad to say. That's how I

1158
01:01:31,840 --> 01:01:34,800
Speaker 1: feel too, But let me just say, l you haters,

1159
01:01:34,840 --> 01:01:37,520
Speaker 1: if you met Dean in person, your mind would change.

1160
01:01:37,600 --> 01:01:40,880
Speaker 1: That's how I feel about. I agree, and I'm not

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01:01:41,080 --> 01:01:43,280
Speaker 1: standing for it. If you're going to message me, don't

1162
01:01:43,320 --> 01:01:45,840
Speaker 1: message me these things. I literally I respond. I've been

1163
01:01:45,880 --> 01:01:48,760
Speaker 1: responding and like going like really back like back at

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01:01:48,800 --> 01:01:52,240
Speaker 1: them with it. Oh I can't. I can't when people

1165
01:01:52,280 --> 01:01:53,920
Speaker 1: send me like I said, that's not me, So why

1166
01:01:53,960 --> 01:01:56,640
Speaker 1: are you sending me purple things like message your friend

1167
01:01:56,680 --> 01:02:00,360
Speaker 1: about it? Don't message me who is his friend about it?

1168
01:02:00,440 --> 01:02:02,600
Speaker 1: Like it's just so rude and consider like I would

1169
01:02:02,600 --> 01:02:05,480
Speaker 1: never message you about your friend. I don't know that.

1170
01:02:05,560 --> 01:02:07,560
Speaker 1: I don't like them. I weirdly got a lot from

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01:02:07,640 --> 01:02:09,840
Speaker 1: the chain smoker guy, Remember the one that just cheating

1172
01:02:09,840 --> 01:02:11,920
Speaker 1: on his girlfriend. I had so many d m s

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01:02:11,960 --> 01:02:15,200
Speaker 1: of people being like, like, just saying the nastiest stuff

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01:02:15,200 --> 01:02:17,560
Speaker 1: about him. I'm like, that guy is not my friend.

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01:02:17,640 --> 01:02:20,760
Speaker 1: But second of all, I'm not gonna crucify somebody for

1176
01:02:20,840 --> 01:02:23,360
Speaker 1: making a mistake like he cheated on his girlfriend. I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't advertate nothing of I'm like, yeah, So anyways,

1178
01:02:29,520 --> 01:02:33,040
Speaker 1: that was my rant. Okay, So there we go. Who

1179
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Speaker 1: is Ethan Thompson. He's somebody verified on Instagram and he

1180
01:02:36,320 --> 01:02:38,200
Speaker 1: was all over your stuff this weekend and people are

1181
01:02:38,200 --> 01:02:42,960
Speaker 1: a buzz. Ethan Thompson is the lead singer of Ocean

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Speaker 1: Park Standoff the Van, you know the van. I need

1183
01:02:46,840 --> 01:02:54,360
Speaker 1: some good news, baby's gone crazy. Good news, baby, give

1184
01:02:54,400 --> 01:02:59,240
Speaker 1: it to me. We're not okay. He's like young though,

1185
01:02:59,320 --> 01:03:01,720
Speaker 1: Is that the reason? Uh? Yeah, he's young, and he's

1186
01:03:01,720 --> 01:03:04,080
Speaker 1: like leading her Bandy's hot as hell, so he's doing

1187
01:03:04,160 --> 01:03:06,680
Speaker 1: just fine. Laura Fritz posted her gender reveal, and everyone

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01:03:06,720 --> 01:03:08,760
Speaker 1: else started posting their gender reveals. And it's the sweetest

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01:03:08,920 --> 01:03:11,040
Speaker 1: a couple of minutes you'll ever spend just watching people

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Speaker 1: react to gender reveal. And my thing her husband hit

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Speaker 1: a golf ball that exploded into a powder And I

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01:03:19,320 --> 01:03:22,640
Speaker 1: did see that. Sweet so cute. I loved gender reveal.

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Speaker 1: And the last question somebody asked, which I thought was

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Speaker 1: really a good question on dating apps, why do you

1195
01:03:27,320 --> 01:03:29,840
Speaker 1: guys message you and then you reply and then they

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01:03:29,920 --> 01:03:32,640
Speaker 1: never respond again? What are you doing questions? Did you

1197
01:03:32,680 --> 01:03:35,440
Speaker 1: ask a question? No, I'll tell you why they do this.

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Speaker 1: These guys will just pretend like you're fishing, okay, and

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Speaker 1: you just want to throw out a bunch of worms.

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Speaker 1: So you throw out ten worms, and which everyone bites.

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Speaker 1: That's the thickest mediat fish is the one that they're

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Speaker 1: going to eat for dinner. Got it? So you throw

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Speaker 1: out ten hayes, you get four back, and you go

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01:03:53,560 --> 01:03:55,760
Speaker 1: through the four and you pick your favorite. Okay, this

1205
01:03:56,000 --> 01:03:59,360
Speaker 1: is that actually is true? And I don't know where

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01:03:59,440 --> 01:04:02,280
Speaker 1: you came up that, but it's the yellow in me,

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01:04:02,480 --> 01:04:07,360
Speaker 1: you know, it's her yellow, her yellow or a color. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's a stepped on first and just getting stepped on whatever.

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Speaker 1: I'm over that. You're not getting stepped on anymore, no more,

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Speaker 1: no more. Okay, we have to wrap up, unfortunately, but

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Speaker 1: we love you so much. Um scrubbing in at iHeartMedia

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Speaker 1: dot com, email us. And then the group the girls

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Speaker 1: with the shirts, and you see the shirts. I didn't

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Speaker 1: see the shirts. I saw the shirts. The shirts are

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Speaker 1: really cool. I wan't one to They said a heart

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Speaker 1: like Tanya, an attitude like Becca. I made that one day.

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Speaker 1: They say a heart like Becca. But I'll take attitude,

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Speaker 1: I guess. And they have a little like the what's

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Speaker 1: it called the like the grays anatomy like thing at

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Speaker 1: the bottom. Did you see that? It's yeah that those

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Speaker 1: are so freaking cute. I need one. Yeah, that's great.

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Speaker 1: And Jane tar Button, Um, okay, thank you all so much.

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Speaker 1: We love y'all so much. Keep sending us an email much. Well,

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Speaker 1: you can't give the time a gut to the tone,

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Speaker 1: so you're you're giving him more time. Just thank you,

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Speaker 1: do one. It's fine. We're gonna go to have lunch

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Speaker 1: after this anyway.