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Speaker 1: Thank you, Nev youw subject the most emotional man I've

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Speaker 1: ever met. Dear Stephen Shirley. My sister set me up

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Speaker 1: with her new doctor that just moved to our city.

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Speaker 1: He's thirty eight and divorced with a fourteen year old son.

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Speaker 1: His son lives with him full time, so we have

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Speaker 1: included his son in a lot of our dates. It's

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Speaker 1: hard to get to know a man when his attention

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Speaker 1: is split between me and a teenager, so I suggested

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Speaker 1: that his son spend time with my sister son, who

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Speaker 1: is eleven years old. The doctor didn't like that, and

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Speaker 1: he assumed that I didn't want his son around. He

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Speaker 1: called me and said his fear feelings were very hurt,

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Speaker 1: and he asked why I don't like his son. I

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Speaker 1: didn't know how to answer that, because I do like

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Speaker 1: his son. He went on and on about this for

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Speaker 1: about three days, and at one point he cried when

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Speaker 1: he was telling me how proud he is to be

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Speaker 1: a single dad. So now his son goes everywhere with us,

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Speaker 1: and whenever the doctor doesn't get his way, he starts

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Speaker 1: crying or he sits in pouts like a two year old.

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Speaker 1: I asked if he was submissive with his ex wife,

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Speaker 1: and he said he was not submissive, but he let

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Speaker 1: his wife lead because she was more worldly. He gets

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Speaker 1: emotional when he talks about his ex wife because he

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Speaker 1: feels terrible for getting full custody of his son. I

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Speaker 1: told him that his ex wife must be unfit to

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Speaker 1: be a mom. He didn't address it that day, but

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Speaker 1: the next day he told me I should never talk

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Speaker 1: about his ex wife like that, and he teared up

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Speaker 1: as he reminisced about the day his son was born.

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Speaker 1: I told him I need space and time to sort

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Speaker 1: out everything, and I haven't spoken to him all week.

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Speaker 1: I wonder if he's crying over me like he cried

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Speaker 1: over his ex wife. Is it weird for this grown

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Speaker 1: man to be so emotional. Does he want his ex

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Speaker 1: wife back so they can be a family. What's going on? Well,

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Speaker 1: some craziness is what's going on. Yeah, this is weird.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know anyone who cries as much,

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Speaker 1: and not even babies. And what's he crying about? What's

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Speaker 1: he crying for? Because you wanted alone time with him,

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Speaker 1: that's perfectly normal if you're in a relationship and trying

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Speaker 1: to get to noake someone. You did suggest that he

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Speaker 1: spend time with your nephew. It doesn't mean that you

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Speaker 1: don't like his son. I don't even know where he

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Speaker 1: got that from. No one said that. But why are

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Speaker 1: you still dating this guy if you know, if this

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Speaker 1: things are bothering you? When we all know why you're

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Speaker 1: dating him because he's a doctor, all right, So because

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Speaker 1: he's a doctor, you put up with these emotional outbursts.

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Speaker 1: You have to get to the you gotta address this

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Speaker 1: with him so you guys can figure this whole thing out.

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Speaker 1: I mean, maybe he does want to be with his

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Speaker 1: ex wife, but you won't know unless you talk about

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Speaker 1: it and find out why all this crying is taking place.

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Speaker 1: Crying like this and pouting is not what fully grown,

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Speaker 1: mature men do. This has got to stop, and you

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Speaker 1: gotta find out why.

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Speaker 2: Steve Well, I know.

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Speaker 3: The answer to this whole letter because I think she's

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Speaker 3: leaving a part out that she doesn't understand, and this

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Speaker 3: is what's causing her the most problem. The title of

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Speaker 3: this letter is the most emotional man I've ever met.

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Speaker 3: Let me tell you something I've learned. A man can

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Speaker 3: be one of two things. He can be an emotional

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Speaker 3: man that's not problem, or he can be a sensitive

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Speaker 3: man that's not really a problem.

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 3: Any excess of either one of those is body. If

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Speaker 3: you accept excessively emotional, that's a problem. If you're excessively sensitive,

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Speaker 3: that's a problem. But when you are and you are both,

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Speaker 3: you are emotional and sensitive. Houston, we have a problem.

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Speaker 3: And this is Houston may Day. This is John Glenn

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Speaker 3: on the moon. This is this dude on the space

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Speaker 3: walk and the line broke. Houston, we have a problem

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Speaker 3: because this man, you think it's emotion, but he's sensitive too,

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Speaker 3: and that's an ugly combination in a man.

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Speaker 2: It's an ugly combination. If you're a woman.

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Speaker 3: In excess, it's okay that women are emotional and sensitive

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Speaker 3: because women's senses are heightened.

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Speaker 2: Will more advanced than most men. I know, they just are.

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Speaker 3: Women are just more sensitive and emotional to things, but

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Speaker 3: they keep it in check, and that's what makes women beautiful. Well,

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Speaker 3: when those two qualities are on, the man ain't beautiful

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Speaker 3: no more. It's beautiful to date an emotional and a

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Speaker 3: sensitive woman. It's a beautiful thing. It's not a beautiful

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Speaker 3: thing todate an emotional and sensitive man.

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Speaker 2: And that's the problem with this whole letter.

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Speaker 3: I normally don't address the letters this way, but I

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Speaker 3: decided to take that approach. So as I go through

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Speaker 3: the letter, I can show you the problem. He's thirty eight,

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Speaker 3: he's divorced, got a fourteen year old son. His sons

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Speaker 3: lived with in fourteen, So you include him a lot

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Speaker 3: of your dates, and then you say it's hard to

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Speaker 3: get to know it man when you got to spend

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Speaker 3: time between him and the teenager. So you suggested that

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Speaker 3: the son sometimes hang out with your sister's eleven year

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Speaker 3: old boy. Now that sound like that wouldn't be a problem,

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Speaker 3: but oh no, mister, sisters called you and said his

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Speaker 3: feelings was hurt, and he asked why I don't like

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Speaker 3: his son. Hold up, don't where you going? This don't

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Speaker 3: mean I don't like your son. So now I didn't

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Speaker 3: know how to answer that.

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Speaker 2: Well, you should have.

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Speaker 3: Answered it by saying, no, I love your son. It's

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Speaker 3: just that I'm also trying to get to know his father,

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Speaker 3: and I'd like to spend some quality time with his

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Speaker 3: That's all the answer should have been. But I don't

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Speaker 3: know if that would have fixed mister emotional sensitivity, because

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Speaker 3: he didn't got his feelings hurt, because then he went

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Speaker 3: on about this for three damn days.

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Speaker 2: Well hold up, Pardoner.

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Speaker 3: What man drags on a potential argument for three days?

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Speaker 2: Who do that?

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Speaker 1: Hang on, Steve, hang on, Lam. We'll have part two

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Speaker 1: of your response coming up at twenty three minutes after

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Speaker 1: the hour. Today's Strawberry letter, subject the most emotional man

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Speaker 1: You're listening hard morning show. All right, Steve, come on,

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Speaker 1: let's recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject the most emotion

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Speaker 2: All right, I'm gonna do this quickly.

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Speaker 3: I told you all, I don't like to answer these

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Speaker 3: first time. Here's a problem in this Letter's not that

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Speaker 3: he's emotional. He's emotional and sensitive. It's okay if you

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Speaker 3: have an emotional man, or it's okay if you have

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Speaker 3: a sensitive man. But any excess of an emotional man,

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Speaker 3: or any excess of a sensitive man, and you have

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Speaker 3: a problem. Any excess in that inner woman would be

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Speaker 3: a problem too. But on a man, this really don't

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Speaker 3: look good. So this guy is he's not only emotional,

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Speaker 3: he's sensitive too, and that is what the problem we have.

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Speaker 3: So let's go through the letter right quick. You're dating

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Speaker 3: this man who's a doctor. He has a fourteen year

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Speaker 3: old son, he's a single dad, and you're trying to

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Speaker 3: get to know him, and everywhere time y'all go somewhere,

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Speaker 3: he's thirty eight divorced. He includes his son on a

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Speaker 3: lot of our dates, and then you hard to get

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Speaker 3: to know the man when his attention is split between

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Speaker 3: you and a team. So one day she suggested that

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Speaker 3: the son spend some time with her sister son, who

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Speaker 3: was eleven years old. The doctor didn't like that, and

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Speaker 3: he assumed that I didn't want his son around. He

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Speaker 3: called me and said my feelings was hurt, and how

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Speaker 3: come you don't like my son? I didn't know how

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Speaker 3: to answer that. Where your answer should have been known,

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Speaker 3: I absolutely adore your son. It's just that I'm also

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Speaker 3: getting to know his father and I need some alone

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Speaker 3: this is gonna work as a family.

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Speaker 2: That would have been the perfect answer.

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Speaker 3: But because you say you do like his son, well,

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Speaker 3: he went on and on about this for three days,

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Speaker 3: and at one point he was crying when he's telling

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Speaker 3: me how proud he was. But who you don't like

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Speaker 3: my son? I told you my son and me? He

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Speaker 3: stayed with me. He ain't got nowhere to go because

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Speaker 2: Dad, he stayed with me. I don't want him coming

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Speaker 3: He can't do out. I can't just leave on here,

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Speaker 3: he fought. He can't stay home by hisself. What fourteen

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Speaker 3: I raised him and I know hell well, if I

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Speaker 3: leave him at that house by myself, he gonna just

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Speaker 3: like his daddy. Because I didn't raised my son to

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Speaker 3: be by himself. Cause I don't like being my moself

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Speaker 3: cause when he get dog out o this here, you

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Speaker 3: just you don't want him to come over here. What

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Speaker 3: day is? This is day two? I got one more

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Speaker 3: day this here, because I usually do this for three days.

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Speaker 3: You should have left his punk ass right there, right

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Speaker 3: he don't want to hear, he start pounding crying. So

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Speaker 3: then you asked him a very adult female question, Well

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Speaker 3: you submissive to your wife? He said no, I was

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Speaker 3: not submissive, but I let my wife lead because she

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Speaker 3: more worldly. What we're hold of doom? You let your

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Speaker 3: wife lead. I don't understand that one dull. Now, ain't

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Speaker 3: nobody leading me nowhere? Nobody And you can call it

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Speaker 3: sexist if you want to, but I'm not following now.

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Speaker 3: I'll take your advice. My wife made a lot of

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Speaker 3: sense on a lot of stuff. I've listened to her advice.

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Speaker 3: But you ain't finna lead me though, And he let

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Speaker 3: her lead because she more worldly. What was your punk ass?

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Speaker 3: So anyway, he gets emotional when he talk about his

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Speaker 3: ex wife because he feel terrible for getting full custody

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Speaker 3: of his son. I told him his ex wife must

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Speaker 3: have been unfit to be a mom. And I'm telling

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Speaker 3: you right now, when they give the father full custody

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Speaker 3: of a child, something wrong, because they no court in

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Speaker 3: the world do that. They do not take the child

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Speaker 3: from the mother. Because every man knows this. Every child

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Speaker 3: needs a mother. Every man know that that mama she critical.

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Speaker 3: Dad's a critical too, But that mama, that's that's what

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Speaker 3: we'll hold. So he said she must be unfit.

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Speaker 2: You don't talk about her like that. You don't talk

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Speaker 2: about my wife. Wasn't unfit? Brother, I asked her the bad.

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Speaker 2: Why would I.

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Speaker 3: Ask somebody unfit the bad? You gonna talk about her

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Speaker 3: like that? You shut up talking about everybody. She was beautiful.

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Speaker 3: They just took the baby from her cause she ain't

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Speaker 3: walk with me on him.

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Speaker 2: That's all they want. Why are you go every life?

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Speaker 3: So when you told her that the ex wife must

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Speaker 3: be on fitt to be a mom, he ain't addressed

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Speaker 3: it that day. But the next day, don't you ever

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Speaker 3: talk about my ex wife like that, and he teared

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Speaker 3: up as he reminisced about the day my son was born.

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Speaker 2: I remember that day. I was standing there at this

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Speaker 2: put it out, and.

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Speaker 3: She had her legs up and his head popped out

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Speaker 2: This came through. I said, Oh God, here man, and I,

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Speaker 2: oh God, here him.

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Speaker 3: I gotta beeve all the bills and stuff and come

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Speaker 3: with him.

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Speaker 2: I don't think i'm mad enough to b.

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Speaker 3: So you told him, you said, I need some space,

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Speaker 3: so you ain't talk to him all week. And you

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Speaker 3: wonder if he crying over me like he crying over

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Speaker 3: his ex wife. No, he'd call his ex wife, yes, what?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: What?

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Speaker 2: She ain't called me this week? God, he ain't.

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Speaker 3: Called me weak. Is it weird for this grown man

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Speaker 3: to be so emotional? Does he want his ex wife

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Speaker 3: back so they could be a family. What's going on? No,

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Speaker 3: his ex wife don't want him. If an ex wife

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Speaker 3: was more worldly than him, The reason she left him

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Speaker 3: because she found out he was spineless. He's emotional insensitive,

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Speaker 3: and you have an emotional insensitive man. If I were you,

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Speaker 3: I would cut my losses right now and get away

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Speaker 3: because you're not finna fix him.

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Speaker 2: He needs and he needed daddy, all right.

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