WEBVTT - Megan and Liz (they're back!) 0:00:09.320 --> 0:00:16.240 Carol. She's the queen of talking. He was sown. She's 0:00:16.280 --> 0:00:20.639 on the side. She got the scoop on side. No 0:00:20.720 --> 0:00:29.960 one can do with quiet, my Carol, Carola. No one 0:00:30.040 --> 0:00:37.360 can do with quiet, Carol, Caroline. My two favorite twins 0:00:37.400 --> 0:00:40.640 are back to my Influencer series. Megan and Liz are 0:00:40.720 --> 0:00:44.160 joining me today and I love them. They're the brightest lights. 0:00:44.520 --> 0:00:47.559 They are so purehearted. They have so much going on, 0:00:47.720 --> 0:00:50.520 their incredible influencers and they're just talking all about how 0:00:50.520 --> 0:00:52.320 they do what they do, and they have great advice. 0:00:52.840 --> 0:01:02.720 So get excited. Here are Megan and Liz. Okay, hi, lady, Hello, 0:01:03.640 --> 0:01:06.319 I'm here with my two most favorite twins in the 0:01:06.360 --> 0:01:09.880 world and our my favorite sort of shot together. Yes, 0:01:10.440 --> 0:01:12.920 Lizard Thickett, Greenhills, and come over here real fast and 0:01:13.120 --> 0:01:15.360 really fast. Come on, we have to have the kid 0:01:15.440 --> 0:01:18.880 and the owner make a quick cameo. Yes, she's the 0:01:18.880 --> 0:01:25.319 Wald this is and Stanford Stamford, Yes, Staniford. Okay, she 0:01:25.600 --> 0:01:28.800 has the cue. Plis ever we're dressed in Lizard Thickett. 0:01:28.880 --> 0:01:30.840 We love it in the Green Hills location. So all 0:01:30.880 --> 0:01:33.640 y'all listening, get your booties over here and see Anne. Yes, 0:01:33.760 --> 0:01:35.320 tell if we sent you and you get how much 0:01:35.319 --> 0:01:40.679 person off if you come to out Anne that Megan, 0:01:40.800 --> 0:01:43.399 Liz and Caroline sent you twenty percent off in the 0:01:43.480 --> 0:01:47.480 Greenhealth Lizard Thicket sounds good to me. Christmas coming on? 0:01:48.920 --> 0:01:53.920 We love it. Okay, so we're knocking ourselves out, So 0:01:54.080 --> 0:01:57.480 guys talk to me. I already interviewed a once and 0:01:57.520 --> 0:01:59.720 it was the best interview because you two are the 0:01:59.720 --> 0:02:03.080 most positive people that ever existed. We were actually talking 0:02:03.080 --> 0:02:05.160 about that earlier, saying like, oh, I feel like my 0:02:05.560 --> 0:02:07.560 juju is office a little bit, because if you don't 0:02:07.640 --> 0:02:10.560 keep up the positive thinking, it really can send you 0:02:10.639 --> 0:02:13.360 down a negative. Yeah, it's to tell me what's going on? 0:02:13.480 --> 0:02:15.320 Like why are we stressed it out? Because there's not 0:02:15.360 --> 0:02:18.360 anything big happening. And y'all was like, oh, these days 0:02:18.360 --> 0:02:22.320 your life as a one and the twins, everything that 0:02:22.320 --> 0:02:25.160 happens to one happens to both, right, Yes, yes, I 0:02:25.200 --> 0:02:28.600 mean it's just I feel like I woke up the 0:02:28.639 --> 0:02:30.760 other day and like I was, I was like posting 0:02:30.760 --> 0:02:33.960 about like the Sunday scar Ese, yes, explaining because it's 0:02:33.960 --> 0:02:36.160 just like starting the new week. Yeah, It's just like 0:02:36.240 --> 0:02:38.280 and I feel like And a lot of people actually 0:02:38.360 --> 0:02:40.280 replied to it and they were like, oh my gosh, 0:02:40.280 --> 0:02:43.200 Like I totally relate to this. It's like it's almost 0:02:43.240 --> 0:02:45.480 like when you have a week full of stuff that 0:02:45.560 --> 0:02:49.080 even if it's great, it's just like you're expecting it 0:02:49.160 --> 0:02:50.920 to go one way. You're like, oh my gosh, how 0:02:50.960 --> 0:02:53.160 is going to happen? Like for some reason about anything 0:02:53.200 --> 0:02:56.400 positive happens, like most people's brains, I feel like, tend 0:02:56.480 --> 0:02:59.440 to think of the worst possible thing that could happen 0:02:59.639 --> 0:03:02.160 in the positive and like that because we're scared to 0:03:02.200 --> 0:03:05.079 lose it. Maybe it's like this is so great now 0:03:05.160 --> 0:03:07.880 to freak out that I lose it. Actually read and 0:03:08.160 --> 0:03:09.920 like The Secret or one of those books that a 0:03:09.960 --> 0:03:12.840 lot of people who have who build really huge empires 0:03:13.000 --> 0:03:16.040 also lose them because when you have nothing to lose, 0:03:16.280 --> 0:03:19.040 it's easy to build something. But then once you get it, 0:03:19.280 --> 0:03:21.359 you're like, oh my gosh, I got it, and then 0:03:21.360 --> 0:03:22.799 you're so scared to lose it that you lose it 0:03:22.840 --> 0:03:24.760 off because you start thinking about losing it. Yeah, do 0:03:24.760 --> 0:03:28.000 you think that's how that could happen? Yeah, oh yeah definitely. 0:03:28.120 --> 0:03:30.600 But then I also like I read something like it 0:03:30.639 --> 0:03:32.079 wasn't a Secret, but it was something like that. But 0:03:32.160 --> 0:03:34.800 like it was a quote that was like people dress 0:03:34.840 --> 0:03:39.280 rehearse tragedy. Yeah, break that down. So basically it just 0:03:39.360 --> 0:03:43.360 I mean I shared that with Like Basically, it's just 0:03:43.400 --> 0:03:46.160 like you play up like, oh well if I lose this, 0:03:46.240 --> 0:03:47.840 and you know it won't be that hard because I've 0:03:47.840 --> 0:03:49.840 already thought about it. You try and like soften the 0:03:49.840 --> 0:03:53.760 blow for yourself, but that doesn't work. It doesn't never happen. 0:03:53.800 --> 0:03:56.560 It never happens. And then when something bad actually does happen, 0:03:57.160 --> 0:03:59.520 you never saw it coming, yeah, and you didn't have 0:03:59.560 --> 0:04:01.520 time to d us rehearse it. So it's like it's 0:04:01.560 --> 0:04:03.720 it's a waste of time because the things that you 0:04:03.800 --> 0:04:05.839 think about are actually never the things that are going 0:04:05.840 --> 0:04:08.480 to happen. It's going because it's all make belief, So 0:04:08.560 --> 0:04:10.720 you're just making something up. Really like you said, yes, 0:04:10.720 --> 0:04:13.600 it's gonna be something totally different that you couldn't even expect. 0:04:13.680 --> 0:04:18.600 So why waste your time thanking negative thoughts? Exactly? Why? Okay, 0:04:18.839 --> 0:04:25.120 we just solved everyone's problems. So this whole series, this 0:04:25.240 --> 0:04:28.720 influencer series, I started because I've gotten to fall into 0:04:28.720 --> 0:04:31.440 this incredible group of girls with you guys, and there's 0:04:31.480 --> 0:04:33.160 like I don't know, Tim Humming out there, like Tim 0:04:33.200 --> 0:04:34.640 people that we talked to on a regular basis. But 0:04:34.680 --> 0:04:37.039 people are always coming in and out and it's this 0:04:37.240 --> 0:04:42.039 awesome group of influencers and everybody wants to know what 0:04:42.080 --> 0:04:45.719 an influencer is. So basically, what is an influencer to 0:04:45.760 --> 0:04:47.760 you guys? And how do you do this? And what 0:04:47.960 --> 0:04:50.640 is some like how do you get started as an influencer? 0:04:51.279 --> 0:04:53.640 I feel like I feel like everybody's definition of an 0:04:53.640 --> 0:04:55.920 influencer is a little bit different, depending on like what 0:04:55.960 --> 0:04:58.800 you feel like your strengths are. Because for us, I 0:04:58.839 --> 0:05:02.719 feel like the way we influence our audience is through music, 0:05:02.760 --> 0:05:08.560 but also through positivity and positive body image and you know, 0:05:08.640 --> 0:05:11.840 just just being the best version of yourself and just 0:05:11.839 --> 0:05:14.920 just that, you know, being yourself. And I think that 0:05:14.920 --> 0:05:17.880 that's what I think, that's what people latch onto I do, 0:05:18.000 --> 0:05:20.559 I really do. I think people like to see people 0:05:20.680 --> 0:05:25.640 being themselves. And also like I feel like every influencer 0:05:26.160 --> 0:05:29.640 has something that like is totally their own, you know, 0:05:29.720 --> 0:05:31.919 Like that's like there are so many beautiful women in 0:05:31.920 --> 0:05:35.520 this world and they all like should get like a 0:05:35.600 --> 0:05:38.880 million lives on Instagram. But like the difference is like 0:05:39.080 --> 0:05:40.800 like we have our music, you know what I mean, 0:05:40.800 --> 0:05:43.240 Like that's something that we're so passionate about and we're like, 0:05:43.279 --> 0:05:46.240 you know, we're we pour ourselves into and then that's 0:05:46.279 --> 0:05:48.320 why people they want to see a succeed in the music. 0:05:48.320 --> 0:05:50.520 And then it's like, you know, like other ladies in 0:05:50.520 --> 0:05:53.039 the group have like there they talk about their kids 0:05:53.040 --> 0:05:54.960 and like their kids lives and like how that, and 0:05:55.000 --> 0:05:57.040 so they want to see their kids succeed. They want 0:05:57.040 --> 0:05:58.400 to see their you know all of that. So it's 0:05:58.440 --> 0:06:01.080 like we all have our different things, and I feel 0:06:01.080 --> 0:06:03.640 like that's really a little areas. Yeah, how do you 0:06:03.640 --> 0:06:07.520 guys like to get your product out there? Not product? 0:06:07.600 --> 0:06:09.560 What would it be like your post out there? Do 0:06:09.600 --> 0:06:11.080 you like to do through Instagram? Do you like to 0:06:11.120 --> 0:06:14.040 do through YouTube? Are you bloggers? How do you like 0:06:14.400 --> 0:06:15.880 or is it all of it? How do you all 0:06:15.880 --> 0:06:17.719 like to Is it through your music? How do people 0:06:17.880 --> 0:06:20.359 get your stuff? Like? How do you reach people the most? 0:06:20.560 --> 0:06:22.120 I feel like it's like a little bit of everything. 0:06:22.160 --> 0:06:24.440 It kind of depends on what the content I'm putting 0:06:24.440 --> 0:06:26.960 out is. Like if it's like a music video, obviously 0:06:27.000 --> 0:06:29.120 it'll live on YouTube. But if I could feel like 0:06:29.120 --> 0:06:31.560 pouring my heart and soul out in a blog about 0:06:31.680 --> 0:06:33.200 you know, a terrible week I had and how I 0:06:33.240 --> 0:06:34.800 grew from it. I'm going to type out a blog 0:06:34.839 --> 0:06:36.720 post and put it on our website. So it's like 0:06:37.200 --> 0:06:39.800 it just really depends on what's going on in our lives. 0:06:39.839 --> 0:06:42.360 I feel like if everything attached to your website, can 0:06:42.360 --> 0:06:44.479 you get to everyone from your website? So that's just 0:06:44.520 --> 0:06:46.760 Megan and lives dot com and that can take you 0:06:46.760 --> 0:06:48.600 to YouTube, that can take you to your music. So 0:06:48.680 --> 0:06:52.000 this is where you go for everything, y'all. Yeah? Yeah, basically, 0:06:52.080 --> 0:06:54.760 I mean it's just links to everything all of our socials. 0:06:54.760 --> 0:06:57.720 You can get there, and we have like content that 0:06:57.760 --> 0:07:00.960 lives there, like the blogs. So so my question is 0:07:01.200 --> 0:07:04.720 if you are talking to like new girls or new 0:07:04.760 --> 0:07:06.520 people who are wanting to get into what would your 0:07:06.560 --> 0:07:08.919 first steps be, Like what would you say, definitely do 0:07:09.040 --> 0:07:10.640 if you want to get into an influencer world and 0:07:10.640 --> 0:07:13.200 definitely do not do. I actually had a conversation with 0:07:13.240 --> 0:07:17.080 somebody like rolling the phone. Yeah it was a guy, 0:07:17.280 --> 0:07:20.520 which like interesting enough, Like but I mean, yeah, guys 0:07:20.520 --> 0:07:22.880 could be a Yeah. I mean, I'm just saying the 0:07:22.920 --> 0:07:26.000 same advice applies. But like when I was like talking 0:07:26.040 --> 0:07:27.800 to him like I. At first, I was like I 0:07:27.840 --> 0:07:29.160 don't know what to tell him, Like I don't know what, 0:07:29.240 --> 0:07:30.520 I don't know what to do. But as I was 0:07:30.520 --> 0:07:33.680 talking to I was like, you know what, Actually, um, 0:07:33.720 --> 0:07:36.000 the biggest thing that he thought was really helpful was 0:07:36.040 --> 0:07:40.600 asking And actually that's so Like there's another influencer named 0:07:40.600 --> 0:07:43.320 Alexis type Miller. Do you know who that is? So 0:07:43.720 --> 0:07:46.720 she's awesome to yeah, she's literally, but she is the 0:07:46.720 --> 0:07:51.040 one Alexis type Miller type Miller. So literally she's run 0:07:51.080 --> 0:07:53.640 the laptop lifestyle. It's really awesome. But it was so 0:07:53.680 --> 0:07:56.040 she literally told me one time we were sitting in 0:07:56.040 --> 0:07:58.480 a coffee and she's like, yeah, no, I just asked, 0:07:58.880 --> 0:08:01.520 like I can't be afraid. Like if you if you 0:08:01.520 --> 0:08:03.560 want to work with a brand, even if you have 0:08:04.200 --> 0:08:07.400 no following, you and you DM them and say hey, listen, 0:08:07.480 --> 0:08:09.720 like I can style your product really great and I 0:08:09.720 --> 0:08:12.920 can get you a great photo, then like nine times 0:08:12.960 --> 0:08:15.600 out of ten like a brand and we like why not? 0:08:16.120 --> 0:08:17.880 So how do you ask? Like, say you want to 0:08:17.880 --> 0:08:19.760 phrase it, say you don't have a lot of followers, 0:08:19.800 --> 0:08:21.440 but you want to do something that how would you 0:08:21.480 --> 0:08:24.440 put that in a DM? Like what would you say exactly, 0:08:24.520 --> 0:08:26.920 you just kind of say what you can offer, you know, 0:08:27.040 --> 0:08:28.840 you say, hey, like you don't say I just want 0:08:28.840 --> 0:08:31.920 to work together. You say I can offer you because 0:08:31.920 --> 0:08:33.880 you need to offer them something. What are the things 0:08:33.880 --> 0:08:35.920 like I can offer you a great like that even 0:08:36.920 --> 0:08:39.920 a great exchange for I mean, obviously in the beginning, 0:08:40.040 --> 0:08:42.240 like it's just free product, but like that's what's going 0:08:42.320 --> 0:08:44.920 to help you build and if they like the picture 0:08:44.960 --> 0:08:46.840 that you took, they're going to repost it and help 0:08:46.880 --> 0:08:50.120 you get your followers. Oh so instead of just saying like, 0:08:50.440 --> 0:08:52.520 let's yeah, that's a great way to partner because you're 0:08:52.600 --> 0:08:55.360 offering a picture and they need that for their digital stuff. 0:08:55.760 --> 0:08:57.800 So it's actually one win sometimes to go pay for 0:08:57.840 --> 0:09:02.000 that and higher models you're doing. Okay, So that's just 0:09:02.080 --> 0:09:04.800 be asking and not being too scared to ask. Yeah, 0:09:04.880 --> 0:09:06.600 And I mean, and that's been a huge thing for 0:09:06.720 --> 0:09:09.200 us that in the past year, I feel like his 0:09:09.960 --> 0:09:13.480 we've we've stopped being afraid to ask because the worst 0:09:13.480 --> 0:09:15.680 thing they can say is no or they won't answer, 0:09:16.120 --> 0:09:18.120 right who cares? And then you're in the same spot 0:09:18.200 --> 0:09:20.640 that you were, So it's like who cares? And the 0:09:20.679 --> 0:09:22.800 best thing that can say is yes, and they're out 0:09:22.800 --> 0:09:25.240 a way to work together exactly, and then that leads 0:09:25.280 --> 0:09:27.480 to like other opportunities, you know, like maybe this time 0:09:27.480 --> 0:09:30.280 you got a product, but next time they say, oh great, 0:09:30.320 --> 0:09:33.160 they get it. They gave us a great you know, exchange, 0:09:33.200 --> 0:09:35.679 and their base is grown since then, like we can 0:09:35.679 --> 0:09:38.440 pay them, they pay the next time. Yeah. Yeah, So 0:09:38.559 --> 0:09:42.760 just ask after everybody and everything brands, you won't be afraid. 0:09:42.880 --> 0:09:45.360 Don't be afraid to just literally slide into their d 0:09:45.520 --> 0:09:49.160 M s and be like, hey, that is so true, 0:09:49.280 --> 0:09:51.400 especially with this digital world. I feel like social media 0:09:51.520 --> 0:09:54.959 is a new way of advertisement. It totally is. Yeah, 0:09:55.200 --> 0:09:59.079 people believe what everybody is posting about because it's genuine 0:09:59.120 --> 0:10:02.640 and it's dan. I learned about stuff from me yea. 0:10:03.400 --> 0:10:05.760 I look on people's like stories and I'm like, oh man, 0:10:05.760 --> 0:10:08.000 I want to try that more songs even when people 0:10:08.040 --> 0:10:10.400 past those songs, Like if three people post the same song, 0:10:10.440 --> 0:10:12.320 I'm gonna go listen to it because oh it must 0:10:12.320 --> 0:10:15.120 be good. So what not to do when you are 0:10:15.240 --> 0:10:17.719 starting and you want to become an influencer? What are 0:10:17.800 --> 0:10:19.560 like your top no nos? A lot of the girls 0:10:19.559 --> 0:10:22.120 are saying, do not buy followers. I didn't even know that. 0:10:22.360 --> 0:10:25.120 Don't buy followers. I mean, friends do know when like 0:10:25.160 --> 0:10:27.200 they can tell because you're like ratio, it was just 0:10:27.240 --> 0:10:29.640 like completely off and then you you'll get like no 0:10:29.840 --> 0:10:32.480 comments and then that just that just is a bad 0:10:32.520 --> 0:10:35.120 path to go. So don't buy. Don't buy followers. But 0:10:35.200 --> 0:10:39.040 I would say the thing I've learned would probably be, 0:10:39.960 --> 0:10:44.200 don't like if you admire other influencers, admire them, but 0:10:44.360 --> 0:10:47.520 don't copy them. Don't copy them because nobody's going to 0:10:47.600 --> 0:10:50.320 follow you if you're like the other version of so 0:10:50.360 --> 0:10:52.360 and so, people are going to follow you because you're 0:10:52.400 --> 0:10:54.800 the best version of you, and you have to find 0:10:54.880 --> 0:10:58.640 your individuality and your originality and what makes you an influencer. 0:10:59.040 --> 0:11:01.880 I totally agree with that, because why just be a 0:11:01.960 --> 0:11:05.439 repeat of something else? Yeah, totally. And also i'd say, 0:11:05.440 --> 0:11:08.040 don't be too glossy. What does that mean? I don't know, 0:11:08.120 --> 0:11:10.240 Like I feel like like you can be glossy on 0:11:10.280 --> 0:11:14.120 your post, but just glassy just like you know, everything 0:11:14.200 --> 0:11:17.920 perfectly propped and staged and you know, but keep it 0:11:17.960 --> 0:11:19.959 real in your Instagram stories at least you have to 0:11:20.040 --> 0:11:24.359 keep it real somewhere because that's what the audience relates to. Totally, 0:11:24.679 --> 0:11:27.000 they want to see you sitting, you know, on your 0:11:27.000 --> 0:11:29.920 bed with a face mask on, drinking wine before you 0:11:29.960 --> 0:11:32.920 go to bed, talking about like something stupid that happened. 0:11:33.040 --> 0:11:35.080 We're talking about even like a breakout what you're doing, 0:11:35.120 --> 0:11:37.800 just so that you're really human exactly, that's what they 0:11:37.800 --> 0:11:40.200 relate to. They don't want to relate to the perfect, 0:11:41.679 --> 0:11:44.440 especially if you don't have a lot of followers, because 0:11:44.440 --> 0:11:46.320 then it's just like it's like, who do you think 0:11:46.320 --> 0:11:49.120 you are? You know, like you're like you are human 0:11:49.200 --> 0:11:52.200 like everybody everybody else, Just like you're not like a 0:11:52.200 --> 0:11:54.920 perfect glossy like model, like you know what I mean. 0:11:54.920 --> 0:11:57.240 It's like you don't have any followers yet, so keep 0:11:57.240 --> 0:11:59.560 it in proportion with where you are too, Yeah, I 0:11:59.559 --> 0:12:01.400 think so. Yeah, Like if you all of a sudden 0:12:01.440 --> 0:12:04.520 get like a million followers like you guys do on YouTube, 0:12:04.559 --> 0:12:07.080 you'll have freaking a million YouTube followers. Then that way, 0:12:07.120 --> 0:12:10.320 like me, you're probably gonna do a little more editing 0:12:10.320 --> 0:12:12.480 than you would if you have like I don't know, 0:12:12.640 --> 0:12:14.520 I mean, well, you're still keeping it real. Yeah, we 0:12:14.679 --> 0:12:16.400 just all we did really is we kind of just 0:12:16.400 --> 0:12:19.120 stepped up our equipment game and our lighting because you're like, oh, 0:12:19.200 --> 0:12:21.720 we coming, we've got a million people watching now, so 0:12:21.760 --> 0:12:24.160 we kind of got Yeah, we need to feel lighting 0:12:24.160 --> 0:12:27.840 a little better. But that intimidating knowing there's a million eyeballs, 0:12:28.080 --> 0:12:33.440 has two million eyeballs because everyone has to I'm not 0:12:33.559 --> 0:12:39.480 just a hat rack? Is that that was pretty good? Right? 0:12:41.600 --> 0:12:44.559 Is it intimidating knowing that there's all those eyeballs watching you. 0:12:46.000 --> 0:12:48.360 We're so used to it. Yeah, And I feel like 0:12:48.800 --> 0:12:51.120 not all two million of the eyeballs were going to 0:12:51.200 --> 0:12:55.760 click on everything you post, so and also too, not 0:12:55.840 --> 0:12:59.120 all of the two million eyeballs might be subscribed to you. 0:12:59.240 --> 0:13:01.960 A lot of them come from somebody else posting or 0:13:02.080 --> 0:13:04.599 Facebook or something. So it's like, I don't read the 0:13:04.600 --> 0:13:07.680 comments anymore. I just don't because nobody, like I know 0:13:07.720 --> 0:13:10.200 who I am, I know who we are. You don't 0:13:10.200 --> 0:13:13.199 have anything offered to me. So, yeah, if you're gonna 0:13:13.320 --> 0:13:15.840 if you're gonna be negative, and if someone's gonna really 0:13:15.840 --> 0:13:17.079 want to reach out to you and work with you, 0:13:17.120 --> 0:13:19.280 they're going to email you, and that's you have an 0:13:19.280 --> 0:13:21.760 outlet for that. Yeah, it's not all that negative. Not 0:13:21.800 --> 0:13:25.320 that y'all get much negative, I'm sure, but people do 0:13:25.440 --> 0:13:27.040 like to hate. I remember the first time I ever 0:13:27.080 --> 0:13:30.480 got like a negative email a direct message from someone, 0:13:30.640 --> 0:13:34.480 I was so hurt by it. It sticks in your brain. 0:13:34.679 --> 0:13:36.839 And then if you start second guessing yourself and then 0:13:36.960 --> 0:13:38.720 you just like you said, you can't. You know who 0:13:38.800 --> 0:13:41.200 you are, you know that your heart is good, and 0:13:41.200 --> 0:13:43.920 you're trying to put don't they don't as much as 0:13:44.040 --> 0:13:48.000 like you share on your socials, Like at the end 0:13:48.000 --> 0:13:50.560 of the day, like it's your they don't know you personally. 0:13:50.559 --> 0:13:52.320 They don't know who you are when you're not on 0:13:52.360 --> 0:13:55.040 your phone, you know, and and that's and you just 0:13:55.040 --> 0:13:57.839 got to keep you know, knowing who that is. And 0:13:57.920 --> 0:13:59.960 they don't know like what was going on that day 0:14:00.040 --> 0:14:03.720 I have attributed to why you posted something or like 0:14:04.040 --> 0:14:07.480 the way you reacted to something. It's like all you 0:14:07.480 --> 0:14:09.120 can do is just be as honest as you can 0:14:09.200 --> 0:14:12.400 on the internet and hope that people see that. It's 0:14:12.440 --> 0:14:15.880 a whole new world. Like y'all's generation especially and younger, 0:14:16.240 --> 0:14:18.920 they're never going to have grown up without a social media, which, 0:14:18.960 --> 0:14:22.480 though it is crazy, that like kind of terrifies me 0:14:22.480 --> 0:14:26.280 a little bit, just because I feel like a lot 0:14:26.320 --> 0:14:28.880 of kids I'm seeing nowadays they're like missing out on 0:14:29.080 --> 0:14:35.280 being kids almost like having likes, are getting out. Yeah. Yeah. 0:14:35.320 --> 0:14:38.840 I was talking to somebody recently who said that, like 0:14:39.520 --> 0:14:42.640 it was like it was like somebody in there, oh, 0:14:42.680 --> 0:14:45.240 somebody in their college. Yeah you know who. It was, 0:14:46.320 --> 0:14:49.160 somebody her sisters in college, like a freshman in college. 0:14:49.160 --> 0:14:52.800 And she said that girls were literally not paying attention 0:14:52.840 --> 0:14:55.920 to their classes and not like just they didn't care 0:14:55.960 --> 0:14:58.800 because they're like whatever, I'm just gonna be an influencer. Yeah. 0:14:59.320 --> 0:15:02.720 Like people are actually saying that, like girls who are 0:15:02.800 --> 0:15:05.880 like eighteen nineteen are actually like throwing away their whole 0:15:05.920 --> 0:15:07.600 lives because they think they're just going to be a 0:15:07.600 --> 0:15:11.640 pretty face on Instagram. And it's just like, oh my gosh, 0:15:12.160 --> 0:15:14.360 But tell me a little bit more on that being 0:15:14.400 --> 0:15:17.160 an influencer. And this is I interviewed actually housed in 0:15:17.360 --> 0:15:19.800 actually Wilson yesterday, and they were saying, there's so much 0:15:19.840 --> 0:15:22.880 more work to being an influencer than this being a 0:15:22.920 --> 0:15:25.120 pretty face, because tell me all the things that you 0:15:25.200 --> 0:15:27.800 have to do to run your brand that actually make 0:15:27.840 --> 0:15:29.880 because like people see you guys posting like, oh my gosh, 0:15:29.920 --> 0:15:31.720 they have the life, and you'll do have an incredible life, 0:15:31.760 --> 0:15:33.840 but like it's not that you're not working, So what 0:15:33.960 --> 0:15:36.600 does it take to influencer? Like what are you guys 0:15:36.600 --> 0:15:39.200 doing to keep your brand running? I mean, well, we 0:15:39.320 --> 0:15:42.520 definitely you always have to have something other than just 0:15:42.600 --> 0:15:47.400 your looks fueling your brand, because you need to have 0:15:47.480 --> 0:15:51.080 something like a block, a musical outline, its substance like 0:15:51.240 --> 0:15:55.400 yes something, or be just a great clothes like the 0:15:55.440 --> 0:15:59.480 stylist don't have a great outfit style. Yeah, but like 0:15:59.560 --> 0:16:02.000 on a day a basis, it's like you can go 0:16:02.120 --> 0:16:05.760 from you know, going back and forth sending edits like 0:16:06.000 --> 0:16:08.120 two or three edits with the brand all day. Like 0:16:08.160 --> 0:16:10.920 you have to learn, you know, final cut pro. You 0:16:10.960 --> 0:16:12.840 have to learn, you know, how to edit your own 0:16:12.840 --> 0:16:15.280 pictures in afterlight like there are so you have to 0:16:15.360 --> 0:16:17.760 like be really good with brands and be really on 0:16:17.800 --> 0:16:20.280 top of it. And like no brand is the same, 0:16:20.400 --> 0:16:22.920 so like every person you work with is going to 0:16:23.000 --> 0:16:26.080 have different preferences in different whatever and you have to 0:16:26.080 --> 0:16:28.600 be flexible. You have to be nice otherwise they're not 0:16:28.600 --> 0:16:31.200 going to work with you again, like which which that 0:16:31.240 --> 0:16:33.120 sounds weird, Like you have to be nice. But like 0:16:33.440 --> 0:16:35.760 sometimes like we've worked with some brands that you're just 0:16:35.840 --> 0:16:37.680 like I literally just want to say, like forget this 0:16:37.720 --> 0:16:40.920 whole thing, and you're being so dramatic, but you can't. 0:16:40.960 --> 0:16:42.920 You know, like you have to just keep that relationship 0:16:43.200 --> 0:16:46.200 good and be professional. And then with us since our 0:16:46.360 --> 0:16:50.000 music like is our main thing, Like a lot of 0:16:50.000 --> 0:16:53.560 people don't understand is that we totally fund our own careers, 0:16:53.600 --> 0:16:55.200 Like at this point in time, you know, like we 0:16:55.280 --> 0:16:56.840 pay for all of our own music. You're saying that 0:16:56.880 --> 0:17:00.320 you'll paid for your whole album, you guys, y'all did that. 0:17:00.360 --> 0:17:02.560 You don't have a record label or anything behind you guys, 0:17:02.760 --> 0:17:06.000 so you are your own brand, yeah, record label. So 0:17:06.080 --> 0:17:08.879 that's a whole thing that like, and that's another scary 0:17:09.040 --> 0:17:12.480 part of it too, because you're literally gambling on yourself, 0:17:12.560 --> 0:17:15.440 which sounds like it would be easy, but it's hard. 0:17:15.560 --> 0:17:19.280 It's really hard. Yeah. Well there's a lot of money involved, Yeah, 0:17:19.359 --> 0:17:21.000 and that's what it's for an influence, so true, you 0:17:21.040 --> 0:17:24.280 have to gamble on yourself, and that's taking a bet 0:17:24.280 --> 0:17:27.080 on yourself is a lot harder than you think, like 0:17:27.119 --> 0:17:29.520 when it comes down to it, because you have nobody 0:17:29.560 --> 0:17:31.520 else to blame if, like you didn't get that check 0:17:31.600 --> 0:17:33.480 at the end of the day, and you know, you're 0:17:33.520 --> 0:17:35.200 like well, what am I to do for money? This money? 0:17:35.240 --> 0:17:36.840 And see that's the other thing though, it's like you 0:17:36.840 --> 0:17:39.720 have to budget, you have to you know, plan out 0:17:39.880 --> 0:17:43.600 like your releases, you have, like there's just so much 0:17:43.680 --> 0:17:48.119 to think about in a single release project, whether whatever 0:17:48.160 --> 0:17:50.240 that may be. That it's such good advice that you 0:17:50.359 --> 0:17:52.680 have to have something else beside your looks. And if 0:17:52.680 --> 0:17:54.520 you're gonna do it, looks that you better just have 0:17:54.640 --> 0:17:58.720 awesome clothes fashion sense, right and yeah, but I still 0:17:58.720 --> 0:18:01.160 have to blog about it and and even that, it's 0:18:01.160 --> 0:18:03.159 like there's not a whole long, a whole lot of 0:18:03.200 --> 0:18:07.119 longevity in that just because you're you're not going to 0:18:07.240 --> 0:18:11.680 be like, you know, forever like with this perfect but 0:18:11.880 --> 0:18:14.280 it's like you have to have like whether it be 0:18:14.359 --> 0:18:17.560 a husband or a family or just just a great 0:18:17.600 --> 0:18:20.879 sense of style that will eventually transition into styling like 0:18:21.280 --> 0:18:24.520 older outfits. But you want to have a sustainable, long career. 0:18:25.359 --> 0:18:27.320 And it goes back to being personal to you, Like 0:18:27.400 --> 0:18:29.120 that's kind of like it's like you can't just be 0:18:29.160 --> 0:18:32.120 a really pretty face that post pretty pictures and not 0:18:32.560 --> 0:18:34.560 have anybody know anything about you except in the fact 0:18:34.560 --> 0:18:36.560 that you're pretty. Like it's the it's the real nous, 0:18:36.640 --> 0:18:42.920 it's the it's the ability and totally talk to me 0:18:43.000 --> 0:18:45.119 about what life has been like in the influencer world 0:18:45.160 --> 0:18:48.040 since you've gotten engaged, because that's a whole The influencers 0:18:48.359 --> 0:18:52.480 love babies and they love engagements, and so what has 0:18:52.560 --> 0:18:56.240 that been, Like, I mean, I always like assumed, like 0:18:56.280 --> 0:18:58.400 because you just see it like online, like when when 0:18:58.440 --> 0:19:01.240 somebody gets engaged, like people of what people love love 0:19:01.320 --> 0:19:04.240 letting love them, And I always just I always thought like, oh, 0:19:04.280 --> 0:19:06.680 that'll be like when it happens. You know. Obviously I'm 0:19:06.720 --> 0:19:08.840 not like western we need to get engaged so I 0:19:08.840 --> 0:19:12.400 can get some social media like attention, Like that's not 0:19:13.040 --> 0:19:16.359 but like it really is. But the thing about it is, 0:19:16.480 --> 0:19:19.240 I think that people really want to believe in love. 0:19:19.480 --> 0:19:22.520 I think so too, And social media is a positive 0:19:22.520 --> 0:19:25.400 thing because it's letting people see that there's real love 0:19:25.440 --> 0:19:28.040 to get in there, which is great because the news 0:19:28.080 --> 0:19:30.280 likes to feature all the bad stuff that social media 0:19:30.359 --> 0:19:33.840 can actually feature true love story love stories, and and 0:19:33.880 --> 0:19:38.479 I'm actually like so grateful that, like, you know, like 0:19:38.640 --> 0:19:41.440 I didn't realize that I was filming my own engagement 0:19:41.520 --> 0:19:44.160 video because I thought I was blogging a trip. Okay, 0:19:44.200 --> 0:19:46.639 so we're talking about that because you pulled and Vegan 0:19:46.720 --> 0:19:48.520 was a big time and pulling off the surprise. You 0:19:49.280 --> 0:19:51.959 just briefly describe your engagement because it was epic. I 0:19:52.040 --> 0:19:56.359 was totally surprised. I mean, I like we had talked 0:19:56.359 --> 0:20:00.359 about getting engaged, but I genuinely had no idea. And 0:20:00.400 --> 0:20:02.240 then you know, like we took this trip to New 0:20:02.320 --> 0:20:05.760 York and then Megan like he had arranged with Megan 0:20:06.200 --> 0:20:08.840 to like fly out, and Megan and you know, with 0:20:08.840 --> 0:20:11.639 with Wit and his whole family flew out like I was, 0:20:12.680 --> 0:20:15.159 and she had turned off her location because we followed. 0:20:15.160 --> 0:20:18.560 It was just this whole thing and like, oh my god, 0:20:18.600 --> 0:20:20.960 she was sending me pictures from like home of like Waffle, 0:20:21.040 --> 0:20:23.760 like our dog. It was like he was Megan. She 0:20:23.840 --> 0:20:25.480 was like sending me pictures of Waffle that she had 0:20:25.520 --> 0:20:28.000 taken like early, like you were actually like you weren't there. 0:20:28.680 --> 0:20:32.480 Who were you there with? Okay you were, Oh my gosh, 0:20:32.480 --> 0:20:34.600 so Megan, you're a whole fan. Okay, yeah, I got 0:20:34.640 --> 0:20:36.400 it again. So so you were just kind of taking 0:20:36.440 --> 0:20:39.639 a trip also that I had planned, so like it 0:20:39.680 --> 0:20:44.000 wasn't like he had planned, right, but but yeah, social 0:20:44.040 --> 0:20:48.240 media has been like crazy like in this like journey 0:20:48.320 --> 0:20:51.600 so far and so helpful. Like I'm literally because like 0:20:51.640 --> 0:20:53.720 I have no idea what I'm doing with wedding planning, 0:20:53.720 --> 0:20:56.159 and I'm just like, hey, any good like advice on 0:20:56.200 --> 0:20:58.320 this and she gets like just like d M after 0:20:58.400 --> 0:21:01.959 DM of like really helpful stuff and I'm just like, 0:21:02.160 --> 0:21:06.760 thank you guys, like because you're cuteful. Yeah, and people 0:21:06.800 --> 0:21:09.080 love like to see a love story and like I'm 0:21:09.160 --> 0:21:11.920 so happy that like that restores my faith in humanity 0:21:12.040 --> 0:21:18.840 and yes, everybody loves love and that's like it's real, yeah, 0:21:19.119 --> 0:21:21.520 because the world is so sad. If we don't loved 0:21:21.520 --> 0:21:24.159 to link onto, then what is there? Yeah, that's what. 0:21:24.200 --> 0:21:26.680 There's a little beautiful. Yeah. I think it's so great. 0:21:26.720 --> 0:21:28.880 And another thing that I love that you guys are 0:21:28.960 --> 0:21:32.200 so good about is, like you said, positive body image. 0:21:31.880 --> 0:21:35.360 And we've talked about this, Liszen, I have because I've 0:21:35.400 --> 0:21:39.120 struggled with like every who doesn't struggle with bad body image. 0:21:39.359 --> 0:21:41.320 But tell me why that is so important to you guys, 0:21:41.359 --> 0:21:44.200 because young girls especially you're looking up to y'all, And 0:21:44.800 --> 0:21:46.439 tell me why it's important to use your platform in 0:21:46.440 --> 0:21:48.360 that way, because I think that is such a great 0:21:48.400 --> 0:21:50.400 because you also are stylish and you're great, but you're 0:21:50.440 --> 0:21:55.080 never like you're also encouraging loving yourself and explain why 0:21:55.119 --> 0:21:57.000 that means so much to you guys. Well, I think 0:21:57.119 --> 0:21:59.760 especially like nowadays with all those like you know, like 0:21:59.760 --> 0:22:02.639 the East Tune apps and like Photoshop and just like 0:22:02.760 --> 0:22:06.760 literally being able to make yourself thinner or make your 0:22:06.800 --> 0:22:08.960 skin look better like right on an app, I think 0:22:09.000 --> 0:22:11.520 that that's really messing with a lot of girls self 0:22:11.600 --> 0:22:15.400 esteem because they're scrolling through mine included. Yeah, yeah, they're 0:22:15.400 --> 0:22:17.680 scrolling through Instagram and they're like, oh my gosh, this 0:22:17.800 --> 0:22:20.000 girl like her body is very but you'll never look 0:22:20.040 --> 0:22:23.359 like that exactly, And it's like, you can't. It's just 0:22:23.480 --> 0:22:26.080 unattainable because it's not even attainable for the people that 0:22:26.119 --> 0:22:31.080 are posting it because they're editing exactly. And I think 0:22:31.119 --> 0:22:34.520 it's important for young women and just women in general 0:22:34.600 --> 0:22:37.120 to know that and to look in the mirror and 0:22:37.320 --> 0:22:40.920 learn to love yourself because that's who's with you all day, 0:22:40.960 --> 0:22:42.399 every day for the rest of your life. How do 0:22:42.440 --> 0:22:44.040 you learn to love yourself? You look in the mirror 0:22:44.040 --> 0:22:46.520 because I had I've had to teach myself because when 0:22:46.960 --> 0:22:49.520 it's daily sometimes now when I look in the mirror 0:22:49.560 --> 0:22:51.560 and I'm like, you know, you're working with a lot, 0:22:51.640 --> 0:22:53.640 like this is great you're looking But then I'll immediately 0:22:53.680 --> 0:22:56.400 just be like, oh, but oh god, that ye that 0:22:56.440 --> 0:22:58.920 area like trying to you know, and I'm like, why 0:22:58.920 --> 0:23:01.680 do I do that? But yeah, how do you teach 0:23:01.680 --> 0:23:03.520 yourself to love yourself? Because you can have the best 0:23:03.560 --> 0:23:04.960 body in the world. Like I look at you guys, 0:23:04.960 --> 0:23:07.320 and I'm like, how could you not have perfect self image? 0:23:07.359 --> 0:23:11.840 But I think, yeah, it's just everyone feels this, So 0:23:11.920 --> 0:23:15.640 how do you learn to accept yourself that right there? 0:23:16.040 --> 0:23:19.600 Everybody feels this way like, and nobody looks at their 0:23:19.640 --> 0:23:22.360 body and it's like I'm stoked on it and nobody 0:23:22.440 --> 0:23:25.560 and nobody is looking at you the way that you 0:23:27.840 --> 0:23:30.919 so much like nobody's like nobody's like looking at you 0:23:30.960 --> 0:23:33.679 and thinking like wow, you know, like if her thighs 0:23:33.680 --> 0:23:38.040 were just a little bit smaller, like she'd really yeah, 0:23:38.119 --> 0:23:41.880 like nobody's thinking that. But then also just like for me, 0:23:42.240 --> 0:23:46.040 I really appreciate my body when I know it sounds weird, 0:23:46.080 --> 0:23:47.600 but like when I get sick or when I like 0:23:47.800 --> 0:23:51.600 have like a workout injury or something I'm like, oh 0:23:51.680 --> 0:23:54.480 my gosh, like this is the body that is like 0:23:54.560 --> 0:23:59.399 literally like healing, it's keeping me alive, Like like I 0:23:59.440 --> 0:24:02.280 can't believe that it's like physically doing all of this 0:24:02.359 --> 0:24:05.800 work for me. And you know, then it's like, why 0:24:05.840 --> 0:24:08.919 am I being so mad about this stuff when it 0:24:09.000 --> 0:24:11.240 is literally keeping me alive? And there are so many 0:24:11.280 --> 0:24:13.320 people in this world who do not have the luxury 0:24:13.359 --> 0:24:19.440 that we all have exactly to our heart beat myself 0:24:19.880 --> 0:24:23.000 breathe easily see here. I mean, honestly, if you go 0:24:23.320 --> 0:24:26.080 through it, all that our body is working is amazing. 0:24:26.680 --> 0:24:29.960 The second that I like start to go go down 0:24:30.000 --> 0:24:33.400 on myself negatively, I I try and think about that. 0:24:33.480 --> 0:24:37.800 I think about Megan, like you are perfectly healthy, and 0:24:37.840 --> 0:24:41.119 like you have no reason to complain about like a 0:24:41.160 --> 0:24:43.800 little thing that nobody's going to notice, because there are 0:24:43.840 --> 0:24:47.040 people out there that would kill to be perfectly healthy. 0:24:47.600 --> 0:24:50.720 They're sitting in a hospital bed, or they're they're sitting 0:24:50.720 --> 0:24:53.280 in their house because they're paralyzed, or you know, like 0:24:53.480 --> 0:24:57.560 we're all so lucky to be healthy. And I think 0:24:57.680 --> 0:24:59.040 that at the end of the day, that's what we 0:24:59.040 --> 0:25:01.760 need to remember. And I think what you girls are 0:25:01.800 --> 0:25:04.720 so good at practicing and I try to practice this too, 0:25:04.760 --> 0:25:07.919 but just appreciating whatever you have, even if you do 0:25:08.119 --> 0:25:12.480 have some illnesses or wrong but still finding something to 0:25:12.560 --> 0:25:17.440 be grateful for, because there's always something to be grateful for. Always, 0:25:17.440 --> 0:25:21.119 there's always something to be grateful for. And if you 0:25:21.160 --> 0:25:23.440 can't be grateful for what you have, then you really 0:25:23.480 --> 0:25:26.520 can't appreciate anything else. It's like, Oh, if I could 0:25:26.560 --> 0:25:28.480 just get this, then i'd be happy. Well, what if 0:25:28.480 --> 0:25:30.400 this is your last day of living. Yeah, you're gonna 0:25:30.480 --> 0:25:32.840 keep chasing that for like as long as you live. 0:25:32.920 --> 0:25:34.920 If you're like, oh when I get this, I'll be happy. 0:25:34.960 --> 0:25:36.480 Oh when I get this, I'll be happuels just be 0:25:36.560 --> 0:25:39.680 chasing it forever. And I think, you know, you're really 0:25:39.720 --> 0:25:43.920 handed The universe hands you what you know, the the 0:25:43.960 --> 0:25:46.320 deck of cards that your life is going to be, 0:25:46.440 --> 0:25:49.120 and it's the way you handle it in your head, 0:25:49.160 --> 0:25:51.919 and it's the way you approach it. And you're right, 0:25:51.960 --> 0:25:56.400 you were given this. So obviously if God or that 0:25:56.680 --> 0:25:59.920 bigger force whatever thing is, is divine, then he made 0:26:00.080 --> 0:26:02.040 us this way for a reason. So we need to 0:26:02.080 --> 0:26:05.080 just start appreciating, like, Okay, I'm this way, I have 0:26:05.200 --> 0:26:07.240 this brain even though sometimes I think my brain is 0:26:07.280 --> 0:26:10.880 so bananas? Am I even living in this brain because 0:26:10.920 --> 0:26:14.600 it's a psycho. But like it's like and you have 0:26:14.760 --> 0:26:17.560 this drive in this heart and this and these things 0:26:17.600 --> 0:26:19.680 that you want to do. And that's another thing, like callings. 0:26:20.520 --> 0:26:23.720 Tell me about y'all's calling, because y'all's calling has become 0:26:23.800 --> 0:26:26.919 this brand. It's like so much more than just like 0:26:27.080 --> 0:26:30.280 music and clothes and interviewing, But like, how do you 0:26:30.560 --> 0:26:32.560 figure out your calling? And how did you guy? How 0:26:32.560 --> 0:26:34.840 do you make your calling into what you do with 0:26:34.880 --> 0:26:38.160 your life? Yeah? I mean you have to listen to it, 0:26:38.240 --> 0:26:40.600 like you really listen to it. Like how do you 0:26:40.680 --> 0:26:43.399 listen to your heart and your calling? I mean like 0:26:43.440 --> 0:26:46.600 what does it feel like? Is it? Like when? How 0:26:46.600 --> 0:26:48.280 does it? How do you know when it's a yes 0:26:48.359 --> 0:26:50.240 and when it's a note? Like do you feel resistance 0:26:50.240 --> 0:26:52.000 when it's a no? Do you feel like kind of 0:26:52.000 --> 0:26:54.280 gross when it's a know? Like do you feel peace 0:26:54.359 --> 0:26:56.959 when it's a yes? Like how do you get the answer? 0:26:57.160 --> 0:27:00.680 I feel like? For for me, I think it's it's 0:27:00.720 --> 0:27:03.560 like when I get on, Like when I was first 0:27:03.640 --> 0:27:06.240 learning to play guitar and like writing songs, it was 0:27:06.320 --> 0:27:09.399 like I couldn't stop, Like it was almost like an adrenaline, 0:27:09.720 --> 0:27:14.200 like you crave it, yeah, you're c yeah, and um. 0:27:14.200 --> 0:27:17.560 Eventually I realized, like the reason that I liked music 0:27:17.600 --> 0:27:22.120 so much was because my stories. I felt like I 0:27:22.160 --> 0:27:26.800 was helping other people by telling my stories through music. 0:27:26.880 --> 0:27:29.600 And I realized that like meeting people in person and 0:27:29.680 --> 0:27:32.639 hearing that like that was the connection that I was 0:27:32.760 --> 0:27:36.520 chasing all along, Like it wasn't It wasn't even necessarily 0:27:36.560 --> 0:27:38.439 like you know, my name up in lights, It was 0:27:38.480 --> 0:27:41.919 never that. It was always like that connection with people. 0:27:42.240 --> 0:27:47.120 You wanna know that your life mattered and could what 0:27:47.200 --> 0:27:49.320 you went through could help someone else with what they're 0:27:49.359 --> 0:27:51.479 going through. So you're heard in your pain and your 0:27:51.480 --> 0:27:54.560 experiences were for something, yes, exactly, And that made all 0:27:54.600 --> 0:27:57.240 of my life experiences make total sense to me. And 0:27:57.280 --> 0:27:59.680 it was just like this, Oh, it was like a 0:27:59.800 --> 0:28:03.359 come to Jesus moment. Yeah, and like you know, you know, 0:28:03.400 --> 0:28:07.080 when something isn't right, you do because it just feels Yeah, 0:28:07.200 --> 0:28:09.440 it just feels bad, and enjoy it. You don't afford 0:28:09.480 --> 0:28:13.000 to it uneasy, you're uncomfortable, Like, yeah, I mean that, 0:28:13.200 --> 0:28:16.600 I feel like we were that way with certain people sometimes, 0:28:16.600 --> 0:28:20.159 you know, are certain brands, certain like situations like you 0:28:20.280 --> 0:28:22.120 just know, you just know when you're like this doesn't 0:28:22.160 --> 0:28:25.480 feel right, little voice here, Yeah, and we always do. 0:28:25.600 --> 0:28:27.560 I feel like we've always been really good at that, 0:28:27.720 --> 0:28:30.120 and I feel like it's like we know what's good, 0:28:30.520 --> 0:28:32.159 you know, and like you just you just have to 0:28:32.200 --> 0:28:35.679 be like time and be yeah, whimsical a little bit 0:28:35.720 --> 0:28:38.440 and just feel like how am I feeling about this? 0:28:38.520 --> 0:28:41.440 Like was there something that that person said that didn't 0:28:41.480 --> 0:28:43.800 rub me the right way? Why did it not rub 0:28:43.840 --> 0:28:48.000 me the right Yeah? Take the time to explore when 0:28:48.000 --> 0:28:50.640 you hit hit a negative hatch, like why do I 0:28:50.640 --> 0:28:53.200 feel weird? Okay? And then search down to the answer. 0:28:53.720 --> 0:28:56.680 And then if that answer is something that you're like, Okay, 0:28:56.720 --> 0:28:58.800 I'm not going to do it. There's nothing wrong. There's 0:28:58.840 --> 0:29:02.600 nothing wrong saying no, being brave enough to believe in 0:29:02.600 --> 0:29:07.040 yourself to say no to good opportunities, because it is 0:29:07.080 --> 0:29:09.719 sometimes really hard to say no to a great opportunity. 0:29:09.760 --> 0:29:12.280 Oh yeah, you know, especially like there's money involved or 0:29:12.280 --> 0:29:15.120 if you feel like it could get you exposure. But 0:29:15.160 --> 0:29:20.200 if you get that resistance or that feeling, do you guys, 0:29:20.280 --> 0:29:23.200 do you feel like, oh you say no? Yeah, we 0:29:23.320 --> 0:29:25.560 said We've said no to a lot of stuff that 0:29:26.080 --> 0:29:28.360 we thought, you know, like it could have the same thing, 0:29:28.400 --> 0:29:30.200 like it could have like oh it was really cool 0:29:30.240 --> 0:29:32.920 and it was whatever bought us like here or here here, 0:29:32.920 --> 0:29:35.040 but we didn't like the person that was doing it, 0:29:35.200 --> 0:29:38.080 or we didn't get a good feeling. Yeah, and you 0:29:38.160 --> 0:29:40.080 just say no and then you you don't miss it. 0:29:40.600 --> 0:29:42.840 You know, you know something in that open space for 0:29:42.920 --> 0:29:45.560 something that does all right to come in. Because that's 0:29:45.600 --> 0:29:47.920 another thing people don't realize. If you say yes to something, 0:29:47.920 --> 0:29:52.680 then you you're occupied, like you don't have that availability anymore, 0:29:53.280 --> 0:29:56.080 or something that you actually should be doing. I feel 0:29:56.080 --> 0:29:59.480 like we've never said no to an opportunity that and 0:29:59.600 --> 0:30:02.000 we you've never looked back and been like, dang, like 0:30:02.080 --> 0:30:04.320 we should have done We've never ever done that. I've 0:30:04.320 --> 0:30:06.800 never done that. It's always like we always feel like 0:30:07.200 --> 0:30:09.440 it's let us know. If anything, it comes full circle, 0:30:09.480 --> 0:30:11.680 we're like, wow, we're really glad we didn't do that. 0:30:12.960 --> 0:30:15.120 So tell me about music, because you girls like music 0:30:15.200 --> 0:30:17.120 is your heart and soul. Tell me what's going on 0:30:17.120 --> 0:30:20.080 with your musical the right now? Well, I mean tell 0:30:20.120 --> 0:30:21.800 we got the last album? When did y'all? When did 0:30:21.800 --> 0:30:23.520 that when you released it was a while ago. I 0:30:23.840 --> 0:30:25.680 was almost two years as a two years ago. I 0:30:25.760 --> 0:30:29.000 got the writing ever since. So we're we're always writing. 0:30:29.320 --> 0:30:31.160 We we like to keep that part of our brain 0:30:31.240 --> 0:30:34.840 like active. Um. We put out singles every now and then, 0:30:34.960 --> 0:30:37.880 and yeah, and like right now we're shooting music video 0:30:37.920 --> 0:30:41.840 this weekend. It's called hand Online and it's one of 0:30:41.880 --> 0:30:45.360 those songs that you really like you have to listen 0:30:45.360 --> 0:30:48.080 to the words because the chorus is the same, but 0:30:48.440 --> 0:30:51.000 the verses tell two different stories and it all like 0:30:51.120 --> 0:30:55.880 but it all ties together. Well Okay, so yeah, we're 0:30:55.880 --> 0:30:58.280 really excited because we kind of took like a halftime 0:30:58.320 --> 0:31:00.800 I feel like on that and we're just now tapping 0:31:00.840 --> 0:31:03.200 back into it. Hatch ime on on like just the 0:31:03.280 --> 0:31:05.200 music part. Like we put out singles and stuff, but 0:31:05.200 --> 0:31:06.520 I feel like now we're like, all right, we're going 0:31:06.600 --> 0:31:08.280 to kick it back and eat. Now You're like, okay, 0:31:08.640 --> 0:31:10.480 two years have gone by since we put out an album. 0:31:11.080 --> 0:31:15.520 We're craving it. Crazing yes, absolutely, like you're feeling they're 0:31:15.640 --> 0:31:18.719 the urge to do it, and like we we do 0:31:18.800 --> 0:31:21.520 this thing like when we're like practicing or whatever, Like 0:31:21.600 --> 0:31:24.320 sometimes we'll be like singing together and like we like 0:31:24.360 --> 0:31:26.600 look at each other when we're done, we're like, oh god, 0:31:26.800 --> 0:31:29.520 we felt that, and like that doesn't and if we 0:31:29.560 --> 0:31:31.200 feel like we haven't had that in a while, but 0:31:31.240 --> 0:31:34.040 I feel like we've been having it more recently. And 0:31:34.280 --> 0:31:36.440 that's what's like. We don't pressure ourselves, you know, to 0:31:36.480 --> 0:31:38.080 be like we gotta put out this, gotta put out that, 0:31:38.120 --> 0:31:41.480 Like we wait until we crave it again. And we're 0:31:41.520 --> 0:31:43.600 craving it again, that's when the magic. And that's when 0:31:43.640 --> 0:31:46.880 the magic, that's when inspiration is ready to receive. That's 0:31:46.920 --> 0:31:49.880 an inspiration. You girls are really good at listening to 0:31:49.920 --> 0:31:52.400 your heart. Is that scary? Just operating from your heart? 0:31:52.640 --> 0:31:55.000 Are you so used to it now that I feel 0:31:55.000 --> 0:31:56.600 like we're so used to it, I feel like it 0:31:56.640 --> 0:32:01.000 hasn't led us wrong. Um. Yeah, And I feel like 0:32:01.000 --> 0:32:03.160 our mom really taught us to like always do that 0:32:03.240 --> 0:32:05.200 and so like if you also always the cutest person 0:32:05.240 --> 0:32:10.040 on her, she actually kept shopping with this up she did. 0:32:10.880 --> 0:32:12.520 So what did she teach you? How did she instill 0:32:12.600 --> 0:32:14.920 that in you? I feel like it was something she 0:32:15.000 --> 0:32:18.240 must have done since we were like babies, because there 0:32:18.320 --> 0:32:20.880 was never like a It was always just like an 0:32:20.880 --> 0:32:25.000 automatic thing. Yeah, there's never another option but to do that. Literally, 0:32:25.120 --> 0:32:27.080 so she if something bad would happened, what would your 0:32:27.120 --> 0:32:30.280 mom's response be, she'd be like, she would be like, 0:32:30.360 --> 0:32:33.000 you know, everything happens for a reason. You just need 0:32:33.000 --> 0:32:35.560 to trust that that didn't work out for a reason, 0:32:35.760 --> 0:32:38.200 and whatever is going to happen is gonna happen. The 0:32:38.280 --> 0:32:40.120 great person to grow up with as a voice in 0:32:40.120 --> 0:32:43.040 your pad. Yeah, and she never she never like forced 0:32:43.120 --> 0:32:45.160 us to do anything, like I think that's like why 0:32:45.200 --> 0:32:47.960 we're so we follow exactly what we want and what 0:32:48.000 --> 0:32:50.280 we feel because she never told us to do anything. 0:32:50.320 --> 0:32:51.960 She never told us how to dress, she never told 0:32:52.000 --> 0:32:54.880 us how to like choose to spend our time. She 0:32:55.000 --> 0:32:57.040 never forced us to do anything. So it was it 0:32:57.120 --> 0:32:59.360 was very all up to us our whole so like 0:32:59.360 --> 0:33:02.920 our like let us everywhere throughout our childhood, middle school, 0:33:03.000 --> 0:33:06.640 high school, Yeah and so and so we like you 0:33:06.720 --> 0:33:09.800 got used to trusting that. And how do you girls 0:33:09.840 --> 0:33:12.240 work together? Like what does y'alls five together? How do 0:33:12.360 --> 0:33:16.080 y'all flow? Like? What is the personality difference in similarities? 0:33:16.840 --> 0:33:18.800 I mean, at the end of the day, we're always 0:33:18.800 --> 0:33:22.600 on the same page. Oh yeah, but I don't know 0:33:22.760 --> 0:33:26.920 it's She's definitely more like the social butterfly. Like I 0:33:27.000 --> 0:33:29.479 take a while to open up to people. And I 0:33:29.520 --> 0:33:31.880 don't know why because I wasn't like that my whole life. 0:33:32.000 --> 0:33:34.040 I don't know. I think something along the way kind 0:33:34.080 --> 0:33:37.480 up made me hesitant, like hesitant, like you had a roadblock, 0:33:37.560 --> 0:33:39.440 it kind of scarred you, and like maybe you didn't 0:33:39.440 --> 0:33:41.760 realize it what it was, but it'll probably wake up 0:33:41.760 --> 0:33:45.880 one day and be like that was it. Yeah, Yeah, 0:33:45.920 --> 0:33:49.040 I mean I'm yeah, I'm definitely more like I feel 0:33:49.080 --> 0:33:51.760 like I just I know everybody, and there's like certain 0:33:51.800 --> 0:33:53.800 things that like come I'll be like, hey, liked like 0:33:54.200 --> 0:33:55.800 some and so said they wanted to do this, Like 0:33:56.080 --> 0:33:58.400 what do you think? And then you'll be like, Okay, 0:33:58.440 --> 0:34:00.240 well let's like look into it and like let see 0:34:00.240 --> 0:34:02.000 how we can maximize it, you know what I mean, 0:34:02.360 --> 0:34:04.000 take the time to kind of like make it more 0:34:04.000 --> 0:34:06.080 of like a thing where I'm just like, let's just 0:34:06.120 --> 0:34:08.040 do it all the time. That's just like everything, but 0:34:08.120 --> 0:34:10.800 that's part of like your whimsical like joy that makes 0:34:10.840 --> 0:34:13.279 you such like a special little human is like you 0:34:13.360 --> 0:34:18.280 don't even need to think about that. You're just like yes, yeah, 0:34:18.320 --> 0:34:22.640 like it's great, but they feel like she's so much 0:34:22.680 --> 0:34:27.000 better with money, and like literally today like I just 0:34:27.040 --> 0:34:28.879 like there was just like the stupid thing that like 0:34:29.239 --> 0:34:31.880 I can't I can't do anything with detail or money 0:34:32.080 --> 0:34:35.840 or emails or like uploading things, and she just folded. 0:34:36.120 --> 0:34:38.560 I just I just I just feel I can't do it, 0:34:38.600 --> 0:34:41.680 Like the technical like movie pretty stuff is just so 0:34:41.719 --> 0:34:44.399 stressful to me. And so she does all of that. 0:34:44.840 --> 0:34:46.880 We have our we have our roles in our and 0:34:46.920 --> 0:34:49.760 I'm like, while you upload that video, I'll clean the kitchen. Yeah, 0:34:50.040 --> 0:34:52.719 so that works out. Yeah, you know, so y'all just 0:34:52.800 --> 0:34:54.520 have to make it work and it's just a natural flow. 0:34:55.280 --> 0:34:57.920 How lucky is that? It's really lucky. I have to 0:34:57.920 --> 0:35:00.040 ask you guys. Oh well, actually I was an you 0:35:00.040 --> 0:35:01.520 guys a few questions on my phone, but I haven't 0:35:01.600 --> 0:35:03.120 so I know, I want to kind of like get 0:35:03.160 --> 0:35:05.880 to a little hard questions because y'all are so hard oriented. 0:35:06.880 --> 0:35:12.279 What does the world need now? Oh? What will this 0:35:12.400 --> 0:35:18.000 be a good answer? I feel like it needs um unity. 0:35:19.960 --> 0:35:24.120 That's like the most impossible thing right now. But just 0:35:24.200 --> 0:35:28.319 with like no matter which political view you have, no 0:35:28.360 --> 0:35:32.480 matter what you view, like I feel like the separation 0:35:32.600 --> 0:35:35.799 is just what makes everything so much worse. People are 0:35:35.880 --> 0:35:40.799 so busy like fighting their you know, like politician and 0:35:41.000 --> 0:35:44.520 political political people are so busy fighting their political views 0:35:44.520 --> 0:35:47.640 on Facebook that they're forgetting the fact that like so 0:35:47.719 --> 0:35:51.400 many kids died or over like the Florida shooting, and 0:35:51.440 --> 0:35:53.920 it's like it's taking all the sensitivity out of it. 0:35:53.960 --> 0:35:56.360 I feel like we need to like be more sensitive 0:35:56.440 --> 0:35:58.680 and like, yeah, it's like they're It's like there are 0:35:58.719 --> 0:36:01.080 people that like, no matter what, like if you like 0:36:02.239 --> 0:36:05.560 strip people down to like just people, it's like there's 0:36:05.560 --> 0:36:08.279 still a human being who has hard days and like 0:36:08.480 --> 0:36:12.640 really like real emotions, and it's just like you need 0:36:12.680 --> 0:36:16.200 each other more than you know. And but it's also 0:36:16.280 --> 0:36:19.400 like we teach our children to not yell at each other, 0:36:19.480 --> 0:36:22.880 not hit each other, to treat each other with respect, 0:36:22.920 --> 0:36:25.920 but then as adults, we don't even respect each other. 0:36:26.080 --> 0:36:28.360 We just start yelling at each other and drawing huge 0:36:28.440 --> 0:36:32.440 barriers between each other. When how can we Why can't 0:36:32.480 --> 0:36:35.440 we just meet in the middle and have real conversations. 0:36:35.920 --> 0:36:39.880 Are trying to political okay anyway, but the world needs unity. Yeah, okay, 0:36:39.920 --> 0:36:47.040 what does love mean to y'all? Oh? Do you want 0:36:47.080 --> 0:36:50.200 to go first. Um, I feel like it means support, 0:36:50.400 --> 0:36:53.879 Like that was like the first thing that like kind 0:36:53.880 --> 0:36:56.919 of keeping in mind, just like having somebody be there 0:36:57.000 --> 0:37:02.080 for you and support you like and through like your 0:37:02.160 --> 0:37:05.760 crazy like times, just like really be there for you, 0:37:05.840 --> 0:37:08.880 like and like mean it. You know, Like that's like 0:37:08.920 --> 0:37:12.399 what love is for me, Like showing up. It's showing up, yeah, 0:37:12.560 --> 0:37:14.239 and like doing the things that you don't want to 0:37:14.239 --> 0:37:17.440 do for yourself, you know, like sometimes like you know, 0:37:17.480 --> 0:37:19.000 you just you don't want to do it, but like 0:37:19.040 --> 0:37:23.279 somebody who loves you will always do whatever that is 0:37:23.320 --> 0:37:25.120 for you, whether it be like literally a physical thing 0:37:25.160 --> 0:37:26.719 like oh I don't want to take the trash out, 0:37:27.000 --> 0:37:28.880 but like you know, you're just like stuff like or 0:37:28.920 --> 0:37:30.360 just like I don't want to love myself today, like 0:37:30.400 --> 0:37:33.480 somebody else like it shows up and does that for you. 0:37:34.000 --> 0:37:38.200 That's what I think. I think mine's similar in a way. 0:37:38.239 --> 0:37:42.960 But I think it's acceptance because there's like once you 0:37:43.080 --> 0:37:46.200 find like the right person and obviously like your mom 0:37:46.320 --> 0:37:49.399 and your family, they all accept you and know you 0:37:49.520 --> 0:37:53.520 and love you anyway for anything that you do, everything 0:37:53.560 --> 0:37:55.640 that you are. And I think that that's like that 0:37:55.800 --> 0:37:58.720 is the meaning of love. To me, is just loving 0:37:59.120 --> 0:38:02.160 and joying this person for everything that they are and 0:38:02.200 --> 0:38:05.000 not trying to change exactly to be like you or 0:38:05.160 --> 0:38:06.640 because you think it needs to be like this, and 0:38:06.800 --> 0:38:09.960 accepting the full thing. I agree. I feel like if 0:38:09.960 --> 0:38:12.879 we can accept each other and just like everyone I love, 0:38:13.120 --> 0:38:15.520 I know the parts of their personality that drive me crazy, 0:38:15.800 --> 0:38:18.520 Like I'm very aware that drives me crazy about people, 0:38:18.719 --> 0:38:21.560 But then I'm also very aware about what I probably 0:38:21.560 --> 0:38:25.200 do to drive crazy. It's like, instead of focusing on 0:38:25.320 --> 0:38:28.680 that like that drives his nuts, let's focus on the 0:38:28.719 --> 0:38:33.080 seventy five that's awesome drew to them, And yeah, I 0:38:33.120 --> 0:38:36.839 totally agree with that. Okay, what do you think darkness is? 0:38:38.520 --> 0:38:43.520 I know what is darkness, and I think I think 0:38:43.520 --> 0:38:47.520 a lot of darkness it comes from yourself, honestly, Like 0:38:47.560 --> 0:38:50.880 it's all yourself. Yeah, because how do you what is? 0:38:51.080 --> 0:38:53.040 What do you mean yourself? I feel like a lot 0:38:53.120 --> 0:38:55.759 of it for me is you know, being scared that 0:38:56.120 --> 0:38:59.480 you're basically telling yourself that you're not good enough or 0:38:59.640 --> 0:39:03.680 telling yourself that so worth Yeah, exactly, it's it's a 0:39:03.719 --> 0:39:05.759 lot of it. I feel it comes from your head, 0:39:06.040 --> 0:39:08.480 Like totally, your head can be a very dark place, 0:39:08.520 --> 0:39:11.520 but it can also be a very happy place. It's 0:39:11.560 --> 0:39:14.560 definitely like you telling yourself like that you're not worthy 0:39:14.600 --> 0:39:16.360 of this, you're not worthy of good things, You're not 0:39:16.400 --> 0:39:20.120 worthy like of whatever. Like that can get so dark 0:39:20.200 --> 0:39:21.719 so quick, and then it just that just leads to 0:39:21.800 --> 0:39:24.440 darkness everywhere else. Yeah, like it really it makes it 0:39:24.480 --> 0:39:26.640 harder to find the joy and things that actually are 0:39:26.719 --> 0:39:29.560 joyful because you're so distracted by the darkness. It turns 0:39:29.600 --> 0:39:32.600 you like dark. So people don't love you, like people 0:39:32.640 --> 0:39:34.160 don't want to support you because they're like, she doesn't 0:39:34.160 --> 0:39:37.360 even support herself. Some people can have tons of proof 0:39:37.400 --> 0:39:39.560 to back it up, then their their head that what 0:39:39.600 --> 0:39:43.040 they're thinking their head is right, like like, well my 0:39:43.080 --> 0:39:45.400 parents told me this growing up, that I was worthy, 0:39:45.480 --> 0:39:47.640 or I had a teacher he said I've never mounted anything, 0:39:47.880 --> 0:39:51.439 or you know, I look weird in my mind or something, 0:39:51.480 --> 0:39:53.239 and so they have all this proof that they can 0:39:53.320 --> 0:39:56.120 back up and validate their darkness, and so then they 0:39:56.320 --> 0:39:59.520 consider it fat But really that's still just your head. 0:39:59.600 --> 0:40:02.799 It is. It's not fact, because no one can tell 0:40:02.800 --> 0:40:05.520 you you're worth about yourself and you're already worthy because 0:40:05.719 --> 0:40:08.520 we're here exactly. That's really all the proof we need 0:40:08.560 --> 0:40:10.080 that we're worthy, But it took me a long time 0:40:10.120 --> 0:40:14.960 to realize that daily. It's still I know that now, 0:40:15.040 --> 0:40:18.040 but I still forget it. That's a really good concept though, that, 0:40:18.120 --> 0:40:21.400 like some people think things in their heads are facts 0:40:21.480 --> 0:40:23.480 because they have proof because people who they have put 0:40:23.520 --> 0:40:27.480 in an authority figure have told them things. Is to 0:40:27.520 --> 0:40:30.040 retrain your brain. You have to rewire your stuff, and 0:40:30.120 --> 0:40:31.680 it takes a lot of work. And I think that's 0:40:31.680 --> 0:40:34.040 what some people don't realize, like even like for us 0:40:34.040 --> 0:40:35.800 to be like, we worked really hard on being happy 0:40:35.800 --> 0:40:37.600 and positive, and it's like people are like, oh, they're 0:40:37.640 --> 0:40:40.040 just so happy and life is so great for people 0:40:40.080 --> 0:40:41.920 just like, oh, my gosh, do you even know how 0:40:41.960 --> 0:40:44.319 many books have to read again? How many things about 0:40:44.360 --> 0:40:48.760 how things are? That's a daily practice. It's a choice 0:40:48.880 --> 0:40:51.600 every single day, like for me. And once you start 0:40:51.680 --> 0:40:53.440 choosing it, don't you feel like it gets to become 0:40:53.520 --> 0:40:57.680 more habit habit. But you have to in the beginning. 0:40:57.719 --> 0:40:59.600 I remember when I was changing because I didn't always 0:40:59.640 --> 0:41:01.680 used to be positive at all, and I was changing it. 0:41:01.719 --> 0:41:04.360 I had to just make that choice every day and 0:41:04.400 --> 0:41:09.440 it's sting. Yeah, it's so worth it. It's so worth it. Yeah, Okay, 0:41:09.600 --> 0:41:12.880 So my last thing I want to ask what is 0:41:12.920 --> 0:41:14.319 I think I might have asked on this before, but 0:41:14.360 --> 0:41:16.239 what is your favorite thing about Megan? And what is 0:41:16.280 --> 0:41:18.040 your favorite thing about lizz Well, I wonder what I 0:41:18.040 --> 0:41:22.799 forgot what I said last time can do different ones. 0:41:23.600 --> 0:41:28.879 I mean, my favorite thing about you. It's so hard 0:41:28.920 --> 0:41:31.240 to think of just like w I'll think of something 0:41:31.280 --> 0:41:33.200 that's like, I know I didn't say this last time 0:41:33.320 --> 0:41:37.040 because it's been highlighted in the wedding planning, so you 0:41:37.280 --> 0:41:40.040 this is a kind thing. It's kind of weird, but 0:41:40.080 --> 0:41:43.399 like I'm so grateful for it is. She pushes me 0:41:43.640 --> 0:41:48.880 to like like I don't even know, like to like 0:41:49.040 --> 0:41:51.719 be better for myself. Like when even when it comes 0:41:51.760 --> 0:41:54.480 to like you know, like I'm just so like I 0:41:54.480 --> 0:41:56.799 don't care, Like I'm like whatever, like I can cheep 0:41:56.800 --> 0:41:59.360 out on stuff like I don't care. But Megan's like, no, 0:41:59.440 --> 0:42:01.640 you need to you need to invest in yourself a 0:42:01.640 --> 0:42:03.799 little bit. You need to like you need to know 0:42:03.880 --> 0:42:06.040 that like when you look back on the wedding day 0:42:06.160 --> 0:42:07.920 or like whenever this time, like you're not going to 0:42:08.000 --> 0:42:10.640 be happy with this because you were just like not 0:42:10.760 --> 0:42:12.680 caring and you're just like trying to take the easy 0:42:12.719 --> 0:42:15.239 way out. She's like, you need to invest in yourself 0:42:15.440 --> 0:42:18.040 on whether it be like a little bit more money 0:42:18.080 --> 0:42:21.480 in the photographer or like stuff like that. But you 0:42:21.520 --> 0:42:23.920 do this for me like in my life too. You know. 0:42:23.960 --> 0:42:25.799 You're like you're like, no, you can do better than that. 0:42:25.800 --> 0:42:31.080 You don't change yourself. I don't. Yeah, awesome, Why you 0:42:31.120 --> 0:42:35.640 do that? I always do? Yeah? Always? Probably It's like 0:42:35.800 --> 0:42:37.520 I'm sort of in that same way, like I hate 0:42:37.640 --> 0:42:40.719 like the details part of things and like electronics and 0:42:40.760 --> 0:42:42.640 like figuring out how to upload stuff and like stuff 0:42:42.680 --> 0:42:46.160 that takes a lot of time and it feels like, um, 0:42:46.360 --> 0:42:49.680 it's work. I'm usually like, oh god, how could I 0:42:49.719 --> 0:42:53.160 not do that work? Yeah? Really though, but then you're 0:42:53.280 --> 0:42:56.359 right because you're like, but it's going to pay off, yeah, 0:42:56.480 --> 0:42:58.479 and you're gonna be so happy you did it. Yeah, 0:42:59.000 --> 0:43:02.200 it's true. Yeah, Megan, you're up. Okay. I think mine 0:43:02.760 --> 0:43:05.839 is just that, like I don't know, she it kind 0:43:05.840 --> 0:43:08.960 of goes back to the acceptance thing because like I 0:43:09.000 --> 0:43:13.760 feel like on a daily basis, I'm like here here, here, here, 0:43:13.760 --> 0:43:16.560 here here. Yeah, I'm just like all over the place 0:43:16.600 --> 0:43:18.839 with like my emotions or how I feel about things, 0:43:18.920 --> 0:43:23.400 and like she's like always there no matter what crazy 0:43:23.520 --> 0:43:26.200 thought pops in my head. I don't hesitate to say 0:43:26.239 --> 0:43:28.640 it out loud and be like so, like this isn't 0:43:28.640 --> 0:43:30.880 like a thing right, And she's always like no, like 0:43:30.960 --> 0:43:35.000 it's totally And she never like dings me. She's never like, man, 0:43:35.160 --> 0:43:37.400 can you stop talking about that? She'll talk me through it. 0:43:37.520 --> 0:43:39.360 She'll walk me through it, and I'll be like, Okay, 0:43:39.480 --> 0:43:41.440 I'll be feeling like way better than I was in 0:43:41.480 --> 0:43:44.600 my head. Takes the time to go through it all 0:43:44.640 --> 0:43:47.640 with you, doesn't just like discount your feelings. Yeah, she 0:43:47.800 --> 0:43:50.359 like takes the time to understand like why I'm feeling them, 0:43:50.400 --> 0:43:52.839 and she'll talk to work you through it. Yeah, talk 0:43:52.920 --> 0:43:56.200 me down, talk me down. That's what we say, to 0:43:56.400 --> 0:44:01.120 me down, talk me down. I don't up got how 0:44:01.200 --> 0:44:05.799 incredible is you're sweet sweet sisterhood. It's pretty good. What 0:44:05.840 --> 0:44:09.719 a blessing it makes you and you are having. You're 0:44:09.800 --> 0:44:13.080 easing your way into separating because Liz how to go 0:44:13.120 --> 0:44:16.040 off and get engaged, so now you can't get together, 0:44:16.320 --> 0:44:20.799 but lovely Megan Halftime lives in Memphis, So y'all are 0:44:21.000 --> 0:44:26.600 learning of art graduating. It's a thing. It is. I 0:44:26.640 --> 0:44:30.040 think it's just now feeling good to me, Like you 0:44:30.040 --> 0:44:32.280 know what I mean, like a week on week got right? Yeah, 0:44:32.320 --> 0:44:34.600 I feel like now it's like I'm not so scared 0:44:34.680 --> 0:44:37.560 of you leaving. It's almost like okay, like now when 0:44:37.600 --> 0:44:39.480 you go, it's like I know know what to expect. 0:44:39.520 --> 0:44:41.719 I know to expect, I know my own routines. Now 0:44:42.000 --> 0:44:44.640 you know, I'm not totally dependent on her routine to 0:44:44.719 --> 0:44:47.480 like structure my routine. So you're learning faster than me. 0:44:47.520 --> 0:44:50.719 Because my poor boyfriend he comes home and he's like, 0:44:50.760 --> 0:44:52.640 you're not mad at me, You're mad that Lizz isn't here. 0:44:52.640 --> 0:45:01.279 And I'm like, you're right, God take it out. Yeah, 0:45:01.840 --> 0:45:03.600 I mean I feel like but like even so like 0:45:03.640 --> 0:45:07.960 we like we FaceTime, text call every day every day 0:45:08.080 --> 0:45:10.200 no matter what, even if we're together, I swear we're 0:45:10.239 --> 0:45:15.200 like texting. Like it's like all okay, So I wrap up, 0:45:15.280 --> 0:45:18.279 leave your lights. So just leave some inspiration, some positivity 0:45:18.280 --> 0:45:19.840 you want to show in the world, maybe like what 0:45:19.880 --> 0:45:23.080 you would want to tell young girls or young influencers. 0:45:23.120 --> 0:45:28.040 Just like leave the inspiration anything you want. It doesn't 0:45:28.040 --> 0:45:30.520 have to be anything. It could be anything, anything, is inspiring. 0:45:30.960 --> 0:45:34.719 I'd say, no matter what you're going through in your 0:45:34.719 --> 0:45:38.200 life right now, whether it be good, bad, best day 0:45:38.200 --> 0:45:40.319 of your life, worth saved your life. I think it's 0:45:40.320 --> 0:45:44.320 important for everybody to embrace the fact that nothing is forever. 0:45:44.560 --> 0:45:46.400 So if you're having the worst day of your life, 0:45:47.880 --> 0:45:49.319 it won't be the worst day of your life forever. 0:45:49.400 --> 0:45:51.120 But if you're having the best day of your life, 0:45:51.640 --> 0:45:54.440 don't let that get to your head. Yeah, I love that. 0:45:54.520 --> 0:45:57.239 Let that keep you, like, enjoy it for everything that 0:45:57.239 --> 0:45:59.799 it's worth. And no, they'll come again, but don't let 0:45:59.840 --> 0:46:01.680 it over your head, and don't get stuck there and 0:46:01.719 --> 0:46:04.279 think it then because you self sabotaged because you're so 0:46:04.400 --> 0:46:07.600 worried about losing. No, it's going to pass. Yes, it's 0:46:07.640 --> 0:46:10.080 all gonna pass. Yes, but more stuff is gonna come. Yes. 0:46:10.160 --> 0:46:18.479 I love that. Yeah, follow that. I think I'm gonna 0:46:18.520 --> 0:46:21.759 do a love themed one. Yeah, because you're gonna go 0:46:23.719 --> 0:46:26.400 all that. A lot of people like keep asking me 0:46:26.480 --> 0:46:29.280 like how did you know? Like that's like the number 0:46:29.320 --> 0:46:31.920 one question that people are like literally like I did 0:46:31.960 --> 0:46:33.640 a question and answer and they're like, how did you know? 0:46:33.680 --> 0:46:35.120 He was the one? Like how did you know? How 0:46:35.120 --> 0:46:37.480 did you know and like how do you know? I 0:46:37.560 --> 0:46:39.719 mean a great question. Yeah, and so I guess like 0:46:39.800 --> 0:46:43.600 my advice is like how you know is is like 0:46:43.640 --> 0:46:45.480 you have to again, you have to listen to your 0:46:45.520 --> 0:46:48.600 to where you are. You can't like think that, Oh 0:46:48.760 --> 0:46:51.120 like I'm the sage now, So I'm it's time to 0:46:51.120 --> 0:46:55.560 get married to pressure or fear. Yeah, you can't do that, 0:46:55.680 --> 0:46:59.960 and um, the right person will like the kind of 0:47:00.120 --> 0:47:03.000 love that you feel. It won't make you question, um 0:47:03.040 --> 0:47:06.560 if there's anything else. Um. I feel like with all 0:47:06.600 --> 0:47:09.480 of my other relationships before this one, I would always 0:47:09.520 --> 0:47:11.279 be like, this is great. You can because you can 0:47:11.360 --> 0:47:15.719 have something great. But if you're still questioning, like this 0:47:15.800 --> 0:47:17.319 is great, but like, wow, I wonder if I'd be 0:47:17.320 --> 0:47:20.279 better with somebody else totally um. But not to get 0:47:20.320 --> 0:47:25.080 that confused with anxiety, because anxiety can do those questions too. 0:47:25.320 --> 0:47:27.560 But I mean if you're really like for months at 0:47:27.560 --> 0:47:30.959 a time being like I don't know, like I feel 0:47:30.960 --> 0:47:34.839 like there's somebody better for me, like you're probably right, 0:47:34.840 --> 0:47:36.440 and then you're like, oh, there's probably not, and I 0:47:36.480 --> 0:47:38.520 don't want to I don't want to lose this. I'm 0:47:38.520 --> 0:47:41.040 just gonna you don't want to get don't want to 0:47:41.080 --> 0:47:44.080 do because as someone that's married, if you are not 0:47:44.600 --> 0:47:46.799 totally like best friends and like in it to win 0:47:46.880 --> 0:47:49.000 it marriage, there's all sorts of stuff at you that 0:47:49.080 --> 0:47:50.920 have nothing to do with how much you love each other. 0:47:51.400 --> 0:47:54.359 But you got to have that foundation. I totally agree. 0:47:54.640 --> 0:47:59.600 So definitely, like make sure but you're not questioning other things, 0:47:59.640 --> 0:48:01.759 and you know, like with the person that you love, 0:48:01.840 --> 0:48:03.680 like you will be the one and you will know 0:48:03.800 --> 0:48:05.840 what it's the one, Like you really will know, Like 0:48:05.880 --> 0:48:07.440 when they say you know, you know, it's like you 0:48:07.480 --> 0:48:09.520 really do. That's a real thing. It's kind of don't 0:48:09.520 --> 0:48:10.800 you feel like it's sort of just like almost like 0:48:10.800 --> 0:48:13.880 a peace thing too, like you just sort of are yourself. 0:48:14.200 --> 0:48:17.520 I read something that said, like someone who was not 0:48:17.600 --> 0:48:19.840 your soul mate will make you feel like all sorts 0:48:19.840 --> 0:48:22.000 of things like up and down and some passion and 0:48:22.040 --> 0:48:25.920 crazy stuff like when you're with your one, you feel 0:48:25.960 --> 0:48:28.759 all this passion, but it's with peace behind it. It's 0:48:28.760 --> 0:48:32.960 you just feel like, yes, it could be yourself table. Yeah, 0:48:33.120 --> 0:48:36.279 you don't have to put on an air. I love 0:48:36.360 --> 0:48:39.080 that question. I'm so glad that you address that because 0:48:39.120 --> 0:48:41.759 you should never get married because you feel like you're 0:48:42.280 --> 0:48:44.279 because you feel like no one's gonna love you for 0:48:44.320 --> 0:48:47.840 any reason other than this person. Let you be you, 0:48:47.880 --> 0:48:51.760 and I actually agree, like you genuinely feel like there's 0:48:52.640 --> 0:48:54.200 like no one else that you would rather be with, 0:48:54.520 --> 0:48:56.440 Like I'm not you're not even thinking about it. You're 0:48:56.480 --> 0:48:59.080 not like really like oh, like oh that person that 0:48:59.160 --> 0:49:00.799 used to date, Like no, like you just have to 0:49:00.840 --> 0:49:03.400 have no questions. It's just yeah, you're like I freaking 0:49:03.440 --> 0:49:05.400 Leonardo DiCaprio came up and said, you're the one you're 0:49:05.440 --> 0:49:08.560 gonna be Like dude, sorry, I'm person. Yeah it has 0:49:08.640 --> 0:49:11.160 to be that strong. Yeah, it really does. But mean, 0:49:11.200 --> 0:49:12.839 Leo would be a hard so ill to turn down. 0:49:13.080 --> 0:49:17.759 But yeah, but like yeah, but I mean I love 0:49:17.760 --> 0:49:20.680 you too, but like I can't love you Titanic, But 0:49:21.880 --> 0:49:24.759 could we act out that one thing just at the 0:49:24.760 --> 0:49:28.839 ours out check I'm flying? Can we just do that? 0:49:29.160 --> 0:49:33.160 And that's all you're gonna get? Thank God, Thank began, Liz. 0:49:33.239 --> 0:49:35.840 I love y'all so much. Thank you for joining me again, 0:49:36.000 --> 0:49:38.959 all my influencers series. You are the best. New music 0:49:39.000 --> 0:49:42.200 coming soon very soon. Yeah, it music coming soon. We 0:49:42.200 --> 0:49:46.440 have a wedding coming soon, so exciting. I love you, girl, you, 0:49:46.600 --> 0:49:50.880 love you all. Thank you all so much for tuning in. 0:49:51.040 --> 0:49:54.000 How awesome was that interview? I love Megan and Liz. 0:49:54.000 --> 0:49:56.480 They are just the best. That's so much awesome stuff 0:49:56.520 --> 0:49:59.080 to say, so I love them for coming back, you guys, 0:49:59.160 --> 0:50:01.600 and we have more Influencer series coming up at you 0:50:02.000 --> 0:50:12.120 next week. We'll see you then, okay m hm.