Speaker 1: Carol. She's the queen of talking. He was sown. She's
Speaker 1: on the side. She got the scoop on side. No
Speaker 1: one can do with quiet, my Carol, Carola. No one
Speaker 1: can do with quiet, Carol, Caroline. My two favorite twins
Speaker 1: are back to my Influencer series. Megan and Liz are
Speaker 1: joining me today and I love them. They're the brightest lights.
Speaker 1: They are so purehearted. They have so much going on,
Speaker 1: their incredible influencers and they're just talking all about how
Speaker 1: they do what they do, and they have great advice.
Speaker 1: So get excited. Here are Megan and Liz. Okay, hi, lady, Hello,
Speaker 1: I'm here with my two most favorite twins in the
Speaker 1: world and our my favorite sort of shot together. Yes,
Speaker 1: Lizard Thickett, Greenhills, and come over here real fast and
Speaker 1: really fast. Come on, we have to have the kid
Speaker 1: and the owner make a quick cameo. Yes, she's the
Speaker 1: Wald this is and Stanford Stamford, Yes, Staniford. Okay, she
Speaker 1: has the cue. Plis ever we're dressed in Lizard Thickett.
Speaker 1: We love it in the Green Hills location. So all
Speaker 1: y'all listening, get your booties over here and see Anne. Yes,
Speaker 1: tell if we sent you and you get how much
Speaker 1: person off if you come to out Anne that Megan,
Speaker 1: Liz and Caroline sent you twenty percent off in the
Speaker 1: Greenhealth Lizard Thicket sounds good to me. Christmas coming on?
Speaker 1: We love it. Okay, so we're knocking ourselves out, So
Speaker 1: guys talk to me. I already interviewed a once and
Speaker 1: it was the best interview because you two are the
Speaker 1: most positive people that ever existed. We were actually talking
Speaker 1: about that earlier, saying like, oh, I feel like my
Speaker 1: juju is office a little bit, because if you don't
Speaker 1: keep up the positive thinking, it really can send you
Speaker 1: down a negative. Yeah, it's to tell me what's going on?
Speaker 1: Like why are we stressed it out? Because there's not
Speaker 1: anything big happening. And y'all was like, oh, these days
Speaker 1: your life as a one and the twins, everything that
Speaker 1: happens to one happens to both, right, Yes, yes, I
Speaker 1: mean it's just I feel like I woke up the
Speaker 1: other day and like I was, I was like posting
Speaker 1: about like the Sunday scar Ese, yes, explaining because it's
Speaker 1: just like starting the new week. Yeah, It's just like
Speaker 1: and I feel like And a lot of people actually
Speaker 1: replied to it and they were like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: Like I totally relate to this. It's like it's almost
Speaker 1: like when you have a week full of stuff that
Speaker 1: even if it's great, it's just like you're expecting it
Speaker 1: to go one way. You're like, oh my gosh, how
Speaker 1: is going to happen? Like for some reason about anything
Speaker 1: positive happens, like most people's brains, I feel like, tend
Speaker 1: to think of the worst possible thing that could happen
Speaker 1: in the positive and like that because we're scared to
Speaker 1: lose it. Maybe it's like this is so great now
Speaker 1: to freak out that I lose it. Actually read and
Speaker 1: like The Secret or one of those books that a
Speaker 1: lot of people who have who build really huge empires
Speaker 1: also lose them because when you have nothing to lose,
Speaker 1: it's easy to build something. But then once you get it,
Speaker 1: you're like, oh my gosh, I got it, and then
Speaker 1: you're so scared to lose it that you lose it
Speaker 1: off because you start thinking about losing it. Yeah, do
Speaker 1: you think that's how that could happen? Yeah, oh yeah definitely.
Speaker 1: But then I also like I read something like it
Speaker 1: wasn't a Secret, but it was something like that. But
Speaker 1: like it was a quote that was like people dress
Speaker 1: rehearse tragedy. Yeah, break that down. So basically it just
Speaker 1: I mean I shared that with Like Basically, it's just
Speaker 1: like you play up like, oh well if I lose this,
Speaker 1: and you know it won't be that hard because I've
Speaker 1: already thought about it. You try and like soften the
Speaker 1: blow for yourself, but that doesn't work. It doesn't never happen.
Speaker 1: It never happens. And then when something bad actually does happen,
Speaker 1: you never saw it coming, yeah, and you didn't have
Speaker 1: time to d us rehearse it. So it's like it's
Speaker 1: it's a waste of time because the things that you
Speaker 1: think about are actually never the things that are going
Speaker 1: to happen. It's going because it's all make belief, So
Speaker 1: you're just making something up. Really like you said, yes,
Speaker 1: it's gonna be something totally different that you couldn't even expect.
Speaker 1: So why waste your time thanking negative thoughts? Exactly? Why? Okay,
Speaker 1: we just solved everyone's problems. So this whole series, this
Speaker 1: influencer series, I started because I've gotten to fall into
Speaker 1: this incredible group of girls with you guys, and there's
Speaker 1: like I don't know, Tim Humming out there, like Tim
Speaker 1: people that we talked to on a regular basis. But
Speaker 1: people are always coming in and out and it's this
Speaker 1: awesome group of influencers and everybody wants to know what
Speaker 1: an influencer is. So basically, what is an influencer to
Speaker 1: you guys? And how do you do this? And what
Speaker 1: is some like how do you get started as an influencer?
Speaker 1: I feel like I feel like everybody's definition of an
Speaker 1: influencer is a little bit different, depending on like what
Speaker 1: you feel like your strengths are. Because for us, I
Speaker 1: feel like the way we influence our audience is through music,
Speaker 1: but also through positivity and positive body image and you know,
Speaker 1: just just being the best version of yourself and just
Speaker 1: just that, you know, being yourself. And I think that
Speaker 1: that's what I think, that's what people latch onto I do,
Speaker 1: I really do. I think people like to see people
Speaker 1: being themselves. And also like I feel like every influencer
Speaker 1: has something that like is totally their own, you know,
Speaker 1: Like that's like there are so many beautiful women in
Speaker 1: this world and they all like should get like a
Speaker 1: million lives on Instagram. But like the difference is like
Speaker 1: like we have our music, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: Like that's something that we're so passionate about and we're like,
Speaker 1: you know, we're we pour ourselves into and then that's
Speaker 1: why people they want to see a succeed in the music.
Speaker 1: And then it's like, you know, like other ladies in
Speaker 1: the group have like there they talk about their kids
Speaker 1: and like their kids lives and like how that, and
Speaker 1: so they want to see their kids succeed. They want
Speaker 1: to see their you know all of that. So it's
Speaker 1: like we all have our different things, and I feel
Speaker 1: like that's really a little areas. Yeah, how do you
Speaker 1: guys like to get your product out there? Not product?
Speaker 1: What would it be like your post out there? Do
Speaker 1: you like to do through Instagram? Do you like to
Speaker 1: do through YouTube? Are you bloggers? How do you like
Speaker 1: or is it all of it? How do you all
Speaker 1: like to Is it through your music? How do people
Speaker 1: get your stuff? Like? How do you reach people the most?
Speaker 1: I feel like it's like a little bit of everything.
Speaker 1: It kind of depends on what the content I'm putting
Speaker 1: out is. Like if it's like a music video, obviously
Speaker 1: it'll live on YouTube. But if I could feel like
Speaker 1: pouring my heart and soul out in a blog about
Speaker 1: you know, a terrible week I had and how I
Speaker 1: grew from it. I'm going to type out a blog
Speaker 1: post and put it on our website. So it's like
Speaker 1: it just really depends on what's going on in our lives.
Speaker 1: I feel like if everything attached to your website, can
Speaker 1: you get to everyone from your website? So that's just
Speaker 1: Megan and lives dot com and that can take you
Speaker 1: to YouTube, that can take you to your music. So
Speaker 1: this is where you go for everything, y'all. Yeah? Yeah, basically,
Speaker 1: I mean it's just links to everything all of our socials.
Speaker 1: You can get there, and we have like content that
Speaker 1: lives there, like the blogs. So so my question is
Speaker 1: if you are talking to like new girls or new
Speaker 1: people who are wanting to get into what would your
Speaker 1: first steps be, Like what would you say, definitely do
Speaker 1: if you want to get into an influencer world and
Speaker 1: definitely do not do. I actually had a conversation with
Speaker 1: somebody like rolling the phone. Yeah it was a guy,
Speaker 1: which like interesting enough, Like but I mean, yeah, guys
Speaker 1: could be a Yeah. I mean, I'm just saying the
Speaker 1: same advice applies. But like when I was like talking
Speaker 1: to him like I. At first, I was like I
Speaker 1: don't know what to tell him, Like I don't know what,
Speaker 1: I don't know what to do. But as I was
Speaker 1: talking to I was like, you know what, Actually, um,
Speaker 1: the biggest thing that he thought was really helpful was
Speaker 1: asking And actually that's so Like there's another influencer named
Speaker 1: Alexis type Miller. Do you know who that is? So
Speaker 1: she's awesome to yeah, she's literally, but she is the
Speaker 1: one Alexis type Miller type Miller. So literally she's run
Speaker 1: the laptop lifestyle. It's really awesome. But it was so
Speaker 1: she literally told me one time we were sitting in
Speaker 1: a coffee and she's like, yeah, no, I just asked,
Speaker 1: like I can't be afraid. Like if you if you
Speaker 1: want to work with a brand, even if you have
Speaker 1: no following, you and you DM them and say hey, listen,
Speaker 1: like I can style your product really great and I
Speaker 1: can get you a great photo, then like nine times
Speaker 1: out of ten like a brand and we like why not?
Speaker 1: So how do you ask? Like, say you want to
Speaker 1: phrase it, say you don't have a lot of followers,
Speaker 1: but you want to do something that how would you
Speaker 1: put that in a DM? Like what would you say exactly,
Speaker 1: you just kind of say what you can offer, you know,
Speaker 1: you say, hey, like you don't say I just want
Speaker 1: to work together. You say I can offer you because
Speaker 1: you need to offer them something. What are the things
Speaker 1: like I can offer you a great like that even
Speaker 1: a great exchange for I mean, obviously in the beginning,
Speaker 1: like it's just free product, but like that's what's going
Speaker 1: to help you build and if they like the picture
Speaker 1: that you took, they're going to repost it and help
Speaker 1: you get your followers. Oh so instead of just saying like,
Speaker 1: let's yeah, that's a great way to partner because you're
Speaker 1: offering a picture and they need that for their digital stuff.
Speaker 1: So it's actually one win sometimes to go pay for
Speaker 1: that and higher models you're doing. Okay, So that's just
Speaker 1: be asking and not being too scared to ask. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And I mean, and that's been a huge thing for
Speaker 1: us that in the past year, I feel like his
Speaker 1: we've we've stopped being afraid to ask because the worst
Speaker 1: thing they can say is no or they won't answer,
Speaker 1: right who cares? And then you're in the same spot
Speaker 1: that you were, So it's like who cares? And the
Speaker 1: best thing that can say is yes, and they're out
Speaker 1: a way to work together exactly, and then that leads
Speaker 1: to like other opportunities, you know, like maybe this time
Speaker 1: you got a product, but next time they say, oh great,
Speaker 1: they get it. They gave us a great you know, exchange,
Speaker 1: and their base is grown since then, like we can
Speaker 1: pay them, they pay the next time. Yeah. Yeah, So
Speaker 1: just ask after everybody and everything brands, you won't be afraid.
Speaker 1: Don't be afraid to just literally slide into their d
Speaker 1: M s and be like, hey, that is so true,
Speaker 1: especially with this digital world. I feel like social media
Speaker 1: is a new way of advertisement. It totally is. Yeah,
Speaker 1: people believe what everybody is posting about because it's genuine
Speaker 1: and it's dan. I learned about stuff from me yea.
Speaker 1: I look on people's like stories and I'm like, oh man,
Speaker 1: I want to try that more songs even when people
Speaker 1: past those songs, Like if three people post the same song,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go listen to it because oh it must
Speaker 1: be good. So what not to do when you are
Speaker 1: starting and you want to become an influencer? What are
Speaker 1: like your top no nos? A lot of the girls
Speaker 1: are saying, do not buy followers. I didn't even know that.
Speaker 1: Don't buy followers. I mean, friends do know when like
Speaker 1: they can tell because you're like ratio, it was just
Speaker 1: like completely off and then you you'll get like no
Speaker 1: comments and then that just that just is a bad
Speaker 1: path to go. So don't buy. Don't buy followers. But
Speaker 1: I would say the thing I've learned would probably be,
Speaker 1: don't like if you admire other influencers, admire them, but
Speaker 1: don't copy them. Don't copy them because nobody's going to
Speaker 1: follow you if you're like the other version of so
Speaker 1: and so, people are going to follow you because you're
Speaker 1: the best version of you, and you have to find
Speaker 1: your individuality and your originality and what makes you an influencer.
Speaker 1: I totally agree with that, because why just be a
Speaker 1: repeat of something else? Yeah, totally. And also i'd say,
Speaker 1: don't be too glossy. What does that mean? I don't know,
Speaker 1: Like I feel like like you can be glossy on
Speaker 1: your post, but just glassy just like you know, everything
Speaker 1: perfectly propped and staged and you know, but keep it
Speaker 1: real in your Instagram stories at least you have to
Speaker 1: keep it real somewhere because that's what the audience relates to. Totally,
Speaker 1: they want to see you sitting, you know, on your
Speaker 1: bed with a face mask on, drinking wine before you
Speaker 1: go to bed, talking about like something stupid that happened.
Speaker 1: We're talking about even like a breakout what you're doing,
Speaker 1: just so that you're really human exactly, that's what they
Speaker 1: relate to. They don't want to relate to the perfect,
Speaker 1: especially if you don't have a lot of followers, because
Speaker 1: then it's just like it's like, who do you think
Speaker 1: you are? You know, like you're like you are human
Speaker 1: like everybody everybody else, Just like you're not like a
Speaker 1: perfect glossy like model, like you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: It's like you don't have any followers yet, so keep
Speaker 1: it in proportion with where you are too, Yeah, I
Speaker 1: think so. Yeah, Like if you all of a sudden
Speaker 1: get like a million followers like you guys do on YouTube,
Speaker 1: you'll have freaking a million YouTube followers. Then that way,
Speaker 1: like me, you're probably gonna do a little more editing
Speaker 1: than you would if you have like I don't know,
Speaker 1: I mean, well, you're still keeping it real. Yeah, we
Speaker 1: just all we did really is we kind of just
Speaker 1: stepped up our equipment game and our lighting because you're like, oh,
Speaker 1: we coming, we've got a million people watching now, so
Speaker 1: we kind of got Yeah, we need to feel lighting
Speaker 1: a little better. But that intimidating knowing there's a million eyeballs,
Speaker 1: has two million eyeballs because everyone has to I'm not
Speaker 1: just a hat rack? Is that that was pretty good? Right?
Speaker 1: Is it intimidating knowing that there's all those eyeballs watching you.
Speaker 1: We're so used to it. Yeah, And I feel like
Speaker 1: not all two million of the eyeballs were going to
Speaker 1: click on everything you post, so and also too, not
Speaker 1: all of the two million eyeballs might be subscribed to you.
Speaker 1: A lot of them come from somebody else posting or
Speaker 1: Facebook or something. So it's like, I don't read the
Speaker 1: comments anymore. I just don't because nobody, like I know
Speaker 1: who I am, I know who we are. You don't
Speaker 1: have anything offered to me. So, yeah, if you're gonna
Speaker 1: if you're gonna be negative, and if someone's gonna really
Speaker 1: want to reach out to you and work with you,
Speaker 1: they're going to email you, and that's you have an
Speaker 1: outlet for that. Yeah, it's not all that negative. Not
Speaker 1: that y'all get much negative, I'm sure, but people do
Speaker 1: like to hate. I remember the first time I ever
Speaker 1: got like a negative email a direct message from someone,
Speaker 1: I was so hurt by it. It sticks in your brain.
Speaker 1: And then if you start second guessing yourself and then
Speaker 1: you just like you said, you can't. You know who
Speaker 1: you are, you know that your heart is good, and
Speaker 1: you're trying to put don't they don't as much as
Speaker 1: like you share on your socials, Like at the end
Speaker 1: of the day, like it's your they don't know you personally.
Speaker 1: They don't know who you are when you're not on
Speaker 1: your phone, you know, and and that's and you just
Speaker 1: got to keep you know, knowing who that is. And
Speaker 1: they don't know like what was going on that day
Speaker 1: I have attributed to why you posted something or like
Speaker 1: the way you reacted to something. It's like all you
Speaker 1: can do is just be as honest as you can
Speaker 1: on the internet and hope that people see that. It's
Speaker 1: a whole new world. Like y'all's generation especially and younger,
Speaker 1: they're never going to have grown up without a social media, which,
Speaker 1: though it is crazy, that like kind of terrifies me
Speaker 1: a little bit, just because I feel like a lot
Speaker 1: of kids I'm seeing nowadays they're like missing out on
Speaker 1: being kids almost like having likes, are getting out. Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I was talking to somebody recently who said that, like
Speaker 1: it was like it was like somebody in there, oh,
Speaker 1: somebody in their college. Yeah you know who. It was,
Speaker 1: somebody her sisters in college, like a freshman in college.
Speaker 1: And she said that girls were literally not paying attention
Speaker 1: to their classes and not like just they didn't care
Speaker 1: because they're like whatever, I'm just gonna be an influencer. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Like people are actually saying that, like girls who are
Speaker 1: like eighteen nineteen are actually like throwing away their whole
Speaker 1: lives because they think they're just going to be a
Speaker 1: pretty face on Instagram. And it's just like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: But tell me a little bit more on that being
Speaker 1: an influencer. And this is I interviewed actually housed in
Speaker 1: actually Wilson yesterday, and they were saying, there's so much
Speaker 1: more work to being an influencer than this being a
Speaker 1: pretty face, because tell me all the things that you
Speaker 1: have to do to run your brand that actually make
Speaker 1: because like people see you guys posting like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: they have the life, and you'll do have an incredible life,
Speaker 1: but like it's not that you're not working, So what
Speaker 1: does it take to influencer? Like what are you guys
Speaker 1: doing to keep your brand running? I mean, well, we
Speaker 1: definitely you always have to have something other than just
Speaker 1: your looks fueling your brand, because you need to have
Speaker 1: something like a block, a musical outline, its substance like
Speaker 1: yes something, or be just a great clothes like the
Speaker 1: stylist don't have a great outfit style. Yeah, but like
Speaker 1: on a day a basis, it's like you can go
Speaker 1: from you know, going back and forth sending edits like
Speaker 1: two or three edits with the brand all day. Like
Speaker 1: you have to learn, you know, final cut pro. You
Speaker 1: have to learn, you know, how to edit your own
Speaker 1: pictures in afterlight like there are so you have to
Speaker 1: like be really good with brands and be really on
Speaker 1: top of it. And like no brand is the same,
Speaker 1: so like every person you work with is going to
Speaker 1: have different preferences in different whatever and you have to
Speaker 1: be flexible. You have to be nice otherwise they're not
Speaker 1: going to work with you again, like which which that
Speaker 1: sounds weird, Like you have to be nice. But like
Speaker 1: sometimes like we've worked with some brands that you're just
Speaker 1: like I literally just want to say, like forget this
Speaker 1: whole thing, and you're being so dramatic, but you can't.
Speaker 1: You know, like you have to just keep that relationship
Speaker 1: good and be professional. And then with us since our
Speaker 1: music like is our main thing, Like a lot of
Speaker 1: people don't understand is that we totally fund our own careers,
Speaker 1: Like at this point in time, you know, like we
Speaker 1: pay for all of our own music. You're saying that
Speaker 1: you'll paid for your whole album, you guys, y'all did that.
Speaker 1: You don't have a record label or anything behind you guys,
Speaker 1: so you are your own brand, yeah, record label. So
Speaker 1: that's a whole thing that like, and that's another scary
Speaker 1: part of it too, because you're literally gambling on yourself,
Speaker 1: which sounds like it would be easy, but it's hard.
Speaker 1: It's really hard. Yeah. Well there's a lot of money involved, Yeah,
Speaker 1: and that's what it's for an influence, so true, you
Speaker 1: have to gamble on yourself, and that's taking a bet
Speaker 1: on yourself is a lot harder than you think, like
Speaker 1: when it comes down to it, because you have nobody
Speaker 1: else to blame if, like you didn't get that check
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, and you know, you're
Speaker 1: like well, what am I to do for money? This money?
Speaker 1: And see that's the other thing though, it's like you
Speaker 1: have to budget, you have to you know, plan out
Speaker 1: like your releases, you have, like there's just so much
Speaker 1: to think about in a single release project, whether whatever
Speaker 1: that may be. That it's such good advice that you
Speaker 1: have to have something else beside your looks. And if
Speaker 1: you're gonna do it, looks that you better just have
Speaker 1: awesome clothes fashion sense, right and yeah, but I still
Speaker 1: have to blog about it and and even that, it's
Speaker 1: like there's not a whole long, a whole lot of
Speaker 1: longevity in that just because you're you're not going to
Speaker 1: be like, you know, forever like with this perfect but
Speaker 1: it's like you have to have like whether it be
Speaker 1: a husband or a family or just just a great
Speaker 1: sense of style that will eventually transition into styling like
Speaker 1: older outfits. But you want to have a sustainable, long career.
Speaker 1: And it goes back to being personal to you, Like
Speaker 1: that's kind of like it's like you can't just be
Speaker 1: a really pretty face that post pretty pictures and not
Speaker 1: have anybody know anything about you except in the fact
Speaker 1: that you're pretty. Like it's the it's the real nous,
Speaker 1: it's the it's the ability and totally talk to me
Speaker 1: about what life has been like in the influencer world
Speaker 1: since you've gotten engaged, because that's a whole The influencers
Speaker 1: love babies and they love engagements, and so what has
Speaker 1: that been, Like, I mean, I always like assumed, like
Speaker 1: because you just see it like online, like when when
Speaker 1: somebody gets engaged, like people of what people love love
Speaker 1: letting love them, And I always just I always thought like, oh,
Speaker 1: that'll be like when it happens. You know. Obviously I'm
Speaker 1: not like western we need to get engaged so I
Speaker 1: can get some social media like attention, Like that's not
Speaker 1: but like it really is. But the thing about it is,
Speaker 1: I think that people really want to believe in love.
Speaker 1: I think so too, And social media is a positive
Speaker 1: thing because it's letting people see that there's real love
Speaker 1: to get in there, which is great because the news
Speaker 1: likes to feature all the bad stuff that social media
Speaker 1: can actually feature true love story love stories, and and
Speaker 1: I'm actually like so grateful that, like, you know, like
Speaker 1: I didn't realize that I was filming my own engagement
Speaker 1: video because I thought I was blogging a trip. Okay,
Speaker 1: so we're talking about that because you pulled and Vegan
Speaker 1: was a big time and pulling off the surprise. You
Speaker 1: just briefly describe your engagement because it was epic. I
Speaker 1: was totally surprised. I mean, I like we had talked
Speaker 1: about getting engaged, but I genuinely had no idea. And
Speaker 1: then you know, like we took this trip to New
Speaker 1: York and then Megan like he had arranged with Megan
Speaker 1: to like fly out, and Megan and you know, with
Speaker 1: with Wit and his whole family flew out like I was,
Speaker 1: and she had turned off her location because we followed.
Speaker 1: It was just this whole thing and like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: she was sending me pictures from like home of like Waffle,
Speaker 1: like our dog. It was like he was Megan. She
Speaker 1: was like sending me pictures of Waffle that she had
Speaker 1: taken like early, like you were actually like you weren't there.
Speaker 1: Who were you there with? Okay you were, Oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: so Megan, you're a whole fan. Okay, yeah, I got
Speaker 1: it again. So so you were just kind of taking
Speaker 1: a trip also that I had planned, so like it
Speaker 1: wasn't like he had planned, right, but but yeah, social
Speaker 1: media has been like crazy like in this like journey
Speaker 1: so far and so helpful. Like I'm literally because like
Speaker 1: I have no idea what I'm doing with wedding planning,
Speaker 1: and I'm just like, hey, any good like advice on
Speaker 1: this and she gets like just like d M after
Speaker 1: DM of like really helpful stuff and I'm just like,
Speaker 1: thank you guys, like because you're cuteful. Yeah, and people
Speaker 1: love like to see a love story and like I'm
Speaker 1: so happy that like that restores my faith in humanity
Speaker 1: and yes, everybody loves love and that's like it's real, yeah,
Speaker 1: because the world is so sad. If we don't loved
Speaker 1: to link onto, then what is there? Yeah, that's what.
Speaker 1: There's a little beautiful. Yeah. I think it's so great.
Speaker 1: And another thing that I love that you guys are
Speaker 1: so good about is, like you said, positive body image.
Speaker 1: And we've talked about this, Liszen, I have because I've
Speaker 1: struggled with like every who doesn't struggle with bad body image.
Speaker 1: But tell me why that is so important to you guys,
Speaker 1: because young girls especially you're looking up to y'all, And
Speaker 1: tell me why it's important to use your platform in
Speaker 1: that way, because I think that is such a great
Speaker 1: because you also are stylish and you're great, but you're
Speaker 1: never like you're also encouraging loving yourself and explain why
Speaker 1: that means so much to you guys. Well, I think
Speaker 1: especially like nowadays with all those like you know, like
Speaker 1: the East Tune apps and like Photoshop and just like
Speaker 1: literally being able to make yourself thinner or make your
Speaker 1: skin look better like right on an app, I think
Speaker 1: that that's really messing with a lot of girls self
Speaker 1: esteem because they're scrolling through mine included. Yeah, yeah, they're
Speaker 1: scrolling through Instagram and they're like, oh my gosh, this
Speaker 1: girl like her body is very but you'll never look
Speaker 1: like that exactly, And it's like, you can't. It's just
Speaker 1: unattainable because it's not even attainable for the people that
Speaker 1: are posting it because they're editing exactly. And I think
Speaker 1: it's important for young women and just women in general
Speaker 1: to know that and to look in the mirror and
Speaker 1: learn to love yourself because that's who's with you all day,
Speaker 1: every day for the rest of your life. How do
Speaker 1: you learn to love yourself? You look in the mirror
Speaker 1: because I had I've had to teach myself because when
Speaker 1: it's daily sometimes now when I look in the mirror
Speaker 1: and I'm like, you know, you're working with a lot,
Speaker 1: like this is great you're looking But then I'll immediately
Speaker 1: just be like, oh, but oh god, that ye that
Speaker 1: area like trying to you know, and I'm like, why
Speaker 1: do I do that? But yeah, how do you teach
Speaker 1: yourself to love yourself? Because you can have the best
Speaker 1: body in the world. Like I look at you guys,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, how could you not have perfect self image?
Speaker 1: But I think, yeah, it's just everyone feels this, So
Speaker 1: how do you learn to accept yourself that right there?
Speaker 1: Everybody feels this way like, and nobody looks at their
Speaker 1: body and it's like I'm stoked on it and nobody
Speaker 1: and nobody is looking at you the way that you
Speaker 1: so much like nobody's like nobody's like looking at you
Speaker 1: and thinking like wow, you know, like if her thighs
Speaker 1: were just a little bit smaller, like she'd really yeah,
Speaker 1: like nobody's thinking that. But then also just like for me,
Speaker 1: I really appreciate my body when I know it sounds weird,
Speaker 1: but like when I get sick or when I like
Speaker 1: have like a workout injury or something I'm like, oh
Speaker 1: my gosh, like this is the body that is like
Speaker 1: literally like healing, it's keeping me alive, Like like I
Speaker 1: can't believe that it's like physically doing all of this
Speaker 1: work for me. And you know, then it's like, why
Speaker 1: am I being so mad about this stuff when it
Speaker 1: is literally keeping me alive? And there are so many
Speaker 1: people in this world who do not have the luxury
Speaker 1: that we all have exactly to our heart beat myself
Speaker 1: breathe easily see here. I mean, honestly, if you go
Speaker 1: through it, all that our body is working is amazing.
Speaker 1: The second that I like start to go go down
Speaker 1: on myself negatively, I I try and think about that.
Speaker 1: I think about Megan, like you are perfectly healthy, and
Speaker 1: like you have no reason to complain about like a
Speaker 1: little thing that nobody's going to notice, because there are
Speaker 1: people out there that would kill to be perfectly healthy.
Speaker 1: They're sitting in a hospital bed, or they're they're sitting
Speaker 1: in their house because they're paralyzed, or you know, like
Speaker 1: we're all so lucky to be healthy. And I think
Speaker 1: that at the end of the day, that's what we
Speaker 1: need to remember. And I think what you girls are
Speaker 1: so good at practicing and I try to practice this too,
Speaker 1: but just appreciating whatever you have, even if you do
Speaker 1: have some illnesses or wrong but still finding something to
Speaker 1: be grateful for, because there's always something to be grateful for. Always,
Speaker 1: there's always something to be grateful for. And if you
Speaker 1: can't be grateful for what you have, then you really
Speaker 1: can't appreciate anything else. It's like, Oh, if I could
Speaker 1: just get this, then i'd be happy. Well, what if
Speaker 1: this is your last day of living. Yeah, you're gonna
Speaker 1: keep chasing that for like as long as you live.
Speaker 1: If you're like, oh when I get this, I'll be happy.
Speaker 1: Oh when I get this, I'll be happuels just be
Speaker 1: chasing it forever. And I think, you know, you're really
Speaker 1: handed The universe hands you what you know, the the
Speaker 1: deck of cards that your life is going to be,
Speaker 1: and it's the way you handle it in your head,
Speaker 1: and it's the way you approach it. And you're right,
Speaker 1: you were given this. So obviously if God or that
Speaker 1: bigger force whatever thing is, is divine, then he made
Speaker 1: us this way for a reason. So we need to
Speaker 1: just start appreciating, like, Okay, I'm this way, I have
Speaker 1: this brain even though sometimes I think my brain is
Speaker 1: so bananas? Am I even living in this brain because
Speaker 1: it's a psycho. But like it's like and you have
Speaker 1: this drive in this heart and this and these things
Speaker 1: that you want to do. And that's another thing, like callings.
Speaker 1: Tell me about y'all's calling, because y'all's calling has become
Speaker 1: this brand. It's like so much more than just like
Speaker 1: music and clothes and interviewing, But like, how do you
Speaker 1: figure out your calling? And how did you guy? How
Speaker 1: do you make your calling into what you do with
Speaker 1: your life? Yeah? I mean you have to listen to it,
Speaker 1: like you really listen to it. Like how do you
Speaker 1: listen to your heart and your calling? I mean like
Speaker 1: what does it feel like? Is it? Like when? How
Speaker 1: does it? How do you know when it's a yes
Speaker 1: and when it's a note? Like do you feel resistance
Speaker 1: when it's a no? Do you feel like kind of
Speaker 1: gross when it's a know? Like do you feel peace
Speaker 1: when it's a yes? Like how do you get the answer?
Speaker 1: I feel like? For for me, I think it's it's
Speaker 1: like when I get on, Like when I was first
Speaker 1: learning to play guitar and like writing songs, it was
Speaker 1: like I couldn't stop, Like it was almost like an adrenaline,
Speaker 1: like you crave it, yeah, you're c yeah, and um.
Speaker 1: Eventually I realized, like the reason that I liked music
Speaker 1: so much was because my stories. I felt like I
Speaker 1: was helping other people by telling my stories through music.
Speaker 1: And I realized that like meeting people in person and
Speaker 1: hearing that like that was the connection that I was
Speaker 1: chasing all along, Like it wasn't It wasn't even necessarily
Speaker 1: like you know, my name up in lights, It was
Speaker 1: never that. It was always like that connection with people.
Speaker 1: You wanna know that your life mattered and could what
Speaker 1: you went through could help someone else with what they're
Speaker 1: going through. So you're heard in your pain and your
Speaker 1: experiences were for something, yes, exactly, And that made all
Speaker 1: of my life experiences make total sense to me. And
Speaker 1: it was just like this, Oh, it was like a
Speaker 1: come to Jesus moment. Yeah, and like you know, you know,
Speaker 1: when something isn't right, you do because it just feels Yeah,
Speaker 1: it just feels bad, and enjoy it. You don't afford
Speaker 1: to it uneasy, you're uncomfortable, Like, yeah, I mean that,
Speaker 1: I feel like we were that way with certain people sometimes,
Speaker 1: you know, are certain brands, certain like situations like you
Speaker 1: just know, you just know when you're like this doesn't
Speaker 1: feel right, little voice here, Yeah, and we always do.
Speaker 1: I feel like we've always been really good at that,
Speaker 1: and I feel like it's like we know what's good,
Speaker 1: you know, and like you just you just have to
Speaker 1: be like time and be yeah, whimsical a little bit
Speaker 1: and just feel like how am I feeling about this?
Speaker 1: Like was there something that that person said that didn't
Speaker 1: rub me the right way? Why did it not rub
Speaker 1: me the right Yeah? Take the time to explore when
Speaker 1: you hit hit a negative hatch, like why do I
Speaker 1: feel weird? Okay? And then search down to the answer.
Speaker 1: And then if that answer is something that you're like, Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm not going to do it. There's nothing wrong. There's
Speaker 1: nothing wrong saying no, being brave enough to believe in
Speaker 1: yourself to say no to good opportunities, because it is
Speaker 1: sometimes really hard to say no to a great opportunity.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you know, especially like there's money involved or
Speaker 1: if you feel like it could get you exposure. But
Speaker 1: if you get that resistance or that feeling, do you guys,
Speaker 1: do you feel like, oh you say no? Yeah, we
Speaker 1: said We've said no to a lot of stuff that
Speaker 1: we thought, you know, like it could have the same thing,
Speaker 1: like it could have like oh it was really cool
Speaker 1: and it was whatever bought us like here or here here,
Speaker 1: but we didn't like the person that was doing it,
Speaker 1: or we didn't get a good feeling. Yeah, and you
Speaker 1: just say no and then you you don't miss it.
Speaker 1: You know, you know something in that open space for
Speaker 1: something that does all right to come in. Because that's
Speaker 1: another thing people don't realize. If you say yes to something,
Speaker 1: then you you're occupied, like you don't have that availability anymore,
Speaker 1: or something that you actually should be doing. I feel
Speaker 1: like we've never said no to an opportunity that and
Speaker 1: we you've never looked back and been like, dang, like
Speaker 1: we should have done We've never ever done that. I've
Speaker 1: never done that. It's always like we always feel like
Speaker 1: it's let us know. If anything, it comes full circle,
Speaker 1: we're like, wow, we're really glad we didn't do that.
Speaker 1: So tell me about music, because you girls like music
Speaker 1: is your heart and soul. Tell me what's going on
Speaker 1: with your musical the right now? Well, I mean tell
Speaker 1: we got the last album? When did y'all? When did
Speaker 1: that when you released it was a while ago. I
Speaker 1: was almost two years as a two years ago. I
Speaker 1: got the writing ever since. So we're we're always writing.
Speaker 1: We we like to keep that part of our brain
Speaker 1: like active. Um. We put out singles every now and then,
Speaker 1: and yeah, and like right now we're shooting music video
Speaker 1: this weekend. It's called hand Online and it's one of
Speaker 1: those songs that you really like you have to listen
Speaker 1: to the words because the chorus is the same, but
Speaker 1: the verses tell two different stories and it all like
Speaker 1: but it all ties together. Well Okay, so yeah, we're
Speaker 1: really excited because we kind of took like a halftime
Speaker 1: I feel like on that and we're just now tapping
Speaker 1: back into it. Hatch ime on on like just the
Speaker 1: music part. Like we put out singles and stuff, but
Speaker 1: I feel like now we're like, all right, we're going
Speaker 1: to kick it back and eat. Now You're like, okay,
Speaker 1: two years have gone by since we put out an album.
Speaker 1: We're craving it. Crazing yes, absolutely, like you're feeling they're
Speaker 1: the urge to do it, and like we we do
Speaker 1: this thing like when we're like practicing or whatever, Like
Speaker 1: sometimes we'll be like singing together and like we like
Speaker 1: look at each other when we're done, we're like, oh god,
Speaker 1: we felt that, and like that doesn't and if we
Speaker 1: feel like we haven't had that in a while, but
Speaker 1: I feel like we've been having it more recently. And
Speaker 1: that's what's like. We don't pressure ourselves, you know, to
Speaker 1: be like we gotta put out this, gotta put out that,
Speaker 1: Like we wait until we crave it again. And we're
Speaker 1: craving it again, that's when the magic. And that's when
Speaker 1: the magic, that's when inspiration is ready to receive. That's
Speaker 1: an inspiration. You girls are really good at listening to
Speaker 1: your heart. Is that scary? Just operating from your heart?
Speaker 1: Are you so used to it now that I feel
Speaker 1: like we're so used to it, I feel like it
Speaker 1: hasn't led us wrong. Um. Yeah, And I feel like
Speaker 1: our mom really taught us to like always do that
Speaker 1: and so like if you also always the cutest person
Speaker 1: on her, she actually kept shopping with this up she did.
Speaker 1: So what did she teach you? How did she instill
Speaker 1: that in you? I feel like it was something she
Speaker 1: must have done since we were like babies, because there
Speaker 1: was never like a It was always just like an
Speaker 1: automatic thing. Yeah, there's never another option but to do that. Literally,
Speaker 1: so she if something bad would happened, what would your
Speaker 1: mom's response be, she'd be like, she would be like,
Speaker 1: you know, everything happens for a reason. You just need
Speaker 1: to trust that that didn't work out for a reason,
Speaker 1: and whatever is going to happen is gonna happen. The
Speaker 1: great person to grow up with as a voice in
Speaker 1: your pad. Yeah, and she never she never like forced
Speaker 1: us to do anything, like I think that's like why
Speaker 1: we're so we follow exactly what we want and what
Speaker 1: we feel because she never told us to do anything.
Speaker 1: She never told us how to dress, she never told
Speaker 1: us how to like choose to spend our time. She
Speaker 1: never forced us to do anything. So it was it
Speaker 1: was very all up to us our whole so like
Speaker 1: our like let us everywhere throughout our childhood, middle school,
Speaker 1: high school, Yeah and so and so we like you
Speaker 1: got used to trusting that. And how do you girls
Speaker 1: work together? Like what does y'alls five together? How do
Speaker 1: y'all flow? Like? What is the personality difference in similarities?
Speaker 1: I mean, at the end of the day, we're always
Speaker 1: on the same page. Oh yeah, but I don't know
Speaker 1: it's She's definitely more like the social butterfly. Like I
Speaker 1: take a while to open up to people. And I
Speaker 1: don't know why because I wasn't like that my whole life.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I think something along the way kind
Speaker 1: up made me hesitant, like hesitant, like you had a roadblock,
Speaker 1: it kind of scarred you, and like maybe you didn't
Speaker 1: realize it what it was, but it'll probably wake up
Speaker 1: one day and be like that was it. Yeah, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean I'm yeah, I'm definitely more like I feel
Speaker 1: like I just I know everybody, and there's like certain
Speaker 1: things that like come I'll be like, hey, liked like
Speaker 1: some and so said they wanted to do this, Like
Speaker 1: what do you think? And then you'll be like, Okay,
Speaker 1: well let's like look into it and like let see
Speaker 1: how we can maximize it, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: take the time to kind of like make it more
Speaker 1: of like a thing where I'm just like, let's just
Speaker 1: do it all the time. That's just like everything, but
Speaker 1: that's part of like your whimsical like joy that makes
Speaker 1: you such like a special little human is like you
Speaker 1: don't even need to think about that. You're just like yes, yeah,
Speaker 1: like it's great, but they feel like she's so much
Speaker 1: better with money, and like literally today like I just
Speaker 1: like there was just like the stupid thing that like
Speaker 1: I can't I can't do anything with detail or money
Speaker 1: or emails or like uploading things, and she just folded.
Speaker 1: I just I just I just feel I can't do it,
Speaker 1: Like the technical like movie pretty stuff is just so
Speaker 1: stressful to me. And so she does all of that.
Speaker 1: We have our we have our roles in our and
Speaker 1: I'm like, while you upload that video, I'll clean the kitchen. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so that works out. Yeah, you know, so y'all just
Speaker 1: have to make it work and it's just a natural flow.
Speaker 1: How lucky is that? It's really lucky. I have to
Speaker 1: ask you guys. Oh well, actually I was an you
Speaker 1: guys a few questions on my phone, but I haven't
Speaker 1: so I know, I want to kind of like get
Speaker 1: to a little hard questions because y'all are so hard oriented.
Speaker 1: What does the world need now? Oh? What will this
Speaker 1: be a good answer? I feel like it needs um unity.
Speaker 1: That's like the most impossible thing right now. But just
Speaker 1: with like no matter which political view you have, no
Speaker 1: matter what you view, like I feel like the separation
Speaker 1: is just what makes everything so much worse. People are
Speaker 1: so busy like fighting their you know, like politician and
Speaker 1: political political people are so busy fighting their political views
Speaker 1: on Facebook that they're forgetting the fact that like so
Speaker 1: many kids died or over like the Florida shooting, and
Speaker 1: it's like it's taking all the sensitivity out of it.
Speaker 1: I feel like we need to like be more sensitive
Speaker 1: and like, yeah, it's like they're It's like there are
Speaker 1: people that like, no matter what, like if you like
Speaker 1: strip people down to like just people, it's like there's
Speaker 1: still a human being who has hard days and like
Speaker 1: really like real emotions, and it's just like you need
Speaker 1: each other more than you know. And but it's also
Speaker 1: like we teach our children to not yell at each other,
Speaker 1: not hit each other, to treat each other with respect,
Speaker 1: but then as adults, we don't even respect each other.
Speaker 1: We just start yelling at each other and drawing huge
Speaker 1: barriers between each other. When how can we Why can't
Speaker 1: we just meet in the middle and have real conversations.
Speaker 1: Are trying to political okay anyway, but the world needs unity. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: what does love mean to y'all? Oh? Do you want
Speaker 1: to go first. Um, I feel like it means support,
Speaker 1: Like that was like the first thing that like kind
Speaker 1: of keeping in mind, just like having somebody be there
Speaker 1: for you and support you like and through like your
Speaker 1: crazy like times, just like really be there for you,
Speaker 1: like and like mean it. You know, Like that's like
Speaker 1: what love is for me, Like showing up. It's showing up, yeah,
Speaker 1: and like doing the things that you don't want to
Speaker 1: do for yourself, you know, like sometimes like you know,
Speaker 1: you just you don't want to do it, but like
Speaker 1: somebody who loves you will always do whatever that is
Speaker 1: for you, whether it be like literally a physical thing
Speaker 1: like oh I don't want to take the trash out,
Speaker 1: but like you know, you're just like stuff like or
Speaker 1: just like I don't want to love myself today, like
Speaker 1: somebody else like it shows up and does that for you.
Speaker 1: That's what I think. I think mine's similar in a way.
Speaker 1: But I think it's acceptance because there's like once you
Speaker 1: find like the right person and obviously like your mom
Speaker 1: and your family, they all accept you and know you
Speaker 1: and love you anyway for anything that you do, everything
Speaker 1: that you are. And I think that that's like that
Speaker 1: is the meaning of love. To me, is just loving
Speaker 1: and joying this person for everything that they are and
Speaker 1: not trying to change exactly to be like you or
Speaker 1: because you think it needs to be like this, and
Speaker 1: accepting the full thing. I agree. I feel like if
Speaker 1: we can accept each other and just like everyone I love,
Speaker 1: I know the parts of their personality that drive me crazy,
Speaker 1: Like I'm very aware that drives me crazy about people,
Speaker 1: But then I'm also very aware about what I probably
Speaker 1: do to drive crazy. It's like, instead of focusing on
Speaker 1: that like that drives his nuts, let's focus on the
Speaker 1: seventy five that's awesome drew to them, And yeah, I
Speaker 1: totally agree with that. Okay, what do you think darkness is?
Speaker 1: I know what is darkness, and I think I think
Speaker 1: a lot of darkness it comes from yourself, honestly, Like
Speaker 1: it's all yourself. Yeah, because how do you what is?
Speaker 1: What do you mean yourself? I feel like a lot
Speaker 1: of it for me is you know, being scared that
Speaker 1: you're basically telling yourself that you're not good enough or
Speaker 1: telling yourself that so worth Yeah, exactly, it's it's a
Speaker 1: lot of it. I feel it comes from your head,
Speaker 1: Like totally, your head can be a very dark place,
Speaker 1: but it can also be a very happy place. It's
Speaker 1: definitely like you telling yourself like that you're not worthy
Speaker 1: of this, you're not worthy of good things, You're not
Speaker 1: worthy like of whatever. Like that can get so dark
Speaker 1: so quick, and then it just that just leads to
Speaker 1: darkness everywhere else. Yeah, like it really it makes it
Speaker 1: harder to find the joy and things that actually are
Speaker 1: joyful because you're so distracted by the darkness. It turns
Speaker 1: you like dark. So people don't love you, like people
Speaker 1: don't want to support you because they're like, she doesn't
Speaker 1: even support herself. Some people can have tons of proof
Speaker 1: to back it up, then their their head that what
Speaker 1: they're thinking their head is right, like like, well my
Speaker 1: parents told me this growing up, that I was worthy,
Speaker 1: or I had a teacher he said I've never mounted anything,
Speaker 1: or you know, I look weird in my mind or something,
Speaker 1: and so they have all this proof that they can
Speaker 1: back up and validate their darkness, and so then they
Speaker 1: consider it fat But really that's still just your head.
Speaker 1: It is. It's not fact, because no one can tell
Speaker 1: you you're worth about yourself and you're already worthy because
Speaker 1: we're here exactly. That's really all the proof we need
Speaker 1: that we're worthy, But it took me a long time
Speaker 1: to realize that daily. It's still I know that now,
Speaker 1: but I still forget it. That's a really good concept though, that,
Speaker 1: like some people think things in their heads are facts
Speaker 1: because they have proof because people who they have put
Speaker 1: in an authority figure have told them things. Is to
Speaker 1: retrain your brain. You have to rewire your stuff, and
Speaker 1: it takes a lot of work. And I think that's
Speaker 1: what some people don't realize, like even like for us
Speaker 1: to be like, we worked really hard on being happy
Speaker 1: and positive, and it's like people are like, oh, they're
Speaker 1: just so happy and life is so great for people
Speaker 1: just like, oh, my gosh, do you even know how
Speaker 1: many books have to read again? How many things about
Speaker 1: how things are? That's a daily practice. It's a choice
Speaker 1: every single day, like for me. And once you start
Speaker 1: choosing it, don't you feel like it gets to become
Speaker 1: more habit habit. But you have to in the beginning.
Speaker 1: I remember when I was changing because I didn't always
Speaker 1: used to be positive at all, and I was changing it.
Speaker 1: I had to just make that choice every day and
Speaker 1: it's sting. Yeah, it's so worth it. It's so worth it. Yeah, Okay,
Speaker 1: So my last thing I want to ask what is
Speaker 1: I think I might have asked on this before, but
Speaker 1: what is your favorite thing about Megan? And what is
Speaker 1: your favorite thing about lizz Well, I wonder what I
Speaker 1: forgot what I said last time can do different ones.
Speaker 1: I mean, my favorite thing about you. It's so hard
Speaker 1: to think of just like w I'll think of something
Speaker 1: that's like, I know I didn't say this last time
Speaker 1: because it's been highlighted in the wedding planning, so you
Speaker 1: this is a kind thing. It's kind of weird, but
Speaker 1: like I'm so grateful for it is. She pushes me
Speaker 1: to like like I don't even know, like to like
Speaker 1: be better for myself. Like when even when it comes
Speaker 1: to like you know, like I'm just so like I
Speaker 1: don't care, Like I'm like whatever, like I can cheep
Speaker 1: out on stuff like I don't care. But Megan's like, no,
Speaker 1: you need to you need to invest in yourself a
Speaker 1: little bit. You need to like you need to know
Speaker 1: that like when you look back on the wedding day
Speaker 1: or like whenever this time, like you're not going to
Speaker 1: be happy with this because you were just like not
Speaker 1: caring and you're just like trying to take the easy
Speaker 1: way out. She's like, you need to invest in yourself
Speaker 1: on whether it be like a little bit more money
Speaker 1: in the photographer or like stuff like that. But you
Speaker 1: do this for me like in my life too. You know.
Speaker 1: You're like you're like, no, you can do better than that.
Speaker 1: You don't change yourself. I don't. Yeah, awesome, Why you
Speaker 1: do that? I always do? Yeah? Always? Probably It's like
Speaker 1: I'm sort of in that same way, like I hate
Speaker 1: like the details part of things and like electronics and
Speaker 1: like figuring out how to upload stuff and like stuff
Speaker 1: that takes a lot of time and it feels like, um,
Speaker 1: it's work. I'm usually like, oh god, how could I
Speaker 1: not do that work? Yeah? Really though, but then you're
Speaker 1: right because you're like, but it's going to pay off, yeah,
Speaker 1: and you're gonna be so happy you did it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's true. Yeah, Megan, you're up. Okay. I think mine
Speaker 1: is just that, like I don't know, she it kind
Speaker 1: of goes back to the acceptance thing because like I
Speaker 1: feel like on a daily basis, I'm like here here, here, here,
Speaker 1: here here. Yeah, I'm just like all over the place
Speaker 1: with like my emotions or how I feel about things,
Speaker 1: and like she's like always there no matter what crazy
Speaker 1: thought pops in my head. I don't hesitate to say
Speaker 1: it out loud and be like so, like this isn't
Speaker 1: like a thing right, And she's always like no, like
Speaker 1: it's totally And she never like dings me. She's never like, man,
Speaker 1: can you stop talking about that? She'll talk me through it.
Speaker 1: She'll walk me through it, and I'll be like, Okay,
Speaker 1: I'll be feeling like way better than I was in
Speaker 1: my head. Takes the time to go through it all
Speaker 1: with you, doesn't just like discount your feelings. Yeah, she
Speaker 1: like takes the time to understand like why I'm feeling them,
Speaker 1: and she'll talk to work you through it. Yeah, talk
Speaker 1: me down, talk me down. That's what we say, to
Speaker 1: me down, talk me down. I don't up got how
Speaker 1: incredible is you're sweet sweet sisterhood. It's pretty good. What
Speaker 1: a blessing it makes you and you are having. You're
Speaker 1: easing your way into separating because Liz how to go
Speaker 1: off and get engaged, so now you can't get together,
Speaker 1: but lovely Megan Halftime lives in Memphis, So y'all are
Speaker 1: learning of art graduating. It's a thing. It is. I
Speaker 1: think it's just now feeling good to me, Like you
Speaker 1: know what I mean, like a week on week got right? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I feel like now it's like I'm not so scared
Speaker 1: of you leaving. It's almost like okay, like now when
Speaker 1: you go, it's like I know know what to expect.
Speaker 1: I know to expect, I know my own routines. Now
Speaker 1: you know, I'm not totally dependent on her routine to
Speaker 1: like structure my routine. So you're learning faster than me.
Speaker 1: Because my poor boyfriend he comes home and he's like,
Speaker 1: you're not mad at me, You're mad that Lizz isn't here.
Speaker 1: And I'm like, you're right, God take it out. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean I feel like but like even so like
Speaker 1: we like we FaceTime, text call every day every day
Speaker 1: no matter what, even if we're together, I swear we're
Speaker 1: like texting. Like it's like all okay, So I wrap up,
Speaker 1: leave your lights. So just leave some inspiration, some positivity
Speaker 1: you want to show in the world, maybe like what
Speaker 1: you would want to tell young girls or young influencers.
Speaker 1: Just like leave the inspiration anything you want. It doesn't
Speaker 1: have to be anything. It could be anything, anything, is inspiring.
Speaker 1: I'd say, no matter what you're going through in your
Speaker 1: life right now, whether it be good, bad, best day
Speaker 1: of your life, worth saved your life. I think it's
Speaker 1: important for everybody to embrace the fact that nothing is forever.
Speaker 1: So if you're having the worst day of your life,
Speaker 1: it won't be the worst day of your life forever.
Speaker 1: But if you're having the best day of your life,
Speaker 1: don't let that get to your head. Yeah, I love that.
Speaker 1: Let that keep you, like, enjoy it for everything that
Speaker 1: it's worth. And no, they'll come again, but don't let
Speaker 1: it over your head, and don't get stuck there and
Speaker 1: think it then because you self sabotaged because you're so
Speaker 1: worried about losing. No, it's going to pass. Yes, it's
Speaker 1: all gonna pass. Yes, but more stuff is gonna come. Yes.
Speaker 1: I love that. Yeah, follow that. I think I'm gonna
Speaker 1: do a love themed one. Yeah, because you're gonna go
Speaker 1: all that. A lot of people like keep asking me
Speaker 1: like how did you know? Like that's like the number
Speaker 1: one question that people are like literally like I did
Speaker 1: a question and answer and they're like, how did you know?
Speaker 1: He was the one? Like how did you know? How
Speaker 1: did you know and like how do you know? I
Speaker 1: mean a great question. Yeah, and so I guess like
Speaker 1: my advice is like how you know is is like
Speaker 1: you have to again, you have to listen to your
Speaker 1: to where you are. You can't like think that, Oh
Speaker 1: like I'm the sage now, So I'm it's time to
Speaker 1: get married to pressure or fear. Yeah, you can't do that,
Speaker 1: and um, the right person will like the kind of
Speaker 1: love that you feel. It won't make you question, um
Speaker 1: if there's anything else. Um. I feel like with all
Speaker 1: of my other relationships before this one, I would always
Speaker 1: be like, this is great. You can because you can
Speaker 1: have something great. But if you're still questioning, like this
Speaker 1: is great, but like, wow, I wonder if I'd be
Speaker 1: better with somebody else totally um. But not to get
Speaker 1: that confused with anxiety, because anxiety can do those questions too.
Speaker 1: But I mean if you're really like for months at
Speaker 1: a time being like I don't know, like I feel
Speaker 1: like there's somebody better for me, like you're probably right,
Speaker 1: and then you're like, oh, there's probably not, and I
Speaker 1: don't want to I don't want to lose this. I'm
Speaker 1: just gonna you don't want to get don't want to
Speaker 1: do because as someone that's married, if you are not
Speaker 1: totally like best friends and like in it to win
Speaker 1: it marriage, there's all sorts of stuff at you that
Speaker 1: have nothing to do with how much you love each other.
Speaker 1: But you got to have that foundation. I totally agree.
Speaker 1: So definitely, like make sure but you're not questioning other things,
Speaker 1: and you know, like with the person that you love,
Speaker 1: like you will be the one and you will know
Speaker 1: what it's the one, Like you really will know, Like
Speaker 1: when they say you know, you know, it's like you
Speaker 1: really do. That's a real thing. It's kind of don't
Speaker 1: you feel like it's sort of just like almost like
Speaker 1: a peace thing too, like you just sort of are yourself.
Speaker 1: I read something that said, like someone who was not
Speaker 1: your soul mate will make you feel like all sorts
Speaker 1: of things like up and down and some passion and
Speaker 1: crazy stuff like when you're with your one, you feel
Speaker 1: all this passion, but it's with peace behind it. It's
Speaker 1: you just feel like, yes, it could be yourself table. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you don't have to put on an air. I love
Speaker 1: that question. I'm so glad that you address that because
Speaker 1: you should never get married because you feel like you're
Speaker 1: because you feel like no one's gonna love you for
Speaker 1: any reason other than this person. Let you be you,
Speaker 1: and I actually agree, like you genuinely feel like there's
Speaker 1: like no one else that you would rather be with,
Speaker 1: Like I'm not you're not even thinking about it. You're
Speaker 1: not like really like oh, like oh that person that
Speaker 1: used to date, Like no, like you just have to
Speaker 1: have no questions. It's just yeah, you're like I freaking
Speaker 1: Leonardo DiCaprio came up and said, you're the one you're
Speaker 1: gonna be Like dude, sorry, I'm person. Yeah it has
Speaker 1: to be that strong. Yeah, it really does. But mean,
Speaker 1: Leo would be a hard so ill to turn down.
Speaker 1: But yeah, but like yeah, but I mean I love
Speaker 1: you too, but like I can't love you Titanic, But
Speaker 1: could we act out that one thing just at the
Speaker 1: ours out check I'm flying? Can we just do that?
Speaker 1: And that's all you're gonna get? Thank God, Thank began, Liz.
Speaker 1: I love y'all so much. Thank you for joining me again,
Speaker 1: all my influencers series. You are the best. New music
Speaker 1: coming soon very soon. Yeah, it music coming soon. We
Speaker 1: have a wedding coming soon, so exciting. I love you, girl, you,
Speaker 1: love you all. Thank you all so much for tuning in.
Speaker 1: How awesome was that interview? I love Megan and Liz.
Speaker 1: They are just the best. That's so much awesome stuff
Speaker 1: to say, so I love them for coming back, you guys,
Speaker 1: and we have more Influencer series coming up at you
Speaker 1: next week. We'll see you then, okay m hm.