1 00:00:00,280 --> 00:00:03,920 Speaker 1: So Steve Tony on Facebook rights, one of my coworkers 2 00:00:04,000 --> 00:00:07,080 Speaker 1: is getting on my nerves and it feels like it 3 00:00:07,080 --> 00:00:10,160 Speaker 1: could lend me into some serious HR trouble. He and 4 00:00:10,200 --> 00:00:12,559 Speaker 1: his girlfriend just broke up, and it seems like he's 5 00:00:12,600 --> 00:00:16,360 Speaker 1: getting into revenge porn mode and she works with us. 6 00:00:16,680 --> 00:00:19,160 Speaker 1: I guess the two of them used to enjoy recording 7 00:00:19,160 --> 00:00:23,799 Speaker 1: their sexual activities, and now he's trying to corner me 8 00:00:23,840 --> 00:00:26,239 Speaker 1: at least eight different times, trying to get me to 9 00:00:26,280 --> 00:00:29,640 Speaker 1: watch them while he laughs about it. I've tried walking away, 10 00:00:29,760 --> 00:00:32,400 Speaker 1: telling him I'm not interested, advising him to delete the 11 00:00:32,440 --> 00:00:36,120 Speaker 1: stuff and get therapy, but brother man is not getting it. 12 00:00:37,320 --> 00:00:39,120 Speaker 1: I'm not at the point where I'm afraid this is 13 00:00:39,159 --> 00:00:42,080 Speaker 1: all going to backfire on me. Do I snitch and 14 00:00:42,200 --> 00:00:45,159 Speaker 1: say something to my boss? Or do I keep it quiet? 15 00:00:46,080 --> 00:00:49,199 Speaker 1: Here a little park for that. Yeah? Yeah, he is 16 00:00:49,640 --> 00:00:50,440 Speaker 1: on every level. 17 00:00:50,920 --> 00:00:52,840 Speaker 2: The dude that recorded the girl. 18 00:00:54,120 --> 00:00:58,600 Speaker 1: Yeah said he weak? Man, weak? Yeah, he weak? 19 00:00:59,480 --> 00:01:02,320 Speaker 2: And look, man, you've told the dude he need to 20 00:01:02,320 --> 00:01:05,920 Speaker 2: get some therapy. He wants you to watch this. Look, man, 21 00:01:07,520 --> 00:01:10,440 Speaker 2: I don't want to watch you though. I don't want 22 00:01:10,440 --> 00:01:15,960 Speaker 2: to see you with your girl naked, your dog. Hey, man, 23 00:01:16,120 --> 00:01:21,119 Speaker 2: show ass way for me and then just tell him. Look, man, hey, look, 24 00:01:21,360 --> 00:01:23,600 Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you one more time. Don't come to 25 00:01:23,680 --> 00:01:26,160 Speaker 2: me with that. I have no interest in that. Now 26 00:01:26,160 --> 00:01:29,560 Speaker 2: if you keep doing that, man, so obviously the dude 27 00:01:29,640 --> 00:01:32,480 Speaker 2: that's writing a letter, he's like tossed up a little bit. 28 00:01:32,520 --> 00:01:35,759 Speaker 2: He don't know what that is, right, you know, man, Look, 29 00:01:35,959 --> 00:01:38,520 Speaker 2: just hey, man, I'm telling you right now, don't show 30 00:01:38,560 --> 00:01:40,959 Speaker 2: me nothing. I ain't interested in this. And if you 31 00:01:41,080 --> 00:01:44,119 Speaker 2: keep doing it, man, I'm gonna have to I'm gonna 32 00:01:44,120 --> 00:01:47,039 Speaker 2: have to report it, right, and just tell him you're 33 00:01:47,040 --> 00:01:50,600 Speaker 2: gonna report it. But then, don't you know, don't man, 34 00:01:50,640 --> 00:01:52,760 Speaker 2: don't go in there and mess this girl up in 35 00:01:52,920 --> 00:01:56,320 Speaker 2: him up over trying to show you somewhere you can see. 36 00:01:57,320 --> 00:01:59,840 Speaker 2: You can stop anybody from showing you anything. You ain't 37 00:01:59,880 --> 00:02:06,600 Speaker 2: got to sit there. He well, see, yeah, I understand 38 00:02:06,640 --> 00:02:08,600 Speaker 2: that if you in corporate America, which I ain't never 39 00:02:08,680 --> 00:02:11,079 Speaker 2: been so, but you ain't gonna keep showing me that. 40 00:02:11,200 --> 00:02:14,240 Speaker 2: I'm told you no, right, we ain't got to go 41 00:02:14,360 --> 00:02:17,120 Speaker 2: talk no damn about it about it. I see your 42 00:02:17,160 --> 00:02:20,880 Speaker 2: ass one more tam on his phone, yell, you know, 43 00:02:21,280 --> 00:02:25,519 Speaker 2: I'm gonna blessed if I see it on, I'm gonna 44 00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:28,280 Speaker 2: punch you dead your mouth. You bring another picture your 45 00:02:28,320 --> 00:02:34,600 Speaker 2: neked ass in here, see what happens, all right? 46 00:02:34,720 --> 00:02:41,520 Speaker 1: So yeah, huh, yeah, we have another one. This is 47 00:02:41,560 --> 00:02:44,680 Speaker 1: from Pam on Steve Harvey f M. Pam writes, my 48 00:02:44,680 --> 00:02:46,880 Speaker 1: boyfriend and I have been together for three years. We 49 00:02:47,040 --> 00:02:49,400 Speaker 1: currently live in the same town as his parents, and 50 00:02:49,480 --> 00:02:52,160 Speaker 1: since we moved here about a year ago, we've had 51 00:02:52,200 --> 00:02:54,880 Speaker 1: dinner with his family once a week. I'm not sure 52 00:02:54,919 --> 00:02:57,480 Speaker 1: why he wants to continue doing this, because, from what 53 00:02:57,600 --> 00:03:00,400 Speaker 1: I can see, none of his family seems to like 54 00:03:00,480 --> 00:03:03,200 Speaker 1: one another. They're all mean to each other, and it 55 00:03:03,240 --> 00:03:05,440 Speaker 1: brings out a side of my boyfriend that I don't 56 00:03:05,440 --> 00:03:09,280 Speaker 1: normally see and definitely don't like. He's not like that 57 00:03:09,320 --> 00:03:11,200 Speaker 1: when we're together, and I don't want to have a 58 00:03:11,240 --> 00:03:14,360 Speaker 1: family with him if that's what our future is going 59 00:03:14,440 --> 00:03:17,040 Speaker 1: to look like. Should I see this as a sign 60 00:03:17,160 --> 00:03:19,920 Speaker 1: that making a new family with my boyfriend would be 61 00:03:19,919 --> 00:03:22,400 Speaker 1: a mistake or should I just try to get him 62 00:03:22,440 --> 00:03:25,960 Speaker 1: to cut his toxic family out of his life. 63 00:03:26,320 --> 00:03:28,760 Speaker 2: Why don't you try telling him you're not interested in 64 00:03:28,800 --> 00:03:30,400 Speaker 2: the once a week dinners anymore? 65 00:03:31,040 --> 00:03:31,239 Speaker 1: Yeah? 66 00:03:32,600 --> 00:03:34,520 Speaker 2: Okay, I think that would be a good way to start, 67 00:03:34,560 --> 00:03:37,080 Speaker 2: because he's gonna have to say why, and you just say, 68 00:03:37,160 --> 00:03:39,480 Speaker 2: I just don't enjoy sitting there listening to that. It 69 00:03:39,560 --> 00:03:42,800 Speaker 2: seems very negative and it should even a bad taste 70 00:03:42,800 --> 00:03:44,760 Speaker 2: in my mouth. And it's got me thinking if we 71 00:03:44,840 --> 00:03:47,720 Speaker 2: continue at this pace, were gonna end up just like that. 72 00:03:48,080 --> 00:03:50,680 Speaker 2: And I don't want to have a family, right and 73 00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:52,880 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna sleep at you if you take your 74 00:03:52,880 --> 00:03:54,520 Speaker 2: old day. 75 00:03:57,480 --> 00:04:02,480 Speaker 1: That's the last little jab saying real soft uh huh yeah, 76 00:04:03,240 --> 00:04:04,520 Speaker 1: how does she say it? Steve? 77 00:04:04,920 --> 00:04:06,640 Speaker 2: And you know, and all this and there just something. 78 00:04:06,720 --> 00:04:08,680 Speaker 2: I don't want to stand up like that anymore then, 79 00:04:09,160 --> 00:04:17,159 Speaker 2: and I'm not gonna speak, yeah, you know. And that's 80 00:04:17,160 --> 00:04:19,760 Speaker 2: when he had to squeeze what yes, what did she do? 81 00:04:21,640 --> 00:04:23,680 Speaker 2: I just I just I And then just do that girl, 82 00:04:23,880 --> 00:04:29,559 Speaker 2: I just I just don't speak, okay, okay't I can't 83 00:04:30,120 --> 00:04:33,760 Speaker 2: and then cry little all right, and then cry a 84 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:35,640 Speaker 2: little oh he got to do something. 85 00:04:37,560 --> 00:04:39,760 Speaker 1: All right. Coming up in twenty minutes after the hour, 86 00:04:39,839 --> 00:04:42,160 Speaker 1: we'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right 87 00:04:42,240 --> 00:04:45,800 Speaker 1: after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.