WEBVTT - THE FULL SHOW: Seeking ChatGPT Validation 0:00:00.560 --> 0:00:01.920 From Hollywood to you. 0:00:02.279 --> 0:00:03.320 Thank you for listening to us. 0:00:03.440 --> 0:00:07.680 Ryan Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest. 0:00:09.720 --> 0:00:13.680 Ton y'all sis, Yeah, so listen to this story. 0:00:13.720 --> 0:00:14.760 I love these stories, all right. 0:00:14.880 --> 0:00:18.960 So drums, Everyone wants to win lottery blah blah blah. 0:00:19.000 --> 0:00:22.760 So there's this woman is twenty eight years old and 0:00:22.840 --> 0:00:25.200 she won over two million dollars on a lottery ticket. 0:00:25.280 --> 0:00:27.800 She paid off debt, she invested, and she said some 0:00:27.920 --> 0:00:31.160 aside for fun. But she did not tell her family 0:00:31.200 --> 0:00:36.000 about it at first. And here's why. She says, she 0:00:36.120 --> 0:00:39.120 was the black sheep of the family, so why her 0:00:39.159 --> 0:00:42.960 siblings were the golden children. She always felt like she 0:00:43.040 --> 0:00:46.760 got the short end of the stick. So and that, 0:00:46.800 --> 0:00:50.240 I guess continued into adulthood. Her family planned big overseas 0:00:50.240 --> 0:00:54.560 trips without her. What I mean, that's mean she found 0:00:54.600 --> 0:00:56.640 out about it on Instagram when they were there. 0:00:57.320 --> 0:00:59.640 That's heartbreaking. That's also so weird. 0:01:01.600 --> 0:01:04.119 So when she bought a new car, her family started 0:01:04.160 --> 0:01:06.480 asking questions like, well, where'd you get the money to 0:01:06.480 --> 0:01:10.200 buy a new car, And she told them that she 0:01:10.240 --> 0:01:13.040 won the lottery and they were very upset with her. 0:01:13.360 --> 0:01:14.399 Actually, they were furious. 0:01:15.400 --> 0:01:17.760 Her mom said, you're being selfish not to share that 0:01:17.800 --> 0:01:22.760 with us, and her sister asked her to pay off 0:01:22.760 --> 0:01:24.759 her student loans. Her brother asked her for a house, 0:01:25.360 --> 0:01:28.559 and she sat them down and she explained to them 0:01:28.680 --> 0:01:31.360 that she's not obligated to share any of the money 0:01:31.680 --> 0:01:34.080 because they're related, and especially because of the way that 0:01:34.120 --> 0:01:37.200 they treated her until she had it. I agree, and 0:01:37.280 --> 0:01:38.400 I say good on you. 0:01:39.160 --> 0:01:40.160 I agree as well. 0:01:40.880 --> 0:01:42.400 You're gonna go on trips and then I'm going to 0:01:42.440 --> 0:01:43.920 see it on Instagram and you can come to me 0:01:43.959 --> 0:01:45.279 and want me to buy you a house. 0:01:45.880 --> 0:01:46.880 I got a finger for you. 0:01:47.080 --> 0:01:51.040 I feel like there's a happy medium where she doesn't 0:01:51.080 --> 0:01:52.840 have to buy them a house or pay off her 0:01:52.880 --> 0:01:53.680 student loans. 0:01:53.800 --> 0:01:54.840 But maybe you know. 0:01:54.840 --> 0:01:58.800 She's got a lottery ticket exactly do something nice. 0:01:58.920 --> 0:02:01.800 I shouldn't win like two hundred and fifty million, like 0:02:01.840 --> 0:02:02.760 she won two million. 0:02:02.920 --> 0:02:06.080 Like that's you know, she two million dollars out of 0:02:06.120 --> 0:02:06.520 the sky. 0:02:06.840 --> 0:02:09.000 She's not going to play out student loans and buy 0:02:09.040 --> 0:02:11.239 her brother a house with that like that you can't 0:02:11.360 --> 0:02:15.120 in California, definitely, man in Los Angeles, well. 0:02:15.040 --> 0:02:18.200 Especially when you don't invite me in a porta fino wherever. 0:02:17.919 --> 0:02:20.360 They went right, Well, we didn't think you wanted to come. 0:02:21.880 --> 0:02:26.080 Yeah, so anyway, I'm with her on that, But what 0:02:26.120 --> 0:02:27.160 would you do? 0:02:27.400 --> 0:02:27.680 Same? 0:02:27.720 --> 0:02:27.919 Same? 0:02:29.560 --> 0:02:31.440 And what about a family like acting like that? 0:02:31.480 --> 0:02:32.160 I don't know why. 0:02:32.280 --> 0:02:36.080 Yeah, that sounds like it's been deep rooted since childhood. 0:02:36.080 --> 0:02:38.560 And agreed, Matt. How are you Torrents? 0:02:39.320 --> 0:02:39.480 Hey? 0:02:39.560 --> 0:02:39.720 Ryan? 0:02:39.760 --> 0:02:40.040 I'm good. 0:02:40.080 --> 0:02:40.560 How are you? 0:02:40.680 --> 0:02:41.200 Hey? Brother? 0:02:41.480 --> 0:02:44.600 Thanks for asking, I'm solid. Thank you so much for 0:02:44.639 --> 0:02:46.920 being on with us. So I understand that you were 0:02:46.960 --> 0:02:49.280 asked to be a groomsman for a wedding. 0:02:50.840 --> 0:02:53.440 Yeah, I was. 0:02:53.639 --> 0:02:54.600 And what's the bad news? 0:02:54.639 --> 0:03:02.399 Awesome awesome scenario. The bad news is with my ex 0:03:02.440 --> 0:03:03.280 girlfriend's sister. 0:03:04.200 --> 0:03:06.720 My buddy is getting married to max girlfriend's sister obviously, 0:03:06.760 --> 0:03:07.040 like I. 0:03:07.040 --> 0:03:09.480 Know, like you know, they met because of me, and 0:03:09.560 --> 0:03:10.800 like you know, I'm not there for. 0:03:12.520 --> 0:03:14.480 My ex, but you know, I'm gonna be around her 0:03:14.480 --> 0:03:17.919 and her family a lot more than I was hoping 0:03:17.960 --> 0:03:19.400 to not have been out to be part of the 0:03:19.720 --> 0:03:20.359 wedding party. 0:03:20.400 --> 0:03:21.600 So, I mean, I don't I don't know what to do. 0:03:21.680 --> 0:03:23.400 My girlfriend's obviously not happy about it. 0:03:23.440 --> 0:03:28.640 And bro, you dated your ex while your buddy dated 0:03:28.720 --> 0:03:29.280 her sister. 0:03:30.919 --> 0:03:32.959 They met, they met while we were together. 0:03:33.120 --> 0:03:33.640 That's awesome. 0:03:33.720 --> 0:03:36.120 They stayed, They stayed together. 0:03:36.560 --> 0:03:38.080 But that's how great was that for a while? 0:03:38.560 --> 0:03:40.920 Yeah he's not there anymore. 0:03:41.040 --> 0:03:44.280 Yeah, but for a minute, that's like what you want? 0:03:44.840 --> 0:03:45.680 Yeah, that would have been great. 0:03:45.800 --> 0:03:49.840 Hey bro, hey bro, sister. 0:03:49.840 --> 0:03:53.800 My girlfriend potentially listening. But all right, well thank you? 0:03:54.120 --> 0:03:54.800 Well can I ask? 0:03:54.880 --> 0:03:56.600 I mean, this is going to get a little personal. 0:03:56.720 --> 0:03:57.760 But how did it end? 0:03:57.880 --> 0:03:58.120 Like it? 0:03:58.440 --> 0:04:00.160 Did it end bad? Do you not want to see 0:04:00.200 --> 0:04:01.160 the family? Do they hate you? 0:04:01.400 --> 0:04:04.640 I mean, of course, I mean, it isn't that badly, 0:04:04.760 --> 0:04:06.480 like you know, it's just like you know, ran, of 0:04:06.480 --> 0:04:08.360 course it's not like you know, like either of us 0:04:08.400 --> 0:04:08.960 as far as. 0:04:08.880 --> 0:04:12.680 I know, cheated, but you know, flame burnt out and 0:04:12.840 --> 0:04:14.560 you know, okay, so that's. 0:04:14.400 --> 0:04:18.040 Not Apparently everything doesn't and badly you are the worst 0:04:18.040 --> 0:04:18.720 breakour upper. 0:04:18.760 --> 0:04:25.000 Then I wanted to know specifically if there was, Matt. 0:04:25.200 --> 0:04:32.919 Look, here's where I am on this. Your girlfriend is 0:04:32.960 --> 0:04:33.680 the priority. 0:04:33.760 --> 0:04:33.960 Now. 0:04:34.920 --> 0:04:36.599 This is the past. 0:04:36.680 --> 0:04:39.159 This is the past, so you do not need to 0:04:39.160 --> 0:04:41.720 feel guilty about not being there. 0:04:42.320 --> 0:04:45.200 This is your past, but it is your buddy. How 0:04:45.240 --> 0:04:45.880 close are you guys? 0:04:46.120 --> 0:04:46.640 Groomsman? 0:04:46.720 --> 0:04:50.280 It's closed friend for a while, and do you think 0:04:50.320 --> 0:04:51.440 it's gonna last with your girlfriend. 0:04:51.480 --> 0:04:55.160 Now. Yeah, I mean, it's definitely possible. 0:04:55.480 --> 0:04:58.680 It's gonna be fine. Everybody's in good spirits for a wedding. 0:04:59.080 --> 0:05:03.800 You're not gonna call me dude. He's cool. He's cool. Bro, Listen, 0:05:04.000 --> 0:05:06.400 he's cool. He gets it. He's got to get it. Like, 0:05:06.440 --> 0:05:08.320 if she's really that upset about it, you guys say, bro, 0:05:08.760 --> 0:05:10.600 trust me on this one. I just need to be 0:05:10.680 --> 0:05:12.120 with me on this one. I love you. I want 0:05:12.120 --> 0:05:13.600 to be there, but it's going to cause so much 0:05:13.600 --> 0:05:16.560 of a mess in my relationship. I can't do it. 0:05:16.800 --> 0:05:18.680 He's gonna be brother. I get it. I get it. 0:05:18.680 --> 0:05:20.800 There are other dudes that can be groomsmen. Bro, I 0:05:20.839 --> 0:05:22.880 get it. A lot of bro and dudes in the conversation. 0:05:22.920 --> 0:05:23.479 But it's gonna happen. 0:05:23.560 --> 0:05:25.320 He just doesn't become a grooms Maybe you need still 0:05:25.360 --> 0:05:26.280 go to the wedding with your. 0:05:26.400 --> 0:05:30.080 Also, difference between going to the wedding and being groomsmen, Yeah, 0:05:30.680 --> 0:05:32.000 I don't like. 0:05:32.160 --> 0:05:34.360 That's probably the best choice. Like, I get it. I 0:05:34.400 --> 0:05:34.680 don't know. 0:05:34.680 --> 0:05:35.520 We're just not going. 0:05:38.520 --> 0:05:39.520 I don't know. 0:05:39.160 --> 0:05:43.040 I think I think you gotta just like be honest with. 0:05:43.080 --> 0:05:46.040 Him because your ex is one of the bridesmaids. 0:05:46.040 --> 0:05:51.080 Probably right, Yeah, yeah, this is not great. I think 0:05:51.080 --> 0:05:52.040 you's got to be the problem. 0:05:52.160 --> 0:05:53.520 I think you can get through it. 0:05:54.080 --> 0:05:56.520 You put yourself through the pain of that though. 0:05:57.160 --> 0:05:59.400 Because he's a lot of his best friend's weddings. 0:05:59.640 --> 0:06:01.720 Yeah, but if you're the best friend's going to understand 0:06:01.720 --> 0:06:03.119 the situation, what's going to happen? 0:06:03.120 --> 0:06:04.719 Are you going to fall in love with your X again? 0:06:04.839 --> 0:06:04.960 Like? 0:06:05.680 --> 0:06:05.760 No? 0:06:06.400 --> 0:06:09.120 And then we get through it. We're adults. Let's have 0:06:09.160 --> 0:06:09.800 a great wedding. 0:06:10.120 --> 0:06:13.040 More childish when it comes to god. I am over here. 0:06:13.360 --> 0:06:14.720 All right, Well, Matt, I don't know if it helped her. 0:06:14.960 --> 0:06:16.680 Big is the wedding? That also depends. 0:06:17.880 --> 0:06:18.600 I mean it definite. 0:06:18.680 --> 0:06:20.720 It definitely got me further along than I were than 0:06:20.760 --> 0:06:21.640 I would Thank you. 0:06:21.880 --> 0:06:23.159 Is it big or small? This wedding? 0:06:24.480 --> 0:06:27.159 It's like sixty sixty to eighty people. 0:06:27.160 --> 0:06:29.200 I would say, all. 0:06:29.240 --> 0:06:31.120 Right, well, good luck, bro, thank you for listening to us. 0:06:31.160 --> 0:06:32.880 I hope we helped somehow. Let us know it goes 0:06:33.080 --> 0:06:35.280 Thank you. Guys, absolutely not. You don't want to put 0:06:35.320 --> 0:06:36.760 yourself through it. I have to see your ax and 0:06:36.800 --> 0:06:38.359 feel the feelings, and I have to go through it. 0:06:38.520 --> 0:06:38.840 Don't do it. 0:06:38.920 --> 0:06:42.520 Don't any feelings anymore. It ended mutually. You're the one 0:06:42.520 --> 0:06:44.919 that's always friends with your ex. Yeah, honestly, that was 0:06:45.200 --> 0:06:45.840 shooking me. 0:06:46.120 --> 0:06:48.600 Last whole thing was I don't he shouldn't call it. 0:06:48.640 --> 0:06:51.240 Don't cause pain in your own relationship. Now, if you 0:06:51.279 --> 0:06:53.440 can just say to your buddy, hey, dude, this is 0:06:53.480 --> 0:06:54.880 causing a problem. 0:06:55.279 --> 0:06:56.200 No, it'll be fine. 0:06:57.920 --> 0:06:58.400 How to be a. 0:06:58.400 --> 0:07:04.560 Guy one on one write a book. 0:07:04.920 --> 0:07:07.080 Just be honest with your bro, just like be honest 0:07:07.120 --> 0:07:08.560 with your buddy, Like, dude, it's got to tell you 0:07:08.600 --> 0:07:09.159 it's gonna. 0:07:10.640 --> 0:07:10.840 Yeah. 0:07:10.880 --> 0:07:13.800 Like i'd be the furthest author of that. 0:07:13.880 --> 0:07:16.280 Ever, Tubbs, you'd be more likely to be that author 0:07:16.320 --> 0:07:20.920 than I. Definitely, he smiles. I was like, and he smiles, 0:07:21.160 --> 0:07:25.000 like he turn the page. Enter Tubbs. Exterior shot of 0:07:25.040 --> 0:07:29.920 the lawn and porch tubs sipping lemonade. Are writing the 0:07:29.920 --> 0:07:33.840 book or the script? Claudia, good morning? How are you? 0:07:35.120 --> 0:07:37.520 Good morning? I'm good, how are you? 0:07:37.560 --> 0:07:37.920 Well? 0:07:38.360 --> 0:07:40.600 We're here to help. I could say that. So your 0:07:40.680 --> 0:07:43.000 chiropractor is doing what? 0:07:45.240 --> 0:07:48.240 So it's getting very weird. I've been having. 0:07:48.160 --> 0:07:50.760 Some back issues and I've gone to a couple of 0:07:50.760 --> 0:07:53.960 different places. None of it's really doing much until I 0:07:54.000 --> 0:07:56.920 finally meet this guy it's been going really well. I'm 0:07:56.960 --> 0:07:59.400 in much better place with my back and the pain that. 0:07:59.360 --> 0:08:00.240 I've been having. 0:08:00.800 --> 0:08:04.200 But now he found me on Instagram and he's been 0:08:04.280 --> 0:08:08.720 dming me. He's been sending me really inappropriate memes. He's 0:08:08.840 --> 0:08:12.160 just it's getting a little sketchy. And then I also 0:08:12.200 --> 0:08:15.160 realized that he's married, So I'm not sure what to do. 0:08:15.200 --> 0:08:18.320 I don't really want to switch chiropractors, but this is 0:08:18.360 --> 0:08:19.640 getting a little uncomfortable. 0:08:19.720 --> 0:08:21.840 What are the means that he's sending you? 0:08:24.360 --> 0:08:26.960 Oh, well, he's sending me like stuff like if we're 0:08:27.000 --> 0:08:30.160 like going on vacation together, like just like stuff like 0:08:30.520 --> 0:08:33.360 level go to like the beach and like, but it's 0:08:33.360 --> 0:08:35.840 like stuff like I don't even know how to explain it. 0:08:35.840 --> 0:08:41.319 It's just it's random, very random, because it's like people 0:08:41.360 --> 0:08:44.600 in bathing suits and like people kind of stretching, and 0:08:44.640 --> 0:08:46.480 he's like this could be us, like people stretching on 0:08:46.520 --> 0:08:48.480 the beach and saying like this could be us. 0:08:49.600 --> 0:08:51.400 Does he say any of this stuff when you're getting 0:08:51.440 --> 0:08:52.119 your adjustment? 0:08:54.280 --> 0:08:57.400 Well, I haven't seen him lately since he started getting 0:08:57.400 --> 0:09:00.240 a little more aggressive, but I'm due to go back 0:09:00.360 --> 0:09:03.080 this week and I am just really debating if I'm 0:09:03.120 --> 0:09:05.720 going to go or not. My back had felt this 0:09:05.800 --> 0:09:07.240 good in a while, and I don't know if it's 0:09:07.240 --> 0:09:09.480 because he's taken a liking to me or if he's 0:09:09.600 --> 0:09:13.560 just good. But these means of people on the beach 0:09:13.640 --> 0:09:17.600 kind of stretching each other out is really uncomfortable, especially 0:09:17.640 --> 0:09:19.680 because now I'm realizing he's married. 0:09:20.280 --> 0:09:22.400 So I think there's two options here. 0:09:22.480 --> 0:09:25.319 A quit him or B tell him that he's being 0:09:25.320 --> 0:09:27.679 inappropriate and you're gonna quit him if he doesn't. 0:09:27.440 --> 0:09:32.200 Stop, or see tell his wife. I didn't know what 0:09:32.280 --> 0:09:36.240 you're seeing the mistress. 0:09:37.559 --> 0:09:39.439 This direction, she was going to go with that scene 0:09:40.559 --> 0:09:43.760 that sea was going to go. Yeah, if you're. 0:09:43.920 --> 0:09:47.400 The other layer to it is that I'm also married, 0:09:47.480 --> 0:09:49.080 and I don't know if I should tell my husband 0:09:49.120 --> 0:09:49.520 about this. 0:09:49.600 --> 0:09:53.240 Yeah, tell your husband. You don't want to keep this 0:09:53.280 --> 0:09:54.480 between you. I didn't know you were married. 0:09:55.240 --> 0:09:58.480 This is weird and it's very unprofessional, and I would 0:09:58.520 --> 0:10:00.280 be out that door. 0:10:00.440 --> 0:10:02.640 He should lose his chiropractic license. 0:10:04.320 --> 0:10:08.120 Do you think it's worth seeing someone else in the practice? 0:10:08.400 --> 0:10:09.839 But I still have to cross him. 0:10:09.920 --> 0:10:10.400 I don't know. 0:10:10.840 --> 0:10:13.200 I think there's so many great car Where do you live? 0:10:13.200 --> 0:10:14.640 I can find you a great chiropractor. 0:10:14.800 --> 0:10:18.920 I could break your back the research for you like 0:10:18.960 --> 0:10:19.240 that that. 0:10:19.320 --> 0:10:20.959 He's like, I could, this could be us. 0:10:21.000 --> 0:10:24.079 Like here's here's one thing you got to learn in life. 0:10:24.640 --> 0:10:27.880 When something like this is happening and you're uncomfortable, you 0:10:27.880 --> 0:10:30.600 you address it and don't feel bad about or you 0:10:30.720 --> 0:10:32.599 just stop going. But once you address it and you 0:10:32.640 --> 0:10:34.760 see another person in the practice, you don't feel bad 0:10:34.760 --> 0:10:39.080 about that cares, just move on, don't carry any guilt 0:10:39.120 --> 0:10:39.440 about it. 0:10:39.520 --> 0:10:44.400 This is the guy's making. Yeah, this is not okay, Claudie, 0:10:44.440 --> 0:10:47.760 thank you so much for good good luck, Thank you 0:10:48.160 --> 0:10:49.400 all right bye. 0:10:50.440 --> 0:10:56.040 I mean massage therapists, doctors, dentists, chiropractors. You gotta have 0:10:56.120 --> 0:10:59.760 that wall of real professionalism. You can ever make it 0:11:00.400 --> 0:11:02.880 like you're there's something else going on. 0:11:03.200 --> 0:11:05.880 But also, like, what if you're a single dentist but 0:11:05.960 --> 0:11:07.240 you can still be friends. 0:11:07.480 --> 0:11:09.719 I'm still friends with my dentist and we follow each 0:11:09.720 --> 0:11:11.359 other on Instagram and there's nothing inappropriate. 0:11:11.440 --> 0:11:14.400 What if you're a dentist and you're single and the 0:11:14.520 --> 0:11:17.400 love of your life sits down in your chair. Are 0:11:17.440 --> 0:11:19.600 you not supposed to act upon that? 0:11:20.800 --> 0:11:21.079 No? 0:11:21.559 --> 0:11:23.559 You technically no, it's against your license. 0:11:23.640 --> 0:11:26.280 You're not supposed to hit on your partner or your 0:11:26.280 --> 0:11:28.160 partner of your patient. 0:11:28.800 --> 0:11:32.679 Yeah, dentists want love too, well, so do I. 0:11:32.760 --> 0:11:34.559 But I'm not hitting on everybody comes in here. 0:11:36.200 --> 0:11:37.840 I mean, you have. 0:11:42.760 --> 0:11:43.160 Friends. 0:11:43.559 --> 0:11:46.040 That was one time and we dated for three years. 0:11:46.280 --> 0:11:48.960 I'm saying though, like, just because you have a certain 0:11:49.080 --> 0:11:51.040 job doesn't mean like if the love of your life 0:11:51.080 --> 0:11:52.160 walks and you shouldn't act on it. 0:11:52.240 --> 0:11:53.760 But the fact that just got married. 0:11:55.720 --> 0:12:00.440 Listen, tomato, tomato, tomato, potato, potato, so so uh. 0:12:00.640 --> 0:12:02.240 Some people are giving up coffee for at least for 0:12:02.280 --> 0:12:05.120 the month or maybe for the year. Not me, but 0:12:05.280 --> 0:12:05.959 if it is you. 0:12:06.960 --> 0:12:09.720 They got this new research back out at Westwood in Ucla. 0:12:10.040 --> 0:12:13.040 They found the combination of salt, vinegar and crunch of 0:12:13.440 --> 0:12:16.880 this food can wake up your senses and enhance your 0:12:16.920 --> 0:12:19.280 brain function and energy, much like coffee does. 0:12:19.400 --> 0:12:22.760 And that is a pickle. No, first thing in the morning, 0:12:22.840 --> 0:12:25.920 have a pickle? Mmm, No, you're not into that. I 0:12:25.960 --> 0:12:26.720 don't like pickles. 0:12:27.920 --> 0:12:30.320 If it has the same effect as coffee, I'd be down. 0:12:30.840 --> 0:12:33.960 But see to me, a pickle has sodium and all 0:12:34.000 --> 0:12:35.719 the other things that I'm trying not to have. First 0:12:35.720 --> 0:12:36.200 thing in the morning. 0:12:37.160 --> 0:12:37.880 Like bad breath. 0:12:37.920 --> 0:12:39.560 I guess the coffee that gave you bad breath too. 0:12:39.960 --> 0:12:43.480 Coffee definitely gives me bad breath, for sure. They say 0:12:43.480 --> 0:12:46.640 another snack that could do this, roasted salted nuts. But 0:12:46.679 --> 0:12:47.920 I'm not trying to eat nuts first thing. 0:12:47.840 --> 0:12:48.120 In the night. 0:12:48.240 --> 0:12:49.320 No, that doesn't sound I'm not. 0:12:49.320 --> 0:12:49.760 Trying to do that. 0:12:50.080 --> 0:12:51.480 I'd rather just have a cup of coffee. 0:12:51.840 --> 0:12:55.040 Well, that's the thing. I'm going back to coffee. I like, 0:12:55.080 --> 0:12:56.480 I'm not going to bet at night thinking about a 0:12:56.600 --> 0:12:57.480 big pickle in the morning. 0:12:57.600 --> 0:12:58.679 I have about a pickle a day. 0:12:59.280 --> 0:13:04.840 You do, Yeah, like a like a cumber. 0:13:07.080 --> 0:13:10.640 No, no, no, like a full honking pickle. 0:13:11.200 --> 0:13:13.439 I didn't know that about you. So many things being revealed. 0:13:13.679 --> 0:13:20.360 Yeah, time is the only currency you spend without ever 0:13:20.520 --> 0:13:24.599 knowing your balance. Use it wisely, like we don't know 0:13:24.600 --> 0:13:28.280 how much time we've got. True, So think about it 0:13:28.320 --> 0:13:30.079 twice before you do it, and make the most of it. 0:13:30.240 --> 0:13:32.680 Let's go into cal and Santa Ana Nicole, good morning. 0:13:33.440 --> 0:13:34.000 Good morning. 0:13:34.600 --> 0:13:35.160 How are you? 0:13:36.240 --> 0:13:39.199 I am feeling a little paranoid over here? 0:13:39.800 --> 0:13:40.360 Is that right? 0:13:41.280 --> 0:13:41.520 Yeah? 0:13:41.679 --> 0:13:44.319 I'm just wondering if I'm being paranoid. I mean, you 0:13:44.440 --> 0:13:47.719 tell me my best friend is dating a new guy. 0:13:48.400 --> 0:13:51.319 He's being fine whatever, like, but here's the thing. He 0:13:51.800 --> 0:13:55.840 refuses to be in photos. Like his excuse he doesn't 0:13:56.280 --> 0:13:58.040 trust social media and doesn't want. 0:13:57.960 --> 0:13:58.840 To be on Instagram. 0:13:59.120 --> 0:14:02.160 Okay, but like he says, he has no social media 0:14:02.240 --> 0:14:05.000 presence and wants to keep it that way, something like 0:14:05.040 --> 0:14:07.240 because his brother at one point had his pictures used 0:14:07.280 --> 0:14:10.480 for cat fishing or something. Anyway, my friend, like she 0:14:10.640 --> 0:14:12.760 thinks it's kind of cute and quirky because she's all 0:14:13.080 --> 0:14:15.480 heart eyes right now. But I don't know. I think 0:14:15.520 --> 0:14:17.600 he's hiding something and is probably married. 0:14:17.760 --> 0:14:20.720 So yeah, that's a big leap. 0:14:20.840 --> 0:14:22.960 You think the guy's dating your friend, he's married, I 0:14:23.040 --> 0:14:24.200 mean in a double life. 0:14:25.200 --> 0:14:27.000 I mean in this day and age, it just seems 0:14:27.040 --> 0:14:29.400 so strange to me to like go out of your 0:14:29.400 --> 0:14:32.400 way to not have your face show up anywhere on 0:14:32.440 --> 0:14:33.640 social media, do you know what I mean? 0:14:33.800 --> 0:14:36.400 What if he's in the witness protection program, it could 0:14:36.440 --> 0:14:39.480 be love that theory, Yeah, I mean, that's a theory. 0:14:40.080 --> 0:14:43.600 He's got a wife, she's a winning miss protection program. 0:14:44.520 --> 0:14:47.120 Maybe he just asn't photogenic, doesn't like to see himself 0:14:47.200 --> 0:14:47.800 in photos. 0:14:48.160 --> 0:14:51.880 But I will say it is a little weird. 0:14:52.040 --> 0:14:55.880 To completely want to be, you know, vanished in all 0:14:56.480 --> 0:14:58.000 social media posts. 0:14:58.720 --> 0:15:01.800 There's got to be into that. Now, did your girlfriend 0:15:01.840 --> 0:15:03.880 know she's you said, oogly eye? 0:15:03.960 --> 0:15:06.200 Now, but do you think when that wears off, which 0:15:06.280 --> 0:15:09.160 it will, you can have this conversation or have you 0:15:09.240 --> 0:15:11.200 had this conversation saying I love your guy, he's a 0:15:11.280 --> 0:15:14.120 great guy and all, but something's up with the fact 0:15:14.160 --> 0:15:15.000 he won't be in pictures. 0:15:15.840 --> 0:15:18.400 I was thinking the exact same thing, because I'm like, 0:15:18.560 --> 0:15:21.000 what happens when she wants him to put her on 0:15:21.080 --> 0:15:25.080 her socials? You know, like when she's exclusive or so, 0:15:25.320 --> 0:15:28.360 she probably will be more open to that conversation in 0:15:28.480 --> 0:15:30.360 a beat, but like, maybe I just have to get 0:15:30.360 --> 0:15:30.720 it tight. 0:15:30.960 --> 0:15:32.880 Beat Yeah, pin in it, put a pin in, give 0:15:32.920 --> 0:15:37.280 it a beat. But I it's not witness protection. I 0:15:37.320 --> 0:15:38.360 don't think he has a wife. 0:15:38.480 --> 0:15:41.400 It's something and you can help pish the bottom of it. 0:15:42.080 --> 0:15:44.840 It's off right smelly yees. 0:15:44.960 --> 0:15:48.240 Yeah, exactly. Well the cole thanks for calling about your friend. 0:15:48.400 --> 0:15:48.840 Good luck. 0:15:49.160 --> 0:15:52.880 Yeah, thanks guys, all right, you take your care all right, 0:15:52.920 --> 0:15:53.200 you too? 0:15:53.640 --> 0:15:57.320 All right? Yeah, I don't know he is hiding something. 0:15:57.480 --> 0:16:00.360 I think he's hiding something for sure. And hold life 0:16:00.360 --> 0:16:01.240 thing makes sense. 0:16:03.240 --> 0:16:06.160 That is so hard to live a double life, to 0:16:06.280 --> 0:16:08.000 keep up with it, Like what is the point? 0:16:08.120 --> 0:16:11.400 Some people probably enjoy it a weird way, get off 0:16:11.440 --> 0:16:12.640 on it or something really. 0:16:14.520 --> 0:16:17.920 Gross. Isn't it amazing if you have not had your 0:16:17.960 --> 0:16:19.720 coffee and then you have it and how the day 0:16:19.880 --> 0:16:22.160 just changes? Yes, it is. 0:16:22.480 --> 0:16:26.320 Mine was perfect this morning. Not tempted to put almond 0:16:26.360 --> 0:16:29.240 milk in it, or regular milk or sweetener or anything. 0:16:29.520 --> 0:16:32.240 Just you ever know, But as a as a young 0:16:32.480 --> 0:16:36.240 remember as a young DJ who had who had the 0:16:36.360 --> 0:16:38.720 awful task of me want to get all our coffee? 0:16:38.880 --> 0:16:38.920 Me? 0:16:40.520 --> 0:16:42.760 I know Ryan Seacrest through his evolution. 0:16:42.920 --> 0:16:47.480 It wasn't just me everyone true, true, but I know 0:16:47.600 --> 0:16:49.520 you through the evolution of your coffee order. 0:16:49.920 --> 0:16:51.800 Because what was the best era? 0:16:52.200 --> 0:16:54.160 The best era was when you were in your Manuka 0:16:54.240 --> 0:16:59.560 honey era because he was like it was when he 0:16:59.640 --> 0:17:01.240 was dating you know who and he was like all 0:17:01.320 --> 0:17:03.160 in his Machia era and we had to put like 0:17:03.280 --> 0:17:04.760 Manuka honey in it and you had. 0:17:04.760 --> 0:17:05.399 To make it like a. 0:17:08.800 --> 0:17:11.920 Terrifying you get it right? Yeah, that one was like 0:17:12.200 --> 0:17:14.480 the worst. The rest were very easy because it was 0:17:14.520 --> 0:17:15.680 like a black coffee era. 0:17:15.920 --> 0:17:18.320 I learned about all that stuff through that person that era. 0:17:18.720 --> 0:17:20.240