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Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for listening to us.

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Speaker 3: Ryan Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 4: Ton y'all sis, Yeah, so listen to this story.

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Speaker 2: I love these stories, all right.

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Speaker 5: So drums, Everyone wants to win lottery blah blah blah.

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Speaker 5: So there's this woman is twenty eight years old and

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Speaker 5: she won over two million dollars on a lottery ticket.

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Speaker 5: She paid off debt, she invested, and she said some

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Speaker 5: aside for fun. But she did not tell her family

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Speaker 5: about it at first. And here's why. She says, she

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Speaker 5: was the black sheep of the family, so why her

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Speaker 5: siblings were the golden children. She always felt like she

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Speaker 5: got the short end of the stick. So and that,

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Speaker 5: I guess continued into adulthood. Her family planned big overseas

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Speaker 5: trips without her. What I mean, that's mean she found

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Speaker 5: out about it on Instagram when they were there.

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Speaker 6: That's heartbreaking. That's also so weird.

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Speaker 5: So when she bought a new car, her family started

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Speaker 5: asking questions like, well, where'd you get the money to

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Speaker 5: buy a new car, And she told them that she

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Speaker 5: won the lottery and they were very upset with her.

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Speaker 2: Actually, they were furious.

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Speaker 5: Her mom said, you're being selfish not to share that

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Speaker 5: with us, and her sister asked her to pay off

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Speaker 5: her student loans. Her brother asked her for a house,

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Speaker 5: and she sat them down and she explained to them

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Speaker 5: that she's not obligated to share any of the money

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Speaker 5: because they're related, and especially because of the way that

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Speaker 5: they treated her until she had it. I agree, and

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Speaker 5: I say good on you.

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Speaker 2: I agree as well.

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Speaker 5: You're gonna go on trips and then I'm going to

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Speaker 5: see it on Instagram and you can come to me

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Speaker 5: and want me to buy you a house.

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Speaker 2: I got a finger for you.

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Speaker 7: I feel like there's a happy medium where she doesn't

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Speaker 7: have to buy them a house or pay off her

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Speaker 7: student loans.

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Speaker 6: But maybe you know.

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Speaker 7: She's got a lottery ticket exactly do something nice.

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Speaker 3: I shouldn't win like two hundred and fifty million, like

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Speaker 3: she won two million.

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Speaker 2: Like that's you know, she two million dollars out of

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Speaker 2: the sky.

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Speaker 3: She's not going to play out student loans and buy

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Speaker 3: her brother a house with that like that you can't

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Speaker 3: in California, definitely, man in Los Angeles, well.

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Speaker 5: Especially when you don't invite me in a porta fino wherever.

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Speaker 6: They went right, Well, we didn't think you wanted to come.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so anyway, I'm with her on that, But what

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Speaker 5: would you do?

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Speaker 2: Same?

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Speaker 8: Same?

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Speaker 2: And what about a family like acting like that?

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Speaker 6: I don't know why.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that sounds like it's been deep rooted since childhood.

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Speaker 2: And agreed, Matt. How are you Torrents?

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Speaker 8: Hey?

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Speaker 7: Ryan?

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Speaker 8: I'm good.

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Speaker 9: How are you?

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Speaker 2: Hey? Brother?

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Speaker 5: Thanks for asking, I'm solid. Thank you so much for

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Speaker 5: being on with us. So I understand that you were

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Speaker 5: asked to be a groomsman for a wedding.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I was.

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Speaker 2: And what's the bad news?

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Speaker 8: Awesome awesome scenario. The bad news is with my ex

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Speaker 8: girlfriend's sister.

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Speaker 1: My buddy is getting married to max girlfriend's sister obviously,

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Speaker 1: like I.

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Speaker 8: Know, like you know, they met because of me, and

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Speaker 8: like you know, I'm not there for.

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Speaker 10: My ex, but you know, I'm gonna be around her

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Speaker 10: and her family a lot more than I was hoping

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Speaker 8: So, I mean, I don't I don't know what to do.

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Speaker 8: My girlfriend's obviously not happy about it.

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Speaker 5: And bro, you dated your ex while your buddy dated

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Speaker 5: her sister.

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Speaker 8: They met, they met while we were together.

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Speaker 2: That's awesome.

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Speaker 8: They stayed, They stayed together.

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Speaker 2: But that's how great was that for a while?

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Speaker 6: Yeah he's not there anymore.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but for a minute, that's like what you want?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that would have been great.

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Speaker 2: Hey bro, hey bro, sister.

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Speaker 8: My girlfriend potentially listening. But all right, well thank you?

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Speaker 6: Well can I ask?

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Speaker 4: I mean, this is going to get a little personal.

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Speaker 4: But how did it end?

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Speaker 9: Like it?

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Speaker 4: Did it end bad? Do you not want to see

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Speaker 4: the family? Do they hate you?

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Speaker 8: I mean, of course, I mean, it isn't that badly,

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Speaker 8: like you know, it's just like you know, ran, of

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Speaker 8: course it's not like you know, like either of us

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Speaker 10: I know, cheated, but you know, flame burnt out and

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Speaker 10: you know, okay, so that's.

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Speaker 5: Not Apparently everything doesn't and badly you are the worst

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Speaker 5: breakour upper.

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Speaker 3: Then I wanted to know specifically if there was, Matt.

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Speaker 5: Look, here's where I am on this. Your girlfriend is

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Speaker 5: the priority.

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 6: This is the past.

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Speaker 5: This is the past, so you do not need to

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Speaker 5: feel guilty about not being there.

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Speaker 2: This is your past, but it is your buddy. How

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Speaker 2: close are you guys?

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Speaker 6: Groomsman?

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Speaker 2: It's closed friend for a while, and do you think

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Speaker 2: it's gonna last with your girlfriend.

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Speaker 8: Now. Yeah, I mean, it's definitely possible.

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Speaker 3: It's gonna be fine. Everybody's in good spirits for a wedding.

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Speaker 2: You're not gonna call me dude. He's cool. He's cool. Bro, Listen,

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Speaker 2: he's cool. He gets it. He's got to get it. Like,

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Speaker 2: if she's really that upset about it, you guys say, bro,

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Speaker 2: trust me on this one. I just need to be

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Speaker 2: with me on this one. I love you. I want

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Speaker 2: to be there, but it's going to cause so much

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Speaker 2: of a mess in my relationship. I can't do it.

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Speaker 2: He's gonna be brother. I get it. I get it.

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Speaker 2: There are other dudes that can be groomsmen. Bro, I

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Speaker 2: get it. A lot of bro and dudes in the conversation.

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Speaker 2: But it's gonna happen.

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Speaker 4: He just doesn't become a grooms Maybe you need still

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Speaker 4: go to the wedding with your.

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Speaker 7: Also, difference between going to the wedding and being groomsmen, Yeah,

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Speaker 7: I don't like.

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Speaker 8: That's probably the best choice. Like, I get it. I

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Speaker 2: We're just not going.

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Speaker 8: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I think I think you gotta just like be honest with.

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Speaker 4: Him because your ex is one of the bridesmaids.

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Speaker 2: Probably right, Yeah, yeah, this is not great. I think

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Speaker 2: you's got to be the problem.

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Speaker 6: I think you can get through it.

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Speaker 2: You put yourself through the pain of that though.

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Speaker 6: Because he's a lot of his best friend's weddings.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but if you're the best friend's going to understand

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Speaker 2: the situation, what's going to happen?

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Speaker 6: Are you going to fall in love with your X again?

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 7: No?

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Speaker 6: And then we get through it. We're adults. Let's have

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Speaker 6: a great wedding.

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Speaker 5: More childish when it comes to god. I am over here.

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Speaker 5: All right, Well, Matt, I don't know if it helped her.

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Speaker 6: Big is the wedding? That also depends.

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Speaker 3: I mean it definite.

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Speaker 8: It definitely got me further along than I were than

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Speaker 8: I would Thank you.

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Speaker 2: Is it big or small? This wedding?

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Speaker 8: It's like sixty sixty to eighty people.

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Speaker 10: I would say, all.

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Speaker 5: Right, well, good luck, bro, thank you for listening to us.

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Speaker 5: I hope we helped somehow. Let us know it goes

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Speaker 5: Thank you. Guys, absolutely not. You don't want to put

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Speaker 5: yourself through it. I have to see your ax and

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Speaker 5: feel the feelings, and I have to go through it.

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Speaker 8: Don't do it.

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Speaker 6: Don't any feelings anymore. It ended mutually. You're the one

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Speaker 6: that's always friends with your ex. Yeah, honestly, that was

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Speaker 2: Last whole thing was I don't he shouldn't call it.

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Speaker 2: Don't cause pain in your own relationship. Now, if you

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Speaker 2: can just say to your buddy, hey, dude, this is

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Speaker 4: No, it'll be fine.

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Speaker 2: How to be a.

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Speaker 5: Guy one on one write a book.

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Speaker 2: Just be honest with your bro, just like be honest

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Speaker 2: with your buddy, Like, dude, it's got to tell you

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Speaker 2: it's gonna.

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Speaker 8: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Like i'd be the furthest author of that.

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Speaker 2: Ever, Tubbs, you'd be more likely to be that author

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Speaker 2: than I. Definitely, he smiles. I was like, and he smiles,

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Speaker 2: like he turn the page. Enter Tubbs. Exterior shot of

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Speaker 2: the lawn and porch tubs sipping lemonade. Are writing the

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Speaker 2: book or the script? Claudia, good morning? How are you?

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Speaker 8: Good morning? I'm good, how are you?

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Speaker 9: Well?

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Speaker 5: We're here to help. I could say that. So your

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Speaker 5: chiropractor is doing what?

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Speaker 8: So it's getting very weird. I've been having.

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Speaker 1: Some back issues and I've gone to a couple of

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Speaker 1: different places. None of it's really doing much until I

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Speaker 1: finally meet this guy it's been going really well. I'm

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Speaker 1: in much better place with my back and the pain that.

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Speaker 2: I've been having.

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Speaker 1: But now he found me on Instagram and he's been

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Speaker 1: dming me. He's been sending me really inappropriate memes. He's

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Speaker 1: just it's getting a little sketchy. And then I also

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Speaker 1: realized that he's married, So I'm not sure what to do.

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Speaker 1: I don't really want to switch chiropractors, but this is

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Speaker 1: getting a little uncomfortable.

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Speaker 2: What are the means that he's sending you?

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Speaker 1: Oh, well, he's sending me like stuff like if we're

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Speaker 1: like going on vacation together, like just like stuff like

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Speaker 1: level go to like the beach and like, but it's

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Speaker 1: like stuff like I don't even know how to explain it.

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Speaker 1: It's just it's random, very random, because it's like people

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Speaker 1: in bathing suits and like people kind of stretching, and

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Speaker 1: he's like this could be us, like people stretching on

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Speaker 1: the beach and saying like this could be us.

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Speaker 2: Does he say any of this stuff when you're getting

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Speaker 2: your adjustment?

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Speaker 1: Well, I haven't seen him lately since he started getting

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Speaker 1: a little more aggressive, but I'm due to go back

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Speaker 1: this week and I am just really debating if I'm

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Speaker 1: going to go or not. My back had felt this

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Speaker 1: good in a while, and I don't know if it's

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Speaker 1: because he's taken a liking to me or if he's

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Speaker 1: just good. But these means of people on the beach

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Speaker 1: kind of stretching each other out is really uncomfortable, especially

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Speaker 1: because now I'm realizing he's married.

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Speaker 2: So I think there's two options here.

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Speaker 5: A quit him or B tell him that he's being

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Speaker 5: inappropriate and you're gonna quit him if he doesn't.

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Speaker 6: Stop, or see tell his wife. I didn't know what

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Speaker 2: This direction, she was going to go with that scene

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Speaker 1: The other layer to it is that I'm also married,

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Speaker 6: Yeah, tell your husband. You don't want to keep this

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Speaker 3: This is weird and it's very unprofessional, and I would

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Speaker 2: He should lose his chiropractic license.

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Speaker 1: Do you think it's worth seeing someone else in the practice?

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Speaker 6: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I think there's so many great car Where do you live?

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Speaker 2: I could break your back the research for you like

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Speaker 1: He's like, I could, this could be us.

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Speaker 5: Like here's here's one thing you got to learn in life.

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Speaker 2: This is the guy's making. Yeah, this is not okay, Claudie,

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Speaker 5: I mean massage therapists, doctors, dentists, chiropractors. You gotta have

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Speaker 6: But also, like, what if you're a single dentist but

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Speaker 6: you can still be friends.

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Speaker 7: What if you're a dentist and you're single and the

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 4: You technically no, it's against your license.

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Speaker 5: You're not supposed to hit on your partner or your

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Speaker 6: Yeah, dentists want love too, well, so do I.

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Speaker 2: But I'm not hitting on everybody comes in here.

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Speaker 9: I mean, you have.

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Speaker 6: Friends.

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Speaker 2: That was one time and we dated for three years.

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Speaker 7: I'm saying though, like, just because you have a certain

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Speaker 6: But the fact that just got married.

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Speaker 3: Listen, tomato, tomato, tomato, potato, potato, so so uh.

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Speaker 2: Some people are giving up coffee for at least for

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Speaker 5: They got this new research back out at Westwood in Ucla.

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Speaker 5: They found the combination of salt, vinegar and crunch of

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Speaker 2: And that is a pickle. No, first thing in the morning,

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Speaker 2: have a pickle? Mmm, No, you're not into that. I

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Speaker 6: If it has the same effect as coffee, I'd be down.

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Speaker 5: But see to me, a pickle has sodium and all

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Speaker 2: Like bad breath.

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Speaker 6: I guess the coffee that gave you bad breath too.

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Speaker 2: Coffee definitely gives me bad breath, for sure. They say

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Speaker 2: another snack that could do this, roasted salted nuts. But

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Speaker 10: In the night.

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Speaker 6: No, that doesn't sound I'm not.

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Speaker 2: Trying to do that.

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Speaker 6: I'd rather just have a cup of coffee.

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Speaker 5: Well, that's the thing. I'm going back to coffee. I like,

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Speaker 5: I'm not going to bet at night thinking about a

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Speaker 6: I have about a pickle a day.

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Speaker 2: You do, Yeah, like a like a cumber.

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Speaker 6: No, no, no, like a full honking pickle.

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Speaker 2: I didn't know that about you. So many things being revealed.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, time is the only currency you spend without ever

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Speaker 5: knowing your balance. Use it wisely, like we don't know

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Speaker 5: how much time we've got. True, So think about it

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Speaker 5: twice before you do it, and make the most of it.

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Speaker 5: Let's go into cal and Santa Ana Nicole, good morning.

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Speaker 9: Good morning.

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Speaker 2: How are you?

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Speaker 11: I am feeling a little paranoid over here?

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Speaker 12: Is that right?

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Speaker 11: I'm just wondering if I'm being paranoid. I mean, you

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Speaker 11: He's being fine whatever, like, but here's the thing. He

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Speaker 8: To be on Instagram.

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Speaker 11: Okay, but like he says, he has no social media

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Speaker 11: thinks it's kind of cute and quirky because she's all

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Speaker 2: So yeah, that's a big leap.

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Speaker 5: You think the guy's dating your friend, he's married, I

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Speaker 11: I mean in this day and age, it just seems

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Speaker 7: What if he's in the witness protection program, it could

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Speaker 7: be love that theory, Yeah, I mean, that's a theory.

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Speaker 5: He's got a wife, she's a winning miss protection program.

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Speaker 5: Maybe he just asn't photogenic, doesn't like to see himself

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Speaker 2: But I will say it is a little weird.

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Speaker 5: To completely want to be, you know, vanished in all

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Speaker 2: There's got to be into that. Now, did your girlfriend

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Speaker 5: Now, but do you think when that wears off, which

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Speaker 5: it will, you can have this conversation or have you

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Speaker 5: had this conversation saying I love your guy, he's a

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Speaker 5: great guy and all, but something's up with the fact

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Speaker 11: I was thinking the exact same thing, because I'm like,

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Speaker 11: what happens when she wants him to put her on

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Speaker 5: Beat Yeah, pin in it, put a pin in, give

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Speaker 5: it a beat. But I it's not witness protection. I

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Speaker 5: don't think he has a wife.

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Speaker 2: It's something and you can help pish the bottom of it.

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Speaker 10: It's off right smelly yees.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly. Well the cole thanks for calling about your friend.

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Speaker 2: Good luck.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, thanks guys, all right, you take your care all right,

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Speaker 2: All right? Yeah, I don't know he is hiding something.

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Speaker 6: I think he's hiding something for sure. And hold life

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Speaker 2: That is so hard to live a double life, to

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Speaker 4: Some people probably enjoy it a weird way, get off

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Speaker 2: Gross. Isn't it amazing if you have not had your

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Speaker 5: Mine was perfect this morning. Not tempted to put almond

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Speaker 5: Just you ever know, But as a as a young

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Speaker 8: Me?

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Speaker 6: I know Ryan Seacrest through his evolution.

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Speaker 7: It wasn't just me everyone true, true, but I know

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Speaker 2: Because what was the best era?

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Speaker 7: The best era was when you were in your Manuka

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Speaker 2: To make it like a.

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Speaker 6: Terrifying you get it right? Yeah, that one was like

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Speaker 5: I learned about all that stuff through that person that era.

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Speaker 5: I would not even know about Manuka.

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Speaker 7: They're like a Splendistivia era and I read about that.

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Speaker 6: You're a water snob like all these things.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, you're sagittarius adjacent.

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Speaker 2: Oh interesting, What does the sagittarius adjacent mean?

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Speaker 6: They like morph into whoever they're dating, like they take

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Speaker 2: From what are you?

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Speaker 2: Cancer? Yeah, so what is it with you and you're

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Speaker 8: What?

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Speaker 2: What's the deal with cancers in their cars? Why do

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Speaker 8: Oh? What is it?

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Speaker 6: I don't think it's just me?

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Speaker 2: What is what is happened?

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Speaker 8: Oh?

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Speaker 9: You want me to tell you what?

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Speaker 2: This is time? What is this about?

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Speaker 6: This is age?

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Speaker 9: Oh?

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Speaker 2: I can't say a word.

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Speaker 8: This is what it is.

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Speaker 3: In our twenties, we didn't care about stuff like this.

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Speaker 3: But now and you're like, who's parking in front of

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Speaker 9: Like?

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Speaker 4: Who is that?

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Speaker 6: You look through the window. They're parking in my parking spot.

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Speaker 6: It's like, that's my spot on our street?

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Speaker 2: Like it is sorry, is it the street or is

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Speaker 6: The public street? But this is where I parked.

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Speaker 7: I have been parking my car every day there for

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Speaker 7: Yeah, so upset by this that I then started parking

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Speaker 2: Was like, that's going to show him you move yourself

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Speaker 6: So then he came in front of my house because.

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Speaker 2: He's older than you are. Age.

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Speaker 6: It's totally in this battle with this car that's next

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Speaker 7: It's this neighbor, and like we have this neighbor that

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Speaker 7: you park in front of your house because I like

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Speaker 5: Well, just FYI I think if you go to the

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Speaker 5: handbook on this, you should most ap probably park in

457
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Speaker 5: front of your own space, not clear the way, so

458
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Speaker 5: you take you're actually ball hogging the street. No, you

459
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Speaker 5: want to clear gap in front of your bay window.

460
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Speaker 5: And you also want to park commediately close to your home.

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Speaker 7: Yes, but I am technically still on my property with

462
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Speaker 7: just like a tail into there.

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Speaker 2: This is so beautiful. This is actually but Syne, he

464
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Speaker 2: made a good point.

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Speaker 5: This is the beginning of all the complaining that's gonna

466
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Speaker 5: come with age, because I do it all the time.

467
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Speaker 6: Because the neighbor next door doesn't mow their lawn enough.

468
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Speaker 2: What's taking so long? Why are you walking on my law?

469
00:20:00,080 --> 00:20:02,080
Speaker 2: The things that you get to complain about.

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Speaker 6: This hurts complainer.

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Speaker 8: But like.

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Speaker 2: Spot, Oh that's this is a beautiful momentol evolve into it.

473
00:20:12,440 --> 00:20:19,680
Speaker 2: Or just look at your own car. Oh, I've never

474
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Speaker 2: seen your nostrils flare. That was fun.

475
00:20:22,280 --> 00:20:24,480
Speaker 6: Like my dog likes to sit out there and like

476
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Speaker 6: watch the animals.

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Speaker 5: You know what animals are running through your neighbors? What

478
00:20:32,280 --> 00:20:35,399
Speaker 5: kind of zoology is coming through the hood? There is

479
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Speaker 5: that a camel? It's time for Ryan's roses right now

480
00:20:42,880 --> 00:20:45,280
Speaker 5: on Kiss turn it up if you want to hear

481
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Speaker 5: the story, Dear Ryan Systey in time. This comes to

482
00:20:48,080 --> 00:20:51,000
Speaker 5: us from a Lakewood. My husband was showing me a

483
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Speaker 5: video that his family sent him on Snapchat. When the

484
00:20:53,280 --> 00:20:54,920
Speaker 5: video ended it went back to the list of people

485
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Speaker 5: he's been snapping with, and there was one with someone

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Speaker 5: named Brittany and they had snap streak. I don't know

487
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Speaker 5: who that is, and I'm hoping you can help me

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Speaker 5: find out.

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Speaker 2: Hmm. Interesting. Let's get to Selena now, Selena, good morning.

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Speaker 8: Hi.

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Speaker 2: How are you uh doing?

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00:21:18,000 --> 00:21:18,280
Speaker 7: Okay?

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Speaker 12: How about you?

494
00:21:19,440 --> 00:21:20,000
Speaker 2: We're doing all right.

495
00:21:20,080 --> 00:21:23,200
Speaker 5: So your husband was showing you this video and it

496
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Speaker 5: went back to the list of people he's been snapping with,

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Speaker 5: and then the name Britney came up.

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Speaker 2: So did he try and explain that, like not really, And.

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Speaker 10: To be fair, like I don't know much about Snapchat,

500
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Speaker 10: but I know he's got like a group on there

501
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Speaker 10: with siblings and parents and stuff they send like picks

502
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Speaker 10: of his niece and nephew. But yeah, I saw the

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Speaker 10: name Brittany and he just completely closed out of the app.

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Speaker 10: I've literally never even heard him mention that name before,

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Speaker 10: So I don't know.

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Speaker 5: I mean, let's go down, like, could it be people

507
00:21:51,720 --> 00:21:52,960
Speaker 5: he works with, gonna be old friends?

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Speaker 2: What could it be?

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Speaker 10: I mean, like maybe I just haven't heard the name

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Speaker 10: at all. And then you know, the weird thing is

511
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Speaker 10: I realized, like a few weeks ago, he bought one

512
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Speaker 10: of those protective screens for his phone, and he says

513
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Speaker 10: it was like for work because he has a new

514
00:22:09,080 --> 00:22:15,040
Speaker 10: job and he deals with people's banks like streak. Yeah, yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 5: She's been married to her husband for about a year.

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Speaker 5: Lesson here what she said about a year? Right, And

517
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Speaker 5: she saw she was on his snapchat and at the

518
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Speaker 5: end of a video went back to the list of

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Speaker 5: people he's been snapping with and the name Brittany came

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Speaker 5: up and they had a snap streak. And she's suspected

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Speaker 5: that she doesn't think that makes any sense. So, Selena,

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Speaker 5: how long was the snap streak with Brittany? Did you

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Speaker 5: get an idea?

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Speaker 10: Yeah, it said one ninety and it had like a

525
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Speaker 10: little flame next to it. I had to ask my

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Speaker 10: sister what that meant, because I don't I don't use it,

527
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Speaker 10: but I had a feeling it was something bad.

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Speaker 2: Can someone tell me if one ninety is good or bad?

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Speaker 6: Right, that's one.

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Speaker 4: Hundred and ninety days days streak means day after day.

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Speaker 6: So they spoke get for one hundred and ninety days.

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Speaker 6: That's half a year, and then.

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Speaker 5: Some Oh my god, all right, I'm going to call

534
00:23:09,640 --> 00:23:11,680
Speaker 5: him now I need to say Ryan, you my permission

535
00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:13,560
Speaker 5: to call him? Then his name on Kiss FM.

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Speaker 10: Go ahead, Ryan, You've got my permission to call on

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Speaker 10: Kiss FM.

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Speaker 2: We're going to do that. Now, be very quiet. We

539
00:23:21,359 --> 00:23:23,360
Speaker 2: find out who he's thinking about. Who's top of mind?

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00:23:23,440 --> 00:23:23,959
Speaker 2: Is it Brittany?

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Speaker 8: Is it you?

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00:23:24,320 --> 00:23:26,080
Speaker 2: Selena? Obviously his wife? Who does he want to send

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Speaker 2: the flowers to?

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Speaker 9: Here we go?

545
00:23:27,680 --> 00:23:28,120
Speaker 2: Good luck?

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00:23:29,640 --> 00:23:42,560
Speaker 8: Thanks? Hello?

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Speaker 1: Hi?

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Speaker 6: Is this David?

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Speaker 8: Yeah? Hi?

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Speaker 3: Mynyame is Kimberlee. I'm calling from Kellie Blooms. How are

551
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Speaker 3: you doing this morning?

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Speaker 8: Honestly, not great. I feel like nine called. I'm getting

553
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Speaker 8: her telemarketers these days.

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Speaker 6: Oh well, hopefully this.

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Speaker 3: Will entice you to become one of our customers. I'm

556
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Speaker 3: not a telemarketer, but we deliver in Lakewood and surrounding

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Speaker 3: areas and offering a free promotion today.

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Speaker 6: It's a free dozen red Roses that you can send

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Speaker 6: anybody that you'd like.

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Speaker 8: Oh well, I don't know who you are, so I

561
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Speaker 8: feel like any telemarketer.

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Speaker 3: My name is Kimberly and I'm calling from Kelli Blooms.

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Speaker 3: We're local here in Lakewood. They're absolutely free. I don't

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Speaker 3: need anything from you, no cash, credit card in for

565
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Speaker 3: anything like that. We can just start with a note

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Speaker 3: of whoever you want.

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Speaker 6: To send free flowers to, like this is Sirius. Yes,

568
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Speaker 6: anybody you want to.

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Speaker 5: Send you.

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Speaker 8: I guess my wife Selina.

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Speaker 6: Okay, And what would you like to put on the card?

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Speaker 8: Oh? Man, I don't know. Just put to my little

573
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Speaker 8: sausage link love peanut.

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Speaker 4: Oh it's cute, my little sausage link love peanuts.

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Speaker 2: David, your voice, I've been broadcast on the radio. My

576
00:25:02,080 --> 00:25:03,840
Speaker 2: name is Ryan. This is Sistany and Tanya, and we

577
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Speaker 2: have your sausage link Selena on the phone right now.

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00:25:09,000 --> 00:25:10,520
Speaker 2: We're calling you specifically, David.

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Speaker 10: David, I'm sorry. I saw you have a Snapchat streak.

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Speaker 10: I don't know who that is, but I'm sorry we're

581
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Speaker 10: doing this on the radio. I am not comfortable with that.

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Speaker 8: Brittany. Wait, this is so weird. What is happening right now? Look?

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Speaker 10: I if I know who this woman is, that's fine,

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00:25:30,600 --> 00:25:32,280
Speaker 10: but like, who is she?

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Speaker 8: Wait? I'm confused. What is happening right now?

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Speaker 2: David?

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Speaker 5: Your wife thinks you're cheating on her with a woman

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Speaker 5: named Brittany. That's what's happening. What can you tell her?

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00:25:43,080 --> 00:25:45,160
Speaker 5: Give her some peace of mind. What's the explanation.

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Speaker 8: I feel like she's confused. I think the issue is

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Speaker 8: that she doesn't understand like snapchat in general, so she

592
00:25:53,560 --> 00:25:55,680
Speaker 8: like immediately thinks I'm cheating, but I'm not.

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Speaker 2: You've had a streak with Brittany on the snapchat?

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00:25:59,119 --> 00:26:01,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, relationship with her on snapchat.

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Speaker 10: He's literally avoiding the question who is she? David?

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00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:08,080
Speaker 2: Don't the question?

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00:26:08,160 --> 00:26:09,520
Speaker 8: Who is trust me?

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00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:12,679
Speaker 2: David? David, David? Did?

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Speaker 5: You don't answer a question by asking one, You answer

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Speaker 5: a question by answering it.

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Speaker 2: So what's the answer. Who is Brittany?

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00:26:19,880 --> 00:26:22,440
Speaker 8: Oh? My god, she's some girl that I worked with

603
00:26:22,640 --> 00:26:24,000
Speaker 8: at this LTD?

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Speaker 2: And why do you have a streak?

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Speaker 8: QUI did you date her? She was never my girlfriend,

606
00:26:31,720 --> 00:26:32,520
Speaker 8: so it was romantic.

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Speaker 2: Why are you talking to her now if you're married?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, sketch.

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Speaker 8: I mean I don't know, it's not even a deal.

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Speaker 8: I don't think. Huh did you hook.

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Speaker 1: Up with her?

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Speaker 8: Huh?

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Speaker 2: Huh?

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00:26:48,680 --> 00:26:52,520
Speaker 6: Right, exactly, stalling, stalling, stalling, Oh.

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Speaker 2: David, Look, let's just cut to the chase here. What's

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Speaker 2: going on with you? Brittany? Wh are you still talking

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Speaker 2: to me while you're married?

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Speaker 8: There's nothing going on.

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Speaker 2: But why talking to her? Then?

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Speaker 8: I talk to lots of people. I'm talking to you

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Speaker 8: right now. I'm not We don't have a streak.

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Speaker 10: Do you do you see how this is a problem? Like,

623
00:27:12,640 --> 00:27:14,879
Speaker 10: do you like truly? Do you see how this is

624
00:27:14,920 --> 00:27:16,960
Speaker 10: a problem? How men do this? This is insane.

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00:27:18,440 --> 00:27:20,240
Speaker 8: I don't see how it's an issue. No, I don't

626
00:27:20,280 --> 00:27:21,639
Speaker 8: see how she's even irrelevant.

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00:27:22,960 --> 00:27:23,919
Speaker 2: Then don't talk to her.

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00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:25,280
Speaker 8: What is right?

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Speaker 3: I had one hundred and nine days streak with some

630
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Speaker 3: random guy or a guy that she used to hook

631
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Speaker 3: up with in the street.

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Speaker 8: Bro. I think she doesn't understand how snapchat whereks?

633
00:27:35,240 --> 00:27:39,639
Speaker 5: It just doesnt look we're going in circles, Selena, David's

634
00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:41,960
Speaker 5: talking to an X. Are you okay with it or not?

635
00:27:42,240 --> 00:27:44,280
Speaker 5: He doesn't understand. He doesn't get the plot here. He's

636
00:27:44,320 --> 00:27:46,600
Speaker 5: not getting the plot. So you need to sit down

637
00:27:46,680 --> 00:27:50,440
Speaker 5: with him and try and help him understand why this

638
00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:51,960
Speaker 5: is an issue and then find out what's going on

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00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:56,080
Speaker 5: between him and Brittany. All right, good luck with this.

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00:27:56,280 --> 00:27:58,280
Speaker 5: I think we've got some information for you. This is

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00:27:58,880 --> 00:28:01,880
Speaker 5: there's more to this story. Yeah, thank you very much.

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00:28:01,760 --> 00:28:02,720
Speaker 2: For reaching cheting.

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00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:03,920
Speaker 6: He's emotionally cheating.

644
00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:05,840
Speaker 2: Where do you. Let's come back. Let's go through the headlines.

645
00:28:05,880 --> 00:28:07,760
Speaker 2: We'll come back here first, Sysney, what's happening this morning?

646
00:28:08,359 --> 00:28:11,000
Speaker 2: FM headlines with siciny Well.

647
00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:14,160
Speaker 3: Officials in Bell Gardens have canceled Fourth of July holiday

648
00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:17,280
Speaker 3: celebrations due to the ongoing federal immigration rates happening here

649
00:28:17,359 --> 00:28:21,119
Speaker 3: in SoCal and La County, Superior Court judge ruled that

650
00:28:21,240 --> 00:28:25,680
Speaker 3: the way California's Last Resort fire insurance provider handles smoke

651
00:28:25,760 --> 00:28:27,520
Speaker 3: damage violates state law.

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00:28:28,040 --> 00:28:30,400
Speaker 6: The Huntington Beach Police Department is launching.

653
00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:33,120
Speaker 3: An e bike safety program to help mitigate the area's

654
00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:37,080
Speaker 3: high rate of crashes, and Sabrina Carpenter is collabing with

655
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Speaker 3: Duncan again.

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00:28:38,400 --> 00:28:41,080
Speaker 6: This time it's for Sabrina's Strawberry.

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00:28:40,600 --> 00:28:45,680
Speaker 5: Dream refresher Ryan's Roses. And if there's something going on

658
00:28:45,760 --> 00:28:47,440
Speaker 5: in your relationship and you need to get to the

659
00:28:47,480 --> 00:28:49,640
Speaker 5: bottom of it, you need peace of mind, then you

660
00:28:49,640 --> 00:28:51,600
Speaker 5: should talk to your partner. If you can't get an answer,

661
00:28:51,640 --> 00:28:53,080
Speaker 5: reach out to us. We'll call them, We'll see what

662
00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:55,960
Speaker 5: we can find out. Selena married a year. She sees

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Speaker 5: that her husband David is having a snapchat streak for

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Speaker 5: one hundred and ninety days with a girl named Brittany

665
00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:06,560
Speaker 5: that he used to date, and he doesn't understand. I mean,

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00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:08,640
Speaker 5: the bigger problem here is he doesn't get why that's

667
00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:11,840
Speaker 5: a problem. Now he sent the roses to his wife reluctantly,

668
00:29:11,920 --> 00:29:14,440
Speaker 5: almost I guess I'll send them to my wife, Selena.

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00:29:15,040 --> 00:29:18,680
Speaker 5: But he doesn't understand why streaking with an ax On

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Speaker 5: Snap for one hundred and ninety days is an issue exact, Tony,

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00:29:22,640 --> 00:29:24,800
Speaker 5: what is so funny about me describing snaps?

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00:29:24,880 --> 00:29:28,959
Speaker 7: Streaking with an ex is actually like it says everything

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Speaker 7: you need to say right there?

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Speaker 5: My point, he's streaking with an x On Snap for

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Speaker 5: one night. Yeah, but he doesn't understand the problem.

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00:29:35,320 --> 00:29:37,720
Speaker 6: It's totally flirting, totally.

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Speaker 2: Why is he keeping it warm? Like he's keeping it warm?

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Speaker 6: Right, it's like a parent as bear the still relationship.

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Speaker 5: Let's get to your thoughts. I think that either he's

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Speaker 5: got he's got an agenda. He's either got a plan

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Speaker 5: to see her again for some reason he wants to

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Speaker 5: keep her around while he's married for a year to Selena.

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Speaker 2: But I don't know. I mean, I mean to your point, Tanya,

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Speaker 2: if you're seynor husband, we're talking to anybody that he

685
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Speaker 2: was with in the past. That's cheating.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, a snap streak with any other woman, I'd be

687
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Speaker 7: like that is it's shack No, but what would you

688
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Speaker 7: do and probably grab.

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Speaker 6: His phone throw it out of the window. Yeah you

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Speaker 6: told him?

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Speaker 7: Yeah yeah, Now you can't snap streak anyone until you

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Speaker 7: buy a new phone without a.

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Speaker 5: Phone, Yeah, and grind your teeth like that too, and

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Speaker 5: you do. Melissa's an echo park. So Melissa, what did

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Speaker 5: you hear in that? To my little sausage link love

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Speaker 5: Peanut was the note? Oh go ahead, Melissa?

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Speaker 12: You know what I think?

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Speaker 13: Overall, I don't think he is sleeping with her, Okay,

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Speaker 13: but he is definitely enjoying the fact that he can

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Speaker 13: look at her photos and the fact that he just

701
00:30:55,400 --> 00:30:58,080
Speaker 13: doesn't see why this is an issue. That just shows

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Speaker 13: that he's just really immature, and you know what, he's

703
00:31:00,840 --> 00:31:03,240
Speaker 13: been less like he's been married. What he said, like

704
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Speaker 13: listen to her or something.

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Speaker 10: And he really needs to get his ass together.

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Speaker 13: He's got to figure this out.

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Speaker 5: So you don't think he's sleeping with her, but he

708
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Speaker 5: probably loves looking at the photos on snap that disappear.

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Speaker 12: Yeah, I think there's I do think there's something to

710
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Speaker 12: be said with that maybe he's enjoying them in the moment,

711
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Speaker 12: or you know the fact that he is also keeping

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Speaker 12: it kind of secret and not really even showing photos

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Speaker 12: like to his wife or friends.

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Speaker 13: I don't know, that's just that just seems really suspect

715
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Speaker 13: to me. He's definitely hiding something, but I don't think

716
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Speaker 13: it's physical.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well, this is it's a slippery slope. The door

718
00:31:38,560 --> 00:31:39,400
Speaker 2: is open, and.

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Speaker 4: He likes that his wife doesn't know snapchats. He mentioned

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Speaker 4: that a few times.

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Speaker 5: But he also doesn't understand why this is a problem

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00:31:45,240 --> 00:31:46,360
Speaker 5: to me, the bigger issues there.

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Speaker 2: He doesn't He's not getting it. Melissa, thank you for listening.

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Speaker 10: Oh, thank you.

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Speaker 2: Janet is online. How Janet, how are you doing?

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Speaker 8: I'm doing good.

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Speaker 9: Thanks for taking my call.

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Speaker 2: Of course, so you were asking about your ex.

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Speaker 9: Yes, I recently broke up with my boyfriend. We were

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Speaker 9: together for about two years, and I also have an

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Speaker 9: eight year old son, and he was pretty involved with

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Speaker 9: my son. They got along really well. And my question

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Speaker 9: is I would like to still ask him to come

734
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Speaker 9: to my sons like basketball and football games. I know

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Speaker 9: it would mean a lot to my son, but I

736
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Speaker 9: don't know if that's wrong of me to ask him

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Speaker 9: to do that.

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Speaker 2: Why are you second guessing it.

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Speaker 8: Because some of my.

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Speaker 9: Friends are just people are just saying that it's not right,

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Speaker 9: like if it didn't work out with us, and I'm

742
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Speaker 9: just delaying, I'm just going to be making it harder

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Speaker 9: overall if we're not going to be together, and kind

744
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Speaker 9: of like, what's the point, and that it's not I'm

745
00:33:02,400 --> 00:33:05,360
Speaker 9: not being fair to him, to my ex.

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Speaker 2: And this is your son you had with your ex?

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Speaker 9: No no, no, no, no no no sorry sorry yeah

748
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Speaker 9: he no, his dad is not around. This is just

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Speaker 9: my boyfriend of tears, and my son is eight.

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Speaker 5: I mean, and your son had a great relationship with him. Yes,

751
00:33:25,760 --> 00:33:29,120
Speaker 5: his father's not around, correct, So it could be an

752
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Speaker 5: important person for him.

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Speaker 6: It could, and with due time, it can figure itself out.

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Speaker 8: You know.

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Speaker 7: I think it should be your ex's decision if he

756
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Speaker 7: wants to stay in your son's life, like he should

757
00:33:42,720 --> 00:33:44,240
Speaker 7: come to you and say, I really want to I

758
00:33:44,320 --> 00:33:45,960
Speaker 7: really want to stay involved. I don't know if you

759
00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:49,080
Speaker 7: should put that on him, because if he does move

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Speaker 7: on and he starts dating someone else.

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Speaker 4: Then it could get really or you start doing someone else.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, right, so.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, that's I guess that's what I'm wondering too. It's like,

764
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Speaker 9: is there no does that not really exist where someone

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Speaker 9: just keeps a relationship with their ex's kid as they.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, exactly. I think this is right.

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Speaker 5: You don't have to there's no like textbook for this one.

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00:34:19,000 --> 00:34:20,359
Speaker 5: You know, if you if you feel like they've got

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Speaker 5: a good relationship and it will benefit your son in

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00:34:22,640 --> 00:34:24,600
Speaker 5: this moment, then you go for it. But it should

771
00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:26,400
Speaker 5: all be through the lens of how's how's your son

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Speaker 5: going to do or feel.

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Speaker 4: In a year if things change, things change, But for.

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Speaker 2: The moment, sounds like they've got a great connection. That's

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Speaker 2: a good thing.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, I think so too. I guess, like, you know,

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Speaker 9: some of my friends are just saying, well, then what

778
00:34:42,760 --> 00:34:45,799
Speaker 9: if he's you know, still there for now, and then

779
00:34:46,320 --> 00:34:48,239
Speaker 9: is it going to hurt my son more if in

780
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Speaker 9: another year he's like, oh, now I've met this other

781
00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:52,040
Speaker 9: woman and she's not.

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Speaker 2: Cool with this, so bye.

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Speaker 5: You know, I think you don't listen to your friends

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Speaker 5: and you start just thinking, you know, what is your

785
00:34:59,239 --> 00:35:01,120
Speaker 5: first reaction, how you should handle it for the moment.

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Speaker 2: It does not be forever, but for now.

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Speaker 8: All right?

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00:35:06,600 --> 00:35:08,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay, good luck?

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00:35:08,160 --> 00:35:08,320
Speaker 6: With this.

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00:35:09,280 --> 00:35:10,160
Speaker 9: Okay, thank you so.

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00:35:10,280 --> 00:35:11,520
Speaker 2: Much, take care bye bye.

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Speaker 5: I mean, nothing ever going to be easy when you

793
00:35:15,080 --> 00:35:18,040
Speaker 5: break up, you go through separation and there's a child involved.

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Speaker 8: Me.

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Speaker 5: Well, look at me talking. I don't know, but I'm

796
00:35:19,520 --> 00:35:22,000
Speaker 5: saying like, it's never gonna never's gonna be easy. There's

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Speaker 5: going to be like black and white to me because

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Speaker 5: everything it's like has to be this way. It's gonna

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Speaker 5: be this way. It's got to be this way. It's

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Speaker 5: just a it's a maybe a fluid situation for the moment.

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Speaker 6: I think so too.

802
00:35:31,800 --> 00:35:33,480
Speaker 4: And he doesn't need to see her sound like every

803
00:35:33,520 --> 00:35:35,640
Speaker 4: single day, but it's like once a month or something

804
00:35:35,719 --> 00:35:36,399
Speaker 4: that makes them happy.

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00:35:36,560 --> 00:35:39,319
Speaker 2: Come to the game makes him feel good. Right.

806
00:35:40,520 --> 00:35:42,719
Speaker 5: I just read new news this morning about what you

807
00:35:42,719 --> 00:35:45,000
Speaker 5: should eat first on an empty stomach right now before

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Speaker 5: you go to work. They say she'd eat walnuts in

809
00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:50,759
Speaker 5: the morning on an empty stomach before you go to work.

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00:35:50,800 --> 00:35:54,440
Speaker 5: I've heard that before walnuts. It's not cashews, not peanuts.

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Speaker 5: Walnuts improve memory power, enhances overall brain health, and contribute

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Speaker 5: to glowing skin.

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Speaker 8: Hm.

814
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Speaker 6: Those are great benefits.

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Speaker 5: Cut yourself up this morning before you get out on

816
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Speaker 5: an empty stomach.

817
00:36:04,760 --> 00:36:07,319
Speaker 2: Don't know water does it for me though you don't

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00:36:07,320 --> 00:36:07,560
Speaker 2: think so.

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Speaker 5: It's a little chalky, and like, hey, if it improves

820
00:36:10,800 --> 00:36:13,279
Speaker 5: my glowing skin and memory power, chalk it up. That

821
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Speaker 5: is nice, all right? Sysney used chat GPT to plan

822
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Speaker 5: a day at Disney. I've started to use it for

823
00:36:20,040 --> 00:36:24,279
Speaker 5: different things. I use it for everything, Ryan, It's pretty great.

824
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Speaker 3: It's basically a third person in my relationship with Michael

825
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Speaker 3: at this time.

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Speaker 2: Do I type or microphone?

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Speaker 8: You know what?

828
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Speaker 6: I was thinking about doing the microphone the other day

829
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Speaker 6: because I was trying to get through it.

830
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Speaker 2: But I type, I type too. I almost did the

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Speaker 2: microphone tune and typing. I get it more per shook.

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Speaker 2: That you like this, Ryan, Yeah, well I need it.

833
00:36:41,680 --> 00:36:44,800
Speaker 2: I need answers. I need news like I wanted to

834
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Speaker 2: know what has more sugar, coconut water or orange.

835
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Speaker 6: That these are the things? Yeah, orange juice.

836
00:36:50,560 --> 00:36:52,759
Speaker 3: And then you can ask it like, O, jee, does

837
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Speaker 3: you know can I get this at the sprouts down

838
00:36:54,520 --> 00:36:55,759
Speaker 3: the street or do I need to go to a

839
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Speaker 3: difference and it'll give you where you can go buy

840
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Speaker 3: it or whatever?

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00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:03,760
Speaker 2: Chat gpbout my walnut news. I will so what happened?

842
00:37:03,960 --> 00:37:07,520
Speaker 3: So I actually I actually love this for planning any

843
00:37:07,600 --> 00:37:08,880
Speaker 3: sort of trip. So if you're trying to do like

844
00:37:08,920 --> 00:37:11,120
Speaker 3: a weekend get away in Santa Barbara or something like,

845
00:37:11,280 --> 00:37:13,360
Speaker 3: just you could literally ask it anything. And so I

846
00:37:13,520 --> 00:37:15,440
Speaker 3: decided to do. I was like, why does it curate

847
00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:17,960
Speaker 3: a full Disney day for me? Like I want to

848
00:37:18,800 --> 00:37:21,600
Speaker 3: pretend like I have the Lightning Lane, pretend like you

849
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Speaker 3: know all that. And I told it like, I want

850
00:37:23,320 --> 00:37:24,520
Speaker 3: to get there at this time, and I want to

851
00:37:24,560 --> 00:37:26,239
Speaker 3: make sure that I do something special for the twins

852
00:37:26,280 --> 00:37:28,680
Speaker 3: because it'll be around their birthday. But I don't really

853
00:37:28,719 --> 00:37:30,879
Speaker 3: want to break the bank. And one of the things

854
00:37:30,920 --> 00:37:33,439
Speaker 3: that it suggested was to visit the Mad Hatter Shop,

855
00:37:33,480 --> 00:37:35,560
Speaker 3: which is on Main Street, and you can go in

856
00:37:35,680 --> 00:37:39,000
Speaker 3: there and they'll sprinkle pixie dust on the kids. That's free,

857
00:37:39,719 --> 00:37:41,640
Speaker 3: and it makes it kind of special. And so I

858
00:37:41,760 --> 00:37:43,720
Speaker 3: was like, oh, that's kind of cute, a little magical

859
00:37:43,800 --> 00:37:44,359
Speaker 3: touch for them.

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00:37:44,440 --> 00:37:45,400
Speaker 2: And then it starts the day.

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00:37:45,520 --> 00:37:47,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, and then it goes go to Peter Pant's flight first,

862
00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:50,000
Speaker 3: use the Lightning Lane, and it just it curates the

863
00:37:50,239 --> 00:37:53,040
Speaker 3: entire itinerary for the whole day, places to eat, lunch,

864
00:37:53,560 --> 00:37:56,200
Speaker 3: all these things, and you can customize.

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Speaker 6: It like however you want.

866
00:37:57,040 --> 00:37:59,120
Speaker 3: Like let's let's say you're gluten free and you're like, well,

867
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Speaker 3: can wear some rest runs that.

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Speaker 2: Are so free? I know I don't think of using

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Speaker 2: it that way, but what a great use.

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Speaker 3: Of it mm hmm exactly. I mean I use it

871
00:38:07,239 --> 00:38:09,600
Speaker 3: for everything that I go to that before Google, and

872
00:38:10,280 --> 00:38:12,439
Speaker 3: it has been a game. I almost need to name

873
00:38:12,480 --> 00:38:14,799
Speaker 3: it something different because I don't like chack GPT. It's

874
00:38:14,800 --> 00:38:17,800
Speaker 3: such a long name to say, but I feel like

875
00:38:17,840 --> 00:38:20,240
Speaker 3: I need to name my AI, like my little robot boyfriend,

876
00:38:20,320 --> 00:38:21,799
Speaker 3: Like he's totally apart and.

877
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Speaker 6: He's a heat.

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Speaker 3: I don't know why he's a he not he's he's

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Speaker 3: a he. Michael's a little jealous about that.

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00:38:27,160 --> 00:38:28,440
Speaker 6: He's like I thought it was it was.

881
00:38:28,440 --> 00:38:30,680
Speaker 2: A shot like Anna Hunter.

882
00:38:31,120 --> 00:38:35,280
Speaker 3: He's like, why don't you ask your your bop boyfriend

883
00:38:35,400 --> 00:38:35,960
Speaker 3: what he thinks?

884
00:38:36,000 --> 00:38:36,879
Speaker 2: And I was like, I will.

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00:38:38,160 --> 00:38:40,080
Speaker 6: I'm telling you, we'rely in a throuple right now.

886
00:38:40,360 --> 00:38:43,680
Speaker 2: This is I think a lot of people AI.

887
00:38:45,160 --> 00:38:46,600
Speaker 3: And then like, I mean, I was going through some

888
00:38:46,640 --> 00:38:49,279
Speaker 3: stuff with maxim as he wasn't feeling good and it

889
00:38:49,440 --> 00:38:51,120
Speaker 3: was giving me all this info and at the end

890
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Speaker 3: it would be like you're doing a really good job

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00:38:53,000 --> 00:38:54,640
Speaker 3: monitoring it, like you're a great mom, and.

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00:38:54,680 --> 00:38:57,640
Speaker 2: I was like, I think you I am. You got

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Speaker 2: credit see validation. Somebody needs it over there. Thanks for

894
00:39:04,239 --> 00:39:06,880
Speaker 2: listening to On Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make sure to

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Speaker 2: subscribe it and we'll talk to you again tomorrow