1 00:00:01,360 --> 00:00:04,040 Speaker 1: Wake your ass else. The breakfast Club is old. 2 00:00:04,840 --> 00:00:08,760 Speaker 2: Wait, got the breakfast Club Envy and Charlamagne the voice 3 00:00:08,760 --> 00:00:09,320 Speaker 2: of the culture. 4 00:00:09,440 --> 00:00:11,960 Speaker 1: Then I'm gona come in when this thing. See y'all different, 5 00:00:12,039 --> 00:00:13,720 Speaker 1: y'all the coature, it's different. You know what I'm saying, 6 00:00:13,720 --> 00:00:15,720 Speaker 1: Like y'all know what y'all talking. This is probably become 7 00:00:15,880 --> 00:00:18,040 Speaker 1: the most prominent form for hip. 8 00:00:17,840 --> 00:00:20,599 Speaker 3: Probably be here next to all of you guys. It's 9 00:00:20,760 --> 00:00:21,720 Speaker 3: really put it. 10 00:00:22,000 --> 00:00:23,040 Speaker 1: Put it in perspective. 11 00:00:23,280 --> 00:00:29,920 Speaker 4: The breakfast club bitches, wake up, good morning Usa yo. 12 00:00:29,880 --> 00:00:31,520 Speaker 5: Yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo 13 00:00:31,560 --> 00:00:33,320 Speaker 5: yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo 14 00:00:33,400 --> 00:00:34,519 Speaker 5: yo yo yo yo yo yo. 15 00:00:34,560 --> 00:00:37,640 Speaker 6: Yo yo yo Charlamagne, the god piece to the planet 16 00:00:37,680 --> 00:00:42,320 Speaker 6: is Thursday. It's Thursday, and we got a special guest 17 00:00:42,320 --> 00:00:43,240 Speaker 6: host with us this morning. 18 00:00:43,280 --> 00:00:48,200 Speaker 1: Beusy baby, good morning, good morning, busy baby, what's up? Busy? 19 00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:50,280 Speaker 7: But I didn't have my little good morning y'all y'all 20 00:00:50,440 --> 00:00:52,360 Speaker 7: coordinated with the way y'all say good morning. 21 00:00:52,720 --> 00:00:55,160 Speaker 3: I was still working on my but good morning friends in. 22 00:00:55,280 --> 00:00:58,120 Speaker 4: Thirteen years, man, you know, you gotta have something. And 23 00:00:58,160 --> 00:01:01,360 Speaker 4: it came naturally too, it did. Yeah, that pause pause, 24 00:01:01,440 --> 00:01:02,800 Speaker 4: that was like the first thing we did when we 25 00:01:02,840 --> 00:01:06,559 Speaker 4: first opened the microphones thirteen years or you know what's crazy, 26 00:01:06,560 --> 00:01:09,280 Speaker 4: it's almost fourteen years. Almost fourteen years, yeah, December, I 27 00:01:09,280 --> 00:01:10,839 Speaker 4: think December second? 28 00:01:11,240 --> 00:01:15,080 Speaker 1: Was it something I'm not around. It's almost fourteen years now. 29 00:01:15,240 --> 00:01:17,160 Speaker 3: All the breakfast club is Sagittarius. 30 00:01:17,880 --> 00:01:22,400 Speaker 1: Yes like my wife, Yes, yeah, busy baby, tell them 31 00:01:22,400 --> 00:01:23,400 Speaker 1: where you're from? Baby? 32 00:01:23,800 --> 00:01:26,720 Speaker 3: Originally from Redding, PA. But I'm in Atlanta right now. 33 00:01:26,840 --> 00:01:30,160 Speaker 7: Spent a big section of my life in Columbia, South Carolina. 34 00:01:30,200 --> 00:01:32,240 Speaker 7: So shouts out to the eight O three you already know. 35 00:01:32,520 --> 00:01:34,679 Speaker 6: So we had an argument the other day on radio. 36 00:01:35,280 --> 00:01:37,840 Speaker 6: The outlets that's out there, not the reading outlets. 37 00:01:37,480 --> 00:01:37,840 Speaker 1: The other ones. 38 00:01:37,880 --> 00:01:39,880 Speaker 3: What do they call fair outlets? 39 00:01:40,280 --> 00:01:45,200 Speaker 6: T that begins with the T tanger that's everywhere? What 40 00:01:44,760 --> 00:01:44,840 Speaker 6: is it? 41 00:01:45,200 --> 00:01:47,080 Speaker 1: What do you call it? Is it tangent or tongue? 42 00:01:47,080 --> 00:01:47,840 Speaker 1: What did you call it? 43 00:01:48,960 --> 00:01:49,120 Speaker 4: Afo? 44 00:01:49,240 --> 00:01:51,280 Speaker 1: I called it tangent. You call it tanger or something. 45 00:01:52,480 --> 00:01:53,400 Speaker 3: I would say tangent. 46 00:01:54,160 --> 00:01:54,800 Speaker 8: That what it's. 47 00:01:57,040 --> 00:01:57,160 Speaker 5: Called. 48 00:01:57,160 --> 00:01:59,640 Speaker 1: The tank I called it, But you confuse me now now. 49 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:02,080 Speaker 3: I think it is like the orange powder. 50 00:02:05,320 --> 00:02:09,440 Speaker 1: To tangi outlets tangent. I don't know outlets anyway. 51 00:02:09,639 --> 00:02:12,040 Speaker 6: Well, Jada, Pink and Smith will be joining us this morning. Man, 52 00:02:12,560 --> 00:02:14,960 Speaker 6: her book Worthy is out right now, we're gonna talk 53 00:02:15,000 --> 00:02:16,120 Speaker 6: to Jada Pinkett Smith. 54 00:02:16,160 --> 00:02:19,360 Speaker 4: I've been waiting to have this conversation simply because I 55 00:02:19,360 --> 00:02:21,480 Speaker 4: feel like people get caught up and reading the headlines, 56 00:02:21,520 --> 00:02:23,000 Speaker 4: but nobody's actually read the book. 57 00:02:23,400 --> 00:02:24,680 Speaker 1: And if you actually have. 58 00:02:24,720 --> 00:02:27,360 Speaker 4: Read the book, then you know it's a fantastic body 59 00:02:27,400 --> 00:02:28,920 Speaker 4: of work. And if you're if you haven't read the 60 00:02:28,919 --> 00:02:31,520 Speaker 4: book just based off the headlines, and you are really 61 00:02:31,560 --> 00:02:36,160 Speaker 4: missing uh, just just a great body of work, you know, 62 00:02:36,440 --> 00:02:38,080 Speaker 4: a great body of work, a person that is showing 63 00:02:38,120 --> 00:02:42,240 Speaker 4: their vulnerability and is on a path and a journey 64 00:02:42,639 --> 00:02:45,799 Speaker 4: to worthiness like we all are. If you've ever dealt 65 00:02:45,800 --> 00:02:48,160 Speaker 4: with any type of impositis syndrome in your life and 66 00:02:48,160 --> 00:02:50,120 Speaker 4: you're trying to get to a place of worthy, you 67 00:02:50,120 --> 00:02:51,600 Speaker 4: would really really enjoy her book. 68 00:02:51,720 --> 00:02:53,200 Speaker 1: That's right, But you gotta read it. 69 00:02:53,320 --> 00:02:54,760 Speaker 4: Not all you gonna care about the will Smith's in 70 00:02:54,760 --> 00:02:56,760 Speaker 4: the tupox and everything else. 71 00:02:56,639 --> 00:02:58,880 Speaker 6: So much more than that how many gym she's giving us. 72 00:02:58,919 --> 00:03:01,960 Speaker 6: We're gonna chop it up in a little bit. That 73 00:03:02,080 --> 00:03:04,880 Speaker 6: conversation we actually had yesterday was over an hour long. 74 00:03:04,960 --> 00:03:06,600 Speaker 6: That's why a lot of you guys seen the clip 75 00:03:06,639 --> 00:03:10,399 Speaker 6: that was floating around by her talking about lawsuit. 76 00:03:10,560 --> 00:03:12,520 Speaker 4: Oh, we put that clip out because that's what everybody 77 00:03:12,560 --> 00:03:14,079 Speaker 4: was talking about, at least, well at least on the 78 00:03:14,280 --> 00:03:16,800 Speaker 4: Nigga net of social media crack. You know, like, you 79 00:03:16,840 --> 00:03:19,360 Speaker 4: know what, let's be part of the algorithm that's been 80 00:03:19,400 --> 00:03:22,680 Speaker 4: part of it. Let's join in. And the TMZ was downstairs, yeah, 81 00:03:22,760 --> 00:03:25,560 Speaker 4: you know, stepping on our toes. 82 00:03:25,639 --> 00:03:26,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, a little bit. 83 00:03:26,320 --> 00:03:29,200 Speaker 7: Yeah, but the little image they pulled off her was 84 00:03:29,600 --> 00:03:32,320 Speaker 7: kind of familiar to the image that Tupac when he 85 00:03:32,360 --> 00:03:34,040 Speaker 7: was spitting at the camera. That's what I said, she 86 00:03:34,120 --> 00:03:35,720 Speaker 7: chatted her inner Tupac yesterday. 87 00:03:35,800 --> 00:03:37,360 Speaker 6: Yes, it's funny you said that. I put that in 88 00:03:37,360 --> 00:03:39,920 Speaker 6: the group chat yesterday. I had the picture waiting. All right, 89 00:03:39,920 --> 00:03:41,480 Speaker 6: but let's get the show cracking. When we come back 90 00:03:41,480 --> 00:03:43,560 Speaker 6: Front page News, Sessling figure Out will be joining us 91 00:03:43,600 --> 00:03:46,440 Speaker 6: and don't forget again. Next hour, Jada Pinkett Smith will 92 00:03:46,440 --> 00:03:48,560 Speaker 6: be here. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning morning everybody. 93 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:51,320 Speaker 6: It's dj n V Charlamagne the God. We are the 94 00:03:51,320 --> 00:03:54,520 Speaker 6: Breakfast Club. We got Bzy Baby our guest co hosts. Yes, 95 00:03:54,600 --> 00:03:56,800 Speaker 6: and let's get in some Front page news. 96 00:03:57,240 --> 00:04:01,080 Speaker 8: Good morning, Test, Good morning, DJM, Good morning, b Zeke, 97 00:04:01,080 --> 00:04:01,520 Speaker 8: Good morning. 98 00:04:02,480 --> 00:04:04,640 Speaker 6: He said, I let's start off with some quick sports. 99 00:04:04,640 --> 00:04:08,760 Speaker 6: So Draymond Green has been suspended for five games, right, 100 00:04:08,800 --> 00:04:10,680 Speaker 6: he will miss out on seven hundred and sixty nine 101 00:04:10,680 --> 00:04:14,120 Speaker 6: thousand dollars in salary, and he's being fined twenty five 102 00:04:14,200 --> 00:04:15,040 Speaker 6: thousand dollars. 103 00:04:15,440 --> 00:04:15,800 Speaker 1: Damn. 104 00:04:16,120 --> 00:04:18,320 Speaker 4: I mean, I mean that's a lot. That is still 105 00:04:18,360 --> 00:04:20,040 Speaker 4: a lot of money. I thought he would get like 106 00:04:20,040 --> 00:04:23,000 Speaker 4: three to five though, Yeah, and Nasal suspending Rudy Gobert. 107 00:04:23,120 --> 00:04:26,120 Speaker 6: Now, Rudy got fined twenty five thousand, and Klay Thomas 108 00:04:26,200 --> 00:04:27,279 Speaker 6: got fined twenty five. 109 00:04:27,320 --> 00:04:30,120 Speaker 4: I don't know why Clay got fined anything, because Clay 110 00:04:30,160 --> 00:04:31,880 Speaker 4: is the one that you know that the dude was 111 00:04:31,920 --> 00:04:33,840 Speaker 4: tussling with and he ripped his jersey. 112 00:04:34,160 --> 00:04:36,240 Speaker 1: It don't look like Clay was instigating that situation to me. 113 00:04:37,240 --> 00:04:39,640 Speaker 6: And then football of Bengals take on the Ravens at 114 00:04:39,680 --> 00:04:40,560 Speaker 6: eight point fifteen. 115 00:04:41,240 --> 00:04:43,200 Speaker 1: Now, what are we starting off with? Tis? 116 00:04:44,200 --> 00:04:46,920 Speaker 8: We're gonna start off with the Breonna Taylor for those 117 00:04:46,960 --> 00:04:50,040 Speaker 8: that don't know, the jury started deliberating on that case 118 00:04:50,080 --> 00:04:53,000 Speaker 8: on Monday in the federal trial, a former Louisville police 119 00:04:53,000 --> 00:04:56,240 Speaker 8: officer who was accused of violating Browonda Taylor's rights by 120 00:04:56,240 --> 00:04:59,200 Speaker 8: opening fire on her apartment the night she was killed 121 00:04:59,200 --> 00:04:59,760 Speaker 8: in the botch. 122 00:05:00,240 --> 00:05:01,720 Speaker 9: Take a listen to the report. 123 00:05:02,080 --> 00:05:05,040 Speaker 10: The jury in this federal case went home for the night, 124 00:05:05,320 --> 00:05:08,920 Speaker 10: and after three days there is still no verdict. Now, 125 00:05:08,960 --> 00:05:12,640 Speaker 10: this is a much longer deliberation process compared to last 126 00:05:12,720 --> 00:05:16,320 Speaker 10: year's state trial against Brett Hankinson, when it took jurors 127 00:05:16,360 --> 00:05:20,440 Speaker 10: only three hours to acquit the former detective. Now this 128 00:05:20,560 --> 00:05:24,400 Speaker 10: jury is deciding whether Hankerson is guilty or not guilty 129 00:05:24,480 --> 00:05:28,320 Speaker 10: on two counts of civil rights violations for blindly firing 130 00:05:28,400 --> 00:05:32,280 Speaker 10: ten shots into Breonna Taylor's apartment during a police raid 131 00:05:32,560 --> 00:05:33,839 Speaker 10: in March of twenty twenty. 132 00:05:35,440 --> 00:05:37,320 Speaker 1: I mean, they should definitely win that civil rights case, 133 00:05:37,400 --> 00:05:38,720 Speaker 1: right I would think, so. 134 00:05:38,800 --> 00:05:41,400 Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, we're hoping so, you know, and again, just 135 00:05:41,440 --> 00:05:44,000 Speaker 8: as reminded as we heard the report, he was found 136 00:05:44,040 --> 00:05:47,120 Speaker 8: not guilty on the state side, so the federal the 137 00:05:47,160 --> 00:05:49,880 Speaker 8: federal side decided to take up these charges. So hoping 138 00:05:49,960 --> 00:05:53,279 Speaker 8: for you know, him to be found guilty in that 139 00:05:53,400 --> 00:05:54,880 Speaker 8: and they must be able to prove that he had 140 00:05:54,880 --> 00:05:57,040 Speaker 8: a sens of force and put innocent lives at risk 141 00:05:57,279 --> 00:05:59,760 Speaker 8: where a pregnant woman, her spouse and children were sleeping vio, 142 00:06:00,120 --> 00:06:03,559 Speaker 8: violating their constitutional rights. And to return a guilty verdict, 143 00:06:03,560 --> 00:06:07,160 Speaker 8: the jury must agree that he deprived the people in 144 00:06:07,200 --> 00:06:11,280 Speaker 8: both apartments of their constitutional rights and that he acted willfully. Uh. 145 00:06:11,320 --> 00:06:13,840 Speaker 8: They also are deciding if he used a dangerous weapon 146 00:06:13,920 --> 00:06:15,159 Speaker 8: and attempted to kill. 147 00:06:15,320 --> 00:06:19,120 Speaker 4: So it's created that they have to determine excessive force, right, 148 00:06:19,160 --> 00:06:21,200 Speaker 4: and whether or not he used a dangerous weapon or 149 00:06:21,200 --> 00:06:22,479 Speaker 4: gun is not a dangerous weapon. 150 00:06:22,720 --> 00:06:25,320 Speaker 1: It's like somebody dies, Yeah, what we're talking about. 151 00:06:26,400 --> 00:06:28,720 Speaker 8: And it's a good sign that well they say it's 152 00:06:28,720 --> 00:06:30,640 Speaker 8: a good scient typically a good sign when the jury, 153 00:06:30,720 --> 00:06:33,280 Speaker 8: you know, it's still deliberating in today, you know, three 154 00:06:33,360 --> 00:06:36,560 Speaker 8: or four, So hopefully we can get some news on 155 00:06:36,600 --> 00:06:37,920 Speaker 8: that by the end of the week. But you know, 156 00:06:38,560 --> 00:06:40,480 Speaker 8: to stay there as long as it takes for them 157 00:06:40,480 --> 00:06:42,640 Speaker 8: to argue and you know, sort through all the evidence 158 00:06:42,640 --> 00:06:45,320 Speaker 8: and hopefully return back a guilty a guilty bird verdict 159 00:06:45,320 --> 00:06:45,880 Speaker 8: for their family. 160 00:06:46,000 --> 00:06:47,040 Speaker 1: That's right, all right? 161 00:06:47,160 --> 00:06:49,520 Speaker 6: Well that is front page you new stak you taz 162 00:06:50,040 --> 00:06:53,640 Speaker 6: absolutely and let me shout out to one about our produces, 163 00:06:53,320 --> 00:06:55,520 Speaker 6: simm of Samantha, I know we have an extra minute 164 00:06:55,600 --> 00:06:57,520 Speaker 6: I just want to salute to her. Today is her 165 00:06:57,560 --> 00:07:02,479 Speaker 6: two year anniversary of being cancer free. That is very, 166 00:07:02,600 --> 00:07:05,080 Speaker 6: very dope. I want to salute to sim Simmer Samantha. 167 00:07:05,320 --> 00:07:08,279 Speaker 1: Look at God. God is good. Who the God? All 168 00:07:08,279 --> 00:07:10,040 Speaker 1: praise to do to God God. 169 00:07:10,120 --> 00:07:12,840 Speaker 6: Yes, absolutely drop a bomb for her to that court, 170 00:07:12,840 --> 00:07:14,600 Speaker 6: that fight, in that role that she took to. So 171 00:07:15,040 --> 00:07:17,200 Speaker 6: salute to her for everybody else. All right, get it 172 00:07:17,240 --> 00:07:19,680 Speaker 6: off your chest eight hundred five eight five one oh 173 00:07:19,720 --> 00:07:21,640 Speaker 6: five one. If you need to vent, phone lines of 174 00:07:21,680 --> 00:07:25,080 Speaker 6: wide open again. Eight hundred five eight five one oh 175 00:07:25,120 --> 00:07:26,960 Speaker 6: five one. Get it off your chest, call us up 176 00:07:27,000 --> 00:07:31,080 Speaker 6: right now. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club. 177 00:07:34,080 --> 00:07:36,200 Speaker 1: It's a new thing. Is it your time to get 178 00:07:36,240 --> 00:07:39,480 Speaker 1: it off your chest? Way, whether you're mad or. 179 00:07:39,520 --> 00:07:41,920 Speaker 6: Blessed something, get up and get something. 180 00:07:41,960 --> 00:07:44,160 Speaker 1: Call up now. Eight hundred five eight five one o 181 00:07:44,280 --> 00:07:45,880 Speaker 1: five one. We want to hear from you on the 182 00:07:45,880 --> 00:07:49,240 Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Hello, who's this morning? 183 00:07:49,280 --> 00:07:50,960 Speaker 5: Morning? Guys? Just walking from Toronto? 184 00:07:51,160 --> 00:07:53,200 Speaker 1: Hey, walking from Toronto. Get it off your chest. Brother. 185 00:07:53,480 --> 00:07:55,400 Speaker 11: I just want to say, it's much more easier to 186 00:07:55,480 --> 00:07:56,720 Speaker 11: pretty negative energy. 187 00:07:56,880 --> 00:07:58,760 Speaker 1: That's positive energy, Yes it is. 188 00:07:58,960 --> 00:08:01,600 Speaker 5: And think book is an awesome read. 189 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:03,160 Speaker 1: Yes it is man. 190 00:08:03,200 --> 00:08:06,080 Speaker 5: I cried in it, I laughed in it, and I 191 00:08:06,120 --> 00:08:06,800 Speaker 5: feel her pain. 192 00:08:06,840 --> 00:08:09,080 Speaker 11: And I just want to say kneeling interges her and 193 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:09,720 Speaker 11: her family. 194 00:08:10,760 --> 00:08:12,840 Speaker 5: And I just want to say, you guys keep doing 195 00:08:12,840 --> 00:08:13,360 Speaker 5: a good job. 196 00:08:13,520 --> 00:08:13,680 Speaker 12: Well. 197 00:08:13,680 --> 00:08:15,760 Speaker 4: I can't wait till you hear the conversation that we 198 00:08:15,800 --> 00:08:17,960 Speaker 4: had next hour, because you know, one of the things 199 00:08:18,040 --> 00:08:19,680 Speaker 4: as soon as you read the book, the first thing 200 00:08:19,720 --> 00:08:22,800 Speaker 4: you say to yourself is everybody's having the wrong conversations. 201 00:08:22,800 --> 00:08:25,400 Speaker 1: Hello, who's his? 202 00:08:26,160 --> 00:08:26,200 Speaker 12: My? 203 00:08:27,640 --> 00:08:31,760 Speaker 1: My baby? Did I say that right? Get there? All right? 204 00:08:31,800 --> 00:08:33,280 Speaker 1: Get it off your chest? You're sure. 205 00:08:33,320 --> 00:08:35,040 Speaker 11: I just wanted to ask you, man, how you feeling 206 00:08:35,080 --> 00:08:35,520 Speaker 11: this morning? 207 00:08:35,679 --> 00:08:38,520 Speaker 1: Blessed Black and Holly Favorite? Sir? How you? Yes, sir? 208 00:08:38,880 --> 00:08:43,480 Speaker 11: Back Blessed and Holly Favorite, And good morning to that 209 00:08:43,559 --> 00:08:43,920 Speaker 11: co host. 210 00:08:44,000 --> 00:08:44,320 Speaker 1: I don't know. 211 00:08:44,920 --> 00:08:47,680 Speaker 7: Busy baby, easy baby, if you say my name, three thousand, 212 00:08:48,000 --> 00:08:48,439 Speaker 7: show up? 213 00:08:48,559 --> 00:08:49,880 Speaker 3: Good morning, Oh. 214 00:08:49,840 --> 00:08:51,920 Speaker 1: Beauty, Hey, good morning. 215 00:08:52,240 --> 00:08:54,800 Speaker 5: I just want to ask you do your family, yes, sir? 216 00:08:55,080 --> 00:08:56,920 Speaker 5: When there? 217 00:08:56,920 --> 00:08:59,360 Speaker 13: Because you ask her please? What did she say to 218 00:08:59,440 --> 00:09:01,040 Speaker 13: him to make get up? 219 00:09:01,280 --> 00:09:03,400 Speaker 6: To make him get up during the oscars? 220 00:09:03,760 --> 00:09:04,080 Speaker 5: Slept? 221 00:09:04,240 --> 00:09:05,120 Speaker 13: Yeah on the option night? 222 00:09:05,200 --> 00:09:05,400 Speaker 5: Yeah. 223 00:09:05,520 --> 00:09:08,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, she didn't say, you know, react, she didn't say 224 00:09:08,440 --> 00:09:09,680 Speaker 1: nothing to him. We all seen the video. 225 00:09:10,000 --> 00:09:11,760 Speaker 13: She had to say something when that camera cut away. 226 00:09:11,920 --> 00:09:14,320 Speaker 1: No, she ain't say nothing to him, nothing at all. 227 00:09:14,400 --> 00:09:15,760 Speaker 1: That was all that was all on Will. 228 00:09:16,480 --> 00:09:20,880 Speaker 13: That was a reaction from that, the spirit of pocket 229 00:09:20,960 --> 00:09:21,520 Speaker 13: and that mat. 230 00:09:22,679 --> 00:09:25,320 Speaker 1: Okay, goodbye man. Read the book, man, goodbye man. 231 00:09:25,320 --> 00:09:27,280 Speaker 4: I'm telling you, I could tell who has read the book, 232 00:09:27,559 --> 00:09:29,839 Speaker 4: and I could tell who has read the headlines. If 233 00:09:29,880 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 4: you read the headlines, I understand exactly why you feel 234 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:33,880 Speaker 4: the way you do. But when you read the book 235 00:09:33,920 --> 00:09:36,560 Speaker 4: in context, I guarantee you have a different perspective. 236 00:09:36,760 --> 00:09:41,560 Speaker 1: Hello, who's this? Hello? Hey, Leon, get it off your chest, Mama. 237 00:09:42,640 --> 00:09:45,120 Speaker 14: I just wanted to talk about the fact that I 238 00:09:45,200 --> 00:09:47,960 Speaker 14: feel like the heal from my past drama. 239 00:09:48,360 --> 00:09:49,280 Speaker 1: You said, what say that again? 240 00:09:49,320 --> 00:09:49,560 Speaker 12: Mama? 241 00:09:49,840 --> 00:09:52,480 Speaker 9: Got us women, the heal from my past trauma. 242 00:09:53,480 --> 00:09:55,680 Speaker 3: Amen, you ain't lying. Why you say that. 243 00:09:55,760 --> 00:10:00,599 Speaker 15: Though, because I'm honestly messing up such a great relationship 244 00:10:00,640 --> 00:10:01,760 Speaker 15: that I have because. 245 00:10:01,640 --> 00:10:05,160 Speaker 9: Of my past trauma and my own insecurities in the cause. 246 00:10:05,440 --> 00:10:09,120 Speaker 15: And I really realize this is for us to heal, 247 00:10:09,200 --> 00:10:12,400 Speaker 15: because we are such a thing that don't come by 248 00:10:12,640 --> 00:10:13,440 Speaker 15: forton anymore. 249 00:10:13,679 --> 00:10:16,040 Speaker 1: You need to be here next hour with us. As 250 00:10:16,080 --> 00:10:17,400 Speaker 1: we talked to Jada Pinkett Smith. 251 00:10:17,880 --> 00:10:23,400 Speaker 4: That is absolutely positively the conversation. You cannot love somebody 252 00:10:23,480 --> 00:10:25,720 Speaker 4: until you truly love yourself, and you cannot be happy 253 00:10:25,800 --> 00:10:28,520 Speaker 4: with somebody until you are truly happy with yourself. 254 00:10:28,679 --> 00:10:29,079 Speaker 1: That's right. 255 00:10:29,480 --> 00:10:31,800 Speaker 7: And and and I think part one of this is 256 00:10:31,960 --> 00:10:34,240 Speaker 7: you know it. So now that you know, I got 257 00:10:34,280 --> 00:10:36,760 Speaker 7: an issh, I gotta unpack. You can let him know 258 00:10:37,200 --> 00:10:39,240 Speaker 7: so that y'all can try to get through this space together. 259 00:10:39,400 --> 00:10:40,959 Speaker 7: Hopefully you don't ruin a good thing. 260 00:10:41,120 --> 00:10:44,040 Speaker 6: Absolutely, get it off your chest. Eight hundred and five 261 00:10:44,080 --> 00:10:46,000 Speaker 6: eight five one oh five one. If you need to vent, 262 00:10:46,080 --> 00:10:48,240 Speaker 6: phone lines to wide open. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, 263 00:10:48,800 --> 00:10:50,079 Speaker 6: the Breakfast. 264 00:10:49,640 --> 00:10:57,440 Speaker 5: Club, right right right, yo, Charla Maya, what are we lying? 265 00:10:57,760 --> 00:10:59,280 Speaker 1: This is your time to get it off your chest. 266 00:10:59,360 --> 00:11:01,960 Speaker 5: I gotta end to a pool, to a pool. 267 00:11:02,000 --> 00:11:03,600 Speaker 1: We want to hear from you on the Breakfast Club. 268 00:11:03,840 --> 00:11:05,640 Speaker 5: Get on the phone right now here, tell you what. 269 00:11:05,679 --> 00:11:06,800 Speaker 16: It is we live. 270 00:11:08,080 --> 00:11:12,080 Speaker 1: Hello? Who's this yo? This ship from Jersey, from Jersey. 271 00:11:12,160 --> 00:11:12,880 Speaker 1: We're part of Jersey. 272 00:11:13,280 --> 00:11:16,880 Speaker 6: Uh over there by the Brunswick, Gary, okay, Brunswick, all right. 273 00:11:16,960 --> 00:11:18,160 Speaker 6: You ain't want to say the area. You just wanna 274 00:11:18,160 --> 00:11:19,920 Speaker 6: say over there by the Brunswick Gary. I ain't, man, 275 00:11:21,520 --> 00:11:23,800 Speaker 6: get it off your chest, brother, and man. 276 00:11:23,760 --> 00:11:27,160 Speaker 13: These these are these pinksters over here in Walmart getting 277 00:11:27,200 --> 00:11:29,280 Speaker 13: out of control and I don't have to punch somebody 278 00:11:29,360 --> 00:11:30,560 Speaker 13: at the Mount Flat week. 279 00:11:31,160 --> 00:11:32,840 Speaker 1: Okay, congratulations, what happened? 280 00:11:33,920 --> 00:11:34,120 Speaker 8: Yeah? 281 00:11:34,280 --> 00:11:37,000 Speaker 13: Man, two of these guys come in here if one 282 00:11:37,040 --> 00:11:39,640 Speaker 13: of them asked me a question, and another few come 283 00:11:39,760 --> 00:11:43,640 Speaker 13: from behind and try and take my pants down. Luckily 284 00:11:43,720 --> 00:11:45,880 Speaker 13: I got a fellow on I turned around. Since the 285 00:11:46,000 --> 00:11:48,240 Speaker 13: night of the morning, I don't know what's going on 286 00:11:48,400 --> 00:11:48,920 Speaker 13: around here. 287 00:11:49,920 --> 00:11:52,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, he lucky he didn't get shot, because that's a 288 00:11:52,200 --> 00:11:53,960 Speaker 4: bit much. Now that's actually kind of. 289 00:11:56,240 --> 00:11:58,960 Speaker 5: Yeah, well there's the prank prank. 290 00:12:00,000 --> 00:12:01,360 Speaker 6: That's when you just gotta prank him back. You just 291 00:12:01,400 --> 00:12:03,160 Speaker 6: gotta grab and stop humping them and then just they'll 292 00:12:03,160 --> 00:12:03,679 Speaker 6: be off of you. 293 00:12:03,880 --> 00:12:05,760 Speaker 1: Now you're gonna get it. 294 00:12:06,240 --> 00:12:09,560 Speaker 13: Man, that's videos viral. That videos viral that messed me. 295 00:12:09,640 --> 00:12:11,360 Speaker 1: Up, you know. Yeah, but they gotta stop with the 296 00:12:11,400 --> 00:12:14,320 Speaker 1: pranks taking jib yep. By the way, the joke's gonna 297 00:12:14,360 --> 00:12:14,640 Speaker 1: be on you. 298 00:12:14,760 --> 00:12:16,360 Speaker 4: If you're a man who wants up on another man 299 00:12:16,440 --> 00:12:17,720 Speaker 4: tried to pull their pants down and then you get 300 00:12:17,800 --> 00:12:19,880 Speaker 4: charged with sexual assault, you know what I mean, You're 301 00:12:19,880 --> 00:12:22,719 Speaker 4: gonna have that mup shot forever, and that's gonna be 302 00:12:22,760 --> 00:12:25,320 Speaker 4: the story. You tried to sexually assault the man in Walmart. 303 00:12:25,760 --> 00:12:28,680 Speaker 4: You sexually assaulted a man in Walmart. They were sexual assault. 304 00:12:28,679 --> 00:12:30,800 Speaker 4: There's certain things you can't do right. You can't go 305 00:12:30,920 --> 00:12:34,240 Speaker 4: to certain daycad school. Imagine having to registered as a 306 00:12:34,280 --> 00:12:37,359 Speaker 4: sex offender because you sexually assaulted a man in Walmarts. 307 00:12:38,679 --> 00:12:40,360 Speaker 1: That's right. And then when you go to prison, somebody's 308 00:12:40,360 --> 00:12:41,520 Speaker 1: gonna prank your ass. Damn it. 309 00:12:41,600 --> 00:12:45,959 Speaker 6: Man, Okay, hello, who's this man in Michigan? 310 00:12:46,040 --> 00:12:46,160 Speaker 5: Man? 311 00:12:46,240 --> 00:12:47,280 Speaker 1: How you doing without? 312 00:12:47,320 --> 00:12:47,360 Speaker 12: Do? 313 00:12:47,520 --> 00:12:48,360 Speaker 1: Get it off your chest? 314 00:12:48,640 --> 00:12:50,200 Speaker 5: Man? I just want to get off my chest. 315 00:12:50,320 --> 00:12:50,520 Speaker 6: Man. 316 00:12:50,880 --> 00:12:53,360 Speaker 5: All these women stop bashing these women that want to 317 00:12:53,400 --> 00:12:55,360 Speaker 5: be married, man, that want to hold down They man 318 00:12:55,640 --> 00:12:58,040 Speaker 5: want to submit to the man. They' not pick me. 319 00:12:58,520 --> 00:12:59,240 Speaker 1: They not know that that. 320 00:12:59,320 --> 00:13:02,040 Speaker 5: This is women that understand what righte is and what 321 00:13:02,520 --> 00:13:05,520 Speaker 5: love is and what beautiful thing is man and these 322 00:13:05,559 --> 00:13:09,160 Speaker 5: better women. Man, he didn't fire somebody or get less 323 00:13:09,320 --> 00:13:11,600 Speaker 5: lonely with a dog dying the law in the world 324 00:13:11,679 --> 00:13:12,920 Speaker 5: of Kevin Simms. 325 00:13:12,960 --> 00:13:16,160 Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, Amen, He I mean he mad, 326 00:13:16,400 --> 00:13:17,719 Speaker 3: he got a right to be mad about that. 327 00:13:18,160 --> 00:13:21,800 Speaker 5: I've been married. I've been married twelve years now. Man, 328 00:13:21,880 --> 00:13:24,680 Speaker 5: it's been beautiful out and it's like I'm looking online 329 00:13:24,760 --> 00:13:26,559 Speaker 5: everybody trying to explain to you how to be in 330 00:13:26,640 --> 00:13:29,480 Speaker 5: a relationship, what a relationships supposed to be, what love 331 00:13:29,520 --> 00:13:31,800 Speaker 5: is supposed to be like, and women mad at women 332 00:13:31,880 --> 00:13:33,839 Speaker 5: that want to these good women and men. You know 333 00:13:33,880 --> 00:13:35,920 Speaker 5: what I'm saying, that what we need in our community, 334 00:13:36,120 --> 00:13:38,959 Speaker 5: but we lack in our community. People mad at that. 335 00:13:39,080 --> 00:13:40,840 Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying, like, Man, give these women 336 00:13:40,920 --> 00:13:43,960 Speaker 5: that breaks, man, get married, half a family, ways or something. Man, 337 00:13:44,200 --> 00:13:46,679 Speaker 5: Get it out of the community, or get our community 338 00:13:46,720 --> 00:13:48,720 Speaker 5: in the better spot. Man, could it start with family? 339 00:13:49,920 --> 00:13:52,920 Speaker 4: They're only mad, miserable, that's really what they want. They 340 00:13:52,960 --> 00:13:56,240 Speaker 4: want with those ladies. Those ladies have Charla. 341 00:13:56,320 --> 00:14:00,560 Speaker 5: Man, I've seen a real Instagram a woman at her 342 00:14:00,800 --> 00:14:02,640 Speaker 5: at her wedding day. But she got on her knees 343 00:14:02,679 --> 00:14:05,600 Speaker 5: that I promise for her husband. Well everything she gonna 344 00:14:05,600 --> 00:14:06,080 Speaker 5: beat to him. 345 00:14:06,520 --> 00:14:06,720 Speaker 1: Man. 346 00:14:06,800 --> 00:14:10,719 Speaker 5: The comments section wit crazy woman was mad. Man. I 347 00:14:10,840 --> 00:14:14,079 Speaker 5: was like, damn, get you a man that's worth that, 348 00:14:14,800 --> 00:14:16,720 Speaker 5: don't we hate? Just hit somebody that's. 349 00:14:16,640 --> 00:14:17,600 Speaker 1: Worth that's real. 350 00:14:19,080 --> 00:14:21,560 Speaker 5: Brothers, all I want to stay brother, get it. 351 00:14:21,600 --> 00:14:23,960 Speaker 1: Off your chest eight undrink five eighty five one O 352 00:14:24,080 --> 00:14:25,440 Speaker 1: five one. If you need the vent, you can hit 353 00:14:25,480 --> 00:14:25,760 Speaker 1: this up. 354 00:14:25,800 --> 00:14:28,200 Speaker 6: We have Beusy Baby here. She's our guest co hosts. 355 00:14:28,200 --> 00:14:29,280 Speaker 6: We got rooms on the way and give us a 356 00:14:29,280 --> 00:14:30,520 Speaker 6: little Tea's what we dude. 357 00:14:30,600 --> 00:14:33,480 Speaker 7: It looks like Tiger Woods may officially be getting cleared 358 00:14:33,640 --> 00:14:36,040 Speaker 7: after his ex admit she was never the victim of 359 00:14:36,080 --> 00:14:38,480 Speaker 7: sexual abuse by him, So we got that coming up. Also, 360 00:14:38,560 --> 00:14:40,400 Speaker 7: gonna talk about the baby and whether or not he 361 00:14:40,480 --> 00:14:43,800 Speaker 7: regrets those homophobic comments with t I is doing good 362 00:14:43,920 --> 00:14:44,120 Speaker 7: in the. 363 00:14:44,160 --> 00:14:45,240 Speaker 1: Hood and I just a little bit. 364 00:14:45,280 --> 00:14:46,680 Speaker 3: We got a lot, this a little bit. Look, I 365 00:14:46,720 --> 00:14:48,000 Speaker 3: want to tell him more. I'm excited. 366 00:14:48,080 --> 00:14:50,120 Speaker 6: We're doing when we come back. Good Jesus, Yes right, 367 00:14:50,160 --> 00:14:51,600 Speaker 6: we'll do when we come back, So don't move. It's 368 00:14:51,600 --> 00:14:54,440 Speaker 6: the Breakfast Club. Good morning, hey friend, the Breakfast Club, 369 00:14:56,520 --> 00:15:00,080 Speaker 6: Good morning. Everybody is DJ NV Charlamagne the guy. We 370 00:15:00,160 --> 00:15:02,640 Speaker 6: are to Breakfast Club. We got our special guest co host, 371 00:15:02,680 --> 00:15:05,520 Speaker 6: Beansy Baby with us and let's jump right into the rooms. 372 00:15:06,400 --> 00:15:10,400 Speaker 3: If you say my name, be Baby, It's about. 373 00:15:12,280 --> 00:15:15,080 Speaker 16: You can't be mad when people don't understand your dream 374 00:15:15,120 --> 00:15:16,880 Speaker 16: because God didn't live the Near Vision. 375 00:15:17,840 --> 00:15:21,320 Speaker 3: Good morning, here's juice. All right. 376 00:15:21,440 --> 00:15:23,680 Speaker 7: So, by now most of us have heard that Keiki 377 00:15:23,720 --> 00:15:26,320 Speaker 7: Parmer was temporarily granted custody of her son, and she 378 00:15:26,440 --> 00:15:29,440 Speaker 7: also got the restraining order against her son's father, Darius Jackson. 379 00:15:30,200 --> 00:15:33,600 Speaker 7: Well the finaling caused accused Darius of being mentally and 380 00:15:33,720 --> 00:15:37,440 Speaker 7: physically abusive. We saw the pictures. Since then, she and 381 00:15:37,600 --> 00:15:39,720 Speaker 7: Darius's families have been going back and forth and it 382 00:15:39,720 --> 00:15:42,600 Speaker 7: has been all over social media. There is some new 383 00:15:42,760 --> 00:15:46,760 Speaker 7: audio of Keiki's mama sharing cussing Darius out. 384 00:15:46,920 --> 00:15:47,480 Speaker 3: Check this out. 385 00:15:50,120 --> 00:15:59,760 Speaker 12: I'm sure that's what you raised. 386 00:16:00,120 --> 00:16:00,960 Speaker 5: That's what you raised. 387 00:16:04,760 --> 00:16:06,920 Speaker 13: Okay, I'm sure. 388 00:16:10,760 --> 00:16:21,720 Speaker 12: All right, So about got bullet again? Okay, okay, okay, yeah, problem. 389 00:16:24,200 --> 00:16:27,080 Speaker 1: Talk about my daughter. You're gonna ross my daughter. 390 00:16:28,960 --> 00:16:36,520 Speaker 5: I'm to. 391 00:16:40,040 --> 00:16:41,040 Speaker 12: Tell her put some kong. 392 00:16:41,680 --> 00:16:43,320 Speaker 1: I should get a shot. Yeah, I'm not. 393 00:16:43,520 --> 00:16:45,960 Speaker 4: I'm not even acknowledging that. I really don't even want 394 00:16:45,960 --> 00:16:48,080 Speaker 4: to hear any of this, like, because nothing is private anymore. 395 00:16:48,120 --> 00:16:51,960 Speaker 4: We don't need all this transparency. And who recorded this, Yeah, 396 00:16:51,960 --> 00:16:52,360 Speaker 4: I don't know. 397 00:16:52,480 --> 00:16:54,840 Speaker 7: But the conversation went from the conversation she was having 398 00:16:54,880 --> 00:16:57,520 Speaker 7: with him to a conversation where she was talking about 399 00:16:57,560 --> 00:17:00,040 Speaker 7: his family. Now, not only is Ushergan dragons who, but 400 00:17:00,200 --> 00:17:01,240 Speaker 7: his family got dragged into it. 401 00:17:01,360 --> 00:17:01,760 Speaker 3: Check it out. 402 00:17:02,280 --> 00:17:02,760 Speaker 1: You ain't. 403 00:17:07,880 --> 00:17:08,480 Speaker 8: Immigrants. 404 00:17:10,320 --> 00:17:13,200 Speaker 12: They have nothing to do with this. They have nothing 405 00:17:13,200 --> 00:17:15,639 Speaker 12: to do with this. They have nothing to do with this. 406 00:17:20,240 --> 00:17:30,119 Speaker 17: Wow and harassed women. But dad, mom crazy. We never 407 00:17:30,200 --> 00:17:32,399 Speaker 17: been able to do anything with her. I don't know 408 00:17:32,480 --> 00:17:35,720 Speaker 17: why my son staying with her, but yeah, she's crazy. 409 00:17:36,040 --> 00:17:37,600 Speaker 17: And if Barrius is listening. 410 00:17:37,400 --> 00:17:39,560 Speaker 6: To her, he used to be a shame of himself. 411 00:17:39,840 --> 00:17:41,560 Speaker 9: That was your damn grandmama told me. 412 00:17:42,400 --> 00:17:44,560 Speaker 17: Your grandma told me, your mama looks crazy. 413 00:17:45,040 --> 00:17:47,399 Speaker 6: And then if you want to listen to your mama. 414 00:17:47,359 --> 00:17:53,320 Speaker 4: She's so you If grandma said the case whoever recorded 415 00:17:53,359 --> 00:17:55,160 Speaker 4: this seems like they was trying to make Kikey's mom 416 00:17:55,280 --> 00:17:57,600 Speaker 4: look crazy. Correct, but it doesn't make her look crazy. 417 00:17:57,640 --> 00:17:59,200 Speaker 4: It makes her sound the way you would think a 418 00:17:59,280 --> 00:18:02,239 Speaker 4: mother would sound. She felt someone hurt her child. If 419 00:18:02,280 --> 00:18:04,960 Speaker 4: you allegedly hurt someone's child, that's exactly how anybody react. 420 00:18:04,960 --> 00:18:07,040 Speaker 4: You gonna get invited to private parts. Yeah, she might 421 00:18:07,080 --> 00:18:09,359 Speaker 4: say she's gonna kill you. Your whole family trash. 422 00:18:09,960 --> 00:18:11,920 Speaker 7: Yes, I'm gonna I'm gonna jump out on a limit. 423 00:18:11,960 --> 00:18:15,399 Speaker 7: I'm a mother of four daughters. It would have been 424 00:18:15,680 --> 00:18:16,200 Speaker 7: way worse. 425 00:18:16,480 --> 00:18:20,080 Speaker 1: By the way, busy as you are a convicted feller, I. 426 00:18:20,160 --> 00:18:22,560 Speaker 3: Am a convicted fellow. So I understand that's right here. 427 00:18:22,600 --> 00:18:23,240 Speaker 3: I'm empathetic. 428 00:18:24,600 --> 00:18:25,119 Speaker 1: I get it. 429 00:18:27,640 --> 00:18:27,720 Speaker 18: Now. 430 00:18:27,800 --> 00:18:30,000 Speaker 6: That's her daughter, Like, how do you want to react, 431 00:18:30,119 --> 00:18:33,000 Speaker 6: that's her daughter. Somebody hurt her daughter, somebody disrespected her daughter. Yeah, 432 00:18:33,000 --> 00:18:34,480 Speaker 6: how would you want a mom to react? 433 00:18:34,680 --> 00:18:38,080 Speaker 7: Well, we know how Kiki reacted because we got audio 434 00:18:38,160 --> 00:18:39,280 Speaker 7: over her talking to Darius. 435 00:18:39,359 --> 00:18:41,399 Speaker 3: Check it out that because you're nuts. 436 00:18:41,680 --> 00:18:44,400 Speaker 19: There's no reason for you to say, hey, a Jezebel 437 00:18:44,680 --> 00:18:47,760 Speaker 19: calling me Haiti. That's all necessary. You do all of 438 00:18:47,840 --> 00:18:50,160 Speaker 19: that unnecessarily because something's wrong with your mind. 439 00:18:50,480 --> 00:18:51,280 Speaker 20: It's not normal. 440 00:18:51,400 --> 00:18:53,080 Speaker 19: You sound like you have a broken brain and you 441 00:18:53,160 --> 00:18:56,359 Speaker 19: need to go to see somebody because you're chemically imbalanced. 442 00:18:56,520 --> 00:18:58,359 Speaker 19: There's nothing that I've done for you to stay on 443 00:18:58,480 --> 00:19:01,360 Speaker 19: that page. People haven't threw a more. I've enduring more 444 00:19:01,400 --> 00:19:02,639 Speaker 19: from you, and I don't do that to you. I 445 00:19:02,720 --> 00:19:04,119 Speaker 19: don't sit up there and call you all times and 446 00:19:04,359 --> 00:19:07,479 Speaker 19: names and do stuff like that. You randomly have an 447 00:19:07,480 --> 00:19:09,960 Speaker 19: episode and then you harassment. 448 00:19:09,520 --> 00:19:10,439 Speaker 1: For an hour straight. 449 00:19:11,520 --> 00:19:13,840 Speaker 4: That's the shots one't necessary at all. If I'm Musha, 450 00:19:13,880 --> 00:19:15,960 Speaker 4: I'm never speaking to the Palmer family ever again. 451 00:19:16,400 --> 00:19:20,600 Speaker 3: You know, Geeky was really watered down compared to Mama. 452 00:19:20,640 --> 00:19:23,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, you're supposed to shut mama down like that, because 453 00:19:23,240 --> 00:19:23,560 Speaker 1: what did that? 454 00:19:24,440 --> 00:19:26,960 Speaker 6: My mother was someone My mom was someone raised, and 455 00:19:27,359 --> 00:19:29,320 Speaker 6: they didn't know that the phone call was being taped, 456 00:19:29,320 --> 00:19:31,200 Speaker 6: so they just they think they're talking in family. She 457 00:19:31,280 --> 00:19:31,960 Speaker 6: bought me talking. 458 00:19:33,000 --> 00:19:33,800 Speaker 1: That's how you talk to me. 459 00:19:33,960 --> 00:19:36,119 Speaker 4: If that's how you talk about me when I'm not around, 460 00:19:36,440 --> 00:19:38,639 Speaker 4: don't be spilt up in my face see each other. 461 00:19:38,800 --> 00:19:40,720 Speaker 3: How do you shut mama down? How do you shut 462 00:19:40,720 --> 00:19:41,960 Speaker 3: your mother down when she's like that? 463 00:19:43,160 --> 00:19:46,000 Speaker 1: How would mama know that? Where mam gt that from? 464 00:19:48,200 --> 00:19:50,600 Speaker 3: When moms get angry, they just say anything anything. 465 00:19:50,680 --> 00:19:52,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, but that ain't a good That ain't a good one. No, 466 00:19:52,640 --> 00:19:53,159 Speaker 1: that wasn't a good. 467 00:19:53,920 --> 00:19:56,240 Speaker 4: I'm sure Mom apologized, but she was upset and angry 468 00:19:56,280 --> 00:19:58,199 Speaker 4: because because first of all, if that is the thing 469 00:19:58,240 --> 00:20:00,480 Speaker 4: and you say such and such as this in such 470 00:20:00,560 --> 00:20:03,240 Speaker 4: such a bisexual that mean it's still a fifty fifty 471 00:20:03,560 --> 00:20:05,200 Speaker 4: chances that could. 472 00:20:05,040 --> 00:20:08,320 Speaker 1: Have went down. What are you talking about? 473 00:20:08,960 --> 00:20:09,320 Speaker 3: All right? 474 00:20:10,240 --> 00:20:11,760 Speaker 1: What are we talking about here? Like that supposed to 475 00:20:11,760 --> 00:20:12,360 Speaker 1: make me feel better. 476 00:20:13,760 --> 00:20:15,560 Speaker 3: I'm saying, which side are you gonna believe? 477 00:20:17,200 --> 00:20:20,040 Speaker 6: Dang, we gotta go, we gotta we gotta do the work. 478 00:20:20,040 --> 00:20:20,600 Speaker 1: What we gotta go do. 479 00:20:20,720 --> 00:20:22,680 Speaker 7: Next hour, all right, next hour we're gonna talk about 480 00:20:22,720 --> 00:20:25,000 Speaker 7: t I and what he's doing for his hometown city. 481 00:20:25,080 --> 00:20:26,919 Speaker 3: Also, we got some juice about Drake coming up. 482 00:20:27,080 --> 00:20:27,840 Speaker 1: Okay, so don't move. 483 00:20:27,880 --> 00:20:29,560 Speaker 6: When we come back, we got Front page news Tess 484 00:20:29,600 --> 00:20:31,320 Speaker 6: some figure O will be joining us, and then Jada 485 00:20:31,320 --> 00:20:32,000 Speaker 6: Pinkett Smith. 486 00:20:31,880 --> 00:20:33,840 Speaker 2: Will be here, so don't move. It's the Breakfast Club 487 00:20:33,880 --> 00:20:37,359 Speaker 2: on be et, the Breakfast Club. Your mornings will never 488 00:20:37,600 --> 00:20:38,359 Speaker 2: be the same. 489 00:20:39,520 --> 00:20:40,280 Speaker 1: Runing everybody. 490 00:20:40,359 --> 00:20:43,960 Speaker 6: It's dj n V charlamagnea God. We are the Breakfast Club. 491 00:20:44,000 --> 00:20:46,320 Speaker 6: We have a busy baby here, our guest co hosts, 492 00:20:46,600 --> 00:20:49,880 Speaker 6: and let's get in some front page news Morning. 493 00:20:49,720 --> 00:20:53,040 Speaker 8: Tesn dj in, Good morning, Besy baby. 494 00:20:54,960 --> 00:20:56,320 Speaker 1: Now let's start off for some quick sports. 495 00:20:56,400 --> 00:20:59,639 Speaker 6: Draymond Green has been suspended for five games and he 496 00:20:59,680 --> 00:21:03,040 Speaker 6: will sat on seven hundred and sixty nine thousand dollars. 497 00:21:03,119 --> 00:21:06,440 Speaker 6: He's also being found twenty five thousand, Rudy Gobert twenty 498 00:21:06,480 --> 00:21:08,440 Speaker 6: five thousand, and Klay Thomas twenty five thousand. 499 00:21:08,480 --> 00:21:10,879 Speaker 4: Dropping the clues bombs with Draymond Green. Okay, my favorite 500 00:21:10,880 --> 00:21:13,560 Speaker 4: playing the NBA. All right, he ain't got no problem 501 00:21:13,600 --> 00:21:15,040 Speaker 4: putting hands on you for his people. 502 00:21:15,200 --> 00:21:17,840 Speaker 1: Nope, not at all, not at all. 503 00:21:18,200 --> 00:21:20,440 Speaker 6: And tonight if football, the Ravens take on the Bengals 504 00:21:20,520 --> 00:21:23,119 Speaker 6: at eight point fifteen. Now let's jump right into it. 505 00:21:23,200 --> 00:21:26,160 Speaker 6: Let's so, Joe manchinha, yeah, Joe Manchin. 506 00:21:26,240 --> 00:21:28,760 Speaker 8: I'm sure this won't be a surprise to many of you, 507 00:21:28,880 --> 00:21:31,360 Speaker 8: especially Charlot Magne and the god it says the inch 508 00:21:31,480 --> 00:21:34,520 Speaker 8: closer Wednesday took confirming he could run for president. 509 00:21:34,600 --> 00:21:35,359 Speaker 9: Let's take a listen. 510 00:21:35,760 --> 00:21:38,000 Speaker 20: Are you considering running for president? 511 00:21:38,080 --> 00:21:40,439 Speaker 1: I will do anything I can to help my country. 512 00:21:40,560 --> 00:21:40,960 Speaker 5: Is that a yes? 513 00:21:41,160 --> 00:21:44,000 Speaker 1: And you're saying does that mean you would consider it? Absolutely? 514 00:21:44,119 --> 00:21:46,639 Speaker 7: Every American should consider if they're in a position to 515 00:21:46,720 --> 00:21:47,600 Speaker 7: help save the country. 516 00:21:47,800 --> 00:21:49,960 Speaker 1: I think we're on the wrong course, so I will 517 00:21:50,000 --> 00:21:51,000 Speaker 1: do everything possible. 518 00:21:51,480 --> 00:21:53,359 Speaker 4: Joe Manson once again standing in the way of Joe 519 00:21:53,400 --> 00:21:56,679 Speaker 4: Biden and the Democratic Party making progress. If Joe Manchin 520 00:21:56,800 --> 00:21:59,520 Speaker 4: runs for president, you can add that to the long 521 00:21:59,600 --> 00:22:01,680 Speaker 4: list of things that he has blocked Joe Biden and 522 00:22:01,680 --> 00:22:03,000 Speaker 4: the Democratic Party from achieving. 523 00:22:03,560 --> 00:22:06,760 Speaker 8: That's right, that's right, he added, that Biden's policies have 524 00:22:06,880 --> 00:22:09,760 Speaker 8: gone too far left, and he said he thinks they'll lose, 525 00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:12,840 Speaker 8: will lose democracy as we know it if Trump is elected. 526 00:22:12,960 --> 00:22:15,280 Speaker 9: So he believes that he can go out and bring 527 00:22:15,359 --> 00:22:16,080 Speaker 9: the middle together. 528 00:22:16,240 --> 00:22:18,280 Speaker 8: And basically, dude Charlemagne, who we knew he was doing 529 00:22:18,320 --> 00:22:20,040 Speaker 8: all along, which is why he did all of you know, 530 00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:22,959 Speaker 8: what he did before was showing that he is indeed 531 00:22:23,080 --> 00:22:24,479 Speaker 8: possibly what the real president. 532 00:22:24,600 --> 00:22:26,280 Speaker 9: So now I guess he's going for it. He will 533 00:22:26,320 --> 00:22:27,719 Speaker 9: actually be running for president. 534 00:22:27,800 --> 00:22:29,680 Speaker 4: I believe if he runs, I'm gonna hear him out, 535 00:22:29,840 --> 00:22:31,800 Speaker 4: you know what I mean, Like, I mean, the other 536 00:22:32,040 --> 00:22:34,639 Speaker 4: the other options we got are terrible, right, like the 537 00:22:35,160 --> 00:22:36,960 Speaker 4: Bidens and the Trumps of the world. 538 00:22:37,040 --> 00:22:39,199 Speaker 1: So I'm gonna hear him out. Hear what you gotta say, 539 00:22:39,240 --> 00:22:40,640 Speaker 1: I mean, what you got to say. Let me see 540 00:22:40,680 --> 00:22:42,680 Speaker 1: if he's really one of these centrists like he he 541 00:22:42,800 --> 00:22:43,359 Speaker 1: claims to be. 542 00:22:44,840 --> 00:22:46,440 Speaker 9: But he's a gangster, we know that for sure. 543 00:22:46,560 --> 00:22:50,800 Speaker 13: So I hear him out. 544 00:22:50,920 --> 00:22:52,840 Speaker 9: I'm interested in here what you gotta say too, you know. 545 00:22:53,240 --> 00:22:56,960 Speaker 8: So he says he'll make a decision possibly before Super Tuesday. 546 00:22:57,119 --> 00:22:59,200 Speaker 8: So will I think he's gonna do it? You know, 547 00:22:59,280 --> 00:23:01,439 Speaker 8: I'm just guessing. I don't know, but this is typically 548 00:23:01,440 --> 00:23:03,200 Speaker 8: what they do. Say I'm gonna go around the country 549 00:23:03,280 --> 00:23:05,399 Speaker 8: and talk to you know, every day working Americans and 550 00:23:05,440 --> 00:23:07,680 Speaker 8: see where we are. And then he'll come out and say, 551 00:23:07,960 --> 00:23:12,600 Speaker 8: after a thought and prayer and consideration, I decided to run. 552 00:23:12,640 --> 00:23:14,000 Speaker 4: You know how they do it so and I don't 553 00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:15,919 Speaker 4: want to hear none of y'all call him out now, 554 00:23:16,119 --> 00:23:17,600 Speaker 4: you know what I mean, Any of y'all in the 555 00:23:17,640 --> 00:23:20,200 Speaker 4: Democratic Party, don't try to throw somemood on Joe Manchin's 556 00:23:20,280 --> 00:23:22,800 Speaker 4: name now because you didn't when he was blocking everything out. 557 00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:25,080 Speaker 4: So when he starts running the president, don't come out 558 00:23:25,160 --> 00:23:26,680 Speaker 4: and tell us how bad he is. And I don't 559 00:23:26,680 --> 00:23:27,760 Speaker 4: want to hear it. I don't want to hear it 560 00:23:27,800 --> 00:23:29,399 Speaker 4: now because y'all have four years to tell us that 561 00:23:30,160 --> 00:23:31,159 Speaker 4: that's right now. 562 00:23:31,440 --> 00:23:34,960 Speaker 6: Fack, let's talk about all these kids losing their Medicaid coverage. 563 00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:37,879 Speaker 8: Yeah, just an important fact, just another reminder on why 564 00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:40,360 Speaker 8: children should be covered. In the United States of America, 565 00:23:40,560 --> 00:23:42,760 Speaker 8: at least two million children have lost their. 566 00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:44,680 Speaker 9: Health care coverage since the end of the pandemic. 567 00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:49,760 Speaker 8: They guaranteed medical coverage during the health emergency through November eighth, 568 00:23:49,800 --> 00:23:52,239 Speaker 8: A total of ten point one million Americans have been 569 00:23:52,320 --> 00:23:55,440 Speaker 8: disenrolled for Medicaid. The two million children who have lost 570 00:23:55,480 --> 00:23:59,160 Speaker 8: their health coverage representing twenty one states that break out 571 00:23:59,320 --> 00:24:02,600 Speaker 8: enrollmentch just by age, and it's likely an undercount because 572 00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:06,280 Speaker 8: data is still coming in. So just another reminder, how 573 00:24:06,400 --> 00:24:09,080 Speaker 8: I personally believe you know that, if nothing else, children 574 00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:12,760 Speaker 8: and elderly should have healthcare coverage in the United States 575 00:24:12,760 --> 00:24:15,359 Speaker 8: of America. So those who are out there are looking 576 00:24:15,400 --> 00:24:17,920 Speaker 8: for coverage, you know, hopefully they'll be able to get 577 00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:20,560 Speaker 8: some type of supplement or something to make sure these 578 00:24:20,640 --> 00:24:21,240 Speaker 8: kids are covered. 579 00:24:21,520 --> 00:24:25,200 Speaker 1: Absolutely agree, we all should, absolutely. 580 00:24:24,800 --> 00:24:27,399 Speaker 9: Absolutely it should really be free for everybody, Medicare for all. 581 00:24:27,480 --> 00:24:29,720 Speaker 8: But you know something they just can't get Congress too 582 00:24:30,080 --> 00:24:32,359 Speaker 8: agree on, but can they at least agree on it 583 00:24:32,440 --> 00:24:33,080 Speaker 8: for the children. 584 00:24:33,240 --> 00:24:35,119 Speaker 9: So just wanted to make sure people knew that was 585 00:24:35,160 --> 00:24:35,479 Speaker 9: out there. 586 00:24:36,040 --> 00:24:39,560 Speaker 4: All right, well, that is front page News, and make 587 00:24:39,600 --> 00:24:42,400 Speaker 4: sure you follow at Teslin Figureo on all social media 588 00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:45,560 Speaker 4: platforms and subscribe to Teslin Figuos podcasts A great shot 589 00:24:45,640 --> 00:24:47,400 Speaker 4: no chase of podcasts on the Black Effect I Heeart 590 00:24:47,480 --> 00:24:48,520 Speaker 4: Radio podcast network. 591 00:24:48,680 --> 00:24:51,160 Speaker 6: All right, now, when we come back, Jada Pinkett Smith 592 00:24:51,200 --> 00:24:53,720 Speaker 6: will be joining us. Of course, her book Worthy is 593 00:24:53,800 --> 00:24:55,399 Speaker 6: out right now and we're gonna kick it with us. 594 00:24:55,440 --> 00:24:58,240 Speaker 1: It don't move. It's to Breakfast Club on Beet, the 595 00:24:58,480 --> 00:25:02,119 Speaker 1: Breakfast Club Morning. 596 00:25:02,160 --> 00:25:05,399 Speaker 6: Everybody's the DJ n V. Charlamagne to God. We are 597 00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:07,760 Speaker 6: the Breakfast Club. You got a special guest in the building. 598 00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:11,000 Speaker 6: It's a special special yes, Jana Pinkett Smith. 599 00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:13,480 Speaker 1: Welcome, Thank you, thank you, thank you. How are you 600 00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:14,240 Speaker 1: feeling this morning? 601 00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:15,000 Speaker 20: Feeling good? 602 00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:17,000 Speaker 1: You're glowing, thank you. 603 00:25:18,000 --> 00:25:20,719 Speaker 20: You know, life is good even in the chaos. 604 00:25:21,960 --> 00:25:23,040 Speaker 1: I mean, life is chaos. 605 00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:26,200 Speaker 20: Yeah, that's what it is, you know what I'm saying. 606 00:25:26,320 --> 00:25:27,800 Speaker 20: So you just get in harmony with that. 607 00:25:28,520 --> 00:25:29,360 Speaker 1: That's interesting, you said. 608 00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:31,280 Speaker 4: I could always be wondering, like, yo, do are we 609 00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:34,399 Speaker 4: ever going to find peace on this planet? Or do 610 00:25:34,520 --> 00:25:37,639 Speaker 4: we just exist within the chaos? The caos is normal. 611 00:25:37,920 --> 00:25:41,920 Speaker 21: Yeah, I think you know, just in my journey, I've 612 00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:45,200 Speaker 21: just been discovering that you kind of have to just 613 00:25:45,680 --> 00:25:48,359 Speaker 21: rise above it, right because the world is gonna be 614 00:25:48,440 --> 00:25:49,080 Speaker 21: what it's going to be. 615 00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:49,639 Speaker 13: Right. 616 00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:54,200 Speaker 21: I actually think that the world is a university, you know, 617 00:25:54,560 --> 00:25:58,800 Speaker 21: to teach us how to transcend it. Yeah, and so yeah, 618 00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:01,320 Speaker 21: you just you got to make peace East with what 619 00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:04,240 Speaker 21: this world is about. But I don't think that this 620 00:26:04,520 --> 00:26:08,200 Speaker 21: place is our sanctuary. I actually think, you know, ascending 621 00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:12,520 Speaker 21: it and going into more of the spiritual spiritual places, 622 00:26:12,960 --> 00:26:15,399 Speaker 21: you know, and just kind of understanding living your life 623 00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:17,080 Speaker 21: from there within the world. 624 00:26:17,520 --> 00:26:19,560 Speaker 20: I mean, that's what they say, you know, be in it, 625 00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:20,240 Speaker 20: but not of it. 626 00:26:20,440 --> 00:26:21,480 Speaker 1: You ever get tired of it? 627 00:26:21,560 --> 00:26:23,240 Speaker 6: Though, because you've been on this on this tour for 628 00:26:23,280 --> 00:26:27,200 Speaker 6: a while, and you're very big on energy and vibrations, 629 00:26:27,240 --> 00:26:29,679 Speaker 6: and sometimes I'm sure the energy and vibrations have been 630 00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:31,199 Speaker 6: all over the place, but it seems like you've been 631 00:26:31,240 --> 00:26:34,000 Speaker 6: on tour, yeah, for a long time, you ever get 632 00:26:34,000 --> 00:26:34,320 Speaker 6: tired of it? 633 00:26:34,400 --> 00:26:35,480 Speaker 1: Like now, enough's enough? 634 00:26:35,560 --> 00:26:35,679 Speaker 12: Now? 635 00:26:36,320 --> 00:26:39,720 Speaker 21: I think that if I put myself in that frame 636 00:26:39,800 --> 00:26:42,840 Speaker 21: of mind and I just bring myself a level of discomfort, 637 00:26:42,880 --> 00:26:46,399 Speaker 21: that's not necessary, right, You just go It is what 638 00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:46,800 Speaker 21: it is. 639 00:26:47,440 --> 00:26:50,480 Speaker 20: So how are you going to step up to the moment? 640 00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:51,440 Speaker 3: And that's it? 641 00:26:52,080 --> 00:26:54,680 Speaker 20: You know, that's just what it is. And so that 642 00:26:54,840 --> 00:26:56,119 Speaker 20: that's where I find my piece. 643 00:26:56,440 --> 00:26:58,600 Speaker 1: Since the release of this book, what is your ego 644 00:26:58,760 --> 00:26:59,240 Speaker 1: been telling you? 645 00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:06,359 Speaker 21: Ego has been telling me to let go because it 646 00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:10,000 Speaker 21: takes a lot of courage to sin in your truth 647 00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:12,080 Speaker 21: takes a lot of courage. It takes a lot of 648 00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:15,320 Speaker 21: courage to be happy when you're walking through the world 649 00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:21,159 Speaker 21: and you're dismantling ideas, you know, you kind of have 650 00:27:21,320 --> 00:27:25,280 Speaker 21: to in that dismantle you just kind of have to 651 00:27:25,400 --> 00:27:29,080 Speaker 21: let go of everything that you thought you were, everything 652 00:27:29,160 --> 00:27:33,480 Speaker 21: that you're trying to be, and just flow right, just 653 00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:35,760 Speaker 21: let whatever is presenting itself. 654 00:27:37,960 --> 00:27:41,399 Speaker 22: Just kind of be what it is, you know, but 655 00:27:41,520 --> 00:27:43,080 Speaker 22: you definitely gotta let go. 656 00:27:44,040 --> 00:27:47,959 Speaker 21: So it's been a real test in regards to trust. 657 00:27:49,359 --> 00:27:54,400 Speaker 21: You know, just can't trust the ego in that way anymore. 658 00:27:54,640 --> 00:27:56,040 Speaker 20: But you know, that's a process. 659 00:27:56,119 --> 00:27:58,600 Speaker 22: So as I'm dismasting, so you go from one ego 660 00:27:58,760 --> 00:27:59,640 Speaker 22: state to the next. 661 00:27:59,760 --> 00:28:06,240 Speaker 20: Right, So it just gets it just gets, it just 662 00:28:06,320 --> 00:28:09,560 Speaker 20: gets smaller, I guess, you know. But the ego is. 663 00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:11,879 Speaker 22: Always going to be that. So you know, you just 664 00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:14,800 Speaker 22: kind of learned how to make friends with your ego and. 665 00:28:14,920 --> 00:28:16,720 Speaker 20: Have it work for you in a different way, for 666 00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:17,880 Speaker 20: different purpose. 667 00:28:18,960 --> 00:28:19,080 Speaker 8: Right. 668 00:28:19,280 --> 00:28:20,919 Speaker 20: So that's what I'm working with right now. 669 00:28:21,119 --> 00:28:26,240 Speaker 6: Has this truth helped your relationship with friends, family, and 670 00:28:26,359 --> 00:28:29,400 Speaker 6: even your marriage? Has this truth and all the things 671 00:28:29,440 --> 00:28:31,440 Speaker 6: that came out or did it make things worse? 672 00:28:31,920 --> 00:28:32,080 Speaker 4: Oh? 673 00:28:32,280 --> 00:28:33,440 Speaker 20: No, see, I didn't. 674 00:28:34,160 --> 00:28:39,320 Speaker 21: I didn't step into this, walk into my situation with 675 00:28:40,400 --> 00:28:42,360 Speaker 21: my friends, my family. 676 00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:45,360 Speaker 20: As specifically, Will was tight. 677 00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:51,120 Speaker 21: Right because I already knew how disruptive it was going 678 00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:52,760 Speaker 21: to be. So I had to make sure that my 679 00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:57,240 Speaker 21: inner circle was tight, right, so that we could walk 680 00:28:57,280 --> 00:29:01,440 Speaker 21: this together hand in hand, right. So it's actually, you know, 681 00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:05,160 Speaker 21: specifically for Will and I, it's definitely brought us closer. 682 00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:07,320 Speaker 20: It's so funny how crisis. 683 00:29:06,960 --> 00:29:10,720 Speaker 3: Will do that, you know what I mean, Yeah, you 684 00:29:10,840 --> 00:29:11,520 Speaker 3: know what I'm saying. 685 00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:15,560 Speaker 21: So that's the thing about Will and Ize, just like 686 00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:19,280 Speaker 21: we just learn more and more as we go that 687 00:29:20,400 --> 00:29:22,360 Speaker 21: this is what we were built to do, you know, 688 00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:28,120 Speaker 21: with each other, you know, and to walk together. And 689 00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:31,280 Speaker 21: you know, just like any long term relationship, it goes 690 00:29:31,400 --> 00:29:36,000 Speaker 21: through it's of course, you know, and so you gotta 691 00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:37,200 Speaker 21: take your time. 692 00:29:37,360 --> 00:29:40,520 Speaker 20: I really had to grow emotionally. 693 00:29:40,800 --> 00:29:45,040 Speaker 21: It hadn't realized how emotionally immature I was, you know 694 00:29:45,120 --> 00:29:48,800 Speaker 21: what I'm saying. And so that's the thing about long 695 00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:51,960 Speaker 21: term relationships that are fantastic if you can just hang 696 00:29:52,040 --> 00:29:56,960 Speaker 21: in there, because it's going to force you to step 697 00:29:57,040 --> 00:30:00,480 Speaker 21: your game up if you want to be happy, you know. 698 00:30:00,760 --> 00:30:03,960 Speaker 21: And so Will's been one of my greatest teachers on 699 00:30:04,040 --> 00:30:06,880 Speaker 21: my journey, you know, because I've been forced to have 700 00:30:07,040 --> 00:30:07,640 Speaker 21: to deal. 701 00:30:07,520 --> 00:30:10,280 Speaker 6: With my stuff, you know what stuff because you said 702 00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:14,400 Speaker 6: you're immature. What immaturity do you see when you look 703 00:30:14,440 --> 00:30:14,920 Speaker 6: at yourself? 704 00:30:15,560 --> 00:30:18,760 Speaker 21: Well, I would say, you know, seven years ago, just 705 00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:23,480 Speaker 21: when you're just hanging on to these romantic ideas of 706 00:30:23,600 --> 00:30:27,240 Speaker 21: what marriage should be, what your partner should be for you, 707 00:30:27,560 --> 00:30:30,560 Speaker 21: so that you don't have to be the thing for yourself, 708 00:30:31,680 --> 00:30:33,760 Speaker 21: like when you keep banging on somebody like, no, I 709 00:30:33,880 --> 00:30:37,040 Speaker 21: need you to show up this way because I need 710 00:30:37,120 --> 00:30:40,720 Speaker 21: to feel a certain way about myself. Right That in 711 00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:44,120 Speaker 21: itself is just like hold up, you want somebody else 712 00:30:44,200 --> 00:30:46,080 Speaker 21: to be something for you that you're not willing to. 713 00:30:46,080 --> 00:30:48,480 Speaker 3: Be for yourself. First of all, how do you call 714 00:30:48,560 --> 00:30:48,920 Speaker 3: that love? 715 00:30:50,760 --> 00:30:50,960 Speaker 23: You know? 716 00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:55,520 Speaker 21: And I had to like step away to really realize that, 717 00:30:56,400 --> 00:31:00,080 Speaker 21: you know, and so me get myself in alignment and 718 00:31:00,240 --> 00:31:03,560 Speaker 21: just realizing like, yo, Jada, you got a lot of 719 00:31:03,600 --> 00:31:05,479 Speaker 21: work to do, and then doing that work and then 720 00:31:05,560 --> 00:31:09,440 Speaker 21: being able to present myself with more of myself and 721 00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:12,200 Speaker 21: then being able to see Will as who he is 722 00:31:12,880 --> 00:31:15,200 Speaker 21: and just accept him and love him. 723 00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:19,360 Speaker 1: There, that's what I think is lost, you know in 724 00:31:19,760 --> 00:31:20,080 Speaker 1: the book. 725 00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:22,600 Speaker 4: If you haven't read the book, like you think all 726 00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:26,200 Speaker 4: the convos about Tupac and will distracted from what this 727 00:31:26,280 --> 00:31:27,280 Speaker 4: book really has to offer. 728 00:31:27,280 --> 00:31:29,560 Speaker 20: Because I did, Yeah, and I knew that. 729 00:31:30,200 --> 00:31:30,560 Speaker 3: I knew. 730 00:31:30,600 --> 00:31:32,600 Speaker 21: I knew it was going to be a lot of distractions, right, 731 00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:34,800 Speaker 21: And I was like, hopefully this book will have legs 732 00:31:35,160 --> 00:31:35,440 Speaker 21: so that. 733 00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:39,200 Speaker 22: Once all of the you know, the chatter dies down. 734 00:31:39,760 --> 00:31:42,800 Speaker 21: We can get to the real components of the book. Now, 735 00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:45,800 Speaker 21: people who've actually read the book are on it, right. 736 00:31:45,960 --> 00:31:48,720 Speaker 21: They see that sony of healing. 737 00:31:48,880 --> 00:31:49,720 Speaker 20: It's a journey of his. 738 00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:52,960 Speaker 4: It's a journey of somebody trying to find their worthiness, 739 00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:54,920 Speaker 4: which is, you know, all of us have struggled with 740 00:31:55,000 --> 00:31:58,920 Speaker 4: that imposter syndrome, not feeling worthy. If you read the book, 741 00:31:58,960 --> 00:32:01,480 Speaker 4: you see somebody really laying it out in detail, the 742 00:32:01,560 --> 00:32:03,160 Speaker 4: journey to get to that place of workings. 743 00:32:03,280 --> 00:32:04,880 Speaker 20: And it's a universal struggle. 744 00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:07,320 Speaker 22: You know, we all do it in different ways, right, 745 00:32:07,920 --> 00:32:09,320 Speaker 22: but it's a universal struggle. 746 00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:13,000 Speaker 21: And so yeah, that's I really wanted to lay that 747 00:32:13,240 --> 00:32:17,200 Speaker 21: out in the way that I did, especially once again 748 00:32:17,560 --> 00:32:22,280 Speaker 21: just dismantling these ideas of perfection, you know, because we 749 00:32:22,520 --> 00:32:27,960 Speaker 21: also have these societal romantic ideas of what somebody in 750 00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:30,440 Speaker 21: my position, what my. 751 00:32:30,520 --> 00:32:33,160 Speaker 22: Life should look like, who I should be within. 752 00:32:33,000 --> 00:32:34,080 Speaker 20: It, you know what I'm saying. 753 00:32:34,160 --> 00:32:36,960 Speaker 22: And it's like no, no, no, Like real life is 754 00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:39,400 Speaker 22: real life, no matter what station you sitting at. 755 00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:40,080 Speaker 20: Period. 756 00:32:40,800 --> 00:32:42,720 Speaker 4: You know, do you regret leading with a lot of 757 00:32:42,800 --> 00:32:46,240 Speaker 4: that stuff, leading with a lot of to talk about 758 00:32:46,280 --> 00:32:48,040 Speaker 4: will to talk about pop? Because you know those just 759 00:32:48,080 --> 00:32:52,600 Speaker 4: became sound bites and headlines on the internet, clips that 760 00:32:53,040 --> 00:32:53,200 Speaker 4: you know. 761 00:32:53,400 --> 00:32:56,560 Speaker 20: It's so difficult because when. 762 00:32:56,440 --> 00:33:01,600 Speaker 21: You're dealing with media, that's that's that's what people want 763 00:33:01,680 --> 00:33:05,960 Speaker 21: attach to. People not interested, you know, that's not the clickbait. 764 00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:07,200 Speaker 20: The journey part of it. 765 00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:11,640 Speaker 21: The clickbait is you know, the Tupac, the will you know, 766 00:33:11,840 --> 00:33:14,640 Speaker 21: So you got to kind of get past the clickbait 767 00:33:14,680 --> 00:33:18,640 Speaker 21: where people get exhausted with that and that dies down 768 00:33:19,240 --> 00:33:22,160 Speaker 21: and then people can get with the real But it's 769 00:33:22,240 --> 00:33:23,080 Speaker 21: hard to avoid it. 770 00:33:23,320 --> 00:33:25,160 Speaker 20: Honestly, it's hard to avoid it. 771 00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:25,600 Speaker 1: All right. 772 00:33:25,640 --> 00:33:27,760 Speaker 6: We got more with Jada Pinket Smith. When we come back, 773 00:33:27,840 --> 00:33:30,120 Speaker 6: don't move, it's the Breakfast Club moving. Yeah, when back, 774 00:33:30,160 --> 00:33:32,920 Speaker 6: it's the Breakfast Club. DJ and V Charlamagne the God 775 00:33:33,000 --> 00:33:34,880 Speaker 6: and we're still kicking it with Jada Pinkett Smith her 776 00:33:34,920 --> 00:33:36,280 Speaker 6: book Worthy is out right. 777 00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:36,560 Speaker 13: Now. 778 00:33:37,040 --> 00:33:39,240 Speaker 6: We look at your life and we see the wedding, 779 00:33:39,360 --> 00:33:41,800 Speaker 6: we see the trips, we see all of that. When 780 00:33:41,840 --> 00:33:43,920 Speaker 6: did you realize and say, I need to fix this 781 00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:45,360 Speaker 6: because this isn't right with me. 782 00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:46,760 Speaker 1: What was that moment? 783 00:33:47,240 --> 00:33:50,560 Speaker 21: I would say that I got slammed up against a wall, 784 00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:56,840 Speaker 21: Probably when I was really confronted with some really heavy 785 00:33:56,920 --> 00:34:00,840 Speaker 21: suicidal thoughts, when I was looking for Cliff to drive over, 786 00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:04,000 Speaker 21: you know, so that my suicide would look like an 787 00:34:04,040 --> 00:34:07,360 Speaker 21: accident so my kids wouldn't think that I committed suicide. 788 00:34:08,800 --> 00:34:10,680 Speaker 20: I did a plant medicine. 789 00:34:10,360 --> 00:34:13,680 Speaker 21: Journeysa ayahuasca, I can't wait. 790 00:34:14,440 --> 00:34:16,560 Speaker 22: Let me know where I got you. 791 00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:21,759 Speaker 21: And that that was a real awakening for me, you know, 792 00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:23,880 Speaker 21: And I really had to be confronted with. 793 00:34:25,520 --> 00:34:29,560 Speaker 22: My own shadow, my own self hatred, and it was 794 00:34:29,719 --> 00:34:31,320 Speaker 22: so strong and it was so scary. 795 00:34:31,360 --> 00:34:34,080 Speaker 21: I was like, WHOA, I didn't I thought it was 796 00:34:34,280 --> 00:34:36,080 Speaker 21: I didn't even want to be with that, and I'm 797 00:34:36,160 --> 00:34:41,200 Speaker 21: like asking somebody else to contend with that. That was 798 00:34:41,280 --> 00:34:44,560 Speaker 21: the first moment that I realized, oh, Jada, you you 799 00:34:44,640 --> 00:34:45,880 Speaker 21: got some stuff to deal. 800 00:34:45,719 --> 00:34:46,719 Speaker 1: With, and what got you to that? 801 00:34:46,760 --> 00:34:48,759 Speaker 6: Point, because most people would look on the outside and 802 00:34:48,880 --> 00:34:51,839 Speaker 6: be like, you know, she's rich, she's a movie star. 803 00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:55,480 Speaker 6: She's stating another movie star, she has beautiful kids, your 804 00:34:55,560 --> 00:34:58,080 Speaker 6: mom is still there. Like it looks like to the outside, 805 00:34:58,360 --> 00:35:01,560 Speaker 6: the life is perfect. What in that perfect life on 806 00:35:01,640 --> 00:35:03,920 Speaker 6: the outside made you feel imperfect or made you not 807 00:35:04,760 --> 00:35:06,440 Speaker 6: feel like this is what I want. 808 00:35:06,680 --> 00:35:10,600 Speaker 22: It was like dealing with the foundational wounds, right. 809 00:35:10,719 --> 00:35:12,759 Speaker 21: I hadn't done, I hadn't double with And that's what 810 00:35:12,880 --> 00:35:16,200 Speaker 21: we most of us don't even know what our foundational 811 00:35:16,239 --> 00:35:16,680 Speaker 21: wounds are. 812 00:35:16,760 --> 00:35:19,400 Speaker 22: We don't even know we're foundationally wounded. 813 00:35:20,360 --> 00:35:20,560 Speaker 8: Right. 814 00:35:20,760 --> 00:35:23,600 Speaker 21: And so it started a childhood you know, you got 815 00:35:23,800 --> 00:35:28,640 Speaker 21: two parents who are addicts and you're not the priority, right, 816 00:35:28,840 --> 00:35:33,120 Speaker 21: and then just the levels and just the trauma that 817 00:35:33,239 --> 00:35:36,920 Speaker 21: gets built upon what that environment it's like, right, And 818 00:35:38,440 --> 00:35:44,480 Speaker 21: I thought that making it would heal it all. You know, 819 00:35:44,719 --> 00:35:47,480 Speaker 21: success takes care of everything. 820 00:35:47,440 --> 00:35:50,880 Speaker 20: Right, And then it was like, Okay, made it to Hollywood, 821 00:35:51,480 --> 00:35:52,000 Speaker 20: That's not it. 822 00:35:52,120 --> 00:35:55,560 Speaker 21: And then I met this fantastic guy and I was 823 00:35:55,640 --> 00:35:58,200 Speaker 21: on this world win of romance with Will and I 824 00:35:58,280 --> 00:36:01,400 Speaker 21: was like, he's gonna fix it. You know what I'm saying, 825 00:36:01,840 --> 00:36:06,160 Speaker 21: He's gonna he is the Knight in shining Armor. He's 826 00:36:06,239 --> 00:36:09,399 Speaker 21: the Savior Prince, He's gonna fix it. So it went 827 00:36:09,480 --> 00:36:11,640 Speaker 21: from one false belief to the next. And I talk 828 00:36:11,680 --> 00:36:13,440 Speaker 21: about trying to check all the boxes. 829 00:36:13,719 --> 00:36:16,840 Speaker 20: It's like, checked all the boxes. 830 00:36:17,880 --> 00:36:22,200 Speaker 21: It's left right, and then having to realize, oh man, 831 00:36:22,480 --> 00:36:25,160 Speaker 21: oh yeah, you're not dealing with your stuff. 832 00:36:25,480 --> 00:36:26,200 Speaker 20: That's what's left. 833 00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:29,360 Speaker 21: So it just goes to show that we can have 834 00:36:29,600 --> 00:36:32,800 Speaker 21: all of these exterior things, you know, but that's not 835 00:36:33,000 --> 00:36:35,239 Speaker 21: the thing that's gonna heal the soul. 836 00:36:35,719 --> 00:36:35,840 Speaker 13: You know. 837 00:36:35,960 --> 00:36:37,680 Speaker 4: It's interesting because you know, when we used to watch 838 00:36:37,680 --> 00:36:40,319 Speaker 4: you Red Table Talk, people would be like, who is it, Jada, 839 00:36:40,520 --> 00:36:44,160 Speaker 4: Jada Pinket You take off the drug dealer, Jada a 840 00:36:44,200 --> 00:36:45,040 Speaker 4: drug dealer energy? 841 00:36:45,760 --> 00:36:47,880 Speaker 1: You know, I never, I never when I when I 842 00:36:47,960 --> 00:36:49,680 Speaker 1: read that in the book, I was like, Jay the 843 00:36:49,719 --> 00:36:51,480 Speaker 1: Pinkett Smith was in the screens like that. But when 844 00:36:51,520 --> 00:36:53,239 Speaker 1: you walked in, I'm like, oh, I see it. 845 00:36:54,040 --> 00:37:06,800 Speaker 3: I'm just trying to be comfortable. Sorry about that. 846 00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:08,480 Speaker 4: But when people used to watch the Red Table Talk, 847 00:37:08,480 --> 00:37:11,680 Speaker 4: they be like, who why is Jada Pinkett Smith an 848 00:37:11,760 --> 00:37:14,320 Speaker 4: expert and anything? But in the book, you refer to 849 00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:18,120 Speaker 4: yourself as you said, you're a pseudo pseudo guru. You said, 850 00:37:19,320 --> 00:37:20,799 Speaker 4: it's in the Feeling the Range chapter that you seem 851 00:37:20,840 --> 00:37:22,799 Speaker 4: to often set yourself up to fall off the edge 852 00:37:22,840 --> 00:37:23,920 Speaker 4: of high and mighty them. 853 00:37:24,440 --> 00:37:27,480 Speaker 1: You admit at the time you didn't know, like why 854 00:37:27,600 --> 00:37:28,560 Speaker 1: talk to yourself like that? 855 00:37:28,840 --> 00:37:31,520 Speaker 20: Well, because it's the truth, you know. 856 00:37:32,160 --> 00:37:35,680 Speaker 21: And I think that when we're really on that game 857 00:37:35,760 --> 00:37:39,040 Speaker 21: of healing, like the person that you got to be 858 00:37:39,320 --> 00:37:44,000 Speaker 21: the most honest with is yourself, and a lot of 859 00:37:44,120 --> 00:37:46,800 Speaker 21: times that that could be that that could be the 860 00:37:46,880 --> 00:37:49,200 Speaker 21: most difficult when you really got to look at yourself 861 00:37:49,239 --> 00:37:54,400 Speaker 21: and realize, you know, where you thought you were something 862 00:37:54,520 --> 00:37:56,200 Speaker 21: and now you realize that you ain't. 863 00:37:56,280 --> 00:37:58,879 Speaker 20: You know, And so yeah, you just got to learn 864 00:37:58,960 --> 00:38:00,600 Speaker 20: how to be deeply honest with yourself. 865 00:38:01,120 --> 00:38:03,239 Speaker 21: And as I talk to myself that way, I can 866 00:38:03,360 --> 00:38:06,520 Speaker 21: also hug myself in saying that. 867 00:38:06,880 --> 00:38:09,200 Speaker 6: You know, now you talk about love so much, and 868 00:38:09,239 --> 00:38:12,480 Speaker 6: you talk about how you felt at one time you 869 00:38:12,600 --> 00:38:13,680 Speaker 6: are against marriage, right? 870 00:38:13,880 --> 00:38:14,080 Speaker 4: Yeah? 871 00:38:14,920 --> 00:38:18,319 Speaker 6: Is that because you seen your parents in their relationship? 872 00:38:19,239 --> 00:38:20,080 Speaker 6: What changed your mind? 873 00:38:20,440 --> 00:38:20,640 Speaker 4: Yeah? 874 00:38:20,840 --> 00:38:24,279 Speaker 21: I think that was really Like I got to see 875 00:38:24,360 --> 00:38:28,040 Speaker 21: my grandparents who both said to grandparents had a really 876 00:38:28,239 --> 00:38:31,560 Speaker 21: long lasting marriage, but. 877 00:38:31,600 --> 00:38:34,320 Speaker 20: I wasn't quite sure that it was the pinnacle of happiness. 878 00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:37,960 Speaker 21: And so you know, when you're young, you're a free spirit, 879 00:38:38,080 --> 00:38:39,920 Speaker 21: and I'm just like, no, I can do this different, 880 00:38:40,640 --> 00:38:42,759 Speaker 21: like because I want to be happy. I'm not quite 881 00:38:42,800 --> 00:38:45,200 Speaker 21: sure that's what happy is. Like, how can I be 882 00:38:45,760 --> 00:38:48,400 Speaker 21: in a relationship and be happy? You know, I was 883 00:38:48,520 --> 00:38:51,239 Speaker 21: all about the devotion of it, but I wasn't quite 884 00:38:51,280 --> 00:38:55,600 Speaker 21: sure that marriage was the thing, right. It wasn't until 885 00:38:56,000 --> 00:38:58,759 Speaker 21: maybe three years ago. 886 00:39:00,120 --> 00:39:02,440 Speaker 6: Three years ago, you've been married all this time? 887 00:39:08,160 --> 00:39:12,480 Speaker 24: The biggest saying years ago, No, no, no, no, Not 888 00:39:12,600 --> 00:39:15,960 Speaker 24: that I wasn't happy, not that I wasn't happy, but 889 00:39:16,120 --> 00:39:19,520 Speaker 24: I got to see the power of marriage. 890 00:39:19,800 --> 00:39:20,440 Speaker 1: Three years ago. 891 00:39:21,440 --> 00:39:26,600 Speaker 20: I got to see the power not even well yeah, 892 00:39:26,719 --> 00:39:28,080 Speaker 20: and no, right, I got. 893 00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:32,120 Speaker 21: To see how marriage is a it is a holy 894 00:39:32,719 --> 00:39:40,279 Speaker 21: path for real, right, just in regards to learning about love, 895 00:39:41,160 --> 00:39:44,439 Speaker 21: because it takes a long time to break down all 896 00:39:44,600 --> 00:39:48,680 Speaker 21: the different false beliefs that we have about love, right, 897 00:39:48,800 --> 00:39:53,880 Speaker 21: and and the thing about holy matrimony. And it's not 898 00:39:54,000 --> 00:39:55,480 Speaker 21: to say that you're not going to go through some 899 00:39:55,680 --> 00:40:00,279 Speaker 21: unholy stuff, right, but when two people are committed and 900 00:40:00,480 --> 00:40:05,840 Speaker 21: just refuse to quit, what you can learn about yourself, 901 00:40:06,719 --> 00:40:08,760 Speaker 21: about your partner in about. 902 00:40:08,840 --> 00:40:10,080 Speaker 20: Love in general. 903 00:40:11,520 --> 00:40:14,640 Speaker 21: You can't really learn by going from one relationship to 904 00:40:14,719 --> 00:40:19,719 Speaker 21: the next looking for the honeymoon stage over and over again, right, 905 00:40:20,080 --> 00:40:25,040 Speaker 21: specifically if you're interested in learning about unconditional love, you know. 906 00:40:25,800 --> 00:40:29,640 Speaker 20: And so I was like, oh, snap, this is what 907 00:40:29,800 --> 00:40:31,880 Speaker 20: it's about, you know. 908 00:40:33,120 --> 00:40:35,279 Speaker 1: Years ago, But like, what was that moment three years ago? 909 00:40:36,040 --> 00:40:41,960 Speaker 21: I would probably say, when we'll going through the process 910 00:40:42,360 --> 00:40:50,759 Speaker 21: of emancipation. And then once he finished emancipation and the 911 00:40:50,880 --> 00:40:55,279 Speaker 21: stuff that started coming up for him, right, and that's 912 00:40:55,360 --> 00:40:58,879 Speaker 21: when he was like, hey, can we get back into 913 00:40:59,040 --> 00:41:03,920 Speaker 21: some therapy together, and the stuff that was coming up 914 00:41:04,239 --> 00:41:07,720 Speaker 21: for him and the kind of conversations we were starting 915 00:41:07,800 --> 00:41:08,080 Speaker 21: to have. 916 00:41:08,480 --> 00:41:11,920 Speaker 20: I was like, Okay, here we are. 917 00:41:12,800 --> 00:41:13,560 Speaker 18: You know what I mean. 918 00:41:13,800 --> 00:41:18,480 Speaker 21: I'm like, and everybody starts their journeys in different ways 919 00:41:18,520 --> 00:41:21,839 Speaker 21: at different times, you know what I'm saying. But that's 920 00:41:21,920 --> 00:41:24,960 Speaker 21: when I knew. I was like, okay, And then we 921 00:41:25,040 --> 00:41:27,800 Speaker 21: went to the oscars and that whole thing happened, and 922 00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:31,239 Speaker 21: it wasn't I didn't even think twice about it when 923 00:41:31,280 --> 00:41:33,879 Speaker 21: I saw what was happening, and I was like, I'm 924 00:41:33,920 --> 00:41:35,360 Speaker 21: not leaving this man's side. 925 00:41:36,800 --> 00:41:38,320 Speaker 20: I'm not leaving this man's side. 926 00:41:38,640 --> 00:41:40,239 Speaker 6: I will keep a lock. We got more with Jada 927 00:41:40,280 --> 00:41:42,560 Speaker 6: Pinkett Smith. Her book Worthy is out right now, so 928 00:41:42,640 --> 00:41:43,000 Speaker 6: don't move. 929 00:41:43,000 --> 00:41:44,680 Speaker 1: It's the breakfast Club. Good Morning, Good morning. 930 00:41:44,760 --> 00:41:48,640 Speaker 6: Everybody's DJ Envy Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. 931 00:41:48,680 --> 00:41:51,000 Speaker 6: We're still kicking it with Jada Pinkett Smith Charlomagne. 932 00:41:51,480 --> 00:41:54,200 Speaker 4: You think, up until the point of three years ago, 933 00:41:54,200 --> 00:41:56,440 Speaker 4: do you think y'all had had just more of a 934 00:41:56,480 --> 00:41:57,040 Speaker 4: trauma bunk. 935 00:41:57,920 --> 00:41:59,480 Speaker 20: I would say yes and no. 936 00:42:00,239 --> 00:42:02,440 Speaker 21: I would say we had a trauma bond, and then 937 00:42:03,080 --> 00:42:08,080 Speaker 21: underneath of it there was this real deep friendship, this 938 00:42:08,239 --> 00:42:11,880 Speaker 21: spiritual bond too, because you can start breaking through your 939 00:42:11,960 --> 00:42:14,640 Speaker 21: trauma and start talking through your trauma. And if it's 940 00:42:14,800 --> 00:42:18,120 Speaker 21: just a trauma bond, once you start to heal and 941 00:42:18,239 --> 00:42:19,120 Speaker 21: you start going. 942 00:42:19,080 --> 00:42:21,200 Speaker 20: Your separate ways, it's done. 943 00:42:21,480 --> 00:42:26,759 Speaker 21: If it's just a trauma bond, right, But when you 944 00:42:26,880 --> 00:42:32,240 Speaker 21: can feel that that spiritual bind, once you're doing the healing, 945 00:42:32,600 --> 00:42:36,359 Speaker 21: and that spiritual bind is just yoking you tighter than 946 00:42:36,400 --> 00:42:37,680 Speaker 21: you know it something else. 947 00:42:38,200 --> 00:42:40,239 Speaker 20: You know, and you really have to have the discernment 948 00:42:40,400 --> 00:42:42,360 Speaker 20: to know the difference. 949 00:42:43,280 --> 00:42:45,080 Speaker 21: You know what I'm saying, because sometimes you do just 950 00:42:45,160 --> 00:42:48,200 Speaker 21: have a trauma bond with somebody and sometimes you just 951 00:42:48,280 --> 00:42:49,840 Speaker 21: got to get away, you know. 952 00:42:49,880 --> 00:42:53,279 Speaker 20: What I'm saying, And so you got to really like 953 00:42:53,400 --> 00:42:57,240 Speaker 20: sit with yourself and have the discernment to know the difference. 954 00:42:57,320 --> 00:42:59,000 Speaker 4: Now that's real, because sometimes you heal so much you 955 00:42:59,080 --> 00:43:02,880 Speaker 4: be like, man, look like nobody exactly. 956 00:43:03,560 --> 00:43:07,160 Speaker 20: That's real talking, yeah, straight out, because that's what we do, 957 00:43:08,160 --> 00:43:09,160 Speaker 20: you know. It's like that. 958 00:43:09,280 --> 00:43:11,560 Speaker 21: And that's part of it too, you know, And that's 959 00:43:11,600 --> 00:43:14,120 Speaker 21: part of why we have to have the courage because innately, 960 00:43:14,200 --> 00:43:16,960 Speaker 21: you know, once you start healing, a whole lot is 961 00:43:17,040 --> 00:43:18,880 Speaker 21: gonna change, you know. 962 00:43:19,160 --> 00:43:23,000 Speaker 6: With the Oscar's situation, did that save your marriage? And 963 00:43:23,000 --> 00:43:25,520 Speaker 6: the reason I asked that is, you know, I've been 964 00:43:25,560 --> 00:43:28,279 Speaker 6: married twenty two years, Charloma has been married a long time. 965 00:43:28,400 --> 00:43:30,799 Speaker 6: But your wife will always be mad at you, right, 966 00:43:31,400 --> 00:43:33,239 Speaker 6: but you can't be mad at him. I could be 967 00:43:33,360 --> 00:43:37,600 Speaker 6: mad at him him down. Yeah, So did that save 968 00:43:38,360 --> 00:43:38,920 Speaker 6: your marriage? 969 00:43:39,719 --> 00:43:43,840 Speaker 21: I would say what it definitely did is that it 970 00:43:44,200 --> 00:43:48,120 Speaker 21: accelerated what I think was already in the process. It 971 00:43:48,280 --> 00:43:51,640 Speaker 21: was in that moment that I knew. I was like, 972 00:43:52,320 --> 00:43:55,960 Speaker 21: oh no, no, no, no, no, no, We're gonna do 973 00:43:56,080 --> 00:44:00,600 Speaker 21: this together. I'm gonna be by your side, and I 974 00:44:00,760 --> 00:44:04,759 Speaker 21: know that I'll never I'll never leave your side, right because. 975 00:44:05,440 --> 00:44:09,200 Speaker 20: It's funny because an emotional crisis, I didn't blink. I 976 00:44:09,239 --> 00:44:12,320 Speaker 20: didn't blink. And that's when I knew deep down inside, 977 00:44:12,320 --> 00:44:15,680 Speaker 20: I'm like, yeah. 978 00:44:20,880 --> 00:44:21,680 Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. 979 00:44:21,800 --> 00:44:24,839 Speaker 9: It's like and you there's no getting away from them. 980 00:44:24,880 --> 00:44:27,239 Speaker 3: You've been trying, you know, really you don't want to 981 00:44:27,320 --> 00:44:27,840 Speaker 3: go nowhere? 982 00:44:28,480 --> 00:44:28,880 Speaker 20: Stop it. 983 00:44:29,760 --> 00:44:33,480 Speaker 21: And so was that incident that I knew right away, Yo, 984 00:44:34,280 --> 00:44:37,800 Speaker 21: we in it, And so that was it. But I 985 00:44:37,920 --> 00:44:41,200 Speaker 21: think that was the trajectory anyway. It just in an 986 00:44:41,280 --> 00:44:42,719 Speaker 21: instant solidified it. 987 00:44:43,360 --> 00:44:44,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, gotcha. 988 00:44:44,280 --> 00:44:46,320 Speaker 4: You know, if you know, if y'all have been separated 989 00:44:46,360 --> 00:44:47,640 Speaker 4: all of these years, if you read the book, you 990 00:44:47,920 --> 00:44:50,960 Speaker 4: realized that right, and Will never said anything about it. 991 00:44:51,040 --> 00:44:53,480 Speaker 4: Why did you feel now with the time to reveal 992 00:44:54,320 --> 00:44:56,960 Speaker 4: that information. Was it just to sell books like some 993 00:44:57,040 --> 00:44:57,480 Speaker 4: people think. 994 00:44:57,640 --> 00:45:00,440 Speaker 20: Oh no, it's part of the process, you know. 995 00:45:00,520 --> 00:45:01,640 Speaker 14: It was part of like. 996 00:45:03,360 --> 00:45:06,200 Speaker 20: Part of my self. 997 00:45:06,120 --> 00:45:11,520 Speaker 21: Worth journey, like I had to really I was leaning 998 00:45:11,600 --> 00:45:13,399 Speaker 21: on Will in a lot of ways. And I think 999 00:45:13,600 --> 00:45:18,760 Speaker 21: for women specifically, how a lot of times. 1000 00:45:19,040 --> 00:45:26,080 Speaker 20: Our relationships are used to identify us, you know what 1001 00:45:26,160 --> 00:45:26,440 Speaker 20: I mean? 1002 00:45:27,360 --> 00:45:33,160 Speaker 21: And so I thought that was a really important process 1003 00:45:33,280 --> 00:45:37,479 Speaker 21: and so much a really important thing to talk about 1004 00:45:37,520 --> 00:45:43,120 Speaker 21: because so much of my journey happened in that time 1005 00:45:43,480 --> 00:45:47,239 Speaker 21: when it was just me, you know, and I think that, 1006 00:45:48,120 --> 00:45:53,160 Speaker 21: and I also wanted people to realize that sometimes marriages 1007 00:45:53,280 --> 00:45:57,040 Speaker 21: go through breaks like that, you know. And for people 1008 00:45:57,120 --> 00:46:00,880 Speaker 21: out there who are thinking about, yo, should I get separated? 1009 00:46:01,000 --> 00:46:04,200 Speaker 20: Should I, you know, get a divorce, I'm like, man, 1010 00:46:04,440 --> 00:46:05,520 Speaker 20: just take time for you. 1011 00:46:05,800 --> 00:46:07,719 Speaker 21: Have the courage if you got the courage to sign 1012 00:46:07,760 --> 00:46:10,440 Speaker 21: divorce papers or you know, go to lawyers and get 1013 00:46:11,160 --> 00:46:14,360 Speaker 21: just have the courage to figure out how to just 1014 00:46:14,480 --> 00:46:19,520 Speaker 21: take time for you and then see see what's showing 1015 00:46:19,600 --> 00:46:23,680 Speaker 21: up for you, right, Because sometimes divorce is the answer. 1016 00:46:24,400 --> 00:46:28,480 Speaker 21: Sometimes leave goal separation is the answer. But first and foremost, 1017 00:46:29,640 --> 00:46:32,759 Speaker 21: just take a year. Take a year, see what shows up, 1018 00:46:33,160 --> 00:46:36,080 Speaker 21: you know, before you start going into like all these 1019 00:46:36,160 --> 00:46:40,799 Speaker 21: other processes. Because sometimes we can act so quickly out 1020 00:46:40,840 --> 00:46:43,399 Speaker 21: of anger and frustration and we just want to get away, 1021 00:46:43,480 --> 00:46:46,560 Speaker 21: and we think that's the answer, you know, and in 1022 00:46:46,680 --> 00:46:49,200 Speaker 21: some cases it is, but in some cases it's not. 1023 00:46:49,520 --> 00:46:51,880 Speaker 6: How do you feel when you talk about the truth, right, 1024 00:46:51,920 --> 00:46:55,080 Speaker 6: and you say a big reason of this book is 1025 00:46:55,120 --> 00:46:57,200 Speaker 6: you can help other people other marriage, other couples that 1026 00:46:57,280 --> 00:46:59,040 Speaker 6: are dealing with it and don't know how to express 1027 00:46:59,080 --> 00:47:02,080 Speaker 6: it because they've never seen it right, And the press 1028 00:47:02,160 --> 00:47:05,040 Speaker 6: and the public says, you know, Jada is embarrassing. Well, 1029 00:47:05,800 --> 00:47:08,000 Speaker 6: and you just said you were doing it because you 1030 00:47:08,080 --> 00:47:09,480 Speaker 6: wanted to live in your truth. So what do you 1031 00:47:09,520 --> 00:47:12,120 Speaker 6: say to those people that thought that it was just embarrassing, 1032 00:47:12,400 --> 00:47:16,000 Speaker 6: embarrassing Will and dehumanizing him, and take it and take 1033 00:47:16,040 --> 00:47:17,279 Speaker 6: it as his masculine I. 1034 00:47:17,360 --> 00:47:19,399 Speaker 4: Want to quote Anna Navarro of the view, she said, 1035 00:47:19,440 --> 00:47:22,200 Speaker 4: you are masculating and embarrassing Will. 1036 00:47:22,560 --> 00:47:25,200 Speaker 21: Oh, well, I think if she took time to read 1037 00:47:25,280 --> 00:47:29,480 Speaker 21: the book, you know, I think that if you want 1038 00:47:29,520 --> 00:47:33,000 Speaker 21: to just read headlines, I could see how that could 1039 00:47:33,719 --> 00:47:34,480 Speaker 21: be confusing. 1040 00:47:35,360 --> 00:47:36,920 Speaker 20: But the book is right here, and you have two 1041 00:47:36,960 --> 00:47:37,680 Speaker 20: books you can read. 1042 00:47:37,719 --> 00:47:40,359 Speaker 21: Actually, you can read my book and Will's book, which 1043 00:47:40,719 --> 00:47:42,719 Speaker 21: is so great that a lot of people are doing that, 1044 00:47:43,560 --> 00:47:43,759 Speaker 21: you know. 1045 00:47:43,960 --> 00:47:46,759 Speaker 20: But people have the right to their opinions. 1046 00:47:47,080 --> 00:47:51,920 Speaker 21: And I always know that anybody who's saying that hasn't 1047 00:47:52,160 --> 00:47:53,440 Speaker 21: really done their homework. 1048 00:47:53,760 --> 00:47:57,520 Speaker 20: But you got to expect it too, because of what 1049 00:47:57,760 --> 00:48:02,520 Speaker 20: the headlines are. You know what clickbait is, so Will 1050 00:48:02,680 --> 00:48:03,360 Speaker 20: knows what it is. 1051 00:48:04,480 --> 00:48:05,360 Speaker 5: I know what it is. 1052 00:48:05,680 --> 00:48:08,239 Speaker 21: My kids know what it is, and more importantly, Great 1053 00:48:08,320 --> 00:48:13,879 Speaker 21: Supreme does too, right, And so that's really that's really 1054 00:48:14,000 --> 00:48:15,719 Speaker 21: all I'm concerned with. 1055 00:48:15,880 --> 00:48:17,560 Speaker 6: At the end of the day, when Will was up here, 1056 00:48:17,600 --> 00:48:21,480 Speaker 6: he talked about being insecure a little bit about Tupac. 1057 00:48:22,360 --> 00:48:23,759 Speaker 1: Did y'all ever have that conversation? 1058 00:48:23,920 --> 00:48:27,160 Speaker 6: Because as a man, when you're a little insecure, I 1059 00:48:27,280 --> 00:48:29,239 Speaker 6: almost feel like you play both sides. You want to 1060 00:48:29,280 --> 00:48:30,919 Speaker 6: be yourself, but you want to show that you're better 1061 00:48:31,000 --> 00:48:33,719 Speaker 6: than the person that's making him insecure. You're tougher than, 1062 00:48:34,000 --> 00:48:37,560 Speaker 6: or smarter than, or more romantic than, or a poet 1063 00:48:37,600 --> 00:48:40,719 Speaker 6: then a better rapper than. Did y'all ever have that conversation? 1064 00:48:42,440 --> 00:48:45,160 Speaker 21: I wouldn't say that we had conversations in that way. 1065 00:48:45,480 --> 00:48:48,200 Speaker 21: It was just like, you know, we came up in 1066 00:48:48,280 --> 00:48:53,160 Speaker 21: the era where it was so unusual for a man 1067 00:48:53,239 --> 00:48:54,560 Speaker 21: and a woman to be friends. 1068 00:48:55,360 --> 00:48:55,520 Speaker 10: Right. 1069 00:48:55,760 --> 00:48:58,480 Speaker 21: Let mean really think about it, like that's more of 1070 00:48:58,560 --> 00:49:00,040 Speaker 21: an open idea now. 1071 00:49:00,760 --> 00:49:03,840 Speaker 20: Right, but just think in our era that was just 1072 00:49:04,000 --> 00:49:04,600 Speaker 20: like friends. 1073 00:49:04,680 --> 00:49:06,440 Speaker 1: They had to be dat like what what what? 1074 00:49:07,160 --> 00:49:07,319 Speaker 17: Right? 1075 00:49:07,440 --> 00:49:12,440 Speaker 21: And so I think for him it was just like 1076 00:49:12,600 --> 00:49:17,480 Speaker 21: getting your mind around around that, you know, and that 1077 00:49:17,920 --> 00:49:21,120 Speaker 21: the kind of friendship that we had because we had 1078 00:49:21,239 --> 00:49:26,880 Speaker 21: such a you know, tight friendship that you know, it 1079 00:49:27,000 --> 00:49:30,000 Speaker 21: was very impactful on my life, you know. So I 1080 00:49:30,040 --> 00:49:35,800 Speaker 21: think it was just getting the understanding around that Tupac 1081 00:49:35,880 --> 00:49:39,000 Speaker 21: and Eye could be friends, you know, and that that 1082 00:49:39,320 --> 00:49:41,719 Speaker 21: that he was a part of my life in that way. 1083 00:49:42,480 --> 00:49:46,240 Speaker 21: And so just we had a lot of conversations around 1084 00:49:46,600 --> 00:49:47,760 Speaker 21: just those ideas. 1085 00:49:47,800 --> 00:49:48,520 Speaker 1: How did he get over that? 1086 00:49:49,320 --> 00:49:51,000 Speaker 20: I think he just realized that. 1087 00:49:52,080 --> 00:49:54,040 Speaker 21: And I really can't speak for will you shuld probably 1088 00:49:54,080 --> 00:49:55,840 Speaker 21: ask him when he comes back, but I think he 1089 00:49:56,080 --> 00:49:59,440 Speaker 21: just realized that that's what it was, you know what 1090 00:49:59,520 --> 00:50:00,880 Speaker 21: I mean, it was like, that's. 1091 00:50:00,760 --> 00:50:01,279 Speaker 18: What it was. 1092 00:50:01,440 --> 00:50:04,440 Speaker 20: It's like, you know, that was that beautiful friendship. 1093 00:50:04,480 --> 00:50:07,880 Speaker 21: And I think once he really and started as he 1094 00:50:08,000 --> 00:50:12,799 Speaker 21: got older, started having his own friendships with women, like, oh, 1095 00:50:12,880 --> 00:50:14,040 Speaker 21: that that is possible. 1096 00:50:14,080 --> 00:50:14,719 Speaker 13: How are you with that? 1097 00:50:15,280 --> 00:50:18,840 Speaker 20: I listen, I always told will you need some female friends? 1098 00:50:19,160 --> 00:50:19,959 Speaker 1: Did you yes? 1099 00:50:20,520 --> 00:50:22,800 Speaker 3: Because I think I think I think. 1100 00:50:22,800 --> 00:50:23,920 Speaker 20: Men and women. 1101 00:50:24,600 --> 00:50:28,440 Speaker 21: I think men do need female friends because and women 1102 00:50:28,560 --> 00:50:31,640 Speaker 21: need male friends. And I actually think men once they 1103 00:50:31,760 --> 00:50:32,800 Speaker 21: have daughters. 1104 00:50:33,400 --> 00:50:36,680 Speaker 1: I got four, I got four, and you got four daughters. 1105 00:50:37,800 --> 00:50:43,680 Speaker 21: And but I see I would now let me ask 1106 00:50:43,719 --> 00:50:47,080 Speaker 21: you a question, would you say that having daughters helped 1107 00:50:47,120 --> 00:50:50,360 Speaker 21: you understand and see that. I think that's what happened 1108 00:50:50,360 --> 00:50:53,680 Speaker 21: to will I think once Willow came, you know, and 1109 00:50:53,840 --> 00:50:59,279 Speaker 21: then he started to realize a different relationship with the feminine, right, 1110 00:50:59,440 --> 00:51:02,480 Speaker 21: and then he realize, oh, wow, you know you can 1111 00:51:02,640 --> 00:51:06,960 Speaker 21: have relationships with women that are non sexual or however, 1112 00:51:07,200 --> 00:51:10,680 Speaker 21: y'all have to you know, manage that in your own minds. 1113 00:51:10,920 --> 00:51:11,080 Speaker 2: Right. 1114 00:51:11,880 --> 00:51:14,279 Speaker 21: I think once Willow came, she was his teacher on 1115 00:51:14,400 --> 00:51:16,320 Speaker 21: that for sure, and so he was able to have 1116 00:51:16,400 --> 00:51:16,959 Speaker 21: female friends. 1117 00:51:17,080 --> 00:51:18,640 Speaker 6: I will keep a lock. We got more with Jada 1118 00:51:18,640 --> 00:51:20,960 Speaker 6: Pinkett Smith. Her book Worthy is out right now, So 1119 00:51:21,040 --> 00:51:23,080 Speaker 6: don't move. It's the Breakfast Club, Good Morning, where back, 1120 00:51:23,120 --> 00:51:25,879 Speaker 6: It's the Breakfast Club DJ n V. Charlamagne the God 1121 00:51:25,960 --> 00:51:27,839 Speaker 6: and we're still kicking it with Jada Pinkett Smith. Her 1122 00:51:27,880 --> 00:51:29,520 Speaker 6: book Worthy is out right now. 1123 00:51:30,280 --> 00:51:33,360 Speaker 4: Charlamagne in the No Soccer Mom chapter A, right, you 1124 00:51:33,440 --> 00:51:36,640 Speaker 4: shoot down every rumor there's ever been about y'all that 1125 00:51:36,760 --> 00:51:39,279 Speaker 4: y'all are swingers, that y'all were both gay and playing 1126 00:51:39,360 --> 00:51:43,000 Speaker 4: each other's bids, that y'all was sleeping with whomever you choose. Yeah, 1127 00:51:43,040 --> 00:51:44,879 Speaker 4: how does it feel in twenty twenty three to still 1128 00:51:44,960 --> 00:51:47,640 Speaker 4: have those same rumors out about people you love, like 1129 00:51:47,800 --> 00:51:48,480 Speaker 4: Willan Dwinn. 1130 00:51:48,640 --> 00:51:50,600 Speaker 1: I know that just came out too recently. 1131 00:51:50,800 --> 00:51:56,839 Speaker 21: Yeah, you know, And let me just say this, it's ridiculous, right, 1132 00:51:58,840 --> 00:52:02,319 Speaker 21: and it's nonsense. And this is a person that tried 1133 00:52:02,600 --> 00:52:05,680 Speaker 21: a shakedown, a money shakedown that didn't work. We're gonna 1134 00:52:05,719 --> 00:52:10,560 Speaker 21: take legal action because it's one thing to have your 1135 00:52:10,680 --> 00:52:17,960 Speaker 21: opinion about somebody versus just making up salacious, malicious stories. 1136 00:52:18,640 --> 00:52:22,279 Speaker 21: So that's actionable. So we're gonna roll with that, you 1137 00:52:22,400 --> 00:52:25,799 Speaker 21: know what I mean, it's not true. We're gonna take 1138 00:52:25,840 --> 00:52:26,279 Speaker 21: care of it. 1139 00:52:27,040 --> 00:52:30,120 Speaker 1: And that's that it was a money shakedown, yea. 1140 00:52:32,560 --> 00:52:38,480 Speaker 21: Well, it's it's based around this person's idea that they 1141 00:52:38,840 --> 00:52:44,160 Speaker 21: in some way were doing business around Will's book and 1142 00:52:44,440 --> 00:52:46,880 Speaker 21: that they spent money or what have you, and that 1143 00:52:46,960 --> 00:52:49,320 Speaker 21: they needed to be compensated. So he already tried to 1144 00:52:49,400 --> 00:52:54,040 Speaker 21: do this money shakedown. Will was willing to give him 1145 00:52:54,040 --> 00:52:56,080 Speaker 21: a certain amount or what have you, and he didn't 1146 00:52:56,120 --> 00:52:56,360 Speaker 21: take it. 1147 00:52:56,520 --> 00:53:00,640 Speaker 22: So this whole situation is based on that give him 1148 00:53:00,640 --> 00:53:01,640 Speaker 22: a certain amount while though. 1149 00:53:01,640 --> 00:53:04,680 Speaker 21: Just well because of some business that they had and 1150 00:53:04,719 --> 00:53:07,160 Speaker 21: I don't know the complete details about it, but that's 1151 00:53:07,200 --> 00:53:09,359 Speaker 21: about to come out because, like I told you about 1152 00:53:09,360 --> 00:53:11,320 Speaker 21: to take legal action, you should. 1153 00:53:11,560 --> 00:53:13,560 Speaker 20: Yeah, no, we are for sure. 1154 00:53:13,680 --> 00:53:15,320 Speaker 1: I was asking, how is Will dealing with it? You know, 1155 00:53:15,400 --> 00:53:18,560 Speaker 1: with oh, release a statement. 1156 00:53:19,960 --> 00:53:20,200 Speaker 8: Will. 1157 00:53:21,160 --> 00:53:23,879 Speaker 21: Here's the one good thing about Will. Will's always gonna 1158 00:53:23,880 --> 00:53:24,480 Speaker 21: find the funny. 1159 00:53:24,920 --> 00:53:27,480 Speaker 20: I figured that, Ye kid's always gonna find the funny, 1160 00:53:28,120 --> 00:53:28,920 Speaker 20: you know what I'm saying. 1161 00:53:29,440 --> 00:53:32,319 Speaker 1: And so after the murder, murder, kill kill. 1162 00:53:32,680 --> 00:53:35,440 Speaker 20: Yeah, you have to. 1163 00:53:35,800 --> 00:53:40,360 Speaker 22: You have to because it's absolutely ridiculous. 1164 00:53:40,280 --> 00:53:42,000 Speaker 20: You know what I'm saying. And so all you have 1165 00:53:42,520 --> 00:53:45,120 Speaker 20: is you just got to laugh about it, you know. 1166 00:53:46,080 --> 00:53:47,879 Speaker 20: And it's unfortunate because. 1167 00:53:47,760 --> 00:53:48,960 Speaker 1: Did he ask you, like, do I look like I 1168 00:53:49,040 --> 00:53:49,680 Speaker 1: give off bottom? 1169 00:53:51,400 --> 00:53:52,480 Speaker 20: He was like do you believe it? 1170 00:53:53,520 --> 00:53:53,719 Speaker 17: You know? 1171 00:53:53,960 --> 00:53:55,160 Speaker 20: But we just laughed about it. 1172 00:53:55,480 --> 00:53:58,080 Speaker 4: Got to ask about Tyresee. Now, there was a rumor 1173 00:53:58,120 --> 00:54:02,719 Speaker 4: that Tyree called you. Oh, he said he called you 1174 00:54:02,800 --> 00:54:04,319 Speaker 4: on the phone. He was he was, he was on med, 1175 00:54:04,760 --> 00:54:06,440 Speaker 4: he was out of it. Yeah, and he told you 1176 00:54:06,680 --> 00:54:08,759 Speaker 4: I ain't no killer, Jada, I ain't no killer, but 1177 00:54:08,800 --> 00:54:11,399 Speaker 4: don't push me. Oh, things like the sweetest joy that's 1178 00:54:11,400 --> 00:54:12,919 Speaker 4: getting I don't know why he's. 1179 00:54:14,680 --> 00:54:14,719 Speaker 25: So. 1180 00:54:15,160 --> 00:54:19,680 Speaker 21: Tyrese did call me, for sure, and he was he 1181 00:54:19,880 --> 00:54:23,920 Speaker 21: was definitely in a in a state, and I was 1182 00:54:24,040 --> 00:54:29,000 Speaker 21: really concerned, you know, and I'm just called. 1183 00:54:29,320 --> 00:54:32,399 Speaker 1: Though he said he said him and Charlie Max said, 1184 00:54:32,400 --> 00:54:33,160 Speaker 1: he quoted Tupac. 1185 00:54:33,400 --> 00:54:34,240 Speaker 20: He called Tupac. 1186 00:54:34,320 --> 00:54:36,440 Speaker 1: No, he said, he called you and quoted Tupac. 1187 00:54:36,560 --> 00:54:36,960 Speaker 14: He may have. 1188 00:54:37,080 --> 00:54:41,359 Speaker 21: Let me tell you something. I was so worried at 1189 00:54:41,440 --> 00:54:47,320 Speaker 21: that time when he made that call about his his state, 1190 00:54:47,719 --> 00:54:53,000 Speaker 21: because it was really deeply concerned that I don't I 1191 00:54:53,360 --> 00:54:57,080 Speaker 21: couldn't even tell you exactly what happened because I'm trying 1192 00:54:57,120 --> 00:55:00,200 Speaker 21: to think about who I can get there, Who can 1193 00:55:00,239 --> 00:55:07,600 Speaker 21: I get in the house, how can I get him help? Yeah, 1194 00:55:08,080 --> 00:55:11,120 Speaker 21: And so that I was, I was in I was, 1195 00:55:11,360 --> 00:55:14,520 Speaker 21: I was a little panicked, you know, to just make 1196 00:55:14,600 --> 00:55:18,239 Speaker 21: sure that he was okay and that nothing was gonna happen, 1197 00:55:18,360 --> 00:55:22,800 Speaker 21: he wasn't gonna hurt himself or anybody else. So that 1198 00:55:23,040 --> 00:55:25,759 Speaker 21: I couldn't even I don't even remember what he said, 1199 00:55:25,920 --> 00:55:26,959 Speaker 21: what he said. 1200 00:55:27,440 --> 00:55:29,160 Speaker 4: I want to talk about the book and a debate 1201 00:55:29,320 --> 00:55:31,160 Speaker 4: I had at dinner a couple of weeks ago with 1202 00:55:31,239 --> 00:55:33,800 Speaker 4: some friends because in the book, you say that you 1203 00:55:33,920 --> 00:55:37,879 Speaker 4: and Will decided to separate in every way except legally. Yeah, 1204 00:55:38,080 --> 00:55:42,080 Speaker 4: and y'all would have complete transparency, no secrets about what 1205 00:55:42,239 --> 00:55:44,680 Speaker 4: y'all were doing, in whom y'all were doing it with, right, 1206 00:55:44,760 --> 00:55:46,920 Speaker 4: And the debate we were having was or early in 1207 00:55:46,960 --> 00:55:48,279 Speaker 4: the books, you said that they've never been in an 1208 00:55:48,280 --> 00:55:50,600 Speaker 4: open relationship, But isn't that an open relationship? 1209 00:55:50,760 --> 00:55:52,360 Speaker 20: Well, here's the difference between that. 1210 00:55:52,560 --> 00:55:56,719 Speaker 21: That's when you're you're in an open relationship and you 1211 00:55:57,000 --> 00:55:59,759 Speaker 21: are still intimate with each other. 1212 00:56:00,680 --> 00:56:02,960 Speaker 20: Right, at that point, we went our separate ways. 1213 00:56:03,360 --> 00:56:09,200 Speaker 21: So it's as if we are divorced, separated and just 1214 00:56:09,320 --> 00:56:12,640 Speaker 21: trying to figure out how we're going to go about it. 1215 00:56:12,960 --> 00:56:15,680 Speaker 21: But at that particular point in time, we were no 1216 00:56:15,880 --> 00:56:22,840 Speaker 21: longer relating in that way, right, because for us, it 1217 00:56:23,000 --> 00:56:23,319 Speaker 21: was over. 1218 00:56:23,960 --> 00:56:25,560 Speaker 20: It was done. So if you're in an. 1219 00:56:25,560 --> 00:56:30,200 Speaker 21: Open relationship, that means that you are still in a 1220 00:56:30,280 --> 00:56:33,920 Speaker 21: relationship with one another romantically. 1221 00:56:33,520 --> 00:56:37,120 Speaker 20: And you are okay with being with other people romantically. 1222 00:56:37,760 --> 00:56:43,120 Speaker 21: Yated, we were separated, like done done, done, done done. 1223 00:56:43,719 --> 00:56:46,520 Speaker 1: Why did you choose not to say August's name in 1224 00:56:46,560 --> 00:56:46,879 Speaker 1: the book? 1225 00:56:48,800 --> 00:56:52,879 Speaker 21: Really just to I felt like he's been through enough, 1226 00:56:53,520 --> 00:56:55,640 Speaker 21: you know what I mean? And I just wanted to 1227 00:56:56,080 --> 00:56:57,480 Speaker 21: be respectful in that manner. 1228 00:56:58,080 --> 00:57:00,560 Speaker 1: I really did. Do you feel like that's something that 1229 00:57:01,000 --> 00:57:02,960 Speaker 1: you need to heal like that situation. 1230 00:57:04,360 --> 00:57:08,239 Speaker 21: I'm hoping at some point, you know, I'm definitely hoping 1231 00:57:08,320 --> 00:57:09,359 Speaker 21: at some point for sure. 1232 00:57:10,360 --> 00:57:12,399 Speaker 4: Yeah, I want to ask you too, if you pick 1233 00:57:12,440 --> 00:57:15,400 Speaker 4: a crew to run with in real life, would you 1234 00:57:15,480 --> 00:57:16,960 Speaker 4: choose between the cast or set it off? 1235 00:57:17,000 --> 00:57:19,520 Speaker 1: For the cast of girls? Set it off? 1236 00:57:20,360 --> 00:57:25,040 Speaker 22: Oh that's a hard one, Damn Charlamagne, that's a hard one. 1237 00:57:25,160 --> 00:57:25,680 Speaker 6: Set it off. 1238 00:57:26,480 --> 00:57:29,200 Speaker 20: It was Rioters, they were ters, for sure. 1239 00:57:30,240 --> 00:57:32,440 Speaker 21: But you know both crews they got, you know, they 1240 00:57:32,520 --> 00:57:36,959 Speaker 21: got something real special. Yeah, I'm gonna plead the fifth 1241 00:57:37,000 --> 00:57:37,160 Speaker 21: on that. 1242 00:57:39,320 --> 00:57:41,520 Speaker 4: I only got two more questions, like, when you having 1243 00:57:41,560 --> 00:57:44,440 Speaker 4: these conversations now, how do you know in your words 1244 00:57:45,000 --> 00:57:49,000 Speaker 4: that this isn't the pseudo guru using rationale and borrowed 1245 00:57:49,040 --> 00:57:50,720 Speaker 4: wisdom to tell. 1246 00:57:50,600 --> 00:57:52,160 Speaker 1: You what you want to hear? 1247 00:57:54,960 --> 00:57:58,360 Speaker 22: Because it sits so beautifully in my heart. 1248 00:57:58,440 --> 00:58:02,640 Speaker 21: Now, what I will say about it, that is, that's 1249 00:58:02,680 --> 00:58:07,120 Speaker 21: why you gotta always stay open because as we continue 1250 00:58:07,160 --> 00:58:11,760 Speaker 21: to grow and learn, you know, it's Bruce Lee said, 1251 00:58:11,800 --> 00:58:14,760 Speaker 21: it best be like water. You know what I mean, 1252 00:58:14,880 --> 00:58:16,720 Speaker 21: Because that's where I'm sitting right now. 1253 00:58:17,400 --> 00:58:19,360 Speaker 20: Who knows when I come back, If you know. 1254 00:58:19,440 --> 00:58:22,439 Speaker 21: What it'll be then because we just gotta stay open, 1255 00:58:22,480 --> 00:58:23,440 Speaker 21: we gotta stay fluid. 1256 00:58:23,520 --> 00:58:30,000 Speaker 20: But for now, it's what speaks to me deeply, you know, 1257 00:58:30,080 --> 00:58:32,360 Speaker 20: And that's all we got, you know, for the moment. 1258 00:58:33,640 --> 00:58:36,439 Speaker 4: My last question, and it's a quote, And the quote 1259 00:58:36,520 --> 00:58:38,880 Speaker 4: is other people's opinion to you, whether it's good or bad, 1260 00:58:38,920 --> 00:58:41,240 Speaker 4: should not be ground And what you base your self worth, 1261 00:58:41,320 --> 00:58:42,880 Speaker 4: your value is inherent within you. 1262 00:58:43,440 --> 00:58:46,040 Speaker 1: What matters the most is whether you know you are worthy. 1263 00:58:47,000 --> 00:58:47,959 Speaker 1: So do you know you're worthy? 1264 00:58:48,200 --> 00:58:51,439 Speaker 20: Absolutely? And you know what it really comes from. 1265 00:58:52,200 --> 00:58:54,600 Speaker 21: And I wanted to say this in regards to the 1266 00:58:54,760 --> 00:59:01,400 Speaker 21: question you asked about self worth really dealing with self judgment, Like, 1267 00:59:01,600 --> 00:59:07,120 Speaker 21: once we can cure our self judgment in a certain manner, right, 1268 00:59:08,480 --> 00:59:12,680 Speaker 21: people's opinion about you can only affect you if you 1269 00:59:12,800 --> 00:59:16,840 Speaker 21: believe it, you know what I mean. Once you really 1270 00:59:16,960 --> 00:59:19,760 Speaker 21: know who you are, once you really know your self worth, 1271 00:59:20,560 --> 00:59:24,200 Speaker 21: anything that anybody else has to say about you really 1272 00:59:24,320 --> 00:59:29,000 Speaker 21: can't affect you, you know. And so you know, I 1273 00:59:29,320 --> 00:59:31,680 Speaker 21: know how much work it's taken for me to get 1274 00:59:31,720 --> 00:59:34,720 Speaker 21: to know myself. I can't expect anybody else to know 1275 00:59:34,880 --> 00:59:39,080 Speaker 21: me like that, you know what I mean? So I 1276 00:59:39,240 --> 00:59:43,240 Speaker 21: have to be willing and accept whatever opinions come my way. 1277 00:59:43,600 --> 00:59:45,800 Speaker 1: I get it. Absolutely. 1278 00:59:46,000 --> 00:59:53,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, gentlemen, thank you. 1279 00:59:53,280 --> 00:59:54,040 Speaker 1: This was beautiful. 1280 00:59:54,080 --> 00:59:55,880 Speaker 6: The book worthy is out right now. Make sure you 1281 00:59:55,960 --> 00:59:56,560 Speaker 6: get it and thank you. 1282 00:59:58,360 --> 00:59:59,760 Speaker 20: No, I won't not at all. 1283 01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:02,400 Speaker 6: It's the Breakfast Cloud, It's Jada Pika Smith. 1284 01:00:03,480 --> 01:00:06,640 Speaker 1: The Breakfast Club. Your mornings will never be the same. 1285 01:00:07,480 --> 01:00:08,840 Speaker 5: I was donkey up to day. 1286 01:00:11,160 --> 01:00:15,920 Speaker 1: Damn he hogged. It's time for donkey the d I 1287 01:00:16,000 --> 01:00:18,360 Speaker 1: ain't trying to be donkey today no more. They should 1288 01:00:18,360 --> 01:00:20,520 Speaker 1: be embarrassed by what they already did. I'm not making 1289 01:00:20,560 --> 01:00:22,600 Speaker 1: these people do these days called Donkey of the Day, 1290 01:00:22,840 --> 01:00:24,880 Speaker 1: and it really caught me off guard. 1291 01:00:25,080 --> 01:00:28,480 Speaker 8: Damn charlamagn who got the donkey out the day today? 1292 01:00:29,600 --> 01:00:29,840 Speaker 5: Wow? 1293 01:00:30,000 --> 01:00:30,760 Speaker 1: Jess hilarious. 1294 01:00:30,880 --> 01:00:33,840 Speaker 4: Donkey Today for Thursday, November sixteenth goes to thirty five 1295 01:00:33,920 --> 01:00:36,520 Speaker 4: year old Joseph Halder. I think I say pronounce his 1296 01:00:36,640 --> 01:00:39,800 Speaker 4: name of a volunteer firefighter from the Upper Peninsula of Michigan. 1297 01:00:39,880 --> 01:00:41,440 Speaker 4: This is one of those ones that caused me to 1298 01:00:41,520 --> 01:00:45,120 Speaker 4: reflect a little. And in my reflection I thought to myself, 1299 01:00:45,440 --> 01:00:47,760 Speaker 4: I wonder if humans are as insane as Donkey of 1300 01:00:47,840 --> 01:00:50,360 Speaker 4: the Day makes them out to be, maybe I need 1301 01:00:50,440 --> 01:00:52,640 Speaker 4: to give humans the benefit of the doubt. Boor and say, hey, 1302 01:00:52,680 --> 01:00:55,280 Speaker 4: it's just me. You're the guy who does Donkey of 1303 01:00:55,320 --> 01:00:57,520 Speaker 4: to day, so you choose to seek out this crazy 1304 01:00:57,720 --> 01:01:00,680 Speaker 4: every day. And since I choose to seek this crazy 1305 01:01:00,840 --> 01:01:03,840 Speaker 4: every day, I attracted crazy by way of stories. Okay, 1306 01:01:03,840 --> 01:01:05,840 Speaker 4: people send me these things and I read them and 1307 01:01:05,920 --> 01:01:07,760 Speaker 4: I can't believe them. So I read them again and 1308 01:01:07,800 --> 01:01:09,360 Speaker 4: I still can't believe them. Then I check out the 1309 01:01:09,440 --> 01:01:11,560 Speaker 4: sauces to make sure that these stories are real because 1310 01:01:11,600 --> 01:01:14,120 Speaker 4: I don't believe them. And every morning we end up here, 1311 01:01:15,000 --> 01:01:17,240 Speaker 4: same donkey time, same donkey channel, and today is really 1312 01:01:17,280 --> 01:01:20,360 Speaker 4: no exception. Salute to all the public servants out there, 1313 01:01:20,760 --> 01:01:23,280 Speaker 4: all the individuals who realize that your true purpose in 1314 01:01:23,320 --> 01:01:25,200 Speaker 4: life is service to others, dropping the clues bombs for 1315 01:01:25,200 --> 01:01:28,400 Speaker 4: those individuals. I told you, Joseph, it is a volunteer 1316 01:01:28,480 --> 01:01:33,280 Speaker 4: filler for firefighter. Volunteer firefighters are absolutely public servants. Being 1317 01:01:33,320 --> 01:01:36,640 Speaker 4: a volunteer firefighter is absolutely an active service. But do 1318 01:01:36,720 --> 01:01:39,200 Speaker 4: you ever think to yourself, well, what if you're a 1319 01:01:39,280 --> 01:01:43,360 Speaker 4: firefighter and there's nothing to do, nobody to serve. What 1320 01:01:43,400 --> 01:01:46,000 Speaker 4: if you're a firefighter and there's no fires to fight 1321 01:01:46,280 --> 01:01:48,560 Speaker 4: because there is no fires? Have you ever thought about 1322 01:01:48,560 --> 01:01:51,680 Speaker 4: that well, Joseph has and you also had a solution. 1323 01:01:51,960 --> 01:01:53,680 Speaker 4: Let's go to WSB channel two for the report. 1324 01:01:53,680 --> 01:01:54,000 Speaker 1: Police. 1325 01:01:54,400 --> 01:01:57,440 Speaker 14: It was the third such structured fighter in the area 1326 01:01:57,840 --> 01:02:00,440 Speaker 14: in a short amount of time, which by self is 1327 01:02:00,520 --> 01:02:01,360 Speaker 14: kind of suspicious. 1328 01:02:01,720 --> 01:02:05,480 Speaker 26: A volunteer firefighter for the Whitefish Township Fire Department was 1329 01:02:05,560 --> 01:02:09,440 Speaker 26: officially charged today for setting a building on fire Saturday night. 1330 01:02:10,160 --> 01:02:13,120 Speaker 26: Joseph Halder was a firefighter on the department for only 1331 01:02:13,120 --> 01:02:15,120 Speaker 26: a few months. Today he stepped in front of a 1332 01:02:15,240 --> 01:02:18,280 Speaker 26: judge for arson. Halder is accused of setting fire to 1333 01:02:18,360 --> 01:02:21,000 Speaker 26: the building that used to house Ruth's Gift Shop in 1334 01:02:21,080 --> 01:02:25,440 Speaker 26: downtown Paradise. Chipwall County Sheriff Mike Bittner was on the 1335 01:02:25,560 --> 01:02:28,960 Speaker 26: scene moments after the call came in. He immediately looked 1336 01:02:28,960 --> 01:02:31,880 Speaker 26: over surveillance footage from a gas station across the street. 1337 01:02:32,240 --> 01:02:35,720 Speaker 26: A short time later, deputies arrested Halder while he was 1338 01:02:35,800 --> 01:02:38,920 Speaker 26: fighting the fire. Helder is charged with third degree arson. 1339 01:02:39,080 --> 01:02:41,960 Speaker 26: He's facing ten years in prison and a twenty thousand 1340 01:02:42,000 --> 01:02:42,640 Speaker 26: dollars fine. 1341 01:02:43,280 --> 01:02:47,560 Speaker 1: Only you can prevent firefighters, firefires. What am I trying 1342 01:02:47,600 --> 01:02:48,600 Speaker 1: to say? Forest fires? 1343 01:02:48,680 --> 01:02:48,760 Speaker 17: Here? 1344 01:02:48,800 --> 01:02:52,120 Speaker 6: You go, okay, firefighters, right, Well, that's right. 1345 01:02:52,280 --> 01:02:54,440 Speaker 4: Only you can prevent farest fires. And you know how 1346 01:02:54,480 --> 01:02:58,000 Speaker 4: you prevent them by not starting them yourself? Okay, starting 1347 01:02:58,040 --> 01:03:01,480 Speaker 4: in my life. This is a literal, physical, tangible example 1348 01:03:01,720 --> 01:03:03,760 Speaker 4: of what self destruction looks like. See when you start 1349 01:03:03,800 --> 01:03:05,920 Speaker 4: going to therapy right and doing the work on yourself 1350 01:03:06,000 --> 01:03:08,200 Speaker 4: and start healing some of these traumas, when you get 1351 01:03:08,240 --> 01:03:09,720 Speaker 4: to the place in your life where you know you 1352 01:03:09,840 --> 01:03:13,240 Speaker 4: start feeling pockets to peace, when you start feeling genuine happiness, 1353 01:03:13,280 --> 01:03:14,000 Speaker 4: when you feel. 1354 01:03:13,840 --> 01:03:16,200 Speaker 1: Joy, you will find a way to start a fire. 1355 01:03:16,720 --> 01:03:16,840 Speaker 12: Right. 1356 01:03:17,320 --> 01:03:19,720 Speaker 4: This man started a fire and then showed up to 1357 01:03:19,760 --> 01:03:21,439 Speaker 4: put out the fire that he helped start. 1358 01:03:21,680 --> 01:03:23,960 Speaker 1: I promise you this is the version of me that 1359 01:03:24,040 --> 01:03:24,560 Speaker 1: I run from. 1360 01:03:24,880 --> 01:03:27,280 Speaker 4: I don't want to start any fires, especially when things 1361 01:03:27,320 --> 01:03:29,040 Speaker 4: are peaceful. When things are peaceful, I want them to 1362 01:03:29,120 --> 01:03:31,360 Speaker 4: remain peaceful. I don't want to go grab a canister 1363 01:03:31,520 --> 01:03:35,120 Speaker 4: something flammable, some fire and set things aflame just because 1364 01:03:35,280 --> 01:03:38,200 Speaker 4: I'm not used to peace. This man, Joseph, was looking 1365 01:03:38,280 --> 01:03:40,440 Speaker 4: for chaos. He was working with the fire department for 1366 01:03:40,560 --> 01:03:43,040 Speaker 4: just a few months, and he wanted action so much 1367 01:03:43,120 --> 01:03:45,840 Speaker 4: so that he started a fire himself and then went 1368 01:03:46,000 --> 01:03:46,640 Speaker 4: to help. 1369 01:03:46,480 --> 01:03:47,080 Speaker 1: Put it out. 1370 01:03:48,280 --> 01:03:52,000 Speaker 4: I know people like this, right, now in corporate America. 1371 01:03:52,760 --> 01:03:55,080 Speaker 4: I know people like this right now in my life. 1372 01:03:55,120 --> 01:03:58,160 Speaker 4: They will create a problem themselves just so they can have. 1373 01:03:58,200 --> 01:04:00,439 Speaker 1: Something to do, just so they have some to fix. 1374 01:04:00,720 --> 01:04:02,320 Speaker 4: Let me tell you something, when you have to do 1375 01:04:02,480 --> 01:04:04,520 Speaker 4: things like that in order to feel like you did something, 1376 01:04:04,760 --> 01:04:06,840 Speaker 4: then you need to do some internal work on yourself, 1377 01:04:06,880 --> 01:04:08,880 Speaker 4: because that don't make any damn sense. 1378 01:04:08,680 --> 01:04:08,960 Speaker 1: All right. 1379 01:04:09,080 --> 01:04:12,080 Speaker 4: Paul Sloan says, the innovative leader has to be an 1380 01:04:12,240 --> 01:04:14,800 Speaker 4: arsonist and a firefighter. But I don't think he meant 1381 01:04:14,880 --> 01:04:17,520 Speaker 4: that literally, Okay, Nor josephs Through, I believe you are 1382 01:04:17,560 --> 01:04:20,080 Speaker 4: an innovative leader. And did you know that roughly it's 1383 01:04:20,120 --> 01:04:23,480 Speaker 4: a fun little snap effect. Roughly one hundred firefighters are 1384 01:04:23,600 --> 01:04:25,240 Speaker 4: convicted of arson each year. 1385 01:04:25,560 --> 01:04:27,880 Speaker 1: It's called firefighter arson. True story. 1386 01:04:27,920 --> 01:04:30,800 Speaker 4: There is a very small minority of firefighters who are 1387 01:04:30,880 --> 01:04:34,320 Speaker 4: also active arsonists. And guess what they say motivates these 1388 01:04:34,360 --> 01:04:39,920 Speaker 4: people boredom okay, are by the prospect of receiving attention 1389 01:04:40,280 --> 01:04:43,760 Speaker 4: for responding to the fires. They have said, sound familiar, Okay, 1390 01:04:44,040 --> 01:04:45,960 Speaker 4: I told y'all earlier this week, I don't mind as 1391 01:04:46,000 --> 01:04:48,760 Speaker 4: the devil's workshop. These folks really don't be having anything 1392 01:04:48,840 --> 01:04:52,160 Speaker 4: to do This is truly the era that has everything 1393 01:04:52,440 --> 01:04:55,720 Speaker 4: and absolutely nothing all at once. And that is because 1394 01:04:55,760 --> 01:04:58,720 Speaker 4: the things you all crave aren't real. You got all 1395 01:04:58,800 --> 01:05:02,040 Speaker 4: these followers on social media, but no real connection to nobody. 1396 01:05:02,480 --> 01:05:04,760 Speaker 4: Your log on every day to a community that's not 1397 01:05:04,840 --> 01:05:08,760 Speaker 4: even a real community. You're seeking validation and attention and 1398 01:05:09,080 --> 01:05:11,919 Speaker 4: likes and retweets and engagement. None of it is real, 1399 01:05:12,240 --> 01:05:14,720 Speaker 4: and that's why you're bored and you resort to doing 1400 01:05:14,840 --> 01:05:15,840 Speaker 4: dumb snicker doodles. 1401 01:05:15,960 --> 01:05:17,840 Speaker 1: That's a bet edit like Joseph did. 1402 01:05:18,240 --> 01:05:20,480 Speaker 4: Now Joseph is facing up to ten years in prison 1403 01:05:20,640 --> 01:05:22,920 Speaker 4: and a twenty thousand dollars fine, and he's a person 1404 01:05:22,960 --> 01:05:25,400 Speaker 4: of interest and at least two other fires in the area. 1405 01:05:26,680 --> 01:05:29,200 Speaker 4: Some donkey today is just sell themselves. Please let me 1406 01:05:29,200 --> 01:05:31,280 Speaker 4: remind give Joseph Handler the biggest he. 1407 01:05:31,360 --> 01:05:33,280 Speaker 1: Huh hee ha he ha. 1408 01:05:33,880 --> 01:05:35,280 Speaker 3: You stupid motherfucker? 1409 01:05:35,280 --> 01:05:36,080 Speaker 1: Are you dumb? 1410 01:05:36,200 --> 01:05:39,080 Speaker 4: I can't believe you'll be doing this snicker doodles? And 1411 01:05:39,240 --> 01:05:41,960 Speaker 4: don't be Joseph Hadler. Okay, don't start a fire just 1412 01:05:42,080 --> 01:05:44,480 Speaker 4: to have something to do. Not only that, there's some 1413 01:05:44,680 --> 01:05:47,640 Speaker 4: of us who will set ourselves on fire to keep 1414 01:05:47,720 --> 01:05:50,080 Speaker 4: others warm. That means you put other people's knees in 1415 01:05:50,120 --> 01:05:53,560 Speaker 4: front of your own. You do know that's not sustainable, right, okay, 1416 01:05:54,080 --> 01:05:56,440 Speaker 4: just so we're clear, all right, Well, thank you for 1417 01:05:56,480 --> 01:05:57,440 Speaker 4: that donkey today, sir. 1418 01:05:58,280 --> 01:06:00,640 Speaker 6: Now when we come back, well first be et will 1419 01:06:00,640 --> 01:06:03,480 Speaker 6: see them all piece be et now when we come back. 1420 01:06:03,560 --> 01:06:06,360 Speaker 6: Jada Pickett Smith, she was on the show Last Home. 1421 01:06:06,440 --> 01:06:07,760 Speaker 6: We spoke to her for what over an hour? 1422 01:06:09,040 --> 01:06:11,680 Speaker 1: H sure? Yeah, we spoke to her for over whole 1423 01:06:11,720 --> 01:06:13,640 Speaker 1: conversation is on YouTube, by the way. Yeah, you cans 1424 01:06:13,680 --> 01:06:15,080 Speaker 1: into it right now, watch it right now. 1425 01:06:15,880 --> 01:06:19,680 Speaker 6: She talked about in relationships and in marriages, having friends 1426 01:06:19,840 --> 01:06:22,040 Speaker 6: with the opposite sex, and this. 1427 01:06:22,120 --> 01:06:23,080 Speaker 1: Is what she actually said. 1428 01:06:23,400 --> 01:06:26,320 Speaker 6: When Will was up here, he talked about being insecure 1429 01:06:26,360 --> 01:06:30,320 Speaker 6: a little bit about Tupac. Did y'all ever have that conversation? 1430 01:06:30,480 --> 01:06:33,360 Speaker 6: Because as a man, when you're a little insecure, I 1431 01:06:33,480 --> 01:06:35,480 Speaker 6: almost feel like you play both sides. You want to 1432 01:06:35,480 --> 01:06:37,120 Speaker 6: be yourself, but you want to show that you're better 1433 01:06:37,200 --> 01:06:39,560 Speaker 6: than the person that's making him insecured. Did y'all ever 1434 01:06:39,680 --> 01:06:40,560 Speaker 6: have that conversation? 1435 01:06:41,000 --> 01:06:43,720 Speaker 20: I wouldn't say that we had conversations in that way. 1436 01:06:44,040 --> 01:06:46,760 Speaker 21: It was just like, you know, we came up in 1437 01:06:46,840 --> 01:06:51,360 Speaker 21: the era where it was so unusual for a man 1438 01:06:51,480 --> 01:06:53,160 Speaker 21: and a woman to be friends. 1439 01:06:53,400 --> 01:06:56,040 Speaker 20: In our era, that was just like friends, they had 1440 01:06:56,080 --> 01:06:58,400 Speaker 20: to be dating. Yeah, like what what right? 1441 01:06:58,520 --> 01:07:03,520 Speaker 21: And so I think for him it was just like 1442 01:07:03,680 --> 01:07:08,240 Speaker 21: getting your mind around around that, you know, and that 1443 01:07:08,640 --> 01:07:11,840 Speaker 21: the kind of friendship that we had, because we had 1444 01:07:12,000 --> 01:07:17,760 Speaker 21: such a you know, tight friendship that you know, was 1445 01:07:18,000 --> 01:07:19,360 Speaker 21: very impactful on my life. 1446 01:07:20,320 --> 01:07:23,000 Speaker 6: All right, So let's discuss eight hundred and five eight 1447 01:07:23,120 --> 01:07:25,880 Speaker 6: five one oh five to one. When you're in a relationship, 1448 01:07:26,960 --> 01:07:29,320 Speaker 6: is it okay for your spouse or your significant other 1449 01:07:29,400 --> 01:07:32,000 Speaker 6: to have friends of the opposite sex, not. 1450 01:07:32,120 --> 01:07:33,600 Speaker 1: Even just in marriage, but in life. 1451 01:07:33,640 --> 01:07:35,880 Speaker 4: You can have platonic friendships like I got wave of 1452 01:07:35,960 --> 01:07:37,880 Speaker 4: homegirls and I got homeboys, and a lot of times 1453 01:07:38,000 --> 01:07:40,880 Speaker 4: a lot of these people are grandfathered in, like you know, 1454 01:07:40,960 --> 01:07:44,400 Speaker 4: y'all been friends forever, you know what I mean. And 1455 01:07:44,480 --> 01:07:46,800 Speaker 4: another thing Jada said during that conversation, she was like, 1456 01:07:47,160 --> 01:07:49,320 Speaker 4: she didn't say, you know, we're not talking about new people, 1457 01:07:49,520 --> 01:07:52,040 Speaker 4: talking about people that have been around for a long time. 1458 01:07:52,760 --> 01:07:54,480 Speaker 7: And it kind of helps you too, like in your 1459 01:07:54,560 --> 01:07:57,720 Speaker 7: relationship to have friends that are of the opposite sex. 1460 01:07:58,000 --> 01:08:00,160 Speaker 7: So when you vent or not telling them, you're you know, 1461 01:08:00,280 --> 01:08:02,120 Speaker 7: personal business. But when you tell them what's going on, 1462 01:08:02,440 --> 01:08:05,000 Speaker 7: they give you a perspective that your significant other might 1463 01:08:05,080 --> 01:08:06,560 Speaker 7: have and kind of balance it out. 1464 01:08:06,560 --> 01:08:08,080 Speaker 3: You don't have a whole lot of yes men about yo. 1465 01:08:08,160 --> 01:08:10,200 Speaker 3: I feel you, bro, No, I don't feel you. 1466 01:08:10,240 --> 01:08:12,680 Speaker 6: You messed up or it can hurt you know, Like 1467 01:08:12,840 --> 01:08:16,160 Speaker 6: Charlemagne said, no new friends, no new people coming around. 1468 01:08:16,439 --> 01:08:18,320 Speaker 6: If that, if the individual is a new then we 1469 01:08:18,439 --> 01:08:21,160 Speaker 6: all friends. Right, we all speak, but it ain't. 1470 01:08:21,280 --> 01:08:21,680 Speaker 1: It ain't a. 1471 01:08:21,720 --> 01:08:24,840 Speaker 6: Situation where you just speak to my wife or I 1472 01:08:25,040 --> 01:08:27,559 Speaker 6: just speak to her. No, no, no, no, We all friends, but. 1473 01:08:27,640 --> 01:08:31,320 Speaker 7: Even even old friendships should still be We all friends. 1474 01:08:31,439 --> 01:08:32,200 Speaker 1: Absolutely. Yeah. 1475 01:08:32,880 --> 01:08:34,960 Speaker 6: Yeah, So let's discuss eight hundred and five eight five 1476 01:08:35,040 --> 01:08:36,680 Speaker 6: one oh five one. What are your thoughts? Phone lines 1477 01:08:36,760 --> 01:08:40,120 Speaker 6: wide open. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning the Breakfast Club. 1478 01:08:46,240 --> 01:08:46,400 Speaker 13: Man. 1479 01:08:46,760 --> 01:08:47,599 Speaker 1: It's topic time. 1480 01:08:49,200 --> 01:08:51,000 Speaker 2: Eight hundred five eight five one oh five one to 1481 01:08:51,080 --> 01:08:52,960 Speaker 2: join into the discussion with the Breakfast Club. 1482 01:08:54,600 --> 01:08:55,360 Speaker 1: More than everybody. 1483 01:08:55,400 --> 01:08:58,200 Speaker 6: It's dj en V Charlemagne, the God. We are the 1484 01:08:58,240 --> 01:09:01,120 Speaker 6: Breakfast Club. Now if you just joining us, we're talking 1485 01:09:01,120 --> 01:09:02,240 Speaker 6: about Jada Pinkins Smith. 1486 01:09:02,320 --> 01:09:03,559 Speaker 1: She was on the show earlier. 1487 01:09:03,800 --> 01:09:05,920 Speaker 6: By the way, we have our guest co host, Easy 1488 01:09:06,000 --> 01:09:08,400 Speaker 6: baby with us this morning as well, and we were 1489 01:09:08,479 --> 01:09:12,160 Speaker 6: talking about in relationships, marriages or whatever it may be 1490 01:09:12,560 --> 01:09:15,760 Speaker 6: your significant other, having a friend of the opposite sex. Now, 1491 01:09:15,840 --> 01:09:18,200 Speaker 6: this is what Jada Pinkinsmith said when we was up here. 1492 01:09:18,200 --> 01:09:22,120 Speaker 6: He talked about being insecure a little bit about Tupac. 1493 01:09:22,960 --> 01:09:25,599 Speaker 6: Did y'all ever have that conversation? Because as a man, 1494 01:09:25,680 --> 01:09:28,400 Speaker 6: when you're a little insecure, I almost feel like you 1495 01:09:28,520 --> 01:09:30,120 Speaker 6: play both sides. You want to be yourself, but you 1496 01:09:30,200 --> 01:09:32,000 Speaker 6: want to show that you're better than the person that's 1497 01:09:32,040 --> 01:09:34,599 Speaker 6: making him insecured. Did y'all ever have that conversation? 1498 01:09:35,040 --> 01:09:37,760 Speaker 20: I wouldn't say that we had conversations in that way. 1499 01:09:38,080 --> 01:09:40,800 Speaker 21: It was just like, you know, we came up in 1500 01:09:40,880 --> 01:09:45,439 Speaker 21: the era where it was so unusual for a man 1501 01:09:45,520 --> 01:09:46,840 Speaker 21: and a woman to be friends. 1502 01:09:47,479 --> 01:09:49,759 Speaker 20: In our era, that was just like friends. 1503 01:09:49,840 --> 01:09:50,559 Speaker 1: They had to be dating. 1504 01:09:50,680 --> 01:09:52,439 Speaker 20: Yeah, like what what right? 1505 01:09:52,600 --> 01:09:57,600 Speaker 21: And so I think for him it was just like 1506 01:09:57,720 --> 01:10:02,120 Speaker 21: getting your mind around a around that, you know, and 1507 01:10:02,280 --> 01:10:05,160 Speaker 21: that the kind of friendship that we had because we 1508 01:10:05,760 --> 01:10:11,320 Speaker 21: had such a you know, tight friendship that you know, 1509 01:10:11,640 --> 01:10:13,400 Speaker 21: it was very impactful on my life. 1510 01:10:13,720 --> 01:10:15,800 Speaker 6: All right, let's discuss what are your thoughts that start 1511 01:10:15,800 --> 01:10:15,960 Speaker 6: with you? 1512 01:10:16,040 --> 01:10:16,560 Speaker 1: Baby? 1513 01:10:17,080 --> 01:10:17,400 Speaker 3: I don't know. 1514 01:10:17,479 --> 01:10:21,640 Speaker 7: I feel like relationships with the opposite sex are necessary, 1515 01:10:21,880 --> 01:10:23,519 Speaker 7: Like how can you just be in this world and 1516 01:10:23,680 --> 01:10:26,439 Speaker 7: just be around people that have the same private parts 1517 01:10:26,520 --> 01:10:30,200 Speaker 7: you have? You're gonna you may streamline your thinking, you 1518 01:10:30,320 --> 01:10:33,120 Speaker 7: can't really get opposed you know, feelings or thoughts. 1519 01:10:33,160 --> 01:10:34,160 Speaker 3: So I think it's necessary. 1520 01:10:34,240 --> 01:10:36,160 Speaker 7: But I think you also have to have respect for 1521 01:10:36,240 --> 01:10:38,840 Speaker 7: your partner, Like I would marry somebody that didn't trust 1522 01:10:38,920 --> 01:10:41,360 Speaker 7: me in a room without them. So you gotta trust 1523 01:10:41,400 --> 01:10:43,120 Speaker 7: that I'm gonna put you first, and I'm gonna honor 1524 01:10:43,479 --> 01:10:45,519 Speaker 7: the vows that I made to you, and that you 1525 01:10:45,560 --> 01:10:48,120 Speaker 7: know I'm not gonna put nobody in our circle that 1526 01:10:48,200 --> 01:10:49,519 Speaker 7: could threaten what we got. 1527 01:10:49,680 --> 01:10:53,439 Speaker 6: So yeah, and in my relationship with me and my wife, 1528 01:10:53,960 --> 01:10:56,240 Speaker 6: we don't really trust too many people. So for us, 1529 01:10:56,320 --> 01:11:00,200 Speaker 6: it has to be mutual friends, right, meaning you know, 1530 01:11:00,439 --> 01:11:02,559 Speaker 6: we meet them together and not like not like Charlomage 1531 01:11:02,560 --> 01:11:04,120 Speaker 6: said earlier, like I can't just meet you at the 1532 01:11:04,160 --> 01:11:05,800 Speaker 6: grocery store and now we're friends, and it's not going 1533 01:11:05,840 --> 01:11:07,120 Speaker 6: to be like that. It has to be some type 1534 01:11:07,120 --> 01:11:10,320 Speaker 6: of establishment, and my wife has to approve, and with her, 1535 01:11:10,439 --> 01:11:13,200 Speaker 6: I have to approve. Outside of that, No, we're not 1536 01:11:13,320 --> 01:11:15,519 Speaker 6: taking on new friends, and we it has to be 1537 01:11:16,000 --> 01:11:18,280 Speaker 6: our friends, Like I mean, I should be able to 1538 01:11:18,360 --> 01:11:19,800 Speaker 6: call that person like you should be able to call 1539 01:11:19,840 --> 01:11:22,679 Speaker 6: that person. It should be a cohesive type of situation. 1540 01:11:23,439 --> 01:11:26,280 Speaker 1: Charlamagne. Yeah, I never even think about it until this 1541 01:11:26,360 --> 01:11:27,120 Speaker 1: discussion comes up. 1542 01:11:27,160 --> 01:11:31,560 Speaker 4: I got mad homegirls, right, yeah, my homegirls and my 1543 01:11:31,640 --> 01:11:32,439 Speaker 4: wives friends too. 1544 01:11:32,840 --> 01:11:35,080 Speaker 1: In fact, they probably like her more than they like me. 1545 01:11:35,520 --> 01:11:37,879 Speaker 6: Everybody does, like, so I don't. 1546 01:11:37,680 --> 01:11:40,800 Speaker 1: Even like this discussion is like very it's silly to me, 1547 01:11:40,840 --> 01:11:41,479 Speaker 1: it's immature. 1548 01:11:41,640 --> 01:11:43,400 Speaker 4: You know, a lot of people feel that way because 1549 01:11:43,520 --> 01:11:46,479 Speaker 4: sometimes they got insecurities and they immature, or it's. 1550 01:11:46,400 --> 01:11:49,000 Speaker 6: New friends, and sometimes people are not around for the 1551 01:11:49,080 --> 01:11:51,639 Speaker 6: right reason. And we know this, and I know especially 1552 01:11:51,800 --> 01:11:53,719 Speaker 6: and I hate to say this, a lot of fellas 1553 01:11:53,800 --> 01:11:56,320 Speaker 6: sometimes will try to befriend your girl, not because they 1554 01:11:56,400 --> 01:11:58,880 Speaker 6: want to be a friend, your girl's friend, they want 1555 01:11:58,920 --> 01:11:59,640 Speaker 6: to smash Well. 1556 01:11:59,640 --> 01:12:01,760 Speaker 4: I'm never trying to befriend nobody. I'm never trying to 1557 01:12:01,800 --> 01:12:04,479 Speaker 4: befriend a man's girl. Like that's not happening. 1558 01:12:04,560 --> 01:12:05,400 Speaker 1: Like people do that. 1559 01:12:05,479 --> 01:12:09,200 Speaker 4: There's reasons why, you know, either your friends or your 1560 01:12:09,240 --> 01:12:11,639 Speaker 4: friends or even these new people who may come into 1561 01:12:11,640 --> 01:12:14,000 Speaker 4: your life, y'all, might work together, you know what I mean, 1562 01:12:14,120 --> 01:12:15,920 Speaker 4: y'all might be doing projects together. 1563 01:12:16,120 --> 01:12:18,800 Speaker 1: Like anytime I'm gonna be spending time. 1564 01:12:18,600 --> 01:12:21,160 Speaker 4: With anyone, my wife is gonna know who that person is, 1565 01:12:21,280 --> 01:12:22,519 Speaker 4: you know what I mean, whether it's a man or 1566 01:12:22,560 --> 01:12:25,400 Speaker 4: a woman. Hey, we're doing such and such with this individual, 1567 01:12:25,520 --> 01:12:28,639 Speaker 4: or hey, we're all going out to dinner. We're all 1568 01:12:28,760 --> 01:12:30,720 Speaker 4: going My wife is gonna be to everybody like, there's 1569 01:12:30,760 --> 01:12:33,519 Speaker 4: no woman in my life that's my friend, that ain't 1570 01:12:33,600 --> 01:12:34,400 Speaker 4: out wife. 1571 01:12:34,760 --> 01:12:37,160 Speaker 7: And a lot of people are taking like teenage drama 1572 01:12:37,600 --> 01:12:40,840 Speaker 7: into big age relationships, Like you know, you had to 1573 01:12:40,840 --> 01:12:42,960 Speaker 7: worry about this stuff in high school. People break up 1574 01:12:42,960 --> 01:12:44,840 Speaker 7: and get together with a new person next week. It's 1575 01:12:44,880 --> 01:12:46,160 Speaker 7: really not the same when you're forty. 1576 01:12:46,280 --> 01:12:48,960 Speaker 4: If you can't have a platonic relationship with somebody from 1577 01:12:48,960 --> 01:12:50,560 Speaker 4: the opposite sex, something wrong with you. 1578 01:12:50,720 --> 01:12:50,800 Speaker 23: Bro. 1579 01:12:51,080 --> 01:12:53,000 Speaker 1: Let's go to the phone lines. We have dupre on 1580 01:12:53,080 --> 01:12:53,360 Speaker 1: the line. 1581 01:12:53,400 --> 01:12:56,200 Speaker 18: Dupre man, what's the djella money? 1582 01:12:56,240 --> 01:12:59,280 Speaker 1: And I guess, busy baby, what's up? Dupree talk to us? 1583 01:12:59,320 --> 01:13:02,000 Speaker 18: Dupre so I was I was listening for what Jedi 1584 01:13:02,080 --> 01:13:04,240 Speaker 18: was talking about. I definitely got female friends. I don't 1585 01:13:04,240 --> 01:13:07,080 Speaker 18: really hang out with dudes. And my baby mama who's 1586 01:13:07,120 --> 01:13:09,439 Speaker 18: now my fiance. She don't really be liking it. 1587 01:13:09,600 --> 01:13:10,240 Speaker 13: She's jealous and. 1588 01:13:10,240 --> 01:13:10,760 Speaker 14: Stuff like that. 1589 01:13:11,160 --> 01:13:12,880 Speaker 11: There and they just had a party and I'm like, 1590 01:13:12,960 --> 01:13:14,040 Speaker 11: and I'm trying to go to the party. 1591 01:13:14,080 --> 01:13:15,599 Speaker 18: She's like, no, you ain't going. 1592 01:13:15,640 --> 01:13:18,280 Speaker 11: They be working and stuff, and I'm like, gonna meet it. 1593 01:13:18,840 --> 01:13:21,320 Speaker 6: Yeah, but why would you bring your baby mama there? 1594 01:13:21,720 --> 01:13:22,600 Speaker 6: Why would you bring what you? 1595 01:13:23,800 --> 01:13:25,320 Speaker 14: So when they hit me with the invite, I'm like, 1596 01:13:25,680 --> 01:13:27,439 Speaker 14: since we just got to get it, I'm like, man, 1597 01:13:27,520 --> 01:13:29,000 Speaker 14: I know she gonna want to come, and they was like, 1598 01:13:29,120 --> 01:13:31,280 Speaker 14: that's cool, she could come, but she still was do 1599 01:13:31,520 --> 01:13:33,920 Speaker 14: some type of ways. So I'm like, man, whatever, I 1600 01:13:34,080 --> 01:13:35,880 Speaker 14: end up not going, like I just want to sleep. 1601 01:13:36,120 --> 01:13:37,280 Speaker 13: I wake up in the morning and. 1602 01:13:37,280 --> 01:13:38,240 Speaker 14: Looked on social media. 1603 01:13:38,600 --> 01:13:40,400 Speaker 18: They definitely was working, so it was just. 1604 01:13:40,520 --> 01:13:43,280 Speaker 11: Like after they do though, I like getting around me 1605 01:13:43,320 --> 01:13:45,240 Speaker 11: shout out to the homegirls, man for real, for real. 1606 01:13:45,439 --> 01:13:48,280 Speaker 7: But if if you had included her in that friendship 1607 01:13:48,320 --> 01:13:49,840 Speaker 7: from the beginning, it wouldn't have been. 1608 01:13:49,880 --> 01:13:51,639 Speaker 3: Days working, it would have been weeds working. 1609 01:13:51,800 --> 01:13:52,320 Speaker 20: It would have been a. 1610 01:13:52,320 --> 01:13:55,840 Speaker 11: Home But I was always then made her friends though, 1611 01:13:55,920 --> 01:13:58,760 Speaker 11: so like I can understand like them mad with your 1612 01:13:58,760 --> 01:14:00,519 Speaker 11: friends that you ain't gonna really want to around them 1613 01:14:00,560 --> 01:14:01,240 Speaker 11: girls because you don't know. 1614 01:14:01,479 --> 01:14:04,559 Speaker 3: But hold that bright. You supposed to be the bridge 1615 01:14:04,640 --> 01:14:05,360 Speaker 3: between that though. 1616 01:14:05,439 --> 01:14:07,200 Speaker 7: You supposed to be the bridge between your friends and 1617 01:14:07,280 --> 01:14:09,639 Speaker 7: your girlfriend, and that that should have already been better 1618 01:14:09,680 --> 01:14:10,120 Speaker 7: than it is. 1619 01:14:10,439 --> 01:14:12,400 Speaker 11: I would say for the most part, she was cool 1620 01:14:12,439 --> 01:14:15,640 Speaker 11: with something like, you know, that's on you not I 1621 01:14:15,760 --> 01:14:17,320 Speaker 11: wanted to come around. You could have came around. 1622 01:14:17,439 --> 01:14:18,200 Speaker 1: Even when you cool. 1623 01:14:19,080 --> 01:14:21,000 Speaker 6: You was like I got the invitation. You was like, damn, 1624 01:14:21,000 --> 01:14:22,280 Speaker 6: you know my wife gonna you know, you know I 1625 01:14:22,360 --> 01:14:24,200 Speaker 6: have to bring her. You didn't say, you didn't make 1626 01:14:24,240 --> 01:14:25,840 Speaker 6: it seem like she was invited to. 1627 01:14:29,080 --> 01:14:30,080 Speaker 5: Her friends be kicking it. 1628 01:14:30,439 --> 01:14:32,080 Speaker 13: I ain't chilling with this, you know what I mean? 1629 01:14:32,200 --> 01:14:34,120 Speaker 11: You go with your friends. These are my friends. 1630 01:14:34,200 --> 01:14:34,960 Speaker 5: This is who I grew up with. 1631 01:14:35,000 --> 01:14:36,400 Speaker 11: I've been knowing them to seventh. 1632 01:14:36,120 --> 01:14:36,840 Speaker 5: Grade, you know what I mean. 1633 01:14:36,960 --> 01:14:39,400 Speaker 11: We're thirty years old now. So it's like at any 1634 01:14:39,439 --> 01:14:41,760 Speaker 11: point in time you like, oh, yeah, i've been I've 1635 01:14:41,760 --> 01:14:43,040 Speaker 11: been knew there was your homegirls. 1636 01:14:43,040 --> 01:14:43,920 Speaker 5: I'm just gonna hang with y'all. 1637 01:14:43,920 --> 01:14:46,360 Speaker 11: I don't have plenty of girls. I'm kicking it with y'all, 1638 01:14:46,479 --> 01:14:48,200 Speaker 11: you know what I mean. But that's on you to 1639 01:14:48,320 --> 01:14:50,200 Speaker 11: choose felt some type of way you never want. 1640 01:14:50,080 --> 01:14:50,800 Speaker 10: To come na. 1641 01:14:54,439 --> 01:14:56,680 Speaker 1: Like BZ said, you gotta be the bridge bro like you. 1642 01:14:57,320 --> 01:14:59,519 Speaker 4: And if those are really your friends, they gonna absolutely 1643 01:14:59,600 --> 01:15:02,080 Speaker 4: not only want to meet your fiance, they don't want 1644 01:15:02,080 --> 01:15:03,920 Speaker 4: to accept her and embrace her as a friend too. 1645 01:15:04,600 --> 01:15:06,679 Speaker 6: Hello who's this Yanni? 1646 01:15:06,960 --> 01:15:11,240 Speaker 1: Hey, Yanni, good morning to talk to us like the egg, no, 1647 01:15:11,560 --> 01:15:13,720 Speaker 1: like the pi and not the tis. 1648 01:15:14,520 --> 01:15:15,800 Speaker 5: What All right? Go ahead? 1649 01:15:17,240 --> 01:15:17,599 Speaker 10: Yanni? 1650 01:15:18,840 --> 01:15:24,240 Speaker 15: Okay, Okay, So my take on this is like, I'm 1651 01:15:24,479 --> 01:15:27,759 Speaker 15: I'm a girl that have really don't have many female 1652 01:15:27,840 --> 01:15:31,640 Speaker 15: friends because just acts funny sometimes. But I believe like 1653 01:15:31,720 --> 01:15:33,600 Speaker 15: you guys are saying, if you have a friend that 1654 01:15:33,720 --> 01:15:35,920 Speaker 15: you've had for a long time, then everyone should be 1655 01:15:36,040 --> 01:15:38,920 Speaker 15: friends and everyone should be comfortable with it. For a girl, 1656 01:15:39,000 --> 01:15:42,559 Speaker 15: it's easy to have dudes as friends because they're gonna think, 1657 01:15:42,640 --> 01:15:44,479 Speaker 15: I know how I get down. They're gonna think one 1658 01:15:44,560 --> 01:15:46,759 Speaker 15: day maybe it might happen, but they're gonna still continue 1659 01:15:46,800 --> 01:15:47,360 Speaker 15: to be loyal. 1660 01:15:48,080 --> 01:15:49,320 Speaker 18: I think when the dude. 1661 01:15:49,200 --> 01:15:51,559 Speaker 15: Has a female friend, they be It's more like if 1662 01:15:51,640 --> 01:15:54,839 Speaker 15: he ify even if you get to know them, because 1663 01:15:55,680 --> 01:15:57,040 Speaker 15: I don't know I'm a female, I don't know how 1664 01:15:57,080 --> 01:15:59,840 Speaker 15: females get down, So I wouldn't be really comfortable with that. 1665 01:16:00,640 --> 01:16:02,479 Speaker 15: But on my part, I was I wouldn't have a 1666 01:16:02,520 --> 01:16:05,559 Speaker 15: bottom with having my dude friends and that was my dude. 1667 01:16:05,640 --> 01:16:05,800 Speaker 13: You know. 1668 01:16:06,080 --> 01:16:08,640 Speaker 7: So you are right with it because you feel like 1669 01:16:08,720 --> 01:16:11,320 Speaker 7: you can control whether or not it goes down because 1670 01:16:11,680 --> 01:16:14,320 Speaker 7: you know you're giving them access or you're denying access. 1671 01:16:14,479 --> 01:16:16,280 Speaker 7: But when it comes to your man, you feel like 1672 01:16:16,320 --> 01:16:19,000 Speaker 7: he can't control himself. He just if they open it up, 1673 01:16:19,040 --> 01:16:19,920 Speaker 7: he just diving in. 1674 01:16:20,600 --> 01:16:24,200 Speaker 15: Well I'm not saying totally, but you know, I mean personally, 1675 01:16:24,240 --> 01:16:27,280 Speaker 15: I just feel like guys got that little extra okay 1676 01:16:27,439 --> 01:16:29,880 Speaker 15: maybe or you know, let it get a little too closed, 1677 01:16:30,240 --> 01:16:32,240 Speaker 15: you know, withisper in his ears are like, nah, we're 1678 01:16:32,280 --> 01:16:32,760 Speaker 15: not doing that. 1679 01:16:33,080 --> 01:16:34,719 Speaker 5: So no Oka. 1680 01:16:34,920 --> 01:16:37,400 Speaker 6: Thank you, Yanni eight hundred and five eight five one 1681 01:16:37,479 --> 01:16:39,280 Speaker 6: oh five one. If you're just joining us, we're talking 1682 01:16:39,320 --> 01:16:42,559 Speaker 6: about Jada Pink Smith. Something she said during our interview 1683 01:16:42,680 --> 01:16:46,120 Speaker 6: about uh, men having women friends and women having men friends. 1684 01:16:46,120 --> 01:16:47,920 Speaker 6: We'll discuss when we come back as the Breakfast Club. 1685 01:16:47,960 --> 01:16:49,920 Speaker 1: Good morning, it's topic time. 1686 01:16:52,439 --> 01:16:53,600 Speaker 3: The phone. 1687 01:16:55,200 --> 01:16:57,240 Speaker 2: Called eight hundred and five eight five five one to 1688 01:16:57,320 --> 01:16:59,959 Speaker 2: join into the discussion with the Breakfast Club talking. 1689 01:16:59,720 --> 01:17:01,639 Speaker 1: About it wearing everybody. 1690 01:17:01,680 --> 01:17:05,360 Speaker 6: It's DJ Envy, CHARLAMAGNEA God. We are to Breakfast Club 1691 01:17:05,439 --> 01:17:07,920 Speaker 6: now if you're just joining us. Jada Pinkett Smith was 1692 01:17:08,240 --> 01:17:11,519 Speaker 6: here last hour. We were talking about men having women 1693 01:17:11,640 --> 01:17:13,680 Speaker 6: friends and women having men friends, and this is how 1694 01:17:13,720 --> 01:17:16,120 Speaker 6: a conversation started. When we was up here, he talked 1695 01:17:16,120 --> 01:17:20,840 Speaker 6: about being insecure a little bit about Tupac. Did y'all 1696 01:17:20,880 --> 01:17:23,519 Speaker 6: ever have that conversation? Because as a man, when you're 1697 01:17:23,520 --> 01:17:26,719 Speaker 6: a little insecure, I almost feel like you play both sides. 1698 01:17:26,720 --> 01:17:28,160 Speaker 6: You want to be yourself, but you want to show 1699 01:17:28,160 --> 01:17:30,360 Speaker 6: that you're better than the person that's making him insecure. 1700 01:17:30,600 --> 01:17:32,120 Speaker 6: Did y'all ever have that conversation? 1701 01:17:32,560 --> 01:17:35,280 Speaker 20: I wouldn't say that we had conversations in that way. 1702 01:17:35,600 --> 01:17:38,320 Speaker 21: It was just like, you know, we came up in 1703 01:17:38,400 --> 01:17:42,920 Speaker 21: the era where it was so unusual for a man 1704 01:17:43,040 --> 01:17:44,360 Speaker 21: and a woman to be friends. 1705 01:17:44,960 --> 01:17:47,240 Speaker 20: In our era, that was just like friends. 1706 01:17:47,360 --> 01:17:48,080 Speaker 1: They had to be dating. 1707 01:17:48,160 --> 01:17:49,080 Speaker 20: Yeah, like what what? 1708 01:17:49,800 --> 01:17:49,960 Speaker 17: Right? 1709 01:17:50,080 --> 01:17:55,080 Speaker 21: And so I think for him it was just like 1710 01:17:55,240 --> 01:17:59,760 Speaker 21: getting your mind around around that, you know, and that 1711 01:18:00,479 --> 01:18:03,400 Speaker 21: the kind of friendship that we had because we had 1712 01:18:03,560 --> 01:18:08,840 Speaker 21: such a you know, tight friendship that you know. 1713 01:18:09,320 --> 01:18:10,920 Speaker 20: Was very impactful on my life. 1714 01:18:11,520 --> 01:18:13,880 Speaker 6: So we're asking eight hundred five eighty five one oh 1715 01:18:13,960 --> 01:18:16,960 Speaker 6: five to one, what are your thoughts now? Beasy Baby, 1716 01:18:16,960 --> 01:18:19,400 Speaker 6: as our guest co host today, she feels like men 1717 01:18:19,439 --> 01:18:21,559 Speaker 6: should have women friends and women should have men friends. 1718 01:18:21,760 --> 01:18:23,680 Speaker 7: Yeah, you have to now, you can't be a well 1719 01:18:23,760 --> 01:18:26,080 Speaker 7: rounded individual just walking around with a whole bunch of 1720 01:18:26,320 --> 01:18:27,680 Speaker 7: I don't want to be in a room full of 1721 01:18:27,720 --> 01:18:28,479 Speaker 7: nothing but vagina. 1722 01:18:28,960 --> 01:18:29,120 Speaker 13: You know. 1723 01:18:29,200 --> 01:18:32,479 Speaker 3: I feel like I grew up with the all brothers. 1724 01:18:32,840 --> 01:18:35,200 Speaker 7: You know, they teach me things about myself and about 1725 01:18:35,320 --> 01:18:37,759 Speaker 7: men that I need to know. So as I get older, 1726 01:18:38,080 --> 01:18:40,160 Speaker 7: I don't know. I got male best friends, and my 1727 01:18:40,280 --> 01:18:42,240 Speaker 7: husband's cool with that, and I'm okay with him having 1728 01:18:42,280 --> 01:18:44,280 Speaker 7: girlfriends dis respect absolutely. 1729 01:18:44,439 --> 01:18:46,439 Speaker 6: Like the caller said earlier that the thing that he 1730 01:18:46,600 --> 01:18:47,960 Speaker 6: was saying that, you know, he didn't know if he 1731 01:18:47,960 --> 01:18:50,680 Speaker 6: wanted to bring his fiance around his other friends. I'm 1732 01:18:50,720 --> 01:18:53,240 Speaker 6: the different. I'm totally different. When I go out, Baby, 1733 01:18:53,240 --> 01:18:54,519 Speaker 6: you want to come because I'm going to have just 1734 01:18:54,560 --> 01:18:56,679 Speaker 6: as much friend with the homies than with my wife 1735 01:18:56,720 --> 01:18:59,080 Speaker 6: as well. Like anybody ever see me out or I've 1736 01:18:59,080 --> 01:19:00,960 Speaker 6: been out anywhere, I've been my wife with me. I 1737 01:19:01,040 --> 01:19:02,880 Speaker 6: have a great time with my wife. I drink my 1738 01:19:02,920 --> 01:19:03,439 Speaker 6: wife drink. 1739 01:19:03,479 --> 01:19:04,120 Speaker 1: It don't matter. 1740 01:19:04,200 --> 01:19:06,120 Speaker 6: We have a good time. If we go to a 1741 01:19:06,200 --> 01:19:08,160 Speaker 6: strip club, we both tipp it. If we go to 1742 01:19:08,680 --> 01:19:10,840 Speaker 6: I don't know, casina, we both gambling, like we have 1743 01:19:11,080 --> 01:19:11,960 Speaker 6: that much fun. 1744 01:19:12,160 --> 01:19:15,360 Speaker 7: But it's a little questionable when somebody sends an invite 1745 01:19:15,439 --> 01:19:18,320 Speaker 7: to DJ Envy as opposed to you and your wife, 1746 01:19:18,400 --> 01:19:20,599 Speaker 7: Like the invite should be coming to both of you anyway, 1747 01:19:20,800 --> 01:19:21,639 Speaker 7: one hundred percent. 1748 01:19:22,080 --> 01:19:23,720 Speaker 4: And that's what I told the dude last time, Like 1749 01:19:23,760 --> 01:19:26,120 Speaker 4: when he said he didn't want to bring his fiance 1750 01:19:26,400 --> 01:19:30,280 Speaker 4: around his friends. Your friends should not only want to 1751 01:19:30,360 --> 01:19:33,000 Speaker 4: meet your fiance, they should be embracing your fiance and 1752 01:19:33,040 --> 01:19:35,120 Speaker 4: bringing her into the circle of friends with open arms. 1753 01:19:35,200 --> 01:19:37,920 Speaker 1: Correct. Correct, Well, let's go to the phone lines. The lord, 1754 01:19:37,960 --> 01:19:38,280 Speaker 1: who's this? 1755 01:19:39,320 --> 01:19:40,000 Speaker 17: This is Lydia. 1756 01:19:40,560 --> 01:19:41,400 Speaker 1: Hey, Lydia, good. 1757 01:19:41,280 --> 01:19:44,120 Speaker 5: Morning, good morning every day. 1758 01:19:44,200 --> 01:19:46,840 Speaker 1: Oh my god, what's your thoughts? 1759 01:19:47,560 --> 01:19:49,240 Speaker 3: So my thoughts is I. 1760 01:19:49,280 --> 01:19:53,320 Speaker 27: Believe it's okay for each us to have guy or 1761 01:19:53,400 --> 01:19:57,480 Speaker 27: girlfriends as long as they are respectful of the relationship 1762 01:19:57,760 --> 01:20:00,880 Speaker 27: fast marriage because we are married. So and then I 1763 01:20:01,000 --> 01:20:04,519 Speaker 27: work in the night life part time, so I'm a bartender, waitress, 1764 01:20:04,640 --> 01:20:06,400 Speaker 27: and I have a bunch of guy friends that I 1765 01:20:06,560 --> 01:20:09,960 Speaker 27: work with for years. And when my husband and I 1766 01:20:10,000 --> 01:20:12,920 Speaker 27: first started dating, he was very like accepting of everything 1767 01:20:12,960 --> 01:20:17,640 Speaker 27: and everybody because everybody was like cool and respectful. And 1768 01:20:18,840 --> 01:20:21,679 Speaker 27: once I got married, like everybody was like, nah, she's married, 1769 01:20:21,760 --> 01:20:24,040 Speaker 27: leave her alone, leave her alone, like they were very 1770 01:20:24,120 --> 01:20:28,360 Speaker 27: perspective of me. So yeah, and then his girls grow 1771 01:20:28,600 --> 01:20:30,960 Speaker 27: homegirls that he's had, there's only ever been one person 1772 01:20:31,040 --> 01:20:32,639 Speaker 27: that I have to be like, she's not your friend, 1773 01:20:33,280 --> 01:20:36,200 Speaker 27: because a girl just knows when somebody's trying to put. 1774 01:20:36,080 --> 01:20:39,439 Speaker 6: Her do so, but I won't say that that might 1775 01:20:39,600 --> 01:20:41,519 Speaker 6: change it a little bit too, right. And the reason 1776 01:20:41,560 --> 01:20:43,920 Speaker 6: I say that might change if you're if you're working 1777 01:20:44,360 --> 01:20:46,840 Speaker 6: and guys are hollering at you all day long, I 1778 01:20:46,880 --> 01:20:48,839 Speaker 6: think that can make any guy feel a little insecure. 1779 01:20:49,120 --> 01:20:49,320 Speaker 8: Why. 1780 01:20:50,400 --> 01:20:53,439 Speaker 27: I mean, he doesn't say anything like because they don't 1781 01:20:53,479 --> 01:20:56,360 Speaker 27: touch me, they don't do anything, Like they can look 1782 01:20:56,439 --> 01:20:57,800 Speaker 27: and they can say what they want to say, and 1783 01:20:57,880 --> 01:21:00,679 Speaker 27: he did. He's not bothered by it because he knows 1784 01:21:00,840 --> 01:21:02,200 Speaker 27: at the end of the night, I'm coming home. 1785 01:21:02,280 --> 01:21:02,680 Speaker 1: That's right. 1786 01:21:04,200 --> 01:21:07,640 Speaker 4: So what you're what you're calling being bothered and is 1787 01:21:07,680 --> 01:21:10,840 Speaker 4: actually just called being insecure, Yes, I said, but why 1788 01:21:10,960 --> 01:21:11,960 Speaker 4: so you don't trust your woman? No? 1789 01:21:12,000 --> 01:21:14,600 Speaker 6: It's not a matter about trusting, but it's just a 1790 01:21:14,680 --> 01:21:17,200 Speaker 6: certain job. So when you bartend, the most bartender is 1791 01:21:17,200 --> 01:21:19,840 Speaker 6: I would say a majority of them. They when they 1792 01:21:20,320 --> 01:21:22,479 Speaker 6: serve drinks, they flirt a little, right. We've all had 1793 01:21:22,520 --> 01:21:23,720 Speaker 6: a bartend that flirt, yes or no. 1794 01:21:24,360 --> 01:21:26,599 Speaker 3: No, I think you're kind. 1795 01:21:27,720 --> 01:21:30,360 Speaker 7: I think you just you're just kind, You're nice to everybody. 1796 01:21:30,600 --> 01:21:33,200 Speaker 1: That's your ego. You think you think everybody flirting with you, 1797 01:21:33,280 --> 01:21:33,920 Speaker 1: that's your ego. 1798 01:21:34,080 --> 01:21:36,559 Speaker 6: Right light skin right red red. 1799 01:21:36,920 --> 01:21:38,520 Speaker 1: The bartenders flirt sometimes. 1800 01:21:38,520 --> 01:21:41,240 Speaker 3: All the time, the red light skin too. 1801 01:21:41,400 --> 01:21:43,360 Speaker 6: Man, do you flirt at all with with people that 1802 01:21:43,640 --> 01:21:44,599 Speaker 6: that bydric? 1803 01:21:45,120 --> 01:21:45,160 Speaker 23: No? 1804 01:21:45,320 --> 01:21:45,639 Speaker 9: I don't. 1805 01:21:46,040 --> 01:21:47,360 Speaker 1: Can I tell you guys something. 1806 01:21:47,280 --> 01:21:49,720 Speaker 27: I'm just nice. I'm just nice And then they're like 1807 01:21:50,000 --> 01:21:52,400 Speaker 27: just nice and then they mistake it for flirting, but 1808 01:21:52,479 --> 01:21:54,080 Speaker 27: I'm like, no, I'm not flirting. 1809 01:21:53,720 --> 01:21:56,080 Speaker 1: And then I have to be mean to Like I 1810 01:21:56,160 --> 01:21:58,559 Speaker 1: want all guys out there to know. That's your ego talking. 1811 01:21:58,720 --> 01:22:01,000 Speaker 4: If you think that every girl girl being kind to 1812 01:22:01,120 --> 01:22:04,080 Speaker 4: you is flirting, And if you think every girl being 1813 01:22:04,240 --> 01:22:06,280 Speaker 4: just nice to you means that they want you, that's 1814 01:22:06,439 --> 01:22:10,800 Speaker 4: all ego brod and and and and you helen insecure. 1815 01:22:11,280 --> 01:22:13,960 Speaker 4: If you think that, uh, you're hell insecure and you 1816 01:22:14,000 --> 01:22:16,920 Speaker 4: don't trust your woman. If you think guys hollering at her, 1817 01:22:17,360 --> 01:22:20,480 Speaker 4: if guy's hollering at her, bothers you bartend. 1818 01:22:20,200 --> 01:22:22,639 Speaker 1: Is definitely flirt all the time. I want to say 1819 01:22:22,640 --> 01:22:22,840 Speaker 1: all the. 1820 01:22:22,880 --> 01:22:26,320 Speaker 3: Time, but they but everybody flirts. Like the lady at 1821 01:22:26,360 --> 01:22:28,040 Speaker 3: Walmart begging your groceries is flirt. 1822 01:22:34,160 --> 01:22:36,360 Speaker 1: All she said was high, have a nice day. 1823 01:22:42,040 --> 01:22:42,320 Speaker 3: Listen. 1824 01:22:42,400 --> 01:22:44,280 Speaker 7: Anywhere you go, you're gonna find what you're looking for. 1825 01:22:44,439 --> 01:22:45,800 Speaker 7: So if you go to the board looking for someone 1826 01:22:45,840 --> 01:22:46,840 Speaker 7: to flirt, that's what she's doing. 1827 01:22:47,479 --> 01:22:49,479 Speaker 1: Good morning, good morning, good morning. 1828 01:22:49,800 --> 01:22:52,760 Speaker 6: Talk to what's your thoughts me personally? 1829 01:22:53,320 --> 01:22:56,320 Speaker 11: Like I said, like Jada said, my immotreself wanted to 1830 01:22:56,400 --> 01:22:59,200 Speaker 11: be friends with my man's friends all the time when 1831 01:22:59,240 --> 01:23:02,320 Speaker 11: I was younger me now, I don't even care. That's 1832 01:23:02,439 --> 01:23:04,240 Speaker 11: your mand Like, those are your friends. 1833 01:23:04,320 --> 01:23:06,040 Speaker 5: I don't want to be friends with the girlfriends. 1834 01:23:06,120 --> 01:23:07,719 Speaker 11: I don't want to be friends with their wives. 1835 01:23:08,360 --> 01:23:09,120 Speaker 5: Just let me do me. 1836 01:23:09,320 --> 01:23:11,120 Speaker 13: You go have fun with their friends, and I'm good. 1837 01:23:11,640 --> 01:23:14,559 Speaker 1: Yeah, if it happens organically, oh that's great. 1838 01:23:15,200 --> 01:23:16,559 Speaker 19: I don't really care anymore. 1839 01:23:16,840 --> 01:23:19,679 Speaker 11: I'm just you know, I've gotten older, I'm more mature, 1840 01:23:19,880 --> 01:23:23,799 Speaker 11: like at this point, if it's beneficial to youth, fine, 1841 01:23:24,000 --> 01:23:26,040 Speaker 11: If it's not beneficial to youth, cut it out. 1842 01:23:26,400 --> 01:23:26,640 Speaker 13: For me. 1843 01:23:26,880 --> 01:23:29,160 Speaker 11: It's not beneficial, so I don't want any parts. 1844 01:23:28,960 --> 01:23:32,320 Speaker 6: Of it, yakisha, all right, what's the more of the story, guys? 1845 01:23:33,040 --> 01:23:33,200 Speaker 17: More? 1846 01:23:33,280 --> 01:23:38,320 Speaker 3: The story is friends? How many of us have? 1847 01:23:43,760 --> 01:23:44,040 Speaker 1: I think? 1848 01:23:44,120 --> 01:23:46,680 Speaker 4: I think the moral of the story is friendship is 1849 01:23:46,840 --> 01:23:50,480 Speaker 4: always a sweet responsibility, never an opportunity. 1850 01:23:51,479 --> 01:23:52,080 Speaker 1: That's what I think. 1851 01:23:52,240 --> 01:23:53,880 Speaker 3: And it doesn't matter what private part you have. 1852 01:23:54,560 --> 01:23:57,280 Speaker 1: Yes, well, let's get to the rumors. 1853 01:24:00,120 --> 01:24:05,920 Speaker 16: Mad when people don't understand your dreams. God be eating 1854 01:24:06,000 --> 01:24:06,679 Speaker 16: in your vision. 1855 01:24:06,800 --> 01:24:07,120 Speaker 4: Here's you. 1856 01:24:08,760 --> 01:24:09,960 Speaker 9: If you say my name three times? 1857 01:24:11,479 --> 01:24:21,880 Speaker 6: Easy on the breakfast club, all the mics right now, 1858 01:24:21,920 --> 01:24:24,800 Speaker 6: it's telamated, telemated produced that you know what else? 1859 01:24:24,800 --> 01:24:28,439 Speaker 4: Real quick with red and envy. Yes, sir, bartenders want tips, 1860 01:24:28,479 --> 01:24:31,160 Speaker 4: you idiots. That's why he's being nicety, Your stupid asses. 1861 01:24:31,200 --> 01:24:32,760 Speaker 4: That's not flirting. They want you all to tip them. 1862 01:24:33,160 --> 01:24:37,920 Speaker 7: Okay, continue busy period, all right, your shouts out the 1863 01:24:37,960 --> 01:24:38,240 Speaker 7: t I. 1864 01:24:38,360 --> 01:24:41,280 Speaker 3: T I is doing some good in his community in Atlanta. 1865 01:24:41,360 --> 01:24:45,280 Speaker 7: He's building affordable housing complex and unbuilt one hundred and 1866 01:24:45,360 --> 01:24:48,599 Speaker 7: forty three apartment units as well as twenty five special 1867 01:24:48,680 --> 01:24:51,160 Speaker 7: units for homeless youth. And this is right there, Donald 1868 01:24:51,240 --> 01:24:53,640 Speaker 7: Lee Hallowell Parkway, and this is the area where he 1869 01:24:53,720 --> 01:24:56,120 Speaker 7: grew up. His grandma used to shop and he did 1870 01:24:56,200 --> 01:24:58,720 Speaker 7: some things there hisself. Check out what the news had 1871 01:24:58,720 --> 01:24:59,280 Speaker 7: to say about this. 1872 01:25:03,000 --> 01:25:05,760 Speaker 23: Today, Atlanta rapper Ti attended the ribbon cutting of his 1873 01:25:05,880 --> 01:25:09,120 Speaker 23: first affordable apartment development. It includes one hundred and forty 1874 01:25:09,120 --> 01:25:10,920 Speaker 23: three apartments and twenty five special. 1875 01:25:10,680 --> 01:25:11,840 Speaker 1: Units for homeless kids. 1876 01:25:12,320 --> 01:25:15,519 Speaker 23: The Introda West Side sits across from Center Hill Park 1877 01:25:15,560 --> 01:25:18,479 Speaker 23: in northwest Atlanta. TI, his real name is Clifford Harris, 1878 01:25:18,560 --> 01:25:20,760 Speaker 23: told us he remembers how the community struggled when he 1879 01:25:21,000 --> 01:25:21,320 Speaker 23: was young. 1880 01:25:21,640 --> 01:25:26,000 Speaker 28: The arts entertainment industry in this city has been able 1881 01:25:26,080 --> 01:25:31,599 Speaker 28: to collaborate and be profitable enough to offer the community 1882 01:25:31,720 --> 01:25:34,280 Speaker 28: so many things that you know are much needed. 1883 01:25:34,439 --> 01:25:36,880 Speaker 23: Developer said of property was once a shopping center where 1884 01:25:37,000 --> 01:25:39,480 Speaker 23: TI's grandmother used to shop for grocery. 1885 01:25:39,200 --> 01:25:41,760 Speaker 1: Man dropping the clues bombs for tip Man shout to ta. 1886 01:25:42,000 --> 01:25:44,000 Speaker 4: I need y'all to be loud about this because I 1887 01:25:44,000 --> 01:25:46,160 Speaker 4: don't think y'all understand how incredible this is. You know, 1888 01:25:46,240 --> 01:25:48,240 Speaker 4: people love to whisper your success, and they love to 1889 01:25:48,240 --> 01:25:50,439 Speaker 4: scream about your failure. So y'all need to be loud 1890 01:25:50,479 --> 01:25:53,679 Speaker 4: about this the way y'all lied about anything that's some bs, 1891 01:25:54,000 --> 01:25:57,280 Speaker 4: because this is incredible. This, This is beyond investing in 1892 01:25:57,360 --> 01:25:59,679 Speaker 4: your block. And Tips has been working on this for years. 1893 01:26:00,160 --> 01:26:03,200 Speaker 4: Like he he bought that uh, he bought that building 1894 01:26:03,240 --> 01:26:05,479 Speaker 4: a long, long, long, long long time before the pandemic, 1895 01:26:05,720 --> 01:26:09,280 Speaker 4: way before the pandemic, like probably in over a decade ago. 1896 01:26:09,520 --> 01:26:11,840 Speaker 7: And as somebody who was homeless as a teenager, like 1897 01:26:11,880 --> 01:26:13,800 Speaker 7: I understand the importance of this for kids that are 1898 01:26:13,840 --> 01:26:16,320 Speaker 7: aging out of foster care and don't have anywhere to 1899 01:26:16,360 --> 01:26:18,640 Speaker 7: go or don't have family, like this is really the 1900 01:26:18,680 --> 01:26:19,360 Speaker 7: bridge to better. 1901 01:26:19,479 --> 01:26:20,560 Speaker 3: So shout out to him for that. 1902 01:26:21,160 --> 01:26:22,640 Speaker 4: Remember when he was up here, he was saying how 1903 01:26:22,640 --> 01:26:24,400 Speaker 4: he had to have a had to have a grocery 1904 01:26:24,439 --> 01:26:26,840 Speaker 4: store and there you had to have a store. 1905 01:26:26,880 --> 01:26:29,560 Speaker 1: That was just a few months ago. Yeah, So so 1906 01:26:29,680 --> 01:26:30,280 Speaker 1: salute the tip. 1907 01:26:30,439 --> 01:26:32,000 Speaker 7: And now he's done it. And this is the same 1908 01:26:32,080 --> 01:26:35,280 Speaker 7: community that he's taken from. Literally check this out. 1909 01:26:35,880 --> 01:26:36,880 Speaker 1: He don't tell nobody. 1910 01:26:37,040 --> 01:26:38,760 Speaker 29: I got couch still in that this came on up 1911 01:26:38,840 --> 01:26:42,720 Speaker 29: right now, okay, and I thought that, you know, you know, 1912 01:26:43,600 --> 01:26:45,080 Speaker 29: just to offset the. 1913 01:26:45,160 --> 01:26:49,679 Speaker 1: Shame that came with that it would be it would 1914 01:26:49,760 --> 01:26:51,680 Speaker 1: behoove me, you know. 1915 01:26:51,880 --> 01:26:56,080 Speaker 29: To invest in the community by acquiring this piece of property. 1916 01:26:56,120 --> 01:26:58,679 Speaker 1: It's the least that could be, you know what I'm saying. 1917 01:26:59,240 --> 01:27:02,559 Speaker 1: Everyone does a little, No one has to do a lot. 1918 01:27:02,720 --> 01:27:03,080 Speaker 13: That's right. 1919 01:27:03,800 --> 01:27:07,040 Speaker 4: Only a person who is from a community knows exactly 1920 01:27:07,080 --> 01:27:08,160 Speaker 4: what the community needs. 1921 01:27:08,240 --> 01:27:10,720 Speaker 1: So Tip knows that that community needs that. 1922 01:27:11,080 --> 01:27:12,519 Speaker 7: So he gave it to him And shout out to 1923 01:27:12,640 --> 01:27:15,320 Speaker 7: Killer Mike because he said this decision and the efforts 1924 01:27:15,320 --> 01:27:17,200 Speaker 7: that he put into making this happen was inspired by 1925 01:27:17,280 --> 01:27:19,559 Speaker 7: Killer Mike. So just goes to show how each one 1926 01:27:19,640 --> 01:27:22,000 Speaker 7: of us can do a little something to make everything better. 1927 01:27:22,120 --> 01:27:25,160 Speaker 1: Love both those brothers. Man Saluta, Clifford Harrison, Michael. 1928 01:27:24,960 --> 01:27:26,759 Speaker 3: Renda also in the room of report. 1929 01:27:26,840 --> 01:27:29,840 Speaker 7: Looks like Drake is teasing a surprise EP just after 1930 01:27:29,880 --> 01:27:31,519 Speaker 7: announcing the tour that he's going to be doing that 1931 01:27:31,560 --> 01:27:32,360 Speaker 7: features j Cole. 1932 01:27:32,760 --> 01:27:35,960 Speaker 3: He posted this video saying that this new EP is 1933 01:27:36,040 --> 01:27:37,080 Speaker 3: not leftover songs. 1934 01:27:37,120 --> 01:27:39,960 Speaker 7: This brand new stuff is brand new songs are moved 1935 01:27:40,000 --> 01:27:42,760 Speaker 7: to create and put out in this moment to make 1936 01:27:42,800 --> 01:27:43,640 Speaker 7: this moment a little bit better. 1937 01:27:43,720 --> 01:27:44,559 Speaker 3: Check out what he had to say. 1938 01:27:45,120 --> 01:27:48,400 Speaker 1: I feel no need to appease anybody. 1939 01:27:49,560 --> 01:27:52,760 Speaker 30: I feel so confident about the body of work that 1940 01:27:52,840 --> 01:27:55,400 Speaker 30: I just dropped that I know I could go and 1941 01:27:55,920 --> 01:28:01,479 Speaker 30: disappear for whatever, six months, a year, two years, even 1942 01:28:01,560 --> 01:28:04,240 Speaker 30: though I'm not really like into it. I'm not really 1943 01:28:04,320 --> 01:28:08,759 Speaker 30: into the lengthy, super lengthy disappearances for the sake of mystery. 1944 01:28:08,840 --> 01:28:13,400 Speaker 30: But you know, ultimately it's coming to me in a 1945 01:28:13,479 --> 01:28:16,400 Speaker 30: way that I haven't experience maybe since, like if you're 1946 01:28:16,439 --> 01:28:18,960 Speaker 30: reading this, where it's just kind of like I feel 1947 01:28:19,000 --> 01:28:21,400 Speaker 30: like I'm on drugs. I feel like I'm in that 1948 01:28:21,560 --> 01:28:23,200 Speaker 30: mental state without doing anything. 1949 01:28:23,800 --> 01:28:25,719 Speaker 1: I did those songs in the last five days. 1950 01:28:26,040 --> 01:28:28,599 Speaker 30: I didn't have one bar written down for those songs 1951 01:28:28,840 --> 01:28:30,920 Speaker 30: on the night that for All the Dolls dropped. It's 1952 01:28:30,960 --> 01:28:34,160 Speaker 30: not like I'm picking up from some unfinished you know, 1953 01:28:34,320 --> 01:28:37,160 Speaker 30: this is just it's happening on its own. 1954 01:28:38,000 --> 01:28:39,760 Speaker 4: Do you think he's inspired to do this because of 1955 01:28:39,800 --> 01:28:42,080 Speaker 4: the backlash that the album that he put out for 1956 01:28:42,160 --> 01:28:44,160 Speaker 4: All the Dogs got. Should we just accept the fact 1957 01:28:44,160 --> 01:28:46,479 Speaker 4: that Drake likes to put out music the same way 1958 01:28:46,520 --> 01:28:48,840 Speaker 4: Wayne does and Gucci and Young Boy and Pok. He 1959 01:28:49,000 --> 01:28:50,760 Speaker 4: just likes making music. I think both are just a 1960 01:28:50,800 --> 01:28:52,160 Speaker 4: response to the backlash. I think both. 1961 01:28:52,160 --> 01:28:53,959 Speaker 6: I think one is a little response to the backlash, 1962 01:28:54,000 --> 01:28:56,519 Speaker 6: and too, I think he just enjoys making music. I mean, 1963 01:28:56,680 --> 01:29:00,080 Speaker 6: Drake raps. He likes to make music or he wraps anything. Well, 1964 01:29:00,120 --> 01:29:02,639 Speaker 6: he wraps, but he likes to put out and yeah, 1965 01:29:03,240 --> 01:29:04,680 Speaker 6: and I'm excited about it. I can't wait to hear 1966 01:29:04,680 --> 01:29:06,920 Speaker 6: it tonight. I'm hoping that he gives me what I 1967 01:29:07,000 --> 01:29:09,000 Speaker 6: want pause and that's a full rap album. 1968 01:29:09,120 --> 01:29:09,599 Speaker 1: Him rapping. 1969 01:29:10,840 --> 01:29:13,639 Speaker 4: Drake is like the guy that you you just can't 1970 01:29:13,680 --> 01:29:15,920 Speaker 4: help but be gay in his old screens, like for 1971 01:29:16,080 --> 01:29:18,800 Speaker 4: no reason. I hope, I hope he drops to night 1972 01:29:18,800 --> 01:29:20,400 Speaker 4: and he gives me what I want. I say it 1973 01:29:20,479 --> 01:29:25,080 Speaker 4: like that God's coming, Oh my God, did you hear it? 1974 01:29:25,920 --> 01:29:26,400 Speaker 3: Grow up? 1975 01:29:27,000 --> 01:29:27,680 Speaker 1: You grow up? 1976 01:29:28,160 --> 01:29:30,800 Speaker 4: I ain't say grow up, I say gross, hey, yo, 1977 01:29:31,760 --> 01:29:36,519 Speaker 4: scary out sexualizing. I don't just I'm a Drake fan 1978 01:29:36,640 --> 01:29:39,000 Speaker 4: and I hope he gives me the music that I. 1979 01:29:39,000 --> 01:29:41,640 Speaker 1: Won't stop objective from people. It's just the way you 1980 01:29:41,760 --> 01:29:46,280 Speaker 1: think about things. Everybody heard it. Everybody heard it, bro 1981 01:29:46,840 --> 01:29:47,519 Speaker 1: Jesus Christ. 1982 01:29:47,560 --> 01:29:49,400 Speaker 4: I won't say this though, that Drake and j Cole 1983 01:29:49,560 --> 01:29:51,679 Speaker 4: video hard first person shooting. 1984 01:29:52,280 --> 01:29:53,720 Speaker 3: What's happening? What's going on? 1985 01:29:53,920 --> 01:29:55,400 Speaker 1: Because I never know what you had? 1986 01:29:55,840 --> 01:29:56,439 Speaker 14: What do you tell? 1987 01:29:56,479 --> 01:29:56,840 Speaker 17: What's up? 1988 01:29:56,920 --> 01:29:58,599 Speaker 1: Man, Jesus Christ? 1989 01:29:59,360 --> 01:29:59,760 Speaker 17: You like it? 1990 01:29:59,840 --> 01:29:59,880 Speaker 23: You? 1991 01:30:00,000 --> 01:30:00,360 Speaker 1: I like it. 1992 01:30:00,600 --> 01:30:03,120 Speaker 4: I like the video because that is how I want 1993 01:30:03,200 --> 01:30:06,920 Speaker 4: my superstar rappers to be looking in videos. That was 1994 01:30:07,000 --> 01:30:10,280 Speaker 4: a superstar rapper video, y'all be too regular, riding around 1995 01:30:10,280 --> 01:30:12,240 Speaker 4: the city on city bikes and all kinds of crazy stuff. 1996 01:30:12,320 --> 01:30:12,960 Speaker 1: It doesn't have the. 1997 01:30:12,920 --> 01:30:16,240 Speaker 6: Same budget, sir, that drinking definitely, but the pay out 1998 01:30:16,280 --> 01:30:18,479 Speaker 6: of pocket. Every other rapper might not have that budget. 1999 01:30:18,479 --> 01:30:20,880 Speaker 4: And whoever that director was, I can't remember the guy's name. 2000 01:30:20,920 --> 01:30:22,120 Speaker 4: It came on at the end of the video that 2001 01:30:22,320 --> 01:30:26,040 Speaker 4: was like that was it? That was nineties rap video esque, 2002 01:30:26,280 --> 01:30:27,040 Speaker 4: Like I enjoyed that. 2003 01:30:27,080 --> 01:30:29,719 Speaker 1: I spend some money on that video. Yes, all right, all. 2004 01:30:29,720 --> 01:30:30,719 Speaker 3: Right, modolong. 2005 01:30:30,840 --> 01:30:33,960 Speaker 7: Cardi B is defending Will Smith. Will Smith's Name's been 2006 01:30:34,000 --> 01:30:37,240 Speaker 7: in the headlines consistently lately. We heard a great Jadap 2007 01:30:37,280 --> 01:30:39,640 Speaker 7: can gett interview earlier, and it looks like Cardi B 2008 01:30:39,800 --> 01:30:43,040 Speaker 7: is chiming in the most recent story has the accusation 2009 01:30:43,160 --> 01:30:46,120 Speaker 7: that he was getting he was getting with his friend 2010 01:30:46,160 --> 01:30:49,040 Speaker 7: Dwayne Martin. If you've been listening since seven, you would 2011 01:30:49,080 --> 01:30:51,439 Speaker 7: have already heard the interview. You know, Jada addressed the 2012 01:30:51,479 --> 01:30:53,880 Speaker 7: allegation she's ready to go to war. She said they're 2013 01:30:53,920 --> 01:30:57,080 Speaker 7: completely untrue. The Smith family does plan to take legal action. 2014 01:30:57,400 --> 01:30:59,559 Speaker 7: If you missed it, make sure you check the interview 2015 01:30:59,600 --> 01:31:01,360 Speaker 7: out on you to, but definitely check out what Cardi 2016 01:31:01,439 --> 01:31:01,960 Speaker 7: Be had to say. 2017 01:31:02,680 --> 01:31:04,280 Speaker 25: I don't like how I was fooled a couple of 2018 01:31:04,320 --> 01:31:04,800 Speaker 25: weeks ago. 2019 01:31:05,280 --> 01:31:07,479 Speaker 20: Some people just never change. 2020 01:31:07,760 --> 01:31:09,519 Speaker 25: I don't like that. I don't like what people be 2021 01:31:09,600 --> 01:31:11,920 Speaker 25: doing to Will Smith. I Be found like Will Smith 2022 01:31:12,360 --> 01:31:15,080 Speaker 25: is very unproblematic, and I feel like he got like 2023 01:31:15,120 --> 01:31:17,400 Speaker 25: a nice heart. I found out that Will Smith. 2024 01:31:17,200 --> 01:31:17,679 Speaker 20: Is a libra. 2025 01:31:17,800 --> 01:31:20,759 Speaker 25: I always said this, like libras, we be getting tried, 2026 01:31:20,840 --> 01:31:24,080 Speaker 25: we be getting tried, and then when we outburst, we 2027 01:31:24,360 --> 01:31:28,679 Speaker 25: outburst so heavy that we become the ones in the wrong. 2028 01:31:29,040 --> 01:31:33,280 Speaker 25: At your job, as a journalist, you should be able 2029 01:31:33,520 --> 01:31:39,160 Speaker 25: to detect whether somebody is bush or not, because anybody 2030 01:31:39,240 --> 01:31:41,280 Speaker 25: could say something about anybody. Look what happened to me 2031 01:31:41,360 --> 01:31:44,360 Speaker 25: in twenty eighteen when a that I never I don't 2032 01:31:44,360 --> 01:31:47,200 Speaker 25: even I didn't even know her name, was saying that 2033 01:31:47,320 --> 01:31:49,679 Speaker 25: she know me, that she did into my house. Anybody 2034 01:31:49,720 --> 01:31:52,519 Speaker 25: could say a fake ass story about you, fake as 2035 01:31:52,680 --> 01:31:53,080 Speaker 25: believe it. 2036 01:31:53,800 --> 01:31:56,720 Speaker 4: Nobody cares about the truth and the lie more entertainment. Entertainment, 2037 01:31:56,960 --> 01:31:58,840 Speaker 4: and there is no discernment with any of this stuff 2038 01:31:58,880 --> 01:32:01,759 Speaker 4: because nobody wants to not believe. They want to believe 2039 01:32:01,800 --> 01:32:05,560 Speaker 4: the silation stuff. It's it makes for better conversation for individuals. 2040 01:32:05,840 --> 01:32:07,679 Speaker 4: It allows people to escape their own truth. 2041 01:32:07,840 --> 01:32:08,639 Speaker 1: That's right. Yeah. 2042 01:32:08,720 --> 01:32:10,960 Speaker 6: But they can mess up homes, it can mess up businesses, 2043 01:32:11,040 --> 01:32:12,559 Speaker 6: it can mess up all types of things that people 2044 01:32:12,560 --> 01:32:14,640 Speaker 6: are trying to do because of these lies. But that 2045 01:32:14,960 --> 01:32:17,400 Speaker 6: is your rumor report. Now let's get to the People's choice. 2046 01:32:17,479 --> 01:32:19,040 Speaker 6: Mix will be back. Don't go anywhere. 2047 01:32:19,080 --> 01:32:22,120 Speaker 2: It's the breakfast Club. Go Morning, the Breakfast Club. Your 2048 01:32:22,200 --> 01:32:25,120 Speaker 2: mornings will never be the same morning. 2049 01:32:25,200 --> 01:32:29,200 Speaker 6: Everybody is DJ Envy, charlamagnea God. We are the breakfast Club. 2050 01:32:29,240 --> 01:32:31,960 Speaker 6: I guess called Hoast. Bezy Baby is here. Yeah, and 2051 01:32:32,040 --> 01:32:34,760 Speaker 6: we got a salute to Kevin Hart. Kevin Hart just 2052 01:32:34,880 --> 01:32:38,600 Speaker 6: received the Mark Twain Prize for American Humor. This is 2053 01:32:38,640 --> 01:32:42,200 Speaker 6: considered to be the comedy's highest honor. It started in 2054 01:32:42,320 --> 01:32:44,600 Speaker 6: nineteen ninety eight and the first person to receive this 2055 01:32:45,000 --> 01:32:46,040 Speaker 6: was Richard Pryor. 2056 01:32:46,200 --> 01:32:48,479 Speaker 1: So, Yes, the ceremony is the ceremony. Heart. 2057 01:32:48,800 --> 01:32:49,839 Speaker 6: I don't know when the ceremonies. 2058 01:32:50,040 --> 01:32:52,320 Speaker 1: It's coming up soon. They announced that he's getting it. 2059 01:32:52,800 --> 01:32:55,120 Speaker 7: Yes, and it's only been like over twenty people to 2060 01:32:55,240 --> 01:32:57,280 Speaker 7: receive this award like this is not something a whole 2061 01:32:57,439 --> 01:32:58,439 Speaker 7: lot of people have gotten. 2062 01:32:58,520 --> 01:33:02,280 Speaker 6: So yeah, that's a big deal. Well deserved too, well deserved. 2063 01:33:02,640 --> 01:33:04,839 Speaker 6: All right, when we come back, we got the positive 2064 01:33:04,880 --> 01:33:07,559 Speaker 6: notice the Breakfast Club. Good morning morning everybody. It's DJ 2065 01:33:08,080 --> 01:33:10,840 Speaker 6: n V Charlamagne the God. We are the Breakfast Club. 2066 01:33:11,280 --> 01:33:13,920 Speaker 6: Now we have Bezy Baby here our special guest co host, 2067 01:33:14,479 --> 01:33:16,400 Speaker 6: and we appreciate you for hanging with us today and 2068 01:33:16,439 --> 01:33:17,120 Speaker 6: you come back tomorrow. 2069 01:33:17,240 --> 01:33:19,400 Speaker 3: Thanks for having me. Yes, I'm looking forward to hanging 2070 01:33:19,400 --> 01:33:19,840 Speaker 3: out tomorrow. 2071 01:33:19,920 --> 01:33:22,519 Speaker 7: Thanks both of y'all. Like y'all have a really it's son. 2072 01:33:22,640 --> 01:33:24,840 Speaker 7: You got to get some flowers real quick. Just you 2073 01:33:24,960 --> 01:33:27,280 Speaker 7: guys have been doing work for over a decade in 2074 01:33:27,360 --> 01:33:30,160 Speaker 7: this capacity and much of the world listens to you 2075 01:33:30,240 --> 01:33:34,080 Speaker 7: every day for entertainment. But you both talk about marriage 2076 01:33:34,200 --> 01:33:36,280 Speaker 7: and you show what it looks like to be a 2077 01:33:36,439 --> 01:33:40,080 Speaker 7: husband and a father as well as putting out you know, 2078 01:33:40,160 --> 01:33:42,320 Speaker 7: a word on mental health and just moving the culture 2079 01:33:42,400 --> 01:33:45,080 Speaker 7: forward in the right direction. So thank you for allowing 2080 01:33:45,200 --> 01:33:47,000 Speaker 7: me to be here today. But thank you for the 2081 01:33:47,040 --> 01:33:47,800 Speaker 7: work you do all year. 2082 01:33:47,840 --> 01:33:50,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, are your twitters and Instagrams and all that stuff busy? 2083 01:33:50,160 --> 01:33:51,679 Speaker 3: It's at bezy baby everywhere. 2084 01:33:51,840 --> 01:33:54,640 Speaker 20: B E A S y b A y B I E. 2085 01:33:55,360 --> 01:33:57,240 Speaker 6: All right when we come back, we got oh no, 2086 01:33:57,280 --> 01:33:57,880 Speaker 6: you got a positive? 2087 01:33:57,920 --> 01:33:58,720 Speaker 1: No, now give us a postor not? 2088 01:33:58,760 --> 01:33:58,840 Speaker 12: Well. 2089 01:33:58,920 --> 01:34:01,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, and I want to remind everybody, hey, man, this Saturday, 2090 01:34:01,400 --> 01:34:03,840 Speaker 4: in Monks Corner, South Carolina, my hometown, I'm doing my 2091 01:34:03,920 --> 01:34:07,360 Speaker 4: tenth annual turkey giveaway from ten am to twelve pm 2092 01:34:07,680 --> 01:34:11,360 Speaker 4: at Berkeley High School in the student parking lot of 2093 01:34:11,439 --> 01:34:13,439 Speaker 4: Berkeley High School. So you know, we do a drive 2094 01:34:13,520 --> 01:34:15,280 Speaker 4: through every year, man, So all you gotta do is 2095 01:34:15,520 --> 01:34:18,360 Speaker 4: pull up and we'll put the bird in the car 2096 01:34:18,600 --> 01:34:18,920 Speaker 4: for you. 2097 01:34:19,080 --> 01:34:19,360 Speaker 1: Okay. 2098 01:34:19,439 --> 01:34:22,320 Speaker 4: Four sixth West Main Street, Monks Corner, South Carolina, Berkeley 2099 01:34:22,400 --> 01:34:24,880 Speaker 4: High School, student parking Lot, ten am to twelve pm, 2100 01:34:25,479 --> 01:34:28,880 Speaker 4: my tenth annual turkey giveaway. So I will see y'all 2101 01:34:29,160 --> 01:34:33,559 Speaker 4: there now. Positive note. Some people get real uncomfortable when 2102 01:34:33,600 --> 01:34:35,400 Speaker 4: you grow out of the box they tried to put 2103 01:34:35,479 --> 01:34:37,880 Speaker 4: you in. You're no longer safe to them because your 2104 01:34:37,920 --> 01:34:41,360 Speaker 4: commitment to transformation reminds them of what they are not 2105 01:34:41,439 --> 01:34:44,640 Speaker 4: stepping into, have a great day, breakfast, club, you 2106 01:34:44,680 --> 01:34:45,760 Speaker 1: Don'na finish for y'all done,