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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rad and I

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Speaker 1: Heart Radio podcast. Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in scrubbing

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Speaker 1: in on a Monday. Tanya thought it was the vibe

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Speaker 1: just literally when you hit record. I was about to say,

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Speaker 1: it's the vibe with Tanya ad an day, different show,

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Speaker 1: totally different show. I was in a different mindset up

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Speaker 1: in Tanya. Different shows, same Tanya, different show. So here

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Speaker 1: we are? Where do we begin? On the spine rainy

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Speaker 1: l a rainy Monday. That's what I'm saying. There's so

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Speaker 1: much to cover. We have so much that happened during

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Speaker 1: the weekend, but then there's so much that went on

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Speaker 1: the Oscars and we have a new Harry Styles album.

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Speaker 1: It's just like, where do we start? I mean, I

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Speaker 1: think we can start with maybe the Oscars that feels

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Speaker 1: the most like topical, Right, Okay, you don't want to topical?

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Speaker 1: Did you want to start somewhere else? No? Like that? Okay? Um,

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Speaker 1: so I where do where would you like to start?

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Speaker 1: There's only one thing that I find Yeah, I'm worth talking,

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Speaker 1: which is so sad. Okay, you know what, Before we

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Speaker 1: do that, let's just say the other things that have

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Speaker 1: been overshadowed. Coda is a brilliant movie. I'm through all

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Speaker 1: the one Best Picture and everybody should go get Apple

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Speaker 1: TV Plus and watch that. I know you don't have

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Speaker 1: Apple TV Plus, get it for a month, Cancel Disney

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Speaker 1: Plus for a month. That's how these things work. You

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Speaker 1: can just just a look cart this thing, get it

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Speaker 1: for a month watching it's fantastic. And the other thing

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Speaker 1: is Amy Schuman was phenomenal on that show and should

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Speaker 1: host it from now on. I also love Wanda Psykes

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Speaker 1: Regina Hall. I don't really know anything about but I

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Speaker 1: think those two are very funny. You can have one

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Speaker 1: woman host the Oscars, and one woman should host the

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Speaker 1: Oscars next year. It should be Amy Rwanda because they're

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Speaker 1: both hysterical. Yeah, that's what really annoys me, Like why

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Speaker 1: have one man do it. Why does it have to

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Speaker 1: be three women. It's the same thing when they did

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Speaker 1: The Bachelor and they had Caitlin and Tasio was like,

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Speaker 1: New Bachelorette is too. Right in the new Batchlars too.

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Speaker 1: I guess it's different than the last time because last

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Speaker 1: time that the boys out to pick which when they wanted,

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Speaker 1: which is irritating in itself. These two will go all

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Speaker 1: the way. But also, why do we need to about shorts?

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Speaker 1: Was one isn't interesting enough? F you? You? Yeah? On

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Speaker 1: this Modern Woman Monday, I'm piste off. So those were overshadowed. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I was thinking I definitely need to watch Koda because

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Speaker 1: that was like the the the Winter. And by the way,

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Speaker 1: everyone asks me, is it sad because they hear the

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Speaker 1: KODA stands for a child of deaf adults? Oh? Is

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Speaker 1: it sad? It is uplifting as hell. You will love it.

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Speaker 1: It is not sad. Good to know. Sorry, I I

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Speaker 1: respond in the Tawny was silent, so it was just

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Speaker 1: like chime Antonia just stairs. I'm just still on an uproar.

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Speaker 1: I'm just pissed. But because I saw that the ratings

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Speaker 1: still really really down from previous years. First they're up,

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Speaker 1: I mean, this is this is they can't ask for

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Speaker 1: better publicity and they're doing They're saying all the right things.

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Speaker 1: We condemned the action stuff like this they're having a party.

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Speaker 1: They got like double last year's ratings. Let me tell you,

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Speaker 1: if you were to condemn these actions, you would not

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Speaker 1: let Will Smith go back to his seat and sit

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Speaker 1: there after he accosted a human being. I'm sorry if

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Speaker 1: that was Joe Schmo sitting behind him, and he went

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Speaker 1: There were so many parts of it that drove me crazy.

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Speaker 1: So when I was I just saw. First I was

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Speaker 1: before that that caused that action. Then I'm watching it

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Speaker 1: This is a bit. Chris Rock looked like his jaw

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Speaker 1: you're just like And here's my my thought process on it,

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Speaker 1: because I don't know if Chris Rock knew about Jada

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Speaker 1: And if that's but regardless, I think the whole mentality

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Speaker 1: what users say after. Yeah, it's so it was just

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Speaker 1: There's just different ways to do it. It would have

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Speaker 1: I love you, but no, I can't have that. You

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Speaker 1: And that's that's a gross part of Hollywood that that

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Speaker 1: It's very irritating. It's not it's not okay. They need

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Speaker 1: but like you think, to the core of who he is,

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Speaker 1: but I don't I think he's a jackass that does

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Speaker 1: called the weekend. People really resonated with that. For some reason,

423
00:22:19,840 --> 00:22:22,560
Speaker 1: I had multiple I had multiple people tell me how

424
00:22:22,600 --> 00:22:26,560
Speaker 1: funny that was. Um, so I was also a Friday,

425
00:22:26,680 --> 00:22:28,240
Speaker 1: And then I was I think this was like a

426
00:22:28,280 --> 00:22:30,679
Speaker 1: week before the trip, so like the weekend before I

427
00:22:30,680 --> 00:22:32,879
Speaker 1: was having dinner with Red Star and he was and

428
00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:36,359
Speaker 1: I was kind of explained, like, um, details were coming together.

429
00:22:36,359 --> 00:22:39,520
Speaker 1: So Sofia Carson is like family to meet my best friends,

430
00:22:39,880 --> 00:22:42,639
Speaker 1: and her album was coming out that Friday, and I

431
00:22:42,760 --> 00:22:44,399
Speaker 1: told her a month ago, I said, I'm going to

432
00:22:44,480 --> 00:22:46,840
Speaker 1: be in Cobble. Let's celebrate the night before or when

433
00:22:46,840 --> 00:22:49,879
Speaker 1: I come back. And then as everything was getting closer

434
00:22:49,880 --> 00:22:52,399
Speaker 1: and closer and closer to the day of um, she

435
00:22:52,440 --> 00:22:55,680
Speaker 1: couldn't do anything Thursday night because she long story short,

436
00:22:55,720 --> 00:22:57,560
Speaker 1: a bunch of her family was flying in. She didn't

437
00:22:57,560 --> 00:22:59,520
Speaker 1: know about it. So I was like, you know what,

438
00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:04,520
Speaker 1: I'm really gonna I'm personally gonna be really upset if

439
00:23:04,520 --> 00:23:06,920
Speaker 1: I'm not there for her on that day. And I'm

440
00:23:06,920 --> 00:23:08,720
Speaker 1: also going to be really upset if I'm not there

441
00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:12,639
Speaker 1: for Jojo for her bachelorette. And Robbie was like, do both.

442
00:23:13,720 --> 00:23:18,720
Speaker 1: I thought, huh, here's a thought. There's an interesting idea.

443
00:23:19,320 --> 00:23:23,919
Speaker 1: So he said, go surprise Sophia for the album release,

444
00:23:24,240 --> 00:23:26,480
Speaker 1: fly at a Cobbo Saturday morning, and keep your flight

445
00:23:26,520 --> 00:23:28,639
Speaker 1: to come back with everybody on Sunday. Like it's kind

446
00:23:28,640 --> 00:23:31,399
Speaker 1: of cool, you know cobbo for twenty four hours. I

447
00:23:31,480 --> 00:23:33,919
Speaker 1: was like, it seems tiring, but you know what, that

448
00:23:34,000 --> 00:23:35,920
Speaker 1: is a really good idea, And so I did it.

449
00:23:36,680 --> 00:23:38,560
Speaker 1: I called Jojo and I explained to her and she

450
00:23:38,680 --> 00:23:40,720
Speaker 1: totally She's just the coolest. She was like, I totally

451
00:23:40,760 --> 00:23:45,719
Speaker 1: get it. Yeah, um, And so I surprised Sophia and

452
00:23:45,800 --> 00:23:48,760
Speaker 1: she was so happy. She kept tears in her eyes,

453
00:23:48,920 --> 00:23:50,439
Speaker 1: and it was so cool the way that we did it,

454
00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:53,520
Speaker 1: because she had this billboard or billboard is it a billboard? Yeah,

455
00:23:53,560 --> 00:23:56,400
Speaker 1: billboard going up downtown and it only goes. It's only

456
00:23:56,480 --> 00:23:58,199
Speaker 1: up because they're digital one, so they're only for like

457
00:23:58,359 --> 00:24:01,679
Speaker 1: forty five seconds. And so her sister was meeting her

458
00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:03,879
Speaker 1: at the billboard to like see the see it go up.

459
00:24:03,960 --> 00:24:06,120
Speaker 1: She didn't know. I was in the car, and so

460
00:24:07,080 --> 00:24:09,120
Speaker 1: I got out of the car. I got leggings made

461
00:24:09,119 --> 00:24:11,800
Speaker 1: with her album cover on them, get out of the car,

462
00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:14,320
Speaker 1: and I surprised her and Paulina got video of it,

463
00:24:14,359 --> 00:24:16,399
Speaker 1: and it was so cute. She literally jumped up and

464
00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:19,520
Speaker 1: down like a little jumping bean. She was so excited.

465
00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:21,320
Speaker 1: She got tears in her eyes. The billboard goes, so

466
00:24:21,359 --> 00:24:23,200
Speaker 1: that her whole teams like look, Lottle, you know, it's

467
00:24:23,200 --> 00:24:24,800
Speaker 1: like just so much going on, and so there's like

468
00:24:25,080 --> 00:24:27,560
Speaker 1: it's just cute because there's like video and photos of

469
00:24:27,640 --> 00:24:30,040
Speaker 1: us like seeing the billboard and she's just so excited

470
00:24:30,040 --> 00:24:32,240
Speaker 1: and she just tears in her eyes and it was

471
00:24:32,280 --> 00:24:35,119
Speaker 1: just really really cool and special, and so we did that.

472
00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:37,240
Speaker 1: She's sang on the national anthem at the Clippers game.

473
00:24:37,359 --> 00:24:39,840
Speaker 1: So we went in and had like a suite there,

474
00:24:40,480 --> 00:24:44,800
Speaker 1: and then her sister through like a celebratory dinner after.

475
00:24:44,920 --> 00:24:47,159
Speaker 1: So I was out so late on Friday, so the

476
00:24:47,160 --> 00:24:48,840
Speaker 1: dinner didn't start. Told my thirty and there was a

477
00:24:48,920 --> 00:24:52,960
Speaker 1: DJ and cake and like a meal and the whole thing.

478
00:24:53,080 --> 00:24:58,280
Speaker 1: So I was out until one o'clock on Friday. Had

479
00:24:58,280 --> 00:25:00,440
Speaker 1: to give Sunny to her bay. We sit here for

480
00:25:00,480 --> 00:25:02,359
Speaker 1: the weekend. I was crying when I gave sunyway. I

481
00:25:02,359 --> 00:25:03,879
Speaker 1: messed up all my makeup. I mean, it was just

482
00:25:03,960 --> 00:25:05,479
Speaker 1: I was a mess. So then I get home, I

483
00:25:05,520 --> 00:25:08,760
Speaker 1: went to Red Star, took him and the kids went skiing.

484
00:25:09,920 --> 00:25:13,320
Speaker 1: So I went back home at like one, woke up

485
00:25:13,320 --> 00:25:15,240
Speaker 1: at five am, hopped on at eight am. Flight to

486
00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:20,760
Speaker 1: Cabo made it. I met you guys at noon and

487
00:25:20,840 --> 00:25:23,919
Speaker 1: just hit the ground running. It was like, here's a margarita,

488
00:25:24,080 --> 00:25:29,080
Speaker 1: here's some rose, here's a mohito, here's all the things. Yeah,

489
00:25:29,280 --> 00:25:31,200
Speaker 1: there's a lot of drinking. There's a lot of drinking.

490
00:25:32,560 --> 00:25:35,840
Speaker 1: You really did it, though, I like, you really did

491
00:25:35,880 --> 00:25:38,680
Speaker 1: the thing. I really did the thing. I've been pressed.

492
00:25:38,760 --> 00:25:40,000
Speaker 1: I pulled it off because I was just like, I

493
00:25:40,000 --> 00:25:43,480
Speaker 1: don't have this the post Pandy lifestyle is really hard

494
00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:45,240
Speaker 1: for me because I think I got used to not

495
00:25:45,320 --> 00:25:48,760
Speaker 1: doing much and so now everybody's doing all the things

496
00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:51,840
Speaker 1: and I'm just not my stamina. I need to build

497
00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:56,400
Speaker 1: my stamina backup. I feel that it was It's been

498
00:25:56,400 --> 00:25:58,320
Speaker 1: a lot too. It was a lot of traveling for me.

499
00:25:58,440 --> 00:26:00,920
Speaker 1: So but I did have a moment because I was

500
00:26:00,960 --> 00:26:03,000
Speaker 1: in the airport yesterday and I was like, you know,

501
00:26:03,040 --> 00:26:05,720
Speaker 1: I was just sitting there and I my thought was like, oh,

502
00:26:05,800 --> 00:26:08,000
Speaker 1: this is taking so long. I'm so annoyed, and airports

503
00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:10,360
Speaker 1: are so crazy. And then I was like, I'm so

504
00:26:10,480 --> 00:26:12,520
Speaker 1: lucky I get to travel, Like this is so cool

505
00:26:12,560 --> 00:26:15,119
Speaker 1: that like I get to do these things and celebrate

506
00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:17,080
Speaker 1: my friends and be a part of these things. But

507
00:26:17,520 --> 00:26:20,399
Speaker 1: it was really fun. Jodo's bachelorette was like one of

508
00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:24,720
Speaker 1: the best trips ever because we would party, like wake up,

509
00:26:24,920 --> 00:26:27,879
Speaker 1: laid by the pool, drink, eat, it was amazing, and

510
00:26:27,920 --> 00:26:30,720
Speaker 1: then we'd all be in bed by like ninety It

511
00:26:30,800 --> 00:26:33,840
Speaker 1: was ideal. That's like, that's something dream to me. Except

512
00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:37,280
Speaker 1: for the night I came of course, last night. Yeah yeah, midnight.

513
00:26:37,320 --> 00:26:39,920
Speaker 1: But even now we were only up till midnight because

514
00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:41,880
Speaker 1: we had a late dinner reservation, was like, I'm about

515
00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:44,040
Speaker 1: to face plant in these beans right now, but I

516
00:26:44,080 --> 00:26:47,359
Speaker 1: do want to talk about something that happened on the

517
00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:52,159
Speaker 1: bachelortt trip. So Jojo got some cover ups from this

518
00:26:52,240 --> 00:26:56,160
Speaker 1: company for us to all have, okay, and we all

519
00:26:56,200 --> 00:26:58,359
Speaker 1: picked like what color we wanted, what style we want,

520
00:26:58,880 --> 00:27:00,720
Speaker 1: and so we get there and just was like handing

521
00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:03,600
Speaker 1: them out and she was like laughing, and she's like,

522
00:27:03,640 --> 00:27:06,320
Speaker 1: I'm laughing because Tanya chose the white one, which on

523
00:27:06,359 --> 00:27:08,840
Speaker 1: a bachelor at party, like typically no one else wears

524
00:27:08,880 --> 00:27:12,440
Speaker 1: white except for the Bachelor at bride unless it's agreed

525
00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:14,800
Speaker 1: like we're all wearing white or something. It's just like

526
00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:18,119
Speaker 1: kind of standard tradition, I guess, and I don't know

527
00:27:18,160 --> 00:27:21,240
Speaker 1: if everyone follows it. But anyways, she was and Jojo

528
00:27:21,359 --> 00:27:23,720
Speaker 1: does not care, like she's so chill. I remember when

529
00:27:23,720 --> 00:27:26,480
Speaker 1: we went and looked at wedding dresses she had Tanya

530
00:27:26,520 --> 00:27:28,480
Speaker 1: wore a white shirt and I was like, you're wearing

531
00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:31,200
Speaker 1: a white shirt, don't try on wedding dresses and she's

532
00:27:31,200 --> 00:27:34,399
Speaker 1: like what, I didn't know, so and Jojo was like,

533
00:27:34,400 --> 00:27:36,440
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, I could not care less. But then

534
00:27:36,640 --> 00:27:39,040
Speaker 1: when when she picked the white cover up, we were

535
00:27:39,080 --> 00:27:43,840
Speaker 1: like laughing about it. So Tanya gets to the house

536
00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:46,080
Speaker 1: and she's about to put on her slipsuit and she

537
00:27:46,160 --> 00:27:51,720
Speaker 1: were all white. I'm like, Tanya, I brought a white

538
00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:53,800
Speaker 1: want these a white cover up? I was wearing a

539
00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:56,960
Speaker 1: white tank top on the plane, like I just fully

540
00:27:57,160 --> 00:28:00,360
Speaker 1: was just it's almost as if, like I, I guess

541
00:28:00,359 --> 00:28:03,119
Speaker 1: I wear a lot of white. Yeah, it's really what

542
00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:06,159
Speaker 1: I'm gathering because it was very not intentional. But I

543
00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:09,040
Speaker 1: also forget that that's like a thing that you're not

544
00:28:09,080 --> 00:28:11,560
Speaker 1: supposed to wear white, you know. I know that I

545
00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:14,080
Speaker 1: knew you were supposed to wear white at a wedding,

546
00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:16,200
Speaker 1: but I don't know that that also extends to other

547
00:28:16,320 --> 00:28:19,560
Speaker 1: ancillary wedding activities, right, And I'd be curious to know

548
00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:22,240
Speaker 1: what the scrubbers like if that's a still a thing

549
00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:26,280
Speaker 1: a bridle shower, you're not supposed to wear white. But

550
00:28:26,720 --> 00:28:29,920
Speaker 1: in my mind, I just assume if we're celebrating the bride,

551
00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:33,320
Speaker 1: no white, it makes sense, and it's total sense. But

552
00:28:33,640 --> 00:28:36,840
Speaker 1: it was like one of those just like oh, because

553
00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:38,880
Speaker 1: then everyone knows, right, they know who the guests are.

554
00:28:42,440 --> 00:28:45,880
Speaker 1: The celebration is the bride and white. Everyone else not

555
00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:52,280
Speaker 1: in white. Right, I'm telling you, well to your partying white.

556
00:28:52,960 --> 00:28:56,680
Speaker 1: But I did have other swimsuits thankfully I packed, so

557
00:28:56,760 --> 00:28:59,440
Speaker 1: I did not wear white. Um no, And you want

558
00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:01,560
Speaker 1: to have charried, she wouldn't have cared. But it was

559
00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:04,640
Speaker 1: just so funny. My friends were messaging me like that's

560
00:29:04,680 --> 00:29:07,880
Speaker 1: so thoughtless of you and oh my god, and total purpose.

561
00:29:09,720 --> 00:29:11,640
Speaker 1: I would cry if someone said that time and yeah,

562
00:29:11,680 --> 00:29:17,840
Speaker 1: I got it. Just kind of emotional sharrom um. Yeah.

563
00:29:17,840 --> 00:29:22,120
Speaker 1: So it was really fun um and we addressed like

564
00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:24,920
Speaker 1: men Klein and all his friends and like everyone like

565
00:29:25,080 --> 00:29:28,240
Speaker 1: fully committed to it. Like I thought, you know, asking

566
00:29:28,280 --> 00:29:30,200
Speaker 1: people to do that, like it's a weird thing I

567
00:29:30,240 --> 00:29:33,239
Speaker 1: do with my friends. You know, it's like in my

568
00:29:33,440 --> 00:29:37,640
Speaker 1: comfort of my own home. It's you know, it's my thing.

569
00:29:37,760 --> 00:29:42,560
Speaker 1: But like comfort when I'm dressed in kleine, Like if

570
00:29:42,560 --> 00:29:44,760
Speaker 1: I'm filming videos, it's not like kind of go out

571
00:29:44,800 --> 00:29:46,360
Speaker 1: and do it. Like I always trying to get me

572
00:29:46,400 --> 00:29:47,960
Speaker 1: to go out and shoot content and I'm like I

573
00:29:47,960 --> 00:29:53,200
Speaker 1: can't do like so ubconscious. But anyways, like we'd thought

574
00:29:53,240 --> 00:29:54,800
Speaker 1: about it, and some of the girls are like, that

575
00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:56,560
Speaker 1: would be so funny if we did, like the lingerie

576
00:29:56,640 --> 00:29:58,760
Speaker 1: party and we're all dressed as guys and don't tell her.

577
00:29:59,080 --> 00:30:02,400
Speaker 1: So we all did it in everyone just like fully committed,

578
00:30:02,480 --> 00:30:05,920
Speaker 1: like gotten to character and it was so cool, Like

579
00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:09,000
Speaker 1: you know how people say you like you're you are

580
00:30:09,040 --> 00:30:12,600
Speaker 1: who you surround yourself with, like JoJo's group of people,

581
00:30:12,600 --> 00:30:15,480
Speaker 1: because a lot of them were friends from like college

582
00:30:15,480 --> 00:30:18,120
Speaker 1: in high school and people I haven't spent time with

583
00:30:18,240 --> 00:30:21,840
Speaker 1: or met, and you really got a glimpse into that,

584
00:30:21,840 --> 00:30:24,640
Speaker 1: that mentality of like you are who you surround yourself. Yeah,

585
00:30:24,680 --> 00:30:27,120
Speaker 1: I didn't know anybody aside from Becca at the bachelorette,

586
00:30:27,200 --> 00:30:29,760
Speaker 1: and everybody welcomed me with open arms. It was so

587
00:30:29,800 --> 00:30:33,360
Speaker 1: excited that I was there, Like it was so fun. Yeah,

588
00:30:33,720 --> 00:30:35,200
Speaker 1: and you know what I realized, I love why I

589
00:30:35,280 --> 00:30:40,080
Speaker 1: love bachelrette parties and why I love sorority life of

590
00:30:40,120 --> 00:30:42,720
Speaker 1: the like all of us under one roof, Like who's

591
00:30:42,720 --> 00:30:45,360
Speaker 1: showering and what shower? We gotta take turns because there's

592
00:30:45,400 --> 00:30:46,960
Speaker 1: only so many showers and so many of us. We

593
00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:48,640
Speaker 1: need to pull out the roll away bed because there's

594
00:30:48,640 --> 00:30:51,840
Speaker 1: not a beds for people. Like going downstairs, everybody's eating

595
00:30:51,840 --> 00:30:55,160
Speaker 1: at different times. There's coffee, Like I just love that

596
00:30:56,120 --> 00:31:00,000
Speaker 1: that vibe. It's like I thrive in that. That's so interesting.

597
00:31:00,000 --> 00:31:03,360
Speaker 1: It's very specific, Like that's a very specific, like niche

598
00:31:03,440 --> 00:31:08,720
Speaker 1: thing to love, like I love it. You love community. Yes. Yeah.

599
00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:11,480
Speaker 1: We were sitting downstairs and we were all like getting

600
00:31:11,560 --> 00:31:14,600
Speaker 1: drinking coffee before we went to dinner because everybody was tired.

601
00:31:15,160 --> 00:31:20,920
Speaker 1: And her, no, that's JoJo's sister. She made a coffee

602
00:31:21,360 --> 00:31:24,080
Speaker 1: and she pours like, you know, there's all these sugars,

603
00:31:24,080 --> 00:31:25,920
Speaker 1: and she grabs the simple syrup and pours it in

604
00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:28,440
Speaker 1: there and put it back. And I don't know why that,

605
00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:31,080
Speaker 1: it was so funny, but she grabbed the soap that

606
00:31:31,240 --> 00:31:35,040
Speaker 1: like it was it was like it was clear and

607
00:31:35,080 --> 00:31:37,320
Speaker 1: it was in like what looks like you know, simple

608
00:31:37,320 --> 00:31:40,680
Speaker 1: syrup is in those little things now. So I could

609
00:31:40,680 --> 00:31:42,640
Speaker 1: see how she got it confused, and she had dish

610
00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:45,800
Speaker 1: soap in her coffee and I lost it. I was

611
00:31:45,880 --> 00:31:48,760
Speaker 1: laughing for like forty five minutes. She was like, you guys,

612
00:31:48,840 --> 00:31:50,800
Speaker 1: that's dish soap. I just put dish soap in my

613
00:31:50,920 --> 00:31:54,920
Speaker 1: coffee to all the sugars were all like, we're only

614
00:31:54,960 --> 00:31:58,480
Speaker 1: like dish soap. Yeah, it was. It was really fun right,

615
00:31:58,520 --> 00:32:00,800
Speaker 1: It's like dumb stuff like that, that's not funny, but

616
00:32:00,960 --> 00:32:05,240
Speaker 1: I was justly thing right, that doesn't happen when you

617
00:32:05,240 --> 00:32:08,880
Speaker 1: live alone, or if it does, no one's there to

618
00:32:08,960 --> 00:32:12,520
Speaker 1: laugh with you, you know, like I'm laughing by myself drinking.

619
00:32:15,160 --> 00:32:18,239
Speaker 1: So so it was sunny. Happy to see you when

620
00:32:18,240 --> 00:32:20,880
Speaker 1: you go at home. Okay, So it's so funny because

621
00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:23,600
Speaker 1: I so I had to pick her up, um, and

622
00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:25,640
Speaker 1: I was faced tigning with Red Star, and he was

623
00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:28,560
Speaker 1: just like, I just want to warn you she might

624
00:32:28,600 --> 00:32:31,040
Speaker 1: not give you the warm welcome that you're expecting because

625
00:32:31,080 --> 00:32:34,280
Speaker 1: sometimes dogs get mad at their owners or that, you

626
00:32:34,320 --> 00:32:35,600
Speaker 1: know what I mean. Just I don't want to prepare

627
00:32:35,600 --> 00:32:37,560
Speaker 1: you just in case. So I was like, oh my god,

628
00:32:37,640 --> 00:32:39,120
Speaker 1: she's gonna be pissed when I got to pick her up.

629
00:32:39,120 --> 00:32:41,240
Speaker 1: So I was preparing for the worst. And I'm actually

630
00:32:41,240 --> 00:32:42,920
Speaker 1: glad that I did, because when she saw me, it

631
00:32:42,960 --> 00:32:45,280
Speaker 1: was like she ate my face off. Her tail was

632
00:32:45,280 --> 00:32:47,320
Speaker 1: wagging like she almost the tail almost fell off, she

633
00:32:47,360 --> 00:32:50,240
Speaker 1: was wagging it so hard. So she was very happy

634
00:32:50,280 --> 00:32:53,000
Speaker 1: to see me, and she's very attached to me now,

635
00:32:53,240 --> 00:32:55,080
Speaker 1: Like when I left for work this morning, she was

636
00:32:55,120 --> 00:33:00,160
Speaker 1: like hooting and hollering. Yeah. Red Star was like, he's

637
00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:02,920
Speaker 1: back on you. Well, Phoebe like typically doesn't give me

638
00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:04,760
Speaker 1: much of tip, Like she's kind of like, hey, oh

639
00:33:04,800 --> 00:33:07,920
Speaker 1: you're back. Last night, the whole time I was getting

640
00:33:07,960 --> 00:33:09,640
Speaker 1: ready for the party, she wanted to be in my

641
00:33:09,720 --> 00:33:11,920
Speaker 1: lap and she would just turn around and like smile

642
00:33:12,040 --> 00:33:15,040
Speaker 1: at me, Like I do want to say. Instagram sometimes

643
00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:17,840
Speaker 1: makes me feel very scene, like I have a really

644
00:33:17,920 --> 00:33:22,960
Speaker 1: nice community, because on Friday, I was honestly like preparing

645
00:33:23,000 --> 00:33:26,200
Speaker 1: to leave her and I couldn't stop crying, like not

646
00:33:26,320 --> 00:33:30,480
Speaker 1: sobbing hysterically, but like actual, like tears coming down my face,

647
00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:33,320
Speaker 1: and I couldn't say by her. I just kept hugging

648
00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:34,800
Speaker 1: her and I just didn't want to leave her. And

649
00:33:34,840 --> 00:33:36,680
Speaker 1: I went on Instagram and I was just like, I

650
00:33:36,720 --> 00:33:38,239
Speaker 1: don't know what's wrong with me. I've never left her

651
00:33:38,280 --> 00:33:43,240
Speaker 1: for a weekend. I can't stop crying. So many people

652
00:33:43,280 --> 00:33:44,920
Speaker 1: said that they feel dead due to the same thing,

653
00:33:46,160 --> 00:33:48,840
Speaker 1: so I felt I felt very um. I felt like

654
00:33:48,880 --> 00:33:50,360
Speaker 1: a lot of people wrap their arms around me, which

655
00:33:50,360 --> 00:33:53,600
Speaker 1: I appreciate. I still want to give Phoebe to a

656
00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:56,240
Speaker 1: sitter that's not some like my sister or Haley. I

657
00:33:56,920 --> 00:34:00,240
Speaker 1: get emotional, so just so you know that doesn't change. Yeah,

658
00:34:00,400 --> 00:34:02,480
Speaker 1: I'm like oh and it's only like twenty four hours

659
00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:07,160
Speaker 1: really a little more than barely. Um, okay, I think

660
00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:08,560
Speaker 1: we should take a break and then come back and

661
00:34:08,560 --> 00:34:11,439
Speaker 1: do an email because we're we're we talked about a lot,

662
00:34:12,360 --> 00:34:14,719
Speaker 1: but not Harry Styles yet, so plenty to get to

663
00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:18,440
Speaker 1: see what I've told you. We should have done multiple

664
00:34:18,719 --> 00:34:21,200
Speaker 1: podcast We'll be back. Well, we're gonna take a break,

665
00:34:21,239 --> 00:34:38,880
Speaker 1: be right back. All right, we are back. So what

666
00:34:38,960 --> 00:34:43,000
Speaker 1: did you want to discuss about Harry Styles album? This

667
00:34:43,080 --> 00:34:46,279
Speaker 1: is the thing. So we're about fifty minutes in. We're

668
00:34:46,320 --> 00:34:55,080
Speaker 1: thirty five minutes in, am I okay? Okay, So now

669
00:34:55,120 --> 00:34:58,480
Speaker 1: I can relax, all right, tell me about Harry Styles. Okay.

670
00:34:58,600 --> 00:35:03,960
Speaker 1: So there was this website eight The details escape my

671
00:35:04,080 --> 00:35:06,400
Speaker 1: memory at the moment um. There's a lot of tequila

672
00:35:06,400 --> 00:35:08,840
Speaker 1: in there. But there was this website that was going on.

673
00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:11,439
Speaker 1: This is what I love about Harry Styles. He has

674
00:35:11,440 --> 00:35:14,520
Speaker 1: this new era coming out right Harry's House. It's a

675
00:35:14,560 --> 00:35:18,040
Speaker 1: new album. He announced it. But prior to that, so

676
00:35:18,080 --> 00:35:19,759
Speaker 1: he was he was just on tour and on the

677
00:35:19,800 --> 00:35:22,439
Speaker 1: last like a few shows, at the end of the night,

678
00:35:22,719 --> 00:35:25,160
Speaker 1: when he was saying goodbye to everybody, he would say

679
00:35:25,200 --> 00:35:27,879
Speaker 1: like something along the lines of like take me now,

680
00:35:27,960 --> 00:35:31,279
Speaker 1: take me home, or clapped me home or something about

681
00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:34,360
Speaker 1: home right. This is all on the last leg of

682
00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:36,600
Speaker 1: his tour. There was this website that was up that

683
00:35:36,680 --> 00:35:39,000
Speaker 1: was like very cryptic and nobody knew what it was.

684
00:35:39,040 --> 00:35:40,919
Speaker 1: But it was just a door and like you would

685
00:35:40,960 --> 00:35:42,600
Speaker 1: hover over it and it would be like different, Like

686
00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:44,719
Speaker 1: there was a book one day and there was like

687
00:35:44,760 --> 00:35:49,200
Speaker 1: different images, different patterns. It was you are home dot co.

688
00:35:50,480 --> 00:35:52,160
Speaker 1: End of shows was one more time as loud as

689
00:35:52,160 --> 00:35:54,640
Speaker 1: you can send me home and me home right, it's

690
00:35:54,800 --> 00:36:00,080
Speaker 1: home home. Uh, there's just I can't even get to

691
00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:02,839
Speaker 1: the weeds of it because there's so much in terms

692
00:36:02,880 --> 00:36:05,640
Speaker 1: of detail and things that he did. And then he

693
00:36:05,680 --> 00:36:12,560
Speaker 1: announced that he had Harry's house coming out, and uh,

694
00:36:12,640 --> 00:36:15,680
Speaker 1: the couches on the roof. Everything is kind of upside down.

695
00:36:15,840 --> 00:36:18,360
Speaker 1: People reverse the audio. They think that that's like also

696
00:36:18,400 --> 00:36:20,840
Speaker 1: one of his songs, Like there's something with either upside

697
00:36:20,880 --> 00:36:25,040
Speaker 1: down or reversing. And I just love that he's so

698
00:36:25,120 --> 00:36:31,080
Speaker 1: thoughtful and mechanical and he loves his fans that much

699
00:36:31,680 --> 00:36:35,200
Speaker 1: that he wants them to like have a fun game

700
00:36:35,239 --> 00:36:38,680
Speaker 1: to figure out you know. Yeah, it reminds me of

701
00:36:38,719 --> 00:36:43,480
Speaker 1: someone else that does it brings people together like Taylor. Yeah.

702
00:36:44,280 --> 00:36:46,960
Speaker 1: I it's like the thoughtfulness and the details of like

703
00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:50,239
Speaker 1: giving people something to get excited about and letting them

704
00:36:50,280 --> 00:36:55,600
Speaker 1: do like kind of like yeah, and they don't have

705
00:36:55,680 --> 00:36:59,560
Speaker 1: to do that, especially nowadays. I just don't have to

706
00:36:59,560 --> 00:37:01,800
Speaker 1: do that. But can just draw music. They don't have

707
00:37:01,840 --> 00:37:04,319
Speaker 1: to be thoughtful or intentional about it. No, they don't.

708
00:37:04,360 --> 00:37:06,680
Speaker 1: They don't know. The world is their oyster. It could

709
00:37:06,719 --> 00:37:09,359
Speaker 1: become a TikTok trend in twenty four hours, like they

710
00:37:09,400 --> 00:37:12,440
Speaker 1: just could drop it. But no, great because Harry's House

711
00:37:12,480 --> 00:37:15,320
Speaker 1: is such a great memorable title. So many album titles

712
00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:18,040
Speaker 1: are pretty generic, you know, if you're not really dialed

713
00:37:18,080 --> 00:37:20,200
Speaker 1: into that artist, they could be pretty generic. When Harry's

714
00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:22,680
Speaker 1: House is unique and fun, it's a whole theme, Like

715
00:37:22,719 --> 00:37:25,799
Speaker 1: it's going to be an exciting time, right like Harry's House,

716
00:37:25,840 --> 00:37:28,560
Speaker 1: like his home? Is he going to be talking about home?

717
00:37:28,920 --> 00:37:31,080
Speaker 1: How he when he feels like he's at home? Is

718
00:37:31,120 --> 00:37:32,879
Speaker 1: he gonna be talking about his past? Is he gonna

719
00:37:32,880 --> 00:37:37,400
Speaker 1: talking about his president? Olivia? Olivia Home? I don't know,

720
00:37:37,600 --> 00:37:42,520
Speaker 1: thank you for finishing my sentences Home, but I'm really

721
00:37:42,520 --> 00:37:45,279
Speaker 1: excited about it and I'm just like the president of

722
00:37:45,280 --> 00:37:49,400
Speaker 1: his fan club. I will just be and do everything

723
00:37:49,440 --> 00:37:53,080
Speaker 1: that he says because I just love him, be and do. Yeah,

724
00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:57,279
Speaker 1: that's right, I said it. Uh So I'm excited new out,

725
00:37:57,320 --> 00:38:00,960
Speaker 1: new single out this Friday, very excited. I love Harry.

726
00:38:01,520 --> 00:38:02,960
Speaker 1: I don't know if I'm on the level that you

727
00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:06,160
Speaker 1: love him, but I I think I'm more in love.

728
00:38:06,560 --> 00:38:08,200
Speaker 1: Let me tell you, when you get a personal phone

729
00:38:08,200 --> 00:38:10,960
Speaker 1: call from one Harry that says thank you for a

730
00:38:11,040 --> 00:38:14,400
Speaker 1: great interview. You just that's what ignited my fandom for

731
00:38:14,480 --> 00:38:17,160
Speaker 1: him when you told me about him. You you ride

732
00:38:17,200 --> 00:38:20,200
Speaker 1: or die for him till eternity. Yeah, till till the

733
00:38:20,239 --> 00:38:22,759
Speaker 1: cows come home to Harry's house, until the cow No,

734
00:38:23,080 --> 00:38:25,839
Speaker 1: and beyond and beyond that. Yeah, like Buzz light Year

735
00:38:26,040 --> 00:38:33,560
Speaker 1: exactly Harry's house and beyond. But okay meaning like to

736
00:38:33,640 --> 00:38:38,800
Speaker 1: this next album and beyond. Right, we nailed the coffin

737
00:38:39,680 --> 00:38:45,480
Speaker 1: multiple times. You got the point across YEA excited about

738
00:38:45,480 --> 00:38:49,080
Speaker 1: the new single Friday so soon and it's April. We

739
00:38:49,120 --> 00:38:55,440
Speaker 1: have one month till our boudoir. Shoot. This might be

740
00:38:55,480 --> 00:38:57,600
Speaker 1: the only thing that holds me accountable doing this is

741
00:38:57,640 --> 00:39:03,520
Speaker 1: because like, whether I like do stuff to make myself

742
00:39:03,560 --> 00:39:06,600
Speaker 1: feel good, like physically and like you know, maybe try

743
00:39:06,640 --> 00:39:09,719
Speaker 1: and like get in shape. Whatever. Whether I do that

744
00:39:09,840 --> 00:39:11,799
Speaker 1: or not, we're still doing the shoot. So I either

745
00:39:11,880 --> 00:39:15,640
Speaker 1: do it like maybe not feeling my best, or I

746
00:39:15,719 --> 00:39:21,400
Speaker 1: like get after it and show up ready, Yeah, to

747
00:39:21,480 --> 00:39:28,959
Speaker 1: retrieve the maja the Yeah. So we have a mom. Yeah,

748
00:39:29,120 --> 00:39:35,080
Speaker 1: full month. Yeah, we have an email. Where is the email? Oh,

749
00:39:35,200 --> 00:39:37,919
Speaker 1: we have an email. We have to but we're only

750
00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:42,279
Speaker 1: doing one, so Mark take her away alright, BECA, thank

751
00:39:42,280 --> 00:39:44,680
Speaker 1: you very much. This email is from Danielle. She says,

752
00:39:44,680 --> 00:39:46,800
Speaker 1: I'm of the age all my friends are having kids

753
00:39:46,800 --> 00:39:49,279
Speaker 1: and my husband and I I'm more recently married than them,

754
00:39:49,280 --> 00:39:52,360
Speaker 1: but regardless, we're not sure kids are in our path. However,

755
00:39:52,400 --> 00:39:55,160
Speaker 1: I find myself getting really sad and upset when all

756
00:39:55,160 --> 00:39:57,319
Speaker 1: our friends have birthday get together for their kids and

757
00:39:57,320 --> 00:40:00,040
Speaker 1: we're not invited. I see pictures on social media of

758
00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:02,399
Speaker 1: all the kids at different things, and it hurts. Sure,

759
00:40:02,480 --> 00:40:05,840
Speaker 1: Chucky cheese is in my first choice for fun, It's Easton's.

760
00:40:06,560 --> 00:40:08,680
Speaker 1: She didn't say that. I'm throwing that in myself, but

761
00:40:08,760 --> 00:40:10,920
Speaker 1: I'd go to see my friends and their kids. How

762
00:40:10,920 --> 00:40:13,120
Speaker 1: would you go about this? Suck it up? But enjoy

763
00:40:13,239 --> 00:40:15,400
Speaker 1: not going to chuck E cheese or address it, And

764
00:40:15,440 --> 00:40:18,600
Speaker 1: if so, what would you say? I might let Eastern

765
00:40:18,719 --> 00:40:22,080
Speaker 1: take the lead on this because I'm curious if you

766
00:40:22,440 --> 00:40:25,640
Speaker 1: not the chucky cheese part, although that really tied in nicely.

767
00:40:25,760 --> 00:40:28,520
Speaker 1: But if you've ever experienced this, because you have talked

768
00:40:28,520 --> 00:40:32,480
Speaker 1: about how you and Allison don't my kids, you are

769
00:40:32,600 --> 00:40:34,680
Speaker 1: leaning more in that direction. Or if you've if you've

770
00:40:34,719 --> 00:40:38,919
Speaker 1: experienced this, you know they're kids are are not very

771
00:40:39,040 --> 00:40:41,319
Speaker 1: likely for us. We're not completely ruling it out, but

772
00:40:41,360 --> 00:40:45,920
Speaker 1: if but we're very much on the probably not spectrum.

773
00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:48,000
Speaker 1: And you know a lot of our friends aren't having kids,

774
00:40:48,120 --> 00:40:51,040
Speaker 1: and uh, if we don't get I don't know if

775
00:40:51,040 --> 00:40:53,200
Speaker 1: this has happened there or not, but if we don't

776
00:40:53,200 --> 00:40:55,040
Speaker 1: get invited to the birthday party, we're fine with it.

777
00:40:56,960 --> 00:40:59,080
Speaker 1: I like chuck E cheese a lot, and it's weird

778
00:40:59,160 --> 00:41:02,160
Speaker 1: if you go with out at child, especially if you

779
00:41:02,200 --> 00:41:05,319
Speaker 1: go by yourself, which I've done before. Uh So an

780
00:41:05,320 --> 00:41:08,360
Speaker 1: excuse to go chuck E cheese is fun, but also, um,

781
00:41:08,400 --> 00:41:10,080
Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't want to be around a

782
00:41:10,080 --> 00:41:12,839
Speaker 1: bunch of screaming brats. I'm okay with not not going

783
00:41:12,840 --> 00:41:15,560
Speaker 1: to the party. I would have invited you for sure

784
00:41:15,600 --> 00:41:17,000
Speaker 1: if you and I have been friends with my kids

785
00:41:17,000 --> 00:41:21,480
Speaker 1: were a little I hadn't invited you for sure, thank you. Yeah?

786
00:41:21,600 --> 00:41:24,960
Speaker 1: Where his uncle east? Yeah? And I would go if

787
00:41:25,000 --> 00:41:28,400
Speaker 1: I was invited. But I also, UM, I don't know.

788
00:41:28,440 --> 00:41:32,200
Speaker 1: I don't I don't ever feel the fomo. I don't

789
00:41:32,239 --> 00:41:35,799
Speaker 1: get fomo very easily. And um, I don't know. I'm

790
00:41:35,840 --> 00:41:38,480
Speaker 1: a I'm a very confident, straight white man. You know

791
00:41:38,480 --> 00:41:40,920
Speaker 1: the world has made for me, So I think it.

792
00:41:41,360 --> 00:41:43,319
Speaker 1: I think it's easier. I come from a place of

793
00:41:43,360 --> 00:41:46,000
Speaker 1: extreme privilege, so I think that's okay. You know, I

794
00:41:46,040 --> 00:41:50,600
Speaker 1: think me not experience some fomo is not the normal experience. Um. So,

795
00:41:50,600 --> 00:41:53,759
Speaker 1: so I can't offer a lot of interesting perspective on that.

796
00:41:53,960 --> 00:41:56,920
Speaker 1: But uh, That's where I'm coming from. And to the

797
00:41:57,000 --> 00:41:59,360
Speaker 1: to the person who wrote this email, I say, UM,

798
00:41:59,520 --> 00:42:02,319
Speaker 1: be secure here in your decisions. If your friends don't

799
00:42:02,360 --> 00:42:04,160
Speaker 1: invite you because you don't have a kid, that kind

800
00:42:04,160 --> 00:42:07,480
Speaker 1: of sucks. I think, um, and uh, they should include

801
00:42:07,480 --> 00:42:11,000
Speaker 1: you regardless. Uh, you know, maybe tell your friends, like

802
00:42:11,040 --> 00:42:12,839
Speaker 1: I'm feeling kind of left out, like do I need

803
00:42:12,880 --> 00:42:15,640
Speaker 1: a kid to enter this this building? That that's not

804
00:42:15,680 --> 00:42:17,319
Speaker 1: the case. Usually you can still go to a park

805
00:42:17,400 --> 00:42:20,800
Speaker 1: or Chuckie Cheese if you're attending your birthday party. Um,

806
00:42:20,800 --> 00:42:24,319
Speaker 1: but personally I don't feel it. Uh, let them have

807
00:42:24,360 --> 00:42:26,920
Speaker 1: their party. I'm gonna do my adult single person, you know,

808
00:42:27,080 --> 00:42:30,520
Speaker 1: childless person thinks well. That was my next point was

809
00:42:30,760 --> 00:42:34,480
Speaker 1: do they assume that maybe you have no interesting Like

810
00:42:34,520 --> 00:42:37,400
Speaker 1: maybe you're like, why would because for me, I have

811
00:42:37,520 --> 00:42:40,959
Speaker 1: a zero fomo going to anything involved with kids, Like, yeah,

812
00:42:40,960 --> 00:42:42,759
Speaker 1: that's what I think. Like they probably think they're doing it,

813
00:42:43,440 --> 00:42:45,799
Speaker 1: like they're like, yeah, like I don't want to feel

814
00:42:45,880 --> 00:42:48,680
Speaker 1: pressure to come to this, to feel like you have to.

815
00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:50,880
Speaker 1: But maybe even just say like, hey, I know we

816
00:42:50,880 --> 00:42:52,120
Speaker 1: don't have kids, and we don't know if we're going

817
00:42:52,160 --> 00:42:53,719
Speaker 1: to have them, but I would love to be a

818
00:42:53,760 --> 00:42:55,879
Speaker 1: part of your kids lives and be invited to these

819
00:42:55,880 --> 00:42:59,120
Speaker 1: big events that celebrate them, Like I don't feel uncomfortable,

820
00:42:59,200 --> 00:43:01,359
Speaker 1: and I don't want you to uncomfortable, Like we would

821
00:43:01,400 --> 00:43:03,000
Speaker 1: love to be there for these moments. And I think

822
00:43:03,040 --> 00:43:06,960
Speaker 1: it's more about them not wanting to bird, like Tony said,

823
00:43:07,000 --> 00:43:09,200
Speaker 1: burden you more than it is that they don't want you.

824
00:43:09,320 --> 00:43:11,399
Speaker 1: They're probably thinking you don't want to come to chuck

825
00:43:11,400 --> 00:43:13,440
Speaker 1: e cheese on a Saturday morning. You know you want

826
00:43:13,440 --> 00:43:14,719
Speaker 1: to sleep in or you know what I mean, Like,

827
00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:16,600
Speaker 1: that's probably what they're thinking. So I think you should

828
00:43:16,640 --> 00:43:19,759
Speaker 1: just say something nicely. Don't be like I'm pissed that

829
00:43:19,840 --> 00:43:21,360
Speaker 1: you didn't you know you're not, but say in a

830
00:43:21,440 --> 00:43:24,600
Speaker 1: nice way like I'd love to come. Uh, just because

831
00:43:24,600 --> 00:43:25,960
Speaker 1: we don't have kids doesn't mean we don't want to

832
00:43:25,960 --> 00:43:27,960
Speaker 1: come and be a part of So I would just

833
00:43:28,239 --> 00:43:31,840
Speaker 1: address it. And if they still don't invite you, then yeah, absolutely.

834
00:43:31,840 --> 00:43:33,920
Speaker 1: They think you're doing your they think they're doing you

835
00:43:33,960 --> 00:43:35,799
Speaker 1: a favor. So just let them know that you left

836
00:43:35,840 --> 00:43:38,040
Speaker 1: to go. And by the way, careful what you wished for? Right?

837
00:43:38,200 --> 00:43:40,120
Speaker 1: You have to go to these things and it gets expensive.

838
00:43:40,239 --> 00:43:41,959
Speaker 1: You have to get bring them a gift every single time.

839
00:43:43,000 --> 00:43:48,719
Speaker 1: Untie Danielle, can't you up in the end, dude, let's

840
00:43:48,719 --> 00:43:50,640
Speaker 1: talk about Thursday show because it's gonna be a hum

841
00:43:50,680 --> 00:43:56,000
Speaker 1: dinger um ding real hula baloo hella baloo hell. I

842
00:43:56,040 --> 00:43:59,400
Speaker 1: thought it was hella baloo, hella baloo. It's hulla baloo

843
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Speaker 1: hell with are you um? We are doing a family

844
00:44:04,000 --> 00:44:10,279
Speaker 1: feud again, but this time it's against scrubbers. We heard

845
00:44:10,280 --> 00:44:12,200
Speaker 1: from Macy in the Facebook group. She and her friends

846
00:44:12,200 --> 00:44:14,680
Speaker 1: Samantha challenged you to to a game of family food.

847
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Speaker 1: We thought that'd be a fun way to kind of

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Speaker 1: change it up for part two. So that's what we're

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Speaker 1: gonna do. It's gonna be the Scrubbers versus the hosts,

850
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Speaker 1: the Scrubbers versus the attendings. Okay, alright, great, the Scrubbers,

851
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Speaker 1: the attending Thursday on Scrubbing In. It's gonna be so fun.

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Speaker 1: Um and asked for this episode, did you have anything

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00:44:38,920 --> 00:44:41,200
Speaker 1: else that you needed to do? Yeah? I did, Like

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Speaker 1: I just there's just so much. There's just so much.

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Speaker 1: I felt like we covered everything. We didn't though, that's okay. Oh,

856
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Speaker 1: I don't want to give a shout out to Renee

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Speaker 1: Um sweet scrubber. She ran into Red Star at the

858
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Speaker 1: at the Mountains skiing, went up to him and introduced

859
00:44:57,760 --> 00:45:00,640
Speaker 1: herself as a scrub sister, and they FaceTime to us

860
00:45:00,640 --> 00:45:03,520
Speaker 1: when we were in combos, So shout out. She was

861
00:45:03,560 --> 00:45:05,719
Speaker 1: so cute. We were kind of drunk when we facetimed her,

862
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Speaker 1: but I remember her vividly. Same was that drum yeah Saturday. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't remember being drunk at that point. But I

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00:45:14,280 --> 00:45:19,880
Speaker 1: do remember Renee and so great to meet you. And

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Speaker 1: well we can get to what you didn't get to

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Speaker 1: talk about today on Thursday's episodes. Okay, yeah, I have

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Speaker 1: to just think about it because there's like I thought

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Speaker 1: it'd be on the top of your head since it's

869
00:45:27,880 --> 00:45:30,719
Speaker 1: so urgent, but you none of it's urgent, and none

870
00:45:30,760 --> 00:45:33,480
Speaker 1: of it's urgent. But what is it? I don't have

871
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Speaker 1: to think about that, So it's not that it's not

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Speaker 1: Yeah I'm saying it's so it's not urgent that we

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Speaker 1: have to squeeze it in this episode. We can get

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Speaker 1: to it on Thursday's episode. Well what's urgent? Like, let's

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Speaker 1: really put that into person like what we talked about.

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00:45:46,520 --> 00:45:51,319
Speaker 1: I think nothing's urgent. We're not carrying cancer here. We

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Speaker 1: are simply discussing discussing very unimportant things. So urgent that way. Correct. Uh,

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Speaker 1: We'll be back Thursday. We love you all, have a

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00:46:03,280 --> 00:46:10,160
Speaker 1: great Monday. Yeah, bye bye