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Speaker 1: What's up y'all? Is your girl lex.

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Speaker 2: P and and you are tuned in to another episode of.

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Speaker 1: Poor Mind Speaks. I got kind of hood on that.

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Speaker 2: I said, pul mind, what was about this? Because I said, pull,

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Speaker 2: what's good about that? That sounded like a real nigga pull.

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Speaker 2: People say, oh, Paul Mind, I know you don't know.

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Speaker 1: I say my R.

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Speaker 2: I say my R towards yes you was supposed to

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Speaker 2: say pole mind, pole mind? What I thought?

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Speaker 1: I thought I did good?

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Speaker 2: Okay, So before before we get into you know, what

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Speaker 2: we've been up to and stuff, So I saw this

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Speaker 2: report and I like, it's crazy.

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Speaker 1: I saw a report and.

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Speaker 2: It would like say that these girls, this Brazilian celebrity,

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Speaker 2: she had to go to the hospital right because she

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Speaker 2: was in front of her boyfriend and she didn't want

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Speaker 2: to pooped, so she was holding her giving us, but

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Speaker 2: she had to go to the hospital. Bruh, she went

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Speaker 2: to the hospital.

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Speaker 1: Was part that was diabolic? She had a thought.

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Speaker 2: So anyway, so yes, everybody was like it's crazy because

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Speaker 2: my my homeboy had sent it to me. Then Killa

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Speaker 2: had sent it to me and they were just laughing

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Speaker 2: because they know, like I don't pooped in front of men,

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Speaker 2: and I just cannot believe you can get hospitalized over

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Speaker 2: that bit.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna have to take me to the e yard

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Speaker 1: because I ain't doing it well. Yeah, because you know,

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Speaker 1: like when gas gets trapped in there, it gets serious.

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Speaker 2: But how could it get stuck because it can't come out?

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Speaker 1: That's wild. It is wild, but it's true. That's wild. Y'all.

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Speaker 2: Never liked when you be having a poop real man, like,

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Speaker 2: you know, you feel it in your stummats.

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Speaker 1: It be like suck in the like.

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Speaker 2: So imagine if you got to just hold because I mean,

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Speaker 2: you got put in front of him because but you

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Speaker 2: be like.

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Speaker 1: Oh, you're gonna walk away. I got call the man.

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Speaker 1: I told you. I I just cannot do it.

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Speaker 2: I really think I need like my next relationship I

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Speaker 2: want to take.

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Speaker 1: Do you need poot therapy? Flatulent therapy?

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Speaker 2: That's not a real thing, Yes it is. There's therapy

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Speaker 2: for everything. So I'm gonna take flatulents therapy so I

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Speaker 2: can learn how to just be comfortable in front of people,

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Speaker 2: like I barely do that in front of my friends

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Speaker 2: and my family. Why would you, ray, I barely do

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Speaker 2: that in front of you.

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Speaker 1: Definitely be duke seeing in my house.

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Speaker 2: And don't give I don't and you don't even warm,

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Speaker 2: you know, because I'm trying to sneak.

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Speaker 1: Say that you don't even want in the bathroom.

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Speaker 2: Would like, why do you keep saying, dookie? It sounds

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Speaker 2: so vulgar?

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Speaker 1: It be vulgar. It's number two the bed. I bet

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Speaker 1: thiguring I can hide it.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, you call oh my boy, I'm embarrassed.

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Speaker 2: But yes, I really think I need to work on

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Speaker 2: that because I don't want to go to the hospital. Bro.

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Speaker 1: I think that's like a very rare case.

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Speaker 2: I don't think that happens to people often go to

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Speaker 2: the bad I mean, you go to the hospital for them,

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Speaker 2: because most people are.

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Speaker 1: Just gonna let it out. We the only we like

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Speaker 1: are very few of the people that give a about that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so that's something I'm gonna work on within myself.

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Speaker 2: But anyways, what you been up.

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Speaker 1: To, girl? Grow? What did I do this week? Let's see,

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Speaker 1: I really just being chilling this week.

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Speaker 2: I feel like, you know, I had went to Houston

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Speaker 2: the other week, so this week I just being chilling, relaxing.

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Speaker 1: I went to Houston this past weekend.

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Speaker 2: Oh it was alright, it was, Alright, I feel like

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Speaker 2: I go to Houston so much and I'm just kind

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Speaker 2: of like I have a good time. Don't get me wrong,

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Speaker 2: but I think I'm kind of just over it.

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Speaker 1: I'm dead. I'm just kind of over it. Like I

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Speaker 1: need a new city to frequently visit all the time.

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Speaker 2: I mean, but your family lived there, so I mean, man,

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Speaker 2: they can watch the show. Hey y'all, this me visiting.

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Speaker 2: Hey y'all, let's see, I'm going to Houston.

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Speaker 1: Having fun when I go to Houston.

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Speaker 2: You know what, I just think something. I had a

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Speaker 2: little incident that happened this past time. So maybe that's

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Speaker 2: just why I just need a break. I go to

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Speaker 2: Houston a lot. I go to Houston so much. I mean, yes,

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Speaker 2: to Houston like four times this year already. That's damn there,

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Speaker 2: more than one point five times a month.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: You know, hey, I can't pronounce ship, but I can

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Speaker 2: do some math now, So yeah, I went to Houston.

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Speaker 2: But that's really been about it, Like I don't have

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Speaker 2: nothing going on. Oh I'm so excited because I feel

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Speaker 2: like one thing I do like to do is make sure,

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Speaker 2: like in my beauty world, am I getting my hair done,

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Speaker 1: I like to use black women like for all my things.

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Speaker 2: So the last thing I was trying to find was

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Speaker 2: like a nail tech, and I just couldnot find a

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Speaker 1: That I really really really really liked. Fired.

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Speaker 2: I love my nails. She did such a good job

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Speaker 2: and she was very professional. She was very sweet. This

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Speaker 1: I actually have some nails saving in my phone.

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Speaker 2: It's kind of like it's like, what would you call

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Speaker 2: these marble?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's marble.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, I have some nails kind of saved like

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Speaker 2: this in my phone that are emerald green, and I

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Speaker 2: want to do them.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we was gonna do emirald. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Her instagram is Janet j Nills. She's in Atlanta, So

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Speaker 2: if you need Joe nails done in Atlanta, shout out

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Speaker 2: to her.

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Speaker 1: So I feel like, you know.

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Speaker 2: We go to the same last girl, shout out to

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Speaker 2: Jay Lilly to the same nil.

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Speaker 1: Now we're going to the same nail girl.

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Speaker 2: And I could still go to DD and get my

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Speaker 2: So I just feel like I got a little team.

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Speaker 2: And then of course Cec does our makeup. Whenever you

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Speaker 2: My hair girl to her name, may be easy, okay.

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Speaker 2: And she listened to the show Get my Hair Done,

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Speaker 2: and she was so excited. Hey girl, So I'm excited

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Speaker 2: like my new hair I love.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Like, I just feel like.

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Speaker 2: We're getting the team together, like we're getting the ships again.

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Speaker 2: So I'm just about to start rolling out of bed

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Speaker 2: and coming to these beach azies.

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Speaker 1: Oh they're gonna be waiting on you. Yeah, you got money.

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Speaker 1: What you're gonna be doing? Studio the new one. Well,

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Speaker 1: either way it goes. Bitch, that's on your tail.

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Speaker 2: Don't charge that to my business account. We'll have the

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Speaker 2: make up there. We'll have to make up there. Okay.

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Speaker 2: So let's get into these topics.

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Speaker 1: Ms. Grub.

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Speaker 2: So, as we know, everybody's been talking about this for

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Speaker 2: talk about people saying that black people need to act

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Speaker 2: People are like Oh my god, y'all embarrassing. That's in

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Speaker 2: them people. So that's what we're gonna get into today.

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Speaker 2: Do black people really need to act right in front

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Speaker 2: of white people? No, the fuck because at the end

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Speaker 2: way if we be honi, they'll be wanting up in

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Speaker 1: Should we give a fuck?

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Speaker 2: How we I mean, I'm not saying that we should

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Speaker 2: just act the full, but it's like, I mean, if

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Speaker 2: around white people, you shouldn't condemn y'all still for you, right,

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Speaker 2: because they don't give a fuck how they act around us,

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Speaker 2: right exactly. That's so we just don't act like niggas.

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Speaker 2: Wasn't storm and Capitol Hill, bro, I.

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Speaker 1: Was scared exactly. They talk.

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Speaker 2: You know what's so crazy because the kiarents been cutting up.

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Speaker 2: They're like, oh my god, I'm traumatized. When he walked

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Speaker 2: on that stage, I was like, how am I gonna

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Speaker 2: explain the semi children?

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Speaker 1: Bitch explained to your children like this, don't start. No,

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Speaker 1: she won't be.

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Speaker 3: Because that's what happened.

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Speaker 1: In my mind.

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Speaker 2: If he wouldn't not said that she, he wouldn't have

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Speaker 1: But I am? Because why are you condone? I just

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Speaker 1: feel like it wasn't that bad. It wasn't that bad.

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Speaker 2: No, first of all, it was bad, But I just

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Speaker 2: feel like you just have to be careful with your words,

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Speaker 2: what I mean, because a lot of the time too,

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Speaker 2: you just never know what type of day somebody had it.

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Speaker 1: You see, you could say one thing to.

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Speaker 2: Them and they'd be the thing that makes them go

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Speaker 3: Right.

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Speaker 2: But and so then on top of that too, I

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Speaker 2: especially black men, like black women need to be protected

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Speaker 2: at all cars So I'm always stand up for dead.

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Speaker 2: But it was kind of well, we're gonna get into

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Speaker 2: this on Patreon. Really, we're gonna talk about this on Patreon.

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Speaker 2: But getting back to I prompted us to talk about it, right,

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Speaker 2: but get acting right and like, like like you said,

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Speaker 2: they're already looking to pick us apart, like, oh my god,

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Speaker 2: is that Reggie? Oh my goodness, wait do you mean

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Speaker 2: like a man?

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Speaker 1: Or like we both both bitch both? You know what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying. But it's just like so it don't matter,

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Speaker 1: It doesn't matter.

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Speaker 2: I feel like I'm gonna be myself no matter what,

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Speaker 2: and if you disrespect me, I'm not about to wait

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Speaker 2: twenty minutes just so I can act right in front.

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Speaker 1: Of these people who are barbaric anyway.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, Barbara believe Yeah, intense niggas. When you

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Speaker 2: say barbarack, I mean them niggas was living in K's

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Speaker 2: before we came along.

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Speaker 1: They didn't know what the buck was going on. But

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Speaker 1: we you know, we.

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Speaker 2: Had we had a we had hunts. We knew how

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Speaker 2: to drink water, we knew how to bathe, we you.

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Speaker 1: Know what I'm saying. Like you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: It was a lot like if we want to get

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Speaker 2: to live properly, It was the moors. Hunt don't get

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Speaker 2: me woke. It was don't get me woke. You know

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Speaker 2: they used to call me woke peanut.

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Speaker 1: Who is they the people who you know them people

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Speaker 1: You know, please them folk. Main I agree. I ain't

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Speaker 1: That man is gonna attack us.

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Speaker 2: He is because we don't mention him, like all time.

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Speaker 2: next topic, I wanted to talk about gas lighting yourself.

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Speaker 2: I feel like so many people Ryan, what the fuck.

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Speaker 2: But no yes, I wanted to talk about gas lighting yourself. Okay, Like,

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Speaker 2: gas lighted by their significant other, I'm being gaslighted by

442
00:21:06,520 --> 00:21:09,840
Speaker 2: their friends, but people rarely ever talk about how we

443
00:21:09,880 --> 00:21:12,480
Speaker 2: gas like you to gaslight yourselves, because that is really

444
00:21:12,520 --> 00:21:15,479
Speaker 2: a real thing, and I think everybody has probably been

445
00:21:15,560 --> 00:21:16,320
Speaker 2: guilty of it.

446
00:21:16,280 --> 00:21:18,840
Speaker 1: At one time or another at some point in their life.

447
00:21:18,920 --> 00:21:22,560
Speaker 2: Okay, so before you start, I want to actually give

448
00:21:22,560 --> 00:21:25,480
Speaker 2: the definition of gas lighting so everybody will all get

449
00:21:25,520 --> 00:21:29,680
Speaker 2: on the same page. So, psychologists use the term gas

450
00:21:29,800 --> 00:21:33,960
Speaker 2: lighting to refer to a specific type of manipulation where

451
00:21:34,000 --> 00:21:37,560
Speaker 2: the manipulator is trying to get someone else or a

452
00:21:37,640 --> 00:21:43,360
Speaker 2: group of people to question their own reality, memory, or perceptions.

453
00:21:43,600 --> 00:21:45,720
Speaker 1: And it's always a serious problem.

454
00:21:46,640 --> 00:21:52,639
Speaker 2: So, for example, if I go to your house and

455
00:21:52,680 --> 00:21:55,480
Speaker 2: I steal some money from you, and you're like, oh

456
00:21:55,560 --> 00:21:57,560
Speaker 2: my Godlex, I don't want to be rude, but my

457
00:21:57,600 --> 00:21:59,560
Speaker 2: money's missing. You're the only person that's been over here,

458
00:21:59,600 --> 00:22:02,199
Speaker 2: and I'm just like, like, your fucking psycho, why do

459
00:22:02,240 --> 00:22:04,399
Speaker 2: you think that I would ever do that? Tom, Like,

460
00:22:04,600 --> 00:22:06,400
Speaker 2: I'm gas outing you because low key, I did steal

461
00:22:06,400 --> 00:22:07,920
Speaker 2: your money, but I'm trying to make you seem like

462
00:22:07,960 --> 00:22:10,560
Speaker 2: you crazy, right right right?

463
00:22:10,640 --> 00:22:11,240
Speaker 1: Or if I do.

464
00:22:11,280 --> 00:22:14,240
Speaker 2: Something like if I go and I'm like talking about

465
00:22:14,240 --> 00:22:15,720
Speaker 2: you when you find out and I'm like, you know,

466
00:22:15,760 --> 00:22:18,040
Speaker 2: I would never do that. Now you I'm questioning you

467
00:22:18,480 --> 00:22:22,040
Speaker 2: if you trust me. I'm a gas lighter, baby, I

468
00:22:22,080 --> 00:22:25,840
Speaker 2: love a good gas light session. You are, oh, I

469
00:22:25,960 --> 00:22:27,800
Speaker 2: gased like the funk out these niggas.

470
00:22:28,080 --> 00:22:29,520
Speaker 1: They be like where you was last night?

471
00:22:30,040 --> 00:22:30,320
Speaker 3: Bad.

472
00:22:30,640 --> 00:22:32,760
Speaker 1: I ain't think about you. I ain't gonna lie. Do

473
00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:37,359
Speaker 1: be gassed like niggas sometime I'm a I am a

474
00:22:37,400 --> 00:22:40,879
Speaker 1: gas but it's more than it's beyond lying. I'd be

475
00:22:40,960 --> 00:22:42,000
Speaker 1: like I would sleeve.

476
00:22:41,840 --> 00:22:44,400
Speaker 2: Knowing yeah, or like if he accused you of something

477
00:22:44,400 --> 00:22:49,560
Speaker 2: that you know you did, I'd be like hell about Yeah, you.

478
00:22:49,520 --> 00:22:52,399
Speaker 1: Gotta get the tear. I love one Beyonce tier. You

479
00:22:52,400 --> 00:22:56,200
Speaker 1: know how let that That's what I'm saying. So yeah,

480
00:22:56,359 --> 00:22:59,800
Speaker 1: but let the chop scene not the chopper.

481
00:23:01,760 --> 00:23:06,480
Speaker 2: Okay, So how let's talk about gaslighting ourselves though, because

482
00:23:06,480 --> 00:23:08,399
Speaker 2: before you get into these examples, I do want to

483
00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:11,879
Speaker 2: say something recently happened to me and my feelings were hurt,

484
00:23:12,640 --> 00:23:13,960
Speaker 2: Like my feelings were hurt.

485
00:23:13,760 --> 00:23:14,880
Speaker 1: And I was crying.

486
00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:18,280
Speaker 2: I was so upset, and I kept telling myself, like,

487
00:23:19,480 --> 00:23:20,680
Speaker 2: stop fucking crying.

488
00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:22,879
Speaker 1: You weak, you're being stupid.

489
00:23:23,040 --> 00:23:26,280
Speaker 2: You're not supposed to feel like this, and I felt

490
00:23:26,280 --> 00:23:28,200
Speaker 2: like And I talked to one of my best friends

491
00:23:28,240 --> 00:23:30,360
Speaker 2: and he was like, you're supposed to be sad, You're

492
00:23:30,359 --> 00:23:32,720
Speaker 2: supposed to feel it's okay to feel like stop trying

493
00:23:32,720 --> 00:23:37,960
Speaker 2: to make yourself feel like you're weak for feeling upset.

494
00:23:38,800 --> 00:23:42,240
Speaker 2: So he was like, you're literally gaslighting yourself. Like it's okay,

495
00:23:42,400 --> 00:23:45,360
Speaker 2: So let's talk about the list of things to know.

496
00:23:45,680 --> 00:23:49,399
Speaker 1: You're gaslighting yourself. Okay, cool, so let's talk about it.

497
00:23:49,440 --> 00:23:53,679
Speaker 2: And So I actually got some of these examples from psychology.

498
00:23:53,080 --> 00:23:55,080
Speaker 1: Posts m on Instagram.

499
00:23:55,119 --> 00:23:57,040
Speaker 2: I just wanted to shout them out since we're gonna

500
00:23:57,080 --> 00:24:01,640
Speaker 2: be using some of the examples. For the first one,

501
00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:06,119
Speaker 2: it's you make excuses for someone's bad behavior. Instead of

502
00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:09,280
Speaker 2: acknowledging their toxic behavior, you blame yourself.

503
00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:12,919
Speaker 1: That's me too, A see, I think we all do that.

504
00:24:12,960 --> 00:24:17,000
Speaker 2: Though they'd be like, oh, his baby mama made him.

505
00:24:16,840 --> 00:24:19,159
Speaker 1: Mad grow I'm definitely guilty of that.

506
00:24:19,280 --> 00:24:21,080
Speaker 2: My mom has been getting all my ass about that

507
00:24:21,200 --> 00:24:23,359
Speaker 2: my whole like, she says, I always take up with

508
00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:26,879
Speaker 2: people when I fuck with them, like whether it's a friend,

509
00:24:27,240 --> 00:24:29,919
Speaker 2: whether it's a guy that I'm dating, whatever she was, Like,

510
00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:33,479
Speaker 2: you just always are making excuses for people instead of

511
00:24:33,520 --> 00:24:35,800
Speaker 2: just realizing, like, this is who the person is.

512
00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:39,440
Speaker 1: They've showed you who they are. Did you guys like

513
00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:42,960
Speaker 1: yourself when you punched me in the back of my head? Bitch?

514
00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:44,560
Speaker 1: What did out punch you in the back of your head?

515
00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:48,440
Speaker 1: I've wanted to, Unfortunately I've never acted on it.

516
00:24:49,160 --> 00:24:54,320
Speaker 2: Unfortunately, fortunately for you, I haven't never acted on it,

517
00:24:54,359 --> 00:24:55,639
Speaker 2: but I've definitely wanted to.

518
00:24:55,720 --> 00:24:56,920
Speaker 1: But I've never punched you.

519
00:24:58,560 --> 00:25:02,520
Speaker 2: That gas lighting, But yeah, I just I feel like, yeah,

520
00:25:02,560 --> 00:25:04,760
Speaker 2: I definitely have been guilty of that. And as I'm

521
00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:06,960
Speaker 2: getting older, I'm trying to get myself out of that

522
00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:10,200
Speaker 2: mindset because I do feel like it's kind of hard

523
00:25:10,240 --> 00:25:12,199
Speaker 2: to like not make excuses for people when you care

524
00:25:12,240 --> 00:25:14,600
Speaker 2: about that, right, because you don't want to believe they

525
00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:17,760
Speaker 2: really just did me like right, reason right, you know

526
00:25:18,000 --> 00:25:19,600
Speaker 2: that's the worst. You don't want to feel like, Nah,

527
00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:21,800
Speaker 2: I ain't they wouldn't do me like this, right? No?

528
00:25:21,920 --> 00:25:24,760
Speaker 1: No, I ain't, No way whole time they like a motherfucker.

529
00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:27,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay, So that's the first one, cause I think

530
00:25:27,240 --> 00:25:27,920
Speaker 2: I do that a lot.

531
00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:30,440
Speaker 1: I definitely make it. Oh yeah, I make excuses.

532
00:25:30,040 --> 00:25:32,679
Speaker 2: For me, going like, oh, he didn't mean it, or

533
00:25:32,680 --> 00:25:34,399
Speaker 2: oh he had a bad day, or oh I was

534
00:25:34,440 --> 00:25:36,479
Speaker 2: adding on to whatever this had gone on.

535
00:25:36,560 --> 00:25:39,400
Speaker 1: Oh I shouldn't have said this, I shouldn't have did that.

536
00:25:39,960 --> 00:25:42,400
Speaker 2: So I'm definitely a person. I mean, like I said,

537
00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:44,639
Speaker 2: I recently just did this. I was like, oh, I

538
00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:47,399
Speaker 2: shouldn't have done Oh look at that.

539
00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:52,880
Speaker 1: A mess? All right, So go to the second one.

540
00:25:53,200 --> 00:25:55,800
Speaker 2: Okay, So the second one is you in validate your

541
00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:59,000
Speaker 2: own feelings, saying things like it's not a big deal,

542
00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:01,280
Speaker 2: others have it work, I'm overreacting.

543
00:26:02,040 --> 00:26:02,879
Speaker 1: I don't really do that.

544
00:26:03,080 --> 00:26:05,080
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie like I always feel like my

545
00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:08,720
Speaker 2: feelings is val lead. Yeah see, I'm like, if you

546
00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:10,479
Speaker 2: hurt my feelings, beat you hurt my feelings that I'm

547
00:26:10,520 --> 00:26:10,919
Speaker 2: a state mad.

548
00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:12,760
Speaker 1: I might stay mad at you feel for I might

549
00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:13,440
Speaker 1: not never forgive.

550
00:26:13,600 --> 00:26:15,760
Speaker 2: No, don't do know how she's to me because bach

551
00:26:15,840 --> 00:26:17,440
Speaker 2: I might not never forgive you.

552
00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:19,240
Speaker 1: And I feel like my feelings are val leads.

553
00:26:19,320 --> 00:26:22,119
Speaker 2: Yeah see, And I do this as well because you

554
00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:24,359
Speaker 2: do this, Yeah, because especially when I'm dealing with a

555
00:26:24,400 --> 00:26:27,679
Speaker 2: man that I'm not in a relationship with. I'm always like, well,

556
00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:30,080
Speaker 2: I can't really be mad because he's not my boyfriend.

557
00:26:30,760 --> 00:26:33,040
Speaker 2: I think we all say that, but I ain't your

558
00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:35,480
Speaker 2: boyfriend doesn't mad Like that doesn't have no.

559
00:26:35,400 --> 00:26:37,879
Speaker 1: Bearing on how a nigga respects right exactly.

560
00:26:37,960 --> 00:26:40,280
Speaker 2: It doesn't mean just because you're not my boyfriend doesn't

561
00:26:40,280 --> 00:26:41,639
Speaker 2: mean you don't need to respect me.

562
00:26:41,960 --> 00:26:44,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, and respect how I feel. But I do do

563
00:26:44,840 --> 00:26:45,320
Speaker 1: that a lot.

564
00:26:45,400 --> 00:26:48,399
Speaker 2: I'm like, Oh, I can't be mad because I should

565
00:26:48,400 --> 00:26:50,280
Speaker 2: have told him this, or I can't be mad because

566
00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:52,480
Speaker 2: I should have did that. Like, no, you need to

567
00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:56,800
Speaker 2: be mad because this person has you fucked up. I'm

568
00:26:56,880 --> 00:26:59,440
Speaker 2: learning a lot today. I'm going down this list. I'm

569
00:26:59,440 --> 00:27:04,600
Speaker 2: getting my shit to change that cheat back. You already

570
00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:05,320
Speaker 2: was cheating first.

571
00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:09,680
Speaker 1: Oh, I don't know man. I don't know man, I

572
00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:11,880
Speaker 1: don't know mine. I don't know mine.

573
00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:16,840
Speaker 2: Number three, you're constantly shoulding with shoulting yourself. Oh I

574
00:27:16,840 --> 00:27:19,640
Speaker 2: shouldn't feel this way. I should be over these by now.

575
00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:21,160
Speaker 2: I should just be positive.

576
00:27:21,320 --> 00:27:26,560
Speaker 1: M and one thing about me too. I can't do that.

577
00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:31,520
Speaker 2: I cannot like people be like, oh, you're such a

578
00:27:31,520 --> 00:27:32,159
Speaker 2: good woman.

579
00:27:32,320 --> 00:27:34,160
Speaker 1: You're so funny, you're so beautiful.

580
00:27:34,160 --> 00:27:36,160
Speaker 2: While you're tripping on this nigga, you should go out

581
00:27:36,160 --> 00:27:38,080
Speaker 2: and find you another niggas, all these niggas won't you.

582
00:27:38,119 --> 00:27:40,560
Speaker 1: It was like, I know, but I want that nigga.

583
00:27:40,720 --> 00:27:43,840
Speaker 2: Like sometimes you have to just basking your feelings and

584
00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:48,000
Speaker 2: be sad. Now, this is one thing, Like no, because

585
00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:51,360
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be sad, motherfucker. I'm gonna cry one thing

586
00:27:51,359 --> 00:27:53,359
Speaker 2: about me. I'm a motherfucking cry.

587
00:27:53,200 --> 00:27:54,159
Speaker 1: Same same with me.

588
00:27:54,240 --> 00:27:56,680
Speaker 2: I'm definitely gonna get a little sad about stuff.

589
00:27:56,920 --> 00:27:58,800
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna strawy it to everybody, but I'm gonna

590
00:27:58,840 --> 00:27:59,359
Speaker 1: let links know.

591
00:27:59,400 --> 00:28:01,480
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be like that really hurt my feelings, Like

592
00:28:01,520 --> 00:28:04,159
Speaker 2: I'm really sad about this. I will call you and

593
00:28:04,200 --> 00:28:06,240
Speaker 2: I will live in my feelings for a little while.

594
00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:10,760
Speaker 2: I swollen, not running down, bitch. I'll be crying hard too,

595
00:28:11,160 --> 00:28:13,600
Speaker 2: you do, Oh, I be crying hard than the motherfucker.

596
00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:17,359
Speaker 2: And you always hold the phone like this, so it'd

597
00:28:17,359 --> 00:28:23,880
Speaker 2: be like, right there, tears falling falling on the phone.

598
00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:28,080
Speaker 2: I'd be like, okay, you can't hear me because the

599
00:28:28,119 --> 00:28:31,439
Speaker 2: tears haven't clogged up the speaking and ship. Okay, it's

600
00:28:31,440 --> 00:28:33,600
Speaker 2: gonna be alright. Remember that time you called me you

601
00:28:33,680 --> 00:28:36,119
Speaker 2: dronk a bottle of wine in the morning.

602
00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:40,360
Speaker 1: Oh gosh, I done have some moments, bitch, bitch you

603
00:28:40,520 --> 00:28:42,320
Speaker 1: and me. Remember I used to be drinking a whole

604
00:28:42,360 --> 00:28:43,560
Speaker 1: bottle of wine every day.

605
00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:48,160
Speaker 2: Still wild time, wild time. Okay, So next one, No,

606
00:28:48,320 --> 00:28:54,040
Speaker 2: I don't what would you say that. I'm sorry, you're

607
00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:58,320
Speaker 2: such a liar. Bro Okay, you believe you're too sensitive?

608
00:28:58,400 --> 00:28:58,960
Speaker 3: Now this is you?

609
00:28:59,240 --> 00:29:02,000
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I just tweeted this the other day, y'all.

610
00:29:02,040 --> 00:29:04,760
Speaker 2: I'm literally like I didn't know anything about this list

611
00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:06,560
Speaker 2: because I really wanted to kind of like learn it

612
00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:09,280
Speaker 2: with y'all. I literally just tweeted that the other day.

613
00:29:09,320 --> 00:29:11,320
Speaker 2: I was like, I'm way too sensitive and I hate

614
00:29:11,320 --> 00:29:13,880
Speaker 2: it here. Yeah, it says you believe you're too sensitive.

615
00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:16,200
Speaker 2: As a result, you feel ashamed of your emotions and

616
00:29:16,400 --> 00:29:17,240
Speaker 2: surpress them.

617
00:29:17,800 --> 00:29:18,320
Speaker 1: That's me.

618
00:29:19,520 --> 00:29:21,719
Speaker 2: But see, this is the thing, Like I don't know

619
00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:25,400
Speaker 2: how to correct it because every time I cry and

620
00:29:25,520 --> 00:29:28,840
Speaker 2: every time i'm sad, I'm like I just always say

621
00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:31,400
Speaker 2: I shouldn't feel like this, You're just being a cry baby.

622
00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:34,960
Speaker 2: Like I think it's because like a guy used to

623
00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:36,520
Speaker 2: deal with for a long time. He would always be like,

624
00:29:36,560 --> 00:29:38,680
Speaker 2: you're a cry baby. You're a crybaby. It's like, yeah,

625
00:29:38,720 --> 00:29:41,840
Speaker 2: because I'm fucking sad one thing. But you're emotional. You're

626
00:29:41,880 --> 00:29:44,000
Speaker 2: just an emotional person. But it's nothing wrong with that.

627
00:29:44,160 --> 00:29:46,840
Speaker 2: I mean, everybody is different. Some people are more emotional

628
00:29:46,920 --> 00:29:49,280
Speaker 2: than others. I don't think it's anything wrong with being

629
00:29:49,360 --> 00:29:50,720
Speaker 2: sensitive and being emotional.

630
00:29:51,320 --> 00:29:53,960
Speaker 1: But see, but this is also about me, you know

631
00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:54,280
Speaker 1: what I mean.

632
00:29:54,320 --> 00:29:56,360
Speaker 2: I feel like that's like, for example, me and you,

633
00:29:56,480 --> 00:30:00,240
Speaker 2: we just show two different, like very different sides of

634
00:30:00,280 --> 00:30:03,360
Speaker 2: being emotional because I'm not really that emotional and then

635
00:30:03,440 --> 00:30:03,920
Speaker 2: you are.

636
00:30:04,480 --> 00:30:06,840
Speaker 1: But nothing is wrong with that. But I will also

637
00:30:06,880 --> 00:30:08,920
Speaker 1: say people could look at me like something wrong with

638
00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:10,520
Speaker 1: me not being that emotional? Right.

639
00:30:11,120 --> 00:30:13,840
Speaker 2: I want to take accountability though, because even though I

640
00:30:13,840 --> 00:30:14,520
Speaker 2: do cry a.

641
00:30:14,480 --> 00:30:17,120
Speaker 1: Lot, I can make myself cry.

642
00:30:17,560 --> 00:30:20,240
Speaker 2: So sometimes when I do something wrong and somebody will

643
00:30:20,240 --> 00:30:21,480
Speaker 2: call me out on, I'm like this.

644
00:30:25,080 --> 00:30:27,240
Speaker 1: And I let that tip farm. Yeah, that's why sometimes

645
00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:30,040
Speaker 1: I just be rolling my eyes issue. I definitely try

646
00:30:30,080 --> 00:30:30,480
Speaker 1: to make.

647
00:30:30,320 --> 00:30:32,840
Speaker 2: Myself be peeping when you be trying to be manipulousive

648
00:30:33,760 --> 00:30:34,120
Speaker 2: not you.

649
00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:38,640
Speaker 1: Call me, you call me, you call me fake crying

650
00:30:38,680 --> 00:30:42,000
Speaker 1: one time, bitch. I've caught you fake crying numerous times.

651
00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:48,080
Speaker 1: Not you, but you haven't. We haven't got into it

652
00:30:48,080 --> 00:30:49,240
Speaker 1: in a long time.

653
00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:51,520
Speaker 2: If we did, I would just be like, Okay, whatever,

654
00:30:52,840 --> 00:30:54,360
Speaker 2: I gotta come up with a new tactic.

655
00:30:55,920 --> 00:31:00,560
Speaker 1: You're not gonna win this one, bitch. But yes, that

656
00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:03,800
Speaker 1: was number four. You believe you're too sensitive. Okay, the

657
00:31:03,840 --> 00:31:07,040
Speaker 1: fifth one? Number five You don't trust your own judgment.

658
00:31:07,440 --> 00:31:09,920
Speaker 2: You second guess yourself and don't listen to your intuition

659
00:31:10,040 --> 00:31:12,240
Speaker 2: because you don't trust it that I will.

660
00:31:12,080 --> 00:31:15,880
Speaker 1: Say I do this? Why doing that one? I got

661
00:31:15,960 --> 00:31:18,760
Speaker 1: bad judgment than the motherfucker you see my niggas. But

662
00:31:19,040 --> 00:31:20,600
Speaker 1: so you mean you do do this one?

663
00:31:20,880 --> 00:31:23,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know my judgment bad, But this I'm not

664
00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:25,760
Speaker 2: saying that I need to double I need to question it.

665
00:31:25,840 --> 00:31:27,040
Speaker 1: Like my judgment is bad.

666
00:31:27,320 --> 00:31:30,120
Speaker 2: I'm questioning my judgment like I definitely will think that

667
00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:32,959
Speaker 2: I'm making the right decision or like feel like I

668
00:31:33,000 --> 00:31:35,280
Speaker 2: have certain things in my spirit that's telling me to

669
00:31:35,280 --> 00:31:37,840
Speaker 2: do something or not do something. But I'll still question

670
00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:43,160
Speaker 2: my judgment and need seek counsel from other people. That's

671
00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:44,760
Speaker 2: the problem that I feel like I have and my

672
00:31:44,800 --> 00:31:46,680
Speaker 2: mom have always got on me about that too, cause

673
00:31:46,680 --> 00:31:50,320
Speaker 2: she'd be like, y'all need to tell people everything, right, which,

674
00:31:50,360 --> 00:31:53,479
Speaker 2: by the way, I don't tell people everything because, like

675
00:31:53,600 --> 00:31:56,840
Speaker 2: LyX loves to say, I guess I'm a little sneaky,

676
00:31:56,960 --> 00:32:00,600
Speaker 2: So I don't tell people. I don't tell people everything.

677
00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:02,600
Speaker 2: But like, if you're a part of my life and

678
00:32:02,640 --> 00:32:04,360
Speaker 2: I talk to you all the time and I trust you,

679
00:32:04,480 --> 00:32:07,640
Speaker 2: I do overshare, okay. And so my mom has just

680
00:32:07,720 --> 00:32:10,160
Speaker 2: always been like, you need to stop oversharing all the

681
00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:12,440
Speaker 2: time with people, and you just need to trust your

682
00:32:12,440 --> 00:32:13,360
Speaker 2: own good instinct.

683
00:32:13,440 --> 00:32:15,760
Speaker 1: You don't always need advice from me everybody, right.

684
00:32:16,040 --> 00:32:18,440
Speaker 2: So well, for me, it's like sometimes I know I'm

685
00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:20,680
Speaker 2: making a bad decision, so I don't care.

686
00:32:20,920 --> 00:32:23,800
Speaker 1: I don't. I'll be like, oh, I'm about to do this,

687
00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:24,760
Speaker 1: I'm about to do that, and.

688
00:32:24,680 --> 00:32:26,720
Speaker 2: I'll like tell you, or I'll tell Killer or tell

689
00:32:26,800 --> 00:32:31,120
Speaker 2: something or tell Lauren, and y'all will give me y'all's advice.

690
00:32:30,760 --> 00:32:32,080
Speaker 1: And tell me what you think, and if it's not

691
00:32:32,080 --> 00:32:33,280
Speaker 1: what I want to hear, I just hang up.

692
00:32:33,920 --> 00:32:37,520
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I mean I know I hang up right, No,

693
00:32:37,600 --> 00:32:39,000
Speaker 2: you ain't never just hung up in my face.

694
00:32:39,040 --> 00:32:41,400
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, girl, have a good day bye

695
00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:44,560
Speaker 1: exactly because these be knows to say, have a good day, girl.

696
00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:47,320
Speaker 1: You in your day. She ain't gonna just hang up

697
00:32:47,320 --> 00:32:52,640
Speaker 1: on me girl. But at the end of the day, yeah,

698
00:32:52,800 --> 00:32:53,200
Speaker 1: all right.

699
00:32:53,680 --> 00:32:55,520
Speaker 2: I definitely feel like it's something that I need to

700
00:32:55,520 --> 00:32:59,720
Speaker 2: work on too, because I don't know why I'm like that,

701
00:33:00,600 --> 00:33:02,760
Speaker 2: because I feel like I be knowing in my gut

702
00:33:02,880 --> 00:33:04,160
Speaker 2: that ship don't be right.

703
00:33:05,080 --> 00:33:08,040
Speaker 1: But you know what's wrong with me? But I mean,

704
00:33:08,280 --> 00:33:10,440
Speaker 1: I know a lot of.

705
00:33:10,400 --> 00:33:13,800
Speaker 2: Shit, but no, but you know what's really wrong with me?

706
00:33:13,920 --> 00:33:15,479
Speaker 2: I me know it sh it ain't right. But I

707
00:33:15,600 --> 00:33:17,880
Speaker 2: live for a good time. I love chaos.

708
00:33:18,080 --> 00:33:20,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, I know it's.

709
00:33:20,560 --> 00:33:25,040
Speaker 2: Gonna be chaotic. I still be like, let me, I

710
00:33:25,040 --> 00:33:28,240
Speaker 2: feel like you only get one life. I just love

711
00:33:28,360 --> 00:33:30,560
Speaker 2: to live on the edge sometimes because I feel like

712
00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:32,360
Speaker 2: you only get one life, like and I would rather

713
00:33:32,400 --> 00:33:35,280
Speaker 2: be that person that's eighty years old and I'm looking

714
00:33:35,280 --> 00:33:38,520
Speaker 2: back on my life like damn, I need some wild

715
00:33:38,600 --> 00:33:41,840
Speaker 2: ass shit need to be sitting there, like Damn, I

716
00:33:41,880 --> 00:33:43,320
Speaker 2: wish I would have did this, and I wish I

717
00:33:43,320 --> 00:33:44,360
Speaker 2: would have did that, because.

718
00:33:44,120 --> 00:33:46,280
Speaker 1: You can't go back in time, so I'd.

719
00:33:46,160 --> 00:33:47,400
Speaker 2: Rather just do what I want to do in a

720
00:33:47,480 --> 00:33:51,320
Speaker 2: moment and live with the consequences. Sometimes true, That's very true,

721
00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:51,560
Speaker 2: you know.

722
00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:53,480
Speaker 1: I feel like we both had those types of people.

723
00:33:53,480 --> 00:33:54,800
Speaker 1: That's why. I mean, I'm not gonna lie.

724
00:33:54,800 --> 00:33:56,840
Speaker 2: When I'm eighty and I'm talking to my grandkids, I

725
00:33:56,880 --> 00:33:59,960
Speaker 2: got some motherfucker starting. I got mass ship to tell

726
00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:01,480
Speaker 2: them when I'm gonna have even more because I know

727
00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:06,640
Speaker 2: I'm do some even more wild she I just turned

728
00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:08,560
Speaker 2: thirty last year. I'm about to turn thirty one. I

729
00:34:08,600 --> 00:34:10,440
Speaker 2: got a long pass ahead.

730
00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:13,480
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm gonna have some more wild stories.

731
00:34:14,440 --> 00:34:18,759
Speaker 2: And so we're gonna work on gas lighting ourselves. I'm

732
00:34:18,800 --> 00:34:21,560
Speaker 2: glad that was a really good look like we were smoking.

733
00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:25,880
Speaker 1: I mean, I like a little gas Like, No, I

734
00:34:25,920 --> 00:34:26,719
Speaker 1: don't like that shit thought.

735
00:34:26,920 --> 00:34:30,080
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be honest on some real shit, like I

736
00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:32,920
Speaker 2: dated somebody who was really a fucking gas lighter. And

737
00:34:32,960 --> 00:34:35,960
Speaker 2: that shit is literally the worst because they literally will

738
00:34:35,960 --> 00:34:38,359
Speaker 2: make you question your own sanity. You be like them,

739
00:34:38,960 --> 00:34:40,880
Speaker 2: like a nigga would be like, oh, I know you

740
00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:42,960
Speaker 2: was out with another nigga last night and you knew

741
00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:46,000
Speaker 2: you was at home in the bed, but she'd be like, damn,

742
00:34:46,280 --> 00:34:50,040
Speaker 2: I mean, what's all You'll be like he's so convincing,

743
00:34:50,239 --> 00:34:52,279
Speaker 2: right right, and you'll be like questioning things that you

744
00:34:52,320 --> 00:34:53,200
Speaker 2: did like a month.

745
00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:58,160
Speaker 1: Ago, and like right, like that's really toxic.

746
00:34:58,640 --> 00:35:01,360
Speaker 2: And I think, like we always joke about being toxic

747
00:35:01,640 --> 00:35:04,160
Speaker 2: and lying and cheating doing that, but we are really

748
00:35:04,520 --> 00:35:05,840
Speaker 2: trying to grow as women.

749
00:35:06,320 --> 00:35:09,360
Speaker 1: So I really have grown because have grown life.

750
00:35:09,760 --> 00:35:13,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, so take this list of gas lighting, learn and

751
00:35:13,840 --> 00:35:14,480
Speaker 2: just do better.

752
00:35:14,560 --> 00:35:17,640
Speaker 1: I y'all ssh your girl XP and it's Sugarls Ray

753
00:35:17,680 --> 00:35:18,280
Speaker 1: in the code.

754
00:35:18,440 --> 00:35:21,320
Speaker 2: I think a lot of people don't realize the physical

755
00:35:21,600 --> 00:35:26,360
Speaker 2: symptoms that come with being depressed, like headaches, teeth grinding,

756
00:35:26,560 --> 00:35:29,560
Speaker 2: even digestive issues, like a lot of things come with

757
00:35:29,640 --> 00:35:33,560
Speaker 2: being stressed out. Yes, absolutely, so that's why you need

758
00:35:34,040 --> 00:35:37,920
Speaker 2: better help. It's online therapy that offers video phone and

759
00:35:38,200 --> 00:35:41,000
Speaker 2: even live chat sessions, and you can access to your

760
00:35:41,040 --> 00:35:43,680
Speaker 2: counselor at any time of day. And if you don't,

761
00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:45,560
Speaker 2: you know, viobe with your counselor the first time, you

762
00:35:45,600 --> 00:35:47,640
Speaker 2: can always get another one that make it super easy

763
00:35:47,680 --> 00:35:51,239
Speaker 2: for you. Yes, I know me personally, like I'm a overthinker.

764
00:35:51,480 --> 00:35:54,560
Speaker 2: Everything stresses me out. I have anxiety really really bad.

765
00:35:54,640 --> 00:35:55,960
Speaker 2: So I was like, you know what, let me try

766
00:35:56,000 --> 00:35:59,160
Speaker 2: this It's always been a financial thing for me, and

767
00:35:59,360 --> 00:36:01,400
Speaker 2: I was like, you know what, Better Help is affordable.

768
00:36:01,520 --> 00:36:03,480
Speaker 2: You know, we have a code with them now and

769
00:36:03,520 --> 00:36:06,000
Speaker 2: they also offer financial aid, so I was able to

770
00:36:06,040 --> 00:36:08,760
Speaker 2: try it out, and it's helped me so much personally.

771
00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:11,960
Speaker 2: I've grown as a person. My anxiety is under control,

772
00:36:12,080 --> 00:36:14,960
Speaker 2: my stress is down. So everybody needs to give it

773
00:36:15,000 --> 00:36:17,520
Speaker 2: a try. Yeah, absolutely, I mean same for me. I

774
00:36:17,560 --> 00:36:21,279
Speaker 2: was always really apprehensive about doing therapy, just because you know,

775
00:36:21,360 --> 00:36:23,400
Speaker 2: I didn't I didn't know about going into an office

776
00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:26,000
Speaker 2: and meeting somebody in person. But one thing good thing

777
00:36:26,000 --> 00:36:28,640
Speaker 2: about Better Help. I started it during the pandemic, and

778
00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:31,439
Speaker 2: you know, I would always talk to my counselor online

779
00:36:31,600 --> 00:36:33,560
Speaker 2: and it was just really easy and convenient for me,

780
00:36:33,680 --> 00:36:35,520
Speaker 2: and I feel like it's helped me a lot. Right,

781
00:36:35,560 --> 00:36:38,200
Speaker 2: So you're gonna go to better help dot com slash

782
00:36:38,239 --> 00:36:40,360
Speaker 2: poor minds and get ten percent off of your first

783
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Speaker 2: month that's b E T T E r h E

784
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Speaker 2: l P dot com backslash poor Minds and get ten

785
00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:52,200
Speaker 2: percent off of your first month period. So now we're

786
00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:59,399
Speaker 2: gonna get into the bowl. Bow Bow Bow Bow bow Bow.

787
00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:02,719
Speaker 2: I know you a Hongry bitch because eat saxteen because

788
00:37:02,719 --> 00:37:05,760
Speaker 2: they just said I got forty percent off twenty dollars

789
00:37:05,840 --> 00:37:09,120
Speaker 2: on your knicks to thirty thirty dollars orders and participated

790
00:37:09,160 --> 00:37:09,880
Speaker 2: rational words.

791
00:37:09,719 --> 00:37:13,479
Speaker 1: Period and I'm bitch, so fucking way, I'm fucking weak.

792
00:37:13,560 --> 00:37:16,680
Speaker 1: Need to give us a sponsor shoes. I'm dead. Okay,

793
00:37:16,719 --> 00:37:20,600
Speaker 1: So now we're gonna talk about this because.

794
00:37:21,120 --> 00:37:24,040
Speaker 2: I alouls see people talking about and I think it's

795
00:37:24,080 --> 00:37:26,280
Speaker 2: so weird not kissing during sex.

796
00:37:27,520 --> 00:37:29,839
Speaker 1: Some people feel like kissing is so.

797
00:37:29,840 --> 00:37:36,600
Speaker 2: Intimate and it's just, oh my gosh. Literally literally six

798
00:37:36,760 --> 00:37:38,960
Speaker 2: is the most intimate that you could be with anybody.

799
00:37:38,960 --> 00:37:41,080
Speaker 2: But people feel like because it's like your face to

800
00:37:41,160 --> 00:37:44,560
Speaker 2: face and you're touching, like your mouth and your mouth

801
00:37:44,719 --> 00:37:46,760
Speaker 2: is like an entry into your body.

802
00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:49,480
Speaker 1: I can't kiss. I think that is so fucking weird,

803
00:37:49,840 --> 00:37:50,400
Speaker 1: very weird.

804
00:37:50,480 --> 00:37:52,359
Speaker 2: Like you're gonna put your tongue in my booty hole

805
00:37:52,440 --> 00:37:54,080
Speaker 2: with oh, let's stop the press.

806
00:37:55,800 --> 00:37:57,560
Speaker 3: You draw the line in the mouth.

807
00:37:57,400 --> 00:38:00,560
Speaker 1: Hold on, hold on, bitch, where has your mouth being?

808
00:38:01,040 --> 00:38:04,920
Speaker 2: You don't want to know where my booty being, so

809
00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:08,520
Speaker 2: you really might want to come up. It's much safer

810
00:38:08,520 --> 00:38:11,680
Speaker 2: in here than it is down there. That's all all

811
00:38:11,719 --> 00:38:12,400
Speaker 2: I'm gonna say.

812
00:38:12,560 --> 00:38:14,880
Speaker 1: I mean, you ain't lying. I feel like that's what everybody.

813
00:38:15,440 --> 00:38:17,839
Speaker 1: I'm safer up here down there.

814
00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:21,640
Speaker 2: But yeah, I think that's the strangest shit ever because

815
00:38:21,680 --> 00:38:24,400
Speaker 2: to me, sex is into me. The whole act is

816
00:38:24,440 --> 00:38:27,160
Speaker 2: into me, right right, So if you don't want to

817
00:38:27,280 --> 00:38:29,960
Speaker 2: kiss the person, or you don't trust kissing this person,

818
00:38:30,040 --> 00:38:30,520
Speaker 2: why are.

819
00:38:30,440 --> 00:38:33,040
Speaker 1: You having sex with them? But you know what, I'm

820
00:38:33,040 --> 00:38:33,560
Speaker 1: not gonna lie.

821
00:38:33,600 --> 00:38:37,160
Speaker 2: And I try not to attack men on here, but

822
00:38:37,239 --> 00:38:42,719
Speaker 2: I mostly seen all right, I said, I'm trying trying

823
00:38:44,360 --> 00:38:47,440
Speaker 2: because I want to give the equal opportunity of bashing y'all.

824
00:38:48,040 --> 00:38:50,719
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, because I'm on your ass.

825
00:38:50,400 --> 00:38:54,919
Speaker 2: To be honies a lot of women we are yet, right,

826
00:38:55,000 --> 00:38:58,279
Speaker 2: But I will say I mainly see those takes of

827
00:38:58,320 --> 00:39:01,759
Speaker 2: like not kissing somebody during sex come from men. It's like,

828
00:39:01,800 --> 00:39:04,640
Speaker 2: if you're that horny where you're having sex with a

829
00:39:04,640 --> 00:39:07,319
Speaker 2: woman that you don't want to kiss her in the mouth, bro,

830
00:39:07,520 --> 00:39:08,080
Speaker 2: just gonna.

831
00:39:07,840 --> 00:39:10,160
Speaker 1: Beat y'all met y'all gonna do it anyway, because that's

832
00:39:10,160 --> 00:39:13,160
Speaker 1: how y'all are. Means so little different.

833
00:39:13,440 --> 00:39:15,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, anyway, that's.

834
00:39:15,480 --> 00:39:17,920
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. But it is a little different.

835
00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:20,239
Speaker 2: But I don't feel like you should be having sex

836
00:39:20,280 --> 00:39:22,239
Speaker 2: with anybody that you don't want to kiss in the mouth. Bro,

837
00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:24,839
Speaker 2: I agree, and especially if it's for reasons like they

838
00:39:24,920 --> 00:39:25,960
Speaker 2: birthstink for something.

839
00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:28,960
Speaker 1: No, I ain't never heard that.

840
00:39:29,360 --> 00:39:33,000
Speaker 2: I am somebody not want to kiss somebody because their breastings,

841
00:39:33,000 --> 00:39:34,879
Speaker 2: but they're having sex with them.

842
00:39:35,040 --> 00:39:36,680
Speaker 1: If you can't keep your mouth.

843
00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:40,920
Speaker 2: Clean, I know that cools you dirtier than the old garage.

844
00:39:41,960 --> 00:39:45,080
Speaker 1: It's bro. You know how when you've been living in

845
00:39:45,080 --> 00:39:46,640
Speaker 1: the house for a while, you just start throwing in.

846
00:39:47,400 --> 00:39:49,840
Speaker 2: I had somebody tell me that before, Like they was like, yeah,

847
00:39:49,880 --> 00:39:52,400
Speaker 2: like I was fucking this girl, I ain't want to

848
00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:53,920
Speaker 2: kiss her because her birthday.

849
00:39:55,600 --> 00:39:56,520
Speaker 1: Will fuck her.

850
00:39:57,840 --> 00:39:59,319
Speaker 2: And then it's like, if you fucking with somebody, why

851
00:39:59,360 --> 00:40:01,040
Speaker 2: don't you tell them, like, hey, yo, brother, it's a

852
00:40:01,040 --> 00:40:01,560
Speaker 2: little talk.

853
00:40:02,200 --> 00:40:02,919
Speaker 1: It's a little talk.

854
00:40:03,040 --> 00:40:05,560
Speaker 2: It's a difference between talk and state. Like I feel

855
00:40:05,560 --> 00:40:06,759
Speaker 2: like everybody can get a.

856
00:40:06,760 --> 00:40:13,399
Speaker 1: Little talk, a little talk right now. I don't want

857
00:40:13,400 --> 00:40:16,319
Speaker 1: to say anything, but oh we're glad you said it.

858
00:40:19,400 --> 00:40:21,880
Speaker 2: But now I feel like everybody breath can get a

859
00:40:21,880 --> 00:40:23,680
Speaker 2: little tart at times, you know what I mean?

860
00:40:23,719 --> 00:40:26,399
Speaker 1: Like why are you last? Because about the time we

861
00:40:26,400 --> 00:40:30,799
Speaker 1: was in the club. He was like lead. I was like,

862
00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:31,239
Speaker 1: what's up?

863
00:40:31,239 --> 00:40:36,400
Speaker 2: He was like, el my breath side.

864
00:40:35,719 --> 00:40:38,360
Speaker 1: And I was like, I don't know. You was like, holdo,

865
00:40:39,080 --> 00:40:43,520
Speaker 1: that's my dog. That's my dog, me and my dog.

866
00:40:44,400 --> 00:40:46,320
Speaker 1: When I'm telling around, can you smile it?

867
00:40:46,880 --> 00:40:48,920
Speaker 2: Why are you saying it making it sound like it's

868
00:40:48,960 --> 00:40:53,080
Speaker 2: thanks because you're saying because you were trying to blow

869
00:40:53,160 --> 00:40:55,759
Speaker 2: the breath on me so I could smell it, but

870
00:40:55,800 --> 00:40:57,160
Speaker 2: you were trying to act like you were singing the

871
00:40:57,160 --> 00:41:00,360
Speaker 2: song so people wouldn't know that you'd be like. He

872
00:41:00,520 --> 00:41:04,120
Speaker 2: was like, when I'm telling our low, that's clever. As

873
00:41:04,280 --> 00:41:05,760
Speaker 2: I was like, get on my face.

874
00:41:06,160 --> 00:41:09,600
Speaker 1: But at least it is sank because the talk he did,

875
00:41:11,320 --> 00:41:13,680
Speaker 1: I mean, ain't that I'm just playing, didn't?

876
00:41:14,560 --> 00:41:17,120
Speaker 2: I don't think I I think I've literally all the

877
00:41:17,200 --> 00:41:19,520
Speaker 2: years i've known you, I smelled your breath like one time,

878
00:41:21,000 --> 00:41:22,040
Speaker 2: but honestly.

879
00:41:21,840 --> 00:41:22,920
Speaker 1: I smelled it.

880
00:41:22,920 --> 00:41:24,759
Speaker 2: It was when we was in Jamaica, but it might

881
00:41:24,800 --> 00:41:28,160
Speaker 2: have been mine, man, it might have been mine.

882
00:41:29,280 --> 00:41:31,040
Speaker 1: We were so drunk. I said, I don't know who

883
00:41:31,800 --> 00:41:35,720
Speaker 1: over me or her, but fuck it, no, Jamaica was wild.

884
00:41:35,760 --> 00:41:37,640
Speaker 1: This fuck me. I don't remember nothing.

885
00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:42,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, like I just feel like, yeah, sometimes dude

886
00:41:42,719 --> 00:41:44,960
Speaker 2: was gonna be one to kiss women because let's be

887
00:41:45,239 --> 00:41:45,879
Speaker 2: honest here.

888
00:41:45,880 --> 00:41:47,239
Speaker 1: Men are very horny.

889
00:41:47,800 --> 00:41:50,840
Speaker 2: Horny men are horny too, but me and are very

890
00:41:51,480 --> 00:41:54,720
Speaker 2: very horny. So I absolutely feel like it's mad niggas

891
00:41:54,760 --> 00:41:57,960
Speaker 2: out there that will fuck the beach with as bros.

892
00:41:59,080 --> 00:42:01,040
Speaker 1: That's disgusting, that's it. It's wild.

893
00:42:01,160 --> 00:42:04,280
Speaker 2: But I do believe it happens often, so I feel

894
00:42:04,280 --> 00:42:06,279
Speaker 2: like I feel like I think I do feel like

895
00:42:06,320 --> 00:42:09,640
Speaker 2: the intimacy is more of the reason most of the time.

896
00:42:10,040 --> 00:42:11,560
Speaker 2: Now I get it, Like if you don't want to

897
00:42:11,600 --> 00:42:13,200
Speaker 2: kiss a girl in the mouth because you feel like, oh,

898
00:42:13,200 --> 00:42:15,799
Speaker 2: I'm just fucking on a whole. Whatever the situation may be,

899
00:42:16,120 --> 00:42:18,680
Speaker 2: it's still not okay because I want you men to

900
00:42:18,719 --> 00:42:23,520
Speaker 2: put your meat on a pedestal. Stop putting your meat

901
00:42:23,600 --> 00:42:27,279
Speaker 2: in people that you don't like. Can we stop having

902
00:42:27,280 --> 00:42:28,560
Speaker 2: sex with people that we don't like?

903
00:42:28,680 --> 00:42:32,879
Speaker 1: Men? Because I ain't never did there, it's weird. Oh

904
00:42:35,120 --> 00:42:38,360
Speaker 1: tons was hard, bitch, Terns was hard.

905
00:42:38,920 --> 00:42:40,719
Speaker 2: I think when you had sex with somebody you didn't like,

906
00:42:41,840 --> 00:42:43,600
Speaker 2: we're not gonna talk about it because the girl's gonna

907
00:42:43,680 --> 00:42:44,080
Speaker 2: judge me.

908
00:42:44,320 --> 00:42:47,839
Speaker 1: No, I don't. It probably only happened like once because

909
00:42:47,880 --> 00:42:53,439
Speaker 1: I really can't remember. All I said was at least

910
00:42:53,440 --> 00:42:54,359
Speaker 1: for what you told me.

911
00:42:55,480 --> 00:42:57,960
Speaker 2: Then we just say we're not gonna tell everybody everything.

912
00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:00,719
Speaker 1: Times was hard.

913
00:43:01,120 --> 00:43:04,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I definitely think it's mad weird to have

914
00:43:04,239 --> 00:43:05,960
Speaker 2: sex with people that you don't like. I say that

915
00:43:06,080 --> 00:43:08,239
Speaker 2: all the time because the only people I can have

916
00:43:08,280 --> 00:43:10,120
Speaker 2: sex like it has to be somebody I like.

917
00:43:10,200 --> 00:43:11,960
Speaker 1: It has to be away.

918
00:43:11,840 --> 00:43:14,680
Speaker 2: It has to be like a mental stimulation there, Like

919
00:43:15,320 --> 00:43:16,960
Speaker 2: I feel like it's not gonna even be good if

920
00:43:17,000 --> 00:43:18,759
Speaker 2: I yeah, like if I don't like you and the

921
00:43:18,760 --> 00:43:20,960
Speaker 2: feelings not there. But you know, a lot of our

922
00:43:21,000 --> 00:43:23,880
Speaker 2: listeners are young. They aren't a different different chapter in

923
00:43:23,920 --> 00:43:27,200
Speaker 2: their lives. But I will say, like, have fun. But

924
00:43:27,360 --> 00:43:31,680
Speaker 2: also if at least the least that you can do

925
00:43:32,160 --> 00:43:34,279
Speaker 2: is kiss somebody during sex, So if you can't even

926
00:43:34,360 --> 00:43:36,600
Speaker 2: kiss this person during sex, you don't need to be

927
00:43:36,640 --> 00:43:40,120
Speaker 2: sucking them period. But let's be honest, going back to

928
00:43:40,160 --> 00:43:42,799
Speaker 2: what you be honest, be honest, going back to what

929
00:43:42,840 --> 00:43:45,879
Speaker 2: you said earlier. Do you really think so if somebody

930
00:43:45,880 --> 00:43:47,919
Speaker 2: don't want to keis you that gonna eat your ass?

931
00:43:49,200 --> 00:43:49,480
Speaker 3: Yes?

932
00:43:49,600 --> 00:43:53,080
Speaker 2: These niggas before, no niggas always want to kiss me

933
00:43:53,080 --> 00:43:58,200
Speaker 2: in the moth the moth I'm hood today.

934
00:43:59,239 --> 00:44:01,560
Speaker 1: They always want to it's me in the mind and

935
00:44:01,560 --> 00:44:04,920
Speaker 1: then they go down south. You that wrong? No, you

936
00:44:04,960 --> 00:44:06,360
Speaker 1: don't saw who You just don't.

937
00:44:06,160 --> 00:44:11,600
Speaker 2: Slow points were made, But I don't think that that

938
00:44:11,680 --> 00:44:14,719
Speaker 2: happens often though. I don't think people be happy. I

939
00:44:14,719 --> 00:44:17,160
Speaker 2: don't think niggas be out here eating bitches ass and

940
00:44:17,200 --> 00:44:19,160
Speaker 2: then don't be kissing him in the mouth. I don't

941
00:44:19,200 --> 00:44:20,080
Speaker 2: think that happens off.

942
00:44:20,080 --> 00:44:20,440
Speaker 1: Well, I don't.

943
00:44:20,560 --> 00:44:22,680
Speaker 2: I honestly cannot think of a time that I had

944
00:44:22,680 --> 00:44:25,080
Speaker 2: sex with somebody and we didn't kiss. This is just

945
00:44:25,120 --> 00:44:26,920
Speaker 2: coming from like things that I see, Like I just

946
00:44:26,920 --> 00:44:29,400
Speaker 2: think it's weird, Like how can you be intimate with

947
00:44:29,440 --> 00:44:32,280
Speaker 2: somebody when I kiss them? All Right, So we gonna

948
00:44:32,280 --> 00:44:34,880
Speaker 2: move on. So we have a show break down today.

949
00:44:35,040 --> 00:44:37,439
Speaker 2: Y'all have been asking us to break this down, break

950
00:44:37,520 --> 00:44:39,760
Speaker 2: it down, So we're gonna break it the fuck down.

951
00:44:40,080 --> 00:44:42,840
Speaker 2: So there's a new show on Netflix called Young Famous

952
00:44:42,840 --> 00:44:44,800
Speaker 2: and African Baby.

953
00:44:47,040 --> 00:44:49,000
Speaker 1: Are you wagony?

954
00:44:49,280 --> 00:44:49,480
Speaker 2: Yeah?

955
00:44:49,640 --> 00:44:52,240
Speaker 1: Did I go all the Bentley? I said, I'm supposed

956
00:44:52,239 --> 00:44:54,040
Speaker 1: to be on this show. Why they didn't call me

957
00:44:54,640 --> 00:45:03,239
Speaker 1: young Famous? African? Young Damn? That's all I I am

958
00:45:03,440 --> 00:45:07,040
Speaker 1: African American. You didn't have to add that.

959
00:45:07,280 --> 00:45:13,480
Speaker 2: They gotta be specific, they gotta be specific. I am African,

960
00:45:13,800 --> 00:45:15,600
Speaker 2: I am African. I'm very African.

961
00:45:15,680 --> 00:45:19,960
Speaker 1: You know where you're from? For yes, where you from? Nigeria.

962
00:45:20,920 --> 00:45:24,440
Speaker 1: Literally the biggest percentage was Nigeria. I really feel like

963
00:45:24,440 --> 00:45:25,560
Speaker 1: you lying because you're a liar.

964
00:45:26,640 --> 00:45:28,960
Speaker 3: I don't feel like I did.

965
00:45:29,760 --> 00:45:31,880
Speaker 1: My sister did it. We got the same parents, so well,

966
00:45:31,920 --> 00:45:35,799
Speaker 1: she did it. I did it, but I stayed back

967
00:45:35,840 --> 00:45:39,080
Speaker 1: to what we got the same passes. Don't be different.

968
00:45:39,160 --> 00:45:43,759
Speaker 1: I'm a discover something new, you know. So we did it.

969
00:45:43,880 --> 00:45:46,719
Speaker 1: I did it the fuck so, yes, that is my

970
00:45:47,080 --> 00:45:48,640
Speaker 1: home country. Boo.

971
00:45:49,239 --> 00:45:52,879
Speaker 2: So anyways, before this hater was talking, you made because

972
00:45:52,920 --> 00:45:55,719
Speaker 2: I'm exotic, uh.

973
00:45:55,719 --> 00:45:56,840
Speaker 1: Young, famous and African.

974
00:45:57,000 --> 00:46:00,320
Speaker 2: Yes, I love, love love the show with first of

975
00:46:00,360 --> 00:46:04,480
Speaker 2: all the reason I love Okay, let's get into that

976
00:46:04,520 --> 00:46:06,080
Speaker 2: in a second, but let me just say I love

977
00:46:06,160 --> 00:46:09,480
Speaker 2: this show because it shows not okay, Africa is a

978
00:46:09,480 --> 00:46:11,560
Speaker 2: big fucking content continent.

979
00:46:11,920 --> 00:46:14,080
Speaker 1: And let's not act like I mean.

980
00:46:14,600 --> 00:46:16,680
Speaker 2: I just feel like people are so stupid when they say, oh,

981
00:46:16,719 --> 00:46:19,200
Speaker 2: I want to go to Africa, bitch, where like, you

982
00:46:19,239 --> 00:46:20,680
Speaker 2: can't just say you want to go to Africa because

983
00:46:20,680 --> 00:46:24,239
Speaker 2: if like Egypt is totally different from like Nigeria.

984
00:46:23,800 --> 00:46:25,120
Speaker 1: Like be specific.

985
00:46:25,760 --> 00:46:28,600
Speaker 2: So I love the fact that we get to see

986
00:46:28,640 --> 00:46:31,640
Speaker 2: the continent and these countries in a different light because

987
00:46:31,680 --> 00:46:35,000
Speaker 2: growing up, Let's be real, how did America show Africa

988
00:46:35,040 --> 00:46:35,479
Speaker 2: to us?

989
00:46:35,920 --> 00:46:42,120
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. And it's a beautiful children?

990
00:46:42,840 --> 00:46:45,960
Speaker 3: We all no no, no, no.

991
00:46:50,960 --> 00:47:08,120
Speaker 1: From me? Can have fuck that?

992
00:47:09,200 --> 00:47:12,799
Speaker 2: No lie, but no lie. That is how we were raised.

993
00:47:14,000 --> 00:47:16,080
Speaker 2: Talked about this on an old episode. How like in

994
00:47:16,120 --> 00:47:19,239
Speaker 2: elementary school they used to call the Africans African booty scratchers.

995
00:47:19,400 --> 00:47:25,680
Speaker 1: Yeah it was you laughing too hard but that but

996
00:47:25,840 --> 00:47:28,719
Speaker 1: no they did. And I even.

997
00:47:30,760 --> 00:47:33,360
Speaker 2: All jokes aside, that was not I actually talked to

998
00:47:33,360 --> 00:47:36,360
Speaker 2: my nel tech yesterday shout out to little Janet again.

999
00:47:36,440 --> 00:47:40,279
Speaker 2: But I was saying, like because she moved, she moved

1000
00:47:40,280 --> 00:47:42,279
Speaker 2: from Kenya. She was just saying, how the colt she

1001
00:47:42,280 --> 00:47:44,000
Speaker 2: moved from Kenya when she was thirteen, and she was

1002
00:47:44,000 --> 00:47:45,759
Speaker 2: saying how it was like a culture shock for her

1003
00:47:45,800 --> 00:47:47,759
Speaker 2: and it was just a lot. She went from being

1004
00:47:47,880 --> 00:47:50,759
Speaker 2: like the popular girl that everybody knew and then she moved.

1005
00:47:50,800 --> 00:47:52,200
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't want to tell her business, but

1006
00:47:52,280 --> 00:47:53,960
Speaker 2: like she moved here and it was just different for her.

1007
00:47:54,000 --> 00:47:57,520
Speaker 2: I'll say that, and I just feel like it's because

1008
00:47:57,560 --> 00:47:58,680
Speaker 2: we are so ignorant.

1009
00:47:58,920 --> 00:48:00,640
Speaker 1: Americans are so ignorant.

1010
00:48:01,000 --> 00:48:03,440
Speaker 2: So I was so happy that they have this show

1011
00:48:03,760 --> 00:48:06,080
Speaker 2: to show a different side, because baby, when I went

1012
00:48:06,120 --> 00:48:08,160
Speaker 2: to Nigeria and they were in Nigeria, they were in

1013
00:48:08,200 --> 00:48:12,080
Speaker 2: South as though. Yeah, I had a great fucking time.

1014
00:48:12,200 --> 00:48:13,840
Speaker 2: So let's get into the show.

1015
00:48:14,239 --> 00:48:17,080
Speaker 1: All right. So who did you like and who did

1016
00:48:17,080 --> 00:48:20,120
Speaker 1: you not like? Well?

1017
00:48:21,160 --> 00:48:26,320
Speaker 2: I liked Kanye Kannie okay, okay, I liked her, and

1018
00:48:26,440 --> 00:48:30,800
Speaker 2: then I liked Swanky. I loved Swanky okay. So Swanky

1019
00:48:30,880 --> 00:48:32,799
Speaker 2: was the guy who could dress. He was kind of

1020
00:48:32,880 --> 00:48:36,239
Speaker 2: like Annie's friend that was always giving her advice.

1021
00:48:38,719 --> 00:48:40,280
Speaker 1: I would say this, I liked Annie.

1022
00:48:40,440 --> 00:48:44,160
Speaker 2: She was just She's just a Nigerian woman in love

1023
00:48:45,239 --> 00:48:46,440
Speaker 2: or let me not say Nigeria.

1024
00:48:46,480 --> 00:48:48,279
Speaker 1: I don't, She's not. She was Nageria Okay.

1025
00:48:48,320 --> 00:48:50,239
Speaker 2: I was just trying to because I thought that he

1026
00:48:50,440 --> 00:48:54,600
Speaker 2: was her husband innocent And why is has her husband

1027
00:48:54,640 --> 00:48:55,240
Speaker 2: named innocent?

1028
00:48:55,280 --> 00:49:01,880
Speaker 1: That nigga fucking guilty? Nigga, you is guilty her?

1029
00:49:03,520 --> 00:49:03,680
Speaker 2: No?

1030
00:49:03,960 --> 00:49:07,400
Speaker 1: So yeah, I just I think that my thing with her.

1031
00:49:07,480 --> 00:49:08,719
Speaker 2: Let me not say I don't like her because I

1032
00:49:08,719 --> 00:49:10,440
Speaker 2: don't want to say I don't like anybody.

1033
00:49:10,560 --> 00:49:12,600
Speaker 1: It was just it was just like it was giving

1034
00:49:12,760 --> 00:49:13,520
Speaker 1: Judgie alike.

1035
00:49:15,520 --> 00:49:18,239
Speaker 2: And I just don't like women like because don't get

1036
00:49:18,239 --> 00:49:20,560
Speaker 2: me wrong again, I don't want to say I don't

1037
00:49:20,680 --> 00:49:21,560
Speaker 2: like anybody because I.

1038
00:49:21,560 --> 00:49:23,760
Speaker 1: Don't really care for sorry either.

1039
00:49:24,400 --> 00:49:26,640
Speaker 2: Okay, see I thought that was hating on my girl. Sorry,

1040
00:49:26,800 --> 00:49:31,160
Speaker 2: that was hating on Sorry. Sorry was the bad bitch. Facts, Yeah,

1041
00:49:31,200 --> 00:49:31,799
Speaker 2: she is the bad.

1042
00:49:32,440 --> 00:49:36,600
Speaker 1: But I think that I don't know how to say.

1043
00:49:36,719 --> 00:49:40,200
Speaker 2: I think her confidence intimidated people because you are giving.

1044
00:49:41,239 --> 00:49:44,839
Speaker 1: No, I'm not yes you are, girl, not.

1045
00:49:44,800 --> 00:49:49,400
Speaker 2: Because I would never walk up to nobody men and

1046
00:49:49,480 --> 00:49:51,960
Speaker 2: be like yeah, So you know, I just.

1047
00:49:51,880 --> 00:49:54,960
Speaker 1: Feel like I intimidate your girl. No, I would never do. No,

1048
00:49:55,239 --> 00:49:56,799
Speaker 1: you're not gonna say it, but you be thinking it.

1049
00:49:56,800 --> 00:49:59,200
Speaker 2: It don't matter what I'm thinking. It just matter what

1050
00:49:59,280 --> 00:50:00,640
Speaker 2: you say.

1051
00:50:00,840 --> 00:50:06,360
Speaker 1: That's what maddens. It doesn't matter to think about you.

1052
00:50:06,360 --> 00:50:09,760
Speaker 2: You're gonna think it too, but you're not gonna say

1053
00:50:10,239 --> 00:50:11,960
Speaker 2: because you he's already on the low.

1054
00:50:12,719 --> 00:50:17,680
Speaker 1: I just you know, leave in my truth. But okay,

1055
00:50:17,719 --> 00:50:20,040
Speaker 1: and let me also say I did not like and

1056
00:50:20,280 --> 00:50:23,960
Speaker 1: Deal and and Dyli whatever. I did not like him.

1057
00:50:23,800 --> 00:50:25,839
Speaker 2: Because how are you gonna try to go behind your

1058
00:50:25,840 --> 00:50:28,839
Speaker 2: friend's back and fuck his baby mama or fuck with her.

1059
00:50:28,800 --> 00:50:30,359
Speaker 1: Because you like, that's just too weird.

1060
00:50:30,360 --> 00:50:32,920
Speaker 2: It's too many beautiful women out here to be trying

1061
00:50:32,960 --> 00:50:36,080
Speaker 2: to sleep with one of your close friends baby mama.

1062
00:50:36,400 --> 00:50:38,600
Speaker 1: And everybody thought it was so cute and this and that. No,

1063
00:50:38,719 --> 00:50:41,520
Speaker 1: that shit was not cute. That was weird. It was everybody.

1064
00:50:41,680 --> 00:50:44,400
Speaker 1: I mean the people on yeah, like people that I

1065
00:50:44,400 --> 00:50:46,480
Speaker 1: saw talking. Yeah, I mean that shit wasn't cute. That

1066
00:50:46,560 --> 00:50:47,120
Speaker 1: was weirdest.

1067
00:50:47,160 --> 00:50:50,160
Speaker 2: Fuck me, I don't know. They were just weird on

1068
00:50:50,160 --> 00:50:52,239
Speaker 2: that show. The only person I really liked it was Kindie.

1069
00:50:52,360 --> 00:50:52,640
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1070
00:50:52,640 --> 00:50:54,360
Speaker 2: Well okay, so let me say. I was like, but

1071
00:50:54,520 --> 00:50:57,239
Speaker 2: she was a little messy, but I liked because.

1072
00:50:56,960 --> 00:50:58,160
Speaker 1: You know, at the end of the day, it was

1073
00:50:58,239 --> 00:51:00,400
Speaker 1: given a star. Yeah, she did what she wanted to do,

1074
00:51:00,480 --> 00:51:03,000
Speaker 1: she said what she wanted to say. I'm here for it.

1075
00:51:03,440 --> 00:51:05,120
Speaker 2: I didn't like Zori because I feel like she was

1076
00:51:05,200 --> 00:51:08,560
Speaker 2: knit picking with any alights, And to me, that's just

1077
00:51:08,600 --> 00:51:11,239
Speaker 2: petty because if you know that you DC, you know

1078
00:51:11,320 --> 00:51:12,839
Speaker 2: that you're dead, and you feel like.

1079
00:51:12,960 --> 00:51:16,320
Speaker 1: You're above her, then what's the point in peking?

1080
00:51:16,520 --> 00:51:18,960
Speaker 2: Right? And so that's why I said. That's why I

1081
00:51:19,040 --> 00:51:21,000
Speaker 2: was like, I disagree with you. I wouldn't do noh, like,

1082
00:51:21,440 --> 00:51:23,120
Speaker 2: I feel like I'm above you a beat. I'm not

1083
00:51:23,160 --> 00:51:25,360
Speaker 2: paying you no mom, right. But I also think it

1084
00:51:25,400 --> 00:51:30,000
Speaker 2: was weird how Nadia claimed she didn't like Diamond but

1085
00:51:30,040 --> 00:51:32,919
Speaker 2: then got mad when Diamond showed up with Zori, because

1086
00:51:33,000 --> 00:51:35,080
Speaker 2: first of all, that's his baby, mama. But why do

1087
00:51:35,120 --> 00:51:36,640
Speaker 2: you feel some type of way you said you didn't

1088
00:51:36,680 --> 00:51:40,279
Speaker 2: like it him because you were like and I mean,

1089
00:51:41,400 --> 00:51:47,319
Speaker 2: that's debatable, but I just okay. Anyways, But yeah, I

1090
00:51:47,360 --> 00:51:48,960
Speaker 2: just thought it was weird for Nati to get mad.

1091
00:51:49,000 --> 00:51:50,919
Speaker 2: But anyways, so this is what I want to say

1092
00:51:50,920 --> 00:51:53,040
Speaker 2: before we move on to the next topic. My favorite

1093
00:51:53,040 --> 00:51:56,200
Speaker 2: person was Swinky. He was flashy and I loved it.

1094
00:51:56,440 --> 00:51:59,200
Speaker 2: I loved his attitude. He was very positive the whole time.

1095
00:51:59,560 --> 00:52:02,000
Speaker 2: I feel like he is just a good friend to

1096
00:52:02,080 --> 00:52:04,480
Speaker 2: have great friend. What I saw what I was about

1097
00:52:04,480 --> 00:52:06,960
Speaker 2: to say about any which is going back to what

1098
00:52:07,000 --> 00:52:08,680
Speaker 2: I was saying why. I don't want to say I

1099
00:52:08,719 --> 00:52:10,600
Speaker 2: don't like her, but like why she left the bad

1100
00:52:10,640 --> 00:52:13,160
Speaker 2: taste in my mouth. I just don't like women who

1101
00:52:13,280 --> 00:52:15,480
Speaker 2: because they be married, they feel like they're better. They

1102
00:52:15,480 --> 00:52:17,959
Speaker 2: feel like they're better, But then your nigga had four

1103
00:52:18,000 --> 00:52:20,640
Speaker 2: babies and then you had his feeds and that was

1104
00:52:20,680 --> 00:52:22,800
Speaker 2: your first and that was your nigga since high school,

1105
00:52:23,200 --> 00:52:24,000
Speaker 2: and not judge.

1106
00:52:24,000 --> 00:52:26,680
Speaker 1: We're not judging you, But how dare you judge us?

1107
00:52:26,960 --> 00:52:30,000
Speaker 1: You're not judging you. You know, don't dh if you

1108
00:52:30,040 --> 00:52:30,600
Speaker 1: can't take it.

1109
00:52:32,200 --> 00:52:35,000
Speaker 2: So let me say this before we move on, because

1110
00:52:35,040 --> 00:52:37,920
Speaker 2: I saw a lot of people attacking Kanye.

1111
00:52:38,960 --> 00:52:41,560
Speaker 1: About her hair and her makeup. Okay, so I will

1112
00:52:41,600 --> 00:52:42,680
Speaker 1: say this. There was one.

1113
00:52:42,560 --> 00:52:46,440
Speaker 2: Scene where her wig was literally so far back, like

1114
00:52:46,480 --> 00:52:47,960
Speaker 2: you could see her braids underneath.

1115
00:52:49,760 --> 00:52:52,040
Speaker 1: But this is what I want to say as.

1116
00:52:52,320 --> 00:52:55,919
Speaker 2: As black people when we're on set, Like if y'all

1117
00:52:55,960 --> 00:52:58,279
Speaker 2: have watched these episodes, when me and Dre are sitting here,

1118
00:52:58,280 --> 00:52:59,200
Speaker 2: we fix each other.

1119
00:53:00,040 --> 00:53:01,880
Speaker 1: Dray see something out of place on me or me

1120
00:53:02,040 --> 00:53:04,560
Speaker 1: on her? Were supposed to have each other's I mean

1121
00:53:04,920 --> 00:53:06,120
Speaker 1: they supposed to do on the show.

1122
00:53:06,400 --> 00:53:10,160
Speaker 2: No, exactly, somebody should have pulled her to Yes, yes,

1123
00:53:10,320 --> 00:53:13,799
Speaker 2: that's why, because what did we say, Dres came not

1124
00:53:13,840 --> 00:53:15,680
Speaker 2: on camera, but what did we say? We said that

1125
00:53:15,760 --> 00:53:18,200
Speaker 2: we wanted more women on this set because there was

1126
00:53:18,239 --> 00:53:20,600
Speaker 2: some times where things will be wrong with us, and

1127
00:53:20,640 --> 00:53:23,719
Speaker 2: we necessarily couldn't see it, but we found but and

1128
00:53:23,800 --> 00:53:25,440
Speaker 2: men don't know. But we was like, if we had

1129
00:53:25,480 --> 00:53:28,000
Speaker 2: a woman sitting back there, they could walk up and

1130
00:53:28,120 --> 00:53:34,080
Speaker 2: say something. And I don't ever comment on black women's hair, makeup, outfits, nothing,

1131
00:53:34,120 --> 00:53:36,680
Speaker 2: because I feel like society is so hard on us

1132
00:53:36,800 --> 00:53:39,719
Speaker 2: already as it is so anybody out there working in

1133
00:53:39,760 --> 00:53:42,440
Speaker 2: the industry doing anything.

1134
00:53:42,520 --> 00:53:43,160
Speaker 1: If you're on.

1135
00:53:43,160 --> 00:53:45,080
Speaker 2: Set and you see a black woman and something that's

1136
00:53:45,080 --> 00:53:47,720
Speaker 2: out of line, just help her because it's not funny.

1137
00:53:47,719 --> 00:53:49,840
Speaker 1: To me. I don't think that shit is funny.

1138
00:53:50,120 --> 00:53:53,279
Speaker 2: I'll be like, come on, bro, like nobody thought to say, hey,

1139
00:53:53,320 --> 00:53:54,760
Speaker 2: can we pause for a second.

1140
00:53:55,480 --> 00:53:56,280
Speaker 1: I be damn.

1141
00:53:57,120 --> 00:53:59,719
Speaker 2: If we're sitting at a table recording something and I

1142
00:53:59,760 --> 00:54:02,879
Speaker 2: see anything in your teeth, something on your face, I'm

1143
00:54:02,880 --> 00:54:07,600
Speaker 2: a bit hey pause, y'all wait for us, y'all because

1144
00:54:07,680 --> 00:54:10,640
Speaker 2: y'all can't film without us. You can't film without us,

1145
00:54:10,719 --> 00:54:13,480
Speaker 2: So you need to let pause, let me get my

1146
00:54:13,520 --> 00:54:16,000
Speaker 2: girls straight, and let's continue.

1147
00:54:16,360 --> 00:54:17,520
Speaker 1: So I think we all need to.

1148
00:54:17,440 --> 00:54:19,839
Speaker 2: Do that, black men, black women, all of us when

1149
00:54:19,840 --> 00:54:21,239
Speaker 2: we on say it. We just need to look out

1150
00:54:21,280 --> 00:54:24,279
Speaker 2: for each other in these moments because I hate when

1151
00:54:24,280 --> 00:54:26,040
Speaker 2: people be like, Oh, I can see her lace, bitch,

1152
00:54:26,080 --> 00:54:28,239
Speaker 2: it's a lace front, the laces.

1153
00:54:27,920 --> 00:54:28,560
Speaker 1: In the front.

1154
00:54:28,719 --> 00:54:31,680
Speaker 2: See it's a wig. Why do we act like the

1155
00:54:31,760 --> 00:54:32,880
Speaker 2: lace gotta be invisible?

1156
00:54:32,880 --> 00:54:35,000
Speaker 1: Bitch? You can see my lace. It's a lace. Will

1157
00:54:35,120 --> 00:54:37,440
Speaker 1: y'all know it's not my hair. It's cute.

1158
00:54:37,640 --> 00:54:41,440
Speaker 2: Keep it pushing, like, why are we so hard? People

1159
00:54:41,440 --> 00:54:43,080
Speaker 2: were talking about, oh, her lip feelers.

1160
00:54:43,080 --> 00:54:46,000
Speaker 1: Look, I think they look that bad. I didn't need

1161
00:54:46,080 --> 00:54:48,000
Speaker 1: to the girls who get it getting the girls who

1162
00:54:48,040 --> 00:54:49,839
Speaker 1: don't don't. I always say that, But.

1163
00:54:49,920 --> 00:54:54,120
Speaker 2: Stop picking people apart about their looks, especially black women.

1164
00:54:54,520 --> 00:54:57,279
Speaker 2: We have to keep up with these standard look I

1165
00:54:57,320 --> 00:54:59,920
Speaker 2: love Arianna Grande, but she had that ponytail infit third

1166
00:55:00,000 --> 00:55:03,640
Speaker 2: forty years and nobody said nothing. Why you get to

1167
00:55:03,680 --> 00:55:06,319
Speaker 2: wear a ponytail for thirty years? Nobody say nothing because

1168
00:55:06,360 --> 00:55:07,040
Speaker 2: it was.

1169
00:55:07,000 --> 00:55:09,640
Speaker 1: Probably different hair maybe, I mean, but either way, it

1170
00:55:09,640 --> 00:55:12,040
Speaker 1: goes and it's not a It's not no shade to her.

1171
00:55:12,160 --> 00:55:13,719
Speaker 1: It's not no shade to her at all.

1172
00:55:14,040 --> 00:55:17,040
Speaker 2: But it's like, why do people Certain people get to

1173
00:55:17,120 --> 00:55:19,320
Speaker 2: exist and do what they want, but when a black

1174
00:55:19,360 --> 00:55:22,520
Speaker 2: woman something is out of place, it's a big fucking

1175
00:55:22,560 --> 00:55:25,160
Speaker 2: issue and it's a problem. Let's stop picking each other

1176
00:55:25,239 --> 00:55:28,760
Speaker 2: apart like that. I agree because I feel like people

1177
00:55:28,800 --> 00:55:29,399
Speaker 2: do that to us.

1178
00:55:30,560 --> 00:55:33,080
Speaker 1: Girl. Look, bitch, one hair could be out of place

1179
00:55:33,320 --> 00:55:35,719
Speaker 1: and they gonna call. They're gonna call, bring them out,

1180
00:55:35,760 --> 00:55:36,439
Speaker 1: bring them out?

1181
00:55:36,520 --> 00:55:39,760
Speaker 2: Like these houses looks stupid. Oh they are so cheap girl,

1182
00:55:39,800 --> 00:55:43,080
Speaker 2: fuck y'all. But yeah, shout out to young famous and African.

1183
00:55:43,120 --> 00:55:46,160
Speaker 2: I think it's a great show. How the the season ended,

1184
00:55:46,600 --> 00:55:49,040
Speaker 2: I thought was great. I can't wait for season two.

1185
00:55:49,520 --> 00:55:51,000
Speaker 2: I'm just excited. I really liked it.

1186
00:55:50,880 --> 00:55:53,480
Speaker 1: It was a really good show. Like it too. What's

1187
00:55:53,560 --> 00:55:56,360
Speaker 1: up y'all with your girl XP It's Schugarl Dre and

1188
00:55:56,400 --> 00:55:56,960
Speaker 1: the cold.

1189
00:55:57,040 --> 00:55:59,399
Speaker 2: Y'all know it's about to be summertime, so it's time

1190
00:55:59,480 --> 00:56:03,120
Speaker 2: to be hell healthy and get everything right. Yes, And

1191
00:56:03,200 --> 00:56:05,520
Speaker 2: one good thing that we love about Hello freshs. It

1192
00:56:05,560 --> 00:56:08,239
Speaker 2: just makes everything so much easier. You know, with our

1193
00:56:08,239 --> 00:56:10,120
Speaker 2: busy schedules, we don't even have to go to the

1194
00:56:10,120 --> 00:56:13,279
Speaker 2: grocery store anymore. They deliver everything to your house free

1195
00:56:13,360 --> 00:56:17,160
Speaker 2: Porsch Fresh ingredients and everything is ready in about thirty

1196
00:56:17,200 --> 00:56:19,320
Speaker 2: minutes or Liz. And not only that, it is seventy

1197
00:56:19,320 --> 00:56:21,560
Speaker 2: two percent cheaper than going out to eat.

1198
00:56:21,800 --> 00:56:23,560
Speaker 1: And if you're a grocery shopper.

1199
00:56:23,600 --> 00:56:27,080
Speaker 2: You're gonna save over sixty five dollars a month versus

1200
00:56:27,280 --> 00:56:29,799
Speaker 2: go into the grocery store. Yes, and they have a

1201
00:56:29,800 --> 00:56:34,160
Speaker 2: lot of different options like vegetarian, calorie smart, and gourmet options.

1202
00:56:34,400 --> 00:56:37,040
Speaker 2: So you know, I've been being on my Keto stuff.

1203
00:56:37,120 --> 00:56:41,040
Speaker 2: So I actually just ate the roasted veggie kill salad

1204
00:56:41,160 --> 00:56:42,200
Speaker 2: and it was so good.

1205
00:56:42,360 --> 00:56:44,680
Speaker 1: Bussing cudsin did what you had to do.

1206
00:56:45,040 --> 00:56:47,480
Speaker 2: So you're gonna go to HelloFresh dot com slash poor

1207
00:56:47,560 --> 00:56:51,040
Speaker 2: Mine sixteen and use code poor Mine sixteen and get

1208
00:56:51,120 --> 00:56:53,160
Speaker 2: up to sixteen free meals.

1209
00:56:53,080 --> 00:56:55,239
Speaker 1: Plus you get three free gifts.

1210
00:56:55,280 --> 00:56:59,640
Speaker 2: So go to HelloFresh dot com slash poormone sixteen and

1211
00:56:59,719 --> 00:57:03,800
Speaker 2: get you eat on all right, So now we're gonna

1212
00:57:03,840 --> 00:57:10,480
Speaker 2: get into about about about bow Bow.

1213
00:57:10,840 --> 00:57:12,359
Speaker 1: So I actually have two bops this week.

1214
00:57:13,640 --> 00:57:18,760
Speaker 2: So my first bop, I'm very I just love army music, y'all.

1215
00:57:19,080 --> 00:57:21,040
Speaker 2: It just brings out a side to me that I

1216
00:57:21,240 --> 00:57:25,320
Speaker 2: just you know, it's only a handful of people who

1217
00:57:25,360 --> 00:57:27,200
Speaker 2: can really sing, me being one of them.

1218
00:57:27,600 --> 00:57:31,960
Speaker 1: And she is another one on this list, so I

1219
00:57:32,000 --> 00:57:36,439
Speaker 1: hope I'm saying her name nothing. Yeah.

1220
00:57:37,000 --> 00:57:41,000
Speaker 2: Uh so this person I actually shouted her out about

1221
00:57:41,000 --> 00:57:44,120
Speaker 2: a year or two ago because she dropped a song

1222
00:57:44,600 --> 00:57:48,120
Speaker 2: and oh my god, it was such a beautiful song.

1223
00:57:48,240 --> 00:57:52,440
Speaker 2: So I think I say her name Mayho.

1224
00:57:53,560 --> 00:58:00,160
Speaker 1: Mahio, No, bitch, that's the BBL doctor bitch. Okay, how

1225
00:58:00,200 --> 00:58:03,439
Speaker 1: do you think you say that Mayhoe right? Or my whole?

1226
00:58:03,840 --> 00:58:04,360
Speaker 1: My whole?

1227
00:58:04,680 --> 00:58:08,520
Speaker 2: I love her, I follow her. She's super dope, dope artist.

1228
00:58:08,600 --> 00:58:10,160
Speaker 2: I just want to make sure I'm saying her name right.

1229
00:58:10,200 --> 00:58:13,320
Speaker 2: But you spell it m a j oh. So she

1230
00:58:13,480 --> 00:58:16,520
Speaker 2: dropped the song two years ago called Honey. I don't

1231
00:58:16,560 --> 00:58:18,120
Speaker 2: know if y'all remember this, but I talked about this

1232
00:58:18,200 --> 00:58:19,840
Speaker 2: song so much because it was so.

1233
00:58:19,800 --> 00:58:21,120
Speaker 1: Good like her.

1234
00:58:21,760 --> 00:58:24,640
Speaker 2: If you could hear butter her velvet, that's what her

1235
00:58:24,720 --> 00:58:27,720
Speaker 2: voice sounds like, very smooth voice. So she just dropped

1236
00:58:27,760 --> 00:58:31,000
Speaker 2: another song called something Else. Look, I don't care what

1237
00:58:31,040 --> 00:58:33,960
Speaker 2: this girl drop. I'm gonna listen to it and it's

1238
00:58:34,000 --> 00:58:36,760
Speaker 2: gonna be fire. So she has a song called something Else,

1239
00:58:37,240 --> 00:58:38,920
Speaker 2: and I'm like, God, damn it, bit.

1240
00:58:38,840 --> 00:58:43,800
Speaker 1: You then did it again? It was good? What was it? Dude?

1241
00:58:43,920 --> 00:58:47,560
Speaker 2: The girl is good, it gets It's just a good song.

1242
00:58:47,600 --> 00:58:50,480
Speaker 2: So basically the song is just like it's like her.

1243
00:58:50,840 --> 00:58:52,880
Speaker 2: It reminds me this is how it made me feel.

1244
00:58:52,920 --> 00:58:55,080
Speaker 2: It was giving me like a fantasy of you wanting

1245
00:58:55,080 --> 00:58:57,000
Speaker 2: to live with this man and just be in his

1246
00:58:57,200 --> 00:58:59,280
Speaker 2: arms and you want things to be perfect, and it's

1247
00:58:59,360 --> 00:59:02,000
Speaker 2: just like you're not lying to him, like you're keeping

1248
00:59:02,000 --> 00:59:04,120
Speaker 2: it one hundred. Like she said one part she said,

1249
00:59:04,120 --> 00:59:06,480
Speaker 2: I don't want to lie to you. I want to

1250
00:59:06,560 --> 00:59:08,240
Speaker 2: lie with you.

1251
00:59:08,240 --> 00:59:11,240
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I don't want to lie

1252
00:59:11,320 --> 00:59:13,439
Speaker 1: to you as me. I don't want to lie no more?

1253
00:59:13,960 --> 00:59:17,440
Speaker 1: Can we just lie in the bad? The bad?

1254
00:59:17,560 --> 00:59:23,160
Speaker 2: Hey, you know what I'm saying. So she did her thing.

1255
00:59:23,960 --> 00:59:28,200
Speaker 2: My whole something else is my first bob. You want

1256
00:59:28,240 --> 00:59:29,480
Speaker 2: to go to my second one? You want to go,

1257
00:59:29,720 --> 00:59:33,640
Speaker 2: you can go because I'm not doing It's about to

1258
00:59:33,640 --> 00:59:37,320
Speaker 2: be summertime. First of all, the Naja boys is outside

1259
00:59:37,560 --> 00:59:38,840
Speaker 2: and they are dropping.

1260
00:59:38,760 --> 00:59:43,520
Speaker 1: Hits on hits on hits on us. So actually, maybe

1261
00:59:43,560 --> 00:59:44,680
Speaker 1: I got three bops this week.

1262
00:59:44,760 --> 00:59:47,960
Speaker 2: So another bop that I have is a song called

1263
00:59:48,160 --> 00:59:52,720
Speaker 2: Playboy by Fireboy DML. So he's the guy that dropped

1264
00:59:52,720 --> 00:59:55,160
Speaker 2: that song Peru and then they remixed it with ed

1265
00:59:55,240 --> 01:00:02,480
Speaker 2: cheran pedal. So yeah, he dropped another song called Playboy,

1266
01:00:03,000 --> 01:00:06,400
Speaker 2: and it's just the vibes it makes, it gives you vacation.

1267
01:00:06,560 --> 01:00:08,120
Speaker 2: Like I'm telling you all the girls about to be

1268
01:00:08,160 --> 01:00:11,000
Speaker 2: using this on their reels. It's giving a real song.

1269
01:00:11,200 --> 01:00:11,720
Speaker 1: I love it.

1270
01:00:12,160 --> 01:00:14,360
Speaker 2: So that's my second bob and then my third bop

1271
01:00:14,440 --> 01:00:17,560
Speaker 2: is another I'm sorry, Okay.

1272
01:00:17,200 --> 01:00:18,680
Speaker 1: I like, let me get one of my o in

1273
01:00:19,840 --> 01:00:21,600
Speaker 1: zn mis Strixton is the motherfuck up.

1274
01:00:22,360 --> 01:00:27,720
Speaker 2: So the third one is a song called Finesse by Feels.

1275
01:00:27,520 --> 01:00:31,560
Speaker 2: It's spelled p h e e l Z. It's another

1276
01:00:31,600 --> 01:00:36,360
Speaker 2: afrobeat song. It's fucking flames. It's giving summer vibes. I

1277
01:00:36,440 --> 01:00:38,840
Speaker 2: just love I just love it. I feel like it's

1278
01:00:38,880 --> 01:00:41,880
Speaker 2: summer music. The boys are dropping the songs. I'm just

1279
01:00:41,920 --> 01:00:44,120
Speaker 2: excited for summer. So these are my bops of the week.

1280
01:00:45,080 --> 01:00:48,320
Speaker 2: So yeah, make sure y'all download that Mayhoe ma who

1281
01:00:49,120 --> 01:00:49,560
Speaker 2: I hate that.

1282
01:00:49,760 --> 01:00:50,640
Speaker 1: I don't know how to pronounce.

1283
01:00:50,680 --> 01:00:56,920
Speaker 2: People name something else Fireboy, DML Playboy and Feels Finess.

1284
01:00:57,200 --> 01:00:59,320
Speaker 1: Those are my bops this week. I got two bops

1285
01:00:59,360 --> 01:01:01,080
Speaker 1: this week too. I got.

1286
01:01:02,480 --> 01:01:06,880
Speaker 2: So y'all know I love like trap music because I

1287
01:01:06,920 --> 01:01:08,600
Speaker 2: do beach. I feel like I was a trappedig in

1288
01:01:08,640 --> 01:01:10,360
Speaker 2: my own life. You cannot tell me I was not

1289
01:01:10,640 --> 01:01:15,920
Speaker 2: whipping that work. So not standing kitchen and it was

1290
01:01:16,960 --> 01:01:21,800
Speaker 2: all white breeze. So I it's this song by Yo

1291
01:01:21,880 --> 01:01:24,560
Speaker 2: Gotti forty two Dug e TG Bach You know the

1292
01:01:24,600 --> 01:01:26,520
Speaker 2: whole E s TG had on me last.

1293
01:01:26,320 --> 01:01:28,320
Speaker 1: Summer, Yes, I definitely do.

1294
01:01:28,560 --> 01:01:31,000
Speaker 2: I was like running his fucking album into the ground,

1295
01:01:31,080 --> 01:01:32,640
Speaker 2: especially because I was on my workout sheet.

1296
01:01:32,680 --> 01:01:35,520
Speaker 1: I was in the gym beach every day. Sign't a

1297
01:01:35,560 --> 01:01:39,520
Speaker 1: young Wood. Oh my god, you may you maye Ryan

1298
01:01:39,640 --> 01:01:44,960
Speaker 1: dance of that song because that's how serious it is.

1299
01:01:45,880 --> 01:01:48,960
Speaker 2: So Yo Gotti forty two TG had a song called

1300
01:01:49,000 --> 01:01:53,520
Speaker 2: Cold Gangster. I love these songs, but I also am

1301
01:01:53,560 --> 01:01:55,000
Speaker 2: like a huge fan of Yo Gotti too.

1302
01:01:55,280 --> 01:01:57,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, and E s CG.

1303
01:01:58,200 --> 01:01:59,840
Speaker 2: I mean yeah, but I already just said I was

1304
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Speaker 2: a in a ECG. I'm saying I'm a fan of Yogotti. Yeah,

1305
01:02:03,200 --> 01:02:07,560
Speaker 2: but yes him Gotti and forty two do okay, Gangster

1306
01:02:07,840 --> 01:02:10,880
Speaker 2: forty two Doug Hard forty is hard too, for sure.

1307
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Speaker 2: So then my second song, you are a Barb, I am,

1308
01:02:18,280 --> 01:02:19,040
Speaker 2: but I've been one.

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Speaker 1: I've been a barb too, and I thought I gave

1310
01:02:21,160 --> 01:02:23,080
Speaker 1: it up, but I didn't. Yeah, So NICKI got this

1311
01:02:23,160 --> 01:02:29,960
Speaker 1: song called we Go that's my ship. The Queen verse.

1312
01:02:30,840 --> 01:02:33,280
Speaker 2: She's really the queen of rap like y'all is not.

1313
01:02:33,480 --> 01:02:35,880
Speaker 2: I'm sorry sweet to her verse. The other day, everybody

1314
01:02:36,000 --> 01:02:39,600
Speaker 2: was up in a friend even me, I said NICKI.

1315
01:02:39,360 --> 01:02:42,360
Speaker 1: Said that because she did say that. But after all

1316
01:02:42,440 --> 01:02:44,560
Speaker 1: of that surgery, you still ugly. And this is what

1317
01:02:44,720 --> 01:02:45,320
Speaker 1: gets me.

1318
01:02:45,720 --> 01:02:49,520
Speaker 2: And that's the reason I reacted. It's me exactly because

1319
01:02:49,560 --> 01:02:51,320
Speaker 2: you had sent me something in my DM.

1320
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Speaker 1: What that sent you? You know what you sent me?

1321
01:02:55,360 --> 01:02:57,840
Speaker 1: Who will?

1322
01:02:57,960 --> 01:02:59,480
Speaker 2: I was trying to be extra quid because I didn't

1323
01:02:59,480 --> 01:03:00,840
Speaker 2: want the mics to pick that one up.

1324
01:03:02,080 --> 01:03:03,400
Speaker 3: Oh that's a good example.

1325
01:03:03,440 --> 01:03:04,760
Speaker 1: But now I wouldn't even think about us.

1326
01:03:04,840 --> 01:03:08,240
Speaker 2: Okay, So I will say this first of all, Nikki

1327
01:03:08,320 --> 01:03:08,760
Speaker 2: is the queen.

1328
01:03:08,920 --> 01:03:11,600
Speaker 1: She remains supreme. I'm sorry, I'm sorry. I'm sorry.

1329
01:03:11,640 --> 01:03:15,960
Speaker 2: The bars, nobody's fucking with her, bars, with her bar, the.

1330
01:03:15,960 --> 01:03:20,000
Speaker 1: Aesthetic, the face, her face is top tier. I'm just sorry. Like,

1331
01:03:20,080 --> 01:03:22,280
Speaker 1: Nikki is it. She's the it girl. She will forever

1332
01:03:22,320 --> 01:03:24,480
Speaker 1: be the it girl. I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry.

1333
01:03:25,160 --> 01:03:27,000
Speaker 1: I just can't. I can't let her go. The whole

1334
01:03:27,080 --> 01:03:28,600
Speaker 1: Nikki has on me is insane.

1335
01:03:28,760 --> 01:03:29,440
Speaker 3: It's insane.

1336
01:03:30,600 --> 01:03:31,200
Speaker 1: I love Nikki.

1337
01:03:31,240 --> 01:03:35,040
Speaker 2: I was actually listening to a lot of Nikki music.

1338
01:03:35,120 --> 01:03:37,680
Speaker 2: This We remember I had posted that little video I

1339
01:03:37,760 --> 01:03:38,360
Speaker 2: was listening to.

1340
01:03:39,920 --> 01:03:41,600
Speaker 1: How did that song go? I don't know.

1341
01:03:42,280 --> 01:03:43,240
Speaker 3: I want to be with you.

1342
01:03:44,160 --> 01:03:47,360
Speaker 2: I want to be with you? And I had the

1343
01:03:47,480 --> 01:03:49,400
Speaker 2: best verse on that whole fucking song.

1344
01:03:50,600 --> 01:03:53,960
Speaker 1: You love her? Now she has verse period? We love

1345
01:03:53,960 --> 01:03:56,760
Speaker 1: you Nikki? All right? So now we're gonna show girl

1346
01:03:57,080 --> 01:03:59,920
Speaker 1: got a podcast too. You think she would love us?

1347
01:04:00,000 --> 01:04:02,840
Speaker 1: I'm on Queen Radio. Why wouldn't you? We just a

1348
01:04:02,960 --> 01:04:08,000
Speaker 1: shady shade. We all all.

1349
01:04:07,960 --> 01:04:10,720
Speaker 2: Free of a shady What what's up y'all?

1350
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Speaker 1: At your girl x K and it's sugarls RA and

1351
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Speaker 1: the call and.

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Speaker 2: We all all are getting older on the outside, But

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Speaker 2: what about the inside? Absolutely, and I mean everybody wants

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Speaker 2: to have a long lifespan.

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Speaker 1: Everybody wants to be healthy.

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Speaker 2: to identify where you're optimized and where you're not. It

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Speaker 2: your true biological age and lets you know how you're

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Speaker 2: what goes on inside of your body.

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Speaker 2: All right, so now we're gonna get into the poor

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Speaker 2: your heart out segment of the show. If you want

1373
01:05:15,840 --> 01:05:17,760
Speaker 2: your question answered on the show, make sure you email

1374
01:05:17,840 --> 01:05:20,320
Speaker 2: us at ask poor Minds at gmail dot com. If

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Speaker 2: you're a Patreon member, make sure you put that in

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Speaker 2: the subject line, and make.

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Speaker 1: Sure y'all join our Patreon.

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Speaker 2: It's a lot of hot tea on there and good stuff. Okay,

1379
01:05:28,160 --> 01:05:31,960
Speaker 2: we're going to get into the first question. It says, Hey,

1380
01:05:32,040 --> 01:05:35,360
Speaker 2: Lex Andrea, I've been watching y'all since y'all first started

1381
01:05:35,400 --> 01:05:38,840
Speaker 2: Windown Wednesday and haven't missed the episode since y'all been

1382
01:05:38,920 --> 01:05:39,400
Speaker 2: killing shit.

1383
01:05:39,560 --> 01:05:40,560
Speaker 1: And I'm so proud.

1384
01:05:40,920 --> 01:05:43,320
Speaker 2: I just turned twenty five in September, and I've never

1385
01:05:43,360 --> 01:05:46,240
Speaker 2: been in a relationship from high school to about a

1386
01:05:46,320 --> 01:05:48,640
Speaker 2: year or two ago, I convinced myself that I only

1387
01:05:48,640 --> 01:05:51,880
Speaker 2: wanted sex, so when talking to guys, I never opened

1388
01:05:51,920 --> 01:05:55,000
Speaker 2: up and kept everything surface level. No one has ever

1389
01:05:55,080 --> 01:05:57,400
Speaker 2: taken me serious, and I always ended up with my

1390
01:05:57,440 --> 01:06:00,480
Speaker 2: feelings hurt. I get shy and scared to open up

1391
01:06:00,520 --> 01:06:02,360
Speaker 2: around niggas if I really like them.

1392
01:06:02,440 --> 01:06:03,760
Speaker 1: But I'm so over that shit.

1393
01:06:04,120 --> 01:06:06,400
Speaker 2: I want to be in a relationship and if and

1394
01:06:06,440 --> 01:06:08,840
Speaker 2: if not that, then I want a roster of niggas

1395
01:06:08,880 --> 01:06:11,320
Speaker 2: who are obsessed with me and want to do things

1396
01:06:11,320 --> 01:06:14,320
Speaker 2: for me. How can I mean more comfortable around men?

1397
01:06:14,680 --> 01:06:17,280
Speaker 2: I feel like I am interesting. I'm interesting in a

1398
01:06:17,400 --> 01:06:19,720
Speaker 2: very layered person, but that shit goes out the window

1399
01:06:19,760 --> 01:06:23,720
Speaker 2: when I'm mess messing said missing, I'm missing with someone.

1400
01:06:24,000 --> 01:06:26,080
Speaker 1: I'm weak. That's why I need to stop doing that

1401
01:06:26,360 --> 01:06:26,880
Speaker 1: with someone.

1402
01:06:28,520 --> 01:06:30,640
Speaker 2: I'm a very layered person, but that shit goes out

1403
01:06:30,640 --> 01:06:33,680
Speaker 2: the window when I'm messing with someone. Also, how to

1404
01:06:33,800 --> 01:06:35,640
Speaker 2: keep a nigga and how to make a nigga fall

1405
01:06:35,640 --> 01:06:36,800
Speaker 2: for me and want to be with me?

1406
01:06:36,960 --> 01:06:38,440
Speaker 1: First of all, we can't tell you how to keep

1407
01:06:38,440 --> 01:06:40,480
Speaker 1: no nigga, obviously.

1408
01:06:43,560 --> 01:06:45,800
Speaker 2: But I will say this. We also said this on

1409
01:06:45,800 --> 01:06:49,000
Speaker 2: the past episode. Y'all need to tell your intentions to

1410
01:06:49,080 --> 01:06:50,600
Speaker 2: these men first date.

1411
01:06:50,880 --> 01:06:51,960
Speaker 1: I'm laying that out on the table.

1412
01:06:52,000 --> 01:06:53,800
Speaker 2: This is what I'm looking for, this is what I want,

1413
01:06:54,000 --> 01:06:55,520
Speaker 2: and if a nigga has a problem with them, then

1414
01:06:55,560 --> 01:06:57,000
Speaker 2: that's just not the man for you. So we don't

1415
01:06:57,040 --> 01:06:59,720
Speaker 2: even got to waste each other's time, right, don't be

1416
01:06:59,800 --> 01:07:01,400
Speaker 2: a It's right to tell these men how you feel,

1417
01:07:01,400 --> 01:07:04,160
Speaker 2: because you're gonna save yourself heartbreak and gonna save yourself

1418
01:07:04,200 --> 01:07:08,960
Speaker 2: from wasting time. Yeah, I mean, I agree, Like, don't

1419
01:07:09,120 --> 01:07:11,960
Speaker 2: waste your time women at all. You twenty five, So

1420
01:07:12,000 --> 01:07:14,600
Speaker 2: it's not like you a spring chicken. I mean, but

1421
01:07:14,680 --> 01:07:17,440
Speaker 2: she's pretty spring she's more springing in us. She is

1422
01:07:17,520 --> 01:07:19,600
Speaker 2: more springing in us. But I mean when I feel

1423
01:07:19,640 --> 01:07:21,200
Speaker 2: like when I turn twenty five, that was like a

1424
01:07:21,200 --> 01:07:23,640
Speaker 2: pivotal woment for me because it's like you about to

1425
01:07:23,680 --> 01:07:25,880
Speaker 2: go over the hill. Yeah, okay, you know what I mean,

1426
01:07:25,920 --> 01:07:29,520
Speaker 2: Like you're no longer in your early twenties anymore. Yeah,

1427
01:07:29,520 --> 01:07:31,000
Speaker 2: so I feel like you don't really just be having

1428
01:07:31,040 --> 01:07:33,920
Speaker 2: time to play with dudes, right, So if that's what

1429
01:07:34,000 --> 01:07:35,680
Speaker 2: you want, Like, I all the time in the world

1430
01:07:35,720 --> 01:07:37,919
Speaker 2: to play with niggas, But this is because.

1431
01:07:40,080 --> 01:07:42,120
Speaker 1: Why you got all the time, but she don't because

1432
01:07:42,560 --> 01:07:44,400
Speaker 1: I ain't necessarily looking for.

1433
01:07:44,320 --> 01:07:47,880
Speaker 2: A nigga, right, Okay, But I feel like if that's

1434
01:07:47,920 --> 01:07:50,080
Speaker 2: what you want, like, if you want to be comeded

1435
01:07:50,080 --> 01:07:53,640
Speaker 2: and you were looking for a serious situation, then you

1436
01:07:53,680 --> 01:07:55,200
Speaker 2: need to lay it on the line and let these

1437
01:07:55,280 --> 01:07:56,360
Speaker 2: niggas know what you're looking for.

1438
01:07:56,480 --> 01:07:57,680
Speaker 1: I agree with Legs.

1439
01:07:59,040 --> 01:08:02,520
Speaker 2: And and just have confidence in who you are and

1440
01:08:02,680 --> 01:08:05,160
Speaker 2: you know, like you have to if you're interested in

1441
01:08:05,200 --> 01:08:07,880
Speaker 2: your you said you're interested in you're a very layered person,

1442
01:08:08,040 --> 01:08:09,880
Speaker 2: but that she goes out the window when you're missing

1443
01:08:09,960 --> 01:08:12,720
Speaker 2: with someone, well, then you're not showing your true authentic self.

1444
01:08:12,760 --> 01:08:14,560
Speaker 1: That's why why are you hiding yourself?

1445
01:08:14,640 --> 01:08:14,800
Speaker 3: Right?

1446
01:08:14,800 --> 01:08:16,040
Speaker 2: And that's why I say you have to be more

1447
01:08:16,040 --> 01:08:18,680
Speaker 2: confident in who you are and yourself. I don't give

1448
01:08:18,720 --> 01:08:20,400
Speaker 2: a Like I said earlier, I don't give a fuck

1449
01:08:20,439 --> 01:08:21,240
Speaker 2: with people think about me.

1450
01:08:21,280 --> 01:08:23,280
Speaker 1: This is who I am. If you don't like me,

1451
01:08:23,400 --> 01:08:25,800
Speaker 1: that's fine. But if you fuck with me, I fuck

1452
01:08:25,880 --> 01:08:27,080
Speaker 1: with you. Yeah.

1453
01:08:27,120 --> 01:08:28,600
Speaker 2: I mean, I just feel like, you know, you have

1454
01:08:28,680 --> 01:08:30,439
Speaker 2: to do whatever you want to do in life. Like

1455
01:08:30,520 --> 01:08:32,920
Speaker 2: I'm kind of on the path of like if I

1456
01:08:33,040 --> 01:08:35,280
Speaker 2: fall in love, and I fall in love, and that's great,

1457
01:08:35,360 --> 01:08:37,280
Speaker 2: but if I don't, I'll be having.

1458
01:08:37,160 --> 01:08:38,000
Speaker 1: A mother fucking ball.

1459
01:08:39,520 --> 01:08:43,880
Speaker 2: What you be doing falling in love and falling out

1460
01:08:43,920 --> 01:08:46,120
Speaker 2: and crying and getting over it and fall in love again.

1461
01:08:46,439 --> 01:08:47,160
Speaker 1: I'm aa fall in love.

1462
01:08:47,200 --> 01:08:49,120
Speaker 2: I really want to fall in love at least twice

1463
01:08:49,479 --> 01:08:53,519
Speaker 2: this year. I feel it in my bones. I'm about

1464
01:08:53,560 --> 01:08:54,519
Speaker 2: to cross so hard.

1465
01:08:54,600 --> 01:08:55,120
Speaker 1: Can't wait?

1466
01:08:58,360 --> 01:09:03,160
Speaker 2: All right, then, no resu, Hey ladies, I literally love

1467
01:09:03,200 --> 01:09:05,839
Speaker 2: your podcast. Y'all make me look forward to my thirties

1468
01:09:05,840 --> 01:09:08,400
Speaker 2: and being single because y'all are thro see period, I

1469
01:09:08,560 --> 01:09:15,000
Speaker 2: just said that, aust that's right, you ready for that date?

1470
01:09:15,760 --> 01:09:17,040
Speaker 1: I can't waste the turn thirty one.

1471
01:09:18,280 --> 01:09:20,760
Speaker 2: I literally love your podcast and y'all make me look

1472
01:09:20,800 --> 01:09:23,280
Speaker 2: forward to my thirties and being single because y'all are thriving.

1473
01:09:23,640 --> 01:09:25,519
Speaker 2: Do you think it's worse for your man to be

1474
01:09:25,560 --> 01:09:27,599
Speaker 2: fucking on a hole or for him to be sending

1475
01:09:27,600 --> 01:09:31,400
Speaker 2: her money and she personally? I feel like the whole

1476
01:09:31,439 --> 01:09:33,519
Speaker 2: money thing is worse. I don't care if you buying

1477
01:09:33,520 --> 01:09:35,920
Speaker 2: the Hall of Happy Meal. No other woman should be

1478
01:09:35,920 --> 01:09:39,120
Speaker 2: in my man's pockets. I'm curious, not your thoughts. Pause though,

1479
01:09:39,439 --> 01:09:40,960
Speaker 2: what day was you talking about?

1480
01:09:41,000 --> 01:09:47,360
Speaker 1: Just now? We'll talk about it, okay. So this is

1481
01:09:47,479 --> 01:09:50,479
Speaker 1: my This is my theory on this.

1482
01:09:53,080 --> 01:09:58,439
Speaker 2: Feel like my last all right, I feel like, yeah,

1483
01:09:58,640 --> 01:10:01,479
Speaker 2: for sure, your nigga spending money on the beach is

1484
01:10:01,520 --> 01:10:03,880
Speaker 2: way worst because you care about ho loverihood, white parents

1485
01:10:03,920 --> 01:10:05,720
Speaker 2: that whole week, because you really fucked with a beach.

1486
01:10:05,840 --> 01:10:07,920
Speaker 1: Like last year, I had a little situation.

1487
01:10:15,760 --> 01:10:19,080
Speaker 2: Okay, so last year I had a little situation where

1488
01:10:19,120 --> 01:10:20,720
Speaker 2: like somebody I used to suck with bought me a

1489
01:10:20,800 --> 01:10:24,880
Speaker 2: purse and my and at the time, they was in

1490
01:10:24,880 --> 01:10:30,400
Speaker 2: a relationship and it was a very expensive first and

1491
01:10:30,520 --> 01:10:33,000
Speaker 2: my friend, one of my friends, I think it was

1492
01:10:33,080 --> 01:10:34,639
Speaker 2: YouTube though actually all.

1493
01:10:34,520 --> 01:10:37,080
Speaker 1: Of my friends was just like, beach hell. Now, ain't

1494
01:10:37,080 --> 01:10:37,840
Speaker 1: no motherfucking way.

1495
01:10:38,000 --> 01:10:40,680
Speaker 2: Like, it's one thing to really be still calling your

1496
01:10:40,720 --> 01:10:42,479
Speaker 2: ex and trying to still fuck with your ex, but

1497
01:10:42,520 --> 01:10:44,360
Speaker 2: it's a whole other thing to be spending money on

1498
01:10:44,400 --> 01:10:47,000
Speaker 2: this beach because that means you actually really fucked with her,

1499
01:10:47,360 --> 01:10:49,160
Speaker 2: Like why are you spending your money on this beach?

1500
01:10:49,360 --> 01:10:51,880
Speaker 2: And I one hundred percent agree. If I found out

1501
01:10:51,920 --> 01:10:54,040
Speaker 2: that my nigga was spending money on the beach, I

1502
01:10:54,040 --> 01:10:55,800
Speaker 2: would be way more sick than if I found to.

1503
01:10:55,840 --> 01:10:57,360
Speaker 1: Buy a bit. No, no, no no.

1504
01:10:57,640 --> 01:11:00,599
Speaker 2: Because let me tell you something, that ship was different.

1505
01:11:01,000 --> 01:11:03,120
Speaker 2: It's one thing to pay a bitch rent rent, like

1506
01:11:03,160 --> 01:11:06,720
Speaker 2: what twelve fifteen, two thousand dollars at the most, it's

1507
01:11:06,800 --> 01:11:09,840
Speaker 2: one thing to pay a little card notes six seven,

1508
01:11:09,920 --> 01:11:12,519
Speaker 2: eight hundred dollars one thing that shit. Maybe even buy

1509
01:11:12,560 --> 01:11:14,840
Speaker 2: a bitch some shoes a little Louis Vaitan sho about

1510
01:11:14,840 --> 01:11:18,400
Speaker 2: a thousand dollars You buying a bitch an eight nine

1511
01:11:18,400 --> 01:11:23,120
Speaker 2: thousand dollars bag? Bro, Yeah no, And so all of

1512
01:11:23,160 --> 01:11:25,080
Speaker 2: my friends were just like, Nah, that shit wild, like

1513
01:11:25,120 --> 01:11:27,240
Speaker 2: he already give a fuck about the BEECHI wheed like that,

1514
01:11:27,400 --> 01:11:28,840
Speaker 2: And I do feel that way, Like I feel like

1515
01:11:28,880 --> 01:11:31,000
Speaker 2: if a nigga is out here spending mad money on

1516
01:11:31,080 --> 01:11:34,800
Speaker 2: other bechees and he's in a relationship, he just don't

1517
01:11:34,840 --> 01:11:37,360
Speaker 2: really fuck with you like that, I know. But let

1518
01:11:37,360 --> 01:11:40,040
Speaker 2: me also say this too, let me play Devil's advocate

1519
01:11:40,080 --> 01:11:40,479
Speaker 2: a little bit.

1520
01:11:40,520 --> 01:11:42,759
Speaker 1: But sometimes these men be having.

1521
01:11:42,600 --> 01:11:45,759
Speaker 2: So much money to where it's really like them spending

1522
01:11:45,840 --> 01:11:49,080
Speaker 2: ten twenty dollars I mean, for sure, But I feel like,

1523
01:11:49,600 --> 01:11:51,800
Speaker 2: at the end of the day, too, though he could

1524
01:11:51,800 --> 01:11:53,759
Speaker 2: go fuck with a Beacho would very much be happy

1525
01:11:53,800 --> 01:11:58,240
Speaker 2: with him buying those thousand dollars. Louisa's hun sh overfucking

1526
01:11:58,240 --> 01:12:00,559
Speaker 2: would it be you want a nine thousand, twenty thousand

1527
01:12:00,600 --> 01:12:03,599
Speaker 2: dollars bag, you know what I mean? Because it's plenty

1528
01:12:03,640 --> 01:12:05,920
Speaker 2: of girls out there who will be okay with that

1529
01:12:06,160 --> 01:12:08,839
Speaker 2: amount of money. You've spending that amount of money on them,

1530
01:12:08,880 --> 01:12:10,439
Speaker 2: but you want to go fuck with the beaches.

1531
01:12:10,439 --> 01:12:11,559
Speaker 1: They want birkins, right.

1532
01:12:12,120 --> 01:12:14,360
Speaker 2: And so when he gets to that type of shit, No,

1533
01:12:14,479 --> 01:12:16,000
Speaker 2: I don't feel like he really just give a fuck

1534
01:12:16,000 --> 01:12:17,439
Speaker 2: about you like that. I feel like he keep you

1535
01:12:17,479 --> 01:12:21,000
Speaker 2: around because you can mean. But it's still bad for

1536
01:12:21,040 --> 01:12:23,439
Speaker 2: a man to be fucking on a whole. But it

1537
01:12:23,560 --> 01:12:26,240
Speaker 2: is worse for him because he cares that. She's why

1538
01:12:26,240 --> 01:12:28,479
Speaker 2: do you care if this bitch eight today? I don't

1539
01:12:28,479 --> 01:12:30,559
Speaker 2: care you send a bitch one hundred dollars? Why are

1540
01:12:30,560 --> 01:12:32,920
Speaker 2: you send her over ease money? And see that's what

1541
01:12:33,000 --> 01:12:35,400
Speaker 2: Liam was saying about the whole situation. So that's what

1542
01:12:35,439 --> 01:12:37,400
Speaker 2: she was saying about a man that she's in a

1543
01:12:37,439 --> 01:12:40,320
Speaker 2: relationship with spending money on another woman because to her

1544
01:12:40,400 --> 01:12:44,479
Speaker 2: it's like an emotional thing like about like you said,

1545
01:12:44,479 --> 01:12:47,559
Speaker 2: it's this bitch eight today, Let them be starved. Fuck

1546
01:12:48,680 --> 01:12:50,280
Speaker 2: let the whole star? Why are you send it on

1547
01:12:50,280 --> 01:12:53,200
Speaker 2: a hundred dollars? Why do you care for life? I

1548
01:12:53,280 --> 01:12:58,560
Speaker 2: turned off. Yeah, I'm saying it's an emotional thing. You're

1549
01:12:58,640 --> 01:13:00,600
Speaker 2: just fucking on somebody. You just fucking the beach, You

1550
01:13:00,760 --> 01:13:01,480
Speaker 2: just fucking.

1551
01:13:03,040 --> 01:13:05,439
Speaker 1: Neither one of them is okay, Like we said, yeah,

1552
01:13:06,720 --> 01:13:07,160
Speaker 1: either one.

1553
01:13:07,240 --> 01:13:09,400
Speaker 2: But one thing that we always love to say on

1554
01:13:09,439 --> 01:13:13,040
Speaker 2: the show because being realistic, me and gonna do what

1555
01:13:13,080 --> 01:13:14,800
Speaker 2: me and gonna do. A nigga gonna do what he

1556
01:13:14,880 --> 01:13:17,360
Speaker 2: gonna do. You can't stop him from doing what he

1557
01:13:17,439 --> 01:13:20,200
Speaker 2: was gonna do anyway. So I'm not saying it so

1558
01:13:20,200 --> 01:13:22,479
Speaker 2: okay for your nigga to cheat. But if a nigga

1559
01:13:22,520 --> 01:13:24,599
Speaker 2: wanna go fuck another girl, you can't stop him.

1560
01:13:24,439 --> 01:13:27,400
Speaker 1: From doing it. But him spending money on that beach,

1561
01:13:27,920 --> 01:13:30,600
Speaker 1: he fucked with her. Fuck her. But I'm saying he

1562
01:13:30,640 --> 01:13:34,120
Speaker 1: fucked with it though, fuck heme? Alright.

1563
01:13:34,240 --> 01:13:37,080
Speaker 2: Question three, Hey, Lexandrea. I married my husband about two

1564
01:13:37,120 --> 01:13:39,800
Speaker 2: years ago. We have a child together, and up until

1565
01:13:39,840 --> 01:13:42,599
Speaker 2: now the marriage has been great. I recently found out

1566
01:13:42,640 --> 01:13:46,840
Speaker 2: that the that a fifteen friend, that a friend of

1567
01:13:46,920 --> 01:13:51,120
Speaker 2: fifteen years who comes to functions and birthdays is someone

1568
01:13:51,200 --> 01:13:54,519
Speaker 2: who my husband has also slept with back in the day.

1569
01:13:54,840 --> 01:13:56,920
Speaker 1: Guess it was before him and I met.

1570
01:13:56,760 --> 01:13:59,800
Speaker 2: However, I feel uncomfortable being around someone he fucked with.

1571
01:14:00,160 --> 01:14:03,000
Speaker 2: I told his family that if she's invited, he and

1572
01:14:03,080 --> 01:14:04,240
Speaker 2: I won't be attending.

1573
01:14:04,880 --> 01:14:06,280
Speaker 1: This turned into a shit show.

1574
01:14:06,600 --> 01:14:09,040
Speaker 2: His mom and sisters cursed me out, saying they can

1575
01:14:09,080 --> 01:14:11,760
Speaker 2: invite who they want, that I was insecure and need

1576
01:14:11,800 --> 01:14:13,920
Speaker 2: to get over it. I was so hurt by this,

1577
01:14:14,000 --> 01:14:16,760
Speaker 2: and now they continue to invite her, causing us to

1578
01:14:16,800 --> 01:14:19,400
Speaker 2: miss out. My husband and I have been arguing all

1579
01:14:19,439 --> 01:14:21,320
Speaker 2: the time because he said it was way before he

1580
01:14:21,360 --> 01:14:23,680
Speaker 2: met me and it only happened once or twice. Am

1581
01:14:23,720 --> 01:14:25,760
Speaker 2: I wrong for standing my ground and not wanting to

1582
01:14:25,800 --> 01:14:28,599
Speaker 2: be around her. Shouldn't his family respect and choose me

1583
01:14:28,640 --> 01:14:31,280
Speaker 2: since I am his wife? This situation is tearing our

1584
01:14:31,320 --> 01:14:35,280
Speaker 2: family apart. Love the Patreon, thank you for answering sis.

1585
01:14:36,560 --> 01:14:40,880
Speaker 2: This man fucked this woman over fifteen years ago, you said,

1586
01:14:40,920 --> 01:14:42,280
Speaker 2: Did she say fifteen years?

1587
01:14:42,600 --> 01:14:45,360
Speaker 1: Oh no, a friend of fifteen years, but he was.

1588
01:14:45,680 --> 01:14:50,400
Speaker 2: However long ago it was you won, you got the ring,

1589
01:14:51,120 --> 01:14:51,960
Speaker 2: you got the kid.

1590
01:14:52,439 --> 01:14:52,800
Speaker 1: I don't.

1591
01:14:53,000 --> 01:14:55,080
Speaker 2: This is my thing, though, because I do have Do

1592
01:14:55,120 --> 01:14:56,360
Speaker 2: you really feel like that's winning? No?

1593
01:14:57,160 --> 01:14:58,800
Speaker 1: No, what I'm saying, but she has him.

1594
01:14:58,840 --> 01:15:01,840
Speaker 2: Obviously he's not interest sitting the girl like that for

1595
01:15:02,360 --> 01:15:04,280
Speaker 2: him to feel comfortable enough to now. I will say

1596
01:15:04,320 --> 01:15:06,320
Speaker 2: some niggas do bring bitches around that they fucking and

1597
01:15:06,320 --> 01:15:06,920
Speaker 2: they don't care.

1598
01:15:07,040 --> 01:15:08,320
Speaker 1: But I don't think.

1599
01:15:08,280 --> 01:15:11,599
Speaker 2: That's this situation because for her sisters and the mom

1600
01:15:11,680 --> 01:15:14,760
Speaker 2: to be cool with her. I feel like, if you

1601
01:15:14,800 --> 01:15:17,440
Speaker 2: feel like he's still flirting with her and you're uncomfortable

1602
01:15:17,479 --> 01:15:19,880
Speaker 2: with their relationship, that's one thing. But if she's coming

1603
01:15:19,880 --> 01:15:21,920
Speaker 2: around because she's close to the family and it only

1604
01:15:21,960 --> 01:15:24,960
Speaker 2: happened once or twice, he's obviously not fucking with this

1605
01:15:25,040 --> 01:15:27,280
Speaker 2: girl anymore. So I do feel like you kind of

1606
01:15:27,320 --> 01:15:29,840
Speaker 2: are in your feelings a little tiny bit, you know

1607
01:15:29,880 --> 01:15:33,360
Speaker 2: what I'm saying, Because I have been platonic friends with

1608
01:15:33,439 --> 01:15:35,840
Speaker 2: somebody that I used to fuck with in the past.

1609
01:15:36,080 --> 01:15:38,479
Speaker 2: I have, and it was like we literally weren't fucking.

1610
01:15:38,520 --> 01:15:41,920
Speaker 2: Not the most recent one, not him, but I had

1611
01:15:41,920 --> 01:15:45,360
Speaker 2: another friend that I was cool with in the past

1612
01:15:45,400 --> 01:15:47,599
Speaker 2: and we were platonic friends. So I mean, ett lost

1613
01:15:47,920 --> 01:15:50,880
Speaker 2: what we choo because it's too many niggas.

1614
01:15:50,880 --> 01:15:52,720
Speaker 1: Bro, No, it's not too many niggas. Don't do that.

1615
01:15:53,120 --> 01:15:53,760
Speaker 1: Don't do that.

1616
01:15:54,280 --> 01:15:57,439
Speaker 2: My most recent platonic friend, I'm definitely still you know.

1617
01:15:57,520 --> 01:15:59,439
Speaker 1: I'll be getting a little coaching little down there. He

1618
01:15:59,560 --> 01:16:04,800
Speaker 1: deserves you, a good friend, good advice. You're gonna get

1619
01:16:04,800 --> 01:16:05,120
Speaker 1: this cool.

1620
01:16:05,280 --> 01:16:08,080
Speaker 2: I'm trying to, Okay, but I had but I had

1621
01:16:08,080 --> 01:16:10,080
Speaker 2: a friend in the past that we used to fuck

1622
01:16:10,160 --> 01:16:12,200
Speaker 2: and we were literally But that's what I'm saying. This

1623
01:16:12,240 --> 01:16:13,640
Speaker 2: is why I'd be getting lost because I don't know

1624
01:16:13,680 --> 01:16:15,599
Speaker 2: who you talked about in the bad Oh yeah, yeah,

1625
01:16:15,600 --> 01:16:18,519
Speaker 2: because this is somebody that's like irrelevant, like so, but

1626
01:16:18,600 --> 01:16:21,719
Speaker 2: me and him were like we remain friends and cool,

1627
01:16:21,760 --> 01:16:24,240
Speaker 2: Like we don't have sex more, we don't even flirt.

1628
01:16:24,240 --> 01:16:28,439
Speaker 2: It's just what's up dot, Yeah, Like we cool and

1629
01:16:28,479 --> 01:16:30,240
Speaker 2: it's not like that at all. And I feel like

1630
01:16:30,720 --> 01:16:34,639
Speaker 2: people cannot fathom like people having sex and just being friends.

1631
01:16:34,640 --> 01:16:37,160
Speaker 2: But obviously him and her are the kind of people

1632
01:16:37,160 --> 01:16:38,800
Speaker 2: that can do that. So I do feel like maybe

1633
01:16:38,880 --> 01:16:42,960
Speaker 2: you are overreacting a little bit. Legs were not about

1634
01:16:43,000 --> 01:16:46,640
Speaker 2: to do these though, because you have literally said on

1635
01:16:46,800 --> 01:16:49,200
Speaker 2: the show when I talked about my relationship with my

1636
01:16:49,280 --> 01:16:51,760
Speaker 2: eggs and I hate to always bring this up, but

1637
01:16:51,840 --> 01:16:54,920
Speaker 2: you said that, hey, y'all is friends with me, you

1638
01:16:54,960 --> 01:16:56,200
Speaker 2: would not want him to be friends.

1639
01:16:56,200 --> 01:16:56,679
Speaker 1: I wouldn't.

1640
01:16:56,720 --> 01:17:00,200
Speaker 2: But also Bush yeah, no.

1641
01:16:59,360 --> 01:17:00,320
Speaker 1: No, that's not fair.

1642
01:17:00,520 --> 01:17:04,200
Speaker 2: So it's like it's depending on how the girl looks.

1643
01:17:04,640 --> 01:17:07,679
Speaker 1: But guess what, you never met the eggs. She didn't

1644
01:17:07,720 --> 01:17:08,080
Speaker 1: know you.

1645
01:17:08,320 --> 01:17:10,759
Speaker 2: It'd be because if you were going around to family events,

1646
01:17:11,000 --> 01:17:13,440
Speaker 2: that means that you and this girl have had conversations

1647
01:17:13,680 --> 01:17:16,080
Speaker 2: and that y'all met and y'all talked. This girl is

1648
01:17:16,120 --> 01:17:19,040
Speaker 2: going to family functions, so obviously the wife and her

1649
01:17:19,080 --> 01:17:19,639
Speaker 2: have talked.

1650
01:17:19,880 --> 01:17:22,479
Speaker 1: They wave, they spoke, they know of each other. That

1651
01:17:22,520 --> 01:17:23,360
Speaker 1: bitch didn't know you.

1652
01:17:23,680 --> 01:17:25,120
Speaker 2: All she knew is that you were draining the cold

1653
01:17:25,120 --> 01:17:27,719
Speaker 2: with three e's, with the fat ass and a small waist.

1654
01:17:27,880 --> 01:17:31,599
Speaker 1: Bitch, No, you're not coming. Noney may not being friends.

1655
01:17:31,400 --> 01:17:35,639
Speaker 2: With you until he because because y'all didn't meet each other,

1656
01:17:35,800 --> 01:17:40,760
Speaker 2: she has met this. Well, then let's take it up

1657
01:17:40,800 --> 01:17:42,599
Speaker 2: with him. But I'm still don't want him to be pressure.

1658
01:17:42,680 --> 01:17:44,880
Speaker 2: And I don't care if you look like fucking.

1659
01:17:45,920 --> 01:17:48,439
Speaker 1: A told bitch, I don't give a fuck.

1660
01:17:48,479 --> 01:17:51,439
Speaker 2: If you look like raffiki, I need to meet you.

1661
01:17:52,360 --> 01:17:53,200
Speaker 2: I don't give a fuck.

1662
01:17:53,360 --> 01:17:55,439
Speaker 1: It don't matter. I need to meet you if my

1663
01:17:55,720 --> 01:17:59,439
Speaker 1: husband are my she's walking around looking like ruffy.

1664
01:17:59,600 --> 01:18:04,880
Speaker 2: I see before I've seen a rafiki looking bitch before,

1665
01:18:05,760 --> 01:18:07,479
Speaker 2: and I don't give a fuck if you're looking like

1666
01:18:07,479 --> 01:18:10,479
Speaker 2: and the bitches theyve be the ones that baby down

1667
01:18:10,560 --> 01:18:14,519
Speaker 2: for whatever. A Rafiki looking bitch, Hey, if I looking bitch,

1668
01:18:14,520 --> 01:18:15,480
Speaker 2: fuck yr Nigga.

1669
01:18:15,200 --> 01:18:19,520
Speaker 1: He gone please put that name this show.

1670
01:18:22,360 --> 01:18:26,800
Speaker 2: Freaky Rafiki anyway, So I feel like this. If a

1671
01:18:26,840 --> 01:18:29,920
Speaker 2: man doesn't want to introduce you to his friend, somebody

1672
01:18:29,920 --> 01:18:32,400
Speaker 2: that maybe he fucked once or twice, and he's trying

1673
01:18:32,439 --> 01:18:33,799
Speaker 2: to like keep y'all separate.

1674
01:18:34,040 --> 01:18:35,760
Speaker 1: It's the reason for that. And I don't give a

1675
01:18:35,800 --> 01:18:37,240
Speaker 1: fuck what you say.

1676
01:18:37,600 --> 01:18:39,400
Speaker 2: You didn't like him, but he still likes you, and

1677
01:18:39,439 --> 01:18:41,240
Speaker 2: he was waiting for you to be like, Okay, well

1678
01:18:41,320 --> 01:18:43,599
Speaker 2: I want to be Yes, he was waiting for the moment,

1679
01:18:44,479 --> 01:18:46,680
Speaker 2: I know, but in your mind you were over him.

1680
01:18:46,680 --> 01:18:48,599
Speaker 2: He still had feelings for you. That's why he never

1681
01:18:48,640 --> 01:18:51,720
Speaker 2: cared to introduce y'all. In this situation, I feel like

1682
01:18:51,760 --> 01:18:55,320
Speaker 2: her husband is over her, and that's why she comes

1683
01:18:55,360 --> 01:18:57,679
Speaker 2: to the family events. Obviously she's friends with the mom,

1684
01:18:57,760 --> 01:18:58,960
Speaker 2: she's friends with the sister.

1685
01:18:59,200 --> 01:19:01,639
Speaker 1: He don't care about her like that no more. So

1686
01:19:01,960 --> 01:19:03,120
Speaker 1: you have met this girl.

1687
01:19:03,200 --> 01:19:05,479
Speaker 2: Y'all interact with each other, so it ain't nothing to

1688
01:19:05,840 --> 01:19:09,320
Speaker 2: it ain't y'all been friends for fifteen years? You said, girl,

1689
01:19:09,400 --> 01:19:12,080
Speaker 2: that girl ain't worried about him, So I think you

1690
01:19:12,200 --> 01:19:13,080
Speaker 2: just are in your friends.

1691
01:19:13,120 --> 01:19:17,040
Speaker 1: Don't know though, I feel like fifteen years, bat man,

1692
01:19:17,760 --> 01:19:20,920
Speaker 1: as I was still coming to family functions, I wouldn't necessarily.

1693
01:19:20,560 --> 01:19:24,200
Speaker 2: But but she's friends with the sister and the mom.

1694
01:19:24,479 --> 01:19:26,519
Speaker 1: It's beyond him, that's true.

1695
01:19:26,560 --> 01:19:29,360
Speaker 2: I guess if like your friend, like I got picked

1696
01:19:29,439 --> 01:19:31,519
Speaker 2: like this, why I wouldn't want.

1697
01:19:31,360 --> 01:19:33,360
Speaker 1: To be friends with my egs.

1698
01:19:33,360 --> 01:19:35,720
Speaker 2: But they're not excess. Hey, he fucked her like once

1699
01:19:35,840 --> 01:19:38,160
Speaker 2: or twice. It was like probably on some drunk shit

1700
01:19:38,160 --> 01:19:41,280
Speaker 2: when they was young. Bro, this was probably in high school.

1701
01:19:41,280 --> 01:19:45,040
Speaker 2: You never know, like once or twice, y'all, that wasn't

1702
01:19:45,080 --> 01:19:48,240
Speaker 2: your girlfriend exactly, Like I can be cool with somebody

1703
01:19:48,320 --> 01:19:50,240
Speaker 2: I'm in high school, Like I fucked him high school.

1704
01:19:50,320 --> 01:19:51,280
Speaker 1: I don't even remember what that.

1705
01:19:51,479 --> 01:19:54,280
Speaker 2: This pussy was not fire in high school. It's not

1706
01:19:54,400 --> 01:19:57,400
Speaker 2: the same pussy you not even get. She not even

1707
01:19:57,439 --> 01:20:01,760
Speaker 2: slanging out the same pussy that your husband had she got.

1708
01:20:01,800 --> 01:20:04,200
Speaker 2: She's slanging out a whole nother pussy to these niggas

1709
01:20:04,280 --> 01:20:06,439
Speaker 2: you don't even know. It's the new pussies exactly so

1710
01:20:06,680 --> 01:20:09,439
Speaker 2: I just yeah, chill out, girl, chill out.

1711
01:20:09,880 --> 01:20:10,760
Speaker 1: Question number four.

1712
01:20:10,920 --> 01:20:13,280
Speaker 2: I recently just started watching Poor Minds and I love

1713
01:20:13,320 --> 01:20:15,840
Speaker 2: you girls. Do you think a man's mother should be

1714
01:20:15,880 --> 01:20:18,720
Speaker 2: involved in a relationship. I've been with my boyfriend for

1715
01:20:18,720 --> 01:20:21,559
Speaker 2: four years, and everything we do, his mom wants to

1716
01:20:21,640 --> 01:20:24,760
Speaker 2: know what we're doing and where we're going. I'm only

1717
01:20:24,840 --> 01:20:28,080
Speaker 2: twenty three and he's twenty six. Beitch, No, I had

1718
01:20:28,120 --> 01:20:31,200
Speaker 2: a mama's boy. I don't want no nigga mama all

1719
01:20:31,280 --> 01:20:32,519
Speaker 2: up in my mother's chicken face.

1720
01:20:32,560 --> 01:20:33,880
Speaker 1: She's the kind of bitch she probably had.

1721
01:20:33,920 --> 01:20:35,840
Speaker 2: Speaking of my ex, the one we was just talking

1722
01:20:35,840 --> 01:20:38,439
Speaker 2: about his mama was like that, Oh my god, she

1723
01:20:38,520 --> 01:20:40,360
Speaker 2: used to be all up in our meets all the time.

1724
01:20:41,040 --> 01:20:44,120
Speaker 1: Surely related. That was probably the type of bitch that had.

1725
01:20:44,800 --> 01:20:46,760
Speaker 2: When you had the MySpace profile and they had a

1726
01:20:46,760 --> 01:20:49,440
Speaker 2: bio and it was like, my son is my king. Yes,

1727
01:20:50,120 --> 01:20:51,599
Speaker 2: it's given my son as my king.

1728
01:20:51,760 --> 01:20:52,000
Speaker 1: Yes.

1729
01:20:52,080 --> 01:20:54,280
Speaker 2: I don't like this shit. Like, no, no nigga mama

1730
01:20:54,320 --> 01:20:56,120
Speaker 2: do not need to be in y'all relationship. I don't

1731
01:20:56,120 --> 01:20:58,639
Speaker 2: care how old y'all are you twenty three, he's twenty six,

1732
01:20:58,760 --> 01:21:03,240
Speaker 2: y'all grown, y'all still needs busneys. Yeah, I don't like that,

1733
01:21:03,360 --> 01:21:06,800
Speaker 2: Like I don't mind yeah, Like I don't mind a

1734
01:21:06,840 --> 01:21:10,000
Speaker 2: guy having respect for his mother, having a close relationship,

1735
01:21:10,040 --> 01:21:12,960
Speaker 2: but being a grown man, Like at the end of

1736
01:21:12,960 --> 01:21:15,040
Speaker 2: the day, I don't care what mama say. I'm gonna

1737
01:21:15,080 --> 01:21:15,760
Speaker 2: do what I want to do.

1738
01:21:17,200 --> 01:21:17,679
Speaker 1: I agree.

1739
01:21:17,680 --> 01:21:19,680
Speaker 2: We talked about this on the Sulfur Well, I do care,

1740
01:21:19,720 --> 01:21:23,040
Speaker 2: but at the day, I mean, I'm still yeah, I

1741
01:21:23,080 --> 01:21:25,240
Speaker 2: mean period, Like, it's not that I don't care about

1742
01:21:25,240 --> 01:21:27,439
Speaker 2: what my mam would think, but I'm gonna do whatever

1743
01:21:27,520 --> 01:21:30,479
Speaker 2: makes me happy, even if she don't like, that's what

1744
01:21:30,520 --> 01:21:34,400
Speaker 2: I want to do. Step reminds me of the post

1745
01:21:34,400 --> 01:21:36,400
Speaker 2: that I think I will tell you about the other day.

1746
01:21:36,439 --> 01:21:41,040
Speaker 2: What post where I don't I forgot never mind, don't

1747
01:21:41,040 --> 01:21:41,560
Speaker 2: worry about it.

1748
01:21:42,439 --> 01:21:47,519
Speaker 1: He's the one Rose. Are you ready to sing? You know?

1749
01:21:47,600 --> 01:21:49,519
Speaker 2: We've had a lot going on this episode. We talked

1750
01:21:49,520 --> 01:21:53,640
Speaker 2: about Gaslight, the one where I was saying where the

1751
01:21:53,680 --> 01:21:59,240
Speaker 2: man was like, oh, the one where I was saying

1752
01:21:59,240 --> 01:22:01,639
Speaker 2: where the man was like like, oh, if a woman

1753
01:22:01,680 --> 01:22:03,920
Speaker 2: wont to date me, she got to move in and

1754
01:22:03,960 --> 01:22:06,000
Speaker 2: live with my mama for six months so she could

1755
01:22:06,000 --> 01:22:07,800
Speaker 2: train her on how to take care of.

1756
01:22:07,720 --> 01:22:11,360
Speaker 1: Me, not training. Your Friday ain't.

1757
01:22:11,360 --> 01:22:12,080
Speaker 3: Day, bitch.

1758
01:22:12,240 --> 01:22:15,320
Speaker 2: I'm like Benzel to you, bitch, you gotta be fucked

1759
01:22:15,400 --> 01:22:19,599
Speaker 2: up exactly, but yes, somebody actually had to. That's that's

1760
01:22:19,640 --> 01:22:23,599
Speaker 2: because y'all mama's be maids. No offense to your grandma,

1761
01:22:23,640 --> 01:22:24,679
Speaker 2: but it's given the help.

1762
01:22:26,160 --> 01:22:28,920
Speaker 1: I'm not that. I'm not the help that Ba and

1763
01:22:29,200 --> 01:22:33,920
Speaker 1: night like, Yo, Grennie wouldn't look like this. Okay, there's

1764
01:22:33,960 --> 01:22:35,720
Speaker 1: some fine granny's out here. Don't make me say your

1765
01:22:35,800 --> 01:22:36,160
Speaker 1: name again.

1766
01:22:36,360 --> 01:22:41,800
Speaker 2: Now now now, But back in the day in nineteen imagine.

1767
01:22:41,439 --> 01:22:43,640
Speaker 1: Three, imagine introducing your grand.

1768
01:22:43,680 --> 01:22:48,559
Speaker 2: Ninety the grannies was not like, oh, I don't know, ma,

1769
01:22:48,560 --> 01:22:52,439
Speaker 2: Mama looked good, yo, Grannie. Your mama is a present

1770
01:22:52,520 --> 01:22:54,439
Speaker 2: day Greennie. That's what I'm saying. I mean, she ain't

1771
01:22:54,479 --> 01:22:57,360
Speaker 2: like Barney's. Like imagine introducing your granny and Barney's walking

1772
01:22:58,520 --> 01:23:05,960
Speaker 2: hey were living in some while facts. Big body ass

1773
01:23:06,000 --> 01:23:09,080
Speaker 2: that round brown bully.

1774
01:23:09,520 --> 01:23:11,960
Speaker 1: All right, let's go.

1775
01:23:12,360 --> 01:23:15,120
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm ready to sing this song because we have

1776
01:23:15,280 --> 01:23:16,840
Speaker 2: had a mess of an episode.

1777
01:23:17,320 --> 01:23:19,200
Speaker 1: You think this is a man, It was just a

1778
01:23:19,240 --> 01:23:20,639
Speaker 1: lot of ship talking.

1779
01:23:20,800 --> 01:23:25,280
Speaker 2: It was great, a great episode. Give me your hand

1780
01:23:25,479 --> 01:23:27,759
Speaker 2: because you don't have too much rose no more, Rose,

1781
01:23:27,920 --> 01:23:29,160
Speaker 2: I'm not switching it up. No more.

1782
01:23:29,320 --> 01:23:31,439
Speaker 1: Shouldn't. I don't think you should do that either. Let's go.

1783
01:23:31,560 --> 01:23:33,040
Speaker 1: You ready?

1784
01:23:34,080 --> 01:23:36,960
Speaker 2: They laughed because you know they hate the snap, but

1785
01:23:37,080 --> 01:23:38,080
Speaker 2: the snap beginning it.

1786
01:23:38,600 --> 01:23:44,960
Speaker 1: Let's go, Drea. Mmmm why are you starting on?

1787
01:23:45,560 --> 01:23:45,720
Speaker 2: God?

1788
01:23:45,800 --> 01:23:48,280
Speaker 1: Damn? Yeah, yeah, let's go.

1789
01:23:48,680 --> 01:23:52,400
Speaker 2: Lately, I been going through some things that really got

1790
01:23:52,439 --> 01:23:53,320
Speaker 2: me down.

1791
01:23:53,520 --> 01:23:58,120
Speaker 1: Put your hands together, put your hands together. I need

1792
01:23:58,160 --> 01:24:00,599
Speaker 1: someone something. I thought it was someone somehow.

1793
01:24:00,720 --> 01:24:00,960
Speaker 3: Damn.

1794
01:24:01,000 --> 01:24:04,479
Speaker 1: That's crazy. We be reading lyrics to help me come

1795
01:24:04,560 --> 01:24:11,000
Speaker 1: and turn my lafer brown. Oh yeah, come on, I

1796
01:24:11,080 --> 01:24:14,360
Speaker 1: can't explain it. I can't. I can't obtain it.

1797
01:24:14,640 --> 01:24:19,479
Speaker 2: Genus, Jesus, your love is so it's so amazing. Come on,

1798
01:24:19,680 --> 01:24:24,960
Speaker 2: it's me high up to the sky. And when I

1799
01:24:25,040 --> 01:24:28,080
Speaker 2: think about your goodness to just make me bona.

1800
01:24:28,640 --> 01:24:34,880
Speaker 1: Stn't, oh, come on, you're like your part I was,

1801
01:24:35,680 --> 01:24:39,280
Speaker 1: you know that used to come and let Franklin my brother.

1802
01:24:41,040 --> 01:24:47,479
Speaker 1: I got the victory. Stn't. Let's pass off. Jip.

1803
01:24:47,840 --> 01:24:48,519
Speaker 3: Are your witness?

1804
01:24:48,960 --> 01:24:51,840
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yes, the church in going on with? J

1805
01:24:52,320 --> 01:24:56,080
Speaker 1: Are your with? Oh? Yell? The church aink going over?

1806
01:24:56,920 --> 01:24:59,840
Speaker 1: Are your with? Oh yeah? We at the church in

1807
01:25:00,080 --> 01:25:02,040
Speaker 1: going nowhere? Are you with me.

1808
01:25:02,520 --> 01:25:03,920
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, we at the.

1809
01:25:03,920 --> 01:25:09,360
Speaker 2: Church went over, make me boner stomp all together or

1810
01:25:09,400 --> 01:25:13,880
Speaker 2: no stop all my people know, don't everybody?

1811
01:25:13,960 --> 01:25:19,439
Speaker 1: No, don't are you kirk? Or are you my again?

1812
01:25:20,479 --> 01:25:28,080
Speaker 1: I sto't? I ston't stop stop.

1813
01:25:29,560 --> 01:25:29,960
Speaker 2: Stop?

1814
01:25:30,400 --> 01:25:35,639
Speaker 1: Oh you stop? You know I used to bake head bounce.

1815
01:25:35,439 --> 01:25:37,960
Speaker 3: And my brother can't you see?

1816
01:25:40,360 --> 01:25:46,559
Speaker 1: Yes, you gotta be your mouth like this. No, I don't.

1817
01:25:47,640 --> 01:25:50,040
Speaker 1: That means she was into it. They be doing a harlem.

1818
01:25:51,840 --> 01:25:54,000
Speaker 1: Thank y'all so much for to the end. We just

1819
01:25:54,040 --> 01:25:55,160
Speaker 1: went to church broal quick.

1820
01:25:55,160 --> 01:25:56,280
Speaker 3: I hope y'all enjoyed that.

1821
01:25:57,560 --> 01:26:02,120
Speaker 1: My brother am man. We'll see y'all next. Coglevel chavl.

1822
01:26:07,479 --> 01:26:11,240
Speaker 1: I hate it here. I fucking hate this fucking place.

1823
01:26:12,320 --> 01:26:15,880
Speaker 3: Why would you do that? Why would you do that?

1824
01:26:15,920 --> 01:26:16,439
Speaker 1: What would I like?

1825
01:26:16,600 --> 01:26:18,559
Speaker 2: I remember my cousins used to do that in church,

1826
01:26:18,560 --> 01:26:19,640
Speaker 2: all the slim and I used to be like, how

1827
01:26:19,640 --> 01:26:20,760
Speaker 2: do y'all even know like.

1828
01:26:23,840 --> 01:26:29,000
Speaker 1: Name? You're a sick bitch