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Speaker 1: The Jewils Show on demand Jebils dirty Little Secret? Hello, Hey,

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Speaker 1: what's up? This is the Jewils Show. And you texted

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Speaker 1: us at four one six one and said he had

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Speaker 1: a dirty little secret. So now we're calling you back

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Speaker 1: to ask what your dirty little secret is? Hi? Hi, Hello? Um?

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Speaker 1: Did you didn't expect us call right now? Did you? Uh? No,

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Speaker 1: not at all? All right, well here we are, So

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Speaker 1: can you tell us your dirty little secret? Now? I

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Speaker 1: can tell you guys right now? All right? Shoot? What

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Speaker 1: is it? Oh? Yeah, sorry? The thing about ghost of

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Speaker 1: my fiance blood? What? Yeah? Things I haven't been working

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Speaker 1: out really too well? And what's going on? Yeah? Um?

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Speaker 1: So about a year ago, I come up up my

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Speaker 1: giltable was cheated on me. Oh oh, I'm sorry, gosh,

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Speaker 1: and you still stayed with her? Yeah? I thought we

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Speaker 1: could possibly work things out. But things have you know,

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Speaker 1: gone downtill since then. Okay, did that happen before after

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Speaker 1: you proposed to her? This happened before I proposed to her?

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Speaker 1: Got okay, So things have gone downhill? How you know,

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Speaker 1: we don't really talk as much anymore. I feel like

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Speaker 1: we're not as connected. Every time I look at her,

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Speaker 1: I can't just get the image that, um you know

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Speaker 1: that she cheated on out of my head. Yeah, that

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Speaker 1: would be difficult to do for sure. So you're thinking

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Speaker 1: about ghostinger though, Yeah, I think it might be the

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Speaker 1: best way. You know. Sure I'll feel about that, like, um,

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Speaker 1: why not just break up with her because the ghosting?

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Speaker 1: Just stop talking to her? Yeah, I think I just

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Speaker 1: need to stop talking to her and you know, cut

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Speaker 1: it clean and move on with the rest of my life.

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Speaker 1: Do you guys live together? We do? How are you

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Speaker 1: gonna gostrough? Then? Uh? Well' she tropic a lot of work,

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Speaker 1: so you know, when she's on a long birth trip.

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Speaker 1: I was thinking of maybe just moving out back up

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Speaker 1: and go, okay, at least with no conversation. Um, maybe

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Speaker 1: I'll through text message, but um, I think the best

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Speaker 1: option movie just to get my stuff and go. So

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Speaker 1: it's hard for you to leave her, huh Yeah? And

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Speaker 1: you want to leave her right? Yeah? I think I should.

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Speaker 1: I feel like the relationship that isn't going anywhere. But

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Speaker 1: there's something, Um, you know, she did cheat on me

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Speaker 1: with my one of my best friends. I still a

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Speaker 1: little resentful, of course, when you found out like that

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Speaker 1: she cheated and you were feeling this anger is like

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Speaker 1: a good way or disappointment, whatever you were feeling. What

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Speaker 1: made you want to propose? Um? I thought we could

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Speaker 1: work through you know. I thought we'd be able to

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Speaker 1: work through it. Um uh, you know as I found out?

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Speaker 1: You know, can't you know what you did? So? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Why hey you tried? Yeah, look at it that way exactly,

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Speaker 1: and you do what you want. Man. But I think

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Speaker 1: you got to just think about how I look at

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Speaker 1: situations like that in life like this, I don't look

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Speaker 1: at the conversation and I don't look at the person

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Speaker 1: in it other than me. Then I think about how

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Speaker 1: do I want to leave it any tough conversation? How

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Speaker 1: do I want to walk out of it? Do I

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Speaker 1: want to walk out of it feeling good about myself

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Speaker 1: that I at least said hey, I'm out right? Or

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Speaker 1: well I feel bad about myself if I bounce. So

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Speaker 1: that's the question I think you answer for yourself. If

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Speaker 1: you just ghost are you going to be thinking about

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Speaker 1: the fact that you ghosted her? And is that going

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Speaker 1: to be good for you or bad for you? Or

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Speaker 1: are you gonna feel better if you just go, Hey, um,

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Speaker 1: remember that time you cheated on me? I'm still not

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Speaker 1: over it, so I'm gonna go see if I can

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Speaker 1: find somebody myself. Yeah, yeah, I mean I guess I

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Speaker 1: wouldn't heard if I, you know, put my best foot

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Speaker 1: forward turn to break up with there. It's up to you, man,

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Speaker 1: if that's your best foot yep, you know, you really

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Speaker 1: just got to decide what's going to be best for

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Speaker 1: I think you're healing it. Yeah, it just seems like

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Speaker 1: you're really you haven't fully gotten over what she did

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Speaker 1: to you, and rightfully so totally normal, and I think

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Speaker 1: that you've got to determine the best way for you

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Speaker 1: to I think he'll honestly, yeah, definitely. All right, Well,

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Speaker 1: good luck to you man, keep us posted, hey, and

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Speaker 1: now things will be okay. I'm sorry you're in that situation. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it sounds like you you know what to do. Thank you, guys,

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Speaker 1: appreciate you hanging there. Thanks for telling us if you're

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