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Speaker 1: woman King, Thank you very We have a lame and
Speaker 1: row everyone now lame. I have first, I fought at first.
Speaker 1: I feel like I first watched you on the Breakfast Club,
Speaker 1: but then I could not believe my mama was like
Speaker 1: flame from the news. I'm like what you talking about?
Speaker 1: And I absolutely loved your energy. I met you for
Speaker 1: the first time when we did the Black Effect Show
Speaker 1: with eighty five Stuth and you hosted. I think I
Speaker 1: think I'm still half from that. Had so much smoke
Speaker 1: up and there I thought it was a fire. One
Speaker 1: shut my boy Chico being in Carlo Smiller and DC.
Speaker 1: You'll d you too young for me? You have an
Speaker 1: age like I just d I was just joking. I
Speaker 1: was like, oh, oh wait, you would go off the
Speaker 1: way down to twenty one go out with Yeah? No, no, no,
Speaker 1: you didn't ask me right? Dat did you say? Do
Speaker 1: I have an age requirin on a day to tw
Speaker 1: What we're gonna talk about? You? Right? I mean, there
Speaker 1: ain't much to talk about that damn show, ain't nothing
Speaker 1: to talk about. But what's the room number? Do you
Speaker 1: prefer in cal out col um? I don't know what
Speaker 1: that means? And do you prefer to to somebody number
Speaker 1: that means you're going out? Do you prefer to go
Speaker 1: to day house or do you prefer them to come
Speaker 1: h tor house. I'd like us to meet at at
Speaker 1: at a neutral place, a hotel. Oh you really? Are
Speaker 1: you a hotel girl? Okay? Well I got kids at home?
Speaker 1: Say you know what I mean? And you left? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm still the day. I know I looked like a
Speaker 1: gorgeous mother, but I'm still ad just not a mother
Speaker 1: of children. I'm a motherfucker. I need to give it
Speaker 1: to y'all, not mother. I'm to go out, it's just
Speaker 1: to go out. Well, I wanted to start off with
Speaker 1: a quick ice rerecord, not like we have to warm
Speaker 1: you up. But we're gonna get there just a little bit.
Speaker 1: I want already wanted to hear me standing and let
Speaker 1: me just put them on blast. Let me in the
Speaker 1: heat for twenty minutes, because the buzz that didn't work today.
Speaker 1: Now mind you, it worked yesterday, but it didn't work today.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, O transphobia. I know you joking. No,
Speaker 1: you didn't. We said we need somebody, we need flames.
Speaker 1: You know you know who's very mad at us. Uh.
Speaker 1: Non binary people aren't really fucking with Explain that terminology
Speaker 1: to me. You gotta explain it easy, because you know
Speaker 1: they don't know me. From what I've learned from talking
Speaker 1: to non binary people and I work with a few
Speaker 1: of them, they don't feel male or female, and so
Speaker 1: they haven't figured out what gender is theirs, and so
Speaker 1: they they have decided their non binary. So let me
Speaker 1: ask this question when you let me, let me simplify
Speaker 1: to the world, because you can identify as this vase,
Speaker 1: this chair, or my ask when you go to bed
Speaker 1: with somebody, do you want some penis or some vagina?
Speaker 1: You see how easy that is. You can want both.
Speaker 1: But that's more sexuality, not identity. That is I want
Speaker 1: some dick or some pussy or I want both. They
Speaker 1: made it, they made it difficult. I know who I am,
Speaker 1: I know what I desired. You know what you desire sexuality.
Speaker 1: Gender is a fact. Identity is how you feel, but
Speaker 1: sexuality is what you desire. Right, So I identify as
Speaker 1: a transperson. I enjoyed the vagina like you wouldn't believe.
Speaker 1: But and my, my, my, my gender is I was born,
Speaker 1: my verses, my birth certificate says sex, male, black, everything
Speaker 1: else out that came became in life. I created that
Speaker 1: or it was already in me. So it's gonna come anyway. See,
Speaker 1: they're making it so difficult with all the muddy in
Speaker 1: the waters, with all these l g they have stolen
Speaker 1: the entire alphabet, except you know everything is an acronym.
Speaker 1: Well no, then you'll tell you to say no. And
Speaker 1: isn't that that's the only thing that's left. Everything else
Speaker 1: BBT a air party, LGBT, uh l l BT, And
Speaker 1: it's ridiculous. And I know we're tired of the LGBT converse,
Speaker 1: Q conversation, but I will say that I do think
Speaker 1: we've got to have more grace for like people that
Speaker 1: are older generation because people that are non buying, I
Speaker 1: get very angry about mis gendering them. And it's like, there,
Speaker 1: you just said there is no gender. They don't identify
Speaker 1: as anything. So what am I supposed to call you nothing?
Speaker 1: You're nothing. You just said that. They said that they
Speaker 1: don't identify as male or as female. So when I
Speaker 1: see a non boundary person, hey, nothing, because you're nothing.
Speaker 1: And that's not a read, that's not a dig. I'm
Speaker 1: only going on what you just explained. You're working with
Speaker 1: the right one to day you love. I won't get
Speaker 1: to that. Yeah, icebreak, Yeah, let's go to the icebreaker.
Speaker 1: Icebreak at first, spit or swallow for a female on
Speaker 1: a female? What do you everything? I've never I've never swallowed.
Speaker 1: I've never swallowed. You never swallowed ever ever? Wait, I
Speaker 1: mean if he's kind of all right, No, no, I've
Speaker 1: never swallowed, You've never swallowed. I'm not baby sitting your kids.
Speaker 1: Your kids, I got that's called babysitting. I don't baby sit. Goodness,
Speaker 1: Oh wow, I'm not gonna oh millions nine. I love swallowing.
Speaker 1: I actually crave it. But actually maybe recently I'll get
Speaker 1: back to you. So I actually like to put it
Speaker 1: in my mouth and then put it back in yours.
Speaker 1: So how are you gonna complain before the show talking
Speaker 1: about you're not gonna cull your head because what was
Speaker 1: on your sheets? Okay, you've had way worship on your sheets,
Speaker 1: and I watched it and it come out, come out,
Speaker 1: that comes says I do like, what do you prefer
Speaker 1: for you with with your partners? For them? For them?
Speaker 1: Oh I can't even bust off here. They ain't gonna
Speaker 1: do not for me. I'm not gonna catch old school
Speaker 1: seventies nigger. I must be in a trade to the end.
Speaker 1: Do you do you like? Do you like to pull
Speaker 1: out and see it on them? Like? Do you like
Speaker 1: come shot? Space shots? My soldiers are still launching. So
Speaker 1: if I know you ain't on the peel and playing
Speaker 1: B is unavailable, I'm gonna have to play be is
Speaker 1: always available. I pull out game as a motherfucker right now,
Speaker 1: right now. Oh yeah, I got much better than last
Speaker 1: than last two kids. Was damn I was weak. It
Speaker 1: was we magnificent because I know I want the children. Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: with sex, would you rather have sex the only last
Speaker 1: three minutes or only three hours? Huh? Oh? Yeah? Do
Speaker 1: you like, would you rather have sex you have the
Speaker 1: big three minutes or three hours? I can do the
Speaker 1: three hours. You like to go along time for three minutes.
Speaker 1: That's the only to set up. The head needs to
Speaker 1: be about seven to seven to ten minutes with of head. Yeah, well,
Speaker 1: I'm saying what I'm getting, not what I'm giving. You
Speaker 1: asked me what I prefer and I am the dominant
Speaker 1: person in the bed room for the three hours. Can
Speaker 1: you go multiple rounds or you think you can hold
Speaker 1: it for them three hours? Oh? No, I can go
Speaker 1: multiple rounds. My my session is usually my straight penetration section.
Speaker 1: Usually it's a good thirty minutes minute that's straight. That's
Speaker 1: a good amount, and that's position changing and talking my
Speaker 1: ship and want to look at it. That's not your lady.
Speaker 1: You know what's funny about you saying that. My last
Speaker 1: question was would you rather have sex with someone that
Speaker 1: stays completely still or someone who stays completely silent? Now comy, No,
Speaker 1: don't do that. Some people pillow princesses. I don't understand that.
Speaker 1: Like I don't write somebody didn't enjoy Kim Kardashian and
Speaker 1: pillow princes ship both sexes. Have you ever seen a
Speaker 1: good celebrity sex tape, Like is the one that you
Speaker 1: actually did? Like what's the Irish? The black girl who's
Speaker 1: the act after Connor to somebody I know with the
Speaker 1: dark hair? Did not see this one. I didn't talk
Speaker 1: ship to that black girl. Magic, Yes he did. That
Speaker 1: was a good one. That was probably the best. That's
Speaker 1: all like in the Saint so everty sex, No, that
Speaker 1: was a good one. Put it on and he had him. Baby.
Speaker 1: I'm telling you know who watched that tape and learned?
Speaker 1: Prince Harry because whatever, Magan guy, she could change that
Speaker 1: nigga man, I love you, Magan mark change. I want
Speaker 1: what you got. You know what, jay Z cheated. I
Speaker 1: don't want the watch man. I don't want the man
Speaker 1: kept cheating on her and shot her. I don't want
Speaker 1: that coach. You don't want that coach. Riana might have
Speaker 1: some good pussy because here's the thing. Okay, she did
Speaker 1: get the print. The billionaire who did Brihanna stop? Rocky
Speaker 1: ain't now but he's fine though, fine and broke what
Speaker 1: were you broke? Flame? I didn't say he was wrong
Speaker 1: with y'all said a billion No he not. She'd be
Speaker 1: all talking about prince, that Arabian guy way back. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he didn't marry her, so she ain't got the good
Speaker 1: good that Megan got. The ring did you listen to
Speaker 1: me honestly say if you like you put a ring on?
Speaker 1: I know, put a ring on, but I left many
Speaker 1: rings around it. You know what? You know what? You
Speaker 1: know what? Again? I say, whatever, Magan Gap, I didn't
Speaker 1: know that. I'm really surprised you want a sexange. I don't. Oh,
Speaker 1: I said, if if and my boyfriend, my ex workfriend,
Speaker 1: you said it was a fifth, we'd all be drunk.
Speaker 1: Not now for the listeners, they just heard you say
Speaker 1: ex boyfriend. But we know you love pussy. Let's talk
Speaker 1: about what I have. I have always enjoyed what I enjoyed.
Speaker 1: I've never let nobody tell me what I could or
Speaker 1: could not do. Who I was when I was I
Speaker 1: lost my virginity to a brother and sister in the
Speaker 1: same three days to her first he heard us in
Speaker 1: the room, and three days later me and he was
Speaker 1: together when I was fifteen or sixteen? Wait one moment
Speaker 1: did they find out what happened when they found down?
Speaker 1: He was really clearly he knew, But what happened when
Speaker 1: she found out, and she said, I knew he was
Speaker 1: gonna be a freak. I knew he was gonna be
Speaker 1: a freak. She told me that. Wait, she found out
Speaker 1: down the line like years later, years for like two
Speaker 1: weeks the project stop. Both experiences were great, okay, and
Speaker 1: my me being with him, I didn't get penetrated. We
Speaker 1: just fond, you know, did things that boys do. So
Speaker 1: because I didn't actually have penetration until I was like seventeen,
Speaker 1: I was a junior in high school. And I want
Speaker 1: to ask you that too, because you actually said you
Speaker 1: good on dick, like you don't even want it? No,
Speaker 1: I don't. I have no design for I got my
Speaker 1: own dick. Oh that makes sense, But i'd been wanting
Speaker 1: plus even though I got my own plussy, do you
Speaker 1: get you something? Sometimes? Oh? I love me some pussy,
Speaker 1: and so you pussy. It is what again? Sexuality is
Speaker 1: what you desire and then you may not. Of course,
Speaker 1: for three months, I do, I do it first. Yes,
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. It is a desire. That's why
Speaker 1: they keep putting all these labels on everything. How do
Speaker 1: you feel? It is nobody's business how you feel and
Speaker 1: what you want. But until you tell them. When you
Speaker 1: tell other people, you have brought other people into your
Speaker 1: being room, my being room secrets, my being room secrets,
Speaker 1: and my partners and we have, don't you know what
Speaker 1: I'm curious about? Two? Because to date trans men obviously
Speaker 1: fulfills the desire of you, And you said you love
Speaker 1: masculine men like you remember you talking about men with
Speaker 1: us when you were first dating. Was it more difficult
Speaker 1: because nowadays it's a lot easier for us to meet
Speaker 1: trans men and get into relationships. Well, my trans men
Speaker 1: did not become very popular into maybe the last ten
Speaker 1: twelve years with a lot of women. They were very
Speaker 1: masculine and study. They still had their boots And I
Speaker 1: love frests. I don't like big breaks. I like I
Speaker 1: like very small people, some little bitty booties, because I've
Speaker 1: only that would have had sex with a big girl
Speaker 1: one time. Wrong with nothing's wrong with it, just was
Speaker 1: not for me. But it makes sense too because you
Speaker 1: also said you're very dominant, very dominant, And I'm not
Speaker 1: a navel watcher. I'm not gonna search for your navel
Speaker 1: if I can't rub it right there, I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: look forward. I'm not gonna And if y'all think that's
Speaker 1: fat shaming, that's not such a thing as fat because
Speaker 1: here's it is the same time it takes to get
Speaker 1: it on, it's the same time it takes to put
Speaker 1: it on. That's not that shaming. You're gonna want. You
Speaker 1: want to lose the weight you exercise, you want to
Speaker 1: gain the way you keep eating. Y'all keep eating, slave slave,
Speaker 1: Give what you need, cash your check. She makes the money.
Speaker 1: We spend the same bit, say the same thing is
Speaker 1: what we're going. So back to ten twelve years. You're
Speaker 1: right transmitted, we're talking. You feel like this is it
Speaker 1: for me? Finally? Yeah, because I don't care what people
Speaker 1: think when we're walking down the street, that I'm a
Speaker 1: gay man, or that that you'll gay that's your boyfriend.
Speaker 1: I don't care what you think. It's not your business
Speaker 1: to me how you feel and what you My presentation
Speaker 1: is this so and I have me and lusted after me.
Speaker 1: Hear me when I tell you you're never gonna get
Speaker 1: a win. If there is not a vaginity in the room,
Speaker 1: nothing will happen, including me. Stand have you had a
Speaker 1: lot of transmitt that you've dated struggle with being no
Speaker 1: touch or not being comfortable being penetrated, Like, have you
Speaker 1: had to work through that? Absolutely not. You know exactly
Speaker 1: what you're getting when you come to my restaurant. You
Speaker 1: see what's on the menu. Everything comes with a pickle,
Speaker 1: everything not. Everything come with a state, comes with a
Speaker 1: per Eggs come with a pickle. No insane and I
Speaker 1: love it. I'm eating this up. Hey girl, you better
Speaker 1: be over there with the tom stamps like a motherfucker.
Speaker 1: Damn goddamn well. I wanted to get a starlit ship
Speaker 1: and this will get us a little bit some more
Speaker 1: talk to get back to the trend. So and I
Speaker 1: think what has happened with transpant because transmanting, I'm not
Speaker 1: out here screaming and yelling for acceptance and see me
Speaker 1: and here transmit a chill. They have accepted who they are.
Speaker 1: They embrace who and what they are. I'm sorry a
Speaker 1: lot of my other people part of the community. You
Speaker 1: know you're holding this fag and fighting for something that
Speaker 1: we see you. I have been a comedian for twenty
Speaker 1: years and I am so respected in the industry because
Speaker 1: I never forced my way in the room. I let
Speaker 1: it happen organically. They treat me like one of the others.
Speaker 1: They see me as a girl, but they treat me
Speaker 1: like one of the which is all I ever wanted.
Speaker 1: That's a very secure man that treats you like that.
Speaker 1: And well that was the problems and the and then
Speaker 1: once trans people and gay people became so transparent on
Speaker 1: TV and we everywhere now so I think it helped
Speaker 1: because it made people less fearful. But now the directions
Speaker 1: seem to be changing because now so many of the
Speaker 1: LGBT community in my own community, not everyone are angry,
Speaker 1: but frans men are its no, no, no, but they're
Speaker 1: more passable. Trans women have a lot of beauties out here.
Speaker 1: We got some beauty. No I'm not saying we don't.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, like, it's a lot easier to live
Speaker 1: in the life of a trans man than trans women.
Speaker 1: That trans women die at insane trans women who let's
Speaker 1: open that Candra oms, please don't because they already hate
Speaker 1: me anyway. Close. Trans people myself included, keep forgetting not
Speaker 1: me on this one. Acceptance. Acceptance is a blueprint that
Speaker 1: starts with you. Period. I'm not looking for you to
Speaker 1: accept me. We see if you don't fuck you. This
Speaker 1: is my mouth. This is my motto. I accept me.
Speaker 1: The hardest hard is dealing with you when you looking
Speaker 1: at me. Or we all got other people living in us.
Speaker 1: You know your other personalities that nobody else don't know.
Speaker 1: You know the wicked thought you when you looking at me,
Speaker 1: or you better give them their time. You see them people,
Speaker 1: I see all my personalities. A lot of people don't
Speaker 1: say I ain't that wrong with me. I'm fine. Any
Speaker 1: person that tells you ain't sipped wrong with them? Run
Speaker 1: Forest Run? But why do you think trans women are not?
Speaker 1: Just because I speak the truth. Because I am a
Speaker 1: female person, I admire women, even if I got I
Speaker 1: never wanted to be a biological female. Let me say that, okay,
Speaker 1: and I speak up because I didn't learn how to
Speaker 1: be a girl feminine watching the Man. I watched women, sisters, mother, grandma, aunties.
Speaker 1: Most gay people, most trans women. As young boys, they're
Speaker 1: best friend was always a girl, a female. The first
Speaker 1: person they really told how they felt about somebody else,
Speaker 1: usually ninety percent at the time, was a female. But
Speaker 1: when they found their transgenderism or when they found their gay,
Speaker 1: then they better than the girl that they came out to.
Speaker 1: Do you understand what I mean, it's fucked up, and
Speaker 1: they hate that. I put the ship right in the
Speaker 1: box and put a nice bowl on it and deliver
Speaker 1: it to him, because that's the truth. You come out
Speaker 1: if I came me and you grew up together, and
Speaker 1: I'm twelve years old and I tell you, we say
Speaker 1: I feel I like boys, I like I like David,
Speaker 1: but that's not a secret. But then when I discover
Speaker 1: that David like me back, and I'm gay and I'm open,
Speaker 1: and I'm proud, or you ain't good enough for me,
Speaker 1: but you were the person that came out to and
Speaker 1: now I want to be you. I am emulating a
Speaker 1: woman I learned watching you do your hair, watching you
Speaker 1: do your makeup. Just don't forget it. It's all I'm saying.
Speaker 1: It's not saying that we are better than y'all women,
Speaker 1: or women are better than us. Women are the blueprint.
Speaker 1: Understand that I will never disredded that women are the blueprint.
Speaker 1: But don't forget we all came from a woman. It's
Speaker 1: also crazy that you say that, because there's been conversations
Speaker 1: recently and Saucy Santana said it that women's blueprint is
Speaker 1: now gay men, that gay men are are the blueprint
Speaker 1: for how to be a woman, how to do makeup,
Speaker 1: how to dress, and so it's interesting hearing you say that,
Speaker 1: just because, on the other hand, this is where men are.
Speaker 1: Gay men specifically are coming out saying that we we
Speaker 1: emulate them. Gave men wearing the persons and the beards
Speaker 1: and walking around with the makeup phone. It's fifteen years old.
Speaker 1: Women were brought here to breed from Africa. Women have
Speaker 1: always and will always be the blue blueprint. Did you
Speaker 1: hear who you used as a reference? Exactly? I ain't
Speaker 1: even gotta respond to did you hear who you used
Speaker 1: as a reference? I'm just saying he just said it.
Speaker 1: I didn't agree a lot of unt Yes. Well, well
Speaker 1: here's the thing. So it's called recycled. We stole how
Speaker 1: to be feminine, how to wear hair, makeup from women,
Speaker 1: y'all just still in our language, our dialect. So it
Speaker 1: is a shared process. And until we reached that plateau
Speaker 1: is saying, I'm sharing who I am with you, and
Speaker 1: now you you live in my life and I'm living yours.
Speaker 1: Why can't be a circle? Whe has to be competitions,
Speaker 1: not competition. Women are doing the whole bequeen. How do
Speaker 1: you feel about women that are like taking over a
Speaker 1: lot of gay spaces that don't For example, the drag Brunches,
Speaker 1: you barely see any men there, You barely see any
Speaker 1: gay people. I mean, I love going there because a
Speaker 1: lot of women don't have spaces where a they can
Speaker 1: go where they don't feel like they're being harassed or
Speaker 1: hit on. It's a safe space for me and my
Speaker 1: friends to offer to be around. Club supposed to be
Speaker 1: a safe space for you or a space save space
Speaker 1: for gay pe interesting, it's different, different to say what's
Speaker 1: safe now. Look at the clock at the Posts in Florida.
Speaker 1: They shot it up. So if you just hanging out
Speaker 1: with your girlfriend. So if you just hanging out with
Speaker 1: your girlfriend at the club because you wanted to get
Speaker 1: away from the men or somebody who hate gay people
Speaker 1: coming and shoot up the club, you just happened to
Speaker 1: be there on that bad night and your collateral damage.
Speaker 1: I think that the recent drag shows are so popular
Speaker 1: is because women love to look and I love when
Speaker 1: you go to a good drag show and you see
Speaker 1: female impersonators, girls that look like women, Sasha Kobe's Mimi Marks.
Speaker 1: You know, people like that as opposed to all of
Speaker 1: the clowns. Because there's a lot of clown drags. It
Speaker 1: has become popular. But are you laughing with me or
Speaker 1: at me? How do you feel about women drag queens?
Speaker 1: I think the great email was Wendy Hope. Wendy Hoe
Speaker 1: used to work with us here when I did direct
Speaker 1: your usually the direct shows here and she's sang lab
Speaker 1: and she why not? Why not if we learned how
Speaker 1: to be feminine and be a woman from a woman,
Speaker 1: why not have a woman be a partnership? What is
Speaker 1: that taken away from your talent or you're that's interesting?
Speaker 1: And I wasn't aware that women were doing d there's
Speaker 1: not a female female and person that they let one
Speaker 1: on Drag Race recently is that she was identified as
Speaker 1: a trans transit, but she definitely was not a transmit.
Speaker 1: That was not a good representation of a tran She
Speaker 1: phipthy and but they now they're gonna they're gonna have
Speaker 1: a trans woman on there this year. That's gonna blow
Speaker 1: I can't say it, but she's gonna blow you all out.
Speaker 1: I can't wait. I love perfect person for the first
Speaker 1: trans woman for them to have on drag I stopped
Speaker 1: watching Dragway she years ago because they didn't have any
Speaker 1: trains women on there. If you don't do representation, how
Speaker 1: are you gonna keep asking representation and you're not doing
Speaker 1: it in your own community? This is the first trans woman,
Speaker 1: or it's just very first, and all of the sea
Speaker 1: everyone everybody else was gay boys until after they're taping,
Speaker 1: and then they got on hormones and identified as trains. Wow. Wow,
Speaker 1: I didn't know that because you couldn't sit in the
Speaker 1: dressing room with your shirt and off and everything because
Speaker 1: she got boots there. So it this is the very
Speaker 1: first one. I want to talk about something controversial because
Speaker 1: this thing this time, it's out of your mouth, you see.
Speaker 1: So we had an episode six years ago where we
Speaker 1: were confused. We were talking with a friend of ours.
Speaker 1: It's been removed since, but I said the word trans transsexual.
Speaker 1: Then I said, what's the difference with transvestite? And then
Speaker 1: obviously I said the T word, which I heard you say.
Speaker 1: We ain't a lot to say. But here's why I
Speaker 1: bring it up, because over time, I don't really know.
Speaker 1: I know the difference to me cross dressing, which I
Speaker 1: believe is like sexual king for the moment, drag queen,
Speaker 1: which is performative. But a lot of people don't really
Speaker 1: understand these some of these umbrella terms. Can we walk
Speaker 1: through them with you know? Could? I didn't understand what
Speaker 1: non minor were you talk? You have to get a
Speaker 1: representative from the community that that speaks that language. But
Speaker 1: but you did say you're a trans woman and then
Speaker 1: I identify as a trans woman, right, But but a
Speaker 1: woman and for using it? We heard the term back
Speaker 1: in the day transvestite. Is that now a slur? I
Speaker 1: don't know because I don't want to say this without
Speaker 1: being offensive. My generation, my error. We fought for years
Speaker 1: and using years to be respected as a trans woman period.
Speaker 1: That was great, That was a compliment, that was respectful.
Speaker 1: Now this new generation wants to be referred to as
Speaker 1: a woman. Female. I'm a woman. A woman is a
Speaker 1: social construct. My mother's name is Valerie. If I call
Speaker 1: her a social construct, she's gonna punch me and my
Speaker 1: dad damn throat. The disrespect starts, I don't know where,
Speaker 1: But when does it stop? Is it really disrespectful though?
Speaker 1: To call a trans woman a woman? Though? I don't know.
Speaker 1: They want to be called now women instead of trans
Speaker 1: which is what I'm saying. My r trans woman was
Speaker 1: good enough. I'm sure the ror before me. Maybe transvestite
Speaker 1: was good enough, maybe trans sexual was good as a woman.
Speaker 1: They keep saying that it's evolving and evolving and evolving,
Speaker 1: but when are we going to know the difference of
Speaker 1: what is what? I don't think it's disrespectful to call
Speaker 1: a trans woman a trans woman because she is a
Speaker 1: trans wore. You still call all in her a woman,
Speaker 1: but you are letting her, letting your partner know, or
Speaker 1: letting whoever you need to know when they need to
Speaker 1: know that that's what's up. That's why I'm actually glad
Speaker 1: you said that, because we've had the conversation here often,
Speaker 1: and I think that where now they do want to
Speaker 1: be referred to as women. There's so many trans women
Speaker 1: not identifying as trans women, and so I have said
Speaker 1: on the spot, I do believe that if I'm dating someone,
Speaker 1: I do want to know if they're trans, for whether
Speaker 1: they're transitioning or not. Like you know, that's none of
Speaker 1: my business, was there, But if that's how you identify,
Speaker 1: that is something I would want to know out the gate.
Speaker 1: When you when do you believe it's a good time
Speaker 1: to disclose they want. That's because what it's so for me,
Speaker 1: I've never been a possible training Let me said, I've
Speaker 1: never I've never been a passible trans. Uh. You always
Speaker 1: knew the body was banging. I was the best dress,
Speaker 1: I had the weittiest personality, but you always knew which
Speaker 1: worked for me, because I mean, when I was young,
Speaker 1: maybe I would have done some strange things, but I'm
Speaker 1: glad I never had the luxury of being in that position.
Speaker 1: I had a girlfriend who met a guy. She dated
Speaker 1: him for about a week. She never told him. He
Speaker 1: kissed her in the mouth. They hold hands and public.
Speaker 1: He took her out when it was time to do
Speaker 1: the deed. She told him. She didn't die, but she
Speaker 1: was beat within a inch of her life, all because
Speaker 1: all she had to say was, Hey, I'm a trans
Speaker 1: woman and I actually say that. Everybody said, well, how
Speaker 1: do you feel about that? Do you feel like he
Speaker 1: was wrong? Violence is always wrong? But was he raped?
Speaker 1: He had already got feelings for this girl. She was
Speaker 1: a lovely queen too. She passed on beautiful queen. I'm
Speaker 1: not going to even speak her name. But this is
Speaker 1: a dangerous game that you're playing. When I was younger
Speaker 1: than men would beat to shoot out you this new
Speaker 1: breed of guys, cancel you because the internet, social media,
Speaker 1: you can run. First of all, let me just put
Speaker 1: this in the box and we're gonna get past this
Speaker 1: gay ship then. And I'm part of the community. But
Speaker 1: this is not what I want to talk about. I
Speaker 1: told you too. Um here's the thing. Identify, that's what
Speaker 1: you won't play whatever game you want to play, but
Speaker 1: understand that you cannot put a person in a place
Speaker 1: where you have not given them a choice. If you're
Speaker 1: already there and you're beautiful, and the man like, if
Speaker 1: he's going to play, allow him and afford him the
Speaker 1: opportunity to say yes, I want to play, and let
Speaker 1: me just say to wait a minute, don't break my
Speaker 1: strap hold on, I won't And if he don't want
Speaker 1: to play, he will say that's not for me. Respectfully.
Speaker 1: I respect you, I see you. That ain't for me.
Speaker 1: You have and I hate when they keep saying, oh,
Speaker 1: trans women don't the man didn't have a choice. I
Speaker 1: food here, my food here. You didn't see if you
Speaker 1: want to got twelve kids and then baby mamas. They've
Speaker 1: never seen the pussy but they never mistake the dick
Speaker 1: for a pussy. Understand, these men need to stop with
Speaker 1: that bullshit. Oh I didn't know we had sex. A
Speaker 1: pussy and a penis don't look or smell or feel
Speaker 1: nothing a lot, So stop with that bullshit. And it's
Speaker 1: like they say, well, girl, you got a choice. The
Speaker 1: man got a choice. He didn't have to date you.
Speaker 1: The queen has a choice. If I'm a trans woman,
Speaker 1: I want to date a man. If he ain't gonna
Speaker 1: hold my hand and take me to the barbecue and
Speaker 1: make me feel safe, kiss me in my mouth, why
Speaker 1: I won't this nigger anyway. I'm never his woman, I'm
Speaker 1: his sad piece. I'm never his woman. But they always said, well,
Speaker 1: when just like the man have a choice, trans woman
Speaker 1: have a choice, and you cannot get with these guys.
Speaker 1: That's a trick. I can't get with an athlete of
Speaker 1: NBA player, a football player, rich man as a trick,
Speaker 1: and knowing my role with him is as a trick.
Speaker 1: This is a business transaction. But then I didn't caut
Speaker 1: feelings for him because he can't be with me on
Speaker 1: my birthday. The married man with a whole career and
Speaker 1: a whole life everything. He can't be with me for
Speaker 1: the holiday, so I get mad and I decide I
Speaker 1: want to out him. Your story is never for me
Speaker 1: to tell. My story is my shory to tell your story.
Speaker 1: So if you're doing that and then you call and
Speaker 1: this time, I'm gonna tell your wife, I'm gonna tell
Speaker 1: your kids, I'm gonna tell your fama. In your career,
Speaker 1: it's a dangerous game. There was a woman in Miami
Speaker 1: that just recently did that to a lot of the promoters,
Speaker 1: and she was a trans trans woman but had gotten
Speaker 1: everything surgically um done and I didn't tell anybody and
Speaker 1: decided to out all these men had them recorded videos.
Speaker 1: It was real nasty and we literally said that what
Speaker 1: you just said exactly on point. I agree with everything
Speaker 1: about that, And I hate to say this public good.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say it didn't get that way because I
Speaker 1: had apple what shared? What part did you play? Yeahs
Speaker 1: for me, I was gonna say to you what I
Speaker 1: was breaking in stride. We it's so difficult to not
Speaker 1: talk about it with you when we're talking about sex
Speaker 1: with you, because you're such You're not a new voice,
Speaker 1: and all we hear is that. So when you have
Speaker 1: someone that's lived the life you live. It's like fun,
Speaker 1: it's it's almost hard not you, and you know I
Speaker 1: hate even baby, we can get it. That's pussy. Huh.
Speaker 1: How you jumping to the horse there? Let me get
Speaker 1: to that. I want to see if if she thinks
Speaker 1: about sex. I don't want to know, how do Yeah?
Speaker 1: I think you're pretty good. Actually, are you a fingers person?
Speaker 1: Are you you pay attention? M you mean I'm looking
Speaker 1: like fingers because you don't do the nails because I
Speaker 1: lost the nail one day and he took three days
Speaker 1: where to come out and it wasn't in me. Wait
Speaker 1: you lost a nail in somebody? Wait? Hold on, wait
Speaker 1: wait wait wait, no, I need to throw I need
Speaker 1: the story because I just know I've told you because
Speaker 1: I lost I lost the rhyme stone on one of
Speaker 1: my fingers, so clearly I do my fingers now where
Speaker 1: my nails are short. So for y'all watching on YouTube,
Speaker 1: who I was gonna be like, damn, then Mandy break
Speaker 1: two nails? No, nigga, this is done purposely. Oh. In
Speaker 1: the comments, they're constantly like, why her two nails broke?
Speaker 1: Why this broke? Every week? Bitch, it's on purpose. And
Speaker 1: this because whether it's a male ass or a vagina,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna hurt you. It's thoughtful, okay, um, but
Speaker 1: she was the scene said, but I used to also
Speaker 1: do all the rhyme stones, and outside of a rhyme
Speaker 1: stone fall into some college greens one time when I
Speaker 1: was making it, No, I I didn't know where Ryan
Speaker 1: still win. So I never wanted a rhyme stone to
Speaker 1: fall into somebody bout hole and then make their ship
Speaker 1: glittery or into somebody's place. What was the conversation we
Speaker 1: know the story, I need to know the conversation of
Speaker 1: you being done, you realizing your critic now is up
Speaker 1: in the vagina. It was a press on what should
Speaker 1: help him get it out him? Yeah, you look at me,
Speaker 1: don't do that, okay? So what was the conversation? Where
Speaker 1: did it fall out? In the toilet on the bed
Speaker 1: like were y'all searching for here? Y'all tracking it? And
Speaker 1: I don't know if we was we was in it
Speaker 1: were I found the second hold and part of the
Speaker 1: third the you know what? And I have not had
Speaker 1: my head nails not since because of that story? Do
Speaker 1: you se? No? Too messy? No, I just I don't know.
Speaker 1: I just I love Va Dina, you know, and my
Speaker 1: trans sisters beat me up about that. But hear me
Speaker 1: when I tell you a lot of my transistors that
Speaker 1: dinifest the most feminine and beautiful bitches. This dicking and
Speaker 1: niggers like you wouldn't believe that's what I want. I know,
Speaker 1: I know. No, I feel like when you have a
Speaker 1: big dick the assid just a little too. That's actually
Speaker 1: what I do. This is how I asked, got a
Speaker 1: big no, no, No, I I do. I do. I
Speaker 1: put my dick on all the time. God, have you
Speaker 1: ever got funk with your dick on? Yes? And I
Speaker 1: actually like that. And then I've also had my dick
Speaker 1: trans man that love that. That was really I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna hold you the way could just be jiggling and
Speaker 1: hitting my thigh like from I really, but no, it's
Speaker 1: it's on the strap. I used to whatever visual and
Speaker 1: whatever that made him feel the organ his orgasm. There's
Speaker 1: a there's a visual thing because I used to like well,
Speaker 1: it took me a while even find I only had
Speaker 1: one person ever do it, but someone to suck my strap.
Speaker 1: And even though I couldn't like really feel their mouths
Speaker 1: clearly because it's it's it was the visual. But you
Speaker 1: know what's crazy? I want I want to ask you.
Speaker 1: I want to ask you the visual thing because at
Speaker 1: the end I actually had something like you can't sell
Speaker 1: no dick. Even though I didn't feel it, it didn't
Speaker 1: look like he was doing a great job. So even
Speaker 1: though I was watching him like put it in his mouth,
Speaker 1: he definitely didn't know what he was doing. What is
Speaker 1: don't you prefer that if he was too good at it?
Speaker 1: Who was she practicing? Oh wait? Okay, okay, okay, one
Speaker 1: of them. You will never get everything you want life
Speaker 1: and train off. Now, if you'd been experienced, you'd be
Speaker 1: like nig who you've been practicing? You're right, you're right,
Speaker 1: actually valid, valid, you're right, you're right. I do like
Speaker 1: watching porn where women wear straps and they get funk
Speaker 1: like it's hot. Because for me, even when I was
Speaker 1: sucking my ex girlfriend, we had a guy in the room.
Speaker 1: He was joking about like why do y'all even have
Speaker 1: this here? And I'm like, well, what do you mean?
Speaker 1: Why do you have the what the adildo? Yeah? Because
Speaker 1: he because conversation. So when you and your girlfriend had
Speaker 1: the guy did y'all sat by, sat on the end
Speaker 1: of the bed and kiss what he went from you
Speaker 1: from you to her from Yeah, but we were eating
Speaker 1: a lot of pussy too. No, no, no, I wanted
Speaker 1: you all both. My fantasy is to have to transmi
Speaker 1: and sad by sad on the bed. But if the
Speaker 1: transmn don't never really sexualize with the trans Really, I
Speaker 1: didn't know that, And I want to go from flower
Speaker 1: to flower like I'm a beat and I'm just pollinating
Speaker 1: and I'm just polling. Oh my god, I think about
Speaker 1: it all the time. But you know what that but
Speaker 1: that's very about it all. If that's actually possible, because well,
Speaker 1: outside of the kissing part, you having a threesome and
Speaker 1: I've had me three three that's my desire treat. But
Speaker 1: but even with two trans trans men like they don't
Speaker 1: have to play outside of king, it's not gonna do nothing.
Speaker 1: I want you want to see them, Okay, that's going
Speaker 1: to be the hardest podcast. Most trans me and are
Speaker 1: not attracted to the masculinity of another trans. Interesting, there's exceptions, right,
Speaker 1: that's exceptional. Don't meet my body requirement. It's given. They
Speaker 1: kept eight. It's giving me big girl Lizzo, and I
Speaker 1: like Lizzo for her confidence, but I ain't gonna be
Speaker 1: able to smash big Lizzle no name, no man now
Speaker 1: with the flute or without. And don't come after me,
Speaker 1: y'all because I like big little I already say I
Speaker 1: love it. It could just be little though, actually could
Speaker 1: just be toxic. Katie yea beyond her confidence an he's talented.
Speaker 1: Why you are attracted to Lizzo in that way or not?
Speaker 1: Listen has sex appeals and she does she does. But here,
Speaker 1: when you are sure of what you want and who
Speaker 1: you want, I'm not going to go because I like
Speaker 1: they got a nice personality, will do nothing for me
Speaker 1: in the bedroom when you get when you're getting naked,
Speaker 1: the thought are you about to give yourself to me?
Speaker 1: And I'm gonna see what I want gets me going.
Speaker 1: Come on, queen, just like me, I fucking date the
Speaker 1: same saying I mere people were more shallow than so
Speaker 1: many loves wouldn't be. They would be more requirement. When
Speaker 1: it comes to do you like hair, no hair, resilient
Speaker 1: wax you like you're talking about you can have pame
Speaker 1: gris effort from the seven of Me. I love the hair.
Speaker 1: I don't like the hair this, but if I want
Speaker 1: to say too, I do feel like it's because generational wise,
Speaker 1: like now, they do not like they be like this
Speaker 1: old Barbie as bullshit because it makes me feel like
Speaker 1: I'm with the It makes me feel like people at
Speaker 1: a and then be somebody's Wooden's pussies don't match the
Speaker 1: rest a body. Somebodyse pussies are very honest. I had
Speaker 1: a bitch with pussy looked like an astray. She told
Speaker 1: me to eat it, gray and dusty and ill like
Speaker 1: have sometimes saves the relationship had some ship. The hand
Speaker 1: was the couch. You just look like you had a
Speaker 1: lot of mouths on that. I don't do that all
Speaker 1: the health. I was like, why I look like that?
Speaker 1: Turned the light out? You remember Eddie Murphy and Boomerang
Speaker 1: with the kid. I couldn't look like an asstra sounds
Speaker 1: eat that bit. You don't even smoke nugg at off.
Speaker 1: So when you have to tell somebody about the pussy,
Speaker 1: have you had to do that? I am. I am
Speaker 1: a very masculine male on that compacity, because you know
Speaker 1: what I would do, think about one of my children
Speaker 1: and go straight now then Dick can't do nothing. How
Speaker 1: do you tell someone like or has that been a
Speaker 1: conversation like regarding after that one? Never went back. I
Speaker 1: need to see it before I before I eat it.
Speaker 1: I need to see it. I haven't had to do
Speaker 1: that anymore since that one. Okay, so I sort of
Speaker 1: look then, smell is that something that you tell a woman?
Speaker 1: And I know you like puss? So how do you
Speaker 1: have the conversation if it doesn't smell? How you wanted
Speaker 1: to smell? Everybody has a different thing. I actually love
Speaker 1: the smell of the sweat and all day work now
Speaker 1: not to feed, so I am attracted to that. Now
Speaker 1: if I wanted some soap, I would just put some
Speaker 1: guy there. I'm soap in my mouth. I don't want
Speaker 1: the soap. I want to smell. You know how you
Speaker 1: and the attraction. I'm gonna educate some of these young
Speaker 1: brothers because they don't know the attraction of that. When
Speaker 1: you were very attracted to when they're her pheromones and
Speaker 1: your hormones link. The smell was what made me have
Speaker 1: two babies. Bad woman, Dad I knew didn't even love me.
Speaker 1: Look that got deep. That was the truth. Pheromons are
Speaker 1: a very real thing pheromones, and a lot of young
Speaker 1: men missing, a lot of young women missing because because
Speaker 1: they're trying to hide it. With that, the male is
Speaker 1: the especially when your pheromones and his hormones jail. You
Speaker 1: can t other pussies, but you didn't get that smell.
Speaker 1: It's not that one. It's a different feeling. And I
Speaker 1: always say that too for women, like meeting a man
Speaker 1: when you finally like start sucking unprotected and one that
Speaker 1: doesn't funk up your whole biom, your whole everything down there,
Speaker 1: the scent that everything, like that's your niggas. But that's
Speaker 1: about that too. That's also a man. That's not when
Speaker 1: men are kind of running in the streets, they could
Speaker 1: also throw you off. That part two, that part two, Yes, okay,
Speaker 1: I got, I got yeah. Do you have a rotation?
Speaker 1: What do you prefer? Do you prefer you a monogamous person? Like?
Speaker 1: What's um? Oh? No, I'll go get another word, Like
Speaker 1: how can I say this without offending anyone? You wouldn't
Speaker 1: already offended? Girl? Just keep offending because now you know,
Speaker 1: like the loyalty of even if you're in a relationship
Speaker 1: and we got our thing on the low, I'm the
Speaker 1: only one is because most of my trans men, or
Speaker 1: if I'm data transman, he usually has a female. Oh
Speaker 1: so if I'm the only dip off, he getting me good.
Speaker 1: I did not think about that. I don't think about that.
Speaker 1: But yeah, you're right. Yeah, and he only come and
Speaker 1: get service when you know he needs to. I want
Speaker 1: to throw it to another field here because we have
Speaker 1: talked about sex, but I want to talk about sex.
Speaker 1: Maybe I was listening to the I want to talk
Speaker 1: about politics with you. Come on, let's do it. How
Speaker 1: did you suddenly become the faith of like? To me,
Speaker 1: it's crazy because it did happen. You know, politics was
Speaker 1: never interesting to me when I was a kid. That's
Speaker 1: even when I'm in my young adult life. You know,
Speaker 1: when I got interested in politics when Bill Clinton won
Speaker 1: the second term. That was the first time I ever
Speaker 1: voted because he got of getting his dicks out. I said, oh,
Speaker 1: this is a brother. I liked this lad stop. It
Speaker 1: made it made it relatable to me. And then at
Speaker 1: that time, I was posting like three drag shows in
Speaker 1: Chicago from Chicago, and money was I was making money crazy.
Speaker 1: And then we went to the Bush years and I
Speaker 1: realized that the economy trickles down. You know, we say, oh,
Speaker 1: my vote don't count, it don't affect me specifically. Yes,
Speaker 1: And then I started having kids and I really realized that,
Speaker 1: oh my god, I am an American. That's a part
Speaker 1: of this economic economic system. So it made it important
Speaker 1: for me to vote. When I watched politics, as I'm
Speaker 1: seeing the in crazy person, I listened to it, and
Speaker 1: I don't listen to respond. I hear what you're saying
Speaker 1: to me. I see what's happening in front of me
Speaker 1: and my birth certificate again, says sex male black. If
Speaker 1: I'm stopped by the police, they see my titties. They
Speaker 1: might understand that I'm a transfers, but they see this
Speaker 1: black skin first. That is the dangerous part of me
Speaker 1: going stopping and stop saying being stopped by a police office.
Speaker 1: So I'm an American and I love to push that.
Speaker 1: Yes I'm OGBT, Yes I'm black, Yes something comedian, Yes
Speaker 1: I'm a dad, I'm a lot of things. But I
Speaker 1: am first an American citizen of these United States, born
Speaker 1: and raised in these United States. Look made in these
Speaker 1: United States. That people miss that because if we all
Speaker 1: would come together and realize that we are Americans. What
Speaker 1: doesn't American look like like us? Like you like like me.
Speaker 1: We're Americans, but we keep making it different. The exterior
Speaker 1: is different, but the interior is really look American because
Speaker 1: if you go overseas, as soon as you open your mouth,
Speaker 1: even by the way you dress, so many like people
Speaker 1: in the eastern part of the world know when when
Speaker 1: when you're in America. If we could be treated fairly
Speaker 1: as Americans, everybody, everybody, I think that would be What
Speaker 1: isn't that what they said that America was a melting
Speaker 1: pot of everybody coming from whales to give you opportunities
Speaker 1: to be whatever you want to be. We have these opportunities.
Speaker 1: A lot of my a lot of people don't understand
Speaker 1: that if you go to other countries, a lot of
Speaker 1: ship that we get away with here, you couldn't ever
Speaker 1: get away with. You would be beheaded, including all these
Speaker 1: women dying in our ran right now because they have voices,
Speaker 1: just because they want to speak. Because oh she didn't
Speaker 1: wear her he jobed correctly, and she had a heart
Speaker 1: attack at fifteen. She ain't had no heart attack. Y'all
Speaker 1: kill this girl. This is what I'm talking about. We
Speaker 1: take advantage of all these advantages that we have, and
Speaker 1: we are so entitled, not not our era, but they
Speaker 1: feel so entitled that you don't understand that people fought
Speaker 1: to make sure that you can get to this luxury
Speaker 1: and you still complain that out everything. What do you
Speaker 1: think is a focus that we need to be And
Speaker 1: I would say just demographic of black people in the thirties, right,
Speaker 1: I think that's our average listener would agree. What do
Speaker 1: you think our focus needs to be when we are voting,
Speaker 1: when we're coming to our congressmen and women, when we're
Speaker 1: thinking about politics, what's you to be? You should think
Speaker 1: about you're going to have children and your future and
Speaker 1: your children's future. Because you let somebody, because I'm some
Speaker 1: all skin, he black, I'm gonna lect him. He might
Speaker 1: not be for us. Maybe he politics, you know. Candice
Speaker 1: Owens wrote me back on something I posted about George
Speaker 1: Floyd comment that Kanye made and said to me he
Speaker 1: wasn't able to breathe before. I implore you to watch
Speaker 1: my documentary. I was the only one trying to help
Speaker 1: his family. It's so insane to me that your first
Speaker 1: rebuttal is to drive me to your documentary like this,
Speaker 1: Let me go breakfast because capital capitalism. How unpack this bitch.
Speaker 1: She's she's going she will see this. This is directly
Speaker 1: for you. Candis owns you. You went to college for
Speaker 1: two years, didn't work. Then you went to New York
Speaker 1: and you got a job working a Vogue and got
Speaker 1: were very influential people, but you sue them back with
Speaker 1: the W with the L because you felt like they
Speaker 1: were being racist. You married this white man who I'm
Speaker 1: sure cause you every nigger he can when your when
Speaker 1: your back is turned or when he's angry with you,
Speaker 1: and you come here and you attack your own race
Speaker 1: because you're looking to get a come up or some
Speaker 1: gs with them. So if the revolution does happen, guess
Speaker 1: what you're going to be that same nigga that we are.
Speaker 1: Understand your place and your position. I don't let Candid's
Speaker 1: own shakes me. She's an idiot, she's a lost woman already.
Speaker 1: Let me tell you something if Candice, this is how
Speaker 1: when when I saw her family and her friend pictures
Speaker 1: and this one black person in there who I don't
Speaker 1: know maybe about default because they'd have known you forever, Candice,
Speaker 1: we could tell black and don't funk with you you're hair. Oh,
Speaker 1: white women don't need That's not true. You should see
Speaker 1: there is an army behind her that is just like
Speaker 1: Hersha Walker, There's an army behind him. This is the
Speaker 1: same nigger who's saying I put a gun to a
Speaker 1: woman head and threatened to kill her, but I don't
Speaker 1: remember listening. Get me, when I tell you you have
Speaker 1: to listen to what they're saying to you. I'm not
Speaker 1: saying that you ain't wrong, but I do believe that
Speaker 1: someone's empowering these people. Can this is a pond. When
Speaker 1: I tell you, and let me tell you who, they're
Speaker 1: gonna be mad at me. Not when I tell you
Speaker 1: they used to use us as slave. I wasn't a slave.
Speaker 1: I'm not that m the stories that I heard from
Speaker 1: my great grandmother, they would pick black folks against each
Speaker 1: other to get massive favor. I'm a trick on Hub
Speaker 1: because I'm gonna get an extra biscuite or pull chopper,
Speaker 1: I might get a worker hour early. Has anything changed
Speaker 1: because now it's called reality TV. You will sell your
Speaker 1: fucking children for a check just so you want to
Speaker 1: be popular, and everything is ratchet. Bitch, you ain't ship
Speaker 1: my man better than yours. I can't keep her husband.
Speaker 1: You can't keep her husband, and your children see this.
Speaker 1: You give your children all these luxuries because the money
Speaker 1: have made you sell out your soul, and then your
Speaker 1: kids end up fucking mostly all reality. I don't want
Speaker 1: to put it the cars on the table, but the
Speaker 1: truth is the truth. Like you're wealth, he's gonna grow
Speaker 1: from from just you. You don't need to subject your
Speaker 1: family and when y'all go to politics. So last night
Speaker 1: I spoke at Karen Karen Bass rally at the Hollywood
Speaker 1: laugh Factory and uh, there were two forces. I'm not
Speaker 1: going to mention their names. They're really trying to keep
Speaker 1: me off the stage. Did not want me to be
Speaker 1: seeing this was a room of Katzenberg and staying late
Speaker 1: them and Magic Johnson and um Holly Robinson, Pete's husband,
Speaker 1: uh Ronnie p all these people in there. I went
Speaker 1: to support. I can't even vote for Karen Best because
Speaker 1: I live in Long Beach. She wants to be, but
Speaker 1: I support who she is. I support her policys and
Speaker 1: what's going on, and after what went down with the
Speaker 1: city council, I'm like, yeah, I need to be there.
Speaker 1: So I came all dressed up and done the city council.
Speaker 1: You know, that's what happened. There was an l a
Speaker 1: city council meeting where a Latino woman was saying like, oh,
Speaker 1: they looked what she said, they were a dark skinned
Speaker 1: no no, no, she that one of the representatives he oh,
Speaker 1: he supposed black because he had adopted a young black kid.
Speaker 1: And then she and referred to in Spanish, and uh,
Speaker 1: they grant crazy. She stepped down, and they fired, They
Speaker 1: let her go, or she she resigned daily has not
Speaker 1: he's still and they outside protesting outside his house. And
Speaker 1: I was saying that to say so. When they needed
Speaker 1: a host to close out the show, because the host
Speaker 1: had to leave, they'd scrambling around looking for a host.
Speaker 1: Jamie Massada, my boy who owns the Laugh Factories. See it,
Speaker 1: Give the mic to Flame Monroe, the person who's hopes
Speaker 1: to say, are you sure, as if to discredit my talent.
Speaker 1: Jamie Masada, see it, give the microphone to Flame Monroe.
Speaker 1: I went and I got that microphone. No introduction, they
Speaker 1: never said this is I just went up there and
Speaker 1: I see it. Who the person was? I was him
Speaker 1: and dre Then I had money in my titty so
Speaker 1: I gave it was a fund raise. I gave a
Speaker 1: two hundred out the Democratic titty. I gave a hundred
Speaker 1: out the Independent titty. I told, if you want the
Speaker 1: Republican money, it's something my dress. They had stuff, so
Speaker 1: I'm having it too. Broke the talked about just when
Speaker 1: I just told you, I'm an American. Y'all, y'all see
Speaker 1: what y'all want to see. But I'm in America. Got
Speaker 1: asked last night to speak at the Democratic National Convention.
Speaker 1: This is what I'm talking. Go ahead because I to
Speaker 1: speak for the LGBT, black trans Dad. I am an
Speaker 1: American and when we push all this other ship to
Speaker 1: the side and realized whatever party you represent, we sell
Speaker 1: all Americans. Whatever affects you affect every ye. Can you
Speaker 1: tell people how to before we get out here, because
Speaker 1: I do think it's important, how they can get involved
Speaker 1: in some way or even other content creators like us.
Speaker 1: How can people push forward the message of voting and
Speaker 1: being more involved. You please go and read, don't don't
Speaker 1: go to the internet. Get you some old books and
Speaker 1: find out what people, black people, women, Latinos had to
Speaker 1: go through just to have the privilege of being able
Speaker 1: to vote in this country. We die. Black people die,
Speaker 1: hung from trees, oursercize houses, burned down, beat and whipped
Speaker 1: everything just to have the right to vote. And I
Speaker 1: hate when I hear people say my vote don't count.
Speaker 1: If ten people say they votes don't count and choose
Speaker 1: not to go, and we lose the bat, we lose
Speaker 1: the vote back. If Stacey Abrams loses that ten votes,
Speaker 1: you the ten motherfucker's that I'm talking to. Take the time.
Speaker 1: You take the time to do everything else. It is
Speaker 1: very important to go and vote. And if our black
Speaker 1: vote was not so important, they wouldn't do anything and
Speaker 1: everything that they could to make our black vote as
Speaker 1: hard as possible to vote. Registered in Florida, register, go
Speaker 1: to make sure that all your that's because they have
Speaker 1: changed the voting laws in so many states to make
Speaker 1: sure that your I D matches, your birth certificate, masters
Speaker 1: where you live. Everything needs to be perfect because they
Speaker 1: are playing hardball. And saddest part is that the trump
Speaker 1: Letkints are playing chess and the Democrats are playing checkers.
Speaker 1: And they played and if rather and that was a word,
Speaker 1: then motherfucker's this rather that baby? They the herschel Walker
Speaker 1: get a hand in the cookie jowl. This nigga sold
Speaker 1: the kitchen over at Party City getting badges. Did you
Speaker 1: hear what that Republican woman from I think she was
Speaker 1: from Arizona or South Carolina something said. She said, I
Speaker 1: don't care if he's pulling the ears off baby buddies,
Speaker 1: we just won't control of the sin. I respect her
Speaker 1: more than anybody because the bitch told the truth and
Speaker 1: you offended that. I called you a bit, and me
Speaker 1: be to my face, I'm gonna call you worse than that.
Speaker 1: It's Sun is up here running up the muck. Have
Speaker 1: y'all seen the sun? The gay boy? The gay boy
Speaker 1: put it on blast, didn't he? What did he do?
Speaker 1: Telephones or I can't say that chance that that's improper
Speaker 1: words that used to be old. He was known. It's
Speaker 1: like there was a video of Colonni and he called
Speaker 1: her out in the Starbucks. Oh that's the son, that's
Speaker 1: the Sun. Who that person, that's the Sun who said
Speaker 1: you got folk kids? Ain't took care of none of
Speaker 1: us while you running around doing what you're doing. First
Speaker 1: of all, I heard you Walker said it was fifty
Speaker 1: three stakes. I'm gonna stop right there. No, he didn't. No,
Speaker 1: he didn't, he didn't. Walker said that it was fifty
Speaker 1: three stakes. I'm gonna stop right there, and he pulled
Speaker 1: out of Maybury Fast and said he was the police,
Speaker 1: you know what, riding with that food like it's nothing.
Speaker 1: Speaking of which, because down there in Georgia, have you
Speaker 1: say you asked me about what can we do to
Speaker 1: get more people to you have to listen to the
Speaker 1: people that think like you think. When a few years
Speaker 1: ago and Bidby was running, we heard these rappers and
Speaker 1: all these black influences talking about and two we found
Speaker 1: out what the black agenda is, hold your vote? Could
Speaker 1: you imagine have we held up vote? What situation we
Speaker 1: will be in now with what's happening in the Ukraine
Speaker 1: with Putin. I'm just asking a hypothetical question. And then
Speaker 1: after we won with Biden, did silence from these same
Speaker 1: people who told you to hold your vote because we're
Speaker 1: still trying to figure out what is the black agenda?
Speaker 1: The black agenda is what is your black agenda? Not
Speaker 1: what is one black agenda for all people? What is
Speaker 1: your black agenda? What is your black agenda? Black agenda?
Speaker 1: You know? And and then they're gonna come out because
Speaker 1: we are go into voting again, and oh, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: support this candidate. I just heard that t I and
Speaker 1: um Mike, uh, Mike killing Mike came out and endorsed
Speaker 1: Brian Kemp. Yeah, yeah, I don't like that either. Now
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go at the get aggressive and I own him.
Speaker 1: It's Killer Mike. There has been actually a ton of threats,
Speaker 1: especially after his um and shout out to Charlemagne. He
Speaker 1: was on Hell of a Week, and there's been threads
Speaker 1: about how he is specifically gone after going just against
Speaker 1: black women. Again. Let's go back to what I see
Speaker 1: ten minutes ago. Yes, Master used us to pick each
Speaker 1: other against each other for years or a pork chopping
Speaker 1: the stake. Now it's a check. Please pay attention, ladies.
Speaker 1: Jim ain't ship wrong with me. I just look like this.
Speaker 1: Please pay attention. I don't listen. I Jeezy out here
Speaker 1: with Stacy on that stage. Yes, he know the way
Speaker 1: with her and Tiffany Hatti. It's with her, so many
Speaker 1: people and Stacy Abrams to the table. What I love
Speaker 1: about Stacy Abrams is if you when you come to
Speaker 1: debate or come to anything, you would say you better
Speaker 1: have your facts so right, cause Stacy Abrams is spectual,
Speaker 1: she's concise, Her temperament stage the same. She she's knowledgeable.
Speaker 1: You cannot get her up or down. She's gonna FoST
Speaker 1: the board. She's gonna multiply thevad add and subtract your
Speaker 1: ass running your face and then smile and look at it.
Speaker 1: Did you got me fucked up? Now? Stacy would never
Speaker 1: say those works. I'm standing forward, she's looking at you,
Speaker 1: that black wom rest in black woman's face. Well, then
Speaker 1: you definitely are telling us all to make sure to
Speaker 1: get out and vote in Ballet. When you're sitting there
Speaker 1: feeling out your scratchers, then fill out your ballot at
Speaker 1: the same time, but research the candidates because it don't
Speaker 1: start at the top. Local important yet the locals that's
Speaker 1: going to grow up to the top. Make sure they
Speaker 1: have the same values that you have. They think like you.
Speaker 1: They're looking out for your future, your children's future, because
Speaker 1: we only here. We gotta make sure kids are taken
Speaker 1: care of. But people don't think this instant money, this
Speaker 1: instant gratification is same and it's Internet. I'm the I
Speaker 1: got just thousand likes on the Internet. I get a
Speaker 1: check from YouTube everyone for has completely dominated every way,
Speaker 1: in every crevice of your being because your mindset is different,
Speaker 1: because all you see is the money. Money is the
Speaker 1: rid of all evil. You'll say, you ask some money,
Speaker 1: I used to. We like we bring it back. Well.
Speaker 1: We started off at a high with glass and I
Speaker 1: love that we ended on more of a serious, both
Speaker 1: caring bass l A. We need a positive sister, and
Speaker 1: not just because she's a black woman, but we need
Speaker 1: a people, a person in office that's for all Los
Speaker 1: Angeles people and wherever year, at whatever city. Please make
Speaker 1: sure you do look into your local like, don't discard
Speaker 1: it is very important and this is a crucial time.
Speaker 1: You see what's next week, y'all? Okay, so please make
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Speaker 1: Let me don't give a damn about all of this.
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Speaker 1: my boy. And ladies, thank you so much, thank you
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Speaker 1: we can talk dirty. But you know, my God than
Speaker 1: episode of Pison. Welcome back, y'all. We are in a
Speaker 1: um right. Uh yeah, No, I don't do the Stars
Speaker 1: and Moons, but Libre season Birthday October eleven. You already
Speaker 1: know what are you gonna do? You two? Absolutely nothing.
Speaker 1: I told everybody, don't throw me a party, don't plan
Speaker 1: me a dinner, leave me alone. If anything, everyone can
Speaker 1: donate to my teeth fun I will be going to
Speaker 1: get my teeth done. I'm gonna go to Columbia. I
Speaker 1: am gonna have a doctor already. I'm excited. Isn't it
Speaker 1: crazy how we used to think going out of the
Speaker 1: country for stuff meant it was bad, and now it
Speaker 1: is in I got no people. I mean, people think
Speaker 1: going out of the country for surgeries isn't bad, but
Speaker 1: it's literally like some of I don't like anyone I
Speaker 1: know that's even rich for she goes to Columbia for
Speaker 1: their d like. I used to think it was the
Speaker 1: cheap way out, but it's literally definitely cheaper. I was
Speaker 1: not they're more skilled. Well, no, they're definitely skilled. I
Speaker 1: mean it depends on who you go to, because there
Speaker 1: are people getting bad teeth done overseas. I was gonna
Speaker 1: go to her doctor, but I decided that I did
Speaker 1: not want my teeth fully shaven. Um. I'm really against
Speaker 1: like having little tiny teeth. So I found a doctor
Speaker 1: who does not shave down your teeth um drastically. He
Speaker 1: also doesn't do chicklets. Um. It's the same time frame,
Speaker 1: So I'm excited I may share that journey with you
Speaker 1: all when I go, so that you have to see
Speaker 1: the before and after and everything. But that's kind of
Speaker 1: my birthday gift to myself. Last year, I I got
Speaker 1: the Rolex that was my birthday gift. This year it'll
Speaker 1: be teeth um. But I just realized to the stress
Speaker 1: that comes with planning, and I just I don't even
Speaker 1: want my friends to stress. I don't want to stress
Speaker 1: even well yeah, and then like, uh, I just went
Speaker 1: to Crystal with its birthday and it was amazing. Got
Speaker 1: to see Dug. Everybody was Crystal, So I thought, I
Speaker 1: thought you meant your Crystal was forty Oh no Crystal.
Speaker 1: From the read, I'm not Crystal. But even like just
Speaker 1: knowing how many people travel in town and setting it
Speaker 1: up because it was the Sunte's and it was just like,
Speaker 1: oh no, I don't want a birthday party. I'm good, like,
Speaker 1: just work. I'm good. I'm one of it's coordinating. I
Speaker 1: just I'm good. One of my friends did a shout
Speaker 1: out to Miko. He's actually a talent coordinator for FUSE.
Speaker 1: He set up like and I missed it because I
Speaker 1: was so sick last week after I got back. But
Speaker 1: he was basically like, did a crazy rich Asian He's Asian,
Speaker 1: by the way, crazy rich Asians theme party, got a
Speaker 1: sprinter and all this stuff for his friends, and he
Speaker 1: was like, he told me to show up at dinner,
Speaker 1: and so when I couldn't make it, he was like,
Speaker 1: gillyot understand, Like this is like a really big party.
Speaker 1: I'm like, why didn't you tell me he was a
Speaker 1: big party. He's like, I don't want people to feel overwhelmed.
Speaker 1: I just told everybody were black and come to dinner.
Speaker 1: But like I decked it out, and he was like,
Speaker 1: I spent so much money to have my friends enjoy
Speaker 1: themselves because I really want my birthday to just be
Speaker 1: around the people. But I want to be around and bro,
Speaker 1: when I tell you, when I thought about that, I
Speaker 1: was like, I remember paying for everybody for my thirtieth
Speaker 1: birthday and it was like a nine bill and it
Speaker 1: was Orlando, so that that was kind of cheap because imagine
Speaker 1: the New York party with fifteen people. But like I
Speaker 1: actually I was mad I spend the money, but and
Speaker 1: I know people wanted to pay, but it kind of
Speaker 1: felt good to like treat my friends, to like actually
Speaker 1: hosting something. Because if you throw a party at your house,
Speaker 1: you're buying the liquor, you're supplying with the food, you're
Speaker 1: doing all that stuff, so you kind of do spend money.
Speaker 1: But that's I think the only good thing I would
Speaker 1: say now about making some extra bread is like that
Speaker 1: feels good because you don't want the stress of other
Speaker 1: people feeling like they're stressing on yellow ship. And then
Speaker 1: what about your broke friends. I don't know if you
Speaker 1: have broke friends, but I got some broke friends, and
Speaker 1: I don't want them niggas to freak out. It's just
Speaker 1: a lot. It's crazy because I know I'm gonna sound
Speaker 1: like a dud because I know last week or a
Speaker 1: couple of weeks ago, I talked about how I was
Speaker 1: shallow and had certain friends that I am I didn't
Speaker 1: invite out. I feel so blessed and I don't know
Speaker 1: if I just distanced myself or it was just organic.
Speaker 1: And I brag about my friends so much. I have
Speaker 1: no broke friends. Like when I go out with my friends,
Speaker 1: bro would be fighting, so who's putting their card down?
Speaker 1: And that's so not like it's a great feeling to
Speaker 1: go out with people and know that you can do
Speaker 1: what you want. I love it. But then also that's
Speaker 1: why I'd be trying to chill them going out to
Speaker 1: l A. Because every time I go out to l A,
Speaker 1: I'll go out with my home girls and all my
Speaker 1: home girls because everybody got money and they eat good. Bitch,
Speaker 1: we our Billy Katana has never been unders and would
Speaker 1: be like four bro. I just ate there last week.
Speaker 1: It was me Alex and an employee. That's what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: is the scow when he was just nine dollars. How
Speaker 1: do we get there? I don't not excues me twenty two.
Speaker 1: That's why I don't know what you read v