WEBVTT - Ep 291: I've Never Swallowed (Ft. Flame Monroe) 0:00:02.480 --> 0:00:09.360 Guess what decision We're about to make a horrible decisions. Hey, guys, 0:00:09.640 --> 0:00:13.960 welcome to yeah another episode of Pari Black decisi Olmes. 0:00:14.240 --> 0:00:16.880 I'm your girl, Mandy b a k A Dead Bitch 0:00:16.920 --> 0:00:19.480 a k P Sion ak A Peggan Marco a k 0:00:19.640 --> 0:00:23.360 A Mandy Baskins a k A. I am Wheezy, the 0:00:23.480 --> 0:00:27.560 she and the he she we But hey, if you're 0:00:27.600 --> 0:00:29.479 all the way right wing and I want to kiss 0:00:29.520 --> 0:00:36.720 you off. And we have the Queen king themselves trans 0:00:36.840 --> 0:00:42.240 woman King, Thank you very We have a lame and 0:00:42.520 --> 0:00:47.479 row everyone now lame. I have first, I fought at first. 0:00:47.520 --> 0:00:49.200 I feel like I first watched you on the Breakfast Club, 0:00:49.479 --> 0:00:51.800 but then I could not believe my mama was like 0:00:52.200 --> 0:00:55.280 flame from the news. I'm like what you talking about? 0:00:55.400 --> 0:00:57.440 And I absolutely loved your energy. I met you for 0:00:57.480 --> 0:01:01.840 the first time when we did the Black Effect Show 0:01:01.920 --> 0:01:04.640 with eighty five Stuth and you hosted. I think I 0:01:04.640 --> 0:01:08.760 think I'm still half from that. Had so much smoke 0:01:08.840 --> 0:01:11.039 up and there I thought it was a fire. One 0:01:11.840 --> 0:01:17.720 shut my boy Chico being in Carlo Smiller and DC. 0:01:17.920 --> 0:01:21.520 You'll d you too young for me? You have an 0:01:21.520 --> 0:01:26.679 age like I just d I was just joking. I 0:01:26.840 --> 0:01:28.920 was like, oh, oh wait, you would go off the 0:01:28.920 --> 0:01:32.119 way down to twenty one go out with Yeah? No, no, no, 0:01:32.360 --> 0:01:34.720 you didn't ask me right? Dat did you say? Do 0:01:34.760 --> 0:01:37.080 I have an age requirin on a day to tw 0:01:37.240 --> 0:01:41.000 What we're gonna talk about? You? Right? I mean, there 0:01:41.000 --> 0:01:43.880 ain't much to talk about that damn show, ain't nothing 0:01:43.880 --> 0:01:49.680 to talk about. But what's the room number? Do you 0:01:49.760 --> 0:01:54.000 prefer in cal out col um? I don't know what 0:01:54.000 --> 0:01:56.600 that means? And do you prefer to to somebody number 0:01:56.840 --> 0:01:58.360 that means you're going out? Do you prefer to go 0:01:58.400 --> 0:02:00.000 to day house or do you prefer them to come 0:02:00.600 --> 0:02:03.120 h tor house. I'd like us to meet at at 0:02:03.120 --> 0:02:09.919 at a neutral place, a hotel. Oh you really? Are 0:02:09.960 --> 0:02:13.040 you a hotel girl? Okay? Well I got kids at home? 0:02:13.840 --> 0:02:18.320 Say you know what I mean? And you left? Yeah, 0:02:19.080 --> 0:02:20.760 I'm still the day. I know I looked like a 0:02:20.800 --> 0:02:25.400 gorgeous mother, but I'm still ad just not a mother 0:02:25.480 --> 0:02:27.680 of children. I'm a motherfucker. I need to give it 0:02:27.720 --> 0:02:30.520 to y'all, not mother. I'm to go out, it's just 0:02:31.000 --> 0:02:33.120 to go out. Well, I wanted to start off with 0:02:33.320 --> 0:02:36.040 a quick ice rerecord, not like we have to warm 0:02:36.080 --> 0:02:37.960 you up. But we're gonna get there just a little bit. 0:02:38.120 --> 0:02:39.920 I want already wanted to hear me standing and let 0:02:39.919 --> 0:02:42.560 me just put them on blast. Let me in the 0:02:42.560 --> 0:02:44.840 heat for twenty minutes, because the buzz that didn't work today. 0:02:44.960 --> 0:02:47.040 Now mind you, it worked yesterday, but it didn't work today. 0:02:47.080 --> 0:02:54.840 I'm just saying, O transphobia. I know you joking. No, 0:02:55.160 --> 0:02:59.240 you didn't. We said we need somebody, we need flames. 0:02:59.600 --> 0:03:02.240 You know you know who's very mad at us. Uh. 0:03:02.280 --> 0:03:09.400 Non binary people aren't really fucking with Explain that terminology 0:03:09.960 --> 0:03:12.600 to me. You gotta explain it easy, because you know 0:03:12.720 --> 0:03:17.400 they don't know me. From what I've learned from talking 0:03:17.400 --> 0:03:19.240 to non binary people and I work with a few 0:03:19.280 --> 0:03:23.720 of them, they don't feel male or female, and so 0:03:23.800 --> 0:03:26.359 they haven't figured out what gender is theirs, and so 0:03:26.560 --> 0:03:30.320 they they have decided their non binary. So let me 0:03:30.360 --> 0:03:33.240 ask this question when you let me, let me simplify 0:03:33.520 --> 0:03:36.880 to the world, because you can identify as this vase, 0:03:37.160 --> 0:03:39.160 this chair, or my ask when you go to bed 0:03:39.200 --> 0:03:41.360 with somebody, do you want some penis or some vagina? 0:03:41.520 --> 0:03:43.720 You see how easy that is. You can want both. 0:03:44.200 --> 0:03:47.160 But that's more sexuality, not identity. That is I want 0:03:47.200 --> 0:03:50.440 some dick or some pussy or I want both. They 0:03:50.520 --> 0:03:53.200 made it, they made it difficult. I know who I am, 0:03:53.320 --> 0:03:56.800 I know what I desired. You know what you desire sexuality. 0:03:57.200 --> 0:04:01.000 Gender is a fact. Identity is how you feel, but 0:04:01.120 --> 0:04:04.960 sexuality is what you desire. Right, So I identify as 0:04:04.960 --> 0:04:08.320 a transperson. I enjoyed the vagina like you wouldn't believe. 0:04:09.080 --> 0:04:12.640 But and my, my, my, my gender is I was born, 0:04:13.160 --> 0:04:18.520 my verses, my birth certificate says sex, male, black, everything 0:04:18.560 --> 0:04:22.200 else out that came became in life. I created that 0:04:22.600 --> 0:04:24.960 or it was already in me. So it's gonna come anyway. See, 0:04:25.000 --> 0:04:27.440 they're making it so difficult with all the muddy in 0:04:27.440 --> 0:04:29.720 the waters, with all these l g they have stolen 0:04:29.720 --> 0:04:33.880 the entire alphabet, except you know everything is an acronym. 0:04:33.960 --> 0:04:36.000 Well no, then you'll tell you to say no. And 0:04:36.400 --> 0:04:38.599 isn't that that's the only thing that's left. Everything else 0:04:38.640 --> 0:04:44.880 BBT a air party, LGBT, uh l l BT, And 0:04:44.880 --> 0:04:48.680 it's ridiculous. And I know we're tired of the LGBT converse, 0:04:48.720 --> 0:04:53.080 Q conversation, but I will say that I do think 0:04:53.760 --> 0:04:56.320 we've got to have more grace for like people that 0:04:56.360 --> 0:05:00.040 are older generation because people that are non buying, I 0:05:00.120 --> 0:05:04.120 get very angry about mis gendering them. And it's like, there, 0:05:04.560 --> 0:05:06.839 you just said there is no gender. They don't identify 0:05:06.839 --> 0:05:09.120 as anything. So what am I supposed to call you nothing? 0:05:09.200 --> 0:05:13.920 You're nothing. You just said that. They said that they 0:05:13.920 --> 0:05:16.120 don't identify as male or as female. So when I 0:05:16.160 --> 0:05:20.080 see a non boundary person, hey, nothing, because you're nothing. 0:05:20.279 --> 0:05:22.240 And that's not a read, that's not a dig. I'm 0:05:22.279 --> 0:05:29.000 only going on what you just explained. You're working with 0:05:29.000 --> 0:05:32.880 the right one to day you love. I won't get 0:05:32.880 --> 0:05:35.040 to that. Yeah, icebreak, Yeah, let's go to the icebreaker. 0:05:35.279 --> 0:05:40.320 Icebreak at first, spit or swallow for a female on 0:05:40.400 --> 0:05:44.640 a female? What do you everything? I've never I've never swallowed. 0:05:44.680 --> 0:05:50.839 I've never swallowed. You never swallowed ever ever? Wait, I 0:05:50.880 --> 0:05:53.040 mean if he's kind of all right, No, no, I've 0:05:53.080 --> 0:05:56.359 never swallowed, You've never swallowed. I'm not baby sitting your kids. 0:05:56.600 --> 0:06:02.360 Your kids, I got that's called babysitting. I don't baby sit. Goodness, 0:06:02.400 --> 0:06:07.680 Oh wow, I'm not gonna oh millions nine. I love swallowing. 0:06:08.160 --> 0:06:12.000 I actually crave it. But actually maybe recently I'll get 0:06:12.080 --> 0:06:13.919 back to you. So I actually like to put it 0:06:13.960 --> 0:06:15.640 in my mouth and then put it back in yours. 0:06:15.760 --> 0:06:17.680 So how are you gonna complain before the show talking 0:06:17.680 --> 0:06:19.440 about you're not gonna cull your head because what was 0:06:19.480 --> 0:06:23.119 on your sheets? Okay, you've had way worship on your sheets, 0:06:23.120 --> 0:06:29.000 and I watched it and it come out, come out, 0:06:29.120 --> 0:06:32.760 that comes says I do like, what do you prefer 0:06:32.880 --> 0:06:35.240 for you with with your partners? For them? For them? 0:06:35.880 --> 0:06:38.760 Oh I can't even bust off here. They ain't gonna 0:06:38.800 --> 0:06:41.000 do not for me. I'm not gonna catch old school 0:06:41.040 --> 0:06:43.360 seventies nigger. I must be in a trade to the end. 0:06:44.440 --> 0:06:46.360 Do you do you like? Do you like to pull 0:06:46.400 --> 0:06:48.480 out and see it on them? Like? Do you like 0:06:48.880 --> 0:06:52.000 come shot? Space shots? My soldiers are still launching. So 0:06:52.080 --> 0:06:53.960 if I know you ain't on the peel and playing 0:06:54.000 --> 0:06:56.200 B is unavailable, I'm gonna have to play be is 0:06:56.240 --> 0:06:58.840 always available. I pull out game as a motherfucker right now, 0:07:00.320 --> 0:07:02.839 right now. Oh yeah, I got much better than last 0:07:02.839 --> 0:07:08.600 than last two kids. Was damn I was weak. It 0:07:08.960 --> 0:07:13.360 was we magnificent because I know I want the children. Okay, Well, 0:07:13.520 --> 0:07:17.120 with sex, would you rather have sex the only last 0:07:17.160 --> 0:07:22.320 three minutes or only three hours? Huh? Oh? Yeah? Do 0:07:22.360 --> 0:07:24.760 you like, would you rather have sex you have the 0:07:24.800 --> 0:07:26.680 big three minutes or three hours? I can do the 0:07:26.720 --> 0:07:29.520 three hours. You like to go along time for three minutes. 0:07:29.560 --> 0:07:32.240 That's the only to set up. The head needs to 0:07:32.240 --> 0:07:39.960 be about seven to seven to ten minutes with of head. Yeah, well, 0:07:40.000 --> 0:07:43.160 I'm saying what I'm getting, not what I'm giving. You 0:07:43.200 --> 0:07:45.760 asked me what I prefer and I am the dominant 0:07:45.840 --> 0:07:48.520 person in the bed room for the three hours. Can 0:07:48.560 --> 0:07:50.480 you go multiple rounds or you think you can hold 0:07:50.480 --> 0:07:51.880 it for them three hours? Oh? No, I can go 0:07:51.960 --> 0:07:56.440 multiple rounds. My my session is usually my straight penetration section. 0:07:56.640 --> 0:08:00.320 Usually it's a good thirty minutes minute that's straight. That's 0:08:00.320 --> 0:08:03.400 a good amount, and that's position changing and talking my 0:08:03.520 --> 0:08:08.000 ship and want to look at it. That's not your lady. 0:08:08.120 --> 0:08:10.920 You know what's funny about you saying that. My last 0:08:11.000 --> 0:08:13.720 question was would you rather have sex with someone that 0:08:13.760 --> 0:08:20.120 stays completely still or someone who stays completely silent? Now comy, No, 0:08:20.280 --> 0:08:25.520 don't do that. Some people pillow princesses. I don't understand that. 0:08:25.920 --> 0:08:29.600 Like I don't write somebody didn't enjoy Kim Kardashian and 0:08:30.600 --> 0:08:38.600 pillow princes ship both sexes. Have you ever seen a 0:08:38.640 --> 0:08:40.760 good celebrity sex tape, Like is the one that you 0:08:40.760 --> 0:08:43.600 actually did? Like what's the Irish? The black girl who's 0:08:43.600 --> 0:08:46.920 the act after Connor to somebody I know with the 0:08:47.040 --> 0:08:52.840 dark hair? Did not see this one. I didn't talk 0:08:52.920 --> 0:08:55.160 ship to that black girl. Magic, Yes he did. That 0:08:55.240 --> 0:08:59.319 was a good one. That was probably the best. That's 0:08:59.440 --> 0:09:01.600 all like in the Saint so everty sex, No, that 0:09:01.679 --> 0:09:05.640 was a good one. Put it on and he had him. Baby. 0:09:05.640 --> 0:09:07.640 I'm telling you know who watched that tape and learned? 0:09:08.000 --> 0:09:10.959 Prince Harry because whatever, Magan guy, she could change that 0:09:11.040 --> 0:09:14.040 nigga man, I love you, Magan mark change. I want 0:09:14.120 --> 0:09:18.719 what you got. You know what, jay Z cheated. I 0:09:18.800 --> 0:09:21.640 don't want the watch man. I don't want the man 0:09:21.720 --> 0:09:24.559 kept cheating on her and shot her. I don't want 0:09:24.600 --> 0:09:29.000 that coach. You don't want that coach. Riana might have 0:09:29.080 --> 0:09:33.880 some good pussy because here's the thing. Okay, she did 0:09:33.920 --> 0:09:38.200 get the print. The billionaire who did Brihanna stop? Rocky 0:09:38.200 --> 0:09:42.679 ain't now but he's fine though, fine and broke what 0:09:42.720 --> 0:09:47.200 were you broke? Flame? I didn't say he was wrong 0:09:47.280 --> 0:09:50.240 with y'all said a billion No he not. She'd be 0:09:50.280 --> 0:09:54.679 all talking about prince, that Arabian guy way back. Yeah, 0:09:55.720 --> 0:09:57.800 he didn't marry her, so she ain't got the good 0:09:57.800 --> 0:10:00.440 good that Megan got. The ring did you listen to 0:10:00.440 --> 0:10:02.680 me honestly say if you like you put a ring on? 0:10:02.760 --> 0:10:04.480 I know, put a ring on, but I left many 0:10:04.559 --> 0:10:08.880 rings around it. You know what? You know what? You 0:10:08.920 --> 0:10:14.000 know what? Again? I say, whatever, Magan Gap, I didn't 0:10:14.000 --> 0:10:18.240 know that. I'm really surprised you want a sexange. I don't. Oh, 0:10:18.640 --> 0:10:21.720 I said, if if and my boyfriend, my ex workfriend, 0:10:21.720 --> 0:10:23.800 you said it was a fifth, we'd all be drunk. 0:10:24.760 --> 0:10:29.319 Not now for the listeners, they just heard you say 0:10:29.360 --> 0:10:32.160 ex boyfriend. But we know you love pussy. Let's talk 0:10:32.200 --> 0:10:38.040 about what I have. I have always enjoyed what I enjoyed. 0:10:38.040 --> 0:10:40.000 I've never let nobody tell me what I could or 0:10:40.040 --> 0:10:43.720 could not do. Who I was when I was I 0:10:43.800 --> 0:10:46.760 lost my virginity to a brother and sister in the 0:10:46.840 --> 0:10:51.280 same three days to her first he heard us in 0:10:51.320 --> 0:10:52.839 the room, and three days later me and he was 0:10:52.920 --> 0:10:57.520 together when I was fifteen or sixteen? Wait one moment 0:10:57.720 --> 0:11:00.520 did they find out what happened when they found down? 0:11:01.120 --> 0:11:03.760 He was really clearly he knew, But what happened when 0:11:03.800 --> 0:11:05.960 she found out, and she said, I knew he was 0:11:05.960 --> 0:11:07.520 gonna be a freak. I knew he was gonna be 0:11:07.520 --> 0:11:10.920 a freak. She told me that. Wait, she found out 0:11:10.960 --> 0:11:14.000 down the line like years later, years for like two 0:11:14.040 --> 0:11:25.000 weeks the project stop. Both experiences were great, okay, and 0:11:25.640 --> 0:11:28.320 my me being with him, I didn't get penetrated. We 0:11:28.440 --> 0:11:32.920 just fond, you know, did things that boys do. So 0:11:33.520 --> 0:11:36.200 because I didn't actually have penetration until I was like seventeen, 0:11:36.240 --> 0:11:37.840 I was a junior in high school. And I want 0:11:37.840 --> 0:11:39.760 to ask you that too, because you actually said you 0:11:39.920 --> 0:11:42.720 good on dick, like you don't even want it? No, 0:11:42.760 --> 0:11:45.199 I don't. I have no design for I got my 0:11:45.240 --> 0:11:48.560 own dick. Oh that makes sense, But i'd been wanting 0:11:48.559 --> 0:11:50.320 plus even though I got my own plussy, do you 0:11:50.320 --> 0:11:52.400 get you something? Sometimes? Oh? I love me some pussy, 0:11:53.160 --> 0:11:58.120 and so you pussy. It is what again? Sexuality is 0:11:58.160 --> 0:12:00.320 what you desire and then you may not. Of course, 0:12:00.480 --> 0:12:03.200 for three months, I do, I do it first. Yes, 0:12:03.559 --> 0:12:06.120 That's what I'm saying. It is a desire. That's why 0:12:06.160 --> 0:12:08.360 they keep putting all these labels on everything. How do 0:12:08.440 --> 0:12:11.240 you feel? It is nobody's business how you feel and 0:12:11.280 --> 0:12:13.240 what you want. But until you tell them. When you 0:12:13.280 --> 0:12:15.559 tell other people, you have brought other people into your 0:12:15.559 --> 0:12:19.000 being room, my being room secrets, my being room secrets, 0:12:19.040 --> 0:12:26.160 and my partners and we have, don't you know what 0:12:26.200 --> 0:12:30.400 I'm curious about? Two? Because to date trans men obviously 0:12:30.480 --> 0:12:32.960 fulfills the desire of you, And you said you love 0:12:33.040 --> 0:12:35.520 masculine men like you remember you talking about men with 0:12:35.600 --> 0:12:40.240 us when you were first dating. Was it more difficult 0:12:40.320 --> 0:12:43.280 because nowadays it's a lot easier for us to meet 0:12:43.320 --> 0:12:47.120 trans men and get into relationships. Well, my trans men 0:12:47.200 --> 0:12:50.320 did not become very popular into maybe the last ten 0:12:50.400 --> 0:12:54.319 twelve years with a lot of women. They were very 0:12:54.320 --> 0:12:57.000 masculine and study. They still had their boots And I 0:12:57.080 --> 0:12:59.200 love frests. I don't like big breaks. I like I 0:12:59.280 --> 0:13:06.520 like very small people, some little bitty booties, because I've 0:13:06.559 --> 0:13:09.319 only that would have had sex with a big girl 0:13:09.360 --> 0:13:13.320 one time. Wrong with nothing's wrong with it, just was 0:13:13.360 --> 0:13:14.920 not for me. But it makes sense too because you 0:13:14.960 --> 0:13:18.240 also said you're very dominant, very dominant, And I'm not 0:13:18.320 --> 0:13:20.679 a navel watcher. I'm not gonna search for your navel 0:13:20.920 --> 0:13:22.520 if I can't rub it right there, I'm not gonna 0:13:22.559 --> 0:13:25.440 look forward. I'm not gonna And if y'all think that's 0:13:25.480 --> 0:13:27.800 fat shaming, that's not such a thing as fat because 0:13:27.800 --> 0:13:29.920 here's it is the same time it takes to get 0:13:29.960 --> 0:13:31.839 it on, it's the same time it takes to put 0:13:31.880 --> 0:13:33.800 it on. That's not that shaming. You're gonna want. You 0:13:33.840 --> 0:13:35.679 want to lose the weight you exercise, you want to 0:13:35.720 --> 0:13:41.240 gain the way you keep eating. Y'all keep eating, slave slave, 0:13:42.880 --> 0:13:48.439 Give what you need, cash your check. She makes the money. 0:13:48.440 --> 0:13:50.319 We spend the same bit, say the same thing is 0:13:50.440 --> 0:13:54.600 what we're going. So back to ten twelve years. You're 0:13:54.640 --> 0:13:58.680 right transmitted, we're talking. You feel like this is it 0:13:58.760 --> 0:14:02.360 for me? Finally? Yeah, because I don't care what people 0:14:02.400 --> 0:14:04.280 think when we're walking down the street, that I'm a 0:14:04.280 --> 0:14:07.280 gay man, or that that you'll gay that's your boyfriend. 0:14:07.320 --> 0:14:09.320 I don't care what you think. It's not your business 0:14:09.360 --> 0:14:13.479 to me how you feel and what you My presentation 0:14:13.640 --> 0:14:16.319 is this so and I have me and lusted after me. 0:14:16.440 --> 0:14:18.640 Hear me when I tell you you're never gonna get 0:14:18.679 --> 0:14:20.920 a win. If there is not a vaginity in the room, 0:14:21.240 --> 0:14:24.560 nothing will happen, including me. Stand have you had a 0:14:24.600 --> 0:14:27.720 lot of transmitt that you've dated struggle with being no 0:14:27.840 --> 0:14:31.640 touch or not being comfortable being penetrated, Like, have you 0:14:31.640 --> 0:14:34.520 had to work through that? Absolutely not. You know exactly 0:14:34.560 --> 0:14:36.880 what you're getting when you come to my restaurant. You 0:14:36.960 --> 0:14:39.320 see what's on the menu. Everything comes with a pickle, 0:14:39.560 --> 0:14:43.400 everything not. Everything come with a state, comes with a 0:14:43.480 --> 0:14:52.520 per Eggs come with a pickle. No insane and I 0:14:52.560 --> 0:14:54.760 love it. I'm eating this up. Hey girl, you better 0:14:54.800 --> 0:14:57.239 be over there with the tom stamps like a motherfucker. 0:14:58.400 --> 0:15:01.440 Damn goddamn well. I wanted to get a starlit ship 0:15:01.920 --> 0:15:03.480 and this will get us a little bit some more 0:15:05.160 --> 0:15:08.480 talk to get back to the trend. So and I 0:15:08.520 --> 0:15:11.520 think what has happened with transpant because transmanting, I'm not 0:15:11.560 --> 0:15:14.440 out here screaming and yelling for acceptance and see me 0:15:14.480 --> 0:15:18.560 and here transmit a chill. They have accepted who they are. 0:15:18.720 --> 0:15:21.560 They embrace who and what they are. I'm sorry a 0:15:21.560 --> 0:15:23.760 lot of my other people part of the community. You 0:15:23.760 --> 0:15:25.960 know you're holding this fag and fighting for something that 0:15:26.440 --> 0:15:29.360 we see you. I have been a comedian for twenty 0:15:29.440 --> 0:15:32.680 years and I am so respected in the industry because 0:15:32.760 --> 0:15:35.320 I never forced my way in the room. I let 0:15:35.400 --> 0:15:38.360 it happen organically. They treat me like one of the others. 0:15:38.360 --> 0:15:40.080 They see me as a girl, but they treat me 0:15:40.160 --> 0:15:42.040 like one of the which is all I ever wanted. 0:15:42.160 --> 0:15:43.920 That's a very secure man that treats you like that. 0:15:44.640 --> 0:15:48.240 And well that was the problems and the and then 0:15:48.360 --> 0:15:52.280 once trans people and gay people became so transparent on 0:15:52.360 --> 0:15:55.760 TV and we everywhere now so I think it helped 0:15:55.960 --> 0:15:59.720 because it made people less fearful. But now the directions 0:15:59.720 --> 0:16:02.440 seem to be changing because now so many of the 0:16:02.560 --> 0:16:06.480 LGBT community in my own community, not everyone are angry, 0:16:06.720 --> 0:16:11.400 but frans men are its no, no, no, but they're 0:16:11.440 --> 0:16:18.200 more passable. Trans women have a lot of beauties out here. 0:16:20.160 --> 0:16:22.600 We got some beauty. No I'm not saying we don't. 0:16:22.640 --> 0:16:24.800 I'm just saying, like, it's a lot easier to live 0:16:24.800 --> 0:16:26.560 in the life of a trans man than trans women. 0:16:27.320 --> 0:16:32.480 That trans women die at insane trans women who let's 0:16:32.520 --> 0:16:34.640 open that Candra oms, please don't because they already hate 0:16:34.640 --> 0:16:42.760 me anyway. Close. Trans people myself included, keep forgetting not 0:16:42.880 --> 0:16:48.120 me on this one. Acceptance. Acceptance is a blueprint that 0:16:48.280 --> 0:16:52.960 starts with you. Period. I'm not looking for you to 0:16:53.040 --> 0:16:56.160 accept me. We see if you don't fuck you. This 0:16:56.240 --> 0:16:59.040 is my mouth. This is my motto. I accept me. 0:16:59.320 --> 0:17:01.840 The hardest hard is dealing with you when you looking 0:17:01.840 --> 0:17:03.920 at me. Or we all got other people living in us. 0:17:04.160 --> 0:17:06.359 You know your other personalities that nobody else don't know. 0:17:06.400 --> 0:17:08.280 You know the wicked thought you when you looking at me, 0:17:08.359 --> 0:17:10.960 or you better give them their time. You see them people, 0:17:11.000 --> 0:17:13.400 I see all my personalities. A lot of people don't 0:17:13.400 --> 0:17:15.520 say I ain't that wrong with me. I'm fine. Any 0:17:15.560 --> 0:17:17.920 person that tells you ain't sipped wrong with them? Run 0:17:18.040 --> 0:17:21.000 Forest Run? But why do you think trans women are not? 0:17:21.080 --> 0:17:23.280 Just because I speak the truth. Because I am a 0:17:23.320 --> 0:17:27.800 female person, I admire women, even if I got I 0:17:27.920 --> 0:17:31.479 never wanted to be a biological female. Let me say that, okay, 0:17:31.480 --> 0:17:34.159 and I speak up because I didn't learn how to 0:17:34.200 --> 0:17:40.240 be a girl feminine watching the Man. I watched women, sisters, mother, grandma, aunties. 0:17:40.840 --> 0:17:46.080 Most gay people, most trans women. As young boys, they're 0:17:46.160 --> 0:17:50.040 best friend was always a girl, a female. The first 0:17:50.040 --> 0:17:52.800 person they really told how they felt about somebody else, 0:17:53.119 --> 0:17:56.399 usually ninety percent at the time, was a female. But 0:17:56.480 --> 0:17:59.639 when they found their transgenderism or when they found their gay, 0:18:00.119 --> 0:18:02.000 then they better than the girl that they came out to. 0:18:02.080 --> 0:18:04.760 Do you understand what I mean, it's fucked up, and 0:18:04.800 --> 0:18:06.399 they hate that. I put the ship right in the 0:18:06.440 --> 0:18:08.399 box and put a nice bowl on it and deliver 0:18:08.440 --> 0:18:10.640 it to him, because that's the truth. You come out 0:18:10.680 --> 0:18:12.480 if I came me and you grew up together, and 0:18:12.520 --> 0:18:14.720 I'm twelve years old and I tell you, we say 0:18:14.720 --> 0:18:17.000 I feel I like boys, I like I like David, 0:18:17.480 --> 0:18:19.960 but that's not a secret. But then when I discover 0:18:20.320 --> 0:18:22.879 that David like me back, and I'm gay and I'm open, 0:18:22.920 --> 0:18:25.199 and I'm proud, or you ain't good enough for me, 0:18:25.520 --> 0:18:27.320 but you were the person that came out to and 0:18:27.400 --> 0:18:29.720 now I want to be you. I am emulating a 0:18:29.760 --> 0:18:33.199 woman I learned watching you do your hair, watching you 0:18:33.240 --> 0:18:35.960 do your makeup. Just don't forget it. It's all I'm saying. 0:18:36.040 --> 0:18:38.280 It's not saying that we are better than y'all women, 0:18:38.320 --> 0:18:40.400 or women are better than us. Women are the blueprint. 0:18:40.520 --> 0:18:43.720 Understand that I will never disredded that women are the blueprint. 0:18:44.320 --> 0:18:48.679 But don't forget we all came from a woman. It's 0:18:48.680 --> 0:18:51.080 also crazy that you say that, because there's been conversations 0:18:51.119 --> 0:18:55.119 recently and Saucy Santana said it that women's blueprint is 0:18:55.160 --> 0:18:58.800 now gay men, that gay men are are the blueprint 0:18:58.840 --> 0:19:00.800 for how to be a woman, how to do makeup, 0:19:00.840 --> 0:19:03.640 how to dress, and so it's interesting hearing you say that, 0:19:03.920 --> 0:19:07.320 just because, on the other hand, this is where men are. 0:19:07.600 --> 0:19:10.399 Gay men specifically are coming out saying that we we 0:19:10.480 --> 0:19:13.960 emulate them. Gave men wearing the persons and the beards 0:19:14.040 --> 0:19:17.280 and walking around with the makeup phone. It's fifteen years old. 0:19:18.320 --> 0:19:22.199 Women were brought here to breed from Africa. Women have 0:19:22.440 --> 0:19:25.840 always and will always be the blue blueprint. Did you 0:19:25.880 --> 0:19:28.880 hear who you used as a reference? Exactly? I ain't 0:19:28.880 --> 0:19:31.320 even gotta respond to did you hear who you used 0:19:31.720 --> 0:19:33.720 as a reference? I'm just saying he just said it. 0:19:33.880 --> 0:19:39.960 I didn't agree a lot of unt Yes. Well, well 0:19:40.200 --> 0:19:43.560 here's the thing. So it's called recycled. We stole how 0:19:43.600 --> 0:19:46.159 to be feminine, how to wear hair, makeup from women, 0:19:46.440 --> 0:19:49.480 y'all just still in our language, our dialect. So it 0:19:49.640 --> 0:19:52.560 is a shared process. And until we reached that plateau 0:19:52.600 --> 0:19:54.840 is saying, I'm sharing who I am with you, and 0:19:54.880 --> 0:19:57.199 now you you live in my life and I'm living yours. 0:19:57.760 --> 0:20:00.000 Why can't be a circle? Whe has to be competitions, 0:20:00.000 --> 0:20:05.600 not competition. Women are doing the whole bequeen. How do 0:20:05.640 --> 0:20:08.080 you feel about women that are like taking over a 0:20:08.119 --> 0:20:11.320 lot of gay spaces that don't For example, the drag Brunches, 0:20:11.640 --> 0:20:14.240 you barely see any men there, You barely see any 0:20:14.240 --> 0:20:16.280 gay people. I mean, I love going there because a 0:20:16.280 --> 0:20:18.520 lot of women don't have spaces where a they can 0:20:18.560 --> 0:20:20.720 go where they don't feel like they're being harassed or 0:20:20.800 --> 0:20:22.879 hit on. It's a safe space for me and my 0:20:22.920 --> 0:20:25.000 friends to offer to be around. Club supposed to be 0:20:25.000 --> 0:20:26.920 a safe space for you or a space save space 0:20:26.920 --> 0:20:30.200 for gay pe interesting, it's different, different to say what's 0:20:30.240 --> 0:20:32.560 safe now. Look at the clock at the Posts in Florida. 0:20:32.720 --> 0:20:34.440 They shot it up. So if you just hanging out 0:20:34.440 --> 0:20:36.919 with your girlfriend. So if you just hanging out with 0:20:36.920 --> 0:20:38.560 your girlfriend at the club because you wanted to get 0:20:38.600 --> 0:20:40.840 away from the men or somebody who hate gay people 0:20:40.840 --> 0:20:42.639 coming and shoot up the club, you just happened to 0:20:42.640 --> 0:20:45.439 be there on that bad night and your collateral damage. 0:20:46.040 --> 0:20:48.560 I think that the recent drag shows are so popular 0:20:48.640 --> 0:20:50.840 is because women love to look and I love when 0:20:50.880 --> 0:20:52.600 you go to a good drag show and you see 0:20:52.680 --> 0:20:57.040 female impersonators, girls that look like women, Sasha Kobe's Mimi Marks. 0:20:57.560 --> 0:21:01.159 You know, people like that as opposed to all of 0:21:01.200 --> 0:21:04.840 the clowns. Because there's a lot of clown drags. It 0:21:05.560 --> 0:21:08.679 has become popular. But are you laughing with me or 0:21:08.800 --> 0:21:11.359 at me? How do you feel about women drag queens? 0:21:12.720 --> 0:21:15.120 I think the great email was Wendy Hope. Wendy Hoe 0:21:15.160 --> 0:21:17.160 used to work with us here when I did direct 0:21:17.160 --> 0:21:19.680 your usually the direct shows here and she's sang lab 0:21:19.800 --> 0:21:23.960 and she why not? Why not if we learned how 0:21:24.000 --> 0:21:26.080 to be feminine and be a woman from a woman, 0:21:26.119 --> 0:21:28.200 why not have a woman be a partnership? What is 0:21:28.240 --> 0:21:30.920 that taken away from your talent or you're that's interesting? 0:21:30.960 --> 0:21:34.560 And I wasn't aware that women were doing d there's 0:21:34.760 --> 0:21:37.679 not a female female and person that they let one 0:21:37.680 --> 0:21:40.639 on Drag Race recently is that she was identified as 0:21:40.680 --> 0:21:43.600 a trans transit, but she definitely was not a transmit. 0:21:43.800 --> 0:21:46.439 That was not a good representation of a tran She 0:21:46.720 --> 0:21:54.080 phipthy and but they now they're gonna they're gonna have 0:21:54.200 --> 0:21:56.320 a trans woman on there this year. That's gonna blow 0:21:56.359 --> 0:21:58.000 I can't say it, but she's gonna blow you all out. 0:21:58.359 --> 0:22:01.600 I can't wait. I love perfect person for the first 0:22:01.640 --> 0:22:03.680 trans woman for them to have on drag I stopped 0:22:03.680 --> 0:22:05.880 watching Dragway she years ago because they didn't have any 0:22:05.880 --> 0:22:08.239 trains women on there. If you don't do representation, how 0:22:08.240 --> 0:22:10.880 are you gonna keep asking representation and you're not doing 0:22:10.880 --> 0:22:13.720 it in your own community? This is the first trans woman, 0:22:13.960 --> 0:22:16.720 or it's just very first, and all of the sea 0:22:17.200 --> 0:22:23.199 everyone everybody else was gay boys until after they're taping, 0:22:23.240 --> 0:22:27.480 and then they got on hormones and identified as trains. Wow. Wow, 0:22:27.520 --> 0:22:29.359 I didn't know that because you couldn't sit in the 0:22:29.440 --> 0:22:31.399