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Speaker 1: How you doing? What is this same regards to? How

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Speaker 1: So what's up? Well a lot um? Yeah, we're gonna

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Speaker 1: good point, Brook, Mike. Are you single? Yeah? I'm single? Now?

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Speaker 1: you were cheating, Mike, you both were cheating. I may

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Speaker 1: but what she did is worse than what I did. OK.

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Speaker 1: But no, that was a Shakespeare quote. That was Shakespeare.

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Speaker 1: That is one percent. I'm not true and you're stupid

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Speaker 1: because I would have gone out with you. Again, I

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