Speaker 1: Second date up date. Normally, when we do these second
Speaker 1: date calls, people are asking for help with the person
Speaker 1: they went out with a few days ago, maybe a
Speaker 1: couple of weeks back, sometimes even up to a month,
Speaker 1: and they're disappointed the other person isn't responding. But one
Speaker 1: of our listeners, Bo says he wants to reconnect with
Speaker 1: a girl through us that he hasn't seen or spoken
Speaker 1: to in almost two years. WHOA, So this is probably
Speaker 1: going to be interesting. I'm curious to know what the
Speaker 1: story is. Yeh, Bo, welcome to the show.
Speaker 2: Hey, thanks guys.
Speaker 1: Now, Okay, I understand playing hard to get, but two
Speaker 1: years it's a little extreme.
Speaker 3: So you guys wait two days to call, I wait
Speaker 3: two years?
Speaker 1: Why wait that long to reach out?
Speaker 2: Well, let me give you a little bit of background. Okay,
Speaker 2: So this happened when I was on vacation in Mexico
Speaker 2: two years ago and she was also on vacation. She
Speaker 2: was there with a friend. I was there with a
Speaker 2: group of buddies. It was a cabo and the whole
Speaker 2: place kind of had these like spring break vibes.
Speaker 4: Yeah, party party town.
Speaker 2: Yeah, party city, lots of booze, all that sort of stuff.
Speaker 1: Okay, so this is already a lot different than a
Speaker 1: lot of the second days where we do where people
Speaker 1: are meeting on apps and stuff. You're meeting on a
Speaker 1: spring break basically.
Speaker 2: Yeah. So we go into this one bar and I
Speaker 2: see these two girls that are sitting down at the
Speaker 2: other end of the bar. One of them I thought
Speaker 2: was really cute. And the thing about them that I
Speaker 2: noticed was they seemed like kind of out of place
Speaker 2: because they weren't partying like crazy like everybody else. And Okay,
Speaker 2: I like that because I wasn't going too hard either.
Speaker 2: That's not so much my scene.
Speaker 3: Like, yeah, so they were entering the wet t shirt contest,
Speaker 3: they were just taking themselves.
Speaker 2: They were having a cocktail, they were being chill, you.
Speaker 1: Know, and Jeff so bored right now, Well, now someone
Speaker 1: has to babysit. I understand responsible people.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's a good point too. So did you go
Speaker 4: talk to them? I assume, yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So I go over there, I sit down. Let's
Speaker 2: start talking to the girl that I think is really cute, Shila. Yeah,
Speaker 2: and we sort of bonded over that we were both
Speaker 2: the two lame ones in this crazy groom.
Speaker 1: It's kind of funny.
Speaker 2: So we talk, you know, we learn like where we're
Speaker 2: from and like what we do and all this stuff.
Speaker 2: And it turns out we're staying at the same hotel.
Speaker 3: Okay, whoa are you guys from the same city or no?
Speaker 4: I mean, are we going to try to get a
Speaker 4: hold of her across the country.
Speaker 2: She's from a different state. She's from a different state.
Speaker 4: Oh, okay, interesting, Okay.
Speaker 2: I don't know what I was thinking. I was just
Speaker 2: I was into this girl, and so I told her
Speaker 2: my room number, and I was like, Hey, why do
Speaker 2: you hit me up tomorrow and let's go get lunch.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's cool, very sober way to ask somebody out
Speaker 1: in Cabo.
Speaker 4: Well, it's not very forward.
Speaker 3: I mean, like honestly, like you're in Cabo, your party
Speaker 3: and even if you're not going as hard like I
Speaker 3: would just think hook up, right, Like, that's what I say.
Speaker 1: I thought the story was not like a lunch date
Speaker 1: the following you say, here's my room number. That yes,
Speaker 1: there's some implication there, maybe not with bow and shade.
Speaker 4: Would you like to go get some fresh squeeze juice
Speaker 4: in the morning?
Speaker 2: Ways say good night? Middle of the night, he called my.
Speaker 4: Room yeah, exactly what you were hoping for, being.
Speaker 2: Honest, Well, yeah, but it didn't turn out that way.
Speaker 2: So she called in the room. She is freaking out.
Speaker 1: Why.
Speaker 2: He tells me there's like these drunk dudes that are
Speaker 2: banging on her door and scaring her and a friend.
Speaker 4: Oh my god, that's scary.
Speaker 2: Yeah. So I get dressed, I go to her room.
Speaker 1: Oh you went good.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're just gonna go back to bed.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm not going to intervene. I'm gonna get
Speaker 1: like hotel security or something. I don't want to get involved.
Speaker 4: That is a smart thing to do, is hotel security.
Speaker 4: One dude against a group of men, like, you're not
Speaker 4: going to back like that.
Speaker 1: One of the most romantic things you could do is
Speaker 1: get beat up for a girl before. So, how many
Speaker 1: bones you should try to fight? How many bones did
Speaker 1: you break bow when you went and tried to stop
Speaker 1: the drunk guys?
Speaker 2: Well, no bones were broken. There were there were like
Speaker 2: four or five dudes and they were just being told
Speaker 2: I guess that they'd like seen them earlier in the
Speaker 2: day in the room and they.
Speaker 4: Were that's scary.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was super weird. So I go down and
Speaker 2: I tell them to get the hell out of there,
Speaker 2: and they did.
Speaker 1: They left nice.
Speaker 4: Okay, I bet she was so grateful. Did you talk to.
Speaker 2: Her she was, yeah, you know, she of course heard
Speaker 2: the whole thing to the doors. She liked that, and
Speaker 2: she asked so she could come back to my room.
Speaker 2: She did, and then we ended up making out.
Speaker 4: Yeah you did, You're a hero.
Speaker 2: It was a good makeout session. But that's it. That's
Speaker 2: all we did.
Speaker 4: Okay, that's cute.
Speaker 2: So I got her number and that was it. But
Speaker 2: the thing is, I didn't see her the rest of
Speaker 2: the trip at all, Like I tried, but either she
Speaker 2: wasn't in a room when I tried calling a room,
Speaker 2: or she didn't and she never texts to be back.
Speaker 2: And I called her one time after I got back
Speaker 2: home and she didn't pick up and I left her
Speaker 2: voicemail and that was that. It was two years ago.
Speaker 4: Are you sure she was single?
Speaker 3: You know, like she got wrapped up in the moment
Speaker 3: she only kissed you, and then she was just like,
Speaker 3: oh my god, I did something terrible.
Speaker 1: That happened on Brooks last Mexican and my.
Speaker 4: Husband was with me.
Speaker 1: Yes, awkward.
Speaker 4: Did you ask her if she was single?
Speaker 2: Well no, no, I just sort of assumed if she wasn't,
Speaker 2: she wasn't going to do anything.
Speaker 3: Its two years now, so even if she got single,
Speaker 3: she's I mean.
Speaker 1: And I think the rule in Cancun is everybody is
Speaker 1: single in Cabo. Oh well that's a different that's a
Speaker 1: whole different business.
Speaker 4: Yeah, they have a different rules.
Speaker 1: This is crazy, though, because you haven't seen or spoken
Speaker 1: to her in two years, and now we're going to
Speaker 1: reach out randomly out of the blue to see if
Speaker 1: she remembers you.
Speaker 4: Yeah, how are we even going to say, like Nick
Speaker 4: from Cabo? Do you that's it?
Speaker 1: Well, well yeah, his name's Bo, so that would help.
Speaker 2: Maybe she also had a Nick in Cabo. Maybe that's
Speaker 2: why she's not calling.
Speaker 1: Oh no, she's like, oh my god, love, that's the
Speaker 1: one that Brooke made out with on her family baking.
Speaker 2: Sorry, okay, you know, look, I know it's a long shot.
Speaker 2: It was so long ago, but I figure if anybody
Speaker 2: can do it, you guys can.
Speaker 4: So okay. And she wasn't drinking, so she should remember.
Speaker 4: I think she was drinking. She wasn't drinking as hard. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 4: it wasn't like that.
Speaker 2: She wasn't crazy like that.
Speaker 1: No, she was just injecting stuff. It was fine. So
Speaker 1: we're gonna come back. We'll call Sheila and try and
Speaker 1: get you your second date update two years after you
Speaker 1: last saw her, right after this, she's still in right now,
Speaker 1: hold on second date update. For most young single people,
Speaker 1: a trip to Cabo is all about to keep the
Speaker 1: shops wet, t shirt contests, getting your wallet stolen on.
Speaker 4: The beach, right, Yeah, but I have my passport to that.
Speaker 1: It's not an authentic Mexican trip if you're not robbed somehow.
Speaker 1: But that wasn't the case for our listener Bo. The
Speaker 1: only thing stolen from him was his heart when he
Speaker 1: met a woman named Sheila at a bar there two
Speaker 1: years ago. And the craziest part, they were both sober
Speaker 1: when this all happened.
Speaker 3: Sober ish, Jeff. They both were drinking cocktails. They just
Speaker 3: were as wasted as their friends.
Speaker 1: Even still, that's shocking, and Bo has thought about her
Speaker 1: ever since that trip has never been able to reach her.
Speaker 1: That's why he wants us to try and do it
Speaker 1: for him today.
Speaker 4: I don't know that we asked what motivated you to
Speaker 4: finally take this step?
Speaker 2: I you know, I just had a birthday, and I went,
Speaker 2: I'm not getting any younger.
Speaker 1: Tell her that desperation us all at some point. Okay,
Speaker 1: we're just gonna go with the more romantic version of
Speaker 1: that story.
Speaker 4: You have yet.
Speaker 1: And a still of your hair or whatever it is? No, no, no,
Speaker 1: jeff Well, somewhere in the middle of those is what
Speaker 1: we're gonna go with. Yeah, okay, you ready to do this?
Speaker 5: Man.
Speaker 1: You haven't talked to her in two years.
Speaker 4: And don't be insulted if she doesn't remember who you are.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Brooke doesn't even remember who you are. And we
Speaker 1: talked to you five minutes ago.
Speaker 4: So his name is is right, I'm strong and strappy,
Speaker 4: and it is what he told us. Remember, he's a
Speaker 4: hero that took on four to five men.
Speaker 1: It's a little much, but I like it. Here we go.
Speaker 1: I'm dialing Shila right now.
Speaker 2: Hello.
Speaker 1: Hi, we're looking for Shilah.
Speaker 5: Yeah, this is she.
Speaker 1: It's okay. You don't have to be afraid.
Speaker 4: Oh, I don't know. This would be such a weird
Speaker 4: call to.
Speaker 1: Get We're just a friendly morning radio show called Brook
Speaker 1: and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 4: Hey, Shila, Hey, oh this again.
Speaker 1: I can do that. We have to get there first,
Speaker 1: So I'm really sorry to interrupt you whatever you're doing, Sheila,
Speaker 1: but we're trying to help out one of our listeners
Speaker 1: with a segment called second Date Update. Okay, okay, and
Speaker 1: this is a guy that you met two years ago
Speaker 1: on a trip to Mexico.
Speaker 4: While she says, wow, yeah, you were in Cabo.
Speaker 5: Yeah that was that was a long time ago. Oh
Speaker 5: oh my god, Oh my god.
Speaker 1: Oh so there's this guy named Bo that you hung
Speaker 1: out with a little bit.
Speaker 5: Yeah. Yeah, Oh my god.
Speaker 3: He's a guy who rescued you from all those men
Speaker 3: pounding on your door, which I can't believe would be
Speaker 3: so scary.
Speaker 5: Oh my god. Yes, that was such a long time ago.
Speaker 5: I hadn't really thought about this guy forever.
Speaker 4: Oh that's okay.
Speaker 3: Well now you're thinking about him now, and he sun
Speaker 3: You sound happy that the memory.
Speaker 5: Kind of, but like, so much has happened since then.
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, what is this about.
Speaker 1: Well, this whole segment is about seeing if you remembered Bo,
Speaker 1: because I don't know if you know this, but after
Speaker 1: your trip ended, both said, he tried to reach you.
Speaker 5: Right right, Yeah, But like back then, everything was so complicated.
Speaker 4: I mean, we knew you were in a relationship, weren't you.
Speaker 5: God, I was engaged at the time.
Speaker 3: Oh god, Oh my god, girl, Well you were engaged.
Speaker 4: Wait does that when you're married? Are you married?
Speaker 5: No? I was engaged to two guys actually.
Speaker 4: At the same time. God casually.
Speaker 5: Okay, So like back then, I was a hot met
Speaker 5: and I did a study abroad in Italy and I
Speaker 5: met this guy and we hit it off and he
Speaker 5: ended up proposing and I said yes because I felt bad.
Speaker 4: Oh wow, you said yes because you felt bad? Yeah, yes,
Speaker 4: that's what I was going to say.
Speaker 5: I mean I was leaving and I was like, yeah,
Speaker 5: I'll marry you, and then, you know, I laughed, and
Speaker 5: then I never talked to him again.
Speaker 3: Oh okay, waiting, I did get anything that was a
Speaker 3: nice gratuity from my track culture.
Speaker 1: That's one proposal. How did the where is the second proposal?
Speaker 5: So I leave Italy and I go home to my
Speaker 5: other boyfriend and you missed me and he proposed, and I,
Speaker 5: you know, I said yes.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Wow.
Speaker 3: So then you went to Cabo while you're engaged to
Speaker 3: two men and made out with bo yes, which.
Speaker 5: Made things even more complicated, and I felt so horrible
Speaker 5: about it.
Speaker 1: Well, you're lucky Bowden proposed to you, because you probably
Speaker 1: would have said yes to that too.
Speaker 5: Maybe maybe in my life.
Speaker 4: So wait, did you end up getting married to anyone?
Speaker 5: I know they both fell through like karma eventually caught
Speaker 5: up to me. I guess.
Speaker 1: Wait, okay, so what's your relationship status now?
Speaker 5: I'm casually dating someone. It's nothing serious.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but to him, he's like mom, dad, just casual
Speaker 1: relationship with my husband. It's like, not that scenious.
Speaker 4: It's hard. I mean, honestly though, it's hard to trust you.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it is, I guess, but I told you the truth.
Speaker 5: I'm an open book.
Speaker 1: Now, Okay, why would you make up all that embarrassing
Speaker 1: stuff about yourself?
Speaker 2: I believer?
Speaker 1: Yeah, well you know what, that is definitely kind of
Speaker 1: an embarrassing story. It's nice that you were able to
Speaker 1: tell us the truth here. So now it's our turn
Speaker 1: to tell you the truth. The truth is we want
Speaker 1: to help you bring back some of your past right
Speaker 1: now by fling bow Is on the phone right now,
Speaker 1: listening to this conversation, wanting to talk to you.
Speaker 5: Should I hang.
Speaker 3: Up right now?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 2: There I am here.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're acted like bo is going to be excited
Speaker 3: after hearing all of that, Like, yeah, Bo.
Speaker 2: That was that was a lot. Uh. So let me
Speaker 2: get this straight. So when we hung out two years ago,
Speaker 2: you were engaged to two different guys, one of whom
Speaker 2: you weren't even really talking to anymore.
Speaker 5: Well, right, I'm no longer talking to any of them.
Speaker 5: But Hi, by the way, Hi.
Speaker 2: It's very good to hear your voice. And I really
Speaker 2: like hanging out with you. And I know it's crazy because,
Speaker 2: like you said, literally all we did was make out
Speaker 2: one night, But I just I can't. I can't stop
Speaker 2: thinking about you, and I guess you're.
Speaker 5: Still thinking about me.
Speaker 4: Did you just laugh?
Speaker 2: Wait? I mean, but like, can I ask did you
Speaker 2: even like me?
Speaker 3: Like?
Speaker 2: Were you actually into me? Or was this just a
Speaker 2: nothing thing?
Speaker 5: Or I I mean, I like you enough to make
Speaker 5: out with you.
Speaker 2: I mean, this is a lot.
Speaker 5: Right now.
Speaker 1: It's hard because you were You weren't just the other guy, Bo,
Speaker 1: you were the other other guy. Yeah, so you were
Speaker 1: you were.
Speaker 5: Mister right now, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: It hurts so bad, but it's true.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I get it.
Speaker 5: It's really sweet of you. I thought about.
Speaker 1: You, and he's gone like he's gone through all of
Speaker 1: this effort reaching out to our show that this is
Speaker 1: a pretty complicated process in order to get this done.
Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, we probably should have done this as
Speaker 1: a closure call. Well think about it. He kept your
Speaker 1: number for years just in case, hoping he could use.
Speaker 4: It any number who deletes a contact.
Speaker 3: I mean that happens, friend.
Speaker 2: I mean, I guess I was just gonna sort of
Speaker 2: ask Sheila, you know, I mean I I did take
Speaker 2: in the fact that you were single. Yes, that did
Speaker 2: register with me, and I tingle.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it wasn't like fully single.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess in this whole scenario, kind of single
Speaker 2: is essentially single casual relationship.
Speaker 1: Sure.
Speaker 2: No, I guess I was just gonna say, like, this
Speaker 2: whole thing has been the biggest long shot ever. And
Speaker 2: I know we don't live in the same city and
Speaker 2: all that, and I don't know about logistics or any
Speaker 2: of that stuff, but like, would you be open to
Speaker 2: like some kind of a long distance.
Speaker 1: Dating thing, And if you're open to that idea of
Speaker 1: possibly making it work, then we would love to help
Speaker 1: facilitate that by paying for your official first date.
Speaker 4: I mean not because I've.
Speaker 3: Also been told long distance relationships don't need too much.
Speaker 4: Trust, it's very It might be just their type.
Speaker 1: Acaila. This You've had two failed proposals, but the third
Speaker 1: times the charm is what they say.
Speaker 4: To that.
Speaker 3: Okay, she'll say yes, yeah, unless her casual relationship proposes
Speaker 3: first the four.
Speaker 5: You know what I say, Let's give it a shot.
Speaker 4: I bet.
Speaker 1: He enthusiastic. Yeah, good, I'd like to follow up. So
Speaker 1: we're getting rid of the side guy.
Speaker 5: Right by the time we go on a day, he'll
Speaker 5: be history. Don't worry about it.
Speaker 2: The great, thank you, Thank you, guys.
Speaker 1: Congratulations, bo you're mister right now again. Yeah, they'll take it,
Speaker 1: Take it, Rookie Jeffrey in the morning. If there was
Speaker 1: a children's fairy tale about their story, and there really
Speaker 1: should be, it would be called the Girl who Couldn't
Speaker 1: Say No. She went into the fraternity house late at night.
Speaker 1: This frat bro is too swoll, this frat bro is
Speaker 1: too thin on. This frat bro is just right. I'm
Speaker 1: going to marry them all, and they all lived happily.
Speaker 1: She left, goodbye. Where is that children's fairy tale book?
Speaker 4: Please don't write it.
Speaker 3: And you guys were so glossying over the fact that
Speaker 3: she's not even single.
Speaker 1: Yes, so casual.
Speaker 3: When you have a person who is engaged two people
Speaker 3: at once and making out with another one, I don't
Speaker 3: know how much she would trust her reception of casuals.
Speaker 1: Trust yes. I feel like they need to go back
Speaker 1: to Cabo together and finish what they started. Officially, maybe we.
Speaker 4: Should do the show live.
Speaker 1: Because of their day, someone has to translate Spanish for
Speaker 1: me though. I mean, you never know. It could actually
Speaker 1: work out, but make sure you go check out all
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