WEBVTT - Second Date Update: I'm Cabo Single

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<v Speaker 1>Second date up date. Normally, when we do these second

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<v Speaker 1>date calls, people are asking for help with the person

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<v Speaker 1>they went out with a few days ago, maybe a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of weeks back, sometimes even up to a month,

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<v Speaker 1>and they're disappointed the other person isn't responding. But one

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<v Speaker 1>of our listeners, Bo says he wants to reconnect with

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<v Speaker 1>a girl through us that he hasn't seen or spoken

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<v Speaker 1>to in almost two years. WHOA, So this is probably

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<v Speaker 1>going to be interesting. I'm curious to know what the

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<v Speaker 1>story is. Yeh, Bo, welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, thanks guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, Okay, I understand playing hard to get, but two

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<v Speaker 1>years it's a little extreme.

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<v Speaker 3>So you guys wait two days to call, I wait

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<v Speaker 3>two years?

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<v Speaker 1>Why wait that long to reach out?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, let me give you a little bit of background. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>So this happened when I was on vacation in Mexico

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<v Speaker 2>two years ago and she was also on vacation. She

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<v Speaker 2>was there with a friend. I was there with a

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<v Speaker 2>group of buddies. It was a cabo and the whole

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<v Speaker 2>place kind of had these like spring break vibes.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, party party town.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, party city, lots of booze, all that sort of stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so this is already a lot different than a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of the second days where we do where people

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<v Speaker 1>are meeting on apps and stuff. You're meeting on a

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<v Speaker 1>spring break basically.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. So we go into this one bar and I

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<v Speaker 2>see these two girls that are sitting down at the

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<v Speaker 2>other end of the bar. One of them I thought

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<v Speaker 2>was really cute. And the thing about them that I

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<v Speaker 2>noticed was they seemed like kind of out of place

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<v Speaker 2>because they weren't partying like crazy like everybody else. And Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I like that because I wasn't going too hard either.

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<v Speaker 2>That's not so much my scene.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, yeah, so they were entering the wet t shirt contest,

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<v Speaker 3>they were just taking themselves.

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<v Speaker 2>They were having a cocktail, they were being chill, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, and Jeff so bored right now, Well, now someone

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<v Speaker 1>has to babysit. I understand responsible people.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's a good point too. So did you go

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<v Speaker 4>talk to them? I assume, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So I go over there, I sit down. Let's

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<v Speaker 2>start talking to the girl that I think is really cute, Shila. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and we sort of bonded over that we were both

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<v Speaker 2>the two lame ones in this crazy groom.

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<v Speaker 1>It's kind of funny.

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<v Speaker 2>So we talk, you know, we learn like where we're

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<v Speaker 2>from and like what we do and all this stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>And it turns out we're staying at the same hotel.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, whoa are you guys from the same city or no?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, are we going to try to get a

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<v Speaker 4>hold of her across the country.

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<v Speaker 2>She's from a different state. She's from a different state.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, okay, interesting, Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what I was thinking. I was just

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<v Speaker 2>I was into this girl, and so I told her

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<v Speaker 2>my room number, and I was like, Hey, why do

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<v Speaker 2>you hit me up tomorrow and let's go get lunch.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's cool, very sober way to ask somebody out

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<v Speaker 1>in Cabo.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, it's not very forward.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, like honestly, like you're in Cabo, your party

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<v Speaker 3>and even if you're not going as hard like I

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<v Speaker 3>would just think hook up, right, Like, that's what I say.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought the story was not like a lunch date

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<v Speaker 1>the following you say, here's my room number. That yes,

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<v Speaker 1>there's some implication there, maybe not with bow and shade.

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<v Speaker 4>Would you like to go get some fresh squeeze juice

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<v Speaker 4>in the morning?

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<v Speaker 2>Ways say good night? Middle of the night, he called my.

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<v Speaker 4>Room yeah, exactly what you were hoping for, being.

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<v Speaker 2>Honest, Well, yeah, but it didn't turn out that way.

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<v Speaker 2>So she called in the room. She is freaking out.

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<v Speaker 1>Why.

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<v Speaker 2>He tells me there's like these drunk dudes that are

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<v Speaker 2>banging on her door and scaring her and a friend.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, that's scary.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. So I get dressed, I go to her room.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you went good.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you're just gonna go back to bed.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna I'm not going to intervene. I'm gonna get

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<v Speaker 1>like hotel security or something. I don't want to get involved.

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<v Speaker 4>That is a smart thing to do, is hotel security.

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<v Speaker 4>One dude against a group of men, like, you're not

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<v Speaker 4>going to back like that.

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<v Speaker 1>One of the most romantic things you could do is

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<v Speaker 1>get beat up for a girl before. So, how many

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<v Speaker 1>bones you should try to fight? How many bones did

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<v Speaker 1>you break bow when you went and tried to stop

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<v Speaker 1>the drunk guys?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, no bones were broken. There were there were like

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<v Speaker 2>four or five dudes and they were just being told

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<v Speaker 2>I guess that they'd like seen them earlier in the

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<v Speaker 2>day in the room and they.

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<v Speaker 4>Were that's scary.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it was super weird. So I go down and

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<v Speaker 2>I tell them to get the hell out of there,

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<v Speaker 2>and they did.

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<v Speaker 1>They left nice.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, I bet she was so grateful. Did you talk to.

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<v Speaker 2>Her she was, yeah, you know, she of course heard

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<v Speaker 2>the whole thing to the doors. She liked that, and

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<v Speaker 2>she asked so she could come back to my room.

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<v Speaker 2>She did, and then we ended up making out.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah you did, You're a hero.

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<v Speaker 2>It was a good makeout session. But that's it. That's

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<v Speaker 2>all we did.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, that's cute.

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<v Speaker 2>So I got her number and that was it. But

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<v Speaker 2>the thing is, I didn't see her the rest of

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<v Speaker 2>the trip at all, Like I tried, but either she

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<v Speaker 2>wasn't in a room when I tried calling a room,

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<v Speaker 2>or she didn't and she never texts to be back.

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<v Speaker 2>And I called her one time after I got back

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<v Speaker 2>home and she didn't pick up and I left her

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<v Speaker 2>voicemail and that was that. It was two years ago.

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<v Speaker 4>Are you sure she was single?

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<v Speaker 3>You know, like she got wrapped up in the moment

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<v Speaker 3>she only kissed you, and then she was just like,

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<v Speaker 3>oh my god, I did something terrible.

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<v Speaker 1>That happened on Brooks last Mexican and my.

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<v Speaker 4>Husband was with me.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, awkward.

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<v Speaker 4>Did you ask her if she was single?

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<v Speaker 2>Well no, no, I just sort of assumed if she wasn't,

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<v Speaker 2>she wasn't going to do anything.

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<v Speaker 3>Its two years now, so even if she got single,

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<v Speaker 3>she's I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think the rule in Cancun is everybody is

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<v Speaker 1>single in Cabo. Oh well that's a different that's a

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<v Speaker 1>whole different business.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, they have a different rules.

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<v Speaker 1>This is crazy, though, because you haven't seen or spoken

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<v Speaker 1>to her in two years, and now we're going to

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<v Speaker 1>reach out randomly out of the blue to see if

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<v Speaker 1>she remembers you.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, how are we even going to say, like Nick

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<v Speaker 4>from Cabo? Do you that's it?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, well yeah, his name's Bo, so that would help.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe she also had a Nick in Cabo. Maybe that's

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<v Speaker 2>why she's not calling.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, she's like, oh my god, love, that's the

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<v Speaker 1>one that Brooke made out with on her family baking.

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry, okay, you know, look, I know it's a long shot.

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<v Speaker 2>It was so long ago, but I figure if anybody

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<v Speaker 2>can do it, you guys can.

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<v Speaker 4>So okay. And she wasn't drinking, so she should remember.

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<v Speaker 4>I think she was drinking. She wasn't drinking as hard. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>it wasn't like that.

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<v Speaker 2>She wasn't crazy like that.

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<v Speaker 1>No, she was just injecting stuff. It was fine. So

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna come back. We'll call Sheila and try and

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<v Speaker 1>get you your second date update two years after you

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<v Speaker 1>last saw her, right after this, she's still in right now,

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<v Speaker 1>hold on second date update. For most young single people,

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<v Speaker 1>a trip to Cabo is all about to keep the

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<v Speaker 1>shops wet, t shirt contests, getting your wallet stolen on.

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<v Speaker 4>The beach, right, Yeah, but I have my passport to that.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not an authentic Mexican trip if you're not robbed somehow.

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<v Speaker 1>But that wasn't the case for our listener Bo. The

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<v Speaker 1>only thing stolen from him was his heart when he

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<v Speaker 1>met a woman named Sheila at a bar there two

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<v Speaker 1>years ago. And the craziest part, they were both sober

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<v Speaker 1>when this all happened.

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<v Speaker 3>Sober ish, Jeff. They both were drinking cocktails. They just

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<v Speaker 3>were as wasted as their friends.

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<v Speaker 1>Even still, that's shocking, and Bo has thought about her

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<v Speaker 1>ever since that trip has never been able to reach her.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why he wants us to try and do it

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<v Speaker 1>for him today.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know that we asked what motivated you to

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<v Speaker 4>finally take this step?

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<v Speaker 2>I you know, I just had a birthday, and I went,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not getting any younger.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell her that desperation us all at some point. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we're just gonna go with the more romantic version of

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<v Speaker 1>that story.

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<v Speaker 4>You have yet.

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<v Speaker 1>And a still of your hair or whatever it is? No, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>jeff Well, somewhere in the middle of those is what

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna go with. Yeah, okay, you ready to do this?

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<v Speaker 5>Man.

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<v Speaker 1>You haven't talked to her in two years.

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<v Speaker 4>And don't be insulted if she doesn't remember who you are.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Brooke doesn't even remember who you are. And we

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<v Speaker 1>talked to you five minutes ago.

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<v Speaker 4>So his name is is right, I'm strong and strappy,

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<v Speaker 4>and it is what he told us. Remember, he's a

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<v Speaker 4>hero that took on four to five men.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a little much, but I like it. Here we go.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm dialing Shila right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Hello.

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<v Speaker 1>Hi, we're looking for Shilah.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, this is she.

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<v Speaker 1>It's okay. You don't have to be afraid.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, I don't know. This would be such a weird

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<v Speaker 4>call to.

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<v Speaker 1>Get We're just a friendly morning radio show called Brook

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<v Speaker 1>and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, Shila, Hey, oh this again.

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<v Speaker 1>I can do that. We have to get there first,

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm really sorry to interrupt you whatever you're doing, Sheila,

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<v Speaker 1>but we're trying to help out one of our listeners

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<v Speaker 1>with a segment called second Date Update. Okay, okay, and

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<v Speaker 1>this is a guy that you met two years ago

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<v Speaker 1>on a trip to Mexico.

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<v Speaker 4>While she says, wow, yeah, you were in Cabo.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah that was that was a long time ago. Oh

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<v Speaker 5>oh my god, Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh so there's this guy named Bo that you hung

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<v Speaker 1>out with a little bit.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah. Yeah, Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 3>He's a guy who rescued you from all those men

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<v Speaker 3>pounding on your door, which I can't believe would be

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<v Speaker 3>so scary.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my god. Yes, that was such a long time ago.

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<v Speaker 5>I hadn't really thought about this guy forever.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh that's okay.

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<v Speaker 3>Well now you're thinking about him now, and he sun

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<v Speaker 3>You sound happy that the memory.

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<v Speaker 5>Kind of, but like, so much has happened since then.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, okay, what is this about.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, this whole segment is about seeing if you remembered Bo,

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<v Speaker 1>because I don't know if you know this, but after

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<v Speaker 1>your trip ended, both said, he tried to reach you.

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<v Speaker 5>Right right, Yeah, But like back then, everything was so complicated.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, we knew you were in a relationship, weren't you.

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<v Speaker 5>God, I was engaged at the time.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh god, Oh my god, girl, Well you were engaged.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait does that when you're married? Are you married?

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<v Speaker 5>No? I was engaged to two guys actually.

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<v Speaker 4>At the same time. God casually.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, So like back then, I was a hot met

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<v Speaker 5>and I did a study abroad in Italy and I

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<v Speaker 5>met this guy and we hit it off and he

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<v Speaker 5>ended up proposing and I said yes because I felt bad.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh wow, you said yes because you felt bad? Yeah, yes,

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<v Speaker 4>that's what I was going to say.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean I was leaving and I was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>I'll marry you, and then, you know, I laughed, and

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<v Speaker 5>then I never talked to him again.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh okay, waiting, I did get anything that was a

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<v Speaker 3>nice gratuity from my track culture.

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<v Speaker 1>That's one proposal. How did the where is the second proposal?

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<v Speaker 5>So I leave Italy and I go home to my

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<v Speaker 5>other boyfriend and you missed me and he proposed, and I,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, I said yes.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow.

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<v Speaker 3>So then you went to Cabo while you're engaged to

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<v Speaker 3>two men and made out with bo yes, which.

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<v Speaker 5>Made things even more complicated, and I felt so horrible

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<v Speaker 5>about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, you're lucky Bowden proposed to you, because you probably

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<v Speaker 1>would have said yes to that too.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe maybe in my life.

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<v Speaker 4>So wait, did you end up getting married to anyone?

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<v Speaker 5>I know they both fell through like karma eventually caught

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<v Speaker 5>up to me. I guess.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, okay, so what's your relationship status now?

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<v Speaker 5>I'm casually dating someone. It's nothing serious.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but to him, he's like mom, dad, just casual

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<v Speaker 1>relationship with my husband. It's like, not that scenious.

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<v Speaker 4>It's hard. I mean, honestly though, it's hard to trust you.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it is, I guess, but I told you the truth.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm an open book.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, Okay, why would you make up all that embarrassing

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<v Speaker 1>stuff about yourself?

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<v Speaker 2>I believer?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well you know what, that is definitely kind of

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<v Speaker 1>an embarrassing story. It's nice that you were able to

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<v Speaker 1>tell us the truth here. So now it's our turn

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<v Speaker 1>to tell you the truth. The truth is we want

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<v Speaker 1>to help you bring back some of your past right

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<v Speaker 1>now by fling bow Is on the phone right now,

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<v Speaker 1>listening to this conversation, wanting to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 5>Should I hang.

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<v Speaker 3>Up right now?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 2>There I am here.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you're acted like bo is going to be excited

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<v Speaker 3>after hearing all of that, Like, yeah, Bo.

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<v Speaker 2>That was that was a lot. Uh. So let me

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<v Speaker 2>get this straight. So when we hung out two years ago,

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<v Speaker 2>you were engaged to two different guys, one of whom

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<v Speaker 2>you weren't even really talking to anymore.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, right, I'm no longer talking to any of them.

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<v Speaker 5>But Hi, by the way, Hi.

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<v Speaker 2>It's very good to hear your voice. And I really

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<v Speaker 2>like hanging out with you. And I know it's crazy because,

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<v Speaker 2>like you said, literally all we did was make out

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<v Speaker 2>one night, But I just I can't. I can't stop

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<v Speaker 2>thinking about you, and I guess you're.

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<v Speaker 5>Still thinking about me.

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<v Speaker 4>Did you just laugh?

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<v Speaker 2>Wait? I mean, but like, can I ask did you

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<v Speaker 2>even like me?

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<v Speaker 3>Like?

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<v Speaker 2>Were you actually into me? Or was this just a

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<v Speaker 2>nothing thing?

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<v Speaker 5>Or I I mean, I like you enough to make

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<v Speaker 5>out with you.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, this is a lot.

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<v Speaker 5>Right now.

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<v Speaker 1>It's hard because you were You weren't just the other guy, Bo,

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<v Speaker 1>you were the other other guy. Yeah, so you were

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<v Speaker 1>you were.

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<v Speaker 5>Mister right now, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>It hurts so bad, but it's true.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I get it.

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<v Speaker 5>It's really sweet of you. I thought about.

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<v Speaker 1>You, and he's gone like he's gone through all of

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<v Speaker 1>this effort reaching out to our show that this is

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<v Speaker 1>a pretty complicated process in order to get this done.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, honestly, we probably should have done this as

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<v Speaker 1>a closure call. Well think about it. He kept your

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<v Speaker 1>number for years just in case, hoping he could use.

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<v Speaker 4>It any number who deletes a contact.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean that happens, friend.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I guess I was just gonna sort of

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<v Speaker 2>ask Sheila, you know, I mean I I did take

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<v Speaker 2>in the fact that you were single. Yes, that did

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<v Speaker 2>register with me, and I tingle.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it wasn't like fully single.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I guess in this whole scenario, kind of single

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<v Speaker 2>is essentially single casual relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>Sure.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I guess I was just gonna say, like, this

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<v Speaker 2>whole thing has been the biggest long shot ever. And

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<v Speaker 2>I know we don't live in the same city and

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<v Speaker 2>all that, and I don't know about logistics or any

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<v Speaker 2>of that stuff, but like, would you be open to

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<v Speaker 2>like some kind of a long distance.

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<v Speaker 1>Dating thing, And if you're open to that idea of

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<v Speaker 1>possibly making it work, then we would love to help

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<v Speaker 1>facilitate that by paying for your official first date.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean not because I've.

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<v Speaker 3>Also been told long distance relationships don't need too much.

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<v Speaker 4>Trust, it's very It might be just their type.

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<v Speaker 1>Acaila. This You've had two failed proposals, but the third

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<v Speaker 1>times the charm is what they say.

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<v Speaker 4>To that.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, she'll say yes, yeah, unless her casual relationship proposes

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<v Speaker 3>first the four.

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<v Speaker 5>You know what I say, Let's give it a shot.

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<v Speaker 4>I bet.

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<v Speaker 1>He enthusiastic. Yeah, good, I'd like to follow up. So

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<v Speaker 1>we're getting rid of the side guy.

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<v Speaker 5>Right by the time we go on a day, he'll

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<v Speaker 5>be history. Don't worry about it.

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<v Speaker 2>The great, thank you, Thank you, guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Congratulations, bo you're mister right now again. Yeah, they'll take it,

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<v Speaker 1>Take it, Rookie Jeffrey in the morning. If there was

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<v Speaker 1>a children's fairy tale about their story, and there really

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<v Speaker 1>should be, it would be called the Girl who Couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>Say No. She went into the fraternity house late at night.

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<v Speaker 1>This frat bro is too swoll, this frat bro is

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<v Speaker 1>too thin on. This frat bro is just right. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to marry them all, and they all lived happily.

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<v Speaker 1>She left, goodbye. Where is that children's fairy tale book?

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<v Speaker 4>Please don't write it.

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<v Speaker 3>And you guys were so glossying over the fact that

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<v Speaker 3>she's not even single.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, so casual.

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<v Speaker 3>When you have a person who is engaged two people

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<v Speaker 3>at once and making out with another one, I don't

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<v Speaker 3>know how much she would trust her reception of casuals.

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<v Speaker 1>Trust yes. I feel like they need to go back

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<v Speaker 1>to Cabo together and finish what they started. Officially, maybe we.

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<v Speaker 4>Should do the show live.

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<v Speaker 1>Because of their day, someone has to translate Spanish for

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<v Speaker 1>me though. I mean, you never know. It could actually

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<v Speaker 1>work out, but make sure you go check out all

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<v Speaker 1>of our second dates wherever you get your podcasts at

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke and Jeffrey