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<v Speaker 1>This is the most dramatic podcast ever and I heart

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<v Speaker 1>radio podcast. Welcome to the most dramatic podcast ever. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>Chris Harrison. I hope everybody has had an amazing holiday

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<v Speaker 1>week and weekend. Um, I spent some time with the family,

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<v Speaker 1>was up with the kids at TCU. My son had

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of cross games. Congrats to the boys for

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<v Speaker 1>winning both their big games. UM, Lauren was not with me.

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<v Speaker 1>She went with me last week and we did the

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<v Speaker 1>sports stuff. Getting her to do that twice that was

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<v Speaker 1>a big ask. And she took a girl's trip this week.

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<v Speaker 1>And if you've been following her social media, which you should,

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<v Speaker 1>by the way, if you're not following l Z on

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<v Speaker 1>social you're missing out maybe the most entertaining social media

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<v Speaker 1>site ever. But it's something we really believe in. We've

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<v Speaker 1>always believed in. Is is having our separate lives and

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<v Speaker 1>taking those girls trips, taking those boys trips, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>they they feed your soul in ways that I can't.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I appreciate that, and I appreciate she has

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<v Speaker 1>dear friends that she really has had for most of

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<v Speaker 1>her adult life. And I think that's important. And I

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<v Speaker 1>remember I was actually dating somebody early on after my divorce,

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<v Speaker 1>and they had no girlfriends, no very few friends at all,

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<v Speaker 1>and I thought, that's that is a red flag. So

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<v Speaker 1>one of the things I love about Elzi is she

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<v Speaker 1>has so many dear friends in her life that she

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<v Speaker 1>makes a priority and wants to spend time with. So

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<v Speaker 1>Lzi is not going to be with me today. Filling

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<v Speaker 1>in and joining me today is Tor Spelling Donna Martin

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<v Speaker 1>nine O two one oh fame. There are so many

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<v Speaker 1>things I want to talk to Tori about, and I

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<v Speaker 1>am excited that she's joining us on the show. So,

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<v Speaker 1>without further ado, Hey Tori, how you doing today? Thank

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<v Speaker 1>you so much for being here. Hi Chris Harrison, we

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<v Speaker 1>have never met, we are we haven't watch you every week?

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<v Speaker 1>I guess well, our paths have never crossed. I thought

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<v Speaker 1>about this today. I'm like, and I probably have interviewed

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<v Speaker 1>you at some point when I was doing red carpet stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>but or we've probably been at the same event. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we've never had the opportunity to spend some time together.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I am so happy to get to spend

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<v Speaker 1>a little time with you today and get to know

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<v Speaker 1>you in the and chat and then I have to

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<v Speaker 1>say your whole name every time I talk to you,

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<v Speaker 1>because I just you're just Chris Harrison to me. So

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<v Speaker 1>it happens. And by the way, it's okay, that's what

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<v Speaker 1>people do that in public. Uh. Lauren's EMA does not

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<v Speaker 1>do that to me, thankfully, but speaking of it would

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<v Speaker 1>be awkward. Elz is not here. She is on a

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<v Speaker 1>girl's trip. And usually we kicked the show off by

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<v Speaker 1>doing headlines. And so if you don't mind, you want

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<v Speaker 1>to jump in and do headlines with me, I would

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<v Speaker 1>love it. The first one we're going to talk about

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<v Speaker 1>is this Megan Fox story. Obviously, her and machine Gun

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<v Speaker 1>Kelly uh broke up and she got off Instagram, just

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<v Speaker 1>got got done with it, pulled it off, but she

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<v Speaker 1>came back. Megan Fox reactivated her Instagram accounts Sunday and

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<v Speaker 1>shared a post noting that there was no cheating involved

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<v Speaker 1>in her relationship with Machine Gun Kelly. So days after,

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<v Speaker 1>she deleted all the photos of herself and and machine Gun.

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<v Speaker 1>Do we call a machine gun? Um? I think we do? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Mr gunn uh m g K from her profile, so

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<v Speaker 1>she removed all all the Instagram then she posted there

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<v Speaker 1>has been no third party interference. In this relationship of

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<v Speaker 1>any kind that includes, but is not limited to actual

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<v Speaker 1>humans d M s a I bots or succubus demons.

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<v Speaker 1>While I do hate to rob you of running random,

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<v Speaker 1>baseless news stories that would have been much more accurately

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<v Speaker 1>written by chat g pt uh, you need to let

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<v Speaker 1>this story die and leave all of these innocent people alone. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>First of all, I love the sense of humor, but Tory,

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<v Speaker 1>what's your take on this? So I did a deep dive.

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<v Speaker 1>I went down the rabbit hole on Sunday because I

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<v Speaker 1>was not watching football. So I literally I r L

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<v Speaker 1>in real type, I R I r D. Yeah, in

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<v Speaker 1>real time, I was in real life. I was like

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<v Speaker 1>watching this happen, and I went on to Instagram and

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<v Speaker 1>people were still like saying, oh my god, she's like

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<v Speaker 1>the burning of the letter and all that. And then

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<v Speaker 1>all of a sudden, her Instagram disappeared and they weren't

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<v Speaker 1>putting it on the news. I was looking at the

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<v Speaker 1>news feed simultaneously. Why I was doing this, I don't know. Sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>really bored, but um yeah, I watched her Instagram disappeared

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<v Speaker 1>and I was fascinated by this. And then there was

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<v Speaker 1>all that talk that you followed three people. It was

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<v Speaker 1>eminem Um, one other and Timothy Shallow me, which I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, Oh, that's a very mg K reference. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like that could be her next it seemed personal

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<v Speaker 1>taking um. But yeah, this whole thing played out interferences.

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<v Speaker 1>Odd that she puts that because it happened during the

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<v Speaker 1>super Bowl, I would say, kind of took over the

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<v Speaker 1>super Bowl news except for Rihanna. Well, but what do

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<v Speaker 1>you think about her only coming back to say, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>there's no third party, he wasn't cheating. I I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I have a lot of feelings about

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<v Speaker 1>this because I keep looking the person they're talking about,

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<v Speaker 1>a Sophie Lloyd, who's guitarist, and then if you look

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<v Speaker 1>at his ex Summer Ray, if you meld the three

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<v Speaker 1>of them together, there one person really, one beautiful person,

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<v Speaker 1>by the way, one hot person. Yeah. I kind of

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<v Speaker 1>have a hot take on this. Okay, what is it?

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<v Speaker 1>And it was it got kind of personal for me,

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<v Speaker 1>and I felt I liked that she did this, and

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<v Speaker 1>here's why. So I went through a very public divorce

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<v Speaker 1>after being married for seventeen years, two kids and all

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<v Speaker 1>this stuff, and being the host of the show. I

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<v Speaker 1>was hosting the Batchelor Bachelrette series. Obviously, everything quickly went to, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>he's probably cheating, He's probably you know, sleeping around with

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<v Speaker 1>these girls, and that's probably what has driven the wedge

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<v Speaker 1>between him. That's instantly what everybody ran to, and that

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't have been further from the truth. And as much

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<v Speaker 1>as the tabloids tried to make that happen, they couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>make that story stick. And actually, my ex wife and

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<v Speaker 1>I had this conversation because it was very amicable and

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<v Speaker 1>we were still on talking terms. She said, you want

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<v Speaker 1>me to say something, and this was back during our divorce.

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<v Speaker 1>She said, you want me to go public and actually

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<v Speaker 1>make a statement like this, And we decided no. I said,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, when you throw more gasoline on the fire,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just only gonna exacerbate this. That was my feeling

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<v Speaker 1>at the time. But I respected the fact that she

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<v Speaker 1>had thought that through as well and was willing to

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<v Speaker 1>make that statement public. And so I kind of respect

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<v Speaker 1>the fact that Megan could have been a martyr. She

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<v Speaker 1>could have said just let this stuff go and everyone, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>whoa was Megan Fox and he's cheating on her, and

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<v Speaker 1>she could have gotten the sympathy vote, but she didn't

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<v Speaker 1>do that. She took that away to make this statement.

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't know if that's the reason she did it,

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<v Speaker 1>but I respect that only because it kind of hit

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<v Speaker 1>home for me. I understand that. And um, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>went through a very public divorce as well, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you always wish it was handled like you and your ex.

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<v Speaker 1>That is great. Um, you're right. Megan is no victim,

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<v Speaker 1>and she never plays that card. Um, she says it

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<v Speaker 1>like it is. I don't know though, that there wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>something going on here. And you know what, you make

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<v Speaker 1>a really good point. It's always the man that they

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<v Speaker 1>say is the person doing it. What if it's the woman?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, what if she cheated on him. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know the actual percentage, but it is either equal, I

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<v Speaker 1>think even larger. That more females, more women cheat on

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<v Speaker 1>their spouses than men. Right there, you go. What if

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<v Speaker 1>the dishonesty was like he said, he took the trash

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<v Speaker 1>out but he didn't. Right, But that that's that's immediately

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<v Speaker 1>what it went to. Well, it's it's you know, on

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<v Speaker 1>the like the tabloids, and you and I are no

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<v Speaker 1>stranger to this. Go straight to that obviously it's juicy,

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<v Speaker 1>it gets headlines, and then whether it's true or not

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<v Speaker 1>really doesn't matter because then they can report on if

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<v Speaker 1>it's not true. And again, this one thing that Megan

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<v Speaker 1>did do is now give this story legs. Now people

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<v Speaker 1>can write about this, and that's what they want. And

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<v Speaker 1>that's why we chose to remain silent, because I knew

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<v Speaker 1>there was no validity to my bs, and I knew

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<v Speaker 1>it would blow away. As much as they were trying

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<v Speaker 1>to call around town and see who I was sleeping

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<v Speaker 1>around with, I knew there was nothing there, so I

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<v Speaker 1>knew it would go away. And it helps when you can,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, put your head down at night and there's

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<v Speaker 1>no skeletons in your closet. But I found it interesting

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<v Speaker 1>that she only came back just to say this and

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<v Speaker 1>did it with a great sense of humor as well.

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<v Speaker 1>She always has a really fun, dark sense of humor,

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<v Speaker 1>which I appreciate because I think she's hot. I've only

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<v Speaker 1>met her once when she she came in and I interviewed,

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<v Speaker 1>I think I'm actually talking to Brian Austin Green, someone

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and um, she came in with him, and

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<v Speaker 1>so I met her years and years ago. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if you know her. I actually worked with Megan

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<v Speaker 1>years ago on a series. This is how funny. They

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<v Speaker 1>really got it wrong this time. They we were in

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<v Speaker 1>a pilot together and I was a guest star. She

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<v Speaker 1>was a regular. And when the pilot went they actually

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<v Speaker 1>didn't have enough money for all the regulars, and they

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<v Speaker 1>took her out of it and put me as a regular.

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<v Speaker 1>They really screwed up. But that she probably has no

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<v Speaker 1>recollection of this, but it was called The Help, and

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<v Speaker 1>she was like, seriously seventeen years old. But um, I

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<v Speaker 1>never met her with Brian. So that's the Megan Fox story. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>it's gonna be interesting to see where this goes from here. Though. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm I don't feel like they're over. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>feel like they're over something? Something tells me it just

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't feel over. And that's why I was reluctant,

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<v Speaker 1>even from the top of this headline to say they're

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<v Speaker 1>broken up, because that move in what she's saying, it

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't feel completely over. I agree. I have one more

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<v Speaker 1>thing to say about it. What what about the therapy

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<v Speaker 1>session that paparazzi got the dark, grainy pictures of them

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<v Speaker 1>coming out of a therapy session together I did. That's

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<v Speaker 1>a hot take. I didn't even see this. You really

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<v Speaker 1>did do a deep dive now, I just happened. I

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<v Speaker 1>just happened to look her up once in a blue

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<v Speaker 1>men wait before this story came up. But yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 1>they were. They were leaving. I mean they could have

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<v Speaker 1>been leaving anywhere. They could have been leaving like chilies

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<v Speaker 1>or something. Having a bite to eat and giving his

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<v Speaker 1>stuff back. I don't know, but they said it was

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<v Speaker 1>a marriage counseling sugist doesn't feel Yeah, it doesn't feel

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<v Speaker 1>complete yet. It doesn't feel like we can put a

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<v Speaker 1>pin in this yet. I think we will have to

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<v Speaker 1>revisit the Megan Fox machine Gun Kelly story. Yeah, it

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't feel complete yet. You know what else doesn't really

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<v Speaker 1>feel complete yet? Chris Harrison the next headline that we're

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<v Speaker 1>going to talk about it, hopefully you'll talk about it

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<v Speaker 1>with me. Um. So there's a big headline out there,

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<v Speaker 1>exit remorse, ABC considering bringing back house did host Chris

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<v Speaker 1>Harrison to boost ratings. That's a big one out there.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, can you believe that I didn't see that headline?

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<v Speaker 1>When did that come out? Yeah? In all seriousness. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>those headlines hit this week a lot, a lot, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it's funny speaking of a lot. There are

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<v Speaker 1>certain stories that hit and they are more impactful, and

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<v Speaker 1>I can tell because of who reaches out to me

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<v Speaker 1>in my life about this. So most stories that are written,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, if my name is in the headline, you

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<v Speaker 1>get nothing, nobody. This one was interesting because I was

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<v Speaker 1>driving to get dinner the other night. My dad calls,

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<v Speaker 1>not strange, but I pick up the phone. He's like, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>are you going back to that show you were working for?

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<v Speaker 1>And by the way he says that show, it didn't

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<v Speaker 1>mean that to be derogatory. Honestly, my dad probably does

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<v Speaker 1>not know the name of the show I was hosting

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<v Speaker 1>for twenty years. Uh, And I love him for that.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm not even joking, but exactly that show. So

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<v Speaker 1>Dad calls me. Then two of my best friends I

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<v Speaker 1>mean talking about friends I talked to on the daily

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<v Speaker 1>called and said, hey, are you are you going back?

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<v Speaker 1>What in the world is happening? So do you Tory?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you get that too? Of there are certain stories

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<v Speaker 1>that are so impactful, and you know because of who

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<v Speaker 1>reaches out to you personally all the time. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>they have written about my marriage. Well, we've been married

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<v Speaker 1>seventeen year, seventeen years, on again, off again, and I

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<v Speaker 1>know it's yeah. My brother reached out to me and

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<v Speaker 1>he's like, I know they always write stuff, but is

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<v Speaker 1>it true that you guys are Kenny in divorce? And

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, what about this one made it more

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<v Speaker 1>impactful that you thought maybe when this time it's true?

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<v Speaker 1>So yes, I know what you mean. It is interesting

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<v Speaker 1>though sometimes it does, it just strikes a chord. And

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<v Speaker 1>so this one obviously was very personal for a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of people who went through what I went through, and

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<v Speaker 1>they went through it with me. These are the people

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<v Speaker 1>that were in the right. They were in the foxhole

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<v Speaker 1>with me each and every day, and so these are

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<v Speaker 1>people that are are really shocked to see this headline. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>apparently ABC is considering bringing you back because they're having

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<v Speaker 1>dismal Bachelor ratings. Well, look here's the story as well.

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, the real story that broke was internal

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<v Speaker 1>conversations are being had by ABC executives about bringing me back.

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<v Speaker 1>Do I think these conversations have happened? Probably, And and

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<v Speaker 1>here's why, I think it would almost be crazy not

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<v Speaker 1>to if you're running a business, any business at all,

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<v Speaker 1>and that business sales are down fifty to and falling,

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<v Speaker 1>and everybody can see the numbers. We know what's happening,

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<v Speaker 1>and you think there's something that could change that and

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<v Speaker 1>fix that. Of course you're going to have that conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>You would be crazy not to have that conversation. And

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<v Speaker 1>with the advent of this podcast, the most dramatic podcast ever,

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<v Speaker 1>They've seen the numbers, they've seen the response in my

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<v Speaker 1>social media. They're not deaf to all that they've seen

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<v Speaker 1>what's happening. So am I shocked that these conversations are happening. No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not. It would not be a surprise. In fact,

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<v Speaker 1>I would be shocked if they weren't happening. Right And

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<v Speaker 1>when they say internal conversations, is that the version of

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<v Speaker 1>like a source says for like a celebrity, right, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>they said a source within ABC said these con stations

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<v Speaker 1>are taking place. That was the actual story. And then

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<v Speaker 1>from there it's spread to you know, is Chris Harrison

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<v Speaker 1>coming back? And actually Chris Harrison is coming back and

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<v Speaker 1>they're talking to him, and so it obviously go you

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<v Speaker 1>know how it goes from there, clickbait, click bait, but

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<v Speaker 1>the two original stories had the source inside the network

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<v Speaker 1>saying these conversations were happening. Well, I wondered, do you

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<v Speaker 1>believe that ABC could have leaked the story? I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I keep going like, who put the story out there

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<v Speaker 1>to get legs? I mean, we know it's not Jesse Palmer,

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<v Speaker 1>So right, um, you know, I I don't. I don't know. Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you would have to ask them. But would

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<v Speaker 1>it be the craziest thing? Chris Harrison, hang on, you

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<v Speaker 1>call an ABC? Yeah, I have a direct number? And

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<v Speaker 1>do you go? Do you do? You go straight to

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<v Speaker 1>the top, you go to Mickey Mouse? Who do you

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<v Speaker 1>go to? Well? For years, I mean my dad had

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<v Speaker 1>all of his shows there and it used to be

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<v Speaker 1>called off the record Aaron Broadcast Company. So I'm pretty high.

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<v Speaker 1>I bet you do. Um, but sorry, what were you saying? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>I just you know, would it be crazy to send

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<v Speaker 1>out that test balloon and to see how people respond?

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<v Speaker 1>Of course? Yeah, So it's it's not the most outlandish,

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<v Speaker 1>crazy story. Although it did make waves and it got

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<v Speaker 1>a lot. And again whether that was the intention of

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<v Speaker 1>all this, you know, who knows, but that it definitely

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<v Speaker 1>made the press. Well, I mean, that's not the real question.

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<v Speaker 1>The real question is would you consider going back? That's

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<v Speaker 1>the multimillion dollar question on the table, the multi zillion

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<v Speaker 1>dollar questions. Look here, here's the thing. And I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>being dodgy when I talk about this because I've talked

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<v Speaker 1>about it previously as well. It's complicated. First of all,

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<v Speaker 1>I live by the actiom never say never, because I

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<v Speaker 1>I just think in life and in business that comes

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<v Speaker 1>back to bite you in the butt. So I'll never

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<v Speaker 1>say never. But with that said, it is complicated. Would

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<v Speaker 1>I have that conversation? Yes. I also believe in relationships

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<v Speaker 1>and in business, take a phone call and you listen

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<v Speaker 1>and you have that conversation. Whether it's uncomfortable or not.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you've got to have that personal phone call.

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<v Speaker 1>So yes, I would have that conversation. I would listen.

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<v Speaker 1>I would listen to anybody who calls me and go

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<v Speaker 1>through it. But and I hate to leave it at that,

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<v Speaker 1>but it is very complicated and it would be very complicated. Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>you just left me wanting more, because when people say

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<v Speaker 1>it's complicated, they mean it's complicated. I mean, do you

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<v Speaker 1>miss doing the Bachelor? You have so much else going on?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, and I want to eventually get to you

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<v Speaker 1>on this because you have great perspective being a part

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<v Speaker 1>of a franchise that was so historic at nine oh

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<v Speaker 1>for a decade of your life and being known as

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<v Speaker 1>something and so you know, multiply that by two. So

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<v Speaker 1>for twenty years I was the host of this franchise

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<v Speaker 1>and it was a historic franchise as well. So I'm

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<v Speaker 1>grateful to that. I will always be grateful for that

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<v Speaker 1>in my life. It changed my life, It changed my

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<v Speaker 1>kids lives. I have a lot of friends that are

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<v Speaker 1>still there working on the show I really care about,

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<v Speaker 1>and so I loved my time, not all of it.

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<v Speaker 1>It was still a job and there were things I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't love, but that's the way it is at any job.

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<v Speaker 1>But overall, it was amazing. It was an incredible experience.

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<v Speaker 1>And I could go on and on about the travel

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<v Speaker 1>and seeing the world and having never done that in

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<v Speaker 1>my life and having that opportunity to taking my kids

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<v Speaker 1>around the world. So again, all these things that were

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<v Speaker 1>so wonderful my life have to do with this show.

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<v Speaker 1>And so many milestones happened during the show because it

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<v Speaker 1>was you know, from the time I was thirty, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>almost to when I was fifty years old. That's my

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<v Speaker 1>professional life when I was doing this show. So it

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<v Speaker 1>was really impactful and so yeah, I loved it. I

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<v Speaker 1>loved parts of it. Did it change? Yes? And was

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<v Speaker 1>it the same in the last several years. No, it

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<v Speaker 1>was not. And I was contemplating when it was going

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<v Speaker 1>to be time. That was the first time I started

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<v Speaker 1>having those conversations. And Lauren and I have have had

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<v Speaker 1>those conversations, and she, now that she's got to know me,

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<v Speaker 1>has even said, wow, I've I've I see now that

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<v Speaker 1>you you were really torn by this, and so that's

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<v Speaker 1>why I say it would be incredibly complicated. Okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm hearing here is ABC, if you're listening, and

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<v Speaker 1>you're obviously totally listening, he will take the call. We

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<v Speaker 1>have a lot to talk about. We'll see where this goes.

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<v Speaker 1>What about you? And I mean, because I don't mind

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<v Speaker 1>being synonymous with the Bachelor Bachlrette, I don't mind even

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<v Speaker 1>when I go out today and you know, I was

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<v Speaker 1>up in at TCU seeing my kids and people come

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<v Speaker 1>up to me and talk about the show, and I

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<v Speaker 1>don't mind that. Do you mind being known or called

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<v Speaker 1>Donna Martin and being known as Beverly Hills nine two one. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>absolutely not. I actually get mad when I hear people

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<v Speaker 1>say like, oh, I'd rather stay away from that. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to talk about that show anymore. It's the

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<v Speaker 1>show that, you know, whether it's a TV show, movie,

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<v Speaker 1>anything that made you like, how could you not? So

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<v Speaker 1>I'm grateful and I always say I'm fifty Tory Donna,

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, we're we're technically the same person. So um,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll always be grateful. And when people say Donna, I

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<v Speaker 1>turn around just as fast as I do when they

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<v Speaker 1>say Tori. Well, I think it's interesting that there are

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<v Speaker 1>those and you know these people. Uh, there's even people

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<v Speaker 1>from my show that have gone on, and there's actors

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<v Speaker 1>and actresses. When they you'll bring something up or something's

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<v Speaker 1>mentioned in an interview and like, I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about that. Yeah, I don't want to talk about

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<v Speaker 1>being on the batchelor, right right, Yeah, that's not me anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, well, I understand, but it's the only reason

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<v Speaker 1>I'm talking to you. So it's okay to give into that.

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<v Speaker 1>But it doesn't have to define you the rest of

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<v Speaker 1>your life. You can go on and define yourself however

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<v Speaker 1>you want. But I find it interesting those people and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm during I guess my question to you is, who

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<v Speaker 1>are those people? What is it about certain people that

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<v Speaker 1>just they got to leave that certain part of their

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<v Speaker 1>past behind, whether it was a part they played or

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<v Speaker 1>a show they were on, But they can't. That's the thing.

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<v Speaker 1>They're trying to run away from, something that they'll never

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<v Speaker 1>run away from. So we should just take it head on,

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<v Speaker 1>answer the question, then move on to what you really

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<v Speaker 1>want to talk about. But dismissing in and saying that, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I don't know, because it's always if people

0:20:26.920 --> 0:20:28.800
<v Speaker 1>love you for a certain thing, they're always going to

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<v Speaker 1>love you for a certain thing. You're right, and we

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<v Speaker 1>loved you for Donna Martin and in that whole part

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<v Speaker 1>of it was so that show was so transformational for

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<v Speaker 1>so many people. And I know you've heard all these

0:20:39.680 --> 0:20:44.280
<v Speaker 1>stories obviously, but a show that's that impactful and was

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<v Speaker 1>a part of so many people's lives, how do you

0:20:46.480 --> 0:20:50.320
<v Speaker 1>deny that? You can't? I mean, I'm so grateful, Like

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<v Speaker 1>both of us were National treasures. National treasures, Chris Harrison,

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<v Speaker 1>you and I both so wait wait, So at night

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<v Speaker 1>I was doing the math. You were seventeen seventy when

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<v Speaker 1>you jumped on sixteen when I did the pilot, so

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<v Speaker 1>six games ten years. So from sixteen to when you're

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<v Speaker 1>seven years old, very very tough age to be a teenager.

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<v Speaker 1>And my daughter is about that age. She's I mean

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<v Speaker 1>just she's nineteen now, but I just went through those

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<v Speaker 1>years with her. Those are tough years. When life is perfect,

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<v Speaker 1>when life is great. I can't imagine so many insecurities,

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<v Speaker 1>so many chemicals running through your body at the time,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you put on that platform that had to

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<v Speaker 1>be so bizarrely difficult for you. It's funny you said

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<v Speaker 1>life is perfect, life is great during those years. I

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<v Speaker 1>have teenagers now, and all I keep thinking is, oh

0:21:42.200 --> 0:21:44.359
<v Speaker 1>my god, they think they have it bad. Now. Imagine

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<v Speaker 1>having to go through what you're going through on national

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<v Speaker 1>TV and like people watching you being under a microscope.

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<v Speaker 1>So you know, my teens will be like, oh, I

0:21:53.119 --> 0:21:55.320
<v Speaker 1>don't feel good, I don't look good, my face is

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<v Speaker 1>breaking out, and I'm like, yeah, yeah, I know that well,

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<v Speaker 1>but imagine I had to still do it on t

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<v Speaker 1>BE every single week. It was hard. Yeah. There wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>the Internet then, which my kids like to remind me,

0:22:05.440 --> 0:22:07.320
<v Speaker 1>you know, and they asked if there were cars back then.

0:22:08.320 --> 0:22:10.879
<v Speaker 1>But there was like chatboards you could go to and

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<v Speaker 1>they would write the most horrific things. I mean, things

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<v Speaker 1>that now, atte years old, I still remember and let

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<v Speaker 1>kind of let define my life. I hated my eyes

0:22:20.440 --> 0:22:23.880
<v Speaker 1>for years, just until recently, because people used to be like, oh,

0:22:23.960 --> 0:22:27.160
<v Speaker 1>bug eyes, frog eyes, and I'd be like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>my big eyes suck. Now I realized they're one of

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<v Speaker 1>my best assets. At seventeen years old. Eighteen years old

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<v Speaker 1>so difficult. And I at the beginning of this, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>when I was talking about you coming on the show.

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<v Speaker 1>What I find interesting is I don't love talking to

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<v Speaker 1>people where everything is perfect in life and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>they're just you know, living life one positive quote after

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<v Speaker 1>the other. I like people who I mean, you, honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>percentage wise shouldn't even be sitting here. Child star. Father

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<v Speaker 1>was unbelievably famous, as you said, I mean, running every

0:23:01.280 --> 0:23:03.760
<v Speaker 1>network and getting everything. You know, if he pitched something

0:23:03.800 --> 0:23:07.240
<v Speaker 1>at lunch, it was on that afternoon. So growing up

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<v Speaker 1>in Hollywood, growing up under the shadow of that, and

0:23:09.600 --> 0:23:13.720
<v Speaker 1>then being famous yourself and then going the reality route,

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<v Speaker 1>it's amazing you're sitting here. Yeah, I was always a

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<v Speaker 1>good girl. I was a good kid, and I you

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<v Speaker 1>know what, I was always work focused and I think

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<v Speaker 1>I learned that from my dad. I mean, my dad

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<v Speaker 1>was a workaholic, but on the weekends, always many time

0:23:27.280 --> 0:23:30.920
<v Speaker 1>for us. And I grew up with that like sense

0:23:30.960 --> 0:23:34.280
<v Speaker 1>of drive. I'm super driven, like I want something to happen.

0:23:34.280 --> 0:23:36.639
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna keep going until it happens. And I've always

0:23:36.640 --> 0:23:38.560
<v Speaker 1>been like that. So I didn't have time to get

0:23:38.600 --> 0:23:40.720
<v Speaker 1>lost in the Hollywood shuffle of like, you know, I

0:23:40.760 --> 0:23:43.080
<v Speaker 1>went out and stuff, but going down the rabbit hole

0:23:43.119 --> 0:23:45.080
<v Speaker 1>of drugs and stuff, you know, I was focused on

0:23:45.160 --> 0:23:47.920
<v Speaker 1>doing my job and what was the next big thing. Yeah,

0:23:47.960 --> 0:23:50.760
<v Speaker 1>but you say that so almost flippantly, I know it

0:23:50.800 --> 0:23:53.000
<v Speaker 1>doesn't happen. No, you had to make those decisions. I

0:23:53.000 --> 0:23:55.399
<v Speaker 1>mean you look at the percentage of child stars, especially

0:23:55.480 --> 0:23:58.480
<v Speaker 1>that come from a very famous parent like that. It's

0:23:58.520 --> 0:24:01.120
<v Speaker 1>not a it's not an easy task. I mean, kudos

0:24:01.119 --> 0:24:04.320
<v Speaker 1>to your parents, who I don't know either. Um, I

0:24:04.880 --> 0:24:08.800
<v Speaker 1>didn't know, but that is amazing though that you you

0:24:08.840 --> 0:24:11.960
<v Speaker 1>were centered with that drive and never never took a

0:24:12.040 --> 0:24:14.080
<v Speaker 1>right when you easily could have. You stayed on this path,

0:24:14.160 --> 0:24:16.399
<v Speaker 1>you easily could have taken that. Well. I didn't say

0:24:16.440 --> 0:24:20.640
<v Speaker 1>I was a good driver, but yes, well you were

0:24:20.720 --> 0:24:23.159
<v Speaker 1>kind of known. And this, this actually brings me to

0:24:23.200 --> 0:24:27.560
<v Speaker 1>a headline that maybe I buried here because you were

0:24:27.600 --> 0:24:32.920
<v Speaker 1>known Donna Martin as America's virgin. Yes, obviously something else

0:24:32.960 --> 0:24:35.680
<v Speaker 1>that was difficult to carry with you through your teenage

0:24:35.760 --> 0:24:39.520
<v Speaker 1>years and then into your twenties. But did I read

0:24:39.520 --> 0:24:42.760
<v Speaker 1>this story right? You have spent money, You've been paying

0:24:42.800 --> 0:24:46.440
<v Speaker 1>money to see Denise Richards naked on Only Fans? Is

0:24:46.760 --> 0:24:52.200
<v Speaker 1>this true? Guilty? For real? Yes, this is for real.

0:24:52.240 --> 0:24:54.480
<v Speaker 1>So Denise and I have been friends since well she

0:24:54.560 --> 0:24:56.600
<v Speaker 1>was on nine two one we met. That's when we met,

0:24:56.680 --> 0:24:59.920
<v Speaker 1>like when she was like fifteen, So we've known each

0:25:00.000 --> 0:25:04.520
<v Speaker 1>they're all these years, stayed friends, were good friends, and yeah,

0:25:04.560 --> 0:25:07.719
<v Speaker 1>when I heard she was on Only Fans, I was like, interesting,

0:25:08.160 --> 0:25:10.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna lie. I was like, hmm, can I

0:25:10.680 --> 0:25:13.119
<v Speaker 1>can an actress like really transition and do this and

0:25:13.160 --> 0:25:15.480
<v Speaker 1>still have her career and still be okay with being

0:25:15.480 --> 0:25:17.320
<v Speaker 1>a mom and people not giving her, you know, a

0:25:17.320 --> 0:25:21.879
<v Speaker 1>hard time. So I did click on there at Christmas dinner,

0:25:22.600 --> 0:25:25.680
<v Speaker 1>which is what everyone does at the Christmas dinner table. Yeah,

0:25:25.680 --> 0:25:27.679
<v Speaker 1>we're deciding do we want to play card games or

0:25:27.680 --> 0:25:31.720
<v Speaker 1>look at Denise Richard's naked and the way well done?

0:25:31.800 --> 0:25:35.960
<v Speaker 1>You know what. I'm a smart cookie, Harrison, so I yeah,

0:25:35.960 --> 0:25:38.199
<v Speaker 1>so I want to look on it to just be like, oh,

0:25:38.280 --> 0:25:40.080
<v Speaker 1>let's see what this is. But they get you. They're

0:25:40.080 --> 0:25:43.240
<v Speaker 1>super smart. On only Fans. They cover things up. You know.

0:25:43.320 --> 0:25:45.720
<v Speaker 1>There was like a peach covering something and it was

0:25:45.760 --> 0:25:47.520
<v Speaker 1>like I was like, oh, well, I can't see anything.

0:25:47.760 --> 0:25:51.240
<v Speaker 1>Oh but if you subscribe you can see more. So

0:25:51.480 --> 0:25:53.399
<v Speaker 1>and then it says if you d M the person

0:25:54.000 --> 0:25:57.119
<v Speaker 1>um and tip them, they're more likely to send you

0:25:57.160 --> 0:26:00.119
<v Speaker 1>a picture faster because they send a picture to your

0:26:00.200 --> 0:26:02.359
<v Speaker 1>d M. For all those who have never been on

0:26:02.359 --> 0:26:05.080
<v Speaker 1>Only Fans, I'll admit, and I'm not just lying for

0:26:05.200 --> 0:26:09.720
<v Speaker 1>public consumption here. I've never been on only Fans, So

0:26:10.160 --> 0:26:12.440
<v Speaker 1>I actually had no hits complicated. I had no idea.

0:26:12.480 --> 0:26:14.000
<v Speaker 1>I actually don't know. I mean, I know you have

0:26:14.040 --> 0:26:16.679
<v Speaker 1>to pay and they need a subscription, but so you

0:26:16.720 --> 0:26:22.280
<v Speaker 1>don't you did you then subscribe? And did you d

0:26:22.520 --> 0:26:26.639
<v Speaker 1>M Denise? I did? And I did it under my alias,

0:26:26.720 --> 0:26:28.879
<v Speaker 1>which is like my hotel alias. I've checked in for

0:26:28.960 --> 0:26:31.080
<v Speaker 1>years since nine o two one. Oh. So I was like,

0:26:31.119 --> 0:26:33.440
<v Speaker 1>she probably knows that name. Probably told her, well, I'm

0:26:33.800 --> 0:26:35.919
<v Speaker 1>I'm dying to ask you what that alias is. I

0:26:35.920 --> 0:26:38.680
<v Speaker 1>can't tell you. Well, it's it's it's a pairing of

0:26:38.720 --> 0:26:44.040
<v Speaker 1>my first dog and in the nineties my favorite star. Interesting.

0:26:44.480 --> 0:26:47.959
<v Speaker 1>Um but I yeah, and so I was like, HI,

0:26:48.520 --> 0:26:50.879
<v Speaker 1>would love to see how are you? Would love to

0:26:50.960 --> 0:26:52.960
<v Speaker 1>see more? I like what I see, would love to

0:26:53.000 --> 0:26:56.520
<v Speaker 1>see more. And I think tipping did get me a

0:26:56.600 --> 0:26:59.760
<v Speaker 1>d M faster because I got a picture and then

0:26:59.760 --> 0:27:02.359
<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh, that looks good. Okay, well but

0:27:02.440 --> 0:27:04.160
<v Speaker 1>now I want to see more. So it really gets

0:27:04.200 --> 0:27:06.359
<v Speaker 1>you going in that rabbit hole. And then the next

0:27:06.440 --> 0:27:08.960
<v Speaker 1>day I saw that you could get a v I

0:27:09.000 --> 0:27:11.439
<v Speaker 1>P subscription and it was like, normally I'm not going

0:27:11.480 --> 0:27:12.720
<v Speaker 1>to see the number, right, but it was like a

0:27:12.760 --> 0:27:16.959
<v Speaker 1>hundred and fifty dollars but today only it's so of

0:27:17.000 --> 0:27:19.639
<v Speaker 1>course I had to do the v I It's just

0:27:19.680 --> 0:27:22.960
<v Speaker 1>like going to Costco. You never know what consumers. And

0:27:23.080 --> 0:27:24.959
<v Speaker 1>I was like, look at the deal I'm getting here.

0:27:25.000 --> 0:27:28.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm getting a good deal. So I got it anyway, Yeah,

0:27:28.119 --> 0:27:30.600
<v Speaker 1>four hundred dollars later, Um, I saw a lot more

0:27:30.600 --> 0:27:33.280
<v Speaker 1>of my friend than I've ever seen. So so I

0:27:33.280 --> 0:27:36.680
<v Speaker 1>don't know how far is Denise taken. This is it topless?

0:27:36.760 --> 0:27:41.199
<v Speaker 1>Is it full nude? What you doing? Okay? Do you

0:27:41.200 --> 0:27:45.240
<v Speaker 1>see feet? Feet is a big one. As I was

0:27:45.280 --> 0:27:47.880
<v Speaker 1>doing this, the foot culture out there is really bizarre.

0:27:48.320 --> 0:27:50.320
<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh. As I was doing this and my

0:27:50.359 --> 0:27:52.160
<v Speaker 1>friends are like, you would do really well and only fans,

0:27:52.200 --> 0:27:54.040
<v Speaker 1>I was like, I don't know. And then my son,

0:27:54.119 --> 0:27:56.600
<v Speaker 1>who is ten and is always on his video games

0:27:56.640 --> 0:27:59.520
<v Speaker 1>and never looks up, he goes, Mom, actually put your

0:27:59.520 --> 0:28:03.880
<v Speaker 1>feet on feet Finder. You'll do much better. And I go,

0:28:04.680 --> 0:28:07.119
<v Speaker 1>what Finn? He goes, feet Finder, You'll make a lot

0:28:07.160 --> 0:28:09.800
<v Speaker 1>of money. Have you ever done a deep drive on

0:28:09.880 --> 0:28:12.080
<v Speaker 1>feet Finder? My ten year old should not be on that.

0:28:12.200 --> 0:28:15.240
<v Speaker 1>But yeah, Lauren went on at one time because she's

0:28:15.400 --> 0:28:18.040
<v Speaker 1>very she's very highly rated because she was on Entertainment

0:28:18.040 --> 0:28:20.280
<v Speaker 1>Tonight for so many years and obviously I guess show

0:28:20.280 --> 0:28:22.320
<v Speaker 1>her feet from time to time and so you're talking

0:28:22.320 --> 0:28:24.560
<v Speaker 1>wicky feet? Oh is that what that is? Okay? So yeah,

0:28:24.600 --> 0:28:26.800
<v Speaker 1>she was on so wherever they rate your feet, she was.

0:28:26.880 --> 0:28:30.080
<v Speaker 1>She was very highly rated. And I said, babe, do

0:28:30.240 --> 0:28:33.160
<v Speaker 1>do start with some foot stuff. Let's go. Um, so

0:28:33.600 --> 0:28:35.719
<v Speaker 1>am I to understand? First of all, you saw your

0:28:35.720 --> 0:28:39.080
<v Speaker 1>friend naked, and have you talked to Denise about this? So?

0:28:39.200 --> 0:28:42.440
<v Speaker 1>Oh so she just shows boobs and butt no bottom

0:28:42.480 --> 0:28:44.720
<v Speaker 1>half front and so just to clear up, have you

0:28:44.720 --> 0:28:46.480
<v Speaker 1>talked to her? Did she does? She finally know that

0:28:46.520 --> 0:28:50.680
<v Speaker 1>it was tory spelling, so I felt really weird. So

0:28:50.720 --> 0:28:53.760
<v Speaker 1>I texted her that night and I said, hey, Mama,

0:28:54.720 --> 0:28:57.240
<v Speaker 1>I just want to talk to you about something. It

0:28:57.320 --> 0:28:59.680
<v Speaker 1>was Christmas, though, so she didn't text me back. And

0:28:59.720 --> 0:29:02.880
<v Speaker 1>then next week I went on Jeff Louis Live and

0:29:02.920 --> 0:29:06.320
<v Speaker 1>I told the story and then Dense texted me and

0:29:06.360 --> 0:29:09.280
<v Speaker 1>she was like, I'm dying. That is the funniest thing.

0:29:09.600 --> 0:29:11.760
<v Speaker 1>And I said, all fairness, I tried to text you first.

0:29:11.760 --> 0:29:13.640
<v Speaker 1>You didn't respond because I'm so sorry. We were stick

0:29:13.640 --> 0:29:28.840
<v Speaker 1>over Christmas. So yeah, she knows. Maybe the biggest question,

0:29:30.000 --> 0:29:37.880
<v Speaker 1>are you seriously contemplating doing only fans? It's complicated. No,

0:29:38.240 --> 0:29:42.040
<v Speaker 1>you can't repeat my answer, Oh I can't. Okay, Uh

0:29:42.920 --> 0:29:44.720
<v Speaker 1>I would. I would take the call because I know

0:29:44.800 --> 0:29:48.160
<v Speaker 1>I always believe in taking the call and just listening. Okay,

0:29:48.880 --> 0:29:51.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm just kidding. So you're saying there's a chance. So

0:29:51.920 --> 0:29:55.200
<v Speaker 1>you're saying there's a chance. Um, you know what, help

0:29:55.280 --> 0:29:57.560
<v Speaker 1>me through this one, Chris Harrison? What would be the

0:29:57.600 --> 0:30:00.080
<v Speaker 1>pros and cons for me as an outside perspective of

0:30:00.240 --> 0:30:07.760
<v Speaker 1>someone in this business? You have five six children? Right? Yes?

0:30:07.960 --> 0:30:11.600
<v Speaker 1>Five at home? Still are all six? Um, my stepson

0:30:11.720 --> 0:30:13.760
<v Speaker 1>is here, actually my stepdaughters here. I have seven kids

0:30:13.760 --> 0:30:16.680
<v Speaker 1>in the house right now. So five from my belly, yes, good,

0:30:18.360 --> 0:30:21.520
<v Speaker 1>and they range from the ones from my belly are

0:30:21.640 --> 0:30:25.960
<v Speaker 1>from ages fifteen to five. Okay, so that's a lot.

0:30:26.000 --> 0:30:28.960
<v Speaker 1>By the way, God bless you. So now you know

0:30:29.000 --> 0:30:32.960
<v Speaker 1>why I'm thinking about only I mean clearly, I know

0:30:33.080 --> 0:30:35.320
<v Speaker 1>that a lot of people are doing it and making

0:30:36.320 --> 0:30:41.360
<v Speaker 1>absolute bank on this and crushing it. Yes, in your mind,

0:30:42.040 --> 0:30:45.360
<v Speaker 1>what would you be willing to do like scantily clad,

0:30:45.440 --> 0:30:48.600
<v Speaker 1>like dressed lingerie? We're talking just feet. Maybe you just

0:30:48.720 --> 0:30:51.560
<v Speaker 1>dabble and start with the foot stuff. But how like

0:30:51.800 --> 0:30:54.400
<v Speaker 1>in your in all seriousness, how far do you think

0:30:54.440 --> 0:30:57.280
<v Speaker 1>you would be willing to go? Well, I did do

0:30:57.320 --> 0:30:59.840
<v Speaker 1>a deeper dive, and I see like my friend comedian

0:31:00.000 --> 0:31:02.720
<v Speaker 1>Atney Cummings is on Only Fans and she does it

0:31:02.880 --> 0:31:05.080
<v Speaker 1>and her in there was you know, I'm going to

0:31:05.200 --> 0:31:08.400
<v Speaker 1>tell you if you dm me jokes like dirtier jokes

0:31:08.400 --> 0:31:11.240
<v Speaker 1>that you wouldn't normally get. So I was like, maybe

0:31:11.320 --> 0:31:13.960
<v Speaker 1>there's a creative way. I like comedy. I do a

0:31:13.960 --> 0:31:16.320
<v Speaker 1>lot of funny skits. Maybe there's something I could do

0:31:16.880 --> 0:31:20.480
<v Speaker 1>and be scantily clad in those skits. I don't know,

0:31:20.920 --> 0:31:23.600
<v Speaker 1>because what here's the thing with me, No matter what

0:31:23.640 --> 0:31:25.840
<v Speaker 1>I do, people have something to say about it. Of course,

0:31:26.680 --> 0:31:29.640
<v Speaker 1>I guess I'm polarizing. I don't know. Well, I don't

0:31:29.640 --> 0:31:32.520
<v Speaker 1>think you're polarizing. I think you're just you've had this

0:31:32.720 --> 0:31:35.160
<v Speaker 1>part of our heart and soul and that's what That's

0:31:35.200 --> 0:31:39.160
<v Speaker 1>what I guess hits me is what would people pay

0:31:39.360 --> 0:31:42.160
<v Speaker 1>to see Donna Martin from nine one oh naked? Or

0:31:43.640 --> 0:31:46.280
<v Speaker 1>of course they're going to that would be a draw.

0:31:46.640 --> 0:31:48.800
<v Speaker 1>I mean, see, it has to be that it has

0:31:48.840 --> 0:31:53.360
<v Speaker 1>to be some sort of America's favorite virgin. It would

0:31:53.360 --> 0:31:55.600
<v Speaker 1>have to be some sort of Donna Martin nod which

0:31:55.640 --> 0:31:58.200
<v Speaker 1>is that just crossing the line altogether naked at the

0:31:58.200 --> 0:32:05.040
<v Speaker 1>peach pit like we're going with this? I just I know,

0:32:05.080 --> 0:32:08.760
<v Speaker 1>I find it fascinating and I wonder how many of

0:32:08.760 --> 0:32:12.760
<v Speaker 1>these conversations have taken place in households across America when

0:32:13.080 --> 0:32:16.000
<v Speaker 1>you know, people are seeing how much money is being made,

0:32:16.360 --> 0:32:18.200
<v Speaker 1>and I'm sure some of it's being over, you know,

0:32:18.280 --> 0:32:20.880
<v Speaker 1>exaggerated millions and millions and I made a million dollars

0:32:20.880 --> 0:32:23.080
<v Speaker 1>this month or whatever, but there's still a lot of

0:32:23.120 --> 0:32:26.200
<v Speaker 1>money being made. And I'm sure Denise, if you've talked

0:32:26.200 --> 0:32:29.880
<v Speaker 1>to her, has she said what the downside is? Has

0:32:29.920 --> 0:32:33.280
<v Speaker 1>she felt any negativity towards this other than having to

0:32:33.280 --> 0:32:34.920
<v Speaker 1>deal with the fact that she is a mom as well?

0:32:35.760 --> 0:32:37.880
<v Speaker 1>She has said she thought she would have a backlash

0:32:38.000 --> 0:32:41.400
<v Speaker 1>because she's a mom and an actress, and she says, no,

0:32:41.720 --> 0:32:46.320
<v Speaker 1>it's quite the opposite. So but yeah, it would be

0:32:46.320 --> 0:32:48.000
<v Speaker 1>a hard one because I know the fans are super

0:32:48.040 --> 0:32:51.680
<v Speaker 1>invested in me as Donna Martin, America's virgin um. And

0:32:51.680 --> 0:32:53.360
<v Speaker 1>if I was going to do something like this, it

0:32:53.360 --> 0:32:55.720
<v Speaker 1>should have been years ago. I mean the Donna Martin

0:32:55.880 --> 0:32:59.440
<v Speaker 1>like vibrator or something something we could have done somewhere. Yeah.

0:32:59.640 --> 0:33:01.440
<v Speaker 1>My sman always said I missed the boat and I

0:33:01.440 --> 0:33:05.920
<v Speaker 1>should have made the Donna Martin pocket, So, um, wait,

0:33:05.920 --> 0:33:08.640
<v Speaker 1>can I say that on your show? Absolutely, the Donna Martin,

0:33:09.000 --> 0:33:12.280
<v Speaker 1>the Donna Martin Pocket. Thank you it's not not easy

0:33:12.320 --> 0:33:16.480
<v Speaker 1>to say, um, rolls just right off your tongue. I

0:33:16.560 --> 0:33:18.760
<v Speaker 1>just had a question, and for some reason, the pocket

0:33:19.320 --> 0:33:23.040
<v Speaker 1>definitely threw me. How would you justify this and how

0:33:23.080 --> 0:33:28.160
<v Speaker 1>would you have this conversation with your kids? Oh? Good thing,

0:33:28.400 --> 0:33:32.960
<v Speaker 1>good good one, good one, good one. Um. I think

0:33:33.000 --> 0:33:35.880
<v Speaker 1>as long as here's something, I think only fans gets

0:33:35.880 --> 0:33:39.239
<v Speaker 1>a bad name. So before only fans was, you know,

0:33:39.600 --> 0:33:42.440
<v Speaker 1>born and nude. It was actually I remember them approaching

0:33:42.480 --> 0:33:44.360
<v Speaker 1>me and it was going to be like a cameo

0:33:44.480 --> 0:33:46.880
<v Speaker 1>type situation where you could go and do videos and

0:33:46.880 --> 0:33:48.520
<v Speaker 1>talk to your fans and they could tip you all that,

0:33:49.320 --> 0:33:51.440
<v Speaker 1>and then all of a sudden it took a different direction.

0:33:51.640 --> 0:33:53.680
<v Speaker 1>And now I think they're really trying to bring it back.

0:33:53.720 --> 0:33:56.360
<v Speaker 1>The people they have chefs on making meals. I don't

0:33:56.360 --> 0:33:59.200
<v Speaker 1>know if they're doing it naked, but it's just I

0:33:59.240 --> 0:34:01.360
<v Speaker 1>don't know. So I feel like if there's another way

0:34:01.440 --> 0:34:04.840
<v Speaker 1>in I'm not saying I wouldn't show revealing stuff. I

0:34:04.880 --> 0:34:10.279
<v Speaker 1>do that anyway on my own Instagram. So like, I

0:34:10.280 --> 0:34:12.080
<v Speaker 1>think my kids would be supportive. Dean would have no

0:34:12.120 --> 0:34:16.120
<v Speaker 1>problem with this. He totally supports it. He's like, go

0:34:16.320 --> 0:34:18.759
<v Speaker 1>make that money, baby, please. He came up with the

0:34:18.760 --> 0:34:21.319
<v Speaker 1>idea of the Donna Martin pocket. He doesn't want me

0:34:21.360 --> 0:34:22.920
<v Speaker 1>to be on only fans. He's like, go for it.

0:34:23.560 --> 0:34:26.359
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, that's interesting. I just put myself in

0:34:26.360 --> 0:34:29.240
<v Speaker 1>this position of if what I would feel about Lauren,

0:34:29.360 --> 0:34:31.560
<v Speaker 1>and look, if she wants to do something like that,

0:34:31.680 --> 0:34:34.480
<v Speaker 1>I support her. She's her own woman, and that's what

0:34:34.560 --> 0:34:36.200
<v Speaker 1>I love about it. You don't. You can't love a

0:34:36.239 --> 0:34:38.279
<v Speaker 1>woman for being strong and independent and then when they

0:34:38.320 --> 0:34:41.799
<v Speaker 1>do something strong and independent you have a problem with it. Um,

0:34:41.880 --> 0:34:44.160
<v Speaker 1>So whatever you want to do, but it would be

0:34:44.200 --> 0:34:45.600
<v Speaker 1>hard for me, it would be hard for me to

0:34:45.600 --> 0:34:52.239
<v Speaker 1>share her like that got you. Yeah, that's personal to me. Well,

0:34:52.280 --> 0:34:54.080
<v Speaker 1>we'll see, we'll see what happens with if I take

0:34:54.080 --> 0:34:56.560
<v Speaker 1>that call again. Maybe start with you know, do you

0:34:56.600 --> 0:34:58.640
<v Speaker 1>have pretty feet? Maybe just start with the feet. I

0:34:58.680 --> 0:35:00.920
<v Speaker 1>have great feet. Okay, maybe we just start with the

0:35:00.960 --> 0:35:02.600
<v Speaker 1>feet and then we work our way up and you

0:35:02.640 --> 0:35:04.680
<v Speaker 1>have like really nice knee caps. I don't know if

0:35:04.719 --> 0:35:06.800
<v Speaker 1>kneecaps are a fetish, but then we just kind of,

0:35:06.840 --> 0:35:09.399
<v Speaker 1>you know, get to an elbow. Just make it just

0:35:09.600 --> 0:35:14.200
<v Speaker 1>start simple. On only fans, you mean only fans. Here's

0:35:14.200 --> 0:35:16.919
<v Speaker 1>the thing, I think if you're gonna like, you gotta

0:35:16.960 --> 0:35:18.839
<v Speaker 1>come out of the gate big, go bigger, go home.

0:35:19.400 --> 0:35:21.640
<v Speaker 1>And I'm not saying like show it all. You gotta

0:35:22.239 --> 0:35:24.279
<v Speaker 1>either going to do it or you're not. Yeah, I

0:35:24.360 --> 0:35:26.279
<v Speaker 1>can't like dip your toe in the water. I can't

0:35:26.320 --> 0:35:28.840
<v Speaker 1>wait to see where this story goes. I know me too.

0:35:29.000 --> 0:35:31.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm getting excited about it just talking to you. When

0:35:31.040 --> 0:35:35.319
<v Speaker 1>you make your decisions, when you make your decision, will

0:35:35.400 --> 0:35:40.919
<v Speaker 1>you come back here and let me know? Um? Yes?

0:35:41.040 --> 0:35:44.560
<v Speaker 1>And will when you make your decision, will can I

0:35:44.600 --> 0:35:46.120
<v Speaker 1>come back here and will you let me know? Yes?

0:35:47.520 --> 0:35:52.360
<v Speaker 1>I guarantee there we will have this conversation. Great mutual agreement.

0:35:53.320 --> 0:35:56.279
<v Speaker 1>Mutual agreement. Yeah, ABC only fans you know where to

0:35:56.320 --> 0:35:58.800
<v Speaker 1>reach us. You know, the press for this would be bonkers.

0:35:58.840 --> 0:36:01.560
<v Speaker 1>People would go crazy. And this I do. It's something

0:36:01.600 --> 0:36:04.960
<v Speaker 1>that you know. Again, I just met you today, but

0:36:05.160 --> 0:36:07.400
<v Speaker 1>I feel like again and people say this to me,

0:36:07.440 --> 0:36:09.239
<v Speaker 1>I feel like I know you because I have seen

0:36:09.320 --> 0:36:11.919
<v Speaker 1>story after story after story. I feel like I went

0:36:11.960 --> 0:36:16.239
<v Speaker 1>through the life and times with your family and then

0:36:16.480 --> 0:36:21.040
<v Speaker 1>afterwards in the your marriage and the problems in your marriage.

0:36:21.040 --> 0:36:23.839
<v Speaker 1>Like I feel like the press has been on you

0:36:24.719 --> 0:36:27.359
<v Speaker 1>every day and so it has been relentless in your life.

0:36:27.480 --> 0:36:35.120
<v Speaker 1>How have you managed that? It's not easy, it's hard,

0:36:35.200 --> 0:36:36.719
<v Speaker 1>it's you know. I try to give my kids as

0:36:36.840 --> 0:36:42.040
<v Speaker 1>normal a life as possible. Um, but you know, they're aware.

0:36:42.360 --> 0:36:45.840
<v Speaker 1>They're aware when there's paparazzi following us, they're aware, you know,

0:36:45.880 --> 0:36:48.640
<v Speaker 1>and fans are coming up that you know. And I

0:36:48.680 --> 0:36:50.400
<v Speaker 1>know for some of them it's easier and for some

0:36:50.520 --> 0:36:52.279
<v Speaker 1>they're like, you know, we just want you, we want

0:36:52.480 --> 0:36:55.200
<v Speaker 1>it to be private. Um. For me, I've kind of

0:36:55.200 --> 0:36:57.799
<v Speaker 1>gone through life with like blinders on. I think because

0:36:57.840 --> 0:37:01.759
<v Speaker 1>I had to. It was like a a protective mechanism

0:37:01.800 --> 0:37:04.080
<v Speaker 1>that I didn't even know I did. I remember at

0:37:04.080 --> 0:37:06.759
<v Speaker 1>the height of nine, like my friends not in nine two,

0:37:06.719 --> 0:37:07.880
<v Speaker 1>and we would be out and there'd be like, oh

0:37:07.880 --> 0:37:10.239
<v Speaker 1>my god, everyone's staring at you. Everyone's looking and I'd

0:37:10.280 --> 0:37:12.600
<v Speaker 1>be like, I didn't even notice it, because I think

0:37:12.600 --> 0:37:16.040
<v Speaker 1>it was my own like functioning way of like to

0:37:16.040 --> 0:37:17.960
<v Speaker 1>go through life, because I never wanted to be that

0:37:18.000 --> 0:37:19.600
<v Speaker 1>person to be like I can't go out, I can't

0:37:19.600 --> 0:37:20.960
<v Speaker 1>do that, and I don't want my kids to live

0:37:21.000 --> 0:37:23.640
<v Speaker 1>that life. So and my dad back in the day,

0:37:23.640 --> 0:37:25.320
<v Speaker 1>I remember the first time I was in a tabloid

0:37:25.360 --> 0:37:28.120
<v Speaker 1>and it was horrific, talking about like plastic surgery. And

0:37:28.160 --> 0:37:30.200
<v Speaker 1>I was seventeen. I'd had I had my nose done,

0:37:30.239 --> 0:37:32.560
<v Speaker 1>but that was it. And they were writing, I had

0:37:32.640 --> 0:37:36.760
<v Speaker 1>ribs removed and like my cheekbones, all this horrible stuff

0:37:36.800 --> 0:37:39.880
<v Speaker 1>and again you're seventeen, eighteen years old. Yeah, and like

0:37:40.000 --> 0:37:43.840
<v Speaker 1>broke my heart. And my dad said, Babe, was that

0:37:43.880 --> 0:37:47.279
<v Speaker 1>He talked like this, Babe, be happy they're talking about you.

0:37:47.560 --> 0:37:50.120
<v Speaker 1>Be worried when they're not talking about you anymore? Interesting?

0:37:51.760 --> 0:37:54.440
<v Speaker 1>How old were you when your dad passed? I was

0:37:55.000 --> 0:37:58.319
<v Speaker 1>thirty three two, And you guys had it. It It sounds

0:37:58.320 --> 0:38:02.040
<v Speaker 1>like you'll had an amazing relationship. We did, and the

0:38:02.120 --> 0:38:04.719
<v Speaker 1>daddy's girl. And how about your mom? So that's that's

0:38:04.760 --> 0:38:07.160
<v Speaker 1>another one. Like a story that was very public, was

0:38:07.160 --> 0:38:11.000
<v Speaker 1>your relationship with your mom, especially after your dad passed,

0:38:11.200 --> 0:38:14.040
<v Speaker 1>and all the money and the finances and all that,

0:38:14.120 --> 0:38:16.200
<v Speaker 1>like for all that to go public, how and the

0:38:16.280 --> 0:38:21.359
<v Speaker 1>press was just relentless, relentless to the point where I

0:38:21.400 --> 0:38:25.560
<v Speaker 1>mean today we're very close. And it took a long time,

0:38:26.280 --> 0:38:29.280
<v Speaker 1>and well we kind of get into it sometimes about

0:38:29.280 --> 0:38:31.080
<v Speaker 1>the press and the effect it had on it and

0:38:31.080 --> 0:38:33.000
<v Speaker 1>then we kind of say, let's put in the past.

0:38:33.719 --> 0:38:36.279
<v Speaker 1>But you know, to a certain extent, I think that

0:38:36.440 --> 0:38:40.839
<v Speaker 1>fed into our relationship and the demise of our relationship, um,

0:38:40.920 --> 0:38:44.640
<v Speaker 1>because you know, you can't help but reading stuff over

0:38:44.680 --> 0:38:48.040
<v Speaker 1>and over every week and think, wow, does my own

0:38:48.080 --> 0:38:49.839
<v Speaker 1>parents hate me? And she's like, does my own daughter

0:38:49.880 --> 0:38:53.799
<v Speaker 1>hate me? And it was Yeah, it was brutal. And

0:38:53.880 --> 0:38:56.040
<v Speaker 1>that's happened to me with several people in my life

0:38:56.120 --> 0:38:59.480
<v Speaker 1>relationship wise, that the press just you know, blows it

0:38:59.480 --> 0:39:01.560
<v Speaker 1>out of purport. Shouldn't you believe it? And that's the

0:39:01.600 --> 0:39:04.520
<v Speaker 1>thing I know. People are like, it's it's hard to

0:39:04.600 --> 0:39:08.759
<v Speaker 1>fathom how constant press like that can actually affect a

0:39:08.760 --> 0:39:12.040
<v Speaker 1>relationship because what you're thinking is we'll just we'll just

0:39:12.080 --> 0:39:13.719
<v Speaker 1>call them or just talk to him, like it's your

0:39:13.760 --> 0:39:16.439
<v Speaker 1>mom or it's your friend. Right, But do you hear

0:39:16.560 --> 0:39:20.720
<v Speaker 1>so much all the time? It does drive a wedge.

0:39:20.719 --> 0:39:22.920
<v Speaker 1>It actually can get to you. You start reading quotes

0:39:22.960 --> 0:39:24.400
<v Speaker 1>and you're like, well they did say that, and the

0:39:24.400 --> 0:39:26.759
<v Speaker 1>way they write these things and the way people talk

0:39:26.800 --> 0:39:29.880
<v Speaker 1>it's creative and it's good. Is there is there a

0:39:29.880 --> 0:39:32.080
<v Speaker 1>person in particular that you felt it? It drove a

0:39:32.120 --> 0:39:35.600
<v Speaker 1>wedge in between you. That didn't really exist a thousand

0:39:35.640 --> 0:39:39.239
<v Speaker 1>percent um with Shannon Doherty like on nine O two

0:39:39.320 --> 0:39:41.359
<v Speaker 1>and oh, she and I were best friends, like I'm

0:39:41.360 --> 0:39:43.719
<v Speaker 1>best friends with Jenny Garth. I would say Shannon and

0:39:43.760 --> 0:39:46.480
<v Speaker 1>I were equally just as close back then. She was

0:39:46.520 --> 0:39:49.000
<v Speaker 1>actually my first friend when I joined Nino. We did

0:39:49.040 --> 0:39:51.520
<v Speaker 1>everything together. My dad used to say, like, I love

0:39:51.640 --> 0:39:53.960
<v Speaker 1>seeing you and Shannon come down your PJ sleeping over

0:39:54.000 --> 0:39:57.960
<v Speaker 1>at the manor, Like we were so close. Um, and

0:39:58.000 --> 0:40:00.400
<v Speaker 1>she really took me under her wing, and that invit ARONMNT.

0:40:00.960 --> 0:40:04.000
<v Speaker 1>And you know, she ended up getting married, she left

0:40:04.000 --> 0:40:07.680
<v Speaker 1>the show. Um, and our lives just kind of moved on.

0:40:08.080 --> 0:40:10.759
<v Speaker 1>But nothing happened between us. We never had a falling out.

0:40:10.800 --> 0:40:14.120
<v Speaker 1>We never even had a fight. And the press suddenly

0:40:14.160 --> 0:40:16.960
<v Speaker 1>made us you know, she was my nemesis, like she

0:40:17.160 --> 0:40:19.120
<v Speaker 1>was the one like I hated her, and we had

0:40:19.120 --> 0:40:21.359
<v Speaker 1>this huge public fight that I read about for years

0:40:21.360 --> 0:40:23.680
<v Speaker 1>to the point where I was terrified. I was like,

0:40:23.719 --> 0:40:27.800
<v Speaker 1>Shannon hates me, Oh my gosh. And then I was

0:40:27.880 --> 0:40:31.680
<v Speaker 1>at a Playboy mansion party, says everyone, but you know

0:40:32.239 --> 0:40:36.840
<v Speaker 1>back in the early two thousands, Yes, um, and I

0:40:36.920 --> 0:40:38.960
<v Speaker 1>was there and I said, oh, Shannon's here, and I

0:40:39.120 --> 0:40:42.399
<v Speaker 1>literally I was like, oh my god, my heart fell

0:40:42.440 --> 0:40:43.640
<v Speaker 1>into my feet and I was like, I gotta get

0:40:43.680 --> 0:40:45.399
<v Speaker 1>out of here. And they're like, why Shannon, like from

0:40:45.400 --> 0:40:47.360
<v Speaker 1>your show, and I was like, she hates me. I

0:40:47.400 --> 0:40:49.680
<v Speaker 1>can't I can't see her. So it was a mutual

0:40:49.760 --> 0:40:52.279
<v Speaker 1>friend and they're like no, no, no no. So they went

0:40:52.320 --> 0:40:54.799
<v Speaker 1>over and they came back and they said, Shannon knows

0:40:54.840 --> 0:40:56.719
<v Speaker 1>you're here, and she actually wants to see you. She

0:40:56.760 --> 0:40:59.040
<v Speaker 1>wants to talk to you. So I was so scared.

0:40:59.120 --> 0:41:02.120
<v Speaker 1>So I went over and we both ended up saying

0:41:02.239 --> 0:41:05.080
<v Speaker 1>that we had thought the press had pitted us together.

0:41:05.120 --> 0:41:07.560
<v Speaker 1>We thought the other one hated each other, and it

0:41:07.680 --> 0:41:11.760
<v Speaker 1>never existed. To this day, people always still put like, oh, yeah,

0:41:11.880 --> 0:41:14.480
<v Speaker 1>they had this horrible relationship. They hated each other. It

0:41:14.560 --> 0:41:16.920
<v Speaker 1>was never her and eye other people but not me,

0:41:17.120 --> 0:41:19.360
<v Speaker 1>Like what a shame though, think about that, like you

0:41:19.880 --> 0:41:22.520
<v Speaker 1>all but lost a great friend just because of that.

0:41:23.120 --> 0:41:25.720
<v Speaker 1>I lost years with one of my best friends because

0:41:25.760 --> 0:41:27.719
<v Speaker 1>of that. And we hugged it out and made up

0:41:27.960 --> 0:41:31.120
<v Speaker 1>and and we're friends now. But it, yeah, it took years.

0:41:31.800 --> 0:41:33.759
<v Speaker 1>That would have been a great storyline on nine two one. Oh.

0:41:45.560 --> 0:41:47.880
<v Speaker 1>So the other thing that Uh, you kind of just

0:41:47.880 --> 0:41:50.560
<v Speaker 1>slipped in there. I love that you just your dad said,

0:41:50.880 --> 0:41:56.080
<v Speaker 1>I love having you guys at the manor. Yeah, I

0:41:57.400 --> 0:42:00.799
<v Speaker 1>had sleepovers at a house um, not a manner um.

0:42:00.840 --> 0:42:05.640
<v Speaker 1>I need to look up. My mom had stationary and

0:42:05.680 --> 0:42:11.480
<v Speaker 1>she had penns that said stolen from the manner um.

0:42:11.520 --> 0:42:14.160
<v Speaker 1>But that is that is amazing. And it happened on

0:42:14.200 --> 0:42:17.560
<v Speaker 1>our show from time to time that the press and

0:42:17.719 --> 0:42:20.920
<v Speaker 1>the most difficult part of the relationship post back, and

0:42:21.040 --> 0:42:25.880
<v Speaker 1>that's red is the show stops filming. You're together, and

0:42:25.920 --> 0:42:28.080
<v Speaker 1>then the show hasn't quite aired yet, so it's all

0:42:28.080 --> 0:42:31.680
<v Speaker 1>a secret, and you're not living together because you can't

0:42:31.760 --> 0:42:34.839
<v Speaker 1>for the secrecy, and you're trying to keep everything out

0:42:34.840 --> 0:42:37.960
<v Speaker 1>of the press, and so these stories start going that

0:42:38.520 --> 0:42:42.720
<v Speaker 1>so and so is out and about and he's already

0:42:42.719 --> 0:42:46.000
<v Speaker 1>seeing somebody else or he's calling it, and so we are.

0:42:46.280 --> 0:42:50.279
<v Speaker 1>We always had to patch things up and deal with

0:42:50.320 --> 0:42:55.000
<v Speaker 1>the tabloid rumors, and sometimes couples would break up before

0:42:55.040 --> 0:42:56.840
<v Speaker 1>they ever had a chance to succeed just because of

0:42:56.880 --> 0:42:59.120
<v Speaker 1>all the press, and it's it was such a bummer

0:42:59.160 --> 0:43:01.960
<v Speaker 1>and it's something we had to constantly fight. But that

0:43:02.120 --> 0:43:04.000
<v Speaker 1>it's a real thing. And I know that sounds crazy

0:43:04.040 --> 0:43:05.359
<v Speaker 1>to be like, what are you talking about? Just pick

0:43:05.440 --> 0:43:08.080
<v Speaker 1>up the phone and say that's not real, but it

0:43:08.200 --> 0:43:11.000
<v Speaker 1>it just happens, and it's relentless, and there's so much

0:43:11.000 --> 0:43:13.560
<v Speaker 1>of it that you finally start to believe some of

0:43:13.600 --> 0:43:18.160
<v Speaker 1>the press absolutely. And that's interesting to hear that because

0:43:18.160 --> 0:43:20.040
<v Speaker 1>for us, it's like they wrote stories about us our

0:43:20.040 --> 0:43:22.040
<v Speaker 1>whole career, so we're semi used to it, so it

0:43:22.160 --> 0:43:24.359
<v Speaker 1>is surprising to think that we're buying into the press

0:43:24.400 --> 0:43:27.239
<v Speaker 1>as well. But for couples on The Bachelor, they're real

0:43:27.280 --> 0:43:29.879
<v Speaker 1>people who have never dealt with faith before, and now

0:43:29.920 --> 0:43:32.000
<v Speaker 1>suddenly they're writing that I would believe. At first, I

0:43:32.040 --> 0:43:35.520
<v Speaker 1>would be like, oh, he totally, that's happened immediately, So

0:43:36.120 --> 0:43:38.239
<v Speaker 1>that's crazy. The more we've been talking today, the more

0:43:38.280 --> 0:43:43.000
<v Speaker 1>I realize our lives are so drastically different. I am

0:43:43.040 --> 0:43:45.920
<v Speaker 1>an empty nester. I just got back from seeing my

0:43:46.000 --> 0:43:49.879
<v Speaker 1>kids up at college this weekend at TCU UM And

0:43:50.000 --> 0:43:57.120
<v Speaker 1>you have seven under one roof, yeah, seven under one roof? Yeah?

0:43:57.400 --> 0:43:59.680
<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh. What is life like on the daily?

0:44:00.280 --> 0:44:04.200
<v Speaker 1>Is it just crazy? Like? How are you? You had

0:44:04.200 --> 0:44:08.120
<v Speaker 1>an hour to spend with me? Well, we'll see if

0:44:08.160 --> 0:44:10.640
<v Speaker 1>something is on fire when I go downstairs after this,

0:44:10.880 --> 0:44:19.799
<v Speaker 1>let's pray not Um. It's never predictable. It's fun, it's chaotic. Um,

0:44:19.800 --> 0:44:23.080
<v Speaker 1>it's crazy. It's literally insane. I always say I wish

0:44:23.160 --> 0:44:26.160
<v Speaker 1>people could really know, because I'll tell friends I can't

0:44:26.200 --> 0:44:28.719
<v Speaker 1>do this or work like I have to. You know,

0:44:28.760 --> 0:44:30.040
<v Speaker 1>I can't do this, I have this and that, and

0:44:30.080 --> 0:44:33.640
<v Speaker 1>they're like, oh, well, we're busy too, and it's like, okay, yeah,

0:44:33.719 --> 0:44:36.080
<v Speaker 1>you're right. But if they really came and spent a

0:44:36.160 --> 0:44:38.960
<v Speaker 1>day in my house, people would be like, oh whoa.

0:44:39.760 --> 0:44:42.520
<v Speaker 1>I remember thinking I was busy when I had no kids,

0:44:42.520 --> 0:44:45.200
<v Speaker 1>and then life got crazy because I had one kid.

0:44:46.040 --> 0:44:48.240
<v Speaker 1>And I always tell people every time you have another,

0:44:48.320 --> 0:44:52.000
<v Speaker 1>I have to It's not it multiplies by like three,

0:44:52.160 --> 0:44:54.720
<v Speaker 1>it's not. The math doesn't work out when you have kids.

0:44:55.560 --> 0:44:58.800
<v Speaker 1>At what point for you, though, does it stop getting

0:44:59.160 --> 0:45:02.040
<v Speaker 1>exponentially crazy or is it at three? Is it at five?

0:45:02.600 --> 0:45:04.920
<v Speaker 1>At some point it's got it can't just you know,

0:45:05.120 --> 0:45:07.319
<v Speaker 1>like just one start taking here of the other one

0:45:07.360 --> 0:45:12.279
<v Speaker 1>just gets lost. It's it's what point that was really

0:45:12.320 --> 0:45:14.560
<v Speaker 1>growing up? At the manner, I'm the one that got

0:45:14.600 --> 0:45:16.480
<v Speaker 1>lost in the manner still couldn't find my way out

0:45:16.480 --> 0:45:19.279
<v Speaker 1>of that place. It was so big. But uh, now

0:45:19.400 --> 0:45:21.520
<v Speaker 1>it's like a ten point five on the RCT scale.

0:45:21.640 --> 0:45:24.719
<v Speaker 1>Every single day. I would say, my oldest daughter, who

0:45:24.760 --> 0:45:27.680
<v Speaker 1>is fourteen, does take care of the others. She'll definitely

0:45:27.680 --> 0:45:29.279
<v Speaker 1>take care of the five year old. They all kind

0:45:29.280 --> 0:45:30.880
<v Speaker 1>of parent the five year old. He's gonna grow up

0:45:30.960 --> 0:45:33.279
<v Speaker 1>real screwed up because he's not sure who his parent is,

0:45:33.320 --> 0:45:37.560
<v Speaker 1>like he has everyone parenting him. Um, but I don't

0:45:37.640 --> 0:45:39.879
<v Speaker 1>know if it gets easier, I don't know. And then

0:45:39.880 --> 0:45:43.440
<v Speaker 1>what is it like as an empty nester, Like it

0:45:43.520 --> 0:45:46.840
<v Speaker 1>must be so quiet, it's very The quiet was the

0:45:46.880 --> 0:45:49.200
<v Speaker 1>toughest thing for me to get used to post even

0:45:49.239 --> 0:45:53.040
<v Speaker 1>post divorce, when you've been around your kid seven and

0:45:53.080 --> 0:45:55.279
<v Speaker 1>I was very active and involved and coached and did

0:45:55.320 --> 0:45:57.719
<v Speaker 1>all the things that mommy and me and everything. So

0:45:58.280 --> 0:46:01.040
<v Speaker 1>going from that to the when you have your week

0:46:01.120 --> 0:46:03.960
<v Speaker 1>off or whatever it is with your arrangement not having

0:46:04.000 --> 0:46:06.680
<v Speaker 1>your kids, that quiet is a difficult thing to get

0:46:06.719 --> 0:46:09.960
<v Speaker 1>used to. And when my son left for college, I

0:46:10.000 --> 0:46:12.279
<v Speaker 1>still had my daughter and we have a great relationship,

0:46:12.600 --> 0:46:14.440
<v Speaker 1>and I was like glooming onto her. I mean it

0:46:14.520 --> 0:46:17.800
<v Speaker 1>was probably annoying, but now that she's gone to college.

0:46:18.000 --> 0:46:22.120
<v Speaker 1>It is really wild to just have days weeks where

0:46:22.160 --> 0:46:24.720
<v Speaker 1>you don't see them. You know, we talk or text,

0:46:25.160 --> 0:46:28.440
<v Speaker 1>but it's really bizarre that that quiet and calm in

0:46:28.480 --> 0:46:31.719
<v Speaker 1>your life. It's a good feeling because you've accomplished something,

0:46:31.719 --> 0:46:34.080
<v Speaker 1>because you have wonderful children that are great human beings

0:46:34.080 --> 0:46:36.160
<v Speaker 1>and they're crushing it in life. So there is the

0:46:36.200 --> 0:46:40.520
<v Speaker 1>pride factor. But then there's the sadness of yesterday. He

0:46:40.560 --> 0:46:42.640
<v Speaker 1>was banging pots and pans on the on the floor

0:46:42.680 --> 0:46:45.239
<v Speaker 1>of the you know, kitchen, and I don't remember when

0:46:45.280 --> 0:46:48.279
<v Speaker 1>he didn't walk. I don't remember when he you know,

0:46:48.320 --> 0:46:50.239
<v Speaker 1>you start forgetting things, and it was those things I

0:46:50.320 --> 0:46:52.960
<v Speaker 1>love that the coaching Little League and soccer and all

0:46:53.000 --> 0:46:56.439
<v Speaker 1>those going to the recitals and all the performances. Those

0:46:56.440 --> 0:46:58.680
<v Speaker 1>are the things that I relished and love so much,

0:46:58.719 --> 0:47:01.200
<v Speaker 1>and that I unders saying why people have more and

0:47:01.280 --> 0:47:03.040
<v Speaker 1>have more because it's like you want to you want

0:47:03.040 --> 0:47:07.439
<v Speaker 1>to keep that feeling. You're making my ovaries ache real

0:47:07.560 --> 0:47:10.680
<v Speaker 1>bad right now. That window closes quick, and it's it's weird.

0:47:10.719 --> 0:47:13.919
<v Speaker 1>It's not college. It's when they start driving that really

0:47:14.000 --> 0:47:19.040
<v Speaker 1>hit me. It was that hitting sixteen and you have

0:47:19.320 --> 0:47:21.520
<v Speaker 1>gotten up every day, made them launch take him to

0:47:21.560 --> 0:47:23.719
<v Speaker 1>school as soon as schools out of thirty, you're an

0:47:23.800 --> 0:47:25.319
<v Speaker 1>uber driver for you for you know, for the next

0:47:25.360 --> 0:47:27.680
<v Speaker 1>six hours, you're an uber driver and you're a short

0:47:27.760 --> 0:47:31.040
<v Speaker 1>order cook. And when that's over, when your kids are like,

0:47:31.120 --> 0:47:32.960
<v Speaker 1>oh no, I have practiced after then I'm doing this

0:47:33.040 --> 0:47:34.840
<v Speaker 1>and I'm doing this, I'm like, wait, so I'm not

0:47:34.800 --> 0:47:37.480
<v Speaker 1>going to see you for the next twelve hours. That

0:47:37.480 --> 0:47:39.080
<v Speaker 1>that's when it really starts to hit you and you

0:47:39.120 --> 0:47:43.640
<v Speaker 1>realize that window is closing quickly. I my fifth year

0:47:43.640 --> 0:47:48.040
<v Speaker 1>old is now way taller than me. He's and his

0:47:48.320 --> 0:47:51.160
<v Speaker 1>voice is getting deep, and I forget all the time,

0:47:51.280 --> 0:47:53.200
<v Speaker 1>and I think, oh my god, there's someone in the house.

0:47:53.640 --> 0:47:56.040
<v Speaker 1>And I freak out because I see like a figure

0:47:56.080 --> 0:47:57.560
<v Speaker 1>walked by in the kitchen. I'm coming out of my

0:47:58.080 --> 0:48:00.520
<v Speaker 1>hallway and and then I hear of voice and I'm like,

0:48:00.600 --> 0:48:03.000
<v Speaker 1>oh my god, Mike Stella called nine on one. I'm like,

0:48:03.000 --> 0:48:06.319
<v Speaker 1>oh no, it's it's my kid. It's my kid. And

0:48:06.360 --> 0:48:09.520
<v Speaker 1>the hot water bill goes up. The showers get longer,

0:48:10.320 --> 0:48:13.840
<v Speaker 1>and uh, he's about the showers for long. He's about

0:48:13.880 --> 0:48:17.560
<v Speaker 1>to go into the guttural noise phase of being a

0:48:17.640 --> 0:48:21.960
<v Speaker 1>boy where they stopped talking and they just they answer

0:48:22.040 --> 0:48:24.799
<v Speaker 1>with sounds like they all do that, all do that,

0:48:25.640 --> 0:48:28.320
<v Speaker 1>and and hey huh. And so I thought it was

0:48:28.360 --> 0:48:31.000
<v Speaker 1>just TikTok though that no, no, you're you're gonna get

0:48:31.000 --> 0:48:32.320
<v Speaker 1>that for about five years and all of a sudden

0:48:32.320 --> 0:48:33.799
<v Speaker 1>they just snap out of it and you're like, oh,

0:48:33.840 --> 0:48:36.200
<v Speaker 1>hey man, so good to see you again. Welcome back

0:48:36.200 --> 0:48:41.560
<v Speaker 1>to earth. Yea, my son now, well, he's all into conversations.

0:48:41.600 --> 0:48:45.040
<v Speaker 1>He's a great it's wonderful. And I'm like, I missed you. Welcome,

0:48:45.080 --> 0:48:49.960
<v Speaker 1>welcome home. You know what you need now, don't say it.

0:48:50.520 --> 0:48:52.799
<v Speaker 1>You need another one? You need a new baby, I

0:48:52.840 --> 0:48:57.160
<v Speaker 1>was going to say, a grandchild. I can't wait for

0:48:57.200 --> 0:48:59.160
<v Speaker 1>it to be. I love babies, I do. I loved

0:48:59.200 --> 0:49:01.239
<v Speaker 1>being I knew I wanted to be a dad. I

0:49:01.320 --> 0:49:03.600
<v Speaker 1>knew I wanted that life. I couldn't wait for it

0:49:04.000 --> 0:49:07.040
<v Speaker 1>um and I loved every moment of it. But I

0:49:07.080 --> 0:49:09.239
<v Speaker 1>do think that God gives you this finite amount of

0:49:09.280 --> 0:49:12.400
<v Speaker 1>time when you have the patience to handle this. And

0:49:12.560 --> 0:49:15.480
<v Speaker 1>I know, I only know how to do things all

0:49:15.560 --> 0:49:17.760
<v Speaker 1>in I'm either doing it or I'm not in anything

0:49:17.760 --> 0:49:20.000
<v Speaker 1>in life, and parenting is the same way, and the

0:49:20.000 --> 0:49:24.480
<v Speaker 1>thought of going back to that stage of the diapers,

0:49:24.520 --> 0:49:27.439
<v Speaker 1>the you know, getting into the right school and going

0:49:27.480 --> 0:49:29.919
<v Speaker 1>to all the recitals and all that. Yeah, I think

0:49:30.000 --> 0:49:32.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm excited too for the next stage of just spoiling

0:49:33.160 --> 0:49:38.680
<v Speaker 1>nieces and nephews and eventually no rush kids grandchildren rush

0:49:38.800 --> 0:49:42.400
<v Speaker 1>and then they go home. Yeah, I could already tell,

0:49:42.480 --> 0:49:44.920
<v Speaker 1>like my patients, with my five year old as a

0:49:44.960 --> 0:49:47.480
<v Speaker 1>mom is real different than it was with my fifteen

0:49:47.520 --> 0:49:49.879
<v Speaker 1>year old when he was that age. Well, and after

0:49:49.920 --> 0:49:53.799
<v Speaker 1>doing it for the fifth time, I'm sure, but there

0:49:53.840 --> 0:49:55.879
<v Speaker 1>are there are some things I don't know if you've noticed, though,

0:49:56.200 --> 0:49:58.719
<v Speaker 1>you probably have much better perspective with your five year old.

0:49:58.760 --> 0:50:00.400
<v Speaker 1>You know what to be worried about, you know what

0:50:00.480 --> 0:50:03.840
<v Speaker 1>to care about, compared to when the first one comes

0:50:03.880 --> 0:50:06.960
<v Speaker 1>and everything is a big deal. Yes, I was a

0:50:07.000 --> 0:50:11.239
<v Speaker 1>helicopter mom everything. I was paranoid about everything. Now I'm like,

0:50:11.480 --> 0:50:13.480
<v Speaker 1>you're fine, You're fine, he's ten. Should he already be

0:50:13.520 --> 0:50:15.200
<v Speaker 1>playing golf? Should you have a swing coach? Should he

0:50:15.200 --> 0:50:17.200
<v Speaker 1>be doing this? And it is you know, our mascore

0:50:17.280 --> 0:50:20.279
<v Speaker 1>is like, he's fine. You know this, And by the way,

0:50:20.320 --> 0:50:21.600
<v Speaker 1>the five year old is going to be probably the

0:50:21.680 --> 0:50:24.040
<v Speaker 1>most talented and the most incredible at whatever he does

0:50:24.480 --> 0:50:27.040
<v Speaker 1>because he dolay golf. Actually, there you go, because he's

0:50:27.040 --> 0:50:29.160
<v Speaker 1>gonna grow up just following his passions and doing what

0:50:29.239 --> 0:50:33.680
<v Speaker 1>he actually really loves. Do you have animals? We don't.

0:50:33.800 --> 0:50:36.799
<v Speaker 1>I did, we had, we had dogs, but we we

0:50:36.880 --> 0:50:40.480
<v Speaker 1>don't have any here in Austin. So I feel like

0:50:40.640 --> 0:50:44.680
<v Speaker 1>I supplement more babies with animals. But we're gone. We're

0:50:44.719 --> 0:50:47.440
<v Speaker 1>gone so much and we love that. And that's one

0:50:47.440 --> 0:50:50.880
<v Speaker 1>thing that Lord and I have loved is this chapter

0:50:50.960 --> 0:50:52.920
<v Speaker 1>of our lives of being able to pick up and

0:50:52.960 --> 0:50:55.160
<v Speaker 1>just go. And I wasn't able to do that when

0:50:55.160 --> 0:50:56.640
<v Speaker 1>I was working on the Bachelor, And that's been one

0:50:56.640 --> 0:50:59.160
<v Speaker 1>of the blessings is we can just go. We can

0:50:59.160 --> 0:51:00.960
<v Speaker 1>go see the kids. We and go on the you know,

0:51:01.000 --> 0:51:02.759
<v Speaker 1>she goes on these girl trips. I go on my

0:51:02.840 --> 0:51:05.279
<v Speaker 1>boys trips. And we love that. We love having our

0:51:05.280 --> 0:51:09.239
<v Speaker 1>independent lives, which are very important. Can you indeed, because

0:51:09.320 --> 0:51:12.319
<v Speaker 1>I Lord and I say you have to have a

0:51:12.400 --> 0:51:14.720
<v Speaker 1>separate life. There are things you get from your girls,

0:51:15.960 --> 0:51:19.120
<v Speaker 1>your your girlfriends that we can't feed that part of

0:51:19.160 --> 0:51:21.759
<v Speaker 1>your soul and you need and you need to miss

0:51:21.760 --> 0:51:24.200
<v Speaker 1>each other from time to time with that many kids,

0:51:24.239 --> 0:51:29.520
<v Speaker 1>with the life you have, can you indeed do that? Um?

0:51:29.640 --> 0:51:32.720
<v Speaker 1>He does a little bit. He plays hockey and golf,

0:51:32.800 --> 0:51:36.480
<v Speaker 1>so he has his outlets. I don't. That's important and

0:51:36.480 --> 0:51:39.120
<v Speaker 1>it's not good. No, you need that. It's really work

0:51:39.200 --> 0:51:41.279
<v Speaker 1>and take care of kids. And it's yeah. I go

0:51:41.360 --> 0:51:43.680
<v Speaker 1>through phases where I'm like, Okay, I'm going to spend

0:51:43.719 --> 0:51:47.200
<v Speaker 1>time with my girlfriends and the public probably knows when

0:51:47.200 --> 0:51:49.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm having my like okay moments where because they'll see

0:51:49.560 --> 0:51:52.120
<v Speaker 1>me out like at restaurants and getting my photos taken,

0:51:52.480 --> 0:51:54.200
<v Speaker 1>and then they'll be like two years, we don't see

0:51:54.200 --> 0:51:57.440
<v Speaker 1>me like publicly at all unless I'm working. Um, And

0:51:57.480 --> 0:51:59.480
<v Speaker 1>that's where I'm just like back in the whole of

0:51:59.520 --> 0:52:01.520
<v Speaker 1>like kids, kids, kids, I'm like in that right now.

0:52:01.600 --> 0:52:02.759
<v Speaker 1>I need to get out of it. I need to

0:52:02.800 --> 0:52:05.319
<v Speaker 1>like have more meat time. It's hard, and I get it,

0:52:05.400 --> 0:52:07.359
<v Speaker 1>you know, preaching to the choir here of it's so

0:52:07.440 --> 0:52:10.920
<v Speaker 1>easy to lose yourself when you have children, and I

0:52:10.960 --> 0:52:13.680
<v Speaker 1>think especially for women, for the moms, it's easy to

0:52:13.680 --> 0:52:16.400
<v Speaker 1>lose your You have to work hard to to not

0:52:16.640 --> 0:52:18.759
<v Speaker 1>and you have so many site hustles. I know you

0:52:18.800 --> 0:52:21.719
<v Speaker 1>and Jenny are doing the n podcast, which is crushing it.

0:52:22.280 --> 0:52:26.520
<v Speaker 1>Yes on OMG, and you and your bff are also

0:52:26.760 --> 0:52:29.960
<v Speaker 1>you have a decor line. Yes, Home to core Line

0:52:30.000 --> 0:52:32.960
<v Speaker 1>just launched on QVC, so we're super excited about that.

0:52:33.080 --> 0:52:36.359
<v Speaker 1>We design every single aspect of it. Um, we're really

0:52:36.360 --> 0:52:37.960
<v Speaker 1>proud of it and working on it for three years

0:52:37.960 --> 0:52:40.399
<v Speaker 1>and finally launched and then um we have a great

0:52:40.400 --> 0:52:42.200
<v Speaker 1>Home to Core line. And then in July we're coming

0:52:42.200 --> 0:52:45.800
<v Speaker 1>out with Christmas in July, so a whole Christmas PFF

0:52:45.880 --> 0:52:48.760
<v Speaker 1>line for the holidays of tree and then we're possibly

0:52:48.840 --> 0:52:51.680
<v Speaker 1>launching only fans. So you have a lot on your plan.

0:52:53.920 --> 0:52:57.239
<v Speaker 1>I do, wow, And that just makes you know what

0:52:57.280 --> 0:53:00.520
<v Speaker 1>they say when you want something, to give it to

0:53:00.520 --> 0:53:04.399
<v Speaker 1>a busy person, it's keep stacking those plates up. I

0:53:04.400 --> 0:53:06.319
<v Speaker 1>I like to balance, just bring it well. It makes

0:53:06.360 --> 0:53:08.279
<v Speaker 1>me even more grateful and appreciative that you took time

0:53:08.320 --> 0:53:11.839
<v Speaker 1>out to come on my show. I appreciate it. I've

0:53:11.880 --> 0:53:14.680
<v Speaker 1>I've always loved and admired you from AFAR, and now

0:53:14.680 --> 0:53:16.640
<v Speaker 1>that I've gotten to spend some time with you even

0:53:16.680 --> 0:53:20.560
<v Speaker 1>more so. You are an absolute rock star. I feel

0:53:20.560 --> 0:53:23.160
<v Speaker 1>the same way because I'm a fan too, and I've

0:53:23.160 --> 0:53:26.319
<v Speaker 1>watched you for years and it's really nice to get

0:53:26.320 --> 0:53:29.120
<v Speaker 1>to know you. I appreciate your full package. Chris Harrison,

0:53:29.320 --> 0:53:34.120
<v Speaker 1>thank you, Tori Spelling. Next time we do this at

0:53:34.160 --> 0:53:37.440
<v Speaker 1>the manor. Oh well, now she has the manner in

0:53:37.440 --> 0:53:40.440
<v Speaker 1>the sky, but we should do this at the manner,

0:53:40.719 --> 0:53:42.440
<v Speaker 1>and we should do it for the launch of the

0:53:42.640 --> 0:53:45.719
<v Speaker 1>Mother Daughter only fans with me and Candy Spelling in

0:53:45.760 --> 0:53:47.960
<v Speaker 1>her gift wrapping room. Just say it could be a thing.

0:53:48.200 --> 0:53:52.799
<v Speaker 1>Heaven heavenly that would work. Uh, it would work so well.

0:53:52.880 --> 0:53:54.759
<v Speaker 1>And by the way, I love you so much. Now

0:53:54.800 --> 0:53:59.239
<v Speaker 1>that Lauren and I will become your first subscribers, I'll

0:53:59.239 --> 0:54:02.160
<v Speaker 1>hold you to that. Tori, thank you so much. I

0:54:02.239 --> 0:54:06.319
<v Speaker 1>appreciate the time you take care. Thank you, Chris My.

0:54:06.400 --> 0:54:11.759
<v Speaker 1>Thanks to Tori Spelling. Fascinating life, incredible insight. I love

0:54:11.800 --> 0:54:15.320
<v Speaker 1>how honest, open, raw she is. She does not mind

0:54:15.360 --> 0:54:18.920
<v Speaker 1>putting it out there. And I think maybe my biggest

0:54:18.960 --> 0:54:23.399
<v Speaker 1>takeaway is just how despite growing up in the world

0:54:23.520 --> 0:54:26.240
<v Speaker 1>she grew up in, she was able to stay focused,

0:54:27.120 --> 0:54:30.359
<v Speaker 1>concentrated on her job, keep those blinders on, as she said,

0:54:30.440 --> 0:54:32.640
<v Speaker 1>and she has done that and been incredibly successful and

0:54:32.760 --> 0:54:35.000
<v Speaker 1>is now an amazing mom. And I wish her all

0:54:35.000 --> 0:54:37.040
<v Speaker 1>the best, and I look forward to our paths crossing

0:54:37.160 --> 0:54:39.760
<v Speaker 1>very soon. So my thanks to Tori and my thanks

0:54:39.800 --> 0:54:43.240
<v Speaker 1>to you for listening. I hope you have a wonderful week,

0:54:43.600 --> 0:54:45.200
<v Speaker 1>and I can't wait to talk to you next time.

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<v Speaker 1>Because who knows what headlines are gonna pop up this week.

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<v Speaker 1>I think we're gonna have a lot to talk about.

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