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Speaker 1: turn them out, turn you love, got to turn them out,

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Speaker 1: it everybody, y'all listen to the voice. Come on dig

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Speaker 1: me now, one and only Steve Harvey. Uh how a

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Speaker 1: radio show? Yep, yep? Sometimes saw all I can say yelp, Man,

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Speaker 1: how far I've come is really unbelievable. But you know

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Speaker 1: I finally figured it out. Man. God allowed me to

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Speaker 1: have the life I've had so that I can become

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Speaker 1: experienced at so many different things. And then this experience

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Speaker 1: when I'm talking and sharing with people, I will be

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Speaker 1: able to relate to a lot of different circumstances, not exact,

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Speaker 1: but just the circumstances. You know. You know if a

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Speaker 1: I didn't I didn't have any direction. Okay, got that

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Speaker 1: you know, I think what I'm trying to say to

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Speaker 1: everybody is when you're going through life and life is

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Speaker 1: dealing the cards that it deals, I want you to

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Speaker 1: understand that life deals everybody these cards. The disappointment card,

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Speaker 1: get them. Understand that going in that everybody is gonna

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Speaker 1: get these cards. It's how you play them, though, you know,

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Speaker 1: from time to time, one more time, it's how you

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Speaker 1: play them, you know. From time to time when I'm

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Speaker 1: watching TV, I love to watch the World Series of Poker.

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Speaker 1: I like watching poker tournaments on TV because it's it's

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Speaker 1: really weird, what's happened to a sport? To a poker

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Speaker 1: And as the everyday guy that doesn't have to be

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Speaker 1: They just make the best plays. I've seen guys win

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Speaker 1: Everybody ain't finna get two bullets in their hand. You

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Speaker 1: You know, when you play a draw poker, some of

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Speaker 1: Until you make a conscientious different, the conscious decision to

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to stay positive. But the people around here,

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Speaker 1: and they say, man, Steve really ain't funny. I don't

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Speaker 1: He wasn't the funniest king to me. Excuse me, you're

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Speaker 1: I probably shouldn't have went that. You're listening to show,

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Speaker 1: It's about to begin. It's a new day, new opportunity,

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Speaker 1: I want to thank God for R and B because

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Speaker 1: I don't know why I would be without R and B. Look,

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Speaker 1: no disrespect to hip hop at all. It's turned out

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Speaker 1: and blue Lord ha mercy man, It's been everything to me.

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Speaker 1: Charley Strawberry calling for real mouth and South Junior board

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Speaker 1: What has it done for you in your whole life?

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Speaker 1: What has it not done? Be a quicker list? What

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Speaker 1: Doo doo doo doo? Oh man, we passed and try

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Speaker 1: is a he? Do you singing? Harvey? Do do? Man?

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Speaker 1: we could do this all day. It ain't nothing you

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Speaker 1: thirty two minutes after the hour, run that prank back

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Speaker 1: What you got for us? Nap? Me and your baby

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Speaker 1: got a married? Whose wife? Is this you? So you communicate?

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Speaker 1: I'm letting you know. All right, let's go, man, your

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Speaker 1: baby getting mad? Hello? Hello, I'm trying to reach I'm

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Speaker 1: trying to reach mister. Yes, hey, mister, how you doing.

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Speaker 1: I'm trying. Let me let me make you I'm calling

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Speaker 1: the right person. Your daughter is Crystal? Yes, okay, cool, yo,

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Speaker 1: I got the right person. Hey, listen, well, I wanted

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Speaker 1: and I've been uh seeing Crystal, uh you know, pretty

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Speaker 1: I'm very interested in Crystal right now. And I wanted

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Speaker 1: I'm really interested in in, uh in marrying your daughter

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Speaker 1: and marrying my daughter. Well, hold on, man, what what

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Speaker 1: what do you say? Your name again? My name is Jeff, Jeff. Okay,

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Speaker 1: Jeff Jeff. Listen. I'm very close with my daughter, and

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Speaker 1: my daughter has never ever mentioned you. I talked to

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Speaker 1: my daughter every day. Wow, I don't know what that's about.

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Speaker 1: What it's been like about five close to six months,

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Speaker 1: Nashville writes, My nineteen year old babysitter keeps my five

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Speaker 1: Where's the innocence? Yeah? Yeah, you didn't mash them dogs together? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: deal breaker? Is the funk a deal breaker? Well? See

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Speaker 1: of Milano. Oh magnum, but Neandrethal. Oh that's the name

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Speaker 1: you do know you stink. Just come right on out

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Speaker 1: with it. I cannot be the first person to tell

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Speaker 1: you this, which probably speaks volumes as to why you

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Speaker 1: were even on the market and available anyway, because you've

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Speaker 1: obviously been put out of several people's houses that you

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Speaker 1: don't want it. If you don't want this to be

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Speaker 1: the twelfth house you've been put out of, we're going

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Speaker 1: to have to dip you in Thompson's waterproof Ceila or

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Speaker 1: we're done. We can't have you leaking on me. Coming

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Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour, entertainment news for you, right, Josh,

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Speaker 1: maybe y'all should just have sex in shower. You're listening

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Speaker 1: to show. Well, Happy Morty grod day today? Is that Tuesday?

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Speaker 1: Everyone happy, mighty fry. Yes that Tuesday Today, New Orleans, Mobile, Galveston, Texas.

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Speaker 1: Everywhere wherever they tell celebrate Morty Gray happy, Yes, thank you.

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Speaker 1: They kind of Modey grod in Columbus, Ohio really really yeah.

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Speaker 1: School is beyond weeks even clothes. I don't even know

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Speaker 1: why they have to work, all right, parade people just driving, run,

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Speaker 1: heading bees, hanging on and Calopus, Ohio. That's it. And

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Speaker 1: they only do it on the weekend. They just had

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Speaker 1: it just passed weekend. I'm telling you, yoh okay, all right. Well.

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Speaker 1: In other entertainment news, Judge Mathis and the People's Court

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Speaker 1: Show has been canceled after twenty years on the air.

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Speaker 1: Yeah cold, I know, I love us some judgment this

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Speaker 1: show man, yeah Corney Yahoo dot com. Judge Mathis premiered

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00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:36,880
Speaker 1: back in nineteen ninety nine. It's Judge Greg Mathis weighed

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00:30:36,920 --> 00:30:40,240
Speaker 1: in on a variety of legal matters ranging from financial

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Speaker 1: dispute to emotional distress claims. Judge Mathis, who previously presided

447
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Speaker 1: as a judge in Michigan's thirty sixth District Court, also

448
00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:52,640
Speaker 1: currently holds the title as the longest running black mail

449
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Speaker 1: host of a Courtroom television series and they're taking them

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Speaker 1: off a lot of years ago. Yeah, it is a blessing. Yes,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna keep that record too. Yeah, that record is head. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I won't be breaking that record. That's safe. Matth of

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Speaker 1: you decame Yeah, Kerr and Gregory. Yeah. Also another entertainment news,

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Speaker 1: the NBA All Star Weekend was this past weekend. UH

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Speaker 1: Team Giannis one Sunday's game, raising two hundred and fifty

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Speaker 1: thousand dollars for the charity raised, the Future Adoption Program.

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Speaker 1: Carla okay So tell us about the halftime show, Well,

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Speaker 1: halftime Sunday's game. It was I heard people complaining about

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Speaker 1: what happened. I didn't see the halftime. The halftime show

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00:31:46,800 --> 00:31:51,479
Speaker 1: was about afrobeats. It was about Nigeria and the NBA

461
00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:57,000
Speaker 1: has celebrated Africa's global contributions to the world. So some

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Speaker 1: a lot of their players from Africa player with the

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Speaker 1: Toronto Raptors as well, so they celebrated with the players

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Speaker 1: and the performers. Burn A Boy is Big, Burna Boy, Tims,

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Speaker 1: all of these Nigerian born artists, but they are worldwide superstars.

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Speaker 1: They performed a halftime so I thought that was big

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Speaker 1: of the NBA during Black History Month. It was really

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Speaker 1: really huge. And Tim's she is that Girl is Fire.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, we play that song right here in the

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Speaker 1: Steam Harvey Morning Show. But we have to give a

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Speaker 1: shout out to Tim's and she wrote lift me Up.

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Speaker 1: That girl is a Beast. So congratulations and Afro beats

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Speaker 1: the country and Nigerian represented globally at the NBA All

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Speaker 1: Star Weekend halftime performance. Happy Black History Month. Yea yeah,

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Speaker 1: try to get it in. It was yeah, all right,

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Speaker 1: thank you, carlos So. In other entertainment news, a group

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Speaker 1: of British women have accused Chris singer Chris Brown and

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Speaker 1: his crew of discriminating and colorism against them. According to

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Speaker 1: baller Alert, these women claimed that Chris was hosting a

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Speaker 1: VIP party in London and despite being on the VIP

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Speaker 1: guest list, the women weren't allowed in while thousands of

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Speaker 1: white girls were hand picked to let in. Chris Brown

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Speaker 1: responded and posted a video on his ig story with

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Speaker 1: the caption stop it, I have black queens all around me.

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00:33:32,520 --> 00:33:37,880
Speaker 1: Since then, the women have backtracked their statements of accusing

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Speaker 1: Chris Brown of colorism. Okay, once so you just say

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Speaker 1: this and then you're you can just take it away.

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Speaker 1: What what is going on? Your ragged ass didn't get

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Speaker 1: into VIP party? Now you're mad. Chris Brown has always

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Speaker 1: had bad look well on that Instagram story where he

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Speaker 1: says style, he showed him showed himself at the party

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Speaker 1: with sisters around here. So that's why he said, stop it,

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Speaker 1: you reach it black dogs? He always and you know what, man,

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00:34:12,719 --> 00:34:16,640
Speaker 1: people make me sick. Man. But see, here's the deal.

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Speaker 1: These people, whether it's something like innuendo, room up or

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Speaker 1: even go to court, it's something. That's why they do

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00:34:30,040 --> 00:34:32,480
Speaker 1: it because there's no there's no consequences for doing it.

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Speaker 1: Now you get to make this crazy statement about this man,

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Speaker 1: and now when it ain't true, you get to just

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Speaker 1: going about your bids. Yeah, that's why, man, I don't

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Speaker 1: jump on these band wagons every time you see a

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Speaker 1: man get accused or something. I don't jump on that

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Speaker 1: band wagon, man, because I see too many times, and

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00:34:53,719 --> 00:34:56,040
Speaker 1: I see it more than the average person, because I'm

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00:34:56,120 --> 00:34:59,799
Speaker 1: privy to background information from a lot of famous men

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Speaker 1: who gonn Man, can you believe this man? Yeah? And

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00:35:04,440 --> 00:35:06,960
Speaker 1: we we all be talking about man, that's crazy. Now

508
00:35:08,120 --> 00:35:10,600
Speaker 1: when when it when it get proven that ain't the case.

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Speaker 1: The person who made the accusation, they get the gonna

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Speaker 1: skip to the loop my dollar. Oh it didn't work.

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Speaker 1: They busted me, all right, but this man damage is done.

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Speaker 1: Bru he he out of lawyer fees. He didn't had

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Speaker 1: to get private detectives, he didn't try to do everything

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Speaker 1: to clear his name. All this here and then you go,

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Speaker 1: well they busted me. I'm out, o man, it's gotta

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Speaker 1: be Yeah. She was saying, well, it was his people,

517
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Speaker 1: but you used when you drop his name there, like

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Speaker 1: you said, the damnage is done. It's done because they

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Speaker 1: don't look. People don't know his people, but they know

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Speaker 1: him him outside again, all right, coming up at twenty

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Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, speaking of All Star Weekend, there

522
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Speaker 1: was a huge surprise over this weekend. We'll talk about

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00:35:57,160 --> 00:36:02,960
Speaker 1: it right after this. You're listening, Steve Show. Well, Junior,

524
00:36:03,040 --> 00:36:05,239
Speaker 1: we know you'll talk more about this next hour, but

525
00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:10,520
Speaker 1: still trending. Mac McClung won the Slam Dunk Contest during

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Speaker 1: the NBA All Star Weekend Slam Dunk Contest. What do

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Speaker 1: you guys think? And who is Matt McClung. Do you guys,

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Speaker 1: did you guys know him before he didn't know. We

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00:36:20,560 --> 00:36:25,520
Speaker 1: know he is now. Yeah, he jumped over a man

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Speaker 1: with a baby on his neck. I ain't m seeing

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Speaker 1: whoa let's getting crazy. Yeah, it's good. Did you see it, Steve?

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00:36:37,719 --> 00:36:42,960
Speaker 1: You didn't see it? Oh? Okay at all? You know, No,

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00:36:43,600 --> 00:36:49,120
Speaker 1: it stopped being even slightly competitive. It stopped that years ago.

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00:36:49,239 --> 00:36:51,920
Speaker 1: It's always been kind of loose, but you know, at

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00:36:52,000 --> 00:36:55,640
Speaker 1: least they would play to try to some stops. Now

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00:36:55,880 --> 00:37:00,920
Speaker 1: it's not even it's not even that. It's just run down, raised,

537
00:37:01,600 --> 00:37:04,920
Speaker 1: one down, dump and I don't want to see that,

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00:37:05,280 --> 00:37:09,920
Speaker 1: you know. So in the past All Star Game it

539
00:37:10,120 --> 00:37:12,920
Speaker 1: had a little defense. It was a little more competitive

540
00:37:13,040 --> 00:37:17,239
Speaker 1: than the show of one, twelve, one twenty five, you

541
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Speaker 1: know something. So yeah, you know, like a regular score game,

542
00:37:22,280 --> 00:37:26,800
Speaker 1: slightly elevated. Okay, yeah, like like now that you know,

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00:37:26,920 --> 00:37:29,360
Speaker 1: Jason Tatum had fifty five, which was good, but I

544
00:37:29,520 --> 00:37:32,799
Speaker 1: was just there was nothing. They're just shooting. I don't

545
00:37:32,880 --> 00:37:34,920
Speaker 1: like that part of it. You know, it's cool to have.

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00:37:35,160 --> 00:37:37,960
Speaker 1: It's great for the sport. All the half, though, I

547
00:37:38,040 --> 00:37:40,319
Speaker 1: think they should continue with the three point the dunk

548
00:37:40,400 --> 00:37:42,920
Speaker 1: and all like that. I think it's just not not

549
00:37:43,040 --> 00:37:46,920
Speaker 1: the basketball. I don't watch the Pro Bowl either. The

550
00:37:47,040 --> 00:37:52,680
Speaker 1: NFL game it was flagged this year, yeah, which even worse.

551
00:37:53,840 --> 00:37:56,480
Speaker 1: But Jun you saw it, you saw the star. Yeah

552
00:37:56,880 --> 00:37:58,839
Speaker 1: you think some of it. I mean, I'm like, well, man,

553
00:37:58,880 --> 00:38:01,120
Speaker 1: it's just not as competitive no more. I mean, come on,

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Speaker 1: s one hundred eighty photo one sitting the five. What

555
00:38:03,480 --> 00:38:07,360
Speaker 1: do we do? No defense at all like this? I

556
00:38:07,440 --> 00:38:11,000
Speaker 1: mean we come on now, damn near two hundred points

557
00:38:11,160 --> 00:38:16,439
Speaker 1: clung man, you that I'm talking about. They just yeah,

558
00:38:16,600 --> 00:38:19,200
Speaker 1: and they just shooting. They ain't missing nothing. Ain't nobody

559
00:38:19,280 --> 00:38:23,200
Speaker 1: guarding you, right right, don He used to be points

560
00:38:23,280 --> 00:38:25,560
Speaker 1: in times, it used to be really competitive. And they

561
00:38:25,600 --> 00:38:26,960
Speaker 1: think they should go back to the East versus the

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00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:30,520
Speaker 1: West because that that that picking players and all that. No, no,

563
00:38:31,120 --> 00:38:33,879
Speaker 1: the both competitive that way. But man, now, I'm sorry,

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Speaker 1: everybody get you. I got the stoke actually in the

565
00:38:35,960 --> 00:38:38,480
Speaker 1: damn game. Oh you were there, you play, I'm put

566
00:38:38,600 --> 00:38:40,440
Speaker 1: I put up two points my damn self, and then

567
00:38:40,480 --> 00:38:43,239
Speaker 1: then everybody stepped up. But doesn't make you look at

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00:38:43,719 --> 00:38:47,279
Speaker 1: Matt McClung differently. How about him? Well, your man, McClung, Man,

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Speaker 1: he's just man. He won outright, that brother, man. He

570
00:38:50,920 --> 00:38:55,440
Speaker 1: outright one that he did stuff. I saw that boy

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00:38:56,160 --> 00:39:00,399
Speaker 1: and he able six too. Yeah that makes it work.

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00:39:01,400 --> 00:39:07,479
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, well you deserve it. Yeah yeah, he wanted

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00:39:07,640 --> 00:39:10,879
Speaker 1: out right. There was nobody close. All right, we'll coming

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00:39:10,960 --> 00:39:12,959
Speaker 1: up at thirty four minutes after the hour. We're gonna

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00:39:13,040 --> 00:39:18,040
Speaker 1: check Steve's voicemail. Right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: Morning Show. All right, it is time now to check

577
00:39:22,800 --> 00:39:25,320
Speaker 1: Steve's voicemail. And if you would like to leave a

578
00:39:25,400 --> 00:39:27,239
Speaker 1: message for Steve, all you have to do is call

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00:39:27,320 --> 00:39:30,399
Speaker 1: him eight seven seven twenty nine Steve eight seven seven

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00:39:30,520 --> 00:39:32,680
Speaker 1: twenty nine. Steve, we might just play your message on

581
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Speaker 1: the air. Steve. You ready, Yeah, all right, let's go.

582
00:39:37,040 --> 00:39:41,879
Speaker 1: This is from a guy that needs some relationship advice. Steve. Hey, Steve,

583
00:39:41,960 --> 00:39:44,959
Speaker 1: I just went through a hard breakup of six years.

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Speaker 1: There's my fault for my mistakes. She can't back all

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00:39:48,680 --> 00:39:51,560
Speaker 1: the pass. I need help to try to win her

586
00:39:51,640 --> 00:39:54,080
Speaker 1: back and to bring her back in my life. I

587
00:39:54,239 --> 00:39:57,040
Speaker 1: know I messed up in the past, but and I

588
00:39:57,520 --> 00:40:01,239
Speaker 1: changed and I'm she decided to leave. I just need

589
00:40:01,280 --> 00:40:03,879
Speaker 1: to know I need advice on how to get her back.

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00:40:04,360 --> 00:40:07,800
Speaker 1: Thank you, and I hope you consider this well, you know, brother,

591
00:40:08,640 --> 00:40:11,160
Speaker 1: you're in trouble and I could feel it. But listen

592
00:40:11,200 --> 00:40:14,400
Speaker 1: to me. It's hard for me to give your advice

593
00:40:14,520 --> 00:40:16,120
Speaker 1: on how to get up back. And I don't know

594
00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:20,200
Speaker 1: what you did, but now you said some some some

595
00:40:20,520 --> 00:40:24,040
Speaker 1: keywords in that that I've heard millions of me and say,

596
00:40:24,640 --> 00:40:28,040
Speaker 1: I made it was my fault. I made some mistakes

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00:40:28,080 --> 00:40:33,520
Speaker 1: in the past. She just won't let it go. I'm

598
00:40:33,560 --> 00:40:39,719
Speaker 1: a change man. All these things are classic lines when

599
00:40:39,800 --> 00:40:43,480
Speaker 1: you blow something that was really good for you and

600
00:40:43,680 --> 00:40:46,640
Speaker 1: good to you, and you went off and did something

601
00:40:46,800 --> 00:40:51,239
Speaker 1: else that made her feel devalue. So now once you

602
00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:55,680
Speaker 1: devalue a woman, make her feel like she's not the

603
00:40:55,960 --> 00:40:59,719
Speaker 1: premium object of your life that she thought she was,

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00:41:01,040 --> 00:41:04,359
Speaker 1: it's hard to get that back. And then obviously you've

605
00:41:04,520 --> 00:41:09,160
Speaker 1: lost her trust because now she don't believe that you've changed.

606
00:41:09,920 --> 00:41:12,799
Speaker 1: Obviously there's things in the past that she won't let

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Speaker 1: god go. Up you think because you've apologized that she

608
00:41:17,280 --> 00:41:19,560
Speaker 1: should just let it go because you said I'm sorry

609
00:41:19,640 --> 00:41:22,520
Speaker 1: everywhere you know. Well, brother, I don't know if she's

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00:41:22,560 --> 00:41:24,680
Speaker 1: going to accept the apology. I don't know if she's

611
00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:26,919
Speaker 1: moved on or not. I don't know because I don't

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00:41:26,920 --> 00:41:30,840
Speaker 1: know the severity of the crime, but this may be

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00:41:30,920 --> 00:41:35,200
Speaker 1: an opportunity for you to get yourself together because we've

614
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Speaker 1: all had to deal with this one brother, all of us.

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Speaker 1: Or we didn't all blue one. Oh, we didn't all

616
00:41:42,000 --> 00:41:47,279
Speaker 1: messed up all all? Hey, man, some sometimes it's time

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00:41:47,320 --> 00:41:51,120
Speaker 1: to move on, now, you know. And you didn't you

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Speaker 1: know man, you didn't love stories? And how could I

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Speaker 1: let when I new love? There's so many songs. B Yeah,

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00:42:10,239 --> 00:42:13,520
Speaker 1: all right, um man, this one Steve from a lady

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Speaker 1: who would like to make a No, we have to

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Speaker 1: get this call in with his grandma. Yes we have

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Speaker 1: to grandma. Yes, yes, we have to Steve. I love

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Speaker 1: your show. But one thing that really gets me going

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00:42:31,520 --> 00:42:34,879
Speaker 1: is when you say their selves. There is no such

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00:42:35,000 --> 00:42:40,600
Speaker 1: word as their selves. It's themselves. Please correct it. I

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00:42:40,960 --> 00:42:45,920
Speaker 1: would appreciate it. Love you bye bye hey. First of

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Speaker 1: all their sales, they sell. That's what I say. I

629
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Speaker 1: ain't never say they say. And even if I did,

630
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Speaker 1: I like that one too, But it's they sell, they sell.

631
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Speaker 1: Don't say myself I self. Sometimes I say I self,

632
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Speaker 1: I myself and not You know, lady, I don't really care.

633
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Speaker 1: You are very important wasn't important to who you don't

634
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Speaker 1: like the self? What a look at him? I've been

635
00:43:26,120 --> 00:43:30,240
Speaker 1: to stop taking knees him, I've been to stop taking

636
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Speaker 1: knees your call, If that's all y'all fitting the walk

637
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Speaker 1: off for me? No, No, whis the last time? Wh's

638
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Speaker 1: the last time you had a chance to talk to

639
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Speaker 1: a bonafid celebrity? Anyway? When WHI never hump now for now,

640
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Speaker 1: vollocate all the rest of that. Thank you, ma'am. I

641
00:44:01,800 --> 00:44:06,560
Speaker 1: so appreciate this call from you coming up next to yourself.

642
00:44:06,680 --> 00:44:10,120
Speaker 1: Don't call here no more frank phone call for it

643
00:44:10,160 --> 00:44:15,399
Speaker 1: today from the nephew coming up right after this. You're

644
00:44:15,480 --> 00:44:21,239
Speaker 1: listening to Harvey Morning Show coming up at the top

645
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Speaker 1: of the hour, right about four minutes after. It's my

646
00:44:23,400 --> 00:44:26,640
Speaker 1: strawberry letter for it today and the subject is I'm

647
00:44:26,719 --> 00:44:30,719
Speaker 1: not leaving and she's not staying. Okay, we'll get into

648
00:44:30,800 --> 00:44:33,640
Speaker 1: that in just a few but right now it is

649
00:44:33,719 --> 00:44:36,759
Speaker 1: time for the nephew and today's frank phone call. What

650
00:44:36,920 --> 00:44:40,160
Speaker 1: you got for us, nest Well, I feel I feel

651
00:44:40,200 --> 00:44:42,759
Speaker 1: like having some happy ending. That's what I feel like,

652
00:44:43,280 --> 00:44:50,600
Speaker 1: happy ending? What so the title of this is happy ending? Yeah,

653
00:44:51,640 --> 00:44:56,400
Speaker 1: here we go come on keeping Hello Grapian shoot speaking.

654
00:44:56,440 --> 00:44:58,799
Speaker 1: How may I help you? Yeah, I'm trying to come

655
00:44:58,840 --> 00:45:01,200
Speaker 1: in and get some u some therapy done. I was

656
00:45:01,239 --> 00:45:03,200
Speaker 1: in an accident at my job. You know, I got

657
00:45:03,320 --> 00:45:05,359
Speaker 1: injured like a week and a half ago. I ain't

658
00:45:05,360 --> 00:45:07,359
Speaker 1: been able to go back to work for my back

659
00:45:07,440 --> 00:45:09,719
Speaker 1: and my league they say, you know, I haven't broke

660
00:45:09,760 --> 00:45:11,640
Speaker 1: any bones in none, but it's you know, it's real

661
00:45:11,719 --> 00:45:14,319
Speaker 1: soul or real stealth and hard to get out of bed.

662
00:45:14,480 --> 00:45:16,480
Speaker 1: So I wanted to see you know what it takes

663
00:45:16,520 --> 00:45:19,680
Speaker 1: to get a therapist and get start getting some type

664
00:45:19,719 --> 00:45:22,880
Speaker 1: of treatment. Okay, Well, sir, what we typically do is

665
00:45:22,960 --> 00:45:25,200
Speaker 1: we ask for our patients to come in, you know,

666
00:45:25,480 --> 00:45:28,400
Speaker 1: check out our facility and so we can also accept

667
00:45:28,520 --> 00:45:31,360
Speaker 1: you you know, see where the damage is, the majority

668
00:45:31,400 --> 00:45:33,440
Speaker 1: of it, and you know, then get you to a therapist.

669
00:45:33,960 --> 00:45:35,400
Speaker 1: So if you would like to come in, we can

670
00:45:35,520 --> 00:45:37,920
Speaker 1: definitely do that for you. Okay. Do you know what

671
00:45:38,080 --> 00:45:40,879
Speaker 1: the therapists actually do when they do in the treatment? Well,

672
00:45:40,920 --> 00:45:42,960
Speaker 1: if you come in, sir, we can definitely direct you

673
00:45:43,920 --> 00:45:46,520
Speaker 1: to any of our three therapists that we have on

674
00:45:46,800 --> 00:45:52,280
Speaker 1: site right now, but each one specializes in a particular field.

675
00:45:52,480 --> 00:45:54,759
Speaker 1: So it's more beneficial for you if you come in

676
00:45:55,000 --> 00:45:56,719
Speaker 1: and then we can assess you and then direct you

677
00:45:56,840 --> 00:46:00,600
Speaker 1: to that particular therapist. So okay, okay, So you said,

678
00:46:00,640 --> 00:46:02,719
Speaker 1: how many of y'all do y'all have? We have three.

679
00:46:02,920 --> 00:46:07,080
Speaker 1: There's Marty, Brenda and Cecilia here. Okay. The person that

680
00:46:07,560 --> 00:46:10,279
Speaker 1: referred me to y'all told me that Cecilia was the

681
00:46:10,360 --> 00:46:12,400
Speaker 1: one that that had worked up. Is there a way

682
00:46:12,440 --> 00:46:15,960
Speaker 1: I could talk to cecil you Typically, we normally ask

683
00:46:16,000 --> 00:46:18,000
Speaker 1: our patience to come in. Then let me see if

684
00:46:18,040 --> 00:46:20,680
Speaker 1: she's available right now. I know earlier she was was

685
00:46:20,760 --> 00:46:23,480
Speaker 1: a patient, so let me just check really quick. I mean,

686
00:46:23,520 --> 00:46:27,600
Speaker 1: if she is available, then I can I can transfer you. Okay, okay, okay,

687
00:46:27,760 --> 00:46:33,919
Speaker 1: I just hold on, okay, hold on Hi. This is Cecilia. Yeah,

688
00:46:34,080 --> 00:46:36,400
Speaker 1: Miss Cecilia trying to come up there and get some

689
00:46:36,520 --> 00:46:39,000
Speaker 1: therapy done. I heard my back and my leg at work.

690
00:46:39,160 --> 00:46:41,680
Speaker 1: I mean they are they already told me was nothing broken, nothing,

691
00:46:41,719 --> 00:46:44,440
Speaker 1: But I wanted to see what exactly do y'all do

692
00:46:44,680 --> 00:46:47,680
Speaker 1: is for as physical therapy? You know, what exactly will

693
00:46:47,680 --> 00:46:50,239
Speaker 1: I be doing? Well? When you come in, we'll do

694
00:46:50,320 --> 00:46:55,640
Speaker 1: a consultation and you know, will masfage you and take

695
00:46:55,840 --> 00:46:59,160
Speaker 1: X rays and put you in a whirlpool tub, and

696
00:46:59,320 --> 00:47:02,200
Speaker 1: there are several different things that we could do for you. Okay,

697
00:47:02,760 --> 00:47:05,080
Speaker 1: is it a certain timeline? I mean, like, how long

698
00:47:05,600 --> 00:47:07,239
Speaker 1: would it take before I can get back to work,

699
00:47:07,280 --> 00:47:09,200
Speaker 1: because you know, I've been off for about a week

700
00:47:09,320 --> 00:47:11,799
Speaker 1: nine I'm trying to get back within the next couple

701
00:47:11,800 --> 00:47:13,920
Speaker 1: of weeks. But it's taking me, like, you know, at

702
00:47:14,000 --> 00:47:16,600
Speaker 1: least thirty minutes to get out of bed because of

703
00:47:16,680 --> 00:47:19,399
Speaker 1: my back in my leg. Oh wow, Well you need

704
00:47:19,480 --> 00:47:21,600
Speaker 1: to come in as soon as possible because that's something

705
00:47:21,719 --> 00:47:24,560
Speaker 1: like that's pretty bad. Okay, Well, let me ask you

706
00:47:24,640 --> 00:47:28,440
Speaker 1: this hill. After people get through doing the therapy, do

707
00:47:28,800 --> 00:47:31,960
Speaker 1: y'all have happy endings? Happy endings? What do you mean

708
00:47:32,040 --> 00:47:34,520
Speaker 1: by happy endings? How happy end is? Like, you know,

709
00:47:34,640 --> 00:47:37,760
Speaker 1: when therapy is over with, you know, do would you yourself?

710
00:47:38,040 --> 00:47:40,560
Speaker 1: You know, would you do happy endings at the end? Okay,

711
00:47:40,840 --> 00:47:44,280
Speaker 1: I'm still not understanding what do you mean by happy endings?

712
00:47:44,800 --> 00:47:46,680
Speaker 1: What are you talking about? Okay, say like if I

713
00:47:46,760 --> 00:47:49,520
Speaker 1: come over then and go through a session or whatever

714
00:47:49,640 --> 00:47:51,880
Speaker 1: for about an hour. When we get through, you know,

715
00:47:51,960 --> 00:47:54,239
Speaker 1: will you kind of like you know, close the dough

716
00:47:54,320 --> 00:47:57,680
Speaker 1: and and you know, you know, do happy endings, you know,

717
00:47:58,040 --> 00:48:05,080
Speaker 1: make me feel good? Okay, Um, close the door. I'm

718
00:48:05,560 --> 00:48:10,360
Speaker 1: still not quite understanding what you mean by happy ending, sir. Okay.

719
00:48:10,520 --> 00:48:12,239
Speaker 1: What I'm trying to say is like, when we get

720
00:48:12,320 --> 00:48:15,319
Speaker 1: through with the procedure, uh, you know, make me feel

721
00:48:15,400 --> 00:48:18,799
Speaker 1: good in a in a nice uh you know sexual way.

722
00:48:18,840 --> 00:48:24,040
Speaker 1: You know, happy endings. When Judy sent you back to me,

723
00:48:24,840 --> 00:48:26,480
Speaker 1: what are we talking about with this happy ending thing?

724
00:48:26,480 --> 00:48:28,440
Speaker 1: Because I don't, I don't. I didn't ask something hum

725
00:48:28,440 --> 00:48:30,160
Speaker 1: about the happy ending? Is that that right there just

726
00:48:30,320 --> 00:48:32,520
Speaker 1: gonna be between me and you? We'll see. I don't.

727
00:48:32,560 --> 00:48:34,840
Speaker 1: I don't play that. I don't know. This is a

728
00:48:34,920 --> 00:48:39,600
Speaker 1: place of business. We're professional here. We do therapy for

729
00:48:39,800 --> 00:48:43,279
Speaker 1: people who are seriously being hurt. This is not the

730
00:48:43,760 --> 00:48:48,200
Speaker 1: nearest bar. What's talking about happy endings after we finish

731
00:48:48,280 --> 00:48:50,960
Speaker 1: with that? What's not a place? Do you think this is? Well?

732
00:48:51,000 --> 00:48:52,759
Speaker 1: I mean, I know it's I know it's therapy, But

733
00:48:52,880 --> 00:48:55,400
Speaker 1: I mean, if people going through that much pain at

734
00:48:55,480 --> 00:48:58,799
Speaker 1: least have some type of happy endings, don't you think well,

735
00:48:58,880 --> 00:49:02,360
Speaker 1: I think you might see just your significant other. Okay,

736
00:49:02,440 --> 00:49:04,600
Speaker 1: so you wouldn't be up for doing a happy ending

737
00:49:04,680 --> 00:49:08,239
Speaker 1: for hell? No, I ain't interested in the man? What

738
00:49:08,480 --> 00:49:12,040
Speaker 1: kind of this you call about talking about? You heard? Hell?

739
00:49:12,080 --> 00:49:15,040
Speaker 1: Have you heard? You shouldn't be talking about fending? You're

740
00:49:15,080 --> 00:49:17,120
Speaker 1: talking about it? Okay? Hold on, I mean you're not

741
00:49:17,280 --> 00:49:20,200
Speaker 1: talking to me professionally. Well you coming at me with

742
00:49:20,280 --> 00:49:23,839
Speaker 1: this happy ending ain't professionally at all either. What kind

743
00:49:23,880 --> 00:49:26,480
Speaker 1: of place you think we're running over here? Okay? Hold on,

744
00:49:26,640 --> 00:49:29,520
Speaker 1: I don't referred to you. I'm thinking you know the

745
00:49:29,600 --> 00:49:32,320
Speaker 1: guy telling me? You know you're gonna take kevimy? What

746
00:49:32,560 --> 00:49:36,239
Speaker 1: God told you like this? I'm sorry, God, I told

747
00:49:36,280 --> 00:49:38,680
Speaker 1: you something like this. Look, let you know what that's

748
00:49:38,680 --> 00:49:40,160
Speaker 1: not even going there because I don't even want to

749
00:49:40,160 --> 00:49:43,319
Speaker 1: bring him any of this? Can you satisfy me out

750
00:49:43,320 --> 00:49:48,160
Speaker 1: to each there? I'm gonna tip you a little bit too, man?

751
00:49:48,280 --> 00:49:54,400
Speaker 1: Have you lost your everlasting marble mind? Are you gone crazy? Julie, Julie?

752
00:49:54,760 --> 00:49:57,560
Speaker 1: Who in the hell is this on the phone that

753
00:49:57,640 --> 00:50:00,360
Speaker 1: you didn't sit through me thinking this is an happy

754
00:50:00,600 --> 00:50:03,719
Speaker 1: ending place? Who is this? Missus Cilia? She don't she

755
00:50:03,840 --> 00:50:06,399
Speaker 1: don't know nothing about the happy ending part. It don't

756
00:50:06,440 --> 00:50:09,800
Speaker 1: matter you. You you're the receptionist. You know what you

757
00:50:09,960 --> 00:50:13,759
Speaker 1: on the borderline losing your job, because this is hello,

758
00:50:14,320 --> 00:50:17,080
Speaker 1: missus Cilia. Can I just tell you who who referred me?

759
00:50:17,400 --> 00:50:21,360
Speaker 1: Who who who? And told you that I have happy

760
00:50:21,400 --> 00:50:24,800
Speaker 1: injuries for anybody? Because person I have happy juries for

761
00:50:25,120 --> 00:50:29,080
Speaker 1: it is my husband. Who Who is it, missus Cilia?

762
00:50:29,800 --> 00:50:34,000
Speaker 1: Nephew Timmy from the Steve Harvin Morning Show, Your girlfriend

763
00:50:34,120 --> 00:50:41,479
Speaker 1: Karen got me the prank phone call you y'all, y'all

764
00:50:41,520 --> 00:50:44,640
Speaker 1: in here getting me read. I'm about to find my reptionist.

765
00:50:44,800 --> 00:50:48,439
Speaker 1: I got folks in the libbists back out have lost

766
00:50:48,520 --> 00:50:57,360
Speaker 1: my called me on my job. I'm a kick cuts

767
00:50:58,360 --> 00:51:01,239
Speaker 1: just don't make no sense, missus silius. She told me,

768
00:51:01,360 --> 00:51:08,160
Speaker 1: she said, my girlfriend Patience is short day day. Oh

769
00:51:08,360 --> 00:51:10,680
Speaker 1: it's own. She gonna need her. That's all right. I

770
00:51:10,760 --> 00:51:14,960
Speaker 1: got something for her. Oh you got some happy I

771
00:51:15,080 --> 00:51:21,480
Speaker 1: got some happy dues for her. You just wait till

772
00:51:21,520 --> 00:51:24,000
Speaker 1: you gotta tell me this baby. What is the baddest

773
00:51:24,040 --> 00:51:27,040
Speaker 1: and I mean the baddest radio show in the land,

774
00:51:27,239 --> 00:51:36,680
Speaker 1: The Steve Harvey Morning Show. Nephew crazy. Somebody makes somebody

775
00:51:36,760 --> 00:51:43,600
Speaker 1: happy today, y'all makes somebody happen. Okay, please please go

776
00:51:43,800 --> 00:51:46,719
Speaker 1: make somebody happy today. You two, You two can do

777
00:51:47,200 --> 00:51:50,320
Speaker 1: can be a something positive in somebody's life. Let's just

778
00:51:50,480 --> 00:51:58,320
Speaker 1: make somebody happy today. Quiet all right, all right, listen Tommy,

779
00:51:58,480 --> 00:52:00,640
Speaker 1: because you do stuff like this, we have a phone

780
00:52:00,680 --> 00:52:02,840
Speaker 1: call for you, sir. Check it out. I don't do

781
00:52:03,000 --> 00:52:06,560
Speaker 1: call files. Who is Steve Ain't Company. This is Devil

782
00:52:06,719 --> 00:52:08,880
Speaker 1: from Memphis and I would like to you didn't know

783
00:52:09,360 --> 00:52:13,319
Speaker 1: that nephew Tommy is still here. He was out here

784
00:52:13,480 --> 00:52:16,399
Speaker 1: last night as the Chuckle come to club. We really

785
00:52:16,560 --> 00:52:19,640
Speaker 1: enjoyed him and the guest. So just saying, you know,

786
00:52:20,480 --> 00:52:25,560
Speaker 1: nephew Tommy is still here, so you've been kicking it all.

787
00:52:26,640 --> 00:52:30,520
Speaker 1: Can I say something? Can I say something to the

788
00:52:30,640 --> 00:52:34,480
Speaker 1: lady that call did? Be careful how you talk, because

789
00:52:34,560 --> 00:52:37,040
Speaker 1: we have a Jamaican lady that listens to this show

790
00:52:37,760 --> 00:52:40,720
Speaker 1: and gets very offended with the pronuncia. She's a word.

791
00:52:41,160 --> 00:52:45,000
Speaker 1: So when you said nephew Tommy is still her, he gonna.

792
00:52:45,239 --> 00:52:48,080
Speaker 1: I want you to know she probably heard that. So

793
00:52:48,280 --> 00:52:52,520
Speaker 1: you said that Tommy is still her, Well, no, he

794
00:52:52,840 --> 00:52:56,640
Speaker 1: isn't still hurt because Tommy has never been heard before

795
00:52:56,800 --> 00:52:59,000
Speaker 1: my never. You need to go over there and just

796
00:52:59,080 --> 00:53:01,440
Speaker 1: work on your dish. Make sure you stay true to

797
00:53:01,719 --> 00:53:05,760
Speaker 1: what are your dishes, you know, make sure you're racing

798
00:53:05,920 --> 00:53:08,279
Speaker 1: piggis and all that stuff, and y'all your jerk is

799
00:53:08,320 --> 00:53:13,840
Speaker 1: on point. Got time to call in. Thank you baby.

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Speaker 1: Coming up. Strawberry Letter is up next, the subject I'm

801
00:53:21,160 --> 00:53:23,759
Speaker 1: not leaving and she's not staying. We'll find out what

802
00:53:23,840 --> 00:53:28,560
Speaker 1: that's all about right after this. You're listening hard morning show,

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00:53:30,719 --> 00:53:34,040
Speaker 1: Happy Bartie Gray, everybody. It is time now for today's

804
00:53:34,040 --> 00:53:38,880
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. By everybody. I mean, Carla for sure, I

805
00:53:39,000 --> 00:53:42,200
Speaker 1: got some beads for y'all. I'm just saying I got some.

806
00:53:42,840 --> 00:53:47,440
Speaker 1: You got some beans and some gumbo gumbo. But in

807
00:53:47,600 --> 00:53:50,520
Speaker 1: order to get these beads, you gotta show you something

808
00:53:52,200 --> 00:53:57,640
Speaker 1: for water. All right, Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. Listen.

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813
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Speaker 1: going to read this one right here, right now, and

814
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Speaker 1: you never know, it could be yours. It could be yours.

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Speaker 1: Buckle up and hold on tight. We got it for

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Speaker 1: you here. It is Strawberry Letter. Subject I'm not leaving

817
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Speaker 1: and she's not staying. Dear Stephen Shirley. I am twenty

818
00:54:27,160 --> 00:54:29,719
Speaker 1: nine years old and my parents got a divorce six

819
00:54:29,880 --> 00:54:33,120
Speaker 1: years ago. My dad cheated on my mom, and after

820
00:54:33,200 --> 00:54:36,439
Speaker 1: the divorce, he moved in with his girlfriend. My mother

821
00:54:36,560 --> 00:54:39,520
Speaker 1: eventually met a nice man and she got remarried three

822
00:54:39,640 --> 00:54:42,800
Speaker 1: years ago and moved in with him. My mother owns

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Speaker 1: the house I'm living in, and she promised it to

824
00:54:45,160 --> 00:54:48,200
Speaker 1: me as a wedding gift. My fiance moved in and

825
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Speaker 1: we are fixing the house up, slowly but surely. My

826
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Speaker 1: dad had given me five thousand dollars to help us

827
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Speaker 1: with the renovations, and my fiance and I were overjoyed.

828
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Speaker 1: But now everything is falling apart and we're miserable because

829
00:55:03,400 --> 00:55:07,239
Speaker 1: my dad is living with us. His second wife kicked

830
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Speaker 1: him out and filed for divorce after he got caught

831
00:55:10,400 --> 00:55:13,799
Speaker 1: cheating again. He was supposed to be with us temporarily,

832
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Speaker 1: but it's been seven months. The worst part is he

833
00:55:17,320 --> 00:55:20,400
Speaker 1: wants his new girlfriend to live with us too, until

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Speaker 1: they can find a place that suits them. I lost

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Speaker 1: so much respect for my dad after he cheated on

836
00:55:26,080 --> 00:55:29,239
Speaker 1: my mom, and my emotions boiled over earlier this week,

837
00:55:29,280 --> 00:55:32,480
Speaker 1: and I let him know exactly how I feel. I

838
00:55:32,640 --> 00:55:35,080
Speaker 1: told him that I want him and its new girlfriend

839
00:55:35,200 --> 00:55:37,360
Speaker 1: out of my house and if it was a problem,

840
00:55:37,480 --> 00:55:40,320
Speaker 1: my fiance and I would give him every penny of

841
00:55:40,440 --> 00:55:43,319
Speaker 1: the five thousand dollars back. He had done a little

842
00:55:43,400 --> 00:55:45,799
Speaker 1: research on the house and found out that my mother

843
00:55:45,920 --> 00:55:49,120
Speaker 1: hadn't done what she was supposed to do to put

844
00:55:49,160 --> 00:55:51,279
Speaker 1: the house in my name, and since she had been

845
00:55:51,360 --> 00:55:54,000
Speaker 1: paying taxes, since he had been paying taxes on the

846
00:55:54,080 --> 00:55:57,359
Speaker 1: house for years, I couldn't put him out. I told

847
00:55:57,440 --> 00:56:01,200
Speaker 1: him I'm not leaving and she's not staying. We'll have

848
00:56:01,320 --> 00:56:03,560
Speaker 1: to deal with my dad a bit longer, but we

849
00:56:03,719 --> 00:56:06,200
Speaker 1: do not have to deal with his girlfriend living with us.

850
00:56:06,560 --> 00:56:09,120
Speaker 1: How can my own dad be so evil when he

851
00:56:09,239 --> 00:56:12,080
Speaker 1: knows I'm getting married and fixing up this house. Do

852
00:56:12,200 --> 00:56:15,400
Speaker 1: I let him and his girlfriend have the house or

853
00:56:15,680 --> 00:56:18,920
Speaker 1: fight for what's mine? Well, I definitely think you should

854
00:56:18,960 --> 00:56:22,040
Speaker 1: fight for what's yours. I mean, sorry, sorry that this

855
00:56:22,200 --> 00:56:24,000
Speaker 1: is your dad you're gonna have to be fighting with,

856
00:56:24,719 --> 00:56:27,680
Speaker 1: But I mean, just what a mess this is, and

857
00:56:27,800 --> 00:56:30,600
Speaker 1: it's nothing like family mess. I know you love your dad,

858
00:56:31,320 --> 00:56:34,760
Speaker 1: but you know I also see how you've lost respect

859
00:56:34,800 --> 00:56:37,080
Speaker 1: for him. He's in there on you for all this time,

860
00:56:37,120 --> 00:56:38,920
Speaker 1: and now he wants to bring his girlfriend in. He

861
00:56:38,960 --> 00:56:41,920
Speaker 1: shouldn't be living with you under any circumstances if he

862
00:56:42,000 --> 00:56:44,600
Speaker 1: can help it, and certainly shouldn't be trying to move

863
00:56:44,640 --> 00:56:47,600
Speaker 1: his girlfriend in there. Why would she even want a

864
00:56:47,760 --> 00:56:51,759
Speaker 1: grown man with kids? Why would this woman even want

865
00:56:51,800 --> 00:56:54,239
Speaker 1: a grown man who has to live with his son.

866
00:56:54,840 --> 00:56:57,760
Speaker 1: I mean, sorry, but they both sound trifling to me. Sorry,

867
00:56:57,800 --> 00:57:00,080
Speaker 1: I know that's your dad. Your father's bad behaved if

868
00:57:00,120 --> 00:57:02,800
Speaker 1: you got him into this predicament and he's got you

869
00:57:03,040 --> 00:57:05,640
Speaker 1: and your fiance all involved. You're trying to plan for

870
00:57:05,760 --> 00:57:08,400
Speaker 1: your future, you know, fix up the house, who you

871
00:57:08,480 --> 00:57:12,000
Speaker 1: all can have something. I think your father's very selfish,

872
00:57:12,160 --> 00:57:15,239
Speaker 1: doesn't care about anyone but himself. And the fact that

873
00:57:15,320 --> 00:57:17,880
Speaker 1: he took the time to look up the paperwork on

874
00:57:18,040 --> 00:57:20,200
Speaker 1: the house and try to use what he found to

875
00:57:20,320 --> 00:57:24,120
Speaker 1: impose on you guys, that's even more disgusting and unbelievable.

876
00:57:24,680 --> 00:57:26,800
Speaker 1: I mean, come on, dad, you know this is wrong

877
00:57:26,920 --> 00:57:31,800
Speaker 1: and out of order. So son, to answer your question, No,

878
00:57:32,040 --> 00:57:35,000
Speaker 1: you shouldn't have to give up on your cheating dad,

879
00:57:35,120 --> 00:57:36,880
Speaker 1: give up your house to him, and none of that

880
00:57:37,040 --> 00:57:39,439
Speaker 1: and his girlfriend. No you shouldn't. I think you should

881
00:57:39,480 --> 00:57:41,440
Speaker 1: get with your mom, get these papers in order for

882
00:57:41,520 --> 00:57:45,480
Speaker 1: your house, and ask your dad to leave. Period. Steve,

883
00:57:46,240 --> 00:57:49,280
Speaker 1: this is a really, really complex letter on so many levels,

884
00:57:49,360 --> 00:57:53,480
Speaker 1: and I happen to know these levels, not personally, but

885
00:57:53,680 --> 00:57:58,360
Speaker 1: I've seen aspects of this acted out in my own life.

886
00:57:58,440 --> 00:58:01,560
Speaker 1: I've seen it acted out in people's lives close to me,

887
00:58:01,680 --> 00:58:04,760
Speaker 1: So I've had some experience with this, not really personally.

888
00:58:05,000 --> 00:58:09,560
Speaker 1: Well yeah, yeah, yeah, so, And that's the only way

889
00:58:09,560 --> 00:58:11,400
Speaker 1: i can answer this question, the way I'm going to

890
00:58:11,440 --> 00:58:16,920
Speaker 1: answer it, because the main problem here is and I'm

891
00:58:16,960 --> 00:58:18,920
Speaker 1: gonna go at it from this standpoint. First of all,

892
00:58:18,920 --> 00:58:21,800
Speaker 1: I think your mother did a very noble thing. I

893
00:58:21,920 --> 00:58:24,000
Speaker 1: think your mother wanted you to have the house as

894
00:58:24,040 --> 00:58:27,560
Speaker 1: a wedding gift promise to her, so forth and so on.

895
00:58:27,760 --> 00:58:31,760
Speaker 1: So I think the intentions were well serving and thought out,

896
00:58:31,840 --> 00:58:36,040
Speaker 1: and do it. The problem in this whole letter is

897
00:58:36,200 --> 00:58:39,360
Speaker 1: two people, and I want you to hear me out

898
00:58:39,560 --> 00:58:44,160
Speaker 1: before you get mad at me. First of all, your daddy.

899
00:58:45,480 --> 00:58:52,640
Speaker 1: Your daddy is be un trifling own so many levels.

900
00:58:53,240 --> 00:58:55,240
Speaker 1: And the problem with this man is he has no

901
00:58:55,600 --> 00:59:00,880
Speaker 1: problem sharing his triflingness and spreading it around. He has

902
00:59:01,000 --> 00:59:04,120
Speaker 1: no consideration. Shirley called it right. He has no consideration

903
00:59:04,160 --> 00:59:07,920
Speaker 1: for anybody but himself. But it's because he's trifling. Now,

904
00:59:08,040 --> 00:59:11,400
Speaker 1: first of all, you cheat on your original wife. I'm

905
00:59:11,440 --> 00:59:13,640
Speaker 1: not judging the man. Things happen. I don't know what's

906
00:59:13,680 --> 00:59:16,120
Speaker 1: going on in his family life or nothing like That

907
00:59:17,200 --> 00:59:19,320
Speaker 1: could have been the mama's fault as well as his.

908
00:59:19,440 --> 00:59:23,560
Speaker 1: But whatever he cheated got busted. They got a divorce,

909
00:59:25,160 --> 00:59:33,640
Speaker 1: he moved out, he moved in with his girlfrid. Now

910
00:59:33,760 --> 00:59:37,040
Speaker 1: then your mother eventually eventually met a nice man had

911
00:59:37,040 --> 00:59:40,280
Speaker 1: gotten remarried. Now this was three years ago. She moved

912
00:59:40,320 --> 00:59:43,680
Speaker 1: in with him. Now, your mama owns the house that

913
00:59:43,800 --> 00:59:46,000
Speaker 1: you're living in, and she promised it to you as

914
00:59:46,040 --> 00:59:49,920
Speaker 1: a wedding gilt. Your mama ow's house, or your mom

915
00:59:50,000 --> 00:59:52,680
Speaker 1: and your daddy owned the house. See there's a little

916
00:59:52,760 --> 00:59:55,080
Speaker 1: glitch right there. That's where we started to run a problem.

917
00:59:55,400 --> 00:59:58,840
Speaker 1: My fiance moved in. We're fixing up the house slowly,

918
00:59:59,040 --> 01:00:01,920
Speaker 1: and your daddy gave five thousand and help. Y'all overjoyed.

919
01:00:02,080 --> 01:00:05,000
Speaker 1: Everything was going fine, and then hell broke loose. And

920
01:00:05,160 --> 01:00:07,840
Speaker 1: this is why I got the answer to you Okay,

921
01:00:07,960 --> 01:00:10,920
Speaker 1: hold on, Steve. We'll have part two of your response

922
01:00:11,000 --> 01:00:14,440
Speaker 1: coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's

923
01:00:14,440 --> 01:00:19,360
Speaker 1: Strawberry letter, subject I'm not leaving and she's not staying.

924
01:00:19,640 --> 01:00:24,200
Speaker 1: We'll be back right after this. You're listening Harvey Morning Show.

925
01:00:24,800 --> 01:00:27,400
Speaker 1: All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter.

926
01:00:27,480 --> 01:00:32,200
Speaker 1: The subject I'm not leaving and she's not staying. The

927
01:00:32,320 --> 01:00:34,400
Speaker 1: reason we have a problem because there's twenty nine year

928
01:00:34,400 --> 01:00:39,480
Speaker 1: old woman who has a fiancee. Three years ago. Her

929
01:00:39,600 --> 01:00:44,840
Speaker 1: father cheated on her mom, well six years ago. They

930
01:00:44,920 --> 01:00:48,440
Speaker 1: got a divorce six years ago. The cheating had probably

931
01:00:48,480 --> 01:00:50,680
Speaker 1: been going on for a while, but divorce was six

932
01:00:50,800 --> 01:00:56,000
Speaker 1: years ago. She was twenty three. Your dad moved in

933
01:00:56,320 --> 01:00:59,720
Speaker 1: with the girlfriend that he was cheating on your wife with.

934
01:01:00,320 --> 01:01:03,919
Speaker 1: Your mother met a new man, got remarried three years ago,

935
01:01:04,440 --> 01:01:08,160
Speaker 1: moved in with him. That your mother owns the house

936
01:01:08,280 --> 01:01:10,280
Speaker 1: you're living in now, and she promised it to you

937
01:01:10,400 --> 01:01:13,600
Speaker 1: as a wedding guilt. Your fiance moved in and we're

938
01:01:13,640 --> 01:01:16,400
Speaker 1: fixing up the house slowly but surely. And my dad

939
01:01:16,480 --> 01:01:19,120
Speaker 1: gave y'all. Your dad gave you five thousand dollars to

940
01:01:19,120 --> 01:01:22,160
Speaker 1: help y'all with the renovation and your fiance and you

941
01:01:22,320 --> 01:01:25,760
Speaker 1: were overjoyed, but now everything's falling apart with miserable because

942
01:01:25,840 --> 01:01:30,320
Speaker 1: your dad is now living with us his second wife.

943
01:01:30,680 --> 01:01:34,760
Speaker 1: Now he got married to the girlfriend that he was

944
01:01:34,880 --> 01:01:38,640
Speaker 1: cheating on your mama with, but now she didn't kicked

945
01:01:38,720 --> 01:01:41,720
Speaker 1: him out of the house and filed for divorce because

946
01:01:41,800 --> 01:01:45,120
Speaker 1: he got caught cheating again. And he was supposed to

947
01:01:45,240 --> 01:01:48,720
Speaker 1: be with us for seven months temporarily, but he's been

948
01:01:48,840 --> 01:01:51,960
Speaker 1: seven months and the worst part is he wants his

949
01:01:52,160 --> 01:01:55,760
Speaker 1: new girlfriend. This is the new girlfriend that he's now

950
01:01:55,960 --> 01:02:00,920
Speaker 1: cheating on his second wife with. This how trifling, this dudey,

951
01:02:02,080 --> 01:02:05,360
Speaker 1: So she filed for divorce. Divorce ain't went through yet

952
01:02:05,680 --> 01:02:09,040
Speaker 1: he didn't went and got another girlfriend. Now he wants

953
01:02:09,480 --> 01:02:12,560
Speaker 1: and the girlfriend live with y'all too, until they can

954
01:02:12,640 --> 01:02:15,560
Speaker 1: find a place that suits them. I've lost so much

955
01:02:15,640 --> 01:02:17,800
Speaker 1: respect for my dad after you cheated on my mom,

956
01:02:17,880 --> 01:02:20,320
Speaker 1: and my emotions boiled over earlier this week and I

957
01:02:20,440 --> 01:02:22,920
Speaker 1: let him know exactly how you feel. I can't blame

958
01:02:22,960 --> 01:02:25,960
Speaker 1: you for that. You're a woman, you his daughter. You

959
01:02:26,000 --> 01:02:29,240
Speaker 1: would think that a man worth any salt would not

960
01:02:29,480 --> 01:02:33,080
Speaker 1: drag his daughters into his mess, or any of his

961
01:02:33,240 --> 01:02:37,320
Speaker 1: children for that matter, but especially your daughter, because what

962
01:02:37,520 --> 01:02:39,840
Speaker 1: you want to try to be for your daughter, it's

963
01:02:40,000 --> 01:02:43,800
Speaker 1: somewhat of an example of what a man should be,

964
01:02:44,280 --> 01:02:47,200
Speaker 1: so she has a right to know how to pick one.

965
01:02:47,480 --> 01:02:51,560
Speaker 1: But oh no, your trifling ass, it's just gonna be

966
01:02:51,680 --> 01:02:55,720
Speaker 1: trifling across the ball. I'm coming to my solution for

967
01:02:55,800 --> 01:02:57,800
Speaker 1: all this. I told him I wanted him and his

968
01:02:57,920 --> 01:03:00,200
Speaker 1: new girlfriend out of my house, and if it was able,

969
01:03:00,360 --> 01:03:02,480
Speaker 1: my fiance and I would give him every penny of

970
01:03:02,560 --> 01:03:06,760
Speaker 1: the five thousand dollars back. Okay, gangster move, I like that.

971
01:03:07,880 --> 01:03:10,480
Speaker 1: But then your daddy Trifond. He did a little research

972
01:03:10,560 --> 01:03:12,720
Speaker 1: on the house and found that my mother hadn't done

973
01:03:13,000 --> 01:03:15,720
Speaker 1: what she was supposed to do to put the house

974
01:03:16,040 --> 01:03:19,840
Speaker 1: in my name, and since he had been paying taxes

975
01:03:19,880 --> 01:03:22,440
Speaker 1: on the house for years, I couldn't put him out.

976
01:03:22,840 --> 01:03:26,520
Speaker 1: But if the house is in your mama's name, your

977
01:03:26,600 --> 01:03:30,120
Speaker 1: mama can quit d eat the house to you immediately.

978
01:03:30,440 --> 01:03:33,600
Speaker 1: If you notify your mother, your mama can quit need

979
01:03:33,640 --> 01:03:37,680
Speaker 1: you the house, and his ass is out, and any

980
01:03:37,760 --> 01:03:41,800
Speaker 1: quarter log will give you the house. Now, that's the

981
01:03:41,880 --> 01:03:45,920
Speaker 1: one solution. But then I told him I'm not leaving

982
01:03:45,960 --> 01:03:47,960
Speaker 1: and she's not staying. We have to deal with my

983
01:03:48,120 --> 01:03:50,600
Speaker 1: dad a bit longer. But do we have to deal

984
01:03:50,680 --> 01:03:53,680
Speaker 1: with this girlfriend living with us? No, you don't. How

985
01:03:53,760 --> 01:03:55,919
Speaker 1: can my own dad be so evil when he knows

986
01:03:55,960 --> 01:03:58,520
Speaker 1: I'm getting married and fixing up this house? Do I

987
01:03:58,640 --> 01:04:00,720
Speaker 1: let him and his girlfriend him house or fight for

988
01:04:00,840 --> 01:04:04,400
Speaker 1: what's mine? Here's the second problem to the problem. You

989
01:04:04,520 --> 01:04:07,880
Speaker 1: got trifling people in your life. Number one is your daddy,

990
01:04:08,760 --> 01:04:11,160
Speaker 1: the number two person here. And I'm not saying that

991
01:04:11,240 --> 01:04:14,200
Speaker 1: this young man is trifling because of but I don't

992
01:04:14,240 --> 01:04:19,000
Speaker 1: really what does your fiance doing Because I'm I'm I'm

993
01:04:19,160 --> 01:04:21,120
Speaker 1: I'm a little stump fright here because I'm gonna tell

994
01:04:21,120 --> 01:04:22,640
Speaker 1: you how I am, and I'm gonna tell you how

995
01:04:22,680 --> 01:04:25,160
Speaker 1: my dad raised me to be. Because see, I ain't

996
01:04:25,160 --> 01:04:27,640
Speaker 1: finn to sit up here. Take all this hire not

997
01:04:27,800 --> 01:04:30,800
Speaker 1: off this dude. Hey man, you can have your five

998
01:04:30,880 --> 01:04:34,040
Speaker 1: thousand fact. I'm not Finn to sit up in here

999
01:04:34,080 --> 01:04:37,000
Speaker 1: and no house you acting like you own, because can't

1000
01:04:37,040 --> 01:04:39,320
Speaker 1: be but one king and one queen in this house.

1001
01:04:39,600 --> 01:04:42,880
Speaker 1: Ain't no two kings, ain't no two queens. So me personally,

1002
01:04:42,920 --> 01:04:46,600
Speaker 1: as the fiance, if I was, y'all, I would gather

1003
01:04:46,800 --> 01:04:51,360
Speaker 1: myself and move on. I would because Jess, as a man,

1004
01:04:51,760 --> 01:04:53,720
Speaker 1: I'm not fitting to be sitting uped and beholding to

1005
01:04:53,840 --> 01:04:56,040
Speaker 1: this man because he didn't paid some taxes or have

1006
01:04:56,200 --> 01:04:59,440
Speaker 1: to listen to you upsetting my girl because you aren't here,

1007
01:04:59,440 --> 01:05:01,680
Speaker 1: because you ain't ain't trifling and you do on us here.

1008
01:05:02,040 --> 01:05:04,120
Speaker 1: I understand you want to hold onto the house. I

1009
01:05:04,280 --> 01:05:06,080
Speaker 1: understand your mama gave it to you, and I think

1010
01:05:06,120 --> 01:05:09,080
Speaker 1: it's worth fighting for. I really really do. And I

1011
01:05:09,120 --> 01:05:11,120
Speaker 1: would get my mama the quick deed that house to

1012
01:05:11,200 --> 01:05:13,240
Speaker 1: me and get your daddy ass out of there. But

1013
01:05:13,400 --> 01:05:17,200
Speaker 1: the young man that you are the fiance of, see,

1014
01:05:17,240 --> 01:05:22,080
Speaker 1: it's hard. The daddy is trifling on so many levels.

1015
01:05:22,240 --> 01:05:26,520
Speaker 1: It's not this young man's fault. He may be very supportive.

1016
01:05:27,240 --> 01:05:30,320
Speaker 1: He may be saying, hey, look let's just move and

1017
01:05:30,520 --> 01:05:32,920
Speaker 1: she gonna this is my house. And I understand you

1018
01:05:33,040 --> 01:05:35,720
Speaker 1: fighting for so I kind of let me backpeddler a

1019
01:05:35,720 --> 01:05:37,440
Speaker 1: little bit. I don't want you all to think that

1020
01:05:37,520 --> 01:05:39,720
Speaker 1: I think that the young man is trifling, because he's not.

1021
01:05:40,600 --> 01:05:44,400
Speaker 1: I think it's the daddy that's the ultimate triflet grown

1022
01:05:44,480 --> 01:05:47,360
Speaker 1: up ass man, and for him to show this type

1023
01:05:47,400 --> 01:05:49,160
Speaker 1: of the example of what a man who it is

1024
01:05:49,440 --> 01:05:52,480
Speaker 1: to his daughter. And not only did you destroy yours,

1025
01:05:52,560 --> 01:05:54,440
Speaker 1: but then now you're over here messing up. Mind to

1026
01:05:55,160 --> 01:05:59,280
Speaker 1: damn daddy, how can this be your fault? Your damn

1027
01:05:59,360 --> 01:06:01,440
Speaker 1: daddy ain't for damn Go to your mom and get

1028
01:06:01,480 --> 01:06:03,400
Speaker 1: the house quick, ded it over to you. Go down

1029
01:06:03,480 --> 01:06:06,160
Speaker 1: there and get a restraint in order. Lie. Your father

1030
01:06:06,280 --> 01:06:09,800
Speaker 1: has been physically threatening to you. It's mentally abusive to you.

1031
01:06:10,240 --> 01:06:12,479
Speaker 1: And that I'm telling you in this culture, your daddy

1032
01:06:12,520 --> 01:06:14,520
Speaker 1: gone had to move out house, get a restraintoroid came

1033
01:06:14,560 --> 01:06:17,320
Speaker 1: going with the two unfeeted out body right. Poster your

1034
01:06:17,360 --> 01:06:20,160
Speaker 1: comments on Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM on

1035
01:06:20,240 --> 01:06:23,160
Speaker 1: Instagram and Facebook, and check out the Strawberry Letter podcast

1036
01:06:23,320 --> 01:06:26,080
Speaker 1: on demand coming up at forty six minutes after. It's

1037
01:06:26,160 --> 01:06:29,640
Speaker 1: Junior with Sports Talk. Right after this. You're listening to

1038
01:06:30,080 --> 01:06:33,440
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is time now for Junior

1039
01:06:33,560 --> 01:06:36,520
Speaker 1: and Sports Talk Junior, which you got. Well, we know

1040
01:06:36,640 --> 01:06:39,480
Speaker 1: the NBA All Star Game was this weekend, and I'm

1041
01:06:39,520 --> 01:06:42,160
Speaker 1: just highly disappointed. I didn't. I didn't see nothing I

1042
01:06:42,280 --> 01:06:44,720
Speaker 1: liked over there. I mean, I'm congratulation saw the All Stars.

1043
01:06:44,760 --> 01:06:47,120
Speaker 1: I think you worked hard for that. But one eighty

1044
01:06:47,200 --> 01:06:50,360
Speaker 1: four or what's seventy five? Teen yard? It was a

1045
01:06:50,480 --> 01:06:53,240
Speaker 1: point scored every thirty seconds. It's just you've never seen

1046
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Speaker 1: this much shooting going on. I'm talking about They're shooting

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01:06:57,520 --> 01:07:01,360
Speaker 1: from the stands, shooting from behind the board. Everybody get

1048
01:07:01,440 --> 01:07:05,520
Speaker 1: a dunk, everybody get a pad, everybody shooting from half court.

1049
01:07:05,720 --> 01:07:07,400
Speaker 1: You can shoot two. They gave it to the coach.

1050
01:07:07,480 --> 01:07:10,680
Speaker 1: Coach shot. Everybody got to shoot in this game. One

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Speaker 1: eighty photo, one seventy five? Where was a block? As

1052
01:07:13,920 --> 01:07:16,240
Speaker 1: it was? It was zero blocks in the whole game.

1053
01:07:16,560 --> 01:07:21,800
Speaker 1: What basketball game ain't no blocks? None. Jason Tatum congratulates

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01:07:21,800 --> 01:07:25,479
Speaker 1: the MVP fifty five points All Star scoring record. Okay, cool,

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01:07:25,880 --> 01:07:29,440
Speaker 1: Damien little three point contest with Hey good. But mc McClung.

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Speaker 1: I have to give it to this boy here, man,

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01:07:31,960 --> 01:07:35,120
Speaker 1: I just got I'm just saying this brother was flying

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01:07:35,200 --> 01:07:37,480
Speaker 1: out the gym. That's all you can give it to him. Man,

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01:07:37,960 --> 01:07:42,920
Speaker 1: jumping over two people? What jumping over two and then

1060
01:07:43,080 --> 01:07:47,720
Speaker 1: reversed up or what kissed it off the board? Dog?

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01:07:48,160 --> 01:07:51,400
Speaker 1: You you deserve to win. We've never seen that, man,

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01:07:51,440 --> 01:07:54,160
Speaker 1: So congratulations to him. Man, But I just didn't know

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01:07:54,480 --> 01:07:56,320
Speaker 1: what I was gonna say. I can't see that type

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01:07:56,320 --> 01:07:58,320
Speaker 1: of stuff. Man, go back to East versus West. Can

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01:07:58,400 --> 01:08:01,040
Speaker 1: we get back to that dunk? We drafted players for

1066
01:08:01,160 --> 01:08:04,000
Speaker 1: play for your division. I think it's better this way.

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01:08:04,040 --> 01:08:06,680
Speaker 1: It added a spice of element, you know. Just the

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01:08:06,760 --> 01:08:09,640
Speaker 1: All Star Game is what it is. And I bet

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Speaker 1: they will never go to U talk again. Nobody, everybody

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01:08:13,360 --> 01:08:17,439
Speaker 1: in the hotel room, nobody enjoyed you talk, has nothing

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01:08:17,520 --> 01:08:19,920
Speaker 1: to do. That was the worst choice of cities they

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01:08:19,960 --> 01:08:22,479
Speaker 1: could have ever made. You take all these black people up,

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01:08:22,600 --> 01:08:29,640
Speaker 1: you talk, you talk, police department on red alert. I mean, man,

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01:08:29,760 --> 01:08:32,400
Speaker 1: six you couldn't even have fun. Man, don't nobody like

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01:08:32,560 --> 01:08:37,240
Speaker 1: you talk? No body? What time did everything close? And

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01:08:37,320 --> 01:08:47,320
Speaker 1: you talk? Eight thirty? Hey, hey man, they the most fake,

1077
01:08:48,000 --> 01:08:51,360
Speaker 1: You talk, the most fake, hypocritical plays, got all these

1078
01:08:51,479 --> 01:08:58,120
Speaker 1: drinking laws and all this here. Number one state for Porto, really,

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01:09:00,080 --> 01:09:02,400
Speaker 1: I never knew s for one. A few years ago

1080
01:09:02,479 --> 01:09:13,839
Speaker 1: they were number one in Portal. Wows All right, thank you, Junior,

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01:09:14,160 --> 01:09:16,320
Speaker 1: and thank you Steve for that coming up at the

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01:09:16,400 --> 01:09:18,800
Speaker 1: top of the hour. If we didn't know, we didn't know.

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01:09:19,720 --> 01:09:22,599
Speaker 1: This guy in social media. Steve needs some advice. He says,

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01:09:22,960 --> 01:09:25,639
Speaker 1: my neighbors should be worried about thin walls. We'll talk

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01:09:25,680 --> 01:09:29,599
Speaker 1: about it right after this. You're listening to Steve Harvey

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01:09:29,640 --> 01:09:34,559
Speaker 1: Morning Show. All right, So, Steve Corey on Facebook writes,

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01:09:34,720 --> 01:09:37,920
Speaker 1: I always knew my apartment building had thin walls, but

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01:09:38,000 --> 01:09:40,920
Speaker 1: I never noticed how thin they were until my neighbor

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01:09:41,080 --> 01:09:44,720
Speaker 1: moved in. Since he showed up, I've heard arguments, presumably

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01:09:44,800 --> 01:09:47,280
Speaker 1: over the phone, in which he yelled at some doctor

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01:09:47,680 --> 01:09:51,280
Speaker 1: for not taking his issue seriously, his girlfriend for not

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01:09:51,479 --> 01:09:54,920
Speaker 1: understanding him, and his own mother for not giving money

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01:09:54,960 --> 01:09:58,200
Speaker 1: and supporting him while he deals with things. And that

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01:09:58,439 --> 01:10:00,720
Speaker 1: last one. He also went off off on his mom

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01:10:00,960 --> 01:10:04,519
Speaker 1: and told her to think about things because she's crossing

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01:10:04,600 --> 01:10:07,519
Speaker 1: the line. I tend to be one that minds his

1097
01:10:07,640 --> 01:10:10,920
Speaker 1: own business, but this is aggravating me and getting on

1098
01:10:11,040 --> 01:10:14,840
Speaker 1: my nerves that I feel like I have something to

1099
01:10:15,160 --> 01:10:16,600
Speaker 1: you know, I just need to go over there and

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01:10:16,720 --> 01:10:20,480
Speaker 1: talk to him and the landlord. Is this an overreach?

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01:10:21,439 --> 01:10:26,880
Speaker 1: That's what wants to know. You're fitting to go over

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01:10:26,920 --> 01:10:28,880
Speaker 1: there and talk to this man, And he wasn't talking

1103
01:10:28,920 --> 01:10:38,360
Speaker 1: to you, Cola, So I'm confused you was gonna go

1104
01:10:38,720 --> 01:10:41,960
Speaker 1: You fitting to go over there talk to him about

1105
01:10:42,080 --> 01:10:45,360
Speaker 1: the way he talked to his mom. You're gonna go

1106
01:10:45,400 --> 01:10:47,240
Speaker 1: over here and talk to him about why are you

1107
01:10:47,320 --> 01:10:51,519
Speaker 1: talking to his girl like that? Right? And then you're

1108
01:10:51,560 --> 01:10:55,120
Speaker 1: gonna talk to him about how his damn doctor ain't

1109
01:10:55,200 --> 01:11:00,280
Speaker 1: handling his medical issues. Seriously, You're gonna go there and

1110
01:11:00,400 --> 01:11:05,160
Speaker 1: talk to that that you can This cannot be a

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01:11:05,200 --> 01:11:10,519
Speaker 1: black person, and you cannot be black, and the person

1112
01:11:10,640 --> 01:11:12,679
Speaker 1: and the person you're going to talk to you can't

1113
01:11:12,720 --> 01:11:16,040
Speaker 1: be black either, because all this is the line of

1114
01:11:16,400 --> 01:11:19,439
Speaker 1: this guy that asked what rot all over? It's no,

1115
01:11:19,680 --> 01:11:22,679
Speaker 1: it's no weight though. Now you're dealing with the person

1116
01:11:22,800 --> 01:11:26,760
Speaker 1: who everybody fault but he is. That's you. You're dealing

1117
01:11:26,840 --> 01:11:29,040
Speaker 1: with this type of person anyway. So when you come

1118
01:11:29,120 --> 01:11:31,439
Speaker 1: over there, you think, all of a sudden, he finished

1119
01:11:31,439 --> 01:11:35,559
Speaker 1: straightened out this personality flaw. You think after you're knock

1120
01:11:35,600 --> 01:11:41,000
Speaker 1: going to excuse me? Tell me? I want you to

1121
01:11:41,080 --> 01:11:44,120
Speaker 1: be the dude in the house that's the blam. I'm

1122
01:11:44,200 --> 01:11:52,200
Speaker 1: the guy that's coming over to the house. Helloa, what's up? Hi?

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01:11:52,640 --> 01:11:59,679
Speaker 1: Uh hey, um listen cry me next to your neighbor.

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01:11:59,680 --> 01:12:01,639
Speaker 1: I stay our next door, all right? What you want?

1125
01:12:02,080 --> 01:12:04,639
Speaker 1: It's kind of kind of you've given me the things

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01:12:04,720 --> 01:12:07,920
Speaker 1: I want. You know I want. I gave you at

1127
01:12:08,680 --> 01:12:10,320
Speaker 1: I don't know you to be in the game uniting.

1128
01:12:10,360 --> 01:12:14,520
Speaker 1: What do you Well, well, well, you kind of have inadvertently,

1129
01:12:14,800 --> 01:12:23,360
Speaker 1: you know, indurtingly, in advertingly. Well, let's just say, you know, unintentionally. Okay,

1130
01:12:23,960 --> 01:12:26,000
Speaker 1: And I'm thinking that I'm sitting in my house and

1131
01:12:26,320 --> 01:12:29,000
Speaker 1: you know, the walls are super thin, and you're talking,

1132
01:12:29,200 --> 01:12:32,479
Speaker 1: hold on, hold on, hey, Mama turned the chicken down

1133
01:12:33,200 --> 01:12:40,280
Speaker 1: kind of down. Go ahead, she's there, Mama, Your mom's there.

1134
01:12:41,400 --> 01:12:45,360
Speaker 1: Are you kidding? Men? After the way you talk to her,

1135
01:12:45,800 --> 01:12:49,639
Speaker 1: You've got her in the cooking chicken for you. That's

1136
01:12:49,720 --> 01:12:52,160
Speaker 1: my favorite. That's my favorite, as my mama cheeking. What

1137
01:12:52,320 --> 01:12:57,000
Speaker 1: what what? What do you want? What? Man? Wait a minute,

1138
01:12:57,080 --> 01:13:00,519
Speaker 1: Wait a minute, what do I what? What you don't? Man?

1139
01:13:02,360 --> 01:13:07,519
Speaker 1: Oh my god. It wasn't the walls, you know. I

1140
01:13:07,800 --> 01:13:11,680
Speaker 1: thought you had a slight speech impediment picking it up.

1141
01:13:12,640 --> 01:13:21,560
Speaker 1: I mean the neighbor, what do you what? What is

1142
01:13:21,640 --> 01:13:23,760
Speaker 1: the reason you over here? Is what I'm in? What

1143
01:13:23,840 --> 01:13:26,200
Speaker 1: do you? I'm over here because of the way you

1144
01:13:26,400 --> 01:13:29,040
Speaker 1: talk to people. I ain't I don't even talk to you.

1145
01:13:29,120 --> 01:13:31,360
Speaker 1: I don't even know who you is. That's coming through

1146
01:13:31,400 --> 01:13:33,880
Speaker 1: the walls, is what I'm saying. I'm come through that

1147
01:13:33,960 --> 01:13:36,680
Speaker 1: wall and tell your ass something what you want. Oh

1148
01:13:36,800 --> 01:13:41,880
Speaker 1: my god, are you? Are you threatening me right here

1149
01:13:42,000 --> 01:13:47,000
Speaker 1: in your damn face? Yes? You wanna strike me? Strike you?

1150
01:13:47,120 --> 01:13:52,280
Speaker 1: I'm gonna hit you. Right, Guys, you're talking about striking me.

1151
01:13:52,800 --> 01:13:54,800
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna strike you, but I'm gonnaknock the hell

1152
01:13:54,800 --> 01:13:58,600
Speaker 1: out of my word. Oh my god, that's who you

1153
01:13:58,760 --> 01:14:03,559
Speaker 1: gonna need. God, Oh no, You're gonna need Johnny Cochrane,

1154
01:14:05,760 --> 01:14:09,519
Speaker 1: Weiler and high Cough more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

1155
01:14:09,560 --> 01:14:18,439
Speaker 1: Cover boy, You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

1156
01:14:20,479 --> 01:14:23,759
Speaker 1: According to the Washington Posts, getting hot and sweating between

1157
01:14:23,840 --> 01:14:26,840
Speaker 1: the sheets can feel like a workout, and several recent

1158
01:14:26,920 --> 01:14:32,479
Speaker 1: studies um looking too answering is sex exercise. Researchers in

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01:14:32,600 --> 01:14:36,040
Speaker 1: Spain studied couples and found that sex counts as moderate

1160
01:14:36,200 --> 01:14:40,000
Speaker 1: exercise as it revs up the heart rate and burns calories,

1161
01:14:40,360 --> 01:14:43,080
Speaker 1: but just how much varies widely. The amount of time

1162
01:14:43,120 --> 01:14:47,040
Speaker 1: people spend having sex also varies, with young, healthy couples

1163
01:14:47,080 --> 01:14:49,920
Speaker 1: going at it for an average of thirty two minutes.

1164
01:14:50,240 --> 01:14:54,640
Speaker 1: While couples with health conditions last about nineteen minutes. So

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01:14:54,800 --> 01:14:59,720
Speaker 1: here's a question for you, guys. Guys, Yeah, yeah, go

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01:14:59,840 --> 01:15:02,559
Speaker 1: back the health conditions. That's why I'm in nineteen nineteen,

1167
01:15:04,680 --> 01:15:09,360
Speaker 1: not twenty minutes. All right, So come on, sexy guys.

1168
01:15:09,479 --> 01:15:14,120
Speaker 1: Do you consider sexy workout? And do you ever look

1169
01:15:14,160 --> 01:15:16,680
Speaker 1: at your fitness tracker to see how many calories it

1170
01:15:16,800 --> 01:15:22,320
Speaker 1: burns or your heart rate? That's the question. Okay. I

1171
01:15:22,400 --> 01:15:26,000
Speaker 1: can't have nothing on me when I'm in. I can't

1172
01:15:26,040 --> 01:15:31,040
Speaker 1: have no ask for chords or nothing I watch caught

1173
01:15:31,080 --> 01:15:34,240
Speaker 1: on the sheet of None of that can throw my

1174
01:15:34,360 --> 01:15:38,400
Speaker 1: rhythm off. I can't he a long go off. Yeah,

1175
01:15:38,960 --> 01:15:41,360
Speaker 1: morning morning, you're in the red. You're in the red.

1176
01:15:41,439 --> 01:15:50,640
Speaker 1: You're a heart rates You're dying. You are dying. You

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01:15:50,760 --> 01:15:53,679
Speaker 1: had it. We're coming up with thirty three minutes after

1178
01:15:53,800 --> 01:15:57,200
Speaker 1: the hour. We'll play around it. Would you rather right

1179
01:15:57,240 --> 01:16:00,920
Speaker 1: after this? Who is this guy? Don't know? I don't

1180
01:16:01,000 --> 01:16:06,000
Speaker 1: know him. You're listening to morning show? It is time

1181
01:16:06,080 --> 01:16:08,720
Speaker 1: now for a round of would you rather? Would you

1182
01:16:08,880 --> 01:16:12,960
Speaker 1: rather clean the French Quarter after Marty Gras or would

1183
01:16:13,000 --> 01:16:20,000
Speaker 1: you rather clean Times Square after New Year's Eve? I'm clean? No, damn.

1184
01:16:20,640 --> 01:16:25,040
Speaker 1: I know you ain't going to be one. Not today. No,

1185
01:16:25,200 --> 01:16:27,240
Speaker 1: I'm not cleaning up a damn man. I don't get

1186
01:16:27,680 --> 01:16:29,640
Speaker 1: this paper stay that. That paper can stay that the

1187
01:16:29,800 --> 01:16:33,000
Speaker 1: next marnycra. That paper is there, that paper is there

1188
01:16:33,120 --> 01:16:37,280
Speaker 1: to the next monac Well, I've seen both, and if

1189
01:16:37,320 --> 01:16:39,439
Speaker 1: I had to clean up one, I'm gonna clean up

1190
01:16:39,880 --> 01:16:47,320
Speaker 1: French Quarter. Really, damn times square lord him merci man,

1191
01:16:48,280 --> 01:16:55,680
Speaker 1: it's it's ungoden and Mary is No. I've been there

1192
01:16:55,720 --> 01:16:59,000
Speaker 1: after Monacra. I've been there after. I've been New Year,

1193
01:16:59,320 --> 01:17:02,360
Speaker 1: New Year's Eve. There's a trifleness you can't even imagine.

1194
01:17:04,040 --> 01:17:11,120
Speaker 1: All right, just just just a confetti M. Yeah, yeah,

1195
01:17:12,680 --> 01:17:16,400
Speaker 1: all right. Would you rather get married and never have kids?

1196
01:17:16,960 --> 01:17:22,760
Speaker 1: Or have kids and never get married? M? Yeah, y'all

1197
01:17:22,880 --> 01:17:30,599
Speaker 1: picking on me or something specifically about you, though, Man,

1198
01:17:30,760 --> 01:17:35,519
Speaker 1: do sound personal, Julian. Would I'd rather be married than

1199
01:17:35,600 --> 01:17:39,120
Speaker 1: not have kids? I have kids or nothing? Yeah? I

1200
01:17:39,240 --> 01:17:42,040
Speaker 1: mean I'm married, I ain't got no kids. I just

1201
01:17:42,160 --> 01:17:47,479
Speaker 1: thought we'll just trying to make some John, Yeah, you practice. Well,

1202
01:17:47,560 --> 01:17:54,960
Speaker 1: I don't really know. I failed that both, so I'm

1203
01:17:55,040 --> 01:18:01,479
Speaker 1: not really sure which one. I want to cry, Tommy,

1204
01:18:04,120 --> 01:18:10,680
Speaker 1: I want the kids. Sorry, I asked you. Okay, wait

1205
01:18:10,720 --> 01:18:13,240
Speaker 1: a minute, Wait a minute, wait man, he don't get

1206
01:18:13,240 --> 01:18:17,000
Speaker 1: a do over, go to the next question. So sorry,

1207
01:18:17,040 --> 01:18:19,080
Speaker 1: I asked you that I go ask me later on

1208
01:18:19,280 --> 01:18:23,880
Speaker 1: to day. Hello, Yes, would you rather be the richest

1209
01:18:23,920 --> 01:18:26,120
Speaker 1: person on the planet or would you rather be immortal?

1210
01:18:26,439 --> 01:18:31,280
Speaker 1: Live forever? Hey, you're not alone. I just can't do it.

1211
01:18:31,520 --> 01:18:37,960
Speaker 1: It's just hey, I actually know who that is. Actually

1212
01:18:38,200 --> 01:18:40,400
Speaker 1: we don't have a clue. I don't know who that is.

1213
01:18:41,120 --> 01:18:46,599
Speaker 1: Richest person? We know? Yeah, which talk about all the people.

1214
01:18:47,000 --> 01:18:56,040
Speaker 1: That's sad, you're the richest person in my context. Yeah,

1215
01:18:57,400 --> 01:18:59,439
Speaker 1: I actually like when you calling for the people. That's

1216
01:19:01,600 --> 01:19:03,720
Speaker 1: a lot of people think you're the richest person. A

1217
01:19:03,840 --> 01:19:09,000
Speaker 1: lot of people do. All right, Yeah they do, Yeah

1218
01:19:09,040 --> 01:19:15,000
Speaker 1: they do. I know the truth. Trust All right, thank

1219
01:19:15,040 --> 01:19:17,200
Speaker 1: you guys. That's today's round of would you rather? Coming

1220
01:19:17,280 --> 01:19:19,600
Speaker 1: up at forty nine minutes after, we'll close out the

1221
01:19:19,680 --> 01:19:22,200
Speaker 1: show and get some closing remarks from the one and

1222
01:19:22,280 --> 01:19:26,400
Speaker 1: only Steve Harvey. Right after this. You're listening to Steve

1223
01:19:26,560 --> 01:19:29,200
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, here we are our

1224
01:19:29,320 --> 01:19:33,320
Speaker 1: last break of the day on this Tuesday. Happy Tuesday.

1225
01:19:33,439 --> 01:19:38,080
Speaker 1: Happy Marty Gras all of that. Um, Carla did that

1226
01:19:38,160 --> 01:19:41,200
Speaker 1: one for you? Yeah? I might get a dacory today.

1227
01:19:43,439 --> 01:19:52,040
Speaker 1: Kane cake. I got a Kane cake? Man? Good is

1228
01:19:52,080 --> 01:19:53,920
Speaker 1: it with the little baby in it? That's what that is,

1229
01:19:54,080 --> 01:20:09,160
Speaker 1: right you sk I didn't grow up. It's just that's

1230
01:20:09,160 --> 01:20:15,719
Speaker 1: a good cake. Like no like uh white cake, cinna

1231
01:20:16,360 --> 01:20:20,240
Speaker 1: like um pastry. It's like a pastry and you put

1232
01:20:20,520 --> 01:20:23,360
Speaker 1: icing on it like and then uh purple and edible

1233
01:20:23,400 --> 01:20:26,679
Speaker 1: glitter and then the little baby is if you pull

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01:20:26,760 --> 01:20:28,960
Speaker 1: the baby, then you have to get the kingcake next year.

1235
01:20:29,040 --> 01:20:36,040
Speaker 1: I think that's such addition. Is it a real baby? Cheerless? Anyway? Happy?

1236
01:20:39,479 --> 01:20:42,519
Speaker 1: All right? Okay, Steve, let's do something a little different, um,

1237
01:20:42,720 --> 01:20:45,320
Speaker 1: if you want to. As we close out the show today.

1238
01:20:45,720 --> 01:20:49,160
Speaker 1: When we started, Junior asked you, um, a situation and

1239
01:20:49,280 --> 01:20:52,479
Speaker 1: you said you have a song for every situation? And

1240
01:20:52,640 --> 01:20:57,439
Speaker 1: b is that h on? That's what made it at

1241
01:20:57,520 --> 01:20:59,840
Speaker 1: what made it and makes it the great music that

1242
01:21:00,000 --> 01:21:03,920
Speaker 1: it is. It's a shame that it's faded, because boy

1243
01:21:04,120 --> 01:21:06,360
Speaker 1: was good. So what y'all? Could you just give me

1244
01:21:06,439 --> 01:21:13,280
Speaker 1: a situation? I got one? I got one. Um, Okay,

1245
01:21:13,439 --> 01:21:18,080
Speaker 1: guy meets girl really really likes, really really interested wants

1246
01:21:18,120 --> 01:21:20,880
Speaker 1: to take it to the next level. Who wants to

1247
01:21:21,000 --> 01:21:27,439
Speaker 1: send her a song about how he feels? Oh? Oh,

1248
01:21:27,680 --> 01:21:30,920
Speaker 1: look because I'm going down the list. Okay, here going here,

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Speaker 1: you go, all right, hold on, hold on, hold on

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Speaker 1: if you want to send her a song of ha

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Speaker 1: excuse me, miss, oh, hold on? Okay, because that's it

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Speaker 1: just came to me. But I don't really excuse me? Miss?

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Speaker 1: What's your name? Where? Had I come? Where? How are

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Speaker 1: you know? Where? How are you from? Can I come yet?

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Speaker 1: I take you out to NA movies? Do the pop?

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Speaker 1: I can't have your home before it is dark? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I take you out to Luke the baby. Yeah, how

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Speaker 1: about this? I want to know your name? Who you went?

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Speaker 1: All the way? Your name? Girl? One? Okay? Situation guy

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Speaker 1: walks in his wife girl whatever fools around cheating, He

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Speaker 1: caught him in the act. Somebody, No, so somebody with

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Speaker 1: my feel that I feel that. Ok, you go, you

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Speaker 1: go a situation first? Two? Yeah? So this man, he

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Speaker 1: just he's looking at the situation. He can't live without her.

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Speaker 1: There's nothing he can do. He can't breathe, he can't

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Speaker 1: live without this one. Who as well? Oh what blues you? Baby? Man?

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Speaker 1: I never sence you went away. Ad for all Steve

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