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Speaker 1: Hey, everyone, welcome back to Batch Happy Hour.

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Speaker 2: I'm Joe and I'm Serena.

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Speaker 1: And we are live in the studio with Zach and Katie.

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Speaker 3: Hello.

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Speaker 1: Thanks.

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Speaker 4: I think you guys are only the second in person

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Speaker 4: interview we've ever done. Oh really, yeah, it's pretty much

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Speaker 4: always virtual, except we did Charity and Dowton in person,

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Speaker 4: and you guys are number two.

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Speaker 2: What do you prefer in person? Definitely?

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Speaker 5: Remember we did our in person one in Georgia together on.

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Speaker 1: That SA Yes, well we did.

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Speaker 2: We did a live podcast with you that was not recorded.

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Speaker 5: The nerves before that and the amount of pizza we

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Speaker 5: slammed before that was our first.

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Speaker 1: That was our first live podcast, and and we did

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Speaker 1: a few shots before too.

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Speaker 5: Nice way.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, well it was late. It was a nice show.

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Speaker 5: I'll just tell you that what.

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Speaker 1: I said, I remember you were nervous, and I was

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Speaker 1: so nervous, and I was trying to play it cool,

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Speaker 1: and I was like, you're gonna be fine. I'm really

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Speaker 1: telling you that, but talking.

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Speaker 6: Myself in the other realm, you've been doing this forever.

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Speaker 1: Well, just because it was it was a live audience

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Speaker 1: in Atlanta, and we never did a podcast like I've

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Speaker 1: done live shows, but never like had the host it.

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Speaker 4: We've been guests on people's live podcasts, but we've never

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Speaker 4: hosted a live podcast before together either, and we were

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Speaker 4: we were not co hosts at the time either, so

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Speaker 4: it was we never did a podcast together, and you

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Speaker 4: were our first guest we ever interviewed together, which is

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Speaker 4: kind of cool.

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Speaker 1: Wow, And we also did other people interviewed other people

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Speaker 1: live as well. We we just did the round we

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Speaker 1: did then we do rounds with somebody live. No, yes,

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Speaker 1: yes we did, Yes we did. Sorry, we're in l

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Speaker 1: A and I'm on New York Times, but no, we did, like.

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Speaker 2: Recently, No, we did it.

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Speaker 1: We're like girl, Oh yes, Rachel, why.

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Speaker 2: You're right, I'm sorry, I stand corrected. I can admit

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Speaker 2: when I'm wrong. Okay, it doesn't happen often.

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Speaker 1: But Bachelor, what do you think?

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Speaker 3: I was about to say, what are your thoughts? But

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Speaker 3: I haven't met him yet. I know we're I think

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Speaker 3: we're going to meet him tomorrow.

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Speaker 5: Yes, I met Joey, great guy, was right at his

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Speaker 5: announcement and then from and I chatted every once in

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Speaker 5: a while. But I'm excited for him.

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Speaker 2: I'm excited.

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Speaker 4: So we recently heard the season is like really crazy.

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Speaker 4: Did you guys hear that too.

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Speaker 5: Yes, the craziest season you have. They always say that

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Speaker 5: though most traumatic ending.

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Speaker 4: I'm really excited to see where they traveled to too,

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Speaker 4: because I heard they went to some really cool places.

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Speaker 1: Didn't you just sign a new nursing contract.

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Speaker 6: Oh yeah, so I'm going back to the hospital.

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Speaker 1: Don't sound.

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Speaker 3: Like emotionally physically taxing job. And it just takes a

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Speaker 3: lot out of you. Yeah, like even one twelve hour shift,

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Speaker 3: it's just like I come home and I'm not a

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Speaker 3: happy person, and you give it's a very selfish job.

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Speaker 3: You give so much of yourself to everybody around you.

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Speaker 3: You're there for them twenty four to seven, and then

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Speaker 3: it's like when you come home, it's like.

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Speaker 6: I need to recoup, I need to decompress.

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Speaker 3: And it's funny because he works at home and when

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Speaker 3: I get home, he's like excited to see me, and

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Speaker 3: I'm just drained, Like I can't give any more of

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Speaker 3: myself to anybody else, So I need Katie.

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Speaker 5: Time, which like we were able to navigate like over time,

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Speaker 5: because at first it was like I don't know what

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Speaker 5: it's like to work in the hospital for twelve hours,

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Speaker 5: and she started off doing night shifts twelve hours from

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Speaker 5: seven eight.

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Speaker 1: And then what's what's the time off? So it's a

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Speaker 1: twelve hours on and then what like forty eight hours, So.

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Speaker 3: It depends, like if you want to work overtime, you

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Speaker 3: can sometimes group your shifts together. You can work three

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Speaker 3: twelve hour shifts in a row and then you'll have

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Speaker 3: the rest of your days off. But it's all kind

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Speaker 3: of like up to the hospital how they want to

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Speaker 3: set it up, what are their needs, like where do

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Speaker 3: we need you kind of thing.

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Speaker 2: Oh, so you don't really get like a say it

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Speaker 3: And then if you're a little workhorse, then they give

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Speaker 3: working so much and then you get easily burnt out.

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Speaker 1: And have you guys.

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Speaker 2: Been through that yet?

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Speaker 4: Like you coming off the show went back to work

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Speaker 4: already once, So this will be the second time you're

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Speaker 4: doing a contract or third time you're doing a contract,

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Speaker 4: and then how long do you take off between contracts?

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Speaker 3: So because of like bachelor things, I took off two

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Speaker 3: to two months. Now this is the longest I've been

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Speaker 3: off work, which was August fourth to now, and I

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Speaker 3: just needed it.

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Speaker 6: I was going back home, traveling to Canada. Sorry, I

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Speaker 6: need to blow my nose. I'm like, no, you're good.

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Speaker 1: I'm actually stuffed up too, But.

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Speaker 6: I was traveling so much.

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Speaker 3: We went to Utah, we went to California, Canada, all

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Speaker 3: this stuff. So it didn't really seem like a big break,

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Speaker 3: but it was needed, yeah, very much.

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Speaker 6: And I'm I'm not excited to go back. If I'm

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Speaker 6: going to be honest, it's it's it's a lot.

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Speaker 3: But end goal is cosmetic nursing, which is I which

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Speaker 3: I feel is going to be a lot healthier for me.

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Speaker 2: Is that what Danielle? Do you know?

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Speaker 4: Danielle, Oh my gosh. And Malby I think she did

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Speaker 4: that as well. She she was on last season of

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Speaker 4: Paradise and she was a nurse okay, and she switched

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Speaker 4: over to I believe she does like cosmeticsmetic.

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Speaker 3: So it depends what role of nursing you're in. You

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Speaker 3: could be nurse practitioner LBN, which is a practical registered nurse.

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Speaker 6: Or licensed in the US.

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Speaker 3: I'm going Canada bring and then there's registered nurse, which

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Speaker 3: is where I am and that I can do like filler.

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Speaker 3: I can do bow talks, I can give ivy therapy,

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Speaker 3: et cetera, whereas nurse practitioner prescribes that. So she prescribes

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Speaker 3: me the bow talks to administer.

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Speaker 6: Got kind of thing. So nurse practitioner is going to

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Speaker 4: So that's like the long term, that's for you to

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Speaker 6: That's always been my goal. But my first goal was

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and I checked that off here I am now

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Speaker 3: it's the next goal, the next stream, and that's the

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Speaker 1: So what are you doing though?

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Speaker 5: So yeah, so that's a good question. So I'm actually

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Speaker 5: with a mental health platform company. So after the show,

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Speaker 5: I took some time off for bachelor stuff, but what

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Speaker 5: of things. What I know because I used to work

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Speaker 5: We sell it to employers as a benefit for their employees.

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Speaker 5: But it's a grind, it's a startup. There's like twenty

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Speaker 2: So is it still kind of in the sale space.

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Speaker 5: Yes, I'm still in sales, but I have a lot

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Speaker 5: more of a say in the company because it's new. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: it's new. And you know, the CEO is slacking you

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Speaker 5: every day in texting here and I'm like, oh my god,

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Speaker 5: I'm so nervous.

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Speaker 2: I feel like I'm so important. I'm chatting with the CEO.

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Speaker 5: It's cool.

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Speaker 1: And then where are you guys here in Austin?

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Speaker 3: We are in We're in Austin. Just moved in together July,

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Speaker 3: like the first week of July. So that was a

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Speaker 3: new chapter chapter.

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Speaker 5: This is awesome.

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Speaker 1: We were nervous a little bit, yeah about the beginning.

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Speaker 2: So our time, you guys were together for how long

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Speaker 2: So like just six seven months? Okay, Yeah, we were

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Speaker 4: We were like ten months and we were doing like

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Speaker 4: the crossborder thing.

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Speaker 2: It was.

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Speaker 4: But I feel like we got lucky because it was

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Speaker 5: Well, so right after the show, she came right back

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Speaker 5: it was Canada for some time. I was still in

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Speaker 5: we almost started just like dating it in reverse, right,

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Speaker 5: like we're engaged. Yeah, yeah, let's not move like straight

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Speaker 5: huge commitment, like let's enjoy the things of dating that

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Speaker 5: we were not robbed of, but we get to do.

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Speaker 2: More of them.

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Speaker 5: Okay, we work, we were and we kept it that

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Speaker 5: how is it going to work? Like when you move in,

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Speaker 5: you you meld your lives together, and either of you.

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Speaker 2: Lived with someone before? Okay, yeah, neither I had.

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Speaker 1: How was the relationship? Was the relationship going strong the

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Speaker 1: whole time?

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Speaker 3: I think absolutely, I would say that. But I think

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Speaker 3: we really understood the level of strength that we had

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Speaker 3: was when we moved in together. That was when we

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Speaker 3: really formed an even stronger relationship.

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Speaker 1: And yeah, you making your bed now or no?

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Speaker 3: I actually you should never make my bed in the mornings,

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Speaker 3: and now I do.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Joe never used to make his bed either, and

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Speaker 4: you're better. I usually make it because I get up

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Speaker 4: after you, but I always Yeah, but when we first

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Speaker 4: was like, Wow, it's it's really nice actually to like

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Speaker 4: get into a nicely made bed.

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Speaker 2: At the end of the night versus my like crumpled fellows.

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Speaker 4: So when you say the transition went better than you

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Speaker 4: expected when you moved in together.

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Speaker 3: I will saw you there way better because I was

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Speaker 5: You never You've never watched Friends. I think I've watched

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Speaker 6: On the show.

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Speaker 2: Went right over his head. Yes, so you guys haven't

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you should, Bene, I'm down.

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Speaker 1: Get yeah, a sap.

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Speaker 3: And we go home to Canada December fourteenth, So we

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Speaker 6: Basically, yeah, yeah, yeah, basically.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think it just fits our vibe, our personality,

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Speaker 6: Austin has to offer. So pickleball, pickball, We're huge pickleballers.

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Speaker 5: I do the same thing.

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Speaker 1: It's no longer the Golden Bachelor, so it won't matter.

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Speaker 3: It's Jerry Gary Gary Gary Gary.

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Speaker 6: Okay. So yeah, I see her and she's like.

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Speaker 3: On the flight, we got seated beside each other because

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Speaker 3: the flight attendant knew who we were.

445
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Speaker 6: She's like, I'll give you guys wine.

446
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Speaker 3: You guys sit together and anyways, next thing, I know,

447
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Speaker 3: this is why it sparked this thought. But she's like,

448
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Speaker 3: I really want to go to Canada. She's got relatives

449
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Speaker 3: in Canada. She's like, you guys can move into our place.

450
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Speaker 2: Where does she live?

451
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Speaker 3: She lives in Westlake, Austin, Austin, Oh, and you can

452
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Speaker 3: drive my Mercedes. You just got to take care of

453
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Speaker 3: my cats. I was like, stop, now we're texting. She's

454
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Speaker 3: the coolest.

455
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Speaker 4: She's giving the holiday like house swap, Like you move

456
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Speaker 4: into her home and she moves into your place in Canada.

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Speaker 1: Are you considering it though? I mean it could be

458
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Speaker 1: an option for the time.

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Speaker 6: Basically we could be moving into Happy's house.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So when where you're renting and then potentially buying

461
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Speaker 4: in Austin, how does your Canadian fam and your California

462
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Speaker 4: fan feel about that?

463
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Speaker 5: Thanks?

464
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Speaker 1: Loving? Oh your family?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, my my mom really wants me back in Canada.

466
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Speaker 3: And I said, okay, we'll compromise, and I told zact this.

467
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Speaker 3: I was like, we can just come home for Canadian summers.

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Speaker 2: That would be even during Canadian summers are great with

469
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Speaker 2: muscoco yep.

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Speaker 6: Hell I love that, and then being austin the rest

471
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Speaker 6: of the year.

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Speaker 3: But obviously that's in a perfect world, right, we'll see,

473
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Speaker 3: But my mom definitely wants me closer. It's just her

474
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Speaker 3: and my brothers, so the more family that's around her

475
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Speaker 3: obviously is more meaningful.

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Speaker 4: But you guys are going for two weeks for Christmas though, Yeah, okay,

477
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Speaker 4: that'll be nice.

478
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Speaker 2: We're doing well.

479
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Speaker 4: The good thing too, is you guys will have this

480
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Speaker 4: is Canadian Thanksgiving and US Thanksgiving are different.

481
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Speaker 6: Thanksgiving this year, yeah I did.

482
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Speaker 5: I did. Not as different as I thought, though.

483
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Speaker 2: No, it's kind of the same. For people who have

484
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Speaker 2: seen that don't know.

485
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Speaker 4: Canadian Thanksgiving is October, like the first or second Monday

486
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Speaker 4: of October, and then American Thanksgiving is obviously end of November. Yeah,

487
00:23:17,160 --> 00:23:18,720
Speaker 4: so you won't have to split that. And then do

488
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Speaker 4: you have plans on like what you're going to do

489
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Speaker 4: for Christmases?

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Speaker 5: We were planning for next year, like to do because

491
00:23:25,480 --> 00:23:27,560
Speaker 5: like her family, like I love her family so much,

492
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Speaker 5: like I went to Canada for the first time a

493
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Speaker 5: few months ago.

494
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Speaker 2: At the time was her first time going.

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Speaker 5: Oh and was it a adventure?

496
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Speaker 2: Where'd you go?

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Speaker 4: Huh, you're in Hamilton, aren't you?

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Speaker 2: Sorry? You're in Kingston is far from two hours I'm

499
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Speaker 2: in Markham okay to Ish two and a half.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's different though than Markham. Markham is more of

501
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Speaker 4: like a city suburb. Kingston is I feel like more

502
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Speaker 4: of a suburb suburb.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, would you agree?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: I agree?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, And it was it was a tough point going

507
00:24:03,960 --> 00:24:07,560
Speaker 5: to Canada because of you. Yeah, you do.

508
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Speaker 2: I actually think I saw that Instagram.

509
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Speaker 5: It's it's probably worse than what it was shared. But

510
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Speaker 5: you know, we've been planning this trip to Canada the

511
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Speaker 5: first time. I'm going to Canada first time. I'm seeing

512
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Speaker 5: and meeting a lot of her friends and some of

513
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Speaker 5: her family that I haven't met yet, and the excitement's

514
00:24:25,960 --> 00:24:28,760
Speaker 5: building up, the nerves are building up. I'm someone that

515
00:24:29,080 --> 00:24:31,960
Speaker 5: packs like three days in advance, like I'm ready to go.

516
00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:33,840
Speaker 5: And I'm like the one that's like, hey, babe, do

517
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Speaker 5: you have your ID, do you have your keys? Do

518
00:24:35,280 --> 00:24:36,680
Speaker 5: you have your canon?

519
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Speaker 4: Like I am, I know where this is going because

520
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Speaker 4: I just I just know, I know where it's going.

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Speaker 5: So we're on the flight, and the whole plan was

522
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Speaker 5: we're going to fly to Detroit and we're having her

523
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Speaker 5: uncle come pick us up from Sarnia, drive us, you know,

524
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Speaker 5: however many hours to get there, and then pick us

525
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Speaker 5: up back to her grandma's house because we can only

526
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Speaker 5: see your grandma that day. As we're done traveling, after

527
00:25:02,080 --> 00:25:05,480
Speaker 5: like seven hours, our plane is descending into Detroit, she's like,

528
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Speaker 5: I'm texting my uncle now, like we're about to hit

529
00:25:07,880 --> 00:25:10,399
Speaker 5: the road. And it hit me and I turned to

530
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Speaker 5: her and I said, you don't need your passport to

531
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Speaker 5: drive into Canada, do you? Oh?

532
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Speaker 1: You did it for your past.

533
00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:19,280
Speaker 5: And I knew the answer to it. I just I

534
00:25:19,320 --> 00:25:21,160
Speaker 5: couldn't think of any way to get it out because

535
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Speaker 5: I myself was in shock. And she started laughing. She's like,

536
00:25:24,560 --> 00:25:26,800
Speaker 5: you're like, you're so funny, like stop messing around. And

537
00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:28,439
Speaker 5: then she saw the color in my face and I

538
00:25:28,480 --> 00:25:30,679
Speaker 5: was like, Babe, I'm white. I think I'm in a

539
00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:32,639
Speaker 5: nightmare right now. She's like, what are you saying? And

540
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Speaker 5: I'm like, I've I don't know if I'm guessed, but

541
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Speaker 5: I fucked up and You're like you didn't, And I

542
00:25:38,840 --> 00:25:41,320
Speaker 5: was like, I did, I did. I know where it is.

543
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Speaker 5: It's in the apartment. I can't I don't have it.

544
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Speaker 5: I can't get in.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and I started laughing even more, just out of

546
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Speaker 3: like nervous shock.

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I didn't even know how to collect my emotions or

549
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Speaker 3: what I was thinking. I was like mad, frustrated, felt

550
00:25:54,400 --> 00:25:56,040
Speaker 3: bad for you like I was.

551
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Speaker 6: I was in basket case.

552
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Speaker 5: So I immediately pull out my phone and I can

553
00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:04,359
Speaker 5: tell like I've disappointed so many people, or I'm about

554
00:26:04,400 --> 00:26:06,480
Speaker 5: to disappoint so many people, because like this was the

555
00:26:06,480 --> 00:26:09,280
Speaker 5: one day we could see her grandma. So I pull

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Speaker 5: out my phone and I booked the next flight and

557
00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:15,040
Speaker 5: I get off and it's the same plane we just

558
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Speaker 5: landed in and I landed, I go back. I give

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Speaker 5: Kate a hug, and I apologize again. I'm like, I

560
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Speaker 5: will make this ride. I'll be there as soon as

561
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Speaker 5: I can. She's like, okay, i'll take care of your bag.

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Speaker 5: I'll see you in Toronto, like whenever you can get here,

563
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Speaker 5: hopefully tomorrow. So I'm like, I'm like I let everyone down.

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Speaker 5: I'm I don't know who to talk to. I'm stressing

565
00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:38,520
Speaker 5: her family was so sweet. They immediately heard and they

566
00:26:38,520 --> 00:26:39,960
Speaker 5: were starting to text me, but I was.

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Speaker 6: Like, mom, I'm like wow, like started crying, like.

568
00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:49,520
Speaker 5: Yeah. So I turn around and she texts me. She's like, hey, babe,

569
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Speaker 5: by the way, they lost your luggage. And I'm like, oh, oh,

570
00:26:53,400 --> 00:26:56,080
Speaker 5: that's what I needed to hear today. So that's good.

571
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Speaker 5: And I at this point, I'm like, well, that has

572
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Speaker 5: all the wedding clothes I was supposed to wear. So

573
00:27:02,119 --> 00:27:03,960
Speaker 5: I just like, roll with the punches. I fly back,

574
00:27:04,080 --> 00:27:06,000
Speaker 5: have like a five hour layover in Saint Louis, get

575
00:27:06,040 --> 00:27:09,520
Speaker 5: to Austin that night at ten PM, grab my passport,

576
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Speaker 5: book the first flight in the morning at like four

577
00:27:11,720 --> 00:27:15,760
Speaker 5: am to Toronto Direct. Get there like nothing ever happened,

578
00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:19,320
Speaker 5: kind of kind of and uh.

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Speaker 6: Until there's one more to this story.

580
00:27:23,720 --> 00:27:26,919
Speaker 5: So oh yeah, yeah, yeah, so this is not.

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Speaker 1: You know what, you know what? Stay tuned, people, Yes,

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Speaker 1: we have part two coming. We're gonna find out what

583
00:27:33,800 --> 00:27:38,160
Speaker 1: else happened when Zach fucked off and forgot his past?

584
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Speaker 2: Did he get his luggage?

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00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:42,480
Speaker 4: Part three we got lots more talked to him about

586
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Speaker 4: future relationship plans. Katie, want to hear about your friendships

587
00:27:46,320 --> 00:27:47,920
Speaker 4: from the show, you guys have been doing lots of

588
00:27:47,960 --> 00:27:49,199
Speaker 4: fun things, and.

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Speaker 1: Makes sure you subscribe the Happy Hour.

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Speaker 6: Thank you, Bye,