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Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date updates.

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Speaker 2: In the entertainment industry, it's all about good branding, Oh yeah,

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Speaker 2: for sure. And that's why today we're turning our second

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Speaker 2: Date update into a second date yupdate, trying to get

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Speaker 2: a guy to say yep to a second meeting.

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Speaker 1: What kind of branding is that.

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Speaker 2: It's called good branding. And I've already got our digital

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Speaker 2: team recutting all of the station promos. And by digital team,

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Speaker 2: I mean the one guy who still works here. So

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Speaker 2: thanks Seth. But in the meantime, let's meet our hopeful

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Speaker 2: yupper of the day, goes on, Jessica. Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 2: I apologize for all the negativity in the rooms.

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Speaker 1: Not against you, just against Jeffrey.

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Speaker 3: Just so you know, hi, guys, thanks for having me.

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Speaker 4: Can we call her?

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Speaker 1: Yesica, Jeffrey I kind of make that back.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely can. If that's okay with you, Yessica, for your

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Speaker 2: updated it's gonna be all.

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Speaker 1: Just have you hung up yet?

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry, Okay, okay, I'm sorry to Let's just go.

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Speaker 2: Let's start with an easy question. Who's the guy that

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Speaker 2: you want us to call today?

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Speaker 3: So his name is Patrick. Okay, we met on a

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Speaker 3: dating app. I've never been on a dating app before,

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Speaker 3: so this is my first time.

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Speaker 1: That's your very first date from a dating app.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and it was crazy because I was getting so

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Speaker 3: many like messages from people and it's like hundreds.

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Speaker 1: Wow. Was that overwhelming?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Absolutely, I mean I definitely was trying to like

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Speaker 3: weep through all of that, and so when I saw

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Speaker 3: this guy Patrick message to me, it was like super normal.

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Speaker 3: Yesked me just was like, hey, how are you. Wasn't

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Speaker 3: anything about like physical appearance, so it wasn't creepy.

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Speaker 1: It wasn't like the others that are like fresh meat.

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Speaker 5: It does say like new to the app.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so the algorithm really does that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, okay, so you were attracted to his normalness.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, definitely. And we went to this restaurant that was

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Speaker 3: really nice.

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Speaker 6: What were you feeling going into this because you ever

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Speaker 6: even been on a blind date before. I mean, I mean,

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Speaker 6: I know, you can see people's pictures and shouting on them,

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Speaker 6: but you don't really know what to expect, right, Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I was absolutely nervous because I normally want to do

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Speaker 3: things with my dog happy happy happy ta f f.

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Speaker 2: Y, which makes jose happy just thinking Okay, sorry, how

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Speaker 2: did we get onto her dog?

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Speaker 6: She normally goes places with her dog, And I'm guessing

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Speaker 6: you didn't bring your dog to the restaurant.

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Speaker 3: So I didn't because they didn't allow like dogs at

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Speaker 3: the restaurant in the woods and patio seating.

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Speaker 2: Oh. I thought you were going to put your dog

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Speaker 2: inside of like a sweater and like do the thing

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Speaker 2: where people stack on top of each other, and then

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Speaker 2: your dog could sit in the restaurant like.

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Speaker 1: Eating parts of her steak through the buttons.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and that would have been cute, but I guess

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Speaker 2: a little distracting for the date.

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Speaker 1: Was that hard for you not to bring your dog?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I mean I'm love my dog, so I was thinking

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Speaker 3: about her a lot and so on the goat it

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Speaker 3: was so fun, but I kept like kind of thinking

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Speaker 3: about her, So I was like getting distracted during the conversation.

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Speaker 3: For example, I love to read and my favorite series

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Speaker 3: is Harry Potter, and he read and I was like,

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Speaker 3: I'm reading the series again, so we were talking about

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Speaker 3: it and which is so nice, But I kept thinking

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Speaker 6: Did he notice that you were distracted and thinking about

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Speaker 3: I mean, I think a little bit because he had

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Speaker 3: to repeat the question a few times that he had.

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Speaker 6: So that's interesting. I wonder if you thought you were

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Speaker 6: distracted or just like airheady.

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Speaker 4: Me.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, I does that in soul. You just

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Speaker 1: hadn't mean to insult you.

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Speaker 3: I don't think I was airheady. I think I was

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Speaker 3: just like kind of like floating. I was just a

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Speaker 2: Was Yeah, I was more balloon minded. Okay, this second

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Speaker 2: date yupdate is definitely turning kind of dark. Let's bring

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Speaker 2: the yuppie mood back in. Okay, I did, and I apologize.

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Speaker 2: See look at this. This is what I'm talking about

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Speaker 2: positive energy.

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Speaker 6: And you're just asking if he thought that maybe she

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Speaker 5: Did you talk about your dog a lot?

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Speaker 6: Like?

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, did you bring it up at all?

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Speaker 3: I mean I talked about Haafy a little bit, but

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Speaker 3: I tried not to make it the whole conversation.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Okay, So just to recap, you're on your first

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Speaker 2: time on a date through a dating app, You're feeling

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Speaker 2: a little bit nervous, you keep thinking about your dog,

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Speaker 2: talking about Harry Potter, a lot missing some of his questions.

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Speaker 2: So far, it's going okay, how does the date end?

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Speaker 3: So at the end of the date, I once to

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Speaker 3: use the restroom and he was like getting the check,

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Speaker 3: that is.

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Speaker 5: A terrible first.

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Speaker 2: Let's give him a little bit of credit. Was there

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Speaker 2: at least a sad face at the end of sorry,

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Speaker 2: mad Cue? There wasn't a.

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Speaker 1: Hard I'm sorry.

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Speaker 6: Why would you want to get a hold of this

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Speaker 6: guy again? He ditched you at the end of the day.

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Speaker 3: Honestly, now I want to know why he ditched me

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Speaker 3: because everything seemed to be going great. And honestly, Lexus,

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Speaker 3: I really want your feedback on this because I feel

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Speaker 3: like you know men, and you know, like I feel

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Speaker 3: like you can really help you.

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Speaker 2: Think she knows men?

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Speaker 6: All men?

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Speaker 2: Okay? Yeah? Does yeah? Yeah, Lexus? What do you have

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Speaker 2: to say about that?

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Speaker 1: Experts today, boundaries?

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Speaker 3: So what do you think you a Lexus? Why do

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Speaker 3: you think she left me? Oh?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, share your wisdom, you know.

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Speaker 5: I need a few minutes to think about it. Study.

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Speaker 1: She's the one that all of her friends go to

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Speaker 1: for advice. Obviously.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they're still waiting on that advice, some of them.

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Speaker 5: But scroll TikTok the answers.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna hopefully get all of the answers for you.

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Speaker 2: When we come back, call Patrick and try to get

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Speaker 2: you your second date, yup date and have him say

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Speaker 2: yup to another meet up Yessica.

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Speaker 5: It's right after this, Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 1: Second date update.

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Speaker 2: If you're just joining us, we've been talking to a

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Speaker 2: young woman by the name of Jessica who recently dipped

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Speaker 2: her toe into the pool of dating apps. Got hundreds

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Speaker 2: of messages from eager male suitors, and she chose one

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Speaker 2: who seemed to be the most normal.

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Speaker 6: God And if this is the most normal, then she's

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Speaker 6: doomed app world.

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Speaker 5: It was such a terrible end to a date.

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Speaker 2: His name is Patrick, and it was a terrible end

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Speaker 2: because she got ditched by him at the restaurant. Actually,

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Speaker 2: Ditch came back to the table from a note.

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Speaker 1: It's so rude. It's so rude.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely, But Brooke, can we at least say it's impressive

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Speaker 2: that he knows how to write something by hand? Can

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Speaker 2: we give him that.

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Speaker 1: It wasn't a full sentence. Okay, did it have any punctuations?

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Speaker 4: That's why he only wrote one word because doesn't know

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Speaker 2: That's possible. There's a few questions. Was there any punctuation

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Speaker 2: on it? No? God, man, I guess.

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Speaker 1: An exclamation mark would have made it feel worse.

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Speaker 2: But the good news is Jessica is gen Z and

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Speaker 2: she's looking towards a gen Z hero for answers here,

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Speaker 2: I think it's safe to say she wants you very,

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Speaker 2: very involved in this call, Alexis, as do you're we're

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Speaker 2: talking about you're the gen Z here? Tell me we're

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Speaker 2: talking about any more thoughts now that you've had time

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Speaker 2: to TikTok about why this guy ditched on Jessica, Man, you.

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Speaker 1: Really got nothing.

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Speaker 2: Let's play some more music.

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Speaker 5: And there's just it could be anything. It could be

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Speaker 5: her zoning out. It could be she likes Harry Potter. Okay,

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Speaker 5: there's the odds of the dating world. Your first date

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Speaker 5: probably isn't going to be good on a dating app.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 3: I just appreciate Alexis being open to helping me.

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Speaker 5: I don't know that I have a choice, but yes

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Speaker 5: I have.

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Speaker 2: Lexus is going to take a very active role in

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Speaker 2: getting answers out of this guy. Let's call him and

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Speaker 2: hopefully he picks up. But here we go. Hello, Hey

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Speaker 2: is this Patrick?

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Speaker 4: Missus Patrick a man?

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Speaker 2: Thanks for picking up. We're a radio show. We're called

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Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. What's up man? Good morning?

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Speaker 6: Uh?

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Speaker 2: Okay, Alexis, we have we have a bunch of questions

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Speaker 2: that we would like to ask you about a woman

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Speaker 2: that you went out with recently. Her name is Jessica.

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Speaker 4: What.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's part of a segment that we do called

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Speaker 2: the second Date Update. So Alexis, take it from.

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Speaker 5: Here now with somebody, and you're super rude at the end,

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Speaker 5: actually like you need to explain yourself.

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Speaker 1: Okay, we're trying to get him to open up.

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Speaker 2: I would love to capital.

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Speaker 5: You have a great reason that I will totally side

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Speaker 5: with you.

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Speaker 1: Okay did you hear that? Patrick? Do you know what

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Speaker 4: I'm I'm like totally confused. What are you talking about?

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Speaker 2: Okay, maybe I'll explain that and then I'll talk about

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Speaker 2: So this girl, Jessica emailed us because she told us

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Speaker 2: about your date at the restaurant and she is very confused.

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Speaker 2: Why you ditched her halfway through with no explanation, just

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Speaker 2: left him out that said, sorry.

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Speaker 4: It was the end, but yeah, yeah, it was at

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Speaker 4: the end of the night and there was no hope,

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Speaker 4: so I just left to know.

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Speaker 1: I gotta say, though, man, that's pretty rude.

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Speaker 4: Well, she was being extremely rude. She was on her

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Speaker 4: phone the entire time, and then just a year to

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Speaker 1: And then what disappeared to the bathroom.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she disappeared to the bathroom for like thirty minutes.

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Speaker 2: Whoa, oh wow, that's a long time.

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Speaker 4: I'm exaggerating a little bit. I mean it was like

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Speaker 4: ten minutes, but it felt like thirty.

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Speaker 1: Okay, now I'm starting to think it was two minutes.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, a long time.

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Speaker 1: But there's a line like you don't know yeah.

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Speaker 4: No, No. She was like she is obsessed with her dog,

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Speaker 4: and it was like she would rather have been with

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Speaker 4: I'm just gonna leave so she can hang out with

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Speaker 5: I mean, when don't most people rather me with their

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Speaker 4: So like the whole night, she's like on her phone

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: Doesn't that make you feel better though, because in that moment,

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Speaker 4: It's kind of cute. But she had it set for

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Speaker 4: Yeah. I was like, okay, well, maybe you should turn

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Speaker 4: my god, look Taffy sniffing the room. Bu that means

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Speaker 5: I was like, okay, oh, my friends had pet cameras

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Speaker 5: all the time. Yeah. Yeah, and you would always distract them,

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Speaker 5: so they got rid of their ass.

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Speaker 6: Obviously your day is just having separation, exacting herself, you know,

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Speaker 2: Like it's fine.

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Speaker 4: Well exactly, and then she goes to the bathroom and

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Speaker 4: Well, I went back to the bathroom and this girl

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Speaker 1: Okay, oh I get that baby.

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Speaker 5: She had a dog the care you could talk to ca.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for explaining what happened from your perspective. That

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Speaker 2: And now you probably need to hear Jessica's side of

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Speaker 2: And what does she want to do, Alexis I actually

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Speaker 5: She wants anymore? Get answers?

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Speaker 1: The want to want to talk to each other? Yes,

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Speaker 2: It's Jessica on the other line if she's there.

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Speaker 3: Jessica Hey, Patrick, Jessica, Hey, what's up.

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 3: I know, it just kind of weird, but like I

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Speaker 4: I mean I didn't know how long you were going

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Speaker 4: come on, as long as the dog's in danger, what, well.

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Speaker 3: You could have like messaged me after.

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Speaker 4: Okay, that's fair, I could have messaged you after. But

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Speaker 4: I was just like, I don't know, I was just

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Speaker 2: I mean, if I'm a guy and I'm on a

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Speaker 6: It wasn't the entire time, he said. There was twenty

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Speaker 6: Would like at least she tried to take the FaceTime

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Speaker 1: I don't know, like why didn't he bring it up.

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Speaker 5: Feelings, or let's go back to your house and hang

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Speaker 4: I just don't understand why why we can't just decide

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Speaker 1: Well, I mean my child.

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Speaker 4: Well yeah, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 2: You should ignore your children if they're trying to interrupt

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Speaker 2: you in the middle of a hot date. That's really rude.

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Speaker 1: Brook does Oh, absolutely, I don't answer their call.

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Speaker 5: Maybe if she gets a second child, didn't, she'll care less.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I just.

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Speaker 6: Think maybe next time, if you're that worried about it, Jessica,

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Speaker 1: But it still doesn't warrant him ditching you at the

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Speaker 3: I appreciate your opinion on that, Brook, but I really

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Speaker 3: like to hear what alexis.

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Speaker 5: I think it did not warrant him to leave you

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Speaker 2: Finally, a thought that makes sense on this show. Thank you, Alexis,

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Speaker 2: You're welcome. Okay, So so wait, are we not going

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Speaker 5: I think she should bring the dog a dog friendly

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Speaker 2: I mean, that's always an option. And look, Patrick, if

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Speaker 6: I mean, it would be good to try her out

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Speaker 2: Yes, Alexis is going to tell you two reasons why

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Speaker 5: Because Tay's obviously cute.

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Speaker 2: That's obvious you owe her. Did you say one and

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Speaker 2: then be your second?

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Speaker 5: Wat doing this right now?

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Speaker 2: I mean you can't say no that that logic.

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Speaker 4: I am, I'm out. I'm out. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: I just.

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Speaker 4: Jessica is too high strung for me. I just it's

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Speaker 2: Oh man, oh my god, Patrick, thanks so much, like

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Speaker 3: Now I know why. I mean, I can just get

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Speaker 4: Full Bro, you got hundreds, Okay, I don't think it's

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Speaker 2: Hey, if it's plenty of fish, it's definitely that said.

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Speaker 6: She was in the bathroom for thirty minutes and it

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Speaker 4: That's actually fair.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, rerook and Jeffrey in the morning. I can't believe

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Speaker 1: I honestly didn't think it was that big of a deal.

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Speaker 6: Like, no, I mean, I agree with him that people

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Speaker 6: but like there was.

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Speaker 1: No middle ground for either of them, right.

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Speaker 2: I mean, she was a little bit stressed out being

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Speaker 2: sorry dog for the first time. That's totally understandable, And

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Speaker 2: it's also understandable that he wants to have a girl

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Speaker 1: Right.

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Speaker 2: But you know, in strange, confusing times like this, I'm

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Speaker 2: just so thankful that we have Alexis to help us

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Speaker 2: make sense of everything.

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Speaker 5: What would you guys do without me?

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Speaker 2: And that I know Alexis, share your wisdom. Please? Why

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Speaker 2: is the dating world like this right now?

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Speaker 5: Because people are people and that's how deep.

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Speaker 1: She just peopled so hard.

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Speaker 2: I feel so much better now, Thank you, Alexi.

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Speaker 4: Instead of emailing us African Jeffery, just email Alexis your

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Speaker 4: second date updates from now on.

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Speaker 5: I don't email. Whatever you gotta do, gross.

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Speaker 2: Just reach out to the show in whatever way, and

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Speaker 2: Alexis can save you and your day.

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Speaker 1: Don't have a success yet, but she will.

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Speaker 2: It's gonna happen. That's right, they didn't say no. Manifest

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Speaker 2: that positivity and go check out all of our podcasts

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Speaker 2: wherever you get yours A broken Jeffrey Brooke and Jeffrey

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