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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Beca Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio

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Speaker 1: and two times People's Choice Award winning podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we're scrubbing in. We are back from Palm

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Speaker 2: Springs And what an adventure that one.

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Speaker 3: Oh, for some.

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Speaker 4: Of us, I think for most of us.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I would say it was a journey for all

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Speaker 2: of us in some capacity. I would say, you know,

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Speaker 2: we didn't hear much from Danielle, but she was part

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Speaker 2: of the debauchery for sure.

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Speaker 1: Everybody, literally everybody minus Easton Allison were like toasty roasties.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but yeah, it you don't understand because because of

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Speaker 2: the severity of my case, a lot of people swept

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Speaker 2: under the radar without exposing themselves the level of drunkenness

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Speaker 2: there was. Because obviously I was at the top of

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Speaker 2: the totem pole. I won award for most drunk yay yay,

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Speaker 2: I love to win. It was right below you, Danielle,

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Speaker 2: and she just went to bed.

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Speaker 3: I think.

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Speaker 2: I don't think she had to do a podcast or anything.

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Speaker 1: No, no, she barely made it to the end of

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Speaker 1: our taping. She popped in like ten minutes before and

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Speaker 1: was like, did they mention the hotel? Okay, I'm gonna go.

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Speaker 5: Now, well making sure all the important things got hit,

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Speaker 5: and then I was out.

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Speaker 2: Danielle and I were in the pool. She was like,

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Speaker 2: but I think she was the one who kept buying

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Speaker 2: the drinks, like I kept having a new drink, and

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Speaker 2: or your husband drawn Actually he was the supplier of

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Speaker 2: the spicy marks.

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Speaker 5: You're outing us out right now, Like I just flew

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Speaker 5: under the radar.

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Speaker 2: I know, I you know, I couldn't let that happen.

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Speaker 2: I was like, I put my pose myself, I put

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Speaker 2: it all out there. It's time today, we're bringing the

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Speaker 2: rest of you to like everybody else is going down.

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Speaker 2: I already did my part.

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Speaker 1: So I do have to say, though, Becca, the fact

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Speaker 1: that you allowed us to post that video is just

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Speaker 1: truly speaks volumes as to what a giver you are,

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Speaker 1: because that video has brought so much joy and laughter

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Speaker 1: into not just my life, but into many people's lives.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, listen, all it was was just the little fade

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Speaker 2: out of sorts that said it's time to go now.

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Speaker 2: And I did what I had to do to save

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Speaker 2: my dignity and the podcast.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, I just.

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Speaker 2: Wanted to expose Danielle and John because they were in

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Speaker 2: the pool with me, and Easton walked by and was

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Speaker 2: like tapped on his watch and was like, are we

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Speaker 2: still doing the podcast at five? And I just remember

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Speaker 2: looking up at him like, oh yeah, we have that.

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Speaker 6: Oh yeah, because Sabrina was going to be on the

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Speaker 6: zoom at five.

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Speaker 7: So it's not like you could push it or move it.

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Speaker 7: You do it or cancel, you know, right.

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Speaker 4: That's what I think. I think.

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Speaker 1: I knew we were had it at scheduled at five,

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Speaker 1: which I left the pool at like three twenty ish.

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Speaker 1: I knew we had it at five, but I forgot

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Speaker 1: why it was at five, Like I forgot we had

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Speaker 1: a guest. So I was like, okay, okay, I need

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Speaker 1: to like clean up in here. And then they're like,

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Speaker 1: Sabrina's on this zoo.

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Speaker 2: I was like, what, I promise all of you were

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Speaker 2: more professional than this. It just happened to be that

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Speaker 2: we were not in our like our typical element, and

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Speaker 2: we were like girls gone wild.

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Speaker 1: Totally girls gone wild. I think it is because like

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Speaker 1: we've been super quarantined since March, do you know what

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Speaker 1: I mean? Like normally we like go out and about

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Speaker 1: the town. We go and have a drink at the bar,

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Speaker 1: have a couple. You know, we haven't done that.

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Speaker 4: No, I mean this was like our notest weekend. Can

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Speaker 4: I tell you guys? It was actually so sad.

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Speaker 1: So Red Star was actually like really excited about like

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Speaker 1: being able to bomb. Like he's never really spent much

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Speaker 1: time with like Easton Allison or Danielle and John. I mean,

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Speaker 1: he's like met everybody, but he hasn't like spent quality time.

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Speaker 1: And so he was like, we kind of had like

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Speaker 1: and like games and like with everybody. He was kind

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Speaker 1: of like bummed, but he was like this was a

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Speaker 1: different bonding experience for sure with everybody.

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Speaker 2: That's so funny because we were out on the loungers.

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Speaker 2: This was post nap. This is post yeah nap, throwing

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Speaker 2: up nap. And then I came to a minute. I

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Speaker 2: out one of the loungers and Red Star came out

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Speaker 2: and laid on the other one with me, and I

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Speaker 2: was like just moaning. I could not get comfortable. I

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Speaker 2: was in like fetal position. And he's like, can I

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Speaker 2: get to anything. I'm like, I think I just got

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Speaker 2: to post make the pizza and some gatorade, like that's

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Speaker 2: my only option right now. So I did it, and

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Speaker 2: he's like, can I have one of those? He was

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Speaker 2: like before it got there, He's like, do you think

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Speaker 3: Like, fine, We're all in the same boat this together.

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Speaker 2: He was really nice because he was really thinking like

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Speaker 2: I had poisoning or like food poisoning or something.

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Speaker 4: I know, he was really worried.

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Speaker 2: And then I was laughing because like as I'm leaning

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Speaker 2: over the ice bucket and I could hear him saying

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Speaker 2: like she's food, Like this has to be a good point,

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Speaker 2: and I'm like, no, this is an over consumption.

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Speaker 1: The amount of times that this man has held back

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Speaker 1: either mine or my best friend's.

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Speaker 4: Hair from puking is just really one too many.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, too too soon for that. Yeah, it was great.

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Speaker 2: I do vaguely remember seeing Mark before we started interview

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Speaker 2: with Sabrina. It was like, also very fuzzy, but I

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Speaker 2: was like, can he tell. He's literally like, Dad, tell

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Speaker 7: I got a kick out of the after it was

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Speaker 7: all put on hold. Everyone was like, Okay, we're gonna

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Speaker 7: redo need this some other time.

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Speaker 6: We've got a text from Romo Danielle saying I'm not

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Speaker 6: sure why she threw up.

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Speaker 7: We're looking into it, and I was like.

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Speaker 6: I think I have an idea.

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Speaker 2: Can I have a story?

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Speaker 3: Really tell a story.

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Speaker 7: Trying to find out She said.

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Speaker 8: That is.

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Speaker 5: So Earlier that day, I with Red Star at the pool.

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Speaker 5: I was talking to him, I was bonding, and then

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Speaker 5: we were talking about like day drinking and how we

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Speaker 5: And I was like, I just like, I'm a two

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Speaker 4: I'm like, oh my god.

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Speaker 8: I know.

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Speaker 1: He was like kept saying how pretty. Was like, Danielle's

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Speaker 1: like the she's like the mother hen she really because

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Speaker 1: the whole time when we're about the she was like, Okay,

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Speaker 1: you guys have a podcast a vibe and he would

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Speaker 1: like kind of kept look at me. He was like,

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Speaker 1: I like, Danielle, you know, she's very keeping you guys,

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Speaker 1: keeping you guys on track. You know, you got business

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Speaker 1: here to do. And then like cut two three hours

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Speaker 1: later and she's like.

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Speaker 2: Mark, Oh my god, Wow, that is the funniest thing.

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Speaker 2: We're looking into it. I don't know how this could

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Speaker 2: be happening right now.

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Speaker 4: That's so funny. Mark, Oh wow, what.

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Speaker 2: A gift that information is. Well, we're back, we're professional.

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Speaker 4: Have you drank since palm Springs?

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Speaker 2: So I tried to have like a heart meltzer last

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Speaker 2: night and I took two septs and I was like, noop,

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Speaker 2: what a hard seltzer? Yeah, like a what's called ashlan seltzer.

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Speaker 2: It's like a white cloth.

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Speaker 4: Oh so like baby alcohol.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what that, but no, it definitely does

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I couldn't the two SIPs in and I

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Speaker 2: was like not ready.

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Speaker 4: Not ready?

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Speaker 2: Yeah a minute. I'm gonna give my body a minute.

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Speaker 2: I Sunday was a recovery day for sure. At ten

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Speaker 2: to head back to La I'm like, I think there's

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Speaker 2: a sonic nearby. I go and I get Mazzarella's six

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Speaker 2: French fries, a corn dog, and a doctor pepper and

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Speaker 2: then I was like soaring I'm like, now I'm just

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna chill.

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Speaker 6: There's something to that. There's like science or something, and

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Speaker 6: what do I know. But I heard that grease, Yeah,

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Speaker 6: grease kills a hangover.

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Speaker 2: Well it did something, so I will say I experienced

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Speaker 2: the hangover that night that it happened. So I didn't

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Speaker 2: but it was tired horrible. And then I got home

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Speaker 2: then we all got tested yesterday. It's been a week

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Speaker 2: because we did the quarantine thing again, like not leaving

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Speaker 3: But we're all negative. So yeah, I know.

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Speaker 1: was like, so, uh, what's the rona situation like over

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Speaker 2: Yeah, if I wouldn't have had the result, I definitely

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Speaker 2: pretty respectful of the situation. So yeah, everything's good. That

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Speaker 2: test is brutal though, yeah chills. But yeah, last weekend

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Speaker 3: People were like, did you have fun? At least?

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Speaker 2: I'm like I think, like, yeah, we did, but that

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Speaker 7: I know.

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Speaker 4: But remember the night before we had such cute time

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Speaker 4: in the hot tub.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that was great, had a great time.

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Speaker 2: So you did your para state and you did it

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Speaker 2: as a date and not a single modern woman night.

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Speaker 3: You did it with Red Star.

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Speaker 1: Yes, So first of all, I was gonna do it

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Speaker 1: with my girlfriend last weekend, okay, but she ended up

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Speaker 1: like she like went out on like a boat all day.

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Speaker 1: She got like super seasick and she's like I'm not

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Speaker 1: up to it, and I was like totally fine whatever,

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Speaker 4: Oh, like, I'll just like wait.

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Speaker 1: And then I was gonna do it the next night,

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Speaker 1: so I was gonna She was sick Saturday, so I

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Speaker 1: I was talking to Red Star and because he's like, oh,

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Speaker 4: And I was like, really cute, he like wanted to

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Speaker 3: Thrilling. Yeah, it's you're on the road, Tory.

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Speaker 3: Speaking of.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, the show.

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Speaker 2: Wait, has anyone watched The Dirty John Season two? It's

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Speaker 2: It's weird for your mind because a lot of people

446
00:20:50,640 --> 00:20:53,760
Speaker 2: get cheated on and they don't murder the person. But

447
00:20:53,880 --> 00:20:56,520
Speaker 2: he also drove her to you know. I mean, it's

448
00:20:56,560 --> 00:20:59,480
Speaker 2: hard to really justify. But a lot of the people

449
00:20:59,520 --> 00:21:05,200
Speaker 2: on the jury duty jurors ures the jurors we're saying,

450
00:21:05,320 --> 00:21:07,400
Speaker 2: like one of them goes, I don't know what took

451
00:21:07,400 --> 00:21:10,320
Speaker 2: her so long, like he understood her case, like it

452
00:21:10,359 --> 00:21:14,399
Speaker 2: was intense. But I'm gonna watch more show article uh

453
00:21:14,520 --> 00:21:16,520
Speaker 2: documentaries about it because it's fascinating.

454
00:21:17,480 --> 00:21:18,119
Speaker 3: But it's true.

455
00:21:18,119 --> 00:21:22,360
Speaker 2: It's like cane, what are the terms when you're pushed

456
00:21:22,359 --> 00:21:23,440
Speaker 2: to that level of.

457
00:21:25,400 --> 00:21:26,000
Speaker 3: Madness.

458
00:21:26,440 --> 00:21:28,760
Speaker 1: You're watching that, and I'm over here watching Paris Can Wait,

459
00:21:28,800 --> 00:21:31,080
Speaker 1: which is like super cute, like let's go through the

460
00:21:31,080 --> 00:21:36,080
Speaker 1: countryside of France and you know, eat some croissants.

461
00:21:35,440 --> 00:21:37,880
Speaker 2: I know, And I'm over here listening to crime junkies

462
00:21:37,880 --> 00:21:40,679
Speaker 2: about this girl who got thrown down a garbage shoot.

463
00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:43,920
Speaker 2: Talk about crazy. I can't even look at my garbage

464
00:21:43,920 --> 00:21:44,560
Speaker 2: shoot the same.

465
00:21:47,080 --> 00:21:48,040
Speaker 4: Yeah.

466
00:21:48,119 --> 00:21:50,680
Speaker 2: And the weird thing is I get so freaked out

467
00:21:50,720 --> 00:21:52,919
Speaker 2: by series stuff, so I have to anything I do

468
00:21:53,000 --> 00:21:55,560
Speaker 2: that's creepy, I have to do it during the day

469
00:21:55,680 --> 00:21:57,840
Speaker 2: and then just turn it off from my brain because

470
00:21:57,840 --> 00:22:01,000
Speaker 2: if I go there at night along with earthquake fears

471
00:22:01,000 --> 00:22:02,800
Speaker 2: that I still have, it's not good.

472
00:22:04,520 --> 00:22:05,320
Speaker 4: It's not good.

473
00:22:06,680 --> 00:22:07,080
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

474
00:22:07,080 --> 00:22:09,439
Speaker 4: I forgot to tell you though, you guys have to

475
00:22:09,440 --> 00:22:11,760
Speaker 4: show you this video. Mark probably didn't see it because

476
00:22:11,760 --> 00:22:13,359
Speaker 4: Mark is not really on the Instagram.

477
00:22:13,440 --> 00:22:15,359
Speaker 7: Hey, hey, hey, I'm very dialed in.

478
00:22:15,760 --> 00:22:16,840
Speaker 3: He's not on the Gram.

479
00:22:17,040 --> 00:22:17,919
Speaker 4: He's not on the Gram.

480
00:22:18,720 --> 00:22:21,359
Speaker 1: Red Star was cutting our tuna last night and it

481
00:22:21,600 --> 00:22:23,160
Speaker 1: just really was just.

482
00:22:23,119 --> 00:22:25,439
Speaker 9: A sich o Man. That was a fun video to watch.

483
00:22:26,000 --> 00:22:27,800
Speaker 7: And this is the sort of thing that really gets

484
00:22:27,800 --> 00:22:28,639
Speaker 7: your motor running.

485
00:22:28,920 --> 00:22:33,000
Speaker 1: It gets me, like my motor running, And I forgot

486
00:22:33,000 --> 00:22:33,840
Speaker 1: to mute the videos.

487
00:22:33,840 --> 00:22:35,399
Speaker 4: But in the videos you can hear him being like,

488
00:22:35,480 --> 00:22:36,240
Speaker 4: you sick.

489
00:22:36,080 --> 00:22:41,119
Speaker 2: Of sick yours it is sick. I told her. I

490
00:22:41,200 --> 00:22:44,399
Speaker 2: was like, she'll send me videos and be like it

491
00:22:44,480 --> 00:22:46,760
Speaker 2: turns me on so much. When he's on a business

492
00:22:46,800 --> 00:22:48,600
Speaker 2: call and it's like a video of him on the

493
00:22:48,640 --> 00:22:50,719
Speaker 2: business and I'm like, hey, well it doesn't do it

494
00:22:50,760 --> 00:22:58,280
Speaker 2: for me. Yeah, yeah, I mean in the tuna cutting, it's.

495
00:22:58,560 --> 00:23:01,280
Speaker 1: It's just the honor he showed the fish all the time.

496
00:23:02,320 --> 00:23:06,320
Speaker 1: It's really just unparalleled. I don't know what to tell you.

497
00:23:06,440 --> 00:23:09,080
Speaker 10: My part of the videos, he has a pretty substantial

498
00:23:09,119 --> 00:23:12,360
Speaker 10: watch Tan and that that tamlines get me going like crazy.

499
00:23:12,440 --> 00:23:13,760
Speaker 4: So everybody kept.

500
00:23:13,600 --> 00:23:16,280
Speaker 1: Mentioning that time I got a bunch of the tamline

501
00:23:16,400 --> 00:23:18,000
Speaker 1: is so funny. And then a lot of a lot

502
00:23:18,040 --> 00:23:19,760
Speaker 1: of people are agreeing with me that the hands are

503
00:23:19,800 --> 00:23:20,800
Speaker 1: really sexy.

504
00:23:20,920 --> 00:23:21,200
Speaker 3: He does.

505
00:23:21,320 --> 00:23:23,240
Speaker 2: He has nice hands. I like when a guy has

506
00:23:23,359 --> 00:23:26,160
Speaker 2: nice hands. It's just I walk when I don't.

507
00:23:26,240 --> 00:23:29,199
Speaker 10: A business call in Palm Springs, he was like a

508
00:23:29,640 --> 00:23:32,840
Speaker 10: like in like a Wall Street movie, like someone he's like.

509
00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:36,040
Speaker 9: Bye bye, sell Sell, No, that's the wrong warehouse. And

510
00:23:36,119 --> 00:23:39,560
Speaker 9: I was like, oh man, this guy's in charge. I

511
00:23:39,600 --> 00:23:40,960
Speaker 9: don't know. I still don't know what he does for

512
00:23:41,000 --> 00:23:42,400
Speaker 9: a living, but wow, and.

513
00:23:42,359 --> 00:23:44,720
Speaker 1: He paces and he like paces back and forth, and

514
00:23:44,800 --> 00:23:50,280
Speaker 1: it's like it's very like, wow, I have to you agree.

515
00:23:52,280 --> 00:23:52,840
Speaker 3: It's a lot.

516
00:23:53,080 --> 00:23:55,840
Speaker 4: It's a lot. I know, I know, I'm telling you.

517
00:23:56,920 --> 00:23:59,000
Speaker 2: And Tanya tries to get this stuff out of me,

518
00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:01,520
Speaker 2: like she wants me to have these things about ninety

519
00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:03,200
Speaker 2: five P and I'm like, we're just.

520
00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:05,919
Speaker 5: Right.

521
00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:07,760
Speaker 1: Like, I'm like, is it tourney one when ninety five

522
00:24:07,760 --> 00:24:11,480
Speaker 1: P does this? And Becca's like, I don't.

523
00:24:11,240 --> 00:24:14,639
Speaker 2: Know, am I is it?

524
00:24:14,680 --> 00:24:16,440
Speaker 3: Okay? If it's the answer is now?

525
00:24:18,800 --> 00:24:21,399
Speaker 6: Is it because we're well into the relationship or is

526
00:24:21,440 --> 00:24:24,280
Speaker 6: it because you're just you and Tanya just react differently

527
00:24:24,359 --> 00:24:25,240
Speaker 6: to different stimulus.

528
00:24:25,240 --> 00:24:27,360
Speaker 1: I think probably a little bit of both, yeah, because

529
00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:29,800
Speaker 1: I think in the beginning you were like, oh my gosh.

530
00:24:29,880 --> 00:24:31,280
Speaker 4: In the beginning you were so like me.

531
00:24:31,480 --> 00:24:34,040
Speaker 3: I know, noany.

532
00:24:34,720 --> 00:24:35,520
Speaker 8: You were worse.

533
00:24:35,680 --> 00:24:38,520
Speaker 2: I did not have things that I would send you

534
00:24:38,560 --> 00:24:41,960
Speaker 2: and be like I'm so turned on by that.

535
00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:42,440
Speaker 4: That's true.

536
00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:45,000
Speaker 1: I did not get videos like that from you. However,

537
00:24:45,280 --> 00:24:46,959
Speaker 1: you were just as bad as I am.

538
00:24:47,040 --> 00:24:50,480
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I mean yeah in a certain way, but

539
00:24:50,640 --> 00:24:53,480
Speaker 2: not in the Tanya way that you are.

540
00:24:53,480 --> 00:24:58,040
Speaker 1: Correct correct, different different manners of which, but equally as intense.

541
00:24:58,480 --> 00:24:59,200
Speaker 3: Okay, that's fair.

542
00:24:59,359 --> 00:24:59,760
Speaker 4: Yeah.

543
00:25:01,320 --> 00:25:03,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, the old ball and chain.

544
00:25:03,960 --> 00:25:05,520
Speaker 2: It's been two and a half years.

545
00:25:05,880 --> 00:25:09,160
Speaker 4: That is so wild. Two and a half years, wow,

546
00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:09,879
Speaker 4: has it really?

547
00:25:10,480 --> 00:25:11,080
Speaker 8: Yeah?

548
00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:16,760
Speaker 2: Well, I mean officially it's been two years, but like

549
00:25:16,880 --> 00:25:21,639
Speaker 2: since we met it's been since April. Two years was

550
00:25:21,680 --> 00:25:22,240
Speaker 2: in April?

551
00:25:23,840 --> 00:25:24,520
Speaker 4: Isn't that wild?

552
00:25:24,600 --> 00:25:25,400
Speaker 7: That is a long time.

553
00:25:25,440 --> 00:25:28,719
Speaker 2: That was longer than a lot of episodes. Not talking

554
00:25:28,760 --> 00:25:30,879
Speaker 2: about my relationship.

555
00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:32,920
Speaker 4: That's true, like the first year.

556
00:25:33,280 --> 00:25:36,199
Speaker 2: Yeah, because for a long time I didn't even I

557
00:25:36,240 --> 00:25:39,840
Speaker 2: didn't even like really address it. I was just like,

558
00:25:39,880 --> 00:25:40,840
Speaker 2: I'm not talking about it.

559
00:25:41,040 --> 00:25:43,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't believe that it's been two and a

560
00:25:43,080 --> 00:25:45,320
Speaker 1: half years. I mean, it's been nine months that I

561
00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:47,560
Speaker 1: know Red Star and I've been dating.

562
00:25:47,640 --> 00:25:50,639
Speaker 2: Because the pandemic time has spelled like two years in

563
00:25:50,720 --> 00:25:52,960
Speaker 2: itself or like two minutes.

564
00:25:53,000 --> 00:25:54,520
Speaker 4: I can't quite resign it's.

565
00:25:54,760 --> 00:25:56,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'll see.

566
00:25:56,920 --> 00:26:01,160
Speaker 2: I have to strongly disagree that it has spelled as long,

567
00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:02,800
Speaker 2: if not longer than.

568
00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:03,440
Speaker 3: It has been.

569
00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:07,560
Speaker 2: You think so, yes, I think just because it's just

570
00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:09,880
Speaker 2: like I think a lot of my life was traveling,

571
00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:13,679
Speaker 2: you know, I just I would go places, and so

572
00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:15,840
Speaker 2: now I feel like i've been Why.

573
00:26:15,680 --> 00:26:16,680
Speaker 4: Don't we travel somewhere?

574
00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:19,160
Speaker 1: I don't mean so not travel, but like, why don't

575
00:26:19,160 --> 00:26:20,720
Speaker 1: we do a pairs night somewhere that you want to

576
00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:22,360
Speaker 1: go and I can like do it like I did

577
00:26:22,400 --> 00:26:22,879
Speaker 1: for Redstar?

578
00:26:23,000 --> 00:26:23,280
Speaker 4: For you?

579
00:26:24,240 --> 00:26:25,800
Speaker 2: What someone help?

580
00:26:28,320 --> 00:26:31,560
Speaker 7: I think that would be more depressing, honestly, See that's.

581
00:26:31,440 --> 00:26:34,000
Speaker 2: How I feel. I want to go places I want

582
00:26:34,040 --> 00:26:37,680
Speaker 2: to experience. I want to see the crystal blue water

583
00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:40,360
Speaker 2: and like Bora Bora and.

584
00:26:40,920 --> 00:26:43,760
Speaker 4: I just was in Bora. I can totally do Bora

585
00:26:43,840 --> 00:26:45,520
Speaker 4: Bora on your balcony.

586
00:26:46,119 --> 00:26:52,040
Speaker 2: Unless you have created an ocean with colorful fish.

587
00:26:52,200 --> 00:26:54,440
Speaker 4: And have you not seen my painting back there?

588
00:26:55,320 --> 00:26:56,840
Speaker 2: I can seen the paint.

589
00:26:57,040 --> 00:26:59,479
Speaker 9: You can have a bucket just full of goldfish for

590
00:26:59,520 --> 00:26:59,960
Speaker 9: you to look at.

591
00:27:01,280 --> 00:27:03,520
Speaker 1: I thought you were going to get us, get us

592
00:27:03,560 --> 00:27:07,080
Speaker 1: some laz I mean I could make Bora Boras super

593
00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:10,359
Speaker 1: cute for us.

594
00:27:10,440 --> 00:27:13,720
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah yeah, I'm I have a one track

595
00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:16,200
Speaker 2: mine ships.

596
00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:17,400
Speaker 4: Should we do that on Sunday?

597
00:27:20,320 --> 00:27:22,439
Speaker 2: Okay, there's a heat wave here right now, so I

598
00:27:22,440 --> 00:27:24,920
Speaker 2: think so. Tommy and I are having a friend date

599
00:27:25,000 --> 00:27:29,880
Speaker 2: day on Sunday, and she as soon as I committed

600
00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:33,000
Speaker 2: to it, it's been frantic text about what the theme

601
00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:34,720
Speaker 2: is for the day. I'm like, can we just be

602
00:27:34,840 --> 00:27:36,000
Speaker 2: normal and hangout? Like?

603
00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:38,160
Speaker 3: Do we have a theme.

604
00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:43,400
Speaker 2: For She's like, let me read the texts of all

605
00:27:43,480 --> 00:27:43,920
Speaker 2: this is?

606
00:27:44,040 --> 00:27:46,480
Speaker 1: This is Tanya in the pandemic, Like, I just want

607
00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:48,600
Speaker 1: to make everything in experienced. Do you know what I mean,

608
00:27:48,640 --> 00:27:50,680
Speaker 1: because it's like in the house, in the house board.

609
00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:53,760
Speaker 1: So when I have a day that you will commit

610
00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:55,400
Speaker 1: to me, I want to like.

611
00:27:55,400 --> 00:27:57,520
Speaker 3: Do it up. Okay, so this is what.

612
00:28:00,760 --> 00:28:02,040
Speaker 4: I need. It was the green light from her, and

613
00:28:02,040 --> 00:28:02,320
Speaker 4: then I.

614
00:28:02,280 --> 00:28:05,520
Speaker 2: Was like, yeah, Tanya was gonna see if you wanted

615
00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:09,440
Speaker 2: to do a cute friend day Sunday. I said, yeah,

616
00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:12,960
Speaker 2: I'm down for a day, and she goes, okay, So Sunday,

617
00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:14,520
Speaker 2: what time should we do a chill day?

618
00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:15,600
Speaker 3: Them day? Beach day?

619
00:28:15,600 --> 00:28:18,520
Speaker 2: What's your mood slash vibe? Maybe we stay inside and watch.

620
00:28:18,320 --> 00:28:18,679
Speaker 4: Work it.

621
00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:22,800
Speaker 7: And Beca's like, oh, how do I get out of it?

622
00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:23,399
Speaker 8: Yeah?

623
00:28:23,520 --> 00:28:27,640
Speaker 2: I think I have plans that I forgot about work

624
00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:31,359
Speaker 2: stuff that I will not I won't have my phone.

625
00:28:32,080 --> 00:28:33,760
Speaker 4: I gave you all the options. If you said you

626
00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:35,480
Speaker 4: want to chill day, we could do a chill day.

627
00:28:35,560 --> 00:28:38,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, but chill day is not planned, like a chill

628
00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:41,240
Speaker 2: day is just go with the flow chill. Anyways, there's

629
00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:44,600
Speaker 2: a heat wave, so I think we maybe go to

630
00:28:44,640 --> 00:28:47,720
Speaker 2: the beach or do something where we're like there's water nearby.

631
00:28:47,960 --> 00:28:49,840
Speaker 2: Unless you know someone with a nice pool that we

632
00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:54,480
Speaker 2: could go to. It's mine. We could go to the beach.

633
00:28:54,520 --> 00:28:57,960
Speaker 2: We have a huge pool at the beach or something

634
00:28:58,000 --> 00:29:00,760
Speaker 2: of that sort. I've been corned team because of the

635
00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:05,040
Speaker 2: Corona scare, so being inside isn't of interest to me

636
00:29:05,160 --> 00:29:07,960
Speaker 2: right now, and to be outdoors. Prefer to be outdoors.

637
00:29:08,200 --> 00:29:09,480
Speaker 2: I went actually went to the beach.

638
00:29:09,600 --> 00:29:12,280
Speaker 1: So I I have like a you know, I have

639
00:29:12,360 --> 00:29:17,400
Speaker 1: like my quarantine. And uh, I've recently entered a couple

640
00:29:17,600 --> 00:29:20,719
Speaker 1: or no, actually it's not really part of my quarantine

641
00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:21,959
Speaker 1: because I when I hang out with them, I kind

642
00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:24,480
Speaker 1: of hang out outside. But Charlie Pooth has been added

643
00:29:24,520 --> 00:29:26,040
Speaker 1: into my quarantine.

644
00:29:26,400 --> 00:29:26,920
Speaker 4: Uh huh.

645
00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:28,640
Speaker 1: And so I've been going over there and I hang

646
00:29:28,680 --> 00:29:32,040
Speaker 1: out a lot in the backyard because I don't have

647
00:29:32,120 --> 00:29:35,320
Speaker 1: a yard of sorts in this apartment. And it's been

648
00:29:35,440 --> 00:29:37,800
Speaker 1: such a game changer. I don't think you really like

649
00:29:37,880 --> 00:29:40,479
Speaker 1: I never I don't realize and I didn't realize it

650
00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:42,480
Speaker 1: in the beginning of the pandemic because I didn't leave

651
00:29:42,480 --> 00:29:43,520
Speaker 1: my apartment at all.

652
00:29:44,360 --> 00:29:48,720
Speaker 4: How nice it is to like be in the fresh air.

653
00:29:49,040 --> 00:29:50,840
Speaker 2: What if we did a day where we went up

654
00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:54,400
Speaker 2: to Santa Barbara and got rented like those uh rented

655
00:29:54,440 --> 00:29:56,320
Speaker 2: like those little cars that you can drive around the

656
00:29:56,360 --> 00:29:57,720
Speaker 2: city in and go to the beach and.

657
00:29:58,000 --> 00:29:59,760
Speaker 4: So cute or like the little ones that you ride

658
00:29:59,760 --> 00:30:01,800
Speaker 4: the bi I would prefer to.

659
00:30:01,760 --> 00:30:04,280
Speaker 1: Not do not physical activity. Yeah okay, I like the

660
00:30:04,320 --> 00:30:09,000
Speaker 1: little motor run. I don't know what you're talking about,

661
00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:09,600
Speaker 1: but I'm.

662
00:30:09,480 --> 00:30:13,200
Speaker 2: They're so cute. I yeah, I'm down. Yeah great, that

663
00:30:13,280 --> 00:30:15,240
Speaker 2: sounds fun. Okay, it sounds like an adventure.

664
00:30:15,560 --> 00:30:15,960
Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah.

665
00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:17,360
Speaker 1: I just can't get in the sun because I don't

666
00:30:17,360 --> 00:30:18,720
Speaker 1: know if if you guys can see this.

667
00:30:18,760 --> 00:30:22,640
Speaker 2: But like, okay, oh do you see that burnt Yeah,

668
00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:25,640
Speaker 2: she has a weird side boob sunburn.

669
00:30:25,760 --> 00:30:27,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, so I was in the sun.

670
00:30:27,160 --> 00:30:29,480
Speaker 1: I put like fifty I feel like seventy SPF on

671
00:30:29,520 --> 00:30:32,560
Speaker 1: because I'm so white that I don't tan.

672
00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:33,480
Speaker 4: I just get burnt.

673
00:30:33,480 --> 00:30:35,800
Speaker 1: And so I'm like really good about my sunscreen, but

674
00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:39,320
Speaker 1: I forget that. I put on my sunscreen and then

675
00:30:39,360 --> 00:30:41,240
Speaker 1: I like move my bathing suit off, you know what

676
00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:43,400
Speaker 1: I mean, So I don't get like gnarly tan lines.

677
00:30:43,440 --> 00:30:45,640
Speaker 1: But then I don't have sunscreen on the spots where

678
00:30:45,680 --> 00:30:47,560
Speaker 1: I like move the bathing suit, so I just have

679
00:30:47,720 --> 00:30:50,800
Speaker 1: like these like red triangles around my boobs.

680
00:30:50,960 --> 00:30:53,479
Speaker 4: It's like so painful. I can't even sleep on it.

681
00:30:53,920 --> 00:30:55,840
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, it's quite red.

682
00:30:56,040 --> 00:30:59,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, speaking of we didn't celebrate the uh one year

683
00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:05,160
Speaker 2: inniverse three of the lost hydroflask. Oh right, I got

684
00:31:05,160 --> 00:31:09,960
Speaker 2: so many messages saying like rip to that hydro flash.

685
00:31:10,680 --> 00:31:13,320
Speaker 2: I would love to go back to Newport, Rhode Island.

686
00:31:13,360 --> 00:31:16,240
Speaker 2: That was the best I know, such a fun weekend.

687
00:31:16,360 --> 00:31:18,600
Speaker 2: You're senor butterfly at that time.

688
00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:20,840
Speaker 1: I know I thought about that too. That was senior

689
00:31:20,920 --> 00:31:21,680
Speaker 1: Butterfly days.

690
00:31:21,760 --> 00:31:26,760
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, but you still consider the butterfly super significant.

691
00:31:26,840 --> 00:31:30,280
Speaker 2: That's still a theme in your life. Correct find interesting.

692
00:31:29,960 --> 00:31:32,160
Speaker 1: Because I think to me it was like a symbol

693
00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:33,880
Speaker 1: of like hope and love.

694
00:31:34,360 --> 00:31:34,960
Speaker 4: Do you know what I mean?

695
00:31:35,040 --> 00:31:37,680
Speaker 1: Like it was a symbol of hope and love and

696
00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:40,280
Speaker 1: in like good men being out there. So for me,

697
00:31:40,520 --> 00:31:43,440
Speaker 1: like now, the butterfly is a symbol of like hope

698
00:31:43,480 --> 00:31:43,840
Speaker 1: and love.

699
00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:46,520
Speaker 3: Okay, so you've just redirected what the correct fly is.

700
00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:46,840
Speaker 4: Yeah.

701
00:31:46,880 --> 00:31:49,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, I like that about you. You just can make

702
00:31:49,800 --> 00:31:53,520
Speaker 2: your brain say no more. This is what it means.

703
00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:56,640
Speaker 4: Perpetual optimism is a force multiplier.

704
00:31:57,200 --> 00:31:59,760
Speaker 2: Whoa that say that again? That will be a new

705
00:31:59,800 --> 00:32:00,880
Speaker 2: time on your quote.

706
00:32:01,320 --> 00:32:06,080
Speaker 4: Perpetual optimism is a force multiplier. It's actually really funny.

707
00:32:06,240 --> 00:32:11,280
Speaker 1: We were cleaning the some sort of Italian parsley or

708
00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:13,520
Speaker 1: something is for the muscles that we made for our parasite,

709
00:32:13,920 --> 00:32:15,760
Speaker 1: and Red Star found a bug in it. He was like,

710
00:32:15,800 --> 00:32:17,360
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna pretend like I didn't find a bug

711
00:32:17,360 --> 00:32:18,960
Speaker 1: in the parsley, and I was like, hey, at least

712
00:32:18,960 --> 00:32:20,800
Speaker 1: we know it's fresh from the garden.

713
00:32:21,280 --> 00:32:27,520
Speaker 2: Oh like positivityw's Harry go, Yeah, yeah, wait, we're going

714
00:32:27,600 --> 00:32:29,320
Speaker 2: to take a break. But when we come back, I

715
00:32:29,560 --> 00:32:32,080
Speaker 2: want to know what your theories are about what's happening

716
00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:33,400
Speaker 2: on the Bachelorette right now.

717
00:32:34,600 --> 00:32:35,920
Speaker 3: There's a lot going on.

718
00:32:36,040 --> 00:32:36,240
Speaker 2: Yeah.

719
00:32:36,920 --> 00:32:54,360
Speaker 3: Uh so we'll be back with that. All right, We're back.

720
00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:57,400
Speaker 2: So there was an an article that came out recently

721
00:32:57,440 --> 00:33:02,080
Speaker 2: about Jojo filling in for Chris Harrison. I've obviously talked

722
00:33:02,120 --> 00:33:05,240
Speaker 2: to Jojo, but I don't ask a lot of questions

723
00:33:05,280 --> 00:33:07,400
Speaker 2: when she's doing stuff with the Bachelor because she's in

724
00:33:07,480 --> 00:33:10,720
Speaker 2: sany because I like to respect the fact that she

725
00:33:11,080 --> 00:33:15,760
Speaker 2: is like under contract of what she's allowed to say.

726
00:33:16,560 --> 00:33:18,200
Speaker 2: So I just knew she was there filling in for

727
00:33:18,280 --> 00:33:20,840
Speaker 2: Chris while he took his son to go to college.

728
00:33:21,240 --> 00:33:22,880
Speaker 2: So I think she's filling in for like a few

729
00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:27,320
Speaker 2: episodes his role, right, But the article makes it seem

730
00:33:27,360 --> 00:33:29,160
Speaker 2: like Chris Harrison didn't know or something.

731
00:33:30,560 --> 00:33:34,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, the articles make it seem like they were all well,

732
00:33:34,240 --> 00:33:35,760
Speaker 1: I know for sure, we all know that they were

733
00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:38,200
Speaker 1: all quarantining in Palm Springs for the show and that

734
00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:42,280
Speaker 1: they weren't allowed to see people. Because I actually even

735
00:33:42,320 --> 00:33:44,080
Speaker 1: hit him up when we were in Palm Springs to

736
00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:46,000
Speaker 1: be like, oh, do you like, we're gonna be up

737
00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:47,480
Speaker 1: here if you all, if you guys want to come

738
00:33:47,520 --> 00:33:49,480
Speaker 1: and have dinner, and he's like, no, we're super quarantined.

739
00:33:50,200 --> 00:33:52,240
Speaker 1: You know, we can't see other people. So I think

740
00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:55,640
Speaker 1: they all knew or that they all, you know, were quarantined.

741
00:33:55,720 --> 00:34:00,239
Speaker 1: But then he took his son to college and then

742
00:34:00,280 --> 00:34:04,280
Speaker 1: he came back and he can't be around them anymore.

743
00:34:04,560 --> 00:34:06,479
Speaker 7: I don't know, he's been out in the world. He's

744
00:34:06,520 --> 00:34:08,040
Speaker 7: got a quarantine again. It's a bubble, but.

745
00:34:08,360 --> 00:34:11,560
Speaker 2: Not for how long do you have to quarant quarantine?

746
00:34:11,840 --> 00:34:14,640
Speaker 4: There's no way that everybody is doing.

747
00:34:14,719 --> 00:34:17,720
Speaker 7: But that's what everyone's doing NBA.

748
00:34:18,440 --> 00:34:20,840
Speaker 6: You know any TV shows and production everyone's doing a

749
00:34:20,880 --> 00:34:22,440
Speaker 6: fourteen day quarantine.

750
00:34:22,719 --> 00:34:25,840
Speaker 2: Well, it's interesting. It kind of brought up the conversation

751
00:34:25,920 --> 00:34:27,759
Speaker 2: of if Chris har which I don't know why he

752
00:34:27,800 --> 00:34:31,120
Speaker 2: would ever be like, I'm done doing The Bachelor. But

753
00:34:31,280 --> 00:34:34,439
Speaker 2: it's interesting because it's like, would the show be would

754
00:34:34,560 --> 00:34:36,720
Speaker 2: you think it would just be done once Chris Harrison

755
00:34:36,760 --> 00:34:38,440
Speaker 2: was like, I don't want to do this anymore? Or

756
00:34:38,440 --> 00:34:40,480
Speaker 2: do you think they could bring in someone like Jojo

757
00:34:40,600 --> 00:34:44,040
Speaker 2: or Ben Higgins or Caitlin or Rachel or someone that

758
00:34:44,280 --> 00:34:46,680
Speaker 2: has that like power, you know. I mean, Chris Harrison

759
00:34:46,760 --> 00:34:52,680
Speaker 2: is hard to follow or replace. But I don't know.

760
00:34:52,719 --> 00:34:54,880
Speaker 2: I wonder if I don't think that I don't like

761
00:34:55,200 --> 00:34:59,719
Speaker 2: I personally like The Bachelor with Chris Harrison, I do too.

762
00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:03,080
Speaker 2: It like makes sense, it's it's he's such a huge

763
00:35:03,080 --> 00:35:07,160
Speaker 2: part of what the show is. My best friend Laura

764
00:35:07,200 --> 00:35:11,160
Speaker 2: from uh Louisiana was so upset that she was like

765
00:35:11,920 --> 00:35:13,719
Speaker 2: when when Kristen it choose you.

766
00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:15,560
Speaker 3: I was so upset because.

767
00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:18,360
Speaker 2: I really saw myself bonding with Chris Harrison at Yirl's wedding.

768
00:35:18,680 --> 00:35:21,759
Speaker 2: It's like, Okay, there were a lot of steps that

769
00:35:21,920 --> 00:35:25,120
Speaker 2: had to be made before that ever happened. But he's

770
00:35:25,160 --> 00:35:28,880
Speaker 2: just so iconic on the Bachelor. But it'll be I mean,

771
00:35:28,920 --> 00:35:31,120
Speaker 2: there's so much happening. There's so many people who have

772
00:35:31,160 --> 00:35:31,840
Speaker 2: been spotted.

773
00:35:32,360 --> 00:35:34,200
Speaker 4: I know, like, what is going on down there.

774
00:35:34,320 --> 00:35:38,120
Speaker 2: I think they're limited of what they can do creatively

775
00:35:38,160 --> 00:35:40,200
Speaker 2: for the date, so they're bringing on people.

776
00:35:39,920 --> 00:35:41,840
Speaker 4: Bringing old contestants to do.

777
00:35:41,920 --> 00:35:45,200
Speaker 2: But it's people that they like. People love these people

778
00:35:45,239 --> 00:35:47,520
Speaker 2: that they're bringing back. So there, I hope. I'm sure

779
00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:49,960
Speaker 2: they're like, let's make it a little more fun and

780
00:35:50,280 --> 00:35:52,359
Speaker 2: bring people on that people fell in love with from

781
00:35:52,360 --> 00:35:55,759
Speaker 2: the show, make the dates more interesting. It's caused so

782
00:35:55,880 --> 00:35:58,600
Speaker 2: much news around the show.

783
00:35:58,719 --> 00:36:02,640
Speaker 1: So well, my thought is I would not want I

784
00:36:02,719 --> 00:36:05,040
Speaker 1: probably wouldn't watch The Bachelor of Chris wasn't the host

785
00:36:05,040 --> 00:36:09,120
Speaker 1: because like loyalties up to him. And then second of all,

786
00:36:09,280 --> 00:36:11,200
Speaker 1: I just want to go on the record and say

787
00:36:11,239 --> 00:36:15,319
Speaker 1: that I picked Dale for Claire from day one.

788
00:36:16,200 --> 00:36:17,880
Speaker 8: Yes you did, Yes, Becca.

789
00:36:18,239 --> 00:36:23,960
Speaker 1: So normally when we like normally they filmed the show beforehand,

790
00:36:24,360 --> 00:36:27,560
Speaker 1: like before they released the contestants, but since this is

791
00:36:27,640 --> 00:36:30,560
Speaker 1: one's all weird, they released the contestants before they even

792
00:36:30,560 --> 00:36:35,160
Speaker 1: started shooting the season. So yeah, there was like no

793
00:36:35,320 --> 00:36:38,719
Speaker 1: way like that I could know Diddley squat so I

794
00:36:38,760 --> 00:36:41,000
Speaker 1: and all they gave you was their name. Where they're

795
00:36:41,040 --> 00:36:43,080
Speaker 1: from and what they did right, that was it. There

796
00:36:43,160 --> 00:36:45,280
Speaker 1: wasn't even like a little blurb like how many tattoos

797
00:36:45,280 --> 00:36:45,680
Speaker 1: do you have?

798
00:36:45,840 --> 00:36:46,800
Speaker 4: Like we got none of it?

799
00:36:47,960 --> 00:36:48,839
Speaker 7: Why did you pick him?

800
00:36:49,560 --> 00:36:50,399
Speaker 4: Because so I.

801
00:36:50,360 --> 00:36:56,920
Speaker 1: Really went into like miss Tatti land and then I

802
00:36:56,960 --> 00:37:00,040
Speaker 1: also got like vibes from their photos and this I

803
00:37:00,280 --> 00:37:02,759
Speaker 1: for some reason was like, this is Claire's dude, and

804
00:37:02,800 --> 00:37:04,640
Speaker 1: I was like, this guy, Dale's.

805
00:37:04,239 --> 00:37:04,880
Speaker 4: Gonna win it.

806
00:37:05,239 --> 00:37:07,800
Speaker 1: And now allegedly what the reports are is that she

807
00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:09,880
Speaker 1: just like fell in love with this guy and wanted

808
00:37:09,920 --> 00:37:10,839
Speaker 1: to like leave with him.

809
00:37:11,040 --> 00:37:16,360
Speaker 2: Okay, So, according to a Sweekly article, she had forty

810
00:37:16,360 --> 00:37:16,839
Speaker 2: two men.

811
00:37:17,320 --> 00:37:19,200
Speaker 3: Claire's original cast had forty two men.

812
00:37:21,040 --> 00:37:24,680
Speaker 4: She and I'm just powers, you guys, nobody in comparais

813
00:37:24,719 --> 00:37:25,400
Speaker 4: with my powers.

814
00:37:26,600 --> 00:37:28,879
Speaker 2: Miss Tati knows things that the rest of us don't.

815
00:37:28,960 --> 00:37:30,839
Speaker 4: I mean, not to do my own horn, but beat

816
00:37:30,960 --> 00:37:31,640
Speaker 4: beat baby.

817
00:37:33,160 --> 00:37:36,759
Speaker 2: Well, now the rumors or that Tasha has become the bachelorette,

818
00:37:36,840 --> 00:37:39,279
Speaker 2: is that official? We don't know, and I think it's speculation,

819
00:37:39,440 --> 00:37:45,239
Speaker 2: but heavy speculation. Yeah, whoever is running the show right

820
00:37:45,280 --> 00:37:48,560
Speaker 2: now has some really attractive men, and I don't know

821
00:37:48,600 --> 00:37:50,759
Speaker 2: if it's because they took the photos outside of that

822
00:37:50,880 --> 00:37:51,560
Speaker 2: blue wall.

823
00:37:51,680 --> 00:37:52,520
Speaker 3: Or whatever it is.

824
00:37:52,600 --> 00:37:54,560
Speaker 4: Right, they're like all kind of in their own element.

825
00:37:54,680 --> 00:37:56,680
Speaker 1: That's also what I saw too, Like they all had

826
00:37:56,719 --> 00:37:57,760
Speaker 1: their own vibe.

827
00:37:57,880 --> 00:38:00,279
Speaker 2: So these feel like pictures that maybe they'd put on

828
00:38:00,360 --> 00:38:03,680
Speaker 2: their Instagram willingly correct and not a studio shot correct.

829
00:38:03,840 --> 00:38:06,399
Speaker 2: But dang, there are some cute guys.

830
00:38:06,680 --> 00:38:10,239
Speaker 1: I mean, out of all those two forty two men,

831
00:38:10,680 --> 00:38:13,640
Speaker 1: and I said, Dale's the one.

832
00:38:13,920 --> 00:38:16,840
Speaker 3: Dale's You've got a smile.

833
00:38:17,400 --> 00:38:20,160
Speaker 4: His smile is warm.

834
00:38:19,600 --> 00:38:23,680
Speaker 1: Yet like, okay, So with Dale, I got this vibe

835
00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:27,560
Speaker 1: of like he's warm, but like he's protective of his woman.

836
00:38:27,920 --> 00:38:32,239
Speaker 4: His smile says, come over, but his eyes say, I

837
00:38:32,280 --> 00:38:37,560
Speaker 4: will hurt you if you hurt my girl. So he's fierce, yes, protect,

838
00:38:37,600 --> 00:38:38,560
Speaker 4: soft and fierce.

839
00:38:38,600 --> 00:38:40,919
Speaker 3: Oh, strong and safe, strong.

840
00:38:40,640 --> 00:38:42,360
Speaker 4: And safe sensitive.

841
00:38:42,400 --> 00:38:43,879
Speaker 2: If you want to know the guys that I would

842
00:38:43,920 --> 00:38:46,000
Speaker 2: go for just based off of their photo if I

843
00:38:46,040 --> 00:38:47,960
Speaker 2: were the bachelorette.

844
00:38:48,400 --> 00:38:49,720
Speaker 3: Noah, let me see.

845
00:38:50,880 --> 00:38:55,239
Speaker 4: Okay, what's not in fress?

846
00:38:55,440 --> 00:38:56,400
Speaker 3: She's not impressed?

847
00:38:56,400 --> 00:38:59,520
Speaker 1: Well, give somebody ocause for people here, for the people

848
00:38:59,520 --> 00:39:00,719
Speaker 1: that are less saying that I don't know who these

849
00:39:00,760 --> 00:39:01,080
Speaker 1: people are.

850
00:39:01,120 --> 00:39:01,640
Speaker 3: Look him up?

851
00:39:01,840 --> 00:39:04,480
Speaker 1: Well no, but like give him a doppelganger. Who does

852
00:39:04,480 --> 00:39:05,359
Speaker 1: he look like he has a.

853
00:39:05,440 --> 00:39:07,760
Speaker 2: Very I think he has a very like Deanie babies

854
00:39:07,800 --> 00:39:11,760
Speaker 2: look Ben Higgins and Deani a little bit.

855
00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:15,839
Speaker 7: Okay, and he looks like a nice guy. Why does

856
00:39:15,880 --> 00:39:16,760
Speaker 7: that make you all cringey?

857
00:39:16,880 --> 00:39:21,160
Speaker 2: Tanya, not not cringey, just like not my type, Spencer.

858
00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:24,320
Speaker 2: I love dark hair and light eyes.

859
00:39:25,280 --> 00:39:26,400
Speaker 3: What okay?

860
00:39:26,680 --> 00:39:27,960
Speaker 8: What are you laughing at?

861
00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:30,520
Speaker 2: I'm picking like he's cute.

862
00:39:30,600 --> 00:39:32,520
Speaker 7: Dark haired, light eyes is a winning combination.

863
00:39:32,920 --> 00:39:34,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's good. The shirt.

864
00:39:34,400 --> 00:39:37,560
Speaker 2: There's one more guy, to be honest, Dale would probably

865
00:39:37,600 --> 00:39:41,000
Speaker 2: be in my picks too, so I do not blame Claire.

866
00:39:41,360 --> 00:39:43,399
Speaker 2: It's a lot of men to scroll through for this

867
00:39:43,640 --> 00:39:47,520
Speaker 2: lot hypothetical situation. But there's another guy.

868
00:39:48,080 --> 00:39:51,160
Speaker 1: There was one kind of like, uh like rustic, woodsy

869
00:39:51,200 --> 00:39:53,480
Speaker 1: looking guy that I was kind of into. I was like,

870
00:39:53,520 --> 00:39:58,320
Speaker 1: he's got a chest full of hair, for sure, chest

871
00:39:58,400 --> 00:40:01,480
Speaker 1: full of hair. Yeah, I stop poking through his flannel that.

872
00:40:02,960 --> 00:40:09,040
Speaker 9: I don't mind it. Carry on.

873
00:40:09,440 --> 00:40:12,600
Speaker 2: This guy like looked really nice to do Collins. He

874
00:40:12,680 --> 00:40:13,800
Speaker 2: has a really nice smile.

875
00:40:13,920 --> 00:40:16,200
Speaker 4: Wow, his smile says I will never hurt you.

876
00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:17,800
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, yes, he's.

877
00:40:17,680 --> 00:40:20,000
Speaker 9: Got some guns on him too. I like that guy.

878
00:40:20,080 --> 00:40:21,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, he will protect you.

879
00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:25,400
Speaker 2: I don't I don't normally love like super super buffman,

880
00:40:25,520 --> 00:40:27,799
Speaker 2: but he I liked his smile and stuff his.

881
00:40:27,760 --> 00:40:30,759
Speaker 6: Vibe Easton what is the email address if anyone would

882
00:40:30,800 --> 00:40:32,760
Speaker 6: like to get a hold of Becca and Tanya?

883
00:40:32,960 --> 00:40:35,440
Speaker 9: It's scrubbing in at iHeartRadio dot com.

884
00:40:35,719 --> 00:40:37,160
Speaker 7: Brooke has a quick question for you guys.

885
00:40:37,160 --> 00:40:38,960
Speaker 6: She says, I'm on my honeymoon right now, which has

886
00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:41,560
Speaker 6: been mostly hiking and outdoor things where social distant thing

887
00:40:41,640 --> 00:40:43,960
Speaker 6: is doable. My husband and I came to a hot

888
00:40:44,000 --> 00:40:46,960
Speaker 6: springs where clothing is optional. We were arguing over if

889
00:40:46,960 --> 00:40:48,719
Speaker 6: we should wear clothes or not, and I thought about

890
00:40:48,760 --> 00:40:51,200
Speaker 6: Becca and Tanya. Sounds like something they would not see

891
00:40:51,200 --> 00:40:53,360
Speaker 6: eye to eye on. Would you go nude in the

892
00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:54,600
Speaker 6: public hot springs?

893
00:40:55,200 --> 00:40:55,640
Speaker 4: For sure?

894
00:40:57,560 --> 00:41:02,400
Speaker 2: So in the past, appsoluolutely never know, no way, But

895
00:41:02,800 --> 00:41:06,680
Speaker 2: right now in my life yes I would, oh yeah,

896
00:41:06,719 --> 00:41:09,920
Speaker 2: but I would be depending on how many people and

897
00:41:10,120 --> 00:41:10,879
Speaker 2: that type of thing.

898
00:41:10,920 --> 00:41:12,799
Speaker 3: I'd be a little more Yeah.

899
00:41:12,840 --> 00:41:14,680
Speaker 1: I mean I wouldn't want to be like jumping in

900
00:41:14,719 --> 00:41:17,680
Speaker 1: a small hot tub with people naked.

901
00:41:17,960 --> 00:41:20,560
Speaker 2: I'm saying it was just I feel like anyone was

902
00:41:20,600 --> 00:41:21,400
Speaker 2: too close to me.

903
00:41:21,520 --> 00:41:23,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like if we all had our own hot tubs

904
00:41:23,480 --> 00:41:27,440
Speaker 1: in like a general area.

905
00:41:26,200 --> 00:41:28,799
Speaker 2: I'm curious if it was Brooke or her husband who

906
00:41:30,600 --> 00:41:36,040
Speaker 2: who was comfortable with the nudity. It's weird because I

907
00:41:36,200 --> 00:41:39,520
Speaker 2: was I've always been so modest, like I would change,

908
00:41:39,600 --> 00:41:41,799
Speaker 2: you know, I'd be like very careful about changing in

909
00:41:41,800 --> 00:41:44,440
Speaker 2: front of people. And I don't know if to be honest,

910
00:41:44,480 --> 00:41:46,680
Speaker 2: I think it came when I was like going to

911
00:41:46,760 --> 00:41:48,640
Speaker 2: events and worked with the stylist and it's just like

912
00:41:48,680 --> 00:41:53,120
Speaker 2: you just change and it doesn't matter. But yeah, I

913
00:41:53,160 --> 00:41:56,600
Speaker 2: think that depending on the situation, I'd have no problem

914
00:41:56,840 --> 00:42:00,040
Speaker 2: doing it, but it would be more just where I

915
00:41:59,840 --> 00:42:01,040
Speaker 2: felt comfortable.

916
00:42:01,160 --> 00:42:03,319
Speaker 6: All right, thank you, Brooke, and Amy says, like so

917
00:42:03,360 --> 00:42:05,480
Speaker 6: many people this year, my best friend had to postpone

918
00:42:05,520 --> 00:42:08,439
Speaker 6: her September wedding from this year to next year. She's

919
00:42:08,440 --> 00:42:10,879
Speaker 6: still having a small ceremony on her original wedding date,

920
00:42:10,920 --> 00:42:13,480
Speaker 6: but will ultimately have her big party next year. I

921
00:42:13,520 --> 00:42:15,319
Speaker 6: really want to go to the small ceremony, but the

922
00:42:15,320 --> 00:42:17,600
Speaker 6: problem is she's having in Florida and I live in

923
00:42:17,640 --> 00:42:19,520
Speaker 6: New Jersey. So if I go to Florida, when I

924
00:42:19,520 --> 00:42:21,319
Speaker 6: come home, I have to quarantine for two weeks, which

925
00:42:21,360 --> 00:42:21,640
Speaker 6: is fine.

926
00:42:21,680 --> 00:42:22,960
Speaker 7: I'll do that. I have no problem with that.

927
00:42:23,600 --> 00:42:25,719
Speaker 6: My fiance on the other hand, is very upset that

928
00:42:25,760 --> 00:42:26,920
Speaker 6: I would even consider going.

929
00:42:27,080 --> 00:42:28,719
Speaker 7: He told me, I'm jeopardizing him.

930
00:42:29,000 --> 00:42:31,839
Speaker 6: Since we lived together, he would have to quarantine too

931
00:42:31,880 --> 00:42:34,239
Speaker 6: when not going to his job. He told me, I'm

932
00:42:34,280 --> 00:42:36,959
Speaker 6: being selfish and not thinking about our relationship. My best

933
00:42:36,960 --> 00:42:39,080
Speaker 6: friend told me straight out she totally understands if I

934
00:42:39,080 --> 00:42:40,879
Speaker 6: can't come, but of course she'd love to have me there.

935
00:42:41,120 --> 00:42:41,920
Speaker 7: I'm so torn.

936
00:42:42,160 --> 00:42:44,160
Speaker 6: I can't imagine not being at my best friend's side,

937
00:42:44,200 --> 00:42:46,279
Speaker 6: but I also don't want to disrespect my relationship.

938
00:42:48,120 --> 00:42:52,000
Speaker 2: This is a tough one because both people are allowed

939
00:42:52,000 --> 00:42:57,200
Speaker 2: to feel valid in their like fears or ones or

940
00:42:57,239 --> 00:43:07,520
Speaker 2: their opinion on this. I would say, I don't know,

941
00:43:07,800 --> 00:43:10,399
Speaker 2: because part of me is like, you go and then

942
00:43:10,480 --> 00:43:11,080
Speaker 2: you come back.

943
00:43:11,120 --> 00:43:11,680
Speaker 3: I just don't know.

944
00:43:11,719 --> 00:43:14,479
Speaker 2: If they I was gonna live together, right, they lived together,

945
00:43:14,480 --> 00:43:16,000
Speaker 2: but I was gonna say if they had more than

946
00:43:16,040 --> 00:43:18,840
Speaker 2: one bedroom, she could go and just like literally in

947
00:43:18,920 --> 00:43:19,799
Speaker 2: one room.

948
00:43:20,000 --> 00:43:23,680
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, or like maybe stay with like a friend.

949
00:43:24,719 --> 00:43:30,040
Speaker 2: I was gonna say, maybe someone who does is it

950
00:43:30,200 --> 00:43:32,080
Speaker 2: having to go into work every day and it's not

951
00:43:32,160 --> 00:43:35,360
Speaker 2: as critical about the jobs.

952
00:43:35,160 --> 00:43:37,160
Speaker 7: That your friend who's working from home could be a

953
00:43:37,200 --> 00:43:37,720
Speaker 7: good solution.

954
00:43:38,719 --> 00:43:40,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, Because like I think I think you should go

955
00:43:40,920 --> 00:43:43,960
Speaker 1: to the wedding. I do, and then but not put

956
00:43:43,960 --> 00:43:47,120
Speaker 1: your boyfriend in jeopardy when you get back. So quarantine

957
00:43:47,200 --> 00:43:49,320
Speaker 1: somewhere else. I just don't know where that other place

958
00:43:49,400 --> 00:43:50,000
Speaker 1: could be for you.

959
00:43:50,200 --> 00:43:53,040
Speaker 2: And maybe he could, maybe he could stay with someone

960
00:43:53,080 --> 00:43:55,680
Speaker 2: if he has a family or friend, were you know,

961
00:43:55,920 --> 00:43:56,600
Speaker 2: or co worker.

962
00:43:57,840 --> 00:43:59,560
Speaker 6: I'm with the guy on this one, and I rarely

963
00:43:59,560 --> 00:44:01,239
Speaker 6: say that on the show. When I'm with the guy,

964
00:44:01,360 --> 00:44:03,000
Speaker 6: I would if I were him, I would not getting

965
00:44:03,040 --> 00:44:04,600
Speaker 6: kicked I would not enjoy getting kicked out of.

966
00:44:04,600 --> 00:44:06,399
Speaker 7: My own apartment. So you can go to a wedding

967
00:44:06,480 --> 00:44:07,360
Speaker 7: in Florida.

968
00:44:07,000 --> 00:44:08,759
Speaker 2: I would just ask. I'd be like, I want to.

969
00:44:08,920 --> 00:44:10,759
Speaker 2: This is my best friend's wedding. I want to be

970
00:44:10,840 --> 00:44:13,319
Speaker 2: a part. It's a big deal, hopefully the only one

971
00:44:13,360 --> 00:44:17,080
Speaker 2: that she has, and I have the option to be there.

972
00:44:17,520 --> 00:44:19,759
Speaker 2: Can we can you meet me halfway on this and

973
00:44:19,800 --> 00:44:21,560
Speaker 2: we figure out a way to make this yes, And

974
00:44:21,600 --> 00:44:23,200
Speaker 2: I think so that we both feel comfortable.

975
00:44:23,280 --> 00:44:25,640
Speaker 6: Too often that conversation doesn't happen. Too often, it's Hey,

976
00:44:25,640 --> 00:44:27,080
Speaker 6: I'm going to go to my friend's Flooria, and he's like,

977
00:44:27,080 --> 00:44:29,640
Speaker 6: what are you risking? Then it becomes an argument before

978
00:44:29,680 --> 00:44:31,680
Speaker 6: you could really just sit down and say, I'd love

979
00:44:31,719 --> 00:44:33,200
Speaker 6: to do this. Is there any way we could figure

980
00:44:33,200 --> 00:44:35,240
Speaker 6: out a way that I could do this? Working together,

981
00:44:35,320 --> 00:44:36,920
Speaker 6: you might be able to figure that out.

982
00:44:37,160 --> 00:44:40,000
Speaker 2: This is this is the advice someting to have a conversation,

983
00:44:40,280 --> 00:44:43,879
Speaker 2: meet halfway, see if you can, you know, be there

984
00:44:43,920 --> 00:44:46,960
Speaker 2: for each other by also respecting each other's boundaries.

985
00:44:47,040 --> 00:44:50,960
Speaker 4: And you meet me halfway. Right at the bottom line,

986
00:44:51,080 --> 00:44:57,960
Speaker 4: I'm gonna say, stunning, stunning compromise, man. That is the

987
00:44:58,080 --> 00:44:59,920
Speaker 4: key is do you know what.

988
00:45:00,120 --> 00:45:06,840
Speaker 2: So interesting during this COVID situation just recently with my

989
00:45:06,920 --> 00:45:10,279
Speaker 2: sister ninety five P. And I had to quarantine and

990
00:45:10,360 --> 00:45:13,160
Speaker 2: I wanted to go to my, uh my apartment to

991
00:45:13,239 --> 00:45:18,239
Speaker 2: get something, and there was an argument because ninety five P'

992
00:45:18,320 --> 00:45:21,759
Speaker 2: is like, you're exposing yourself to Hank, who may have

993
00:45:22,080 --> 00:45:25,200
Speaker 2: who may have gotten it from Caroline. And I have

994
00:45:25,800 --> 00:45:30,160
Speaker 2: a work obligation coming up that I can't write, I

995
00:45:30,200 --> 00:45:32,440
Speaker 2: can't move, it's gonna be a really big deal. So

996
00:45:33,080 --> 00:45:35,080
Speaker 2: and in my mind, I'm like, I'm literally going to

997
00:45:35,120 --> 00:45:37,520
Speaker 2: my house. I have a podcast to do. I'll go upstairs,

998
00:45:37,520 --> 00:45:39,480
Speaker 2: lock myself in my room to do the podcast, and

999
00:45:39,520 --> 00:45:43,160
Speaker 2: then I'll come back, and it was it was this

1000
00:45:43,840 --> 00:45:46,680
Speaker 2: compromise because I felt like I was being told what

1001
00:45:46,719 --> 00:45:49,520
Speaker 2: to do, which I'm realized I'm something I need to

1002
00:45:49,520 --> 00:45:51,320
Speaker 2: work through therapy.

1003
00:45:51,960 --> 00:45:55,320
Speaker 1: And oh, it's so interesting that you say that, because

1004
00:45:55,440 --> 00:45:58,680
Speaker 1: my you know, my sister's kind of like my therapist

1005
00:45:58,760 --> 00:46:01,840
Speaker 1: because unofficially just because that's like, you know, her profession,

1006
00:46:02,000 --> 00:46:05,400
Speaker 1: but she's my sister. But she's because I talked to

1007
00:46:05,440 --> 00:46:07,399
Speaker 1: her a lot about like, you know, things that are

1008
00:46:08,200 --> 00:46:10,440
Speaker 1: conversations that I have with Red Star where like I

1009
00:46:10,640 --> 00:46:14,319
Speaker 1: need to they're compromise. And she's like, I think this

1010
00:46:14,360 --> 00:46:16,880
Speaker 1: is really good. This is a really good relationship for

1011
00:46:16,920 --> 00:46:22,359
Speaker 1: you because I feel like you're learning how to compromise

1012
00:46:23,000 --> 00:46:27,960
Speaker 1: also while standing up for yourself and like making sure

1013
00:46:27,960 --> 00:46:30,440
Speaker 1: that your voice is heard. But also you know what

1014
00:46:30,440 --> 00:46:33,000
Speaker 1: I mean, and he's respecting you and like what you

1015
00:46:33,040 --> 00:46:33,440
Speaker 1: say and.

1016
00:46:33,400 --> 00:46:35,319
Speaker 4: Meeting you in the middle and like da da da da.

1017
00:46:35,320 --> 00:46:37,399
Speaker 1: And she's like, for so many years, you've just been

1018
00:46:37,920 --> 00:46:40,040
Speaker 1: doing what you want, when you want, how you want.

1019
00:46:40,280 --> 00:46:42,240
Speaker 2: It's truly the greatest part of being single.

1020
00:46:42,640 --> 00:46:42,920
Speaker 7: You know.

1021
00:46:43,280 --> 00:46:45,200
Speaker 2: Let me say something to all the girls who are trying,

1022
00:46:45,400 --> 00:46:47,520
Speaker 2: like really want to be in a relationship.

1023
00:46:47,520 --> 00:46:48,560
Speaker 3: There are great parts of it.

1024
00:46:48,600 --> 00:46:51,440
Speaker 2: But let me tell you something, when you're single, you

1025
00:46:51,520 --> 00:46:56,120
Speaker 2: ain't got to worry about compromising with anybody, huh, but yourself.

1026
00:46:56,360 --> 00:47:00,279
Speaker 2: So keep that in mind when you're feeling lonely and

1027
00:47:00,320 --> 00:47:03,000
Speaker 2: sad and all you want is a relationship, just see

1028
00:47:03,360 --> 00:47:06,239
Speaker 2: the positives of this single life as well.

1029
00:47:06,280 --> 00:47:08,399
Speaker 6: With that, what you said before beca about not being

1030
00:47:08,800 --> 00:47:10,440
Speaker 6: not wanting to be told what to do.

1031
00:47:10,520 --> 00:47:12,360
Speaker 7: I think that's a big one with a lot of people.

1032
00:47:12,600 --> 00:47:13,520
Speaker 7: It's a big one for me.

1033
00:47:14,000 --> 00:47:15,160
Speaker 6: It's a big one for the guy who has a

1034
00:47:15,160 --> 00:47:16,600
Speaker 6: picture from strip club he doesn't want to.

1035
00:47:16,560 --> 00:47:17,680
Speaker 7: Delete, Like, what's the big deal?

1036
00:47:17,800 --> 00:47:18,200
Speaker 2: Delete it?

1037
00:47:18,200 --> 00:47:19,680
Speaker 7: But no, he does not want to be told what

1038
00:47:19,760 --> 00:47:21,759
Speaker 7: to do. And that's something we all need to work on.

1039
00:47:22,480 --> 00:47:23,680
Speaker 4: Okay, So here's my question.

1040
00:47:24,560 --> 00:47:26,959
Speaker 1: If there's something that you want your partner to do,

1041
00:47:28,400 --> 00:47:29,799
Speaker 1: but you don't want to tell them to do it,

1042
00:47:31,080 --> 00:47:32,480
Speaker 1: how do you do That's here?

1043
00:47:32,640 --> 00:47:33,839
Speaker 3: This is what I'm working through.

1044
00:47:33,920 --> 00:47:34,360
Speaker 4: Okay.

1045
00:47:34,719 --> 00:47:38,399
Speaker 2: So my therapist, I literally brought this up because I thought,

1046
00:47:38,600 --> 00:47:41,760
Speaker 2: is this is something that's deeply rooted in something else

1047
00:47:41,840 --> 00:47:45,719
Speaker 2: and I'm learning a lot of my habits are And

1048
00:47:45,880 --> 00:47:48,759
Speaker 2: she said, are you is there a certain do you

1049
00:47:48,800 --> 00:47:51,279
Speaker 2: do it with certain people like, is it ninety five

1050
00:47:51,320 --> 00:47:54,160
Speaker 2: p or are you do you do it with everybody

1051
00:47:54,200 --> 00:47:55,399
Speaker 2: if it's if they tell you.

1052
00:47:55,360 --> 00:47:55,839
Speaker 3: What to do?

1053
00:47:55,920 --> 00:47:58,480
Speaker 2: And she she was like, pay attention to that. So

1054
00:48:00,000 --> 00:48:02,759
Speaker 2: I said something after this, and I said, that's what

1055
00:48:03,480 --> 00:48:05,759
Speaker 2: It's the way you said that, that's what triggers this

1056
00:48:05,880 --> 00:48:08,640
Speaker 2: feeling of defensiveness and feeling like you can't tell me

1057
00:48:08,680 --> 00:48:13,319
Speaker 2: what to do. And so I said, it's something about

1058
00:48:13,360 --> 00:48:19,120
Speaker 2: the way you are so direct about something that if

1059
00:48:19,160 --> 00:48:23,360
Speaker 2: you worded it more as hey, I think we should

1060
00:48:23,360 --> 00:48:24,040
Speaker 2: do it this way.

1061
00:48:24,120 --> 00:48:25,120
Speaker 3: Do you agree on that?

1062
00:48:25,239 --> 00:48:27,759
Speaker 2: And it becomes more of my I have a say

1063
00:48:27,760 --> 00:48:31,920
Speaker 2: in it, rather than being told that's what I need.

1064
00:48:32,800 --> 00:48:33,120
Speaker 8: Oh.

1065
00:48:33,400 --> 00:48:34,120
Speaker 4: Interesting.

1066
00:48:34,440 --> 00:48:38,799
Speaker 2: So it's weird though, because I never i'm as such

1067
00:48:38,840 --> 00:48:41,640
Speaker 2: a rule follower. So if someone says you can't come

1068
00:48:41,640 --> 00:48:43,600
Speaker 2: in here until you need to put on a mask,

1069
00:48:43,680 --> 00:48:44,960
Speaker 2: or you can't come into here, I'm gonna be like,

1070
00:48:44,960 --> 00:48:47,840
Speaker 2: of course I'll put on a mask. But for some reason,

1071
00:48:47,880 --> 00:48:51,279
Speaker 2: with certain situations, the idea of someone telling me what

1072
00:48:51,360 --> 00:48:53,560
Speaker 2: to do and not me not making that decision for

1073
00:48:53,640 --> 00:48:56,520
Speaker 2: myself triggers me and I've become very defensive.

1074
00:48:56,800 --> 00:48:59,919
Speaker 6: Interesting, But is that on ninety five pew to change

1075
00:49:00,080 --> 00:49:01,080
Speaker 6: is that on you to change?

1076
00:49:02,000 --> 00:49:02,680
Speaker 3: I think both.

1077
00:49:02,880 --> 00:49:06,759
Speaker 2: I think we both decided that we can both the

1078
00:49:06,760 --> 00:49:11,200
Speaker 2: mid Yeah, because I need to work on not letting

1079
00:49:11,239 --> 00:49:14,360
Speaker 2: it make me defensive to where it starts an argument,

1080
00:49:15,080 --> 00:49:17,080
Speaker 2: and I think ninety five P needs to work on

1081
00:49:18,200 --> 00:49:20,640
Speaker 2: doing it approaching me in a way that doesn't come

1082
00:49:20,640 --> 00:49:23,040
Speaker 2: across so harsh, harsh.

1083
00:49:24,880 --> 00:49:25,600
Speaker 3: And direct.

1084
00:49:26,080 --> 00:49:29,560
Speaker 4: Interesting, dude, Yeah.

1085
00:49:29,360 --> 00:49:30,280
Speaker 2: So stay single.

1086
00:49:30,440 --> 00:49:31,120
Speaker 3: I'm just kidding.

1087
00:49:32,880 --> 00:49:35,600
Speaker 2: So the moral of the story of this episode is

1088
00:49:35,640 --> 00:49:37,040
Speaker 2: stay single.

1089
00:49:37,120 --> 00:49:37,960
Speaker 3: Hitting there's a lot.

1090
00:49:37,800 --> 00:49:40,560
Speaker 2: Of good and compromising because it helps you to become

1091
00:49:40,600 --> 00:49:46,080
Speaker 2: a more complete person. Learning that is a very challenging

1092
00:49:47,000 --> 00:49:52,000
Speaker 2: because we're naturally selfish. Yeah, so to have to adapt

1093
00:49:52,160 --> 00:49:56,960
Speaker 2: to someone else's needs is very challenging.

1094
00:49:57,160 --> 00:49:59,840
Speaker 1: But it's also interesting because I think sometimes to like,

1095
00:50:00,160 --> 00:50:02,120
Speaker 1: I think, obviously, yes, we are all selfish, but I

1096
00:50:02,120 --> 00:50:04,880
Speaker 1: think I'm a cancer. So by nature, I'm very like giving,

1097
00:50:05,600 --> 00:50:07,439
Speaker 1: and so in my mind I'm always just like, I'm

1098
00:50:07,520 --> 00:50:10,200
Speaker 1: just like always just giving. And then at what point, like,

1099
00:50:11,400 --> 00:50:13,400
Speaker 1: am I gonna take a little you know what I mean? Like,

1100
00:50:14,400 --> 00:50:17,560
Speaker 1: when does this You've really held your own.

1101
00:50:17,440 --> 00:50:18,319
Speaker 2: In this relationship?

1102
00:50:18,360 --> 00:50:19,960
Speaker 4: I really have, I know. I thank you so much.

1103
00:50:20,000 --> 00:50:23,800
Speaker 4: I feel very proud of myself at times.

1104
00:50:23,840 --> 00:50:26,760
Speaker 2: I really do, because I also have times of crazy

1105
00:50:26,800 --> 00:50:28,719
Speaker 2: that I get text and I say, hey, get this

1106
00:50:28,840 --> 00:50:29,319
Speaker 2: out here.

1107
00:50:29,719 --> 00:50:31,839
Speaker 4: Not with red Star. Yeah, don't have time to put

1108
00:50:31,920 --> 00:50:35,520
Speaker 4: him through this. But for sure I think we all do. Yeah,

1109
00:50:35,560 --> 00:50:36,799
Speaker 4: we all do, We all do.

1110
00:50:37,040 --> 00:50:42,520
Speaker 2: Yeahah yeah, it's been a very insightful episode, must say.

1111
00:50:43,520 --> 00:50:46,279
Speaker 1: I think also quarantine is making everybody kind of just

1112
00:50:46,280 --> 00:50:48,799
Speaker 1: like reflect on themselves a little bit, for sure, like

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00:50:48,880 --> 00:50:52,880
Speaker 1: seeing yeah, like not so even a lot in your life,

1114
00:50:53,040 --> 00:50:56,680
Speaker 1: but like also just like personally things that you do,

1115
00:50:57,280 --> 00:50:59,600
Speaker 1: or traits that you may have, or things that you

1116
00:50:59,600 --> 00:51:00,719
Speaker 1: want to like change.

1117
00:51:00,440 --> 00:51:06,560
Speaker 4: And be better at, you know, definitely well self help

1118
00:51:06,600 --> 00:51:07,279
Speaker 4: books over here.

1119
00:51:07,800 --> 00:51:10,239
Speaker 3: I feel like it's been a long episode, hasn't it.

1120
00:51:11,360 --> 00:51:12,600
Speaker 4: Oh wow, it's almost four o'clock.

1121
00:51:12,800 --> 00:51:18,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, we really just flies chatting away, given solid advice,

1122
00:51:20,200 --> 00:51:21,760
Speaker 2: recapping the weekend.

1123
00:51:21,400 --> 00:51:22,719
Speaker 4: And drunk anymore.

1124
00:51:22,840 --> 00:51:25,520
Speaker 2: Oh, I feels so good to be sober. Wow, the

1125
00:51:25,600 --> 00:51:30,000
Speaker 2: strength I feel. But we will be back next week

1126
00:51:30,160 --> 00:51:34,040
Speaker 2: per usual. You guys, I get to interview Coach Monica

1127
00:51:34,080 --> 00:51:35,280
Speaker 2: next week from Cheer.

1128
00:51:37,760 --> 00:51:39,000
Speaker 3: I'm so excited.

1129
00:51:39,200 --> 00:51:40,359
Speaker 4: I'm very excited for you.

1130
00:51:40,440 --> 00:51:41,880
Speaker 1: I will not be able to be a part of

1131
00:51:41,880 --> 00:51:46,200
Speaker 1: this interview because I have a very important pelvic floor

1132
00:51:46,280 --> 00:51:47,560
Speaker 1: physical therapy appointment.

1133
00:51:47,600 --> 00:51:51,080
Speaker 4: That's my first one. Yeah, I don't want to could

1134
00:51:51,120 --> 00:51:53,160
Speaker 4: not postpone, especially now that I have another set.

1135
00:51:53,440 --> 00:51:55,759
Speaker 2: I'll hold this one down and if the Scrubbers have

1136
00:51:55,840 --> 00:51:58,359
Speaker 2: questions that I can get to after I fan girl

1137
00:51:58,400 --> 00:52:01,640
Speaker 2: long enough, then I'll ask this too. I'm just so

1138
00:52:01,760 --> 00:52:05,239
Speaker 2: excited because I loved the show and I just was like,

1139
00:52:05,360 --> 00:52:08,440
Speaker 2: I coach Monica's Everyone's like coach in life.

1140
00:52:08,480 --> 00:52:10,080
Speaker 3: So very excited about that.

1141
00:52:10,080 --> 00:52:12,040
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm also excited about my appointment too, like, oh,

1142
00:52:12,040 --> 00:52:13,239
Speaker 1: what's it going to be? Like are they going to

1143
00:52:13,280 --> 00:52:15,400
Speaker 1: go in there or do I like do the exercise myself?

1144
00:52:15,480 --> 00:52:16,000
Speaker 4: Like I don't know.

1145
00:52:16,120 --> 00:52:18,880
Speaker 2: It'll be so exciting to talk about that more with

1146
00:52:18,960 --> 00:52:19,640
Speaker 2: you next week.

1147
00:52:20,880 --> 00:52:23,680
Speaker 4: So what entail like physical therapy on my vagina?

1148
00:52:23,760 --> 00:52:26,560
Speaker 2: And then we can also talk about our our friend

1149
00:52:26,640 --> 00:52:28,839
Speaker 2: day day whatever that may look like.

1150
00:52:29,600 --> 00:52:31,279
Speaker 4: You decide on chill chill day.

1151
00:52:31,640 --> 00:52:35,759
Speaker 2: I thought we said Santa Barbara, oh right right, yeah.

1152
00:52:35,040 --> 00:52:38,680
Speaker 10: A scrubber made a parody song of oh right right right, yeah.

1153
00:52:38,719 --> 00:52:40,480
Speaker 10: I have that ready if we want to end up

1154
00:52:40,480 --> 00:52:41,440
Speaker 10: with that or if we want to say it for

1155
00:52:41,520 --> 00:52:41,839
Speaker 10: next time.

1156
00:52:41,880 --> 00:52:42,480
Speaker 9: I don't Trey.

1157
00:52:43,000 --> 00:52:44,839
Speaker 4: It is so freaking cute.

1158
00:52:44,880 --> 00:52:47,480
Speaker 1: My favorite part is that she thought his eyes were

1159
00:52:47,520 --> 00:52:51,840
Speaker 1: blue because of my painting that I painted the ocean.

1160
00:52:52,040 --> 00:52:56,080
Speaker 10: Okay, uh, I'm like, are you ready to hear this?

1161
00:52:56,239 --> 00:52:57,240
Speaker 7: Well, let's give her credit.

1162
00:52:57,239 --> 00:53:00,440
Speaker 1: Who is this person, Brehanna Sourus.

1163
00:53:00,280 --> 00:53:04,879
Speaker 10: It's right there, you have it, and she created akas masterpiece.

1164
00:53:05,560 --> 00:53:08,239
Speaker 2: Ut was the color of the ocean as that I

1165
00:53:08,360 --> 00:53:12,520
Speaker 2: noticed on the dating app asked a fire bag to

1166
00:53:12,640 --> 00:53:13,760
Speaker 2: go to dimmer.

1167
00:53:14,680 --> 00:53:17,640
Speaker 4: So punt was the.

1168
00:53:17,600 --> 00:53:19,879
Speaker 1: Color of my hair when I got sick.

1169
00:53:20,160 --> 00:53:25,960
Speaker 8: You were the back after I knew you were somebody.

1170
00:53:28,400 --> 00:53:31,880
Speaker 2: Call calling in the WK just some fox and I

1171
00:53:32,000 --> 00:53:32,919
Speaker 2: had some fun.

1172
00:53:33,680 --> 00:53:35,960
Speaker 4: Was made aware of the patterns I did.

1173
00:53:35,920 --> 00:53:41,640
Speaker 8: And say, isn't it pretty?

1174
00:53:42,440 --> 00:53:55,680
Speaker 2: Thing? All along there was there's a ball Street sang me.

1175
00:53:57,080 --> 00:54:02,720
Speaker 7: O beautiful right.

1176
00:54:06,120 --> 00:54:08,120
Speaker 3: Wow? That was really cute.

1177
00:54:08,840 --> 00:54:14,320
Speaker 4: Beautiful boy the one some frogs and that had some fun.

1178
00:54:17,400 --> 00:54:20,120
Speaker 3: What a great little parody. So sweet.

1179
00:54:20,719 --> 00:54:22,800
Speaker 1: I actually forgot to ask Red Star if he listened

1180
00:54:22,800 --> 00:54:25,560
Speaker 1: to that and what he thought the parody.

1181
00:54:25,840 --> 00:54:28,880
Speaker 2: I'm sure he love it except for the blue eyes,

1182
00:54:33,320 --> 00:54:34,239
Speaker 2: but really cute.

1183
00:54:34,320 --> 00:54:35,840
Speaker 4: I love that Taylor Swift song.

1184
00:54:35,840 --> 00:54:37,279
Speaker 3: Breathe we know so.

1185
00:54:39,520 --> 00:54:44,560
Speaker 2: We've seen you dance and sit and play it all around.

1186
00:54:44,440 --> 00:54:46,560
Speaker 1: Just working real hard for that card again, you know. Yeah,

1187
00:54:46,640 --> 00:54:48,040
Speaker 1: well I think so, holding out.

1188
00:54:47,920 --> 00:54:48,520
Speaker 4: Hope for that.

1189
00:54:49,360 --> 00:54:51,200
Speaker 2: Might as well just order you on at this point.

1190
00:54:52,480 --> 00:54:56,680
Speaker 2: I know you want the Taylors badge. Okay, what a

1191
00:54:56,680 --> 00:54:58,760
Speaker 2: great way to end it. Yeah, y'all are the best,

1192
00:54:58,880 --> 00:55:01,560
Speaker 2: the best, all right, See you next time, ye