Speaker 1: What's of it?
Speaker 2: Sauce on the side, I am Gandhi and I'm in
Speaker 2: here with my produce of diamond Hi, who is putting
Speaker 2: on a very pleasant voice. And I don't understand it.
Speaker 1: But that's okay. What is that?
Speaker 3: I don't know, it just happens.
Speaker 4: I'm like, Hi, I want to be calm, so I'm
Speaker 4: trying to give you calm energy.
Speaker 2: Wait, why wouldn't you give me calm energy? Are you
Speaker 2: stressed out? I'm just a ball of chaos today?
Speaker 5: Sweek in general?
Speaker 1: Oh this week?
Speaker 4: Well, sleep, I think I'm trying to figure out this
Speaker 4: new sleep schedule with having to come in earlier because
Speaker 4: of congestion pricing in the double that is Kathy Hopel
Speaker 4: or as my grandfather calls her, Kathy Hochel Hochel.
Speaker 5: Yeah, she gets hochel a lot. It makes me laugh.
Speaker 4: But yeah, and today I realize I've been waking up
Speaker 4: ten minutes earlier than I'm supposed to or then I
Speaker 4: want to in my head stuff like that.
Speaker 2: So my wake up, my morning is chaos. When I
Speaker 2: get up in the morning, it's like hit the ground running.
Speaker 2: My alarm is a crazy sound. Really yeah, hold on, okay,
Speaker 2: I'm gonna pull up what this This is the sound
Speaker 2: that I wake up to.
Speaker 5: In the morning, and it's kind of birds her.
Speaker 1: Maybe a little bit of a video game.
Speaker 3: E gives me Finding Nemo.
Speaker 5: It really does mean Dory has dementia.
Speaker 4: Under why that was so funny? People were dming me
Speaker 4: about that. It's like, no, guys, I really like, is
Speaker 4: that not the case?
Speaker 5: That's great, right, But it's the case, right, Dory has dementia.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: No, she sort of has a problem with her short
Speaker 2: term memory, but she fixes it.
Speaker 5: You can't fix dementia.
Speaker 3: That's forever base. I do not remember her fixing it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she kind of starts to remember things forward the end,
Speaker 2: go for do yeah, or maybe I have dementia, And
Speaker 2: that's what I just think happened. I didn't like Finding
Speaker 2: Dory as much as I like Finding Nemo.
Speaker 4: Didn't even give it a chance because I'm like, why
Speaker 4: would I watch a movie about someone who doesn't remember anything?
Speaker 1: Oh my god.
Speaker 2: Oh there's a movie called Memento. You'd probably hate then,
Speaker 2: but it also traces a crime and it shows you
Speaker 2: how he knows he has short term memory loss, so
Speaker 2: how he deals with it.
Speaker 1: No, No, it's also.
Speaker 5: In reverse so it's very weird.
Speaker 3: Do you remember the movie Premonition, Sandra Bullock?
Speaker 5: No, I don't think so.
Speaker 4: Well, it drove me crazy, like she knew what was happening.
Speaker 4: She had a premonition about something, and that's where I
Speaker 4: learned the word from. But yeah, and then she like
Speaker 4: spent Basically, her husband dies in her premonition, and so
Speaker 4: she spends however many days she thinks she has trying
Speaker 4: to number one, fix their relationship so that he's not
Speaker 4: wherever he was when it happened. And it was just
Speaker 4: a lot, And I'm.
Speaker 3: Like, why would you want to know what's happening, what's
Speaker 3: going to happen? Why would I want to know?
Speaker 5: I always think about that.
Speaker 2: So there was a movie I was watching on the plane,
Speaker 2: so we just came back from a trip, and it's
Speaker 2: called My Old Ass.
Speaker 3: Have you seen previous for it?
Speaker 4: Now?
Speaker 2: It's Aubrey Plaza and some other girl that I don't know,
Speaker 2: But basically, this one girl trips in the woods, like
Speaker 2: she's tripping on mushrooms in the woods.
Speaker 5: She's eighteen years old, and.
Speaker 2: All of a sudden she looks and she sees the
Speaker 2: thirty nine year old version of herself. Sitting next to her,
Speaker 2: and they get to know each other and they're talking,
Speaker 2: and the one piece of advice that the thirty nine
Speaker 2: year old gives her is, when you meet a boy
Speaker 2: named Chad, do not interact with him, don't talk to him,
Speaker 2: don't do anything.
Speaker 5: Run screaming. And I was like, Chad, that's my boyfriend
Speaker 5: who passed away. I like that name. I know a
Speaker 5: lot of people make fun of that name, but I
Speaker 5: like it. By the way, he had a two d's
Speaker 5: in his name. Oh wow, so it doesn't count. He's
Speaker 5: not the crazy white boy. And also he was very
Speaker 5: not white AnyWho. So you find out as the movie
Speaker 5: goes on.
Speaker 2: And actually stopped watching it as soon as I saw
Speaker 2: this because she meets the boy named Chad and she
Speaker 2: falls in love with him and they're having a great time, and.
Speaker 5: He's just such a doll.
Speaker 1: He's babe.
Speaker 2: She loves him, and she runs into her thirty nine
Speaker 2: year old self and she's like, why would you tell
Speaker 2: me to stay away from him?
Speaker 5: I can't figure out what's wrong.
Speaker 2: He's great, and thirty nine year old her says, he dies.
Speaker 2: That's what happens. He dies, And I stopped the movie
Speaker 2: right there. Because it gave me goosebumps and it made
Speaker 2: me very terry, and it's making me terry right now.
Speaker 5: And then but I was like, damn, man, and I
Speaker 5: don't know how the movie ends.
Speaker 4: So yeah, oh, now I want to go watch it
Speaker 4: because I kind of want to see what happens.
Speaker 5: Okay, go watch it.
Speaker 1: Let me know.
Speaker 3: I'll start where you stop tell.
Speaker 2: Me about it. That's actually that's got to be somewhere
Speaker 2: closer to the end. And by the way, I should
Speaker 2: have said this before spoiler alert.
Speaker 5: Oops.
Speaker 2: Anyway, how are you, Diamond Good Good just feeling chaotic?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Are you excited about the guests that we're about to
Speaker 5: have in?
Speaker 3: Oh my god?
Speaker 4: Yes, speaking of chaos, right, because she lives there's a
Speaker 4: level of chaos all around her, and you see this
Speaker 4: like she keeps it very chill. She's very chill. I
Speaker 4: don't know how she does it.
Speaker 2: So with her, I think we should bring her in
Speaker 2: because Diamond is talking about Dolores Catanya from the Real Housewives.
Speaker 1: Of New Jersey.
Speaker 4: Here she is.
Speaker 3: Hi.
Speaker 2: You may know her from the Real Housewives of New
Speaker 2: Jersey or Traders season three. I don't even know where
Speaker 2: to start with you because You're a wealth among stuff
Speaker 2: to talk about. So I think the first thing on
Speaker 2: everybody's mind, we'll get to it. We'll get out of
Speaker 2: the way. Real Housewives of New Jersey. We know there's
Speaker 2: been drama. Things are on hold.
Speaker 5: What does the future look like for you guys?
Speaker 1: Well, we don't know. We know as much as you do.
Speaker 1: And I know the last time Andy was asked, he
Speaker 1: got like a little bit fed up with being asked
Speaker 1: and he said, don't ask me answers the same. Well,
Speaker 1: won't you know twenty twenty five is not going to happen?
Speaker 1: God willing, they call us all back to work. We
Speaker 1: show up and you have the Housewives of New Jersey back.
Speaker 1: How it can come back from no resolution the last
Speaker 1: time we were together, I don't know. But hopefully it can.
Speaker 5: Happen in a dream world. What would you like to happen.
Speaker 1: In a dream world? I'd like to start over. Okay,
Speaker 1: for everyone on the cast, I think we have an
Speaker 1: amazing cast. They may not get along, but they all
Speaker 1: share the same heart. I've seen them very very good,
Speaker 1: charitable to people, and maybe not to each other, but
Speaker 1: I think they're good people underneath it all. So I
Speaker 1: don't mind working with it. I always said on that couch,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't want to share it with anybody else.
Speaker 2: I hope that works out for you guys, because you
Speaker 2: all have been together for how long at this point.
Speaker 1: Well, we're friends as a whole, like I'm friends with
Speaker 1: Teresa for many, many years. It's lifetime, a lifetime and
Speaker 1: the show's around fourteen years now. You laugh together, you
Speaker 1: cry together. I mean, if you all remember our trip
Speaker 1: in Ireland, that was a beautiful trip, and that was
Speaker 1: a great trip.
Speaker 3: I loved it.
Speaker 1: There was a lot of crying. There was fighting, but
Speaker 1: there was it wasn't so dirty.
Speaker 2: Yeah, do you get exhausted from the drama, the back
Speaker 2: and forth all the time. I mean, I know you're
Speaker 2: notoriously neutral about things, but it seems like it would
Speaker 2: still just be like, oh my god, enough people.
Speaker 5: How do you do it?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Well, listen, life is drama. Life unfolds, but there's
Speaker 1: always drama in workplaces. Life is drama. You just have
Speaker 1: to know how to handle it, and you have to
Speaker 1: have like you have to be able to cope with things.
Speaker 1: I always stay grounded because I've always worked with shelters, animals,
Speaker 1: homeless women and children, like, and I grew up not
Speaker 1: getting my way, so I'm okay when things don't go
Speaker 1: my way.
Speaker 2: I hear great things about you and I read think
Speaker 2: things about you, which I think for the housewives is
Speaker 2: kind of fascinating to see one person in here that
Speaker 2: just gets a lot of love from everybody.
Speaker 1: Good for you, Thank you.
Speaker 2: I've also read and heard that you are the most
Speaker 2: relatable in the cast.
Speaker 5: Do you agree with that.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say the most because I wouldn't talk like
Speaker 1: that about the other people that I'm friends with. But
Speaker 1: that's that's why people like, I'm not gonna do that yet.
Speaker 1: I can't. I want to be known as the housewife
Speaker 1: that cared about people, because I do. No one's going anywhere.
Speaker 2: See Thelorus approach her. You can take a picture You're camis.
Speaker 1: Of course amazing. I'm because I wouldn't have what I
Speaker 1: have if it wasn't for the people that watch the show.
Speaker 1: So I've done a lot with my life because I
Speaker 1: have a good job, you know, and I appreciate it.
Speaker 1: But what is my job without the people that let
Speaker 1: me into their home?
Speaker 4: Hey?
Speaker 2: We say that here all the time with the show.
Speaker 2: Whether you love us or hate us. You let us
Speaker 2: into your house, and that's great. We'll take it.
Speaker 5: We're never going to be rude, not on purpose anyway.
Speaker 1: No, But you know what, not everybody has to be
Speaker 1: a martyr, right Like, I don't chastise the women that
Speaker 1: don't do that. You don't want to do that, that's
Speaker 1: on you. But I don't want anybody to have a
Speaker 1: bad experience meeting me. And you know who I heard
Speaker 1: say that one time, Billie Eilish. I heard her say
Speaker 1: I never want anyone to have a bad experience meeting me.
Speaker 2: So on that note, how are you feeling about all
Speaker 2: the Jersey Mike's drama that popped off with Jennifer?
Speaker 1: I will not speak on that. Ah yeah, I mean
Speaker 1: I wasn't there. A lot of the households don't want
Speaker 1: to talk about that. Yeah.
Speaker 5: So for you, what are the things that you do
Speaker 5: love talking about when you.
Speaker 1: I'd like to talk about happy stuff, good stuff. There's
Speaker 1: a lot of good stuff, and I think that's a
Speaker 1: lot of times the demise of sometimes the housewives. Too
Speaker 1: much darkness, too much drama.
Speaker 5: So when it comes to this.
Speaker 2: Kind of stuff, because your life really is an open
Speaker 2: book or somewhat of an open book. What you choose
Speaker 2: to share with people is your life. You're letting people in,
Speaker 2: You're letting them see you as a person. How do
Speaker 2: you navigate around these things when people feel like they
Speaker 2: have a right to you and to that information because
Speaker 2: you've given them a taste of it. Because we again
Speaker 2: on a much smaller scale, we deal with that here.
Speaker 5: We talk about our lives. And then if there's a
Speaker 5: part of our scale, No it's not.
Speaker 1: No, you don't think.
Speaker 4: We're not on national TV. No, we don't bring our
Speaker 4: parents on and stuff like that. Our relationships on.
Speaker 6: We do.
Speaker 3: Sometimes you got to.
Speaker 1: Like but you talk about it, right, and if something happens,
Speaker 1: it's going to be out there.
Speaker 5: But we have we have.
Speaker 1: You don't sign a paper saying like I'm being transparent
Speaker 1: and giving you my life. Right, It's very hard you say,
Speaker 1: we know what we sign up for. It's an unwritten law.
Speaker 1: If you have something going on in your life, you
Speaker 1: have to talk about it, and if it gets out,
Speaker 1: if it's in the press, you have to talk about
Speaker 1: it on the show. If you repeat something on the
Speaker 1: show on camera, you have to know that you're going
Speaker 1: to have to run back and tell the person it
Speaker 1: was said about on camera, Like in real life, do
Speaker 1: you tell your friends what the other person said about
Speaker 1: them all the time? You don't run all the time.
Speaker 3: It depends on she does do it. I will run
Speaker 3: back and.
Speaker 1: Talk, oh my god, did you? Will be a perfect housewife,
Speaker 1: because that's not an easy thing to do.
Speaker 4: Maybe this is why I do it, because I watch
Speaker 4: so much Housewives that I feel like somebody. I always
Speaker 4: feel like cameras are watching you. Regardless, somebody's watching. Someone
Speaker 4: heard something, so you might as well just hey, I
Speaker 4: was talking to so and so, and this is what
Speaker 4: they said. Listen, just dropping it here so that you know, oh,
Speaker 4: my identify with it a little bit.
Speaker 1: I don't diet.
Speaker 3: I don't ever want.
Speaker 4: Any of my friends said think that I'm not being
Speaker 4: loyal to them. I swear. It's like, if somebody talks
Speaker 4: about Gandhi, I'm gonna say, hey, yeah.
Speaker 1: Well, if it's okay, if somebody talks about that, you're
Speaker 1: equally as friends with Gandhi. I'm just talking about somebody
Speaker 1: in the lunch room. Okay, you don't already like maybe, okay.
Speaker 5: So if Andrew talks about it, are you gonna come
Speaker 5: tell me?
Speaker 3: Probably?
Speaker 4: I do it in a joking way. It wouldn't be
Speaker 4: it wouldn't be so harsh. But but this is the issue.
Speaker 1: I feel like Whoa's.
Speaker 2: Answer, no, you know why because she lives Bravo. I
Speaker 2: don't think she has ever changed the channel from Bravo
Speaker 2: in her life. I've tried to get her to watch
Speaker 2: other things. She's like, no, I'll call her what are
Speaker 2: you doing rewatching the Real Healthwives on New Jersey.
Speaker 1: She's a real one one.
Speaker 5: Yeah, but go ahead, Diamond, I love it.
Speaker 3: Oh.
Speaker 4: My issue is is that if she ever heard, oh,
Speaker 4: we're going to to use Andrew Andrew in this scenario.
Speaker 4: If she ever heard, oh, Andrew talked about you and
Speaker 4: Diamond was.
Speaker 3: There, well that that would make me feel uncomfortable the Diamond.
Speaker 1: What if nobody else is in the room and it's
Speaker 1: just the two of you?
Speaker 3: Oh okay, Well then I don't know.
Speaker 1: And it depends on what it is exactly. If he's
Speaker 1: just venting, then that's his business. I mean, it's it's
Speaker 1: all in presentation, right, Yeah, I'm telling ah diving.
Speaker 5: I say all the time what other people think of
Speaker 5: me is none of my business.
Speaker 1: I don't that's true. Somebody said that to me one time,
Speaker 1: and it took the power away from the other person
Speaker 1: that they held held over me.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's I know what.
Speaker 1: It's not my business.
Speaker 2: I know what I try to do and the way
Speaker 2: that I try to operate in life, and maybe sometimes
Speaker 2: it doesn't translate the right way.
Speaker 5: But I know me.
Speaker 2: I know me way better than anybody else knows me.
Speaker 2: So whatever they want to say, they can say it,
Speaker 2: they can think it. It's not gonna get into my head.
Speaker 2: It's taken me a long time to get there. But
Speaker 2: I'm not going to let that stuff really affect me
Speaker 2: or else. What are we We would just be in
Speaker 2: shreds all day. Do you read things about yourself?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 5: Do you operate your own social media?
Speaker 1: I do. I have help, but I do mostly. Yes, Okay,
Speaker 1: and it's it's new help. It's not like I've had
Speaker 1: it forever and I can't do content. I'm fifty four
Speaker 1: years old. I don't know this shit, and I don't
Speaker 1: want to know it, and I don't want to learn
Speaker 1: one more thing. I can't even retain what we're talking about.
Speaker 1: So I'm just going to tell you that I need help.
Speaker 2: Yeah, in the time that I've known you thus far,
Speaker 2: I really appreciate how real you are about things. I
Speaker 2: love that you just showed up by yourself. You didn't
Speaker 2: even roll in here with a posse, And I see
Speaker 2: why people.
Speaker 5: Are saying you're the most relatable.
Speaker 1: I'm a loner.
Speaker 5: You're a loner.
Speaker 1: I like my alone time, my space. I like being
Speaker 1: in the car on the way here with no one
Speaker 1: talking to me. I just don't mind it. Yeah, my
Speaker 1: assistance lovely Frankie. She's a lovely girl, and I like
Speaker 1: her company. But do I need her to come with
Speaker 1: me today here?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 2: But how does it work being a loner and then
Speaker 2: having cameras in your face and up your ass twenty
Speaker 2: four to seven when you're.
Speaker 1: Still twenty four seven When you're filming, that's only a
Speaker 1: certain amount of months out of the year, and they
Speaker 1: tell you when they're coming, and sometimes you just don't
Speaker 1: feel like it. Sometimes you don't feel like in a
Speaker 1: glam Sometimes you don't feel like walking into a room
Speaker 1: and owing everybody your attention. That's why when I have
Speaker 1: my time, when I'm in my house, there's no TV on,
Speaker 1: there's no radio. When I'm driving, it is silent. And
Speaker 1: it's always been like that since high school.
Speaker 3: Really in the house TV off?
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, so what are you doing?
Speaker 3: Reading books?
Speaker 1: No, I'm trying to put my clothes away, just like cleaning.
Speaker 1: I like to puts around. I like to I do
Speaker 1: talk to my mom a lot, and the kids.
Speaker 5: Just the sounds of the dices.
Speaker 1: And sometimes I get two and two scrolling through into
Speaker 1: all dogs on my Instagram, one dog after another. It's healthy,
Speaker 1: and it is, I think, So it's it's misspent time
Speaker 1: on social media. Then I start spending money I shouldn't
Speaker 1: buying things I don't need. I even have a limit
Speaker 1: on my social media and I ignore it.
Speaker 2: So Andrew, who you met when you got here? He
Speaker 2: has a theory that if you change the color scheme
Speaker 2: of your phone to gray scale, so pretty much everything's
Speaker 2: just black and white, you will not look at your
Speaker 2: phone nearly as much. He swears that I'm going to
Speaker 2: have him to do that for me before I leave. Oh,
Speaker 2: he's going to be so happy. He's really trying to
Speaker 2: spread this theory. He said, it's just so boring. It's
Speaker 2: so much more boring when it's all in black and white.
Speaker 2: I don't want to look at things anymore.
Speaker 1: That's amazing. I'm gonna do it.
Speaker 5: Okay, he's gonna be so happy.
Speaker 1: It makes sense. You see Diamond's face, she's dying.
Speaker 3: It's like, no, it doesn't work. It doesn't work.
Speaker 1: You're already killing it from me, Diamond, if you would
Speaker 1: have said it worked, you know, it's that one thing
Speaker 1: that hits. It clicks. Like I really thought I was
Speaker 1: onto something and I was believing, like I'm not going
Speaker 1: to look at the phone, and then she's like, it
Speaker 1: doesn't work. I'm like, oh fuck it, it doesn't work.
Speaker 2: Now, Oh listen, trust me. Andrew says it works. He said,
Speaker 2: I'm so bored.
Speaker 5: I just put my phone down and I do other
Speaker 5: things I'm taking.
Speaker 1: So like the whole like Instagram is black and white. Yes,
Speaker 1: that's happening today every single I bet you I'm not
Speaker 1: going to buy something.
Speaker 4: You might not because you might not like the color
Speaker 4: right in your head. You don't like the color because
Speaker 4: you can't tell what color it is. So maybe I
Speaker 4: don't know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe try destinations don't look so great anymore. So
Speaker 2: now we're like, oh my god, what doesn't a tropical
Speaker 2: destination on your phone?
Speaker 5: If it's black and white, it doesn't look so beautiful
Speaker 5: and sunny and amazing.
Speaker 1: I'm going to do it.
Speaker 2: I'm telling you he swears by this one. So before
Speaker 2: you get out of here, we'll have him fixtrap on
Speaker 2: your phone.
Speaker 5: So I started watching Traders. It's great.
Speaker 1: I just started.
Speaker 2: I know, so I watched last season already. I just
Speaker 2: started season three, so I'm in episode two or episode
Speaker 2: three at this point.
Speaker 1: Was amazing.
Speaker 2: Who was amazing? Phaedra was amazing. I actually really loved
Speaker 2: her on there, and I loved CT.
Speaker 5: I felt really bad for MJ. Spoiler alerts. That was
Speaker 5: kind of late.
Speaker 1: Wait what do you mean you felt bad for MJ?
Speaker 1: You should have. That was a shit shit. That was
Speaker 1: actually disgusting.
Speaker 5: It really was.
Speaker 2: I don't know how they sleep at night, but I
Speaker 2: guess the Wait, Diamond, what was your question.
Speaker 4: She's making me nervous because at this point in the
Speaker 4: season of season three Traders, we don't know, you know,
Speaker 4: how far you make it, what the end is like.
Speaker 4: I know that there was a change in the way
Speaker 4: that they did this.
Speaker 1: You don't even know if I'm on this week. You
Speaker 1: don't know if I'm murdered the church. We left it
Speaker 1: at the church, so you don't know if I'm murdered
Speaker 1: in the church.
Speaker 3: Oh my god.
Speaker 4: But is it true that at the very end of
Speaker 4: this season the faithfuls go home not knowing.
Speaker 3: Who the traders were?
Speaker 1: Do you know that if a trader goes to the end,
Speaker 1: they steal all the money?
Speaker 3: Yes?
Speaker 1: Okay, I didn't know. If I knew that part of it,
Speaker 1: I had to learn the game while I was there
Speaker 1: because I didn't really even watch it was I wasn't
Speaker 1: a trader's person.
Speaker 2: Okay, So you walked into this very complicated game blind blind.
Speaker 2: You know what, I should have known that in the
Speaker 2: first episode. I don't want to ruin it for people.
Speaker 2: But the choice that you and Derinda made, I was like.
Speaker 5: No, no, no, why no, don't do it? And that
Speaker 5: choice had consequences, which, again, I'm not going to ruin.
Speaker 1: It for people, and I would do it again.
Speaker 2: Okay, what would make you do it again just because
Speaker 2: you're giving a people person like.
Speaker 1: Well, because my friends Robin and i am got off
Speaker 1: the raft and I would how can I make them
Speaker 1: do without me following suit?
Speaker 5: So do you want to win the game?
Speaker 4: Did?
Speaker 1: I want to? Because that's why I want to do
Speaker 1: it right. It's not all about always way it's doing
Speaker 1: the right thing, and the housewives did the right thing.
Speaker 5: So would you have been stressed out?
Speaker 2: And this is going to be a spoiler alert by
Speaker 2: the way, would you have been stressed out if you
Speaker 2: had been immediately tapped in to be a trader?
Speaker 1: Oh my god?
Speaker 2: Yeah, because so many people were praying for it. Please
Speaker 2: let me be a trader.
Speaker 5: I think I would.
Speaker 1: I was a little offended when I didn't I didn't
Speaker 1: want it, and then when he didn't pick me, I
Speaker 1: was mad.
Speaker 5: Sorry of my life?
Speaker 1: Right, I was offended.
Speaker 2: Well, just I mean, when you're a trader, there's this
Speaker 2: level of safety and comfort because you kind of have,
Speaker 2: you know, the oversight of everything. When you're not, I
Speaker 2: feel like I would just be a scared mouse the
Speaker 2: entire time, waiting to get prayed upon.
Speaker 1: I would rather that than be a liar and have
Speaker 1: to be even though it's a game. I would rather
Speaker 1: that then be deceitful to people I've gotten close to.
Speaker 2: So you're a person that even playing a game, whether
Speaker 2: it's a game or not, you're not going to compromise
Speaker 2: your morals. You're not gonna say, well, all rules are
Speaker 2: off because this.
Speaker 5: Is a game. Yeah, that's gonna these games really tough
Speaker 5: for you.
Speaker 1: Well, maybe I'm just not a gamer.
Speaker 5: Would you do it again?
Speaker 1: I cried yes when I had to leave that place.
Speaker 1: I loved it so much. I loved Scotland. I loved
Speaker 1: the game, I loved the people. I loved the seclusion.
Speaker 1: They take your phone when you get there and you
Speaker 1: cannot call home. You get a supervised phone call once
Speaker 1: a week for thirty minutes, and it's a FaceTime so
Speaker 1: that you cannot talk about the game. And I had
Speaker 1: thirty minutes to speak to my whole family, so I
Speaker 1: gave them like five minutes each, My Paul, my kids,
Speaker 1: you know, my mother, my father, my brother, and that
Speaker 1: was it. You get four stations on the TV and
Speaker 1: you don't have a remote because Kate Trustine found a
Speaker 1: way to communicate with her friends through YouTube, so they
Speaker 1: took the remote off.
Speaker 3: Everyone people do that. Someone did that on Love Island.
Speaker 1: They wouldn't have had to worry about me doing that
Speaker 1: because I could not. Yeah, I don't even know how
Speaker 1: to work the remote on a good day. So like
Speaker 1: there was no days off. There was one day off
Speaker 1: of filming and you weren't allowed to leave your room
Speaker 1: if you wanted something, you put a yellow piece of
Speaker 1: paper in a twenty four hour bodyguard would come and say,
Speaker 1: what do you want? Really, and I'd be like, I
Speaker 1: need to get out of this room. I need to
Speaker 1: go for a walk.
Speaker 5: So can you bring books? Can you bring entertainment of
Speaker 5: any sort?
Speaker 1: Just a book if you wanted. I started to journal, prayed,
Speaker 1: and did things that I haven't done in so long.
Speaker 1: I did not miss my phone for one second.
Speaker 5: Did it change your phone habits when you came home?
Speaker 1: Or did you get right for three seconds? I was like,
Speaker 1: the reason I cried, I'm not a crier, and Diamond
Speaker 1: can tell you when have you ever seen me cry?
Speaker 1: In eight years on Housewives? When my dog died? That's it?
Speaker 4: Probably, Yeah, there's only even when you dealt with breakups,
Speaker 4: you didn't.
Speaker 3: You were crying, which was very weird. Dolores, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I don't know. My kids have never seen me cry,
Speaker 1: and ask them. I don't think they've ever seen me cry,
Speaker 1: and that's a weird. I don't realize how weird that
Speaker 1: is until I talk to other people. So I got
Speaker 1: emotional when I left there because I loved the seclusion
Speaker 1: of it. When I was alone.
Speaker 2: So when you're secluded and you just have a book
Speaker 2: and yourself, and if you want to go for a walk,
Speaker 2: you have to tell another person. Are you at any time?
Speaker 2: You can't mingle with the other cast members.
Speaker 1: No, if you're not filming, you can non mingle. You
Speaker 1: cannot talk to the other cast members. If cameras are
Speaker 1: not up about the game at all, they're constantly on
Speaker 1: top of you. There is no leaks. That is a
Speaker 1: tight ship they run over there in the UK.
Speaker 5: That is wild. How long was filming? Oh, you were.
Speaker 2: To go let's let's rephrase this. I didn't even think
Speaker 2: about that. If you were to go from start to
Speaker 2: finish of the show, how long is that filming?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 1: I don't know. Okay, Actually, okay, I never thought about that.
Speaker 2: Okay, because I know sometimes you know, they have shows
Speaker 2: that look like they're there for three and four months
Speaker 2: and you find out they were there for three and
Speaker 2: a half.
Speaker 1: Weeks, and I think that's still a long time.
Speaker 5: That's a very long time.
Speaker 2: I couldn't do it with no access to other people
Speaker 2: and just being completely isolated.
Speaker 1: And it doesn't get dark until three o'clock in the
Speaker 1: morning there, really, so you don't have a watch or o'clock.
Speaker 1: You never know what time it is.
Speaker 4: So that explains why Sanda bal was like looking around
Speaker 4: just looking like a weird the entire and that's.
Speaker 1: Why I'm I don't really know why.
Speaker 2: I were there people on the show coming into it
Speaker 2: that you thought this person is going to be something else,
Speaker 2: and they were And in the opposite way, you had
Speaker 2: a preconceived notion and they were amazing.
Speaker 1: You don't know who's going on.
Speaker 5: Were there people you didn't know.
Speaker 1: Sold the gamers. I didn't know Carolyn and Tony and
Speaker 1: Bust and Rob, and I didn't know them.
Speaker 5: I didn't know some of them either. I knew the
Speaker 5: people from the challenges if you.
Speaker 1: Watched the Challenge, if you watch Big Brother, these are
Speaker 1: all legends, so a lot of people knew them. I
Speaker 1: didn't know them.
Speaker 2: I think what's fascinating about it, though, is the gamers
Speaker 2: obviously have this you know, they know each other, they
Speaker 2: know of each other. They are there to play a
Speaker 2: game and obviously a lot more cutthroat, But it seemed
Speaker 2: as though people were much more in the very beginning
Speaker 2: terrified of the housewives. They were like, oh Jesus, the
Speaker 2: housewives are here, we got to.
Speaker 1: That was so stupid because they don't even know how
Speaker 1: to play the game, including myself. They wasted murders on
Speaker 1: Chanelle Ian true, Robin was wrong every time. Why are
Speaker 1: murdering Robin?
Speaker 5: I laughed out loud, so hard.
Speaker 2: And this is in the first episode, so yes, it's
Speaker 2: gonna ruin something, but not too much. When she's like,
Speaker 2: I am great reading people. He is absolutely not a trader,
Speaker 2: I said, the fuck is this woman talking about?
Speaker 5: This is gonna come back to bite her right.
Speaker 1: Now, And she was so upset because she was like, damn,
Speaker 1: how did I not see that?
Speaker 5: Did you leave with any really good friendships outside of
Speaker 5: the housewives?
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Bob Harper is the love of my life.
Speaker 1: He's amazing.
Speaker 2: I want to think everybody is actually really friendly with
Speaker 2: each other and they don't hate each other.
Speaker 5: They are that's good.
Speaker 1: Well, no, the Traders are still a little salty.
Speaker 5: Okay, oh okay.
Speaker 2: I can't wait to get to the end of the
Speaker 2: season and then you're gonna come back and we're gonna
Speaker 2: talk about it again. Let's talk about something really cool
Speaker 2: you have going on. You are about to hit the
Speaker 2: high seas with some friends. You said, you've never been
Speaker 2: on a cruise before, but now you're basically hosting a
Speaker 2: cruise with Norwegian Cruise on.
Speaker 5: By the way, who is one of our partners with
Speaker 5: the Big Show.
Speaker 1: Yes, it's on the Norwegian Escape and it's September nineteenth
Speaker 1: to the twenty fourth. It's wives on the waves. So
Speaker 1: it's pretty amazing. And I'm scared shitless of going on
Speaker 1: a cruise, But how could I miss it? With Teresa
Speaker 1: Judas and Shannon Badour, It's gonna be such a blast.
Speaker 1: You see Diamond on that ship.
Speaker 5: I if she can get on it.
Speaker 1: I think she's gonna try to get on Diamond.
Speaker 4: Con it's literally a week after my birthday, so birthday gift.
Speaker 4: But you Teresa and Shannon, that's a party.
Speaker 1: That is gonna be a part. And yeah, and how
Speaker 1: funny is Shannon Badoor gonna be? She can't drive, She
Speaker 1: has trouble driving on there, so she she's funny. She
Speaker 1: can't getandy, like she gets drunk dry, like she literally
Speaker 1: drove into a house. Wasn't her dog in the car.
Speaker 3: Her dog was in the car.
Speaker 5: Archie in the car.
Speaker 1: No, Archie was poor Archie didn't know what the fuck
Speaker 1: was going on. Oh, I'm sorry, can I swear?
Speaker 5: Fine?
Speaker 1: So Archie she just like kept driving like she didn't stop.
Speaker 1: She just went into the man's house.
Speaker 4: Who was the man, Well, she was a neighbor, but
Speaker 4: she was leaving her boyfriend at the time. She was
Speaker 4: leaving his house like upset, pissed off, drunk.
Speaker 1: Oh, no man would ever get me. I'm sorry, I
Speaker 1: don't get at that age, Shannon. Are you still getting
Speaker 1: work that worked up about a man and an issue?
Speaker 3: But that's all? She gets, very emotion all season.
Speaker 4: They showed like a montage of her getting upset and
Speaker 4: running out of places.
Speaker 3: So it's just that's who she is.
Speaker 4: Man.
Speaker 3: I'm like, Shannon, we got not.
Speaker 1: Get off and grow up. Yeah, yeah, girl, you've been
Speaker 1: through enough in your life. You're gonna be still crying
Speaker 1: over a man like that, going into taking your car
Speaker 1: and driving into a house. Get over that enough enough?
Speaker 3: Will Shannon be able to bring Archie her dog?
Speaker 1: I hope. I don't know if you can bring dogs,
Speaker 1: And I don't know, but if Archie comes, I'm babysitting.
Speaker 3: She might try to like smuggle Archie in.
Speaker 1: It's a big lob, right, Archie's a lab.
Speaker 4: Oh, he's actually very cute. I hate dogs. You might,
Speaker 4: you might get upset with me.
Speaker 3: I can't do it. Okay, but Archie is a really
Speaker 3: cute dog.
Speaker 1: You cannot like dogs, but respect them and never hurt them.
Speaker 1: That's still okay.
Speaker 2: Yes, this one is insane. Diamond wants to get a dog. However,
Speaker 2: she wants to never walk the dog.
Speaker 1: I don't walk my dogs because they're not walkable. You
Speaker 1: have a dog that is a little dog.
Speaker 5: You have a Chihuahua. Right, she wants to get a dog.
Speaker 5: You need to walk and not walking. She said she's
Speaker 5: gonna put it on a treadmill, a little walking pad.
Speaker 1: Can you don't have a no, okay, you have a yard.
Speaker 1: Do you have a yard?
Speaker 4: Well, yeah, I have a yard, but there's not a
Speaker 4: lot of space in it, so like, why not just
Speaker 4: you know, we could be cuddle buddies me And.
Speaker 1: Then you get an older dog that sleeps all day.
Speaker 1: Old dogs sleep all day. Get a rescue, Get a
Speaker 1: big dog in the shelter that nobody wants ten eleven
Speaker 1: years old.
Speaker 3: I'm scared of big dogs. I'm scared of big dog.
Speaker 1: Then get a little dog that sleeps all day, and
Speaker 1: you won't have to walk it.
Speaker 3: Thank you, Dolores. Tell her that you could.
Speaker 1: Put it out in the back and your little little
Speaker 1: whatever you have, I don't know. And it's fine, and
Speaker 1: it's out of the shelter and it's just gonna sit
Speaker 1: on your lap and sleep with you and wait to
Speaker 1: be fed. Put a wee wee pad and call it
Speaker 1: a day.
Speaker 5: Thank you. This is okay.
Speaker 2: I agree with what Dolores is saying. What Diamond was
Speaker 2: trying to do was acquire a puppy that was certainly
Speaker 2: of walking size.
Speaker 1: You don't belong to have a puppy.
Speaker 5: Fine, she's I want to get a dog, but I'm
Speaker 5: not walking it.
Speaker 1: No, I'm not gonna do that. Get an old dog
Speaker 1: out of the shelter, give it a nice life.
Speaker 2: Yes, birthday is gonna be lit this year. You're gonna
Speaker 2: get an old dog and a cruise on Norwegian.
Speaker 3: Escape with my favorite Housewives.
Speaker 4: Right.
Speaker 2: Wait, okay, wait, So Dolores, what scares you about cruising
Speaker 2: because you've never done it before?
Speaker 1: You write, I don't mess with the ocean. It's just big,
Speaker 1: bigger than that little ship. Yeah, and I you know,
Speaker 1: mother nature gets mad sometimes, so I don't want to
Speaker 1: get I don't want to be there on a bad day.
Speaker 1: That's all I'm saying. I watched The Titanic when I
Speaker 1: was little, and I watched there was something called The
Speaker 1: Poseidon Adventure.
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, they remade that movie.
Speaker 1: Did they? Well, Okay, these are things that I think
Speaker 1: of a cruise.
Speaker 2: Okay, that's understandable. I don't think you're going to be
Speaker 2: on the seas that are going to do that to you.
Speaker 2: The Atlantic is notoriously calm.
Speaker 1: I didn't know that until you just told me.
Speaker 5: There you go.
Speaker 1: So yeah, So yeah, it's wives on the waves. You
Speaker 1: have to have to have to calm. It's gonna be amazing.
Speaker 1: So what can people expect to see?
Speaker 5: Like to see and do when you're on this cruise.
Speaker 1: We're gonna do shows, We're gonna interact with everybody, meet
Speaker 1: and gret just a good old time.
Speaker 2: Like I said, we're partnered with Norwegian and they're awesome.
Speaker 2: You're gonna love the ship. You're gonna like the restaurants.
Speaker 2: I think it's gonna be really fun.
Speaker 1: Oh I'm all ready for this. It's good to go.
Speaker 4: You won't know, like you won't unless you look over
Speaker 4: at the water and stare at it. You honestly won't know.
Speaker 1: There's so many people go on cruises. I'm just gonna
Speaker 1: tell if you've And also if you're like single, a
Speaker 1: lot of people like are afraid to go away because
Speaker 1: they're like, oh, I don't want to go by myself.
Speaker 1: There's a lot of single people going, So go and
Speaker 1: you'll meet people that like Bravo, and you'll meet people
Speaker 1: at the shows and there'll always be something to do.
Speaker 1: And a lot of times when I see somebody solo
Speaker 1: come to my events, I'll pair them up with somebody
Speaker 1: else I know that showed up alone and they become friends.
Speaker 3: Yeah, what does it take?
Speaker 1: Like if I'm online and somebody comes in there by
Speaker 1: themselves and I'm like, well, who are you with? And
Speaker 1: she's like I can't buy myself, And then I'll be like,
Speaker 1: well so did she? Why don't you guys sit by
Speaker 1: each other? And they're usually happy to have someone and
Speaker 1: meet someone and you know, it's great. So that's what
Speaker 1: I want for this cruise, Like, that's what I want
Speaker 1: to see, like people who typically wouldn't have gone because
Speaker 1: they wouldn't have had someone to go to. You don't
Speaker 1: have to get on a plane, which is great, you
Speaker 1: just go right or some people are flying in, but
Speaker 1: you don't have to get on a plane. Mostly if
Speaker 1: you're from this area, drive to New York, get on,
Speaker 1: get on the cruise, and have a good time.
Speaker 5: This is all of Diamond's Alley, an old dog and
Speaker 5: a cruise.
Speaker 3: I'm excited you can do it.
Speaker 5: Listen.
Speaker 2: I know you had questions that you wanted to ask,
Speaker 2: because our Bravo fan full of questions.
Speaker 3: I'm so excited for this.
Speaker 4: But there's just one big question that I have for you,
Speaker 4: because as you're sitting as I'm watching Traders and I
Speaker 4: see you sitting at the big round table, I'm wondering
Speaker 4: what was more chaotic or what was harder for you
Speaker 4: to deal with? The round table of traders or like
Speaker 4: the Rails Dinner for the finale.
Speaker 1: Of Rails Dinner, really was it?
Speaker 4: Like you're neutral, so you are looking at for people
Speaker 4: who don't know. The Rails Dinner was the season finale
Speaker 4: of the past season of New Jersey. But Dolores got
Speaker 4: everyone together who had been fighting all season long. They
Speaker 4: were at odds. Dolores by herself in the middle, like
Speaker 4: literally three people on this side, three people on the
Speaker 4: other side, and she's just in the middle trying to
Speaker 4: go to everyone's events. I felt really bad for you.
Speaker 4: I was like, I don't know how she's doing this,
Speaker 4: but she tried to get everyone together for a final
Speaker 4: sit down, and I think you know you meant well.
Speaker 1: Well, the fate of the show was in everyone's hands,
Speaker 1: everybody's job. Okay, So was it that important to throw
Speaker 1: away a franchise over the fights that you guys are having.
Speaker 1: You can't make up. All the other housewives do it, Yeah,
Speaker 1: with a lot just as bad stuff going on. So
Speaker 1: at Lake City they made up at their reunion. There
Speaker 1: was going to be no resolution, and we had one
Speaker 1: last chance to do that, And I knew that's why
Speaker 1: I sat there so defeated, because I saw what was
Speaker 1: going on.
Speaker 4: You would want everyone to come in and be nice
Speaker 4: to each other.
Speaker 1: I wanted everyone to be heard. And it was not
Speaker 1: horrible glass broken, glass lunging over the table.
Speaker 5: So what is it that you think is different?
Speaker 2: Because you're right, the other shows have found ways to
Speaker 2: get over things and kind of make it happen.
Speaker 5: What do you think is different about New Jersey.
Speaker 1: I think that the resentment runs very deep, and I
Speaker 1: think that a lot of egos get in the way,
Speaker 1: and I think that nobody wants to take the high
Speaker 1: road at some point. You know, if you really want
Speaker 1: to make up with somebody, if you want to, you
Speaker 1: will eat a mile of shit and say, Okay, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna start over. I'm going to forget everything that happened,
Speaker 1: and I'm really never going to bring it up again,
Speaker 1: really never going to bring it up again. And then
Speaker 1: when you get in a fight, I think that they
Speaker 1: Jersey fights so hard. Jersey we love hard, we fight hard.
Speaker 1: So I think that there was a lot of things
Speaker 1: that you couldn't come back from.
Speaker 6: So that's it.
Speaker 2: Okay case scenario, if they don't bring the show back
Speaker 2: at all, what do you want your next year to
Speaker 2: look like?
Speaker 1: You know, I don't know. I never thought i'd be
Speaker 1: a housewife. I never thought i'd get divorced. I never
Speaker 1: thought i'd be a single mom for twenty five years.
Speaker 1: Like these are just why think about where I'm going
Speaker 1: to be. It's not up to me. Oh, but I'll
Speaker 1: always work. I do have one insecurity, and that is
Speaker 1: where am I going to be when I'm like seventy
Speaker 1: years old? Like, financially, I think we have to really
Speaker 1: plan for our futures. Of course, financially, a lot of us,
Speaker 1: both of you included by things you don't need. Yes,
Speaker 1: I don't know that you're saving the right way, like,
Speaker 1: don't push your money away, like I've thrown so much
Speaker 1: money away over the years. I should have invested it.
Speaker 1: I should have had somebody who's smart like I don't
Speaker 1: come from a father and mother who sat me down
Speaker 1: and said, this is what you have to do with
Speaker 1: your your finances, and do this. My mom's friend is
Speaker 1: seventy years old and homeless, got divorced many many years ago,
Speaker 1: outlived her money. How do you know where you're going
Speaker 1: to be. You don't know. So make sure you have
Speaker 1: that nest egg and forget about it.
Speaker 2: I always say my parents had the best intentions, and
Speaker 2: they would always tell me safe, safe, safe, safe, save.
Speaker 2: That is the most important thing to do. Money doesn't
Speaker 2: grow on trees. As I grew up, I realized it
Speaker 2: kind of does if you plant it, if you invest
Speaker 2: the right way. Right. Saving isn't the only thing to do.
Speaker 2: When you save, you have that amount of money, but
Speaker 2: if you.
Speaker 5: Invest a little bit, you can make it grow.
Speaker 2: And it took me way too long to learn that,
Speaker 2: so I'm doing it now, but I do wish I
Speaker 2: would have started sooner.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I wish I didn't spend so much money
Speaker 1: on senseless shopping for clothes that I sell for a
Speaker 1: dollar or where are you to give away? No, this is
Speaker 1: back before with like I just had tons and tons
Speaker 1: of stuff for what.
Speaker 2: Well, I'm looking forward to seeing more of you because
Speaker 2: you're doing great on the Traders thus far from what
Speaker 2: I've seen, and Diamond's very excited about it obviously. The Housewives,
Speaker 2: You've been wonderful there and I want.
Speaker 5: To see more of the things that you have.
Speaker 1: In the future. All Right, Well, you know, I'm on
Speaker 1: this menopause journey. Guys, you're gonna You're.
Speaker 5: All going to be there at some point.
Speaker 1: You're all going to be there at some point. But
Speaker 1: I'm learning about it now and I'm going to be
Speaker 1: talking about it when I know more about it. But
Speaker 1: there's not enough education, Like my mom didn't talk about it.
Speaker 1: The gen xers still know nothing, but they're kind of
Speaker 1: like the pioneer to saying like it's okay for what
Speaker 1: women are going through because nobody gave a crap about
Speaker 1: this and it affects your life. I'm just hoping that
Speaker 1: like that's my that's kind of my thing right now.
Speaker 2: I think that's so important. And we've talked about this
Speaker 2: before women's health in general because so many studies, even
Speaker 2: weirdly enough period studies were done on men, like what
Speaker 2: women have really been neglected in the medical field.
Speaker 1: Mental one hundred percent.
Speaker 2: It's ingrained in us to keep it to yourself because
Speaker 2: people try to.
Speaker 1: Make it shameful, like you feel shameful, you feel less there,
Speaker 1: and the doctors are like, oh, you'll just get over it.
Speaker 1: Even female doctor to patients like I'm getting anxiety, I'm
Speaker 1: getting hot flashes, i can't sleep. Sex life is zero,
Speaker 1: and I come from we don't talk about that. Okay,
Speaker 1: we don't talk about this, but it's embarrassing. It's not
Speaker 1: sexy to talk about. But it's like a problem, and
Speaker 1: a lot of marriages don't make it through. Women get depressed.
Speaker 1: I've had young girls come up to me and say,
Speaker 1: I heard you talking about menophos. Help my mom, like please,
Speaker 1: my mom is suffering, and there is nothing for people.
Speaker 1: Not everybody's eligible for hormones, not everybody wants to take hormones,
Speaker 1: so what can I what can I find for women
Speaker 1: that can't use that. I went without them for over
Speaker 1: a year and a half and I suffered, so I
Speaker 1: know the symptoms, and I finally gave into taking them.
Speaker 1: So I know. But if you had breast cancer or
Speaker 1: if you had cancer, you can't say hormones, you're not
Speaker 1: eligible to take them. Yeah, it's embarrassing. Everything drives up
Speaker 1: like it's embarrassing. It's embarrassing, and it's hurtful, and it's
Speaker 1: mentally draining, and it's just it's just sucks. It sucks.
Speaker 5: What's been the hardest part for me?
Speaker 1: I mean the hot flashes, the lack of sleep, if
Speaker 1: it wasn't for ozembic, the weight gain that I had
Speaker 1: gained before I went on ozembic. You know, Okay, it
Speaker 1: was just a lot. So I really want to help
Speaker 1: find something for women, for somebody needs relief. There needs
Speaker 1: to be a relief for this. It is not okay
Speaker 1: because you're all it's gonna affect everybody. Of course, it
Speaker 1: doesn't discriminate.
Speaker 2: Unless you die, which hopefully, hopefully, yeah, reached this point.
Speaker 1: But then you say, like, thank God, like age is
Speaker 1: a gift because tomorrow is in promise to anyone. But
Speaker 1: there's a quality of life too. They don't even learn
Speaker 1: about medical menopause and medical school. There is now just
Speaker 1: in the past few months, been a credited documentary as
Speaker 1: a nurse that if you watch it you get like
Speaker 1: credits towards your thing. That's it.
Speaker 2: Have you found anything specifically, I don't need name brands
Speaker 2: or anything like that, but.
Speaker 1: Have you found replacements?
Speaker 5: Okay?
Speaker 1: So I take the patch and at night I take progesterone.
Speaker 1: It's made a huge difference. But I also feel like
Speaker 1: bad for the women, Like I feel a little bit
Speaker 1: guilty that I can and not everybody can and they're
Speaker 1: not getting relief.
Speaker 2: And I am Yeah, you know now that you're even
Speaker 2: saying this, I'm thinking about my own mom, who has
Speaker 2: never said a word about menopause. She's not gonna feeling
Speaker 2: badly nothing. And as much as you want to be, like, man,
Speaker 2: she's a g she just powers through it. I wish
Speaker 2: she would talk about I'm gonna call her when I
Speaker 2: get out of here and just see how she's doing.
Speaker 1: You should, because you're gonna need to know for your
Speaker 1: own self. Yeah, like I said, it doesn't discriminate, and
Speaker 1: it's really, it's like kind of sad, you know, like
Speaker 1: why should we have to be ashamed to talk about
Speaker 1: it because we're older, because it's not so sexy.
Speaker 3: Please?
Speaker 2: Older women are my favorite group of human beings because
Speaker 2: those are the people who have lived and have advice
Speaker 2: and it's all this things that I'm gonna find out
Speaker 2: at one point in my life whether I want to
Speaker 2: or not. People who are older than me, they know it,
Speaker 2: I know more than women younger than me, and I
Speaker 2: wish that we would just have a better open line
Speaker 2: of communication and not fight against each other as far
Speaker 2: as age goes, which I say to Diamond all the time.
Speaker 2: I'm like, this whole battle of the generations is crazy
Speaker 2: because all of us should be together, fighting together for
Speaker 2: more awareness, health, benefits everything for us. We shouldn't be
Speaker 2: fighting each other. We should be fighting together.
Speaker 1: No, and I think about that all the time. But
Speaker 1: one of the most humbling and most heart felt things
Speaker 1: that I get from being on the show is your
Speaker 1: age girls who come to me for anything like that
Speaker 1: means the world to me because I didn't want to
Speaker 1: have to go through all this shit I went through
Speaker 1: in my life for to be in vain and not
Speaker 1: be able to try to help another girl as she's
Speaker 1: going through it, or be able to tell her. So
Speaker 1: when someone trusts me enough to come to me and say,
Speaker 1: oh my husband just left me, Oh my boyfriend cheated
Speaker 1: on me, I mean, like, I know what you're going through.
Speaker 1: I've been there, been there, so you know whatever it is,
Speaker 1: raising kids, not having kids, getting through life, not feeling
Speaker 1: great about yourself. I just want to be able to
Speaker 1: at least talk to younger girls, because what else can
Speaker 1: I give them. I'm not going to help you with
Speaker 1: your mouth homework, but I could talk to you about life.
Speaker 2: First of all, you're reaching a bunch of them right now,
Speaker 2: which is amazing. You do it with your show anyway,
Speaker 2: so it seems like you're kind of fulfilling your dream
Speaker 2: of what you want to be able to do, and
Speaker 2: that's incredible and I appreciate even hearing anything.
Speaker 5: That you have to say about this. So thanks, thank
Speaker 5: you for being here now.
Speaker 1: I'm happy to be here. And I find like, don't
Speaker 1: you think that sometimes you can't have all young housewives
Speaker 1: on a show.
Speaker 3: No, we're learning that with Rony with the.
Speaker 1: Re need you need, you need.
Speaker 2: I don't want all anything of anything I don't want
Speaker 2: all young people doing anything anywhere, old people doing anything anywhere.
Speaker 5: I enjoy collaboration, and I think.
Speaker 2: That's where you learn the most and you gain the most,
Speaker 2: because you're gonna have, like I said, the older generation
Speaker 2: who can look at your plan and say, I can
Speaker 2: tell you right now why that's not gonna work because
Speaker 2: we tried that and it didn't work out. And then
Speaker 2: you can have a younger generation saying, okay, so it
Speaker 2: didn't work out that way.
Speaker 5: Maybe this is something new that you don't know about. Collaboration.
Speaker 2: People stop fighting each other. Yeah, if you have you
Speaker 2: seen the substance.
Speaker 1: No, I heard about it.
Speaker 4: Watch it.
Speaker 1: Why it's about what.
Speaker 5: We're talking about right now is about all of this,
Speaker 5: and it's incredible done.
Speaker 1: My plastic surgeon told me about it. Did you see
Speaker 1: my billboard on by the Holland Tunnel?
Speaker 5: No?
Speaker 1: Yeah, on the way into Yeah it was. It was
Speaker 1: at the Lincoln Now it's at the My plastic surgeon
Speaker 1: who did my facelift posted me. Because it's a natural
Speaker 1: looking face lift. I don't let me tell you.
Speaker 2: I've been looking at him, like, God, she's gorgeous, and
Speaker 2: it doesn't look like she's.
Speaker 1: Because doctor mar caralac in Wall Township. Tell your moms.
Speaker 1: You know you guys, don't if you want uh, the
Speaker 1: most wonderful doctor in the world. Yeah, so that's my billboard.
Speaker 1: He did it like because as a housewife, I was
Speaker 1: honest enough to tell people about getting my facelifted. Now
Speaker 1: he has so many people going to him as he should.
Speaker 1: He's amazing. I don't even have scars on my face.
Speaker 1: They're in my ear.
Speaker 5: You look great.
Speaker 3: Oh holy crap, Well you look good.
Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you. So I could lie. You could if
Speaker 1: I wanted to lie, I could lie reasally.
Speaker 4: That's the good thing. That's why I love Dolores. She's authentic.
Speaker 4: You talk about everything. There's nothing. Well, there may be
Speaker 4: things that are off limits, but we wouldn't know because
Speaker 4: you tell so much.
Speaker 5: And genuinely, which is great. He said.
Speaker 2: One of my biggest pet peeves is when people act
Speaker 2: like they just started working out and eating healthy and
Speaker 2: they lost the way. I love that you're admitting that
Speaker 2: you took ozumpic to help you out. I love that
Speaker 2: you admit that you actually it was Mon Jarrow, Yeah Jorrow, Okay,
Speaker 2: to help you out.
Speaker 1: Yeah, help me thirty pounds that's incredible.
Speaker 5: You know how many people will never admit to it.
Speaker 1: I've got in trouble for that. What happens?
Speaker 3: Oh God, watched it live girl, my jaw drop. But
Speaker 3: I loved it for you because.
Speaker 5: Why were they mad?
Speaker 2: Were you one of the first adopters? And now everybody's
Speaker 2: doing it, so it's more acceptable.
Speaker 1: Everybody was doing it, they just were in so if
Speaker 1: somebody got skinny, they were doing it.
Speaker 5: I yes, I have seen it. I've seen it with
Speaker 5: my own two eyes. Are you still doing it now?
Speaker 1: One hundred?
Speaker 5: Okay, we're learning how to age, and we're learning that
Speaker 5: all these things are okay to talk about and to.
Speaker 1: Do well on your doctor's care, of course, I have
Speaker 1: an amazing doctor that I go to, All Health Medical and.
Speaker 2: Hackensack Hackensack University Hospital. Yes, don't get me started. I
Speaker 2: love them so much. But watch the Substance.
Speaker 5: I think you would really like it. Okay, it's long,
Speaker 5: it's disgusting, it's a fascinating movie. It's really really good.
Speaker 5: I loved it.
Speaker 2: I thought it held so much symbolism for so many
Speaker 2: different things. The choices that you make as a young person,
Speaker 2: how it affects you when you're older.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that sounds great.
Speaker 5: It's incredible. Go watch it.
Speaker 6: Okay, okay, Diamond, what did you think?
Speaker 3: Loved it?
Speaker 4: I realized why I love her so much. It may
Speaker 4: not be because she's so chill. I think she's super authentic.
Speaker 4: And especially in New Jersey, the women aren't like or
Speaker 4: on the show Real Housewives in New Jersey. I'm not
Speaker 4: coming for the entire state.
Speaker 5: The entire state of New Jersey is inauthentic.
Speaker 4: But she's so authentic, like she goes through so much
Speaker 4: on the show, and just the way that she deals
Speaker 4: with things like we don't we didn't talk about this,
Speaker 4: but she was living with her ex husband for a
Speaker 4: really long time, like they'd gotten a divorce. He left
Speaker 4: her and then he decided to come back, but not
Speaker 4: like like twenty years later, not like trying to get
Speaker 4: back with her. They just became really good friends and
Speaker 4: he needed to move into her house. Yes, she let
Speaker 4: him move in. And it's like this big thing that
Speaker 4: happens where so many people online were like how could you,
Speaker 4: Like he left you, why would you let him come
Speaker 4: back in? He like, you know, you were a single
Speaker 4: mom with your kids, Like why would you let him
Speaker 4: come back in, and she was.
Speaker 3: Very like transparent and authentic about it.
Speaker 4: Like she made it very clear that like she didn't
Speaker 4: think anything would happen between them, but she wasn't really
Speaker 4: cutting herself off to it. She had a boyfriend at
Speaker 4: the time, and she was like, he doesn't care about
Speaker 4: the fact that I lived with my ex because like
Speaker 4: we're just living life.
Speaker 3: Like I really like her.
Speaker 1: She doesn't play up things. I love it.
Speaker 3: Do you know what?
Speaker 5: My favorite part of the interview was what you jumping in?
Speaker 1: Oh.
Speaker 2: I love when you're passionate about something and you have
Speaker 2: real questions. Because I don't know a lot about the Housewives.
Speaker 2: We talked about this before. I'm fascinated by them and
Speaker 2: at some point I will watch the show. Please Traders,
Speaker 2: I'm all in, I'm down. I love the Traders, but
Speaker 2: I'm not all about the Housewives. So it really helps
Speaker 2: when you are there, and I would like more of that.
Speaker 2: Oh wow, this is my proposal, Diamond. Yes, will you
Speaker 2: jump in on more interviews?
Speaker 4: Yes?
Speaker 5: Oh my god, We're gonna skip off into the sunset together.
Speaker 3: I'm going to regret saying yes quickly, but.
Speaker 5: Yes, just wait, all right?
Speaker 2: If people want to find you on Instagram and X
Speaker 2: I mean we're still calling it Twitter, Instagram and Twitter
Speaker 2: where they gonna find.
Speaker 4: You at diamond Sincere, both in an underscore on that
Speaker 4: we've been through this, you know.
Speaker 2: I know, but I just see it might be one
Speaker 2: new listener, this one episode.
Speaker 3: Right on Twitter, it's at Diamonds Sincere with an underscore.
Speaker 3: It pisses me off, but yes.
Speaker 2: At the end, the underscores at the end. And on
Speaker 2: Instagram it's at Diamonds Sincere. I'm on baby hot Sauce anywhere.
Speaker 2: And uh, that's about it, So we'll see you next time.
Speaker 4: Oh.
Speaker 2: As always, like, review, subscribe, follow, we appreciate it, and
Speaker 2: say bye Diamond Bye.