WEBVTT - What’s Going On With the Real Housewives of New Jersey? 0:00:04.400 --> 0:00:04.840 What's of it? 0:00:04.920 --> 0:00:07.360 Sauce on the side, I am Gandhi and I'm in 0:00:07.400 --> 0:00:11.040 here with my produce of diamond Hi, who is putting 0:00:11.039 --> 0:00:13.040 on a very pleasant voice. And I don't understand it. 0:00:13.039 --> 0:00:14.800 But that's okay. What is that? 0:00:15.200 --> 0:00:16.400 I don't know, it just happens. 0:00:16.560 --> 0:00:19.040 I'm like, Hi, I want to be calm, so I'm 0:00:19.079 --> 0:00:20.240 trying to give you calm energy. 0:00:20.400 --> 0:00:22.040 Wait, why wouldn't you give me calm energy? Are you 0:00:22.079 --> 0:00:25.800 stressed out? I'm just a ball of chaos today? 0:00:26.520 --> 0:00:27.520 Sweek in general? 0:00:27.560 --> 0:00:28.120 Oh this week? 0:00:28.200 --> 0:00:31.440 Well, sleep, I think I'm trying to figure out this 0:00:31.480 --> 0:00:35.640 new sleep schedule with having to come in earlier because 0:00:35.680 --> 0:00:38.600 of congestion pricing in the double that is Kathy Hopel 0:00:39.680 --> 0:00:42.320 or as my grandfather calls her, Kathy Hochel Hochel. 0:00:42.440 --> 0:00:44.560 Yeah, she gets hochel a lot. It makes me laugh. 0:00:44.800 --> 0:00:46.800 But yeah, and today I realize I've been waking up 0:00:46.840 --> 0:00:49.479 ten minutes earlier than I'm supposed to or then I 0:00:49.520 --> 0:00:51.040 want to in my head stuff like that. 0:00:51.760 --> 0:00:54.320 So my wake up, my morning is chaos. When I 0:00:54.320 --> 0:00:56.480 get up in the morning, it's like hit the ground running. 0:00:57.000 --> 0:01:01.160 My alarm is a crazy sound. Really yeah, hold on, okay, 0:01:01.320 --> 0:01:03.320 I'm gonna pull up what this This is the sound 0:01:03.320 --> 0:01:04.080 that I wake up to. 0:01:04.200 --> 0:01:13.880 In the morning, and it's kind of birds her. 0:01:14.600 --> 0:01:16.280 Maybe a little bit of a video game. 0:01:16.440 --> 0:01:17.720 E gives me Finding Nemo. 0:01:18.680 --> 0:01:20.600 It really does mean Dory has dementia. 0:01:21.520 --> 0:01:23.720 Under why that was so funny? People were dming me 0:01:23.760 --> 0:01:26.120 about that. It's like, no, guys, I really like, is 0:01:26.160 --> 0:01:27.040 that not the case? 0:01:27.120 --> 0:01:30.959 That's great, right, But it's the case, right, Dory has dementia. 0:01:31.120 --> 0:01:31.360 Yeah. 0:01:31.600 --> 0:01:34.160 No, she sort of has a problem with her short 0:01:34.240 --> 0:01:35.720 term memory, but she fixes it. 0:01:36.160 --> 0:01:37.080 You can't fix dementia. 0:01:37.840 --> 0:01:39.959 That's forever base. I do not remember her fixing it. 0:01:40.080 --> 0:01:42.440 Yeah, she kind of starts to remember things forward the end, 0:01:42.760 --> 0:01:45.080 go for do yeah, or maybe I have dementia, And 0:01:45.080 --> 0:01:46.960 that's what I just think happened. I didn't like Finding 0:01:46.959 --> 0:01:48.360 Dory as much as I like Finding Nemo. 0:01:48.480 --> 0:01:50.080 Didn't even give it a chance because I'm like, why 0:01:50.080 --> 0:01:52.200 would I watch a movie about someone who doesn't remember anything? 0:01:52.240 --> 0:01:52.880 Oh my god. 0:01:52.960 --> 0:01:54.960 Oh there's a movie called Memento. You'd probably hate then, 0:01:55.280 --> 0:01:58.920 but it also traces a crime and it shows you 0:01:59.000 --> 0:02:01.520 how he knows he has short term memory loss, so 0:02:01.520 --> 0:02:02.400 how he deals with it. 0:02:02.480 --> 0:02:03.480 No, No, it's also. 0:02:03.360 --> 0:02:04.680 In reverse so it's very weird. 0:02:05.080 --> 0:02:08.440 Do you remember the movie Premonition, Sandra Bullock? 0:02:09.160 --> 0:02:09.960 No, I don't think so. 0:02:10.160 --> 0:02:13.880 Well, it drove me crazy, like she knew what was happening. 0:02:13.919 --> 0:02:16.600 She had a premonition about something, and that's where I 0:02:16.639 --> 0:02:20.960 learned the word from. But yeah, and then she like 0:02:21.360 --> 0:02:24.880 spent Basically, her husband dies in her premonition, and so 0:02:24.960 --> 0:02:28.720 she spends however many days she thinks she has trying 0:02:28.760 --> 0:02:31.960 to number one, fix their relationship so that he's not 0:02:32.480 --> 0:02:34.680 wherever he was when it happened. And it was just 0:02:34.720 --> 0:02:35.600 a lot, And I'm. 0:02:35.440 --> 0:02:38.320 Like, why would you want to know what's happening, what's 0:02:38.320 --> 0:02:39.640 going to happen? Why would I want to know? 0:02:40.240 --> 0:02:41.280 I always think about that. 0:02:41.360 --> 0:02:42.919 So there was a movie I was watching on the plane, 0:02:43.080 --> 0:02:45.959 so we just came back from a trip, and it's 0:02:45.960 --> 0:02:46.840 called My Old Ass. 0:02:47.000 --> 0:02:48.680 Have you seen previous for it? 0:02:48.080 --> 0:02:48.160 Now? 0:02:48.680 --> 0:02:53.079 It's Aubrey Plaza and some other girl that I don't know, 0:02:54.160 --> 0:02:57.760 But basically, this one girl trips in the woods, like 0:02:57.760 --> 0:02:59.000 she's tripping on mushrooms in the woods. 0:02:59.000 --> 0:03:00.080 She's eighteen years old, and. 0:03:00.040 --> 0:03:02.320 All of a sudden she looks and she sees the 0:03:02.360 --> 0:03:04.640 thirty nine year old version of herself. Sitting next to her, 0:03:04.680 --> 0:03:06.080 and they get to know each other and they're talking, 0:03:06.120 --> 0:03:07.720 and the one piece of advice that the thirty nine 0:03:07.760 --> 0:03:09.720 year old gives her is, when you meet a boy 0:03:09.760 --> 0:03:13.720 named Chad, do not interact with him, don't talk to him, 0:03:13.840 --> 0:03:14.640 don't do anything. 0:03:14.840 --> 0:03:17.680 Run screaming. And I was like, Chad, that's my boyfriend 0:03:17.680 --> 0:03:19.959 who passed away. I like that name. I know a 0:03:19.960 --> 0:03:21.280 lot of people make fun of that name, but I 0:03:21.360 --> 0:03:23.080 like it. By the way, he had a two d's 0:03:23.280 --> 0:03:26.000 in his name. Oh wow, so it doesn't count. He's 0:03:26.040 --> 0:03:27.600 not the crazy white boy. And also he was very 0:03:27.600 --> 0:03:31.720 not white AnyWho. So you find out as the movie 0:03:31.800 --> 0:03:32.040 goes on. 0:03:32.120 --> 0:03:33.959 And actually stopped watching it as soon as I saw 0:03:34.000 --> 0:03:35.680 this because she meets the boy named Chad and she 0:03:35.720 --> 0:03:37.640 falls in love with him and they're having a great time, and. 0:03:37.600 --> 0:03:38.560 He's just such a doll. 0:03:38.640 --> 0:03:39.200 He's babe. 0:03:39.240 --> 0:03:41.440 She loves him, and she runs into her thirty nine 0:03:41.480 --> 0:03:42.840 year old self and she's like, why would you tell 0:03:42.880 --> 0:03:43.720 me to stay away from him? 0:03:43.720 --> 0:03:44.760 I can't figure out what's wrong. 0:03:44.840 --> 0:03:48.320 He's great, and thirty nine year old her says, he dies. 0:03:48.440 --> 0:03:51.000 That's what happens. He dies, And I stopped the movie 0:03:51.120 --> 0:03:53.480 right there. Because it gave me goosebumps and it made 0:03:53.520 --> 0:03:55.120 me very terry, and it's making me terry right now. 0:03:55.120 --> 0:03:57.560 And then but I was like, damn, man, and I 0:03:57.560 --> 0:03:58.680 don't know how the movie ends. 0:03:58.800 --> 0:04:01.400 So yeah, oh, now I want to go watch it 0:04:01.440 --> 0:04:02.960 because I kind of want to see what happens. 0:04:03.400 --> 0:04:04.240 Okay, go watch it. 0:04:04.360 --> 0:04:04.720 Let me know. 0:04:04.880 --> 0:04:07.760 I'll start where you stop tell. 0:04:07.520 --> 0:04:09.280 Me about it. That's actually that's got to be somewhere 0:04:09.360 --> 0:04:11.040 closer to the end. And by the way, I should 0:04:11.040 --> 0:04:12.520 have said this before spoiler alert. 0:04:12.720 --> 0:04:13.560 Oops. 0:04:14.520 --> 0:04:19.120 Anyway, how are you, Diamond Good Good just feeling chaotic? 0:04:19.520 --> 0:04:19.760 Yeah? 0:04:19.880 --> 0:04:21.320 Are you excited about the guests that we're about to 0:04:21.320 --> 0:04:21.520 have in? 0:04:21.800 --> 0:04:22.760 Oh my god? 0:04:22.880 --> 0:04:26.880 Yes, speaking of chaos, right, because she lives there's a 0:04:27.000 --> 0:04:30.120 level of chaos all around her, and you see this 0:04:30.320 --> 0:04:34.719 like she keeps it very chill. She's very chill. I 0:04:34.760 --> 0:04:35.920 don't know how she does it. 0:04:36.400 --> 0:04:38.400 So with her, I think we should bring her in 0:04:38.520 --> 0:04:43.920 because Diamond is talking about Dolores Catanya from the Real Housewives. 0:04:43.360 --> 0:04:44.040 Of New Jersey. 0:04:44.120 --> 0:04:44.760 Here she is. 0:04:53.400 --> 0:04:53.799 Hi. 0:04:54.320 --> 0:04:56.400 You may know her from the Real Housewives of New 0:04:56.480 --> 0:05:00.920 Jersey or Traders season three. I don't even know where 0:05:00.960 --> 0:05:04.000 to start with you because You're a wealth among stuff 0:05:04.040 --> 0:05:05.800 to talk about. So I think the first thing on 0:05:05.839 --> 0:05:07.560 everybody's mind, we'll get to it. We'll get out of 0:05:07.600 --> 0:05:10.279 the way. Real Housewives of New Jersey. We know there's 0:05:10.320 --> 0:05:12.120 been drama. Things are on hold. 0:05:12.400 --> 0:05:14.320 What does the future look like for you guys? 0:05:14.680 --> 0:05:18.200 Well, we don't know. We know as much as you do. 0:05:18.520 --> 0:05:22.479 And I know the last time Andy was asked, he 0:05:22.560 --> 0:05:24.839 got like a little bit fed up with being asked 0:05:24.839 --> 0:05:28.520 and he said, don't ask me answers the same. Well, 0:05:28.720 --> 0:05:32.040 won't you know twenty twenty five is not going to happen? 0:05:32.640 --> 0:05:35.480 God willing, they call us all back to work. We 0:05:35.520 --> 0:05:38.240 show up and you have the Housewives of New Jersey back. 0:05:38.560 --> 0:05:42.680 How it can come back from no resolution the last 0:05:42.680 --> 0:05:46.440 time we were together, I don't know. But hopefully it can. 0:05:46.320 --> 0:05:49.840 Happen in a dream world. What would you like to happen. 0:05:50.000 --> 0:05:52.960 In a dream world? I'd like to start over. Okay, 0:05:53.000 --> 0:05:55.000 for everyone on the cast, I think we have an 0:05:55.040 --> 0:05:58.000 amazing cast. They may not get along, but they all 0:05:58.040 --> 0:06:02.159 share the same heart. I've seen them very very good, 0:06:02.440 --> 0:06:07.040 charitable to people, and maybe not to each other, but 0:06:07.120 --> 0:06:10.720 I think they're good people underneath it all. So I 0:06:10.760 --> 0:06:13.440 don't mind working with it. I always said on that couch, 0:06:13.480 --> 0:06:15.200 I wouldn't want to share it with anybody else. 0:06:15.480 --> 0:06:17.039 I hope that works out for you guys, because you 0:06:17.080 --> 0:06:19.400 all have been together for how long at this point. 0:06:19.839 --> 0:06:23.760 Well, we're friends as a whole, like I'm friends with 0:06:23.880 --> 0:06:27.080 Teresa for many, many years. It's lifetime, a lifetime and 0:06:27.760 --> 0:06:30.960 the show's around fourteen years now. You laugh together, you 0:06:31.040 --> 0:06:33.840 cry together. I mean, if you all remember our trip 0:06:33.880 --> 0:06:38.120 in Ireland, that was a beautiful trip, and that was 0:06:38.160 --> 0:06:38.960 a great trip. 0:06:39.040 --> 0:06:39.560 I loved it. 0:06:39.600 --> 0:06:41.599 There was a lot of crying. There was fighting, but 0:06:41.680 --> 0:06:44.360 there was it wasn't so dirty. 0:06:44.600 --> 0:06:47.719 Yeah, do you get exhausted from the drama, the back 0:06:47.720 --> 0:06:49.680 and forth all the time. I mean, I know you're 0:06:49.760 --> 0:06:53.120 notoriously neutral about things, but it seems like it would 0:06:53.160 --> 0:06:56.000 still just be like, oh my god, enough people. 0:06:56.080 --> 0:06:56.960 How do you do it? 0:06:57.400 --> 0:07:02.520 Yeah? Well, listen, life is drama. Life unfolds, but there's 0:07:02.640 --> 0:07:06.400 always drama in workplaces. Life is drama. You just have 0:07:06.440 --> 0:07:08.400 to know how to handle it, and you have to 0:07:08.400 --> 0:07:10.480 have like you have to be able to cope with things. 0:07:10.560 --> 0:07:15.760 I always stay grounded because I've always worked with shelters, animals, 0:07:16.440 --> 0:07:19.240 homeless women and children, like, and I grew up not 0:07:19.360 --> 0:07:22.080 getting my way, so I'm okay when things don't go 0:07:22.200 --> 0:07:22.560 my way. 0:07:22.680 --> 0:07:24.920 I hear great things about you and I read think 0:07:25.040 --> 0:07:27.560 things about you, which I think for the housewives is 0:07:27.640 --> 0:07:30.000 kind of fascinating to see one person in here that 0:07:30.040 --> 0:07:31.600 just gets a lot of love from everybody. 0:07:31.760 --> 0:07:33.080 Good for you, Thank you. 0:07:33.160 --> 0:07:35.520 I've also read and heard that you are the most 0:07:35.560 --> 0:07:37.440 relatable in the cast. 0:07:37.920 --> 0:07:38.800 Do you agree with that. 0:07:39.280 --> 0:07:42.400 I wouldn't say the most because I wouldn't talk like 0:07:42.440 --> 0:07:44.880 that about the other people that I'm friends with. But 0:07:45.120 --> 0:07:48.120 that's that's why people like, I'm not gonna do that yet. 0:07:48.280 --> 0:07:51.720 I can't. I want to be known as the housewife 0:07:51.720 --> 0:07:55.160 that cared about people, because I do. No one's going anywhere. 0:07:55.280 --> 0:07:58.520 See Thelorus approach her. You can take a picture You're camis. 0:07:58.520 --> 0:08:02.240 Of course amazing. I'm because I wouldn't have what I 0:08:02.320 --> 0:08:04.560 have if it wasn't for the people that watch the show. 0:08:05.520 --> 0:08:08.560 So I've done a lot with my life because I 0:08:08.560 --> 0:08:11.480 have a good job, you know, and I appreciate it. 0:08:11.520 --> 0:08:13.560 But what is my job without the people that let 0:08:13.600 --> 0:08:14.400 me into their home? 0:08:14.600 --> 0:08:14.720 Hey? 0:08:14.800 --> 0:08:16.360 We say that here all the time with the show. 0:08:16.400 --> 0:08:17.800 Whether you love us or hate us. You let us 0:08:17.840 --> 0:08:19.800 into your house, and that's great. We'll take it. 0:08:20.000 --> 0:08:23.040 We're never going to be rude, not on purpose anyway. 0:08:23.240 --> 0:08:24.880 No, But you know what, not everybody has to be 0:08:24.920 --> 0:08:27.320 a martyr, right Like, I don't chastise the women that 0:08:27.360 --> 0:08:29.240 don't do that. You don't want to do that, that's 0:08:29.240 --> 0:08:31.080 on you. But I don't want anybody to have a 0:08:31.160 --> 0:08:33.600 bad experience meeting me. And you know who I heard 0:08:33.600 --> 0:08:36.520 say that one time, Billie Eilish. I heard her say 0:08:36.960 --> 0:08:39.840 I never want anyone to have a bad experience meeting me. 0:08:40.240 --> 0:08:42.600 So on that note, how are you feeling about all 0:08:42.600 --> 0:08:45.160 the Jersey Mike's drama that popped off with Jennifer? 0:08:45.559 --> 0:08:48.800 I will not speak on that. Ah yeah, I mean 0:08:48.840 --> 0:08:50.920 I wasn't there. A lot of the households don't want 0:08:50.960 --> 0:08:52.240 to talk about that. Yeah. 0:08:52.280 --> 0:08:54.000 So for you, what are the things that you do 0:08:54.080 --> 0:08:55.559 love talking about when you. 0:08:55.920 --> 0:08:58.640 I'd like to talk about happy stuff, good stuff. There's 0:08:58.679 --> 0:09:00.319 a lot of good stuff, and I think that's a 0:09:00.320 --> 0:09:03.040 lot of times the demise of sometimes the housewives. Too 0:09:03.120 --> 0:09:05.040 much darkness, too much drama. 0:09:05.640 --> 0:09:06.480 So when it comes to this. 0:09:06.440 --> 0:09:09.120 Kind of stuff, because your life really is an open 0:09:09.120 --> 0:09:11.120 book or somewhat of an open book. What you choose 0:09:11.120 --> 0:09:13.160 to share with people is your life. You're letting people in, 0:09:13.200 --> 0:09:16.040 You're letting them see you as a person. How do 0:09:16.120 --> 0:09:18.520 you navigate around these things when people feel like they 0:09:18.559 --> 0:09:22.800 have a right to you and to that information because 0:09:22.800 --> 0:09:25.040 you've given them a taste of it. Because we again 0:09:25.320 --> 0:09:28.200 on a much smaller scale, we deal with that here. 0:09:28.679 --> 0:09:30.559 We talk about our lives. And then if there's a 0:09:30.600 --> 0:09:32.440 part of our scale, No it's not. 0:09:32.480 --> 0:09:33.600 No, you don't think. 0:09:34.720 --> 0:09:37.360 We're not on national TV. No, we don't bring our 0:09:37.400 --> 0:09:39.720 parents on and stuff like that. Our relationships on. 0:09:39.800 --> 0:09:40.040 We do. 0:09:40.080 --> 0:09:41.160 Sometimes you got to. 0:09:41.360 --> 0:09:44.079 Like but you talk about it, right, and if something happens, 0:09:44.080 --> 0:09:45.160 it's going to be out there. 0:09:45.520 --> 0:09:46.400 But we have we have. 0:09:46.559 --> 0:09:49.960 You don't sign a paper saying like I'm being transparent 0:09:50.000 --> 0:09:53.560 and giving you my life. Right, It's very hard you say, 0:09:53.840 --> 0:09:56.120 we know what we sign up for. It's an unwritten law. 0:09:56.240 --> 0:09:58.040 If you have something going on in your life, you 0:09:58.160 --> 0:10:01.040 have to talk about it, and if it gets out, 0:10:01.080 --> 0:10:02.960 if it's in the press, you have to talk about 0:10:03.000 --> 0:10:05.880 it on the show. If you repeat something on the 0:10:05.920 --> 0:10:10.000 show on camera, you have to know that you're going 0:10:10.000 --> 0:10:11.560 to have to run back and tell the person it 0:10:11.640 --> 0:10:14.120 was said about on camera, Like in real life, do 0:10:14.160 --> 0:10:16.880 you tell your friends what the other person said about 0:10:16.920 --> 0:10:19.280 them all the time? You don't run all the time. 0:10:20.720 --> 0:10:23.199 It depends on she does do it. I will run 0:10:23.240 --> 0:10:23.480 back and. 0:10:23.480 --> 0:10:27.439 Talk, oh my god, did you? Will be a perfect housewife, 0:10:27.440 --> 0:10:29.000 because that's not an easy thing to do. 0:10:29.360 --> 0:10:31.280 Maybe this is why I do it, because I watch 0:10:31.360 --> 0:10:33.960 so much Housewives that I feel like somebody. I always 0:10:33.960 --> 0:10:37.080 feel like cameras are watching you. Regardless, somebody's watching. Someone 0:10:37.160 --> 0:10:39.960 heard something, so you might as well just hey, I 0:10:40.000 --> 0:10:41.280 was talking to so and so, and this is what 0:10:41.280 --> 0:10:44.280 they said. Listen, just dropping it here so that you know, oh, 0:10:44.360 --> 0:10:46.079 my identify with it a little bit. 0:10:46.200 --> 0:10:47.280 I don't diet. 0:10:47.880 --> 0:10:49.080 I don't ever want. 0:10:48.920 --> 0:10:50.760 Any of my friends said think that I'm not being 0:10:50.840 --> 0:10:54.880 loyal to them. I swear. It's like, if somebody talks 0:10:54.920 --> 0:10:57.800 about Gandhi, I'm gonna say, hey, yeah. 0:10:57.400 --> 0:11:00.679 Well, if it's okay, if somebody talks about that, you're 0:11:00.720 --> 0:11:04.560 equally as friends with Gandhi. I'm just talking about somebody 0:11:04.559 --> 0:11:08.120 in the lunch room. Okay, you don't already like maybe, okay. 0:11:07.920 --> 0:11:09.600 So if Andrew talks about it, are you gonna come 0:11:09.640 --> 0:11:09.920 tell me? 0:11:10.320 --> 0:11:10.800 Probably? 0:11:11.360 --> 0:11:13.240 I do it in a joking way. It wouldn't be 0:11:13.280 --> 0:11:16.079 it wouldn't be so harsh. But but this is the issue. 0:11:16.240 --> 0:11:21.400 I feel like Whoa's. 0:11:19.120 --> 0:11:22.840 Answer, no, you know why because she lives Bravo. I 0:11:22.880 --> 0:11:25.559 don't think she has ever changed the channel from Bravo 0:11:25.640 --> 0:11:27.520 in her life. I've tried to get her to watch 0:11:27.559 --> 0:11:29.600 other things. She's like, no, I'll call her what are 0:11:29.600 --> 0:11:32.360 you doing rewatching the Real Healthwives on New Jersey. 0:11:32.559 --> 0:11:33.800 She's a real one one. 0:11:33.880 --> 0:11:35.200 Yeah, but go ahead, Diamond, I love it. 0:11:35.240 --> 0:11:35.400 Oh. 0:11:35.600 --> 0:11:38.520 My issue is is that if she ever heard, oh, 0:11:38.600 --> 0:11:41.000 we're going to to use Andrew Andrew in this scenario. 0:11:41.160 --> 0:11:43.920 If she ever heard, oh, Andrew talked about you and 0:11:43.960 --> 0:11:44.559 Diamond was. 0:11:44.520 --> 0:11:49.079 There, well that that would make me feel uncomfortable the Diamond. 0:11:49.200 --> 0:11:51.280 What if nobody else is in the room and it's 0:11:51.400 --> 0:11:52.640 just the two of you? 0:11:52.960 --> 0:11:54.160 Oh okay, Well then I don't know. 0:11:54.679 --> 0:11:57.000 And it depends on what it is exactly. If he's 0:11:57.040 --> 0:12:00.120 just venting, then that's his business. I mean, it's it's 0:12:00.160 --> 0:12:04.120 all in presentation, right, Yeah, I'm telling ah diving. 0:12:04.840 --> 0:12:07.240 I say all the time what other people think of 0:12:07.240 --> 0:12:08.199 me is none of my business. 0:12:08.320 --> 0:12:11.600 I don't that's true. Somebody said that to me one time, 0:12:11.640 --> 0:12:13.640 and it took the power away from the other person 0:12:13.679 --> 0:12:15.600 that they held held over me. 0:12:15.920 --> 0:12:17.520 Yeah, it's I know what. 0:12:17.600 --> 0:12:18.920 It's not my business. 0:12:19.040 --> 0:12:20.760 I know what I try to do and the way 0:12:20.800 --> 0:12:23.240 that I try to operate in life, and maybe sometimes 0:12:23.240 --> 0:12:24.640 it doesn't translate the right way. 0:12:24.679 --> 0:12:25.360 But I know me. 0:12:25.800 --> 0:12:27.680 I know me way better than anybody else knows me. 0:12:27.880 --> 0:12:29.360 So whatever they want to say, they can say it, 0:12:29.400 --> 0:12:32.000 they can think it. It's not gonna get into my head. 0:12:32.400 --> 0:12:33.920 It's taken me a long time to get there. But 0:12:33.960 --> 0:12:35.880 I'm not going to let that stuff really affect me 0:12:36.040 --> 0:12:37.760 or else. What are we We would just be in 0:12:37.800 --> 0:12:41.120 shreds all day. Do you read things about yourself? 0:12:41.480 --> 0:12:41.560 No? 0:12:42.000 --> 0:12:43.400 Do you operate your own social media? 0:12:44.120 --> 0:12:47.600 I do. I have help, but I do mostly. Yes, Okay, 0:12:47.640 --> 0:12:50.280 and it's it's new help. It's not like I've had 0:12:50.280 --> 0:12:52.800 it forever and I can't do content. I'm fifty four 0:12:52.880 --> 0:12:55.120 years old. I don't know this shit, and I don't 0:12:55.120 --> 0:12:56.680 want to know it, and I don't want to learn 0:12:56.720 --> 0:13:00.319 one more thing. I can't even retain what we're talking about. 0:13:00.720 --> 0:13:02.880 So I'm just going to tell you that I need help. 0:13:02.960 --> 0:13:05.520 Yeah, in the time that I've known you thus far, 0:13:05.679 --> 0:13:08.240 I really appreciate how real you are about things. I 0:13:08.280 --> 0:13:10.240 love that you just showed up by yourself. You didn't 0:13:10.240 --> 0:13:12.160 even roll in here with a posse, And I see 0:13:12.200 --> 0:13:12.800 why people. 0:13:12.640 --> 0:13:13.760 Are saying you're the most relatable. 0:13:13.920 --> 0:13:14.520 I'm a loner. 0:13:15.200 --> 0:13:15.840 You're a loner. 0:13:16.160 --> 0:13:19.920 I like my alone time, my space. I like being 0:13:19.920 --> 0:13:21.480 in the car on the way here with no one 0:13:21.559 --> 0:13:25.320 talking to me. I just don't mind it. Yeah, my 0:13:25.400 --> 0:13:29.160 assistance lovely Frankie. She's a lovely girl, and I like 0:13:29.200 --> 0:13:32.360 her company. But do I need her to come with 0:13:32.400 --> 0:13:33.000 me today here? 0:13:33.160 --> 0:13:33.199 No? 0:13:33.600 --> 0:13:35.559 But how does it work being a loner and then 0:13:35.559 --> 0:13:37.960 having cameras in your face and up your ass twenty 0:13:37.960 --> 0:13:38.920 four to seven when you're. 0:13:38.880 --> 0:13:41.400 Still twenty four seven When you're filming, that's only a 0:13:41.440 --> 0:13:44.600 certain amount of months out of the year, and they 0:13:44.640 --> 0:13:46.920 tell you when they're coming, and sometimes you just don't 0:13:46.920 --> 0:13:49.480 feel like it. Sometimes you don't feel like in a 0:13:49.520 --> 0:13:52.839 glam Sometimes you don't feel like walking into a room 0:13:53.320 --> 0:13:57.440 and owing everybody your attention. That's why when I have 0:13:57.559 --> 0:14:00.480 my time, when I'm in my house, there's no TV on, 0:14:00.840 --> 0:14:04.320 there's no radio. When I'm driving, it is silent. And 0:14:04.360 --> 0:14:06.200 it's always been like that since high school. 0:14:06.480 --> 0:14:08.760 Really in the house TV off? 0:14:08.920 --> 0:14:10.120 Oh yeah, so what are you doing? 0:14:10.160 --> 0:14:10.800 Reading books? 0:14:11.160 --> 0:14:15.840 No, I'm trying to put my clothes away, just like cleaning. 0:14:16.440 --> 0:14:19.440 I like to puts around. I like to I do 0:14:19.560 --> 0:14:22.760 talk to my mom a lot, and the kids. 0:14:22.840 --> 0:14:24.000 Just the sounds of the dices. 0:14:24.880 --> 0:14:27.840 And sometimes I get two and two scrolling through into 0:14:28.200 --> 0:14:31.520 all dogs on my Instagram, one dog after another. It's healthy, 0:14:32.080 --> 0:14:35.680 and it is, I think, So it's it's misspent time 0:14:35.760 --> 0:14:38.800 on social media. Then I start spending money I shouldn't 0:14:39.400 --> 0:14:43.720 buying things I don't need. I even have a limit 0:14:43.800 --> 0:14:45.840 on my social media and I ignore it. 0:14:47.920 --> 0:14:51.240 So Andrew, who you met when you got here? He 0:14:51.440 --> 0:14:54.280 has a theory that if you change the color scheme 0:14:54.320 --> 0:14:57.080 of your phone to gray scale, so pretty much everything's 0:14:57.120 --> 0:14:58.920 just black and white, you will not look at your 0:14:58.920 --> 0:15:01.280 phone nearly as much. He swears that I'm going to 0:15:01.320 --> 0:15:03.400 have him to do that for me before I leave. Oh, 0:15:03.440 --> 0:15:05.040 he's going to be so happy. He's really trying to 0:15:05.080 --> 0:15:07.560 spread this theory. He said, it's just so boring. It's 0:15:07.560 --> 0:15:09.360 so much more boring when it's all in black and white. 0:15:09.360 --> 0:15:10.600 I don't want to look at things anymore. 0:15:10.680 --> 0:15:12.360 That's amazing. I'm gonna do it. 0:15:12.480 --> 0:15:13.920 Okay, he's gonna be so happy. 0:15:14.000 --> 0:15:15.920 It makes sense. You see Diamond's face, she's dying. 0:15:15.960 --> 0:15:18.560 It's like, no, it doesn't work. It doesn't work. 0:15:18.720 --> 0:15:20.840 You're already killing it from me, Diamond, if you would 0:15:20.840 --> 0:15:23.120 have said it worked, you know, it's that one thing 0:15:23.160 --> 0:15:25.080 that hits. It clicks. Like I really thought I was 0:15:25.120 --> 0:15:27.840 onto something and I was believing, like I'm not going 0:15:27.920 --> 0:15:29.080 to look at the phone, and then she's like, it 0:15:29.080 --> 0:15:30.560 doesn't work. I'm like, oh fuck it, it doesn't work. 0:15:30.600 --> 0:15:33.200 Now, Oh listen, trust me. Andrew says it works. He said, 0:15:33.320 --> 0:15:33.920 I'm so bored. 0:15:33.960 --> 0:15:35.240 I just put my phone down and I do other 0:15:35.280 --> 0:15:36.120 things I'm taking. 0:15:36.360 --> 0:15:38.920 So like the whole like Instagram is black and white. Yes, 0:15:39.360 --> 0:15:42.400 that's happening today every single I bet you I'm not 0:15:42.400 --> 0:15:43.360 going to buy something. 0:15:44.080 --> 0:15:46.240 You might not because you might not like the color 0:15:46.440 --> 0:15:48.160 right in your head. You don't like the color because 0:15:48.160 --> 0:15:50.000 you can't tell what color it is. So maybe I 0:15:50.000 --> 0:15:50.320 don't know. 0:15:50.520 --> 0:15:54.080 Yeah, maybe try destinations don't look so great anymore. So 0:15:54.160 --> 0:15:56.640 now we're like, oh my god, what doesn't a tropical 0:15:56.680 --> 0:15:57.880 destination on your phone? 0:15:58.040 --> 0:16:00.000 If it's black and white, it doesn't look so beautiful 0:16:00.080 --> 0:16:00.880 and sunny and amazing. 0:16:00.880 --> 0:16:01.640 I'm going to do it. 0:16:01.880 --> 0:16:05.320 I'm telling you he swears by this one. So before 0:16:05.320 --> 0:16:06.920 you get out of here, we'll have him fixtrap on 0:16:07.000 --> 0:16:14.760