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Speaker 2: Sauce on the side, I am Gandhi and I'm in

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Speaker 2: here with my produce of diamond Hi, who is putting

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Speaker 2: on a very pleasant voice. And I don't understand it.

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Speaker 1: But that's okay. What is that?

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Speaker 3: I don't know, it just happens.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, Hi, I want to be calm, so I'm

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Speaker 4: trying to give you calm energy.

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Speaker 2: Wait, why wouldn't you give me calm energy? Are you

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Speaker 2: stressed out? I'm just a ball of chaos today?

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Speaker 5: Sweek in general?

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Speaker 1: Oh this week?

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Speaker 4: Well, sleep, I think I'm trying to figure out this

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Speaker 4: new sleep schedule with having to come in earlier because

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Speaker 4: of congestion pricing in the double that is Kathy Hopel

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Speaker 4: or as my grandfather calls her, Kathy Hochel Hochel.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, she gets hochel a lot. It makes me laugh.

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Speaker 4: But yeah, and today I realize I've been waking up

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Speaker 4: ten minutes earlier than I'm supposed to or then I

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Speaker 4: want to in my head stuff like that.

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Speaker 2: So my wake up, my morning is chaos. When I

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Speaker 2: get up in the morning, it's like hit the ground running.

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Speaker 2: My alarm is a crazy sound. Really yeah, hold on, okay,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna pull up what this This is the sound

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Speaker 2: that I wake up to.

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Speaker 5: In the morning, and it's kind of birds her.

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Speaker 1: Maybe a little bit of a video game.

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Speaker 3: E gives me Finding Nemo.

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Speaker 5: It really does mean Dory has dementia.

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Speaker 4: Under why that was so funny? People were dming me

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Speaker 4: about that. It's like, no, guys, I really like, is

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Speaker 5: That's great, right, But it's the case, right, Dory has dementia.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: No, she sort of has a problem with her short

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Speaker 2: term memory, but she fixes it.

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Speaker 5: You can't fix dementia.

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Speaker 3: That's forever base. I do not remember her fixing it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she kind of starts to remember things forward the end,

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Speaker 2: go for do yeah, or maybe I have dementia, And

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Speaker 2: that's what I just think happened. I didn't like Finding

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Speaker 2: Dory as much as I like Finding Nemo.

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Speaker 4: Didn't even give it a chance because I'm like, why

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Speaker 4: would I watch a movie about someone who doesn't remember anything?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: Oh there's a movie called Memento. You'd probably hate then,

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Speaker 2: but it also traces a crime and it shows you

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Speaker 2: how he knows he has short term memory loss, so

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Speaker 2: how he deals with it.

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Speaker 1: No, No, it's also.

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Speaker 5: In reverse so it's very weird.

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Speaker 3: Do you remember the movie Premonition, Sandra Bullock?

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Speaker 5: No, I don't think so.

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Speaker 4: Well, it drove me crazy, like she knew what was happening.

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Speaker 4: She had a premonition about something, and that's where I

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Speaker 4: spent Basically, her husband dies in her premonition, and so

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Speaker 4: she spends however many days she thinks she has trying

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Speaker 4: to number one, fix their relationship so that he's not

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Speaker 3: Like, why would you want to know what's happening, what's

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Speaker 3: going to happen? Why would I want to know?

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Speaker 5: I always think about that.

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Speaker 2: So there was a movie I was watching on the plane,

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Speaker 2: so we just came back from a trip, and it's

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Speaker 2: called My Old Ass.

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Speaker 3: Have you seen previous for it?

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Speaker 4: Now?

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Speaker 2: It's Aubrey Plaza and some other girl that I don't know,

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Speaker 2: But basically, this one girl trips in the woods, like

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Speaker 5: She's eighteen years old, and.

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Speaker 2: All of a sudden she looks and she sees the

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Speaker 2: thirty nine year old version of herself. Sitting next to her,

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Speaker 2: and they get to know each other and they're talking,

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Speaker 2: and the one piece of advice that the thirty nine

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Speaker 5: Run screaming. And I was like, Chad, that's my boyfriend

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Speaker 5: who passed away. I like that name. I know a

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Speaker 5: not the crazy white boy. And also he was very

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Speaker 2: And actually stopped watching it as soon as I saw

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Speaker 5: He's just such a doll.

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Speaker 1: He's babe.

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Speaker 2: She loves him, and she runs into her thirty nine

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Speaker 5: I can't figure out what's wrong.

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Speaker 2: He's great, and thirty nine year old her says, he dies.

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Speaker 2: That's what happens. He dies, And I stopped the movie

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Speaker 5: And then but I was like, damn, man, and I

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Speaker 4: So yeah, oh, now I want to go watch it

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Speaker 4: because I kind of want to see what happens.

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Speaker 5: Okay, go watch it.

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Speaker 1: Let me know.

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Speaker 3: I'll start where you stop tell.

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Speaker 2: Me about it. That's actually that's got to be somewhere

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Speaker 2: closer to the end. And by the way, I should

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Speaker 5: Oops.

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Speaker 2: Anyway, how are you, Diamond Good Good just feeling chaotic?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Are you excited about the guests that we're about to

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Speaker 5: have in?

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Speaker 3: Oh my god?

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Speaker 4: Yes, speaking of chaos, right, because she lives there's a

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Speaker 4: like she keeps it very chill. She's very chill. I

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Speaker 2: So with her, I think we should bring her in

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Speaker 2: because Diamond is talking about Dolores Catanya from the Real Housewives.

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Speaker 1: Of New Jersey.

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Speaker 4: Here she is.

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Speaker 3: Hi.

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Speaker 2: You may know her from the Real Housewives of New

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Speaker 2: Jersey or Traders season three. I don't even know where

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Speaker 2: to start with you because You're a wealth among stuff

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Speaker 2: to talk about. So I think the first thing on

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Speaker 2: everybody's mind, we'll get to it. We'll get out of

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Speaker 2: the way. Real Housewives of New Jersey. We know there's

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Speaker 2: been drama. Things are on hold.

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Speaker 5: What does the future look like for you guys?

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Speaker 1: Well, we don't know. We know as much as you do.

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Speaker 1: And I know the last time Andy was asked, he

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Speaker 1: won't you know twenty twenty five is not going to happen?

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Speaker 1: God willing, they call us all back to work. We

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Speaker 1: show up and you have the Housewives of New Jersey back.

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Speaker 1: How it can come back from no resolution the last

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Speaker 1: time we were together, I don't know. But hopefully it can.

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Speaker 5: Happen in a dream world. What would you like to happen.

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Speaker 1: In a dream world? I'd like to start over. Okay,

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Speaker 1: for everyone on the cast, I think we have an

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Speaker 1: amazing cast. They may not get along, but they all

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Speaker 1: I think they're good people underneath it all. So I

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Speaker 1: don't mind working with it. I always said on that couch,

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Speaker 2: I hope that works out for you guys, because you

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Speaker 2: all have been together for how long at this point.

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Speaker 1: Well, we're friends as a whole, like I'm friends with

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Speaker 1: Teresa for many, many years. It's lifetime, a lifetime and

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Speaker 1: the show's around fourteen years now. You laugh together, you

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Speaker 1: cry together. I mean, if you all remember our trip

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Speaker 3: I loved it.

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Speaker 1: There was a lot of crying. There was fighting, but

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Speaker 2: Yeah, do you get exhausted from the drama, the back

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Speaker 2: and forth all the time. I mean, I know you're

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Speaker 5: How do you do it?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Well, listen, life is drama. Life unfolds, but there's

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Speaker 1: always drama in workplaces. Life is drama. You just have

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Speaker 1: I always stay grounded because I've always worked with shelters, animals,

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Speaker 2: I hear great things about you and I read think

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Speaker 1: Good for you, Thank you.

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Speaker 2: I've also read and heard that you are the most

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Speaker 5: Do you agree with that.

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't say the most because I wouldn't talk like

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Speaker 1: I can't. I want to be known as the housewife

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Speaker 1: that cared about people, because I do. No one's going anywhere.

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Speaker 2: See Thelorus approach her. You can take a picture You're camis.

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Speaker 1: Of course amazing. I'm because I wouldn't have what I

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Speaker 1: So I've done a lot with my life because I

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Speaker 1: have a good job, you know, and I appreciate it.

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Speaker 1: But what is my job without the people that let

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Speaker 4: Hey?

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Speaker 2: We say that here all the time with the show.

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Speaker 2: Whether you love us or hate us. You let us

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Speaker 2: into your house, and that's great. We'll take it.

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Speaker 5: We're never going to be rude, not on purpose anyway.

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Speaker 1: No, But you know what, not everybody has to be

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Speaker 1: a martyr, right Like, I don't chastise the women that

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Speaker 1: don't do that. You don't want to do that, that's

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Speaker 1: on you. But I don't want anybody to have a

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Speaker 1: bad experience meeting me. And you know who I heard

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Speaker 1: say that one time, Billie Eilish. I heard her say

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Speaker 1: I never want anyone to have a bad experience meeting me.

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Speaker 2: So on that note, how are you feeling about all

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Speaker 2: the Jersey Mike's drama that popped off with Jennifer?

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Speaker 1: I will not speak on that. Ah yeah, I mean

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Speaker 1: I wasn't there. A lot of the households don't want

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Speaker 1: to talk about that. Yeah.

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Speaker 5: So for you, what are the things that you do

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Speaker 5: love talking about when you.

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Speaker 1: I'd like to talk about happy stuff, good stuff. There's

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Speaker 1: a lot of good stuff, and I think that's a

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Speaker 1: lot of times the demise of sometimes the housewives. Too

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Speaker 1: much darkness, too much drama.

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Speaker 5: So when it comes to this.

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Speaker 2: Kind of stuff, because your life really is an open

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Speaker 2: book or somewhat of an open book. What you choose

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Speaker 4: I do it in a joking way. It wouldn't be

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Speaker 1: She's a real one one.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but go ahead, Diamond, I love it.

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Speaker 3: There, well that that would make me feel uncomfortable the Diamond.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's I know what.

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Speaker 5: But I know me.

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Speaker 2: I know me way better than anybody else knows me.

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, in the time that I've known you thus far,

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Speaker 5: Are saying you're the most relatable.

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Speaker 1: I'm a loner.

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Speaker 5: You're a loner.

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Speaker 1: I like my alone time, my space. I like being

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 2: But how does it work being a loner and then

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Speaker 2: So Andrew, who you met when you got here? He

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Speaker 2: he's going to be so happy. He's really trying to

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Speaker 1: That's amazing. I'm gonna do it.

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Speaker 1: It makes sense. You see Diamond's face, she's dying.

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Speaker 3: It's like, no, it doesn't work. It doesn't work.

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Speaker 1: You're already killing it from me, Diamond, if you would

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Speaker 1: So like the whole like Instagram is black and white. Yes,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe try destinations don't look so great anymore. So

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Speaker 5: If it's black and white, it doesn't look so beautiful

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Speaker 2: I'm telling you he swears by this one. So before

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Speaker 1: I just started.

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Speaker 1: Was amazing.

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Speaker 2: Who was amazing? Phaedra was amazing. I actually really loved

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Speaker 5: I felt really bad for MJ. Spoiler alerts. That was

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Speaker 1: Wait what do you mean you felt bad for MJ?

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Speaker 5: It really was.

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Speaker 2: I don't know how they sleep at night, but I

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Speaker 4: She's making me nervous because at this point in the

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Speaker 1: You don't even know if I'm on this week. You

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Speaker 3: Oh my god.

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Speaker 4: But is it true that at the very end of

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Speaker 3: Who the traders were?

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Speaker 1: Do you know that if a trader goes to the end,

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Speaker 1: they steal all the money?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 1: Okay, I didn't know. If I knew that part of it,

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Speaker 2: Okay, So you walked into this very complicated game blind blind.

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Speaker 2: You know what, I should have known that in the

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Speaker 2: But the choice that you and Derinda made, I was like.

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Speaker 5: No, no, no, why no, don't do it? And that

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Speaker 1: It for people, and I would do it again.

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Speaker 2: you're giving a people person like.

447
00:17:58,080 --> 00:18:02,400
Speaker 1: Well, because my friends Robin and i am got off

448
00:18:02,560 --> 00:18:05,760
Speaker 1: the raft and I would how can I make them

449
00:18:05,800 --> 00:18:07,480
Speaker 1: do without me following suit?

450
00:18:08,119 --> 00:18:09,320
Speaker 5: So do you want to win the game?

451
00:18:09,440 --> 00:18:09,600
Speaker 4: Did?

452
00:18:09,640 --> 00:18:12,639
Speaker 1: I want to? Because that's why I want to do

453
00:18:12,680 --> 00:18:15,200
Speaker 1: it right. It's not all about always way it's doing

454
00:18:15,280 --> 00:18:17,840
Speaker 1: the right thing, and the housewives did the right thing.

455
00:18:18,240 --> 00:18:19,720
Speaker 5: So would you have been stressed out?

456
00:18:20,040 --> 00:18:21,720
Speaker 2: And this is going to be a spoiler alert by

457
00:18:21,760 --> 00:18:24,080
Speaker 2: the way, would you have been stressed out if you

458
00:18:24,160 --> 00:18:26,439
Speaker 2: had been immediately tapped in to be a trader?

459
00:18:27,160 --> 00:18:28,200
Speaker 1: Oh my god?

460
00:18:28,359 --> 00:18:30,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, because so many people were praying for it. Please

461
00:18:30,440 --> 00:18:31,200
Speaker 2: let me be a trader.

462
00:18:31,359 --> 00:18:31,880
Speaker 5: I think I would.

463
00:18:31,920 --> 00:18:34,359
Speaker 1: I was a little offended when I didn't I didn't

464
00:18:34,400 --> 00:18:35,959
Speaker 1: want it, and then when he didn't pick me, I

465
00:18:36,000 --> 00:18:36,359
Speaker 1: was mad.

466
00:18:38,000 --> 00:18:38,720
Speaker 5: Sorry of my life?

467
00:18:39,600 --> 00:18:41,800
Speaker 1: Right, I was offended.

468
00:18:42,119 --> 00:18:44,359
Speaker 2: Well, just I mean, when you're a trader, there's this

469
00:18:44,440 --> 00:18:46,760
Speaker 2: level of safety and comfort because you kind of have,

470
00:18:46,920 --> 00:18:49,639
Speaker 2: you know, the oversight of everything. When you're not, I

471
00:18:49,640 --> 00:18:51,560
Speaker 2: feel like I would just be a scared mouse the

472
00:18:51,680 --> 00:18:53,200
Speaker 2: entire time, waiting to get prayed upon.

473
00:18:53,640 --> 00:18:56,360
Speaker 1: I would rather that than be a liar and have

474
00:18:56,480 --> 00:18:59,920
Speaker 1: to be even though it's a game. I would rather

475
00:19:00,280 --> 00:19:04,359
Speaker 1: that then be deceitful to people I've gotten close to.

476
00:19:04,960 --> 00:19:07,399
Speaker 2: So you're a person that even playing a game, whether

477
00:19:07,400 --> 00:19:09,639
Speaker 2: it's a game or not, you're not going to compromise

478
00:19:09,720 --> 00:19:11,719
Speaker 2: your morals. You're not gonna say, well, all rules are

479
00:19:11,720 --> 00:19:12,400
Speaker 2: off because this.

480
00:19:12,320 --> 00:19:15,080
Speaker 5: Is a game. Yeah, that's gonna these games really tough

481
00:19:15,080 --> 00:19:15,400
Speaker 5: for you.

482
00:19:15,960 --> 00:19:17,359
Speaker 1: Well, maybe I'm just not a gamer.

483
00:19:18,760 --> 00:19:19,600
Speaker 5: Would you do it again?

484
00:19:20,400 --> 00:19:23,879
Speaker 1: I cried yes when I had to leave that place.

485
00:19:23,960 --> 00:19:29,880
Speaker 1: I loved it so much. I loved Scotland. I loved

486
00:19:30,119 --> 00:19:34,119
Speaker 1: the game, I loved the people. I loved the seclusion.

487
00:19:34,760 --> 00:19:37,719
Speaker 1: They take your phone when you get there and you

488
00:19:37,760 --> 00:19:40,600
Speaker 1: cannot call home. You get a supervised phone call once

489
00:19:40,640 --> 00:19:44,199
Speaker 1: a week for thirty minutes, and it's a FaceTime so

490
00:19:44,320 --> 00:19:46,639
Speaker 1: that you cannot talk about the game. And I had

491
00:19:46,680 --> 00:19:48,800
Speaker 1: thirty minutes to speak to my whole family, so I

492
00:19:48,840 --> 00:19:52,800
Speaker 1: gave them like five minutes each, My Paul, my kids,

493
00:19:53,800 --> 00:19:56,760
Speaker 1: you know, my mother, my father, my brother, and that

494
00:19:56,880 --> 00:19:59,840
Speaker 1: was it. You get four stations on the TV and

495
00:20:00,040 --> 00:20:03,520
Speaker 1: you don't have a remote because Kate Trustine found a

496
00:20:03,520 --> 00:20:05,919
Speaker 1: way to communicate with her friends through YouTube, so they

497
00:20:05,920 --> 00:20:06,840
Speaker 1: took the remote off.

498
00:20:06,840 --> 00:20:10,399
Speaker 3: Everyone people do that. Someone did that on Love Island.

499
00:20:10,440 --> 00:20:12,080
Speaker 1: They wouldn't have had to worry about me doing that

500
00:20:12,119 --> 00:20:14,560
Speaker 1: because I could not. Yeah, I don't even know how

501
00:20:14,600 --> 00:20:17,600
Speaker 1: to work the remote on a good day. So like

502
00:20:18,800 --> 00:20:21,600
Speaker 1: there was no days off. There was one day off

503
00:20:21,640 --> 00:20:24,920
Speaker 1: of filming and you weren't allowed to leave your room

504
00:20:25,320 --> 00:20:27,280
Speaker 1: if you wanted something, you put a yellow piece of

505
00:20:27,320 --> 00:20:29,920
Speaker 1: paper in a twenty four hour bodyguard would come and say,

506
00:20:30,640 --> 00:20:33,159
Speaker 1: what do you want? Really, and I'd be like, I

507
00:20:33,240 --> 00:20:34,639
Speaker 1: need to get out of this room. I need to

508
00:20:34,640 --> 00:20:35,600
Speaker 1: go for a walk.

509
00:20:36,119 --> 00:20:38,280
Speaker 5: So can you bring books? Can you bring entertainment of

510
00:20:38,320 --> 00:20:38,840
Speaker 5: any sort?

511
00:20:39,080 --> 00:20:42,720
Speaker 1: Just a book if you wanted. I started to journal, prayed,

512
00:20:42,800 --> 00:20:46,080
Speaker 1: and did things that I haven't done in so long.

513
00:20:46,160 --> 00:20:48,520
Speaker 1: I did not miss my phone for one second.

514
00:20:49,320 --> 00:20:51,040
Speaker 5: Did it change your phone habits when you came home?

515
00:20:51,119 --> 00:20:54,959
Speaker 1: Or did you get right for three seconds? I was like,

516
00:20:55,320 --> 00:20:58,520
Speaker 1: the reason I cried, I'm not a crier, and Diamond

517
00:20:58,560 --> 00:21:00,360
Speaker 1: can tell you when have you ever seen me cry?

518
00:21:00,359 --> 00:21:03,280
Speaker 1: In eight years on Housewives? When my dog died? That's it?

519
00:21:03,720 --> 00:21:07,360
Speaker 4: Probably, Yeah, there's only even when you dealt with breakups,

520
00:21:07,400 --> 00:21:07,800
Speaker 4: you didn't.

521
00:21:08,160 --> 00:21:11,199
Speaker 3: You were crying, which was very weird. Dolores, I don't know.

522
00:21:11,160 --> 00:21:14,200
Speaker 1: I don't know. My kids have never seen me cry,

523
00:21:14,720 --> 00:21:17,440
Speaker 1: and ask them. I don't think they've ever seen me cry,

524
00:21:17,520 --> 00:21:19,520
Speaker 1: and that's a weird. I don't realize how weird that

525
00:21:19,600 --> 00:21:23,880
Speaker 1: is until I talk to other people. So I got

526
00:21:23,920 --> 00:21:29,440
Speaker 1: emotional when I left there because I loved the seclusion

527
00:21:29,720 --> 00:21:30,840
Speaker 1: of it. When I was alone.

528
00:21:31,240 --> 00:21:33,760
Speaker 2: So when you're secluded and you just have a book

529
00:21:33,760 --> 00:21:35,280
Speaker 2: and yourself, and if you want to go for a walk,

530
00:21:35,280 --> 00:21:38,320
Speaker 2: you have to tell another person. Are you at any time?

531
00:21:38,359 --> 00:21:39,960
Speaker 2: You can't mingle with the other cast members.

532
00:21:40,080 --> 00:21:43,239
Speaker 1: No, if you're not filming, you can non mingle. You

533
00:21:43,280 --> 00:21:45,719
Speaker 1: cannot talk to the other cast members. If cameras are

534
00:21:45,760 --> 00:21:50,000
Speaker 1: not up about the game at all, they're constantly on

535
00:21:50,080 --> 00:21:52,639
Speaker 1: top of you. There is no leaks. That is a

536
00:21:53,240 --> 00:21:55,320
Speaker 1: tight ship they run over there in the UK.

537
00:21:56,640 --> 00:22:03,120
Speaker 5: That is wild. How long was filming? Oh, you were.

538
00:22:03,040 --> 00:22:06,159
Speaker 2: To go let's let's rephrase this. I didn't even think

539
00:22:06,160 --> 00:22:08,639
Speaker 2: about that. If you were to go from start to

540
00:22:08,800 --> 00:22:11,480
Speaker 2: finish of the show, how long is that filming?

541
00:22:12,600 --> 00:22:12,800
Speaker 3: Oh?

542
00:22:12,840 --> 00:22:15,760
Speaker 1: I don't know. Okay, Actually, okay, I never thought about that.

543
00:22:16,640 --> 00:22:18,879
Speaker 2: Okay, because I know sometimes you know, they have shows

544
00:22:18,920 --> 00:22:20,679
Speaker 2: that look like they're there for three and four months

545
00:22:20,840 --> 00:22:22,119
Speaker 2: and you find out they were there for three and

546
00:22:22,119 --> 00:22:22,600
Speaker 2: a half.

547
00:22:22,400 --> 00:22:24,160
Speaker 1: Weeks, and I think that's still a long time.

548
00:22:24,280 --> 00:22:25,080
Speaker 5: That's a very long time.

549
00:22:25,119 --> 00:22:27,240
Speaker 2: I couldn't do it with no access to other people

550
00:22:27,320 --> 00:22:29,159
Speaker 2: and just being completely isolated.

551
00:22:29,520 --> 00:22:31,480
Speaker 1: And it doesn't get dark until three o'clock in the

552
00:22:31,520 --> 00:22:35,160
Speaker 1: morning there, really, so you don't have a watch or o'clock.

553
00:22:36,240 --> 00:22:37,680
Speaker 1: You never know what time it is.

554
00:22:37,840 --> 00:22:40,600
Speaker 4: So that explains why Sanda bal was like looking around

555
00:22:40,880 --> 00:22:44,560
Speaker 4: just looking like a weird the entire and that's.

556
00:22:44,320 --> 00:22:46,760
Speaker 1: Why I'm I don't really know why.

557
00:22:45,840 --> 00:22:50,800
Speaker 2: I were there people on the show coming into it

558
00:22:51,320 --> 00:22:54,119
Speaker 2: that you thought this person is going to be something else,

559
00:22:54,240 --> 00:22:57,199
Speaker 2: and they were And in the opposite way, you had

560
00:22:57,240 --> 00:22:59,080
Speaker 2: a preconceived notion and they were amazing.

561
00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:01,000
Speaker 1: You don't know who's going on.

562
00:23:01,720 --> 00:23:04,760
Speaker 5: Were there people you didn't know.

563
00:23:03,960 --> 00:23:07,199
Speaker 1: Sold the gamers. I didn't know Carolyn and Tony and

564
00:23:07,280 --> 00:23:09,400
Speaker 1: Bust and Rob, and I didn't know them.

565
00:23:09,560 --> 00:23:10,879
Speaker 5: I didn't know some of them either. I knew the

566
00:23:10,920 --> 00:23:12,360
Speaker 5: people from the challenges if you.

567
00:23:12,359 --> 00:23:15,160
Speaker 1: Watched the Challenge, if you watch Big Brother, these are

568
00:23:15,160 --> 00:23:18,800
Speaker 1: all legends, so a lot of people knew them. I

569
00:23:18,880 --> 00:23:19,880
Speaker 1: didn't know them.

570
00:23:20,520 --> 00:23:23,680
Speaker 2: I think what's fascinating about it, though, is the gamers

571
00:23:23,720 --> 00:23:26,280
Speaker 2: obviously have this you know, they know each other, they

572
00:23:26,320 --> 00:23:28,159
Speaker 2: know of each other. They are there to play a

573
00:23:28,160 --> 00:23:31,119
Speaker 2: game and obviously a lot more cutthroat, But it seemed

574
00:23:31,160 --> 00:23:33,480
Speaker 2: as though people were much more in the very beginning

575
00:23:33,560 --> 00:23:36,879
Speaker 2: terrified of the housewives. They were like, oh Jesus, the

576
00:23:36,920 --> 00:23:38,199
Speaker 2: housewives are here, we got to.

577
00:23:38,280 --> 00:23:39,760
Speaker 1: That was so stupid because they don't even know how

578
00:23:39,760 --> 00:23:44,680
Speaker 1: to play the game, including myself. They wasted murders on

579
00:23:45,480 --> 00:23:51,320
Speaker 1: Chanelle Ian true, Robin was wrong every time. Why are

580
00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:52,280
Speaker 1: murdering Robin?

581
00:23:53,080 --> 00:23:54,440
Speaker 5: I laughed out loud, so hard.

582
00:23:54,920 --> 00:23:56,640
Speaker 2: And this is in the first episode, so yes, it's

583
00:23:56,640 --> 00:23:58,399
Speaker 2: gonna ruin something, but not too much. When she's like,

584
00:23:58,520 --> 00:24:03,240
Speaker 2: I am great reading people. He is absolutely not a trader,

585
00:24:03,240 --> 00:24:05,560
Speaker 2: I said, the fuck is this woman talking about?

586
00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:07,120
Speaker 5: This is gonna come back to bite her right.

587
00:24:07,040 --> 00:24:11,200
Speaker 1: Now, And she was so upset because she was like, damn,

588
00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:13,200
Speaker 1: how did I not see that?

589
00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:16,080
Speaker 5: Did you leave with any really good friendships outside of

590
00:24:16,080 --> 00:24:16,760
Speaker 5: the housewives?

591
00:24:17,000 --> 00:24:22,880
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Bob Harper is the love of my life.

592
00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:23,960
Speaker 1: He's amazing.

593
00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:26,760
Speaker 2: I want to think everybody is actually really friendly with

594
00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:27,879
Speaker 2: each other and they don't hate each other.

595
00:24:27,880 --> 00:24:28,760
Speaker 5: They are that's good.

596
00:24:28,840 --> 00:24:31,400
Speaker 1: Well, no, the Traders are still a little salty.

597
00:24:31,680 --> 00:24:32,959
Speaker 5: Okay, oh okay.

598
00:24:33,359 --> 00:24:34,600
Speaker 2: I can't wait to get to the end of the

599
00:24:34,640 --> 00:24:37,200
Speaker 2: season and then you're gonna come back and we're gonna

600
00:24:37,200 --> 00:24:40,000
Speaker 2: talk about it again. Let's talk about something really cool

601
00:24:40,040 --> 00:24:42,760
Speaker 2: you have going on. You are about to hit the

602
00:24:42,800 --> 00:24:46,440
Speaker 2: high seas with some friends. You said, you've never been

603
00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:48,840
Speaker 2: on a cruise before, but now you're basically hosting a

604
00:24:48,880 --> 00:24:50,159
Speaker 2: cruise with Norwegian Cruise on.

605
00:24:50,240 --> 00:24:52,000
Speaker 5: By the way, who is one of our partners with

606
00:24:52,080 --> 00:24:52,680
Speaker 5: the Big Show.

607
00:24:53,040 --> 00:24:58,159
Speaker 1: Yes, it's on the Norwegian Escape and it's September nineteenth

608
00:24:58,200 --> 00:25:03,280
Speaker 1: to the twenty fourth. It's wives on the waves. So

609
00:25:03,760 --> 00:25:08,399
Speaker 1: it's pretty amazing. And I'm scared shitless of going on

610
00:25:08,440 --> 00:25:11,280
Speaker 1: a cruise, But how could I miss it? With Teresa

611
00:25:11,359 --> 00:25:16,040
Speaker 1: Judas and Shannon Badour, It's gonna be such a blast.

612
00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:17,480
Speaker 1: You see Diamond on that ship.

613
00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:18,879
Speaker 5: I if she can get on it.

614
00:25:18,920 --> 00:25:20,399
Speaker 1: I think she's gonna try to get on Diamond.

615
00:25:20,480 --> 00:25:23,960
Speaker 4: Con it's literally a week after my birthday, so birthday gift.

616
00:25:24,040 --> 00:25:28,399
Speaker 4: But you Teresa and Shannon, that's a party.

617
00:25:28,280 --> 00:25:32,960
Speaker 1: That is gonna be a part. And yeah, and how

618
00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:35,720
Speaker 1: funny is Shannon Badoor gonna be? She can't drive, She

619
00:25:35,800 --> 00:25:39,359
Speaker 1: has trouble driving on there, so she she's funny. She

620
00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:42,360
Speaker 1: can't getandy, like she gets drunk dry, like she literally

621
00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:44,959
Speaker 1: drove into a house. Wasn't her dog in the car.

622
00:25:45,160 --> 00:25:46,080
Speaker 3: Her dog was in the car.

623
00:25:46,160 --> 00:25:47,120
Speaker 5: Archie in the car.

624
00:25:47,240 --> 00:25:49,480
Speaker 1: No, Archie was poor Archie didn't know what the fuck

625
00:25:49,600 --> 00:25:51,359
Speaker 1: was going on. Oh, I'm sorry, can I swear?

626
00:25:51,960 --> 00:25:52,200
Speaker 5: Fine?

627
00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:55,840
Speaker 1: So Archie she just like kept driving like she didn't stop.

628
00:25:56,119 --> 00:25:57,800
Speaker 1: She just went into the man's house.

629
00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:00,840
Speaker 4: Who was the man, Well, she was a neighbor, but

630
00:26:00,920 --> 00:26:03,840
Speaker 4: she was leaving her boyfriend at the time. She was

631
00:26:03,920 --> 00:26:06,560
Speaker 4: leaving his house like upset, pissed off, drunk.

632
00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:10,800
Speaker 1: Oh, no man would ever get me. I'm sorry, I

633
00:26:11,200 --> 00:26:14,280
Speaker 1: don't get at that age, Shannon. Are you still getting

634
00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:16,600
Speaker 1: work that worked up about a man and an issue?

635
00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:21,439
Speaker 3: But that's all? She gets, very emotion all season.

636
00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:24,399
Speaker 4: They showed like a montage of her getting upset and

637
00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:25,600
Speaker 4: running out of places.

638
00:26:25,640 --> 00:26:27,479
Speaker 3: So it's just that's who she is.

639
00:26:27,520 --> 00:26:27,680
Speaker 4: Man.

640
00:26:27,720 --> 00:26:29,040
Speaker 3: I'm like, Shannon, we got not.

641
00:26:29,080 --> 00:26:31,520
Speaker 1: Get off and grow up. Yeah, yeah, girl, you've been

642
00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:33,800
Speaker 1: through enough in your life. You're gonna be still crying

643
00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:36,440
Speaker 1: over a man like that, going into taking your car

644
00:26:36,480 --> 00:26:41,840
Speaker 1: and driving into a house. Get over that enough enough?

645
00:26:42,880 --> 00:26:44,920
Speaker 3: Will Shannon be able to bring Archie her dog?

646
00:26:45,359 --> 00:26:47,080
Speaker 1: I hope. I don't know if you can bring dogs,

647
00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:50,840
Speaker 1: And I don't know, but if Archie comes, I'm babysitting.

648
00:26:50,400 --> 00:26:52,280
Speaker 3: She might try to like smuggle Archie in.

649
00:26:52,359 --> 00:26:54,440
Speaker 1: It's a big lob, right, Archie's a lab.

650
00:26:54,920 --> 00:26:58,720
Speaker 4: Oh, he's actually very cute. I hate dogs. You might,

651
00:26:58,800 --> 00:26:59,800
Speaker 4: you might get upset with me.

652
00:27:00,240 --> 00:27:03,080
Speaker 3: I can't do it. Okay, but Archie is a really

653
00:27:03,160 --> 00:27:03,640
Speaker 3: cute dog.

654
00:27:03,720 --> 00:27:07,160
Speaker 1: You cannot like dogs, but respect them and never hurt them.

655
00:27:07,720 --> 00:27:08,840
Speaker 1: That's still okay.

656
00:27:09,359 --> 00:27:13,800
Speaker 2: Yes, this one is insane. Diamond wants to get a dog. However,

657
00:27:14,119 --> 00:27:16,120
Speaker 2: she wants to never walk the dog.

658
00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:19,000
Speaker 1: I don't walk my dogs because they're not walkable. You

659
00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:20,520
Speaker 1: have a dog that is a little dog.

660
00:27:20,560 --> 00:27:22,800
Speaker 5: You have a Chihuahua. Right, she wants to get a dog.

661
00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:25,000
Speaker 5: You need to walk and not walking. She said she's

662
00:27:25,000 --> 00:27:27,760
Speaker 5: gonna put it on a treadmill, a little walking pad.

663
00:27:27,800 --> 00:27:31,560
Speaker 1: Can you don't have a no, okay, you have a yard.

664
00:27:31,840 --> 00:27:32,440
Speaker 1: Do you have a yard?

665
00:27:32,640 --> 00:27:34,879
Speaker 4: Well, yeah, I have a yard, but there's not a

666
00:27:34,880 --> 00:27:37,040
Speaker 4: lot of space in it, so like, why not just

667
00:27:37,280 --> 00:27:40,320
Speaker 4: you know, we could be cuddle buddies me And.

668
00:27:39,880 --> 00:27:42,200
Speaker 1: Then you get an older dog that sleeps all day.

669
00:27:42,359 --> 00:27:45,359
Speaker 1: Old dogs sleep all day. Get a rescue, Get a

670
00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:48,719
Speaker 1: big dog in the shelter that nobody wants ten eleven

671
00:27:48,800 --> 00:27:49,240
Speaker 1: years old.

672
00:27:49,320 --> 00:27:51,359
Speaker 3: I'm scared of big dogs. I'm scared of big dog.

673
00:27:51,440 --> 00:27:53,359
Speaker 1: Then get a little dog that sleeps all day, and

674
00:27:53,400 --> 00:27:54,560
Speaker 1: you won't have to walk it.

675
00:27:54,800 --> 00:27:56,679
Speaker 3: Thank you, Dolores. Tell her that you could.

676
00:27:56,520 --> 00:27:58,760
Speaker 1: Put it out in the back and your little little

677
00:27:58,840 --> 00:28:03,080
Speaker 1: whatever you have, I don't know. And it's fine, and

678
00:28:03,119 --> 00:28:05,320
Speaker 1: it's out of the shelter and it's just gonna sit

679
00:28:05,359 --> 00:28:08,439
Speaker 1: on your lap and sleep with you and wait to

680
00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:10,879
Speaker 1: be fed. Put a wee wee pad and call it

681
00:28:10,920 --> 00:28:11,240
Speaker 1: a day.

682
00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:12,879
Speaker 5: Thank you. This is okay.

683
00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:16,080
Speaker 2: I agree with what Dolores is saying. What Diamond was

684
00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:19,040
Speaker 2: trying to do was acquire a puppy that was certainly

685
00:28:19,240 --> 00:28:20,600
Speaker 2: of walking size.

686
00:28:20,680 --> 00:28:22,040
Speaker 1: You don't belong to have a puppy.

687
00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:25,679
Speaker 5: Fine, she's I want to get a dog, but I'm

688
00:28:25,720 --> 00:28:26,199
Speaker 5: not walking it.

689
00:28:26,240 --> 00:28:28,800
Speaker 1: No, I'm not gonna do that. Get an old dog

690
00:28:28,840 --> 00:28:31,080
Speaker 1: out of the shelter, give it a nice life.

691
00:28:31,359 --> 00:28:33,240
Speaker 2: Yes, birthday is gonna be lit this year. You're gonna

692
00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:36,640
Speaker 2: get an old dog and a cruise on Norwegian.

693
00:28:36,359 --> 00:28:38,120
Speaker 3: Escape with my favorite Housewives.

694
00:28:38,280 --> 00:28:38,480
Speaker 4: Right.

695
00:28:39,240 --> 00:28:41,960
Speaker 2: Wait, okay, wait, So Dolores, what scares you about cruising

696
00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:43,520
Speaker 2: because you've never done it before?

697
00:28:43,560 --> 00:28:46,800
Speaker 1: You write, I don't mess with the ocean. It's just big,

698
00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:51,600
Speaker 1: bigger than that little ship. Yeah, and I you know,

699
00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:55,400
Speaker 1: mother nature gets mad sometimes, so I don't want to

700
00:28:55,720 --> 00:28:58,440
Speaker 1: get I don't want to be there on a bad day.

701
00:28:58,840 --> 00:29:01,400
Speaker 1: That's all I'm saying. I watched The Titanic when I

702
00:29:01,440 --> 00:29:04,640
Speaker 1: was little, and I watched there was something called The

703
00:29:04,680 --> 00:29:05,880
Speaker 1: Poseidon Adventure.

704
00:29:06,160 --> 00:29:07,760
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, they remade that movie.

705
00:29:07,520 --> 00:29:11,200
Speaker 1: Did they? Well, Okay, these are things that I think

706
00:29:11,240 --> 00:29:11,960
Speaker 1: of a cruise.

707
00:29:12,160 --> 00:29:15,480
Speaker 2: Okay, that's understandable. I don't think you're going to be

708
00:29:15,520 --> 00:29:17,160
Speaker 2: on the seas that are going to do that to you.

709
00:29:17,320 --> 00:29:19,880
Speaker 2: The Atlantic is notoriously calm.

710
00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:22,200
Speaker 1: I didn't know that until you just told me.

711
00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:22,840
Speaker 5: There you go.

712
00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:28,800
Speaker 1: So yeah, So yeah, it's wives on the waves. You

713
00:29:29,120 --> 00:29:32,760
Speaker 1: have to have to have to calm. It's gonna be amazing.

714
00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:34,360
Speaker 1: So what can people expect to see?

715
00:29:34,440 --> 00:29:36,640
Speaker 5: Like to see and do when you're on this cruise.

716
00:29:37,800 --> 00:29:41,280
Speaker 1: We're gonna do shows, We're gonna interact with everybody, meet

717
00:29:41,320 --> 00:29:43,560
Speaker 1: and gret just a good old time.

718
00:29:43,960 --> 00:29:46,080
Speaker 2: Like I said, we're partnered with Norwegian and they're awesome.

719
00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:47,920
Speaker 2: You're gonna love the ship. You're gonna like the restaurants.

720
00:29:47,960 --> 00:29:49,080
Speaker 2: I think it's gonna be really fun.

721
00:29:49,320 --> 00:29:51,120
Speaker 1: Oh I'm all ready for this. It's good to go.

722
00:29:51,280 --> 00:29:54,160
Speaker 4: You won't know, like you won't unless you look over

723
00:29:54,480 --> 00:29:56,960
Speaker 4: at the water and stare at it. You honestly won't know.

724
00:29:57,000 --> 00:29:59,840
Speaker 1: There's so many people go on cruises. I'm just gonna

725
00:29:59,840 --> 00:30:04,680
Speaker 1: tell if you've And also if you're like single, a

726
00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:07,400
Speaker 1: lot of people like are afraid to go away because

727
00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:09,240
Speaker 1: they're like, oh, I don't want to go by myself.

728
00:30:09,480 --> 00:30:13,920
Speaker 1: There's a lot of single people going, So go and

729
00:30:13,960 --> 00:30:16,720
Speaker 1: you'll meet people that like Bravo, and you'll meet people

730
00:30:16,720 --> 00:30:19,400
Speaker 1: at the shows and there'll always be something to do.

731
00:30:20,280 --> 00:30:23,280
Speaker 1: And a lot of times when I see somebody solo

732
00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:26,400
Speaker 1: come to my events, I'll pair them up with somebody

733
00:30:26,440 --> 00:30:28,640
Speaker 1: else I know that showed up alone and they become friends.

734
00:30:28,720 --> 00:30:30,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, what does it take?

735
00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:32,840
Speaker 1: Like if I'm online and somebody comes in there by

736
00:30:32,880 --> 00:30:35,239
Speaker 1: themselves and I'm like, well, who are you with? And

737
00:30:35,240 --> 00:30:37,080
Speaker 1: she's like I can't buy myself, And then I'll be like,

738
00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:39,040
Speaker 1: well so did she? Why don't you guys sit by

739
00:30:39,080 --> 00:30:41,840
Speaker 1: each other? And they're usually happy to have someone and

740
00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:45,600
Speaker 1: meet someone and you know, it's great. So that's what

741
00:30:45,720 --> 00:30:48,160
Speaker 1: I want for this cruise, Like, that's what I want

742
00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:52,000
Speaker 1: to see, like people who typically wouldn't have gone because

743
00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:54,240
Speaker 1: they wouldn't have had someone to go to. You don't

744
00:30:54,280 --> 00:30:56,560
Speaker 1: have to get on a plane, which is great, you

745
00:30:56,680 --> 00:30:59,040
Speaker 1: just go right or some people are flying in, but

746
00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:00,959
Speaker 1: you don't have to get on a plane. Mostly if

747
00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:04,000
Speaker 1: you're from this area, drive to New York, get on,

748
00:31:04,320 --> 00:31:06,040
Speaker 1: get on the cruise, and have a good time.

749
00:31:06,440 --> 00:31:08,680
Speaker 5: This is all of Diamond's Alley, an old dog and

750
00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:09,160
Speaker 5: a cruise.

751
00:31:09,400 --> 00:31:10,560
Speaker 3: I'm excited you can do it.

752
00:31:20,760 --> 00:31:21,040
Speaker 5: Listen.

753
00:31:21,080 --> 00:31:23,520
Speaker 2: I know you had questions that you wanted to ask,

754
00:31:23,720 --> 00:31:26,680
Speaker 2: because our Bravo fan full of questions.

755
00:31:26,720 --> 00:31:27,880
Speaker 3: I'm so excited for this.

756
00:31:27,960 --> 00:31:30,560
Speaker 4: But there's just one big question that I have for you,

757
00:31:30,640 --> 00:31:33,120
Speaker 4: because as you're sitting as I'm watching Traders and I

758
00:31:33,160 --> 00:31:37,040
Speaker 4: see you sitting at the big round table, I'm wondering

759
00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:40,240
Speaker 4: what was more chaotic or what was harder for you

760
00:31:40,320 --> 00:31:43,360
Speaker 4: to deal with? The round table of traders or like

761
00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:46,160
Speaker 4: the Rails Dinner for the finale.

762
00:31:45,760 --> 00:31:49,800
Speaker 1: Of Rails Dinner, really was it?

763
00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:55,600
Speaker 4: Like you're neutral, so you are looking at for people

764
00:31:55,640 --> 00:31:59,360
Speaker 4: who don't know. The Rails Dinner was the season finale

765
00:31:59,640 --> 00:32:03,360
Speaker 4: of the past season of New Jersey. But Dolores got

766
00:32:03,400 --> 00:32:06,840
Speaker 4: everyone together who had been fighting all season long. They

767
00:32:06,880 --> 00:32:10,440
Speaker 4: were at odds. Dolores by herself in the middle, like

768
00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:13,200
Speaker 4: literally three people on this side, three people on the

769
00:32:13,200 --> 00:32:15,040
Speaker 4: other side, and she's just in the middle trying to

770
00:32:15,080 --> 00:32:17,120
Speaker 4: go to everyone's events. I felt really bad for you.

771
00:32:17,200 --> 00:32:18,880
Speaker 4: I was like, I don't know how she's doing this,

772
00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:21,880
Speaker 4: but she tried to get everyone together for a final

773
00:32:21,920 --> 00:32:24,840
Speaker 4: sit down, and I think you know you meant well.

774
00:32:25,480 --> 00:32:27,960
Speaker 1: Well, the fate of the show was in everyone's hands,

775
00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:33,200
Speaker 1: everybody's job. Okay, So was it that important to throw

776
00:32:33,240 --> 00:32:36,400
Speaker 1: away a franchise over the fights that you guys are having.

777
00:32:36,800 --> 00:32:40,440
Speaker 1: You can't make up. All the other housewives do it, Yeah,

778
00:32:40,480 --> 00:32:43,320
Speaker 1: with a lot just as bad stuff going on. So

779
00:32:43,400 --> 00:32:45,600
Speaker 1: at Lake City they made up at their reunion. There

780
00:32:45,720 --> 00:32:49,040
Speaker 1: was going to be no resolution, and we had one

781
00:32:49,120 --> 00:32:52,440
Speaker 1: last chance to do that, And I knew that's why

782
00:32:52,480 --> 00:32:56,960
Speaker 1: I sat there so defeated, because I saw what was

783
00:32:57,000 --> 00:32:57,400
Speaker 1: going on.

784
00:32:58,000 --> 00:33:00,720
Speaker 4: You would want everyone to come in and be nice

785
00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:01,280
Speaker 4: to each other.

786
00:33:02,760 --> 00:33:06,360
Speaker 1: I wanted everyone to be heard. And it was not

787
00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:11,120
Speaker 1: horrible glass broken, glass lunging over the table.

788
00:33:12,120 --> 00:33:14,040
Speaker 5: So what is it that you think is different?

789
00:33:14,080 --> 00:33:16,160
Speaker 2: Because you're right, the other shows have found ways to

790
00:33:16,200 --> 00:33:17,840
Speaker 2: get over things and kind of make it happen.

791
00:33:17,880 --> 00:33:19,880
Speaker 5: What do you think is different about New Jersey.

792
00:33:21,120 --> 00:33:25,400
Speaker 1: I think that the resentment runs very deep, and I

793
00:33:25,440 --> 00:33:27,880
Speaker 1: think that a lot of egos get in the way,

794
00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:29,960
Speaker 1: and I think that nobody wants to take the high

795
00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:33,400
Speaker 1: road at some point. You know, if you really want

796
00:33:33,440 --> 00:33:36,080
Speaker 1: to make up with somebody, if you want to, you

797
00:33:36,120 --> 00:33:39,320
Speaker 1: will eat a mile of shit and say, Okay, I'm

798
00:33:39,320 --> 00:33:42,080
Speaker 1: gonna start over. I'm going to forget everything that happened,

799
00:33:42,360 --> 00:33:44,360
Speaker 1: and I'm really never going to bring it up again,

800
00:33:44,480 --> 00:33:46,959
Speaker 1: really never going to bring it up again. And then

801
00:33:46,960 --> 00:33:49,040
Speaker 1: when you get in a fight, I think that they

802
00:33:49,720 --> 00:33:53,920
Speaker 1: Jersey fights so hard. Jersey we love hard, we fight hard.

803
00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:56,360
Speaker 1: So I think that there was a lot of things

804
00:33:56,600 --> 00:33:57,560
Speaker 1: that you couldn't come back from.

805
00:33:58,040 --> 00:33:58,920
Speaker 6: So that's it.

806
00:33:59,040 --> 00:34:01,760
Speaker 2: Okay case scenario, if they don't bring the show back

807
00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:03,680
Speaker 2: at all, what do you want your next year to

808
00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:04,040
Speaker 2: look like?

809
00:34:05,080 --> 00:34:07,400
Speaker 1: You know, I don't know. I never thought i'd be

810
00:34:07,400 --> 00:34:10,399
Speaker 1: a housewife. I never thought i'd get divorced. I never

811
00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:12,880
Speaker 1: thought i'd be a single mom for twenty five years.

812
00:34:13,080 --> 00:34:16,960
Speaker 1: Like these are just why think about where I'm going

813
00:34:17,000 --> 00:34:19,239
Speaker 1: to be. It's not up to me. Oh, but I'll

814
00:34:19,280 --> 00:34:23,160
Speaker 1: always work. I do have one insecurity, and that is

815
00:34:23,200 --> 00:34:24,840
Speaker 1: where am I going to be when I'm like seventy

816
00:34:24,920 --> 00:34:27,960
Speaker 1: years old? Like, financially, I think we have to really

817
00:34:28,320 --> 00:34:31,680
Speaker 1: plan for our futures. Of course, financially, a lot of us,

818
00:34:32,440 --> 00:34:35,040
Speaker 1: both of you included by things you don't need. Yes,

819
00:34:35,280 --> 00:34:37,200
Speaker 1: I don't know that you're saving the right way, like,

820
00:34:37,680 --> 00:34:40,799
Speaker 1: don't push your money away, like I've thrown so much

821
00:34:40,840 --> 00:34:42,960
Speaker 1: money away over the years. I should have invested it.

822
00:34:43,200 --> 00:34:45,399
Speaker 1: I should have had somebody who's smart like I don't

823
00:34:45,400 --> 00:34:47,759
Speaker 1: come from a father and mother who sat me down

824
00:34:47,800 --> 00:34:50,319
Speaker 1: and said, this is what you have to do with

825
00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:54,120
Speaker 1: your your finances, and do this. My mom's friend is

826
00:34:54,160 --> 00:34:57,839
Speaker 1: seventy years old and homeless, got divorced many many years ago,

827
00:34:58,040 --> 00:35:00,640
Speaker 1: outlived her money. How do you know where you're going

828
00:35:00,680 --> 00:35:02,319
Speaker 1: to be. You don't know. So make sure you have

829
00:35:02,400 --> 00:35:04,040
Speaker 1: that nest egg and forget about it.

830
00:35:04,360 --> 00:35:08,520
Speaker 2: I always say my parents had the best intentions, and

831
00:35:08,560 --> 00:35:10,520
Speaker 2: they would always tell me safe, safe, safe, safe, save.

832
00:35:10,600 --> 00:35:12,359
Speaker 2: That is the most important thing to do. Money doesn't

833
00:35:12,400 --> 00:35:15,759
Speaker 2: grow on trees. As I grew up, I realized it

834
00:35:15,840 --> 00:35:18,200
Speaker 2: kind of does if you plant it, if you invest

835
00:35:18,239 --> 00:35:21,000
Speaker 2: the right way. Right. Saving isn't the only thing to do.

836
00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:23,360
Speaker 2: When you save, you have that amount of money, but

837
00:35:23,440 --> 00:35:23,759
Speaker 2: if you.

838
00:35:23,719 --> 00:35:25,960
Speaker 5: Invest a little bit, you can make it grow.

839
00:35:26,400 --> 00:35:28,080
Speaker 2: And it took me way too long to learn that,

840
00:35:28,320 --> 00:35:30,040
Speaker 2: so I'm doing it now, but I do wish I

841
00:35:30,080 --> 00:35:31,120
Speaker 2: would have started sooner.

842
00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:34,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I wish I didn't spend so much money

843
00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:37,120
Speaker 1: on senseless shopping for clothes that I sell for a

844
00:35:37,200 --> 00:35:41,600
Speaker 1: dollar or where are you to give away? No, this is

845
00:35:41,640 --> 00:35:46,279
Speaker 1: back before with like I just had tons and tons

846
00:35:46,320 --> 00:35:48,040
Speaker 1: of stuff for what.

847
00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:51,520
Speaker 2: Well, I'm looking forward to seeing more of you because

848
00:35:52,320 --> 00:35:54,880
Speaker 2: you're doing great on the Traders thus far from what

849
00:35:54,880 --> 00:35:58,200
Speaker 2: I've seen, and Diamond's very excited about it obviously. The Housewives,

850
00:35:58,560 --> 00:36:00,600
Speaker 2: You've been wonderful there and I want.

851
00:36:00,480 --> 00:36:01,759
Speaker 5: To see more of the things that you have.

852
00:36:01,719 --> 00:36:04,080
Speaker 1: In the future. All Right, Well, you know, I'm on

853
00:36:04,120 --> 00:36:08,040
Speaker 1: this menopause journey. Guys, you're gonna You're.

854
00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:08,919
Speaker 5: All going to be there at some point.

855
00:36:08,960 --> 00:36:10,560
Speaker 1: You're all going to be there at some point. But

856
00:36:10,680 --> 00:36:12,799
Speaker 1: I'm learning about it now and I'm going to be

857
00:36:12,840 --> 00:36:15,560
Speaker 1: talking about it when I know more about it. But

858
00:36:15,600 --> 00:36:18,359
Speaker 1: there's not enough education, Like my mom didn't talk about it.

859
00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:22,560
Speaker 1: The gen xers still know nothing, but they're kind of

860
00:36:22,600 --> 00:36:25,759
Speaker 1: like the pioneer to saying like it's okay for what

861
00:36:25,880 --> 00:36:28,880
Speaker 1: women are going through because nobody gave a crap about

862
00:36:28,880 --> 00:36:32,040
Speaker 1: this and it affects your life. I'm just hoping that

863
00:36:32,080 --> 00:36:34,120
Speaker 1: like that's my that's kind of my thing right now.

864
00:36:34,400 --> 00:36:36,680
Speaker 2: I think that's so important. And we've talked about this

865
00:36:36,719 --> 00:36:41,280
Speaker 2: before women's health in general because so many studies, even

866
00:36:41,680 --> 00:36:44,680
Speaker 2: weirdly enough period studies were done on men, like what

867
00:36:45,000 --> 00:36:47,640
Speaker 2: women have really been neglected in the medical field.

868
00:36:47,680 --> 00:36:49,280
Speaker 1: Mental one hundred percent.

869
00:36:49,680 --> 00:36:53,480
Speaker 2: It's ingrained in us to keep it to yourself because

870
00:36:53,480 --> 00:36:54,160
Speaker 2: people try to.

871
00:36:54,080 --> 00:36:57,160
Speaker 1: Make it shameful, like you feel shameful, you feel less there,

872
00:36:57,200 --> 00:36:59,160
Speaker 1: and the doctors are like, oh, you'll just get over it.

873
00:36:59,160 --> 00:37:03,160
Speaker 1: Even female doctor to patients like I'm getting anxiety, I'm

874
00:37:03,200 --> 00:37:07,200
Speaker 1: getting hot flashes, i can't sleep. Sex life is zero,

875
00:37:07,440 --> 00:37:09,799
Speaker 1: and I come from we don't talk about that. Okay,

876
00:37:09,840 --> 00:37:13,640
Speaker 1: we don't talk about this, but it's embarrassing. It's not

877
00:37:13,880 --> 00:37:18,040
Speaker 1: sexy to talk about. But it's like a problem, and

878
00:37:18,120 --> 00:37:22,680
Speaker 1: a lot of marriages don't make it through. Women get depressed.

879
00:37:23,040 --> 00:37:25,040
Speaker 1: I've had young girls come up to me and say,

880
00:37:25,480 --> 00:37:29,240
Speaker 1: I heard you talking about menophos. Help my mom, like please,

881
00:37:29,480 --> 00:37:32,800
Speaker 1: my mom is suffering, and there is nothing for people.

882
00:37:32,840 --> 00:37:37,120
Speaker 1: Not everybody's eligible for hormones, not everybody wants to take hormones,

883
00:37:37,600 --> 00:37:40,440
Speaker 1: so what can I what can I find for women

884
00:37:40,880 --> 00:37:43,399
Speaker 1: that can't use that. I went without them for over

885
00:37:43,440 --> 00:37:45,759
Speaker 1: a year and a half and I suffered, so I

886
00:37:45,840 --> 00:37:48,480
Speaker 1: know the symptoms, and I finally gave into taking them.

887
00:37:48,760 --> 00:37:51,680
Speaker 1: So I know. But if you had breast cancer or

888
00:37:51,680 --> 00:37:55,040
Speaker 1: if you had cancer, you can't say hormones, you're not

889
00:37:55,080 --> 00:37:58,440
Speaker 1: eligible to take them. Yeah, it's embarrassing. Everything drives up

890
00:37:58,480 --> 00:38:03,160
Speaker 1: like it's embarrassing. It's embarrassing, and it's hurtful, and it's

891
00:38:03,320 --> 00:38:08,840
Speaker 1: mentally draining, and it's just it's just sucks. It sucks.

892
00:38:09,280 --> 00:38:11,759
Speaker 5: What's been the hardest part for me?

893
00:38:12,880 --> 00:38:16,040
Speaker 1: I mean the hot flashes, the lack of sleep, if

894
00:38:16,080 --> 00:38:18,279
Speaker 1: it wasn't for ozembic, the weight gain that I had

895
00:38:18,280 --> 00:38:21,440
Speaker 1: gained before I went on ozembic. You know, Okay, it

896
00:38:21,520 --> 00:38:24,200
Speaker 1: was just a lot. So I really want to help

897
00:38:24,360 --> 00:38:29,080
Speaker 1: find something for women, for somebody needs relief. There needs

898
00:38:29,080 --> 00:38:31,520
Speaker 1: to be a relief for this. It is not okay

899
00:38:31,520 --> 00:38:34,640
Speaker 1: because you're all it's gonna affect everybody. Of course, it

900
00:38:34,640 --> 00:38:36,160
Speaker 1: doesn't discriminate.

901
00:38:35,840 --> 00:38:38,719
Speaker 2: Unless you die, which hopefully, hopefully, yeah, reached this point.

902
00:38:39,080 --> 00:38:41,279
Speaker 1: But then you say, like, thank God, like age is

903
00:38:41,680 --> 00:38:44,960
Speaker 1: a gift because tomorrow is in promise to anyone. But

904
00:38:45,000 --> 00:38:47,520
Speaker 1: there's a quality of life too. They don't even learn

905
00:38:47,560 --> 00:38:51,120
Speaker 1: about medical menopause and medical school. There is now just

906
00:38:51,160 --> 00:38:54,239
Speaker 1: in the past few months, been a credited documentary as

907
00:38:54,280 --> 00:38:56,040
Speaker 1: a nurse that if you watch it you get like

908
00:38:56,120 --> 00:38:58,040
Speaker 1: credits towards your thing. That's it.

909
00:38:58,400 --> 00:39:00,839
Speaker 2: Have you found anything specifically, I don't need name brands

910
00:39:00,920 --> 00:39:01,640
Speaker 2: or anything like that, but.

911
00:39:01,640 --> 00:39:04,000
Speaker 1: Have you found replacements?

912
00:39:04,080 --> 00:39:04,440
Speaker 5: Okay?

913
00:39:04,880 --> 00:39:09,200
Speaker 1: So I take the patch and at night I take progesterone.

914
00:39:09,600 --> 00:39:12,640
Speaker 1: It's made a huge difference. But I also feel like

915
00:39:13,200 --> 00:39:14,960
Speaker 1: bad for the women, Like I feel a little bit

916
00:39:15,000 --> 00:39:17,080
Speaker 1: guilty that I can and not everybody can and they're

917
00:39:17,080 --> 00:39:17,800
Speaker 1: not getting relief.

918
00:39:17,800 --> 00:39:20,000
Speaker 2: And I am Yeah, you know now that you're even

919
00:39:20,040 --> 00:39:22,560
Speaker 2: saying this, I'm thinking about my own mom, who has

920
00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:26,560
Speaker 2: never said a word about menopause. She's not gonna feeling

921
00:39:26,600 --> 00:39:30,080
Speaker 2: badly nothing. And as much as you want to be, like, man,

922
00:39:30,200 --> 00:39:32,359
Speaker 2: she's a g she just powers through it. I wish

923
00:39:32,360 --> 00:39:33,920
Speaker 2: she would talk about I'm gonna call her when I

924
00:39:33,920 --> 00:39:35,359
Speaker 2: get out of here and just see how she's doing.

925
00:39:35,520 --> 00:39:37,640
Speaker 1: You should, because you're gonna need to know for your

926
00:39:37,719 --> 00:39:41,319
Speaker 1: own self. Yeah, like I said, it doesn't discriminate, and

927
00:39:41,360 --> 00:39:44,440
Speaker 1: it's really, it's like kind of sad, you know, like

928
00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:46,560
Speaker 1: why should we have to be ashamed to talk about

929
00:39:46,600 --> 00:39:49,400
Speaker 1: it because we're older, because it's not so sexy.

930
00:39:49,840 --> 00:39:50,160
Speaker 3: Please?

931
00:39:51,000 --> 00:39:55,480
Speaker 2: Older women are my favorite group of human beings because

932
00:39:55,520 --> 00:39:58,320
Speaker 2: those are the people who have lived and have advice

933
00:39:58,840 --> 00:40:01,960
Speaker 2: and it's all this things that I'm gonna find out

934
00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:03,400
Speaker 2: at one point in my life whether I want to

935
00:40:03,520 --> 00:40:05,480
Speaker 2: or not. People who are older than me, they know it,

936
00:40:05,760 --> 00:40:08,000
Speaker 2: I know more than women younger than me, and I

937
00:40:08,040 --> 00:40:10,200
Speaker 2: wish that we would just have a better open line

938
00:40:10,239 --> 00:40:13,919
Speaker 2: of communication and not fight against each other as far

939
00:40:13,960 --> 00:40:16,680
Speaker 2: as age goes, which I say to Diamond all the time.

940
00:40:16,920 --> 00:40:20,000
Speaker 2: I'm like, this whole battle of the generations is crazy

941
00:40:20,239 --> 00:40:23,759
Speaker 2: because all of us should be together, fighting together for

942
00:40:24,040 --> 00:40:28,120
Speaker 2: more awareness, health, benefits everything for us. We shouldn't be

943
00:40:28,120 --> 00:40:29,520
Speaker 2: fighting each other. We should be fighting together.

944
00:40:29,600 --> 00:40:32,000
Speaker 1: No, and I think about that all the time. But

945
00:40:32,719 --> 00:40:35,920
Speaker 1: one of the most humbling and most heart felt things

946
00:40:35,960 --> 00:40:39,319
Speaker 1: that I get from being on the show is your

947
00:40:39,400 --> 00:40:43,480
Speaker 1: age girls who come to me for anything like that

948
00:40:43,680 --> 00:40:46,680
Speaker 1: means the world to me because I didn't want to

949
00:40:46,719 --> 00:40:48,040
Speaker 1: have to go through all this shit I went through

950
00:40:48,040 --> 00:40:50,160
Speaker 1: in my life for to be in vain and not

951
00:40:50,200 --> 00:40:52,759
Speaker 1: be able to try to help another girl as she's

952
00:40:52,800 --> 00:40:55,040
Speaker 1: going through it, or be able to tell her. So

953
00:40:55,719 --> 00:40:58,080
Speaker 1: when someone trusts me enough to come to me and say,

954
00:40:58,840 --> 00:41:02,000
Speaker 1: oh my husband just left me, Oh my boyfriend cheated

955
00:41:02,000 --> 00:41:05,239
Speaker 1: on me, I mean, like, I know what you're going through.

956
00:41:05,280 --> 00:41:08,920
Speaker 1: I've been there, been there, so you know whatever it is,

957
00:41:09,520 --> 00:41:13,560
Speaker 1: raising kids, not having kids, getting through life, not feeling

958
00:41:13,560 --> 00:41:15,759
Speaker 1: great about yourself. I just want to be able to

959
00:41:16,280 --> 00:41:18,880
Speaker 1: at least talk to younger girls, because what else can

960
00:41:18,960 --> 00:41:20,640
Speaker 1: I give them. I'm not going to help you with

961
00:41:20,640 --> 00:41:25,560
Speaker 1: your mouth homework, but I could talk to you about life.

962
00:41:25,680 --> 00:41:27,640
Speaker 2: First of all, you're reaching a bunch of them right now,

963
00:41:27,680 --> 00:41:29,680
Speaker 2: which is amazing. You do it with your show anyway,

964
00:41:29,719 --> 00:41:31,720
Speaker 2: so it seems like you're kind of fulfilling your dream

965
00:41:31,880 --> 00:41:33,640
Speaker 2: of what you want to be able to do, and

966
00:41:33,680 --> 00:41:37,040
Speaker 2: that's incredible and I appreciate even hearing anything.

967
00:41:36,760 --> 00:41:38,839
Speaker 5: That you have to say about this. So thanks, thank

968
00:41:38,840 --> 00:41:40,080
Speaker 5: you for being here now.

969
00:41:40,160 --> 00:41:43,040
Speaker 1: I'm happy to be here. And I find like, don't

970
00:41:43,040 --> 00:41:47,120
Speaker 1: you think that sometimes you can't have all young housewives

971
00:41:47,160 --> 00:41:47,600
Speaker 1: on a show.

972
00:41:47,719 --> 00:41:51,239
Speaker 3: No, we're learning that with Rony with the.

973
00:41:51,600 --> 00:41:54,239
Speaker 1: Re need you need, you need.

974
00:41:55,120 --> 00:41:57,560
Speaker 2: I don't want all anything of anything I don't want

975
00:41:57,600 --> 00:42:01,520
Speaker 2: all young people doing anything anywhere, old people doing anything anywhere.

976
00:42:01,640 --> 00:42:03,720
Speaker 5: I enjoy collaboration, and I think.

977
00:42:03,560 --> 00:42:06,000
Speaker 2: That's where you learn the most and you gain the most,

978
00:42:06,400 --> 00:42:08,320
Speaker 2: because you're gonna have, like I said, the older generation

979
00:42:08,440 --> 00:42:10,359
Speaker 2: who can look at your plan and say, I can

980
00:42:10,400 --> 00:42:12,479
Speaker 2: tell you right now why that's not gonna work because

981
00:42:12,480 --> 00:42:14,759
Speaker 2: we tried that and it didn't work out. And then

982
00:42:14,800 --> 00:42:16,560
Speaker 2: you can have a younger generation saying, okay, so it

983
00:42:16,560 --> 00:42:17,520
Speaker 2: didn't work out that way.

984
00:42:17,719 --> 00:42:20,640
Speaker 5: Maybe this is something new that you don't know about. Collaboration.

985
00:42:20,800 --> 00:42:23,279
Speaker 2: People stop fighting each other. Yeah, if you have you

986
00:42:23,280 --> 00:42:24,120
Speaker 2: seen the substance.

987
00:42:25,160 --> 00:42:26,239
Speaker 1: No, I heard about it.

988
00:42:27,040 --> 00:42:27,480
Speaker 4: Watch it.

989
00:42:27,560 --> 00:42:30,160
Speaker 1: Why it's about what.

990
00:42:30,120 --> 00:42:31,680
Speaker 5: We're talking about right now is about all of this,

991
00:42:32,320 --> 00:42:34,000
Speaker 5: and it's incredible done.

992
00:42:34,440 --> 00:42:37,480
Speaker 1: My plastic surgeon told me about it. Did you see

993
00:42:37,560 --> 00:42:40,320
Speaker 1: my billboard on by the Holland Tunnel?

994
00:42:40,480 --> 00:42:41,000
Speaker 5: No?

995
00:42:41,480 --> 00:42:45,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, on the way into Yeah it was. It was

996
00:42:45,320 --> 00:42:48,720
Speaker 1: at the Lincoln Now it's at the My plastic surgeon

997
00:42:49,040 --> 00:42:52,880
Speaker 1: who did my facelift posted me. Because it's a natural

998
00:42:52,920 --> 00:42:55,480
Speaker 1: looking face lift. I don't let me tell you.

999
00:42:55,480 --> 00:42:57,120
Speaker 2: I've been looking at him, like, God, she's gorgeous, and

1000
00:42:57,120 --> 00:42:58,000
Speaker 2: it doesn't look like she's.

1001
00:42:58,920 --> 00:43:03,600
Speaker 1: Because doctor mar caralac in Wall Township. Tell your moms.

1002
00:43:03,640 --> 00:43:06,400
Speaker 1: You know you guys, don't if you want uh, the

1003
00:43:06,400 --> 00:43:09,560
Speaker 1: most wonderful doctor in the world. Yeah, so that's my billboard.

1004
00:43:09,600 --> 00:43:12,759
Speaker 1: He did it like because as a housewife, I was

1005
00:43:12,800 --> 00:43:16,239
Speaker 1: honest enough to tell people about getting my facelifted. Now

1006
00:43:16,239 --> 00:43:19,600
Speaker 1: he has so many people going to him as he should.

1007
00:43:19,880 --> 00:43:22,080
Speaker 1: He's amazing. I don't even have scars on my face.

1008
00:43:22,080 --> 00:43:22,839
Speaker 1: They're in my ear.

1009
00:43:23,040 --> 00:43:23,560
Speaker 5: You look great.

1010
00:43:23,640 --> 00:43:25,120
Speaker 3: Oh holy crap, Well you look good.

1011
00:43:25,239 --> 00:43:28,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you. So I could lie. You could if

1012
00:43:28,920 --> 00:43:30,960
Speaker 1: I wanted to lie, I could lie reasally.

1013
00:43:31,200 --> 00:43:34,480
Speaker 4: That's the good thing. That's why I love Dolores. She's authentic.

1014
00:43:34,760 --> 00:43:37,960
Speaker 4: You talk about everything. There's nothing. Well, there may be

1015
00:43:37,960 --> 00:43:39,759
Speaker 4: things that are off limits, but we wouldn't know because

1016
00:43:39,800 --> 00:43:40,800
Speaker 4: you tell so much.

1017
00:43:40,840 --> 00:43:42,759
Speaker 5: And genuinely, which is great. He said.

1018
00:43:42,760 --> 00:43:45,040
Speaker 2: One of my biggest pet peeves is when people act

1019
00:43:45,080 --> 00:43:46,800
Speaker 2: like they just started working out and eating healthy and

1020
00:43:46,800 --> 00:43:48,360
Speaker 2: they lost the way. I love that you're admitting that

1021
00:43:48,400 --> 00:43:50,360
Speaker 2: you took ozumpic to help you out. I love that

1022
00:43:50,360 --> 00:43:53,600
Speaker 2: you admit that you actually it was Mon Jarrow, Yeah Jorrow, Okay,

1023
00:43:53,800 --> 00:43:54,479
Speaker 2: to help you out.

1024
00:43:54,840 --> 00:43:58,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, help me thirty pounds that's incredible.

1025
00:43:58,120 --> 00:43:59,920
Speaker 5: You know how many people will never admit to it.

1026
00:44:00,560 --> 00:44:03,160
Speaker 1: I've got in trouble for that. What happens?

1027
00:44:03,360 --> 00:44:06,120
Speaker 3: Oh God, watched it live girl, my jaw drop. But

1028
00:44:06,160 --> 00:44:07,520
Speaker 3: I loved it for you because.

1029
00:44:08,520 --> 00:44:09,239
Speaker 5: Why were they mad?

1030
00:44:09,600 --> 00:44:12,200
Speaker 2: Were you one of the first adopters? And now everybody's

1031
00:44:12,239 --> 00:44:13,520
Speaker 2: doing it, so it's more acceptable.

1032
00:44:13,760 --> 00:44:16,920
Speaker 1: Everybody was doing it, they just were in so if

1033
00:44:17,080 --> 00:44:19,319
Speaker 1: somebody got skinny, they were doing it.

1034
00:44:19,520 --> 00:44:21,560
Speaker 5: I yes, I have seen it. I've seen it with

1035
00:44:21,640 --> 00:44:23,399
Speaker 5: my own two eyes. Are you still doing it now?

1036
00:44:23,680 --> 00:44:24,160
Speaker 1: One hundred?

1037
00:44:24,640 --> 00:44:27,040
Speaker 5: Okay, we're learning how to age, and we're learning that

1038
00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:28,799
Speaker 5: all these things are okay to talk about and to.

1039
00:44:28,760 --> 00:44:31,919
Speaker 1: Do well on your doctor's care, of course, I have

1040
00:44:31,960 --> 00:44:35,359
Speaker 1: an amazing doctor that I go to, All Health Medical and.

1041
00:44:35,320 --> 00:44:39,680
Speaker 2: Hackensack Hackensack University Hospital. Yes, don't get me started. I

1042
00:44:39,719 --> 00:44:41,640
Speaker 2: love them so much. But watch the Substance.

1043
00:44:41,680 --> 00:44:43,640
Speaker 5: I think you would really like it. Okay, it's long,

1044
00:44:44,000 --> 00:44:48,239
Speaker 5: it's disgusting, it's a fascinating movie. It's really really good.

1045
00:44:48,800 --> 00:44:49,359
Speaker 5: I loved it.

1046
00:44:49,520 --> 00:44:51,640
Speaker 2: I thought it held so much symbolism for so many

1047
00:44:51,680 --> 00:44:54,600
Speaker 2: different things. The choices that you make as a young person,

1048
00:44:54,640 --> 00:44:55,960
Speaker 2: how it affects you when you're older.

1049
00:44:56,520 --> 00:44:58,360
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that sounds great.

1050
00:44:58,480 --> 00:45:00,040
Speaker 5: It's incredible. Go watch it.

1051
00:45:00,120 --> 00:45:12,040
Speaker 6: Okay, okay, Diamond, what did you think?

1052
00:45:13,040 --> 00:45:13,560
Speaker 3: Loved it?

1053
00:45:13,680 --> 00:45:16,200
Speaker 4: I realized why I love her so much. It may

1054
00:45:16,239 --> 00:45:19,040
Speaker 4: not be because she's so chill. I think she's super authentic.

1055
00:45:19,480 --> 00:45:22,440
Speaker 4: And especially in New Jersey, the women aren't like or

1056
00:45:22,480 --> 00:45:24,239
Speaker 4: on the show Real Housewives in New Jersey. I'm not

1057
00:45:24,280 --> 00:45:25,279
Speaker 4: coming for the entire state.

1058
00:45:25,520 --> 00:45:28,320
Speaker 5: The entire state of New Jersey is inauthentic.

1059
00:45:28,600 --> 00:45:31,759
Speaker 4: But she's so authentic, like she goes through so much

1060
00:45:31,920 --> 00:45:36,440
Speaker 4: on the show, and just the way that she deals

1061
00:45:36,440 --> 00:45:38,600
Speaker 4: with things like we don't we didn't talk about this,

1062
00:45:38,680 --> 00:45:40,640
Speaker 4: but she was living with her ex husband for a

1063
00:45:40,680 --> 00:45:43,399
Speaker 4: really long time, like they'd gotten a divorce. He left

1064
00:45:43,440 --> 00:45:45,520
Speaker 4: her and then he decided to come back, but not

1065
00:45:45,600 --> 00:45:48,359
Speaker 4: like like twenty years later, not like trying to get

1066
00:45:48,400 --> 00:45:50,719
Speaker 4: back with her. They just became really good friends and

1067
00:45:50,760 --> 00:45:54,480
Speaker 4: he needed to move into her house. Yes, she let

1068
00:45:54,560 --> 00:45:57,239
Speaker 4: him move in. And it's like this big thing that

1069
00:45:57,320 --> 00:46:00,000
Speaker 4: happens where so many people online were like how could you,

1070
00:46:00,080 --> 00:46:01,680
Speaker 4: Like he left you, why would you let him come

1071
00:46:01,680 --> 00:46:03,240
Speaker 4: back in? He like, you know, you were a single

1072
00:46:03,239 --> 00:46:04,839
Speaker 4: mom with your kids, Like why would you let him

1073
00:46:04,840 --> 00:46:06,520
Speaker 4: come back in, and she was.

1074
00:46:06,760 --> 00:46:09,839
Speaker 3: Very like transparent and authentic about it.

1075
00:46:10,239 --> 00:46:12,560
Speaker 4: Like she made it very clear that like she didn't

1076
00:46:12,600 --> 00:46:14,799
Speaker 4: think anything would happen between them, but she wasn't really

1077
00:46:14,840 --> 00:46:17,359
Speaker 4: cutting herself off to it. She had a boyfriend at

1078
00:46:17,360 --> 00:46:20,600
Speaker 4: the time, and she was like, he doesn't care about

1079
00:46:20,640 --> 00:46:23,000
Speaker 4: the fact that I lived with my ex because like

1080
00:46:23,000 --> 00:46:24,080
Speaker 4: we're just living life.

1081
00:46:24,120 --> 00:46:25,440
Speaker 3: Like I really like her.

1082
00:46:25,960 --> 00:46:27,640
Speaker 1: She doesn't play up things. I love it.

1083
00:46:27,680 --> 00:46:28,000
Speaker 3: Do you know what?

1084
00:46:28,000 --> 00:46:30,719
Speaker 5: My favorite part of the interview was what you jumping in?

1085
00:46:31,120 --> 00:46:31,759
Speaker 1: Oh.

1086
00:46:31,800 --> 00:46:33,560
Speaker 2: I love when you're passionate about something and you have

1087
00:46:33,600 --> 00:46:36,680
Speaker 2: real questions. Because I don't know a lot about the Housewives.

1088
00:46:36,680 --> 00:46:39,080
Speaker 2: We talked about this before. I'm fascinated by them and

1089
00:46:39,120 --> 00:46:41,960
Speaker 2: at some point I will watch the show. Please Traders,

1090
00:46:42,040 --> 00:46:44,919
Speaker 2: I'm all in, I'm down. I love the Traders, but

1091
00:46:45,239 --> 00:46:47,040
Speaker 2: I'm not all about the Housewives. So it really helps

1092
00:46:47,080 --> 00:46:49,799
Speaker 2: when you are there, and I would like more of that.

1093
00:46:49,920 --> 00:46:52,400
Speaker 2: Oh wow, this is my proposal, Diamond. Yes, will you

1094
00:46:52,440 --> 00:46:53,480
Speaker 2: jump in on more interviews?

1095
00:46:53,600 --> 00:46:53,799
Speaker 4: Yes?

1096
00:46:54,600 --> 00:46:56,719
Speaker 5: Oh my god, We're gonna skip off into the sunset together.

1097
00:46:56,880 --> 00:46:58,879
Speaker 3: I'm going to regret saying yes quickly, but.

1098
00:46:58,920 --> 00:47:02,359
Speaker 5: Yes, just wait, all right?

1099
00:47:02,360 --> 00:47:04,919
Speaker 2: If people want to find you on Instagram and X

1100
00:47:04,960 --> 00:47:07,480
Speaker 2: I mean we're still calling it Twitter, Instagram and Twitter

1101
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Speaker 2: where they gonna find.

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Speaker 4: You at diamond Sincere, both in an underscore on that

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Speaker 4: we've been through this, you know.

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Speaker 2: I know, but I just see it might be one

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Speaker 2: new listener, this one episode.

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Speaker 3: Right on Twitter, it's at Diamonds Sincere with an underscore.

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00:47:19,560 --> 00:47:21,440
Speaker 3: It pisses me off, but yes.

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Speaker 2: At the end, the underscores at the end. And on

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Speaker 2: Instagram it's at Diamonds Sincere. I'm on baby hot Sauce anywhere.

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Speaker 2: And uh, that's about it, So we'll see you next time.

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Speaker 4: Oh.

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Speaker 2: As always, like, review, subscribe, follow, we appreciate it, and

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Speaker 2: say bye Diamond Bye.