1
00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,599
Speaker 1: I quit my job because they gave me extra work.

2
00:00:03,000 --> 00:00:06,240
Speaker 1: Am I the a hole? This is OKOP, home of

3
00:00:06,280 --> 00:00:10,080
Speaker 1: the craziest stories on Earth. I'm Sam and Riley is

4
00:00:10,119 --> 00:00:10,879
Speaker 1: Op the a hole.

5
00:00:10,920 --> 00:00:13,680
Speaker 2: I think you need to step up and do more work.

6
00:00:13,760 --> 00:00:15,840
Speaker 2: You know, more work equals more money. So yeah, you're

7
00:00:15,840 --> 00:00:18,279
Speaker 2: the ahole. You hate money, you hate providing, you hate

8
00:00:18,440 --> 00:00:19,240
Speaker 2: doing fun stuff.

9
00:00:19,360 --> 00:00:21,280
Speaker 1: Well that's harsh.

10
00:00:21,440 --> 00:00:23,239
Speaker 2: Always chase the bag. If you're not chasing the bag.

11
00:00:23,320 --> 00:00:25,919
Speaker 1: If you're not chasing the bag, what are you chasing exactly? Well,

12
00:00:26,239 --> 00:00:29,000
Speaker 1: let's see what is the actual case. This comes from

13
00:00:29,040 --> 00:00:33,360
Speaker 1: No Luck in Love for Real fr and they say,

14
00:00:34,200 --> 00:00:37,159
Speaker 1: I've been a server at this restaurant basically since it

15
00:00:37,200 --> 00:00:39,920
Speaker 1: started two years ago. I've given it my one D

16
00:00:40,200 --> 00:00:43,479
Speaker 1: ten percent and it wasn't enough. Dang. I was supposed

17
00:00:43,520 --> 00:00:45,479
Speaker 1: to be a server only, but I was basically a

18
00:00:45,520 --> 00:00:48,520
Speaker 1: manager without getting paid. I always covered when someone didn't

19
00:00:48,520 --> 00:00:50,199
Speaker 1: show up. I even had days where I had to

20
00:00:50,240 --> 00:00:53,440
Speaker 1: work as the only server slash bartender because they didn't

21
00:00:53,440 --> 00:00:56,440
Speaker 1: have enough staff. Then he started hiring way too many

22
00:00:56,440 --> 00:00:59,880
Speaker 1: people and I was consistently stuck with the worst ship.

23
00:01:00,040 --> 00:01:01,640
Speaker 3: Yes, that sucks.

24
00:01:02,160 --> 00:01:04,880
Speaker 1: Actually, you know, I had a job at Nike as

25
00:01:04,880 --> 00:01:07,320
Speaker 1: a shoe salesman back in the day. I'll tell you

26
00:01:07,360 --> 00:01:10,000
Speaker 1: about that later. I still made money, but come on,

27
00:01:10,360 --> 00:01:13,400
Speaker 1: I was there when no one else was. Then everyone

28
00:01:13,440 --> 00:01:16,319
Speaker 1: started quitting again. I was the only employee there that

29
00:01:16,400 --> 00:01:20,320
Speaker 1: had been with them since the start before everyone else left.

30
00:01:20,520 --> 00:01:22,240
Speaker 1: So it was me and a girl I had trained

31
00:01:22,280 --> 00:01:24,920
Speaker 1: about a year ago. We were the oldest servers there,

32
00:01:24,959 --> 00:01:26,959
Speaker 1: and there was a chef who's been in with us

33
00:01:26,959 --> 00:01:30,120
Speaker 1: for eight months, the only staff he managed to constantly keep.

34
00:01:30,600 --> 00:01:33,480
Speaker 1: The boss came in furious and started berating us like

35
00:01:33,520 --> 00:01:35,520
Speaker 1: he was doing us a favor keeping the place open,

36
00:01:35,760 --> 00:01:37,880
Speaker 1: and we had to kiss his feet because of it.

37
00:01:38,280 --> 00:01:40,319
Speaker 1: He started by thanking us for being with him for

38
00:01:40,360 --> 00:01:43,800
Speaker 1: the longest to saying we were shit at our job.

39
00:01:44,040 --> 00:01:46,960
Speaker 1: Then he promoted a new server who, to that day,

40
00:01:47,040 --> 00:01:49,880
Speaker 1: a couple of minutes before he came in, was asking

41
00:01:50,280 --> 00:01:53,800
Speaker 1: me how to make some drinks and needed help closing

42
00:01:53,800 --> 00:01:57,279
Speaker 1: a tab. That was the last straw. I just stood

43
00:01:57,360 --> 00:02:00,840
Speaker 1: up and quit. I can't believe it. There is an update,

44
00:02:01,120 --> 00:02:04,559
Speaker 1: but there are also some relevant comments. But uh, Riley,

45
00:02:04,600 --> 00:02:07,800
Speaker 1: if someone was promoted over you for in this case,

46
00:02:07,800 --> 00:02:08,400
Speaker 1: would you quit?

47
00:02:08,880 --> 00:02:13,680
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, I mean they don't value me in my

48
00:02:13,760 --> 00:02:16,840
Speaker 2: work ethics, so they don't value my work ethic and

49
00:02:16,880 --> 00:02:19,600
Speaker 2: I think that personally, so I would leave. What about you,

50
00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:21,880
Speaker 2: we sh stick it out for the end of shift,

51
00:02:21,960 --> 00:02:22,680
Speaker 2: not being an a hole.

52
00:02:23,680 --> 00:02:24,840
Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't.

53
00:02:26,840 --> 00:02:28,880
Speaker 2: Oky. I probably would stick it out to the new shift,

54
00:02:28,880 --> 00:02:29,880
Speaker 2: but I probably be like I'm done.

55
00:02:30,840 --> 00:02:34,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean in respect to the other servers and work. Yeah,

56
00:02:34,320 --> 00:02:35,799
Speaker 1: I always stick it out to the end of the shift.

57
00:02:37,320 --> 00:02:40,360
Speaker 1: But I think OP was like, just so tired of

58
00:02:40,400 --> 00:02:44,360
Speaker 1: being berated. Yeah, makes sense anyway, relevant comments. So either

59
00:02:44,400 --> 00:02:47,240
Speaker 1: boss is under extreme distress and projecting it out on

60
00:02:47,280 --> 00:02:50,040
Speaker 1: you guys, or boss is really bad at their job,

61
00:02:50,639 --> 00:02:53,240
Speaker 1: and OP responds, he's just a rich dude who's never there.

62
00:02:53,480 --> 00:02:55,560
Speaker 1: It probably hurt his ego that ninety percent of his

63
00:02:55,600 --> 00:02:57,200
Speaker 1: staff quit in the last three weeks.

64
00:02:57,480 --> 00:02:58,720
Speaker 3: Ninety percent. That's crazy.

65
00:02:59,160 --> 00:03:01,520
Speaker 1: It's the only expert nation I can think of, but think,

66
00:03:02,320 --> 00:03:05,959
Speaker 1: but thank you. I do hope what comes next is better.

67
00:03:06,760 --> 00:03:10,720
Speaker 1: And then someone asks is this new manager related to

68
00:03:10,760 --> 00:03:14,040
Speaker 1: the owner or something? And then this is in reference

69
00:03:14,040 --> 00:03:16,919
Speaker 1: to the person who's just promoted, and then OP says, yeah,

70
00:03:16,960 --> 00:03:19,880
Speaker 1: she is friends with the owner. We all suspect they

71
00:03:19,960 --> 00:03:24,200
Speaker 1: may have had some more going on though, Ooh yikes,

72
00:03:24,360 --> 00:03:32,000
Speaker 1: friends with q pons, friends with promotions HMMs, friends with

73
00:03:32,280 --> 00:03:36,760
Speaker 1: promotional benefits. Did you get the money you're owed from working? Nope,

74
00:03:36,840 --> 00:03:38,760
Speaker 1: That's the only thing I'm worried about. They pay every

75
00:03:38,800 --> 00:03:41,440
Speaker 1: week on Wednesday. Tips are mostly in credit cards, so

76
00:03:41,480 --> 00:03:43,800
Speaker 1: they pay that out in the hourly wage in check.

77
00:03:43,880 --> 00:03:45,680
Speaker 1: So right now, the only thing I can do is

78
00:03:45,720 --> 00:03:49,520
Speaker 1: wait for Wednesday. What are they doing without you? Yes,

79
00:03:50,040 --> 00:03:52,600
Speaker 1: they are closed for this week, or at least until

80
00:03:52,600 --> 00:03:55,560
Speaker 1: they manage to get more people with experience. Turns out

81
00:03:55,560 --> 00:03:57,640
Speaker 1: they were counting on me to train the new servers

82
00:03:57,800 --> 00:04:00,360
Speaker 1: because their new supervisor doesn't know anything about how the

83
00:04:00,360 --> 00:04:03,720
Speaker 1: restaurant works. Also, the other two people who were there

84
00:04:03,760 --> 00:04:04,640
Speaker 1: with me quit to date.

85
00:04:05,200 --> 00:04:06,200
Speaker 3: Yo.

86
00:04:06,440 --> 00:04:09,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, at the very least I get the satisfaction that

87
00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:12,160
Speaker 1: he had to close for a few days after I left.

88
00:04:12,440 --> 00:04:14,480
Speaker 1: I know he must be a livid right now because

89
00:04:14,480 --> 00:04:17,040
Speaker 1: of it, so at least I get that since I

90
00:04:17,080 --> 00:04:21,720
Speaker 1: know he's not going to change. And there is an

91
00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:27,279
Speaker 1: update that's crazy army with I mean OPI is literally

92
00:04:27,360 --> 00:04:28,719
Speaker 1: holding the whole operation together.

93
00:04:29,120 --> 00:04:31,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, you can't treat people like that, if you if

94
00:04:31,279 --> 00:04:33,720
Speaker 2: they're integral part of your team.

95
00:04:34,200 --> 00:04:37,680
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't think the owner even knew. Yeah,

96
00:04:38,279 --> 00:04:40,200
Speaker 1: was there a time that you felt not valued in

97
00:04:40,200 --> 00:04:40,599
Speaker 1: your job?

98
00:04:40,800 --> 00:04:43,239
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, one hundred. Just want to work with you guys,

99
00:04:44,960 --> 00:04:48,800
Speaker 2: Like when I felt pretty valued at the sawmill. Sometimes

100
00:04:48,839 --> 00:04:52,800
Speaker 2: whenever I would give ideas to the to the gun company,

101
00:04:52,960 --> 00:04:55,760
Speaker 2: slash at the door company I would work for, they

102
00:04:55,880 --> 00:04:57,920
Speaker 2: didn't hear that, or they try to make it their idea,

103
00:04:58,560 --> 00:05:00,520
Speaker 2: and it just like I didn't really I feel like

104
00:05:00,560 --> 00:05:01,720
Speaker 2: I had a place.

105
00:05:02,160 --> 00:05:06,560
Speaker 1: Yeah sense, Yeah, you're like like the ideas. It was

106
00:05:06,600 --> 00:05:08,400
Speaker 1: never like, oh, like Riley came to us, is this

107
00:05:08,480 --> 00:05:10,960
Speaker 1: really cool thing. It was more like that's a good idea,

108
00:05:11,120 --> 00:05:12,960
Speaker 1: and let me just take it for my own and

109
00:05:13,160 --> 00:05:15,599
Speaker 1: brush this punk kid to the side.

110
00:05:15,880 --> 00:05:18,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's hard working with family and friends. But I've

111
00:05:18,360 --> 00:05:21,200
Speaker 2: always worked with family and friends. But this has been

112
00:05:21,200 --> 00:05:22,120
Speaker 2: a really good situation.

113
00:05:22,279 --> 00:05:24,599
Speaker 1: But yeah, I mean it's just finding the right people.

114
00:05:24,960 --> 00:05:27,400
Speaker 2: What about you, whyt you to quit interviewing porn stars?

115
00:05:28,040 --> 00:05:31,360
Speaker 1: That company went under. Yeah, it was so fun though.

116
00:05:31,400 --> 00:05:33,040
Speaker 1: I had a great time. It was it was like

117
00:05:33,120 --> 00:05:35,040
Speaker 1: it was really educational. I felt like I learned to

118
00:05:35,040 --> 00:05:37,880
Speaker 1: tell stories really well. Oh no, it's like it was like,

119
00:05:38,040 --> 00:05:41,560
Speaker 1: I mean, like these people are entrepreneurs, it's just like

120
00:05:41,560 --> 00:05:43,080
Speaker 1: they're doing it in an unconventional way.

121
00:05:43,120 --> 00:05:45,320
Speaker 2: You know, dude, this man thinks out of the box.

122
00:05:45,360 --> 00:05:47,120
Speaker 2: This really I see the root of that.

123
00:05:47,760 --> 00:05:49,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, wow, it's fun.

124
00:05:49,160 --> 00:05:49,719
Speaker 2: That's crazy.

125
00:05:49,800 --> 00:05:51,880
Speaker 1: And then right after that, I think I just started

126
00:05:51,880 --> 00:05:54,160
Speaker 1: to do things on my own and just get clients.

127
00:05:54,520 --> 00:05:57,480
Speaker 2: Heck, yeah, I never looked back back.

128
00:05:58,680 --> 00:06:01,440
Speaker 1: Here I am still I'll not looking back. Still, welcome back.

129
00:06:01,640 --> 00:06:05,440
Speaker 1: Just looking straight into your eyes. We're gonna r Yeah,

130
00:06:06,720 --> 00:06:08,520
Speaker 1: it's just behind the camera and I just gotta help boot.

131
00:06:08,720 --> 00:06:10,080
Speaker 2: Yeah. We do this a little bit late.

132
00:06:10,680 --> 00:06:13,400
Speaker 1: So here's the update. I made a post last week

133
00:06:13,400 --> 00:06:16,359
Speaker 1: about quitting midshift. It turns out shit hit the fans,

134
00:06:16,400 --> 00:06:19,080
Speaker 1: so I thought i'll update you guys. So I walked

135
00:06:19,120 --> 00:06:21,359
Speaker 1: out after he berated me and my two co workers,

136
00:06:21,400 --> 00:06:24,000
Speaker 1: who were the only people that knew what they were doing.

137
00:06:24,520 --> 00:06:27,000
Speaker 1: After I walked out, the other server I had trained

138
00:06:27,080 --> 00:06:30,400
Speaker 1: quit after there after her shift was over. That left

139
00:06:31,000 --> 00:06:33,520
Speaker 1: that left them with their new supervisor who didn't know

140
00:06:33,600 --> 00:06:36,479
Speaker 1: shit and his rude to customers, and her friend who

141
00:06:36,480 --> 00:06:39,599
Speaker 1: had started that same day so they both don't know anything.

142
00:06:39,680 --> 00:06:41,880
Speaker 1: They decided to close for a few weeks since they

143
00:06:41,920 --> 00:06:44,719
Speaker 1: now didn't have servers or anyone to train them. I

144
00:06:44,839 --> 00:06:47,000
Speaker 1: was the one who trained ninety five percent of the

145
00:06:47,040 --> 00:06:50,000
Speaker 1: servers that worked there. Most of them it was their

146
00:06:50,080 --> 00:06:52,400
Speaker 1: first job, and when they left my hands, they found

147
00:06:52,400 --> 00:06:55,840
Speaker 1: better jobs. So I'm proud of that. Come Wednesday, when

148
00:06:55,880 --> 00:06:58,560
Speaker 1: I'm supposed to pick up my check, they were closed.

149
00:06:58,600 --> 00:07:01,360
Speaker 1: So I call them, didn't pick up the first three times,

150
00:07:01,600 --> 00:07:04,360
Speaker 1: send a text. They didn't reply until late at night

151
00:07:04,600 --> 00:07:07,960
Speaker 1: that we should come to the restaurant Thursday. On Thursday,

152
00:07:08,080 --> 00:07:11,000
Speaker 1: he told us there were On Thursday, he told us

153
00:07:11,200 --> 00:07:13,480
Speaker 1: that there was money missing from last week and he

154
00:07:13,520 --> 00:07:16,440
Speaker 1: wouldn't pay us until he knew what happened to the money,

155
00:07:16,720 --> 00:07:19,920
Speaker 1: and threatened to go to the police. We said we

156
00:07:20,000 --> 00:07:22,480
Speaker 1: said he should check the security cameras and we didn't

157
00:07:22,480 --> 00:07:25,240
Speaker 1: take anything. Still, he didn't want to pay us and

158
00:07:25,280 --> 00:07:27,760
Speaker 1: told us to wait till Friday, so we did. This

159
00:07:27,800 --> 00:07:30,960
Speaker 1: is sketchy though, Yeah. Friday, he made us wait at

160
00:07:30,960 --> 00:07:33,040
Speaker 1: the office for an hour before telling us to come

161
00:07:33,080 --> 00:07:35,400
Speaker 1: to the restaurant because he was there. We went to

162
00:07:35,440 --> 00:07:38,080
Speaker 1: the restaurant where he was talking to his new staff.

163
00:07:38,480 --> 00:07:38,720
Speaker 4: There.

164
00:07:38,760 --> 00:07:41,440
Speaker 1: He berated us again in front of his new staff,

165
00:07:41,480 --> 00:07:44,400
Speaker 1: saying we didn't manage to close him down because he

166
00:07:44,520 --> 00:07:48,080
Speaker 1: already had new employees. I said, seems to me like

167
00:07:48,160 --> 00:07:52,600
Speaker 1: you are closed, But okay, savage. He was mad in

168
00:07:52,680 --> 00:07:55,000
Speaker 1: dogshit for a while before giving us our checks and

169
00:07:55,040 --> 00:07:57,680
Speaker 1: threatening to sue because we closed him down for a

170
00:07:57,680 --> 00:08:00,160
Speaker 1: few weeks. The irony, what are you going to You're

171
00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:04,040
Speaker 1: gonna sue too? Like, I don't know, possibly college kids

172
00:08:04,160 --> 00:08:05,960
Speaker 1: or how old is OPI.

173
00:08:06,720 --> 00:08:09,520
Speaker 2: I should not say or he or they? I don't know.

174
00:08:10,160 --> 00:08:11,880
Speaker 2: I'm not assuming anything right now.

175
00:08:12,160 --> 00:08:14,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean that's I mean, this is like a

176
00:08:14,640 --> 00:08:17,400
Speaker 1: rich dude trying to sue servers, like come on, like

177
00:08:17,440 --> 00:08:20,000
Speaker 1: who you're coming after? As of now, he still hasn't

178
00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:23,640
Speaker 1: done anything, but I'll guess, but I guess I'll update

179
00:08:23,720 --> 00:08:26,840
Speaker 1: if something does happen. I already contacted the lawyer just

180
00:08:26,880 --> 00:08:30,280
Speaker 1: in case all of this keeps going to shit, and

181
00:08:30,320 --> 00:08:34,199
Speaker 1: then relevant comments if Op said anything. I wanted to

182
00:08:34,240 --> 00:08:36,160
Speaker 1: say a lot of things, but just standing there and

183
00:08:36,200 --> 00:08:39,080
Speaker 1: looking like I didn't care made him matter. He just

184
00:08:39,160 --> 00:08:43,559
Speaker 1: kept raising his voice and I just smiled, enjoying the distress.

185
00:08:44,640 --> 00:08:47,480
Speaker 1: He's just making empty threats. I think someone's saying basically

186
00:08:47,600 --> 00:08:49,880
Speaker 1: to the law stuff. Yeah, that's what I think too.

187
00:08:50,200 --> 00:08:52,600
Speaker 1: I'm sure he wouldn't do anything if he wants it

188
00:08:52,640 --> 00:08:55,000
Speaker 1: to get ugly. I know a lot of shit about

189
00:08:55,040 --> 00:08:58,480
Speaker 1: that place. So I'm going so I'm going down. He's

190
00:08:58,559 --> 00:09:02,679
Speaker 1: going with me, savage, No way. The new people are

191
00:09:02,720 --> 00:09:04,719
Speaker 1: going to last long, right, I could see it in

192
00:09:04,760 --> 00:09:07,120
Speaker 1: their faces. They weren't going to last long. The manager

193
00:09:07,280 --> 00:09:10,240
Speaker 1: just hit in the kitchen. The new employees were there speechless.

194
00:09:10,480 --> 00:09:12,720
Speaker 1: I was listening and acting like I didn't care, and

195
00:09:12,760 --> 00:09:15,320
Speaker 1: he was just about to explode. If they didn't quit

196
00:09:15,400 --> 00:09:18,720
Speaker 1: after that, I wish them luck. And then someone else said,

197
00:09:18,760 --> 00:09:21,000
Speaker 1: depending on your state, he legally could have been required

198
00:09:21,000 --> 00:09:22,920
Speaker 1: to pay you in twenty four hours, and you could

199
00:09:23,080 --> 00:09:23,640
Speaker 1: escalate this.

200
00:09:24,559 --> 00:09:25,520
Speaker 3: Op responds.

201
00:09:25,600 --> 00:09:27,680
Speaker 1: I already have my money, and if I can just

202
00:09:27,880 --> 00:09:30,439
Speaker 1: forget about him and move on, I prefer to do that.

203
00:09:30,760 --> 00:09:33,040
Speaker 1: He's a rich dude with a lot of influence around here,

204
00:09:33,160 --> 00:09:35,800
Speaker 1: so I would prefer not to deal with him anymore,

205
00:09:36,480 --> 00:09:42,160
Speaker 1: which I understand. Like, what a terrible working situation.

206
00:09:42,360 --> 00:09:45,040
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, I'm glad you got out of that that ooh.

207
00:09:45,679 --> 00:09:50,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I've never had like a super terrible, terrible

208
00:09:50,520 --> 00:09:52,439
Speaker 1: I like, like we like. I mean, John and I

209
00:09:52,480 --> 00:09:54,720
Speaker 1: have worked with people that we just didn't like that much.

210
00:09:54,840 --> 00:09:57,800
Speaker 1: But I feel like I've never had like a super

211
00:09:57,840 --> 00:09:58,480
Speaker 1: bad job.

212
00:09:58,600 --> 00:10:00,560
Speaker 2: I worked as a waiter for like a month to school.

213
00:10:01,640 --> 00:10:05,400
Speaker 2: It was just mainly me, Okay, So I went there

214
00:10:05,440 --> 00:10:08,040
Speaker 2: and they were like, guys, don't work last longest servers.

215
00:10:08,040 --> 00:10:10,560
Speaker 2: I'm like whatever, I'll stick it out. And it got

216
00:10:10,640 --> 00:10:13,720
Speaker 2: it got bad, Like why the first day I was

217
00:10:13,760 --> 00:10:16,840
Speaker 2: a waiter, I was with another waitress. She was teaching

218
00:10:16,880 --> 00:10:19,640
Speaker 2: me what to do and stuff. She literally broke down

219
00:10:19,679 --> 00:10:22,400
Speaker 2: in tears. It was because the first person we talked

220
00:10:22,400 --> 00:10:25,640
Speaker 2: to was a freaking caring right out the gate, first table,

221
00:10:26,360 --> 00:10:28,720
Speaker 2: and and she was like going, she was like having

222
00:10:28,840 --> 00:10:31,720
Speaker 2: some changes in hormones and like medical stuff or whatever.

223
00:10:32,120 --> 00:10:33,959
Speaker 2: She said that was the reason why. But I was like, wow,

224
00:10:34,120 --> 00:10:37,920
Speaker 2: this could not be more reduction. Yeah, I felt like

225
00:10:37,960 --> 00:10:41,000
Speaker 2: a TV show. And it just got worse from there.

226
00:10:41,040 --> 00:10:43,080
Speaker 2: Like I did all right, I'm not like when it

227
00:10:43,080 --> 00:10:44,520
Speaker 2: comes to little little details.

228
00:10:44,520 --> 00:10:46,080
Speaker 3: I did not feel like you would be but you.

229
00:10:46,080 --> 00:10:49,920
Speaker 1: Would be pretty good. You're pretty like this is me at.

230
00:10:49,840 --> 00:10:53,000
Speaker 2: Like nineteen and I was still learning all the personable

231
00:10:53,080 --> 00:10:56,200
Speaker 2: things yeah, which I still was, but now I killed,

232
00:10:56,240 --> 00:10:58,040
Speaker 2: but then I'll get tipped.

233
00:10:58,480 --> 00:10:59,640
Speaker 1: You get all of that tip, dude.

234
00:10:59,640 --> 00:11:02,199
Speaker 2: I loved to seeing the old ladies.

235
00:11:02,040 --> 00:11:06,360
Speaker 1: Like, oh dear, you could make the old ladies smile smiley.

236
00:11:06,400 --> 00:11:06,840
Speaker 2: Riley.

237
00:11:08,080 --> 00:11:10,960
Speaker 1: I in Australia, so when I was studying abroad there.

238
00:11:11,520 --> 00:11:14,160
Speaker 1: Before I got a good job at Nike, which I loved,

239
00:11:14,200 --> 00:11:20,280
Speaker 1: I was a shoe salesman. But before that I was training.

240
00:11:20,360 --> 00:11:23,600
Speaker 1: So you know those guys and girls that like stand

241
00:11:23,640 --> 00:11:28,360
Speaker 1: outside of whole foods or like grocery stores and be like, yeah,

242
00:11:28,520 --> 00:11:32,000
Speaker 1: a moment to donate, you know, a dollar to a

243
00:11:32,360 --> 00:11:37,160
Speaker 1: child in need. You know those people. Yeah, So I

244
00:11:37,360 --> 00:11:42,160
Speaker 1: was applying to be one of those people. And it's

245
00:11:42,200 --> 00:11:46,280
Speaker 1: weird because you get paid for every donation, like recurring

246
00:11:46,280 --> 00:11:49,320
Speaker 1: donation that you bring in, so like like like and

247
00:11:49,400 --> 00:11:51,800
Speaker 1: these guys I remember, like the meeting.

248
00:11:51,640 --> 00:11:54,680
Speaker 4: Was like, you know how I got this rolex by

249
00:11:54,880 --> 00:11:58,760
Speaker 4: helping the children in Africa with a belly full of

250
00:11:58,840 --> 00:12:01,480
Speaker 4: rice if you eat. So it's like it was like

251
00:12:02,000 --> 00:12:05,079
Speaker 4: just because we're working in charity doesn't mean we can't

252
00:12:05,080 --> 00:12:06,200
Speaker 4: get fat stacks.

253
00:12:06,280 --> 00:12:09,280
Speaker 1: And I'm like looking like this is that's not the

254
00:12:09,280 --> 00:12:12,960
Speaker 1: place that I want to be, but we I remember

255
00:12:13,679 --> 00:12:17,480
Speaker 1: I had my first post outside of this grocery store

256
00:12:17,520 --> 00:12:20,400
Speaker 1: and it was like an eight hour day and I'm

257
00:12:20,440 --> 00:12:22,640
Speaker 1: sitting like, hey, do you have a moment, Do you

258
00:12:23,040 --> 00:12:25,960
Speaker 1: have a moment, and just everyone's just walking by you,

259
00:12:26,120 --> 00:12:28,200
Speaker 1: not wanting to look at you. And I was with

260
00:12:28,240 --> 00:12:30,320
Speaker 1: this other person who was like a more senior person,

261
00:12:30,840 --> 00:12:34,199
Speaker 1: and that day I did not make a single sale,

262
00:12:34,240 --> 00:12:38,880
Speaker 1: like nothing, nothing at all. And what they make, they

263
00:12:38,920 --> 00:12:41,000
Speaker 1: didn't make anything either. They didn't make anything. And the

264
00:12:41,040 --> 00:12:43,280
Speaker 1: thing is you weren't paid by the hour. You were

265
00:12:43,320 --> 00:12:46,920
Speaker 1: paid only on commission, and so I made nothing that

266
00:12:47,040 --> 00:12:52,720
Speaker 1: day and I'm like, this sucks, It sucks.

267
00:12:52,840 --> 00:12:54,280
Speaker 3: It was the worst job.

268
00:12:54,400 --> 00:12:58,000
Speaker 1: And so but luckily at the when I was applying

269
00:12:58,040 --> 00:12:59,719
Speaker 1: and doing the training, there was this girl I met

270
00:12:59,760 --> 00:13:02,400
Speaker 1: and kind of hit it off, and she was like, hey,

271
00:13:02,559 --> 00:13:04,280
Speaker 1: I actually have a job at Nike. Maybe I could

272
00:13:04,320 --> 00:13:07,080
Speaker 1: get you an interview. And I'm like that sounds so

273
00:13:07,160 --> 00:13:10,120
Speaker 1: much better, and so she talked to her boss and

274
00:13:10,160 --> 00:13:12,720
Speaker 1: got me the job at Nike. And we're acting Christina.

275
00:13:12,760 --> 00:13:15,680
Speaker 1: She's great, Christina, that one, no, not that one, no

276
00:13:15,720 --> 00:13:19,840
Speaker 1: different Christina Australian Christina. She got me a job at

277
00:13:19,920 --> 00:13:22,640
Speaker 1: Nike and it was so much fun. And I got

278
00:13:22,679 --> 00:13:24,719
Speaker 1: like my Nike shoes and was all decked out and

279
00:13:24,800 --> 00:13:25,920
Speaker 1: Nike gear. Its pretty fun.

280
00:13:26,160 --> 00:13:28,360
Speaker 2: Imagine us working out like somewhere like that.

281
00:13:28,559 --> 00:13:30,880
Speaker 1: It was, dude, it was great. It was great. It

282
00:13:30,920 --> 00:13:33,040
Speaker 1: was a vibe because like you get to talk to people, yeah,

283
00:13:33,040 --> 00:13:34,920
Speaker 1: and you get to talk to your coworkers and you're

284
00:13:34,920 --> 00:13:38,079
Speaker 1: just kind of like vibing out. Like like working that

285
00:13:38,160 --> 00:13:40,920
Speaker 1: retail job was like pretty fun. I enjoyed it, and

286
00:13:41,000 --> 00:13:43,079
Speaker 1: I didn't really have many I didn't I don't think

287
00:13:43,120 --> 00:13:45,080
Speaker 1: I had a bad experience. Like there was one French

288
00:13:45,120 --> 00:13:50,320
Speaker 1: guy that was like adamant that he was a different

289
00:13:50,360 --> 00:13:52,640
Speaker 1: size than he was and he was like, no I

290
00:13:52,679 --> 00:13:54,920
Speaker 1: know my size, don't tell me what my size is.

291
00:13:54,960 --> 00:13:58,600
Speaker 1: And I'm like all right, dude. But like that, like

292
00:13:58,679 --> 00:14:01,880
Speaker 1: it was like only a originally annoying case, Like it

293
00:14:01,920 --> 00:14:05,840
Speaker 1: wasn't really bad at all, and you know, it's some

294
00:14:05,840 --> 00:14:07,720
Speaker 1: spice like I but I didn't really have that many

295
00:14:07,880 --> 00:14:09,480
Speaker 1: movies because of Australia. But I didn't have that many

296
00:14:09,600 --> 00:14:10,439
Speaker 1: bad interactions.

297
00:14:10,440 --> 00:14:11,199
Speaker 2: How long were you there for?

298
00:14:12,000 --> 00:14:14,520
Speaker 1: I was there for like four months maybe wow or

299
00:14:14,559 --> 00:14:17,120
Speaker 1: five months and then I left.

300
00:14:17,840 --> 00:14:19,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, that's awesome.

301
00:14:19,640 --> 00:14:20,080
Speaker 3: It was fun.

302
00:14:20,160 --> 00:14:21,520
Speaker 1: It was fun. I had a good time, good time.

303
00:14:21,560 --> 00:14:24,800
Speaker 2: I'd love to meet you as like finding some shoes

304
00:14:24,880 --> 00:14:25,920
Speaker 2: if we would have met that way.

305
00:14:26,040 --> 00:14:28,080
Speaker 1: Do you want to see my Australian job application?

306
00:14:29,040 --> 00:14:29,680
Speaker 3: You have it?

307
00:14:29,920 --> 00:14:30,360
Speaker 1: Yeah?

308
00:14:30,800 --> 00:14:32,040
Speaker 2: Where do you have? Like here?

309
00:14:32,640 --> 00:14:35,400
Speaker 1: If I have a vid? I made a video of it.

310
00:14:36,440 --> 00:14:39,600
Speaker 1: Gotis godis that same YouTube channel? Look up Sammy at

311
00:14:39,640 --> 00:14:40,040
Speaker 1: Duck Died.

312
00:14:40,680 --> 00:14:44,080
Speaker 2: Should have applied for like a video that like.

313
00:14:45,760 --> 00:14:46,920
Speaker 3: If I was like.

314
00:14:47,200 --> 00:14:49,440
Speaker 1: This for Nike, this is for no, this is for

315
00:14:49,520 --> 00:14:52,120
Speaker 1: Meltwater and this is another job application that I did.

316
00:14:52,240 --> 00:14:54,160
Speaker 2: Oh okay, okay, and they didn't accept you.

317
00:14:55,040 --> 00:14:57,600
Speaker 1: No, I didn't get the job, but they saw that

318
00:14:57,720 --> 00:14:59,840
Speaker 1: video like a year later and there was like a

319
00:15:00,040 --> 00:15:01,240
Speaker 1: if you still want to work with us?

320
00:15:02,040 --> 00:15:02,360
Speaker 2: Really?

321
00:15:02,880 --> 00:15:03,360
Speaker 3: Yeah?

322
00:15:03,760 --> 00:15:04,920
Speaker 2: Dang that sucks.

323
00:15:05,240 --> 00:15:06,720
Speaker 1: Yeah but I didn't get it.

324
00:15:06,760 --> 00:15:08,880
Speaker 3: But hey, maybe that kid has a future.

325
00:15:08,560 --> 00:15:10,040
Speaker 1: And making.

326
00:15:11,640 --> 00:15:13,160
Speaker 2: Maybe we'll see what ends up one day.

327
00:15:13,440 --> 00:15:13,960
Speaker 3: Oh man.

328
00:15:14,320 --> 00:15:15,880
Speaker 1: But with that, if you love.

329
00:15:15,760 --> 00:15:19,120
Speaker 2: Us, make sure to subscribe We love you and see

330
00:15:19,120 --> 00:15:19,840
Speaker 2: it tomorrow.

331
00:15:21,080 --> 00:15:23,320
Speaker 1: This is an episode from Deep within the Archives.

332
00:15:23,320 --> 00:15:27,880
Speaker 3: Time for okop Relam.

333
00:15:28,040 --> 00:15:30,760
Speaker 1: I just found out I've in love with my biological

334
00:15:30,840 --> 00:15:32,400
Speaker 1: brother and we've been dating.

335
00:15:32,120 --> 00:15:38,040
Speaker 3: For six years, you know, Sam, we've read. I mean countless,

336
00:15:38,520 --> 00:15:43,440
Speaker 3: countless read as stories countless too any account. I have

337
00:15:43,600 --> 00:15:48,160
Speaker 3: never been left to speechless, never haven't been left to speechless.

338
00:15:48,280 --> 00:15:49,240
Speaker 3: What do I say here?

339
00:15:49,480 --> 00:15:54,200
Speaker 1: Until you realize that your current girlfriend is your biological.

340
00:15:55,800 --> 00:16:00,680
Speaker 3: I am saying I am good to go. You never know, God, bro,

341
00:16:00,880 --> 00:16:04,680
Speaker 3: that would be the most insane medical like whatever in history,

342
00:16:04,960 --> 00:16:07,160
Speaker 3: like like good Morning America. They'd be covering it for

343
00:16:07,200 --> 00:16:08,720
Speaker 3: like weeks.

344
00:16:09,280 --> 00:16:12,800
Speaker 1: Oh man, we'll see, we'll see. You have to twenty

345
00:16:12,960 --> 00:16:16,440
Speaker 1: you have you twenty three meat as naima twenty three

346
00:16:16,440 --> 00:16:16,920
Speaker 1: and meat.

347
00:16:16,840 --> 00:16:18,080
Speaker 3: We have not. We have not twenty three.

348
00:16:18,160 --> 00:16:20,960
Speaker 1: Meet I God, you don't. I don't guing to you.

349
00:16:21,600 --> 00:16:25,400
Speaker 1: I guarante for John. You guys look really sad. No, brouh,

350
00:16:29,360 --> 00:16:33,880
Speaker 1: it ain't happening. Broh, it ain't happening. Bro Okay, I

351
00:16:33,960 --> 00:16:41,360
Speaker 1: am thirty and my brother is thirty two. Wait from

352
00:16:41,560 --> 00:16:45,000
Speaker 1: a start, my boyfriend for the majority of time. Well

353
00:16:45,080 --> 00:16:45,800
Speaker 1: I type this.

354
00:16:46,040 --> 00:16:49,400
Speaker 3: We just went from the most legendary title of all

355
00:16:49,440 --> 00:16:52,080
Speaker 3: time to the most legendary first sentence of all time.

356
00:16:52,120 --> 00:16:55,400
Speaker 3: We're back to back over here, ladies and gentlemen, I'm just.

357
00:16:55,320 --> 00:16:57,640
Speaker 1: Going to call him my boyfriend for the majority of

358
00:16:57,680 --> 00:17:00,800
Speaker 1: the time that I write this, I feel weird about this.

359
00:17:01,320 --> 00:17:03,440
Speaker 3: Gee you do don't say?

360
00:17:03,640 --> 00:17:04,000
Speaker 2: Gee?

361
00:17:04,840 --> 00:17:07,080
Speaker 3: Oh brother, oh brother.

362
00:17:07,840 --> 00:17:10,600
Speaker 1: I was adopted as a baby, but I didn't know

363
00:17:10,680 --> 00:17:12,639
Speaker 1: that I was adopted until I was in high school.

364
00:17:13,040 --> 00:17:15,840
Speaker 1: I didn't feel betrayed or cared that much. I love

365
00:17:15,880 --> 00:17:18,520
Speaker 1: my parents, My parents love me. But you know who

366
00:17:18,560 --> 00:17:24,320
Speaker 1: I love more than anything else, my brother. Who cares

367
00:17:24,320 --> 00:17:27,679
Speaker 1: that they aren't my real parents? I don't care. My

368
00:17:27,800 --> 00:17:32,280
Speaker 1: boyfriend was also adopted, and when we met, it was

369
00:17:32,320 --> 00:17:34,879
Speaker 1: one of the things we sort of bonded over. We

370
00:17:34,920 --> 00:17:37,600
Speaker 1: both didn't learn we were adopted until high school, and

371
00:17:37,680 --> 00:17:40,760
Speaker 1: we both were lucky and had good families. We were

372
00:17:40,920 --> 00:17:43,560
Speaker 1: passed around from foster home to foster home. You know,

373
00:17:43,640 --> 00:17:46,560
Speaker 1: it seems like guys has so much in common, got

374
00:17:46,560 --> 00:17:47,120
Speaker 1: a lot.

375
00:17:47,000 --> 00:17:51,920
Speaker 3: In common, weird, so many things they share like DNA.

376
00:17:52,720 --> 00:17:56,560
Speaker 1: Our relationship was and still is great. We understood each

377
00:17:56,600 --> 00:18:00,360
Speaker 1: other very fast. Of course, we were attracted to each

378
00:18:00,359 --> 00:18:06,399
Speaker 1: other quickly. I've never met someone and felt immediate attraction

379
00:18:06,720 --> 00:18:10,879
Speaker 1: and familiarity. Now I know that the comfort and familiarity

380
00:18:11,320 --> 00:18:16,840
Speaker 1: is because he's my brother. Oh my god, not my

381
00:18:16,960 --> 00:18:21,840
Speaker 1: half brother, not my stepbrother, my full brother.

382
00:18:22,040 --> 00:18:24,320
Speaker 3: Full brother. That that hurts.

383
00:18:24,480 --> 00:18:25,120
Speaker 2: That urts.

384
00:18:25,240 --> 00:18:29,200
Speaker 1: Baby. We've done everything a couple that has been together

385
00:18:29,359 --> 00:18:38,880
Speaker 1: for six years could do, including anal No, kiddy.

386
00:18:35,920 --> 00:18:40,399
Speaker 3: That's it. I said everything. Oh my god.

387
00:18:42,280 --> 00:18:45,800
Speaker 1: We've said we love each other, we've had sex, we've

388
00:18:45,840 --> 00:18:51,439
Speaker 1: celebrated anniversaries, we've met each other's families. I'm just glad

389
00:18:51,480 --> 00:18:54,359
Speaker 1: we both agreed early on that we don't want to

390
00:18:54,400 --> 00:18:59,600
Speaker 1: have kids, so that has never happened. Sh missed one.

391
00:19:00,320 --> 00:19:01,000
Speaker 3: Good God.

392
00:19:01,359 --> 00:19:03,280
Speaker 1: I don't want to deal with the hells risks and

393
00:19:03,400 --> 00:19:05,920
Speaker 1: have to raise a child and them know that their

394
00:19:06,000 --> 00:19:10,160
Speaker 1: parents are siblings. Kids are definitely out of the question.

395
00:19:10,440 --> 00:19:11,919
Speaker 3: Bro. Thanks.

396
00:19:12,680 --> 00:19:15,000
Speaker 1: I discovered this when we did a DNA test to

397
00:19:15,040 --> 00:19:18,840
Speaker 1: test our ancestry and what exactly we are. I ordered

398
00:19:18,880 --> 00:19:20,920
Speaker 1: two for us. We spit in the tube and sent

399
00:19:21,000 --> 00:19:25,000
Speaker 1: it out. What could go wrong, dude? What could possibly

400
00:19:25,080 --> 00:19:29,080
Speaker 1: ancestry are the bit of people's happiness.

401
00:19:29,080 --> 00:19:31,600
Speaker 3: I think we might have to like delete them from

402
00:19:31,640 --> 00:19:34,760
Speaker 3: society because they're just causing way too much avocation.

403
00:19:34,800 --> 00:19:39,960
Speaker 1: No way stories or ancestry it does. It took a

404
00:19:40,040 --> 00:19:42,560
Speaker 1: month for the results to come back, and I was

405
00:19:42,600 --> 00:19:45,320
Speaker 1: excited to see what we were. But before I could

406
00:19:45,359 --> 00:19:48,720
Speaker 1: even get to that, I saw that we were siblings.

407
00:19:49,640 --> 00:19:51,959
Speaker 1: I was shocked, to say the least. I only just

408
00:19:52,040 --> 00:19:54,679
Speaker 1: found out this information and haven't told my boyfriend yet.

409
00:19:54,840 --> 00:19:57,480
Speaker 1: I'm really hoping they made a mistake, but things are

410
00:19:57,480 --> 00:19:59,960
Speaker 1: like starting to make sense now. We always get the

411
00:20:00,320 --> 00:20:02,639
Speaker 1: you guys look so alike or he's just the male

412
00:20:02,760 --> 00:20:03,320
Speaker 1: version of you.

413
00:20:04,560 --> 00:20:05,840
Speaker 3: What a kwinky dink.

414
00:20:06,480 --> 00:20:09,520
Speaker 1: Long before this test, we've always just laughed it off.

415
00:20:09,560 --> 00:20:12,399
Speaker 1: But I have spent the morning looking at pictures of

416
00:20:12,480 --> 00:20:16,760
Speaker 1: us together and realizing we really do look so alike.

417
00:20:18,119 --> 00:20:20,760
Speaker 1: It's freaking me out, and I don't know what I

418
00:20:20,800 --> 00:20:25,760
Speaker 1: should do. I still love my boyfriend slash brother, and

419
00:20:25,840 --> 00:20:28,639
Speaker 1: we have been together for six years. We have a

420
00:20:28,720 --> 00:20:33,440
Speaker 1: house together and a whole comfortable life, not a deed.

421
00:20:34,560 --> 00:20:35,600
Speaker 3: I'm hoping that.

422
00:20:35,600 --> 00:20:38,680
Speaker 1: This test is just wrong and we'll do a real

423
00:20:38,760 --> 00:20:43,160
Speaker 1: test soon, but I'm panicking. I still see him as

424
00:20:43,200 --> 00:20:45,120
Speaker 1: the love of my life.

425
00:20:45,280 --> 00:20:46,040
Speaker 2: What do you do?

426
00:20:46,480 --> 00:20:48,359
Speaker 3: What do you do? You have a whole life with

427
00:20:48,400 --> 00:20:48,760
Speaker 3: this part?

428
00:20:48,840 --> 00:20:51,720
Speaker 1: And like, okay, so like do you tell you do

429
00:20:51,920 --> 00:20:55,440
Speaker 1: tell your significant other immediately? How long do you wait

430
00:20:55,480 --> 00:20:57,720
Speaker 1: for this process until you tell them? Or do you

431
00:20:57,720 --> 00:20:59,840
Speaker 1: tell them to you? You have to tell them to

432
00:21:00,000 --> 00:21:00,520
Speaker 1: tell them?

433
00:21:00,560 --> 00:21:03,160
Speaker 3: I think I think at least probably like a night

434
00:21:03,400 --> 00:21:05,920
Speaker 3: or a day or something just to like process on

435
00:21:05,960 --> 00:21:08,040
Speaker 3: your own, just like give yourself some time to like

436
00:21:08,800 --> 00:21:11,040
Speaker 3: just like sit down and be like, Okay, this is

437
00:21:11,600 --> 00:21:13,680
Speaker 3: what is happening, you know what I mean? I think

438
00:21:13,720 --> 00:21:17,800
Speaker 3: that I think that's fair. But yet you have to

439
00:21:17,800 --> 00:21:18,120
Speaker 3: do it.

440
00:21:18,400 --> 00:21:20,520
Speaker 1: You have to do it because then the relationship is

441
00:21:20,560 --> 00:21:22,040
Speaker 1: like has like a huge lie in it.

442
00:21:22,640 --> 00:21:26,479
Speaker 3: Oh massive, bro? Could you could you imagine now literally

443
00:21:26,520 --> 00:21:30,000
Speaker 3: everywhere Op and the fiance would go or the their

444
00:21:30,080 --> 00:21:32,320
Speaker 3: partner would go, be like like, oh my gosh, every

445
00:21:32,320 --> 00:21:34,439
Speaker 3: time every you so looks so alike in every like,

446
00:21:34,440 --> 00:21:35,800
Speaker 3: oh my gosh, she's the male version of you.

447
00:21:36,680 --> 00:21:38,760
Speaker 1: I think this, you know, I think it's I think

448
00:21:38,800 --> 00:21:42,399
Speaker 1: this is a relationship end or dude. It kind of

449
00:21:42,840 --> 00:21:45,040
Speaker 1: like kind of like the way you said it right

450
00:21:45,080 --> 00:21:49,800
Speaker 1: there where it's just like every time you meet someone

451
00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:54,199
Speaker 1: like like it's basically it's it's are you okay with

452
00:21:54,280 --> 00:21:57,080
Speaker 1: people telling people that you're siblings?

453
00:21:57,680 --> 00:22:00,560
Speaker 3: That actually is the true question. Are you okay? Well,

454
00:22:00,600 --> 00:22:02,480
Speaker 3: first of all, you have to be okay with it yourself,

455
00:22:02,520 --> 00:22:04,720
Speaker 3: and then second you have to be okay with telling

456
00:22:04,760 --> 00:22:05,280
Speaker 3: other people.

457
00:22:05,400 --> 00:22:07,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I mean it sounds like they're in love

458
00:22:07,280 --> 00:22:10,520
Speaker 1: and like they care for each other and whatever. But

459
00:22:10,680 --> 00:22:14,960
Speaker 1: it's like, yeah, one, are you okay with it? And

460
00:22:15,000 --> 00:22:18,200
Speaker 1: then what if people found out.

461
00:22:21,000 --> 00:22:22,680
Speaker 3: This is so great? I mean, I mean, yes, yes,

462
00:22:22,680 --> 00:22:25,520
Speaker 3: you're right, You're right. If they are okay with those

463
00:22:25,520 --> 00:22:30,960
Speaker 3: two things, then they could I mean, who's I guess

464
00:22:30,960 --> 00:22:34,120
Speaker 3: who's gonna stop them? Yeah? Is the question? I mean,

465
00:22:34,200 --> 00:22:35,199
Speaker 3: like I don't is it?

466
00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:36,200
Speaker 2: Is it illegal?

467
00:22:37,320 --> 00:22:42,320
Speaker 3: Actually? Yeah, yeah, incest is illegal. Incest is illegal. But

468
00:22:42,560 --> 00:22:45,119
Speaker 3: isn't that like having a child.

469
00:22:45,720 --> 00:22:48,920
Speaker 1: I think incest is just like hooking up with your siblings. Okay,

470
00:22:49,600 --> 00:22:51,159
Speaker 1: and look up, is incests illegal?

471
00:22:51,200 --> 00:22:51,840
Speaker 3: It's not. Incest.

472
00:22:52,040 --> 00:22:54,680
Speaker 1: Incest is int illegal in all states. It's like, I'm

473
00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:56,760
Speaker 1: pretty sure Alabama incest is illegal.

474
00:22:57,119 --> 00:23:00,240
Speaker 3: Incess is could considered a sex offense in California. Uh,

475
00:23:01,000 --> 00:23:04,080
Speaker 3: if you're convicted in California, he'll be a registered sex defender.

476
00:23:04,320 --> 00:23:08,320
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, so it seems, but not in like Alabama.

477
00:23:08,560 --> 00:23:13,400
Speaker 3: Sexual relationship between family members who are not spouses, formally

478
00:23:13,680 --> 00:23:16,960
Speaker 3: formally known as incest is illegal across the US because

479
00:23:16,960 --> 00:23:19,159
Speaker 3: of the alarm making cause I mean, this is like

480
00:23:19,160 --> 00:23:22,919
Speaker 3: a very short blip, but how it is legal in Alabama.

481
00:23:23,800 --> 00:23:28,879
Speaker 3: I think that's just the joke. And since laws inhibit

482
00:23:28,920 --> 00:23:34,119
Speaker 3: intimate relationships between children and parents, oh god, god grandparents.

483
00:23:34,640 --> 00:23:37,280
Speaker 3: But how about siblings? How about siblings? That's why I

484
00:23:37,400 --> 00:23:41,679
Speaker 3: google to brothers and sisters, children, parents, brothers, sisters, grand grandchildren,

485
00:23:41,720 --> 00:23:47,160
Speaker 3: and grandparents. Some states also been relationships between aunts and uncles, niece's, nephews, cousins.

486
00:23:47,760 --> 00:23:51,840
Speaker 3: Laws laws vary as to half step and adopted relative. Okay,

487
00:23:51,920 --> 00:23:54,600
Speaker 3: so maybe that's there's there's degrees of.

488
00:23:54,760 --> 00:23:59,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, but everyone's like everyone's in agreement that you close

489
00:23:59,560 --> 00:24:00,200
Speaker 1: your brother.

490
00:24:00,600 --> 00:24:04,240
Speaker 3: Parent, bro, grandparent. That's crazy.

491
00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:08,600
Speaker 1: Imagine how fucked up that family tree is.

492
00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:13,000
Speaker 3: I mean, it's probably it's definitely happened.

493
00:24:13,160 --> 00:24:15,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's absolutely how I mean, dude, have you seen

494
00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:18,600
Speaker 1: the most recent episode of a House of Dragons Game

495
00:24:18,600 --> 00:24:19,440
Speaker 1: of Thrones spin off?

496
00:24:19,760 --> 00:24:21,960
Speaker 3: No, is that what it's all about?

497
00:24:22,040 --> 00:24:25,120
Speaker 1: I mean that the two siblings fuck are almost fuck

498
00:24:25,280 --> 00:24:26,760
Speaker 1: or they do fuck? I think they fucked? Wow?

499
00:24:27,760 --> 00:24:32,560
Speaker 3: Bro, Yeah, this is nuts. I yeah, what'd you do?

500
00:24:33,760 --> 00:24:36,160
Speaker 1: I don't think. I don't think I could. It would

501
00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:39,199
Speaker 1: be super, it would suck, but I don't think I

502
00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:41,480
Speaker 1: could be in.

503
00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:43,200
Speaker 3: Because I mean, if you think about it, like look

504
00:24:43,240 --> 00:24:48,360
Speaker 3: people divorce for certain reasons. People their partners pass away,

505
00:24:48,400 --> 00:24:51,800
Speaker 3: and people remarry. So it's like you'll probably find a

506
00:24:51,840 --> 00:24:56,760
Speaker 3: partner you can marry again. Yeah, and it Yeah, I think.

507
00:24:56,640 --> 00:24:58,800
Speaker 1: You agree to never speak about it and then you

508
00:24:58,840 --> 00:25:02,920
Speaker 1: break up or or you just never tell anyone.

509
00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:06,480
Speaker 3: I think, break up in therapy and then figure out

510
00:25:06,480 --> 00:25:07,360
Speaker 3: what to do in therapy.

511
00:25:07,480 --> 00:25:11,720
Speaker 1: I mean, but I mean what but like, like it's

512
00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:12,680
Speaker 1: really up to them.

513
00:25:12,800 --> 00:25:14,640
Speaker 3: It is up to them. They they do have.

514
00:25:14,960 --> 00:25:17,080
Speaker 1: The thing is like, also, I can't think about it

515
00:25:17,119 --> 00:25:21,800
Speaker 1: from a from like a like a like their true perspective.

516
00:25:21,840 --> 00:25:24,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, because I'm just like, well of course I would,

517
00:25:24,640 --> 00:25:27,360
Speaker 3: I wouldn't, you know, But for them, they truly love

518
00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:27,760
Speaker 3: each other.

519
00:25:27,880 --> 00:25:31,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, and like the context hasn't been that of a

520
00:25:31,119 --> 00:25:34,440
Speaker 1: sibling relationship. What have been one of a romantic relationship.

521
00:25:34,480 --> 00:25:40,080
Speaker 3: What if like, uh, people start like campaigning to allow incests.

522
00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:43,040
Speaker 3: What if what if they become what I mean, Look,

523
00:25:43,359 --> 00:25:47,520
Speaker 3: there are videos with millions of views covering their story,

524
00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:51,760
Speaker 3: So maybe they become the face of incests. Yeah, be

525
00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:54,160
Speaker 3: the faces of it. That's the that's option number three,

526
00:25:54,240 --> 00:25:55,080
Speaker 3: the nuclear option.

527
00:25:55,200 --> 00:25:58,479
Speaker 1: All Right, I say, I say they you know, if

528
00:25:58,480 --> 00:26:01,280
Speaker 1: they're okay, with big brother and sister to the relationship.

529
00:26:01,320 --> 00:26:03,480
Speaker 1: Then they just agree to tell no one and continue.

530
00:26:04,600 --> 00:26:06,840
Speaker 1: I mean, if they're okay with it, I like, who,

531
00:26:07,280 --> 00:26:11,480
Speaker 1: I mean, what can you do? Who are they hurting anyone?

532
00:26:11,880 --> 00:26:13,640
Speaker 3: As long as they're having it, not having a child,

533
00:26:13,640 --> 00:26:14,480
Speaker 3: they're not hurting anybody.

534
00:26:14,520 --> 00:26:17,280
Speaker 1: They're not hurting anyone. They can adopt, Yeah, if they

535
00:26:17,320 --> 00:26:17,720
Speaker 1: want to have it.

536
00:26:17,760 --> 00:26:21,040
Speaker 3: They're strange from the from the family they're related to. Yeah,

537
00:26:21,080 --> 00:26:23,480
Speaker 3: so that would be probably like if they were literally

538
00:26:23,560 --> 00:26:27,720
Speaker 3: like do they have separate families? They have separate families

539
00:26:28,119 --> 00:26:30,760
Speaker 3: and they said they said they they have decided to never.

540
00:26:30,640 --> 00:26:33,520
Speaker 1: Have children, yeah, or they haven't yet, Okay.

541
00:26:33,240 --> 00:26:39,760
Speaker 3: I honestly, I'm following the logic, like they technically aren't

542
00:26:39,840 --> 00:26:46,800
Speaker 3: really hurting anyone. Yeah, so good gravy. That's that's it's

543
00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:51,120
Speaker 3: fucking it's weird though, Yeah, it's it's it's weird. It's

544
00:26:51,240 --> 00:26:56,040
Speaker 3: again probably absolutely top five craziest scenarios we've seen on

545
00:26:56,080 --> 00:26:56,440
Speaker 3: the show.

546
00:26:56,480 --> 00:27:01,680
Speaker 1: But I respect whatever decision you make. I think, well,

547
00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:02,439
Speaker 1: I respect you.

548
00:27:03,520 --> 00:27:06,679
Speaker 3: I don't know, but you can I mean, who's stopping

549
00:27:06,720 --> 00:27:09,440
Speaker 3: it and you're not hurting anyone? Yeah, that's the important thing.

550
00:27:09,440 --> 00:27:12,639
Speaker 3: I hear, I think, like if you're not harming anyone.

551
00:27:12,680 --> 00:27:15,760
Speaker 1: But it's like what like I so, yeah, what's.

552
00:27:15,680 --> 00:27:17,119
Speaker 3: What the end of the day. I guess it's like

553
00:27:17,160 --> 00:27:21,879
Speaker 3: a societal thing. But as long as again, as long

554
00:27:21,880 --> 00:27:26,360
Speaker 3: as one of them like being siblings, you know, oh,

555
00:27:26,440 --> 00:27:29,760
Speaker 3: the context of them coming together. Yeah yeah, oh god,

556
00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:34,159
Speaker 3: that was a terrible pun. I did not intend for

557
00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:39,639
Speaker 3: that one. Ladies and gentlemen, yikes, no, yikes, wow, Like

558
00:27:39,880 --> 00:27:40,119
Speaker 3: right here.

559
00:27:40,119 --> 00:27:41,720
Speaker 1: Actually I have a question for you. Yeah, I have

560
00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:44,440
Speaker 1: a question for you. Okay, what is weirder? Oh god,

561
00:27:44,680 --> 00:27:48,280
Speaker 1: what is weirder them this relationship?

562
00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:48,600
Speaker 3: Huh?

563
00:27:49,080 --> 00:27:52,679
Speaker 1: Or a step daughter and a step son that had

564
00:27:52,720 --> 00:27:55,000
Speaker 1: been raised since birth hooking up with each other.

565
00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:58,840
Speaker 3: I mean I probably got take as the step daughter

566
00:27:58,880 --> 00:28:03,240
Speaker 3: and step son because is weirder? Is not weirder? One

567
00:28:03,359 --> 00:28:06,040
Speaker 3: they can't have incests, they're not related, they can't they

568
00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:08,560
Speaker 3: can't have But the cold.

569
00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:11,800
Speaker 1: Is one of of them is them growing up as

570
00:28:12,920 --> 00:28:13,639
Speaker 1: a siblings.

571
00:28:13,640 --> 00:28:15,480
Speaker 3: Man, these are so hard. I mean, I guess you

572
00:28:15,520 --> 00:28:18,480
Speaker 3: could argue that, like, let's say you had like a

573
00:28:18,520 --> 00:28:20,159
Speaker 3: neighbor that you like, you fell in love with a

574
00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:22,919
Speaker 3: neighbor and you like hung out, knew them from baby,

575
00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:27,119
Speaker 3: and like, that's a very very similar to scenario as

576
00:28:27,119 --> 00:28:30,119
Speaker 3: the step is true siblings. This is true, So I

577
00:28:30,160 --> 00:28:33,680
Speaker 3: think probably I'm still going with it's less weird. Yeah,

578
00:28:33,840 --> 00:28:37,119
Speaker 3: I mean, I agree, it is less weird, but I

579
00:28:37,160 --> 00:28:43,760
Speaker 3: mean again, it's like you are you're literally raised as siblings. Yeah,

580
00:28:43,800 --> 00:28:46,600
Speaker 3: so that was in like The Brady Bunch. What have

581
00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:49,800
Speaker 3: you ever seen that show? The Brady Bunch? What it's nineties?

582
00:28:50,720 --> 00:28:54,880
Speaker 3: The old the eldest step brother like wanted to get

583
00:28:54,880 --> 00:28:57,239
Speaker 3: it with the step sister. The oldest stepsisters? Did they

584
00:28:57,320 --> 00:29:00,760
Speaker 3: know they were or maybe they're I can't remember. They

585
00:29:00,760 --> 00:29:03,200
Speaker 3: were both crushing on each other or what the thing was?

586
00:29:03,560 --> 00:29:05,200
Speaker 3: They never like did anything on the show.

587
00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:09,880
Speaker 1: I don't think Wait were they did they know they were?

588
00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:11,640
Speaker 1: Not they they knew they were?

589
00:29:11,800 --> 00:29:15,840
Speaker 3: Okay, oh yeah, but but but they became step siblings

590
00:29:16,080 --> 00:29:18,480
Speaker 3: maybe later maybe like when they were in middle school

591
00:29:18,560 --> 00:29:21,440
Speaker 3: or later. Yeah, so I feel it's weird if you're

592
00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:24,600
Speaker 3: raised in the in the companies, it's definitely weird. Yeah,

593
00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:29,680
Speaker 3: I was less weird literal siblings. But if we're gonna

594
00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:30,760
Speaker 3: fucking scale it.

595
00:29:30,720 --> 00:29:34,480
Speaker 1: Out here, ye, siblings, would you rather that? Yeah, it's

596
00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:36,800
Speaker 1: it's true now in terms of the would I rather?

597
00:29:37,160 --> 00:29:40,680
Speaker 1: I would rather I would rather hook up with my

598
00:29:40,760 --> 00:29:45,640
Speaker 1: step sibling than my estranged real sibling.

599
00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:50,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, this is a rough one, all right, there's a

600
00:29:50,200 --> 00:29:52,440
Speaker 3: little there's a little edit at the bottom. Oh boy,

601
00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:53,680
Speaker 3: here we go, guys.

602
00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:56,880
Speaker 1: I posted this the other day, but since then, I

603
00:29:56,960 --> 00:29:59,960
Speaker 1: showed him the results and he realized that we're siblings.

604
00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:01,920
Speaker 1: He doesn't want to freak out or make any big

605
00:30:01,960 --> 00:30:04,080
Speaker 1: decisions until we get a real test somewhere, but I

606
00:30:04,080 --> 00:30:06,160
Speaker 1: can tell he was freaked out and it was odd

607
00:30:06,240 --> 00:30:07,960
Speaker 1: laying in bed next to him that night.

608
00:30:08,320 --> 00:30:11,600
Speaker 3: I love how they say real test, like this isn't

609
00:30:11,680 --> 00:30:15,320
Speaker 3: isn't the real real test? Yeh, yikes, man,