1 00:00:00,400 --> 00:00:04,920 Speaker 1: First Day follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys 2 00:00:05,000 --> 00:00:06,640 Speaker 1: online at Advocates. 3 00:00:06,160 --> 00:00:07,040 Speaker 2: Law dot com. 4 00:00:07,280 --> 00:00:09,200 Speaker 3: Natasha is on the phone today for our first date 5 00:00:09,240 --> 00:00:11,400 Speaker 3: follow up and she's getting ghosted by a guy named 6 00:00:11,400 --> 00:00:13,240 Speaker 3: Mason who she really likes. So in a few minutes, 7 00:00:13,520 --> 00:00:15,080 Speaker 3: we're gonna call him see if he'll tell us why 8 00:00:15,080 --> 00:00:18,040 Speaker 3: he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date. But first, Natasha, 9 00:00:18,040 --> 00:00:19,480 Speaker 3: how long has it been since you heard from Mason? 10 00:00:20,040 --> 00:00:24,080 Speaker 4: Oh, man, it's been it's been like a couple of days. Like, 11 00:00:24,400 --> 00:00:27,720 Speaker 4: I don't know. Well, he he won't hang out with 12 00:00:27,760 --> 00:00:30,480 Speaker 4: me again. We were I don't know. He just says 13 00:00:30,520 --> 00:00:32,560 Speaker 4: he's busy. He has the word family obligation. 14 00:00:33,040 --> 00:00:36,080 Speaker 5: Okay, but could not be legit if it's been a 15 00:00:36,159 --> 00:00:39,280 Speaker 5: couple days or the couple days is silence. 16 00:00:40,200 --> 00:00:42,479 Speaker 4: I mean, like we work in the same building. 17 00:00:42,760 --> 00:00:45,640 Speaker 6: I just don't get it, Like it's not it's just 18 00:00:45,680 --> 00:00:48,159 Speaker 6: a bunch of it's a much to bes because he 19 00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:51,480 Speaker 6: could just be busy or I don't know, I feel 20 00:00:51,520 --> 00:00:54,600 Speaker 6: like something else is going on, Like we had such 21 00:00:54,640 --> 00:00:55,600 Speaker 6: a great date. 22 00:00:55,920 --> 00:00:59,200 Speaker 4: We had like fire, it was amazing. So the fact 23 00:00:59,200 --> 00:01:01,560 Speaker 4: that he won't like just meet up for another happy 24 00:01:01,600 --> 00:01:05,240 Speaker 4: hour right across the street from our office. Is just 25 00:01:05,480 --> 00:01:06,280 Speaker 4: doesn't make sense. 26 00:01:06,400 --> 00:01:09,399 Speaker 2: Well, let's talk about the date. What part was Let's 27 00:01:09,400 --> 00:01:10,199 Speaker 2: hear about the fire. 28 00:01:11,240 --> 00:01:14,560 Speaker 7: Well, I mean, like, I don't know, we had a 29 00:01:14,600 --> 00:01:17,840 Speaker 7: really good time, Like our date was like amazing, but 30 00:01:17,880 --> 00:01:19,080 Speaker 7: like we were. 31 00:01:19,440 --> 00:01:22,440 Speaker 4: Like touching and kissing, like we shared appetizers and like, 32 00:01:22,720 --> 00:01:23,120 Speaker 4: I don't know. 33 00:01:23,160 --> 00:01:26,840 Speaker 7: Then we went back to his house and we hooked up. 34 00:01:27,520 --> 00:01:29,720 Speaker 7: I had to go, like I had to sneak out 35 00:01:29,720 --> 00:01:31,800 Speaker 7: in the middle of the night because I had a 36 00:01:32,000 --> 00:01:34,480 Speaker 7: early work day the next day. But I don't know, 37 00:01:34,840 --> 00:01:37,240 Speaker 7: I just thought that since it was so hot, and 38 00:01:37,760 --> 00:01:40,560 Speaker 7: really I didn't see anything that went wrong. I just 39 00:01:40,600 --> 00:01:43,440 Speaker 7: don't understand, like why he can't even like I. 40 00:01:43,400 --> 00:01:45,959 Speaker 4: Mean after our coffee in the lobby, Like, what in 41 00:01:46,000 --> 00:01:47,440 Speaker 4: the heck right now? 42 00:01:47,480 --> 00:01:48,840 Speaker 2: It feels like you're a little eager. 43 00:01:48,920 --> 00:01:52,440 Speaker 5: Have you expressed that eagerness at any point after so 44 00:01:52,520 --> 00:01:53,360 Speaker 5: you guys hooked up? 45 00:01:54,200 --> 00:01:57,040 Speaker 7: Well yeah, yeah, but like okay, so I might have 46 00:01:57,200 --> 00:02:00,920 Speaker 7: like kicked something when I left his house that may 47 00:02:01,000 --> 00:02:01,760 Speaker 7: have upset him. 48 00:02:01,680 --> 00:02:03,120 Speaker 3: Like I took something. 49 00:02:02,760 --> 00:02:04,680 Speaker 4: And when I was leaving a yeah, I might have 50 00:02:04,880 --> 00:02:09,240 Speaker 4: kicked something like my shoe. Well there was a kitty 51 00:02:09,320 --> 00:02:11,680 Speaker 4: litter on my shoe and I was leaving his house, 52 00:02:11,760 --> 00:02:14,280 Speaker 4: so I was like, oh no, maybe I kicked over 53 00:02:14,440 --> 00:02:18,840 Speaker 4: his cat's litter box and maybe Dad, is that why 54 00:02:18,840 --> 00:02:22,920 Speaker 4: he's not talking to me? I mean I might be. 55 00:02:23,720 --> 00:02:25,560 Speaker 2: So did you leave a mess behind you? Is that 56 00:02:25,600 --> 00:02:26,240 Speaker 2: what you're saying? 57 00:02:27,120 --> 00:02:29,720 Speaker 4: It was dark, it was early, I didn't see it. 58 00:02:29,840 --> 00:02:32,840 Speaker 4: I might have met I don't even know if the 59 00:02:32,880 --> 00:02:33,480 Speaker 4: cat was in there. 60 00:02:36,080 --> 00:02:40,800 Speaker 2: Sorry, that's not funny. Did you address the potential mess 61 00:02:40,800 --> 00:02:41,320 Speaker 2: that you left? 62 00:02:41,320 --> 00:02:43,160 Speaker 5: Did you say sorry, I think I kicked something on 63 00:02:43,160 --> 00:02:44,720 Speaker 5: my way out or anything like that. 64 00:02:45,440 --> 00:02:48,920 Speaker 4: I want to explain myself, but like, I'm just not 65 00:02:49,840 --> 00:02:53,040 Speaker 4: he won't meet up with me, So he's just being cold. 66 00:02:53,240 --> 00:02:58,560 Speaker 4: And I after hooking up and after the way everything went, 67 00:02:58,919 --> 00:03:00,840 Speaker 4: and then if I made a mess to his apartment, 68 00:03:00,919 --> 00:03:02,920 Speaker 4: and that's why he doesn't want to see me, against 69 00:03:03,160 --> 00:03:03,760 Speaker 4: just tell me. 70 00:03:04,560 --> 00:03:07,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, that doesn't feel good, right, Yeah, especially after hurking 71 00:03:07,280 --> 00:03:09,079 Speaker 2: up with somebody, They do owe you a little something 72 00:03:09,160 --> 00:03:10,040 Speaker 2: that doesn't feel good. 73 00:03:10,560 --> 00:03:14,079 Speaker 4: You have any family obligations to have I don't even 74 00:03:14,160 --> 00:03:15,600 Speaker 4: understand how many could be possible. 75 00:03:15,639 --> 00:03:20,160 Speaker 3: It'll be oh, okay, well we'll play a song, come 76 00:03:20,160 --> 00:03:21,560 Speaker 3: back and then call him and see if you tell 77 00:03:21,600 --> 00:03:23,679 Speaker 3: us why he's ghosting you, and maybe get to another 78 00:03:23,760 --> 00:03:24,600 Speaker 3: date if you still want one. 79 00:03:24,600 --> 00:03:26,800 Speaker 4: Okay, okay, thank you, all right. 80 00:03:26,680 --> 00:03:28,720 Speaker 3: We'll play a song, come back and get your first 81 00:03:28,800 --> 00:03:29,520 Speaker 3: day follow up. 82 00:03:29,400 --> 00:03:33,959 Speaker 1: Next first Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury 83 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:36,680 Speaker 1: Attorneys online at advocatesla dot com. 84 00:03:37,040 --> 00:03:38,800 Speaker 3: Natasha is on the phone today for our first date 85 00:03:38,840 --> 00:03:41,560 Speaker 3: follow up. She's getting ghosted by a dude named Mason. 86 00:03:41,600 --> 00:03:43,520 Speaker 3: So in a second, we're gonna call him see if 87 00:03:43,520 --> 00:03:45,240 Speaker 3: you'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get 88 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:47,600 Speaker 3: her another date. But real quick, Natasha, why don't you 89 00:03:47,640 --> 00:03:49,800 Speaker 3: catch everybody up on your situation? 90 00:03:51,400 --> 00:03:55,560 Speaker 4: Basically, we work in the same building. We didn't realize 91 00:03:55,680 --> 00:03:58,600 Speaker 4: we had worked together for so long, and then we 92 00:03:58,800 --> 00:04:02,640 Speaker 4: met and we had out and we hooked up. I 93 00:04:02,680 --> 00:04:05,600 Speaker 4: don't know. I maybe kicked over his catbox and now 94 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:08,120 Speaker 4: he will hang out with me and he's getting me 95 00:04:08,120 --> 00:04:08,680 Speaker 4: a bunch. 96 00:04:08,440 --> 00:04:10,160 Speaker 2: Of weird all right? 97 00:04:10,480 --> 00:04:11,960 Speaker 3: Do you think it might be because he kicked over 98 00:04:11,960 --> 00:04:16,800 Speaker 3: the litter box on accident? All right, Well, we'll see 99 00:04:16,800 --> 00:04:17,480 Speaker 3: if we can figure it out. 100 00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:17,840 Speaker 5: Here we go. 101 00:04:17,839 --> 00:04:18,400 Speaker 3: Are you ready? 102 00:04:18,960 --> 00:04:19,200 Speaker 4: Yeah? 103 00:04:19,720 --> 00:04:34,640 Speaker 3: Okay, Hello, Hi, I'm asking to Mason. Please, Mason, how 104 00:04:34,680 --> 00:04:35,920 Speaker 3: are you good? 105 00:04:36,000 --> 00:04:37,000 Speaker 4: What's uh? Who's look? 106 00:04:37,400 --> 00:04:39,719 Speaker 3: Oh? Thank you for asking, Mason. My name is Jubel, 107 00:04:39,800 --> 00:04:42,080 Speaker 3: and I host a radio show. It's called The Jebel. 108 00:04:41,800 --> 00:04:44,480 Speaker 2: Show him Mason, the whole show's here. I'm Nina Hi, 109 00:04:44,520 --> 00:04:45,240 Speaker 2: and I'm Victorias. 110 00:04:46,120 --> 00:04:47,760 Speaker 4: Hey, guys, Hey, I've heard you guys. 111 00:04:47,800 --> 00:04:49,599 Speaker 8: I heard you guys later, I heard you guys earlier. 112 00:04:49,760 --> 00:04:52,760 Speaker 3: Oh sweet, Well, thank you, that's cool. We're just calling 113 00:04:52,800 --> 00:04:57,240 Speaker 3: to say thank you. We were watching you listen. We're 114 00:04:57,279 --> 00:05:01,360 Speaker 3: actually calling you because we got an email about you. Mason. Okay, 115 00:05:02,960 --> 00:05:06,640 Speaker 3: so from somebody who you went on a date with, 116 00:05:06,720 --> 00:05:09,000 Speaker 3: but now you're ghosting. This is a first date follow up. 117 00:05:09,960 --> 00:05:16,120 Speaker 8: Oh okay, all right, so what the what are the accusations? 118 00:05:16,360 --> 00:05:19,599 Speaker 3: Any idea, any idea of who would email us? 119 00:05:20,640 --> 00:05:21,200 Speaker 2: Natasha? 120 00:05:21,600 --> 00:05:24,159 Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure you're correct, Mason. It is Natasha. 121 00:05:24,960 --> 00:05:25,599 Speaker 4: What happened? 122 00:05:25,960 --> 00:05:28,039 Speaker 3: She wants to know why you're ghostinger. She said she 123 00:05:28,080 --> 00:05:30,000 Speaker 3: really liked you, but now you are. 124 00:05:30,040 --> 00:05:36,320 Speaker 8: Okay, So all right, well this is okay if she 125 00:05:36,400 --> 00:05:39,520 Speaker 8: wants to hear it on the radio. So we obviously, 126 00:05:39,560 --> 00:05:42,039 Speaker 8: like she told you, guys, kind of the basic what happened. 127 00:05:42,800 --> 00:05:44,880 Speaker 8: We met and we went off for drinks and then 128 00:05:45,279 --> 00:05:50,680 Speaker 8: she might she might have spent the night all saying okay, 129 00:05:50,680 --> 00:05:53,440 Speaker 8: cool and then so thanks were drinking and I'm a 130 00:05:53,480 --> 00:05:56,440 Speaker 8: light sleeper. She spent the night and I kept on 131 00:05:56,480 --> 00:06:00,560 Speaker 8: waking up because she kept on farting and I was 132 00:06:00,640 --> 00:06:04,640 Speaker 8: And it's fine, there's nothing wrong with farts. But it's 133 00:06:04,680 --> 00:06:07,240 Speaker 8: just a little bit like maybe I guess too soon 134 00:06:07,520 --> 00:06:10,039 Speaker 8: for fart, if that makes sense, Like I just you know, 135 00:06:10,120 --> 00:06:12,560 Speaker 8: I just kind of met her and I'm already hearing 136 00:06:12,560 --> 00:06:16,480 Speaker 8: her fart exactly. 137 00:06:16,520 --> 00:06:18,760 Speaker 2: You can't really control your body soon. 138 00:06:21,200 --> 00:06:24,000 Speaker 8: Yeah, So, which is fine because I'm sure, like you 139 00:06:24,040 --> 00:06:26,800 Speaker 8: know who doesn't fart, so, but I was just a 140 00:06:26,839 --> 00:06:28,200 Speaker 8: little bit much for me. It kind of game me 141 00:06:28,200 --> 00:06:31,680 Speaker 8: an ech, But there's nothing, there's no bad thing. 142 00:06:31,680 --> 00:06:33,760 Speaker 4: I should just honestly, I should have just got back 143 00:06:33,760 --> 00:06:33,920 Speaker 4: to it. 144 00:06:34,560 --> 00:06:38,800 Speaker 3: Why you guys were like, stuff, is it no? 145 00:06:39,160 --> 00:06:40,520 Speaker 4: I mean, I I was sleeping. 146 00:06:40,560 --> 00:06:44,039 Speaker 8: Who knows what she was, but I remembering it was 147 00:06:44,040 --> 00:06:44,760 Speaker 8: it just it was. 148 00:06:44,839 --> 00:06:49,640 Speaker 5: Just sleep, okay, Like I could, I could, I could 149 00:06:49,720 --> 00:06:51,880 Speaker 5: see like if she was doing it on purpose or 150 00:06:51,920 --> 00:06:54,000 Speaker 5: like blatantly in front of you in the middle of conversation. 151 00:06:54,640 --> 00:06:57,800 Speaker 2: But like if you're sleeping, you can't really control it's happening, right. 152 00:06:58,360 --> 00:07:00,920 Speaker 4: I know. That's why it's an embarrassing I guess. 153 00:07:00,960 --> 00:07:03,680 Speaker 8: I mean, I just again, like it's maybe if I 154 00:07:03,720 --> 00:07:05,320 Speaker 8: just knew her longer for it's like a dating thing 155 00:07:05,360 --> 00:07:06,920 Speaker 8: because I've you know, something wrong with that when you're 156 00:07:07,000 --> 00:07:07,560 Speaker 8: dating someone. 157 00:07:07,600 --> 00:07:11,520 Speaker 3: But I always get nervous about that, falling asleep next 158 00:07:11,520 --> 00:07:13,160 Speaker 3: to someone for the first time, if I'm going to 159 00:07:13,240 --> 00:07:13,840 Speaker 3: fart or not. 160 00:07:14,040 --> 00:07:15,160 Speaker 2: That's you get nervous. 161 00:07:15,440 --> 00:07:18,440 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, what if you were in his position? I'm 162 00:07:18,480 --> 00:07:20,920 Speaker 5: just curious, like how other people would handle that, Like 163 00:07:20,960 --> 00:07:21,280 Speaker 5: if you. 164 00:07:21,360 --> 00:07:23,960 Speaker 3: Were she was sleep farting, I think that's that'd be cute, 165 00:07:25,880 --> 00:07:27,760 Speaker 3: unless they were like real bad ones. 166 00:07:29,040 --> 00:07:29,760 Speaker 8: That's cute. 167 00:07:30,080 --> 00:07:33,080 Speaker 3: She doesn't even know she's farting. She's embarrassed right now? 168 00:07:34,200 --> 00:07:35,240 Speaker 2: Are you crying right now? 169 00:07:36,240 --> 00:07:36,960 Speaker 3: I'm just laughing. 170 00:07:40,160 --> 00:07:42,840 Speaker 2: Oh, I'm sorry. Well, thank you for telling us the truth. Mason. 171 00:07:44,120 --> 00:07:46,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, I feel about I'm a light sleeper. I don't 172 00:07:46,440 --> 00:07:47,280 Speaker 4: know what to say. 173 00:07:47,600 --> 00:07:49,960 Speaker 3: Sure, Mason, I don't know if you remember or not. 174 00:07:50,000 --> 00:07:52,320 Speaker 3: But when we do the first date follow ups, the 175 00:07:52,400 --> 00:07:54,560 Speaker 3: other person is on the phone. So Natasha's on the 176 00:07:54,560 --> 00:07:55,560 Speaker 3: phone and wants to talk to you. 177 00:07:56,880 --> 00:08:04,520 Speaker 8: All right, you heard all that, right, sorry, right, yeah, no, no, 178 00:08:04,640 --> 00:08:05,160 Speaker 8: it's cool. 179 00:08:06,920 --> 00:08:11,360 Speaker 4: Maybe you know you were definitely farting also. 180 00:08:16,040 --> 00:08:22,440 Speaker 2: For dinner. We okay, okay, I. 181 00:08:22,600 --> 00:08:24,320 Speaker 8: Was talking a lot, so I probably want to air 182 00:08:24,400 --> 00:08:24,880 Speaker 8: my stomach. 183 00:08:24,920 --> 00:08:26,400 Speaker 4: Maybe I didn't. I don't know if I remember. 184 00:08:26,440 --> 00:08:28,280 Speaker 8: I don't know who was farting, but there was farting. 185 00:08:28,400 --> 00:08:34,840 Speaker 7: Dude, soth when when I too, it's cute and you 186 00:08:35,320 --> 00:08:37,960 Speaker 7: it just means uncomfortable around you, so you know. 187 00:08:38,120 --> 00:08:41,839 Speaker 4: Sorry, but I don't know. You were totally farting more 188 00:08:41,880 --> 00:08:44,400 Speaker 4: than I was, and I feel so much better now. 189 00:08:45,720 --> 00:08:52,760 Speaker 8: Okay, Well, I'm glad we're on the same page, part 190 00:08:52,840 --> 00:08:53,600 Speaker 8: page or something. 191 00:08:53,640 --> 00:08:55,920 Speaker 4: I'm glad we have the same Yeah. 192 00:08:56,160 --> 00:08:57,800 Speaker 8: I'm glad I heard you got to hear me fart 193 00:08:57,840 --> 00:08:58,800 Speaker 8: because I felt them fair. 194 00:08:59,600 --> 00:08:59,840 Speaker 4: Thanks. 195 00:08:59,880 --> 00:09:02,320 Speaker 7: I thought you didn't want to talk to me anymore 196 00:09:02,320 --> 00:09:03,640 Speaker 7: because I gicked over your cat. 197 00:09:03,720 --> 00:09:07,360 Speaker 4: Pok. Yeah, that was totally it. No, that happens all 198 00:09:07,360 --> 00:09:09,160 Speaker 4: the time. That's that's fine. 199 00:09:09,520 --> 00:09:13,080 Speaker 3: That would have been well. Now that you have both 200 00:09:13,160 --> 00:09:17,440 Speaker 3: known each other's fart sound like, yeah, Mason, would you 201 00:09:17,440 --> 00:09:19,360 Speaker 3: like to go on another date when Natasha will pay 202 00:09:19,400 --> 00:09:19,760 Speaker 3: for it? 203 00:09:21,679 --> 00:09:21,920 Speaker 4: Yeah? 204 00:09:21,960 --> 00:09:24,000 Speaker 8: So I guess now that we both realize that we're 205 00:09:24,040 --> 00:09:28,760 Speaker 8: both nighttime tutors night. I mean, I'm not I'm not 206 00:09:28,840 --> 00:09:31,800 Speaker 8: opposed to it, and I definitely feel bad about ghosting 207 00:09:32,120 --> 00:09:34,600 Speaker 8: and I shouldn't have done that. And now that now 208 00:09:34,640 --> 00:09:37,160 Speaker 8: it's just now, this whole thing is just really funny. 209 00:09:37,200 --> 00:09:42,160 Speaker 3: So yea, Natasha, congratulations you got another date? 210 00:09:42,360 --> 00:09:47,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, thank you, guys. That's awesome and speaks for apologizing. 211 00:09:48,080 --> 00:09:49,200 Speaker 4: I hated that feeling. 212 00:09:49,960 --> 00:09:54,319 Speaker 8: Yeah, so definitely, yeah, definitely and just please yeah, let's 213 00:09:54,360 --> 00:09:55,079 Speaker 8: go on the second date. 214 00:09:55,200 --> 00:09:58,079 Speaker 3: Okay, that's cool. And now it doesn't matter if you 215 00:09:58,120 --> 00:10:02,520 Speaker 3: guys fart, no, no, maybe do things. 216 00:10:02,320 --> 00:10:06,280 Speaker 2: To turn each other on on this rural reset. 217 00:10:07,040 --> 00:10:08,440 Speaker 4: I like that hard part reset. 218 00:10:12,679 --> 00:10:14,360 Speaker 1: Ju Will's first day follow up