1 00:00:00,480 --> 00:00:03,680 Speaker 1: Right now, let's go buck it up and hold on tight. 2 00:00:03,720 --> 00:00:05,640 Speaker 1: We got it for you. Here. It is the straw 3 00:00:05,960 --> 00:00:10,240 Speaker 1: berryed letter. All right, subject, It's my house, and I'll 4 00:00:10,320 --> 00:00:15,600 Speaker 1: smoke if I want to. Oh oh, did that perk 5 00:00:15,680 --> 00:00:19,000 Speaker 1: you up? Jay? For some reason? All right, here we go. 6 00:00:20,480 --> 00:00:23,200 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley. My wife and I have been married 7 00:00:23,200 --> 00:00:26,640 Speaker 1: for five years and we live in a five bedroom home. 8 00:00:27,040 --> 00:00:29,480 Speaker 1: My parents recently moved to the city we live in 9 00:00:29,560 --> 00:00:34,880 Speaker 1: to be closer to their grandchildren are kids. My wife 10 00:00:34,880 --> 00:00:36,879 Speaker 1: and I have allowed my parents to stay with us 11 00:00:36,920 --> 00:00:40,879 Speaker 1: temporarily while they moved into their new home. Everything was 12 00:00:40,920 --> 00:00:44,520 Speaker 1: going great until my mother started having an issue with 13 00:00:44,560 --> 00:00:49,120 Speaker 1: my wife. My wife smokes weed often, and I don't 14 00:00:49,120 --> 00:00:52,879 Speaker 1: have an issue with it, but I have asked her 15 00:00:53,000 --> 00:00:56,040 Speaker 1: nicely not to smoke in front of my parents out 16 00:00:56,080 --> 00:00:59,760 Speaker 1: of respect. I smoke weed occasionally with her, but I 17 00:00:59,880 --> 00:01:02,520 Speaker 1: was raised to respect my elders, so I will go 18 00:01:02,560 --> 00:01:05,880 Speaker 1: in the backyard or do it in the garage out 19 00:01:05,920 --> 00:01:09,319 Speaker 1: of respect for my parents. My wife was raised differently, 20 00:01:09,560 --> 00:01:12,320 Speaker 1: and she says that it's her house and she shouldn't 21 00:01:12,360 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 1: have to hide anything just because we have guests. So 22 00:01:15,680 --> 00:01:18,640 Speaker 1: now my mom is complaining daily, and I'm not sure 23 00:01:18,680 --> 00:01:20,959 Speaker 1: how to handle this. What do I do when my 24 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:24,120 Speaker 1: wife smokes weed with her mom when we go visit 25 00:01:24,200 --> 00:01:29,280 Speaker 1: her parents. This is impacting our marriage, but my wife 26 00:01:29,440 --> 00:01:32,760 Speaker 1: doesn't get it. My parents are beginning to look uncomfortable 27 00:01:32,880 --> 00:01:35,000 Speaker 1: in our house, and I hate that they don't feel 28 00:01:35,040 --> 00:01:37,440 Speaker 1: like they can sit and watch TV with us because 29 00:01:37,440 --> 00:01:40,080 Speaker 1: of the weed smell and smoke. I can't believe my 30 00:01:40,160 --> 00:01:44,320 Speaker 1: wife is this disrespectful and would choose being high over 31 00:01:44,560 --> 00:01:47,720 Speaker 1: being a decent daughter in law. Please help? All right, Well, 32 00:01:47,760 --> 00:01:51,160 Speaker 1: first of all, I'm on your side. I get that. 33 00:01:51,240 --> 00:01:55,400 Speaker 1: At your house, I understand that completely. And yes, as 34 00:01:55,520 --> 00:01:58,360 Speaker 1: we were raised, it's your house, and you should be 35 00:01:58,400 --> 00:02:00,560 Speaker 1: able to do whatever you want to do in your 36 00:02:00,600 --> 00:02:03,000 Speaker 1: own home. You pay the mortgage. I get all of that. 37 00:02:03,240 --> 00:02:05,120 Speaker 1: But on the other hand, there is such a thing 38 00:02:05,240 --> 00:02:10,000 Speaker 1: as respect. We were raised to respect our elders and 39 00:02:10,200 --> 00:02:12,520 Speaker 1: all of that. And if and if your parents are 40 00:02:12,560 --> 00:02:16,760 Speaker 1: feeling disrespectful and uncomfortable, hopefully they will hurry up and 41 00:02:17,160 --> 00:02:20,320 Speaker 1: get out of there. At number one, if they're feeling uncomfortable, 42 00:02:20,320 --> 00:02:22,800 Speaker 1: they're they're not going to want to stay much longer. 43 00:02:23,000 --> 00:02:26,320 Speaker 1: But yeah, I think your wife is wrong in this instance, 44 00:02:26,440 --> 00:02:29,640 Speaker 1: choosing being high and smoking in front of them over 45 00:02:29,760 --> 00:02:32,799 Speaker 1: being a respectful daughter in law. You know, a lot 46 00:02:32,800 --> 00:02:35,160 Speaker 1: of people I'm sure will probably disagree with me because 47 00:02:35,160 --> 00:02:38,000 Speaker 1: it is your house. But in this instance, I just 48 00:02:38,040 --> 00:02:42,320 Speaker 1: think respect above all, you know, should be the way 49 00:02:42,360 --> 00:02:45,000 Speaker 1: to go here. I mean, what is it going to 50 00:02:45,080 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 1: hurt for her to go out in the backyard with 51 00:02:49,400 --> 00:02:52,240 Speaker 1: you to smoke a joint or something like that, or 52 00:02:52,240 --> 00:02:55,760 Speaker 1: in the garage. What is that going to hurt? I mean, Okay, 53 00:02:55,800 --> 00:02:58,200 Speaker 1: now everybody knows you smoke weed, and you can do it, 54 00:02:58,240 --> 00:03:00,280 Speaker 1: and it's legal and all of that and in so 55 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:04,000 Speaker 1: many states and things. But come on, show a little decorum, 56 00:03:04,040 --> 00:03:07,320 Speaker 1: show a little respect here. Especially you have guests, and 57 00:03:07,360 --> 00:03:10,200 Speaker 1: if your guests are uncomfortable, the whole thing about having 58 00:03:10,200 --> 00:03:15,240 Speaker 1: guests is to make them feel comfortable being hospitable. They don't. 59 00:03:15,240 --> 00:03:17,280 Speaker 1: You haven't said one time in the letter that they're 60 00:03:17,280 --> 00:03:20,040 Speaker 1: putting you out, or they're taking over your home, or 61 00:03:20,080 --> 00:03:25,080 Speaker 1: they're being disrespectful to you in your home. So I 62 00:03:25,240 --> 00:03:28,840 Speaker 1: think that your wife should take um, you know, should 63 00:03:28,919 --> 00:03:31,280 Speaker 1: should take your side on this and be show a 64 00:03:31,320 --> 00:03:38,040 Speaker 1: little more respect to her elders. Definitely, Tommy, I have 65 00:03:38,240 --> 00:03:42,000 Speaker 1: high hopes on this one. I really do. I have 66 00:03:42,080 --> 00:03:45,840 Speaker 1: high hopes. The problem is, I'm worried about your mom 67 00:03:45,880 --> 00:03:48,680 Speaker 1: and your dad, all right, because your mom and your 68 00:03:48,760 --> 00:03:51,920 Speaker 1: dad is sitting there watching TV. And trust me, they 69 00:03:51,920 --> 00:03:54,600 Speaker 1: didn't get high. Now with your content, you got you, 70 00:03:54,600 --> 00:03:56,680 Speaker 1: your mom and dad is high. Yeah. So when they 71 00:03:56,720 --> 00:03:58,280 Speaker 1: go over to the house that they're getting ready to 72 00:03:58,320 --> 00:04:00,520 Speaker 1: move into, it the real to looking at them because 73 00:04:00,520 --> 00:04:03,920 Speaker 1: she they smell high. The eyes real, your mama n 74 00:04:03,920 --> 00:04:07,120 Speaker 1: them is high. Okay. When they get the church on Sunday, 75 00:04:07,360 --> 00:04:10,200 Speaker 1: they high. You wonder why your mama keep going to 76 00:04:10,240 --> 00:04:14,240 Speaker 1: the refrigerator because they high. They eating up everything around. 77 00:04:14,680 --> 00:04:17,159 Speaker 1: They got the munches off through the house. Your mama 78 00:04:17,160 --> 00:04:20,080 Speaker 1: and them is high okay. And they know they high 79 00:04:20,080 --> 00:04:22,000 Speaker 1: and they're trying to come down, but your wife won't 80 00:04:22,080 --> 00:04:24,800 Speaker 1: let them come down because she keep getting them high. 81 00:04:25,320 --> 00:04:28,080 Speaker 1: It is, I have a high hold. But you got 82 00:04:28,080 --> 00:04:32,480 Speaker 1: a weed white, and that's a take out a weed white. 83 00:04:33,960 --> 00:04:37,440 Speaker 1: You need to do something with your weed white. Y'all 84 00:04:37,440 --> 00:04:40,719 Speaker 1: need to take up a weed break sometime, Okay, So 85 00:04:40,839 --> 00:04:43,720 Speaker 1: y'all look it for real, because y'all y your mama 86 00:04:43,760 --> 00:04:45,640 Speaker 1: just she just tell up. Your mamma is walk around 87 00:04:45,680 --> 00:04:54,600 Speaker 1: like snoop dogg. Right now she just high shout out. Okay, 88 00:04:54,839 --> 00:04:57,720 Speaker 1: all right, don't can't. I understand what's going on. And 89 00:04:57,800 --> 00:04:59,760 Speaker 1: I understand you want to respect your mama and them. 90 00:05:00,320 --> 00:05:03,000 Speaker 1: I really don't know nobody to get high with their mama. 91 00:05:03,040 --> 00:05:04,840 Speaker 1: That's what your wife do. That's the craziest thing I 92 00:05:04,920 --> 00:05:07,279 Speaker 1: ever heard. All right, and then and now you gotta 93 00:05:07,400 --> 00:05:10,080 Speaker 1: and now you want to go outside. And I'm sure 94 00:05:10,080 --> 00:05:12,440 Speaker 1: when y'all go outside, do weed come back in there? 95 00:05:12,920 --> 00:05:16,200 Speaker 1: You know, everybody high. I'm assuming y'all don't have no kids, 96 00:05:16,200 --> 00:05:18,479 Speaker 1: and you ain't doing this around your kids. I'm hoping 97 00:05:18,560 --> 00:05:21,240 Speaker 1: that's not happening, all right, but but I do have 98 00:05:21,360 --> 00:05:23,360 Speaker 1: high hopes that y'all would finish this right here. But 99 00:05:23,400 --> 00:05:25,640 Speaker 1: I think everywhere your mom and them going, your mama 100 00:05:25,720 --> 00:05:29,520 Speaker 1: closed and everything all that, they're smelling like we have kids. Yeah, 101 00:05:29,560 --> 00:05:31,960 Speaker 1: they do have kids. And they got cheering. Yeah, so 102 00:05:32,080 --> 00:05:36,840 Speaker 1: now in the cheering, get more Hi. Hi, Yeah, they 103 00:05:36,920 --> 00:05:38,880 Speaker 1: on their way to school. High good luck, not a 104 00:05:38,880 --> 00:05:40,840 Speaker 1: good luck? Yeah, talk to you. That's all I got 105 00:05:40,920 --> 00:05:47,400 Speaker 1: high hopes, baby, Hi God? All right, what is his 106 00:05:47,440 --> 00:05:52,479 Speaker 1: wife again? Tommy Queen White? I mean you knew that 107 00:05:52,640 --> 00:05:55,360 Speaker 1: five years ago, don't nobody killing about. But how many 108 00:05:55,400 --> 00:05:59,640 Speaker 1: the bedrooms y'all got? All your bedrooms smell like wee? Yeah? Yeah, 109 00:05:59,720 --> 00:06:02,320 Speaker 1: I feel badly for the parents. I really do in 110 00:06:02,360 --> 00:06:09,480 Speaker 1: this situation, jay Um, And which brings me to you, Jesus, 111 00:06:10,240 --> 00:06:13,320 Speaker 1: I'm a connoisseur, and I am gonna answer this question. 112 00:06:14,080 --> 00:06:19,200 Speaker 1: And you know what, I'm gonna be blunt because this 113 00:06:19,279 --> 00:06:23,080 Speaker 1: letter right here is a smoker, and what you have 114 00:06:23,320 --> 00:06:27,440 Speaker 1: in the house is everybody's rolled up tight. People need 115 00:06:27,480 --> 00:06:30,440 Speaker 1: to loosen up. You're not gonna have to get put 116 00:06:30,480 --> 00:06:35,120 Speaker 1: a shotgun on me to answer this question. I'm not 117 00:06:35,160 --> 00:06:38,560 Speaker 1: gonna just pass it on to somebody else, you know 118 00:06:38,600 --> 00:06:42,280 Speaker 1: what I mean. I think we're following. You're gonna you're 119 00:06:42,279 --> 00:06:46,159 Speaker 1: gonna twist it, just twist it just right. In other words, 120 00:06:46,240 --> 00:06:48,960 Speaker 1: I'm gonna hit this for your shot. You ain't got 121 00:06:48,960 --> 00:06:53,560 Speaker 1: that to word, but I think it's legal what you're doing. Yeah, 122 00:06:53,600 --> 00:06:57,720 Speaker 1: but the problem is this. You want people to come 123 00:06:57,760 --> 00:07:01,560 Speaker 1: to your house. You want to open up so you 124 00:07:01,600 --> 00:07:05,159 Speaker 1: can have people to come to your house. Yeah, what 125 00:07:05,360 --> 00:07:08,760 Speaker 1: you don't want is for him to stay. Let's recap 126 00:07:08,800 --> 00:07:14,320 Speaker 1: today's strawberry letter. Subject it's my house and I'll smoke 127 00:07:14,360 --> 00:07:16,840 Speaker 1: if I want to. Man wrote in He and his 128 00:07:16,880 --> 00:07:18,840 Speaker 1: wife have been married for five years. They live in 129 00:07:18,840 --> 00:07:22,520 Speaker 1: a five bedroom home. His parents recently moved to the 130 00:07:22,560 --> 00:07:25,560 Speaker 1: city so they could be closer to their grandkids, and 131 00:07:26,800 --> 00:07:28,920 Speaker 1: he and his wife have allowed their parents to stay 132 00:07:28,960 --> 00:07:31,760 Speaker 1: with them. That's very, very nice. They're staying. The parents 133 00:07:31,800 --> 00:07:34,640 Speaker 1: are staying with them temporarily until they move into their 134 00:07:34,680 --> 00:07:39,560 Speaker 1: new home. All right, everything's going great until the mother started. 135 00:07:39,720 --> 00:07:43,160 Speaker 1: Until the man's mom started having an issue with her 136 00:07:43,240 --> 00:07:46,280 Speaker 1: daughter in law because she smokes weed in the house. 137 00:07:46,720 --> 00:07:49,320 Speaker 1: Now this is offensive to the man's mother in law, 138 00:07:49,600 --> 00:07:52,600 Speaker 1: the house guests. Yeah, I'm sorry to his mom, to 139 00:07:52,760 --> 00:07:57,160 Speaker 1: his house guests, because his wife's attitude is that it's 140 00:07:57,200 --> 00:07:59,400 Speaker 1: my house and I'll smoke where of our want to 141 00:08:00,040 --> 00:08:02,480 Speaker 1: and if I want to. So the mom is feeling 142 00:08:02,560 --> 00:08:07,280 Speaker 1: uncomfortable now. You know, as Tommy brought out, they probably 143 00:08:07,280 --> 00:08:10,920 Speaker 1: are getting contacts in the house. Yeah, that's that much 144 00:08:10,920 --> 00:08:12,600 Speaker 1: weed in the house. Yeah, you will get it right. 145 00:08:12,640 --> 00:08:15,360 Speaker 1: And the sun, at least the sun is being respectful 146 00:08:15,400 --> 00:08:18,000 Speaker 1: because that's why he was raised to respect his elders. 147 00:08:18,040 --> 00:08:20,880 Speaker 1: He's going outside in the backyard or in the garage 148 00:08:21,200 --> 00:08:24,760 Speaker 1: because he does smoke occasionally with his wife. His wife 149 00:08:24,800 --> 00:08:27,200 Speaker 1: doesn't get it. His wife grew up smoking weed with 150 00:08:27,240 --> 00:08:29,800 Speaker 1: her mom, so she doesn't see anything wrong with it. 151 00:08:29,840 --> 00:08:32,520 Speaker 1: She doesn't see the disrespect, and quite frankly, she doesn't 152 00:08:32,520 --> 00:08:36,280 Speaker 1: care because again she's saying, it's her house. Yeah, it's 153 00:08:36,320 --> 00:08:39,920 Speaker 1: her house. So we're gonna let you take it from here, Jay, 154 00:08:40,320 --> 00:08:44,160 Speaker 1: and uh, well, on the back end, on the back 155 00:08:44,240 --> 00:08:46,040 Speaker 1: end of why, First of all, we need to look 156 00:08:46,080 --> 00:08:49,640 Speaker 1: into why this lady is smoking weed in front of 157 00:08:49,679 --> 00:08:52,400 Speaker 1: the mom. We need to we need to delve into that. 158 00:08:52,480 --> 00:08:54,400 Speaker 1: We need to answer that question. We need to be 159 00:08:54,559 --> 00:08:58,040 Speaker 1: blunt with that. And the reason she's doing it is 160 00:08:58,080 --> 00:09:03,000 Speaker 1: because she can't dann this lady and when you high, 161 00:09:03,320 --> 00:09:05,520 Speaker 1: don't nothing bother you. You know what I'm saying. You 162 00:09:05,520 --> 00:09:08,079 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So she definitely wants getting high 163 00:09:08,160 --> 00:09:11,880 Speaker 1: just to stay mellow, so she won't cuss out, so 164 00:09:11,920 --> 00:09:14,400 Speaker 1: she won't get in the fist fight. You know, none 165 00:09:14,400 --> 00:09:16,960 Speaker 1: of that. Long as I'm high, whatever the lady doing 166 00:09:17,040 --> 00:09:19,680 Speaker 1: this house, I can live with it. But I and 167 00:09:19,760 --> 00:09:22,560 Speaker 1: she says to herself, I'd be damned if I'm gonna 168 00:09:22,559 --> 00:09:26,400 Speaker 1: walk outside in the rain and smoke a joint. When 169 00:09:26,440 --> 00:09:28,960 Speaker 1: I want to have a joint, does my house want to? 170 00:09:30,679 --> 00:09:36,200 Speaker 1: She says, it's weird. I'm with her on that you 171 00:09:36,280 --> 00:09:40,079 Speaker 1: got to walk all the way outside to have some enjoyment. 172 00:09:40,240 --> 00:09:42,440 Speaker 1: Well wait a minute, Jay, you're a person that doesn't 173 00:09:42,480 --> 00:09:48,640 Speaker 1: like company, period. Yes, no, I don't like company. So 174 00:09:48,800 --> 00:09:51,319 Speaker 1: even up they're there for five minutes, you want them out? 175 00:09:51,840 --> 00:09:54,360 Speaker 1: I want them out? Yeah. Well, first of all, Shirley, 176 00:09:54,760 --> 00:10:00,760 Speaker 1: five minutes is way too long, okay, but I'm an 177 00:10:00,760 --> 00:10:03,080 Speaker 1: agreement with you. You got to be doing over him 178 00:10:03,120 --> 00:10:07,560 Speaker 1: for five minutes. She does want to driving something off? 179 00:10:07,559 --> 00:10:10,400 Speaker 1: It don't take you that long. Okay. This wife is 180 00:10:10,480 --> 00:10:15,960 Speaker 1: the female you definitely, Yeah, I understand how I understand 181 00:10:15,960 --> 00:10:20,000 Speaker 1: that everything about her is Jake. She's a female and Jay, 182 00:10:20,120 --> 00:10:21,800 Speaker 1: But you know what she's looking at it like this, 183 00:10:21,960 --> 00:10:25,280 Speaker 1: Why should I have to make myself uncomfortable for you 184 00:10:25,320 --> 00:10:28,720 Speaker 1: to be comfortable? But that's what she's saying. Why should 185 00:10:28,720 --> 00:10:32,560 Speaker 1: I have to walk way outside then enjoy uh? Smoking? 186 00:10:32,840 --> 00:10:35,000 Speaker 1: What I like to smoke? When you want to sit 187 00:10:35,080 --> 00:10:37,360 Speaker 1: back in your own house and listen to some you 188 00:10:37,679 --> 00:10:41,240 Speaker 1: can't do that outside. But Jay, you don't see this 189 00:10:41,400 --> 00:10:45,480 Speaker 1: as disrespect you do not see this as disrespect. We 190 00:10:45,600 --> 00:10:48,360 Speaker 1: got to her house, but if it makes your house 191 00:10:48,440 --> 00:10:51,640 Speaker 1: guests uncomfortable and they're there for a minute, she wants 192 00:10:51,679 --> 00:10:55,679 Speaker 1: them out. Basically, that's what sometimes in order to get 193 00:10:55,720 --> 00:11:00,440 Speaker 1: a house guests to leave a little uncomfortable will make 194 00:11:00,520 --> 00:11:05,480 Speaker 1: him lead. So she's trying to smoke him out. Just yeah, 195 00:11:06,040 --> 00:11:09,720 Speaker 1: wants them out, but we really wants them up. But 196 00:11:09,840 --> 00:11:12,719 Speaker 1: we were all raised to respect our elders. We really were, 197 00:11:12,840 --> 00:11:14,679 Speaker 1: and that's where we try to teach our kids. We 198 00:11:14,720 --> 00:11:17,880 Speaker 1: do well. She's probably saying this, excuse me, but I'm 199 00:11:17,880 --> 00:11:20,960 Speaker 1: fin the light up. I'm sure she's saying that she's 200 00:11:21,000 --> 00:11:28,640 Speaker 1: being polite that I'm about to roll one. Okay, that's 201 00:11:28,679 --> 00:11:34,080 Speaker 1: called manners. No no, no disrespect. I'm fenn to fire 202 00:11:34,120 --> 00:11:42,559 Speaker 1: one up. And okay, she's her elder and not saying anything. 203 00:11:42,720 --> 00:11:47,360 Speaker 1: But but she's just respecting her husband, who has asked 204 00:11:47,360 --> 00:11:49,760 Speaker 1: her not to do it as well. Look, if he 205 00:11:49,880 --> 00:11:54,040 Speaker 1: want to go outside smoke, I'm not going out there. 206 00:11:54,480 --> 00:11:57,720 Speaker 1: You can't. Have you ever tried to enjoy weed out 207 00:11:57,760 --> 00:12:10,240 Speaker 1: in the cold. It's not fun. Good I can with you. 208 00:12:10,240 --> 00:12:13,840 Speaker 1: You got the elements is raining and dogs barking, that's 209 00:12:13,920 --> 00:12:20,600 Speaker 1: not comfortable. We'll go in the garage sometimes I'm well, 210 00:12:20,600 --> 00:12:23,800 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be how about we do this. Here's what 211 00:12:23,840 --> 00:12:30,040 Speaker 1: we do when I smoke, you go outside. How about that, Jay, 212 00:12:30,240 --> 00:12:33,640 Speaker 1: it's mother's older. Come on next thing. You know, she's 213 00:12:33,640 --> 00:12:36,360 Speaker 1: gonna be clamping down and everything. Y'all can't make noise 214 00:12:36,400 --> 00:12:40,240 Speaker 1: when you make love if you don't stop it, if 215 00:12:40,240 --> 00:12:46,640 Speaker 1: you don't nip this in the book, where were you 216 00:12:46,679 --> 00:12:49,520 Speaker 1: gonna say, Carla? I was just saying that she's just 217 00:12:49,520 --> 00:12:54,160 Speaker 1: gonna put on her snoop dog and tell everybody. Yeah. 218 00:12:54,200 --> 00:12:56,600 Speaker 1: I mean, don't get me wrong. I get that it's 219 00:12:56,640 --> 00:12:59,520 Speaker 1: her house. I understand that. And how many times have 220 00:12:59,600 --> 00:13:02,920 Speaker 1: we I think it's disrespectful, Shirley. I really do think 221 00:13:02,960 --> 00:13:07,200 Speaker 1: it's disrespectful because her husband's asked her there, they've invited. 222 00:13:07,240 --> 00:13:18,520 Speaker 1: This is one two three, it's time. Wow, another but 223 00:13:18,679 --> 00:13:23,000 Speaker 1: a cheat thing, baby, it's time to find you look 224 00:13:23,080 --> 00:13:30,400 Speaker 1: con lady, because wow, I mean while his wife, he 225 00:13:30,480 --> 00:13:34,800 Speaker 1: and his wife were raised very differently. Because I mean, 226 00:13:34,880 --> 00:13:38,400 Speaker 1: you were you allowed. I know you're gonna tell me, no, Jay, 227 00:13:38,679 --> 00:13:43,520 Speaker 1: you could Yes, No, I didn't smoke it. I don't 228 00:13:43,559 --> 00:13:46,480 Speaker 1: even I never even cursed in front of my Absolutely 229 00:13:46,559 --> 00:13:51,600 Speaker 1: not Why because that's how you were raised now though too. No, No, 230 00:13:52,360 --> 00:13:54,760 Speaker 1: if my mom was hidden right now, yeah, i'd probably 231 00:13:54,840 --> 00:13:58,120 Speaker 1: light up. Yeah. No, I don't believe. I don't believe it. 232 00:13:58,160 --> 00:14:01,800 Speaker 1: All right, we gotta get out of here. I know. 233 00:14:01,960 --> 00:14:05,400 Speaker 1: Now he's just out now lying. Okay, listen, guys, email 234 00:14:05,520 --> 00:14:08,200 Speaker 1: us your Instagram. That's your thoughts on today. Strawberry letter 235 00:14:08,200 --> 00:14:11,439 Speaker 1: at Steve Harvey f M. You're listening to the Stave 236 00:14:11,600 --> 00:14:12,559 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show