1 00:00:05,880 --> 00:00:07,840 Speaker 1: He love My Love. Welcome to the Give Them La 2 00:00:07,920 --> 00:00:15,200 Speaker 1: La Podcast. The bonus episode bony Bone terrific. I'm excited 3 00:00:15,400 --> 00:00:18,079 Speaker 1: for this topic. By the way, Jess, I want to 4 00:00:18,120 --> 00:00:22,079 Speaker 1: thank you for keeping in your notes potential topics or 5 00:00:22,360 --> 00:00:25,600 Speaker 1: the bonus episodes, because the night before she always sends 6 00:00:25,680 --> 00:00:30,160 Speaker 1: us what she has concocted in her notes, and then 7 00:00:30,160 --> 00:00:31,360 Speaker 1: we choose yes, and. 8 00:00:31,320 --> 00:00:34,760 Speaker 2: It's line chooses. I stand by and just go wonder 9 00:00:34,760 --> 00:00:35,440 Speaker 2: which one I'm going to. 10 00:00:35,479 --> 00:00:38,600 Speaker 3: Be doing well well. I do like when she checks 11 00:00:39,040 --> 00:00:40,120 Speaker 3: you always choose a good one. 12 00:00:40,159 --> 00:00:41,800 Speaker 4: And I also they'll just come to my head and 13 00:00:41,840 --> 00:00:43,440 Speaker 4: I'm like, oh, that'd be a good bonus topic and 14 00:00:43,479 --> 00:00:44,040 Speaker 4: I write it down. 15 00:00:44,120 --> 00:00:46,760 Speaker 3: I love the bonus episodes. 16 00:00:46,680 --> 00:00:47,560 Speaker 2: Favorite, my favorite. 17 00:00:48,440 --> 00:00:49,879 Speaker 1: Can I tell you what I like about them? 18 00:00:50,000 --> 00:00:50,240 Speaker 3: Yeah. 19 00:00:50,600 --> 00:00:53,360 Speaker 1: Sometimes during the regular episodes, when we talk about like 20 00:00:53,440 --> 00:00:56,280 Speaker 1: hot topics or whatever, I feel kind of bad because 21 00:00:56,280 --> 00:00:59,800 Speaker 1: I give my honest opinion. But it makes me feel 22 00:00:59,800 --> 00:01:01,440 Speaker 1: bad when people are mean about me. And I'm kind 23 00:01:01,440 --> 00:01:04,480 Speaker 1: of mean about people on the podcast for an eye 24 00:01:04,760 --> 00:01:07,240 Speaker 1: I for no, I mean about people who like don't 25 00:01:07,280 --> 00:01:09,160 Speaker 1: care about, like they wouldn't even know who I am, 26 00:01:09,200 --> 00:01:12,200 Speaker 1: and I'm like, I hate Lizzo and I'm like, what 27 00:01:12,200 --> 00:01:14,920 Speaker 1: what is happening? Why are you saying that people don't 28 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:17,959 Speaker 1: have an out of body experience? Like, shut the fuck up. 29 00:01:18,000 --> 00:01:19,720 Speaker 1: You don't even know this person. How do you hate 30 00:01:19,720 --> 00:01:20,679 Speaker 1: someone you don't even know? 31 00:01:20,959 --> 00:01:21,839 Speaker 2: I hate what she does? 32 00:01:21,959 --> 00:01:22,399 Speaker 3: But guess what? 33 00:01:23,920 --> 00:01:26,400 Speaker 4: You could come on tomorrow and say I love Lizzo. 34 00:01:26,520 --> 00:01:28,880 Speaker 4: And that's the beauty of this podcast. It's all yours. 35 00:01:28,880 --> 00:01:31,760 Speaker 2: We have eighty D eighty HD. We forget and we forgive. 36 00:01:32,400 --> 00:01:35,480 Speaker 1: What I really like about the bonus episode is it 37 00:01:35,560 --> 00:01:39,120 Speaker 1: sticks to making fun of me myself and I oh, yeah, 38 00:01:39,800 --> 00:01:41,360 Speaker 1: you know and you guys. 39 00:01:41,120 --> 00:01:44,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, I sweat. Usually during these it's a little bit 40 00:01:44,200 --> 00:01:45,800 Speaker 2: more lighthearted they are. 41 00:01:46,040 --> 00:01:48,440 Speaker 1: So what is the topic for today? Okay? 42 00:01:48,640 --> 00:01:49,800 Speaker 3: Fun topic? You guys? 43 00:01:50,160 --> 00:01:53,280 Speaker 4: We the prompts, by the way, reminder because we've had 44 00:01:53,280 --> 00:01:57,120 Speaker 4: a few of you ask. They're always posted usually Sunday 45 00:01:57,200 --> 00:02:01,240 Speaker 4: night or Monday morning on Give Them La La Pod Instagram. 46 00:02:01,400 --> 00:02:04,480 Speaker 4: They're posted on the stories and you guys can write it. 47 00:02:04,880 --> 00:02:08,040 Speaker 4: So this one was what's something that happened to you 48 00:02:08,120 --> 00:02:12,919 Speaker 4: in grade school that has really impacted who you are today. 49 00:02:13,440 --> 00:02:15,760 Speaker 3: We'll share our stories first and then go to yours. 50 00:02:16,280 --> 00:02:18,200 Speaker 1: Okay, Easton, you want to start us off. 51 00:02:19,400 --> 00:02:22,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, there's a lot. I was short, curly headed, but 52 00:02:22,800 --> 00:02:23,160 Speaker 2: there was. 53 00:02:24,160 --> 00:02:27,639 Speaker 5: I got my license at school through their driver's head 54 00:02:28,840 --> 00:02:30,720 Speaker 5: and the seat was broken. 55 00:02:31,440 --> 00:02:34,840 Speaker 2: It's five five five six, and it's not. 56 00:02:34,760 --> 00:02:37,280 Speaker 1: That short as tall as I am. 57 00:02:37,560 --> 00:02:39,720 Speaker 5: Yeah, but for for a little for a boy, for 58 00:02:39,760 --> 00:02:42,520 Speaker 5: a boy like everybody else is, like you may have been. 59 00:02:44,520 --> 00:02:45,560 Speaker 2: I may have been five to four. 60 00:02:45,880 --> 00:02:49,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, I is a little guy, a little pintoban. I 61 00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:51,800 Speaker 1: was a little It's so cute. 62 00:02:51,840 --> 00:02:54,079 Speaker 2: That's why nobody ever let me flick their pinto bean. 63 00:02:55,080 --> 00:02:59,760 Speaker 1: But moving off filthy. 64 00:02:59,360 --> 00:03:03,720 Speaker 5: I took my my test in a Geo, a Chevy Geo. 65 00:03:04,120 --> 00:03:07,000 Speaker 1: If you take it through Skyline High School? Yeah, okay, 66 00:03:07,120 --> 00:03:07,720 Speaker 1: to pay. 67 00:03:09,400 --> 00:03:13,680 Speaker 2: The he was. He was also the driver teacher. 68 00:03:13,880 --> 00:03:16,040 Speaker 3: I love small towns for ship like that. 69 00:03:16,160 --> 00:03:17,040 Speaker 2: Small town. 70 00:03:18,520 --> 00:03:21,359 Speaker 1: Salt Lake City, Utah. Five aay's school bitch, but I 71 00:03:21,440 --> 00:03:26,919 Speaker 1: recognized to pay is to Roger. I grew up in 72 00:03:27,000 --> 00:03:30,000 Speaker 1: Salt Lake City to pay time? 73 00:03:30,960 --> 00:03:31,720 Speaker 3: Where am I right? 74 00:03:31,800 --> 00:03:34,800 Speaker 1: But you are from You're not going to talk to 75 00:03:34,880 --> 00:03:39,000 Speaker 1: us about small towns. I love Fingers, but you are 76 00:03:39,000 --> 00:03:43,240 Speaker 1: from finger Lakes, small town. You wouldn't know a small town, 77 00:03:43,240 --> 00:03:43,720 Speaker 1: wouldn't you? 78 00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:45,600 Speaker 5: I know, if it was a small town, I wouldn't 79 00:03:45,600 --> 00:03:47,400 Speaker 5: got made fun of as much, probably, but it was 80 00:03:47,440 --> 00:03:50,560 Speaker 5: big town, big kids. Little guy can ship talked, right, 81 00:03:51,400 --> 00:03:54,200 Speaker 5: But I had to take my drivers from Roger to 82 00:03:54,280 --> 00:03:56,760 Speaker 5: pay and I had to sit on my book bag. 83 00:03:59,160 --> 00:03:59,920 Speaker 2: I couldn't reach them. 84 00:04:00,040 --> 00:04:05,760 Speaker 6: That oldering, Well it really shaped who I was. And 85 00:04:05,800 --> 00:04:07,960 Speaker 6: when you get out of the car, you know they 86 00:04:07,960 --> 00:04:10,440 Speaker 6: were all watching and I had to get the book bag. 87 00:04:10,520 --> 00:04:11,000 Speaker 2: How was. 88 00:04:12,600 --> 00:04:14,040 Speaker 3: You're so sweet? 89 00:04:14,080 --> 00:04:18,640 Speaker 2: How old were brown? Yeah, it's fifteen sixteen, depending on. 90 00:04:19,160 --> 00:04:20,760 Speaker 3: You were that small that smaller? 91 00:04:21,320 --> 00:04:22,120 Speaker 2: I got my eyes. 92 00:04:22,200 --> 00:04:26,640 Speaker 1: I wish you could see Easton. There's a picture of 93 00:04:26,640 --> 00:04:29,840 Speaker 1: me and Easton. We're only two and a half years apart. Okay, 94 00:04:30,640 --> 00:04:34,919 Speaker 1: there's a picture of me and Easton in Hawaii, and 95 00:04:35,080 --> 00:04:36,120 Speaker 1: I think I was eighteen. 96 00:04:36,240 --> 00:04:37,719 Speaker 2: You were sixteen. 97 00:04:38,080 --> 00:04:41,400 Speaker 1: You were the tiniest little. 98 00:04:41,120 --> 00:04:42,760 Speaker 2: You could have I was. You could have guessed I 99 00:04:42,800 --> 00:04:44,760 Speaker 2: was eleven one percent. 100 00:04:45,160 --> 00:04:46,760 Speaker 1: Like the way that we looked at was like you 101 00:04:46,839 --> 00:04:48,720 Speaker 1: guys waited a long time to have kids. It's like, no, 102 00:04:48,760 --> 00:04:50,240 Speaker 1: they're two and a half years apart, But do you 103 00:04:50,279 --> 00:04:52,960 Speaker 1: remember we're standing next to that big. 104 00:04:53,800 --> 00:04:58,640 Speaker 2: Like give me that. 105 00:04:58,839 --> 00:05:01,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, we couldn't find it, to find it, but yeah, 106 00:05:01,680 --> 00:05:03,560 Speaker 1: I know, I know, but it just goes to show 107 00:05:03,640 --> 00:05:06,440 Speaker 1: like how small and immature he. 108 00:05:06,480 --> 00:05:08,880 Speaker 5: Was was I lied on my ID. I know that 109 00:05:08,920 --> 00:05:14,839 Speaker 5: for my driver, I was one hundred and thirty pounds. Well, 110 00:05:14,880 --> 00:05:16,920 Speaker 5: I said, I was probably like one hundred and ten, 111 00:05:17,080 --> 00:05:20,440 Speaker 5: not even maybe I put five to five and I 112 00:05:20,440 --> 00:05:23,559 Speaker 5: was probably five three and a half five four, still 113 00:05:23,560 --> 00:05:24,960 Speaker 5: talking to perty at eighteen. 114 00:05:25,279 --> 00:05:26,280 Speaker 3: Okay, so you were late. 115 00:05:26,320 --> 00:05:28,279 Speaker 2: See, But that's the thing. I look, I'm thirty one, 116 00:05:28,360 --> 00:05:29,280 Speaker 2: do I look at No? 117 00:05:29,279 --> 00:05:32,320 Speaker 1: No, no, you sure don't. You sure doesn't. 118 00:05:32,680 --> 00:05:34,480 Speaker 3: So that shaped who you are today. That's what you're 119 00:05:34,520 --> 00:05:35,000 Speaker 3: so funny. 120 00:05:35,040 --> 00:05:37,279 Speaker 1: Yeah, but he was so cute you had to hold on. 121 00:05:37,400 --> 00:05:38,920 Speaker 2: That's the other thing. I really do think. 122 00:05:38,960 --> 00:05:42,320 Speaker 5: I had to make jokes about my height, my little 123 00:05:42,360 --> 00:05:43,360 Speaker 5: things like that always. 124 00:05:43,360 --> 00:05:45,279 Speaker 1: And I show you a picture of Easton as like 125 00:05:45,360 --> 00:05:46,679 Speaker 1: a tiny little toddler. 126 00:05:46,760 --> 00:05:49,360 Speaker 4: We'll post this to you guys. 127 00:05:49,400 --> 00:05:51,839 Speaker 3: Are you fucking kidding me? 128 00:05:52,200 --> 00:05:52,960 Speaker 2: That was tenth grade? 129 00:05:53,000 --> 00:05:57,920 Speaker 1: Do you die or do you die? 130 00:05:58,400 --> 00:05:59,599 Speaker 3: Drivers? 131 00:06:01,600 --> 00:06:02,480 Speaker 2: He's so cute. 132 00:06:02,839 --> 00:06:05,560 Speaker 1: So like, Easton was always just the cutest. And I 133 00:06:05,600 --> 00:06:09,240 Speaker 1: remember like Sunday night football and my dad would move 134 00:06:09,240 --> 00:06:13,599 Speaker 1: the furniture so Easton could duct tape the football field 135 00:06:13,920 --> 00:06:16,320 Speaker 1: and he would watch the play so tiny, no you 136 00:06:16,360 --> 00:06:21,320 Speaker 1: were talking, but with his curly hair, and he would 137 00:06:21,360 --> 00:06:24,160 Speaker 1: watch the play and then he'd redo it, he'd reenact 138 00:06:24,200 --> 00:06:27,280 Speaker 1: the play. He loved the green Bay Packer, the green 139 00:06:27,320 --> 00:06:31,080 Speaker 1: Bay Packer. And then you go like this, can I 140 00:06:31,160 --> 00:06:31,920 Speaker 1: see my back pad? 141 00:06:32,040 --> 00:06:33,080 Speaker 3: Dad? Dad? 142 00:06:33,120 --> 00:06:35,400 Speaker 1: Can you see my backpad? And then he would go 143 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:38,880 Speaker 1: outside and like slam himself into the grass because he 144 00:06:39,000 --> 00:06:41,160 Speaker 1: liked to be scuffed up. 145 00:06:41,440 --> 00:06:44,200 Speaker 4: Okay, this makes me want can. 146 00:06:44,040 --> 00:06:46,640 Speaker 1: I tell you? The only reason that I sit there 147 00:06:46,640 --> 00:06:49,240 Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh, a boy would be so much 148 00:06:49,240 --> 00:06:52,000 Speaker 1: fun is I think about t T in the backyard 149 00:06:52,040 --> 00:06:54,640 Speaker 1: and him coming in and he wanted all the he 150 00:06:54,680 --> 00:06:57,440 Speaker 1: had to have the new cool face mask that like 151 00:06:57,920 --> 00:07:01,680 Speaker 1: so and so running back from the tight Tennessee Titans had. 152 00:07:02,480 --> 00:07:03,040 Speaker 2: I was good. 153 00:07:03,240 --> 00:07:06,560 Speaker 5: I was I was not really good. And then everybody 154 00:07:06,680 --> 00:07:08,520 Speaker 5: hit puberty and that's and I didn't know. 155 00:07:08,480 --> 00:07:09,120 Speaker 1: What I remember. 156 00:07:09,200 --> 00:07:09,880 Speaker 2: Dream was lost. 157 00:07:10,680 --> 00:07:13,560 Speaker 1: But I remember during Little League, people across, like from 158 00:07:13,600 --> 00:07:16,880 Speaker 1: other teams would be like that number eleven. He's fucking 159 00:07:17,000 --> 00:07:21,200 Speaker 1: quick on his feet and tiny, so tiny but quick, 160 00:07:22,080 --> 00:07:23,480 Speaker 1: little tiny, skinny legs. 161 00:07:24,880 --> 00:07:25,880 Speaker 3: It was so cute. 162 00:07:26,200 --> 00:07:26,560 Speaker 1: Teaching. 163 00:07:26,840 --> 00:07:27,440 Speaker 2: I was nice. 164 00:07:27,480 --> 00:07:30,200 Speaker 5: I was nice, played cornerback, and then you know, ninth grade, 165 00:07:30,240 --> 00:07:33,360 Speaker 5: everybody stepped going and I didn't grow so cornerbacks. 166 00:07:34,520 --> 00:07:40,600 Speaker 1: You know, look at you now on the given this dreams. 167 00:07:42,240 --> 00:07:45,200 Speaker 5: I'm just glad I didn't, you know, peak then, right, right, 168 00:07:45,440 --> 00:07:46,440 Speaker 5: A lot of a lot. 169 00:07:46,320 --> 00:07:48,480 Speaker 1: Of peaks, buddy, A lot of people. 170 00:07:48,200 --> 00:07:49,920 Speaker 2: Peaked, and I'm very blessed I didn't. 171 00:07:49,960 --> 00:07:52,760 Speaker 5: I rather talk ship on myself and who I was 172 00:07:52,840 --> 00:07:56,640 Speaker 5: than going I was fucking in the locker rooms and 173 00:07:56,680 --> 00:07:59,440 Speaker 5: then being well, that's what's. 174 00:07:59,200 --> 00:08:01,720 Speaker 1: So important for people with understand is like junior high 175 00:08:01,720 --> 00:08:04,680 Speaker 1: in high school and like the popular kids, don't worry 176 00:08:04,680 --> 00:08:07,200 Speaker 1: about it because they're gonna suck later three or four 177 00:08:07,280 --> 00:08:09,680 Speaker 1: years of your life. And I've seen the people who 178 00:08:09,720 --> 00:08:11,200 Speaker 1: were popular in my high school. 179 00:08:11,360 --> 00:08:13,160 Speaker 4: You don't want to be a high school peaker, even 180 00:08:13,200 --> 00:08:15,680 Speaker 4: if you were popular then and you're popular now, hopefully 181 00:08:15,680 --> 00:08:16,640 Speaker 4: you're more popular now. 182 00:08:16,640 --> 00:08:17,840 Speaker 3: You don't want to be a high school peaker. 183 00:08:17,920 --> 00:08:20,600 Speaker 1: Sorry, guys, true, you certainly do not. You should just 184 00:08:20,680 --> 00:08:23,880 Speaker 1: be kind throughout throughout school because you could be peaking, 185 00:08:24,000 --> 00:08:27,680 Speaker 1: or you could be thriving then and now and all 186 00:08:27,760 --> 00:08:29,800 Speaker 1: the things, but just you know, like be nice to 187 00:08:29,800 --> 00:08:34,560 Speaker 1: the little pintobein nice on you Jessica, I want you 188 00:08:34,600 --> 00:08:37,240 Speaker 1: to go. Okay, Actually, yours is probably really good. To 189 00:08:37,320 --> 00:08:39,000 Speaker 1: let me go, oh go, because I don't want to 190 00:08:39,040 --> 00:08:41,839 Speaker 1: let people down. There's really good too. Yours is really 191 00:08:41,880 --> 00:08:47,960 Speaker 1: good too. But I think that my like grade school, 192 00:08:48,040 --> 00:08:56,480 Speaker 1: where things kind of shifted was when that boy who 193 00:08:56,559 --> 00:08:59,680 Speaker 1: I was sitting next to and I had farted, and 194 00:08:59,720 --> 00:09:03,040 Speaker 1: then I blamed it on him, Matt. I'm not going 195 00:09:03,120 --> 00:09:05,880 Speaker 1: to use his name, but we were sitting there during 196 00:09:06,160 --> 00:09:10,120 Speaker 1: story time and you know how you you sit cross legged? 197 00:09:10,200 --> 00:09:12,560 Speaker 3: You it's always during story time, hold. 198 00:09:12,360 --> 00:09:14,040 Speaker 1: Your legs like this as a kid. Do you know 199 00:09:14,080 --> 00:09:17,440 Speaker 1: what I'm talking about. Yeah, And we had just had 200 00:09:17,559 --> 00:09:21,800 Speaker 1: snack and milk and it slipped and then everyone looked 201 00:09:21,840 --> 00:09:25,719 Speaker 1: at me and I went like this, I pointed to him, 202 00:09:25,760 --> 00:09:27,720 Speaker 1: so everyone made fun of him, and after that he 203 00:09:27,760 --> 00:09:28,959 Speaker 1: told everyone that I was a man. 204 00:09:29,880 --> 00:09:32,319 Speaker 2: Good for him. Don't let this bitch fuck you up. 205 00:09:33,080 --> 00:09:35,000 Speaker 2: He farted. Hell no, she got a dick. 206 00:09:41,480 --> 00:09:48,200 Speaker 1: And I remember that fucker who was blonde named John. 207 00:09:50,679 --> 00:09:53,040 Speaker 2: These guys a dick, but don't help the guy that 208 00:09:53,080 --> 00:09:57,280 Speaker 2: you blamed. Yes, I said it. 209 00:09:57,880 --> 00:09:58,800 Speaker 3: I said it. 210 00:10:00,120 --> 00:10:03,280 Speaker 1: They called the russ In house and Candace was talking 211 00:10:03,320 --> 00:10:06,520 Speaker 1: to John and I get on the phone and he goes, oh, 212 00:10:06,679 --> 00:10:09,880 Speaker 1: you do sound like a man. You're a man, And 213 00:10:10,040 --> 00:10:12,240 Speaker 1: I was so embarrassed. 214 00:10:12,280 --> 00:10:14,800 Speaker 2: Well, think of what you did to him in that classroom, I. 215 00:10:14,920 --> 00:10:16,240 Speaker 1: Said, hearted. 216 00:10:17,960 --> 00:10:18,360 Speaker 2: Gender. 217 00:10:20,360 --> 00:10:21,640 Speaker 3: I was like, what the fuck? 218 00:10:21,920 --> 00:10:25,760 Speaker 1: And I was already so insecure about my voice and 219 00:10:25,840 --> 00:10:29,560 Speaker 1: how big my hands are. And then he made up 220 00:10:29,559 --> 00:10:32,240 Speaker 1: that rumor and it was very, very upsetting. 221 00:10:34,360 --> 00:10:38,560 Speaker 4: Job, Jeff, I'm sorry she blamed farting on you during 222 00:10:38,559 --> 00:10:39,760 Speaker 4: reading time, but how. 223 00:10:42,080 --> 00:10:45,319 Speaker 1: Yes, and then he threatened me. He threatened my life. 224 00:10:45,400 --> 00:10:46,320 Speaker 3: I'm calling the police. 225 00:10:46,360 --> 00:10:49,199 Speaker 1: We had to go into the principal's office. I wrote 226 00:10:49,200 --> 00:10:50,120 Speaker 1: about it in my book. 227 00:10:51,040 --> 00:10:52,000 Speaker 3: You did, I don't know? 228 00:10:52,080 --> 00:10:55,360 Speaker 1: I certainly did. 229 00:10:54,480 --> 00:10:54,880 Speaker 2: We did. 230 00:10:55,440 --> 00:10:58,280 Speaker 1: We had beef from then on. It went into junior 231 00:10:58,360 --> 00:10:58,880 Speaker 1: high school. 232 00:10:58,880 --> 00:11:00,760 Speaker 3: Where's Jeff? Now peak? 233 00:11:00,880 --> 00:11:02,560 Speaker 2: Jem peaked? 234 00:11:03,400 --> 00:11:03,840 Speaker 1: Who knows? 235 00:11:04,640 --> 00:11:04,840 Speaker 2: Third? 236 00:11:05,440 --> 00:11:06,040 Speaker 1: Who knows? 237 00:11:06,160 --> 00:11:09,679 Speaker 3: Who knows? That is horrific. I'm so sorry Jeff did that. 238 00:11:09,840 --> 00:11:10,760 Speaker 1: That's why you know what? 239 00:11:11,000 --> 00:11:13,480 Speaker 5: Here's the thing, how crazy. I'm sorry Jeff did that 240 00:11:13,520 --> 00:11:16,920 Speaker 5: to you. But what you did to Jeff. 241 00:11:19,040 --> 00:11:21,240 Speaker 3: Farted? Deal, We all fart. 242 00:11:21,960 --> 00:11:30,200 Speaker 5: Why didn't you just why didn't you say we can't win. 243 00:11:30,080 --> 00:11:34,440 Speaker 2: Out in the streets for the team. Whoever smelt it telted. 244 00:11:36,280 --> 00:11:39,079 Speaker 1: She says, take one for the take one for the team. 245 00:11:38,960 --> 00:11:43,000 Speaker 2: Jeff, take one? Did you take one for the team? 246 00:11:43,360 --> 00:11:44,320 Speaker 2: I was embarrassed. 247 00:11:45,120 --> 00:11:47,800 Speaker 3: It was time to take one for the team. It 248 00:11:47,840 --> 00:11:48,680 Speaker 3: was Jeff's time. 249 00:11:49,040 --> 00:11:52,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, Jeff, Oh, Jeff, I feel for you. 250 00:11:52,440 --> 00:11:54,760 Speaker 3: I bet Jeff still remembers that. By the way, I. 251 00:11:54,679 --> 00:11:56,600 Speaker 2: Hope he's still going around saying she has a dick. 252 00:11:57,960 --> 00:12:01,960 Speaker 1: I have the biggest dig out. Don't don't even fucking 253 00:12:02,000 --> 00:12:02,920 Speaker 1: hustle the hustler. 254 00:12:02,960 --> 00:12:06,560 Speaker 2: All right, we call her tripod trypod. 255 00:12:06,880 --> 00:12:08,640 Speaker 1: Oh, that's my favorite thing to say to the boys 256 00:12:08,640 --> 00:12:10,000 Speaker 1: on vander Pubm. I'm like, if you want to have 257 00:12:10,000 --> 00:12:12,000 Speaker 1: a dick measuring contest, I will always win. So just 258 00:12:12,120 --> 00:12:15,640 Speaker 1: fucking fall back, true, true, tweet A little dick is 259 00:12:15,679 --> 00:12:20,080 Speaker 1: what James Kennedy calls them. All right, Jessica, I. 260 00:12:20,040 --> 00:12:22,760 Speaker 3: Go okay, I'll make these quick. 261 00:12:22,800 --> 00:12:25,080 Speaker 4: I have two defining moments in grade school, and number 262 00:12:25,120 --> 00:12:27,959 Speaker 4: one I was in fifth grade. I'm from a small town. 263 00:12:28,080 --> 00:12:30,560 Speaker 4: Fifth and sixth grade we're combined. There was only four 264 00:12:30,600 --> 00:12:33,360 Speaker 4: girls in fifth grade. The cool girls were in sixth grade. 265 00:12:33,360 --> 00:12:35,880 Speaker 4: We shared a classroom. I didn't get along with the 266 00:12:35,960 --> 00:12:38,480 Speaker 4: girls in my grade, so I wanted to be friends 267 00:12:38,520 --> 00:12:41,280 Speaker 4: with the cool girls. I wasn't cool. I was a 268 00:12:41,280 --> 00:12:45,240 Speaker 4: little chubby little girl. So I was planning and plotting. 269 00:12:45,240 --> 00:12:48,520 Speaker 4: The girls would always walk together. We're walking to pe class, 270 00:12:48,760 --> 00:12:52,280 Speaker 4: which was across the street, and I was like, Okay, 271 00:12:52,280 --> 00:12:55,320 Speaker 4: they're talking and they're cool. Let's just see if I 272 00:12:55,360 --> 00:12:57,160 Speaker 4: can like get up next to them and say something. 273 00:12:57,200 --> 00:12:58,719 Speaker 4: So I walk up next to them and I hear 274 00:12:58,760 --> 00:13:01,840 Speaker 4: them talking, and I say something funny based off what 275 00:13:01,880 --> 00:13:05,680 Speaker 4: they said, and they all start laughing. And the one girl, 276 00:13:05,679 --> 00:13:08,440 Speaker 4: her name's Kate, we became best friends, looked at me 277 00:13:09,120 --> 00:13:11,199 Speaker 4: and she goes, she was the coolest, and she goes, 278 00:13:11,600 --> 00:13:13,960 Speaker 4: you're funny. Do you want to hang out with us? 279 00:13:14,160 --> 00:13:17,560 Speaker 4: And I was like, I didn't like I made it 280 00:13:17,600 --> 00:13:19,240 Speaker 4: into the cool group. And I think from then on, 281 00:13:19,360 --> 00:13:21,720 Speaker 4: I was like, Okay, you're if you can be. Maybe 282 00:13:21,720 --> 00:13:25,360 Speaker 4: you're not cool or pretty, but if you're funny, they'll 283 00:13:25,400 --> 00:13:25,840 Speaker 4: hang out. 284 00:13:25,880 --> 00:13:26,920 Speaker 3: Like they'll hang out with you. 285 00:13:27,040 --> 00:13:28,000 Speaker 2: Yea yeah. Yeah. 286 00:13:28,040 --> 00:13:31,160 Speaker 4: So that was in fifth grade and then when I 287 00:13:31,160 --> 00:13:34,160 Speaker 4: got a little older seventh grade, I have a very 288 00:13:34,240 --> 00:13:36,440 Speaker 4: large forehead and I say that and people go, no, 289 00:13:36,559 --> 00:13:36,880 Speaker 4: you don't. 290 00:13:36,960 --> 00:13:38,640 Speaker 3: If I pulled my banks back you'd be like, oh 291 00:13:38,800 --> 00:13:42,800 Speaker 3: you do so didn't have banks. Got made fun of 292 00:13:42,840 --> 00:13:44,720 Speaker 3: it for a while. And I was in Spanish class 293 00:13:44,960 --> 00:13:46,120 Speaker 3: and Mike s. 294 00:13:48,000 --> 00:13:48,840 Speaker 1: I was just giving them. 295 00:13:50,520 --> 00:13:51,680 Speaker 3: I will love you, Mike. 296 00:13:51,840 --> 00:13:55,040 Speaker 4: I don't know now. I mean he was in my class. 297 00:13:55,760 --> 00:13:58,760 Speaker 4: He said I was new. I was new to the school. 298 00:13:58,760 --> 00:14:01,199 Speaker 4: It was like my third day and everyone was like, damn, 299 00:14:01,240 --> 00:14:02,679 Speaker 4: that new girl has a big forehead. 300 00:14:03,120 --> 00:14:04,160 Speaker 3: And he said. 301 00:14:04,520 --> 00:14:06,920 Speaker 4: We were in Spanish class and the lights the electricity 302 00:14:06,960 --> 00:14:10,000 Speaker 4: went out in school and he uh. 303 00:14:10,080 --> 00:14:13,520 Speaker 3: The Spanish teacher was like, everyone, don't go anywhere. It's dark. 304 00:14:13,559 --> 00:14:14,600 Speaker 3: The electricity's out. 305 00:14:14,600 --> 00:14:16,560 Speaker 4: And he goes, why don't we put a light bulb 306 00:14:16,600 --> 00:14:17,559 Speaker 4: on Jessica's forehead. 307 00:14:17,559 --> 00:14:21,520 Speaker 3: It'll light up the whole school. And I was like, oh, 308 00:14:21,640 --> 00:14:26,600 Speaker 3: that's so funny. And inside I was like you and 309 00:14:26,640 --> 00:14:29,000 Speaker 3: everyone was laughing. They're like, that's so true. 310 00:14:29,480 --> 00:14:32,560 Speaker 4: And I think it's just made me stronger and it 311 00:14:32,560 --> 00:14:34,960 Speaker 4: embraced it. Oh and then I self deprecate my forehead 312 00:14:35,000 --> 00:14:37,080 Speaker 4: now to this day and I really don't mind it. 313 00:14:37,200 --> 00:14:40,040 Speaker 1: So I don't know, you know what though, like at 314 00:14:40,080 --> 00:14:42,720 Speaker 1: some point in time we should go get the hairline surgery. 315 00:14:43,200 --> 00:14:46,840 Speaker 3: I would love the hairlines my well Adam he got. 316 00:14:46,800 --> 00:14:51,120 Speaker 2: I've never noticed your forehead. That's everything I've been. You've 317 00:14:51,160 --> 00:14:52,120 Speaker 2: got a giant forehead. 318 00:14:52,120 --> 00:14:54,240 Speaker 5: I'm say, with your hair back, I've seen your hair wet. 319 00:14:54,640 --> 00:14:56,880 Speaker 5: I've never been like, that's pretty forehead. 320 00:14:57,320 --> 00:14:59,320 Speaker 4: I've noticed it more in jiu jitsu videos because I 321 00:14:59,360 --> 00:15:01,160 Speaker 4: get sweat and and then the hair gets pushed back 322 00:15:01,160 --> 00:15:03,320 Speaker 4: and I go, oh, there it is. It didn't go away. 323 00:15:03,520 --> 00:15:06,080 Speaker 4: It's still there. Yeah, but it just means I got 324 00:15:06,080 --> 00:15:06,600 Speaker 4: a big brain. 325 00:15:07,040 --> 00:15:10,920 Speaker 1: That's exactly right, Jessica, You're very intelligent. Thank you so much. 326 00:15:11,640 --> 00:15:12,000 Speaker 3: Thank you. 327 00:15:12,080 --> 00:15:13,840 Speaker 4: And then I got caught from the basketball team in 328 00:15:13,840 --> 00:15:15,280 Speaker 4: seventh grade, so that was true. 329 00:15:15,400 --> 00:15:17,720 Speaker 1: You had a lot of traumatizing. 330 00:15:17,240 --> 00:15:20,320 Speaker 4: And I and then I went in the bathroom and 331 00:15:20,440 --> 00:15:23,480 Speaker 4: cried my eyes out. I was one of two that 332 00:15:23,560 --> 00:15:26,040 Speaker 4: got cut. And all my friends made it and we 333 00:15:26,200 --> 00:15:27,280 Speaker 4: ran up to the list. 334 00:15:27,520 --> 00:15:28,480 Speaker 1: Probably your forehead. 335 00:15:28,680 --> 00:15:30,280 Speaker 3: It's my fucking forehead. 336 00:15:31,360 --> 00:15:32,360 Speaker 2: Like she's good, but that. 337 00:15:32,360 --> 00:15:36,040 Speaker 5: Forehead, like, hey, this is going to be a distraction 338 00:15:36,200 --> 00:15:36,840 Speaker 5: for the other team. 339 00:15:37,440 --> 00:15:39,560 Speaker 1: She's only gonna make it if she wears the bang's back. 340 00:15:41,040 --> 00:15:42,360 Speaker 3: People are gonna think it's the best. 341 00:15:42,360 --> 00:15:43,760 Speaker 1: And then we have to shine the light on it 342 00:15:43,760 --> 00:15:47,320 Speaker 1: and she'll go like this, She'll shine it in their eyes. 343 00:15:48,880 --> 00:15:50,600 Speaker 2: It's like they're playing basketball in the sun. 344 00:15:55,520 --> 00:15:58,000 Speaker 1: That is so funny. I love this podcast. 345 00:15:58,200 --> 00:15:59,320 Speaker 2: I loved Jessica. 346 00:16:00,320 --> 00:16:02,520 Speaker 1: We love your forehead. It's so gorgeous. 347 00:16:02,560 --> 00:16:03,200 Speaker 2: Thank you God. 348 00:16:03,960 --> 00:16:05,800 Speaker 1: You know that was a purge for me because even 349 00:16:05,800 --> 00:16:07,680 Speaker 1: in my book, I didn't tell about the part that 350 00:16:07,760 --> 00:16:09,560 Speaker 1: he started the rumor that I was a man. 351 00:16:09,920 --> 00:16:12,400 Speaker 3: We're so sorry about that. We're gonna go. 352 00:16:12,920 --> 00:16:15,680 Speaker 4: Let's get him, fine, find him. 353 00:16:15,880 --> 00:16:19,240 Speaker 1: He's I'm sure doing cool shit. I'm doing cool shit 354 00:16:19,400 --> 00:16:22,000 Speaker 1: like all is well. You know, like I shouldn't have 355 00:16:22,000 --> 00:16:23,880 Speaker 1: said it was you that farted, Jeff. I should have 356 00:16:23,920 --> 00:16:28,440 Speaker 1: taken accountability. I wouldn't have been depending on who you ask, Apparently, 357 00:16:28,480 --> 00:16:29,520 Speaker 1: I still try to struggle. 358 00:16:31,120 --> 00:16:33,280 Speaker 5: I would said you wouldn't have had all that beef 359 00:16:33,320 --> 00:16:35,640 Speaker 5: through elementary, junior high if you. 360 00:16:35,640 --> 00:16:37,880 Speaker 2: Just yeah, I don't accountability. 361 00:16:38,080 --> 00:16:41,280 Speaker 1: There were moments that he and I would engage at school, 362 00:16:41,560 --> 00:16:44,360 Speaker 1: and I would come home when no one was home 363 00:16:44,840 --> 00:16:48,520 Speaker 1: and listen to Fighter by Christina Aguilera. 364 00:16:49,520 --> 00:16:52,080 Speaker 3: Just to get back at farty Jeff, No, just. 365 00:16:52,040 --> 00:16:57,600 Speaker 1: To feel empowered. I'm telling you, we were beefing. There 366 00:16:57,600 --> 00:17:00,040 Speaker 1: were times that I used fifty cent quotes on him like, 367 00:17:00,600 --> 00:17:05,640 Speaker 1: that's that's how I remember the timeline of beef because 368 00:17:05,640 --> 00:17:07,920 Speaker 1: I'm like, Okay, when did that song by fifty cent 369 00:17:08,040 --> 00:17:10,280 Speaker 1: come out at this point in time? Because I I 370 00:17:11,119 --> 00:17:13,680 Speaker 1: am t him those lyrics? Okay, when did I sing 371 00:17:13,720 --> 00:17:15,800 Speaker 1: at the top of my lungs in the foyer? 372 00:17:17,000 --> 00:17:17,400 Speaker 2: Fighter? 373 00:17:17,520 --> 00:17:19,879 Speaker 1: But okay, that yeah, that's when it came out, so 374 00:17:19,920 --> 00:17:21,040 Speaker 1: that had to have been this time. 375 00:17:22,160 --> 00:17:24,159 Speaker 3: It's fine, you know what. I hope he's still not 376 00:17:24,200 --> 00:17:24,520 Speaker 3: a dick. 377 00:17:24,560 --> 00:17:26,320 Speaker 4: And if he is still a dick, he's just probably 378 00:17:26,320 --> 00:17:29,200 Speaker 4: out there not doing cool shit like you just farting. 379 00:17:29,280 --> 00:17:31,119 Speaker 1: No, you know what, he's probably living a good life, 380 00:17:31,160 --> 00:17:32,959 Speaker 1: married with kids. 381 00:17:32,960 --> 00:17:33,639 Speaker 2: Lives in Utah. 382 00:17:33,720 --> 00:17:36,840 Speaker 1: So yes, he was more granola. He was not a Mormon. 383 00:17:37,240 --> 00:17:38,480 Speaker 2: He was more No. 384 00:17:38,720 --> 00:17:41,640 Speaker 1: Anyway, let's move on, go for it. What did our 385 00:17:41,640 --> 00:17:42,560 Speaker 1: friends say? 386 00:17:42,560 --> 00:17:45,040 Speaker 4: We got a lot of good things because we got 387 00:17:45,080 --> 00:17:47,119 Speaker 4: like big things and small things that happened to you 388 00:17:47,119 --> 00:17:48,720 Speaker 4: guys in grade school that stuck with you for the 389 00:17:48,800 --> 00:17:49,600 Speaker 4: rest of your lives. 390 00:17:49,880 --> 00:17:51,880 Speaker 3: So this one, oh my god relatable. 391 00:17:51,960 --> 00:17:54,480 Speaker 4: Being the only one in class not invited to a 392 00:17:54,480 --> 00:17:57,560 Speaker 4: birthday party hits the same as an adult being left out. 393 00:17:58,280 --> 00:18:03,679 Speaker 4: I hated when kids weren't invited as a kid, I 394 00:18:04,280 --> 00:18:05,840 Speaker 4: it gave me anxiety and I hate it now. 395 00:18:05,840 --> 00:18:07,520 Speaker 3: I don't think it happens as much now, do you 396 00:18:07,520 --> 00:18:08,480 Speaker 3: guys remember. 397 00:18:08,160 --> 00:18:10,600 Speaker 1: That not being invited to birthday parties. 398 00:18:10,320 --> 00:18:11,840 Speaker 3: Or seeing the kids that weren't invited. 399 00:18:11,920 --> 00:18:14,480 Speaker 1: Actually, now that you bring it up, I remember getting 400 00:18:14,760 --> 00:18:17,920 Speaker 1: going to a birthday party with Candace and our moms 401 00:18:17,960 --> 00:18:21,560 Speaker 1: were dropping us off, and when we arrived, our mom's left. 402 00:18:22,160 --> 00:18:24,080 Speaker 1: Candace went in. They shut the door in my face, 403 00:18:24,119 --> 00:18:27,680 Speaker 1: said Lawrence not invited. I was so upset. My mom 404 00:18:27,720 --> 00:18:29,960 Speaker 1: and Kristin came back, and Kristin made Candace leave the 405 00:18:29,960 --> 00:18:32,680 Speaker 1: birthday party as well. She was like, if Lauren's not invited, 406 00:18:32,720 --> 00:18:35,960 Speaker 1: then you're not going either. That I like, horrific thought 407 00:18:36,040 --> 00:18:36,920 Speaker 1: I was invited. 408 00:18:37,760 --> 00:18:38,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's Heartbreahm. 409 00:18:38,880 --> 00:18:42,000 Speaker 4: I'm sorry, it's terrible that didn't stick with you if 410 00:18:42,000 --> 00:18:43,080 Speaker 4: you forgot about. 411 00:18:42,840 --> 00:18:46,399 Speaker 1: It, I'm sure, like I just I live a really 412 00:18:46,400 --> 00:18:48,959 Speaker 1: great fucking life. Yeah, but I didn'tet invited to your 413 00:18:49,040 --> 00:18:51,479 Speaker 1: lay mass birthday party. And I've seen your life, like, well, 414 00:18:51,640 --> 00:18:55,520 Speaker 1: Calm's a real bitch, Like I'm fucking living the dream. 415 00:18:55,640 --> 00:18:58,439 Speaker 3: Oh yes, yes, no, Maya. 416 00:18:58,560 --> 00:19:00,520 Speaker 4: I had a family member I won't say there's five 417 00:19:00,520 --> 00:19:03,080 Speaker 4: of us kids that wouldn't get invited, and I would 418 00:19:03,080 --> 00:19:06,320 Speaker 4: and we were close, and it infuriated me every time. 419 00:19:06,760 --> 00:19:09,520 Speaker 3: Now at school, as you, I would stay back or. 420 00:19:09,640 --> 00:19:11,639 Speaker 4: To my mom would be like, the fuck, no, just 421 00:19:11,840 --> 00:19:13,479 Speaker 4: is not going if he's not invited. 422 00:19:13,640 --> 00:19:15,200 Speaker 1: I don't know if there's a lot of schools out 423 00:19:15,200 --> 00:19:18,280 Speaker 1: there like this, but there are schools in Los Angeles 424 00:19:18,480 --> 00:19:20,520 Speaker 1: that if you invite one kid from the class, you 425 00:19:20,560 --> 00:19:22,320 Speaker 1: have to invite them all. So all or none. 426 00:19:22,840 --> 00:19:24,560 Speaker 5: It we did that if you brought a snack for 427 00:19:24,600 --> 00:19:26,080 Speaker 5: the class when I was in elementary, you got to 428 00:19:26,119 --> 00:19:28,399 Speaker 5: bring a snack for everyone, not just one person. 429 00:19:28,560 --> 00:19:31,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, it really affects people. 430 00:19:33,520 --> 00:19:36,000 Speaker 1: I don't really like. Now I have a really small 431 00:19:36,040 --> 00:19:37,919 Speaker 1: group of friends. So I'm invited to the places I 432 00:19:37,960 --> 00:19:39,720 Speaker 1: want to be invited to and not invited to the 433 00:19:39,760 --> 00:19:41,040 Speaker 1: places I don't want to be at. 434 00:19:41,960 --> 00:19:45,879 Speaker 4: Okay, so a lot of these so I'll read just 435 00:19:45,920 --> 00:19:48,800 Speaker 4: this one. But a lot of got called fat a 436 00:19:48,840 --> 00:19:50,879 Speaker 4: lot as a child, and now I'm not. 437 00:19:51,680 --> 00:19:56,280 Speaker 1: So that is that's a win, that is you know what. 438 00:19:56,960 --> 00:19:59,800 Speaker 4: Yes, I had my chubby years where I would get 439 00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:02,320 Speaker 4: remember my crushed Jeff, I wore a belly shirt because 440 00:20:02,359 --> 00:20:03,000 Speaker 4: I thought it was cute. 441 00:20:03,040 --> 00:20:06,040 Speaker 3: My crushed Jeff was like, Jeff, assholes. 442 00:20:07,359 --> 00:20:10,160 Speaker 4: Oh my god, Jeff, he said, I wore a belly 443 00:20:10,200 --> 00:20:11,840 Speaker 4: shirt and I like walked out. I think I was 444 00:20:11,880 --> 00:20:13,919 Speaker 4: like ten, and I was like, he's gonna love this, 445 00:20:14,000 --> 00:20:15,120 Speaker 4: and he was like, ew. 446 00:20:14,960 --> 00:20:17,040 Speaker 3: I didn't know you were fat what. 447 00:20:18,520 --> 00:20:18,920 Speaker 2: It did? 448 00:20:19,160 --> 00:20:21,280 Speaker 3: And I was like, that was rude, Jeff, and I 449 00:20:21,320 --> 00:20:22,159 Speaker 3: went in and changed. 450 00:20:22,400 --> 00:20:25,160 Speaker 1: Like, now, if you hear that someone called someone fat, 451 00:20:25,240 --> 00:20:29,840 Speaker 1: you're like, Wow, you're ignorant, you're uneducated, you're disgusting. Whereas 452 00:20:30,080 --> 00:20:32,840 Speaker 1: it seemed to be like totally for like it would 453 00:20:32,880 --> 00:20:36,080 Speaker 1: come out of people's mouths and although it didn't hit 454 00:20:36,200 --> 00:20:40,240 Speaker 1: like think about even like publications posting Tyra Banks on 455 00:20:40,280 --> 00:20:42,720 Speaker 1: the cover talking about her waking and. 456 00:20:42,680 --> 00:20:46,320 Speaker 4: Like Jessica Simpson, she's lost control of herself. And now 457 00:20:46,320 --> 00:20:48,120 Speaker 4: you look back at those pictures, you're like, what were 458 00:20:48,119 --> 00:20:49,200 Speaker 4: they talking about? 459 00:20:49,359 --> 00:20:52,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's called ass bitch, Yeah, it's called a woman. 460 00:20:53,080 --> 00:20:55,200 Speaker 4: And I do have to say I have friends who 461 00:20:55,320 --> 00:20:59,880 Speaker 4: are you know, a close friend who's still considered over 462 00:21:00,119 --> 00:21:02,639 Speaker 4: weight and has always been her entire life, in the 463 00:21:02,680 --> 00:21:06,000 Speaker 4: amount it affected her entire life, she's like, thank god 464 00:21:06,119 --> 00:21:08,960 Speaker 4: now she's way more like accepting and positive. But it's 465 00:21:09,040 --> 00:21:12,000 Speaker 4: like traumatic for years. It is guys being like, I'm 466 00:21:12,000 --> 00:21:13,359 Speaker 4: not kidding her, she's fat. 467 00:21:13,400 --> 00:21:16,760 Speaker 1: It's like as if there's some prize. I know you're 468 00:21:16,800 --> 00:21:22,440 Speaker 1: receding and you're a sophomore. Is like if we're gonna 469 00:21:22,480 --> 00:21:28,280 Speaker 1: throw stones step in here like your brad pit. By 470 00:21:28,320 --> 00:21:31,720 Speaker 1: the way, I do not approve proof of either bad. No, 471 00:21:31,880 --> 00:21:33,840 Speaker 1: I don't. Just maybe I should use someone else. 472 00:21:35,520 --> 00:21:42,920 Speaker 4: And a lot of these, so a lot of really 473 00:21:42,960 --> 00:21:45,560 Speaker 4: sad like deaths and car accidents. 474 00:21:45,680 --> 00:21:48,480 Speaker 3: I had like a couple friends dying car accidents. So 475 00:21:48,520 --> 00:21:49,520 Speaker 3: I'll just read this one. 476 00:21:49,640 --> 00:21:52,199 Speaker 4: My best friend was killed by a drunk driver in 477 00:21:52,320 --> 00:21:55,080 Speaker 4: first grade. Don't drink and drive. Stuck with me ever 478 00:21:55,119 --> 00:21:55,479 Speaker 4: since then? 479 00:21:55,560 --> 00:21:57,760 Speaker 1: Oh my god, how could it not. That's like life 480 00:21:57,840 --> 00:22:00,000 Speaker 1: shifting and oh. 481 00:21:59,720 --> 00:22:00,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, drunk driving. 482 00:22:00,920 --> 00:22:04,280 Speaker 4: I had a friend killed by drunk driving in high school. 483 00:22:04,320 --> 00:22:06,800 Speaker 4: It's like I feel like I feel like many people 484 00:22:06,800 --> 00:22:08,880 Speaker 4: I know had a friend who died from a car accident. 485 00:22:09,000 --> 00:22:13,000 Speaker 4: Did you, guys, Yes, Yeah, it's really really devastating. Yeah, 486 00:22:13,200 --> 00:22:18,119 Speaker 4: so devastating. Sorry for your loss because that is traumatizing people. 487 00:22:19,720 --> 00:22:21,760 Speaker 5: I was thinking about like everybody in high school that 488 00:22:21,800 --> 00:22:23,439 Speaker 5: had got into a crash the UI. 489 00:22:24,160 --> 00:22:28,680 Speaker 1: Were you yeah, I yes, yeah. 490 00:22:28,200 --> 00:22:30,600 Speaker 4: You know, bullying. I'm seeing a lot of bullying is 491 00:22:30,640 --> 00:22:32,320 Speaker 4: a big one, you know. You think about it now 492 00:22:32,359 --> 00:22:34,840 Speaker 4: and it's like we tackle, not tackled. There's still a 493 00:22:34,840 --> 00:22:38,399 Speaker 4: ton of bullying, especially online, even possibly even more so 494 00:22:38,480 --> 00:22:40,439 Speaker 4: nowadays because you can do it behind a computer, you 495 00:22:40,760 --> 00:22:45,720 Speaker 4: weak pussies. But back then, bullying in person, it would 496 00:22:45,760 --> 00:22:46,600 Speaker 4: get physical. 497 00:22:46,720 --> 00:22:48,480 Speaker 3: There were physical fights. 498 00:22:48,800 --> 00:22:51,879 Speaker 1: I don't remember many things getting physical in school. 499 00:22:52,440 --> 00:22:53,400 Speaker 2: Are you serious? 500 00:22:53,560 --> 00:22:53,840 Speaker 3: Kyle? 501 00:22:55,080 --> 00:22:57,800 Speaker 5: There was a fight every Thursday, Friday, Saturday at that place, 502 00:22:57,840 --> 00:23:00,000 Speaker 5: whether it be Skyline East. 503 00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:03,080 Speaker 1: But they would say we're meeting up here to fight. 504 00:23:03,119 --> 00:23:07,600 Speaker 1: It was like dudes duking it out. I'm talking like 505 00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:08,840 Speaker 1: at school. 506 00:23:09,119 --> 00:23:11,800 Speaker 2: Someone calls there were always fights in the glass. 507 00:23:11,840 --> 00:23:12,760 Speaker 1: I was never at school. 508 00:23:12,880 --> 00:23:15,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, because you had two periods. You went first, second 509 00:23:15,280 --> 00:23:17,000 Speaker 2: in her home? Yes, after school? 510 00:23:17,040 --> 00:23:21,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, because people were rude, so I left. I left. 511 00:23:21,520 --> 00:23:24,320 Speaker 4: Yeah you've been you've out, you've been spoken out about 512 00:23:24,320 --> 00:23:24,920 Speaker 4: your bullying. 513 00:23:26,320 --> 00:23:31,760 Speaker 1: But here, okay, and I'm just throwing this out there, okay, 514 00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:35,880 Speaker 1: because my mom always talks about we can only control ourselves, right, 515 00:23:36,520 --> 00:23:38,760 Speaker 1: bullying is going to happen. I do not condone it. 516 00:23:38,880 --> 00:23:42,240 Speaker 1: I will cut a bitch who bullies my child. I've 517 00:23:42,280 --> 00:23:46,040 Speaker 1: been bullied, I've turned into the bully. I think it 518 00:23:46,080 --> 00:23:51,120 Speaker 1: would be a good idea for schools to start teaching 519 00:23:51,160 --> 00:23:56,199 Speaker 1: how to deal with the bully rather than just fixating 520 00:23:56,320 --> 00:24:00,760 Speaker 1: on don't bully, because jealousy comes into play, and jealousy 521 00:24:00,800 --> 00:24:06,280 Speaker 1: is very scary and you cannot control other people. So 522 00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:09,320 Speaker 1: I'm wondering if school because maybe they're doing this, Maybe 523 00:24:09,359 --> 00:24:12,280 Speaker 1: they are teaching, you know, they need to start teaching 524 00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:17,200 Speaker 1: self esteem. If you're feeling like you are insecure about 525 00:24:17,200 --> 00:24:20,040 Speaker 1: your body, what are things you can do to start 526 00:24:20,080 --> 00:24:25,200 Speaker 1: accepting your body at such a vulnerable age? Yeah, because 527 00:24:25,240 --> 00:24:28,200 Speaker 1: that is not easy. Yeah, you know, I feel people 528 00:24:28,240 --> 00:24:30,240 Speaker 1: are like, where'd you get your confidence? A lot? And 529 00:24:30,240 --> 00:24:32,440 Speaker 1: it's like, well, I haven't always been this way. I'm 530 00:24:32,520 --> 00:24:35,119 Speaker 1: thirty three years old and I've had people really be 531 00:24:35,240 --> 00:24:38,399 Speaker 1: unkind to me and it's like run and crawl in 532 00:24:38,440 --> 00:24:42,879 Speaker 1: a hole or don't right, So, how do we figure 533 00:24:42,880 --> 00:24:45,639 Speaker 1: out how to teach these these kids how to be 534 00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:50,560 Speaker 1: confident young people that when someone says something it's like 535 00:24:50,880 --> 00:24:53,240 Speaker 1: it rolls off my back, I don't give a fuck. 536 00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:57,080 Speaker 4: And also recognizing which I just learned this past year 537 00:24:57,119 --> 00:25:01,000 Speaker 4: and started doing these assholes, these bullies, these mean people 538 00:25:01,560 --> 00:25:04,400 Speaker 4: are the most are the ones who are either bullied 539 00:25:04,440 --> 00:25:08,280 Speaker 4: at home unfortunately by their own family and parents, or 540 00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:12,800 Speaker 4: the most insecure, sad, miserable. And it's like when you 541 00:25:12,840 --> 00:25:14,639 Speaker 4: get bullied or people are mean to me, I'm like 542 00:25:15,080 --> 00:25:18,359 Speaker 4: my thought nowadays' is like, oh, I feel so sorry 543 00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:21,840 Speaker 4: for you, Like, yeah, you are. This is really sad. 544 00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:24,560 Speaker 1: I know there's a lot that goes into it because 545 00:25:24,560 --> 00:25:26,400 Speaker 1: not everyone has the same type of home life where 546 00:25:26,400 --> 00:25:28,760 Speaker 1: they go home and they feel safe and their mom 547 00:25:28,840 --> 00:25:31,719 Speaker 1: and dad, you know, build them up and send them 548 00:25:31,760 --> 00:25:34,119 Speaker 1: back out into the big bad world like Easton and 549 00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:38,640 Speaker 1: I had. And I just I throw these things around 550 00:25:38,760 --> 00:25:41,160 Speaker 1: a lot in my mind and just hope that parents 551 00:25:41,880 --> 00:25:44,360 Speaker 1: when they choose to have kids, because it is a luxury. 552 00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:46,320 Speaker 1: I talk about this all the time. Just because you 553 00:25:46,400 --> 00:25:48,080 Speaker 1: pop out a baby does not make you a mother. 554 00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:50,919 Speaker 1: It does not make you a father. That is a 555 00:25:51,040 --> 00:25:52,800 Speaker 1: role that you take on and you earn, and that 556 00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:57,119 Speaker 1: is the highest highest honor to be a parent. So 557 00:25:57,400 --> 00:26:01,359 Speaker 1: I just hope that parents take on that role and say, like, 558 00:26:02,000 --> 00:26:04,760 Speaker 1: home is where my child feels safe. I uplift them, 559 00:26:05,359 --> 00:26:09,760 Speaker 1: I don't critique them. We have productive conversations that when 560 00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:12,320 Speaker 1: we go out into the world and the world tries 561 00:26:12,359 --> 00:26:15,440 Speaker 1: to break them down, they're prepared. And when it gets 562 00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:18,480 Speaker 1: to be too much, when they come back home, we 563 00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:22,120 Speaker 1: do the rebuilding again. I don't know, I'll just down 564 00:26:22,119 --> 00:26:23,440 Speaker 1: on the streets doing the best we can. 565 00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:26,159 Speaker 3: But it is I mean, it's it's a good point because, 566 00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:31,000 Speaker 3: like I said, there's not there's bullying online. There's bullying everywhere. 567 00:26:31,040 --> 00:26:32,240 Speaker 3: Unfortunately still so. 568 00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:34,960 Speaker 1: It's everywhere, even on this podcast. I'm not blind to 569 00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:36,160 Speaker 1: the fact that we sit there and we're like, give 570 00:26:36,320 --> 00:26:41,560 Speaker 1: music sucks, go away, Like, yes, it is hard out here. 571 00:26:42,080 --> 00:26:45,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, you just I like the idea of teaching people 572 00:26:45,119 --> 00:26:47,920 Speaker 4: to be not affected. The second I felt unaffected by 573 00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:50,520 Speaker 4: a rudeness, I'm like, ah, life is good. 574 00:26:50,600 --> 00:26:50,800 Speaker 2: I know. 575 00:26:50,840 --> 00:26:53,040 Speaker 1: I almost feel bad for people who like get through. 576 00:26:53,280 --> 00:26:56,159 Speaker 1: I have a wall thing up that if unless you 577 00:26:56,200 --> 00:26:58,439 Speaker 1: have a blue check mark, you don't get in. But 578 00:26:59,400 --> 00:27:01,320 Speaker 1: there are people who get in and they'll write me 579 00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:06,080 Speaker 1: like really intense meanings. Yeah, and I'm like, it makes 580 00:27:06,119 --> 00:27:08,119 Speaker 1: me feel bad that you took so much time, because 581 00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:10,520 Speaker 1: I could not be any less affected by this. Right, 582 00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:12,119 Speaker 1: like a lot of people being like I used to 583 00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:15,240 Speaker 1: be your biggest fan. I hate you this season. I'm like, 584 00:27:15,320 --> 00:27:17,040 Speaker 1: if only I cared, could. 585 00:27:16,840 --> 00:27:19,320 Speaker 3: You imagine taking even five. 586 00:27:19,119 --> 00:27:21,600 Speaker 2: Minutes paragraphs and she's reading a lot. 587 00:27:23,160 --> 00:27:24,000 Speaker 3: To write someone. 588 00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:27,000 Speaker 1: I know you, guys, I love you so much. But 589 00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:29,560 Speaker 1: if you're thinking about writing me some skating like, don't 590 00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:33,119 Speaker 1: waste your time. Please do something more productive because I 591 00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:35,920 Speaker 1: truly don't care. Truly like if you used to love 592 00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:38,040 Speaker 1: me and you don't this season, I don't. 593 00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:39,760 Speaker 2: Care, don't care, Go volunteer. 594 00:27:40,119 --> 00:27:44,880 Speaker 1: Sorry, I don't live my life based on what you think. 595 00:27:45,119 --> 00:27:46,080 Speaker 3: We don't know you. 596 00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:49,080 Speaker 1: I don't know you. I love you. I'm sending you 597 00:27:49,119 --> 00:27:51,720 Speaker 1: all the love, good luck, blah blah, I don't know. 598 00:27:51,800 --> 00:27:54,600 Speaker 1: I'm just kidding anyway. 599 00:27:54,880 --> 00:27:58,240 Speaker 4: Wow that was fun again. 600 00:28:01,080 --> 00:28:02,960 Speaker 3: Oh but thank you guys for writing in. There was 601 00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:03,640 Speaker 3: a lot of great ones. 602 00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:05,879 Speaker 1: Yes, I love you guys. Thank you for listening to 603 00:28:05,880 --> 00:28:09,200 Speaker 1: another episode of the Give Them Lala Bonus episode. 604 00:28:09,440 --> 00:28:11,959 Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, you're just about to say boner episode right? 605 00:28:13,520 --> 00:28:16,879 Speaker 1: Think about with being pregnant, it's just a giant boners 606 00:28:17,119 --> 00:28:20,320 Speaker 1: all the time, Like, someone throw them out of my face. 607 00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:21,480 Speaker 2: I don't even know. No one. 608 00:28:23,240 --> 00:28:25,080 Speaker 3: Throw the boners at Lala's face. 609 00:28:25,240 --> 00:28:28,600 Speaker 1: Oh I love you guys. Thank you again. We'll catch 610 00:28:28,640 --> 00:28:29,160 Speaker 1: you next week.