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Speaker 1: It's time to ask the CLO our chief love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey.

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Speaker 2: This is from Chandra and Harlem.

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Speaker 1: Chandra writes, my boyfriend is thirteen years younger than I am.

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Speaker 1: I am not a cougar because he makes more money.

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Speaker 1: My dad loves to refer to him as the baby

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Speaker 1: when he sees them, when he sees him. So how

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Speaker 1: do I get my dad to respect my choice? How

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Speaker 1: can my dad love me and do that?

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Speaker 3: Well?

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Speaker 4: See, you think cougar thunder is because he makes more money.

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Speaker 4: That ain't what cougarism is. Cougarism is when an older

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Speaker 4: woman gets a younger man. Hey, what finance ain't never

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Speaker 4: been a part of the cougar ris. Now your daddy

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Speaker 4: is messing with him because he knows this has a time.

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Speaker 3: Schituler, What are you saying?

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Speaker 4: He calling him the baby and the boy because he

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Speaker 4: know this ain't gonna last long.

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Speaker 3: This man not gonna be here that long.

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Speaker 2: Why do you say that though?

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Speaker 4: Eight thirteen years? That's what I'm saying. I ain't seen

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Speaker 4: a lot of them last. I ain't saying they came,

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Speaker 4: but I just ain't seen a lot of them last.

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Speaker 4: What do you mean he's at thirteen year age difference

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Speaker 4: in a woman being thirteen years older than a man.

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Speaker 2: Yes, sir, but it can work with a man and

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Speaker 2: a woman because your bility.

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Speaker 3: Because of money.

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Speaker 4: The older man has money when the younger man has money.

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Speaker 4: Let me explain something to you. He got the practice

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Speaker 4: through you, and this young boy might not have got

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Speaker 4: all the practice out of his system yet.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Melinda in Saint Petersburg, Melinda writes, my

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Speaker 1: twenty four year old daughter wants me to throw her

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Speaker 1: a birthday party for her twenty fifth birthday. She just

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Speaker 1: went out of town with her dad and his new wife,

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Speaker 1: so I told her to get him to throw her party.

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Speaker 2: She called me petty. Did I come off as jealous

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Speaker 2: A little bit?

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Speaker 3: Just went out of town, just went out trip.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, And twenty five is their big birthday and I've

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Speaker 4: had to call for up for a few of them.

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Speaker 3: So you know, I don't know.

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Speaker 4: You know, lady, you being mad at the husband and

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Speaker 4: the new wife has nothing to do with what you

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Speaker 4: want to do for your daughter, right, So figure out

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Speaker 4: what you want to do with your daughter.

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Speaker 3: Because it's her twenty fifth birthday. Are you not gonna

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Speaker 3: get her nothing?

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Speaker 2: That's the question. Yeah, or with his new wife.

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Speaker 1: They got money for all of that, They got money

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Speaker 1: for a party.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, come over here with but then the twenty five

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Speaker 4: year old here they are being being spoiled. My daddy

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Speaker 4: gave me this, now what you're gonna give me? And

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Speaker 4: now she don't give it to her? Then her mama

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Speaker 4: being petty. Right, you know these kids nowadays, well we

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Speaker 4: got to generate all of us have raised.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, admittedly all are looking on Colo

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Speaker 1: to Abe and Syracuse. Abe writes, I was dating a

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Speaker 1: girl and her ex disrespected her in front of me.

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Speaker 2: I ended up fighting the dude. She got back with him.

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Speaker 1: Weeks later, they broke up again, and she's trying to

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Speaker 1: get me back. I like her a lot, she apologized

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Speaker 1: a million times.

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Speaker 2: Should I go back?

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Speaker 3: You fool? You're a food dog? Yeah, you're fool. You're

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Speaker 3: a fool.

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Speaker 4: You with her, her ex disrespect her, You get in

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Speaker 4: a fight with the dude, She goes back to the dude.

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Speaker 4: They break up again. She come back to you, and

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Speaker 4: won't you back dog. I don't know what she's doing

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Speaker 4: to both of y'all, but one of y'all gonna get killed.

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Speaker 3: What about this is poison. This is poison.

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Speaker 2: What about your standard line, Steve, Oh, she's fine, she's fine.

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Speaker 2: What about that?

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Speaker 3: I got all that, but I'm not finna get.

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Speaker 2: You draw the line a.

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Speaker 4: Couple of fine people. I'm getting hookedful my wife and

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Speaker 4: my daughters. After that, that's I can't. Yeah, now, if

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Speaker 4: I saw somebody disrespecting y'all, I come to y'all defense,

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Speaker 4: but hopefully it won't turn into a fight.

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Speaker 3: But I'm not gonna stand there and get and get dusty.

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Speaker 1: But it doesn't say that you're you're clear that the

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Speaker 1: other got her ex beat him up because he just

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Speaker 1: said I ended up fighting the dude.

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Speaker 2: He didn't see.

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Speaker 3: He never gave us description on who got the butt. Well, regardless, uh.

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Speaker 2: Huh, regardless, you're not fighting, No.

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Speaker 3: Don't fight.

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Speaker 4: We and are lost every time I see the dude,

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Speaker 4: now I got a problem with him.

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Speaker 2: Yeah come on now, yeah, yeah, so do not go back.

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Speaker 3: But then you left me after I fought for you.

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Speaker 4: Right, you ain't that fat.

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Speaker 2: I can't believe you guys said that.

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Speaker 1: All right, that's what I think.

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Speaker 2: I think he won. He said he won.

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Speaker 3: But all the time that you wrote.

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Speaker 4: Us, that's a louseless move.

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Speaker 1: All right, last one clo. This is from Cat in

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Speaker 1: West Hollywood. Cat writes, I let an old friend crash

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Speaker 1: at my place and the second night he was walking

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Speaker 1: around in his underwear. It was very sexual and it

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Speaker 1: turned me on. But I didn't say anything. There's a

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Speaker 1: lot of sexual tension. Should I address the elephant in

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Speaker 1: the room?

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Speaker 3: Well, the elephant trunk is what drew your attention?

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Speaker 2: Good one, Steve Goode.

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Speaker 4: You should you address addressed the elephant in the room

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Speaker 4: or undressed the elephant?

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Speaker 3: Want to do? Because I think that's where we're going

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Speaker 3: with him.

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Speaker 2: She said it was very sexual and she was turned on.

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Speaker 4: He walked right around in there. Yeah, y'all ain't gonna

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Speaker 4: be here. Y'all gonna be different kind of friends.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and how long is he crashing and her?

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Speaker 3: At least till we do it? If he's.

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Speaker 1: It sounds like that's gonna be tonight. Wow, all right, Steve,

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Speaker 1: she didn't say anything.

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Speaker 2: She didn't say anything, though it's.

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Speaker 3: On and cracking.

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Speaker 4: Matter of fact, it didn't already happened since she wrote

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Speaker 4: this letter.

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Speaker 3: Oh oh that's old. When we get you, Oh yeah,

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Speaker 3: this letter? You wrote the letter. The next day he

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Speaker 3: did what he was doing draws. You know what's on?

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, exactly.

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Speaker 3: How you doing today?

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Speaker 2: That's his voice.

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Speaker 3: Can I get you anything what you need? All right?

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Speaker 3: You want me to bring it back in here for you.

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Speaker 3: You need to peel off your bed.

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Speaker 2: You're listening hard morning show