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Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Becca Tilly and I Heart Radio podcast. Well, hello, everybody,

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Speaker 1: I just walked into the room and there are photos

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Speaker 1: of my face everywhere from all different ages of my life.

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Speaker 1: Yeah you bet Where did you get those from? Mom?

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Speaker 1: She just sent him all over. Yeah. I texted your

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Speaker 1: mom and I was like, I'm not sure if Becca

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Speaker 1: is gonna want all these, but can I get some

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Speaker 1: baby pictures? And she sent me a lot that she

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Speaker 1: was probably so thrilled to go through all the albums

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Speaker 1: and collect this. And then I said, thank you for

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Speaker 1: birthing my best friend. Oh that's such a nice sentiment. Wow,

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Speaker 1: thank you. It was. I mean, I normally don't really

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Speaker 1: celebrate my birthday, so having all the attention I've had

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Speaker 1: this year is a little overwhelming for me. It's because

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Speaker 1: you're so love I know I do. I feel extremely loved.

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Speaker 1: You're loved. But I did not like your Halloween costumes.

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Speaker 1: I almost showed up, well his name's Klein with a C,

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Speaker 1: and I almost showed up as him. But I just

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Speaker 1: was like, I know you're not festive at all for

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Speaker 1: home because I dressed up as him two nights in

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Speaker 1: a row, and then I didn't have anything. I just

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Speaker 1: got back from Nashville last night, so I didn't have

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Speaker 1: anything planned. I felt, I I you described that terrible

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Speaker 1: costume for people. First of all, go look at my

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Speaker 1: instagram if you really want to see me in character.

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Speaker 1: But I had a blonde mullet, and I had facial hair,

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Speaker 1: and I had some nice cargo shorts and some large,

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Speaker 1: like extra large shoes that I bought. And it's offensive.

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Speaker 1: Didn't you draw in a hair on your legs? Oh? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Crystal did that? Okay, yeah, so she used an eyebrow

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Speaker 1: pencil and druin hair on my legs. It wasn't just

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Speaker 1: the look of it. It was the body language. I

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Speaker 1: was in character. It wasn't just like a for a picture.

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Speaker 1: I went to a party and there was this girl.

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Speaker 1: They're dressed and like we all heard, our whole group

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Speaker 1: was dressed as guys. And so we were like, we're

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Speaker 1: not breaking character the whole night. Like I like, you're

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Speaker 1: like bro trying to find like hot chicks, like that

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Speaker 1: was our why. Later, so we go in and there's

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Speaker 1: this girl and I thought she was Baby Spice from

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Speaker 1: Spice Girls. But when up turn, I was all climb

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Speaker 1: with the sea. It were like a bro handshake. She

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Speaker 1: just kind of stared at me. But so the whole

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Speaker 1: night I thought she was like playing into like just

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Speaker 1: being like grossed out with me, and I was being

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Speaker 1: like hey, trying to act like I was hitting on her.

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Speaker 1: So then at the end of the night she goes,

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Speaker 1: I don't know why you okay, And I had a

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Speaker 1: little bit to drink in this one and she goes,

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Speaker 1: I don't know why you are bugging me, but go

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Speaker 1: bugs on. That just shows what it's like. I thought

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Speaker 1: that was the whole night. She was like acting like

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Speaker 1: she wasn't interested. But it was a really small house.

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Speaker 1: Over time, my pastor would be like hey, girl, so

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Speaker 1: she was offended. And then her other like when she

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Speaker 1: told me that her other friend was like bye, and

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Speaker 1: I was like okay, So I went outside. I was

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Speaker 1: just on my phone. Well they walk out, her and

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Speaker 1: her two friends and like we're leaving your friends in

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Speaker 1: there crying, and apparently there was like some words exchange

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Speaker 1: and like a semi girl fight between who are her

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Speaker 1: and who? I think they all just wanted me, and

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Speaker 1: they were like nervous about it, like they I'm so confused,

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Speaker 1: explain everything, Okay, I wasn't in there. I just they

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Speaker 1: left and they walked out. And so the girl that

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Speaker 1: you were hitting on and her friend, Yeah, the red one,

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Speaker 1: Mary Margaret Bye. I found out that was her name.

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Speaker 1: Um anyways, but she was addressed as Britney Spears, So anyways, um. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: another girl that was in there, and I don't know

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Speaker 1: There was like a history there and so there were

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Speaker 1: some words exchange. I don't know what happened, and so

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Speaker 1: nothing to do with you. I'd like to think it

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Speaker 1: had something to do with Klein, but I don't think

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Speaker 1: it did. I think it was a past situation. The

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Speaker 1: pigtail so aggressive. They come out and we're like saying it,

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Speaker 1: like yelling at me, and I was just like, did

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Speaker 1: they think you were a guy? No, there's no way.

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Speaker 1: I mean, if they did, then I've really done well.

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Speaker 1: At least you know that she was just kind of

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Speaker 1: like she seems like not very nice, right, like they said,

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Speaker 1: it happens often, like there's been times where she's gotten

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Speaker 1: to the confrontations with people. Why did you did you

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Speaker 1: get any other girls numbers. No, no, no. I went

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Speaker 1: home after that. Becca sent me photos on was it Saturday, Friday,

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Speaker 1: was like, I have nightmares about this. My dad called

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Speaker 1: me and was like, please do me a favor, and

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Speaker 1: I thought he was gonna I didn't know what he

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Speaker 1: was going to say, and he was like, please take

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Speaker 1: that photo off of your Instagram. He was like, it's

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Speaker 1: really uncomfortable. It made me uncomfortable the body motion. I know.

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Speaker 1: I like, I mean, I don't think that was the

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Speaker 1: end of client for me. No, no, you got real

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Speaker 1: comfortable as client, real real. We all got comfortable as

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Speaker 1: our alter egos. It was a little bit concerning, but

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I just didn't feel like, I don't know,

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Speaker 1: I don't like being like super cute. See and I

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Speaker 1: was an old lady and that was awful. Open your present?

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Speaker 1: Oh is this for you? Amy got me a gift.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, you guys, this looks official too. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that looks like the ones of my doctor. Amy has

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Speaker 1: gotten me a official stethoscope, which will definitely come in

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Speaker 1: handy for scrubbing in Wow. Is this the like certificate? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: The legit stethoscope. It's actually a medical one and I

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Speaker 1: got it pink because I thought it has operating instructions

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Speaker 1: on the back, which i'll need. Yes, Um, I'm the

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Speaker 1: worst friend ever. My gift is not ready for you yet,

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Speaker 1: and just like like we're not even friends anymore. I know,

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Speaker 1: but it'll be ready. I'll give it to you at

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Speaker 1: your birthday dinner tonight. Oh yeah, so we're going to

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Speaker 1: dinner tonight, so you'll have it tonight. But it just

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Speaker 1: wasn't ready in time. I had fomo this weekend watching

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Speaker 1: all of your stories, and I never get fomo like that.

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Speaker 1: I just don't even believe in it because I feel

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Speaker 1: like I make a decision and I'm happy with my decision.

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Speaker 1: And I was happy with my decision that I stayed

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Speaker 1: because baby shar I was beautiful, but I really was

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Speaker 1: feeling really sad. And you guys looked like you had

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Speaker 1: so much fun this week. Would you have dressed up

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Speaker 1: like a guy? Well, yeah, really, yeah, I'm not going

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Speaker 1: to be the one person in the group that says no,

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Speaker 1: I'm not going to dress up like that. But it

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Speaker 1: wouldn't be my first choice. I mean, I really enjoyed

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Speaker 1: my angel costume. Yeah, it was very pretty. How was

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Speaker 1: that party so good? I'll tell you something that has

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Speaker 1: to do with the Whole Foods guy. Okay, well my

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Speaker 1: Halloween costume was disgusting. My outfit was gross. But I

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Speaker 1: feel like on a regular basis, I do like to

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Speaker 1: look cute. You do today. You look cute. Thank you.

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Speaker 1: So I want to talk about ever Laine. Um One

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Speaker 1: of my ms when I'm shopping is I see it

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Speaker 1: just a basic T shirt or something and it's like

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Speaker 1: fifty and in my head, I'm thinking, what in the world,

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Speaker 1: why is that fifty dollars? It's probably like a five

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Speaker 1: dollar shirt and they're marking it up so much. So

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Speaker 1: ever Lane basically tells you on the site what they

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Speaker 1: paid for it and then how much they marked it up,

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Speaker 1: so you can see like you're getting good quality stuff,

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Speaker 1: but they're not trying to oversell it, right. It's like

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Speaker 1: an arm and a leg for a T shirt exactly. Um. So,

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Speaker 1: I wore one of their shirts last week. It was

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Speaker 1: like the basic pocket tea. It was really cute fit.

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Speaker 1: I just feel like the site it has something for everyone.

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Speaker 1: They have cashmere sweaters, they have they have high rice

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Speaker 1: skinny jeans, boyfriend jeans. They have men's clothing, got his

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Speaker 1: groomsmen backpacks there and they loved them. So basically just

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Speaker 1: Essentil's basics. Everything you need on a regular basis and

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Speaker 1: it's not over priced at all. I'm obsessed with the

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Speaker 1: burgundy bomber jacket that you put as your face. It's

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Speaker 1: like when you got everlaine dot com back slash Becca.

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Speaker 1: You can see her picks and that bomber it's the bomb.

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Speaker 1: It's do you know who else is a big fan

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Speaker 1: of this too? Megan Markle. I heard, I read about

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Speaker 1: this and I heard her. So she's trying to get

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Speaker 1: Prince Harry to wear the clothes. Oh yeah, and she

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Speaker 1: just met the queen. Oh so like soon the Queen's

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Speaker 1: going to be in everline. Basically the Queen wears everline. No,

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Speaker 1: you heard it here first Hard Hitting News. Um, so yeah,

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Speaker 1: if you go to everlaine dot com slash Becca, they've

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Speaker 1: picked out some items for me and then I've picked

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Speaker 1: out out some items and it's just um, the bomber jacket,

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Speaker 1: Kashmere sweaters, there's just a bunch of different stuff that

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Speaker 1: there's something for everyone. Like I said, so Um, that's again,

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Speaker 1: that's Everlaine dot com slash Becca. You'll see all those

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Speaker 1: items we picked out, and also you get free shipping

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Speaker 1: on your first order. To go to everline dot com

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Speaker 1: slash Becca pick out your fall essentials. Let me know

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Speaker 1: what you think. I love free shipping. Yeah, game changer.

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Speaker 1: Um can we go? Can we just get down to

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Speaker 1: the nitty gritty here? Should we? Sure? Can to hear

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Speaker 1: about Whole Foods guy? Yes? Well you know what actually

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Speaker 1: when it happened was I was supposed to have a

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Speaker 1: date with you that night, Yeah, and canceled on you

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Speaker 1: to meet Whole Foods guy. I'm trying to be a

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Speaker 1: But the episode of grazing out of me was so

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Speaker 1: bad that it's fine. I'll sacrifice it. Yeah, we can

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Speaker 1: and how was it? It was good? What do you'll do?

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Speaker 1: We met at a place that's close to our house.

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Speaker 1: I just walked, which is really nice. Um, we met

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Speaker 1: and we had a drink and he is truly, I think,

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Speaker 1: really great guy. I really really do. But there's a butt.

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Speaker 1: There's a butt. I don't think we had a lot

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Speaker 1: was atheist. Oh that's important to you. Yeah, that's important

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Speaker 1: to me too. And it was like I felt kind

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Speaker 1: me and was you know, I'm not a bad person.

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Speaker 1: And I felt so bad because I didn't want him,

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, I don't think you're a bad person

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Speaker 1: at all, because whatever you choose to believe, whatever you choose,

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Speaker 1: that's you know, I don't think anybody's a bad person.

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Speaker 1: For me personally, I need somebody that has faith because

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Speaker 1: it's such a big part of my life. So to me,

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Speaker 1: it was a deal breaker right when I heard it

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Speaker 1: come out of its not that was like my knee

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Speaker 1: knee jerk reaction. Um. And then I kept in my

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Speaker 1: head thinking, well, this guy is so nice and you

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Speaker 1: don't come across that nice guys that often, and you know,

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Speaker 1: maybe I can see past this. And I was like,

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Speaker 1: forth in my head a little bit about it, um,

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Speaker 1: in a chance. Anyway, let's talk about my brother. Wait.

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00:23:03,119 --> 00:23:05,679
Speaker 1: I actually want to tell you, though, there is something

423
00:23:05,680 --> 00:23:09,440
Speaker 1: good that came from my Whole Foods date. I got

424
00:23:09,440 --> 00:23:14,359
Speaker 1: my mojo back. Guys, Oh what's cloud for mojo being bad? Yes?

425
00:23:14,480 --> 00:23:18,240
Speaker 1: Because I will tell you this past weekend. Oh yeah,

426
00:23:18,600 --> 00:23:22,919
Speaker 1: I got hit on by hot tease like guys I

427
00:23:22,920 --> 00:23:25,879
Speaker 1: would not like models, Like these guys were mod doles

428
00:23:26,000 --> 00:23:29,720
Speaker 1: wanting my number, and I was like me, like, I'm

429
00:23:29,760 --> 00:23:31,920
Speaker 1: not even trying to be soft deprecating right now. I

430
00:23:31,960 --> 00:23:35,080
Speaker 1: was like shocked, and I think it has to do

431
00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:36,920
Speaker 1: so I don't know. I think I owe it to Mr.

432
00:23:36,960 --> 00:23:39,359
Speaker 1: Whole Foods because and then at the even at the

433
00:23:39,440 --> 00:23:42,080
Speaker 1: baby shower. I'm at a co ed baby shower on Saturday.

434
00:23:42,880 --> 00:23:45,240
Speaker 1: You looked hot at the baby shower, thank you, thank you.

435
00:23:45,280 --> 00:23:47,600
Speaker 1: But I had a guy hitting on me at the shower.

436
00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:52,240
Speaker 1: It's about some kind of scientific energy thing, because haven't

437
00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:55,000
Speaker 1: you ever started dating somebody? And then like your ex

438
00:23:55,040 --> 00:23:58,440
Speaker 1: boyfriend calls and you're like, really, dude, where you've been?

439
00:23:58,840 --> 00:24:02,200
Speaker 1: And now that I don't need you? Ring ring ring,

440
00:24:02,280 --> 00:24:05,720
Speaker 1: it's like a thing. Yeah, And I really genuinely feel

441
00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:08,040
Speaker 1: like because I did Mr. Whole Foods. My day was

442
00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:14,159
Speaker 1: on Thursday and then Friday, I was on fire. But

443
00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:16,120
Speaker 1: I really felt like it was the universe testing me

444
00:24:16,240 --> 00:24:18,399
Speaker 1: because it was like dangling bait in front of my

445
00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:20,560
Speaker 1: like hot guy in my face, and I was like, no,

446
00:24:21,840 --> 00:24:25,679
Speaker 1: it's not it's not the path. I'm confused. It was.

447
00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:28,920
Speaker 1: It was like not the path, Like I'm not gonna

448
00:24:28,920 --> 00:24:31,240
Speaker 1: go home with some random like nineteen year old from

449
00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:33,720
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. You can get a phone number. Yeah, yeah,

450
00:24:33,720 --> 00:24:40,040
Speaker 1: of course, and that all happen. But I just have

451
00:24:40,160 --> 00:24:43,880
Speaker 1: to say I have high hopes for the weeks to come.

452
00:24:44,960 --> 00:24:47,520
Speaker 1: Are you going to turn them all down? No? No, no,

453
00:24:47,560 --> 00:24:49,800
Speaker 1: of course not. But I think about the guy from

454
00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:52,400
Speaker 1: the baby shower. If he asks me out, I will

455
00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:55,240
Speaker 1: go with him, for sure. He hasn't asked me out yet,

456
00:24:55,240 --> 00:24:57,920
Speaker 1: but he was putting out the vibes and he basically

457
00:24:58,160 --> 00:25:00,399
Speaker 1: told other people at the shower that he was into it.

458
00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:04,080
Speaker 1: Plus you're reading the weight right now, exactly the weight.

459
00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:07,480
Speaker 1: Remember I told you about that book and his wife. Yeah,

460
00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:10,520
Speaker 1: this book is is basically about how divon and his

461
00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:14,199
Speaker 1: wife waited for sex until they were married, And so

462
00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:16,359
Speaker 1: I'm reading it. I'm almost done, actually, and I've decided

463
00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:18,040
Speaker 1: that I want to wait until I'm in a serious,

464
00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:22,240
Speaker 1: committed relationship to sleep with someone. Clearly, I'm not a virgin.

465
00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:26,520
Speaker 1: I don't know. No, I don't know. That's clear. I

466
00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:32,560
Speaker 1: have with people, but I'm making a conscious decision to

467
00:25:33,280 --> 00:25:35,679
Speaker 1: wait until I'm in a serious kind of relationship. I

468
00:25:35,760 --> 00:25:38,320
Speaker 1: like that, Thank you. So who is he? Is he

469
00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:41,080
Speaker 1: just an author or is he's No, he's actually like

470
00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:46,520
Speaker 1: a Hollywood producer, cinematographer, but he's also a pastor and

471
00:25:46,760 --> 00:25:48,840
Speaker 1: um and he basically in the book, it talks about

472
00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:52,400
Speaker 1: how he um was. So there's a difference between abstinence

473
00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:58,720
Speaker 1: and celibacy. One is uh. I think abstinence is um

474
00:25:58,760 --> 00:26:00,800
Speaker 1: just not having sex because it's not in your face,

475
00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:04,000
Speaker 1: and celibacy is making a choice. And so he was

476
00:26:04,040 --> 00:26:06,879
Speaker 1: saying how he was celibate for ten years when he

477
00:26:06,920 --> 00:26:08,320
Speaker 1: met his wife, and it kind of talks about the

478
00:26:08,320 --> 00:26:11,280
Speaker 1: struggles that they encountered when they met, because when you're

479
00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:13,560
Speaker 1: in a serious relationship with somebody, you know, the temptations

480
00:26:13,600 --> 00:26:16,000
Speaker 1: there and but they both made that commitment and and

481
00:26:16,040 --> 00:26:19,080
Speaker 1: it basically talks about how it's strengthened strengthen their marriage

482
00:26:19,080 --> 00:26:21,720
Speaker 1: and how many blessings they've seen come about in their

483
00:26:21,760 --> 00:26:25,280
Speaker 1: marriage because they did do this. Oh that's awesome. Yeah,

484
00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:29,800
Speaker 1: it's actually very interesting. You should the weight. Yeah. Okay,

485
00:26:29,840 --> 00:26:33,840
Speaker 1: So going to Nashville, it was freezing. You would not

486
00:26:33,920 --> 00:26:39,280
Speaker 1: have you would not have thrived. Our skin was so dry.

487
00:26:39,800 --> 00:26:42,760
Speaker 1: It's dry there. I don't know it was this week.

488
00:26:42,760 --> 00:26:44,320
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's a cold. We just weren't

489
00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:46,719
Speaker 1: used to it. But I wanted to talk about bioclarity

490
00:26:46,720 --> 00:26:49,520
Speaker 1: because it's what I've been using. It's the three steps system.

491
00:26:49,600 --> 00:26:52,520
Speaker 1: Did you bring it with you to Nashville? Sure? Did? Oh?

492
00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:56,760
Speaker 1: Is everybody jealous of it? Sure? Did you share? At

493
00:26:56,840 --> 00:26:59,359
Speaker 1: least I did? Okay? We were all very you know,

494
00:26:59,400 --> 00:27:02,000
Speaker 1: we're just a few bros hanging out this weekend. We

495
00:27:02,119 --> 00:27:07,040
Speaker 1: shared our stuff. Um, okay. So, bio clarity is a

496
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497
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498
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499
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500
00:27:17,560 --> 00:27:22,159
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501
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508
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509
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510
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511
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525
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531
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Speaker 1: to say for clear skin, I pay more? Glad I

532
00:29:22,640 --> 00:29:26,040
Speaker 1: don't have to, alright? Moving on, Um, we had a

533
00:29:26,040 --> 00:29:28,600
Speaker 1: lot of emails about my brother. How do you feel?

534
00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:32,360
Speaker 1: Are you jellous? Uh? No? Because you know if we're

535
00:29:32,400 --> 00:29:35,800
Speaker 1: meant to be, it'll be You're so like I got

536
00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:42,680
Speaker 1: my mom, Joe back watch up Chris Tilly? Um, okay,

537
00:29:42,880 --> 00:29:45,440
Speaker 1: so we every time I post a photo of my brother,

538
00:29:45,480 --> 00:29:47,640
Speaker 1: I get it's like, hooked me up with your brother?

539
00:29:47,760 --> 00:29:50,719
Speaker 1: Is your brother single? He's a big number. You got

540
00:29:50,760 --> 00:29:52,120
Speaker 1: a ton of emails and I don't even know how

541
00:29:52,120 --> 00:29:56,440
Speaker 1: to handle it, because how would we pick one over another?

542
00:29:57,280 --> 00:30:00,600
Speaker 1: He was really funny. Should we set him up? Should

543
00:30:00,600 --> 00:30:03,720
Speaker 1: we do like a dating show or dating contest where

544
00:30:03,720 --> 00:30:05,959
Speaker 1: we like, give a date with your brother? Is that

545
00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:09,480
Speaker 1: like legal? When's he coming here? As long as we

546
00:30:09,560 --> 00:30:14,000
Speaker 1: do it here, I feel okay. We could chaperone. Oh yeah, yeah,

547
00:30:14,120 --> 00:30:17,600
Speaker 1: we fly him out here, pick a girl. I have

548
00:30:17,680 --> 00:30:20,720
Speaker 1: an idea, this is so fun. Does he work on

549
00:30:20,760 --> 00:30:24,320
Speaker 1: the weekends or to say weekends off? He works some weekends,

550
00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:27,920
Speaker 1: but I think he could request of this is super

551
00:30:28,000 --> 00:30:30,440
Speaker 1: fun and then me go on a date with me

552
00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:35,400
Speaker 1: the second night. Yeah, yeah, self the reasons here? What

553
00:30:35,440 --> 00:30:38,480
Speaker 1: do you like about my brother? I like that he um,

554
00:30:38,520 --> 00:30:41,280
Speaker 1: you know he was talking about We basically asked him

555
00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:42,840
Speaker 1: if if he likes some girls play hard to get

556
00:30:42,880 --> 00:30:46,280
Speaker 1: and he said no, And I like that It shows

557
00:30:46,320 --> 00:30:49,960
Speaker 1: that he's like ready, you know, he said no because

558
00:30:49,960 --> 00:30:51,800
Speaker 1: he was saying, like a situation where it seems like

559
00:30:51,800 --> 00:30:53,560
Speaker 1: the girls were trying to get rid of him. Yeah,

560
00:30:53,600 --> 00:30:55,880
Speaker 1: I know, which makes me like him even more. I know,

561
00:30:56,280 --> 00:31:00,320
Speaker 1: I love his like totally unaware. He's like, oh, maybe

562
00:31:00,320 --> 00:31:02,560
Speaker 1: they're just not interested, And who's not interested? In your brother.

563
00:31:02,720 --> 00:31:04,240
Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean, I don't know. I'm most

564
00:31:04,240 --> 00:31:06,120
Speaker 1: of the girls of when and we talk, it seems

565
00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:10,080
Speaker 1: like they're wanting more, and he's kind of the more like, Oh,

566
00:31:10,120 --> 00:31:14,080
Speaker 1: I don't know. Yeah, he's a telling UM, I want

567
00:31:14,120 --> 00:31:17,640
Speaker 1: to read some emails. Go ahead. This one's from Jessica

568
00:31:17,800 --> 00:31:22,920
Speaker 1: and this is more directed towards you. But she said hello, hello, Hello.

569
00:31:22,960 --> 00:31:25,160
Speaker 1: In a previous episode, Tony mentioned she was in a

570
00:31:25,200 --> 00:31:27,560
Speaker 1: long distance relationship for a while. Can you both talk

571
00:31:27,600 --> 00:31:30,960
Speaker 1: about your experience with long distance relationships and give some

572
00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:33,960
Speaker 1: advice and tips on making it work? Thank you so

573
00:31:34,040 --> 00:31:36,040
Speaker 1: much and have a great day. You know what, I

574
00:31:36,040 --> 00:31:38,680
Speaker 1: actually really enjoy this question because I think I was

575
00:31:38,840 --> 00:31:43,040
Speaker 1: excellent at being in a long distance relationship because I'm

576
00:31:43,200 --> 00:31:47,440
Speaker 1: very um like all I can think about is the

577
00:31:47,520 --> 00:31:53,960
Speaker 1: dropbox thing, nude photos aside, which I do think are

578
00:31:54,120 --> 00:31:57,680
Speaker 1: necessary in a long distance relationship. Um, I was really

579
00:31:57,720 --> 00:32:00,920
Speaker 1: good at kind of um setting up like dates. So

580
00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:02,400
Speaker 1: I think it's important to set up a date that

581
00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:04,800
Speaker 1: you both are going to have dinner together, so you

582
00:32:04,880 --> 00:32:06,480
Speaker 1: set up your face times and you guys can have

583
00:32:06,560 --> 00:32:09,120
Speaker 1: meals together. I think that's really important to set aside

584
00:32:09,120 --> 00:32:11,120
Speaker 1: different nights for that. I think. Also I was really

585
00:32:11,160 --> 00:32:14,000
Speaker 1: good about sending letters in the mail. People like love

586
00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:17,000
Speaker 1: getting a nice like love letter in the mail, sends

587
00:32:17,040 --> 00:32:19,480
Speaker 1: them to work, send them to his home. Um. And

588
00:32:19,520 --> 00:32:23,120
Speaker 1: I also sent a lot of gift baskets. And yes,

589
00:32:23,120 --> 00:32:25,080
Speaker 1: this might be cheesy, but I think it's really great

590
00:32:25,120 --> 00:32:27,120
Speaker 1: to you know, like sending them a gift basket of

591
00:32:27,120 --> 00:32:29,240
Speaker 1: things that they love, are things that remind you of

592
00:32:29,320 --> 00:32:32,160
Speaker 1: that person with little notes around them. You know. I

593
00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:34,640
Speaker 1: think it's important to get crafty and be thoughtful because

594
00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:38,240
Speaker 1: they are far away, so you don't get that, um.

595
00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:40,480
Speaker 1: You know, you don't get the affirmation every day. And

596
00:32:40,520 --> 00:32:45,880
Speaker 1: so I think sending things letters, little gifts, nudes, definitely

597
00:32:45,960 --> 00:32:52,320
Speaker 1: nudes with no face, I think that's really important. And

598
00:32:52,400 --> 00:32:54,640
Speaker 1: I think that um, if you want to make it work,

599
00:32:54,920 --> 00:32:57,719
Speaker 1: I think distance really isn't an issue if you if

600
00:32:57,720 --> 00:32:59,960
Speaker 1: you're really committed to somebody and you really love that person,

601
00:33:00,040 --> 00:33:02,040
Speaker 1: distance isn't issue as long as you have an endgame

602
00:33:03,480 --> 00:33:06,920
Speaker 1: in mind. I love long distance. Yeah, I mean I've

603
00:33:06,960 --> 00:33:08,760
Speaker 1: never been in a long distance but I feel like

604
00:33:08,760 --> 00:33:13,240
Speaker 1: i'd really thrive there, like I have my Space. Yeah,

605
00:33:13,280 --> 00:33:17,640
Speaker 1: for people like us, Yeah, it's a home run because

606
00:33:18,320 --> 00:33:21,080
Speaker 1: you have it, but it doesn't smother you. You don't

607
00:33:21,120 --> 00:33:23,840
Speaker 1: smother them quite as much. Yeah, and you make the

608
00:33:23,840 --> 00:33:25,960
Speaker 1: week like when you do get to spend the weekends together,

609
00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:27,920
Speaker 1: it's almost like you guys are always on a vacation

610
00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:30,840
Speaker 1: because you just like, really, I think my fear of

611
00:33:31,080 --> 00:33:34,080
Speaker 1: long distance is if you don't have if you're not

612
00:33:34,240 --> 00:33:36,840
Speaker 1: dating while you're in the same place at first, to

613
00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:39,440
Speaker 1: see how it is when you're around today, and then

614
00:33:39,480 --> 00:33:42,440
Speaker 1: you end up let's say you get serious and you

615
00:33:42,520 --> 00:33:44,840
Speaker 1: move in together, move in the same city, and then

616
00:33:44,840 --> 00:33:46,720
Speaker 1: you're like, wait, they're actually kind of annoying when they're

617
00:33:46,720 --> 00:33:49,560
Speaker 1: around all the time. But I think that, um, I

618
00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:51,400
Speaker 1: think you almost get to know somebody a little bit

619
00:33:51,440 --> 00:33:53,800
Speaker 1: better when you have distance. I mean I didn't start

620
00:33:53,800 --> 00:33:56,880
Speaker 1: off in a long distance relationship. We that was um,

621
00:33:56,920 --> 00:33:59,920
Speaker 1: like a year and a half in. But I think

622
00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:02,720
Speaker 1: that you really get to learn a lot about a

623
00:34:02,720 --> 00:34:05,200
Speaker 1: person because you're just talking to them all the time,

624
00:34:06,040 --> 00:34:09,440
Speaker 1: and it almost forces you to slow down a little bit. Yeah. Well,

625
00:34:09,480 --> 00:34:10,960
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, you kind of have to when the

626
00:34:10,960 --> 00:34:16,520
Speaker 1: person is on around. Well, that's interesting just longing for

627
00:34:16,560 --> 00:34:21,040
Speaker 1: a long distance relationship because like prerequisite on her things.

628
00:34:22,920 --> 00:34:29,239
Speaker 1: Let's live a plane ride away. Um oh, I can't

629
00:34:29,280 --> 00:34:31,839
Speaker 1: decide if I want to do more emails or the

630
00:34:31,840 --> 00:34:37,959
Speaker 1: Gray's Anatomy because that's just on my mind. Okay, Um,

631
00:34:38,000 --> 00:34:41,200
Speaker 1: this one's from Emily. Hi back Antonia. She said, can't

632
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Speaker 1: wait for an update on the dinner with your elementary

633
00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:45,640
Speaker 1: school friend and dinner with Robert. I didn't go out

634
00:34:45,680 --> 00:34:49,200
Speaker 1: to the elementary school friends. No update there. I need

635
00:34:49,239 --> 00:34:51,200
Speaker 1: some advice on how to get guys to ask you

636
00:34:51,280 --> 00:34:53,440
Speaker 1: on dates. So I'd love to hear how y'all do

637
00:34:53,480 --> 00:34:58,120
Speaker 1: it with us the right girl? She got her mojo back.

638
00:34:58,120 --> 00:35:00,640
Speaker 1: I probably got to get your mojo back. I think

639
00:35:00,760 --> 00:35:05,359
Speaker 1: it's it's finding what I do. I swear to you.

640
00:35:05,480 --> 00:35:08,520
Speaker 1: I don't know what it was, but it's clicked something

641
00:35:08,560 --> 00:35:10,360
Speaker 1: in me, and I'm clearly giving off. I think you

642
00:35:10,680 --> 00:35:13,759
Speaker 1: give off a vibe, and I think that, Um, if

643
00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:15,680
Speaker 1: you don't go out with somebody for a really long time,

644
00:35:16,080 --> 00:35:18,480
Speaker 1: you kind of are You kind of go inward a

645
00:35:18,480 --> 00:35:20,680
Speaker 1: little bit, and I think you just have to look

646
00:35:20,760 --> 00:35:25,640
Speaker 1: up and smile. Girl, look up, And she said, look

647
00:35:25,719 --> 00:35:28,400
Speaker 1: up and smile. That was a dude all weekend. I

648
00:35:28,400 --> 00:35:30,760
Speaker 1: didn't get hit on. I didn't get us on dates

649
00:35:30,880 --> 00:35:33,480
Speaker 1: or slide into the d M you can see. I

650
00:35:33,480 --> 00:35:36,280
Speaker 1: think it's all about confidence and feeling like, I'm okay

651
00:35:36,320 --> 00:35:38,680
Speaker 1: if you don't ask me out, but it would be

652
00:35:38,760 --> 00:35:41,440
Speaker 1: nice if you did type thing like just give off

653
00:35:41,440 --> 00:35:45,480
Speaker 1: a vibe that you like your confidence. I don't know.

654
00:35:45,520 --> 00:35:48,120
Speaker 1: I think it's a confidence thing. I think that's appealing.

655
00:35:48,160 --> 00:35:50,840
Speaker 1: I I mean, I had guys DM me that I

656
00:35:50,840 --> 00:35:52,600
Speaker 1: haven't talked to in a while because I wore this

657
00:35:52,800 --> 00:35:55,759
Speaker 1: dude costume and it was almost like, Oh, she's confident

658
00:35:55,920 --> 00:35:59,399
Speaker 1: enough that she wore this disgusting costume and they thought

659
00:35:59,400 --> 00:36:01,600
Speaker 1: it was really fun. Can we go back to that?

660
00:36:01,640 --> 00:36:06,080
Speaker 1: What guys hit you up? Anyone interesting? I mean, we'll

661
00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:12,000
Speaker 1: talk about this next week. Wait, do I know names? Um?

662
00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:13,880
Speaker 1: This is a guy that I went out with previously,

663
00:36:14,200 --> 00:36:17,880
Speaker 1: you know who? Isn't it crazy? She didn't all she

664
00:36:17,880 --> 00:36:19,840
Speaker 1: would say with that, and I know exactly what it was.

665
00:36:19,920 --> 00:36:22,239
Speaker 1: I don't have that many people though. Does it start

666
00:36:22,280 --> 00:36:24,279
Speaker 1: with a B? No? No, that's the one I want.

667
00:36:24,440 --> 00:36:26,160
Speaker 1: Can we nickname him so we can refer back to

668
00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:31,239
Speaker 1: him in the future. Yeah, nickname him? Yeah, Yeah, we'll

669
00:36:31,280 --> 00:36:38,080
Speaker 1: call him Arnold Schwartzenegger. Yeah, Um. So, anyways, he's so

670
00:36:38,239 --> 00:36:40,880
Speaker 1: nice and like, we've just been texting back and forth.

671
00:36:40,960 --> 00:36:44,960
Speaker 1: But what did he d M you? He just I

672
00:36:45,040 --> 00:36:46,840
Speaker 1: told him like what we were wearing, and then he

673
00:36:46,840 --> 00:36:48,759
Speaker 1: wrote me it was like, wow, it's even better than

674
00:36:49,520 --> 00:36:53,760
Speaker 1: and I thought, oh, I like this, so I appreciate.

675
00:36:53,800 --> 00:36:58,080
Speaker 1: I mean, listen, I know that at the party, what

676
00:36:58,239 --> 00:37:01,279
Speaker 1: was it? I wasn't the sexiest girl in the room.

677
00:37:01,480 --> 00:37:04,960
Speaker 1: But I feel like there's something about it. The confidence

678
00:37:04,960 --> 00:37:06,759
Speaker 1: of being like this is fine. I can do one

679
00:37:06,800 --> 00:37:10,200
Speaker 1: weekend where I'm the most disgusting human in the world,

680
00:37:10,880 --> 00:37:12,400
Speaker 1: which I was. I don't think you have to be

681
00:37:12,440 --> 00:37:14,920
Speaker 1: overly sexy and aty, you know. I mean, I'm just

682
00:37:14,960 --> 00:37:17,040
Speaker 1: saying I think it's a confidence of like knowing who

683
00:37:17,080 --> 00:37:21,839
Speaker 1: you are as a person. So what was yours? Just

684
00:37:22,000 --> 00:37:26,920
Speaker 1: look up and say hi, look up and smile. Um okay,

685
00:37:27,000 --> 00:37:30,480
Speaker 1: I like this one. This is from Leslie beckon Friends

686
00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:33,160
Speaker 1: Happy Birthday. Today is my thirty eight birthday, and I'm

687
00:37:33,200 --> 00:37:35,800
Speaker 1: sitting on my couch and sweats, not having yet showered,

688
00:37:35,840 --> 00:37:38,520
Speaker 1: and sending an email to a bunch of strangers. I've

689
00:37:38,520 --> 00:37:41,040
Speaker 1: been single for almost thirteen years now. My last X

690
00:37:41,160 --> 00:37:43,799
Speaker 1: was well for lack of a better word, insane. Don't

691
00:37:43,800 --> 00:37:46,000
Speaker 1: get me wrong, I love love. I just don't know

692
00:37:46,040 --> 00:37:47,960
Speaker 1: if love will ever find its way to my doorstep.

693
00:37:48,760 --> 00:37:50,880
Speaker 1: What do you all do for times when you're feeling lonely?

694
00:37:50,920 --> 00:37:52,480
Speaker 1: How do you get out of the moments that are

695
00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:54,680
Speaker 1: the most challenging for you? How do you best navigate

696
00:37:54,719 --> 00:37:57,200
Speaker 1: to the season when you're single? My son is twenty

697
00:37:57,239 --> 00:38:01,400
Speaker 1: two and coming into his own another lenge I'm presently facing.

698
00:38:01,719 --> 00:38:03,759
Speaker 1: I've been so focused on being mom for so long

699
00:38:03,800 --> 00:38:05,480
Speaker 1: that I forgot I think I forgot how to beg

700
00:38:05,520 --> 00:38:08,719
Speaker 1: anything else. I have, however, found comfort and laughing while

701
00:38:08,760 --> 00:38:11,600
Speaker 1: listening to you all talk about life and love. Thank

702
00:38:11,600 --> 00:38:14,240
Speaker 1: you for sharing pieces of your truth, Prayers for positive

703
00:38:14,280 --> 00:38:22,440
Speaker 1: always Leslie that gave me chills. So sweet, so sweet? Um,

704
00:38:22,520 --> 00:38:25,000
Speaker 1: do you have any ideas for her? I mean, I

705
00:38:25,120 --> 00:38:29,640
Speaker 1: just I think as humans in general, but especially women,

706
00:38:29,960 --> 00:38:32,680
Speaker 1: we tend to get in these like funks where, especially

707
00:38:32,719 --> 00:38:35,239
Speaker 1: when it's cozy and the weather's like cold, and you

708
00:38:35,360 --> 00:38:37,719
Speaker 1: think about like, oh, I just wish I had someone here,

709
00:38:37,960 --> 00:38:43,239
Speaker 1: especially around the holidays. I think definitely it gets you yea. UM,

710
00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:46,719
Speaker 1: I don't know. I just will typically either listen to

711
00:38:46,760 --> 00:38:49,440
Speaker 1: sad songs and be sad and like let myself feel that,

712
00:38:50,120 --> 00:38:53,319
Speaker 1: or I'll call my friends and talk it out, or

713
00:38:53,880 --> 00:39:00,319
Speaker 1: that's you mainly, or I'll put on Gray is Ana

714
00:39:00,480 --> 00:39:02,520
Speaker 1: at me, or I'll watch a movie my Sister's Love

715
00:39:02,560 --> 00:39:05,040
Speaker 1: with Me. I think there's just you find what makes

716
00:39:05,080 --> 00:39:07,680
Speaker 1: you happy and you focus on those things. Because sometimes

717
00:39:07,800 --> 00:39:10,760
Speaker 1: we talked about this. You have everything in every aspect

718
00:39:10,800 --> 00:39:13,920
Speaker 1: of your life, and then in the personal life with

719
00:39:13,960 --> 00:39:17,200
Speaker 1: a relationship or whatever, you feel like that's all you

720
00:39:17,200 --> 00:39:19,640
Speaker 1: can focus on because it's the one thing maybe where

721
00:39:19,680 --> 00:39:22,360
Speaker 1: things aren't great, and so you tend to feel like

722
00:39:22,560 --> 00:39:24,399
Speaker 1: you want it so bad. You know, it's like it's

723
00:39:24,440 --> 00:39:26,440
Speaker 1: something that's on your heart and you know that you

724
00:39:26,480 --> 00:39:29,319
Speaker 1: want it so bad, and you feel like it's just

725
00:39:29,360 --> 00:39:32,759
Speaker 1: not going in the direction that you want it right,

726
00:39:33,400 --> 00:39:36,359
Speaker 1: and you're like, what you kind I think you yourself? Yeah,

727
00:39:36,360 --> 00:39:39,200
Speaker 1: you start to get down on yourself. Um, I don't know.

728
00:39:39,239 --> 00:39:41,640
Speaker 1: I think there's a I do think there's something to

729
00:39:41,680 --> 00:39:48,040
Speaker 1: putting yourself out there and can I see this really fastest? Yeah? Okay,

730
00:39:48,120 --> 00:39:52,440
Speaker 1: So I think for me personally, I do, um, and

731
00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:56,120
Speaker 1: I've told you this. Sometimes I do feel lonely, and um,

732
00:39:56,120 --> 00:40:01,040
Speaker 1: it's an interesting It's an interesting feeling because is um

733
00:40:01,080 --> 00:40:03,360
Speaker 1: I lean That's where I lean on my faith a lot,

734
00:40:03,440 --> 00:40:05,920
Speaker 1: because I feel like if you have a good relationship

735
00:40:05,960 --> 00:40:10,840
Speaker 1: with God, um you're the loneliness goes away. And I

736
00:40:10,880 --> 00:40:13,239
Speaker 1: know that sounds really crazy, but I think, Leslie, if

737
00:40:13,239 --> 00:40:15,879
Speaker 1: you really lean into your faith, and UM, I lean

738
00:40:15,920 --> 00:40:17,920
Speaker 1: into my friendships, I feel like right now I have

739
00:40:18,480 --> 00:40:21,480
Speaker 1: amazing Like I don't know what I did to deserve

740
00:40:21,480 --> 00:40:23,719
Speaker 1: the people in my life. I have amazing friendships. I

741
00:40:23,719 --> 00:40:26,880
Speaker 1: have amazing people I work with, I have my family

742
00:40:26,920 --> 00:40:29,120
Speaker 1: is incredible, and I really just try to focus on

743
00:40:29,160 --> 00:40:32,040
Speaker 1: that because yes, I might not have the person that

744
00:40:32,040 --> 00:40:33,360
Speaker 1: I'm going to spend the rest of my life with

745
00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:36,680
Speaker 1: right now, but I have people that truly, truly deeply

746
00:40:36,719 --> 00:40:38,440
Speaker 1: care about me. And I think you really have to

747
00:40:38,480 --> 00:40:41,120
Speaker 1: focus on those people in your life and cultivate those

748
00:40:41,120 --> 00:40:45,279
Speaker 1: relationships because you're you're going to have those forever. And

749
00:40:45,320 --> 00:40:47,280
Speaker 1: so I think it's kind of getting out of that mindset.

750
00:40:47,320 --> 00:40:49,160
Speaker 1: And I'm guilty of it too. I can you know,

751
00:40:49,400 --> 00:40:51,800
Speaker 1: sometimes I can really go down in the dark place,

752
00:40:52,360 --> 00:40:54,480
Speaker 1: UM because I do the same. I've been single now

753
00:40:54,560 --> 00:40:57,480
Speaker 1: for five years and i'd say for the last two

754
00:40:57,520 --> 00:40:59,600
Speaker 1: I've been really ready to meet somebody, and I keep

755
00:40:59,640 --> 00:41:03,080
Speaker 1: striking out and dating some not great guys, and I

756
00:41:03,160 --> 00:41:05,520
Speaker 1: keep thinking why, like why why is this happening? What

757
00:41:05,560 --> 00:41:08,000
Speaker 1: am I doing wrong? Um? And you kind of have

758
00:41:08,040 --> 00:41:11,320
Speaker 1: to re shift your perspective. And I think we always

759
00:41:11,360 --> 00:41:14,360
Speaker 1: talk about like would you rather be in a okay

760
00:41:14,400 --> 00:41:17,080
Speaker 1: relationship just to have someone right? Or is it worth

761
00:41:17,120 --> 00:41:19,799
Speaker 1: the weight in the loneliness and that feeling of oh

762
00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:22,279
Speaker 1: what am I doing? Or how do I fix this?

763
00:41:22,800 --> 00:41:24,960
Speaker 1: Is it worth those times to wait for someone that's

764
00:41:24,960 --> 00:41:28,000
Speaker 1: really great that's made it all worth it? I think

765
00:41:28,040 --> 00:41:31,200
Speaker 1: it is. I really think it is. Coming from two

766
00:41:31,239 --> 00:41:33,920
Speaker 1: single girls, we think it will be worth the way,

767
00:41:34,120 --> 00:41:36,760
Speaker 1: but keep your head up and look up and smile.

768
00:41:37,080 --> 00:41:40,000
Speaker 1: You know What's so funny though, is I truly can't

769
00:41:40,080 --> 00:41:44,839
Speaker 1: wait two meet or maybe I possibly have already met

770
00:41:45,000 --> 00:41:46,840
Speaker 1: the guy that you're going to spend the rest of

771
00:41:46,840 --> 00:41:49,480
Speaker 1: your life with, because I think like our relationship is

772
00:41:49,480 --> 00:41:51,600
Speaker 1: going to take such a different turn when we're both

773
00:41:51,800 --> 00:41:54,560
Speaker 1: married and we have kids and they're like, oh, like

774
00:41:54,640 --> 00:41:56,919
Speaker 1: I want to take my kids damp because and she's

775
00:41:56,920 --> 00:42:00,439
Speaker 1: gonna feed you oreos, not the oreos we have less

776
00:42:02,640 --> 00:42:05,680
Speaker 1: She's gonna give you French fries all the French fries

777
00:42:05,760 --> 00:42:07,440
Speaker 1: they want. Yeah. I just think it's gonna be. It's

778
00:42:07,440 --> 00:42:13,840
Speaker 1: gonna be exciting season for us. It will in time.

779
00:42:14,760 --> 00:42:17,839
Speaker 1: Um Okay. So I went to the dentist last week

780
00:42:17,960 --> 00:42:21,120
Speaker 1: or I don't know, I can't you're always at the dentist.

781
00:42:21,239 --> 00:42:23,040
Speaker 1: I know I was for a while. I had a

782
00:42:23,080 --> 00:42:25,520
Speaker 1: few issues that I hadn't taken care of, but I

783
00:42:25,520 --> 00:42:27,759
Speaker 1: haven't been in a normal amount of time, and I

784
00:42:27,800 --> 00:42:30,440
Speaker 1: went to get a cleaning. There are very pleased with

785
00:42:30,480 --> 00:42:34,279
Speaker 1: me that I am now using an electric toothbrush. I've

786
00:42:34,280 --> 00:42:40,400
Speaker 1: been using quip. It's a vibrating toothbrush and it's the

787
00:42:40,440 --> 00:42:42,799
Speaker 1: most beautiful toothbrush I've ever seen in my entire life.

788
00:42:42,920 --> 00:42:46,759
Speaker 1: Was this? It is really cute. It's rose gold. It

789
00:42:46,840 --> 00:42:49,120
Speaker 1: comes with like a little travel thing that I can

790
00:42:49,120 --> 00:42:53,759
Speaker 1: put it in when I traveled, and um, I don't know,

791
00:42:53,840 --> 00:42:57,480
Speaker 1: I just feel like it's it's like a sleek designs

792
00:42:57,520 --> 00:43:01,200
Speaker 1: basically like Apple designed the toothbrush, which, like I said,

793
00:43:01,360 --> 00:43:08,080
Speaker 1: matches my computer. I travel holding my Mac laptop. Is

794
00:43:08,120 --> 00:43:11,800
Speaker 1: this the one that, uh like, vibrates after you should

795
00:43:11,880 --> 00:43:13,840
Speaker 1: change section of your mouth? Yeah? So you do a

796
00:43:13,880 --> 00:43:15,560
Speaker 1: section and then it does like a switch in the

797
00:43:15,640 --> 00:43:18,840
Speaker 1: vibration tones like move on, move on, and then you

798
00:43:18,880 --> 00:43:21,160
Speaker 1: do the next section and then it just ends. Which

799
00:43:21,320 --> 00:43:24,600
Speaker 1: it was like I realized, how I have not been

800
00:43:24,640 --> 00:43:27,520
Speaker 1: brushing my teeth long enough, which gross me out of myself.

801
00:43:28,160 --> 00:43:29,759
Speaker 1: But now I'm not doing that. I'm doing it the

802
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Speaker 1: right way now. Um, So you can subscribe and you

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804
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Speaker 1: So you're supposed to switch out your toothbrush every three much,

805
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Speaker 1: which is also something gross I haven't been doing. In fact,

806
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Speaker 1: I never knew that. Okay, we're all sick here, um,

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818
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Speaker 1: some clean mouth crazy me. I mean, did you just

819
00:44:30,800 --> 00:44:32,960
Speaker 1: watch it last night? I just watched it last night.

820
00:44:33,040 --> 00:44:34,480
Speaker 1: What were you just like putting it off because you

821
00:44:34,480 --> 00:44:36,759
Speaker 1: alread how bad it was? Well, yeah, you did not

822
00:44:36,840 --> 00:44:40,319
Speaker 1: give me great reviews. It was the first episode where

823
00:44:40,760 --> 00:44:43,560
Speaker 1: ever in the history of Gray's Anatomy that I've gotten

824
00:44:43,640 --> 00:44:46,480
Speaker 1: up and stopped watching to go do something else. Yeah,

825
00:44:46,640 --> 00:44:49,440
Speaker 1: it's not great, so she told me this, So I

826
00:44:49,440 --> 00:44:51,400
Speaker 1: obviously wanted to watch it before we did the podcast.

827
00:44:51,440 --> 00:44:54,880
Speaker 1: I watched it last night. Three minutes in I was

828
00:44:54,880 --> 00:44:59,359
Speaker 1: already over the episode. Could three minutes not have been

829
00:44:59,400 --> 00:45:03,120
Speaker 1: more bored? I almost want to boycott this week because

830
00:45:03,200 --> 00:45:07,440
Speaker 1: I'm offended that the show jumped the shark. No, no,

831
00:45:07,640 --> 00:45:10,200
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say that. They just focused on characters that

832
00:45:10,320 --> 00:45:13,759
Speaker 1: I have. I don't think I've ever cared less about

833
00:45:13,800 --> 00:45:17,360
Speaker 1: any three characters. And they all four? Who else Amelia

834
00:45:17,480 --> 00:45:21,600
Speaker 1: was in it, owing Megan, Teddy, Riggs, all of them

835
00:45:22,360 --> 00:45:26,080
Speaker 1: by So Riggs is gone. So anyone who shipped Meredith

836
00:45:26,120 --> 00:45:29,680
Speaker 1: and Riggs sorry for it. And Meredith was in the

837
00:45:29,680 --> 00:45:33,560
Speaker 1: episode for maybe five seconds even see it. She texted

838
00:45:33,640 --> 00:45:35,680
Speaker 1: him or something, and they both said like, thank you,

839
00:45:35,840 --> 00:45:40,160
Speaker 1: thank you. It was it was like the final Texas thing. Yes,

840
00:45:40,800 --> 00:45:44,320
Speaker 1: it was so bad. I'm so offended by it. I

841
00:45:45,239 --> 00:45:47,360
Speaker 1: don't know. Were we the only ones who thought it

842
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Speaker 1: was the best? Has a comment because she disagrees. Wow,

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00:45:53,719 --> 00:45:57,120
Speaker 1: nice closure to Riggs, like, Okay, did we need a

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00:45:57,160 --> 00:46:01,680
Speaker 1: full episode? Probably not, but you got to actually see

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Speaker 1: his relationship with I can't even remember her name, Megan.

846
00:46:05,360 --> 00:46:08,000
Speaker 1: What's her name? Megan? Megan? But I don't I didn't

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00:46:08,040 --> 00:46:10,799
Speaker 1: want to see it. But but now that's why he

848
00:46:10,880 --> 00:46:15,160
Speaker 1: went back to her, right, No, we don't know. So

849
00:46:15,560 --> 00:46:19,920
Speaker 1: like they all cheated on each other, Okay, okay, okay,

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00:46:19,960 --> 00:46:21,800
Speaker 1: but I think it was nice way they ended it

851
00:46:21,880 --> 00:46:24,640
Speaker 1: with Meredith like yeah, to think he was cheesy. But

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00:46:24,719 --> 00:46:28,279
Speaker 1: now Meredith has her mojo back, does she? Yeah? I

853
00:46:28,320 --> 00:46:31,359
Speaker 1: don't know. She's she never lost her mojo. She didn't

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00:46:31,360 --> 00:46:33,239
Speaker 1: need it back from Riggs. I got a lot of

855
00:46:33,480 --> 00:46:36,680
Speaker 1: tweets also when I said about that that were like, no,

856
00:46:36,920 --> 00:46:40,840
Speaker 1: that episode was bad, bad. I don't think one. It

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Speaker 1: may have been Erica. Some one was like I think

858
00:46:43,120 --> 00:46:48,680
Speaker 1: it tied it all. But other than that, it was terrible.

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Speaker 1: What happens? Does there a preview for next week? I

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00:46:50,880 --> 00:46:53,400
Speaker 1: have the TV guide synopsis for next week. It's just

861
00:46:53,440 --> 00:46:55,440
Speaker 1: two sentences, so you can decide if this is exciting

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00:46:55,600 --> 00:46:58,600
Speaker 1: or we're still going down a bad path. The episode

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00:46:58,640 --> 00:47:03,040
Speaker 1: is called come on Down to My Baby. Jackson decides

864
00:47:03,080 --> 00:47:05,440
Speaker 1: he needs some time Like it better? I already like

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00:47:05,480 --> 00:47:07,920
Speaker 1: it better. Jackson decides he needs some time off and

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00:47:07,960 --> 00:47:10,120
Speaker 1: invites the guys to join him on a day out

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Speaker 1: at sea, while Arizona, April, and Maggie treat a woman

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00:47:14,480 --> 00:47:18,239
Speaker 1: who was hiding a deadly secret. I already love it more.

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Speaker 1: Do you want to know why? Jack Jackson, Arizona a

870
00:47:22,520 --> 00:47:28,200
Speaker 1: people that we care? Well, really they got rid of No,

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00:47:28,239 --> 00:47:30,560
Speaker 1: they didn't get rid of well, they got rid of Riggs.

872
00:47:30,640 --> 00:47:35,320
Speaker 1: But everyone else is still there, Yeah, unfortunately, and Amlia Teddy.

873
00:47:35,360 --> 00:47:37,759
Speaker 1: They're all there, still gangs, all there, gangs all there.

874
00:47:38,640 --> 00:47:40,319
Speaker 1: I just hope that they don't focus on them at all,

875
00:47:40,360 --> 00:47:42,080
Speaker 1: since we had to watch a whole episode and we

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00:47:42,120 --> 00:47:44,880
Speaker 1: focus on the other people. Yeah, but and who's Jackson

877
00:47:44,920 --> 00:47:46,319
Speaker 1: taking out the boat? I feel like all the guys

878
00:47:46,320 --> 00:47:53,360
Speaker 1: are gone? Oh that's true? Chief Okay, okay, Ben Warren,

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00:47:53,560 --> 00:47:57,160
Speaker 1: isn't he gone yet. I was not gone yet. Okay,

880
00:47:57,760 --> 00:48:06,520
Speaker 1: just the dudes, just the they should invite. Okay, I'm

881
00:48:06,520 --> 00:48:09,480
Speaker 1: not going to boycott this week's because I'm just I

882
00:48:09,520 --> 00:48:13,480
Speaker 1: don't like unless it's really just anyone other than who

883
00:48:13,520 --> 00:48:15,359
Speaker 1: they focused on this week. I don't like when they

884
00:48:15,400 --> 00:48:20,799
Speaker 1: just do the like one dynamic storyline episodes. I find

885
00:48:20,840 --> 00:48:23,439
Speaker 1: them to be just kind of long and like I roll.

886
00:48:23,640 --> 00:48:25,400
Speaker 1: But now that Rigs is out of the way, maybe

887
00:48:25,640 --> 00:48:30,520
Speaker 1: Meredith and and Alex can really be together. I hate

888
00:48:30,520 --> 00:48:38,799
Speaker 1: that's so much. Um. Okay, so our ask a guy

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00:48:38,920 --> 00:48:41,440
Speaker 1: segment this week. We're gonna do it next week, but

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00:48:41,480 --> 00:48:44,160
Speaker 1: I want everyone to really think about it. Wait, and

891
00:48:44,200 --> 00:48:45,560
Speaker 1: what were we going to get to next week that

892
00:48:45,600 --> 00:48:47,640
Speaker 1: you said we'll get to that next week? I want

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00:48:47,680 --> 00:48:53,560
Speaker 1: to remember. Okay, Okay, The question is why do girls

894
00:48:53,680 --> 00:48:56,839
Speaker 1: over analyze text messages so much? I do not think

895
00:48:56,880 --> 00:48:58,879
Speaker 1: guys do this. I want to know if guys ever

896
00:48:58,920 --> 00:49:01,600
Speaker 1: read and reread and reread a text from a girl

897
00:49:01,640 --> 00:49:04,880
Speaker 1: and then read it to their friends. I can answer

898
00:49:04,880 --> 00:49:06,600
Speaker 1: that they don't. You don't think they do. I don't

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00:49:06,640 --> 00:49:09,399
Speaker 1: think they do it to the extent that we do it. Yeah,

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00:49:10,000 --> 00:49:12,320
Speaker 1: could you imagine a guy getting a text and this

901
00:49:12,480 --> 00:49:14,719
Speaker 1: obviously is from a girl that he is has interested

902
00:49:14,719 --> 00:49:17,480
Speaker 1: in and saying, do you think she's floating with me?

903
00:49:19,120 --> 00:49:21,239
Speaker 1: Should I? Should I write back right now? Or should

904
00:49:21,239 --> 00:49:24,920
Speaker 1: I do it in a few hours? Or show my friends?

905
00:49:24,960 --> 00:49:27,840
Speaker 1: What's a good response to that? And they say, what

906
00:49:27,880 --> 00:49:30,080
Speaker 1: do you think this means? What do you think he

907
00:49:30,120 --> 00:49:32,280
Speaker 1: means by that? And you know, what's the worst habit

908
00:49:32,480 --> 00:49:35,040
Speaker 1: that we should talk about? Why do I reread my

909
00:49:35,080 --> 00:49:37,920
Speaker 1: own text over and over and over again. They're sent,

910
00:49:38,239 --> 00:49:41,359
Speaker 1: they're out there, the damage is done, and I make

911
00:49:41,400 --> 00:49:44,200
Speaker 1: myself insane, insane. I don't do that. I used to

912
00:49:44,239 --> 00:49:46,440
Speaker 1: do that way more. I don't do it anymore. Stand

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Speaker 1: by because I just got a Slack message from a

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Speaker 1: guy that works over here, and he said wrong, meaning

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Speaker 1: they do it, they'd probably do it. It's gonna be

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Speaker 1: good next week, is there? Can we get guys do that?

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Speaker 1: So I guess we're wrong. Wow, Mark's on me, he said, guys,

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Speaker 1: Taylor Swift is in the building. Oh God, actually I

919
00:50:18,520 --> 00:50:27,080
Speaker 1: just walked in full blown Taylor HILLO. Guys, Taylor Swift. Um, okay, Well,

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Speaker 1: I feel like we talked about a lot. There's lot

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Speaker 1: to catch up on next week. Really excited for a

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Speaker 1: revamped of Gray's Anatomy this Thursday. Definitely, thank you so

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Speaker 1: we look forward to next week. Time of Death. We're

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