WEBVTT - ANCIENT GECKO TRADITIONS 0:00:00.120 --> 0:00:04.720 Oh, son, the enemy of your enemy. 0:00:04.880 --> 0:00:10.600 The enemy of my enemy. That's right, you know, the 0:00:10.680 --> 0:00:12.760 saying that the enemy of my enemy is my friend. 0:00:13.960 --> 0:00:15.240 That's exactly correct. 0:00:15.640 --> 0:00:18.120 I don't agree with that, because if you're the enemy 0:00:18.160 --> 0:00:22.360 of my enemy, why don't I don't. I don't know 0:00:22.440 --> 0:00:24.479 you. You could all you could. My enemy could not like 0:00:24.520 --> 0:00:25.520 you because you're a dick. 0:00:28.040 --> 0:00:29.319 Yeah, but at least we'd have I. 0:00:29.320 --> 0:00:32.880 Don't want to be friends with any enemies of anyone. 0:00:34.680 --> 0:00:38.239 More importantly, Lyle, do you know do you do you 0:00:38.400 --> 0:00:43.000 happen to know how many suh dudes it takes to 0:00:43.080 --> 0:00:44.160 screw in a light bulb? 0:00:46.560 --> 0:00:47.000 I do not. 0:00:48.720 --> 0:00:53.600 None. It's already lit. Bam. 0:00:53.640 --> 0:00:55.639 I'll talk to you soon. Have a good name? 0:00:55.680 --> 0:00:57.840 Do you know? Do you know how many narcissists it 0:00:57.920 --> 0:00:59.120 takes to screw in a label? 0:01:01.400 --> 0:01:04.880 Every weekend goes on the line, making your phone calls 0:01:04.959 --> 0:01:09.600 every night, Everything goes to teaching you of. 0:01:09.560 --> 0:01:10.240 Your life. 0:01:12.080 --> 0:01:19.919 Expert. Hello, my name is Lyle, and you are about 0:01:19.920 --> 0:01:22.840 to listen to audio highlights of a stream that I 0:01:22.920 --> 0:01:26.959 do every Monday, Wednesday and Friday at ten pm Eastern 0:01:26.959 --> 0:01:30.920 Standard Time on Twitch dot tv slash Lyle Forever called 0:01:31.000 --> 0:01:36.440 Therapy Gecko, which is a stream about a gecko talking 0:01:36.480 --> 0:01:40.319 to people on the phone. These are the handpicked best 0:01:40.440 --> 0:01:44.399 calls of the past few weeks of my stream, and 0:01:44.440 --> 0:01:46.119 I hope you guys enjoy it. 0:01:46.640 --> 0:01:55.320 Paul from to accept Press one send Hello, how are you? 0:01:56.440 --> 0:01:57.280 I'm good? How are you? 0:01:58.960 --> 0:01:59.440 I'm all right. 0:02:02.880 --> 0:02:09.120 I only just found you this this evening. Yes, and 0:02:09.880 --> 0:02:12.320 I noticed that there are just a lot of guys 0:02:12.360 --> 0:02:14.519 that call you. I thought I would call. 0:02:16.840 --> 0:02:20.120 You know it's it's inch. I you know, I feel like, 0:02:20.560 --> 0:02:23.400 you know, there used to be uh uh, well, it 0:02:23.400 --> 0:02:25.520 depends on every stream, but there there used to be 0:02:25.560 --> 0:02:31.560 a bit more of an equal division between male and 0:02:31.600 --> 0:02:34.440 female callers. But lease take whatever comes in. 0:02:35.160 --> 0:02:38.200 Well, yeah, yeah, you don't have any control over it. 0:02:41.200 --> 0:02:44.480 What's your name, dude, My name is Molly. 0:02:45.960 --> 0:02:49.720 Molly. Have we spoken before, Molly, not at all? 0:02:49.840 --> 0:02:50.040 Ever? 0:02:51.200 --> 0:02:56.000 No, you said you just found out about the stream. 0:02:56.560 --> 0:02:59.000 Yes, like like half an hour ago. 0:02:59.760 --> 0:03:01.320 H how'd you find it? 0:03:02.560 --> 0:03:07.440 Well? I am a mom of teenagers, and so they're 0:03:07.480 --> 0:03:13.160 trying to educate me and they kick you. And I 0:03:13.240 --> 0:03:17.919 just really like a lot of things about watching your background, 0:03:18.040 --> 0:03:21.840 and I like your music. I don't know about the Gecko, 0:03:21.880 --> 0:03:24.520 but I like what you're doing. I like it so 0:03:24.840 --> 0:03:29.040 and I just wanted to call in and interesting. 0:03:29.600 --> 0:03:33.200 So you're sold on every aspect of this except for 0:03:33.240 --> 0:03:34.040 the gecko parts. 0:03:35.120 --> 0:03:38.440 And that's like you're saying, see, but I only just 0:03:38.480 --> 0:03:40.880 turned I don't know a lot about you, so maybe 0:03:40.880 --> 0:03:46.680 that's really I'm not an informed person to express my opinions. 0:03:46.920 --> 0:03:48.880 No, no, no, no, Here, the whole point of this 0:03:49.120 --> 0:03:52.760 is that you the second you look at it, you 0:03:52.800 --> 0:03:57.200 have all the information that you need to know. I 0:03:57.240 --> 0:04:00.320 assure you you know you know everything you need to 0:04:00.360 --> 0:04:05.920 know to make an informed judgment. What is it? What 0:04:06.040 --> 0:04:08.440 is it about the Is it that you don't like 0:04:08.600 --> 0:04:11.640 the gecko aspect? Or is it that the echo aspect 0:04:11.680 --> 0:04:12.360 confuses you? 0:04:14.640 --> 0:04:18.960 Well, it's incongruous, like well, and I have you know, 0:04:19.040 --> 0:04:22.200 I'm just looking at this beautiful background and your lovely music, 0:04:23.040 --> 0:04:27.640 and I'm maybe you don't always have the beautiful background 0:04:27.680 --> 0:04:32.880 and the lovely music. And I like all the things 0:04:32.920 --> 0:04:36.040 you say, and if I was just listening to you, 0:04:36.160 --> 0:04:41.760 it would be different. But you know, you're a guy 0:04:42.360 --> 0:04:46.160 who is well spoken and have a good heart, and 0:04:46.200 --> 0:04:47.400 you're dressed up as a get. 0:04:47.320 --> 0:04:54.119 Go, so everything but the get But so everything checks 0:04:54.160 --> 0:04:57.320 out to you when you're going down the list, and 0:04:57.360 --> 0:05:00.279 then you get to he's dressed as a get and 0:05:00.279 --> 0:05:02.080 you're like, I don't know about that part. 0:05:02.240 --> 0:05:09.120 Well, yes, and maybe it's because maybe that's you know, 0:05:09.240 --> 0:05:11.800 it's just me though, I mean, I'm just the one 0:05:11.800 --> 0:05:13.880 that has this funny reaction to that. 0:05:15.040 --> 0:05:18.360 No, I'm not by the way you sound sort of skittish, 0:05:18.400 --> 0:05:20.320 as if you feel like you've offended me, you have not. 0:05:20.880 --> 0:05:23.760 I'm far more No, no, no, you haven't offended me 0:05:23.839 --> 0:05:26.960 at all. Okay, I don't want I don't want you 0:05:27.000 --> 0:05:29.640 to get that impression. I'm not offended you by I mean, 0:05:29.640 --> 0:05:32.520 even by the way you've said nothing offensive. But even 0:05:32.520 --> 0:05:37.760 if you did, I'm I'm not offended. I'm far more interested. 0:05:38.000 --> 0:05:43.520 I'm interested. That's that's the way I'm curious about the 0:05:44.760 --> 0:05:47.800 your perspective of of the gecko part. I'm not offended, 0:05:47.839 --> 0:05:50.279 but I'm not offend. I'm offended by really a lot. 0:05:50.400 --> 0:05:54.840 But right, Okay, good, I wish I could be the. 0:05:54.800 --> 0:05:59.200 Same the gecko part. All right, Well, hold on, so 0:05:59.240 --> 0:06:03.479 now that you know that I'm not offended, okay, do 0:06:03.520 --> 0:06:06.920 you not like does do you actively dislike the gacko part. 0:06:07.720 --> 0:06:08.960 No, I don't dislike it. 0:06:09.680 --> 0:06:11.960 No, it's. 0:06:13.560 --> 0:06:18.120 No, it makes me laugh. 0:06:21.640 --> 0:06:26.240 Can I ask you a question? Yes, how do you 0:06:26.320 --> 0:06:26.640 do it? 0:06:27.640 --> 0:06:27.880 Yes? 0:06:29.600 --> 0:06:31.560 Lately I've stopped doing it. 0:06:32.160 --> 0:06:33.279 You've stopped doing it? 0:06:35.520 --> 0:06:36.599 Yeah, I have. 0:06:38.160 --> 0:06:40.480 I just why why? 0:06:40.800 --> 0:06:44.600 Well, I don't know that. 0:06:45.120 --> 0:06:45.640 It's that. 0:06:49.600 --> 0:06:53.000 I lost my job a couple of weeks ago, and 0:06:53.080 --> 0:06:53.960 I really didn't like it. 0:06:54.920 --> 0:06:56.040 Sorry, you didn't like the. 0:06:56.040 --> 0:07:00.560 Job, Well, okay, I like the work as effect of it, 0:07:00.720 --> 0:07:02.919 you know, if I could just do my work, But 0:07:03.000 --> 0:07:09.720 it's always the political iola that I'm not really good at. 0:07:09.720 --> 0:07:15.960 I'm not a good schmoozer, and I don't I don't know. 0:07:16.040 --> 0:07:20.080 I never had climbing aspirations, you know, like I don't 0:07:20.080 --> 0:07:22.960 want to be the manager or the CEO or you 0:07:22.960 --> 0:07:26.200 know whatever, and I just want to do my work. 0:07:26.240 --> 0:07:28.240 But anyway, I'm not doing it anymore. I'm not doing 0:07:28.280 --> 0:07:31.920 that work anymore and I don't have to get up 0:07:31.960 --> 0:07:36.280 and do it. So for now I'm just not doing it. 0:07:36.880 --> 0:07:40.640 I'm having fun. Maybe I'm more like that Gavin guy or. 0:07:40.560 --> 0:07:43.240 Whatever, where I just I don't have. 0:07:43.200 --> 0:07:45.320 To please someone that I don't give a shit about. 0:07:45.720 --> 0:07:49.200 So I need to figure out what I do give 0:07:49.200 --> 0:07:51.640 a shit about and I'm kind of old to be 0:07:51.720 --> 0:07:57.960 figuring that out. But I'm liking staying home with I 0:07:58.000 --> 0:08:01.080 have the high schoolers, and you know, no one's going 0:08:01.120 --> 0:08:03.760 to school anymore, so they we've all been home for 0:08:03.840 --> 0:08:07.880 quite some time, and I'm just I'm kind of liking 0:08:08.040 --> 0:08:11.320 not doing it. I'm liking it. I know I can't 0:08:11.360 --> 0:08:13.320 not do it forever, but I hope I find find 0:08:13.360 --> 0:08:15.680 an it that is more likable. 0:08:16.920 --> 0:08:20.600 Well, I love this because you uh, you know, obviously 0:08:20.720 --> 0:08:23.240 you know losing your job is difficult, but it does 0:08:23.280 --> 0:08:25.680 sound like you're, you know, totally making the most of it. 0:08:26.840 --> 0:08:29.560 Yeah. Yeah, I got to find you. I got to 0:08:29.640 --> 0:08:33.800 like play around and find you. So that's a good. 0:08:33.600 --> 0:08:37.400 Thing I'd like to, you know, So tell me some 0:08:37.480 --> 0:08:41.400 other things that are like, you know, you're you're excited 0:08:41.440 --> 0:08:44.080 to do now that you you aren't working anymore. 0:08:47.120 --> 0:08:50.280 Well, like I can do stuff on a whim with 0:08:50.480 --> 0:08:55.280 friends who have different jobs, or you know, like I 0:08:55.280 --> 0:08:57.600 can do something on a middle of the day on 0:08:57.640 --> 0:08:58.280 a Wednesday. 0:08:58.720 --> 0:09:02.080 You can do it. You can go you can go, Gavin, right. 0:09:02.840 --> 0:09:07.160 Yes, you know, I could go walk with a friend 0:09:07.400 --> 0:09:12.000 or ski or don't know, I've been cooking a lot more. 0:09:12.240 --> 0:09:15.040 I don't know, just stuff that I didn't have time 0:09:15.080 --> 0:09:15.600 for before. 0:09:15.720 --> 0:09:20.160 So anyway, No, I love it's it's it is a 0:09:20.320 --> 0:09:24.400 very attractive thing to be able to uh just you know, 0:09:24.520 --> 0:09:30.400 on a random eleven thirty am on a Tuesday, instead 0:09:30.440 --> 0:09:32.600 of you know, having to be this place at this time, 0:09:32.720 --> 0:09:36.880 just go on a walk, you know, go fucking just 0:09:37.000 --> 0:09:39.360 do whatever you want, right. 0:09:39.440 --> 0:09:44.080 Like, go hike this trail that you're moving backwards as 0:09:44.120 --> 0:09:46.199 a get Have. 0:09:46.240 --> 0:09:49.360 You been able to develop any uh? Have you made 0:09:49.360 --> 0:09:53.200 any Do you think stronger developments in your relationship with 0:09:53.240 --> 0:09:55.640 your kids at all? Now that you know they're you're 0:09:55.640 --> 0:09:57.480 spending a lot more time with them. 0:09:58.600 --> 0:10:07.439 Yeah, I think so, Yes, one of them's nodding his head. Yet, Yeah. 0:10:07.600 --> 0:10:11.040 I have and more with my friends too, and I 0:10:11.440 --> 0:10:14.520 have a husband and so we've been doing more fun 0:10:14.559 --> 0:10:20.520 stuff too. I don't know, it's been good. But then 0:10:20.559 --> 0:10:22.439 you wonder, you know, when are you gonna wake up and. 0:10:25.920 --> 0:10:29.000 Figure out the next thing. That's the hard part, because 0:10:29.080 --> 0:10:30.600 I don't want it to be the same. I don't 0:10:30.600 --> 0:10:32.640 want it to be the same it. I want it 0:10:32.640 --> 0:10:33.400 to be a different it. 0:10:35.800 --> 0:10:38.719 Well you know it sounds like, well it sounds like 0:10:38.760 --> 0:10:41.920 you're very much enjoying the thing that you're doing right now. 0:10:42.840 --> 0:10:43.199 Mm hmm. 0:10:44.320 --> 0:10:44.520 You know. 0:10:44.760 --> 0:10:46.800 I mean again, I'm not a real I don't know 0:10:46.840 --> 0:10:49.960 how much I'm not a real therapist or a real 0:10:50.040 --> 0:10:55.720 person or I'm a lizard made of code. But yeah, 0:10:56.360 --> 0:11:00.320 you know, I don't know. I wouldn't stress to hard 0:11:00.320 --> 0:11:04.320 about what the next thing is, especially if you're having 0:11:04.360 --> 0:11:06.199 a good time in the current thing. 0:11:06.840 --> 0:11:09.560 Right So you're just saying be here now. 0:11:10.520 --> 0:11:12.199 Yeah, it sounds like what you got going on now 0:11:12.280 --> 0:11:13.840 is great. I would spend as much time as you 0:11:13.880 --> 0:11:17.520 can just you know, really being in the moment of 0:11:17.880 --> 0:11:22.000 hanging out with your kids and of really enjoying your freedom, 0:11:22.400 --> 0:11:25.760 you know, because next is not even really ever guaranteed. 0:11:26.480 --> 0:11:27.560 True, That is true? 0:11:28.600 --> 0:11:28.920 True? 0:11:31.760 --> 0:11:35.000 Well, thank you, of course. How did your kids find me? 0:11:36.400 --> 0:11:42.599 Don't honestly, I don't know. They're trying to they want. 0:11:42.840 --> 0:11:44.960 I don't even know what you can talk about on this, 0:11:45.160 --> 0:11:54.319 but me what streaming is to inform me about streaming 0:11:54.840 --> 0:11:59.160 and that there are people who who do this and 0:11:59.240 --> 0:12:01.079 this is what they do and this is their it. 0:12:01.760 --> 0:12:04.920 And so you came up as. 0:12:04.280 --> 0:12:09.480 An example what sparked your interest in the world of streaming. 0:12:10.520 --> 0:12:14.839 Because because I've been told and I don't know if 0:12:14.840 --> 0:12:17.960 I believe it, but I've heard that, and I can 0:12:18.040 --> 0:12:21.080 hardly believe it. I really can hardly believe. And I 0:12:21.160 --> 0:12:25.320 have teenage boys and they sit and they watch people 0:12:25.480 --> 0:12:28.800 play games. And this is a monetized thing. You can 0:12:28.840 --> 0:12:32.719 make money as the person doing the thing. And I 0:12:32.800 --> 0:12:36.199 was told that it can even be as dumb as knitting, 0:12:36.240 --> 0:12:38.360 because okay, I like to knit just for a hobby. 0:12:38.559 --> 0:12:40.800 That's the thing that I like. Oh you can just 0:12:40.840 --> 0:12:43.000 sit there and knit and people will watch you. And 0:12:43.080 --> 0:12:45.880 I just cannot believe this. See this, what you are 0:12:45.920 --> 0:12:49.520 doing makes sense to me. I understand what you are 0:12:49.559 --> 0:12:54.680 doing because you're helping people, You're talking to them. But 0:12:57.640 --> 0:13:00.440 it's true though, because my kids do watch people play 0:13:00.440 --> 0:13:03.080 a game. They are not playing the game, they are 0:13:03.160 --> 0:13:06.640 just watching it. I don't know what to think about it, 0:13:06.720 --> 0:13:11.280 and so they're just showing me these things and I'm 0:13:11.320 --> 0:13:14.920 sort of flabbergasted by it. But you make sense to me. 0:13:15.920 --> 0:13:18.720 What you are doing makes sense to me. But watching 0:13:18.760 --> 0:13:21.600 the games, I can't have them that. But it's very popular. 0:13:22.400 --> 0:13:26.040 That's funny. I will tell you even I know, I 0:13:26.040 --> 0:13:31.400 will tell you as someone that does it, if flabbergasts 0:13:31.480 --> 0:13:36.640 me as much as it flabbergass you. Right, but people 0:13:36.679 --> 0:13:41.920 do it? Yeah, it's Do your kids have like favorite 0:13:41.920 --> 0:13:44.480 streamers they watch, like Fortnite or something like that. 0:13:45.400 --> 0:13:53.520 No, not that one. I don't know if they're overwatching Minecraft, 0:13:53.800 --> 0:13:56.880 that's what they're they're telling me. I know Fortnite is 0:13:56.920 --> 0:13:58.560 not a thing in their house, but I do know 0:13:58.640 --> 0:14:01.440 that overwatching and Minecraft is. 0:14:02.480 --> 0:14:05.360 People are out there making People are out there going 0:14:05.559 --> 0:14:10.800 fucking nuts making a billion dollars having other people watch 0:14:10.840 --> 0:14:11.920 them play Minecraft. 0:14:12.040 --> 0:14:15.600 It's a thing, and I can't understand that that would 0:14:16.080 --> 0:14:19.280 just make me go crazy, even as the person doing it. 0:14:19.880 --> 0:14:21.760 But I mean, I guess that the money was rolling 0:14:21.800 --> 0:14:23.120 in it wouldn't be so good. 0:14:23.440 --> 0:14:23.880 I don't know. 0:14:24.400 --> 0:14:27.080 Now, let me ask you, which is now the idea? 0:14:27.160 --> 0:14:30.880 Now you're now okay, I know that you're flabbergasted by it. 0:14:30.920 --> 0:14:33.240 But now if you can accept the fact that it 0:14:33.320 --> 0:14:38.120 is something that people do, yes, that is a has 0:14:38.160 --> 0:14:43.000 been proven to be lucrative for some people. Would you 0:14:43.280 --> 0:14:47.800 enjoy streaming just fucking sitting there and knitting? 0:14:49.080 --> 0:14:52.360 I would, I would do it, but I just cannot 0:14:52.400 --> 0:14:55.600 believe that it could. I would like to try it. 0:14:56.560 --> 0:15:00.280 You Oh my god, you gotta uh, you gotta start 0:15:00.320 --> 0:15:02.280 a stream. And by the way, I know that you 0:15:02.360 --> 0:15:04.440 were saying like, oh, I'm uh you know, I'm getting 0:15:04.480 --> 0:15:07.760 older and whatever that the I want you to know something. 0:15:08.160 --> 0:15:10.000 And by the way, I've this is probably the longest 0:15:10.040 --> 0:15:14.800 phone call taken tonight because and like a lot of people, 0:15:16.160 --> 0:15:20.040 you know, uh, are like, oh, I don't I don't 0:15:20.080 --> 0:15:22.520 want to stream or make tiktoks because I'm too old 0:15:22.600 --> 0:15:24.680 or I'm not like everybody's doing it. But but here's 0:15:24.680 --> 0:15:26.920 the thing. I think that that's your like that makes 0:15:26.920 --> 0:15:30.920 you more interesting, you know, like I'm talking to I'm 0:15:30.960 --> 0:15:33.600 I'm I'm more I'm interested in you because you're different 0:15:33.880 --> 0:15:36.600 from the like, you know, the average person who has 0:15:36.640 --> 0:15:38.840 been calling in. So to me, the idea that you know, 0:15:39.680 --> 0:15:42.600 when you go out like on a on a place 0:15:42.720 --> 0:15:45.360 like twitch or on a place like Reddit and you stream, 0:15:45.720 --> 0:15:49.240 I think you're more interesting because you're you're different. So 0:15:49.240 --> 0:15:51.240 so so these things that people are like, oh, I'm 0:15:51.240 --> 0:15:54.280 too old to do this, I think it's it's you're 0:15:54.840 --> 0:15:56.760 you're different from everyone else, and that's a reason you 0:15:56.800 --> 0:15:57.440 should do it. 0:15:58.520 --> 0:16:01.640 Okay, that's what my son says and he but I 0:16:01.760 --> 0:16:04.640 just it's hard to believe him. So we're doing we're 0:16:04.680 --> 0:16:07.720 doing research right now. So you're very you're helping me. 0:16:08.120 --> 0:16:10.840 Yeah, Okay, you gotta let us know where where where 0:16:10.880 --> 0:16:13.960 we can find your knitting stream because I'm in you're 0:16:13.960 --> 0:16:17.040 getting while we're gonna radio and shoot, try Reddit too 0:16:17.040 --> 0:16:20.400 because redd it's a great place for that kind of stuff. Okay, 0:16:20.480 --> 0:16:23.720 all right, Well, sorry if I talked to your ear 0:16:23.760 --> 0:16:25.120 off too much about that, but. 0:16:25.240 --> 0:16:28.320 No, you're you're a lovely cantle. 0:16:29.480 --> 0:16:32.160 Thank you, well, thank you, thank you for calling and 0:16:32.160 --> 0:16:35.800 do what you say Your name was Molly, Well, thank 0:16:35.840 --> 0:16:37.640 you for calling him, Molly. I'll talk to you again soon. 0:16:38.640 --> 0:16:41.520 All right, good night, good night. 0:16:45.200 --> 0:17:03.760 All from ethop. 0:16:57.040 --> 0:16:57.200 Is this. 0:16:57.400 --> 0:17:01.440 Would you say your name was ian Ian? 0:17:02.560 --> 0:17:08.560 Yeah? I A and Ian I A n Ian Yeah. 0:17:08.680 --> 0:17:10.399 Yeah. It's a lot of letters. 0:17:10.840 --> 0:17:12.920 It's not a lot of letters at all. Is there 0:17:12.920 --> 0:17:16.040 a two Can you think of any two letter names? 0:17:16.880 --> 0:17:17.720 Uh? Joe? 0:17:18.160 --> 0:17:31.000 Jay, uh, oh Ed ed Yeah, Mo and Mo Mo's. 0:17:27.840 --> 0:17:32.600 Not's not a real man. Joe isn't even a real 0:17:32.640 --> 0:17:35.560 no one. No one spells her name Joe like that. 0:17:36.840 --> 0:17:38.720 I don't know a guy I work with those of it 0:17:38.800 --> 0:17:39.160 that way? 0:17:41.600 --> 0:17:43.280 Is he what's he like? Is he a good person? 0:17:44.760 --> 0:17:48.680 Uh No, He's a piece of ship. And it's uh 0:17:49.400 --> 0:17:56.200 short for like something fucked up. It's like not Joseph, 0:17:56.640 --> 0:18:02.480 it's like some crazy hillbilly name, uh like Jo's Anthemyum 0:18:02.600 --> 0:18:03.080 or something. 0:18:03.400 --> 0:18:06.680 But anyway, why is jose Anteonum a piece of ship? 0:18:08.840 --> 0:18:13.160 It's just like a misogynist, like kind of like subtlely eracists. 0:18:13.960 --> 0:18:18.040 You know, I don't know, blue collar job. 0:18:18.960 --> 0:18:23.560 You know, I expected Joe's anthony. Yeah, I'm disappointed. 0:18:24.680 --> 0:18:26.480 Yeah, we all did well. 0:18:27.400 --> 0:18:30.879 Ian, Yeah, what is your life like? 0:18:33.600 --> 0:18:40.640 What is my life like? Full of like a lot 0:18:40.640 --> 0:18:45.960 of routines, you know, Like I got my morning routine, 0:18:46.119 --> 0:18:50.480 I got my work routine, work on a bunch of 0:18:51.640 --> 0:18:56.200 dumb fancy cars I don't care about and fix them 0:18:56.240 --> 0:19:00.800 and come home and do the same ship that I 0:19:00.800 --> 0:19:05.800 always do. Sounds pretty boring, but. 0:19:07.960 --> 0:19:08.320 I don't know. 0:19:08.960 --> 0:19:11.680 These are traditions. 0:19:12.040 --> 0:19:14.240 Yeah yeah, mm hmm. 0:19:15.640 --> 0:19:21.520 Well do you do you consider routines traditions? 0:19:23.280 --> 0:19:29.760 Well, I would say so, I have one that you 0:19:29.840 --> 0:19:37.840 might find kind of interesting. Every day after work I 0:19:37.880 --> 0:19:44.479 get home and like sanitize one of the couches that 0:19:44.520 --> 0:19:51.159 I have, like burn some incense and like spray some 0:19:51.359 --> 0:19:53.000 for breeze on it and ship. 0:19:56.080 --> 0:19:56.240 I. 0:19:56.400 --> 0:20:05.159 Uh. I had a buddy of mine, uh leave rehab 0:20:05.520 --> 0:20:11.040 against medical advice, and he asked me if a friend 0:20:11.080 --> 0:20:15.160 of his and him could stay at my house since 0:20:15.160 --> 0:20:18.399 he had nowhere else to go. I said, yeah, sure, 0:20:18.960 --> 0:20:22.560 you know, I don't want him sleeping on the street. 0:20:22.720 --> 0:20:27.080 And his buddy, who I had met that night, fucking 0:20:27.520 --> 0:20:28.679 died on my couch. 0:20:29.400 --> 0:20:30.000 Oh god. 0:20:31.680 --> 0:20:37.760 So well, I mean I didn't know the guy. Uh, 0:20:37.880 --> 0:20:39.120 it's a little weird. 0:20:39.200 --> 0:20:43.680 And that must be uh traumatizing experience. 0:20:45.359 --> 0:20:48.760 Uh it was look especially weird because I didn't know 0:20:49.000 --> 0:20:51.760 when I walked right past the guy as I left 0:20:51.760 --> 0:20:52.440 to go to work. 0:20:52.960 --> 0:20:53.520 Oh wow. 0:20:53.680 --> 0:20:56.560 And then I like got a call when I was 0:20:56.600 --> 0:20:59.240 at work and I was like, do you know such 0:20:59.280 --> 0:21:03.000 and such And I was like, I know he was 0:21:03.040 --> 0:21:04.440 at your house and he's dead. 0:21:04.720 --> 0:21:06.399 I'm like, what the fuck? 0:21:07.800 --> 0:21:07.960 Uh? 0:21:08.880 --> 0:21:12.760 So yeah, that was a little weird, Like I hadn't 0:21:12.800 --> 0:21:16.000 like really I thought that I had seen a dead body, 0:21:16.080 --> 0:21:19.280 but I guess I had been a dead body because 0:21:19.359 --> 0:21:23.919 I like walked past one going to work in my 0:21:24.040 --> 0:21:28.040 living room on my couch. So like that couch is 0:21:28.200 --> 0:21:32.240 like kind of feels a little weird to me right now. 0:21:33.840 --> 0:21:37.000 But it was the first piece of furniture that I 0:21:37.040 --> 0:21:44.760 ever bought new with my own money. So I don't 0:21:44.800 --> 0:21:48.040 really want to get rid of it. Yeah, I don't 0:21:48.160 --> 0:21:50.080 really want to get rid of it. But it's like 0:21:51.040 --> 0:21:52.080 gotta be haunted. 0:21:52.119 --> 0:21:55.680 At this point, you think it's haunted. 0:21:56.640 --> 0:21:58.960 I'm going a dude died on it. I mean, there's 0:21:59.000 --> 0:22:01.919 got to be some sort of bad juju. I always 0:22:01.920 --> 0:22:04.200 lose at Mario Kart when I sit on that couch. 0:22:05.200 --> 0:22:08.080 That would suck to die and then get b ring 0:22:08.160 --> 0:22:10.440 car be put in the in the body of. 0:22:10.359 --> 0:22:16.320 A couch, right, I mean, there's a lot of cooler 0:22:16.359 --> 0:22:20.920 things you could be, like manifested into. 0:22:22.560 --> 0:22:23.200 Absolutely. 0:22:24.400 --> 0:22:29.000 Yeah, I don't think like couch would be, you know, 0:22:29.119 --> 0:22:32.199 my number one. I don't know what would be my 0:22:32.320 --> 0:22:34.439 number one, but I don't think it would be a couch, 0:22:35.640 --> 0:22:37.679 especially in SCBs minimal. 0:22:39.040 --> 0:22:40.399 I mean, all right, so I know you didn't know 0:22:40.440 --> 0:22:43.320 this guy very well, but how did your friend react 0:22:43.440 --> 0:22:43.920 to all this? 0:22:45.840 --> 0:22:47.280 He was real fucked up? 0:22:48.560 --> 0:22:52.879 Yeah good. I mean my buddy Chris met him in 0:22:53.520 --> 0:23:02.760 rehab and convinced this dude to leave with him. And 0:23:02.800 --> 0:23:08.840 then when he died. He was like fucked up because 0:23:09.400 --> 0:23:15.520 you know, he convinced this guy to leave rehab and 0:23:15.560 --> 0:23:20.399 then also convinced him or like said that it was 0:23:20.480 --> 0:23:23.439 cool if he stayed at my house and told me 0:23:23.600 --> 0:23:25.920 that it was gonna be cool if he stayed at 0:23:25.960 --> 0:23:31.040 my house, and then I had a dead guy on 0:23:31.080 --> 0:23:37.359 my couch. And you know, he told this kid, life's 0:23:37.359 --> 0:23:40.120 going to be cool if you leave rehab, and then 0:23:40.119 --> 0:23:47.760 he fucking died. So kids stay in rehab. Rehabs a 0:23:47.760 --> 0:23:48.160 good thing. 0:23:49.200 --> 0:23:54.760 I second that sentiment. Yeah, well, thank you for sharing. 0:23:54.520 --> 0:24:00.680 Ann anytime, you know, next time someone on my cause, 0:24:00.680 --> 0:24:01.120 I'll let. 0:24:01.040 --> 0:24:02.560 You know here, give me a call. 0:24:03.640 --> 0:24:06.399 Yeah, all right, I'll. 0:24:12.040 --> 0:24:16.800 Pull from to accept press one. 0:24:17.920 --> 0:24:21.320 Hello. Oh my god, Oh my god. 0:24:23.160 --> 0:24:25.359 Hello, how are you? 0:24:25.359 --> 0:24:26.200 What's your name? 0:24:26.280 --> 0:24:26.560 Dude? 0:24:27.520 --> 0:24:30.800 Damn Sam? Have my own speaker found us? 0:24:30.840 --> 0:24:30.879 Like? 0:24:30.920 --> 0:24:31.920 Can you speak up a tiny bit? 0:24:32.520 --> 0:24:35.320 I'm on like really shitty headphones and I could unplug 0:24:35.359 --> 0:24:36.440 you and maybe you'll be okay. 0:24:36.440 --> 0:24:39.439 I'm plugging me, plug me back into the main frame. 0:24:40.080 --> 0:24:43.040 Do Oh what the hell is? 0:24:43.359 --> 0:24:43.479 Uh? 0:24:43.840 --> 0:24:49.280 Say say something again? Much better? Much better? All right? 0:24:49.320 --> 0:24:50.000 How are you doing? Sam? 0:24:52.119 --> 0:24:53.720 I mean, I'm at a point in my life where 0:24:53.720 --> 0:24:56.600 I'm like thrilled to have gotten through to a fucking therapy. 0:24:56.680 --> 0:25:04.600 Geck question, Well, look we're here. Look, we've both arrived 0:25:04.600 --> 0:25:10.520 at this point together, thank God, like should yeah, it 0:25:10.560 --> 0:25:13.600 would be terrible if we were alone here have we 0:25:13.640 --> 0:25:14.399 spoken before? 0:25:14.960 --> 0:25:16.160 No? Never? 0:25:16.960 --> 0:25:19.159 I wish all right, So. 0:25:19.200 --> 0:25:20.560 You're at what do you? What do you? What has 0:25:20.600 --> 0:25:22.600 gotten to you? What has gotten you to this point 0:25:22.600 --> 0:25:24.119 in your life in which you are talking to a 0:25:24.520 --> 0:25:25.480 lizard on the computer. 0:25:26.320 --> 0:25:29.280 I've been living abroad that I don't know if you 0:25:29.280 --> 0:25:31.680 can tell her my accent. I'm an American. I lived 0:25:31.720 --> 0:25:35.119 in Europe and I just went through like kind of 0:25:35.160 --> 0:25:40.760 a horrific midlife breakup that was super unexpected and like 0:25:41.000 --> 0:25:42.560 thirty five and single. 0:25:43.920 --> 0:25:46.040 You live in You live in Europe? Right now you're calling? 0:25:46.080 --> 0:25:47.320 Where are you calling me from? 0:25:47.840 --> 0:25:49.080 I'm calling from Spain. 0:25:50.640 --> 0:25:53.480 How does that work? Because you have an American fund number. 0:25:53.680 --> 0:25:55.560 I have a Google Voice account. 0:25:55.840 --> 0:25:57.840 I think technically I'm not the house one. 0:25:58.440 --> 0:26:00.720 Wait that's interesting because I I thought, I know, I 0:26:01.600 --> 0:26:03.120 this is a side note, but I thought all the time, 0:26:03.119 --> 0:26:05.360 like what if I just wanted to like fucking move 0:26:05.400 --> 0:26:08.400 to Peru and keep doing the stream. But I was cold, 0:26:08.600 --> 0:26:09.680 my fucking cool voice work. 0:26:10.280 --> 0:26:13.119 You totally could as long as you set it up 0:26:13.160 --> 0:26:14.160 while you're still in the US. 0:26:14.200 --> 0:26:17.199 It's so old, okay anyway, all right, So what what 0:26:17.400 --> 0:26:19.520 brought you to Spain? And you've been living there for 0:26:19.600 --> 0:26:20.880 all the pandemic as well? 0:26:21.240 --> 0:26:24.040 Yeah, I've been here since twenty sixteen. 0:26:24.440 --> 0:26:26.680 Basically what brought you to Spain? 0:26:28.640 --> 0:26:30.600 I mean, there were a lot of good reasons to 0:26:30.680 --> 0:26:34.080 leave the US in twenty sixteen, and yeah, I kind 0:26:34.080 --> 0:26:38.640 of rode those all out in Europe for as many years. 0:26:38.720 --> 0:26:42.720 Just like, what do you what do you do in Spain? 0:26:43.560 --> 0:26:44.400 I'm a student? 0:26:48.080 --> 0:26:48.679 What do you study? 0:26:49.720 --> 0:26:51.000 I study architecture? 0:26:52.080 --> 0:26:54.840 Okay, worrd So you're you're going over to all the 0:26:54.920 --> 0:27:02.880 duomos Spanish? That's oh, come Arian failing? 0:27:03.359 --> 0:27:03.679 All right? 0:27:03.720 --> 0:27:06.080 So who is this? Who is this person you broke 0:27:06.160 --> 0:27:06.320 up with? 0:27:07.240 --> 0:27:07.359 Uh? 0:27:07.520 --> 0:27:10.320 So this is a classmate of mine? 0:27:10.680 --> 0:27:12.840 Uh I don't know. 0:27:12.920 --> 0:27:15.000 So it's kind of an intense program. We spent a 0:27:15.040 --> 0:27:21.000 lot of time together, and I don't know, it's kind 0:27:21.000 --> 0:27:25.560 of weird to be a student in your thirties, and 0:27:25.680 --> 0:27:27.480 I think I just kind of assumed it was never 0:27:27.520 --> 0:27:32.119 gonna like happen for me. Like family planning, trials wise, 0:27:32.680 --> 0:27:33.960 and then I met this person. 0:27:34.040 --> 0:27:35.639 I was super excited. 0:27:36.119 --> 0:27:40.560 And we were together for three years, and COVID and 0:27:40.640 --> 0:27:43.560 all that shit kind of just pushed everything to like 0:27:43.600 --> 0:27:44.479 a breaking point. 0:27:44.520 --> 0:27:45.840 And now here, I am. 0:27:46.760 --> 0:27:48.800 How did you how to COVID push things to the 0:27:48.960 --> 0:27:51.880 to a breaking point? I don't. 0:27:52.119 --> 0:27:55.240 I mean, I've done my best to like be self 0:27:55.240 --> 0:27:56.280 reflective about it. 0:27:56.600 --> 0:28:01.240 And then I mean, I don't know, spending. 0:28:00.880 --> 0:28:04.200 A lot of time in one tiny space with another 0:28:04.240 --> 0:28:08.240 person for months and months at the time, it's like 0:28:08.280 --> 0:28:10.080 a lot. 0:28:12.640 --> 0:28:16.600 Yeah, well, yeah, I mean you're a globe trotter type 0:28:16.600 --> 0:28:18.800 of person, Isn't that? Is that what you guys wanted? 0:28:18.920 --> 0:28:21.199 Is that what you wanted? Was it? Was it? Do 0:28:21.280 --> 0:28:24.560 you want to settle down and have kids? 0:28:25.480 --> 0:28:28.080 It's weird because I didn't really think that that was 0:28:28.119 --> 0:28:31.679 who I was. And then like, yeah, they say that 0:28:31.840 --> 0:28:35.360 shit happens in your brain when you hit like thirty 0:28:35.680 --> 0:28:38.040 if you're a lady. And then suddenly I was just 0:28:38.040 --> 0:28:42.240 thinking about it all the time, and I like never 0:28:42.320 --> 0:28:45.640 wanted kids, and then suddenly I had like I could 0:28:45.640 --> 0:28:48.440 see a path forward into that kind of life. And 0:28:48.520 --> 0:28:50.800 it doesn't I don't know, it doesn't fit me at all. 0:28:50.880 --> 0:28:52.840 But at the same time, it's sort of this thing 0:28:52.880 --> 0:28:55.360 that I just wanted so much with this one person 0:28:56.320 --> 0:28:59.400 and that's gone. I'm kind of like, well, shit, now 0:28:59.400 --> 0:29:00.480 what the fuck do I do? 0:29:02.160 --> 0:29:02.360 Well? 0:29:02.360 --> 0:29:02.400 What? 0:29:02.600 --> 0:29:02.840 What? 0:29:02.840 --> 0:29:02.880 What? 0:29:04.200 --> 0:29:07.760 Uh? What the fuck do you do? What is your plan? 0:29:08.400 --> 0:29:10.720 What have your thoughts to do. 0:29:10.800 --> 0:29:15.240 That I don't know? Like my plan was called therapy echo. 0:29:15.520 --> 0:29:15.640 Uh. 0:29:16.120 --> 0:29:19.080 I've got as far as coming up with like good 0:29:19.160 --> 0:29:22.680 reasons not to like return home with my tail between 0:29:22.680 --> 0:29:26.960 my legs, like keep doing this Europe thing, finish my degree, 0:29:28.120 --> 0:29:30.959 try to make a life for myself here, even if 0:29:30.960 --> 0:29:32.080 it's hard. 0:29:32.760 --> 0:29:34.880 But then, like you've been there for four years, would 0:29:34.920 --> 0:29:38.880 you already say that you have a life for yourself. 0:29:40.680 --> 0:29:41.240 In a way? 0:29:41.720 --> 0:29:45.920 But it's I don't know, man, Like there's one kind 0:29:45.960 --> 0:29:47.800 of life. There's the life that you have with the 0:29:47.840 --> 0:29:51.800 like your friends, and then there's that other kind of life, 0:29:51.880 --> 0:29:54.240 that adult kind of life that you have with like 0:29:55.080 --> 0:29:56.760 I don't know, a person that you choose to like 0:29:56.880 --> 0:30:04.280 exchange genetic material with, and like, fuck, dude, I don't know. 0:30:04.320 --> 0:30:07.720 There's there's just something very like odd about that whole equation. 0:30:07.880 --> 0:30:10.080 I could have a life here, I could have a 0:30:10.120 --> 0:30:12.560 cool life. I could go out, I could have friends, 0:30:12.600 --> 0:30:15.760 I could live in Spain. Spain's beautiful. But at the 0:30:15.760 --> 0:30:18.440 same time, I just feel like bigly deficient if I 0:30:18.440 --> 0:30:21.840 don't do this other thing that is still like classically human. 0:30:23.360 --> 0:30:27.479 Well, by the way, I'm not I totally fucked up 0:30:27.520 --> 0:30:29.680 starting advice show because I actually have no real advice 0:30:29.720 --> 0:30:38.240 to offer anyone. But hit, what was I gonna say? 0:30:38.400 --> 0:30:40.760 This site this thing that you want to, like you 0:30:40.760 --> 0:30:43.920 have a kid? Where Here's all I would say if 0:30:43.920 --> 0:30:47.000 I were thinking about this, if I were you, like, 0:30:47.320 --> 0:30:50.720 I would look at your desires and like really cut 0:30:50.760 --> 0:30:53.080 to the bone of like where do they come from? 0:30:53.240 --> 0:30:55.880 Because look, you could examine your desire to have a 0:30:55.960 --> 0:31:00.840 kid and be like, this is something I really want 0:31:00.880 --> 0:31:04.400 to do, or maybe you cut to the bone of 0:31:04.400 --> 0:31:07.800 it and you're like, this is something I really feel 0:31:07.840 --> 0:31:12.680 like women my age are should do. Which are those 0:31:12.760 --> 0:31:17.320 two completely different motivations? You know, you might I mean, 0:31:17.360 --> 0:31:19.479 I don't know. I might be speaking preemptively. You might 0:31:19.480 --> 0:31:21.760 have already kind of done that thought process, But that 0:31:22.000 --> 0:31:24.680 would be the first sort of thing I would consider doing. 0:31:24.920 --> 0:31:28.800 Is really just doing some detective work on your own 0:31:29.360 --> 0:31:32.600 desires and where they come from and if it's from 0:31:32.640 --> 0:31:38.320 you or from more so societal expectations. 0:31:39.680 --> 0:31:42.800 I mean, that's valid. It's probably a thing I need 0:31:42.800 --> 0:31:45.960 to do, I guess. At the same time, it's kind 0:31:45.960 --> 0:31:49.720 of like, I don't know. I think the conception of 0:31:49.720 --> 0:31:53.280 like what makes the lady a valid lady and me 0:31:53.440 --> 0:31:56.280 having like a baller career is not going to put 0:31:56.280 --> 0:31:57.160 me in that camp. 0:31:58.640 --> 0:32:01.480 On the other day, who who decides what makes someone 0:32:01.520 --> 0:32:02.400 a valid lady? 0:32:05.040 --> 0:32:05.320 Dude? 0:32:06.840 --> 0:32:10.479 If we're being real, like, I can have a great career, 0:32:10.640 --> 0:32:14.480 but I'm never going to be able to Like, I 0:32:14.480 --> 0:32:19.920 don't know, there's just something slightly sucked about a woman 0:32:20.000 --> 0:32:25.240 with no kids with a career. I've experienced it myself, 0:32:25.480 --> 0:32:29.320 like having female bosses that didn't have kids, and. 0:32:30.160 --> 0:32:32.240 Upon your female bosses that didn't have kids, like, what 0:32:32.280 --> 0:32:33.120 did you think about them? 0:32:34.000 --> 0:32:37.200 I sometimes got the vibe that like their job was 0:32:37.240 --> 0:32:39.280 all there was and it was this thing that they 0:32:39.280 --> 0:32:42.400 put all of their energy and like self worth into. 0:32:42.480 --> 0:32:44.280 And I don't want to be in that position where 0:32:44.320 --> 0:32:45.760 my job is the thing that I put all my 0:32:45.920 --> 0:32:48.280 energy and self worth into, you know what I mean? 0:32:49.040 --> 0:32:52.800 I yeah, you know, i I'm like pretty I agree 0:32:52.800 --> 0:32:57.080 with you on like the diversification of your life portfolio, 0:32:59.240 --> 0:33:02.440 you know, trying to make sure that you're not staking 0:33:02.480 --> 0:33:05.720 everything on your your work. But I mean, look, this 0:33:05.800 --> 0:33:09.680 is by the way. Also, like, dude, you're only thirty five, 0:33:09.720 --> 0:33:13.160 You're not fucking sixty. You know you could still meet 0:33:13.960 --> 0:33:16.000 you haven't. You haven't a run out the time to 0:33:16.040 --> 0:33:19.280 go meet people and to meet you know, go on dates. 0:33:19.320 --> 0:33:22.240 There's plenty of people that are over thirty that are dating. 0:33:22.560 --> 0:33:23.880 You know, you're not. You're not the only one in 0:33:23.920 --> 0:33:25.440 that camp. You know now, you're not. You're not You're 0:33:25.480 --> 0:33:27.720 not doomed. If that's what you want to do, It's 0:33:27.720 --> 0:33:35.800 not too late. I think thirty five is pretty young. Okay, 0:33:36.720 --> 0:33:40.680 well look you're young. Look, I you're fucking young until 0:33:40.680 --> 0:33:43.680 you're dead. If you were dead, it would be it 0:33:43.680 --> 0:33:45.000 would be too late. I think. 0:33:46.040 --> 0:33:50.600 Okay, thank you. I guess that's my advice for fuck 0:33:51.600 --> 0:33:52.480 just don't be dead. 0:33:53.000 --> 0:33:56.320 Don't be dead. Well, uh, would you say your name was? 0:33:57.640 --> 0:33:57.880 Yeah? 0:33:59.080 --> 0:34:01.360 Well you have a good rest of the night. 0:34:01.320 --> 0:34:05.920 Sam, Thank you, goodbye. 0:34:07.240 --> 0:34:15.680 All from Malfoy, Malfoy and then Malfoy. 0:34:15.920 --> 0:34:19.279 Hello, Yes it's Malfoy. Wait hold on, let me turn 0:34:19.320 --> 0:34:19.960 off my stream. 0:34:20.000 --> 0:34:22.080 I'm sorry yeah, yeah, I'll wait. 0:34:24.320 --> 0:34:26.160 I'm sure that was pretty loud. I could barely even 0:34:26.200 --> 0:34:28.439 hear you. All Right, we're good now, how you doing, man, 0:34:29.040 --> 0:34:29.560 I'm all right? 0:34:29.560 --> 0:34:32.120 Are you are? You're not the same guy? Are you? 0:34:32.120 --> 0:34:33.560 You're not the Draco guy? Are you? 0:34:34.320 --> 0:34:34.360 No? 0:34:34.600 --> 0:34:38.279 I tried. I figured I can't beat Draco and chat. 0:34:38.280 --> 0:34:41.200 I wants Draco so bad, but I could be like close. 0:34:44.719 --> 0:34:47.160 You know, I don't like that strategy, and I'll tell 0:34:47.160 --> 0:34:48.239 you why, Well, what's your name? 0:34:50.000 --> 0:34:51.280 Ice cream? 0:34:51.680 --> 0:34:56.399 Ice cream? I because you you called it. You tried 0:34:56.480 --> 0:34:59.960 to be the second best thing to Draco, but ice cream. 0:35:00.120 --> 0:35:02.040 You could have been the first ice cream. 0:35:03.840 --> 0:35:04.080 Yeah. 0:35:04.239 --> 0:35:06.439 I mean, honestly, it was more of like a joke. 0:35:06.520 --> 0:35:09.399 I guess like it was. It wasn't really like even 0:35:09.400 --> 0:35:11.239 a joke. I don't know how to describe it, like 0:35:11.360 --> 0:35:13.440 just sort of like a little like witty thing, like 0:35:13.560 --> 0:35:15.520 because I tried to come up with a name, and 0:35:15.560 --> 0:35:18.120 then I saw everybody was saying Draco, so it maybe 0:35:18.160 --> 0:35:20.800 it was just like a word association thing more than anything. 0:35:20.920 --> 0:35:22.000 It just said mouthfoy. 0:35:23.480 --> 0:35:29.120 Do you have any traditions ice cream? 0:35:31.680 --> 0:35:36.560 I'm trying to think of some traditions. I guess Chinese 0:35:36.640 --> 0:35:42.360 food on Christmas is a big family tradition nice watching 0:35:42.440 --> 0:35:45.280 the therapy get go and eating Ben and Jerry's ice cream. 0:35:46.520 --> 0:35:49.360 It's a tradition for me and chips. 0:35:50.160 --> 0:35:51.560 Are you are you? Are you? 0:35:51.920 --> 0:35:52.040 Uh? 0:35:53.200 --> 0:35:59.320 What was the theme of your bar mitzvah? 0:35:59.560 --> 0:36:01.920 I didn't have a bar mitzvah, but I tell you 0:36:01.960 --> 0:36:04.279 about I can tell you about a really fun bar 0:36:04.400 --> 0:36:10.200 mitzvah that that I went to. P Yeah, So I 0:36:10.320 --> 0:36:15.600 babysat this kid, Harrison, and and I guess because you 0:36:15.640 --> 0:36:17.880 know what, I couldn't even tell you. Maybe his family 0:36:17.920 --> 0:36:20.640 invited me to be polite because I was just like 0:36:20.680 --> 0:36:25.279 his babysitter, and and so I went and it was 0:36:25.400 --> 0:36:27.719 really really nice, Like it was the nicest event that 0:36:27.760 --> 0:36:29.960 I had ever been to because this kid's family was 0:36:30.000 --> 0:36:34.319 super rich and like imagine like a wedding, Like it 0:36:34.360 --> 0:36:36.360 was a little bit nicer than a sweet sixteen, but 0:36:36.480 --> 0:36:38.080 like not as nice as a wedding. 0:36:38.840 --> 0:36:43.719 And I've been on the bars route. 0:36:42.719 --> 0:36:46.160 Dude, Okay, let me tell you right now. These guys 0:36:47.440 --> 0:36:50.880 they had so many different like little events and like 0:36:51.000 --> 0:36:53.000 activities that you could do, Like they had like a 0:36:53.320 --> 0:36:55.799 design your own beats where like you could go and 0:36:55.840 --> 0:36:59.600 they made Beats headphones for you that were like customized, wait. 0:37:00.440 --> 0:37:04.560 Like actual like actual fucking like Beats headphones. Yeah. It 0:37:04.600 --> 0:37:06.920 was every kid got fucking Beats headphones. 0:37:07.280 --> 0:37:10.120 Yeah. Yeah. So I didn't want I didn't want to 0:37:10.160 --> 0:37:13.359 be rude because I was like seventeen or eighteen at 0:37:13.400 --> 0:37:15.160 the time, and it was all these like eleven, how 0:37:15.200 --> 0:37:16.759 old are you when you have apartments? But I'm not 0:37:16.800 --> 0:37:20.520 sure you're thirteen thirteen, right, So I didn't want to, 0:37:20.560 --> 0:37:22.680 you know, take away the opportunity for any of these 0:37:22.760 --> 0:37:24.560 kids to get beats. So I didn't have them. But 0:37:24.640 --> 0:37:27.359 I saw all the kids basically running away, like all 0:37:27.400 --> 0:37:29.239 excited after they got them, like you could get your 0:37:29.320 --> 0:37:32.600 name engraved and like different like symbols, like basically like 0:37:32.640 --> 0:37:36.720 emojis and stuff. And they all had their own beats. 0:37:38.680 --> 0:37:40.920 That's insane. They must have had, like they must have 0:37:41.040 --> 0:37:44.920 cost so much. How much is a fucking pair of beats? 0:37:45.680 --> 0:37:48.360 I mean now, I think they're a couple hundred dollars. 0:37:48.440 --> 0:37:50.799 This was this is a while ago. Maybe they were 0:37:50.800 --> 0:37:52.720 a little bit less popular, but even when they first 0:37:52.719 --> 0:37:55.040 came out, they were you know, Beats by Dre you know, 0:37:55.120 --> 0:37:58.640 like it was that name, you know, still expensive. The dinner. 0:37:58.760 --> 0:38:02.400 The dinner was amazing. I had I had Fila mignon 0:38:02.719 --> 0:38:04.840 because how could I not have Sila mignon if I 0:38:04.840 --> 0:38:06.279 saw that on the menu and it was free? 0:38:06.400 --> 0:38:06.520 Right? 0:38:06.840 --> 0:38:07.040 Yeah? 0:38:09.800 --> 0:38:11.319 What were some of the other activities? 0:38:12.400 --> 0:38:15.040 Oh, they had like you know, like the thing that 0:38:15.080 --> 0:38:17.560 you do at like David Busters, where like you throw 0:38:17.600 --> 0:38:19.520 the basketballs in the hoop and then they like rolled 0:38:19.560 --> 0:38:20.080 down the thing. 0:38:20.800 --> 0:38:21.240 Yeah. 0:38:21.400 --> 0:38:23.319 Like they had a couple of those on carts that 0:38:23.360 --> 0:38:27.600 they like wheeled in. They had they had like an 0:38:27.640 --> 0:38:31.520 hour where there was a comedian and and like uh 0:38:31.560 --> 0:38:33.799 and a magician and they had like this little thing 0:38:33.840 --> 0:38:35.760 that they did together, like an ad. 0:38:35.760 --> 0:38:41.840 Book Jerry Seinfeld. 0:38:39.840 --> 0:38:42.520 Because you imagine that music is the most Jewish event 0:38:42.560 --> 0:38:46.080 of all time. That would be amazing. That would be great. 0:38:46.120 --> 0:38:46.920 I would have loved that. 0:38:48.920 --> 0:38:51.719 They had a comedian a magician. Who who was the comedian? 0:38:52.960 --> 0:38:54.080 I can't remember now. 0:38:54.880 --> 0:38:58.160 It was just a comedian, No. 0:38:58.120 --> 0:38:59.719 It was it was like who you call for like 0:38:59.719 --> 0:39:00.680 a kid for Mitzvah. 0:39:00.840 --> 0:39:01.120 It was. 0:39:02.640 --> 0:39:05.040 Yeah, it was like Uncle Magic and and you know 0:39:05.120 --> 0:39:08.560 whatever the clown or whatever his name was, It wasn't 0:39:08.600 --> 0:39:10.480 really them. I'm just that would have been awesome. If 0:39:10.520 --> 0:39:13.440 it was them, but it was it was something along 0:39:13.480 --> 0:39:14.279 those lines, you know. 0:39:15.239 --> 0:39:19.040 Okay, they had a they had a comedian, a magician. Damn. 0:39:21.760 --> 0:39:24.800 Yeah, those were the main highlights of it. It was 0:39:24.800 --> 0:39:25.600 a pretty good time. 0:39:26.480 --> 0:39:28.480 Yeah, I guess. I guess after that you were like, 0:39:29.160 --> 0:39:31.840 this was when you were seventeen. But damn, that's a 0:39:31.880 --> 0:39:34.200 crazy ass bar mitz for the what All? 0:39:34.239 --> 0:39:34.359 Right? 0:39:34.400 --> 0:39:35.960 So you were so you were you were you were 0:39:35.960 --> 0:39:37.680 the baby, okay, but you were the babysitter of this 0:39:37.800 --> 0:39:39.120 these kids parents, right. 0:39:40.400 --> 0:39:42.640 Yeah, exactly, I was the babysitter of the kid. 0:39:43.080 --> 0:39:45.080 Did you make Did they pay you a lot of 0:39:45.080 --> 0:39:45.880 money to babysit? 0:39:47.239 --> 0:39:49.960 Yeah? They did. They paid me a lot. They would 0:39:49.960 --> 0:39:52.439 pretty much always round up whatever I would. I would 0:39:52.480 --> 0:39:54.200 go over for like four or five hours, and they 0:39:54.200 --> 0:39:55.960 would round it up to like one hundred dollars, like 0:39:56.000 --> 0:39:57.680 he just you know, pull a hundred dollar bill out 0:39:57.719 --> 0:39:59.680 of his wallet. Because they were the kind of ridge 0:39:59.719 --> 0:40:02.319 that to like show it off, you know. One time 0:40:02.600 --> 0:40:06.239 that my favorite thing, my favorite thing ever about them 0:40:06.280 --> 0:40:08.600 being super rich was the one time that they sent 0:40:08.640 --> 0:40:10.759 me home in their limo because they got home from 0:40:10.800 --> 0:40:13.040 some events super late at night, at like four o'clock 0:40:13.040 --> 0:40:16.640 in the morning and they were drunk and and and 0:40:16.800 --> 0:40:19.200 a lot of the time the dad would drive me home, 0:40:19.239 --> 0:40:21.520 but he just couldn't that night, so he was like 0:40:21.600 --> 0:40:23.680 he ext the limo driver to just bring me home. 0:40:23.960 --> 0:40:26.440 And it was so funny because the limo was stocked 0:40:26.480 --> 0:40:29.799 out with with all of like the snacks and like 0:40:29.880 --> 0:40:32.399 drinks that they would have in their house. So it's 0:40:32.400 --> 0:40:34.520 so funny because it literally was like a like a 0:40:34.600 --> 0:40:37.480 miniature pantry of like the same stuff that they had 0:40:37.480 --> 0:40:39.239 in their house in the backseat of the limo. And 0:40:39.280 --> 0:40:41.799 I was thinking, like, they really live comfortably and here 0:40:41.920 --> 0:40:45.040 like that that specific fact that they had the snacks 0:40:45.040 --> 0:40:45.560 in the drinks. 0:40:45.840 --> 0:40:48.399 Yes, it was the exact same ship that they had, 0:40:48.400 --> 0:40:49.160 Like they know their. 0:40:49.120 --> 0:40:51.320 Brands, yes, exactly. 0:40:51.480 --> 0:40:53.120 Yeah, Well tell me I want to give me. I 0:40:53.120 --> 0:40:56.080 want to hear an item that they had that you're like, what, 0:40:56.160 --> 0:40:58.719 how the fuck they have like this? 0:40:59.000 --> 0:41:04.279 It was the Pate Pets chocolate chip cookies, a specific 0:41:04.480 --> 0:41:11.000 brand of those rainbow cookies. The Spefeater Gin was the 0:41:11.080 --> 0:41:14.480 specific liquor I remember, because who even drinks gin? Like 0:41:14.520 --> 0:41:15.160 that's gross? 0:41:16.239 --> 0:41:19.680 But what do they do? What do these people do? 0:41:21.160 --> 0:41:25.640 The father is he was a Oh he was What 0:41:25.760 --> 0:41:28.840 kind of doctor was he? I think he was a dentist, 0:41:28.880 --> 0:41:29.840 but I could be wrong. 0:41:30.719 --> 0:41:32.400 Make that much money as a dentist? 0:41:32.719 --> 0:41:35.439 No no, no, no, So he had moved on from being 0:41:35.480 --> 0:41:38.440 a dentist. I could be wrong about the specific practice, 0:41:38.440 --> 0:41:41.720 but he had moved on since and had opened several 0:41:41.760 --> 0:41:43.600 of his own I guess he had made such a 0:41:43.600 --> 0:41:45.399 good name for himself that he was able to open 0:41:45.440 --> 0:41:48.359 several practices. And he basically was more of. 0:41:48.560 --> 0:41:50.920 More of like a managmentist Empire. 0:41:52.080 --> 0:41:53.759 Yeah, like he was like the Empire guy. 0:41:53.840 --> 0:41:56.320 He was the franchise guy. 0:41:56.480 --> 0:41:58.040 Yep, yeah, exactly. 0:41:59.640 --> 0:42:03.919 I had a bar Mitzvah, Burt Mitzvah was at Dave 0:42:04.000 --> 0:42:05.960 and Busters. 0:42:05.960 --> 0:42:07.160 No way, it's awesome. 0:42:07.480 --> 0:42:09.960 Yeah, it was well because like I wasn't friends with 0:42:10.000 --> 0:42:13.320 any girls at the time, and like I think I 0:42:13.360 --> 0:42:15.120 think I got one girl on my mitzvah and I 0:42:15.120 --> 0:42:18.000 feel like dancing is like and most of the moments 0:42:18.080 --> 0:42:19.759 was like dance parties, but like a bunch of like 0:42:19.760 --> 0:42:21.359 middle school boys, they don't want to dance, they just 0:42:21.560 --> 0:42:23.680 want to play video games. It was a good time. 0:42:23.880 --> 0:42:27.279 He's fun. I'm glad. I'm glad we did it. 0:42:28.360 --> 0:42:31.360 Yeah, I'm really sad since you brought up David Busters, 0:42:31.400 --> 0:42:34.960 because my goal for for the New Year twenty twenty 0:42:35.000 --> 0:42:36.400 one was going to be the year I win a 0:42:36.440 --> 0:42:39.799 PS five at David Busters and d n B is 0:42:39.840 --> 0:42:41.120 still closed because of. 0:42:42.200 --> 0:42:44.400 Look, ice Cream, when when it happens, I'm rooting for you, 0:42:44.440 --> 0:42:48.719 all right, thanks man, think think of me when you're 0:42:48.800 --> 0:42:51.560 fucking playing the basketball game trying to get y. 0:42:52.600 --> 0:42:56.200 Yeah, in your head, any lizard tamed games they have, 0:42:56.320 --> 0:42:58.400 I'm just gonna put all my coins in there. 0:42:58.640 --> 0:42:58.960 Do it. 0:42:59.280 --> 0:43:00.839 I'll be with you in your heart. 0:43:01.920 --> 0:43:02.920 Yeah, you always are. 0:43:03.040 --> 0:43:03.320 Grek. 0:43:04.040 --> 0:43:05.560 Thank you, ice Cream. Do you have a good rest 0:43:05.600 --> 0:43:06.120 of the night. 0:43:06.960 --> 0:43:10.279 You too, Thanks, I'm I'm glad we got to have 0:43:10.320 --> 0:43:11.680 this chat. Have yourself a great night. 0:43:12.040 --> 0:43:13.839 I'm glad we got to have this chat as well. 0:43:14.239 --> 0:43:17.080 You have yourself a good You have yourself a fucking 0:43:17.120 --> 0:43:18.600 great night, ice C. 0:43:18.640 --> 0:43:19.479 Thank you so much. 0:43:19.920 --> 0:43:31.319 Gk aw from Thanks Pick Spence, Hey, Gek, how you 0:43:31.360 --> 0:43:33.200 doing you know, Spence? 0:43:33.680 --> 0:43:36.399 I'm doing all right. My mom Mom in the city. 0:43:36.480 --> 0:43:40.760 I'm in the great country of Philadelphia, located in Canada, Missouri. 0:43:43.920 --> 0:43:44.360 Nice. 0:43:46.280 --> 0:43:48.440 Where do you live? What is your home? What street 0:43:48.440 --> 0:43:50.720 do you live? On what's your home address? 0:43:52.120 --> 0:43:53.680 I don't know if I want to give that out 0:43:53.760 --> 0:43:54.560 on the stream. 0:43:54.600 --> 0:43:59.360 I hope that's okay, that's perfectly fine. I respect your boundaries, Spence. 0:43:59.480 --> 0:44:06.799 You where do we go when we die? 0:44:08.600 --> 0:44:08.799 You know? 0:44:09.360 --> 0:44:09.840 Uh? 0:44:10.719 --> 0:44:16.040 I don't think any of us really know, so uh 0:44:16.440 --> 0:44:18.640 we I guess we'll find out when we get there, 0:44:19.320 --> 0:44:23.839 or maybe we won't because none of us remember if 0:44:23.920 --> 0:44:27.560 we are from a past life. I mean, you can have, 0:44:27.640 --> 0:44:30.040 I guess, a past life experience. 0:44:30.560 --> 0:44:32.520 Do you do you have a hunch, Spencer of of 0:44:32.520 --> 0:44:34.880 what you might have been in a past life? 0:44:35.160 --> 0:44:36.279 Yeah, I actually do. 0:44:36.360 --> 0:44:36.600 I have. 0:44:36.800 --> 0:44:40.319 I have had one specific out of life experience, like 0:44:40.360 --> 0:44:46.960 out of body experience share, but I'd really rather not honestly, 0:44:47.360 --> 0:44:49.280 it was really yeah. 0:44:50.200 --> 0:44:52.919 I mean, look, I could get deep. 0:44:55.560 --> 0:44:57.479 Well, I mean, like if you if you really want 0:44:57.480 --> 0:45:02.719 to go into it. I think, as wild as it seems, 0:45:03.360 --> 0:45:06.640 I really think I was in the Holocaust. 0:45:09.920 --> 0:45:14.719 That yeah, but you know, and. 0:45:17.280 --> 0:45:19.640 So we're both I think we I'm kind of interested 0:45:19.640 --> 0:45:20.400 in this conversation. 0:45:20.520 --> 0:45:26.480 Now, Okay, what do you want to know about it? 0:45:27.400 --> 0:45:29.560 Do you you felt like you were in the Holocaust? 0:45:30.880 --> 0:45:31.160 Yeah? 0:45:31.200 --> 0:45:36.880 So I had this one like experience in my life 0:45:37.480 --> 0:45:43.520 where I was like in a situation and it caused 0:45:43.520 --> 0:45:47.319 me to kind of flash back to what could have 0:45:47.400 --> 0:45:51.480 been in the Holocaust. But I guess it is the 0:45:51.520 --> 0:45:53.839 thought has crossed my mind since then that you know, 0:45:54.200 --> 0:45:57.520 it's possible that I've heard too many stories about the 0:45:57.520 --> 0:46:01.279 Holocaust and maybe I'm just telling myself I experienced it 0:46:01.320 --> 0:46:05.520 because the situation reminded me of the story. 0:46:06.200 --> 0:46:10.719 But after, did you have h h like ancestors or 0:46:10.719 --> 0:46:13.880 great grandparents and grandparents that were in the Holocaust? 0:46:14.000 --> 0:46:18.800 No, all, my all, My family was in America before 0:46:19.040 --> 0:46:24.040 that happened. So they're from Europe, but they're not they weren't, 0:46:24.120 --> 0:46:26.960 you know, they didn't experience those atrocities. 0:46:28.280 --> 0:46:31.440 M When did you have this experience? 0:46:33.320 --> 0:46:38.359 It was I would say two thousand and thirteen, around. 0:46:39.160 --> 0:46:40.680 Thirteen, I don't remember exactly. 0:46:44.400 --> 0:46:46.920 Do you know what what was? What was what was 0:46:46.960 --> 0:46:49.200 going on? Were you, I mean, were you on drugs? 0:46:49.239 --> 0:46:50.080 Were you like. 0:46:50.320 --> 0:46:58.719 No, no, no, So so this is actually it's it's interesting. 0:46:58.800 --> 0:47:03.040 So there's it was in I was in Israel at. 0:47:02.960 --> 0:47:10.880 The time, and I went to a weekend. There's this 0:47:10.880 --> 0:47:14.680 this weekend called well it's not necessarily on a weekend, 0:47:14.719 --> 0:47:15.800 but sometimes it does. 0:47:15.600 --> 0:47:16.879 Follow a weekend, and it. 0:47:16.800 --> 0:47:19.560 Happens to be this time it did, but it's called 0:47:19.640 --> 0:47:20.560 log Boomer and. 0:47:20.480 --> 0:47:23.040 It's it's a. 0:47:22.480 --> 0:47:26.319 Holiday where bonfires are whatever. And in Israel there's a 0:47:26.360 --> 0:47:29.120 grave site of a big rabbi and a lot of 0:47:29.120 --> 0:47:31.480 people like to go to kind of like a pilgrimage 0:47:31.640 --> 0:47:35.640 almost each year to the grave site. And for this holiday, 0:47:35.719 --> 0:47:38.520 so to speak, it's not, you know, always celebrated. I 0:47:38.560 --> 0:47:41.520 don't know if it's a very Orthodox kind of holiday. 0:47:41.239 --> 0:47:41.399 But. 0:47:42.840 --> 0:47:43.560 Are you are you there? 0:47:45.080 --> 0:47:47.160 I'm not, but I was raised Orthodox. 0:47:47.760 --> 0:47:54.280 Okay, so there are a plenty of The entire little town, 0:47:54.360 --> 0:47:57.879 which is on the mountain side in Israel, gets kind 0:47:57.880 --> 0:48:02.239 of like flooded with tourists, I guess, or pill pilgrims 0:48:02.360 --> 0:48:05.880 really for the weekend or for the holiday if it's not, 0:48:06.080 --> 0:48:11.840 you know, whenever it is, and they have organizations that 0:48:11.880 --> 0:48:14.520 give out a lot of like food and whatnot because 0:48:14.520 --> 0:48:15.680 there's everyone there and. 0:48:15.600 --> 0:48:19.080 They'll just feed that for free. But it was like 0:48:19.160 --> 0:48:23.560 a whole mess getting into the area where they fed everyone, 0:48:23.600 --> 0:48:26.200 where they were giving out this great food, and I 0:48:26.320 --> 0:48:33.640 remember like there was this gate or something, and as 0:48:33.680 --> 0:48:36.640 I like got to the edge, I heard like I 0:48:36.719 --> 0:48:41.160 got in and I heard the gate slam, and I 0:48:41.280 --> 0:48:45.160 turned around and I saw people like shaking the bars, 0:48:46.160 --> 0:48:51.680 and it just made me like in that instant flashback 0:48:51.800 --> 0:48:56.000 to like the Holocaust and those kind of scenes of 0:48:56.080 --> 0:49:00.560 like people being trapped in those I guess, I guess 0:49:00.560 --> 0:49:02.640 you would say, like behind bar is really like, you know, 0:49:02.840 --> 0:49:03.719 shaking on the gate. 0:49:04.960 --> 0:49:07.200 Have you spoken to like a rabbi about this? 0:49:07.840 --> 0:49:10.279 No, No, I have not. I've never I don't think 0:49:10.320 --> 0:49:10.759 I ever have. 0:49:14.200 --> 0:49:17.560 Interesting, Yeah, And it's it's funny because. 0:49:17.480 --> 0:49:20.520 What a rabbi would say about that. I mean, I'm Jews, 0:49:20.560 --> 0:49:22.440 I have I'm not I'm not Orthodox Jewish. I'm more 0:49:22.520 --> 0:49:24.920 sort of you know. I mean, I I haven't like 0:49:25.000 --> 0:49:30.200 really practiced that much since uh, you know, getting older. 0:49:30.239 --> 0:49:33.279 But uh, I'm I'm wondering if a rabbi would have 0:49:33.320 --> 0:49:36.480 a like some some kind of explanation of that. 0:49:37.760 --> 0:49:39.000 You know, it's a good question. 0:49:39.080 --> 0:49:42.840 I I I've definitely, like I have rabbis that I 0:49:43.440 --> 0:49:46.680 speak to every well, not any you know, regular time, 0:49:46.760 --> 0:49:49.640 but you know, different rabbis from different institutions I've been 0:49:49.640 --> 0:49:53.120 to in the past, like schools and and programs, but 0:49:53.200 --> 0:49:54.080 I've never brought it. 0:49:54.080 --> 0:49:54.759 Up with any of them. 0:49:54.800 --> 0:49:56.400 That's a good that's a good point. 0:49:56.440 --> 0:49:58.839 I should ask one of the you know, I've never 0:49:58.880 --> 0:50:01.200 I guess I've never wanted to delve into that topic 0:50:01.280 --> 0:50:02.840 with them and see where that led me. 0:50:05.320 --> 0:50:07.560 But didn't I hope I didn't coerce you into talking 0:50:07.600 --> 0:50:08.759 about something you want to talk about. 0:50:09.280 --> 0:50:10.279 No, no, no, not at all. 0:50:10.360 --> 0:50:13.319 I just think that, like, just as I was initially 0:50:13.560 --> 0:50:16.680 hesitant to discuss this here, I feel like with a 0:50:16.760 --> 0:50:20.200 rabbi it would be that much more intense. So I 0:50:20.360 --> 0:50:22.600 probably anytime I've thought about bringing it up. 0:50:22.560 --> 0:50:24.279 With like maybe not. 0:50:25.800 --> 0:50:28.560 Because I'm sure that there would be a religious uh 0:50:29.120 --> 0:50:32.799 interpretation of you know, well, if you know that, then 0:50:32.840 --> 0:50:34.560 how could you not be a religious Jew? 0:50:36.680 --> 0:50:36.960 Are you? 0:50:37.040 --> 0:50:39.200 Are you really? I know you said you were raised Orthodox? 0:50:39.200 --> 0:50:40.879 Do you are? Do you practice now? 0:50:41.120 --> 0:50:41.440 Still? 0:50:41.800 --> 0:50:42.759 No, not at all. 0:50:43.840 --> 0:50:49.240 Okay, hmmm, that's an interesting story. I appreciate you sharing 0:50:49.280 --> 0:50:52.000 that with us. I have I haven't been to Israel yet. 0:50:52.719 --> 0:50:55.600 I want to do that when the pandemic ends. Yeah, 0:50:55.680 --> 0:50:58.360 I've always heard that. I've always heard that, like you know, 0:50:58.440 --> 0:51:00.359 when or not when a first has been practic saying 0:51:00.440 --> 0:51:03.080 that much that goes back to Israel, like you get back, 0:51:03.120 --> 0:51:05.279 you get back into it or whatever. You have some 0:51:05.320 --> 0:51:09.560 sort of like a thing that that will connect with 0:51:09.640 --> 0:51:11.399 the walls and with the wall and ship. 0:51:12.520 --> 0:51:15.800 Yeah, I mean I would argue for any religion, Uh, 0:51:15.880 --> 0:51:21.160 it's really a mecca uh to go to there. Obviously 0:51:21.320 --> 0:51:23.640 if you're Muslim. I mean there's plenty of Muslims to. 0:51:23.640 --> 0:51:24.320 Live in Israel. 0:51:24.400 --> 0:51:28.200 I mean politics aside, it's obviously a lot of heritage 0:51:28.200 --> 0:51:32.520 from any any Muslim that's from there, and Christians as well. 0:51:32.560 --> 0:51:34.680 I would say I spent a couple of years there 0:51:34.840 --> 0:51:38.600 in programs like studying in Jerusalem, and I would say 0:51:38.600 --> 0:51:41.799 that there are plenty of other tourists from all their 0:51:41.840 --> 0:51:45.600 cultures and religions, and they come to all the sites. 0:51:45.680 --> 0:51:48.880 So you will see Christians going to the Jewish sites, 0:51:48.920 --> 0:51:50.640 and you will see jo some Jews going to the 0:51:50.680 --> 0:51:53.600 Christian sites as well, and there are plenty of things 0:51:53.600 --> 0:51:55.640 to see. So I mean I would recommend it as 0:51:55.680 --> 0:51:59.240 anybody that's interested. But also on that note, like you said, 0:51:59.360 --> 0:52:02.080 they get kind of like anybody who goes there because 0:52:02.080 --> 0:52:05.239 it's that religious land. I mean, if you think about it, 0:52:05.280 --> 0:52:07.799 I mean like if Jesus of Nazareth, which is in 0:52:07.840 --> 0:52:11.800 that region. Uh so even for Christians. Uh, I'm sure 0:52:11.800 --> 0:52:14.160 that it's a draw and it reminds people of their 0:52:14.280 --> 0:52:16.600 you know, their religion that they're brought off with, and 0:52:16.640 --> 0:52:19.800 it kind of gets you. They reinvigorated with it if you, 0:52:20.000 --> 0:52:23.200 I guess, you know, kind of let it go by. 0:52:23.840 --> 0:52:24.880 Who is her name was? 0:52:25.920 --> 0:52:28.040 I said, Ben, But I think he called me Spencer, 0:52:28.120 --> 0:52:29.600 So I'll go with Spencer from now. 0:52:31.320 --> 0:52:35.440 Ben Well spend Well, Ben Spencer, Ben Spencer. You know 0:52:35.520 --> 0:52:39.040 those names where the last name is also kind of 0:52:39.040 --> 0:52:42.200 a first name. I imagine that there could be a 0:52:42.239 --> 0:52:44.719 guy out there whose name is Ben Spencer that could 0:52:44.719 --> 0:52:48.200 be one of those. Well, Ben, thanks for thank you 0:52:48.239 --> 0:52:50.719 for sharing man. Uh yeah, if you ever, if you 0:52:50.760 --> 0:52:53.400 do decide to tell tell a rabbi about that experience, 0:52:53.520 --> 0:52:55.279 you know, let me let me know what what they 0:52:55.320 --> 0:52:56.480 what they would have to say. 0:52:57.120 --> 0:52:59.839 For sure, I will definitely call in again and give 0:52:59.880 --> 0:53:00.800 you enough take Ecko. 0:53:00.880 --> 0:53:02.359 I appreciate you taking call. 0:53:03.000 --> 0:53:05.200 Of course. You have a good night, Ben, have a 0:53:05.200 --> 0:53:05.680 great night. 0:53:06.200 --> 0:53:13.200 Oh bye oh aw from. 0:53:12.840 --> 0:53:15.000 Shattered Chimp kap. 0:53:16.320 --> 0:53:17.680 Shattered Chimp? Is that you? 0:53:18.880 --> 0:53:20.040 Yeah? 0:53:20.040 --> 0:53:21.719 Wait, hold on, can you mute the things? 0:53:23.280 --> 0:53:25.279 Who are you aware? This is a tag team call. 0:53:26.400 --> 0:53:29.799 Uh yeah, yeah, I've got uh my housemaid here. 0:53:32.760 --> 0:53:35.359 Which of you do you. 0:53:37.880 --> 0:53:38.160 I want? 0:53:38.239 --> 0:53:40.840 Let's start with you. How did you tell me? You 0:53:40.920 --> 0:53:42.520 and your house meet? You and your housemate? 0:53:43.480 --> 0:53:43.640 Uh? 0:53:43.880 --> 0:53:45.040 I moved into the house. 0:53:46.560 --> 0:53:49.840 Okay, Well how did you find out about this house 0:53:49.840 --> 0:53:50.600 in which to move? 0:53:52.040 --> 0:53:55.239 I found a found out abooted on a like a 0:53:55.320 --> 0:53:56.440 classified ad. 0:53:57.680 --> 0:54:00.680 Mm hmm. Now that's a lot of trust moving in 0:54:00.760 --> 0:54:05.760 with someone that you don't know. So so this relationship 0:54:06.200 --> 0:54:11.840 required a substantial sort of like you know, uh like 0:54:12.080 --> 0:54:15.320 alone or something like that. This relationship required a heavy 0:54:15.360 --> 0:54:18.600 amount of trust up front for both of you. 0:54:19.760 --> 0:54:21.760 Well, I mean it came with a damaged positive. 0:54:24.840 --> 0:54:26.800 But look, there's a lot more to you know, living 0:54:26.800 --> 0:54:30.040 with someone than just you know, a damage deposit. You know, 0:54:30.040 --> 0:54:31.680 you have to trust him that he's not going to 0:54:32.600 --> 0:54:35.000 invade your personal space, that's not going to be just 0:54:35.040 --> 0:54:38.640 a generally bad person to live with, you know, and 0:54:38.680 --> 0:54:40.920 he has to trust the same of you. So already 0:54:40.960 --> 0:54:46.520 your relationship, you know, sounds pretty strong. And he's he's 0:54:46.520 --> 0:54:49.319 he's helping you. Call into the Gecko show. You two 0:54:49.320 --> 0:54:52.480 are doing the thing together. It sounds like you've become friends. 0:54:52.960 --> 0:54:54.759 No hold on you got it fucked up. He didn't 0:54:54.800 --> 0:54:58.520 help me call in. He muted the thing for me. 0:55:00.120 --> 0:55:01.960 Watch, So you're both you're watching it together. 0:55:02.760 --> 0:55:05.120 Yeah, we're watching you on the TV. And then I 0:55:05.160 --> 0:55:06.680 had the thing going on my phone. 0:55:07.160 --> 0:55:09.640 All right, So you're together and you're doing you're doing 0:55:09.680 --> 0:55:11.800 an activity, you're watching a Twitch stream together. 0:55:12.680 --> 0:55:16.080 Yeah. 0:55:16.239 --> 0:55:18.239 So what's your relationship like now? 0:55:19.680 --> 0:55:23.719 Oh, we're buddies man. When I'm working. You'll let my 0:55:23.800 --> 0:55:26.960 dog out during the day, things like that, we shoot 0:55:27.000 --> 0:55:28.240 the ship. We have beers together. 0:55:29.040 --> 0:55:29.920 You have dinner together. 0:55:30.800 --> 0:55:32.000 No, we have beers. 0:55:32.360 --> 0:55:32.640 I mean. 0:55:32.960 --> 0:55:35.279 Also, if I make a like a big dinner, I'll 0:55:35.280 --> 0:55:36.279 share it with Tony too. 0:55:36.520 --> 0:55:38.840 You know, it's very nice. Does Tony ever do anything 0:55:38.880 --> 0:55:39.360 nice for you? 0:55:40.560 --> 0:55:43.239 Yeah, you're damn right man. He always helps me out 0:55:43.239 --> 0:55:45.759 with my dog. He'll help me fix things like fix 0:55:45.880 --> 0:55:50.200 my car like shit. I mean, you got to appreciate that. 0:55:51.280 --> 0:55:59.879 Absolutely. Let me ask you something. If you moved out tomorrow, right, 0:56:01.520 --> 0:56:03.920 would you still keep in contact with Tony? Do you 0:56:03.960 --> 0:56:07.680 how much of your like friendship with Tony is is 0:56:07.760 --> 0:56:11.360 reliant upon you two living together? Do you think that? Actually? 0:56:11.440 --> 0:56:13.960 You know? Can I talk to Tony? Yeah? 0:56:14.040 --> 0:56:14.239 Yeah? 0:56:14.280 --> 0:56:15.520 Do you want Tony, Do you want to talk to 0:56:15.560 --> 0:56:16.200 the lizard Man? 0:56:16.239 --> 0:56:17.719 Yeah, I want to talk to Tony. 0:56:18.680 --> 0:56:21.280 Well, Tony doesn't really want to talk to you, apparently. 0:56:22.120 --> 0:56:24.080 But can I can you ask Tony why he doesn't 0:56:24.080 --> 0:56:24.680 want to talk to me? 0:56:25.440 --> 0:56:26.319 Cool show him. 0:56:26.200 --> 0:56:29.760 Stuff, But I'll say, did you hear him? 0:56:30.200 --> 0:56:30.279 No? 0:56:30.400 --> 0:56:31.160 I didn't hear him. 0:56:31.800 --> 0:56:33.239 Oh god, wait, hold on, try again? 0:56:34.280 --> 0:56:34.520 Did? 0:56:34.520 --> 0:56:39.360 It's a cool show, but I'll stay out of the media. 0:56:38.440 --> 0:56:43.680 Is still the media? Yeah, I don't know if well, 0:56:43.719 --> 0:56:47.560 I mean, it's not CNN, it's a it's a Twitch stream, 0:56:47.600 --> 0:56:49.359 it's Gecko show. The our thing. 0:56:50.200 --> 0:56:54.239 I don't know. I'm maybe like the computer lizard Man 0:56:54.920 --> 0:56:56.560 thing is a little bit high pressure. 0:57:00.719 --> 0:57:02.600 I'm not I'm so curious. I don't want to invade 0:57:02.600 --> 0:57:04.920 your your Tony's privacy, but I feel like he has 0:57:04.960 --> 0:57:09.080 secrets that he's hiding now and I'm a very nosy 0:57:09.160 --> 0:57:11.560 little lizards. 0:57:11.560 --> 0:57:14.200 Why, maybe good about how knows you you are? 0:57:15.480 --> 0:57:16.240 Sega? 0:57:17.040 --> 0:57:18.960 Maybe Tony doesn't care how knows you you are? 0:57:22.280 --> 0:57:25.000 You know what? I respect Tony's privacy. 0:57:25.120 --> 0:57:38.800 Yeah, you want to take like a moment for like 0:57:38.840 --> 0:57:41.800 an awkward uh chilenge? 0:57:42.960 --> 0:57:45.160 Well, I already did, but it wasn't awkward. It was 0:57:45.240 --> 0:57:46.160 just a silence for me. 0:57:47.080 --> 0:57:50.480 Wait wait, can I have just like for an awkward one? 0:57:50.800 --> 0:57:53.200 Would you mind? 0:57:53.320 --> 0:57:53.920 Uh? 0:57:54.160 --> 0:57:55.880 What what is it? I mean? I don't what do 0:57:55.960 --> 0:58:00.880 you mean by awkward? How would make this awkward for you? 0:58:00.880 --> 0:58:00.960 You? 0:58:01.160 --> 0:58:03.800 I mean? Look you, I mean look, things have the 0:58:03.880 --> 0:58:07.120 attribution that you want to give them, and I've chosen 0:58:07.240 --> 0:58:10.520 not to give any of my silences the awkward attribute. 0:58:10.560 --> 0:58:14.440 And if you want me to voluntarily give this silence 0:58:15.840 --> 0:58:18.560 an awkwardness and my perception of it, I'm not going 0:58:18.640 --> 0:58:18.960 to do that. 0:58:20.640 --> 0:58:21.960 No, don't already got it? 0:58:24.800 --> 0:58:29.400 Hey, shout a chimp. I appreciate you giving me your 0:58:29.400 --> 0:58:30.080 time this evening. 0:58:31.040 --> 0:58:34.960 Okay, right on, man, I love you all right, I 0:58:35.000 --> 0:58:35.520 love you too. 0:58:36.600 --> 0:58:49.480 Good night. I don't think they were really Canadian. I 0:58:49.480 --> 0:58:55.240 think that was Tony's secret. Something was up with them 0:58:55.320 --> 0:58:59.480 at the end. Or maybe I'm just jealous. Maybe I 0:58:59.520 --> 0:59:01.360 just wish them my roommate. Was that was that cool? 0:59:02.760 --> 0:59:08.480 That's probably it was jealous, because I want a cool 0:59:08.520 --> 0:59:13.920 Canadian roommate, makes meat dinner, takes my. 0:59:13.960 --> 0:59:17.840 Dog out all from Madison. 0:59:19.440 --> 0:59:19.960 Madison. 0:59:21.600 --> 0:59:24.680 Oh hi, how are you doing night? 0:59:26.640 --> 0:59:27.760 I thought you said, who is this? 0:59:28.800 --> 0:59:29.919 Oh no, how are you doing. 0:59:30.800 --> 0:59:32.400 I'm doing all right, Madison. How are you? 0:59:33.200 --> 0:59:34.520 I'm all right, I'm all right. 0:59:34.520 --> 0:59:35.280 Thank you for asking. 0:59:36.960 --> 0:59:37.920 It's my pleasure. 0:59:40.640 --> 0:59:42.160 I didn't really expect. 0:59:41.840 --> 0:59:44.200 Me to go through, so I'm sorry. 0:59:44.840 --> 0:59:49.080 You have nothing to apologize for. Do you know I 0:59:49.120 --> 0:59:51.080 wasn't expecting you to get through either, Madison. You know 0:59:51.080 --> 0:59:51.840 what that makes. 0:59:51.640 --> 0:59:55.959 Us two piece in a pod, makes us. 0:59:55.840 --> 0:59:59.040 Two people who were not expecting to talk to each 0:59:59.080 --> 1:00:01.440 other on the phone that are now talking to each 1:00:01.480 --> 1:00:02.880 other on the phone. 1:00:03.200 --> 1:00:05.120 Well, oh yeah, it's pleasure to meet you. 1:00:05.360 --> 1:00:11.080 I like your show, Thank you very much. Uh what's 1:00:11.280 --> 1:00:12.720 what's your life like? Madison? 1:00:14.440 --> 1:00:14.680 Oh? 1:00:14.760 --> 1:00:15.040 God? 1:00:16.400 --> 1:00:17.960 Uh? 1:00:18.640 --> 1:00:19.120 Interesting? 1:00:20.520 --> 1:00:25.080 Interesting? What's what's so interesting about it? 1:00:27.840 --> 1:00:30.919 Nothing? Well, sorry, I'm just nervous. 1:00:31.640 --> 1:00:33.200 I just. 1:00:36.840 --> 1:00:39.880 Me and my well it's just me and my grandma left, 1:00:40.280 --> 1:00:42.400 so me and her run a bar together at pool Hall. 1:00:43.120 --> 1:00:45.280 Have to deal with crazy people on a daily basis 1:00:45.320 --> 1:00:45.760 because of that. 1:00:46.800 --> 1:00:49.800 Interesting. What's what's the name? How did first of all, 1:00:49.840 --> 1:00:52.200 how did this get started? Was it like, did you 1:00:52.240 --> 1:00:54.040 two start the pool hall or was it a family 1:00:54.160 --> 1:00:55.000 business before then? 1:00:55.800 --> 1:00:58.200 No, it was a family thing. So my grandpa started 1:00:58.240 --> 1:01:02.160 it in eighty three with the business person and he 1:01:02.280 --> 1:01:04.200 passed away. Both of them did, and then it was 1:01:04.240 --> 1:01:06.360 just my grandma left and now it's me and her. 1:01:07.760 --> 1:01:09.120 Do you are do you do you just work there? 1:01:09.160 --> 1:01:10.520 Or do you like own it together? 1:01:11.440 --> 1:01:11.640 Oh? 1:01:11.720 --> 1:01:13.640 We own it together and I managed it for her. 1:01:14.720 --> 1:01:17.760 That's awesome. Uh do you do you like it? Or 1:01:17.920 --> 1:01:21.480 just dealing with drunk people get tiresome to you? 1:01:23.240 --> 1:01:23.920 I like it. 1:01:24.040 --> 1:01:27.040 I I play in like pool tournaments and stuff, and 1:01:27.640 --> 1:01:31.440 I played pool quite regularly, not like people think. 1:01:31.520 --> 1:01:33.360 But it's it's actually kind of hard. 1:01:35.680 --> 1:01:40.800 Pool. I don't think people thought the pool was pool 1:01:40.920 --> 1:01:43.160 was stoop. Do people give you ship for thinking that 1:01:43.240 --> 1:01:45.880 pool is? Do people give you ship thinking the pool 1:01:45.960 --> 1:01:46.480 is not hard? 1:01:47.560 --> 1:01:49.400 Oh? My god, Jesus Christ. 1:01:49.400 --> 1:01:54.040 The amount of guys that come in thinking that it's 1:01:54.280 --> 1:01:56.200 I don't know, the way to flirt is saying that 1:01:56.240 --> 1:01:58.440 they can beat me in pool while drinkingly talking to 1:01:58.480 --> 1:01:59.360 me is kind of funny. 1:02:00.040 --> 1:02:01.720 You got decide you got to start putting money on 1:02:01.760 --> 1:02:07.720 these games, dude, I do I do this? The episode 1:02:07.720 --> 1:02:14.080 of Drake and Josh where Josh hustles people in pool? Yeah, 1:02:14.160 --> 1:02:17.280 remember this? Or are you not? Or do you not? 1:02:17.640 --> 1:02:19.440 Do you not watch Drake and Josh? 1:02:20.400 --> 1:02:20.480 No? 1:02:20.760 --> 1:02:24.520 I remember that episode it's a lot of people think 1:02:24.560 --> 1:02:27.640 it's like how movies depict that, you know, a dingy. 1:02:27.360 --> 1:02:30.920 Place with smoke everywhere, people throwing money around. But it's 1:02:30.920 --> 1:02:33.640 actually it's kind of a nice community once you get 1:02:33.680 --> 1:02:38.360 into it, and a lot of go into pool quite honestly, 1:02:38.920 --> 1:02:39.240 a lot of. 1:02:40.800 --> 1:02:43.360 A lot of science and maths. Well it has to 1:02:43.360 --> 1:02:44.720 do with like physics. 1:02:44.240 --> 1:02:47.280 And geometry and stuff. Sorry I sound like a nerd, but. 1:02:49.400 --> 1:02:52.000 No, this is so so like are you so you're 1:02:52.080 --> 1:02:54.919 actually like when you're practicing for pool and you've got 1:02:54.960 --> 1:02:58.360 like a fucking pro tractor out like on the white 1:02:58.600 --> 1:03:02.120 ball and ship measuring stuff. 1:03:02.880 --> 1:03:06.840 Not necessarily but with each Like so, if you've ever 1:03:06.880 --> 1:03:08.920 looked at a pool table, you ever noticed the little 1:03:08.960 --> 1:03:14.640 dots around the wooden part. Yes, that's actually to calculate 1:03:14.680 --> 1:03:17.880 the different degrees for the angles. So like if you 1:03:17.920 --> 1:03:21.080 were to bank a ball into another hole, you would 1:03:22.200 --> 1:03:25.280 you wouldn't break out a protractor, but you'd guestimate the 1:03:25.280 --> 1:03:28.560 angle and sometimes you have to adjust the angle depending 1:03:28.560 --> 1:03:29.480 on what type of the table. 1:03:30.080 --> 1:03:31.280 I don't know, I think it's cool. 1:03:31.880 --> 1:03:34.480 Isn't that cheating? Like in the in the pro pro 1:03:34.520 --> 1:03:36.640 pro tournaments, do they still have the white dots. 1:03:37.720 --> 1:03:38.680 Yeah, yeah, they do. 1:03:39.200 --> 1:03:42.000 Isn't that kind of cheating? Wouldn't it be more hardcore 1:03:42.080 --> 1:03:44.400 to like just like be able to like memorize where 1:03:44.440 --> 1:03:47.080 the shit is with the angles? 1:03:47.320 --> 1:03:49.800 Yeah, I guess it would be, But not a lot 1:03:49.840 --> 1:03:53.840 of people really take the time to. 1:03:52.600 --> 1:03:55.080 Figure all of it out. It's actually kind of fucking hard. 1:03:56.480 --> 1:04:00.400 Well, tell me, Madison, what who you were? You were 1:04:00.440 --> 1:04:04.560 complaining earlier about like having to deal with drunk annoying people. 1:04:04.600 --> 1:04:07.840 Who's like one of the most annoying fucking people you've 1:04:07.840 --> 1:04:08.800 had to deal with doing this? 1:04:12.000 --> 1:04:15.440 There's very many, but just the other night. Okay, Well, 1:04:15.480 --> 1:04:15.880 I've had. 1:04:15.800 --> 1:04:19.400 To call the cops twice in one week recently, and 1:04:19.680 --> 1:04:23.280 one was because this man I had barred, uh decided 1:04:23.320 --> 1:04:26.200 to uh come in the bar and want to fight 1:04:26.320 --> 1:04:30.840 me because I had barred him. And then another instance 1:04:30.960 --> 1:04:34.000 it was, uh, just some drunk dudes screaming at people, 1:04:34.040 --> 1:04:36.280 and I asked him to believe he picked up a 1:04:36.320 --> 1:04:38.800 TV remote and threw me dead or hit me dead 1:04:38.800 --> 1:04:43.280 in the chest. Yeah, but uh, yes, you know, people 1:04:43.280 --> 1:04:45.200 get crazy, especially when they drink. 1:04:45.960 --> 1:04:49.920 Nothing scarier than someone who's been banned because they're what 1:04:50.080 --> 1:04:52.240 the because they are they're invincible. What the fuck are 1:04:52.240 --> 1:04:54.040 they gonna do? Are they gonna get double banned? 1:04:54.960 --> 1:04:55.120 Oh? 1:04:55.200 --> 1:04:55.439 Yeah? 1:04:55.560 --> 1:04:59.040 And dude, like I'm not, I'm not easily shaken up 1:04:59.080 --> 1:05:02.800 by any means, you know, like didn't really didn't really 1:05:02.840 --> 1:05:03.520 grow the best. 1:05:03.600 --> 1:05:05.840 But I'll tell you what. That dude the other. 1:05:05.800 --> 1:05:08.200 Night, there is no color left in his eyes. 1:05:08.240 --> 1:05:09.080 He was so messed up. 1:05:09.120 --> 1:05:12.160 I was like, oh my god, Oh you beat him up? 1:05:13.240 --> 1:05:13.960 Oh no, no, no no. 1:05:14.240 --> 1:05:16.040 I called the cops, which I don't like to do, 1:05:16.120 --> 1:05:18.480 but you know, I live in Florida, so you got 1:05:18.480 --> 1:05:19.680 to call the cops sometimes. 1:05:21.240 --> 1:05:28.560 Jesus. Well, uh, it's interesting none of these people shake 1:05:28.640 --> 1:05:31.600 you up. I mean, have you ever had people like 1:05:31.800 --> 1:05:35.320 threaten you? You just don't care when people threaten you 1:05:35.320 --> 1:05:35.640 with shit? 1:05:38.280 --> 1:05:42.000 Not really, I'm not trying to really sound like a 1:05:42.280 --> 1:05:45.600 like a tough guy here, but I feel like certain 1:05:45.640 --> 1:05:48.600 life experiences of how to dealt with were more scarier 1:05:48.680 --> 1:05:51.960 than an angry little man that doesn't know how to 1:05:51.960 --> 1:05:52.600 go to therapy. 1:05:54.440 --> 1:05:56.280 I mean, I've got people wait on out of the 1:05:56.280 --> 1:05:58.520 parking lot for me by my car and stuff, but 1:05:59.480 --> 1:06:01.040 I all to take care of myself. 1:06:01.120 --> 1:06:02.440 So jeez. 1:06:03.160 --> 1:06:05.320 Well, I mean I'm glad you mentioned. I'm glad you 1:06:05.360 --> 1:06:08.120 got to mention that part about it being a uh 1:06:09.880 --> 1:06:13.120 at the end of the day, a positive community. I 1:06:13.120 --> 1:06:16.240 can see that with the tournaments and stuff bringing people 1:06:16.240 --> 1:06:22.160 together definitely. Well, thank you for sharing, Madison. You know. 1:06:22.280 --> 1:06:24.480 And there's there's an add on of grand theft. I 1:06:24.520 --> 1:06:26.440 don't know why I'm thinking about this or mentioning it, 1:06:26.480 --> 1:06:29.640 but there's an add on of grand theft, Auto four, 1:06:30.240 --> 1:06:32.200 The Lost and the Damned where you can you can 1:06:32.280 --> 1:06:34.600 use a pool que as a weapon. So I did 1:06:34.680 --> 1:06:35.520 just think of that. 1:06:36.440 --> 1:06:37.760 That used to be one of me and my dad's 1:06:37.800 --> 1:06:42.040 favorite games play together. Hell yeah, well you have a 1:06:42.080 --> 1:06:44.880 great I do. Did you just hear my cat? 1:06:45.280 --> 1:06:47.240 I did tell tell the cat? I said, hello, all right, 1:06:47.280 --> 1:06:49.040 thank you Madison. You have a good rest of the night. 1:06:49.120 --> 1:06:55.160 Thank you for sharing you too. Bye, goodbye. Hey there, 1:06:55.240 --> 1:06:58.680 this is Lyle again, just coming in to give a 1:06:58.720 --> 1:07:02.080 couple quick plugs that I wanted to talk about. This 1:07:02.240 --> 1:07:05.520 is not a sponsorship. I don't have any sponsors right now, 1:07:05.960 --> 1:07:11.360 but if you would like to support the show, if 1:07:11.560 --> 1:07:16.360 you gain any value whatsoever from listening to this podcast, 1:07:17.000 --> 1:07:20.400 from being part of the GAK nation, then you can 1:07:20.400 --> 1:07:25.400 consider supporting on Patreon dot com, slash lyle forever, you 1:07:25.440 --> 1:07:30.960 get access to exclusive streams, the exclusive gak legends, discord server, 1:07:31.640 --> 1:07:36.320 and most importantly, the good feelings associated with helping me 1:07:36.400 --> 1:07:39.320 eat food and live in a place. 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I think he's a little bit more 1:08:15.200 --> 1:08:20.000 sincere about it, but you know, I have my rule 1:08:20.000 --> 1:08:23.120 where I don't talk to anyone under the age of eighteen, 1:08:23.640 --> 1:08:28.360 and his whole demographic he's I think he's seventeen, and 1:08:28.439 --> 1:08:35.080 his demographic is helping other teenagers with you know, teenager problems. 1:08:35.640 --> 1:08:40.120 And you know, I liked what he was doing, and 1:08:40.200 --> 1:08:42.160 I wanted to tell you guys, especially if any of 1:08:42.200 --> 1:08:44.799 you guys listening to this are under the age of eighteen. 1:08:44.880 --> 1:08:48.520 I don't, like I said, I don't let anyone underage 1:08:48.560 --> 1:08:52.120 call into my stream. But check out this guy's show. 1:08:52.160 --> 1:08:59.040 It's Teenager Therapy on Apple podcasts and Spotify and on 1:08:59.320 --> 1:09:02.960 Instagram and Twitch and all that other stuff. So yeah, 1:09:03.040 --> 1:09:06.599 go check them out. And all right, that's enough. That's 1:09:06.680 --> 1:09:08.320 that's it for the by the way, and they didn't 1:09:08.320 --> 1:09:10.200 pay me to say that. I just thought he was 1:09:10.240 --> 1:09:12.920 a good kid. You know, I'm not over here taking 1:09:12.920 --> 1:09:15.720 money from children. They need it, all right, they're they're 1:09:15.720 --> 1:09:19.280 about to enter a terrible rough economy. Anyway, I don't 1:09:19.280 --> 1:09:21.200 know anything about the economy. I'm fucking stupid. All right, 1:09:21.240 --> 1:09:22.280 let's get back to the calls. 1:09:22.560 --> 1:09:24.480 Oh from Louise. 1:09:26.160 --> 1:09:26.519 Louise. 1:09:26.840 --> 1:09:30.880 Louise, hey man, how are you Louise? 1:09:32.439 --> 1:09:33.080 I'm doing good. 1:09:34.479 --> 1:09:35.320 How old are you? Louise? 1:09:36.439 --> 1:09:36.920 Twenty one? 1:09:39.800 --> 1:09:41.479 Why are you doing so good today? Louise? 1:09:43.800 --> 1:09:48.360 Well it was my day off, so of what day off? 1:09:49.840 --> 1:09:50.320 That's cool? 1:09:53.560 --> 1:10:01.640 Dove the enemies Louise, Well, so not person, but I. 1:10:01.640 --> 1:10:02.559 Would say time. 1:10:04.080 --> 1:10:04.360 Time. 1:10:06.120 --> 1:10:10.040 Yeah, so I don't know. I'm so I'm about to graduate, right, 1:10:10.760 --> 1:10:13.880 and it's really made me think a lot about time. 1:10:16.520 --> 1:10:20.599 So my family is like an immigrant family, right, mm hmm. 1:10:21.720 --> 1:10:24.800 So like my entire life, Michael has been to go 1:10:24.840 --> 1:10:27.599 to college. That's that's kind of what they've instilled done 1:10:27.640 --> 1:10:30.559 me to go to college and get a great job. 1:10:31.360 --> 1:10:36.040 And I'm about a month from graduation. Uh and I'm 1:10:36.080 --> 1:10:39.800 also like in the process of getting that, I've already 1:10:39.800 --> 1:10:41.240 interviewed with a very good company. 1:10:42.240 --> 1:10:42.439 Yeah. 1:10:43.960 --> 1:10:48.760 And and so I've I'm basically waiting to get this 1:10:48.840 --> 1:10:51.240 job offer, and I'm pretty sure I'm gonna get it. 1:10:51.280 --> 1:10:53.479 It's gonna be a very good job offer. 1:10:54.240 --> 1:10:54.439 Yeah. 1:10:54.520 --> 1:10:57.679 But uh so, like my entire life has been building 1:10:57.720 --> 1:11:00.200 up to this moment, right where I graduated and I 1:11:00.200 --> 1:11:03.080 get a good job and I make my parents proud, right. 1:11:03.720 --> 1:11:07.200 But now I'm like, me that your life after the school, right, 1:11:10.240 --> 1:11:13.759 Like there's more than just college. 1:11:14.439 --> 1:11:16.040 You're kind of you're kind of in the way of 1:11:16.120 --> 1:11:19.120 all right, you've been working, You've you've had this thing 1:11:19.280 --> 1:11:21.559 in mind, and your whole life has been like all right, 1:11:21.960 --> 1:11:24.880 you know, trying to get to that moment of getting 1:11:24.880 --> 1:11:27.760 that job, and now that you you're there, you're like, oh, fuck, 1:11:27.800 --> 1:11:29.360 now I have to actually do this thing. 1:11:30.200 --> 1:11:32.120 Yeah, and not just that, like I kind of have 1:11:32.160 --> 1:11:35.400 a choice of jobs so of course I'm not. I'm 1:11:35.439 --> 1:11:38.120 just not sure. You know, I'm kind of in the 1:11:38.200 --> 1:11:41.599 tech world. So the big question is kind of like 1:11:42.080 --> 1:11:44.080 whether I want to move to Austin or whether I'm 1:11:44.080 --> 1:11:45.640 not when it moves to California. 1:11:46.280 --> 1:11:49.479 Again, I'm not a real therapist or anything, but I mean, 1:11:50.040 --> 1:11:55.360 you're The thing that bothers me about this is the 1:11:55.360 --> 1:11:59.080 fact that your goal is intertwined with what your parents 1:11:59.760 --> 1:12:05.080 want for you. Well, and I'm curious if like you 1:12:05.160 --> 1:12:09.599 want something that contrasts with what your parents want. 1:12:11.160 --> 1:12:13.400 I mean, to be honest, not really like I really 1:12:13.439 --> 1:12:19.360 actually do like computer science. Yeah, I've never been much 1:12:19.400 --> 1:12:22.160 of an artist. Like I've tried to do music and stuff, 1:12:22.160 --> 1:12:23.800 but I've never been much of an artist. 1:12:23.920 --> 1:12:26.960 So I've been saying, like, I know that the classic 1:12:27.120 --> 1:12:32.160 uh narrative is, uh, parent wants son to be a doctor, 1:12:32.160 --> 1:12:34.360 But there's probably parents out there who want their kid 1:12:34.479 --> 1:12:36.680 to fucking be a musician but they want to be 1:12:36.680 --> 1:12:39.559 a doctor or you know, something like that. But so 1:12:39.640 --> 1:12:40.840 you like computer science. 1:12:41.680 --> 1:12:44.320 Yeah, I do. And what's kind of feel I'm going 1:12:44.360 --> 1:12:48.160 to So that's that's why. Uh, it's kind of like 1:12:49.000 --> 1:12:51.519 having to make a big life choice of where to 1:12:51.600 --> 1:12:55.160 accept this job whether I want to be in Austin 1:12:55.320 --> 1:12:58.960 or in California and like the inifications, or that I 1:12:59.000 --> 1:13:03.760 live in Dallas since very nearby. Yeah, and so I 1:13:04.120 --> 1:13:06.719 would be able to visit family if I was nearby, 1:13:07.560 --> 1:13:11.960 you know, Dallas and California is quite further away, but 1:13:12.960 --> 1:13:17.680 California would have slightly better like job outlooks, but I 1:13:17.720 --> 1:13:21.720 would be so much further away from family. So there's 1:13:21.800 --> 1:13:24.400 just a lot. And it's made me realize, you know, 1:13:24.439 --> 1:13:28.599 I have infinite choices in life with my night time sure, 1:13:29.240 --> 1:13:31.960 and I can only make you know, I can only 1:13:32.000 --> 1:13:33.679 go one down one path. 1:13:35.479 --> 1:13:39.240 You know, well, you actually I feel like you have 1:13:39.320 --> 1:13:40.840 more time than you think you do. I mean, I 1:13:40.880 --> 1:13:44.000 know that you're like twenty one, and so because you've 1:13:44.040 --> 1:13:48.479 lived such a small amount of time, you think that 1:13:48.960 --> 1:13:52.960 every year is fucking hut up with this. You don't 1:13:53.000 --> 1:13:55.200 have that perspective, But your life is a lot longer 1:13:55.240 --> 1:13:57.560 than you might think it is. So like you know, 1:13:57.560 --> 1:13:59.760 I wouldn't look at any of your choices as like permanent, 1:14:00.280 --> 1:14:05.240 you know what I mean. If I had to make 1:14:05.280 --> 1:14:08.479 a gut decision, I think that you would be better. 1:14:08.760 --> 1:14:10.240 I mean it's hard, I don't know how old your 1:14:10.240 --> 1:14:12.000 family is, if it's like you know, you want to 1:14:12.000 --> 1:14:13.519 make sure you spend a little bit of time with them, 1:14:13.800 --> 1:14:16.879 or you know, if they're still young, then I would suggest, 1:14:17.080 --> 1:14:19.439 you know, and again I'm not telling you what to 1:14:19.479 --> 1:14:21.960 do or anything, but you know, i'd lean closer to 1:14:21.960 --> 1:14:26.400 the route of, you know, going off on your own 1:14:26.520 --> 1:14:30.160 and sort of building your own life separate from your family, 1:14:30.200 --> 1:14:32.240 because it does sound like they're kind of a little 1:14:32.280 --> 1:14:37.640 intertwained in your your business there. But yeah, you know, 1:14:37.720 --> 1:14:40.800 don't be afraid to sort of go out to California 1:14:40.800 --> 1:14:42.679 and set your own life apart from then. 1:14:44.479 --> 1:14:45.599 All right, that makes sense. 1:14:46.960 --> 1:14:49.880 But also don't ever listen to anything that crazy green 1:14:49.960 --> 1:14:51.080 man on the internet tells you. 1:14:51.960 --> 1:14:53.880 Yeah, that also makes a lot of sense. 1:14:54.760 --> 1:14:56.040 Thank you for calling in, Luise. 1:14:56.520 --> 1:14:58.920 Okay, yeah, thank you, thank you for doing the stream. 1:14:59.479 --> 1:15:02.960 Of course, I appreciate you calling in. You have a 1:15:02.960 --> 1:15:03.320 good night. 1:15:03.840 --> 1:15:04.160 Thank you. 1:15:08.360 --> 1:15:10.000 Oh nice guy. 1:15:11.120 --> 1:15:13.000 All from Eric. 1:15:14.800 --> 1:15:22.840 Hi Eric, Hello, how are you Eric? 1:15:24.520 --> 1:15:29.160 I'm doing pretty good. Surprised to that I got the call. 1:15:30.640 --> 1:15:30.800 Eric. 1:15:30.840 --> 1:15:33.240 I'm surprised you got the call too. I wasn't expecting 1:15:33.280 --> 1:15:41.200 to talk to you Eric. Yeah, him, you know who 1:15:41.240 --> 1:15:45.880 we are right now? Uh what we are two people 1:15:46.560 --> 1:15:48.960 who did not expect to be talking to each other 1:15:49.840 --> 1:15:54.200 that are now talking to each other on the phone. 1:15:56.080 --> 1:15:59.360 All right, do you agree with that? 1:16:00.560 --> 1:16:01.080 Yeah? 1:16:01.160 --> 1:16:03.040 I mean I kind of agree with that. 1:16:03.120 --> 1:16:05.840 Yeah, why only kind of? 1:16:07.840 --> 1:16:07.960 Uh? 1:16:08.920 --> 1:16:10.640 I mean I guess I do agree with it. 1:16:10.720 --> 1:16:14.719 I was just like, uh, I don't know I agree 1:16:14.760 --> 1:16:14.960 with that. 1:16:15.160 --> 1:16:17.360 Yeah. 1:16:17.400 --> 1:16:18.880 What what did you do today? 1:16:20.640 --> 1:16:20.760 Uh? 1:16:27.200 --> 1:16:27.960 I don't even know? 1:16:29.760 --> 1:16:33.320 Mm hmmm did you do? Did you do something suspicious 1:16:33.320 --> 1:16:34.760 and you don't want to tell us? That's fine? If 1:16:34.760 --> 1:16:36.559 you did, you don't you don't owe me anything. 1:16:38.680 --> 1:16:39.400 Well, I don't know. 1:16:42.160 --> 1:16:42.519 I don't know. 1:16:44.479 --> 1:16:45.000 I uh. 1:16:47.320 --> 1:16:48.240 I did some stuff. 1:16:49.240 --> 1:16:52.960 Okay, that's awesome. If the as long as you didn't 1:16:53.000 --> 1:16:53.519 like kill. 1:16:53.360 --> 1:16:57.320 People, Yeah, no, no doing that it. 1:16:57.320 --> 1:16:59.160 Sounds you're making it sound like you like killed someone 1:16:59.200 --> 1:17:01.680 today or you sold drugs. 1:17:02.760 --> 1:17:04.600 I don't sell drugs. 1:17:05.680 --> 1:17:08.400 I don't I don't kill people. 1:17:10.040 --> 1:17:11.360 I don't think you kill people. 1:17:13.640 --> 1:17:13.920 Normal. 1:17:13.960 --> 1:17:18.519 But then again, like, but then again, like that's what 1:17:18.600 --> 1:17:20.640 someone who kills people would would would want you to 1:17:20.720 --> 1:17:22.920 think of them. I don't think, Like imagine someone who 1:17:23.000 --> 1:17:25.120 kills who kills people. You can't because it's lots of 1:17:25.120 --> 1:17:28.160 different kinds of people kill people. You know, so I 1:17:28.200 --> 1:17:30.240 can't just assume that there is that there is someone 1:17:30.240 --> 1:17:33.800 that kills people and that then that this is what 1:17:33.840 --> 1:17:38.320 they typically look like or sound like. I like, because 1:17:38.360 --> 1:17:39.200 we're on the phone right now. 1:17:40.040 --> 1:17:41.559 Yeah, I can't argue with you. 1:17:41.600 --> 1:17:45.599 With you there, I'm no danger all around us. 1:17:46.320 --> 1:17:48.639 There's these think there's danger all around us. 1:17:49.760 --> 1:17:54.840 I don't know's I guess. I mean that's pretty that's uh, 1:17:55.720 --> 1:17:56.439 I could get. 1:17:56.640 --> 1:18:04.599 I don't know, Eric, Yeah, what what? What? 1:18:04.600 --> 1:18:04.800 What? 1:18:05.080 --> 1:18:05.160 All? 1:18:05.240 --> 1:18:05.400 Right? 1:18:05.560 --> 1:18:11.720 So assuming that there's danger all around us, right? What 1:18:11.720 --> 1:18:17.400 what particular kind of danger? Eric? Do you do you 1:18:17.479 --> 1:18:21.280 think is the most dangerous. 1:18:20.840 --> 1:18:30.880 H I'm gonna say, uh, bears to have done cocaine. 1:18:31.680 --> 1:18:40.879 Mm hm. You know, you know who's probably more dangerous 1:18:40.880 --> 1:18:48.000 than a bear who did cocaine? Who whoever, whoever gave 1:18:48.160 --> 1:18:51.720 that bear cocaine? 1:18:52.439 --> 1:18:52.599 Kay? 1:18:53.280 --> 1:18:55.760 Because they because they are the type of because if 1:18:55.800 --> 1:18:57.760 you I feel like, if you go out and you 1:18:57.800 --> 1:19:02.799 willingly give a bear cocaine, first of all, you're probably 1:19:02.800 --> 1:19:04.840 like some kind of cocaine kingpin. If you have enough 1:19:04.840 --> 1:19:06.840 cocaine left over, you can just give some to a bear. 1:19:10.400 --> 1:19:14.280 And then second of all, you're just going right up 1:19:14.320 --> 1:19:16.200 to a bear and going up to his nose and shit, 1:19:16.680 --> 1:19:18.799 that makes you pretty I would be scared of that person. 1:19:20.360 --> 1:19:22.920 Oh yeah, yeah. 1:19:23.080 --> 1:19:25.559 Who do you think would win a bear that did 1:19:25.640 --> 1:19:29.320 cocaine or like a tiger. 1:19:29.040 --> 1:19:29.879 That did cocaine? 1:19:32.640 --> 1:19:34.400 I feel like, all right, so if this were like, 1:19:34.479 --> 1:19:39.960 if we were like simplifying fractions here, we could probably 1:19:40.000 --> 1:19:43.479 just get rid of the cocaine part and just say 1:19:43.479 --> 1:19:50.719 who would win between a bear and a tiger? Would 1:19:50.760 --> 1:19:52.519 you agree with that? Or do you would you agree 1:19:52.520 --> 1:19:55.000 with that? Or do you think that the answer to 1:19:55.040 --> 1:19:57.000 who would win between a bear and a tiger and 1:19:57.000 --> 1:19:59.479 who would win between a bear and a tiger both 1:19:59.479 --> 1:20:02.720 on cocaine is different? Do you think the cocaine is 1:20:02.760 --> 1:20:06.439 an important variable? Because if it's not, we can simplify this. 1:20:07.320 --> 1:20:10.040 The cocaine is definitely a variable. I think like. 1:20:11.520 --> 1:20:13.400 For it to be an important variable, I think the 1:20:13.479 --> 1:20:15.719 answer to these two have to be have to be different. 1:20:16.080 --> 1:20:19.000 They answer these questions have to be different, all right, 1:20:19.000 --> 1:20:19.360 All right? 1:20:19.520 --> 1:20:24.680 Uh? How about uh? 1:20:25.120 --> 1:20:31.120 How about uh. 1:20:28.640 --> 1:20:32.280 Let's say if like a. 1:20:33.800 --> 1:20:37.920 Let's say, uh. 1:20:39.120 --> 1:20:43.240 Bear on cocaine versus tiger not on cocaine. 1:20:49.320 --> 1:20:51.439 You know what, actually, fuck it? I think the tiger 1:20:51.479 --> 1:20:53.960 wins either way. Because the tiger is agile. The tiger, 1:20:53.960 --> 1:20:56.760 the tiger is more agile than the bear I've seen, 1:20:56.960 --> 1:20:59.759 and tigers can like fuck up animals that are bigger 1:20:59.760 --> 1:21:03.880 than that. I think the tiger would fuck off the bear. 1:21:05.040 --> 1:21:06.439 Cocaine or not? 1:21:08.439 --> 1:21:10.439 Yeah, yeah, I got it. 1:21:10.840 --> 1:21:12.920 Also, I mean there hasn't been that. How many studies 1:21:12.920 --> 1:21:17.519 have there really been on how cocaine affects animals? How 1:21:17.560 --> 1:21:20.160 cocaine affects Uh, well, I guess we did. We gave 1:21:20.200 --> 1:21:23.200 a bunch of mice cocaine a while ago. But I mean, 1:21:23.560 --> 1:21:25.479 you know, we haven't really given a bear cocaine, so 1:21:25.520 --> 1:21:27.320 I don't know. Maybe that'll make maybe that makes them tired. 1:21:28.439 --> 1:21:31.160 Yeah, I don't know, like we've I feel like we 1:21:31.280 --> 1:21:32.640 haven't done any tastes on that. 1:21:32.720 --> 1:21:35.559 I feel like there's like some like animal right viola, 1:21:38.560 --> 1:21:40.639 Uh hey, I got a friend. 1:21:40.720 --> 1:21:43.000 He wants to know what your opinion on vampires? 1:21:43.040 --> 1:21:46.080 Did I tell your friend that I have no opinion 1:21:46.080 --> 1:21:47.320 on vampires? 1:21:47.760 --> 1:21:48.160 All right? 1:21:48.200 --> 1:21:50.759 All right, they're they're watching the stream, they've been text 1:21:50.880 --> 1:21:51.600 they're texting me. 1:21:51.640 --> 1:21:54.160 They really can I ask why they want to know 1:21:54.200 --> 1:21:56.439 my opinion on I haven't And I'm not saying that 1:21:56.439 --> 1:21:58.360 to be a jerk. I'm saying that because I would. 1:21:58.680 --> 1:22:00.240 I feel like I'd be more of a jerk if 1:22:00.280 --> 1:22:02.080 I just came up with an opinion on the spot. 1:22:02.080 --> 1:22:04.599 But I really haven't done my due diligence and research 1:22:04.640 --> 1:22:08.200 on vampires to be able to give an informed opinion. 1:22:09.640 --> 1:22:10.000 I don't know. 1:22:10.040 --> 1:22:13.160 They seem very angry that you don't have an opinion 1:22:13.200 --> 1:22:14.120 on vampires. 1:22:14.320 --> 1:22:19.000 We'll let them be angry, all right. You can't please everyone. Yeah, 1:22:19.080 --> 1:22:20.400 I love you, Eric, I'll talk to you. 1:22:20.320 --> 1:22:22.599 Soon, all right, thank you, Thank you. 1:22:27.920 --> 1:22:28.040 All. 1:22:28.200 --> 1:22:33.920 From Christina. 1:22:32.600 --> 1:22:35.960 Oh, it's not very good. 1:22:37.080 --> 1:22:37.280 Kick. 1:22:38.400 --> 1:22:39.240 Hello Christina. 1:22:40.760 --> 1:22:43.439 It's Christina and Matt. Actually we're very excited that we 1:22:43.479 --> 1:22:45.760 got It's Christina as well as Matt. 1:22:46.840 --> 1:22:49.640 Which one of you would be more interesting to talk to? 1:22:52.040 --> 1:22:53.400 Probably me, I'm. 1:22:53.320 --> 1:22:54.720 A little bit less introverted. 1:22:56.560 --> 1:23:02.880 Okay, well I will hear both sides of the story. 1:23:02.920 --> 1:23:05.400 What's up? How did you two? What's your relationship? Are 1:23:05.439 --> 1:23:09.040 you dating? Are you siblings? Are you friends? Are you cousins? 1:23:09.800 --> 1:23:16.640 Are you enemies? Okay, so you don't have it. I 1:23:16.640 --> 1:23:20.599 don't see an Alabama area code. 1:23:21.800 --> 1:23:24.160 No, we're my boyfriend. 1:23:25.479 --> 1:23:28.080 Cool. I wish Matt was my boyfriend. How did you 1:23:28.080 --> 1:23:28.719 two meet. 1:23:30.400 --> 1:23:33.240 Bumble, all right. 1:23:33.680 --> 1:23:37.200 I like that because you went off the bad saying 1:23:37.240 --> 1:23:39.920 that you are more he's more introverted than you, So 1:23:39.960 --> 1:23:42.760 it kind of would make sense right that you met 1:23:42.760 --> 1:23:43.280 on bumble. 1:23:44.360 --> 1:23:48.920 Yeah, I'll tell you the story. Actually, on our second date, 1:23:49.920 --> 1:23:51.960 I was trying to kiss in and we were in 1:23:52.000 --> 1:23:57.719 my car and he fell out of my car because 1:23:57.760 --> 1:23:58.439 I was trying. 1:23:58.200 --> 1:23:59.280 To kiss him and he did. 1:23:59.760 --> 1:24:01.400 He was scared of me. 1:24:04.080 --> 1:24:05.559 It's like some Michael Sarah ship. 1:24:06.120 --> 1:24:06.639 He was like. 1:24:06.680 --> 1:24:08.639 Packing away like he didn't. 1:24:09.479 --> 1:24:12.720 Yeah, yeah, that was it. 1:24:14.439 --> 1:24:16.200 Why was it? Why was he afraid? 1:24:17.439 --> 1:24:20.439 I think I come on a little strong girl, scary. 1:24:24.439 --> 1:24:25.280 Uh? 1:24:25.520 --> 1:24:29.960 How did what was your like opening line to him? 1:24:30.240 --> 1:24:32.400 Did you do anything spooky for Halloween? 1:24:37.439 --> 1:24:37.679 Matt? 1:24:37.720 --> 1:24:39.559 Did you do anything spooky for Halloween? 1:24:40.360 --> 1:24:40.559 Did? 1:24:40.600 --> 1:24:41.560 I know? 1:24:43.200 --> 1:24:43.759 Not really? 1:24:43.880 --> 1:24:45.960 I think I just said some bullshit. 1:24:47.920 --> 1:24:53.200 Largest fucking Adam's apple. I've ever heard. What is your tradition, Christina? 1:24:53.880 --> 1:24:54.519 My tradition? 1:24:55.600 --> 1:24:58.920 Well, actually we wanted to talk about our tradition, and 1:24:58.960 --> 1:25:04.759 our tradition is that like we don't do anything right together, 1:25:05.120 --> 1:25:10.639 Like all of our dates go wrong somehow, and we've 1:25:10.640 --> 1:25:13.920 been together for two years, and I think it's just 1:25:14.000 --> 1:25:21.840 kind of like brought us closer together. Like, so we 1:25:21.840 --> 1:25:24.920 we were trying to go to DC and this should 1:25:24.960 --> 1:25:28.600 really only be like an hour or two expedition. It 1:25:28.680 --> 1:25:31.360 took five hours for us to get to DUC because 1:25:31.360 --> 1:25:34.880 we missed the train. I had to file police report 1:25:34.880 --> 1:25:37.840 because there was some creepy guy like poking his head 1:25:37.880 --> 1:25:40.200 in the bathroom. 1:25:40.479 --> 1:25:44.240 There is a guy fucking his head in the bathroom. 1:25:44.920 --> 1:25:47.280 Yeah, he was a He was a worker at the 1:25:49.240 --> 1:25:50.080 I guess it's a metro. 1:25:50.240 --> 1:25:50.600 I don't know. 1:25:51.040 --> 1:25:54.680 He wasn't like he wasn't like a sanitation worker cleaning it. 1:25:55.240 --> 1:25:59.000 He was a sanitation worker. And there was this like 1:25:59.120 --> 1:26:04.040 beautiful woman next to me standing and like powdering her 1:26:04.120 --> 1:26:07.280 nose or doing her makeup whatever, and he was trying 1:26:07.320 --> 1:26:11.280 to get a date with her. And I just felt 1:26:11.360 --> 1:26:14.599 so obligated to like like I've already washed my hands, man, 1:26:15.439 --> 1:26:18.799 I like I dried them. I was just like standing 1:26:18.840 --> 1:26:21.439 there trying to find things to do to make sure 1:26:21.479 --> 1:26:27.360 that this woman was okay, because the dude was giving off. 1:26:27.200 --> 1:26:28.680 A weird vibe. 1:26:29.640 --> 1:26:32.880 So how else have you tell me about? Okay, you 1:26:32.920 --> 1:26:35.440 said that none of your dates go correct. 1:26:36.360 --> 1:26:38.280 Okay, that might have been an exaggeration. 1:26:38.600 --> 1:26:41.280 Well, Okay, tell me which one has gone which one 1:26:41.320 --> 1:26:45.559 has gone the worst, the least correct, what's been the 1:26:45.600 --> 1:26:47.640 biggest misadventure. 1:26:49.120 --> 1:26:49.759 The worst. 1:26:51.360 --> 1:26:54.280 I want to hear from I want to hear the 1:26:54.360 --> 1:26:54.920 story from me. 1:26:55.600 --> 1:26:58.599 Okay, all right, all right, all right, let's see which 1:26:58.600 --> 1:26:59.120 one has. 1:26:59.000 --> 1:26:59.839 Gone the worst? 1:27:00.560 --> 1:27:02.160 Which other one went wrong? 1:27:02.400 --> 1:27:03.599 I would say that one. 1:27:04.520 --> 1:27:09.720 Well, I'm kind of like Philadelphia. 1:27:09.840 --> 1:27:14.759 You know, we went to Philadelphia and we didn't really 1:27:14.760 --> 1:27:17.320 do anything but stay inside of there. 1:27:17.600 --> 1:27:20.040 Yeah, we gotta. 1:27:20.360 --> 1:27:25.280 In Philadelphia and not really doing anything. We got every couple, 1:27:25.360 --> 1:27:27.840 every couple has a story about the time they went 1:27:27.880 --> 1:27:29.719 to Philadelphia and they didn't do anything. 1:27:31.439 --> 1:27:34.439 Yeah, we just went to Philly and ate food for 1:27:34.560 --> 1:27:36.880 three days and wasted money on an airbnb? 1:27:37.360 --> 1:27:37.920 What the food? 1:27:37.960 --> 1:27:39.760 What the fuck else do you do? No, that's not 1:27:41.479 --> 1:27:44.400 everywhere you go on vacation anywhere. All you do is 1:27:44.479 --> 1:27:46.760 walk around and eat food. That's not doing nothing. You 1:27:46.880 --> 1:27:49.200 just want That's what the fuck else were you gonna 1:27:49.520 --> 1:27:51.720 were you gonna do? That's what you do when you 1:27:51.800 --> 1:27:53.320 go to a new place, You walk around and you 1:27:53.360 --> 1:27:54.320 eat food there. 1:27:55.040 --> 1:27:59.960 So also with that trip, I had forgotten to refilm 1:28:00.080 --> 1:28:02.320 my adderall and. 1:28:02.240 --> 1:28:06.800 So I was basically part of the trip with me 1:28:07.160 --> 1:28:11.439 attending to Christina coming down from her ADHD medical You. 1:28:11.400 --> 1:28:19.040 Had to be the human adderall yeah. But I feel 1:28:19.040 --> 1:28:21.320 like you'd be good at that, Matt, because you got 1:28:21.360 --> 1:28:24.360 like the very you got a very chill vibe. I 1:28:24.360 --> 1:28:27.599 feel like you'd be good at calming down some ADHD people. 1:28:29.200 --> 1:28:31.280 I'd like that for you. 1:28:31.479 --> 1:28:36.680 He's Christina, Matt, thank you for regarding us with you 1:28:36.760 --> 1:28:42.720 with your misadventures here. I hope that your love blossoms 1:28:42.760 --> 1:28:46.000 for another five thousand halloweens. 1:28:46.360 --> 1:28:46.559 Yeah. 1:28:46.600 --> 1:28:49.640 I hope we can suck up five thousand more halloweens. 1:28:49.640 --> 1:28:50.040 For sure. 1:28:50.280 --> 1:28:51.639 We will here. We will. 1:28:53.200 --> 1:28:55.120 Much love, much love. All right, you guys have a 1:28:55.120 --> 1:28:55.519 good night. 1:28:57.000 --> 1:28:58.800 Yeah, yeah, I love you. 1:28:59.120 --> 1:29:00.800 I love you too, Matt. You have a good night. 1:29:02.439 --> 1:29:03.040 What about me. 1:29:04.720 --> 1:29:07.840 And Christian? I'll see you guys. 1:29:11.920 --> 1:29:14.480 Call from Miranda. 1:29:15.680 --> 1:29:17.920 To accept Miranda. 1:29:18.720 --> 1:29:21.680 Okay, whoa, hello, Hi? 1:29:23.800 --> 1:29:24.160 How are you? 1:29:25.960 --> 1:29:29.120 H I'm doing all right? 1:29:29.240 --> 1:29:29.560 How are you? 1:29:32.000 --> 1:29:36.040 I'm chilling. I'm in the sky, Miranda. I have a 1:29:36.160 --> 1:29:36.760 question for you. 1:29:37.880 --> 1:29:38.439 Yeah, what is it? 1:29:40.320 --> 1:29:41.760 Do you have any traditions? 1:29:44.520 --> 1:29:44.880 Mmmm? 1:29:49.960 --> 1:29:56.360 Oh, I hm, I'm trying to think. 1:29:57.120 --> 1:29:59.400 I mean it's okay, We'll wait. 1:30:02.040 --> 1:30:04.000 I guess I guess. The tradition that I have is 1:30:04.040 --> 1:30:06.479 that for every Thanksgiving I eat breakfast food. 1:30:07.680 --> 1:30:10.880 You eat all right, that's interesting, for every Thanksgiving you 1:30:10.960 --> 1:30:11.920 eat breakfast food. 1:30:13.000 --> 1:30:15.679 Yeah, I eat breakfast food for every Thanksgiving, like pancakes 1:30:15.720 --> 1:30:17.280 and bacon, scrambled eggs. 1:30:17.120 --> 1:30:17.519 The works. 1:30:19.320 --> 1:30:21.280 But you don't, by the way, you don't mean every 1:30:21.479 --> 1:30:24.560 Thanksgiving you have breakfast and then later and that you 1:30:24.680 --> 1:30:26.160 have Thanksgiving dinner because. 1:30:25.920 --> 1:30:28.519 That's a copyiving Giving dinner. 1:30:28.920 --> 1:30:30.000 You have breakfast food. 1:30:30.600 --> 1:30:32.479 Yes, for Thanksgiving dinner, I have breakfast food. 1:30:32.880 --> 1:30:33.600 And how did this? 1:30:33.760 --> 1:30:34.080 How did this? 1:30:34.400 --> 1:30:35.160 How did this begin? 1:30:39.439 --> 1:30:39.479 So? 1:30:40.160 --> 1:30:45.400 I guess. So one thing, I've always like hated turkey, 1:30:45.560 --> 1:30:47.559 Like I don't know what's wrong with me. I hate 1:30:47.720 --> 1:30:51.720 like Thanksgiving turkey. It doesn't taste good ever, Like I've 1:30:51.800 --> 1:30:55.920 just never liked it. And so eventually my family is 1:30:56.000 --> 1:30:59.720 like pretty pretty small, and so at one point we 1:30:59.840 --> 1:31:03.519 just realized it wasn't worth, uh, you know, spending like 1:31:03.600 --> 1:31:07.439 a crap ton of money to make a huge breakfast 1:31:07.880 --> 1:31:10.519 or not to huge breakfast and use Thanksgiving dinner like 1:31:10.640 --> 1:31:13.120 buying a turkey, stuffing all that all that stuff, like 1:31:13.880 --> 1:31:16.080 it was really expensive, and like it's just my mom 1:31:16.120 --> 1:31:21.320 and I is and my grandparents, and so one year, 1:31:22.280 --> 1:31:23.920 like I guess, they like they were looking at the 1:31:23.960 --> 1:31:26.360 money and they realized that it was cheaper to like 1:31:27.760 --> 1:31:30.320 basically just order the food instead of making it and 1:31:30.439 --> 1:31:31.960 just ordering it for like a small group of people, 1:31:31.960 --> 1:31:33.519 instead of like having like a whole turkey and all 1:31:33.560 --> 1:31:37.519 that like shit. And when we were finally ordering it, 1:31:37.640 --> 1:31:41.920 I was like, hey, can you just order me something else? 1:31:42.640 --> 1:31:45.280 Like can you just order me something that isn't Thanksgiving food? 1:31:45.720 --> 1:31:45.920 Yes? 1:31:45.960 --> 1:31:48.639 And they're like okay, well yeah, this is where it begins. 1:31:48.880 --> 1:31:50.240 And then they're like okay, well, like what do you 1:31:50.320 --> 1:31:53.080 want to order? And I was like okay, well, you 1:31:53.120 --> 1:31:53.680 know what, fuck it. 1:31:53.800 --> 1:31:54.599 I'm like twelve. 1:31:55.800 --> 1:32:00.160 I love pancakes, as every twelve year old should. So 1:32:00.240 --> 1:32:02.320 I got some fucking pancakes. I got some bake and 1:32:02.360 --> 1:32:06.160 I got some scrambled eggs, and everyone judged me because 1:32:06.160 --> 1:32:09.360 they're like, hey, that's weird, like why don't you want turkey? 1:32:09.400 --> 1:32:12.800 And I was like, Turkey's trash, dude. So anyways, I 1:32:13.080 --> 1:32:16.040 gots I got breakfast food for Thanksgiving dinner, and then 1:32:16.200 --> 1:32:19.160 ever since then, I was like I feel empowered, you know, 1:32:19.200 --> 1:32:22.000 I feel empowered to just yes to just get whatever 1:32:22.040 --> 1:32:25.160 I want for Thanksgiving, and so now now everything'sgiving dinner, 1:32:25.280 --> 1:32:26.360 I get breakfast food. 1:32:27.280 --> 1:32:28.520 You're an iconoclass. 1:32:30.520 --> 1:32:33.000 An iconoclass, but I know what that word is, but 1:32:33.120 --> 1:32:34.920 I don't actually or in I've heard that word, but 1:32:34.920 --> 1:32:35.639 I don't know what that means. 1:32:35.760 --> 1:32:38.400 You're you're you're like a contrarian. This is interesting because 1:32:38.400 --> 1:32:41.719 we were talking to ship what was her name? Fuck, 1:32:41.920 --> 1:32:43.439 we were talking to someone at the beginning of the 1:32:43.479 --> 1:32:47.400 stream who also was like she wasn't specific about it, 1:32:47.479 --> 1:32:50.800 but she was saying that she had an iconoclastic contrarian energy. 1:32:51.280 --> 1:32:52.600 I feel like you too. I feel like we I 1:32:52.600 --> 1:32:54.120 feel like there's a there's a math, there's a theme 1:32:54.160 --> 1:32:57.439 going on here tonight. Yeah, there is a you know 1:32:57.520 --> 1:32:59.320 what there's that's I think that's the theme for the 1:32:59.439 --> 1:33:03.479 night is being being a fucking contrarian, you know, I. 1:33:03.520 --> 1:33:06.320 Mean, you know, I just one thing that's funny though, 1:33:06.360 --> 1:33:08.679 is every year, so like you know, pre COVID, we'd 1:33:08.800 --> 1:33:11.599 usually go out and eat for Thanksgiving dinner, like read 1:33:11.640 --> 1:33:15.320 reserve ahead of time, and every single time, like at 1:33:15.360 --> 1:33:17.439 the dinner table, once I'd have my breakfast food there, 1:33:17.720 --> 1:33:19.360 everyone had the table was like, oh, you know, I 1:33:19.520 --> 1:33:22.000 really I wish I had some bacon or I wish. 1:33:22.040 --> 1:33:23.479 Oh you got all right, So that's what I was 1:33:23.520 --> 1:33:25.679 gonna ask. You got other people on the waves? 1:33:26.880 --> 1:33:28.519 Well, yeah, so like on the way, some people would 1:33:28.520 --> 1:33:30.519 like sometimes like I'd like share a little bit. I'd 1:33:30.520 --> 1:33:32.200 share like a little bit of a pancakes or a bacon, 1:33:32.280 --> 1:33:32.880 ri eggs or whatever. 1:33:33.280 --> 1:33:36.200 That's benevolent of you to share with people who who 1:33:36.280 --> 1:33:37.120 didn't believe in you. 1:33:38.400 --> 1:33:40.240 I know, you know, and I mean I feel like, 1:33:40.800 --> 1:33:43.280 you know, you have to be nice about it because 1:33:43.320 --> 1:33:46.559 you know, like, oh you got you gotta share a love. 1:33:46.720 --> 1:33:50.040 You know, it's family, it's time of thanks. I might 1:33:50.120 --> 1:33:51.200 as well, you know, give them. 1:33:53.320 --> 1:33:53.639 Thanks. 1:33:53.720 --> 1:33:55.559 But you know, you got to you how to get 1:33:55.560 --> 1:33:57.560 people on the train. You got to get people on 1:33:57.640 --> 1:34:01.400 the breakfast train for sure. And honestly, you know what, 1:34:01.520 --> 1:34:05.160 I recommend it, whatever you want for dinner, especially Thanksgiving dinner. 1:34:06.280 --> 1:34:08.400 So you eventually got everywhere. So now when you go 1:34:08.479 --> 1:34:13.240 in and have Thanksgiving dinner, does everyone get breakfast food? 1:34:13.280 --> 1:34:13.519 No one. 1:34:13.640 --> 1:34:15.519 No one's getting turkey anymore in the family. 1:34:16.600 --> 1:34:19.920 Well, so what's funny is that so like the places 1:34:19.960 --> 1:34:21.519 that we usually go to and like we haven't done 1:34:21.560 --> 1:34:23.840 this since the pandemic. But like the last time we 1:34:23.880 --> 1:34:28.400 had Thanksgiving because like again, you know, we're not ordering 1:34:28.400 --> 1:34:30.200 a whole ass turkey because we can't eat all of it. 1:34:30.880 --> 1:34:34.240 So what they do now is like now a lot 1:34:34.280 --> 1:34:37.080 of my family instead of like ordering like turkey, they'll 1:34:37.120 --> 1:34:39.479 get like whatever meat they want, like I think, like 1:34:39.760 --> 1:34:42.720 last year, like my mom got like ribs, you know. 1:34:42.840 --> 1:34:45.120 Like so now it's not necessarily always breakfast food, but 1:34:45.280 --> 1:34:49.760 and now it's like a lot more different food, like 1:34:49.880 --> 1:34:51.439 not traditionally. 1:34:50.840 --> 1:34:52.600 Breakfast food Thanksgiving. 1:34:52.840 --> 1:34:54.240 I just really like breakfast food. 1:34:55.640 --> 1:34:58.160 Well I'm gonna try. I'm going to try Thanksgiving ribs 1:34:58.200 --> 1:35:01.519 and pancakes or you know, hell yeah, I might go 1:35:01.640 --> 1:35:05.559 a step further in the contrarianism, right, and next time 1:35:05.640 --> 1:35:09.960 I have and maybe tomorrow night I'll order some ribs 1:35:10.000 --> 1:35:13.839 and pancakes and declare it in my perception of reality 1:35:14.000 --> 1:35:15.480 to be Thanksgiving. 1:35:16.680 --> 1:35:20.600 I mean, you know anything, Okay, if you want to 1:35:20.720 --> 1:35:24.360 perceive tomorrow night as Thanksgiving, that's your reality. 1:35:24.800 --> 1:35:25.320 I agree. 1:35:26.320 --> 1:35:30.479 That makes it real. Whatever you perceive is real to 1:35:30.640 --> 1:35:33.080 you may not real to everyone else, but it's real 1:35:33.120 --> 1:35:35.759 as hell to you. You get those ribs and pancakes 1:35:35.800 --> 1:35:37.520 and you have tomorrow night and Thanksgiving. 1:35:38.080 --> 1:35:39.839 I will thank you, thank yourself. 1:35:43.040 --> 1:35:45.040 Hell yeah, have a have a fun night in the sky. 1:35:45.800 --> 1:35:46.760 I'll try. Thank you. 1:35:50.720 --> 1:35:50.880 All. 1:35:51.000 --> 1:35:53.280 From Amber. 1:35:54.680 --> 1:35:58.160 Amber, Hello therapy Gecko. 1:35:58.400 --> 1:36:02.839 I have been trying to get through crazy that you must. 1:36:02.680 --> 1:36:04.479 Have something very important to tell me. 1:36:06.439 --> 1:36:12.520 I do well, I mean ask you, but sure, Okay, okay. 1:36:12.720 --> 1:36:16.360 It's okay, bute, it's okay if you don't. No, I 1:36:16.439 --> 1:36:22.960 mean it's look important relative. I'm sorry, never mind, I'm 1:36:22.960 --> 1:36:23.960 gonna stop interrupting you. 1:36:25.560 --> 1:36:27.479 I was gonna say if you had a question for me, 1:36:27.560 --> 1:36:30.320 I'm more than willing to answer. I just was calling 1:36:30.400 --> 1:36:32.559 in because I have a legit problem that I think 1:36:32.680 --> 1:36:36.760 maybe you guys can give me an in partial view 1:36:37.000 --> 1:36:39.479 on how I should go about something. 1:36:40.160 --> 1:36:43.160 Okay, I'll try my best. I don't know if you caught, 1:36:43.240 --> 1:36:44.960 but the last few people that gave that I gave 1:36:45.000 --> 1:36:48.720 advice to left the experience sounding very disappointed. But I'll 1:36:48.760 --> 1:36:49.240 try again. 1:36:50.840 --> 1:36:51.960 Well, they hit some. 1:36:52.280 --> 1:36:55.599 Pretty crazy things, some people legitimate, but some people who 1:36:55.600 --> 1:36:58.519 have called him a craziest thing. But this is legit. 1:37:00.520 --> 1:37:03.960 I'm very confused in a relationship that I've been in 1:37:04.280 --> 1:37:07.960 for two years, and co is good to talk to 1:37:08.000 --> 1:37:12.080 your friends, but your friends are invested, so they kind 1:37:12.160 --> 1:37:15.519 of give you advice that you probably should listen to, 1:37:16.520 --> 1:37:22.960 but sometimes as strangers and somebody who's not attached, just 1:37:23.160 --> 1:37:26.000 to see if your way of thinking is still the 1:37:26.120 --> 1:37:26.800 right way of what. 1:37:26.920 --> 1:37:27.800 You should be doing. 1:37:28.479 --> 1:37:29.679 Okay, we'll hit us Samborn. 1:37:31.080 --> 1:37:34.360 So I haven't had the best of luck with relationships. 1:37:34.600 --> 1:37:39.720 I am, we'll say, in my forties. I'm in my 1:37:39.840 --> 1:37:42.519 earlier part of my forties. I have not been with 1:37:42.800 --> 1:37:45.320 very many people, but the people I have been with, 1:37:45.520 --> 1:37:49.400 I have been in long term relationships, my longest being 1:37:49.600 --> 1:37:56.200 thirteen years. I met this incredible person through work, and 1:37:56.600 --> 1:37:58.920 in the beginning it was just a friendship and it 1:37:59.040 --> 1:38:03.360 was just coworkers. About maybe a year and a half 1:38:03.640 --> 1:38:07.760 after something's progressed and I thought he was trying to 1:38:07.840 --> 1:38:10.720 say something to me without saying something to me, and 1:38:12.080 --> 1:38:16.559 I thought feelings were involved, and I think they still 1:38:16.640 --> 1:38:18.880 were to a degree, but it didn't work out the 1:38:19.000 --> 1:38:23.439 first go round. So my mom always gave me the 1:38:23.520 --> 1:38:26.960 good real relationship advice is something was meant to be. 1:38:27.720 --> 1:38:30.560 If you said it free and they come back that 1:38:30.720 --> 1:38:34.879 it's a sign. Am I rambling? 1:38:35.600 --> 1:38:40.200 Okay, No, I no, I I agree with I I do. 1:38:40.439 --> 1:38:42.360 I do to it to an extent, I do kind 1:38:42.400 --> 1:38:43.920 of agree with if it's if it's meant to be, 1:38:43.960 --> 1:38:45.720 If it's meant it's meant to be. But I want 1:38:45.720 --> 1:38:46.920 to I want to hear the I want to hear 1:38:46.960 --> 1:38:47.639 the rest of the story. 1:38:48.200 --> 1:38:48.360 Right. 1:38:48.720 --> 1:38:51.880 So, in the past, I've jumped into things with people 1:38:52.080 --> 1:38:55.679 that weren't the best for me. So in this case, 1:38:55.960 --> 1:38:58.800 I thought, even though it hurt very much, because he 1:38:59.040 --> 1:39:03.200 was even to this day he is an extremely great person, 1:39:05.600 --> 1:39:09.360 I set him free. I moved. I didn't even tell him, 1:39:10.400 --> 1:39:13.040 and we had mutual friends, but they kind of knew 1:39:13.080 --> 1:39:15.320 what was going on, and they knew I wasn't really 1:39:15.479 --> 1:39:19.200 talking to him and kind of knew the reason why. 1:39:19.400 --> 1:39:21.560 I mean, it was more my hang up than it 1:39:21.760 --> 1:39:26.200 was his hang up. So I don't know. I think 1:39:26.240 --> 1:39:28.040 it was four months go by. 1:39:28.400 --> 1:39:30.519 Can I ask what the hang up was that caused 1:39:30.520 --> 1:39:31.400 you to set him free? 1:39:33.640 --> 1:39:36.519 I finally got enoughner to tell him how I felt. 1:39:38.400 --> 1:39:42.479 We were all going to a concert together, and he 1:39:42.640 --> 1:39:46.439 brought us over to his friends before the concert because 1:39:46.479 --> 1:39:52.600 it was only like feet from the venue, and I 1:39:52.760 --> 1:39:56.960 was planning to tell him during a specific song how 1:39:57.000 --> 1:40:00.559 I felt about him, because I really thought up until 1:40:00.640 --> 1:40:04.559 this point, that's what it was leading to, that you were. 1:40:04.479 --> 1:40:06.960 Going to go were you You weren't dating at this point. 1:40:08.000 --> 1:40:11.360 No, we were still just hanging out as friends. So 1:40:11.640 --> 1:40:14.080 we were going out to breakfast, going out to eat, 1:40:14.240 --> 1:40:17.400 and doing things together. He would incorporate me in his 1:40:17.600 --> 1:40:22.479 day he does something. Where he does isn't tied into 1:40:22.560 --> 1:40:25.880 an office or or setting. 1:40:26.280 --> 1:40:28.800 He's he liked this guy, and you were about to 1:40:28.800 --> 1:40:31.840 tell him how you how? How uh how you felt 1:40:31.880 --> 1:40:32.320 about him? 1:40:32.479 --> 1:40:40.280 Okay, so well, he brought his date, so I just 1:40:40.439 --> 1:40:44.479 never told him, And when they went onto the concert, 1:40:44.680 --> 1:40:47.600 I stayed back at the friend's house and I proceeded 1:40:47.680 --> 1:40:49.720 that I am half a bottle. 1:40:49.439 --> 1:40:52.400 Of tequila and wait for him to come back and 1:40:52.520 --> 1:40:53.120 take me home. 1:40:54.040 --> 1:40:55.679 So he never knew. 1:40:56.080 --> 1:40:58.439 So, like I said, it was more my hang up 1:40:58.560 --> 1:41:04.360 than it was it. So when we got back into contact, 1:41:04.520 --> 1:41:07.400 I did let him know. So this wasn't something that 1:41:07.840 --> 1:41:12.839 was hanging because once we started talking, he asked me why. 1:41:13.160 --> 1:41:14.920 You didn't hold out for him? 1:41:15.280 --> 1:41:15.600 Did you? 1:41:15.840 --> 1:41:17.280 Are you still trying to meet other. 1:41:17.200 --> 1:41:19.120 People at this point? 1:41:19.200 --> 1:41:22.240 Yeah, I was already dating other people. I was dating 1:41:22.360 --> 1:41:25.120 actually a couple of different people. One was like really 1:41:25.240 --> 1:41:28.040 horrible and I knew he had to go, and the 1:41:28.160 --> 1:41:31.640 other guy was just kind of having fun with, you know, 1:41:31.920 --> 1:41:34.920 somebody to hang out. We kind of had some mutual stuff, 1:41:34.960 --> 1:41:38.480 but it was never anything that I was taking seriously. 1:41:39.160 --> 1:41:39.479 Okay. 1:41:40.040 --> 1:41:45.439 So when he came back and texted me with something, 1:41:46.360 --> 1:41:50.400 we started talking and that's when things changed for us. 1:41:51.080 --> 1:41:55.440 And that's when things were more open and we proceeded 1:41:55.479 --> 1:41:58.519 to start sleeping together at this point, okay, And it 1:41:58.680 --> 1:42:03.280 wasn't something that was like we slept together and we 1:42:03.400 --> 1:42:06.479 fell instantly in love and we couldn't stop being around 1:42:06.560 --> 1:42:11.160 each other. I knew to a degree that still kind 1:42:11.240 --> 1:42:15.120 of take things slow because the conversations we had had 1:42:15.400 --> 1:42:16.080 in the past. 1:42:16.640 --> 1:42:19.200 Okay, So where are you guys? Where are you guys? Now? 1:42:20.400 --> 1:42:21.760 That's where I'm confused. 1:42:24.120 --> 1:42:24.640 So you. 1:42:26.120 --> 1:42:26.320 Where? 1:42:26.360 --> 1:42:26.559 Where? 1:42:26.600 --> 1:42:29.160 Where does the confusion come from? 1:42:30.360 --> 1:42:30.679 Okay? 1:42:30.880 --> 1:42:34.400 So one thing he's always told me is he doesn't 1:42:34.560 --> 1:42:37.120 want a girlfriend, which is. 1:42:38.680 --> 1:42:40.600 Okay, He's always told you that he doesn't want a 1:42:40.640 --> 1:42:42.120 girlfriend as a. 1:42:42.320 --> 1:42:46.120 Friend, and as this he has made this statement more 1:42:46.200 --> 1:42:46.679 than once. 1:42:47.200 --> 1:42:49.080 Okay, do you want all right? Do you do you 1:42:49.160 --> 1:42:50.200 want to be his? Girlfriend. 1:42:53.160 --> 1:42:55.879 I'm okay with things being. 1:42:57.360 --> 1:42:58.200 Be completely honest. 1:42:58.240 --> 1:43:02.160 Here do you do you completely honest? I'm being completely honest. 1:43:02.680 --> 1:43:05.479 I'm okay with things staying the way that they are 1:43:05.640 --> 1:43:08.400 because of past things that's happened in my life. If 1:43:09.160 --> 1:43:12.920 with him being he doesn't hurt me, is more than 1:43:12.960 --> 1:43:16.400 a gentleman. He watched out for me during the pandemic. 1:43:16.520 --> 1:43:19.800 He watches out for my dog. So he's a very 1:43:19.880 --> 1:43:22.320 carrying person towards me, And I know he's not just 1:43:22.560 --> 1:43:26.880 using me for the pleasurable side, because there came a 1:43:27.000 --> 1:43:32.720 point where, because of situations with the COVID where we 1:43:32.960 --> 1:43:35.840 stopped because his mom lives with him and we wanted 1:43:35.920 --> 1:43:36.880 to keep her safe. 1:43:37.360 --> 1:43:40.280 Okay, all right, So so so the problem is, Okay, 1:43:40.320 --> 1:43:42.800 here's the you're It sounds like your problem is you're 1:43:42.840 --> 1:43:44.760 confused about what to do with this guy because he 1:43:44.760 --> 1:43:46.479 doesn't want a girlfriend. But to me, it's like if 1:43:46.520 --> 1:43:51.040 he doesn't want a girlfriend, I mean, the idea of 1:43:51.360 --> 1:43:55.000 like the idea of like, I'm gonna stay with this 1:43:55.080 --> 1:43:57.000 guy even though he's told me a thousand times he 1:43:57.040 --> 1:44:00.519 doesn't want a girlfriend because he's a nice guy. Is 1:44:02.280 --> 1:44:05.640 I mean, it's tough, but I get it. I'm not 1:44:05.720 --> 1:44:08.560 gonna say I don't get it, like I get that. 1:44:08.760 --> 1:44:12.880 You you know, you find someone and there's like, you know, 1:44:13.040 --> 1:44:15.880 you're you're willing to look past deal breakers. But I 1:44:16.000 --> 1:44:18.200 mean that the fact that he just has told you 1:44:18.360 --> 1:44:23.240 outright that he doesn't want a girlfriend is a huge thing, 1:44:23.479 --> 1:44:25.559 you know, And it sounds like, again, you know, your 1:44:25.640 --> 1:44:27.320 relationship with this guy is totally amicable. 1:44:27.360 --> 1:44:30.880 But and I hear you, because you know, any other 1:44:31.000 --> 1:44:33.799 girlfriend that would sit there and tell me the same story, 1:44:34.200 --> 1:44:36.519 I would tell her, you know, what are you wasting 1:44:36.600 --> 1:44:40.639 your time for? But in my defense, in my defense, 1:44:41.240 --> 1:44:44.839 this happened to me prior the person I spent thirteen 1:44:44.960 --> 1:44:49.920 years with. He is the first friend that I let crossover. 1:44:50.640 --> 1:44:53.720 This guy is the second guy I ever let crossover 1:44:53.880 --> 1:44:59.320 from friend into something more. Okay, the last person told 1:44:59.439 --> 1:45:01.960 me the same thing for three years. 1:45:02.400 --> 1:45:04.840 All right, but you can't but you can't be you 1:45:05.000 --> 1:45:08.040 can't be like you can't you can't be like Okay, 1:45:08.120 --> 1:45:10.240 I was able to flip the other two guys. Now 1:45:10.280 --> 1:45:12.040 I'm gonna flip this. You can't. You can't look at 1:45:12.080 --> 1:45:17.800 it like that, Okay, I, in my personal you totally 1:45:17.840 --> 1:45:19.880 can't look at it like, and also that would just 1:45:20.120 --> 1:45:23.479 be you don't want to do that to that guy, 1:45:23.560 --> 1:45:26.720 because that guy has set out what his boundaries are 1:45:26.760 --> 1:45:29.280 and he's like I I and he and also like 1:45:29.360 --> 1:45:31.760 props to him, like he's telling you, he's told you 1:45:31.920 --> 1:45:35.479 straight up a thousand times. I'm I'm letting you know 1:45:36.120 --> 1:45:42.760 right now, I do not want a girlfriend. And I 1:45:44.240 --> 1:45:47.960 at first I was thinking, like all right, maybe no. 1:45:48.120 --> 1:45:50.080 The fact that you said what you said about like 1:45:50.160 --> 1:45:53.439 all right, the other guys I was able to flip 1:45:53.520 --> 1:45:55.920 them from saying I don't want a girlfriend into you know, 1:45:56.000 --> 1:45:59.519 now I'm their girlfriend makes me think you have sort 1:45:59.560 --> 1:46:02.080 of alt or your motives and you don't you don't 1:46:02.120 --> 1:46:03.479 want to go into you don't want to hit this 1:46:03.560 --> 1:46:06.519 guy with with your ulterior motives trying to trying to 1:46:06.640 --> 1:46:08.599 change it. I think you beat so much better off 1:46:09.360 --> 1:46:13.800 moving on going back out into the world. You know, 1:46:13.960 --> 1:46:16.360 and and I know, I know, and we talked with 1:46:16.840 --> 1:46:17.599 that other woman. 1:46:17.680 --> 1:46:17.800 I know. 1:46:17.960 --> 1:46:20.040 I know it probably gets harder when you're older, but 1:46:20.080 --> 1:46:22.840 there's there's also still lots and lots of people out 1:46:22.840 --> 1:46:25.720 there dating that your age. I just think it would 1:46:25.760 --> 1:46:28.759 be so much better for you to go find someone 1:46:29.120 --> 1:46:31.040 who is like, yes, I want a girlfriend that you 1:46:31.080 --> 1:46:32.880 are compatible with. They're supposed to like try to flip 1:46:33.000 --> 1:46:35.000 this guy just because it worked in the past. 1:46:36.120 --> 1:46:39.080 I hear you when where the confusion comes in and 1:46:39.520 --> 1:46:43.240 to one, he is the second guy. There wasn't two 1:46:43.320 --> 1:46:46.559 guys prior. He is the second guy that I let 1:46:46.680 --> 1:46:48.600 in past the friendship. 1:46:49.600 --> 1:46:52.800 Even if he's the second guy, don't care guy any 1:46:52.840 --> 1:46:53.200 other guy. 1:46:53.920 --> 1:46:56.200 No, no, no, I was just saying, but he does 1:46:56.439 --> 1:46:59.439 like weird things like even though he says I don't 1:46:59.439 --> 1:47:01.439 want a girl friend and he does commitment thing like. 1:47:01.560 --> 1:47:04.760 Take take take, I don't. I don't care if what 1:47:04.840 --> 1:47:06.800 he says is different from what he does. Take him. 1:47:07.000 --> 1:47:09.640 What he says and what he does should be the 1:47:09.720 --> 1:47:12.479 same thing. And if they're not the same thing, leaf, 1:47:12.800 --> 1:47:17.360 I think, Okay, that's that's just my opinion, you know. 1:47:17.720 --> 1:47:22.120 But but Amber listened, you know, Uh, I appreciate you calling. 1:47:22.160 --> 1:47:23.880 I hope I'm not crushing your dreams here, but I 1:47:24.040 --> 1:47:24.479 just I would not. 1:47:25.640 --> 1:47:30.320 I know, like, sometimes it's just easier to have people. 1:47:30.400 --> 1:47:34.439 Who don't play don't play games find the guy who 1:47:36.080 --> 1:47:37.960 the idea that he's like saying one thing, but he's 1:47:38.000 --> 1:47:41.560 doing anything just don't fucking play the games. If you 1:47:41.640 --> 1:47:43.880 want to have one last conversation with him and be like, 1:47:46.040 --> 1:47:48.200 you could be like, how come you're saying this and 1:47:48.240 --> 1:47:50.320 do it, but fucking don't even do that. Just move 1:47:50.400 --> 1:47:52.519 on from this guy. If he if he's not, if 1:47:52.560 --> 1:47:54.800 he has set up his boundaries, you know what I mean. 1:47:56.120 --> 1:47:56.640 Definitely. 1:47:58.040 --> 1:47:59.960 But but thank you for calling in Amber. I hope 1:48:00.080 --> 1:48:01.679 that this was of of something. 1:48:02.800 --> 1:48:04.920 No, it was huge help, and I thank you for 1:48:05.080 --> 1:48:07.960 doing this because of course people like us met somebody 1:48:08.000 --> 1:48:13.200 who's been impartial to just be comfortable and say something 1:48:13.320 --> 1:48:14.400 so freely, you know. 1:48:15.920 --> 1:48:18.360 I appreciate that. Well, thank you, Anba, thank you for 1:48:18.439 --> 1:48:19.680 sharing with us. I hope you have a good rest 1:48:19.720 --> 1:48:20.040 of the night. 1:48:21.040 --> 1:48:21.360 You too. 1:48:21.520 --> 1:48:22.640 Therapy Gecko, thank you. 1:48:23.240 --> 1:48:29.880 Goodbye. Right, everybody, everyone needs an impartial lizard. That's that's 1:48:29.920 --> 1:48:32.080 what I'm changing. I'm changing. We're not We're done with 1:48:32.160 --> 1:48:34.240 therapy Gecko. Therapy Gecko is over. I am now the 1:48:34.320 --> 1:48:35.160 impartial Lizard. 1:48:36.160 --> 1:48:39.200 Call from Ronald from Canada. 1:48:40.920 --> 1:48:55.360 Ronald from Canada. Hellnald from Canada. Hello, Ronald from Canada. 1:48:56.640 --> 1:49:01.200 No, I think I think it's just repeating my voice. No, yeah, 1:49:01.240 --> 1:49:01.680 I think so. 1:49:06.200 --> 1:49:07.080 No, it's me, dude. 1:49:08.360 --> 1:49:10.320 Oh oh oh, that's trim me o. 1:49:10.479 --> 1:49:11.040 What's up? Man? 1:49:11.640 --> 1:49:13.000 How are you Ronalds from Canada? 1:49:14.360 --> 1:49:14.400 No? 1:49:14.920 --> 1:49:15.120 Good? 1:49:15.240 --> 1:49:15.560 How are you? 1:49:16.720 --> 1:49:18.320 Why is why? Is right off front of set? 1:49:22.320 --> 1:49:24.559 She thought I was on the voicemail. She she wanted 1:49:24.640 --> 1:49:25.160 us to call in. 1:49:25.680 --> 1:49:28.960 She uh, and she's like she seems like she's she's 1:49:29.000 --> 1:49:30.559 in staunch disbelief right now. 1:49:31.600 --> 1:49:35.920 I am, Oh my god, Yeah, there you go. How's 1:49:35.960 --> 1:49:36.479 your night going. 1:49:38.520 --> 1:49:40.719 It's going all right. I'm hanging out in the sky. 1:49:41.240 --> 1:49:42.280 I'm having a good time. 1:49:43.280 --> 1:49:45.720 A good man. 1:49:46.320 --> 1:49:48.719 Let me tell you your girlfriend is in I almost 1:49:48.720 --> 1:49:50.519 I almost want to prove to her that I'm real. 1:49:52.600 --> 1:49:54.320 Yeah, okay, stay hard. 1:49:54.840 --> 1:49:56.599 I'm gonna pass out, don't. I'm gonna cry. 1:49:58.560 --> 1:50:01.360 Hello, I'm starstruck. 1:50:01.840 --> 1:50:02.240 I can't. 1:50:03.840 --> 1:50:05.599 She's starstruck. Apparently. 1:50:06.240 --> 1:50:07.360 I'm just a fucking. 1:50:08.840 --> 1:50:10.200 I live there. 1:50:10.960 --> 1:50:16.360 I'm a lizard man. What okay? What's what's your girlfriend's name? 1:50:18.520 --> 1:50:19.400 Her name is Samantha. 1:50:21.800 --> 1:50:25.120 Do you guys have any traditions? 1:50:26.720 --> 1:50:30.360 Yeah, we do, so, I mean hoping Canada. It's I mean, 1:50:30.479 --> 1:50:33.679 it's cold as cold as hell, right, so we don't 1:50:33.760 --> 1:50:36.240 got too much going on, especially during the winter. So 1:50:37.439 --> 1:50:39.719 once a month we have a bunch of our friends 1:50:39.760 --> 1:50:43.200 over and we get all get super baked, and then 1:50:44.080 --> 1:50:46.280 we play a little game where we all order pizza 1:50:46.640 --> 1:50:51.080 from different pizza places with random toppings, and then we 1:50:51.200 --> 1:50:56.120 place bets on you know, whose pizza place will arrive first, 1:50:56.320 --> 1:50:58.960 and then whoever the newses has to do some sort 1:50:59.040 --> 1:51:02.879 of some sort of like a embarrassment based on everybody 1:51:02.920 --> 1:51:04.720 else or what everyone else agrees on. 1:51:05.400 --> 1:51:08.439 What was the last embarrassing thing that you had someone do? 1:51:10.280 --> 1:51:16.040 Oh god, so last time was was weird? But we 1:51:16.160 --> 1:51:19.280 didn't we didn't vote for this. But the loser had 1:51:19.320 --> 1:51:21.920 to put a piece of pizza crust in their butt. 1:51:23.040 --> 1:51:26.120 But normally actually like like like when you say a 1:51:26.120 --> 1:51:28.200 piece of pizza crust, do you mean like they would 1:51:28.320 --> 1:51:31.800 like sandwich it in their butt cheeks or they would 1:51:31.840 --> 1:51:33.000 shove it up their aus. 1:51:34.760 --> 1:51:37.479 I think originally the expectation was in their anus. But 1:51:37.560 --> 1:51:39.559 I think they just did their butt cheek and everyone 1:51:39.680 --> 1:51:41.439 was okay with that because no one. 1:51:41.760 --> 1:51:44.800 I think forcing someone to shove I think sourcing someone 1:51:44.880 --> 1:51:47.320 to shove it up their ass is a bit too extreme. 1:51:47.400 --> 1:51:50.920 But hot dogging it in between the butt, that's not 1:51:51.040 --> 1:51:51.400 that bad. 1:51:52.760 --> 1:51:55.639 No, it's not that bad. I mean it's like crossing stride. 1:51:56.040 --> 1:51:58.639 But yeah, so that's what we have going on up here. 1:51:58.800 --> 1:52:02.000 But although you would get like what, I don't know 1:52:02.000 --> 1:52:03.639 what they put on the pizza, cuss, but like salt 1:52:03.760 --> 1:52:05.160 and crumbs and ship in your. 1:52:05.080 --> 1:52:09.040 Buttole right and it gets a little bit gretty, it's 1:52:09.080 --> 1:52:11.640 probably like I don't know, maybe like when you're at 1:52:11.640 --> 1:52:12.839 the beach and you get stands. 1:52:13.040 --> 1:52:15.880 Yeah, but that is someone eats your ass. If someone's 1:52:15.880 --> 1:52:19.600 eating your asshole out that night, that's would kind of 1:52:19.640 --> 1:52:20.320 taste good for that. 1:52:24.000 --> 1:52:25.639 Her herb and garlic flavor. 1:52:26.400 --> 1:52:32.880 Yeah, that's not bad. It's better than you know, I guess. 1:52:32.960 --> 1:52:36.679 So have you ever have you ever lost the pizza 1:52:36.960 --> 1:52:38.519 the pizza delivery guy game? 1:52:39.720 --> 1:52:40.920 Oh yeah, yeah many times. 1:52:40.960 --> 1:52:41.920 But the. 1:52:45.080 --> 1:52:47.719 Worst thing I had to do was throw up my pizza. 1:52:47.840 --> 1:52:51.599 But that like that was like by far the worst pizza. 1:52:52.760 --> 1:52:54.840 Yeah, but normally it's like take a shot, like you know, 1:52:55.040 --> 1:52:56.360 like whiskey upside. 1:52:56.120 --> 1:52:58.240 That they felt like they fucking made you like stick 1:52:58.280 --> 1:53:00.479 your fingers down your throat and ship it and puke 1:53:00.600 --> 1:53:01.120 up the pizza. 1:53:02.360 --> 1:53:06.439 Yeah it was. It was pretty bad, But normally it's 1:53:06.479 --> 1:53:10.000 like it's Canada. It's I mean when it's like negative 1:53:10.080 --> 1:53:13.800 thirty outside and we're frozen. And you know, I don't 1:53:13.800 --> 1:53:15.679 know how cold it gets there, how much you snow 1:53:15.880 --> 1:53:20.800 gets snow, but oh in the sky, in the sky, 1:53:21.280 --> 1:53:23.760 I don't I don't know how much snow you get 1:53:23.840 --> 1:53:25.720 up there. I don't think that goes too well. 1:53:26.720 --> 1:53:30.240 I gotta tell you. I'm like a like if I 1:53:30.520 --> 1:53:34.240 entered into a bet or something like the pizza bet 1:53:34.640 --> 1:53:36.280 and I lost and they told me I had to 1:53:36.920 --> 1:53:38.439 I had to shut my fingers down my throat, I'm 1:53:38.439 --> 1:53:41.000 pick up my pizza. I would just say, no, I'm 1:53:41.040 --> 1:53:42.400 not doing it. And then they would say, but you 1:53:42.520 --> 1:53:45.440 after you lost the bet, I would say, it's artificial. 1:53:46.160 --> 1:53:48.960 There's nothing buying the to do. 1:53:49.160 --> 1:53:52.920 There's no writting contract. No, yeah, I have no visual 1:53:53.000 --> 1:53:58.360 representation by you'd prefer the hot dog. 1:53:58.439 --> 1:54:01.240 Yet AWAYS wouldn't do any of it. I would just 1:54:01.240 --> 1:54:03.320 sit in the corner and eat pizza. And I would 1:54:03.360 --> 1:54:05.000 be like and they would be like, you have to 1:54:05.520 --> 1:54:06.880 puke that all up either, and I'd be like, no, 1:54:06.920 --> 1:54:08.679 I don't have to. I don't have to ever fucking 1:54:08.760 --> 1:54:10.200 do anything that you guys told. 1:54:10.080 --> 1:54:10.360 Me to do. 1:54:11.640 --> 1:54:13.679 I paid for the pizza. I'm not throwing it up. 1:54:14.960 --> 1:54:17.240 Paying for the piezas Yeah, you know, you lose the 1:54:17.280 --> 1:54:18.960 bad you pay for the pizza. That makes more sense 1:54:19.000 --> 1:54:21.160 than why it should just be that, just be the 1:54:21.160 --> 1:54:22.960 guy pays. I don't know why you're putting things up 1:54:22.960 --> 1:54:23.959 your ass and ship. 1:54:25.760 --> 1:54:28.560 We get. I mean, we're baked, obviously we're probably not 1:54:28.680 --> 1:54:30.559 thinking the clearest. But I think that you know, it's 1:54:30.600 --> 1:54:35.600 probably be a pretty good suggestion I'll bring next time. Okay, Well, honestly, 1:54:35.640 --> 1:54:37.520 I think in the past year of this, nobody has 1:54:37.560 --> 1:54:40.000 every one suggested the loser pays for the pizza, So 1:54:40.080 --> 1:54:40.960 that's pretty messed up. 1:54:41.120 --> 1:54:46.080 Their mind's just skipped immediately to you have to stab 1:54:46.200 --> 1:54:49.480 yourself in the chest or so. I don't know, I 1:54:49.600 --> 1:54:52.480 was trying to think of a thing that's too extreme. 1:54:52.520 --> 1:54:54.800 I don't think anyone would want would stab themsel. Would 1:54:54.840 --> 1:54:58.280 you have to kill themselves or stab themselves? That's too extreme? 1:54:58.960 --> 1:55:02.080 Like I probably wouldn't maybe affiliate myself with people like that. 1:55:02.280 --> 1:55:04.760 But yeah, I mean, who knows the world, I like. 1:55:04.840 --> 1:55:08.040 Put sauce in my ear, maybe I don't know, putting 1:55:08.080 --> 1:55:12.440 some putting stuff up my ass or in or like 1:55:13.720 --> 1:55:16.360 having to like finger my uve my uv Leah, what 1:55:16.560 --> 1:55:20.880 is it? Yu've lea, Yeah, I don't know if I 1:55:20.920 --> 1:55:21.320 would do that. 1:55:23.000 --> 1:55:25.880 No, what well? I mean, I'm sure as like a kid, 1:55:25.920 --> 1:55:28.480 you probably put like plato in your ear or your 1:55:28.560 --> 1:55:30.120 nose or something. Kids are pretty dumb. 1:55:30.000 --> 1:55:31.600 I guess, or in your ass. 1:55:33.840 --> 1:55:34.680 I don't know what. 1:55:35.240 --> 1:55:36.640 What kind of pizza do geckos like? 1:55:38.840 --> 1:55:40.000 Barbecue chicken? 1:55:41.440 --> 1:55:44.320 Barbecue chicken? All right, that sounds good. 1:55:44.360 --> 1:55:47.240 Actually, are you asking that me that? Because you're gonna 1:55:47.240 --> 1:55:47.800 send me pizza. 1:55:50.960 --> 1:55:53.680 I'm gonna ask my girlfriend, but she's probably gonna say no, 1:55:54.280 --> 1:55:55.640 you're trying like this new diet thing. 1:55:55.800 --> 1:55:59.520 So your girlfriend loves me, why would she send me pizza? 1:56:01.280 --> 1:56:03.160 Hey, Samantha, why wouldn't you send the pizza? 1:56:04.640 --> 1:56:04.760 Oh? 1:56:04.880 --> 1:56:07.000 She said she chipped pizza gag. 1:56:07.680 --> 1:56:08.520 Okay, word. 1:56:09.880 --> 1:56:10.920 Tyler, Uh. 1:56:12.960 --> 1:56:14.720 Nah, she didn't have to send me a piece. She's 1:56:14.880 --> 1:56:17.640 she's a nice person. You're both nice people. Don't let 1:56:17.720 --> 1:56:20.880 don't let your friends tell you to shove pizza crossed 1:56:20.920 --> 1:56:22.560 up your ass. Don't don't let them do that too. 1:56:25.280 --> 1:56:27.000 You guys, have a good rest of tonight and enjoy 1:56:27.360 --> 1:56:28.600 enjoy the beauty of Canada. 1:56:29.880 --> 1:56:32.440 You take care. 1:56:33.880 --> 1:56:40.280 Tonight never goes on the line making his own calls 1:56:40.360 --> 1:56:40.920 every night. 1:56:41.320 --> 1:56:46.920 Never goes to just teaching your lord