1 00:00:13,800 --> 00:00:17,360 Speaker 1: Hey, the folks, welcome to I Do Part two. If 2 00:00:17,440 --> 00:00:20,599 Speaker 1: you got love right the first time around, this ain't 3 00:00:20,680 --> 00:00:25,320 Speaker 1: the show for you. On TJ Holmes alongside my friend, 4 00:00:25,640 --> 00:00:30,400 Speaker 1: my partner, my podcast co host Amy Roboch. That was 5 00:00:30,520 --> 00:00:31,720 Speaker 1: also impersonal. 6 00:00:31,960 --> 00:00:33,400 Speaker 2: Let me, I'm very clinical. 7 00:00:33,479 --> 00:00:37,720 Speaker 1: It did with my person, my partner, my spouse, my 8 00:00:38,080 --> 00:00:38,640 Speaker 1: what's the right. 9 00:00:38,560 --> 00:00:39,680 Speaker 2: Way to love of my life? 10 00:00:39,720 --> 00:00:41,800 Speaker 1: Love my life? There it is that you had to 11 00:00:41,840 --> 00:00:43,559 Speaker 1: feed me that line is a little disturbed. 12 00:00:43,920 --> 00:00:47,919 Speaker 3: I think you probably avoided saying it because it's overused 13 00:00:48,000 --> 00:00:50,160 Speaker 3: all the time on all the reality shows we watch, 14 00:00:50,200 --> 00:00:52,120 Speaker 3: and you roll your eyes when people call each other 15 00:00:52,159 --> 00:00:54,160 Speaker 3: the love of their lives. Then we look up and 16 00:00:54,520 --> 00:00:58,640 Speaker 3: two months later they're so I think you probably tried 17 00:00:58,680 --> 00:00:59,200 Speaker 3: not to use that. 18 00:00:59,280 --> 00:01:01,000 Speaker 1: Yeah. And so we have had a chance to come 19 00:01:01,480 --> 00:01:03,680 Speaker 1: hop onto I Do Part two in a little bit, 20 00:01:03,880 --> 00:01:06,520 Speaker 1: and there's always relationship news. So we're going to discuss 21 00:01:06,520 --> 00:01:09,040 Speaker 1: some relationship news, some very high profile relationship news, and 22 00:01:09,080 --> 00:01:10,640 Speaker 1: we're going to get into a couple of questions, one 23 00:01:10,680 --> 00:01:15,120 Speaker 1: of them having to be what do you do post divorce? 24 00:01:15,319 --> 00:01:17,720 Speaker 1: Is it important for you to rebrand yourself? We're also 25 00:01:17,760 --> 00:01:20,280 Speaker 1: going to get into this question, is it good to 26 00:01:20,480 --> 00:01:24,600 Speaker 1: throw a divorce party, a divorce celebration, or is that 27 00:01:24,959 --> 00:01:27,360 Speaker 1: in bad taste. There's a lot of celebrities who are 28 00:01:27,360 --> 00:01:29,680 Speaker 1: going through this right now. The first Dree Kimsley. Let's 29 00:01:29,680 --> 00:01:31,880 Speaker 1: start with her. A lot of people know and I 30 00:01:31,880 --> 00:01:34,360 Speaker 1: would say love, but she has some issues right now 31 00:01:34,400 --> 00:01:38,400 Speaker 1: with irregilable differences. Of course, she's from the Beverly Hills housewife. 32 00:01:38,440 --> 00:01:42,960 Speaker 1: She's divorcing her husband PK is his name after A PK. 33 00:01:43,040 --> 00:01:46,240 Speaker 1: Kimsley after ten years of marriage. Now Robes. We hear 34 00:01:46,240 --> 00:01:48,440 Speaker 1: about a divorce, we hear about a breakup, but so 35 00:01:48,560 --> 00:01:50,600 Speaker 1: much of the conversation around this one has to do 36 00:01:50,760 --> 00:01:53,800 Speaker 1: with the fact that they actually made it to ten 37 00:01:53,960 --> 00:01:55,600 Speaker 1: years of marriage. 38 00:01:55,240 --> 00:01:58,040 Speaker 3: And the reason why that's significant. It varies from state 39 00:01:58,080 --> 00:02:01,520 Speaker 3: to state, but anyone who's been divorce knows sometimes folks 40 00:02:01,920 --> 00:02:06,640 Speaker 3: will be strategic and plan their divorces for when they 41 00:02:06,720 --> 00:02:09,960 Speaker 3: might have the most to gain and maybe the. 42 00:02:09,960 --> 00:02:10,720 Speaker 2: Least to lose. 43 00:02:10,760 --> 00:02:12,440 Speaker 3: You could look at it two different ways, and who 44 00:02:12,520 --> 00:02:13,799 Speaker 3: knows that this is the case. But a lot of 45 00:02:13,840 --> 00:02:18,160 Speaker 3: people are wondering if Deret waited for those ten years, 46 00:02:18,160 --> 00:02:20,799 Speaker 3: because in the state of California, that means you've been 47 00:02:20,880 --> 00:02:22,560 Speaker 3: in a what is it called a long. 48 00:02:22,360 --> 00:02:25,040 Speaker 2: Term marriage New Jersey? I know has that here? 49 00:02:25,280 --> 00:02:28,040 Speaker 3: Again different from state to state, but once you get 50 00:02:28,360 --> 00:02:31,640 Speaker 3: branded as a long term marriage, you are entitled to 51 00:02:31,639 --> 00:02:32,280 Speaker 3: fifty percent. 52 00:02:32,880 --> 00:02:33,760 Speaker 2: And so who. 53 00:02:33,600 --> 00:02:36,320 Speaker 3: Knows what the state of their finances actually is and 54 00:02:36,360 --> 00:02:37,919 Speaker 3: whether or not that's even true. But a lot of 55 00:02:37,960 --> 00:02:43,000 Speaker 3: people are saying, hmmm, I wonder if she was waiting 56 00:02:43,040 --> 00:02:46,160 Speaker 3: specifically so that she could get fifty percent. 57 00:02:46,240 --> 00:02:47,760 Speaker 1: I'm sure it just happened to work out that way. 58 00:02:47,840 --> 00:02:50,200 Speaker 3: Surely she might even be like, hell, yeah, I did 59 00:02:50,240 --> 00:02:50,440 Speaker 3: you know? 60 00:02:50,480 --> 00:02:51,040 Speaker 1: Who knows? 61 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:53,760 Speaker 3: I've heard I've heard women say yeah, I stuck with 62 00:02:53,800 --> 00:02:56,519 Speaker 3: it because I knew that I was. I had done 63 00:02:56,639 --> 00:03:00,240 Speaker 3: enough where I felt like this was the way that 64 00:03:00,280 --> 00:03:02,040 Speaker 3: made the most sense for me. So who knows what 65 00:03:02,040 --> 00:03:04,480 Speaker 3: it is? But another thing people are talking about is 66 00:03:04,480 --> 00:03:11,320 Speaker 3: that PK I think he got photographed one day before 67 00:03:11,480 --> 00:03:14,960 Speaker 3: the divorce filing kissing and holding hands with a former 68 00:03:15,080 --> 00:03:17,960 Speaker 3: Amazing Race contestant. So if you're a big reality show person, 69 00:03:18,000 --> 00:03:20,880 Speaker 3: you might know who is it, Shannel wall Is. So 70 00:03:21,160 --> 00:03:23,280 Speaker 3: he was out kissing, holding our hands. It wasn't like 71 00:03:23,280 --> 00:03:24,000 Speaker 3: he was hiding it. 72 00:03:24,120 --> 00:03:26,000 Speaker 1: What we're saying is, we're not holding out hope for 73 00:03:26,040 --> 00:03:26,760 Speaker 1: a reconciliation. 74 00:03:26,919 --> 00:03:28,040 Speaker 2: I don't think that's what happened. 75 00:03:28,080 --> 00:03:31,760 Speaker 3: They do have two kids, Jaggers eleven, Phoenix is nine, 76 00:03:32,200 --> 00:03:35,480 Speaker 3: and so PK has filed for joint custody. 77 00:03:35,960 --> 00:03:36,360 Speaker 2: We'll see. 78 00:03:36,400 --> 00:03:38,160 Speaker 3: We hope the best for them. Divorce is hard, and 79 00:03:38,160 --> 00:03:39,880 Speaker 3: it's really hard in the public eye. So we wish 80 00:03:39,960 --> 00:03:40,600 Speaker 3: them both the best. 81 00:03:40,640 --> 00:03:42,560 Speaker 1: See when we say we wish them the best, oftentimes 82 00:03:42,560 --> 00:03:46,000 Speaker 1: that doesn't necessarily mean that the relationship continues. Sometimes what's best, 83 00:03:46,040 --> 00:03:47,720 Speaker 1: and we've learned that what's best is for them to 84 00:03:47,760 --> 00:03:50,960 Speaker 1: go their separate ways. Now, another divorce that's taking place 85 00:03:51,000 --> 00:03:53,440 Speaker 1: now is from a guy. Look, I love Steve Guttenberg 86 00:03:53,520 --> 00:03:54,000 Speaker 1: back in the day. 87 00:03:54,160 --> 00:03:55,560 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, Three Men and a baby. 88 00:03:56,520 --> 00:03:59,280 Speaker 1: But before that police Academy. Wasn't he in the one 89 00:03:59,320 --> 00:04:02,840 Speaker 1: with the what was the robot? What was the name 90 00:04:02,840 --> 00:04:05,080 Speaker 1: of it? Short Circuit? Is it short Short Circuit? You 91 00:04:05,120 --> 00:04:06,440 Speaker 1: remember that movie? Yes? 92 00:04:06,120 --> 00:04:09,480 Speaker 3: And I have actually seen Steve Gutenberg running in Central 93 00:04:09,520 --> 00:04:13,280 Speaker 3: Park before he was running alone. He was actually I've 94 00:04:13,320 --> 00:04:14,840 Speaker 3: only seen him one time running in New York, but 95 00:04:14,880 --> 00:04:16,120 Speaker 3: I was like, oh my god, that was Steve. Good. 96 00:04:16,160 --> 00:04:17,960 Speaker 1: You're probably going to see him unning alone again if 97 00:04:17,960 --> 00:04:20,400 Speaker 1: you see him because he is announced now he is 98 00:04:20,440 --> 00:04:24,000 Speaker 1: also file from divorce of his wife of six years 99 00:04:24,120 --> 00:04:25,919 Speaker 1: now six years of a shorter time. This is his 100 00:04:25,920 --> 00:04:28,480 Speaker 1: second marriage. Been there, done that call with Steve if 101 00:04:28,520 --> 00:04:31,200 Speaker 1: you want to talk, but his wife, Emily Smith, there 102 00:04:31,279 --> 00:04:32,560 Speaker 1: is a significant age gap. 103 00:04:32,640 --> 00:04:33,120 Speaker 2: Did we look? 104 00:04:33,400 --> 00:04:37,400 Speaker 3: Is Steve sixty six six and we believe Emily Smith 105 00:04:37,480 --> 00:04:38,240 Speaker 3: is thirty. 106 00:04:38,040 --> 00:04:41,120 Speaker 1: Five, so somewhere around thirty years, you know, does that 107 00:04:41,120 --> 00:04:41,720 Speaker 1: fla into it? 108 00:04:42,120 --> 00:04:43,320 Speaker 2: I mean, it absolutely could have. 109 00:04:43,360 --> 00:04:48,000 Speaker 3: They're saying irreconcilable differences again, and he's already he's already 110 00:04:48,040 --> 00:04:50,920 Speaker 3: agreed to pay sposal support to Smith. So they did 111 00:04:50,960 --> 00:04:53,600 Speaker 3: have a prenup, which I think will help expedite this 112 00:04:53,680 --> 00:04:55,520 Speaker 3: and hopefully make it a little bit less messy. Is 113 00:04:55,560 --> 00:04:57,960 Speaker 3: certainly in the public eye. It's never fun to have 114 00:04:58,120 --> 00:04:58,960 Speaker 3: people wanting to know. 115 00:04:58,920 --> 00:04:59,400 Speaker 2: All the details. 116 00:04:59,400 --> 00:05:01,640 Speaker 3: So if you had a pre up, hopefully that will 117 00:05:01,640 --> 00:05:04,560 Speaker 3: make things a much smoother process for both of them. 118 00:05:04,720 --> 00:05:07,560 Speaker 1: And again, we don't we hate to speculate about somebody 119 00:05:07,560 --> 00:05:11,800 Speaker 1: a specific relationship, have no idea what happened and why 120 00:05:12,200 --> 00:05:14,680 Speaker 1: with these two, But anytime we've talked about this, certainly 121 00:05:14,680 --> 00:05:19,719 Speaker 1: recently with with several couples of relationships where there's a 122 00:05:19,720 --> 00:05:22,880 Speaker 1: big age difference, it does come into play. You could 123 00:05:22,880 --> 00:05:25,080 Speaker 1: love somebody all day long, but you have different interests, 124 00:05:25,080 --> 00:05:27,800 Speaker 1: you have different bedtimes, even you have different things you wanted. 125 00:05:28,040 --> 00:05:30,560 Speaker 2: Different activity levels, all of that. 126 00:05:30,520 --> 00:05:33,040 Speaker 1: And that can come into play in a relationship. So 127 00:05:33,120 --> 00:05:35,520 Speaker 1: hopefully both of those get through that and look, like 128 00:05:35,560 --> 00:05:37,600 Speaker 1: we said, Robes, we've been there, we have done that, 129 00:05:37,880 --> 00:05:39,640 Speaker 1: and we know you can come out better on the other. 130 00:05:39,800 --> 00:05:40,000 Speaker 2: Yeah. 131 00:05:40,000 --> 00:05:42,400 Speaker 3: So those were yes, one hundred percent. Those are some 132 00:05:42,560 --> 00:05:46,520 Speaker 3: recent splitting up headlines, but there are some moving on 133 00:05:46,800 --> 00:05:50,880 Speaker 3: headlines from people who have just recently announced their divorces, 134 00:05:50,880 --> 00:05:55,240 Speaker 3: among them Jessica Simpson. She it was right at the 135 00:05:55,240 --> 00:05:57,000 Speaker 3: beginning of the year, correct that she announced that she 136 00:05:57,080 --> 00:06:00,560 Speaker 3: and her well now ex husband Eric Johnson were splitting, 137 00:06:00,600 --> 00:06:03,560 Speaker 3: and they had been together for a very long time. 138 00:06:04,440 --> 00:06:06,320 Speaker 2: But I love this part of the story. 139 00:06:06,440 --> 00:06:11,320 Speaker 3: So if anyone remembers Jessica Simpson's kind of been known 140 00:06:11,320 --> 00:06:15,040 Speaker 3: as despite the fact that she is a ridiculously successful 141 00:06:15,080 --> 00:06:15,960 Speaker 3: business woman. 142 00:06:16,160 --> 00:06:18,599 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, is a billionaire. I think she's a billionaire. 143 00:06:18,680 --> 00:06:20,560 Speaker 3: So I actually stopped myself, but I was like, I'm 144 00:06:20,560 --> 00:06:23,400 Speaker 3: pretty sure she's in that billionaire league where you know, 145 00:06:23,800 --> 00:06:26,800 Speaker 3: she's got the clothing line and everything. She's really expanded 146 00:06:26,800 --> 00:06:29,400 Speaker 3: her empire from beyond music, even though she is making 147 00:06:29,440 --> 00:06:32,839 Speaker 3: new music. But she was kind of known as, unfortunately 148 00:06:32,920 --> 00:06:35,520 Speaker 3: for her, a dumb blonde, all because of that reality 149 00:06:35,560 --> 00:06:37,920 Speaker 3: show she did with Nick Lache. Remember when she asked 150 00:06:38,360 --> 00:06:40,440 Speaker 3: if Tuna was Chicken of the sea? 151 00:06:40,560 --> 00:06:41,800 Speaker 2: She was like, is it chicken? 152 00:06:42,160 --> 00:06:44,720 Speaker 3: And just because of that one perhaps maybe even silly 153 00:06:44,760 --> 00:06:46,920 Speaker 3: comment she made, I don't think she's been able to shake, 154 00:06:47,040 --> 00:06:49,160 Speaker 3: or maybe she at least feels like she hasn't been 155 00:06:49,200 --> 00:06:53,080 Speaker 3: able to shake that dumb blonde, you know, the thing 156 00:06:53,120 --> 00:06:55,720 Speaker 3: that people assigned to someone, especially if you just make 157 00:06:55,760 --> 00:06:59,520 Speaker 3: one mistake. So anyway, I love this. She is now 158 00:06:59,760 --> 00:07:02,360 Speaker 3: saying that she wants to go back to school. It's 159 00:07:02,400 --> 00:07:05,360 Speaker 3: something she's had a dream of her entire life since 160 00:07:05,360 --> 00:07:07,400 Speaker 3: her twenties, and now she wants to go back to 161 00:07:07,440 --> 00:07:08,880 Speaker 3: school and expand her education. 162 00:07:09,040 --> 00:07:11,280 Speaker 1: I think that's great. I would hate for her motivation 163 00:07:11,440 --> 00:07:14,280 Speaker 1: to be to prove something to anybody other than herself. 164 00:07:14,280 --> 00:07:16,520 Speaker 1: If she wants to do that, that's fine. I know 165 00:07:16,600 --> 00:07:18,600 Speaker 1: it can look good, and I know there's a pr 166 00:07:18,680 --> 00:07:20,840 Speaker 1: element to everything when it comes to folks who are 167 00:07:20,840 --> 00:07:22,440 Speaker 1: in the public eye. But I hope she does this 168 00:07:22,840 --> 00:07:25,160 Speaker 1: for her. Who gives a damn when anybody thinks about you. 169 00:07:25,200 --> 00:07:26,320 Speaker 1: If this is what she wants to do. 170 00:07:26,240 --> 00:07:27,440 Speaker 3: I hope she does it, and I think it is 171 00:07:27,440 --> 00:07:29,720 Speaker 3: a cool thing. I think, you know, especially if so 172 00:07:29,800 --> 00:07:32,120 Speaker 3: much of your life has been wrapped up in another person, 173 00:07:32,200 --> 00:07:34,720 Speaker 3: or at least in that relationship, when you are now 174 00:07:34,760 --> 00:07:37,000 Speaker 3: on your own, to start really investing in yourself, whether 175 00:07:37,040 --> 00:07:39,520 Speaker 3: it's to go back to school. She's actually getting on 176 00:07:39,520 --> 00:07:41,760 Speaker 3: the stage for the first time in fifteen years with 177 00:07:41,840 --> 00:07:44,920 Speaker 3: this new music she has, so she's now investing in herself, 178 00:07:44,960 --> 00:07:55,680 Speaker 3: and I think that's actually a part of the healing process. 179 00:07:57,200 --> 00:07:58,920 Speaker 1: This next headline I didn't even want to do because 180 00:07:58,960 --> 00:08:00,720 Speaker 1: it has to do with j lovel and Ben. And 181 00:08:00,800 --> 00:08:02,760 Speaker 1: unless the headline is they're getting back together, I don't 182 00:08:02,760 --> 00:08:03,440 Speaker 1: really give a damn. 183 00:08:03,480 --> 00:08:05,920 Speaker 3: I know, we know how you feel and where you stand. 184 00:08:05,720 --> 00:08:07,040 Speaker 1: On still rooting for these two. 185 00:08:07,120 --> 00:08:09,160 Speaker 3: You still hope, you know, it's even as we're seeing 186 00:08:09,320 --> 00:08:14,160 Speaker 3: them start to talk about their marriage, you're waiting for 187 00:08:14,200 --> 00:08:16,920 Speaker 3: them to say, you know, because you see his kids 188 00:08:16,920 --> 00:08:19,480 Speaker 3: hanging out with her kids and members of their family 189 00:08:19,520 --> 00:08:21,960 Speaker 3: hanging out together, and you could see a real relationship, 190 00:08:22,240 --> 00:08:25,480 Speaker 3: in an authentic bond that formed, and even between them, 191 00:08:25,560 --> 00:08:28,480 Speaker 3: it seems like they're good. So you kind of want 192 00:08:28,520 --> 00:08:30,600 Speaker 3: to know that, oh, they could get back together, but 193 00:08:30,640 --> 00:08:31,480 Speaker 3: that's not the headline. 194 00:08:31,480 --> 00:08:34,000 Speaker 1: They can clearly get along as we see, these two 195 00:08:34,040 --> 00:08:36,840 Speaker 1: have been each other's lives publicly for decades now. But yeh, 196 00:08:36,840 --> 00:08:39,320 Speaker 1: She's was just quoted recently talking about how she told 197 00:08:39,320 --> 00:08:42,200 Speaker 1: her kids. Look, these families have been intertwined for quite 198 00:08:42,200 --> 00:08:44,360 Speaker 1: some time, and she said she told her kids she 199 00:08:44,480 --> 00:08:47,640 Speaker 1: just promised them that Mama was gonna be okay. She said, 200 00:08:47,720 --> 00:08:50,720 Speaker 1: I promise that I'll come out the other side stronger 201 00:08:51,040 --> 00:08:54,400 Speaker 1: and better. I promised them that, and I did it. 202 00:08:54,880 --> 00:08:57,160 Speaker 1: This is her saying that she has like come out 203 00:08:57,200 --> 00:08:59,920 Speaker 1: and emerged. Look, that was a mess. For any divorce 204 00:09:00,320 --> 00:09:04,840 Speaker 1: privately sucks a divorce publicly. Really, it really sucks a 205 00:09:04,920 --> 00:09:08,920 Speaker 1: divorce publicly from somebody that you got two new movies 206 00:09:08,960 --> 00:09:10,640 Speaker 1: and your whole new album attached to. 207 00:09:11,400 --> 00:09:13,920 Speaker 3: And it was a fairy tale kind of blood story 208 00:09:13,960 --> 00:09:16,960 Speaker 3: because they had been engaged twenty years prior and then 209 00:09:17,000 --> 00:09:19,240 Speaker 3: it just wasn't the right time. So now, for all 210 00:09:19,320 --> 00:09:21,520 Speaker 3: of us who believe in love and are rooting for love. 211 00:09:21,559 --> 00:09:23,520 Speaker 3: You think, oh wow, it just wasn't the right time, 212 00:09:23,960 --> 00:09:26,239 Speaker 3: but now it is. Now they could be together. 213 00:09:26,480 --> 00:09:28,480 Speaker 2: Hope, And still the moment's just not right. 214 00:09:28,640 --> 00:09:30,880 Speaker 3: But she does say she has a great sense of 215 00:09:30,920 --> 00:09:32,640 Speaker 3: peace in her life, and isn't that what we all 216 00:09:32,679 --> 00:09:33,600 Speaker 3: are hoping for? Well? 217 00:09:33,640 --> 00:09:35,319 Speaker 1: Does some piece come for some people? If you have 218 00:09:35,440 --> 00:09:40,160 Speaker 1: to a split or a divorce, do you feel better 219 00:09:40,240 --> 00:09:43,720 Speaker 1: to get rid of stuff that you had together? Anytime? 220 00:09:43,720 --> 00:09:45,280 Speaker 1: If you get divorced and you all lived in this 221 00:09:45,360 --> 00:09:49,679 Speaker 1: house together, would you be okay with one person gets 222 00:09:49,679 --> 00:09:51,800 Speaker 1: the house? Would you be okay getting the house? Or 223 00:09:51,840 --> 00:09:53,760 Speaker 1: do you want you don't want anything to do with 224 00:09:53,840 --> 00:09:55,400 Speaker 1: anything that you all had together? 225 00:09:55,559 --> 00:09:56,280 Speaker 2: To each his own. 226 00:09:56,360 --> 00:09:58,480 Speaker 3: But I like to start a new because for me, 227 00:09:59,120 --> 00:10:01,720 Speaker 3: things have memory, things have feelings. I think what you 228 00:10:01,760 --> 00:10:06,600 Speaker 3: surround yourself actually truly impacts how you feel. It affects energy, 229 00:10:06,800 --> 00:10:10,040 Speaker 3: and it does for me. So you know, you make 230 00:10:10,080 --> 00:10:13,000 Speaker 3: those decisions on a case by case basis. Unfortunately, you 231 00:10:13,040 --> 00:10:14,640 Speaker 3: and I have had some experience in this department. 232 00:10:14,679 --> 00:10:15,280 Speaker 2: What do you think? 233 00:10:15,960 --> 00:10:18,360 Speaker 1: You know me fairly well, and I can separate. I 234 00:10:18,400 --> 00:10:21,480 Speaker 1: can associate pretty easily and quickly. And something is dead 235 00:10:21,520 --> 00:10:23,600 Speaker 1: to me and it's over to that point. I don't. 236 00:10:24,080 --> 00:10:26,280 Speaker 1: You don't want to see something that has a memory 237 00:10:26,320 --> 00:10:28,040 Speaker 1: attached to it. It could be a pleasant one or an 238 00:10:28,080 --> 00:10:29,960 Speaker 1: unpleasant one. You just don't. I don't want to see 239 00:10:29,960 --> 00:10:32,120 Speaker 1: that stuff, none of it. I don't want to drink 240 00:10:32,160 --> 00:10:32,760 Speaker 1: the same drink. 241 00:10:33,640 --> 00:10:35,600 Speaker 3: No, seriously, I don't want to wear the same clothes. 242 00:10:35,720 --> 00:10:36,960 Speaker 2: I actually feel that way. 243 00:10:37,080 --> 00:10:39,000 Speaker 1: Think Okay, I'm with you there one hundred percent. And 244 00:10:39,000 --> 00:10:41,120 Speaker 1: I mentioned that because Jessica Alba they are selling their 245 00:10:41,240 --> 00:10:44,199 Speaker 1: La home for nineteen million dollars. It's on the market, 246 00:10:44,240 --> 00:10:45,760 Speaker 1: so it's available if you'd like to go out and 247 00:10:45,760 --> 00:10:47,560 Speaker 1: put your bid in. But it's in La. But this 248 00:10:47,640 --> 00:10:49,840 Speaker 1: is the home she shared with Cash Warren, who she 249 00:10:50,080 --> 00:10:51,440 Speaker 1: also I think it was the beginning of the year, 250 00:10:51,440 --> 00:10:53,400 Speaker 1: announced they would be getting a divorce as well. But 251 00:10:54,120 --> 00:10:56,760 Speaker 1: this is a home that she called their dream home 252 00:10:57,040 --> 00:11:00,480 Speaker 1: at some point and now that dream is gone. And 253 00:11:00,600 --> 00:11:02,679 Speaker 1: I bet she doesn't. No, no, I'm not going to 254 00:11:02,720 --> 00:11:03,200 Speaker 1: put words in. 255 00:11:03,200 --> 00:11:05,520 Speaker 2: Her mouth, but yes, but what I think where you're 256 00:11:05,559 --> 00:11:06,040 Speaker 2: going with this? 257 00:11:06,400 --> 00:11:08,720 Speaker 3: Look, she was married, They were married for sixteen years, 258 00:11:08,960 --> 00:11:12,520 Speaker 3: and she and they both both Jessica and Cash, referred 259 00:11:12,520 --> 00:11:15,680 Speaker 3: to this home as our dream home where they wanted. 260 00:11:15,320 --> 00:11:17,760 Speaker 2: To watch their kids grow up. I get that. 261 00:11:18,120 --> 00:11:20,480 Speaker 3: So when that dream is gone, when that dream doesn't 262 00:11:20,520 --> 00:11:24,000 Speaker 3: exist anymore, it's almost like a rub to be in 263 00:11:24,040 --> 00:11:25,959 Speaker 3: this place that you thought was going to be one 264 00:11:26,000 --> 00:11:28,200 Speaker 3: thing and now it's another. And I just think that 265 00:11:28,200 --> 00:11:30,719 Speaker 3: that is just that's a heavy It's almost like an 266 00:11:30,720 --> 00:11:32,960 Speaker 3: albatross swaying you down and keeping you in the past. 267 00:11:32,960 --> 00:11:34,480 Speaker 3: It kind of keeps one foot in your past. Now. 268 00:11:34,520 --> 00:11:36,559 Speaker 3: I do know a lot of folks want to keep 269 00:11:36,559 --> 00:11:38,560 Speaker 3: their homes because a they don't have a choice, like 270 00:11:38,600 --> 00:11:40,400 Speaker 3: that's where they have to live, they can't afford to move, 271 00:11:40,679 --> 00:11:42,440 Speaker 3: but b because they want their kids to have some 272 00:11:42,480 --> 00:11:47,080 Speaker 3: stability and normalcy and just a space that they're familiar with. 273 00:11:47,120 --> 00:11:48,960 Speaker 3: I know that that weighs into a lot of folks 274 00:11:48,960 --> 00:11:51,240 Speaker 3: decisions about whether or not to keep a home or not. 275 00:11:51,320 --> 00:11:52,880 Speaker 2: But they are moving. 276 00:11:52,679 --> 00:11:54,480 Speaker 1: On and eye has gone, so the house should go 277 00:11:54,520 --> 00:11:55,240 Speaker 1: to For. 278 00:11:55,240 --> 00:11:58,839 Speaker 2: Me, that absolutely is a non starter. 279 00:11:59,120 --> 00:12:00,920 Speaker 1: Did you know that you have had a widow? 280 00:12:02,160 --> 00:12:02,520 Speaker 2: You know what? 281 00:12:02,559 --> 00:12:05,520 Speaker 3: I would have put an s on that or like, 282 00:12:05,720 --> 00:12:07,280 Speaker 3: I just knew that he had a lot of women 283 00:12:07,640 --> 00:12:10,560 Speaker 3: and probably some are still alive and some might have died. 284 00:12:10,600 --> 00:12:11,440 Speaker 2: Like I don't know. 285 00:12:11,440 --> 00:12:12,600 Speaker 1: He was married to one. 286 00:12:12,880 --> 00:12:14,360 Speaker 2: That's it. He only had one. 287 00:12:14,440 --> 00:12:16,680 Speaker 1: Why he's not a polygamist. I mean, yes, he was 288 00:12:16,720 --> 00:12:19,680 Speaker 1: only Okay you're talking about Oh yeah, it made clay 289 00:12:19,720 --> 00:12:20,240 Speaker 1: boy house. 290 00:12:20,280 --> 00:12:21,520 Speaker 2: And I'm thinking of all the women around. 291 00:12:21,600 --> 00:12:23,160 Speaker 1: He wasn't married to all of them at the same time, 292 00:12:23,240 --> 00:12:26,320 Speaker 1: of course not. But I did not know this. But 293 00:12:26,360 --> 00:12:30,560 Speaker 1: he died in twenty seventeen, and his wife, Crystal Hefner, 294 00:12:31,040 --> 00:12:35,520 Speaker 1: is now engaged after a year of dating. Good for her. 295 00:12:36,120 --> 00:12:38,480 Speaker 1: Crystal is what now thirty nine? 296 00:12:38,760 --> 00:12:42,320 Speaker 2: Yes, thirty nine, thirty nine years age gap and he 297 00:12:42,440 --> 00:12:45,200 Speaker 2: was nine. He died at ninety one in twenty seventeen. 298 00:12:45,920 --> 00:12:47,959 Speaker 1: Hey, when you know, you know? But what I am 299 00:12:48,040 --> 00:12:51,439 Speaker 1: saying here is that doesn't matter. A year doesn't matter. 300 00:12:51,679 --> 00:12:54,280 Speaker 1: What are the rules of Uh, he's been dead for 301 00:12:54,320 --> 00:12:56,480 Speaker 1: several years. He only dated somebody for a year and 302 00:12:56,480 --> 00:12:58,640 Speaker 1: then God and gen. I don't see any issue here. 303 00:12:58,800 --> 00:13:01,920 Speaker 3: The question that people are asked is do you think 304 00:13:01,960 --> 00:13:04,920 Speaker 3: an engagement after one year of dating is too soon? 305 00:13:05,160 --> 00:13:08,439 Speaker 3: What if you're a widow. I don't think that should 306 00:13:08,440 --> 00:13:11,520 Speaker 3: matter at all. I think you can still honor, especially 307 00:13:11,600 --> 00:13:14,760 Speaker 3: if you you know the person who passed was somebody 308 00:13:14,760 --> 00:13:16,520 Speaker 3: who was the love of your life or someone you 309 00:13:16,559 --> 00:13:18,680 Speaker 3: had a beautiful relationship with, I think you can still 310 00:13:18,720 --> 00:13:21,160 Speaker 3: honor them. I don't think anyone who truly loves no 311 00:13:21,160 --> 00:13:23,280 Speaker 3: other person would want the person they're leaving behind to 312 00:13:23,320 --> 00:13:25,560 Speaker 3: be alone and sad, So I don't. I don't think 313 00:13:25,559 --> 00:13:27,520 Speaker 3: there were rules behind that. I think it's personal. I 314 00:13:27,520 --> 00:13:28,360 Speaker 3: think it's individual. 315 00:13:28,559 --> 00:13:30,400 Speaker 1: It's sad. I want you to be alone and missing 316 00:13:30,480 --> 00:13:32,400 Speaker 1: me every day the rest of your life. I don't 317 00:13:32,400 --> 00:13:34,480 Speaker 1: want you happy going out to movie horror movies with 318 00:13:34,520 --> 00:13:35,400 Speaker 1: some duty and popcorn. 319 00:13:35,480 --> 00:13:37,360 Speaker 3: I think I could never do that, though I couldn't 320 00:13:37,400 --> 00:13:38,439 Speaker 3: watch horror movies again. 321 00:13:39,320 --> 00:13:42,000 Speaker 1: Really. Oh so, y'all go see a rom com together? 322 00:13:44,120 --> 00:13:46,080 Speaker 3: Okay, I don't know how we got there or went there, 323 00:13:46,080 --> 00:13:47,680 Speaker 3: but no, I want none of that. 324 00:13:47,920 --> 00:13:49,320 Speaker 1: But there's no issue there, I mean, I. 325 00:13:49,520 --> 00:13:53,200 Speaker 3: Think so an engagement, people get engaged within momsw long. 326 00:13:53,120 --> 00:13:55,720 Speaker 1: When you're loon before you got engaged, Well was a 327 00:13:55,720 --> 00:13:56,160 Speaker 1: long one. 328 00:13:56,320 --> 00:13:59,240 Speaker 3: First one, first one was I mean I was so young, 329 00:13:59,440 --> 00:14:00,400 Speaker 3: but it was a year. 330 00:14:00,480 --> 00:14:03,600 Speaker 1: It was a year, no, no, no, no, before they dated 331 00:14:03,600 --> 00:14:06,880 Speaker 1: a year then got engaged, So you dated for how long? Engaged? 332 00:14:07,240 --> 00:14:09,120 Speaker 3: I dated a year and then got engaged for a year, 333 00:14:09,160 --> 00:14:11,920 Speaker 3: so for two years. Second time, this is a little. 334 00:14:12,080 --> 00:14:14,240 Speaker 1: This is a little you know, you talked about this before. 335 00:14:14,600 --> 00:14:15,040 Speaker 2: It's fine. 336 00:14:15,080 --> 00:14:19,400 Speaker 3: I got engaged after let me see, wait, hold on, 337 00:14:19,560 --> 00:14:23,840 Speaker 3: get four months. I got engaged after four months, and 338 00:14:23,880 --> 00:14:25,920 Speaker 3: I got married after ten months of meeting him. 339 00:14:26,520 --> 00:14:29,520 Speaker 1: Wow, you really thought I was dragging my feet. 340 00:14:29,320 --> 00:14:32,760 Speaker 3: Then, Jesus, what's what are your timelines? 341 00:14:34,080 --> 00:14:39,840 Speaker 1: Longer much? Two years? I think? And uh, you know 342 00:14:39,880 --> 00:14:42,120 Speaker 1: what year? Probably a year on the first one. Okay, 343 00:14:42,400 --> 00:14:42,640 Speaker 1: it was. 344 00:14:42,640 --> 00:14:44,640 Speaker 3: A year on the first one for me, and even 345 00:14:44,680 --> 00:14:45,440 Speaker 3: shorter the second. 346 00:14:45,480 --> 00:14:47,240 Speaker 1: The first one and the second one, Oh my god. 347 00:14:47,320 --> 00:14:49,480 Speaker 3: Okay, that's the third one going to be Oh I 348 00:14:49,640 --> 00:14:51,400 Speaker 3: ki tak tic talk. 349 00:14:52,120 --> 00:14:52,760 Speaker 2: I'm kidding. 350 00:15:02,800 --> 00:15:04,960 Speaker 1: Okay, next up here, we've known some people personally who 351 00:15:05,000 --> 00:15:07,720 Speaker 1: have done this, but they have a divorce is it 352 00:15:07,760 --> 00:15:12,560 Speaker 1: called divorce party or a divorce a divorce party? Okay, yes, 353 00:15:12,760 --> 00:15:15,280 Speaker 1: but these things they feel im poor taste to me. 354 00:15:15,280 --> 00:15:19,360 Speaker 1: We're talking about HGTV star Christina Hack celebrated her divorce 355 00:15:19,440 --> 00:15:24,880 Speaker 1: being finalized with a party of sorts. You go out 356 00:15:24,880 --> 00:15:27,600 Speaker 1: with your friends. It's one thing like look this, Christina 357 00:15:27,600 --> 00:15:29,440 Speaker 1: Hack just did this kind of a smaller thing. Couple 358 00:15:29,440 --> 00:15:33,160 Speaker 1: of friends out toasting glasses. Supposed it is insta though. Okay, 359 00:15:33,160 --> 00:15:36,920 Speaker 1: so it looks like a celebration of your marriage ending, 360 00:15:37,200 --> 00:15:39,920 Speaker 1: which is fine by me if you want to do that, 361 00:15:39,960 --> 00:15:41,440 Speaker 1: but some will say it's impoor taste. 362 00:15:41,600 --> 00:15:45,560 Speaker 3: So look again, I'm gonna stand here saying I'm not 363 00:15:45,720 --> 00:15:48,840 Speaker 3: going to judge what anyone else chooses to do. However, 364 00:15:48,960 --> 00:15:51,240 Speaker 3: if it were for me, I don't think it's a 365 00:15:51,280 --> 00:15:52,720 Speaker 3: bad thing. I think when people come up and say 366 00:15:52,800 --> 00:15:54,520 Speaker 3: I'm so sorry you're getting divorced, a lot of times 367 00:15:54,520 --> 00:15:57,360 Speaker 3: I would say, no, actually, it's a relief, so you 368 00:15:57,400 --> 00:16:00,280 Speaker 3: could congratulate me instead of feel sorry for me. But 369 00:16:00,840 --> 00:16:03,400 Speaker 3: it is one of those moments where I think, for me, 370 00:16:03,560 --> 00:16:06,280 Speaker 3: I wouldn't want to post, like I could see myself 371 00:16:06,320 --> 00:16:08,920 Speaker 3: going out and clinking a glass, but posting it is 372 00:16:09,000 --> 00:16:11,600 Speaker 3: kind of rubbing it in the faces not only of 373 00:16:11,920 --> 00:16:13,640 Speaker 3: the ex but the exes family, and if you have 374 00:16:13,720 --> 00:16:16,080 Speaker 3: children with that person, I don't know what message that 375 00:16:16,200 --> 00:16:19,520 Speaker 3: sends as well. I think that that's the consideration I 376 00:16:19,520 --> 00:16:23,080 Speaker 3: would have, just the ex the exes family members, former 377 00:16:23,120 --> 00:16:25,280 Speaker 3: friends who might have gotten caught in the crosshairs, and 378 00:16:25,320 --> 00:16:27,440 Speaker 3: then children if they're involved. I think sometimes it can 379 00:16:27,480 --> 00:16:29,920 Speaker 3: come off as yeah, in poor taste. 380 00:16:29,960 --> 00:16:31,080 Speaker 2: I guess it is the best way to put it 381 00:16:31,320 --> 00:16:32,880 Speaker 2: what it is. But to each his own. 382 00:16:33,120 --> 00:16:35,120 Speaker 3: I mean, you know what, like I don't know what 383 00:16:35,200 --> 00:16:37,640 Speaker 3: someone went through. You know what did she go through 384 00:16:37,680 --> 00:16:39,440 Speaker 3: to get to a place where she finally was able 385 00:16:39,480 --> 00:16:41,600 Speaker 3: to get divorced? Or say I want a divorce? So 386 00:16:41,640 --> 00:16:44,400 Speaker 3: maybe she needs to let off some steam and to celebrate. 387 00:16:44,440 --> 00:16:46,000 Speaker 1: You know What's that? We use this quote in our 388 00:16:46,000 --> 00:16:49,960 Speaker 1: morning run. I think recently, if you can't be happy 389 00:16:50,000 --> 00:16:52,680 Speaker 1: with what you have, at least be happy with what 390 00:16:52,720 --> 00:16:53,320 Speaker 1: you escaped. 391 00:16:53,480 --> 00:16:57,120 Speaker 3: Yes, exactly, and that could exactly be I think it 392 00:16:57,160 --> 00:17:00,520 Speaker 3: is for a lot of people. Sometimes breakups, divorce are 393 00:17:00,560 --> 00:17:01,200 Speaker 3: exactly that. 394 00:17:01,440 --> 00:17:04,720 Speaker 1: All right. The final thing here is this quote, the 395 00:17:04,800 --> 00:17:08,400 Speaker 1: pressure to be married to men is a conspiracy. Now 396 00:17:08,440 --> 00:17:10,520 Speaker 1: that quote comes from an actress. Now when you hear 397 00:17:10,600 --> 00:17:13,520 Speaker 1: that initially without context, or do you get curious or 398 00:17:13,520 --> 00:17:15,399 Speaker 1: do you react? How do you take that? 399 00:17:16,200 --> 00:17:18,720 Speaker 2: I get curious? I would I would like to ask 400 00:17:18,760 --> 00:17:19,600 Speaker 2: a few follow ups. 401 00:17:19,920 --> 00:17:21,480 Speaker 1: That's fair. But we talked about Anna Camp, who was 402 00:17:21,520 --> 00:17:24,320 Speaker 1: of Pitch Perfect, and. 403 00:17:24,240 --> 00:17:26,840 Speaker 3: She's on this new season of You, which I've yet stream, 404 00:17:26,880 --> 00:17:29,439 Speaker 3: but I've watched all the other seasons. So I'm actually excited. 405 00:17:29,480 --> 00:17:32,720 Speaker 3: I didn't realize she was on this new season of You. 406 00:17:32,920 --> 00:17:35,600 Speaker 3: But she's been married twice before. 407 00:17:35,720 --> 00:17:37,720 Speaker 1: Okay, so it's not just us. I always feel like 408 00:17:37,800 --> 00:17:39,560 Speaker 1: nobody else and now everybody's. 409 00:17:39,119 --> 00:17:39,440 Speaker 2: Got to go. 410 00:17:40,000 --> 00:17:40,480 Speaker 1: It's a thing. 411 00:17:40,920 --> 00:17:44,760 Speaker 3: Right. So she had two marriages, two men, that both 412 00:17:44,880 --> 00:17:48,480 Speaker 3: ended in divorce, and now she has posted on Instagram, 413 00:17:48,520 --> 00:17:51,840 Speaker 3: I guess making it official just recently that she is 414 00:17:51,960 --> 00:17:52,919 Speaker 3: with a woman. 415 00:17:54,200 --> 00:17:57,639 Speaker 1: Okay, fine, but that shock people, surprise people. But she 416 00:17:57,800 --> 00:18:02,159 Speaker 1: used that line that the pressure to be married to 417 00:18:02,359 --> 00:18:04,720 Speaker 1: men is a conspiracy. 418 00:18:05,240 --> 00:18:08,200 Speaker 2: I don't understand that. I don't. 419 00:18:08,320 --> 00:18:10,680 Speaker 1: It sounds like you're saying women don't have the freedom 420 00:18:10,840 --> 00:18:14,080 Speaker 1: to explore, to be themselves. They don't have the freedom 421 00:18:14,119 --> 00:18:17,119 Speaker 1: to go back and forth. They don't like there's pressure 422 00:18:17,200 --> 00:18:20,680 Speaker 1: to possibly always identify as this, or label yourself or 423 00:18:20,680 --> 00:18:23,080 Speaker 1: put yourself in this group or that group. I took 424 00:18:23,119 --> 00:18:26,000 Speaker 1: it as that. Now, who is part of the conspiracy? 425 00:18:26,040 --> 00:18:27,880 Speaker 1: I don't know, but I took it as that. Well. 426 00:18:27,920 --> 00:18:31,439 Speaker 3: I do think, you know, maybe even ten years ago, fifteen, 427 00:18:31,480 --> 00:18:33,800 Speaker 3: twenty years ago, that might be more of something that 428 00:18:33,800 --> 00:18:34,679 Speaker 3: I could get behind. 429 00:18:34,760 --> 00:18:36,600 Speaker 2: But I do think now, especially. 430 00:18:36,240 --> 00:18:39,679 Speaker 3: Having young girls now, who are nineteen and twenty two. 431 00:18:39,840 --> 00:18:42,880 Speaker 3: I mean, I just think it's so accepted to explore. 432 00:18:42,960 --> 00:18:45,080 Speaker 3: And I mean, maybe it's where you live in the country, 433 00:18:45,400 --> 00:18:47,880 Speaker 3: maybe it's your family. But I do think now, more 434 00:18:47,920 --> 00:18:51,720 Speaker 3: than ever before, I think people are celebrating and even 435 00:18:51,840 --> 00:18:55,000 Speaker 3: leaning into the options that they feel like they have, 436 00:18:55,119 --> 00:18:57,480 Speaker 3: that there aren't societal norms to the extent that you 437 00:18:57,560 --> 00:18:59,320 Speaker 3: can't be with who you want to be with and 438 00:18:59,359 --> 00:19:01,080 Speaker 3: you can't love who you want to love. You might 439 00:19:01,119 --> 00:19:04,160 Speaker 3: get judgment still, but I don't know about a larger conspiracy. 440 00:19:05,520 --> 00:19:05,919 Speaker 3: I don't know. 441 00:19:06,040 --> 00:19:08,200 Speaker 2: I've never been in that situation, so I don't. 442 00:19:08,040 --> 00:19:10,760 Speaker 3: Know been in which one where I felt like I 443 00:19:10,880 --> 00:19:14,120 Speaker 3: was being pressured to be with men. I just well, 444 00:19:14,160 --> 00:19:16,560 Speaker 3: you didn't just to be pressure I just like I 445 00:19:16,680 --> 00:19:17,200 Speaker 3: just like men. 446 00:19:17,280 --> 00:19:19,600 Speaker 2: So it just kept it easy, I guess, you know. 447 00:19:19,840 --> 00:19:21,320 Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know, do you feel like there's 448 00:19:21,320 --> 00:19:23,800 Speaker 3: a conspiracy against you or that you have to be 449 00:19:23,880 --> 00:19:24,240 Speaker 3: with women? 450 00:19:25,600 --> 00:19:27,159 Speaker 1: Oh, I don't know how you're going to finish that. 451 00:19:27,280 --> 00:19:31,880 Speaker 1: But yes, there's a conspiracy. But no, I look, I 452 00:19:31,920 --> 00:19:33,960 Speaker 1: love this And we've been talking so much about relationships. 453 00:19:33,960 --> 00:19:36,639 Speaker 1: We're gonna be talking about relationships more coming up in 454 00:19:36,680 --> 00:19:40,040 Speaker 1: the next, the next weeks and months. Yes, if folks 455 00:19:40,080 --> 00:19:42,439 Speaker 1: haven't heard, we'll get into that later. But it's like 456 00:19:42,560 --> 00:19:46,640 Speaker 1: everybody's going through it. Everybody's going through something, and these 457 00:19:46,680 --> 00:19:51,720 Speaker 1: are folks go through the names here, the Drek Kimsley, 458 00:19:51,760 --> 00:19:58,080 Speaker 1: Steve Gutenberg, Jessica Simpson, Jeneral Lopez, Jessica Alba, all of 459 00:19:58,119 --> 00:20:00,680 Speaker 1: those folks. At some point, I I think in the 460 00:20:00,720 --> 00:20:03,840 Speaker 1: past twelve to eighteen months, we have seen some beautiful 461 00:20:03,840 --> 00:20:05,919 Speaker 1: picture of how wonderful their relationship was. 462 00:20:06,040 --> 00:20:06,240 Speaker 3: Yeah. 463 00:20:06,920 --> 00:20:09,879 Speaker 1: That look, folks, if that tells you anything, you think 464 00:20:10,160 --> 00:20:12,119 Speaker 1: you're the only one going through it, you're not. And 465 00:20:12,160 --> 00:20:14,720 Speaker 1: I know your neighbor they look so perfect over there, 466 00:20:14,760 --> 00:20:18,200 Speaker 1: they're not. Everybody's going through something. So I've loved doing 467 00:20:18,280 --> 00:20:20,040 Speaker 1: I do Part two because it is a part of 468 00:20:20,040 --> 00:20:22,800 Speaker 1: a community, and everybody can be a part of a community. 469 00:20:22,840 --> 00:20:25,320 Speaker 1: So just people always keep that in mind. 470 00:20:25,440 --> 00:20:27,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that's so important. 471 00:20:27,480 --> 00:20:29,800 Speaker 3: And when you see celebrities and I think there's one 472 00:20:29,800 --> 00:20:32,840 Speaker 3: of those magazines that has a page that says they're 473 00:20:32,920 --> 00:20:35,760 Speaker 3: just like us, but truly they are. I mean, you 474 00:20:35,800 --> 00:20:39,359 Speaker 3: know everyone they show relationships, well, they'll show them like 475 00:20:39,480 --> 00:20:42,639 Speaker 3: being in line at Walmart buying you know dog food. 476 00:20:42,960 --> 00:20:45,560 Speaker 3: But you know, I think sometimes people think that if 477 00:20:45,560 --> 00:20:47,600 Speaker 3: you've got money, or you have fame, or you have 478 00:20:47,880 --> 00:20:49,520 Speaker 3: some sort of success in your life, that's somehow you're 479 00:20:49,560 --> 00:20:53,240 Speaker 3: immune or insulated from relationship drama. And it's just certainly 480 00:20:53,280 --> 00:20:53,760 Speaker 3: not the case. 481 00:20:53,800 --> 00:20:55,520 Speaker 1: They're just like us. They're just like that, I need this. 482 00:20:55,680 --> 00:20:57,520 Speaker 1: Then they should be in the corner curled up crying, 483 00:20:57,600 --> 00:21:00,040 Speaker 1: because that would be just like me. That's more so 484 00:21:00,400 --> 00:21:03,680 Speaker 1: how I am usually, folks. Look, we always, always, always 485 00:21:03,680 --> 00:21:06,320 Speaker 1: appreciate you all being a part of the conversation engaging 486 00:21:06,359 --> 00:21:08,840 Speaker 1: with us, because we absolutely love doing this thing. A 487 00:21:08,880 --> 00:21:11,600 Speaker 1: lot of news out there, folks are splitting up, finding love, 488 00:21:11,640 --> 00:21:14,159 Speaker 1: they're healing, they're throwing divorced parties, they're going back to college. 489 00:21:14,200 --> 00:21:16,199 Speaker 1: But whatever you're going through at the time, maybe it 490 00:21:16,280 --> 00:21:18,960 Speaker 1: is a divorce at this time, maybe you're feeling a 491 00:21:19,000 --> 00:21:23,760 Speaker 1: little lost, Folks, you are not alone. We have folks here. 492 00:21:23,960 --> 00:21:27,720 Speaker 1: We have some experience, hard earned, hard one. We weren't 493 00:21:27,760 --> 00:21:30,160 Speaker 1: trying to earn it, no, but we have it now. 494 00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:33,600 Speaker 1: But at anytime we can lend our experience to some 495 00:21:33,640 --> 00:21:35,480 Speaker 1: of your questions as well. We appreciate doing so. 496 00:21:35,640 --> 00:21:37,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, So if you're going through a divorce, if you're 497 00:21:37,960 --> 00:21:40,440 Speaker 3: feeling lost, if you need some help from us or 498 00:21:40,480 --> 00:21:42,840 Speaker 3: from our team of amazing mentors, you know where to 499 00:21:42,880 --> 00:21:45,120 Speaker 3: find us. You can email us, you can call us. 500 00:21:45,200 --> 00:21:47,840 Speaker 3: We are here to help, and all the info is 501 00:21:47,880 --> 00:21:49,520 Speaker 3: in the show notes. 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