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Speaker 1: and then the story was shared on TikTok and it

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Speaker 2: This is this is a triple waymy because first off,

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Speaker 1: He did, he did. Yeah, you were like, you know,

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Speaker 2: You know, his girlfriend broke up with him, and now

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Speaker 2: it's his girlfriend's clapping back like it's this is this

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Speaker 1: This is See it sucks because she clapped back instead

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Speaker 1: of clapping cheeks, you know, brutal. That's rough. That's rough,

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Speaker 1: all right, So let's hear this version story. For the record,

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Speaker 1: I have no problem with this post getting down, voted,

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Speaker 1: or buried. Yesterday, one of my exes friends contacted me.

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Speaker 1: She said she got my number from my ex. Made sense.

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Speaker 1: So my ex wanted to continue communicating with me, she

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Speaker 1: The friend made it sound like my ex was really

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Speaker 1: and agreed to meet with my ex. Man's man's lead

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Speaker 1: Uh oh. My ex and I saw each other this morning,

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Speaker 1: and it became clear very quickly that she had no

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Speaker 1: She wanted me to know that she found my Reddit

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Speaker 1: like people would just fucking read this guy's story and

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Speaker 2: Honestly, anyone who does that is a filthy piece of

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Speaker 1: They do, they do, And if you want to tell

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Speaker 1: us exactly that, go to our slash okop show and

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Speaker 1: take both expose yourself, expose yourself, but not that way.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah, redd, it's not the place Twitter. Twitter. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: there you go. She showed me the Reddit post on TikTok.

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Speaker 1: It got a lot of attention. She reminded me how

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Speaker 1: she had to find out from another person that I

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Speaker 1: was planning to end our relationship, and now she had

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Speaker 2: That is kind of hilarious like that, Like you're literally

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Speaker 2: scrolling through TikTok and you're like, oh, this is a

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Speaker 2: This is about me.

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Speaker 1: How many times like that has happened with stories that

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Speaker 2: If anyone listening, if we have ruined your relationship, go

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Speaker 2: to our slash okop show and tell us how if

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Speaker 1: I like that if it's that nutty, Yeah, hey, we

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Speaker 1: are about nutting baby, Well, I said, at least I

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Speaker 1: be crazy. Oh goodness, My ex said she involved another person,

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Speaker 1: loser here except this guy that's getting double heads for

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. Both to blame for a bad breakup,

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Speaker 1: But as soon as you became experienced, you realize relationships

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Speaker 1: Damn a honey eate not the crew the first thing

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Speaker 2: I mean, everybody loses except for the guy. Yeah, the

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Speaker 1: I also like that her clap back is you didn't

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Speaker 1: Self what I don't know, man. I think she makes

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Speaker 1: check out this one where Grandma's getting some slappy w

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Speaker 1: I love that. World War two not Grandma, okayop yo,

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Speaker 1: do it? Am I the a hole for meeting my

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Speaker 1: That night, my messages were blowing up, not just from

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Speaker 1: So there's a bunch of fallout now from all of

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Speaker 1: this stuff. Yes, the lie was terrible, but I just

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Speaker 1: not taking into consideration how this would affect Kara finding

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Speaker 1: I get honesty is the best policy, but in this case,

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Speaker 1: I don't know if I was an asshole for doing it.

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Speaker 1: I'm still learning this whole dad business, so I don't

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Speaker 2: I give him kudos for his acknowledgment at the end

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Speaker 2: of like I did ruin the image of her mom,

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Speaker 2: no communication.

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Speaker 1: About let's get a wigi board out. To get that

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Speaker 2: I want to say, He's not the asshole, but that

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Speaker 2: and you know that is a really really negative side effect.

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Speaker 1: A right hot take though, Oh goodt go right. So

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Speaker 1: would you rather have the dad who is alive have

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Speaker 1: the dad who is alive, who's going to have that

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Speaker 1: about it? Person hot take. I'm not just saying this

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Speaker 1: doesn't sound that hot of a take. I'm like, Okay,

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Speaker 1: now now here we go. Yeah yeah, no, no, no.

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Speaker 2: Honestly, I mean a the daughter's life like nineteen, that's

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Speaker 2: still very young or no. No, her mother died when

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Speaker 2: I mean she wasn't even an adult.

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Speaker 1: She was still a teenager.

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Speaker 2: Like all things considered, even considering the unintended consequences, he

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Speaker 2: did the right thing.

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Speaker 1: Mitch more Land fan eighty. He says someone should have

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Speaker 1: been honest with her before now, which is like really

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Speaker 1: like obviously, duh, bro, Like all of the grandparents are

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Speaker 1: getting mad and everyone's getting like Rob's getting mad. But bro,

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Speaker 1: like the whole you should have been honest with her.

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Speaker 1: What are you doing with her? Whole family? Are the

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like they shouldn't be yelling at him that

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Speaker 2: at a bare minimum, this should be a conversation. Yeah, Like, hey,

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Speaker 2: here's why, you know, we don't want this image of

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Speaker 2: your mom. No, they're just like calling him angry. No no

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Speaker 1: Also, someone agrees with me, our dot anna dot o says,

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Speaker 1: I agree the living relationship is more important at this point,

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Speaker 1: and like you summed it up imperfectly, like Anna, Oh hey,

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Speaker 1: the right take.

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Speaker 2: Let's go.

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Speaker 1: To the relationship pages. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Someone saying Part

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Speaker 1: two brob the line.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, do everyone comment Part two in the comments

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Speaker 2: right now to blow up this live.

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Speaker 1: Here we go.

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Speaker 2: If we get ten thousand followers in the next five minutes,

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Speaker 2: we will post part two immediately.

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