Speaker 1: Welcome to Carefully Reckless, the production of Our Heart Radio
Speaker 1: and the Black Effects, And just like that, we're back
Speaker 1: on the air. Welcome to yet another episode of Carefully Reckless.
Speaker 1: What's your Girl? Just hilarious? Now this story time is
Speaker 1: about me. I ain't gonna talk about nobody else. This
Speaker 1: ship is about me, and hopefully I can bring you
Speaker 1: all into my world. So y'all can open up about
Speaker 1: y'all world. Grab your ta grab your holes, because I'm
Speaker 1: about to get into it now. I remember I was
Speaker 1: dealing with this guy. This is not too long ago.
Speaker 1: I was dealing with this dude, right, and I wanted
Speaker 1: to introduce him to my cousin. Now, my cousin, if
Speaker 1: you know me, y'all know, she like my sister, my
Speaker 1: best friend, my other half. She helps me run my company.
Speaker 1: She is my executive assistant. Yes, that's my girl, my
Speaker 1: baby London. All right, No, nigga, if I am fun
Speaker 1: it with you, and I'll tell you I'm gonna introduce
Speaker 1: you to my cousin, to London. That means you come
Speaker 1: pretty far. You've got a lot of potential behind you. Brother.
Speaker 1: I set it up perfectly. Reservations at a nice restaurant.
Speaker 1: Me and her got there first, so we're awaiting this
Speaker 1: gentleman's arrival. As we're a waiting, I'm pumping him up.
Speaker 1: I'm boosting him up. Oh he does this for me,
Speaker 1: he does that for me. He's this type of guy.
Speaker 1: Oh he's great. He's great, leaving all the minor bad
Speaker 1: ship out because it's just like, okay, nobody's perfect. Okay,
Speaker 1: I can. I can deal with this little ship. So
Speaker 1: I'd rather not speak on that then. By the way,
Speaker 1: just so you know, my cousin is very critical, as
Speaker 1: am I with her, So you know, as vice versa,
Speaker 1: I'm critical about who the fun she funk with. She
Speaker 1: critical about who I funk with. Okay, fine, we all
Speaker 1: want the best for each other. The gentleman arrives, he
Speaker 1: sits down. He's already drunk. Okay, hopefully he can handle
Speaker 1: his look at in front of my cousin. We ain't
Speaker 1: drunk yet, but we're getting there. So Hi, this is
Speaker 1: my cousin London, My cousin London. This is such and such. Okay,
Speaker 1: everything is great. We get around the shots after we eat.
Speaker 1: Everything is cool. This nigga just start getting disrespectful out
Speaker 1: of his motherfucking mouth. And I don't mean calling me
Speaker 1: out my name. I don't mean calling her all her name,
Speaker 1: being rude to her or whatever. This is exactly what happened.
Speaker 1: I turned to London, who I was with when I
Speaker 1: met the gentleman years ago. So London knows this gentleman
Speaker 1: from seeing him the first day I met him, didn't
Speaker 1: hear him after that until we just got reacquainted a
Speaker 1: couple of months ago, and she hasn't seen him since then.
Speaker 1: So I said, London, this man don't believe that the
Speaker 1: first time I met him was that time I was
Speaker 1: with you down the outdoors event and blah blah blah
Speaker 1: blah blah. So London says, sir, that is the first
Speaker 1: time that you met her I ever called that. This
Speaker 1: motherfucker opens up his mouth and says, nah, I was
Speaker 1: sucking her before that. I said, sweetheart, we're not gonna
Speaker 1: do that like this. I understand you drunk, but you
Speaker 1: need to watch your motherfucking mouth. Okay, but for your
Speaker 1: mouth be on the floor. And that's all I'm gonna say.
Speaker 1: He get the giggling. I get the giggling, but I
Speaker 1: get the back series real quick, Okay. I can see
Speaker 1: in London's face that that comment was very cringe e.
Speaker 1: So London says, no, no, no, no, no, let's just
Speaker 1: calm down. She starts rubbing my knee. She already know
Speaker 1: the type of bitch I am, and she already know
Speaker 1: that this ain't gonna go right period. Now I am
Speaker 1: embarrassed because I bought this nigga in the presence of
Speaker 1: my cousin, someone who sometimes I look for approval from.
Speaker 1: She my big cousin. You know what I'm saying. I
Speaker 1: grew up with her. I don't have too many cousins
Speaker 1: that I look at like that. And my whole twenty
Speaker 1: nine years of living, I introduced London to three guys,
Speaker 1: three guys, and my roster a bit long, yeah, man,
Speaker 1: Like yeah, I'm talking about the history. It's like it's
Speaker 1: a bit long, you know what I mean. Like, so
Speaker 1: she only met three of those nigas. Okay, you see
Speaker 1: what type of importance she holds. I don't just bring
Speaker 1: anybody around her, You feel me. I started to regret
Speaker 1: it immediately. He get up and go to the bathroom.
Speaker 1: I'm telling London, she trying to calm me down. I'm like, yo,
Speaker 1: I'm I feel like, I really feel that I'm gonna
Speaker 1: slap shut out this nigga before the night is over.
Speaker 1: Brosh like that. I really really feel that, So I
Speaker 1: bring on everywhere. I don't give a funk if it's
Speaker 1: a five star restaurant or McDonald's. Nigga, I'm playing on
Speaker 1: with you. If we're sitting down eating while we're waiting
Speaker 1: for a dessert and more shots to come, I'll pull
Speaker 1: out on. Oh he already see how piste off I am.
Speaker 1: So I guess this is his way of trying to
Speaker 1: make me feel better. Now, we are very sexual with
Speaker 1: each other. We're sexually compatible, and I love it. But
Speaker 1: this man showed me his true colors that night. He
Speaker 1: can't hold his liquor at all. And this is how
Speaker 1: I know. He shuffood. I debt while I'm daling. I
Speaker 1: like to make bets for that. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Y'all know I like it. I win all the time,
Speaker 1: So why wouldn't I bet As I'm dealing. This nigga
Speaker 1: looks up and he says, if I win, you're giving
Speaker 1: me some head to night right strike three? Now you're done.
Speaker 1: Needless to say, I don't feel the same about that
Speaker 1: motherfucker anymore. I'm telling you, yo, listen, it is so
Speaker 1: funny how you can love everything about a person right
Speaker 1: in the beginning, even in the middle. Fuck then you
Speaker 1: know what I mean, You can love everything about them
Speaker 1: to the point where you overlook minor ship because everybody
Speaker 1: got something with them. You know, nobody's perfect. Isn't it
Speaker 1: amazing and shocking how fast all that ship can change
Speaker 1: within a blink of an eye. That motherfucker can do
Speaker 1: one thing and turn you completely off. Now I'm Innaquarius.
Speaker 1: I'm not really big on astrology, but I do embody
Speaker 1: some of the characteristics, and you know, some of the
Speaker 1: traits of what they say a true Aquarius is okay.
Speaker 1: And one of the things that I do notice that
Speaker 1: they say about my sign is once you're turned off,
Speaker 1: you're turned off. That's completely the funk it because it
Speaker 1: happened that night. That's where he knew he fucked up.
Speaker 1: That was it. I ain't look at the motherfucker right
Speaker 1: since and this was just last week. It's like, once
Speaker 1: you start to give a motherfucker a lot of you,
Speaker 1: not even all of you. Because I'm very adamant about that,
Speaker 1: I don't want to give you all of me just yet.
Speaker 1: I want to used to be six months in before
Speaker 1: I give you all, you know, but I gave a lot,
Speaker 1: goddamn me, a lot, a good seventy percent. You was
Speaker 1: waiting on that cool thirty you feel me, but you
Speaker 1: had seventy You know what what I made me, dropped that
Speaker 1: ship down to I don't look at him the same. Yeah,
Speaker 1: sometimes I still find myself missing the sex, but you
Speaker 1: can get good sex from anywhere. You got to have
Speaker 1: every type of quality to gain my interests and to
Speaker 1: keep it. That ain't how you keep me. And then
Speaker 1: another thing, ladies and gentlemen, When my cousin bought it
Speaker 1: to this nigga's attention, he didn't apologize. When I bought
Speaker 1: it to this nigga's attention, after me calming down and
Speaker 1: and you know, getting myself together because y'all know how
Speaker 1: I can be, he did not apologize. In fact, he
Speaker 1: flipped the whole ship on me. That's the most toxic
Speaker 1: shit if I ever seen it. Listen, you can go,
Speaker 1: you can stay where the funk you at. Uh, actually,
Speaker 1: you can go back to whoever the funk you was
Speaker 1: with before, because that's probably why you ended up that
Speaker 1: person's X anyway, You're dumbass nigga. So now you're fucked up.
Speaker 1: That's it. That's all you gotta do is disrespect me
Speaker 1: after I'm telling you to stop disrespecting me and then
Speaker 1: get done. Hold up, Hold up, I know the ship
Speaker 1: getting good. But listen to just a couple of seconds
Speaker 1: of a commercial. If you love me, you'll listen. That
Speaker 1: brings me to the carefully reckless discussion. Needless to say,
Speaker 1: my cousin, don't funk with the nigga, because I didn't
Speaker 1: funk with the nigga, And no, I did not expect
Speaker 1: for her to funk with him after that. She didn't
Speaker 1: want to see him again the full a second time
Speaker 1: after that. This is what happens when you know your family,
Speaker 1: when you know yourself. You know what I'm saying. You
Speaker 1: pick up on ship early. Now. No, I did not
Speaker 1: post that nigga, never have never will now, you know that,
Speaker 1: because it ain't gonna go in the whales now. And
Speaker 1: I was just like, we're in that stage where he
Speaker 1: trying to figure out my angle and not have already
Speaker 1: figured out that I was done, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So for him. It's like, oh, ship, Now I gotta
Speaker 1: try to do all this to get back. Now, I
Speaker 1: gotta try to. Now, I gotta try to. Now, I
Speaker 1: gotta try to. But if you wasn't growing enough to
Speaker 1: realize that you were wrong and and that you immediately
Speaker 1: should have made a you turn and apologized and tried
Speaker 1: to de escalate what had escalated you was done, you
Speaker 1: should have known. You lost me, big fellow, You lost me, chap.
Speaker 1: And that's just what that is. That's how I feel
Speaker 1: about the situation. So today's topic is that of your
Speaker 1: family not liking your woman or your man, and ship
Speaker 1: like your family having issues with the person you're dating,
Speaker 1: because that's exactly what happened in my world last week, y'all.
Speaker 1: Now you have to think about it. If this is
Speaker 1: going on with you and your significant other, you have
Speaker 1: to step back and realize what's going on. Why do
Speaker 1: they not like him? Why do they not like her?
Speaker 1: Is it's something that he or she has done and
Speaker 1: the eyes of them. It could be many different reasons
Speaker 1: why your family don't get along with your boyfriend or
Speaker 1: your girlfriend, or your wife or your husband. It could
Speaker 1: be so many reasons. It could be something that that
Speaker 1: person is doing to you. My cousin London did not
Speaker 1: like the nigga because of how he disrespected me. Now listen,
Speaker 1: I'm also tell you that not the first time he
Speaker 1: did that ship to me. But I do notice it
Speaker 1: happens when he's drunk, so bing lightbulb. Don't fucking drink
Speaker 1: around me or fall back on that ship. Get your
Speaker 1: ship together. I don't deserve that. I don't deserve that.
Speaker 1: As rough and tough as I am, I'm a good
Speaker 1: goddamn girl. I'm a great woman to a man, I'm
Speaker 1: a good goddamn girlfriend. I'm great. I'm wife the material nigga.
Speaker 1: That's what gods need to understand how to treat the
Speaker 1: right ones. I don't give a funk what happened in
Speaker 1: your past. If you didn't let that go yet, you
Speaker 1: don't need to be here obviously, as you If you
Speaker 1: keep losing women, if you keep losing women all these
Speaker 1: but just keep then it ain't the bitch as baby
Speaker 1: as you. You need to figure yourself out, figure out
Speaker 1: what the funk you can do to be better, because
Speaker 1: this ain't it. Also, both men and women can attract
Speaker 1: the same type of people. I'm not gonna say wrong,
Speaker 1: but you know you, I'm gonna let you say that.
Speaker 1: You can. Y'all can say wrong if y'all want um.
Speaker 1: But I hear a lot of people I keep attracting
Speaker 1: these same type of dudes. Da da da da. That
Speaker 1: was my problem for a long time. You know, like
Speaker 1: you have to work on yourself. You have to see
Speaker 1: what is it in me that keeps attracting these broken
Speaker 1: men or these broken women, These men who don't have
Speaker 1: it all together mentally, but they got it all together
Speaker 1: on the outside or vice versa. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Women we nurture naturally. So if a man they got
Speaker 1: it all together, it's automatically in our DNA to help
Speaker 1: them with whatever, not do everything for them, not allow
Speaker 1: them to use us as not what I'm saying. That's
Speaker 1: two different things, but to help them with that encouragement,
Speaker 1: help them endure the ship that they go through. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. We as women, that's why we
Speaker 1: represent the backbone of the man. That's where you hear
Speaker 1: that behind every man there's a strong woman, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. And if you want to get real technical,
Speaker 1: behind every man there's a strong black woman. I'll just
Speaker 1: lamed this lame. So there can be many different reasons,
Speaker 1: many different reasons. Sometimes the person might not even do nothing.
Speaker 1: You just gotta hate and mass family. You just got
Speaker 1: a messy ass family. You just got a family who
Speaker 1: like the next person better. There has been times where
Speaker 1: I've heard this ship before. Oh don't like my new
Speaker 1: boyfriend because they liked Charles. Oh well, bitch, Charles ain't animals,
Speaker 1: so tell them gonna find Charles ship. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Only when you let your family's opinion of
Speaker 1: your boyfriend or girlfriend affect you to the point where
Speaker 1: it shows to your companion or your significant other, that's
Speaker 1: what it is, because then you're now showing that person
Speaker 1: that they can't even trust you. How the fun your
Speaker 1: family don't like me, and you're letting that ship rub
Speaker 1: off on you. How the funk can't you put them
Speaker 1: in their place? Why can't you make me feel important?
Speaker 1: Because your family don't feel like I am? You know,
Speaker 1: that's when it becomes a problem. In my case, he
Speaker 1: did that ship to himself. He made my cousin not
Speaker 1: like him, and now I'm happy he did not meet
Speaker 1: the rest of my family because I got a lot
Speaker 1: of critical Motherfucker's not only London, trust me, it's a
Speaker 1: lot more. London is just my closest cousin, my closest
Speaker 1: family member, so she knows me in and out. Aim
Speaker 1: as her. I know her in and out. You know, Now,
Speaker 1: you also have jealous family members. Okay, you may have
Speaker 1: a boyfriend or a girlfriend that you bring around your
Speaker 1: family and the females and your family may not like
Speaker 1: her because you're pretty. Now listen that that may sound stupid,
Speaker 1: but it's a lot of that bullshit out here. That's
Speaker 1: why a lot of females can't get along to this day,
Speaker 1: because if you're beautiful, you're automatically intimidating and people automatically
Speaker 1: think you're stuck up ship like that. I see that
Speaker 1: ship in everyday life, so I know how it feels
Speaker 1: to be put in a category that you ain't even in,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, just based off of your looks.
Speaker 1: A lot of times, ex girlfriends still get attached to family.
Speaker 1: Ex boyfriends are still attached to the family of their exes,
Speaker 1: so when the new person comes along, it's kind of
Speaker 1: hard to make space for that new person because that
Speaker 1: X is lingering still get rid of that motherfucker, or
Speaker 1: get rid of your family. I know you'll like what
Speaker 1: how many get rid of my family? You will find
Speaker 1: a motherfucking way. If this new person is good for you,
Speaker 1: if this new person shows you something that you never
Speaker 1: felt before, if if they're not lacking, if they're you know,
Speaker 1: like I said, everybody got their ship. But if the
Speaker 1: good outweighs the bad, you need to stick with that person.
Speaker 1: Don't rob yourself of love because your family don't want
Speaker 1: it to happen. Because your family can't let go of
Speaker 1: Shanisha and and your baby mother and ship like that. Whatever,
Speaker 1: you ain't with that person no more. So listen, I
Speaker 1: need you all to respectfully, respectfully stay out of my relationships, okay,
Speaker 1: because I'm trying to make it work with Christina over here,
Speaker 1: and y'all keep inviting Shanisha over here and ship. I'm
Speaker 1: not with that bitch no more. She doing her It's
Speaker 1: the reason why I ain't together, and vice versa. For women,
Speaker 1: a lot of moms get attached to boyfriends. That's what
Speaker 1: I noticed. A lot of moms get attached to girlfriends.
Speaker 1: It would be to mom. Some of the dad's just
Speaker 1: you know, Dad's just let be whatever be. But you know,
Speaker 1: like moms are the ones, y'all got the break away,
Speaker 1: y'all got to break it off. When you break it off,
Speaker 1: you gotta tell your mother to break up too. I
Speaker 1: see a lot of that ship happening now. Just because
Speaker 1: in my situation, don't like the niggot. I don't. I
Speaker 1: don't look at him the same. You know, I don't
Speaker 1: really funk with him like that anymore because of that,
Speaker 1: and then because of the aftermath of him not want
Speaker 1: to apologize. But that may not be the case for
Speaker 1: some of you. Some of you might have a guy
Speaker 1: who wants to redeem himself who immediately realized what he
Speaker 1: did was wrong and try to you turn it and
Speaker 1: come back and de escalate the situation. There are guys
Speaker 1: like that. There are guys willing to admit, oh shoot,
Speaker 1: I did funk that. Shut up, man, let me. I
Speaker 1: can't lose out on her. She's a good thing, she's
Speaker 1: a good person. I want to make it work with her.
Speaker 1: You know, it's nothing wrong with that. Don't be quick
Speaker 1: to kick and Nigken to the curb, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Especially if you see that he's trying, and
Speaker 1: he's apologetic, and he knows what he got and he
Speaker 1: knows he don't want to lose it. That's what matters
Speaker 1: the most. If you love me, you'll listen to this
Speaker 1: commercial and then we'll be right back. Now that brings
Speaker 1: me to just fix my mess now, y'all know I
Speaker 1: always always ask y'all about y'all life experiences as it
Speaker 1: relates to mine. So I want to Instagram and I
Speaker 1: post it. I said, hashtag carefully reckless your man slash
Speaker 1: woman's family ever not like you? How does it impact
Speaker 1: your relationship? If so be honest, go little dot paint
Speaker 1: of Heney on Instagram says it makes it hard to
Speaker 1: be with each other. We can't spend holidays together and
Speaker 1: if my family don't like you, I just can't see
Speaker 1: us being together for long. It's uncomfortable. Okay, now, there
Speaker 1: are a few things I want to disagree with in
Speaker 1: your response a little paint of Heney, I just I
Speaker 1: feel like you're right. It does make ship uncomfortable, especially
Speaker 1: if you're a family person, if you are always around
Speaker 1: your family, if you're very family oriented. I do understand
Speaker 1: how it can be uncomfortable for you. It could be
Speaker 1: kind of awkward, But like I said earlier in episode,
Speaker 1: don't walk around and miss out on a good thing
Speaker 1: and lose a good thing because your family's opinions matter
Speaker 1: more than your love for the person. You understand what
Speaker 1: I'm saying now. You didn't give me any clarity on
Speaker 1: on what you know, short he did or whatever this
Speaker 1: is a guy, what Shorty did or you know, I
Speaker 1: don't know, you know your sex for a purpose, but
Speaker 1: you didn't give me any type of clarity on it.
Speaker 1: So I'm just gonna speak on what you gave me. Um,
Speaker 1: if it's uncomfortable for you, it depends on what the
Speaker 1: girl did. It depends on whoever you're dating. Did they
Speaker 1: do something for your family not to funk with them?
Speaker 1: If not, then you know you just like your damn family,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Then you always you always
Speaker 1: gonna let them be in a way, so they're gonna
Speaker 1: always be in a way. So that's it. How does
Speaker 1: it impact your relationship go Bi? But Rodriguez says it doesn't.
Speaker 1: We remain cordial due to our love for him, me
Speaker 1: as wife, her as sister. We don't talk and it's
Speaker 1: not beef on site, But you're lucky if it's a
Speaker 1: high and buy. Okay. So she's very very straightforward with
Speaker 1: her ship. No, I ain't got no problems with you,
Speaker 1: but don't give me none either, Okay, I get it.
Speaker 1: It's more so we don't funk with each other, but
Speaker 1: we're very cold. You we can be in the same room.
Speaker 1: That's what it's given. She said, Hi, and by if
Speaker 1: you're lucky ho. But when you got fighting. Uh. But
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, keep your distance. And I'm
Speaker 1: gonna keep mind because it's all about the love for him,
Speaker 1: all about the love for him. Now, what I got
Speaker 1: from that is he don't let his sister across the
Speaker 1: boundaries because the wife don't seem like she play okay,
Speaker 1: which is good, Which is good. That's a strong willed
Speaker 1: woman who ain't gonna let nobody funk with her. Okay.
Speaker 1: So I do respect that. That's good. As long as
Speaker 1: you can keep it cordial, you're good with me as
Speaker 1: good for both sides, the family and the relationship. Mob
Speaker 1: Tie said, it don't this between me and you. I
Speaker 1: love them, but I love you and we are the future.
Speaker 1: Whether we'll accept it or not, it don't matter as
Speaker 1: long as me and you on the same page were golden.
Speaker 1: And that was from a guy. I want to give
Speaker 1: a shout out to the guys. Y'all have been coming
Speaker 1: through on a carefully reckless responses. I really really do.
Speaker 1: Although you need to learn some goddamn gramdmar sir, that
Speaker 1: ship was harder ship reading that. But basically what he's
Speaker 1: saying is, I don't let my family talk about my girl,
Speaker 1: and I don't let my girl talk about my family.
Speaker 1: I love my family and I love my girl. And
Speaker 1: as long as me and my girl on the same
Speaker 1: page were golden, As long as me and my family
Speaker 1: on the same page were golden, it ot mad at
Speaker 1: who the fun y'all don't like? Because I love a period.
Speaker 1: I like that. That's the third guy. Oh, we're coming
Speaker 1: up on a woman, Adrian dot loves Jason. Oh she's
Speaker 1: about to tell us about Jason. She says, the father
Speaker 1: of my children has a stupid bitch of a mother
Speaker 1: who is extremely jealous of the relationship that I had
Speaker 1: with her son. I say had because she is the
Speaker 1: main reason why we are in a physical relationship. This
Speaker 1: bitch acts like she's fucking her son. It's crazy and
Speaker 1: through the years has turned other people in his circle
Speaker 1: against me. All I have to say is Corona got
Speaker 1: a lot, but Mr Field, hold on, hold on, wait
Speaker 1: a minute, whold lot? Wait? Huh huh, Adrian, I'm at
Speaker 1: to talk to you off site. Okay, I'm at to
Speaker 1: talk to you all off of offline. You know what
Speaker 1: I mean, like because oh my god. Now listen, she
Speaker 1: put that ship as co harder than she could. But
Speaker 1: you gotta understand more women go through this more often
Speaker 1: than not. I'm telling you this ship happens. I was
Speaker 1: dating guy that whose mother didn't like me either. No,
Speaker 1: I would wish Corona on it, but ship, you never
Speaker 1: know what that man's mother did to that woman. You know.
Speaker 1: I do want to keep your my prayers and ship
Speaker 1: because I can see you you real violent like you
Speaker 1: reminds me of Remy. We we gotta keep you in
Speaker 1: our prayers. Little God, how'd your guns all right? T?
Speaker 1: Dot Riches says, if your woman slash man supports the
Speaker 1: family's behavior of not liking you, it impacts negatively and gravely,
Speaker 1: almost divorce level. I imagine it wouldn't be that bad
Speaker 1: if your woman slash man supports your outlook on it
Speaker 1: that's actually correct. Now, I don't have anything to say
Speaker 1: about that, because that's exactly what I said before. If
Speaker 1: you support the idea of not liking your companion because
Speaker 1: of your family, then that's on you. That's on you.
Speaker 1: You will never be happy because you choose your family
Speaker 1: over your love life when they have nothing to do
Speaker 1: with that level of your life. Like, that's a different
Speaker 1: type of love. The love that I can make to
Speaker 1: my wife. I can't make love to my family. So
Speaker 1: you'all gonna need to stay on your side of the offence.
Speaker 1: It's how I come over there for to cookout ship
Speaker 1: and the last one I'm gonna read shy baby, nin
Speaker 1: no one. It don't affect me. I ain't sucking his mama.
Speaker 1: And then I love it it, I love it, I
Speaker 1: love it, I love it now. Depending on how close
Speaker 1: the guy is with his mom, usually it does mess
Speaker 1: up the relationship because you got a lot of mama's
Speaker 1: boys out here. But then you just have men who
Speaker 1: genuinely respect their mother's but they're not gonna let their
Speaker 1: mother step in. They're really not. At one point in time,
Speaker 1: I felt as if little Scrappy wasn't gonna make it
Speaker 1: with baby because of Mama d But that one episode
Speaker 1: where he stepped up and he told his mother, listen, Mom,
Speaker 1: I love you, but she wanted to stay the funk
Speaker 1: up on my relationships. You know what I'm saying, Like,
Speaker 1: I love this woman. I want to give her, I
Speaker 1: want to make on make a family with her, Like Okay,
Speaker 1: me and Erica didn't work, but look, you ain't gonna
Speaker 1: do what you did with me and Erica with me
Speaker 1: and baby. This is my wife right here. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: marry this girl like blah blah blah blah blah. He
Speaker 1: stepped the funk up and he got it together. Now
Speaker 1: we knew a little scrapy was a mama's boy, but
Speaker 1: we really said until Loving hip Hop shout off the
Speaker 1: Love and hip Hop for for showcasing those types of situations,
Speaker 1: because that ship is real. That ship is real. And
Speaker 1: then vice versa. You had Rashida and Kirk going through
Speaker 1: the ship and then you had her mother, Rashida's mother.
Speaker 1: I felt like she inserted herself a little bit too
Speaker 1: much in some of these situations, like especially when she
Speaker 1: ran over Kirk. Mike, you know what I'm saying, like,
Speaker 1: or you ain't your mother gonna have to pay for
Speaker 1: that ship, you know what I'm saying. But no, no, no,
Speaker 1: I realized that Rashida's mother played a big role in
Speaker 1: her life to the point where she was present for
Speaker 1: conversations she shouldn't even have been present for. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. There's a grown woman. You're murried. You
Speaker 1: know you got murried, you know you have sex. You
Speaker 1: made these babies by yourself. You need to tell Mama
Speaker 1: to sit back on a couple of little situations. Now,
Speaker 1: we've never been privy to the conversation between Rashida and
Speaker 1: her mother telling her mom, let me just have this.
Speaker 1: I don't know if there ever was an episode when
Speaker 1: she did that, and I missed it, but she could
Speaker 1: have done it off camera. But either way, Rashida and
Speaker 1: Kirk are still going strong and I love to see it.
Speaker 1: I love to see it ray J and Princess. I
Speaker 1: felt like his mother had a little bit too much
Speaker 1: to do with the ship, honestly, I did. But that
Speaker 1: is a very tight knit family. We've seen that. We've
Speaker 1: seen it ever since some kids was younger, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, ever since they was acting, ever since
Speaker 1: Moesia and the other show that reg had whatever. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, like, they have a very tight
Speaker 1: knit family, and I know that their mother runs pretty
Speaker 1: much runs their businesses. You know, she she acts as
Speaker 1: you know, but their manager, I think so, don't quote me,
Speaker 1: but she was also invested in Ray J's love life
Speaker 1: like extremely and we've seen how that made Princess feel
Speaker 1: all of that ship. You know, a lot of these
Speaker 1: franchises shows us Jim Jones mother, Oh my god, we
Speaker 1: see we don't even need to talk about that. We've
Speaker 1: seen how that affected Jim and Chrissy. But Chrissy was
Speaker 1: not to be played with. Jim loved Chrissie and Jim
Speaker 1: loved his mama, and it didn't matter. As many times
Speaker 1: as Jim tried to put his mother in her place,
Speaker 1: it was just like, no, nigga, this what I'm gonna
Speaker 1: you came out of my poem. Poem, motherfucker, and just
Speaker 1: you're gonna respect this. She's gonna respect me, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. Loving and hip hop over the years
Speaker 1: has shown us what that's like. And all I'm saying is,
Speaker 1: don't let it be you that brings me to the
Speaker 1: end of my carefully Reckless episode. Y'all. Y'all right, me
Speaker 1: and my dam and tell me what I should do
Speaker 1: about this nigga. Should I just like stalk completely over
Speaker 1: with this nigga because I told you all that he
Speaker 1: only act like this when he drunk. Or should I
Speaker 1: just be back on the market because I don't really
Speaker 1: give a listen once you once you turned me off,
Speaker 1: I'm turning off, nigga. I'm turned off. And like I said,
Speaker 1: you can find good dick anywhere. So tune in next
Speaker 1: Wednesday on hump Day and then my best Pam voice piece.
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