1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:03,120 Speaker 1: Welcome to Carefully Reckless, the production of Our Heart Radio 2 00:00:03,240 --> 00:00:20,239 Speaker 1: and the Black Effects, And just like that, we're back 3 00:00:20,280 --> 00:00:23,599 Speaker 1: on the air. Welcome to yet another episode of Carefully Reckless. 4 00:00:23,600 --> 00:00:27,000 Speaker 1: What's your Girl? Just hilarious? Now this story time is 5 00:00:27,040 --> 00:00:29,680 Speaker 1: about me. I ain't gonna talk about nobody else. This 6 00:00:29,720 --> 00:00:32,280 Speaker 1: ship is about me, and hopefully I can bring you 7 00:00:32,280 --> 00:00:34,800 Speaker 1: all into my world. So y'all can open up about 8 00:00:34,880 --> 00:00:37,279 Speaker 1: y'all world. Grab your ta grab your holes, because I'm 9 00:00:37,280 --> 00:00:41,880 Speaker 1: about to get into it now. I remember I was 10 00:00:41,920 --> 00:00:43,800 Speaker 1: dealing with this guy. This is not too long ago. 11 00:00:44,360 --> 00:00:46,440 Speaker 1: I was dealing with this dude, right, and I wanted 12 00:00:46,479 --> 00:00:48,680 Speaker 1: to introduce him to my cousin. Now, my cousin, if 13 00:00:48,720 --> 00:00:50,800 Speaker 1: you know me, y'all know, she like my sister, my 14 00:00:50,880 --> 00:00:53,640 Speaker 1: best friend, my other half. She helps me run my company. 15 00:00:53,960 --> 00:00:56,880 Speaker 1: She is my executive assistant. Yes, that's my girl, my 16 00:00:56,960 --> 00:00:59,920 Speaker 1: baby London. All right, No, nigga, if I am fun 17 00:01:00,000 --> 00:01:01,800 Speaker 1: it with you, and I'll tell you I'm gonna introduce 18 00:01:01,840 --> 00:01:05,319 Speaker 1: you to my cousin, to London. That means you come 19 00:01:05,319 --> 00:01:07,640 Speaker 1: pretty far. You've got a lot of potential behind you. Brother. 20 00:01:08,200 --> 00:01:11,200 Speaker 1: I set it up perfectly. Reservations at a nice restaurant. 21 00:01:11,520 --> 00:01:14,399 Speaker 1: Me and her got there first, so we're awaiting this 22 00:01:14,560 --> 00:01:18,080 Speaker 1: gentleman's arrival. As we're a waiting, I'm pumping him up. 23 00:01:18,080 --> 00:01:20,000 Speaker 1: I'm boosting him up. Oh he does this for me, 24 00:01:20,160 --> 00:01:22,200 Speaker 1: he does that for me. He's this type of guy. 25 00:01:22,280 --> 00:01:25,479 Speaker 1: Oh he's great. He's great, leaving all the minor bad 26 00:01:25,520 --> 00:01:28,480 Speaker 1: ship out because it's just like, okay, nobody's perfect. Okay, 27 00:01:28,480 --> 00:01:30,520 Speaker 1: I can. I can deal with this little ship. So 28 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:33,039 Speaker 1: I'd rather not speak on that then. By the way, 29 00:01:33,040 --> 00:01:35,640 Speaker 1: just so you know, my cousin is very critical, as 30 00:01:35,640 --> 00:01:38,160 Speaker 1: am I with her, So you know, as vice versa, 31 00:01:38,160 --> 00:01:40,160 Speaker 1: I'm critical about who the fun she funk with. She 32 00:01:40,319 --> 00:01:43,360 Speaker 1: critical about who I funk with. Okay, fine, we all 33 00:01:43,400 --> 00:01:46,039 Speaker 1: want the best for each other. The gentleman arrives, he 34 00:01:46,120 --> 00:01:49,640 Speaker 1: sits down. He's already drunk. Okay, hopefully he can handle 35 00:01:49,680 --> 00:01:51,200 Speaker 1: his look at in front of my cousin. We ain't 36 00:01:51,280 --> 00:01:54,080 Speaker 1: drunk yet, but we're getting there. So Hi, this is 37 00:01:54,120 --> 00:01:57,240 Speaker 1: my cousin London, My cousin London. This is such and such. Okay, 38 00:01:57,360 --> 00:02:00,320 Speaker 1: everything is great. We get around the shots after we eat. 39 00:02:00,360 --> 00:02:04,320 Speaker 1: Everything is cool. This nigga just start getting disrespectful out 40 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:07,040 Speaker 1: of his motherfucking mouth. And I don't mean calling me 41 00:02:07,080 --> 00:02:09,600 Speaker 1: out my name. I don't mean calling her all her name, 42 00:02:09,840 --> 00:02:13,959 Speaker 1: being rude to her or whatever. This is exactly what happened. 43 00:02:14,000 --> 00:02:16,560 Speaker 1: I turned to London, who I was with when I 44 00:02:16,600 --> 00:02:20,560 Speaker 1: met the gentleman years ago. So London knows this gentleman 45 00:02:20,639 --> 00:02:23,520 Speaker 1: from seeing him the first day I met him, didn't 46 00:02:23,520 --> 00:02:26,600 Speaker 1: hear him after that until we just got reacquainted a 47 00:02:26,600 --> 00:02:29,200 Speaker 1: couple of months ago, and she hasn't seen him since then. 48 00:02:29,760 --> 00:02:33,320 Speaker 1: So I said, London, this man don't believe that the 49 00:02:33,360 --> 00:02:35,200 Speaker 1: first time I met him was that time I was 50 00:02:35,240 --> 00:02:37,639 Speaker 1: with you down the outdoors event and blah blah blah 51 00:02:37,680 --> 00:02:40,120 Speaker 1: blah blah. So London says, sir, that is the first 52 00:02:40,120 --> 00:02:42,079 Speaker 1: time that you met her I ever called that. This 53 00:02:42,160 --> 00:02:46,240 Speaker 1: motherfucker opens up his mouth and says, nah, I was 54 00:02:46,320 --> 00:02:51,320 Speaker 1: sucking her before that. I said, sweetheart, we're not gonna 55 00:02:51,360 --> 00:02:53,040 Speaker 1: do that like this. I understand you drunk, but you 56 00:02:53,080 --> 00:02:55,360 Speaker 1: need to watch your motherfucking mouth. Okay, but for your 57 00:02:55,360 --> 00:02:57,720 Speaker 1: mouth be on the floor. And that's all I'm gonna say. 58 00:02:57,800 --> 00:02:59,920 Speaker 1: He get the giggling. I get the giggling, but I 59 00:03:00,000 --> 00:03:02,840 Speaker 1: get the back series real quick, Okay. I can see 60 00:03:02,840 --> 00:03:05,519 Speaker 1: in London's face that that comment was very cringe e. 61 00:03:05,800 --> 00:03:07,960 Speaker 1: So London says, no, no, no, no, no, let's just 62 00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:10,200 Speaker 1: calm down. She starts rubbing my knee. She already know 63 00:03:10,280 --> 00:03:12,240 Speaker 1: the type of bitch I am, and she already know 64 00:03:12,280 --> 00:03:15,200 Speaker 1: that this ain't gonna go right period. Now I am 65 00:03:15,240 --> 00:03:18,000 Speaker 1: embarrassed because I bought this nigga in the presence of 66 00:03:18,040 --> 00:03:21,720 Speaker 1: my cousin, someone who sometimes I look for approval from. 67 00:03:21,760 --> 00:03:23,720 Speaker 1: She my big cousin. You know what I'm saying. I 68 00:03:23,760 --> 00:03:26,440 Speaker 1: grew up with her. I don't have too many cousins 69 00:03:26,480 --> 00:03:29,160 Speaker 1: that I look at like that. And my whole twenty 70 00:03:29,240 --> 00:03:32,520 Speaker 1: nine years of living, I introduced London to three guys, 71 00:03:33,240 --> 00:03:36,800 Speaker 1: three guys, and my roster a bit long, yeah, man, 72 00:03:36,960 --> 00:03:39,240 Speaker 1: Like yeah, I'm talking about the history. It's like it's 73 00:03:39,280 --> 00:03:41,160 Speaker 1: a bit long, you know what I mean. Like, so 74 00:03:41,320 --> 00:03:45,520 Speaker 1: she only met three of those nigas. Okay, you see 75 00:03:45,640 --> 00:03:48,560 Speaker 1: what type of importance she holds. I don't just bring 76 00:03:48,600 --> 00:03:50,920 Speaker 1: anybody around her, You feel me. I started to regret 77 00:03:50,960 --> 00:03:54,000 Speaker 1: it immediately. He get up and go to the bathroom. 78 00:03:54,280 --> 00:03:56,400 Speaker 1: I'm telling London, she trying to calm me down. I'm like, yo, 79 00:03:56,400 --> 00:03:58,480 Speaker 1: I'm I feel like, I really feel that I'm gonna 80 00:03:58,480 --> 00:04:00,240 Speaker 1: slap shut out this nigga before the night is over. 81 00:04:00,560 --> 00:04:03,240 Speaker 1: Brosh like that. I really really feel that, So I 82 00:04:03,320 --> 00:04:05,480 Speaker 1: bring on everywhere. I don't give a funk if it's 83 00:04:05,480 --> 00:04:08,080 Speaker 1: a five star restaurant or McDonald's. Nigga, I'm playing on 84 00:04:08,440 --> 00:04:11,120 Speaker 1: with you. If we're sitting down eating while we're waiting 85 00:04:11,160 --> 00:04:13,240 Speaker 1: for a dessert and more shots to come, I'll pull 86 00:04:13,280 --> 00:04:15,480 Speaker 1: out on. Oh he already see how piste off I am. 87 00:04:15,600 --> 00:04:17,880 Speaker 1: So I guess this is his way of trying to 88 00:04:17,960 --> 00:04:21,000 Speaker 1: make me feel better. Now, we are very sexual with 89 00:04:21,040 --> 00:04:23,599 Speaker 1: each other. We're sexually compatible, and I love it. But 90 00:04:23,720 --> 00:04:26,599 Speaker 1: this man showed me his true colors that night. He 91 00:04:26,640 --> 00:04:28,920 Speaker 1: can't hold his liquor at all. And this is how 92 00:04:28,960 --> 00:04:32,080 Speaker 1: I know. He shuffood. I debt while I'm daling. I 93 00:04:32,160 --> 00:04:34,440 Speaker 1: like to make bets for that. You know what I'm saying. 94 00:04:34,520 --> 00:04:36,120 Speaker 1: Y'all know I like it. I win all the time, 95 00:04:36,279 --> 00:04:39,200 Speaker 1: So why wouldn't I bet As I'm dealing. This nigga 96 00:04:39,240 --> 00:04:42,200 Speaker 1: looks up and he says, if I win, you're giving 97 00:04:42,200 --> 00:04:47,119 Speaker 1: me some head to night right strike three? Now you're done. 98 00:04:47,640 --> 00:04:49,520 Speaker 1: Needless to say, I don't feel the same about that 99 00:04:49,600 --> 00:04:54,080 Speaker 1: motherfucker anymore. I'm telling you, yo, listen, it is so 100 00:04:54,120 --> 00:04:57,560 Speaker 1: funny how you can love everything about a person right 101 00:04:58,160 --> 00:05:01,000 Speaker 1: in the beginning, even in the middle. Fuck then you 102 00:05:01,040 --> 00:05:03,960 Speaker 1: know what I mean, You can love everything about them 103 00:05:04,000 --> 00:05:06,800 Speaker 1: to the point where you overlook minor ship because everybody 104 00:05:06,839 --> 00:05:10,640 Speaker 1: got something with them. You know, nobody's perfect. Isn't it 105 00:05:10,800 --> 00:05:15,520 Speaker 1: amazing and shocking how fast all that ship can change 106 00:05:15,560 --> 00:05:17,920 Speaker 1: within a blink of an eye. That motherfucker can do 107 00:05:18,000 --> 00:05:21,640 Speaker 1: one thing and turn you completely off. Now I'm Innaquarius. 108 00:05:21,720 --> 00:05:25,000 Speaker 1: I'm not really big on astrology, but I do embody 109 00:05:25,120 --> 00:05:27,120 Speaker 1: some of the characteristics, and you know, some of the 110 00:05:27,160 --> 00:05:31,279 Speaker 1: traits of what they say a true Aquarius is okay. 111 00:05:31,640 --> 00:05:34,159 Speaker 1: And one of the things that I do notice that 112 00:05:34,200 --> 00:05:37,280 Speaker 1: they say about my sign is once you're turned off, 113 00:05:37,279 --> 00:05:39,800 Speaker 1: you're turned off. That's completely the funk it because it 114 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:45,160 Speaker 1: happened that night. That's where he knew he fucked up. 115 00:05:45,680 --> 00:05:48,560 Speaker 1: That was it. I ain't look at the motherfucker right 116 00:05:48,720 --> 00:05:52,039 Speaker 1: since and this was just last week. It's like, once 117 00:05:52,080 --> 00:05:54,240 Speaker 1: you start to give a motherfucker a lot of you, 118 00:05:54,320 --> 00:05:57,000 Speaker 1: not even all of you. Because I'm very adamant about that, 119 00:05:57,040 --> 00:05:59,160 Speaker 1: I don't want to give you all of me just yet. 120 00:05:59,200 --> 00:06:01,400 Speaker 1: I want to used to be six months in before 121 00:06:01,440 --> 00:06:04,279 Speaker 1: I give you all, you know, but I gave a lot, 122 00:06:04,600 --> 00:06:07,479 Speaker 1: goddamn me, a lot, a good seventy percent. You was 123 00:06:07,520 --> 00:06:09,680 Speaker 1: waiting on that cool thirty you feel me, but you 124 00:06:09,760 --> 00:06:11,919 Speaker 1: had seventy You know what what I made me, dropped that 125 00:06:11,960 --> 00:06:17,080 Speaker 1: ship down to I don't look at him the same. Yeah, 126 00:06:17,200 --> 00:06:19,839 Speaker 1: sometimes I still find myself missing the sex, but you 127 00:06:19,839 --> 00:06:22,240 Speaker 1: can get good sex from anywhere. You got to have 128 00:06:22,720 --> 00:06:25,960 Speaker 1: every type of quality to gain my interests and to 129 00:06:26,040 --> 00:06:28,680 Speaker 1: keep it. That ain't how you keep me. And then 130 00:06:28,720 --> 00:06:32,240 Speaker 1: another thing, ladies and gentlemen, When my cousin bought it 131 00:06:32,240 --> 00:06:35,200 Speaker 1: to this nigga's attention, he didn't apologize. When I bought 132 00:06:35,240 --> 00:06:37,880 Speaker 1: it to this nigga's attention, after me calming down and 133 00:06:37,880 --> 00:06:40,360 Speaker 1: and you know, getting myself together because y'all know how 134 00:06:40,360 --> 00:06:43,280 Speaker 1: I can be, he did not apologize. In fact, he 135 00:06:43,360 --> 00:06:45,880 Speaker 1: flipped the whole ship on me. That's the most toxic 136 00:06:45,920 --> 00:06:48,480 Speaker 1: shit if I ever seen it. Listen, you can go, 137 00:06:48,600 --> 00:06:51,120 Speaker 1: you can stay where the funk you at. Uh, actually, 138 00:06:51,120 --> 00:06:52,919 Speaker 1: you can go back to whoever the funk you was 139 00:06:52,960 --> 00:06:55,159 Speaker 1: with before, because that's probably why you ended up that 140 00:06:55,240 --> 00:06:58,920 Speaker 1: person's X anyway, You're dumbass nigga. So now you're fucked up. 141 00:06:58,960 --> 00:07:02,320 Speaker 1: That's it. That's all you gotta do is disrespect me 142 00:07:02,720 --> 00:07:05,120 Speaker 1: after I'm telling you to stop disrespecting me and then 143 00:07:05,160 --> 00:07:07,240 Speaker 1: get done. Hold up, Hold up, I know the ship 144 00:07:07,320 --> 00:07:09,560 Speaker 1: getting good. But listen to just a couple of seconds 145 00:07:09,560 --> 00:07:14,840 Speaker 1: of a commercial. If you love me, you'll listen. That 146 00:07:14,880 --> 00:07:18,960 Speaker 1: brings me to the carefully reckless discussion. Needless to say, 147 00:07:19,160 --> 00:07:21,960 Speaker 1: my cousin, don't funk with the nigga, because I didn't 148 00:07:21,960 --> 00:07:24,280 Speaker 1: funk with the nigga, And no, I did not expect 149 00:07:24,600 --> 00:07:26,760 Speaker 1: for her to funk with him after that. She didn't 150 00:07:26,840 --> 00:07:28,600 Speaker 1: want to see him again the full a second time 151 00:07:28,640 --> 00:07:31,120 Speaker 1: after that. This is what happens when you know your family, 152 00:07:31,640 --> 00:07:34,440 Speaker 1: when you know yourself. You know what I'm saying. You 153 00:07:34,480 --> 00:07:37,240 Speaker 1: pick up on ship early. Now. No, I did not 154 00:07:37,240 --> 00:07:40,240 Speaker 1: post that nigga, never have never will now, you know that, 155 00:07:40,360 --> 00:07:42,200 Speaker 1: because it ain't gonna go in the whales now. And 156 00:07:42,200 --> 00:07:44,520 Speaker 1: I was just like, we're in that stage where he 157 00:07:44,640 --> 00:07:47,240 Speaker 1: trying to figure out my angle and not have already 158 00:07:47,240 --> 00:07:49,480 Speaker 1: figured out that I was done, you know what I'm saying. 159 00:07:49,520 --> 00:07:51,880 Speaker 1: So for him. It's like, oh, ship, Now I gotta 160 00:07:51,920 --> 00:07:53,400 Speaker 1: try to do all this to get back. Now, I 161 00:07:53,400 --> 00:07:54,960 Speaker 1: gotta try to. Now, I gotta try to. Now, I 162 00:07:54,960 --> 00:07:57,040 Speaker 1: gotta try to. But if you wasn't growing enough to 163 00:07:57,080 --> 00:08:00,960 Speaker 1: realize that you were wrong and and that you immediately 164 00:08:01,000 --> 00:08:04,240 Speaker 1: should have made a you turn and apologized and tried 165 00:08:04,280 --> 00:08:07,720 Speaker 1: to de escalate what had escalated you was done, you 166 00:08:07,720 --> 00:08:11,200 Speaker 1: should have known. You lost me, big fellow, You lost me, chap. 167 00:08:11,720 --> 00:08:13,520 Speaker 1: And that's just what that is. That's how I feel 168 00:08:13,520 --> 00:08:17,200 Speaker 1: about the situation. So today's topic is that of your 169 00:08:17,320 --> 00:08:20,720 Speaker 1: family not liking your woman or your man, and ship 170 00:08:20,800 --> 00:08:23,960 Speaker 1: like your family having issues with the person you're dating, 171 00:08:24,560 --> 00:08:27,440 Speaker 1: because that's exactly what happened in my world last week, y'all. 172 00:08:27,920 --> 00:08:29,640 Speaker 1: Now you have to think about it. If this is 173 00:08:29,680 --> 00:08:33,600 Speaker 1: going on with you and your significant other, you have 174 00:08:33,880 --> 00:08:37,360 Speaker 1: to step back and realize what's going on. Why do 175 00:08:37,440 --> 00:08:40,080 Speaker 1: they not like him? Why do they not like her? 176 00:08:40,440 --> 00:08:43,280 Speaker 1: Is it's something that he or she has done and 177 00:08:43,360 --> 00:08:46,400 Speaker 1: the eyes of them. It could be many different reasons 178 00:08:46,440 --> 00:08:48,199 Speaker 1: why your family don't get along with your boyfriend or 179 00:08:48,240 --> 00:08:50,120 Speaker 1: your girlfriend, or your wife or your husband. It could 180 00:08:50,120 --> 00:08:52,839 Speaker 1: be so many reasons. It could be something that that 181 00:08:52,880 --> 00:08:55,880 Speaker 1: person is doing to you. My cousin London did not 182 00:08:56,000 --> 00:08:59,080 Speaker 1: like the nigga because of how he disrespected me. Now listen, 183 00:08:59,080 --> 00:09:00,880 Speaker 1: I'm also tell you that not the first time he 184 00:09:00,960 --> 00:09:03,960 Speaker 1: did that ship to me. But I do notice it 185 00:09:04,080 --> 00:09:08,559 Speaker 1: happens when he's drunk, so bing lightbulb. Don't fucking drink 186 00:09:08,600 --> 00:09:11,320 Speaker 1: around me or fall back on that ship. Get your 187 00:09:11,360 --> 00:09:14,240 Speaker 1: ship together. I don't deserve that. I don't deserve that. 188 00:09:14,280 --> 00:09:16,040 Speaker 1: As rough and tough as I am, I'm a good 189 00:09:16,080 --> 00:09:18,600 Speaker 1: goddamn girl. I'm a great woman to a man, I'm 190 00:09:18,640 --> 00:09:21,840 Speaker 1: a good goddamn girlfriend. I'm great. I'm wife the material nigga. 191 00:09:22,080 --> 00:09:24,600 Speaker 1: That's what gods need to understand how to treat the 192 00:09:24,679 --> 00:09:26,240 Speaker 1: right ones. I don't give a funk what happened in 193 00:09:26,280 --> 00:09:28,840 Speaker 1: your past. If you didn't let that go yet, you 194 00:09:28,880 --> 00:09:31,320 Speaker 1: don't need to be here obviously, as you If you 195 00:09:31,400 --> 00:09:33,839 Speaker 1: keep losing women, if you keep losing women all these 196 00:09:33,840 --> 00:09:36,000 Speaker 1: but just keep then it ain't the bitch as baby 197 00:09:36,080 --> 00:09:39,400 Speaker 1: as you. You need to figure yourself out, figure out 198 00:09:39,440 --> 00:09:41,880 Speaker 1: what the funk you can do to be better, because 199 00:09:41,880 --> 00:09:46,120 Speaker 1: this ain't it. Also, both men and women can attract 200 00:09:46,360 --> 00:09:48,440 Speaker 1: the same type of people. I'm not gonna say wrong, 201 00:09:48,840 --> 00:09:50,560 Speaker 1: but you know you, I'm gonna let you say that. 202 00:09:50,600 --> 00:09:52,559 Speaker 1: You can. Y'all can say wrong if y'all want um. 203 00:09:52,600 --> 00:09:54,200 Speaker 1: But I hear a lot of people I keep attracting 204 00:09:54,240 --> 00:09:56,280 Speaker 1: these same type of dudes. Da da da da. That 205 00:09:56,360 --> 00:09:58,880 Speaker 1: was my problem for a long time. You know, like 206 00:09:59,280 --> 00:10:01,000 Speaker 1: you have to work on yourself. You have to see 207 00:10:01,000 --> 00:10:04,480 Speaker 1: what is it in me that keeps attracting these broken 208 00:10:04,520 --> 00:10:07,400 Speaker 1: men or these broken women, These men who don't have 209 00:10:07,440 --> 00:10:09,800 Speaker 1: it all together mentally, but they got it all together 210 00:10:09,840 --> 00:10:12,360 Speaker 1: on the outside or vice versa. You know what I'm saying. 211 00:10:12,880 --> 00:10:17,440 Speaker 1: Women we nurture naturally. So if a man they got 212 00:10:17,480 --> 00:10:21,480 Speaker 1: it all together, it's automatically in our DNA to help 213 00:10:21,520 --> 00:10:25,679 Speaker 1: them with whatever, not do everything for them, not allow 214 00:10:25,720 --> 00:10:27,199 Speaker 1: them to use us as not what I'm saying. That's 215 00:10:27,200 --> 00:10:31,000 Speaker 1: two different things, but to help them with that encouragement, 216 00:10:31,760 --> 00:10:34,439 Speaker 1: help them endure the ship that they go through. You 217 00:10:34,440 --> 00:10:37,439 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. We as women, that's why we 218 00:10:37,520 --> 00:10:40,400 Speaker 1: represent the backbone of the man. That's where you hear 219 00:10:40,440 --> 00:10:43,360 Speaker 1: that behind every man there's a strong woman, you know 220 00:10:43,360 --> 00:10:45,640 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. And if you want to get real technical, 221 00:10:45,840 --> 00:10:48,280 Speaker 1: behind every man there's a strong black woman. I'll just 222 00:10:48,360 --> 00:10:51,280 Speaker 1: lamed this lame. So there can be many different reasons, 223 00:10:51,320 --> 00:10:54,680 Speaker 1: many different reasons. Sometimes the person might not even do nothing. 224 00:10:54,720 --> 00:10:56,840 Speaker 1: You just gotta hate and mass family. You just got 225 00:10:56,920 --> 00:10:59,439 Speaker 1: a messy ass family. You just got a family who 226 00:10:59,520 --> 00:11:02,600 Speaker 1: like the next person better. There has been times where 227 00:11:02,640 --> 00:11:06,000 Speaker 1: I've heard this ship before. Oh don't like my new 228 00:11:06,040 --> 00:11:08,960 Speaker 1: boyfriend because they liked Charles. Oh well, bitch, Charles ain't animals, 229 00:11:08,960 --> 00:11:11,240 Speaker 1: so tell them gonna find Charles ship. You know what 230 00:11:11,280 --> 00:11:16,560 Speaker 1: I'm saying. Only when you let your family's opinion of 231 00:11:16,640 --> 00:11:19,760 Speaker 1: your boyfriend or girlfriend affect you to the point where 232 00:11:20,200 --> 00:11:25,360 Speaker 1: it shows to your companion or your significant other, that's 233 00:11:25,360 --> 00:11:27,400 Speaker 1: what it is, because then you're now showing that person 234 00:11:27,480 --> 00:11:30,040 Speaker 1: that they can't even trust you. How the fun your 235 00:11:30,040 --> 00:11:32,920 Speaker 1: family don't like me, and you're letting that ship rub 236 00:11:32,960 --> 00:11:34,600 Speaker 1: off on you. How the funk can't you put them 237 00:11:34,600 --> 00:11:37,160 Speaker 1: in their place? Why can't you make me feel important? 238 00:11:37,200 --> 00:11:39,440 Speaker 1: Because your family don't feel like I am? You know, 239 00:11:40,120 --> 00:11:42,840 Speaker 1: that's when it becomes a problem. In my case, he 240 00:11:42,880 --> 00:11:46,040 Speaker 1: did that ship to himself. He made my cousin not 241 00:11:46,160 --> 00:11:49,520 Speaker 1: like him, and now I'm happy he did not meet 242 00:11:49,559 --> 00:11:51,320 Speaker 1: the rest of my family because I got a lot 243 00:11:51,320 --> 00:11:53,680 Speaker 1: of critical Motherfucker's not only London, trust me, it's a 244 00:11:53,679 --> 00:11:57,160 Speaker 1: lot more. London is just my closest cousin, my closest 245 00:11:57,160 --> 00:12:00,200 Speaker 1: family member, so she knows me in and out. Aim 246 00:12:00,200 --> 00:12:03,160 Speaker 1: as her. I know her in and out. You know, Now, 247 00:12:03,679 --> 00:12:07,960 Speaker 1: you also have jealous family members. Okay, you may have 248 00:12:08,080 --> 00:12:10,160 Speaker 1: a boyfriend or a girlfriend that you bring around your 249 00:12:10,160 --> 00:12:12,520 Speaker 1: family and the females and your family may not like 250 00:12:12,600 --> 00:12:15,520 Speaker 1: her because you're pretty. Now listen that that may sound stupid, 251 00:12:15,520 --> 00:12:17,640 Speaker 1: but it's a lot of that bullshit out here. That's 252 00:12:17,640 --> 00:12:19,640 Speaker 1: why a lot of females can't get along to this day, 253 00:12:19,679 --> 00:12:23,319 Speaker 1: because if you're beautiful, you're automatically intimidating and people automatically 254 00:12:23,320 --> 00:12:25,560 Speaker 1: think you're stuck up ship like that. I see that 255 00:12:25,600 --> 00:12:28,360 Speaker 1: ship in everyday life, so I know how it feels 256 00:12:28,640 --> 00:12:31,320 Speaker 1: to be put in a category that you ain't even in, 257 00:12:32,000 --> 00:12:33,720 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, just based off of your looks. 258 00:12:34,440 --> 00:12:38,040 Speaker 1: A lot of times, ex girlfriends still get attached to family. 259 00:12:38,120 --> 00:12:42,120 Speaker 1: Ex boyfriends are still attached to the family of their exes, 260 00:12:42,160 --> 00:12:44,960 Speaker 1: so when the new person comes along, it's kind of 261 00:12:44,960 --> 00:12:47,640 Speaker 1: hard to make space for that new person because that 262 00:12:48,000 --> 00:12:50,920 Speaker 1: X is lingering still get rid of that motherfucker, or 263 00:12:51,240 --> 00:12:53,560 Speaker 1: get rid of your family. I know you'll like what 264 00:12:53,760 --> 00:12:55,520 Speaker 1: how many get rid of my family? You will find 265 00:12:55,520 --> 00:12:58,320 Speaker 1: a motherfucking way. If this new person is good for you, 266 00:12:58,679 --> 00:13:00,960 Speaker 1: if this new person shows you something that you never 267 00:13:01,000 --> 00:13:04,320 Speaker 1: felt before, if if they're not lacking, if they're you know, 268 00:13:04,400 --> 00:13:06,120 Speaker 1: like I said, everybody got their ship. But if the 269 00:13:06,120 --> 00:13:09,240 Speaker 1: good outweighs the bad, you need to stick with that person. 270 00:13:09,480 --> 00:13:12,640 Speaker 1: Don't rob yourself of love because your family don't want 271 00:13:12,640 --> 00:13:14,800 Speaker 1: it to happen. Because your family can't let go of 272 00:13:14,840 --> 00:13:18,480 Speaker 1: Shanisha and and your baby mother and ship like that. Whatever, 273 00:13:18,600 --> 00:13:20,360 Speaker 1: you ain't with that person no more. So listen, I 274 00:13:20,360 --> 00:13:24,920 Speaker 1: need you all to respectfully, respectfully stay out of my relationships, okay, 275 00:13:25,000 --> 00:13:27,280 Speaker 1: because I'm trying to make it work with Christina over here, 276 00:13:27,400 --> 00:13:30,040 Speaker 1: and y'all keep inviting Shanisha over here and ship. I'm 277 00:13:30,040 --> 00:13:32,400 Speaker 1: not with that bitch no more. She doing her It's 278 00:13:32,400 --> 00:13:35,240 Speaker 1: the reason why I ain't together, and vice versa. For women, 279 00:13:35,600 --> 00:13:38,680 Speaker 1: a lot of moms get attached to boyfriends. That's what 280 00:13:38,800 --> 00:13:41,960 Speaker 1: I noticed. A lot of moms get attached to girlfriends. 281 00:13:42,000 --> 00:13:44,120 Speaker 1: It would be to mom. Some of the dad's just 282 00:13:44,679 --> 00:13:47,199 Speaker 1: you know, Dad's just let be whatever be. But you know, 283 00:13:47,320 --> 00:13:51,000 Speaker 1: like moms are the ones, y'all got the break away, 284 00:13:51,320 --> 00:13:53,120 Speaker 1: y'all got to break it off. When you break it off, 285 00:13:53,160 --> 00:13:55,720 Speaker 1: you gotta tell your mother to break up too. I 286 00:13:55,760 --> 00:13:58,640 Speaker 1: see a lot of that ship happening now. Just because 287 00:13:58,760 --> 00:14:01,319 Speaker 1: in my situation, don't like the niggot. I don't. I 288 00:14:01,320 --> 00:14:03,280 Speaker 1: don't look at him the same. You know, I don't 289 00:14:03,320 --> 00:14:06,040 Speaker 1: really funk with him like that anymore because of that, 290 00:14:06,440 --> 00:14:08,280 Speaker 1: and then because of the aftermath of him not want 291 00:14:08,320 --> 00:14:10,800 Speaker 1: to apologize. But that may not be the case for 292 00:14:10,880 --> 00:14:13,160 Speaker 1: some of you. Some of you might have a guy 293 00:14:13,200 --> 00:14:16,680 Speaker 1: who wants to redeem himself who immediately realized what he 294 00:14:16,720 --> 00:14:19,520 Speaker 1: did was wrong and try to you turn it and 295 00:14:19,640 --> 00:14:22,320 Speaker 1: come back and de escalate the situation. There are guys 296 00:14:22,440 --> 00:14:25,520 Speaker 1: like that. There are guys willing to admit, oh shoot, 297 00:14:25,520 --> 00:14:27,040 Speaker 1: I did funk that. Shut up, man, let me. I 298 00:14:27,080 --> 00:14:29,080 Speaker 1: can't lose out on her. She's a good thing, she's 299 00:14:29,120 --> 00:14:31,240 Speaker 1: a good person. I want to make it work with her. 300 00:14:31,440 --> 00:14:33,720 Speaker 1: You know, it's nothing wrong with that. Don't be quick 301 00:14:33,760 --> 00:14:35,360 Speaker 1: to kick and Nigken to the curb, you know what 302 00:14:35,360 --> 00:14:37,280 Speaker 1: I'm saying, Especially if you see that he's trying, and 303 00:14:37,320 --> 00:14:39,800 Speaker 1: he's apologetic, and he knows what he got and he 304 00:14:39,840 --> 00:14:41,960 Speaker 1: knows he don't want to lose it. That's what matters 305 00:14:42,000 --> 00:14:44,400 Speaker 1: the most. If you love me, you'll listen to this 306 00:14:44,440 --> 00:14:48,320 Speaker 1: commercial and then we'll be right back. Now that brings 307 00:14:48,360 --> 00:14:50,200 Speaker 1: me to just fix my mess now, y'all know I 308 00:14:50,320 --> 00:14:54,360 Speaker 1: always always ask y'all about y'all life experiences as it 309 00:14:54,400 --> 00:14:56,760 Speaker 1: relates to mine. So I want to Instagram and I 310 00:14:56,800 --> 00:15:01,040 Speaker 1: post it. I said, hashtag carefully reckless your man slash 311 00:15:01,160 --> 00:15:04,280 Speaker 1: woman's family ever not like you? How does it impact 312 00:15:04,280 --> 00:15:08,840 Speaker 1: your relationship? If so be honest, go little dot paint 313 00:15:08,840 --> 00:15:11,800 Speaker 1: of Heney on Instagram says it makes it hard to 314 00:15:11,840 --> 00:15:14,360 Speaker 1: be with each other. We can't spend holidays together and 315 00:15:14,400 --> 00:15:16,520 Speaker 1: if my family don't like you, I just can't see 316 00:15:16,600 --> 00:15:20,720 Speaker 1: us being together for long. It's uncomfortable. Okay, now, there 317 00:15:20,760 --> 00:15:23,240 Speaker 1: are a few things I want to disagree with in 318 00:15:23,320 --> 00:15:25,720 Speaker 1: your response a little paint of Heney, I just I 319 00:15:25,760 --> 00:15:29,880 Speaker 1: feel like you're right. It does make ship uncomfortable, especially 320 00:15:29,960 --> 00:15:33,320 Speaker 1: if you're a family person, if you are always around 321 00:15:33,320 --> 00:15:36,040 Speaker 1: your family, if you're very family oriented. I do understand 322 00:15:36,080 --> 00:15:38,160 Speaker 1: how it can be uncomfortable for you. It could be 323 00:15:38,240 --> 00:15:41,720 Speaker 1: kind of awkward, But like I said earlier in episode, 324 00:15:41,920 --> 00:15:44,400 Speaker 1: don't walk around and miss out on a good thing 325 00:15:44,480 --> 00:15:48,400 Speaker 1: and lose a good thing because your family's opinions matter 326 00:15:48,480 --> 00:15:50,920 Speaker 1: more than your love for the person. You understand what 327 00:15:50,960 --> 00:15:53,240 Speaker 1: I'm saying now. You didn't give me any clarity on 328 00:15:53,240 --> 00:15:55,840 Speaker 1: on what you know, short he did or whatever this 329 00:15:55,880 --> 00:15:58,760 Speaker 1: is a guy, what Shorty did or you know, I 330 00:15:58,800 --> 00:16:00,600 Speaker 1: don't know, you know your sex for a purpose, but 331 00:16:00,680 --> 00:16:02,800 Speaker 1: you didn't give me any type of clarity on it. 332 00:16:02,840 --> 00:16:05,200 Speaker 1: So I'm just gonna speak on what you gave me. Um, 333 00:16:05,240 --> 00:16:08,480 Speaker 1: if it's uncomfortable for you, it depends on what the 334 00:16:08,520 --> 00:16:11,680 Speaker 1: girl did. It depends on whoever you're dating. Did they 335 00:16:11,720 --> 00:16:14,080 Speaker 1: do something for your family not to funk with them? 336 00:16:14,080 --> 00:16:16,960 Speaker 1: If not, then you know you just like your damn family, 337 00:16:17,000 --> 00:16:19,200 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Then you always you always 338 00:16:19,240 --> 00:16:20,880 Speaker 1: gonna let them be in a way, so they're gonna 339 00:16:20,920 --> 00:16:23,920 Speaker 1: always be in a way. So that's it. How does 340 00:16:23,960 --> 00:16:29,320 Speaker 1: it impact your relationship go Bi? But Rodriguez says it doesn't. 341 00:16:29,720 --> 00:16:32,600 Speaker 1: We remain cordial due to our love for him, me 342 00:16:32,680 --> 00:16:35,880 Speaker 1: as wife, her as sister. We don't talk and it's 343 00:16:35,920 --> 00:16:38,240 Speaker 1: not beef on site, But you're lucky if it's a 344 00:16:38,320 --> 00:16:42,280 Speaker 1: high and buy. Okay. So she's very very straightforward with 345 00:16:42,320 --> 00:16:44,040 Speaker 1: her ship. No, I ain't got no problems with you, 346 00:16:44,080 --> 00:16:46,600 Speaker 1: but don't give me none either, Okay, I get it. 347 00:16:46,600 --> 00:16:49,160 Speaker 1: It's more so we don't funk with each other, but 348 00:16:49,200 --> 00:16:51,040 Speaker 1: we're very cold. You we can be in the same room. 349 00:16:51,080 --> 00:16:53,680 Speaker 1: That's what it's given. She said, Hi, and by if 350 00:16:53,680 --> 00:16:56,080 Speaker 1: you're lucky ho. But when you got fighting. Uh. But 351 00:16:56,360 --> 00:16:57,880 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, keep your distance. And I'm 352 00:16:57,920 --> 00:17:01,280 Speaker 1: gonna keep mind because it's all about the love for him, 353 00:17:02,160 --> 00:17:05,360 Speaker 1: all about the love for him. Now, what I got 354 00:17:05,400 --> 00:17:07,960 Speaker 1: from that is he don't let his sister across the 355 00:17:08,000 --> 00:17:11,119 Speaker 1: boundaries because the wife don't seem like she play okay, 356 00:17:11,160 --> 00:17:13,399 Speaker 1: which is good, Which is good. That's a strong willed 357 00:17:13,400 --> 00:17:16,119 Speaker 1: woman who ain't gonna let nobody funk with her. Okay. 358 00:17:16,200 --> 00:17:18,000 Speaker 1: So I do respect that. That's good. As long as 359 00:17:18,040 --> 00:17:20,480 Speaker 1: you can keep it cordial, you're good with me as 360 00:17:20,520 --> 00:17:23,960 Speaker 1: good for both sides, the family and the relationship. Mob 361 00:17:24,040 --> 00:17:27,679 Speaker 1: Tie said, it don't this between me and you. I 362 00:17:27,760 --> 00:17:30,159 Speaker 1: love them, but I love you and we are the future. 363 00:17:30,400 --> 00:17:32,840 Speaker 1: Whether we'll accept it or not, it don't matter as 364 00:17:32,880 --> 00:17:36,160 Speaker 1: long as me and you on the same page were golden. 365 00:17:36,400 --> 00:17:37,800 Speaker 1: And that was from a guy. I want to give 366 00:17:37,800 --> 00:17:39,680 Speaker 1: a shout out to the guys. Y'all have been coming 367 00:17:39,720 --> 00:17:42,640 Speaker 1: through on a carefully reckless responses. I really really do. 368 00:17:42,920 --> 00:17:45,280 Speaker 1: Although you need to learn some goddamn gramdmar sir, that 369 00:17:45,359 --> 00:17:47,880 Speaker 1: ship was harder ship reading that. But basically what he's 370 00:17:47,920 --> 00:17:50,880 Speaker 1: saying is, I don't let my family talk about my girl, 371 00:17:51,040 --> 00:17:53,160 Speaker 1: and I don't let my girl talk about my family. 372 00:17:53,160 --> 00:17:54,800 Speaker 1: I love my family and I love my girl. And 373 00:17:54,800 --> 00:17:56,320 Speaker 1: as long as me and my girl on the same 374 00:17:56,320 --> 00:17:58,439 Speaker 1: page were golden, As long as me and my family 375 00:17:58,440 --> 00:18:00,399 Speaker 1: on the same page were golden, it ot mad at 376 00:18:00,400 --> 00:18:02,600 Speaker 1: who the fun y'all don't like? Because I love a period. 377 00:18:02,640 --> 00:18:04,960 Speaker 1: I like that. That's the third guy. Oh, we're coming 378 00:18:05,000 --> 00:18:09,200 Speaker 1: up on a woman, Adrian dot loves Jason. Oh she's 379 00:18:09,200 --> 00:18:11,760 Speaker 1: about to tell us about Jason. She says, the father 380 00:18:11,880 --> 00:18:14,560 Speaker 1: of my children has a stupid bitch of a mother 381 00:18:14,720 --> 00:18:17,400 Speaker 1: who is extremely jealous of the relationship that I had 382 00:18:17,440 --> 00:18:20,399 Speaker 1: with her son. I say had because she is the 383 00:18:20,400 --> 00:18:23,800 Speaker 1: main reason why we are in a physical relationship. This 384 00:18:23,840 --> 00:18:26,840 Speaker 1: bitch acts like she's fucking her son. It's crazy and 385 00:18:26,840 --> 00:18:29,840 Speaker 1: through the years has turned other people in his circle 386 00:18:29,920 --> 00:18:32,400 Speaker 1: against me. All I have to say is Corona got 387 00:18:32,400 --> 00:18:36,320 Speaker 1: a lot, but Mr Field, hold on, hold on, wait 388 00:18:36,320 --> 00:18:41,160 Speaker 1: a minute, whold lot? Wait? Huh huh, Adrian, I'm at 389 00:18:41,200 --> 00:18:42,920 Speaker 1: to talk to you off site. Okay, I'm at to 390 00:18:42,960 --> 00:18:45,159 Speaker 1: talk to you all off of offline. You know what 391 00:18:45,200 --> 00:18:50,679 Speaker 1: I mean, like because oh my god. Now listen, she 392 00:18:50,880 --> 00:18:52,800 Speaker 1: put that ship as co harder than she could. But 393 00:18:52,840 --> 00:18:56,560 Speaker 1: you gotta understand more women go through this more often 394 00:18:56,600 --> 00:18:59,399 Speaker 1: than not. I'm telling you this ship happens. I was 395 00:18:59,480 --> 00:19:02,560 Speaker 1: dating guy that whose mother didn't like me either. No, 396 00:19:02,680 --> 00:19:04,840 Speaker 1: I would wish Corona on it, but ship, you never 397 00:19:04,840 --> 00:19:07,000 Speaker 1: know what that man's mother did to that woman. You know. 398 00:19:07,320 --> 00:19:09,200 Speaker 1: I do want to keep your my prayers and ship 399 00:19:09,320 --> 00:19:11,560 Speaker 1: because I can see you you real violent like you 400 00:19:11,640 --> 00:19:14,240 Speaker 1: reminds me of Remy. We we gotta keep you in 401 00:19:14,240 --> 00:19:17,480 Speaker 1: our prayers. Little God, how'd your guns all right? T? 402 00:19:17,880 --> 00:19:21,560 Speaker 1: Dot Riches says, if your woman slash man supports the 403 00:19:21,600 --> 00:19:25,920 Speaker 1: family's behavior of not liking you, it impacts negatively and gravely, 404 00:19:26,520 --> 00:19:29,800 Speaker 1: almost divorce level. I imagine it wouldn't be that bad 405 00:19:29,840 --> 00:19:32,600 Speaker 1: if your woman slash man supports your outlook on it 406 00:19:33,119 --> 00:19:35,200 Speaker 1: that's actually correct. Now, I don't have anything to say 407 00:19:35,200 --> 00:19:37,880 Speaker 1: about that, because that's exactly what I said before. If 408 00:19:37,920 --> 00:19:41,520 Speaker 1: you support the idea of not liking your companion because 409 00:19:41,520 --> 00:19:45,160 Speaker 1: of your family, then that's on you. That's on you. 410 00:19:45,160 --> 00:19:47,719 Speaker 1: You will never be happy because you choose your family 411 00:19:48,160 --> 00:19:50,919 Speaker 1: over your love life when they have nothing to do 412 00:19:51,040 --> 00:19:53,320 Speaker 1: with that level of your life. Like, that's a different 413 00:19:53,320 --> 00:19:55,439 Speaker 1: type of love. The love that I can make to 414 00:19:55,520 --> 00:19:57,359 Speaker 1: my wife. I can't make love to my family. So 415 00:19:57,400 --> 00:19:59,080 Speaker 1: you'all gonna need to stay on your side of the offence. 416 00:19:59,080 --> 00:20:00,840 Speaker 1: It's how I come over there for to cookout ship 417 00:20:01,520 --> 00:20:04,080 Speaker 1: and the last one I'm gonna read shy baby, nin 418 00:20:04,160 --> 00:20:07,480 Speaker 1: no one. It don't affect me. I ain't sucking his mama. 419 00:20:07,520 --> 00:20:10,479 Speaker 1: And then I love it it, I love it, I 420 00:20:10,560 --> 00:20:13,080 Speaker 1: love it, I love it now. Depending on how close 421 00:20:13,480 --> 00:20:17,480 Speaker 1: the guy is with his mom, usually it does mess 422 00:20:17,560 --> 00:20:19,399 Speaker 1: up the relationship because you got a lot of mama's 423 00:20:19,440 --> 00:20:21,560 Speaker 1: boys out here. But then you just have men who 424 00:20:21,600 --> 00:20:23,719 Speaker 1: genuinely respect their mother's but they're not gonna let their 425 00:20:23,720 --> 00:20:26,560 Speaker 1: mother step in. They're really not. At one point in time, 426 00:20:26,960 --> 00:20:30,159 Speaker 1: I felt as if little Scrappy wasn't gonna make it 427 00:20:30,200 --> 00:20:34,480 Speaker 1: with baby because of Mama d But that one episode 428 00:20:34,520 --> 00:20:37,400 Speaker 1: where he stepped up and he told his mother, listen, Mom, 429 00:20:37,480 --> 00:20:38,920 Speaker 1: I love you, but she wanted to stay the funk 430 00:20:39,000 --> 00:20:41,320 Speaker 1: up on my relationships. You know what I'm saying, Like, 431 00:20:41,359 --> 00:20:43,359 Speaker 1: I love this woman. I want to give her, I 432 00:20:43,359 --> 00:20:46,200 Speaker 1: want to make on make a family with her, Like Okay, 433 00:20:46,240 --> 00:20:49,240 Speaker 1: me and Erica didn't work, but look, you ain't gonna 434 00:20:49,240 --> 00:20:50,520 Speaker 1: do what you did with me and Erica with me 435 00:20:50,560 --> 00:20:52,520 Speaker 1: and baby. This is my wife right here. I'm gonna 436 00:20:52,560 --> 00:20:55,280 Speaker 1: marry this girl like blah blah blah blah blah. He 437 00:20:55,359 --> 00:20:57,679 Speaker 1: stepped the funk up and he got it together. Now 438 00:20:57,680 --> 00:20:59,679 Speaker 1: we knew a little scrapy was a mama's boy, but 439 00:20:59,720 --> 00:21:02,480 Speaker 1: we really said until Loving hip Hop shout off the 440 00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:05,639 Speaker 1: Love and hip Hop for for showcasing those types of situations, 441 00:21:05,640 --> 00:21:09,080 Speaker 1: because that ship is real. That ship is real. And 442 00:21:09,119 --> 00:21:12,840 Speaker 1: then vice versa. You had Rashida and Kirk going through 443 00:21:12,840 --> 00:21:16,280 Speaker 1: the ship and then you had her mother, Rashida's mother. 444 00:21:16,760 --> 00:21:18,879 Speaker 1: I felt like she inserted herself a little bit too 445 00:21:18,960 --> 00:21:21,000 Speaker 1: much in some of these situations, like especially when she 446 00:21:21,080 --> 00:21:23,199 Speaker 1: ran over Kirk. Mike, you know what I'm saying, like, 447 00:21:24,200 --> 00:21:25,679 Speaker 1: or you ain't your mother gonna have to pay for 448 00:21:25,680 --> 00:21:27,600 Speaker 1: that ship, you know what I'm saying. But no, no, no, 449 00:21:28,000 --> 00:21:31,399 Speaker 1: I realized that Rashida's mother played a big role in 450 00:21:31,440 --> 00:21:34,359 Speaker 1: her life to the point where she was present for 451 00:21:34,400 --> 00:21:36,760 Speaker 1: conversations she shouldn't even have been present for. You know 452 00:21:36,800 --> 00:21:38,560 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. There's a grown woman. You're murried. You 453 00:21:38,560 --> 00:21:41,280 Speaker 1: know you got murried, you know you have sex. You 454 00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:43,680 Speaker 1: made these babies by yourself. You need to tell Mama 455 00:21:43,720 --> 00:21:46,040 Speaker 1: to sit back on a couple of little situations. Now, 456 00:21:46,080 --> 00:21:49,359 Speaker 1: we've never been privy to the conversation between Rashida and 457 00:21:49,400 --> 00:21:51,679 Speaker 1: her mother telling her mom, let me just have this. 458 00:21:51,920 --> 00:21:53,920 Speaker 1: I don't know if there ever was an episode when 459 00:21:53,920 --> 00:21:55,520 Speaker 1: she did that, and I missed it, but she could 460 00:21:55,520 --> 00:21:58,240 Speaker 1: have done it off camera. But either way, Rashida and 461 00:21:58,280 --> 00:22:00,959 Speaker 1: Kirk are still going strong and I love to see it. 462 00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:04,600 Speaker 1: I love to see it ray J and Princess. I 463 00:22:04,640 --> 00:22:06,480 Speaker 1: felt like his mother had a little bit too much 464 00:22:06,520 --> 00:22:09,199 Speaker 1: to do with the ship, honestly, I did. But that 465 00:22:09,359 --> 00:22:11,879 Speaker 1: is a very tight knit family. We've seen that. We've 466 00:22:11,880 --> 00:22:13,879 Speaker 1: seen it ever since some kids was younger, you know 467 00:22:13,920 --> 00:22:15,600 Speaker 1: what I'm saying, ever since they was acting, ever since 468 00:22:15,680 --> 00:22:18,159 Speaker 1: Moesia and the other show that reg had whatever. You 469 00:22:18,200 --> 00:22:19,920 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, like, they have a very tight 470 00:22:19,960 --> 00:22:23,639 Speaker 1: knit family, and I know that their mother runs pretty 471 00:22:23,720 --> 00:22:26,640 Speaker 1: much runs their businesses. You know, she she acts as 472 00:22:26,800 --> 00:22:30,159 Speaker 1: you know, but their manager, I think so, don't quote me, 473 00:22:30,200 --> 00:22:34,119 Speaker 1: but she was also invested in Ray J's love life 474 00:22:34,160 --> 00:22:37,800 Speaker 1: like extremely and we've seen how that made Princess feel 475 00:22:38,040 --> 00:22:40,040 Speaker 1: all of that ship. You know, a lot of these 476 00:22:40,080 --> 00:22:44,600 Speaker 1: franchises shows us Jim Jones mother, Oh my god, we 477 00:22:44,720 --> 00:22:46,800 Speaker 1: see we don't even need to talk about that. We've 478 00:22:46,840 --> 00:22:49,919 Speaker 1: seen how that affected Jim and Chrissy. But Chrissy was 479 00:22:49,960 --> 00:22:52,640 Speaker 1: not to be played with. Jim loved Chrissie and Jim 480 00:22:52,760 --> 00:22:56,040 Speaker 1: loved his mama, and it didn't matter. As many times 481 00:22:56,040 --> 00:22:58,280 Speaker 1: as Jim tried to put his mother in her place, 482 00:22:58,480 --> 00:23:00,560 Speaker 1: it was just like, no, nigga, this what I'm gonna 483 00:23:00,560 --> 00:23:02,520 Speaker 1: you came out of my poem. Poem, motherfucker, and just 484 00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:05,199 Speaker 1: you're gonna respect this. She's gonna respect me, you know 485 00:23:05,200 --> 00:23:07,480 Speaker 1: what I mean. Loving and hip hop over the years 486 00:23:07,520 --> 00:23:11,880 Speaker 1: has shown us what that's like. And all I'm saying is, 487 00:23:12,160 --> 00:23:14,560 Speaker 1: don't let it be you that brings me to the 488 00:23:14,680 --> 00:23:17,520 Speaker 1: end of my carefully Reckless episode. Y'all. Y'all right, me 489 00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:18,879 Speaker 1: and my dam and tell me what I should do 490 00:23:18,880 --> 00:23:21,480 Speaker 1: about this nigga. Should I just like stalk completely over 491 00:23:22,040 --> 00:23:24,159 Speaker 1: with this nigga because I told you all that he 492 00:23:24,200 --> 00:23:26,639 Speaker 1: only act like this when he drunk. Or should I 493 00:23:26,640 --> 00:23:28,240 Speaker 1: just be back on the market because I don't really 494 00:23:28,240 --> 00:23:30,720 Speaker 1: give a listen once you once you turned me off, 495 00:23:30,720 --> 00:23:33,520 Speaker 1: I'm turning off, nigga. I'm turned off. And like I said, 496 00:23:33,560 --> 00:23:36,040 Speaker 1: you can find good dick anywhere. So tune in next 497 00:23:36,040 --> 00:23:39,720 Speaker 1: Wednesday on hump Day and then my best Pam voice piece. 498 00:23:51,720 --> 00:23:54,679 Speaker 1: Carefully Reckless is a production of I Heart Radio and 499 00:23:54,760 --> 00:23:57,680 Speaker 1: The Black Effect. For more podcasts from My Heart Radio, 500 00:23:57,880 --> 00:24:01,360 Speaker 1: visit the I Heart Radio app, Apple podcast, or wherever 501 00:24:01,440 --> 00:24:02,760 Speaker 1: you listen to your favorite shows.