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Speaker 1: Rooking juwbols second data day. Start today's second day update

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Speaker 1: off with a little bit of advice. If you're like

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Speaker 1: two years clean and sober and you haven't touched alcohol,

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Speaker 1: probably don't choose a first date to make that your

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Speaker 1: first drink in two years. That's what Katie's email said. Katie,

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Speaker 1: how are you? Thank you? So? Your email to us

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Speaker 1: said that you hadn't touched alcohol in two years, but

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Speaker 1: that all changed on your date with Nick, and now

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Speaker 1: you're regretting it because he's not calling you back. That's

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Speaker 1: exactly what happened. Can we hold on before I get

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Speaker 1: too worried? Why did you stop drinking in the first place?

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Speaker 1: I just decided not to drink because I was just

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Speaker 1: drinking too much and acting crazy in a way that

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Speaker 1: I don't want to really say on the radio. Okay,

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Speaker 1: and so I quit then. I don't know. I just

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Speaker 1: wanted to get along with him. He's so cute, all right,

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Speaker 1: We're just worried we'd have to plan your second date

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Speaker 1: at an AA meeting, right? That is actually okay, I will.

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Speaker 1: I'm not going to do that again. So what did

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Speaker 1: you guys do on your date? First? We met at

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Speaker 1: a bar like at a happy hour, and so that

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Speaker 1: is what there was to do, was to have a

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Speaker 1: drink and we talked. He's so nice and I really

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Speaker 1: liked him. And before I knew it, like three drinks

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Speaker 1: had gone by and we were having a good time.

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Speaker 1: And then I start not remembering so well what happened

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Speaker 1: after that. I know that I kissed him and I said,

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Speaker 1: let's go dancing, and I know we went to a club. Katie,

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Speaker 1: How did you meet him? Oh, we have mutual friends

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Speaker 1: and my girlfriend he's been telling me about him for

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Speaker 1: months and we just finally hooked up. Did he know

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Speaker 1: before you went on a date that you weren't drinking? No, No,

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Speaker 1: it's no big deal. I didn't even tell him. I

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Speaker 1: didn't even tell him. He was already there, he was

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Speaker 1: sitting at the bar. The very first thing he said

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Speaker 1: just thought, oh, I haven't done this in a while.

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Speaker 1: Maybe I'll have a drink, and so stupid. So the

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Speaker 1: first drink wasn't so stupid. I think it was probably

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Speaker 1: the sixth, following fireball later that might have been a

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Speaker 1: bit much. It was so fun and easy, and then

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Speaker 1: I don't know, I guess I lost tracks, So what

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Speaker 1: do you The last thing you remember is like telling

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Speaker 1: him to dance and kissing him. That's it. I remember

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Speaker 1: dancing and having a really good time. He took me

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Speaker 1: home after a while, I can't remember how long, and

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Speaker 1: then he was buzzing from my roommate, and my roommate

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Speaker 1: came down and got me upstairs. Okay, he said that

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Speaker 1: I was pretty wasted. Okay, but he didn't have to

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Speaker 1: like carry really remember saying good night to him? You

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Speaker 1: don't no, wow, before it all started to go blurry,

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Speaker 1: did he seem interested? I think so. I mean we

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Speaker 1: were a lot. I was laughing a lot, and we

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Speaker 1: were dancing. I hope I didn't all or anything. I

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Speaker 1: don't know. It's just a mistake and I just want

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Speaker 1: the chance to tell him that that's not me. How

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Speaker 1: many times have you tried to get ahold of him? Five?

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Speaker 1: Were any of those drunk tilesius? Alright? No? And they

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Speaker 1: were all texts And he just want my text, all right,

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Speaker 1: And I don't want to call him. Well, we'll call

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Speaker 1: him then. How about that? That's what I was hoping.

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Speaker 1: You would say, you're gonna play a song, come back,

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Speaker 1: call him? And get your second day update. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, hang on for me. In the beginning, I

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Speaker 1: never thought it would be up the chilling, smiling, in

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Speaker 1: the fun. We got closer two point five brooking jubil

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Speaker 1: in the morning seconds. Hey, Katie, Yes, did you manage

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Speaker 1: to stay sober during that song? It's a brick duel

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Speaker 1: in the morning. I'm ninety two five. The second part

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Speaker 1: of your second Date Update, Katie is on the phone.

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Speaker 1: Katie hasn't had a drink in two years, not because

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Speaker 1: she has a problem necessarily, but because of a few

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Speaker 1: crazy incidents that she'd rather not talk about on the radio.

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Speaker 1: But she went on a date with this guy named Nick, decided, hey,

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Speaker 1: why not have a drink? That turned into two drinks,

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Speaker 1: of a fuzzy history that she doesn't remember, right, Katie,

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Speaker 1: that's right. I just once said I wouldn't have drank

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Speaker 1: to beginner with because I feel like you didn't really

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Speaker 1: get to know me. That's probably because you don't remember

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Speaker 1: the other things. Yeah, probably. Okay, Katie, we're gonna get

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Speaker 1: him on the phone right now. See we get an answer.

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Speaker 1: That's why hasn't called your back. Okay, okay, Hello, hey guy,

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Speaker 1: I speak to Nick please. Yeah, this is what's up? Dude?

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Speaker 1: How are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel

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Speaker 1: in the Morning. I'm moving on to two point five.

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Speaker 1: Wait what this is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in

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Speaker 1: the Morning the radio station. Okay, all right, I'm calling

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Speaker 1: you because you actually know a friend of mine. You

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Speaker 1: went on a date with her and you haven't called

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Speaker 1: her back. Okay. So her and I were talking and

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Speaker 1: she really liked you, would like to see you again,

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Speaker 1: but she's confused and she wants to know if she

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Speaker 1: did something wrong on the date. Okay, who are you

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Speaker 1: talking about? A girl named Katie? Oh? Your friend's Katie? Okay, yeah,

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Speaker 1: And I know that she went on the date with you.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if she told you, but she hasn't

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Speaker 1: really had a drink in two years, and she went

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Speaker 1: out to me that Okay, really, how did that work?

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Speaker 1: I was there and she showed up, and she ordered

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Speaker 1: then ordered another one, and then it just kind of

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Speaker 1: went from there. And I would say she probably within

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Speaker 1: an hour had had about five drinks. How long do

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Speaker 1: you think that you got to talk to sober Katie

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Speaker 1: before drunk Katie took over seven minutes, literally escalated so fast,

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Speaker 1: and I was thinking we would go somewhere where she

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Speaker 1: could get some food, but she wanted to go dancing,

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Speaker 1: so she begged me to go dancing, and then I

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Speaker 1: went with her, hoping there'd be food at this place.

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Speaker 1: It was not. I just picture of pulling on like

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Speaker 1: I don't want dances Sigma dances man. And then in

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Speaker 1: the middle of dancing, she screamed in my face with

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Speaker 1: joy that she hadn't had a drink in two years. Okay,

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Speaker 1: with all that said, Nick, was she fun? It was

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Speaker 1: fun in like a reality show that I'm watching at

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Speaker 1: home sort of way. Do you feel like you were

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Speaker 1: going out with one of the members of Bad Girls,

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Speaker 1: Clouds or something. I'm not drinking tears dance like Girls

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Speaker 1: Gone Wild, but I'm in the dynamical. But what's the

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Speaker 1: most embarrassing thing she did? Nick? I pulled her out

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Speaker 1: which was not there when she was placed in the car.

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Speaker 1: She puke, No, she uh, she had taken it in

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Speaker 1: my car. Oh my god, it Hey, Nick, Katie is

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Speaker 1: actually on the phone right now and heard everything you

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Speaker 1: just said. Oh my god, I did not, Katie. Come on,

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Speaker 1: I think I know better than you do. I've actually

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Speaker 1: had this happen to a friend of mine. Why a

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Speaker 1: guy or a girl? A girl, a dude did it

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Speaker 1: in her place? But anyway, that's that's not the issue here.

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Speaker 1: The issue is Katie, Katie, has this ever happened to

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Speaker 1: you before? No, I can't even believe that's true. I

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Speaker 1: am more to buy it. I don't even know what

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Speaker 1: to say. Oh my god, Yeah, it was pretty disgusting.

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Speaker 1: I don't even believe that's true. Why did you keep

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Speaker 1: buying me drinks? I didn't buy your drinks. I threw

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Speaker 1: and then you know I'm talking about before you had

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Speaker 1: to put me over your shoulder, Like how many drinks

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Speaker 1: I was pretty drunk, Like why wouldn't you take me home?

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Speaker 1: You kept ordering the drinks and I don't know you

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Speaker 1: And she didn't tell you at the beginning of the

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Speaker 1: day that she had had a drink in that long

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Speaker 1: time at the end, when which point I brought you home? Katie,

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Speaker 1: didn't you realize when you got home and things were

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Speaker 1: a mess your clothes, that something would have happened? Honestly,

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Speaker 1: I really don't remember. And my roommate has sort of

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Speaker 1: I think I threw up, and I absolutely think he's exaggerated.

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Speaker 1: Really don't think that that happened, Katie. I know it's embarrassing,

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Speaker 1: and I understand being defensive, but do you think maybe

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Speaker 1: a better tactic would be to apologize and kind of

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Speaker 1: admit that perhaps you did something wrong? Yeah? If I

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Speaker 1: did that, I'm sorry. I just I can't it's so

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Speaker 1: not me that I can't even believe. Obviously, it's always

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Speaker 1: a good time when your pants that's what I say.

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Speaker 1: I think you guys had a great time. I wish

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Speaker 1: I was a joke. You're being serious, yeah, Katie, Katie,

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Speaker 1: I'm not judging you. You know how many people I've

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Speaker 1: peed on that I've been dressing preds, I've ruined and

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Speaker 1: not judging you for it at all. I'm joking around,

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Speaker 1: but like you know what, it happens sometimes. I just

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe we could get to a point

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Speaker 1: where Nick could forget that moment and remember why there

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Speaker 1: was a connection between you two. I don't thank you

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Speaker 1: forget them, there's no way, no, I mean, it was awful.

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Speaker 1: And then the fact that she just tried to flip

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Speaker 1: it and make it my fault. Okay, all right, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: well Nick, I'm not making it your I'm just saying

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Speaker 1: takes some responsibility. I brought you home, called your friend. Hey. Nick.

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Speaker 1: At the end of these second day updates, we always

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Speaker 1: offer a second date. We will pay for you to

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Speaker 1: out with Katie again if you'd like to. Would you

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Speaker 1: mean it would be great, as if you could pay

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Speaker 1: to have my car interior queen. Yeah, no detailing, No

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Speaker 1: lot of detailing. All right, So none of his friends

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Speaker 1: at least you got a good story to tell. I

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Speaker 1: will never tell this story as long as I live.

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Speaker 1: Thanksgiving dinner the fans around to be hilarious to your grandkids. No,

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Speaker 1: I remember when guys called the broken jupel in the

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Speaker 1: morning