WEBVTT - EP 396:Transactional Marriage ft. Rotimi 0:00:02.520 --> 0:00:05.720 Guess what decision We're about to make. Horrible decision. 0:00:08.280 --> 0:00:10.879 Hey guys, Before we start this week's episode, we want 0:00:10.880 --> 0:00:14.520 to let you know that we have a live show Tuesday, 0:00:14.640 --> 0:00:16.080 December third, at Sony Hall. 0:00:16.320 --> 0:00:18.279 As you can see Missy Elliott here, we'll be doing 0:00:18.280 --> 0:00:18.639 a dance. 0:00:18.720 --> 0:00:20.480 Wow, bro, don't do that. 0:00:20.520 --> 0:00:22.560 You such a motherfucker. Hate the whole do the ad 0:00:22.920 --> 0:00:24.360 tell them one night only? 0:00:24.560 --> 0:00:29.440 Sorry? What? No? We even that? No, God damn it. 0:00:29.800 --> 0:00:32.879 We can't do shit around here, Sony. Come see us 0:00:32.920 --> 0:00:36.120 December third. George will open at six, show starts at eight, 0:00:36.159 --> 0:00:38.479 and it is unlike any show you've ever seen. So 0:00:38.560 --> 0:00:40.600 come spend one night with Mandy and Weezy. I don't 0:00:40.640 --> 0:00:42.280 like this, you said it like that. Y'all don't really 0:00:42.280 --> 0:00:46.400 get to spend a night with us. But between APM 0:00:46.720 --> 0:00:49.519 and about ten pm you gott us. Make sure you 0:00:49.600 --> 0:00:51.560 click the link in our bio on our Instagram and 0:00:51.560 --> 0:00:52.400 get your tickets. Now. 0:00:52.800 --> 0:00:58.880 We're looking forward to seeing you, guys, and y'all welcome. Welcome, Bibby. No, 0:01:00.200 --> 0:01:02.280 I couldn't do the little I can't do the accent. 0:01:02.400 --> 0:01:07.400 It's not okay, okay, y'all. We welcome to the Horrible decision. 0:01:07.720 --> 0:01:09.600 That was how you sounded when we recorded it. Don't 0:01:09.600 --> 0:01:10.160 do that, bitch. 0:01:10.560 --> 0:01:14.120 I am your girl, Mandy b aka method Man, d 0:01:14.560 --> 0:01:16.200 aka that Peach. 0:01:16.520 --> 0:01:21.399 I'm weasy, y'all, and I'm also ashamed. On the episode 0:01:21.400 --> 0:01:22.640 of four, I want to just get it off at 0:01:22.640 --> 0:01:24.160 the top. Go ahead, so you don't drag me for 0:01:24.200 --> 0:01:26.800 it and bring it out. Fine, we have a guest. 0:01:26.840 --> 0:01:28.759 We normally bring people back. I feel like betweeny years 0:01:28.800 --> 0:01:32.480 or two, but it's been seven years seven years laterle well, no, 0:01:32.600 --> 0:01:35.000 we're eight. We are eight years in a difference of age. 0:01:35.280 --> 0:01:37.000 I was twenty five and we recorded that. Now I'm 0:01:37.040 --> 0:01:40.760 thirty three. Wow have we been around eight years? Were 0:01:40.800 --> 0:01:46.080 episode thirty? Y'all? We have wrote Timmy in the building 0:01:46.120 --> 0:01:55.000 for this episode scotch aka Big Daddy long deck. Okay, 0:01:52.920 --> 0:01:55.520 I've been. 0:01:55.400 --> 0:01:56.960 To too many night dream ready now I know what 0:01:57.000 --> 0:01:57.160 to do. 0:01:57.560 --> 0:02:01.280 Yeah. No, I'm ashamed because there's a few clips so 0:02:01.400 --> 0:02:03.840 we were we got video because we're like, oh my god, 0:02:03.880 --> 0:02:04.680 re Tammy's coming. 0:02:04.720 --> 0:02:06.360 You know, bitch just couldn't afford shit back then. 0:02:06.760 --> 0:02:07.600 I'm not gonna like you. 0:02:07.760 --> 0:02:09.760 I think we're one of our first guests where we 0:02:09.760 --> 0:02:12.160 even brought in a camera, and we didn't even post 0:02:12.200 --> 0:02:12.920 the whole episode. 0:02:12.960 --> 0:02:14.800 We just probably didn't have enough footage on the. 0:02:14.919 --> 0:02:19.359 Thing, like before the curve, like doing like video. 0:02:18.919 --> 0:02:21.960 We brought video on for like when we had guests, 0:02:21.960 --> 0:02:24.000 So I think you and King Nowir may have been 0:02:24.040 --> 0:02:24.720 the only people. 0:02:24.760 --> 0:02:26.919 He was like, we could pay the fifty dollars extra 0:02:26.960 --> 0:02:29.680 books and one of the videos, I make a comment 0:02:30.200 --> 0:02:32.280 about why I had to leave Florida, which wasn't true. 0:02:32.639 --> 0:02:42.360 Oh no, let's run that back. Ain't inswered that thing, right, yo, bitch, Yeah, 0:02:43.000 --> 0:02:44.280 that's why I had to move to New York. I 0:02:44.320 --> 0:02:48.720 fucked down the whole Florida. Like the whole Jamaican team 0:02:48.880 --> 0:02:51.399 just was like, it's time for you to go. Oh yeah, 0:02:51.600 --> 0:02:53.919 like once, see what happens is once you started fucking 0:02:53.919 --> 0:02:56.880 island niggascause you know they got baby mamas. One comes 0:02:56.880 --> 0:02:58.280 for you, then the second and third. And at one 0:02:58.280 --> 0:03:00.720 point I was scared to go to the mall and 0:03:00.840 --> 0:03:03.680 I was like, okay, you remember her saying it. She 0:03:03.760 --> 0:03:07.200 said she had because she fucked the whole state down, 0:03:07.800 --> 0:03:08.880 just busted open. 0:03:08.960 --> 0:03:12.840 Now I'm wearing a blouse and I am a new woman. 0:03:13.400 --> 0:03:14.840 And I don't remember. 0:03:14.520 --> 0:03:19.119 What though, because When we first had you on here, 0:03:20.280 --> 0:03:23.119 you were you were Drey on power h you did? 0:03:23.280 --> 0:03:26.320 You were uh single with no children? Yeah? 0:03:26.080 --> 0:03:26.160 Uh? 0:03:26.360 --> 0:03:30.200 And now you are a father and a hoosebun. So crazy. 0:03:30.800 --> 0:03:34.960 I'm really what are we just? Richard? That's about it? 0:03:35.000 --> 0:03:37.640 You know what's probably something just to like skinny bitch 0:03:37.680 --> 0:03:42.120 hold on now. We definitely got one really cute sweet 0:03:42.160 --> 0:03:42.840 thing between us. 0:03:42.880 --> 0:03:43.480 That happened. 0:03:44.000 --> 0:03:46.040 You were talking about Rein recognized a lot, and you 0:03:46.080 --> 0:03:47.680 and I were joking like, oh my god, someone took 0:03:47.720 --> 0:03:48.520 a picture with us. 0:03:48.440 --> 0:03:51.880 Yesterday, and it's crazy, bro, Like, yeah, now. 0:03:51.800 --> 0:03:54.240 You feel about fame now? Like, how are you guys 0:03:54.280 --> 0:03:54.960 dealing with fame? 0:03:55.000 --> 0:03:55.200 Now? 0:03:55.800 --> 0:03:58.920 It's two successful, beautiful women. What is it now that 0:03:59.560 --> 0:04:01.920 from the like what do you learn about yourself? 0:04:01.960 --> 0:04:04.960 Now? The way that we were asking you about groopies 0:04:05.000 --> 0:04:08.360 and I literally fun girls that listen to She like fans. 0:04:08.960 --> 0:04:09.600 She don't like that? 0:04:09.640 --> 0:04:09.760 Bro? 0:04:10.080 --> 0:04:14.440 You do like that? Like that? I like, I don't. 0:04:14.520 --> 0:04:17.000 I don't want to. I don't want to fan. Uh 0:04:17.200 --> 0:04:19.680 you know, have you come down? No? I didn't. I 0:04:19.720 --> 0:04:21.360 made out with Want of the sex club, but that's 0:04:21.400 --> 0:04:22.880 not you made out with that one girl after that 0:04:22.960 --> 0:04:25.960 DC show. I'm making out is not fucking bro and 0:04:26.000 --> 0:04:28.240 it be on accident. Okay, so you don't you did 0:04:28.279 --> 0:04:32.120 it by accident? Because question because when you at the club, 0:04:32.600 --> 0:04:35.880 the club and you got bottles and you lit in 0:04:35.920 --> 0:04:38.279 the bitches of turk and bending over, you just come 0:04:38.320 --> 0:04:42.280 out and it just happened. It just happened. You did 0:04:42.360 --> 0:04:44.440 that or she did that one of the other. I 0:04:45.560 --> 0:04:46.320 didn't know you, I know. 0:04:46.360 --> 0:04:49.080 Mandy regretted in her that no because she was cute. 0:04:49.120 --> 0:04:51.080 No, no, no, don't make a sense. Can't listen to that. 0:04:51.680 --> 0:04:54.680 I regret. Literally right after it happened, Mandy leans over 0:04:54.720 --> 0:05:00.560 to Vinie and I who, oh my god, made out? God, 0:05:01.560 --> 0:05:03.480 So this is why I stopped drinking. Yeah, you see 0:05:03.520 --> 0:05:03.920 what I mean. 0:05:04.240 --> 0:05:07.720 It's the decision making that was happening under the influence. 0:05:08.480 --> 0:05:10.479 Well what else has been different? 0:05:10.680 --> 0:05:12.920 Oh yeah? So she she she went and listened back 0:05:12.960 --> 0:05:13.920 to our episode. 0:05:14.200 --> 0:05:16.680 If you guys have not checked it out, it's episode 0:05:16.680 --> 0:05:20.400 thirty and we are now on episode almost four hundred. 0:05:20.520 --> 0:05:22.640 Just so you can also think about that. Is that 0:05:22.720 --> 0:05:23.279 not crazy? 0:05:23.880 --> 0:05:26.960 So so she went back and listened because she wanted 0:05:26.960 --> 0:05:29.719 to see if we had changed any of our thoughts 0:05:30.080 --> 0:05:30.960 from eight years ago. 0:05:31.200 --> 0:05:32.640 So she did pull some of the shit you said. 0:05:32.680 --> 0:05:35.799 Now, Rosini said he had never been to a sex party. 0:05:36.080 --> 0:05:39.720 Okay, and that's still true. No, you've been to a 0:05:39.760 --> 0:05:41.760 sex party since then? What you do? Because you were 0:05:41.800 --> 0:05:45.720 asking us, like, what do you I didn't know. I didn't. 0:05:45.760 --> 0:05:47.359 I didn't know that, that's what I was going to. 0:05:47.960 --> 0:05:51.800 Oh yea wait, wait, swet, No, I didn't know. Okay. 0:05:52.279 --> 0:05:53.200 It wasn't a ditty party. 0:05:55.080 --> 0:05:58.440 I feel like how people were started in court. Oh no, 0:05:59.000 --> 0:06:00.000 we could bleep the name out. 0:06:00.160 --> 0:06:01.360 I bet you was Jamie fox House. 0:06:01.400 --> 0:06:05.560 But wait, was it just a party that turned into set? 0:06:05.640 --> 0:06:08.400 It was a party that, like if you're downstairs chilling, 0:06:08.440 --> 0:06:11.560 everybody's kicking and kicking, and then when like when you 0:06:11.680 --> 0:06:14.159 change the music and like it gets quiet for a second, 0:06:14.279 --> 0:06:15.880 you can't hear what's going on upstairs. 0:06:15.920 --> 0:06:16.719 Get the fuck out of here. 0:06:16.800 --> 0:06:20.320 Yes, and it's like mad situations happening. Somebody is this 0:06:21.120 --> 0:06:23.120 about forty five minutes, this whole thing gonna turn into that? 0:06:23.160 --> 0:06:23.360 Bro? 0:06:23.760 --> 0:06:27.400 I said, Oh Jesus Christ, Okay, but you say, didn't 0:06:27.400 --> 0:06:30.200 you say? I mean, look, you wanted to see it 0:06:30.200 --> 0:06:32.680 started at forty five. I left that in forty seven. 0:06:35.880 --> 0:06:37.880 What made you want to leave, Like what did you see? 0:06:37.960 --> 0:06:40.279 Was there anything that was like oh shit, this is wild? 0:06:40.360 --> 0:06:41.680 Like what we were there? 0:06:41.680 --> 0:06:42.680 Other famous people there? 0:06:42.800 --> 0:06:44.719 Yeah, there was other things, and it was just one 0:06:44.720 --> 0:06:46.800 of those things where was like, oh, man, I don't 0:06:46.839 --> 0:06:49.400 know what's going on. I don't know what the vibe is. 0:06:49.600 --> 0:06:51.560 This is this what Hollywood is like? 0:06:51.680 --> 0:06:51.839 You know. 0:06:51.920 --> 0:06:54.960 This was like maybe a year after I had that interview, 0:06:55.400 --> 0:06:57.440 so I was still kind of just like young. Yeah, 0:06:57.520 --> 0:06:59.040 it was like yo, what's going on? So I just 0:06:59.080 --> 0:06:59.920 didn't feel comfortable. 0:07:00.080 --> 0:07:04.200 Glad you didn't didn't go. I think since I've been 0:07:04.200 --> 0:07:06.960 working in Hollywood at a different capacity, I see how 0:07:07.040 --> 0:07:09.840 much they take advantage of young men almost just as 0:07:09.920 --> 0:07:14.000 much as women, like in a very like sneaky we're 0:07:14.000 --> 0:07:15.200 gonna put you in this, we're gonna do this, or 0:07:15.280 --> 0:07:17.080 just come here, or like you realize you gotta be 0:07:17.080 --> 0:07:19.440 cool with this director to get like very weird. 0:07:19.640 --> 0:07:22.600 I mean, especially like you know, for young actors, young artists. Man, 0:07:22.640 --> 0:07:25.040 if you don't make certain decisions, you don't go fast. 0:07:25.040 --> 0:07:26.920 I've been offered so much that I just stood on 0:07:27.000 --> 0:07:28.960 my morals and I was like, now I'm a grind and 0:07:29.000 --> 0:07:31.400 trust god, I love that. So It's just it's a 0:07:31.440 --> 0:07:34.320 crazy world, man. So like being a part of that 0:07:34.360 --> 0:07:37.680 and seeing so much of how the industry works, It's 0:07:37.760 --> 0:07:40.000 like it made me just say, no, let me start 0:07:40.000 --> 0:07:42.240 my own ship, you know, let me just let. 0:07:42.120 --> 0:07:51.520 You throw your own sex. Is that like movement direct 0:07:51.560 --> 0:07:57.040 yourt I've done that. I'm talk. 0:07:58.360 --> 0:08:00.560 What else did we pull anything else he said from 0:08:00.560 --> 0:08:02.000 that episode? Or was that the only thing? 0:08:02.080 --> 0:08:04.160 Okay? So I said I wouldn't mind having a sister 0:08:04.200 --> 0:08:06.120 wife if we needed more income for the children. I 0:08:06.200 --> 0:08:09.680 changed my mind. I started giving money. Mandy said she 0:08:09.720 --> 0:08:11.440 didn't know how to put a condom on a dick. 0:08:11.560 --> 0:08:16.320 I feel what everything is wrong? No? Fuck no, I'd 0:08:16.360 --> 0:08:18.760 be like, here you go and mind you. I have 0:08:18.880 --> 0:08:19.480 different ones. 0:08:19.640 --> 0:08:22.240 I say this all the time, and I'm sure certain 0:08:22.360 --> 0:08:24.880 of my partners when I was having sex probably judge 0:08:24.880 --> 0:08:30.000 me a little bit. Why I'm a month into my 0:08:30.040 --> 0:08:34.680 cell of this, but no, like I have tucked between 0:08:34.679 --> 0:08:38.480 my books in my living room, so the books, because 0:08:38.480 --> 0:08:40.480 I don't want just condoms out, so I took them 0:08:40.559 --> 0:08:42.120 so then I could just lean off the couch and 0:08:42.160 --> 0:08:42.959 grab a condom. 0:08:43.200 --> 0:08:45.600 If we start on the couch, then I. 0:08:45.600 --> 0:08:47.320 Have them also in the drawer, and oh, I have 0:08:47.400 --> 0:08:49.560 them stashed around my house. So then I also have 0:08:49.679 --> 0:08:52.200 some in my kitchen, so they're in my They're in 0:08:52.280 --> 0:08:54.559 my middle drawer in my kitchen, right by my stove. 0:08:54.960 --> 0:08:56.559 And that's a case he come up behind me and 0:08:56.600 --> 0:08:58.080 might want to slide it in. I could just open 0:08:58.120 --> 0:08:59.520 the door. He could put it on there. 0:09:00.120 --> 0:09:03.040 You use a kitchen condom, Well, so what happens. 0:09:03.200 --> 0:09:06.280 I normally grab those if I'm making our drinks to 0:09:06.320 --> 0:09:07.640 then just bring them so I don't have to lean 0:09:07.679 --> 0:09:10.520 over on the couch. Oh, they're everywhere calculated, it's calculated. 0:09:10.840 --> 0:09:13.120 And then and then it's really bad because now I 0:09:13.120 --> 0:09:14.680 got this little light. I bought this little light. They 0:09:14.720 --> 0:09:17.120 said it helped you go to sleep easier. But it's red. 0:09:17.320 --> 0:09:18.920 So now I realize when I put it on, it's 0:09:18.920 --> 0:09:22.600 like I'm giving a red light special a whore, but 0:09:22.640 --> 0:09:23.520 it's really a sleep light. 0:09:27.280 --> 0:09:30.560 And then I have condoms in my lowest drawer in 0:09:30.600 --> 0:09:34.040 my bedroom. That's where also the lubin toys are. And 0:09:34.080 --> 0:09:36.640 then I have them under this cushion right by my 0:09:36.760 --> 0:09:39.640 bed as well. So there's four spots in my house 0:09:39.679 --> 0:09:40.120 with conda. 0:09:40.240 --> 0:09:41.640 So what do you do if it happens in the car. 0:09:43.800 --> 0:09:49.800 Luckily because we're well, honestly, we're in New York. They 0:09:49.840 --> 0:09:52.080 don't really be in their car Ubers. 0:09:52.120 --> 0:10:04.200 So did you just say butter Scott? But yeah no. 0:10:04.400 --> 0:10:06.920 So I still do not know how to put a 0:10:07.000 --> 0:10:08.560 kind of on a dick, but I do just be like, 0:10:08.640 --> 0:10:09.000 here you go. 0:10:09.280 --> 0:10:11.000 That was so crazy when I heard. I was like, 0:10:11.320 --> 0:10:14.880 in the still damn in seven years? One thing you said? 0:10:15.720 --> 0:10:18.200 You said, I stay away from industry girls. It's not 0:10:18.400 --> 0:10:23.000 my thing. Wow, and you married one. Well yes, okay, 0:10:23.040 --> 0:10:26.600 so what what? What? Well? To me, industry is like okay, okay, 0:10:26.600 --> 0:10:28.439 I realize when we say industry, you're like, oh, somebody 0:10:28.600 --> 0:10:31.199 be in the street. It's always out. 0:10:31.440 --> 0:10:32.880 The industry to me is someone famous. 0:10:33.040 --> 0:10:33.360 Yeah. 0:10:33.840 --> 0:10:36.120 Yes, I stayed away as long as I possibly could. 0:10:36.800 --> 0:10:38.640 But I met her when she was in a space 0:10:38.679 --> 0:10:40.640 where she was like, yo, I'm done with the industry. 0:10:40.960 --> 0:10:43.120 I just want to just retire. I want to do 0:10:43.160 --> 0:10:44.600 something different. So I'm trying to get that. 0:10:44.760 --> 0:10:47.079 Do you think that that that helps? 0:10:47.679 --> 0:10:50.760 I don't. I mean, knowing you from your friendship, I 0:10:50.800 --> 0:10:52.440 don't take you as a guy who's insecure. 0:10:52.520 --> 0:10:54.920 Wouldn't like celebrate a woman, you know, doing her thing. 0:10:55.480 --> 0:10:58.200 But do you think it helped you being that you 0:10:58.280 --> 0:11:00.000 both weren't busy and on the go or. 0:11:00.160 --> 0:11:03.160 Well, yeah, not because of like not trusting her, but 0:11:03.200 --> 0:11:06.800 more so just like just scheduling. That's a monster for 0:11:06.840 --> 0:11:08.880 me to be shooting the movie work and her doing this. 0:11:09.520 --> 0:11:11.000 It's hard because schedules. 0:11:10.640 --> 0:11:14.840 Don't Yeah, yeah, something like that. So you know what 0:11:14.920 --> 0:11:15.120 it's like. 0:11:15.200 --> 0:11:16.720 It's one of those things where it's like we now 0:11:16.840 --> 0:11:19.400 knowing that she just wants to be an entrepreneur once 0:11:19.440 --> 0:11:22.240 she loves her favorite thing is being a mom, so 0:11:22.320 --> 0:11:24.360 like that is where she's at. So it's like it 0:11:24.400 --> 0:11:26.440 works out perfectly, you know, for what it is. But 0:11:26.880 --> 0:11:29.400 I don't know if I would have been feeling the 0:11:29.440 --> 0:11:31.680 same initially if she was like, I'm trying to do 0:11:31.720 --> 0:11:33.360 all of this, all this artist I want to because it's 0:11:33.360 --> 0:11:36.199 just scheduling, and she was living in Tanzania, so it 0:11:36.240 --> 0:11:37.800 was already long distance at the time, that. 0:11:39.240 --> 0:11:41.600 Really really long distance. No way. 0:11:41.720 --> 0:11:45.360 How old were you when you both met, so twenty nine? 0:11:45.920 --> 0:11:48.120 Okay? See that Also, I wonder if that has to 0:11:48.120 --> 0:11:50.320 do with it being at the age where you're like, 0:11:50.760 --> 0:11:52.439 I'm ready for family, I'm ready to be a dad, 0:11:52.440 --> 0:11:54.400 I'm ready to be your husband. Like, do you think 0:11:54.440 --> 0:11:56.280 if you met her the day you did that Horrible 0:11:56.280 --> 0:11:59.120 Decisions interview? You might have sucked it up? Absolutely? I was. 0:11:59.160 --> 0:12:07.719 I was in the streets. Yeah, sorry, my man. Eight 0:12:07.800 --> 0:12:10.800 years ago. You took the glasses off. My man. You 0:12:10.880 --> 0:12:14.600 know you were red carpet party. You was gonna be there. Man, 0:12:14.679 --> 0:12:16.680 you was at church. That's what I meant when I 0:12:16.720 --> 0:12:22.760 said that you was outside the pew. I was praying. No, 0:12:22.960 --> 0:12:24.600 it was on the knees praying. It was on their knees, 0:12:25.000 --> 0:12:28.080 on their knees, praying for me. They sure was was today. 0:12:28.640 --> 0:12:32.520 They wash. 0:12:37.360 --> 0:12:39.920 Every time about That is crazy. 0:12:40.040 --> 0:12:42.959 That is awful. You gotta stop doing that because I 0:12:43.000 --> 0:12:44.679 don't know what about the religious people? What do we 0:12:44.800 --> 0:12:48.320 interview that said? That was it? Mister Marcus. He was like, 0:12:48.320 --> 0:12:52.520 why are these girls? And we started yeah. Got was like, hey, bro, 0:12:52.800 --> 0:12:55.520 don't bring him in say the same ship. No, I 0:12:55.559 --> 0:12:59.400 don't you know. I'll be saying their names even you 0:12:59.440 --> 0:13:01.680 even't messed up the name like el I. 0:13:01.679 --> 0:13:03.640 Ain't ever mess up the name. I gotta look at them. 0:13:03.880 --> 0:13:05.520 I'll be happy to think about it real quick. 0:13:06.160 --> 0:13:11.520 Registers, Sean got it, that's crazy. 0:13:11.160 --> 0:13:13.920 No, I like. I like. I like saying the name okay, 0:13:14.040 --> 0:13:16.040 saying the name is hot also saying making them say 0:13:16.080 --> 0:13:20.760 your name is hotter, tell you like it. I like that. 0:13:20.840 --> 0:13:22.480 I like that. I like, yeah you Bett start talking, 0:13:22.559 --> 0:13:25.880 that's fine. All that deep breath. Another thing I was 0:13:25.880 --> 0:13:30.400 going to ask you. So, like when we interviewed you, 0:13:30.920 --> 0:13:33.240 we were talking about Greenby Tales. We were super excited 0:13:33.240 --> 0:13:36.600 about that, but mainly because like two people, it's funny 0:13:36.640 --> 0:13:39.360 Drey and dro We interviewed friends that had just had 0:13:39.400 --> 0:13:42.640 big parts on shows. Ye did it get worse when 0:13:42.640 --> 0:13:46.160 you started singing? Because I remember the first time I 0:13:46.240 --> 0:13:48.040 was singing one of your songs, what was the song 0:13:48.240 --> 0:13:52.080 not bed? And I was like, in my bed didn't 0:13:52.080 --> 0:13:54.880 come out? Then? No, No, we were talking about songs 0:13:54.880 --> 0:13:57.360 we like from but when I typed it in my 0:13:57.400 --> 0:13:59.040 phone and I saw your name, I was like, there's 0:13:59.040 --> 0:14:01.120 no way or maybe I shamed it, and I got 0:14:01.120 --> 0:14:04.560 really excited and like whoa you know, because because. 0:14:04.360 --> 0:14:08.800 You did start singing while you were still actively portraying Drake, 0:14:10.040 --> 0:14:11.800 so it was both, but you didn't get the same 0:14:12.280 --> 0:14:14.800 girls or attention from acting as you did music. 0:14:14.960 --> 0:14:16.720 Now, it is something about music that moved people. 0:14:16.880 --> 0:14:18.240 We've seen you with your shirt off online. 0:14:18.360 --> 0:14:20.560 That's what it is. Every time I start the shaving room, 0:14:20.600 --> 0:14:25.960 I'm like, wow, wow, I literally lost your new music 0:14:26.000 --> 0:14:27.600 video for the new song I Love You some of you, 0:14:27.640 --> 0:14:29.360 And I'm like, what is this? You were in the 0:14:29.400 --> 0:14:44.160 opposite of those INMPIC that I was like, whoa you changed? 0:14:44.160 --> 0:14:47.440 And like, yeah, I want to know how difficult was it, 0:14:47.560 --> 0:14:50.720 because I've heard from friends that recently got engaged or 0:14:50.760 --> 0:14:58.200 married girls beyond them more. Absolutely, really disrespectful because you 0:14:58.200 --> 0:14:59.920 you know, because you're talking about the man. 0:15:00.160 --> 0:15:03.000 No, I don't know what you're saying about that, about 0:15:03.040 --> 0:15:03.560 that crazy? 0:15:03.600 --> 0:15:05.800 What are you saying about mething man? Nothing, We're not 0:15:05.800 --> 0:15:08.800 going to do that. You're respecting that man's marriage. 0:15:08.840 --> 0:15:11.880 I am not I thought, I am celibate, I don't 0:15:11.960 --> 0:15:13.200 drink and I don't marry man. 0:15:13.520 --> 0:15:17.880 How anything's changed from episode that isy? That is crazy? Okay, sorry, 0:15:17.880 --> 0:15:21.560 go ahead, Okay, So yeah, what did it get sneakier 0:15:21.720 --> 0:15:23.360 or do you feel like people were just attracted to 0:15:23.400 --> 0:15:24.560 the fact that you were unavailable? 0:15:25.000 --> 0:15:27.160 Yeah, it's a mix, a mixture of everything, right, So 0:15:27.240 --> 0:15:31.160 like the fact that it's like I'm actually asked when 0:15:31.160 --> 0:15:33.880 I'm like, Yo, you wasn't checking, so now you're checking. 0:15:33.920 --> 0:15:34.480 What's changed. 0:15:34.520 --> 0:15:36.160 She's like not the fact that you kept a woman 0:15:36.280 --> 0:15:38.880 happy for so long, Like, you must got something. 0:15:38.920 --> 0:15:39.400 What is it? 0:15:39.440 --> 0:15:41.920 I'm trying to find out. And so when I heard that, 0:15:42.000 --> 0:15:45.120 I'm like, oh, it's really a thing. So like I 0:15:45.160 --> 0:15:46.400 think this because your wife looked good? 0:15:46.440 --> 0:15:48.840 Well, No, I think also I think women get very 0:15:48.840 --> 0:15:51.800 women want people that I think people do, though you 0:15:51.800 --> 0:15:53.800 think people do. Yeah, men look at women and be 0:15:53.920 --> 0:15:55.560 like damn, like I want that. What is it? You know? 0:15:56.320 --> 0:15:58.760 I've been dry And the second I had I'm like. 0:16:00.080 --> 0:16:02.240 That's why old boy got in Cardiot eight months. I'm 0:16:02.280 --> 0:16:04.640 telling you, he was like, damn, I'm goinna, go ahead 0:16:04.640 --> 0:16:04.920 and get in. 0:16:04.960 --> 0:16:09.840 That's what I'm just allegedly that's what happened. That's why 0:16:09.880 --> 0:16:13.040 he got in Cardia eight months. Oh my god, what 0:16:13.160 --> 0:16:16.280 is the problem or something? Why is that crazy? 0:16:16.960 --> 0:16:17.040 No? 0:16:17.360 --> 0:16:20.960 I do think that that women, and oftentimes, even if 0:16:20.960 --> 0:16:23.120 we bring this to social media, right when you do 0:16:23.560 --> 0:16:26.680 post how happy you are in a relationship. When you're 0:16:26.720 --> 0:16:30.040 constantly posting your girlfriend or your wife or your partner, 0:16:30.360 --> 0:16:32.400 a lot of women who may not be getting that treatment. 0:16:33.560 --> 0:16:37.240 I want to want DIBs or you appear more like 0:16:37.360 --> 0:16:40.040 a really dope guy and now you become more trial. 0:16:40.160 --> 0:16:41.280 He's a family man. 0:16:41.520 --> 0:16:43.400 Yeah, I think it's a fantasy, you know what I mean? 0:16:43.480 --> 0:16:45.520 Like, I think for me, it's like, damn, he's able 0:16:45.560 --> 0:16:48.160 to balance this, this, this, this and have that. 0:16:48.320 --> 0:16:50.640 And I also think it's misery loves company, because I 0:16:50.680 --> 0:16:52.880 do think women will look at that and be like, 0:16:53.400 --> 0:16:56.320 I bet you cheating ass nigga still And I'm gonna 0:16:56.320 --> 0:16:56.920 sit here and prude. 0:16:57.040 --> 0:16:58.080 Yeah, I'm not gonna lie. 0:16:58.120 --> 0:16:59.680 That's my great scare. I hope a bit's never come. 0:16:59.800 --> 0:17:00.240 Don't come. 0:17:00.400 --> 0:17:03.440 That's why don't don't. Don't post your niggad. That's it crazy. 0:17:03.440 --> 0:17:04.719 You know, I get the feet. I'll let him get 0:17:04.720 --> 0:17:07.159 the feet, and that get that little Africa tattoo on 0:17:07.200 --> 0:17:10.040 the hand. That's it. Nobody what you looked like? No, oh, 0:17:10.119 --> 0:17:11.880 you'll keep it that way. They swipe on dating apps, 0:17:11.880 --> 0:17:18.200 they do. We're all on the sex one. They know 0:17:18.240 --> 0:17:18.879 which one that is. 0:17:19.600 --> 0:17:20.240 I will say this. 0:17:20.880 --> 0:17:25.920 I realized that sometimes gloating about happiness, which you you know, 0:17:25.960 --> 0:17:27.520 when you're really excited about something you want to share, 0:17:27.560 --> 0:17:30.560 whether it be a new project, whatever, it's like, oh, 0:17:30.720 --> 0:17:33.000 they want to like fucking take you down and prove 0:17:33.080 --> 0:17:35.320 to you that it's not gonna happen like that. For me, 0:17:35.640 --> 0:17:38.320 more so, the posting is because like I have a 0:17:38.320 --> 0:17:39.840 lot of follow and wanted someone to say I just 0:17:39.840 --> 0:17:42.760 don't want to hear anything or even if someone comes 0:17:42.800 --> 0:17:45.040 out the woodworks, like I don't give a fuck what. 0:17:45.160 --> 0:17:48.880 There're a conversation with you and your wife about becoming open. 0:17:48.720 --> 0:17:50.760 On social media. Yeah, when did you have there been 0:17:50.800 --> 0:17:54.280 also any issues that social media has brought to the relationship. 0:17:54.760 --> 0:17:57.880 So we were our initial plan was to keep everything low, 0:17:57.960 --> 0:18:00.320 but then Shae Room was the first one that put 0:18:00.320 --> 0:18:02.760 everything together. They put like my hand in her leg 0:18:03.400 --> 0:18:05.760 and then we was in the same background, so they're like, oh, 0:18:06.040 --> 0:18:09.520 Timmy's dating superstar and that's so it was like dang, 0:18:09.520 --> 0:18:12.760 it's like it's already out and we're both super spiritual. 0:18:12.840 --> 0:18:14.760 So it was like, maybe our calling. 0:18:14.560 --> 0:18:16.640 Is just to show that good marriage is and good 0:18:16.960 --> 0:18:19.600 relationships and be an example you know what I mean, 0:18:19.720 --> 0:18:21.760 Like you can be lit, you can still be a 0:18:21.800 --> 0:18:23.920 fly nigga. You could be a beautiful woman and still 0:18:23.920 --> 0:18:26.600 be doing what you need to do and be an 0:18:26.600 --> 0:18:28.280