Speaker 1: Wind Down with Jane Kramer, Michael Coughlin and I heard
Speaker 1: radio podcast. Hey guys, how are you guys ready to
Speaker 1: wine down? Who? Um? Have you guys been joined CMA Fest? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I love it, um so we have. We actually just
Speaker 1: moved to Nashville. How many days ago Thurs. That's crazy
Speaker 1: in the midst of like c M A fast, we've
Speaker 1: gone in um so we went to a I just
Speaker 1: thought that was interesting. I have to bring this up.
Speaker 1: We went to a roller skating party this morning for
Speaker 1: Jolie's friend, and the whole entire morning I was like, hey, babe,
Speaker 1: don't forget to wear socks. And I forgot that he
Speaker 1: always wear socks. But I brought Jolie socks and of
Speaker 1: course I forgot mine and we get there and I
Speaker 1: was like, ah, gosh, like I forgot to bring socks.
Speaker 1: And so I was like, all right, honey, Um, I
Speaker 1: I always know that he's just weird, but he always
Speaker 1: wears two pairs of socks, and I know, right, that's weird. Um.
Speaker 1: And he wouldn't give me his one pair of socks.
Speaker 1: Why not. Look, everyone has their corks. Everyone thought it
Speaker 1: was weird by the way that you have two pairs
Speaker 1: of socks. It's not that weird. It's not like two
Speaker 1: pairs of under it right, Yeah, thank you, And that's
Speaker 1: my whole reasoning what former athletes, Okay, explain yourself. Look,
Speaker 1: when you're cutting and moving all the time, get blisters
Speaker 1: and stuff on your feet. So were two pairs of socks.
Speaker 1: You're not running like a hundred yards or whatever. It
Speaker 1: was like, you're just walking from the kitchen to the
Speaker 1: living room. Have you chased Jolly around the backyard? Yeah,
Speaker 1: So maybe it's just me living out My glory is
Speaker 1: still But I wear two pairs of socks every day
Speaker 1: and you know that. But I wouldn't give her one
Speaker 1: because it's my thing, because I knew we had it.
Speaker 1: So if it's like, I'm sorry, that really bothers me,
Speaker 1: Like you really truly and you he he made me
Speaker 1: go to a vending machine to get three dollar socks.
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't want to be three dollars
Speaker 1: on socks and he's like, I'm not giving you my socks.
Speaker 1: Are we really having an argument right here at the
Speaker 1: roller skating rink? You made an argument? You know that's
Speaker 1: non negoachable. It's not happening. It's my thing. So if
Speaker 1: I needed the parachute, would you give me the parachute parachute? Yes,
Speaker 1: socks no, hands down? Tell me how that makes okay?
Speaker 1: But it's funny. So Janna talks about all right, that's
Speaker 1: my little cork. Right. So Janna as beautiful and lovely
Speaker 1: as she is, right, she's stunning. She's like a supermodel.
Speaker 1: It's ridiculous. The other day, we're in this new airbnb
Speaker 1: that's even smaller than our Los Angeles place that we had.
Speaker 1: It's about thousand square feet. Were crammed in there. We
Speaker 1: have one stink that we're sharing, and it's been a
Speaker 1: while since we brush our teeth at the same time.
Speaker 1: And I walk in there and Janna comes in all dainty,
Speaker 1: takes her makeup off for some reason, she brushes her
Speaker 1: teeth like a troll, and then let's she's like a
Speaker 1: little kid learning for the first time. It just all
Speaker 1: falls out. She doesn't spit it out, it's just all
Speaker 1: constantly falls out. And then she's done, and watch your mouth.
Speaker 1: She's like, okay, and then she's back to being pretty
Speaker 1: and dainty. I'm like, who are you? And what bridge
Speaker 1: did you come out from? How do you brush your
Speaker 1: teeth pretty. Just do it normal and spit every now
Speaker 1: and then you got it overflow out of your mouth
Speaker 1: into the sink. It's you're brushing your teeth. Who cares
Speaker 1: to each their Um? I know what I like? How like?
Speaker 1: How do you make it pretty? Like? We have the
Speaker 1: judge judge you on the way you brush your teeth. Wow,
Speaker 1: that's how we roll. Welcome to wind down, guys, getting
Speaker 1: real just apparently I'm just gonna I don't I don't know.
Speaker 1: Maybe you can teach me how to brush my teeth better.
Speaker 1: I'll teach you, and I'll teach you how to share Jolie. So,
Speaker 1: first of all, this live podcast, this is actually a
Speaker 1: live podcast. We're recording this so this will air tomorrow.
Speaker 1: So you guys need to real quick make some noise
Speaker 1: right now. This is Aaron tomorrow. Come on everyone because
Speaker 1: this will be on I Heart Radio tomorrow. And we
Speaker 1: are very excited to be here and recording this with
Speaker 1: you um there. Because usually we don't record and we
Speaker 1: do the events, we we don't actually record them. So
Speaker 1: this is this is a fun little treat. There is
Speaker 1: one thing that Janna has brought to my attention that
Speaker 1: so I'm not on any social media. I stay away
Speaker 1: from all that. Janna does it enough and shows our life.
Speaker 1: It's kind of basically like the family account. So she's
Speaker 1: been informing me recently, UM that the whole my deal
Speaker 1: breaker in our relationship has been kind of picked up
Speaker 1: a lot of places. What who would you say? Daily po?
Speaker 1: Here's let me just rewind that that don't know. So
Speaker 1: when we did the live event like Evening with for
Speaker 1: wind Down UM, we were in New York and I
Speaker 1: was asking our guests, what's your marriage deal breaker? And
Speaker 1: so I asked the couple that we had on the
Speaker 1: Show's Arniac and Craig Melvin from NBC Today, and I said,
Speaker 1: what would be your marriage dealbreaker? And they they said
Speaker 1: there is And I said, actually, honey, I don't even
Speaker 1: know what your marriage deal breaker is it? What would
Speaker 1: it be? And he said, uh, infidelity if you cheated
Speaker 1: on me. I heard. I heard that. So then I
Speaker 1: was like what And I kind of let it go
Speaker 1: a little bit, but then I brought it up on
Speaker 1: another podcast episode. I said, you know, it's something has
Speaker 1: really stayed with me and it's really bothered me. And
Speaker 1: he still defended it, and so I sat with it
Speaker 1: for a little while. Then I was talking to um.
Speaker 1: Actually there was a I had did an event the
Speaker 1: other night and People interviewed me because I saw it
Speaker 1: was on Daily Pop it he had picked it up,
Speaker 1: US had picked it up, picked it up. And then
Speaker 1: the sweet interviewer from People had said, you know, how
Speaker 1: does that make you feel? And she was so nice
Speaker 1: about it, and I said, you know what, after this event,
Speaker 1: I'm going to go home and talk to him because
Speaker 1: it's still really bothering me, and it just it bucks me.
Speaker 1: And so I went home and I was like, hey,
Speaker 1: you know something that you said at the you know
Speaker 1: that you've been defending has been picked up and here's
Speaker 1: the news outlets that's people are talking about. And I said,
Speaker 1: and it still really bothers me. So I was just
Speaker 1: wondering if maybe you could help me make sense of
Speaker 1: this because it hurts my feelings that, knowing as much
Speaker 1: work as we've done, you would just be like all right,
Speaker 1: peace and not want to work on it too. When
Speaker 1: I've been there through the trenches with you and working
Speaker 1: through it. And I understand it wouldn't make sense because
Speaker 1: we've done so much work, But what what happens if
Speaker 1: I did, like, you would still like not fight as
Speaker 1: hard and I just really bothered me. So would you
Speaker 1: like to all secretly judging you right now? And one's like, oh,
Speaker 1: what do you say right now? This is like a
Speaker 1: typical already, this is a typical episode of wind Down
Speaker 1: where it's like, oh, we're happy, happy, happy, gonna bring
Speaker 1: you down, Let's bring it back up. I'll bring you down.
Speaker 1: Um No. And what I told Janna and this is
Speaker 1: this is very genuine, very real, and you guys know
Speaker 1: who listened, how we get on the show and for
Speaker 1: me in that moment we were doing a live pod,
Speaker 1: asked we're interviewing this couple. I honestly I don't I
Speaker 1: didn't really have one. When she asked me, like, what
Speaker 1: your deal breaker? I was like, the first thought came
Speaker 1: to my mind was I don't really have one. I
Speaker 1: don't know. Um. But I was like, I can't give
Speaker 1: the audience. I'd answer, like, let me say something that
Speaker 1: can kind of strike up conversation. Yeah, clearly, UM. So
Speaker 1: I explained to Jane. I was like, look, the reason
Speaker 1: I said the infidelity piece or you cheating on me
Speaker 1: isn't because if you did it, I wouldn't try at
Speaker 1: our relationship. Obviously I would with the other things that
Speaker 1: in pain that I put you through, There's no way
Speaker 1: I'll just walk out. My thing when I was telling
Speaker 1: Joanna was there's nothing else I could foresee a reason
Speaker 1: being that I would question our relationship. And that was
Speaker 1: I understand Like my definition in that moment of deal
Speaker 1: breaker was a little difference. I heard it as what
Speaker 1: would make me question our relationship? And that would be
Speaker 1: the only thing, literally, the only thing. I don't know
Speaker 1: what else, because of all the work that we do,
Speaker 1: I don't know what else could honestly make me question
Speaker 1: our relationship. But because of all we've been through, it
Speaker 1: just it just makes me think, Okay, that would be
Speaker 1: the one thing. I'd be like, damn, this sucks, but
Speaker 1: let's figure this out. But I'll still have those feelings
Speaker 1: of can we make this work? So it's not that
Speaker 1: I wouldn't fight for it. And I understand why people
Speaker 1: would consider that because it's a deal breaker, and everyone
Speaker 1: thinks considers a deal breaker. As you do this, it's done, period,
Speaker 1: no black, you know, it's black and white. For me,
Speaker 1: it was a little bit of gray. What do you
Speaker 1: guys think about that. Oh, we have a question. Oh
Speaker 1: that's interesting. If this is about One Tree Hill, we
Speaker 1: can talk about it later. All right, Yeah, I know
Speaker 1: lx de b Okay, I would love that so on
Speaker 1: one Tree Hill? All right, I guess who I'm that
Speaker 1: right now. Well, when you brought it up, I kind
Speaker 1: of automatically felt like the main reason he said that
Speaker 1: was a deal breaker is because he just saw the
Speaker 1: pain that he put you through, and like he knows
Speaker 1: after everything that you've been through that you were so
Speaker 1: strong because of all this. So after he saw the
Speaker 1: pain that you went through, he was probably like, I
Speaker 1: don't think I could go through that watching her do
Speaker 1: that to me. I get that, and I hear that again.
Speaker 1: It's I think the hardest thing for me is just
Speaker 1: in my mind hearing that, Okay, he wouldn't want to
Speaker 1: fight for and that's what because I'm like, because I
Speaker 1: have thought so hard so I would. Yeah. It is
Speaker 1: kind of hypocritical too, but like it's it's I mean,
Speaker 1: it's also one of those things where it's kind of like,
Speaker 1: you know he had an addiction, and like you've been
Speaker 1: going with him through this journey and you know that
Speaker 1: you don't have one so for him, it's kind of
Speaker 1: like right now maybe, But I'm not saying I'm just no,
Speaker 1: I I hear you. I totally do hear you. But again,
Speaker 1: people make mistakes and I'm not trying to give myself
Speaker 1: a free hall pass. I don't want to haul pass.
Speaker 1: I don't want to have to go through what we
Speaker 1: like still go through. I mean, just the other night,
Speaker 1: I was bawling my eyes out, like we're not it's
Speaker 1: still it's constant thing that we have to fight through
Speaker 1: and go through, you know. So I hundred percent don't
Speaker 1: want it. I just want to know that I'm gonna
Speaker 1: have the same person. They're like like whatever life brings us, Like,
Speaker 1: I'm there with you, I'm your partner. I mean, of
Speaker 1: course you've got to be at least happy that he's
Speaker 1: not the deal breaker. Isn't the brushing the teeth thing?
Speaker 1: Because I mean, are you married? No, I'm not, okay?
Speaker 1: What would be like? What would you think your deal
Speaker 1: breaker would be? Um, honestly, it would be honestly for me,
Speaker 1: like I feel like if if my spouse were to
Speaker 1: do anything all and they just didn't come to me
Speaker 1: and be like, hey, look I screwed up I did this.
Speaker 1: I mean kind of like with the podcast, with the
Speaker 1: gaming and everything like that, Like he was aware that
Speaker 1: he was spending the money and everything like that. But
Speaker 1: when he came to you, you felt so much better
Speaker 1: that he was just kind of like, Okay, I did
Speaker 1: this wrong, Like I feel like just honesty. You know,
Speaker 1: you can have those moments where you're like, all right,
Speaker 1: I'm really pissed and I need to walk away and
Speaker 1: think about this. But you know, if you think about
Speaker 1: it and you're like, all right, he did come to
Speaker 1: me and he was being honest, and I would much
Speaker 1: rather have that than just like have somebody else tell
Speaker 1: me that this happened. One million percent, I agree with you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: what was your name? Tori? Y'all get it over to
Speaker 1: thank you for the question and for being a avid
Speaker 1: wind Down listener. We appreciate it. Yeah, stuff right there,
Speaker 1: Yes she did. She dropped down there. You want to
Speaker 1: talk about your iPad stuff? No, never ending with this iPad?
Speaker 1: Sorry baby, So anyways, I don't. I wanted to clear
Speaker 1: that up because I didn't want people to get their
Speaker 1: wrong impression that I wouldn't fight for our marriage, because
Speaker 1: we're both fighting every day, you know, everyone in any
Speaker 1: marriage relationship, you're fighting. You're making the conscious decision to
Speaker 1: fight for your partner period, no matter what you guys
Speaker 1: have been through, even if you're in the honeymoon phase,
Speaker 1: you guys are choosing each other. And so at the
Speaker 1: end of the day, regardless of what happens, I'm still
Speaker 1: gonna decide to choose you and work through whatever comes up.
Speaker 1: Thank you. You know, what's something really cool I want
Speaker 1: to do as a takeaway too for people that are
Speaker 1: married or that you know it's not even if even
Speaker 1: if you're not married, if you're um single owner relationship.
Speaker 1: I think something's really cool that I've that we've started
Speaker 1: to do is I think it's so easy to look
Speaker 1: at your partner to say, hey, what are they doing wrong?
Speaker 1: It's what let's look in the mirror and be like,
Speaker 1: all right, what can I do? How can I be
Speaker 1: a better friend? How can I be a better spouse,
Speaker 1: How can I be a better person? How can I
Speaker 1: be a better mom? And I think that's something that
Speaker 1: I hope you buys and takeaway to, you know, bring
Speaker 1: back to your relationships and be like, all right, how
Speaker 1: can I do better? Because I know for me, I'm
Speaker 1: super passive and I'm learning how not to be passive.
Speaker 1: Shut up, Why are you smiling at me like that? Michel?
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Speaker 1: can we please bring out our first guess because um,
Speaker 1: she's she's got a lot of energy. She's all of energy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: certified badass, um, and I think she can really bring
Speaker 1: a lot to uh the conversation. So Aaron Opria please
Speaker 1: come to stay. So for those of you that don't
Speaker 1: follow me on Instagram, this is Aaron Obria. She needs
Speaker 1: her own walkout music, she really does. Um, I have
Speaker 1: it from my events. What's what's your walkout music? I know? Well,
Speaker 1: this is like how we do it. This is how
Speaker 1: we do it, singer, I mean, yeah girl. So um, okay,
Speaker 1: So Aaron is my trainer, and she's an amazing trainer.
Speaker 1: But she's also an amazing person too, which I love
Speaker 1: about her. Um, but let me just read this because
Speaker 1: I just have to. Um, you're a trainer, author and
Speaker 1: a former US marine, So thank you for your service.
Speaker 1: Thank you. Opria completed two tours of active duty in
Speaker 1: Iraq and made history when she was appointed to lead
Speaker 1: the first female platoon attached to the infantry in a
Speaker 1: war zone. Kind of crazy. How do you not have
Speaker 1: a movie about you? You know what? There was actually
Speaker 1: an author over there that wrote a book about it.
Speaker 1: What um, there's a book written, not just a whole
Speaker 1: book about it, but it was an author came from
Speaker 1: New York and wrote about it while we were there.
Speaker 1: So maybe one day we'll do a movie. But I
Speaker 1: wanted to be about dancing. What's the what do you
Speaker 1: think the biggest misconception about working out healthy diet is
Speaker 1: like for women that you're going to get big weights
Speaker 1: make you big. No, weights make pretty muscles. That's such
Speaker 1: a misconception. Jane still to this day says that, and
Speaker 1: you we've known you how long? Now? Five years? I mean,
Speaker 1: she also sets this af dringing wine. So I only
Speaker 1: listened to her this much so I will get through
Speaker 1: one day, I promise. Never ever, I'm not giving up.
Speaker 1: It's not gonna happen like she she tries. I mean
Speaker 1: she trains Carrie Underwood, Kelsey Ballerini, Maren Morris, Raylan, Lauren
Speaker 1: a Lena. I mean, you train every every but Casey
Speaker 1: musk Grave, They're awesome, Like you can't give it us
Speaker 1: in the drama like any no drama, any girls, No,
Speaker 1: everyone's BFFs. What So you had an event this morning,
Speaker 1: tell us about like what what you did there and
Speaker 1: kind of what you do as your I was like
Speaker 1: a wet dog today because it poured on our event.
Speaker 1: But it was fantastic. We all made pretty muscles. We
Speaker 1: got to do lots of lunches, squats. My husband was
Speaker 1: deejaying it. We had so much fun. What do you
Speaker 1: What do you think? Um? Because you always tell me
Speaker 1: it's not about how much I work out, It's about
Speaker 1: what I eat. And is that that's the reality of
Speaker 1: That is the absolute truth. No matter how much you try,
Speaker 1: you cannot out train a bad diet. I tried for years.
Speaker 1: I need a whole large pizza and think I can
Speaker 1: work out all week and get off. It doesn't work
Speaker 1: that way. So what is it? It's clean eating, clean eating.
Speaker 1: I always say eat clean to get lean, work out
Speaker 1: to be strong, all right, But when you say clean eating,
Speaker 1: I'm a big advocate for everything's okay in moderation. Moderation
Speaker 1: absolutely okay. So I'm not saying no, you can have
Speaker 1: a doughnut, I just don't eat a dozen of them. No, no, no,
Speaker 1: And you can still have a piece of pizza, just
Speaker 1: don't eat the whole large like I used to do
Speaker 1: out of ten pieces last night. So when Sean and
Speaker 1: I my husband, I order pizza, not now, when we
Speaker 1: used to order pizza, he'd order one for him and
Speaker 1: one for me, and then I was like, deserve wine,
Speaker 1: give it all to me. It's my cheat day. Well
Speaker 1: that takes a long time to get rid of. So
Speaker 1: now when I cheat a cheat in small portion, do
Speaker 1: you did you do you really see the difference, like
Speaker 1: when you and Sean used to do that, like have
Speaker 1: a whole pizza. Do you see the difference? Like in
Speaker 1: the mirror night and day from from the night and day.
Speaker 1: I lose one whole line on my ABS. When I
Speaker 1: do that the next day for like three days to
Speaker 1: get it back, it sucks. I'm like, damn it, I
Speaker 1: worked so hard and I was gone already. That's b s.
Speaker 1: I don't. Well, you tell me like I would have
Speaker 1: abs if I stopped drinking wine. But again, I don't
Speaker 1: care that much. I'm like, I'm a mom. It's cool,
Speaker 1: Like it's fine. I don't need to have the abbs.
Speaker 1: I'm fine with it, right, Okay, then I'd rather have
Speaker 1: my wine. I choose one day, we're not going to
Speaker 1: drink as much wine. How do you actually feel like
Speaker 1: you drink less wine now? Anyways, Well, it depends on
Speaker 1: the wasted. It was on the week too. We're in
Speaker 1: bed at seven and we're playing Uno to top it off. Okay,
Speaker 1: So that's where like it's really gone downhill for us,
Speaker 1: like massively. I was like, oh wow, it's not even
Speaker 1: eight and we're playing likes retainers in like so romantic.
Speaker 1: I have a zick cream on my face, like it's great,
Speaker 1: so hot. So Aaron, your energy is obviously very infectious
Speaker 1: and you always stay positive. What in your life do
Speaker 1: you deal with that that you struggle? It's like, okay,
Speaker 1: I really have to consciously think to stay positive in
Speaker 1: this moment. Have sex with her husband. Wait, what's that
Speaker 1: word means? That's hey, that's my husband right there. Give
Speaker 1: it up for Sean. Uh sex? Sex? That doesn't I
Speaker 1: mean I think sleep trump sex in our house? Well,
Speaker 1: actually I don't think I know it does. I was
Speaker 1: like sex once a year, who needs it more than that? No?
Speaker 1: If you have to like, that's like, do you really
Speaker 1: truly believe that? Though? Yep? Why why? Because I would
Speaker 1: rather go to sleep. I mean, I love my husband dearly.
Speaker 1: He's such a rock star. But if you're gonna say, well,
Speaker 1: you've got four hours or you I mean, it's not
Speaker 1: like it would take more than two minutes. But I mean,
Speaker 1: we haven't had sex in six months. Of god, it
Speaker 1: couldn't take too long. I'm an open book. I don't
Speaker 1: really care, so it doesn't. But I'm like, I could
Speaker 1: have two minutes more of sleep, So good night. I
Speaker 1: love By the way, though, the guys that came here,
Speaker 1: you know, with their wives, like the wives should be
Speaker 1: like see, I'm like, we're good, the we're good and
Speaker 1: you're good. I want what more do you want? You
Speaker 1: know what, Janna, I'm going to do better. You tell
Speaker 1: me all the time, every single time. Well, this is
Speaker 1: what I tell Aaron. I'm like, because I know Sean.
Speaker 1: We always talked about love languages like his you know
Speaker 1: he he likes touch, and it's just I think it
Speaker 1: would mean so much. I'm like, Aaron, go give your
Speaker 1: husband a kiss, just a kiss or a tap on
Speaker 1: the ass or something, you know, if I touched him,
Speaker 1: he's like wild in our house. No, but I mean
Speaker 1: don't like is there's like let's really get there, like
Speaker 1: is there something there that I love my husband? I
Speaker 1: seriously have the best husband. He is so good to me,
Speaker 1: so good to me, and I'm not always the best
Speaker 1: to him. You know what, I'm going to be better today.
Speaker 1: Start it's your lucky day, Sean, because hey, I'll put
Speaker 1: a heart on Instagram. Then you guys know that we
Speaker 1: did it. So if you guys see all my story tonight,
Speaker 1: a big heart were hundred. But no, I just want
Speaker 1: to compare this. We we've got a question. But I'm
Speaker 1: gonna I want to ask you this though. It is
Speaker 1: because there's so many people that say, you know, it's
Speaker 1: hard to work out. I don't have enough time in
Speaker 1: the day. You know, and you are the biggest advocate
Speaker 1: for the person that always says there is you can
Speaker 1: always find the time. You can also find the time
Speaker 1: for your for your marriage, in your relationship. You are correct.
Speaker 1: But I could do an extra devata or I could
Speaker 1: have sex. Oh my god, I think I think squats win.
Speaker 1: Do you not break a sweat when you have sex?
Speaker 1: I told you it's two minutes. I'm in better shape
Speaker 1: than that. I might have to bring sewn up for
Speaker 1: an encore later. A right, you want to come tell
Speaker 1: them about your sex? All right? We have a question
Speaker 1: right here? Um we have a Mike, Caitlin, I think,
Speaker 1: but yes you can. Fitness can be done anywhere, anytime.
Speaker 1: There's no excuses. If you have five minutes, anything is
Speaker 1: better than nothing. Too well, Hi hi hi? Um? So
Speaker 1: your husband is his love language is touch? What is yours?
Speaker 1: And acts of kindness that a service like? I love
Speaker 1: My laundry is done, my house is clean, my dishes
Speaker 1: are done. That's what I like. And he doesn't go
Speaker 1: to work and he does that for you, though, but
Speaker 1: why are you doing for him that? I suck? No,
Speaker 1: not literally, I mean I suck at being a wife,
Speaker 1: That's what I meant to say. But I dance a
Speaker 1: lot with them. I mean, what more does he want? Right? Sean? Right?
Speaker 1: But like doesn't that don't you ever feel bad about that? Though? Nope, Aaron,
Speaker 1: it's making me feel bad. Well no, but I just
Speaker 1: like I want you to know, I know, I just
Speaker 1: want you to what I keep going? No? No, I
Speaker 1: just you know I love you. You know, but when
Speaker 1: you as a friend too, would she'd be like, hey,
Speaker 1: like you're kind of being Let's say I'm being mean
Speaker 1: and people say like, hey, you're being to hard on Mike.
Speaker 1: I'm like, you're right, I have to fix that. So
Speaker 1: I promised today I'm I'm putting a heart and I'm
Speaker 1: not going to put a fake card. I mean, John,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna text you later. We're gonna textually make sure
Speaker 1: it's a lie. Two minutes. Baby, we got it. Should
Speaker 1: you all just go to the bathroom now and just
Speaker 1: do it? Oh my goodness. You always talk about having
Speaker 1: a healthy lifestyle, and I think that it's not about
Speaker 1: you know, adopted or a shirt short term effects. It's
Speaker 1: about being healthy throughout your whole life. Don't you think
Speaker 1: that you know you should take care of that in
Speaker 1: your own personal life instead of just spouting it on Instagram.
Speaker 1: I do. I do a lot of working out great comments.
Speaker 1: I do a lot of work that I think you
Speaker 1: healthy meals? What more do you want? But I wash
Speaker 1: your healthy meals were balance. Wow, this is just gotten
Speaker 1: really intense and I'm really awkward. He's the best sleep,
Speaker 1: He's so good to me, And I'm going to be
Speaker 1: better to him. A plus amen to that. So you
Speaker 1: have a four by four diet book out? Yes, what
Speaker 1: is what is it? Give us a quick recap of
Speaker 1: the book. I know this book is all about learning
Speaker 1: to live a healthy, balanced lifestyle forever. It's not a
Speaker 1: quick fix, it's not a fad diet. I want you
Speaker 1: to enjoy all the goodies and moderation. Um. I have
Speaker 1: quick workouts in there. They're called tiboda. If you guys
Speaker 1: don't know what tibada is. There four minute workouts, twenty
Speaker 1: second birst of exercise followed by ten seconds arrest for
Speaker 1: eight rounds and all the workouts you can do anywhere.
Speaker 1: Put on some good music, have some fun, eat clean,
Speaker 1: move your body lots and hey, you guys will feel amazing.
Speaker 1: That's what it's all about. How do you feel on
Speaker 1: the inside. It's not about looks. It's all about the feeling.
Speaker 1: And the more you move, the more energy had, the
Speaker 1: more you want to keep going, the more you sit,
Speaker 1: the tighter you get, the worse it gets, and you
Speaker 1: gotta break that cycle. That's what it boom all right, Um, Aaron,
Speaker 1: thank you so much for have it out here. You're
Speaker 1: the sweetest. Thank you. Yeah, do you got anything else
Speaker 1: for you had to bring out? Well, just to promote yourself?
Speaker 1: What else do you have coming out? For people that
Speaker 1: aren't here physically but listening on the podcast, Like, what
Speaker 1: do you have to promote? Where they where can they
Speaker 1: find you? Where can like? What do you have coming up? So?
Speaker 1: I have an event in l A coming up. We
Speaker 1: just did a big one for c m A Fest
Speaker 1: yesterday which was so fun. Um what else we have?
Speaker 1: We I have a new book that will be coming
Speaker 1: out towards next year sometime, but for right now by
Speaker 1: the four by four Diet, Yes perfect. Check out that
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Speaker 1: com and enter Janna. So we're gonna have her scoot
Speaker 1: down um. And then we're going to bring out our
Speaker 1: next guest, who is, um, basically a part of the fam.
Speaker 1: Now she is family. Do we want to go to
Speaker 1: the whole story? Should we? Yeah? I think they kind
Speaker 1: of know the the Avid wind Down listeners know the story,
Speaker 1: but you can tell the story for those so basically
Speaker 1: who those who don't know. So we're gonna bring out
Speaker 1: our dear friend and basically family, Like Janna said Julie Solomon,
Speaker 1: her husband is Jonathan Schick, who janna Max husband, who
Speaker 1: is also her hex ex husband. And they were our
Speaker 1: closest friends in l A. Really, and we shared a
Speaker 1: movie truck coming out here to Nashville. UM. So yeah,
Speaker 1: without further ado, here's Julie Solomon. Hey Jules, Hi, welcome
Speaker 1: to wind Down in Nashville, my hometown. I know Julius
Speaker 1: from Nashville. Um, Julie, give the crowd basically a recap
Speaker 1: of you, like what's your elevator pitch? Yeah. So I'm
Speaker 1: also in the podcast space. UM. I have a podcast
Speaker 1: called the Influencer Podcast, So I teach women how to
Speaker 1: create and grow businesses that they love and market it online.
Speaker 1: So we do that through the podcast. I have a
Speaker 1: lot of online educational courses where I teach bloggers influencers.
Speaker 1: YouTubers are those who want to be how to start
Speaker 1: their business and grow it and kill it on Instagram.
Speaker 1: I think what's cool too about Julie is that she
Speaker 1: you don't have to have a hundred thousand followers you
Speaker 1: don't have. You don't have to have fifty thousand followers
Speaker 1: you can have. I mean how much you can start
Speaker 1: making zero, start making money. Yeah, if you have an idea,
Speaker 1: if you're passionate about something deep in your bones and
Speaker 1: you want to you know, sell or market that passion
Speaker 1: to another human being on the planet, then you can
Speaker 1: create and grow business online. So it's it really does
Speaker 1: come down to that passion. But what if they like
Speaker 1: makeup and hair and skincare, elly and fitness, all those
Speaker 1: things together, can you still dor do you have to
Speaker 1: find just that one knit No, I mean the vast
Speaker 1: majority of my audience or what I call multi passionate entrepreneurs,
Speaker 1: you know, they're I love to do hair, and I
Speaker 1: also love dogs, and I love to cook, and I
Speaker 1: love this and that and this and that and so
Speaker 1: how do you kind of culminate that into one thing?
Speaker 1: And be able to market that and that really comes
Speaker 1: down to knowing who you're talking to. And you offer
Speaker 1: courses right to the people that follow you and do
Speaker 1: you take them also, do you have like one on
Speaker 1: one face times with them or do you do anything
Speaker 1: like that as well. Yeah, So we have one course
Speaker 1: called Pitch Up Perfect, So it teaches you how to
Speaker 1: get brand deals. Has anyone heard of what brand deals are?
Speaker 1: You see the bloggers talk like that for sugar ab
Speaker 1: Our hair, like that is a brand deal. And so
Speaker 1: if you're someone who wants to start doing that, I
Speaker 1: teach you how to do that and essentially pitch yourself
Speaker 1: to these brands to get in front of them. And
Speaker 1: also I will tell you this to what she told me,
Speaker 1: and I've done this. I had a fake assistant, Like
Speaker 1: I got an email and I i I was Janet Gramer,
Speaker 1: but I had came up this fake assistant named like
Speaker 1: Sarah or something, and I actually emailed these brands directly
Speaker 1: and was like, Hi, I'm just you know whatever, Valerie,
Speaker 1: I'm Valerie. Just to try to like get in front
Speaker 1: of the brand and just to talk. But even you
Speaker 1: don't have to be a basistant, like be yourself too
Speaker 1: and I've done that as well. Like I reached out
Speaker 1: to Vichy and was like, I love your clothes, I
Speaker 1: would love to work with you, and now we have
Speaker 1: a huge partnership that would have never have happened if
Speaker 1: I didn't reach out. Okay, now let me just be
Speaker 1: Devil's advocate here. So that's easy for you to do,
Speaker 1: right because you have a following, You have this famous
Speaker 1: cool girl, right, so you have you have all of that.
Speaker 1: But but somebody that isn't of celebrity status or have
Speaker 1: that kind of stuff, how do you, you know, give
Speaker 1: them the motivation to be like, hey, you're worth you
Speaker 1: know something for this company to to, you know, talk
Speaker 1: about their brand and promote it. Yeah. So I mean
Speaker 1: the package may look different, right Jana may have a
Speaker 1: massive fan base and that sort of thing, but the
Speaker 1: strategy remains the same. So you still are coming from
Speaker 1: this place of service, and that doesn't matter if you're
Speaker 1: living online or if you own a hair salon in Nashville.
Speaker 1: It really is about serving the customers, serving the brand.
Speaker 1: Coming from this place of how can I help you,
Speaker 1: how can I support you? Take the limelight off of
Speaker 1: you and really put it on the person that you're
Speaker 1: trying to build that relationship with and that's how it works.
Speaker 1: And that's like the great example that you said with
Speaker 1: Fitchie Dollars. You're like, I genuinely love your clothes. I
Speaker 1: will wear them whether you pay me to wear them.
Speaker 1: And I was not looking for a partnership. I honestly
Speaker 1: just wanted free clothes because I hate shopping. So I
Speaker 1: was just like, if you could send me clothes every
Speaker 1: month or so, that'd be amazing. And then they're like, well, no,
Speaker 1: we should do something, and I was like, little do
Speaker 1: they know, I would have done it for free, so
Speaker 1: because I love their clothes exactly. And the in the
Speaker 1: hack because a lot of times when you're first starting out,
Speaker 1: it can be really attimidate, like intimidating, right going emailing
Speaker 1: brands are going up to someone at an event and saying,
Speaker 1: you know, I really love your stuff and I would
Speaker 1: love to kind of keep the conversation open. So the
Speaker 1: hack that I gave Jana was to create this email
Speaker 1: that can be you know, assistant at sally J dot
Speaker 1: com or whatever you want to name it, but it's
Speaker 1: really you behind the scenes. But it kind of gives
Speaker 1: you that little barrier to break the ice and it
Speaker 1: doesn't feel so intimidating to reach out to brands. But again,
Speaker 1: like I still again this is just coming from a
Speaker 1: mindset of you know, I'm on the outside of this
Speaker 1: social media stuff and just thinking if someone, okay, someone
Speaker 1: started a social media account today and I was like, hey,
Speaker 1: I really love this company and I want to get
Speaker 1: involved with them, and they go to them like what
Speaker 1: do they have to offer this company when this company
Speaker 1: could get someone or pay someone or whatever to get
Speaker 1: you know, more more branding, more exposure to a water
Speaker 1: range of fans, Like, how is that worth the time
Speaker 1: for the company? Well, you have to ask, you know,
Speaker 1: the company. A lot of times you may not know.
Speaker 1: They may want to work with micro bloggers. They may
Speaker 1: want to work with someone that may be living in
Speaker 1: a smaller town. Who's who knows that they're going to
Speaker 1: tell their aunt and their cousin and their sister about
Speaker 1: a product and that that no like and trust is
Speaker 1: already built there more eyes, yes, And so it's really
Speaker 1: about a lot of times brands actually work with what
Speaker 1: is called micro influencers, which are bloggers that have less
Speaker 1: than fifty thousand followers. Sometimes now they even call them
Speaker 1: like micro micro. It's bloggers that have less than ten
Speaker 1: thousand followers because the no like and trust is built
Speaker 1: there with that audience far more than it is a
Speaker 1: macro influencer someone with hundreds of thousands of followers. I
Speaker 1: know you're working on new stuff. I know we can't
Speaker 1: tell the audience. Um. Even though we were working on
Speaker 1: the plane, which, by the way, this is really funny,
Speaker 1: we were we all flew on the same plane to
Speaker 1: last was it last Thursday? Thursday? And we started to
Speaker 1: hit turbulence and I have massive anxiety at any time,
Speaker 1: but um, like, flying is another one where I have
Speaker 1: really massive anxiety. And Julie's wanting me to read something
Speaker 1: of hers and we started to have really bad turbulence
Speaker 1: and I was like, hey, I can't read this right now,
Speaker 1: and I'm like holding her arm and then she's trying
Speaker 1: to make fun of me, and she looks at me
Speaker 1: and I was like, I'm actually really scared right now,
Speaker 1: so if you can just stop, like, and she's just like, oh, okay,
Speaker 1: like you're actually having attack right now. I was like.
Speaker 1: She was like rubbing my leg and I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: it feels nice, and she was like, no, really, it's
Speaker 1: not like rubbing her like I was, hold, I had
Speaker 1: my nails into your arms. Thanks for the massage. We
Speaker 1: have two rows on Southwest and it's it's it's Julie
Speaker 1: Jana and she had Jason arms and then John, Julie's husband,
Speaker 1: on the other side of the aisle, was me, Yeah,
Speaker 1: why are you sitting in the middle ground? I was
Speaker 1: on I was at the kids table, right, So it's me,
Speaker 1: their son, Camden, and Jolie. At one point all three
Speaker 1: of us have our iPads with their headphones on, sitting
Speaker 1: there watching our stuff. But then Janna starting to, you know,
Speaker 1: have the turbulence, and she's trying to reach across John
Speaker 1: to Mike. I'm scared. I'm like tapping John like hey, John,
Speaker 1: like you've probably been through this before, Like can you
Speaker 1: help her out? That's awesome? Oh Mic drop mine drop.
Speaker 1: And Janna was like, no, I didn't have anxiety. Then
Speaker 1: John was like, yeah, you did, and so they started
Speaker 1: having like an old relationship argument like no I didn't.
Speaker 1: I'm just like all right, they got this. I'm good
Speaker 1: with the kids. You guys deal with I'm just never
Speaker 1: heard typing away. Yeah. So we're a happy little family.
Speaker 1: It works though. But anyways, besides that, I was gonna
Speaker 1: say when I was having anxiety, I was reading something
Speaker 1: in yours and it's about you know, being positive, and
Speaker 1: again we can't say what it is, but you're always
Speaker 1: so incredibly positive. And I will always say this to
Speaker 1: Julie's she's always a person, you know, she's She's one
Speaker 1: of the main reasons why Mike and I are still
Speaker 1: together because she was. She was the one person that
Speaker 1: was like, well, you know what you have, you you
Speaker 1: have you have stuff too, and you have to you
Speaker 1: have to deal with your issues too, and you have
Speaker 1: to you know, it's you just were so you were
Speaker 1: the one friend that didn't say leave right away. You
Speaker 1: you stayed very constant and you know what, there's ripples
Speaker 1: in the water and this is you know, this is
Speaker 1: life and things come up and you just have to
Speaker 1: you have to work at it. And I was like, huh,
Speaker 1: I'm here to like a bitch about my husband, Like
Speaker 1: what do you want to get on the same train here.
Speaker 1: She's like no, She's like, it's not how it is.
Speaker 1: And and she was. She was the one that kept
Speaker 1: me kind of on the ground. But for me, it's
Speaker 1: like what makes you, you know, what what makes you
Speaker 1: not pot like is there's something that gets you down?
Speaker 1: Because I feel like you're always constantly positive. What's the
Speaker 1: one thing that's kind of like your kryptonite? I mean,
Speaker 1: I think for me it can be um. You know
Speaker 1: a lot of times they'll say maybe with drinkers it's
Speaker 1: their drinking, or with um, you know, people that work
Speaker 1: a lot, it's the it's the it's the work. For me,
Speaker 1: it's my thinking. You know, I can get really into
Speaker 1: my head with my perfectionism and my need for control
Speaker 1: and never feeling good enough and just always trying to
Speaker 1: kind of go to the next thing and not really
Speaker 1: allowing myself to be really still in president in that moment.
Speaker 1: And so what helps me stay positive is coming back
Speaker 1: to the gratitude because the more that I stay in
Speaker 1: that gratitude to be grateful for every moment that I
Speaker 1: am on this planet, for my family, for being able
Speaker 1: to be given the opportunities to continue to grow to
Speaker 1: learn more about my self, that kind of keeps me
Speaker 1: in that positive state. And I really do feel at
Speaker 1: the end of the day, it's it can be not
Speaker 1: always a choice, because I think with some people, you know,
Speaker 1: there can be mental illness that's involved, there can be
Speaker 1: chemical imbalances that that's involved. For some people, it's not
Speaker 1: always a choice to be positive, um. But for me,
Speaker 1: I at least try day in day out to start
Speaker 1: my day with gratitude and to try to try to
Speaker 1: stay in that state of positivity. So I love that.
Speaker 1: And like Janna said, you were a big part um
Speaker 1: in Janna and I honestly just remaining together at the beginning.
Speaker 1: I mean, you really were, and we appre we've always
Speaker 1: been indebted to you for that and we love you. Um.
Speaker 1: But to touch on that, I mean it's basically just realizing,
Speaker 1: you know, being grateful, like understanding what you have as
Speaker 1: opposed to complain what you don't, for sure, And I
Speaker 1: think that there's a saying that like if it's hysterical,
Speaker 1: it's historical. So if you ever see yourself getting crazy
Speaker 1: or a little like whoo whoo about something, then it's
Speaker 1: probably you're probably being triggered from something that's happened in
Speaker 1: the past. And so that's when you really have to
Speaker 1: like turn it back on yourself, like we always have
Speaker 1: a part, even if it's one per cent. And so
Speaker 1: that's why I always try now in my life of
Speaker 1: what I've learned is that whenever I'm starting to get
Speaker 1: annoyed by someone else, are frustrated or angry or whatever
Speaker 1: it is, you know, what about me is being triggered? Really? Like,
Speaker 1: what about me? Am? I annoyed with? Right now? What
Speaker 1: about me? Am? I frustrated with right now? Because really,
Speaker 1: when you're when you ever, if you spot it, you
Speaker 1: got it right. If you ever see it in someone else,
Speaker 1: it's really just a mirror and a reflection of something
Speaker 1: that you need to work on that you probably haven't
Speaker 1: gotten to the other side of yet. Dam that's good,
Speaker 1: That's real good. I Michael and I had a conversation
Speaker 1: that I just want to do this really fast before
Speaker 1: we wrap up. So ma'am and sir, so do you
Speaker 1: wanna do you want to enter this on? Yes? So
Speaker 1: basically recently Jolie has learned the effort not but fine.
Speaker 1: Right like last Jolie to do something and she'd like fine,
Speaker 1: and she ends it with the and she's three and
Speaker 1: a half. We're like it not me, I don't say fine.
Speaker 1: She got it from school. I was saying that I
Speaker 1: say whatever, whatever, it's better. So Jane and I had
Speaker 1: this discussion. It was literally just the other night. And
Speaker 1: the other night I said, Jolie, can you please go
Speaker 1: get that bird path for me? She was no, And
Speaker 1: I said, Jolie, ray, mommy asked you to help me.
Speaker 1: Can you please go get that bird path? And she
Speaker 1: was fine, and I go, excuse me, do not say
Speaker 1: that it's yes, mommy, and she and he goes, no,
Speaker 1: it's yes, ma'am. I'd say no, I say, or yes ma'am.
Speaker 1: But then you said of saying I really want the
Speaker 1: kids to say yes ma'am or yes sir. But I said,
Speaker 1: but to us, I was like, I want that for
Speaker 1: other people, but not for us. That was I feel like,
Speaker 1: for us it's so formal, and so I I want
Speaker 1: them to say yes mommy, yes daddy, But like to you,
Speaker 1: I want to say yes ma'am. And to you know,
Speaker 1: to you, I say yes like I want want her
Speaker 1: to say yes sir. But for us in the house,
Speaker 1: I was just like, for me personally, I just feel
Speaker 1: like it's a little too tight. So I was just
Speaker 1: curious what your girls as thoughts were on that. So
Speaker 1: mine was yes, sir, yes ma'am in the house, really yes.
Speaker 1: The Marine, big old Marine Corps side of it comes out.
Speaker 1: I feel like it's in respect to ye. Yeah. Growing up,
Speaker 1: my parents did the same thing, and we grew up
Speaker 1: in San Diego, or I grew up in San Diego
Speaker 1: and most people didn't do that, but my parents were
Speaker 1: really big on it on the military side of me
Speaker 1: kept it in my kids and and I feel like
Speaker 1: the way you're thinking, it might be hard to teach.
Speaker 1: What do you mean, don't use it at home, but
Speaker 1: use it everywhere else. And that's and that was exactly
Speaker 1: my point to touch on. I told Jane. I was like,
Speaker 1: you know, if we use it here and that's the standard, right,
Speaker 1: so then when they leave the house, that's the standard
Speaker 1: for them. Yes me, I mean, yes, sir, That's exactly
Speaker 1: what my point. And then maybe as they get older,
Speaker 1: when they can understand the difference, Okay, you can say yes, mommy,
Speaker 1: yes daddy, or yes, I hate yeah, yeah yeah. My
Speaker 1: kids don't say it now. I mean there's seventeen and nineteen,
Speaker 1: but they don't say yes ma'am to me. And it's
Speaker 1: different now, but when they were younger, but like my
Speaker 1: three year old Julie, like yes ma'am, yes, certainly, yes, sir.
Speaker 1: To dad, I'm just kind of like, yep, Julie, what
Speaker 1: do you think? But I mean I was raised with
Speaker 1: that too. I feel like it's a very traditional you know.
Speaker 1: I don't know if are you making him that I say, yeah,
Speaker 1: I say no sir, or yet like sometimes to him
Speaker 1: like if he does something, I'm like, no, sir, no sir, right,
Speaker 1: and I think, what do you what do you want
Speaker 1: him to say to you? Um, you know, we haven't
Speaker 1: crossed that road, but I you know, I agree with
Speaker 1: Aaron that I would absolutely want to make sure that
Speaker 1: that level of respect was given to other people. So
Speaker 1: it may need to start in the home, so he
Speaker 1: knows that that carries out outside of the home. It
Speaker 1: doesn't mean they're always going to do it perfectly in
Speaker 1: the home, but hopefully you've hashed it out enough. This
Speaker 1: is how you give respect to others that when they're
Speaker 1: not in the home, at least they do it to others.
Speaker 1: Does anyone else have that with their kids? Their kids
Speaker 1: do the yes? Yeah, do you want to Let's get
Speaker 1: to the dude over there, to the man that came
Speaker 1: to wind down, Yes, he got dragged here by his wife.
Speaker 1: He came on his own. I just would love to
Speaker 1: hear your input on this. Okay, well, what's your name, Matt, Yes,
Speaker 1: my wife Danielle. At least you're honest, Thanks dude. I
Speaker 1: was dragged here too. It's okay. Um. No. We have
Speaker 1: a three year old daughter at that at our house,
Speaker 1: and most of the time, you know, she'll say yes, mommy,
Speaker 1: yes daddy. Um. We do want a teacher respect as well,
Speaker 1: so we will say yes, sir, yes, ma'am as well. Um. Lately,
Speaker 1: it's been kind of weird because she's actually been calling
Speaker 1: us by our first names, which is so like if
Speaker 1: she's upset, she'll be like no, Matt, and I'm like
Speaker 1: hold on. So it's actually, uh, you know, she she
Speaker 1: had a little bit of a speech issue. Um, So
Speaker 1: like it's great for us just because she is saying,
Speaker 1: you know, the words, she's saying all the sentences, which
Speaker 1: is fantastic, but at the same time, like it is
Speaker 1: kind of because she'll just be like no, dam Yelle.
Speaker 1: I'm like, honey, we don't do that, and she's like fine,
Speaker 1: and she'll drop her head and like walk off into
Speaker 1: the corners. I'm like, what are you your three? How
Speaker 1: do you, how do you know how to do this? So, yeah,
Speaker 1: it's it's um. But yeah, we we do mostly get
Speaker 1: the yes sir, yes, ma'am, but we also get the
Speaker 1: yes mom, yes dad. Okay, maybe we can just like
Speaker 1: do a blend of it because I think just always
Speaker 1: like no, say yes. It's the sur thing that bothers me.
Speaker 1: Why okay, so clearly and then ma'am too, like I'm
Speaker 1: your mommy, Like I'm like, I'm your mom doing you
Speaker 1: right now? That's exactly what's put by Julie head On.
Speaker 1: It's like what's underneath of this? No, I'm just I
Speaker 1: want her to what's really going on? Get to the
Speaker 1: root of it. No, I mean yeah, daddy issues, but
Speaker 1: like not because of that, Like I mean, no, it's
Speaker 1: it's it's more just do you have an issue with authority? No,
Speaker 1: he has an issue with authority? This is true. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he doesn't like to be told what to do ever
Speaker 1: by his coaches, by his teammates, by his wife, by
Speaker 1: his Do you have had person saying you can't access
Speaker 1: this payment for me because I locked that down? This
Speaker 1: will never end um for me. It's just it's not
Speaker 1: about authority, it's about respect. And that's the way I
Speaker 1: view no certain, ma'am. And I think that's where you know,
Speaker 1: Michigan is like Michigan wants to be in the South,
Speaker 1: but they're not. And that's where Jan's from. So like
Speaker 1: the fake South. So it's like Tennessee, Virginia military. It's like,
Speaker 1: we know it's about respect. Well you didn't respect Michigan,
Speaker 1: so peace. I mean, it's country, but it is above
Speaker 1: the Mason Dixon line. Right. We never did the man
Speaker 1: and sera in Michigan, least for us. I I didn't
Speaker 1: do that. But it's still like my I would always say,
Speaker 1: like guest mom or like I. May I was very
Speaker 1: big for me. So like I still say at a restaurant,
Speaker 1: may I please have coke or a pop? You know,
Speaker 1: so you didn't do may I? See may I is
Speaker 1: that is before sir and ma'am in my book. I
Speaker 1: just think it's very you know, it's just whatever, did
Speaker 1: you have to get asked to be a dismissed from
Speaker 1: the table too? No? When I was young, yes, when
Speaker 1: I was like younger. Yes. What's funny though, when Janna
Speaker 1: talks about may I, it's really funny because when we're
Speaker 1: at a restaurant. Her managers almost too good. It's kind
Speaker 1: of annoying actually, because she's like she actually she's inconveniencing
Speaker 1: the waiter, Um, may I please have us? Like everything's
Speaker 1: like a question. I'm like, yeah, I'm sorry, may I
Speaker 1: please have some more water? It's like everything it's like
Speaker 1: you're inconvenience you You've worked in the service industry, right,
Speaker 1: so that's where I want to go get it myself
Speaker 1: and the same way I am. I always go above
Speaker 1: and beyond with anytime I'm at a restaurant because I
Speaker 1: have worked in restaurants before the same but still I
Speaker 1: know understood that I got paid to do my job.
Speaker 1: Their job is to take your order and go get it.
Speaker 1: What's I'm a damn good tipper always, but I'll tip
Speaker 1: you a penny if their services really Oh absolutely, I'll
Speaker 1: tip before what it's worth. If you need a terrible job.
Speaker 1: Terrible job? Did you hear that us weekly ear any
Speaker 1: of those run that right now? He's a bad tipper,
Speaker 1: one line out, but you have to earn it. I
Speaker 1: will say this. We have the movers coming soon, and
Speaker 1: I'm going to say there is a big fat chunk
Speaker 1: of cash in a jar that we don't have yet,
Speaker 1: but we need to get out. But it is yours
Speaker 1: if you if you do a good job, because our
Speaker 1: last mover is just broke everything and just ruined everything.
Speaker 1: So it's like if you know, you definitely want to
Speaker 1: you know, good service, yes, but he's just like at
Speaker 1: a restaurant, but you don't not tip. That's that's your
Speaker 1: that's being a little You've never done that. This is
Speaker 1: before you, Okay, because I won't let him do that,
Speaker 1: even if they're bad, I won't. I won't let him
Speaker 1: do that. Yeah, because that's still day. I had nothing
Speaker 1: to do with your It's nothing to do with you.
Speaker 1: What's why on inside of you? Right now? Michael? What's
Speaker 1: let's reflect about me. It's about them regardless of if
Speaker 1: you if you had a bad day right now, right
Speaker 1: you just stop the show here and do your job. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: what's the difference, and you get paid to do a
Speaker 1: job regardless. You have to leave your personal stuff to
Speaker 1: the side. To the side. Our personal stuf is our business.
Speaker 1: Are you guys? For Aaron and Julian, Thank you guys.
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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, we got some questions. We're gonna do a
Speaker 1: little bit Q and we've got like five more minutes
Speaker 1: until you know, do you want to pick first? You me,
Speaker 1: I just moved to Nashville. Favorite things to do, recommendations
Speaker 1: around the city. Motto is one of my favorite restaurants,
Speaker 1: So if you guys are in town, that's a really
Speaker 1: good restaurant. I love that. Fith and Taylor that's actually
Speaker 1: right around the corner is incredible. Um oh you go ahead,
Speaker 1: Uh yeah, Fifth and Taylor is actually one of our
Speaker 1: favorites right here in the corner. And the first time
Speaker 1: we were going to Fifth and Taylor, Janna said, hey,
Speaker 1: we're Fifth and Taylor and I said, um, I think
Speaker 1: it's on fifth and Taylor. So that was a good
Speaker 1: That was a good you in a moment um, What
Speaker 1: was the hardest part of adjusting from one one kid
Speaker 1: to two? If it? That was probably the hardest transition
Speaker 1: Mike and I ever had, was transitioning transitioning from one
Speaker 1: to two, because it was you don't have a second
Speaker 1: at all. Yep. She's like, m it's hard. You think
Speaker 1: you think it's not gonna be that bad because it's like,
Speaker 1: all right, you get one, I get one, but then
Speaker 1: you forget about all those times where it's like, hey,
Speaker 1: can you take Jolie for a little bit so I
Speaker 1: can shower, so I can do this or that, And
Speaker 1: now it's just we feel bad doing that to one
Speaker 1: another because get two kids and it's not easy to both.
Speaker 1: When he first met, what was the first thing you
Speaker 1: noticed about each other that you liked? Kevin from Indiana?
Speaker 1: Thanks Kevin. Uh, I loved his smile. Um, and then
Speaker 1: he um, he felt like home, which I know it
Speaker 1: sounds really corny, but you did. Um. For me, it
Speaker 1: was her authenticity. Um, just meeting somebody and who was
Speaker 1: known enough celebrity status and just had such a good
Speaker 1: time with her, and it was so genuine and so real.
Speaker 1: And Uh. The fact that she had two other guys
Speaker 1: lined up that day but then chose me over them
Speaker 1: was also a winner. Two. That's also a true story.
Speaker 1: I had to make sure I had some backup, you know,
Speaker 1: I mean Chicago. I'm in a big city. I needed
Speaker 1: to have, you know. But and I was the first
Speaker 1: of three, and I stuck around. This is actually an
Speaker 1: interesting question too. How do you decide where to draw
Speaker 1: the line on what you share about in the podcast.
Speaker 1: Do you ever disagree on what should be shared and
Speaker 1: what should be kept personal? Kaylee from Texas, good question.
Speaker 1: We have one thing we don't talk about, um, which
Speaker 1: is details and specifics around everything around um, the affairs.
Speaker 1: We do not talk about it. Um. Yeah, So that's
Speaker 1: the one thing. Everything else we kind of everything else.
Speaker 1: Everything else we're pretty open. But there are things, you know,
Speaker 1: we don't talk about. His family of origin, my family
Speaker 1: of origin sides. We touch on it, but just out
Speaker 1: of respect for our families and stuff too, not to
Speaker 1: get into the weeds of how they screwed us up. No,
Speaker 1: it's not that. It's just because we we've chosen to
Speaker 1: live publicly, so it's it's unfair to bring people in
Speaker 1: that haven't chosen that life. So we don't want to
Speaker 1: do that, all right, Um, we so appreciate you guys
Speaker 1: coming here. UM, thank you so much to my heart,
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Speaker 1: super excited that you guys came here to wind down
Speaker 1: with US, So see you next Monday. I guess right.
Speaker 1: That's right. Thank you guys,