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Speaker 1: Give me your money to fix my car. What it's

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Speaker 1: only your college fund?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, come on, just give up on all your dreams

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Speaker 2: so I can have a sick ride.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't need education. How about this fucking room

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Speaker 1: room Come in. Me female twenty two and this guy,

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Speaker 1: male twenty seven. Paul have been going out on a

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Speaker 1: few dates for two months. We met on Tinder. We

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Speaker 1: really like each other, but we haven't officially started dating yet,

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Speaker 1: so I don't call him my boyfriend, and by in

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Speaker 1: vice versa, we're still getting to know each other and

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Speaker 1: the things and the things that we love and hate.

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Speaker 2: Mm hmmm.

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Speaker 1: So for the past couple of weeks, he's been sending

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Speaker 1: me picks of his car that has been sitting in

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Speaker 1: the mechanic his cousin's shop for weeks.

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Speaker 2: I definitely said, thought you were gonna say cock. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I thought it was fucking so long. I've been moving

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Speaker 2: back to his old baby. Come on, my bes, it's.

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Speaker 1: Like a delivered these salami bax is.

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Speaker 2: Somebody's got to do it.

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Speaker 1: He went on and on about what needs fixing and

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Speaker 1: made a long list and calculated the total and then

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Speaker 1: sent me a screenshot. I looked at it, wondering, what

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Speaker 1: the heck does this have to do with me?

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Speaker 2: Why are you saying in me?

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Speaker 1: He told me about his financial hard trip at the

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Speaker 1: moment and asked if I could help pay for his

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Speaker 1: car to get it fixed quickly, they will be able

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Speaker 1: to take me on the road trip, he promised. I

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Speaker 1: felt uncomfortable because the money he was talking about was

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Speaker 1: around two and a half thousand dollars and I don't

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Speaker 1: have that kind of money on hand. He brought up

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Speaker 1: my college fund and.

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Speaker 3: Suggested I skip one semester and you know, and he

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Speaker 3: assured me he'll pay me back on time and then

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Speaker 3: I only have to skip one semester and that's it.

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Speaker 2: Just get alone, you fucking idiot. Bro, Are you that

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Speaker 2: fucking stupid she's skipped alone? You're telling her to put

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Speaker 2: her whole life on call for you semester for you

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Speaker 2: to have your car to give you.

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Speaker 1: A road trip ride a bus. Yeah. I also, it's like,

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Speaker 1: I want to get this car fixed for you, babe,

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Speaker 1: so I can get tick you on that road trip.

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Speaker 2: Classic.

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Speaker 1: Like, Bro, you know what the better gift is not

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Speaker 1: asking for two and a half thousand dollars THINGO. I

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Speaker 1: was shocked that he brought that up. I don't know

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Speaker 1: how he doesn't know how important college is for me,

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Speaker 1: but he assured me that it pay me back on time,

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Speaker 1: and I guess I just have to skip one semester.

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Speaker 1: But I asked for time to think about it, but

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Speaker 1: he kept calling me, and I decided to just give

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Speaker 1: a plight no. He asked me why, and I told

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Speaker 1: him it's because my education is my priority and I

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Speaker 1: can't handle skipping one semester, even if it's just one.

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Speaker 2: Dude, is totally reasonable. That is the most reasonable thing

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Speaker 2: on the planet.

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Speaker 1: Also because like school like stacks right, and so that

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Speaker 1: the class that you took last semester is building blocks

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Speaker 1: for the next semester. So if you skip to one semester,

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Speaker 1: it's like you're gonna forget a lot of the information.

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Speaker 1: That such a good point. Wow. He hung up on me,

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Speaker 1: saying he needed time, then texted me saying that I

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Speaker 1: did not show support after he made himself open and

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Speaker 1: vulnerable and I chose money over him by refusing to

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Speaker 1: lend it to him, and that he is struggling and

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Speaker 1: in need and that didn't matter to me.

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Speaker 2: I am flored. I am absolutely florid.

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Speaker 1: I felt really guilty and I started calling him, but

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Speaker 1: he texted me saying he might respond when I make

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Speaker 1: room for a compromise. Am I the a hole for

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Speaker 1: refusing to pay?

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Speaker 2: This is maybe the biggest You're not the a hole

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Speaker 2: of all time?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, stay in school, kids, stay in school, please,