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Speaker 1: Hello, Hello, this is George and I am calling oh Angelina's.

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Speaker 1: This is a quick reminder that if you're in Los

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Speaker 1: Angeles the week after Thanksgiving, I will be running my

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Speaker 1: new hour of stand up on Wednesday, November twenty ninth

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Speaker 1: at the beautiful Allegian Theater and I will be also

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Speaker 1: joined by two very special guests, Stradio Lab favorites Nori

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Speaker 1: I did a version of this hour in Brooklyn right

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Speaker 1: honestly one of the best nights of my life. So

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Speaker 1: I'm excited to see how it will be received in

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Speaker 1: Los Angeles. Maybe you guys will hate it, and that

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Speaker 1: is okay because you know what, knowing that also has

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Speaker 1: you are in LA on Wednesday, November twenty ninth, come

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Speaker 1: the link for tickets is get this Allisiontheater dot com

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Speaker 1: slash shows slash George.

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Speaker 2: I mean, how sheik that?

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 1: See you there, enjoy the app.

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Speaker 3: Bye. Podcast starts. Now what is up everyone? We are

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Speaker 3: coming at you live from a few weeks in the past.

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Speaker 2: Right, we both have bright pink smoothie bursting through our veins.

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Speaker 3: If you can sense a calm within us is because

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Speaker 3: we have had a fourteen dollars smoothie and we are

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Speaker 3: about fifty percent through it.

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Speaker 2: Are you do you sense a calm? Because I feel

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Speaker 2: like this has there's something in here that's not doing

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Speaker 2: good things for me.

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Speaker 3: Well, mine is called a power shit.

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Speaker 2: There's some sort of artificial sweetener and it's not Stevie.

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Speaker 3: I you're right, I actually don't feel calm at all.

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Speaker 3: And well, I think I feel gjitterary. I feel like

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Speaker 3: I'm on drugs, drugs. I think the biggest issue was

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Speaker 3: that to be two gay guys in midtown ordering smoothies

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Speaker 3: pink ones by the way, pink smoothies, and chit chatting

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Speaker 3: about our little nights. It was I felt judged, I

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Speaker 3: felt vulnerable. I felt not cool.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, everyone that was walking past us, we'd say, don't

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Speaker 2: listen to this, he's walking mister.

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Speaker 3: What I did last night is my business.

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Speaker 2: I spat my pink smooth right at three people in

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Speaker 2: a row.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, you're on the local news.

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Speaker 2: I actually had to order five smoothies because I kept

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Speaker 2: pouring them over. He spent upwards of one hundred dollar

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Speaker 2: hours of one hundred dollars, I kept pouring my pink

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Speaker 2: smoothie on innocent pastors by who were trying to ask

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Speaker 2: us where to go to get the subway.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Well, and I do want to say I don't

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Speaker 3: feel calm, for sure, there are drugs in here, but

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Speaker 3: I do feel less bad, if that makes sense.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, well it's drugs. That's sort of what drugs do.

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Speaker 2: They make you not feel good but feel less bad.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm feeling numb to something.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, there's also something about we won't dox the

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Speaker 2: company that made these smoothies. But let's just say it's

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Speaker 2: not an independent mom and pop shop. It is very

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Speaker 2: much a international conglomerate that's potentially owned by the United

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Speaker 3: I mean, but that is actually the most comforting part.

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Speaker 2: Really, So you are to me.

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Speaker 3: I saw that, and I said, this will be completely

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Speaker 3: middle of the road in a way that will be good.

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Speaker 2: Oh, you like having little expectations, so then you can't

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it actually was more expensive than I thought, because

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Speaker 3: I was like, they sell these in Michigan. Like I

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Speaker 3: was like, who in Ohio can afford this? Right?

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Speaker 2: Right? I mean, let's talk about the fact that a

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Speaker 2: smoothie and or shake is never actually as satisfying as

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Speaker 2: you want it to be, and by the time you're done,

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Speaker 2: you actually feel disgusting, even if it is branded as

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Speaker 2: a health drink.

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Speaker 3: Well, and they all try. How about if you're opening

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Speaker 3: a new smoothie place, here's what I want you to do.

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Speaker 3: Lean into the fact that it is unhealthy. Make it

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Speaker 3: the McDonald's of smoothies, make the dairy Queen of smoothies.

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Speaker 2: Just you want a milkshake of vanilla milkshake.

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Speaker 3: I just want them to be like, it's not about

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Speaker 2: There is something so dishonest about it. Also, stop putting

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Speaker 2: I mean? It's all like chemicals and minerals. You're like, no,

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Speaker 2: I'm you like the fake ingredients.

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Speaker 3: I'm still you're working from a space of knowing that

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Speaker 3: willing to accept that fact too.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So what do you think it is.

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Speaker 3: I think it's all natural.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I.

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Speaker 3: Think we're dealing with sort of unpasteurized milk. I think

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Speaker 3: we're dealing with berries that were picked in upstate New York.

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Speaker 2: Well, I'll tell you one thing that's in your favor

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Speaker 2: is that it is actively decomposing in front of our

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Speaker 2: bright pink. I would say I could sense a potential

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because they're just so that they are going bad

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Speaker 3: faster than you can drink them.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Wow, that is really interesting. And I just got

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Speaker 2: food poisoning. Actually, that's how I know.

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Speaker 3: That's how very good. Huh huh.

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Speaker 2: Okay, do you think there's any snack that could ever

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Speaker 3: You know what snack I I've never actually eaten, but

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Speaker 3: think could be fun to get into. Yeah, beef turkey. Huh.

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Speaker 3: I've never in my life something about it. It was

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Speaker 2: I really think the only and this is a liberal

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Speaker 2: use of the term snack because I'm about to mention

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Speaker 2: a drink, the only thing that could ever actually cause

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Speaker 2: the disappointment. You think, if it's candy, you think it's

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Speaker 2: good if it's something, if it's like a nice meal,

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Speaker 2: you end up spending five hundred seventy dollars. It okay,

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Speaker 2: there's something about the clarity of a die coke at

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Speaker 3: I have one, what my favorite snack? Ready, peanuts just

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Speaker 3: on their own. Yeah, I'm am I being insane.

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Speaker 2: You're crying.

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Speaker 3: I'm being persecuted. I'm being more persecuted for liking peanuts

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Speaker 2: Wait, so so you mean because you know my actually

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Speaker 2: second choice would have been chocolate, Sorry, peanut M and m's.

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Speaker 2: You had a movie too. I know I don't diet coke.

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Speaker 3: That is sweet yeah.

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Speaker 2: No, I actually think in my normal life, if I'm

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Speaker 2: Like I'm a savory queen. I don't want I would

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Speaker 2: never sit down and have like like gummy worms.

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Speaker 3: Sure, but but but chips do. They don't stick in

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Speaker 3: your stomach. You know, you need you need some protein.

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Speaker 2: What it's not a meal. I'm not putting them in

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Speaker 3: Are you not hungry?

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Speaker 2: It's a snack? Wait, so so this is a do

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Speaker 2: you think peanut? Oh, because peanuts have protein? You think

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Speaker 3: because I am hungry.

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Speaker 2: you know, I'll say this actually my favorite snack. Doing

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Speaker 2: a little I mean it's what now the kids are

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Speaker 2: calling girl calling girltener. I'm afraid, but it's like to

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Speaker 2: do a little little cold cuts, little sliced carri cucumber.

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Speaker 3: Board.

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Speaker 2: Let me tell you something. Take some yogurt. Literally put

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Speaker 2: dylan it the end. It's already ranch.

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Speaker 3: You are addicted to yogurt, it's sickening.

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Speaker 2: Well, it's my heritage that sort of all we have.

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Speaker 2: Our economy is in shambles, and ancient Greece was many

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Speaker 3: That's true. Well you have bay Case, You'll always have Nikanos.

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Speaker 2: That's true. We'll always have meconoes. Okay, So I think

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Speaker 2: we have explored a lot.

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Speaker 3: I think we have proven that we've never been on

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Speaker 2: Our smoothies are growing mold as we speak because of

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Speaker 3: There are bugs in them. There are bugs in them. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Do you think we should bring in our guest.

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Speaker 3: She said, scrap what you've been up to?

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Speaker 2: She said, she said, first of all, shut up.

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Speaker 3: Well, and it was beautiful because it was like, respectfully,

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Speaker 2: No, and actually we have talk about Okay, wait, please

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Speaker 2: welcome Yamanica Sanders. Hello, Hi, Well, Yaminica. Actually, I'm obsessed

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Speaker 2: with one thing you did, which is you came in

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Speaker 2: Never have I seen anyone be nicer, smiling, hugging like

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I the way I enter is uh is up

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Speaker 4: people to absolutely men hate me for a lot of reasons.

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Speaker 5: I'm an independent, smart woman. I know it, I know, but.

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Speaker 2: You just start just dropping things.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but I was very interested in the conversation. Although

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Speaker 4: I have micro produced this podcast and hopefully taking it

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Speaker 4: away from the way you guys pitched it. I got

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Speaker 4: obsessed with gummy worms. Let me just say this out

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Speaker 4: of nowhere. Out of nowhere, I just was addicted to

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Speaker 4: the gummy worms. The gummy like the gummies that have

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Speaker 5: So I was obsessed. So I was just in Vegas.

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Speaker 4: I went to seven eleven, probably seven eleven times, like

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Speaker 4: And I've been putting in aggressive orders against my trainers.

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Speaker 4: My trainer took door Dash and Instacart and Uber Eats

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Speaker 3: Well, I have lived in.

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Speaker 4: And probably because I had one of these smoothies that

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Speaker 5: Still sucking on it like you think it's real.

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Speaker 5: None of it's real, not none of it.

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Speaker 3: No. But they have the berries on the shelf and

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Speaker 5: The berries there for people like you that are like, oh,

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Speaker 4: There, and like the first thing I would think is

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Speaker 5: And they not using the berries. I'm no, they're not

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Speaker 4: And then you have like this weird innocence, like you

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Speaker 3: I mean I actually feel that way about pot No.

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Speaker 4: But it is like like I now know the decisions

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Speaker 4: okay through Uber Eats, Okay, going this is this is

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Speaker 5: The Bronx to my house.

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Speaker 4: You know, things that don't make any sense, like chicken

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Speaker 4: they shouldn't have except don't Why do you have? Why

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Speaker 4: When I went to ninety nine six Jacks, Yes, there

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Speaker 4: go to ninety nine cent Jacks, okay, because I didn't save. Well,

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Speaker 4: I went into ninety nine cent Jacks. They got a

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Speaker 5: I saved my man.

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Speaker 4: You know, we went to and it all worked, and

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Speaker 4: I'm like, oh you picking up this, everybody in the

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Speaker 4: they starting to at least at tends something, So you

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Speaker 4: stee what I'm saying, Yeah, right.

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Speaker 2: It is true. It really does all that up its

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Speaker 4: Listen, I was, and then also was so defiant that

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Speaker 4: This doesn't make any sense to me. And I know

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Speaker 4: make no damn sense. Now I'm telling you why I

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Speaker 5: I'm not in that right now. Right, I'm still a student.

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Speaker 5: I haven't lapped on anything and said this is my

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Speaker 4: Right, So this is not my path, this is not correct, right,

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Speaker 5: A lot of time sassy pants.

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Speaker 4: Sassy Pants was on the thing demerit and Marya's a

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Speaker 4: merit because I wasn't going for the foolishness. Now, what

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Speaker 4: I will tell you is this, as so point in time,

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Speaker 5: Right.

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Speaker 4: I looked like a bitch that was brought up in

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Speaker 5: Right, I don't know what it is. One minute with Chicago,

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Speaker 4: You know they said, oh it's Alabama? Really, so where

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Speaker 4: it's popping off right now? That's where I look like

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Speaker 4: I came from. I came from the suburbs of Maryland,

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Speaker 4: can be any more surbs of Maryland, of Aberdeen, Maryland.

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Speaker 4: There were zero people there. We used to go to

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Speaker 4: the graveyard just to have fun, do you understand, Because

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Speaker 4: that's where all the motherfuckers was.

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Speaker 5: They dead, so boring.

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Speaker 4: Upbringing cow pastures the whole and there was a part

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Speaker 4: of me that said this is not I cannot live

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Speaker 5: You understand.

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Speaker 4: And I shook it off and I learned. I learned

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Speaker 4: how to be a predator.

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Speaker 5: Oh can you understand?

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Speaker 2: So what are your predating?

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Speaker 3: What's your prey?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Who's your prey?

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Speaker 4: So let me tell you something. I am a predator.

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Speaker 4: I've learned to be a predator so that I know

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Speaker 4: so that I can predatorize.

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Speaker 2: Oh, you identify as a predator, but you're not practicing.

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Speaker 4: I can see a predator and understand how a predator works.

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Speaker 4: When I told you. When I came in here and

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Speaker 4: instantly I've clocked a man that has watched me walk

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Speaker 5: Okay, of course, fuck is this bitch? Come on?

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Speaker 4: He's thinking something something's going on with me? Or I

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Speaker 4: got good buzzy is right now, I'm clocking him. Right,

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Speaker 4: he doesn't know I'm clocking him because I'm not gonna

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Speaker 5: I'm clocking him.

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Speaker 2: Thinks you have ever noticed.

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Speaker 4: Anything like Mary Tyler Moore, Like, I just got to

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Speaker 4: New York City. I get what's happening here. So when

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Speaker 4: I live here? Beat it right? Yeah, you got a

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Speaker 4: new chick, right? You thought you little like La God,

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Speaker 4: I'm looking for that beat it?

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Speaker 5: I live here.

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Speaker 4: And then he goes, well, I just see you. You're

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Speaker 4: looking around. I know where I am. I know exactly

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Speaker 4: where I am. Huh, you want me to be an

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Speaker 4: an innocent victim here?

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Speaker 5: Right?

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Speaker 4: So all of a sudden, you're gonna ask me to

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Speaker 4: get in your van or I just tell your coup No, you'

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Speaker 4: ain't gonna take me nowhere, not unless I want to go.

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Speaker 4: And then if I want to go, I'm driving your van.

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Speaker 5: You understand what I'm saying. So you have to learn

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Speaker 4: Sometimes Hey, you make a misstep because which street I

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Speaker 4: where I'm at. He said, you actually two blocks away

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Speaker 4: from now. I said, okay, you know what Sometimes it

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Speaker 4: I also didn't go buy a fourteen dollars smoothie and pretend.

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Speaker 5: That this shit was made out of real fruit. The

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Speaker 5: more we talk about it, the worst.

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Speaker 4: The worst we talk about this smoothie, the more your

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Speaker 5: Got to have it.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god. I mean, imagine talking about this movie

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Speaker 3: and not taking yourself.

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Speaker 2: Well, you know what I did. You know what I did,

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Speaker 2: which is even worse than Sam, And I'm gonna come

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Speaker 2: out and say it. Sam got the smithy Okay, he

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Speaker 2: I did, got the equivalent one from the vegan menu

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Speaker 2: not a vegan. I said, Oh, he has vanilla milk.

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Speaker 2: Mine has coconut milk. I'm gonna live forever. Yeah, And

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Speaker 2: that is actually dumber than thinking it's made of real fruit.

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Speaker 4: Well, listen, milk milk come from cows that we ain't

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Speaker 4: got no business having no.

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Speaker 5: Milk milk from them. You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 4: I'm saying that's like me going to your house, going, hey,

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Speaker 4: can your mom breastfeed me?

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Speaker 5: It don't make sense.

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Speaker 4: But at the same time, Coconut also got this shit right.

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Speaker 4: Not everything is completely flawless. It's good in whatever it's in.

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Speaker 5: But here's the thing.

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Speaker 4: Go into something and know that you going into something

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Speaker 4: because you really want to go into something, and not

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Speaker 4: to try to make the aesthetic of everything look good. Right,

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Speaker 4: And I have a bone to pick with these vegans.

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Speaker 4: I listened. One thing is giving. I said something on

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Speaker 4: Comedy Central about to furky.

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Speaker 5: Or whatever the hell they be eating that.

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Speaker 4: Why are you even making it sound like it's a

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Speaker 5: They went rogue because.

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Speaker 4: They don't eat a lot and they hungry because they

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Speaker 4: had a falling out, so I don't have no problem

442
00:20:24,359 --> 00:20:26,320
Speaker 4: falling out with them, because they also not that strong,

443
00:20:26,400 --> 00:20:29,320
Speaker 4: because they are hungry all the time. And I'm gonna

444
00:20:29,320 --> 00:20:31,879
Speaker 4: get flat for that, because like we're very strong we do. Yeah, okay,

445
00:20:31,880 --> 00:20:33,280
Speaker 4: all right, go and eat your carrot.

446
00:20:33,680 --> 00:20:36,439
Speaker 2: Well, you saying that your favorite peanuts is very vegan.

447
00:20:36,560 --> 00:20:42,240
Speaker 4: To me, No peanuts is peanuts isntly throw boring. No,

448
00:20:42,359 --> 00:20:45,159
Speaker 4: because my grandparents that's what that was. They they are

449
00:20:45,200 --> 00:20:47,200
Speaker 4: you from Sumter, South Carolina.

450
00:20:46,800 --> 00:20:50,200
Speaker 3: Timinsville, Leston, South Carolina.

451
00:20:54,440 --> 00:20:55,360
Speaker 5: There's a South.

452
00:20:55,160 --> 00:20:57,840
Speaker 4: Carolina think that's what they love peanuts in South Carolina.

453
00:20:57,920 --> 00:21:01,000
Speaker 4: My grandparents would eat peanuts. They would to lexingdon Market,

454
00:21:01,280 --> 00:21:04,240
Speaker 4: get two big bags of peanuts two for five and

455
00:21:04,280 --> 00:21:06,000
Speaker 4: a pepsi or coke.

456
00:21:06,680 --> 00:21:10,159
Speaker 2: To me, I'm like, almonds is the default, you know.

457
00:21:10,200 --> 00:21:12,840
Speaker 2: I'm like President Obama, I have seven almonds as a snack,

458
00:21:13,320 --> 00:21:19,960
Speaker 2: whereas I would never do that with peanuts. Please respond?

459
00:21:20,760 --> 00:21:21,360
Speaker 5: Is this the thing?

460
00:21:21,520 --> 00:21:22,600
Speaker 3: Oh? Yeah, President?

461
00:21:23,040 --> 00:21:25,160
Speaker 2: Am I making that up? There was like some interviewer.

462
00:21:25,160 --> 00:21:27,000
Speaker 2: He was like, as a snack, will have seven seven

463
00:21:27,040 --> 00:21:30,600
Speaker 2: almends and and also like supermodels do it too?

464
00:21:30,800 --> 00:21:31,040
Speaker 3: Yeah?

465
00:21:31,160 --> 00:21:33,280
Speaker 4: Can I just make I don't like to blow the

466
00:21:33,359 --> 00:21:36,040
Speaker 4: behind the scenes. Sure, but this is how I know

467
00:21:36,119 --> 00:21:40,440
Speaker 4: y'all crazy, right, because instantly you said this wild ass fact.

468
00:21:40,800 --> 00:21:42,960
Speaker 4: Homeboy over here was like, yep, this is how they

469
00:21:42,960 --> 00:21:44,960
Speaker 4: get there. And I felt the heat from him over here.

470
00:21:45,600 --> 00:21:47,280
Speaker 4: The brother like, let me get on my.

471
00:21:47,280 --> 00:21:49,600
Speaker 5: Phone because I'm tired of them with this nonsense.

472
00:21:49,640 --> 00:21:52,520
Speaker 4: And he felt so comfortable because he likes another black

473
00:21:52,560 --> 00:21:54,600
Speaker 4: person that here today, she gonna hand it. I can

474
00:21:54,680 --> 00:21:56,280
Speaker 4: take a break, but brother, I want you to take

475
00:21:56,280 --> 00:21:59,359
Speaker 4: your black history off, break from the nonsense today. You

476
00:21:59,400 --> 00:22:02,080
Speaker 4: hear me because I felt the comfort I said. Okay,

477
00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:07,280
Speaker 4: he used to this unannies. Okay, imagine I already know

478
00:22:07,359 --> 00:22:08,760
Speaker 4: y'all run him through the car. And let me tell

479
00:22:08,800 --> 00:22:11,080
Speaker 4: you something. If y'all don't get him a gift on Juneteenth,

480
00:22:11,280 --> 00:22:14,119
Speaker 4: I'm a prop okay, because he dodn'et been put up

481
00:22:14,119 --> 00:22:15,120
Speaker 4: with a whole bunch of ship.

482
00:22:15,160 --> 00:22:15,800
Speaker 5: I'm telling you.

483
00:22:15,960 --> 00:22:18,359
Speaker 2: I'm telling y'all we got him a really beautiful nut

484
00:22:18,400 --> 00:22:20,080
Speaker 2: mix from from freshtant.

485
00:22:20,440 --> 00:22:22,600
Speaker 5: No, no, don't get him nothing basic like that.

486
00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:26,320
Speaker 4: You go find one of the damn vibraniums in Wakanda

487
00:22:26,359 --> 00:22:27,440
Speaker 4: and bring it back to him.

488
00:22:27,520 --> 00:22:31,359
Speaker 2: Don't believe it is a known fact that that President

489
00:22:31,440 --> 00:22:32,080
Speaker 2: Barack Obama.

490
00:22:32,240 --> 00:22:36,639
Speaker 4: Nobody knows that it's not crazy ass white people that

491
00:22:36,800 --> 00:22:41,679
Speaker 4: got way invested in President Obama for no reason at all.

492
00:22:42,040 --> 00:22:44,720
Speaker 5: That you know he has seven almonds.

493
00:22:45,920 --> 00:22:50,119
Speaker 3: Oh my god, you know we needed that. We needed that.

494
00:22:50,240 --> 00:22:53,320
Speaker 4: You need you do You need a Reprimand really, people

495
00:22:53,359 --> 00:22:55,320
Speaker 4: have been so nice to us because now they're coming

496
00:22:55,359 --> 00:22:59,680
Speaker 4: to the studio and thank you think and it's like no, no, no,

497
00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:01,440
Speaker 4: we need to be yelled at.

498
00:23:01,880 --> 00:23:03,960
Speaker 2: And I actually told sounds like yaw mania comes. I

499
00:23:04,000 --> 00:23:05,040
Speaker 2: want her to get mad at us.

500
00:23:05,359 --> 00:23:08,160
Speaker 5: Here's the thing, and this is where people get it confused.

501
00:23:08,240 --> 00:23:11,679
Speaker 4: Yeah, the people that are nice to you just for

502
00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:13,920
Speaker 4: the sake of being nice actually don't even love you.

503
00:23:14,400 --> 00:23:17,120
Speaker 4: It's the people that will say, I'm not mad at you.

504
00:23:17,760 --> 00:23:19,920
Speaker 4: I want you to know how crazy.

505
00:23:19,480 --> 00:23:22,600
Speaker 5: This shit is, you see it, right, So I can only.

506
00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:25,840
Speaker 4: Do it by making myself look crazy so you can

507
00:23:25,880 --> 00:23:27,679
Speaker 4: have an imprint or crazy like that.

508
00:23:27,720 --> 00:23:30,280
Speaker 2: I'm looking at you like why you know this is

509
00:23:30,320 --> 00:23:31,960
Speaker 2: actually I think about this all the time. It goes.

510
00:23:32,040 --> 00:23:34,440
Speaker 2: One time, during the only period of my life I've

511
00:23:34,440 --> 00:23:37,000
Speaker 2: been in therapy, I would describe things my mom, with

512
00:23:37,080 --> 00:23:38,960
Speaker 2: my Greek mother would say to me, and then the

513
00:23:39,080 --> 00:23:42,040
Speaker 2: like white American therapists would be like looking at me

514
00:23:42,080 --> 00:23:44,320
Speaker 2: as though they were back, and I'm like, no, she's

515
00:23:44,400 --> 00:23:46,600
Speaker 2: like looking out for me by being very mean to me.

516
00:23:47,600 --> 00:23:49,919
Speaker 4: Well, you can't ask white people from South Carolina and

517
00:23:49,920 --> 00:23:52,440
Speaker 4: shit like that, because here's the thing, right, how many

518
00:23:52,480 --> 00:23:57,480
Speaker 4: times do your grandmother go upside your head? I mean

519
00:23:58,320 --> 00:24:00,920
Speaker 4: never okay, exactly. You know, body when up side your head,

520
00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:02,600
Speaker 4: that's why you think the world is still made a

521
00:24:02,600 --> 00:24:05,879
Speaker 4: real fruit. The reality is when you get somebody to

522
00:24:05,880 --> 00:24:08,120
Speaker 4: go upside your head right away you say, oh, well,

523
00:24:08,280 --> 00:24:12,240
Speaker 4: guess what is reality. I'm the sweetest person. I'm loving.

524
00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:16,080
Speaker 4: I'm so empathic. Do you understand? Like sometimes that's why

525
00:24:16,080 --> 00:24:19,280
Speaker 4: I gotta distance myself for people, because I feel people's pain.

526
00:24:19,600 --> 00:24:21,679
Speaker 4: I'm the person going to if I got one hundred dollars,

527
00:24:21,840 --> 00:24:23,520
Speaker 4: I'm gonna give it to the homeless person because because

528
00:24:23,560 --> 00:24:25,439
Speaker 4: I can't make change, that's who I am. I have

529
00:24:25,520 --> 00:24:28,359
Speaker 4: to protect myself from being like that. You understand what

530
00:24:28,520 --> 00:24:31,840
Speaker 4: protected me was going? Real reality is a little bit

531
00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:34,479
Speaker 4: of my grandfather saying people who are on the streets

532
00:24:34,520 --> 00:24:38,000
Speaker 4: are playing a game, right uh, and me going that

533
00:24:38,040 --> 00:24:41,439
Speaker 4: can't be true for everyone, understanding that he knows people hustle.

534
00:24:41,520 --> 00:24:43,199
Speaker 4: I didn't know that people hustle. So now I know

535
00:24:43,240 --> 00:24:47,160
Speaker 4: that people hustle. But also let me not put myself out,

536
00:24:47,400 --> 00:24:50,280
Speaker 4: but also let me not be judged. If I have

537
00:24:50,560 --> 00:24:53,240
Speaker 4: a little cash to give someone to go, do you

538
00:24:53,400 --> 00:24:53,760
Speaker 4: need it?

539
00:24:54,000 --> 00:24:54,880
Speaker 5: I have it.

540
00:24:54,880 --> 00:24:58,439
Speaker 4: Extra to give you, you can have it. It's reality and

541
00:24:58,480 --> 00:25:01,679
Speaker 4: it's also still trying to ma being a human being,

542
00:25:02,040 --> 00:25:04,200
Speaker 4: and it's very tough and I feel it all the time,

543
00:25:04,359 --> 00:25:06,639
Speaker 4: which is why oftentimes like I'm off bitchy, can be

544
00:25:06,760 --> 00:25:09,360
Speaker 4: very direct all kinds of things, but at the end

545
00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:12,640
Speaker 4: of the day, I don't want to hurt anybody. You're

546
00:25:12,880 --> 00:25:15,040
Speaker 4: very innocent. I can see it on you, like the

547
00:25:15,440 --> 00:25:18,280
Speaker 4: and you're turning like red, you know what I mean?

548
00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:20,560
Speaker 4: Like you, that's the thing when you white like that,

549
00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:23,640
Speaker 4: it's a place like a mood ring, right.

550
00:25:23,720 --> 00:25:25,159
Speaker 5: You don't know what's happening here.

551
00:25:25,400 --> 00:25:28,760
Speaker 4: You see what I'm saying. This is all coconut all

552
00:25:28,760 --> 00:25:30,879
Speaker 4: the time, you know what I mean? You like turning

553
00:25:30,920 --> 00:25:33,680
Speaker 4: blue purple? I was like, are you going into the morgue?

554
00:25:33,760 --> 00:25:34,480
Speaker 5: Was happening?

555
00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:37,119
Speaker 4: So you know, I feel that I'm connecting to you

556
00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:39,280
Speaker 4: on a certain level. I want to just make sure

557
00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:41,600
Speaker 4: that all the niceness that you have, which I'm sure

558
00:25:41,680 --> 00:25:44,439
Speaker 4: is very authentic, you are not playing yourself in the

559
00:25:44,520 --> 00:25:47,840
Speaker 4: process of being nice, that you are undermining your own

560
00:25:47,880 --> 00:25:51,399
Speaker 4: integrity to make sure that you don't go overboard with

561
00:25:51,480 --> 00:25:53,240
Speaker 4: other people, and you're not serving yourself.

562
00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:55,359
Speaker 2: I really don't think you are. I actually think Sam

563
00:25:55,440 --> 00:26:00,720
Speaker 2: has really good boundaries were Sometimes I'll find myself without

564
00:26:01,119 --> 00:26:03,240
Speaker 2: I'm trying to say this, without saying any specifics, It'll

565
00:26:03,280 --> 00:26:08,399
Speaker 2: be like my instinct is always to let's say, Okay,

566
00:26:08,520 --> 00:26:12,879
Speaker 2: let's say someone's like, can I work on something with you? Guys,

567
00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:15,280
Speaker 2: I'm just gonna say broadly, and we don't want to

568
00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:17,960
Speaker 2: work with them. My instinct is to be like, you know,

569
00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:19,959
Speaker 2: we're so busy over the next few months, but let

570
00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:22,239
Speaker 2: me get back to you in February, I promise. And

571
00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:25,480
Speaker 2: Sam would never say that, like Sam will literally say no.

572
00:26:26,119 --> 00:26:30,199
Speaker 3: I would probably say like like I would probably say,

573
00:26:30,320 --> 00:26:33,320
Speaker 3: it's not something we're interested in working on. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

574
00:26:33,400 --> 00:26:34,159
Speaker 3: I would say that.

575
00:26:35,160 --> 00:26:38,359
Speaker 5: What would you say, I understand what you mean.

576
00:26:38,480 --> 00:26:43,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, I understand your overcorrecting is because of the presence, Right,

577
00:26:44,080 --> 00:26:44,880
Speaker 4: I do that too.

578
00:26:45,760 --> 00:26:47,800
Speaker 5: You don't have to overcorrect.

579
00:26:48,080 --> 00:26:50,600
Speaker 4: It's a weird thing because like in the back of

580
00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:53,320
Speaker 4: the feeling is the feeling like I want to make

581
00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:55,360
Speaker 4: sure you are not doing this because of the niceness.

582
00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:58,000
Speaker 5: But because he gets he has this.

583
00:26:58,640 --> 00:27:02,560
Speaker 4: Innocence, no one takes anything that he's saying that could

584
00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:04,800
Speaker 4: be direct as a real insult.

585
00:27:04,960 --> 00:27:07,960
Speaker 2: Oh I se we're saying, whereas I, yes, You're absolutely right. Actually,

586
00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:10,920
Speaker 2: because I'm always fighting against I'm always worried that I'm

587
00:27:10,960 --> 00:27:15,359
Speaker 2: coming across as cold or mean or condescending or something,

588
00:27:15,720 --> 00:27:17,960
Speaker 2: so I feel they need to overcomment it. And often

589
00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:20,080
Speaker 2: I will find myself being fake because I'm like, oh

590
00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:21,439
Speaker 2: you girl, come on.

591
00:27:21,400 --> 00:27:24,720
Speaker 3: You know, like there's also something interesting which I actually

592
00:27:24,800 --> 00:27:27,159
Speaker 3: need your input on this because one, I feel like

593
00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:28,800
Speaker 3: you can see us in such a clear way.

594
00:27:28,800 --> 00:27:35,000
Speaker 4: I feel naked Cleo's daughter, miss Clee. Well not just

595
00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:35,880
Speaker 4: date myself with.

596
00:27:35,880 --> 00:27:37,560
Speaker 3: That rep, No.

597
00:27:38,720 --> 00:27:39,919
Speaker 5: Google it, who's with Cleo?

598
00:27:43,440 --> 00:27:45,760
Speaker 3: But what I'm wondering is people do reach out to

599
00:27:45,920 --> 00:27:48,640
Speaker 3: George when they want something from the two of us. True,

600
00:27:48,800 --> 00:27:51,119
Speaker 3: more so, I feel like you get way more people

601
00:27:51,160 --> 00:27:53,480
Speaker 3: being like like, if they're interested in doing the pod,

602
00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:55,119
Speaker 3: they'll reach out to you and not to me.

603
00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:59,920
Speaker 2: And I you would think in the opposite because I'm yeah,

604
00:28:00,000 --> 00:28:02,600
Speaker 2: allegedly more intimidating, right, Yeah.

605
00:28:02,640 --> 00:28:05,439
Speaker 4: Okay, So human nature this is really what we're this.

606
00:28:05,720 --> 00:28:09,200
Speaker 4: This is you guys have actually illuminated something for me, right,

607
00:28:10,000 --> 00:28:12,800
Speaker 4: Human nature, That's what I fight against, which is why

608
00:28:12,800 --> 00:28:16,560
Speaker 4: the perception of me is always very unstable, because human

609
00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:22,240
Speaker 4: nature can be unstable and for all of the positives

610
00:28:22,280 --> 00:28:25,800
Speaker 4: that you have with this temperament that you put on display,

611
00:28:26,440 --> 00:28:32,320
Speaker 4: and all the negatives you have. Yeah, at the same time,

612
00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:36,040
Speaker 4: if I need something done because of the perception of

613
00:28:36,080 --> 00:28:38,200
Speaker 4: the dynamic here, I'm not going to go to you.

614
00:28:38,440 --> 00:28:39,960
Speaker 4: So then you can go to him and he can

615
00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:42,880
Speaker 4: tell you no, I'm gonna start right with him if

616
00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:45,000
Speaker 4: he's a person I think is gonna say no, or

617
00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:48,880
Speaker 4: the person that makes the decisions and try to, you know,

618
00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:49,840
Speaker 4: work him.

619
00:28:50,080 --> 00:28:51,440
Speaker 5: Without involving you.

620
00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:52,920
Speaker 3: Yeah.

621
00:28:52,960 --> 00:28:54,880
Speaker 4: So they're going over your head. They're not you know

622
00:28:54,920 --> 00:28:56,400
Speaker 4: what I'm saying, that's what they think they're doing.

623
00:28:56,520 --> 00:28:59,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, Oh totally. They think I'm CEO in your CEO.

624
00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:02,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, huh weird.

625
00:29:03,400 --> 00:29:05,480
Speaker 2: Do you know what I'm noticing with you?

626
00:29:05,480 --> 00:29:10,120
Speaker 4: You know what what I'm gonna say something to you

627
00:29:10,160 --> 00:29:10,560
Speaker 4: after this?

628
00:29:10,760 --> 00:29:12,160
Speaker 3: Oh wow, oh my god.

629
00:29:13,320 --> 00:29:16,760
Speaker 4: That's it's actually gonna be something very funny that we

630
00:29:16,960 --> 00:29:19,959
Speaker 4: are eyes connected in a way on something and I

631
00:29:20,040 --> 00:29:21,080
Speaker 4: just want to say, is that about me?

632
00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:21,720
Speaker 5: No?

633
00:29:21,720 --> 00:29:23,880
Speaker 4: No, no, no no, no, It's it's about a vibe

634
00:29:23,880 --> 00:29:27,320
Speaker 4: I caught that's undertowe to something else. But it's uh,

635
00:29:27,400 --> 00:29:29,000
Speaker 4: it's it's not for everybody.

636
00:29:29,080 --> 00:29:30,920
Speaker 2: Okay, you're a psychiatrist with.

637
00:29:31,400 --> 00:29:33,520
Speaker 4: I hope, no, I'm on every pill. I have anxiety

638
00:29:33,560 --> 00:29:34,280
Speaker 4: depression eighty.

639
00:29:34,360 --> 00:29:36,120
Speaker 2: Well that's how you know you're a special You know

640
00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:40,440
Speaker 2: you have a medication, you're prescribing them to yourself.

641
00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:41,520
Speaker 3: Unbelievable.

642
00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:44,160
Speaker 2: Well, you know, since we're psychoanalyzing, you know what I

643
00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:44,920
Speaker 2: noticed about you?

644
00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:50,200
Speaker 3: It's very no, but it's this like.

645
00:29:49,160 --> 00:29:53,280
Speaker 2: Like it's this awareness, hyper awareness of how you come across,

646
00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:56,959
Speaker 2: so you defensively come across a different way immediately, like

647
00:29:57,120 --> 00:29:59,600
Speaker 2: so many since you've been here. It's like people think

648
00:29:59,640 --> 00:30:01,680
Speaker 2: I'm this, but I'm actually that. I'm actually this, but

649
00:30:01,680 --> 00:30:04,000
Speaker 2: people think I'm this. So then in order to intercept

650
00:30:04,040 --> 00:30:06,640
Speaker 2: people thinking I'm this, I become that. Do you ever

651
00:30:06,640 --> 00:30:09,160
Speaker 2: get lost in that calculus?

652
00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:13,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, a lot, And I think, like up until recently,

653
00:30:14,480 --> 00:30:17,600
Speaker 4: maybe even this year, it's been a huge problem I

654
00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:18,160
Speaker 4: grew up in.

655
00:30:19,360 --> 00:30:21,960
Speaker 5: I always say my life is a life of contradiction.

656
00:30:22,920 --> 00:30:28,400
Speaker 4: So the perception I'm always fighting against is also inevertently

657
00:30:28,480 --> 00:30:32,560
Speaker 4: the perception that I give off because the way in

658
00:30:32,600 --> 00:30:40,320
Speaker 4: which I have to protect myself to explain to people

659
00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:46,120
Speaker 4: how I really want them to see me. Right, everybody

660
00:30:46,200 --> 00:30:48,480
Speaker 4: wants to be seen for who they are, right, not

661
00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:54,280
Speaker 4: what they represent but who they are is. I was

662
00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:59,760
Speaker 4: very innocent, you know, very conservative, very sheltered. I grew

663
00:30:59,840 --> 00:31:04,000
Speaker 4: up you know, my family got into the ministry when

664
00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:07,000
Speaker 4: I was very very young, and my grandparents opened up

665
00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:10,400
Speaker 4: a church and you know, became pastors, and you know,

666
00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:12,960
Speaker 4: there was the whole conflict with that of like my

667
00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:15,680
Speaker 4: grandmother really doing a lot of things that in the

668
00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:17,680
Speaker 4: Christian faith a lot of times they don't want women

669
00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:20,440
Speaker 4: to have access to. So it's sort of this understanding

670
00:31:20,480 --> 00:31:22,880
Speaker 4: of like a submission to God and his will and

671
00:31:23,280 --> 00:31:25,520
Speaker 4: the things that it means to be a woman, but

672
00:31:25,560 --> 00:31:28,560
Speaker 4: at the same time knowing that God has no respect

673
00:31:28,560 --> 00:31:32,120
Speaker 4: a person, but we also as humans have respect a person, right,

674
00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:35,400
Speaker 4: So you're living in a lot of like dualities of

675
00:31:35,440 --> 00:31:38,040
Speaker 4: how you feel about yourself or how you're perceived. Then

676
00:31:38,080 --> 00:31:40,640
Speaker 4: when I got into stand up, which was you know,

677
00:31:41,320 --> 00:31:44,880
Speaker 4: really out of my control but more of I guess

678
00:31:44,880 --> 00:31:48,600
Speaker 4: a blessing, right, because I was being trained to be

679
00:31:48,640 --> 00:31:51,239
Speaker 4: an actress and I'm classically trained in the theater, so

680
00:31:51,280 --> 00:31:54,120
Speaker 4: I would always put my emotions in that, right, so

681
00:31:54,200 --> 00:31:56,640
Speaker 4: I didn't have to live them as a real person.

682
00:31:56,680 --> 00:31:58,600
Speaker 4: I could just put them into these sort of characters

683
00:31:58,600 --> 00:32:01,400
Speaker 4: that I would create. Even in that environment, being a

684
00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:04,800
Speaker 4: black girl was very limiting because I didn't have the

685
00:32:04,880 --> 00:32:08,320
Speaker 4: characters in which I could express myself in different dynamics

686
00:32:08,360 --> 00:32:11,840
Speaker 4: as the white girls could. But I've also been somebody

687
00:32:11,840 --> 00:32:17,120
Speaker 4: who is not interested in resting on that. Obviously, there's

688
00:32:17,160 --> 00:32:19,560
Speaker 4: a lot of racism that is happening here in this country,

689
00:32:19,600 --> 00:32:23,160
Speaker 4: and there's a lot of things that affect me disproportionately

690
00:32:23,200 --> 00:32:26,880
Speaker 4: as a black person. But I also was an environment

691
00:32:26,920 --> 00:32:28,480
Speaker 4: where it was all white and people would call me

692
00:32:28,520 --> 00:32:30,719
Speaker 4: the N word every day and porch monkey and all

693
00:32:30,720 --> 00:32:33,400
Speaker 4: these other things that I also have to deal with that, right,

694
00:32:33,440 --> 00:32:35,280
Speaker 4: So it's a lot of things. And everywhere I turned,

695
00:32:35,280 --> 00:32:38,400
Speaker 4: somebody's attacking me for something that I can't control, and

696
00:32:38,440 --> 00:32:40,920
Speaker 4: it causes you to put up a wall and defensiveness.

697
00:32:41,080 --> 00:32:44,080
Speaker 4: So I am quick and very funny because I've had

698
00:32:44,080 --> 00:32:48,040
Speaker 4: to attack people back, and I've never chose to be

699
00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:51,800
Speaker 4: the person that got attacked and then felt victimized. I

700
00:32:51,880 --> 00:32:55,520
Speaker 4: always felt like, if you attack me, I will attack

701
00:32:55,560 --> 00:33:00,040
Speaker 4: you back with no qualms because you started it. My

702
00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:04,239
Speaker 4: philosophy is when Michelle Obama, who we all love, and

703
00:33:04,720 --> 00:33:07,640
Speaker 4: those arms, girl, I miss them trying to get my

704
00:33:07,760 --> 00:33:08,200
Speaker 4: arms like that.

705
00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:08,720
Speaker 5: With the flap.

706
00:33:09,640 --> 00:33:12,680
Speaker 4: When she says they go high, no way they go high.

707
00:33:12,680 --> 00:33:16,600
Speaker 5: I know what I say. They go high and they

708
00:33:16,600 --> 00:33:16,920
Speaker 5: go low.

709
00:33:17,000 --> 00:33:20,400
Speaker 4: You go high, And I say, while I respect her,

710
00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:24,120
Speaker 4: I believe that sometimes when people go low, you already

711
00:33:24,200 --> 00:33:26,920
Speaker 4: be down there. So when they get down there, you go,

712
00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:29,920
Speaker 4: what took you so long? Because we're all gonna get

713
00:33:29,960 --> 00:33:33,160
Speaker 4: down on the ground, and that's what people don't want

714
00:33:33,160 --> 00:33:35,680
Speaker 4: to fight again. So when you say, I interject like

715
00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:37,640
Speaker 4: I'll say something about my arms, I'll say something about

716
00:33:37,640 --> 00:33:37,960
Speaker 4: my weight.

717
00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:40,760
Speaker 5: It's no issue for me.

718
00:33:41,000 --> 00:33:43,520
Speaker 4: Really, It'll be something to just be like, before you

719
00:33:43,560 --> 00:33:46,600
Speaker 4: think I'm getting on this high horse, boom, here's some

720
00:33:46,640 --> 00:33:49,240
Speaker 4: reality checks real quick that I already know you're dealing with.

721
00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:50,680
Speaker 4: We can laughing them about real quick, and then we're

722
00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:54,400
Speaker 4: gonna go back into this thing. Because I'm whatever I'm

723
00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:56,640
Speaker 4: fixing here in my mind to try to make everything

724
00:33:56,760 --> 00:33:59,720
Speaker 4: balance is not what's happening in everybody's mind that I

725
00:33:59,720 --> 00:34:00,440
Speaker 4: am to talking to.

726
00:34:01,000 --> 00:34:02,360
Speaker 5: People have their perceptions.

727
00:34:02,360 --> 00:34:04,760
Speaker 4: They're going to have their perceptions, gonna have their understandings,

728
00:34:04,800 --> 00:34:06,640
Speaker 4: they're gonna have all of that. There is nothing wrong

729
00:34:06,680 --> 00:34:09,520
Speaker 4: with me trying to ingratiate myself just a little bit

730
00:34:09,800 --> 00:34:12,319
Speaker 4: to a part of the humanity with them that we

731
00:34:12,360 --> 00:34:14,879
Speaker 4: can connect on, which is humor, and then still get

732
00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:15,760
Speaker 4: my point across.

733
00:34:16,320 --> 00:34:18,279
Speaker 5: And the people who cannot.

734
00:34:18,360 --> 00:34:21,480
Speaker 4: Go deep with me and don't understand it because I

735
00:34:21,520 --> 00:34:24,080
Speaker 4: am a very complex person and that's not me blowing

736
00:34:24,120 --> 00:34:26,399
Speaker 4: smoke up my own as with the saying the complexities

737
00:34:26,400 --> 00:34:29,160
Speaker 4: of all of us. But I'm embracing them. They're gonna

738
00:34:29,239 --> 00:34:31,520
Speaker 4: reduce it to oh, she's just this, she's that, Okay,

739
00:34:31,560 --> 00:34:34,000
Speaker 4: I'm not interested in them. And a lot of times

740
00:34:34,000 --> 00:34:36,320
Speaker 4: we spend so much time being interested in the people

741
00:34:36,360 --> 00:34:39,160
Speaker 4: who are not interested in really getting to know us,

742
00:34:39,280 --> 00:34:42,200
Speaker 4: that we leave all of these people out that want

743
00:34:42,280 --> 00:34:44,000
Speaker 4: to get to know us. And I've been doing that

744
00:34:44,040 --> 00:34:48,520
Speaker 4: for a long time, running behind trying to convince people

745
00:34:48,719 --> 00:34:49,560
Speaker 4: it doesn't matter.

746
00:34:49,960 --> 00:34:51,480
Speaker 5: My tribe is back here.

747
00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:56,360
Speaker 2: Do you feel like chasing people who you feel like

748
00:34:56,360 --> 00:34:57,920
Speaker 2: are not interested in you and trying to get them

749
00:34:58,560 --> 00:35:01,000
Speaker 2: interested in you presents me more of a challenge, and

750
00:35:01,040 --> 00:35:04,880
Speaker 2: therefore you think that is like, because it's more difficult,

751
00:35:04,920 --> 00:35:07,640
Speaker 2: it's more valuable. You're like, why would I engage with

752
00:35:07,680 --> 00:35:11,840
Speaker 2: these people who are already interested in me? That seems

753
00:35:11,840 --> 00:35:14,520
Speaker 2: easy and therefore is not like as fulfilling or something.

754
00:35:16,160 --> 00:35:20,400
Speaker 4: My parents fell in love early and probably wasn't ready

755
00:35:20,760 --> 00:35:23,160
Speaker 4: to have me, right, although they were very much in

756
00:35:23,200 --> 00:35:26,680
Speaker 4: love and had a beautiful love story. My mother had

757
00:35:26,760 --> 00:35:29,279
Speaker 4: things that she wanted to do in life. My grandparents

758
00:35:29,320 --> 00:35:33,040
Speaker 4: wanted to see her fulfill those things. My mother was

759
00:35:33,080 --> 00:35:37,800
Speaker 4: an audio video engineer technician for a couple of PBS

760
00:35:37,800 --> 00:35:40,680
Speaker 4: stations around the country. She worked as a top forty

761
00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:43,520
Speaker 4: disc jockey and a couple of top forties around the country.

762
00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:45,440
Speaker 4: She was able to move in the way that she

763
00:35:45,480 --> 00:35:47,959
Speaker 4: needed to because my grandparents had me solid to raise

764
00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:51,040
Speaker 4: me as someone who's raised with a mother and a

765
00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:55,799
Speaker 4: father in their lives. Right in all of that that

766
00:35:55,880 --> 00:35:58,759
Speaker 4: I had my grandparents giving me everything, taking care of me.

767
00:35:58,800 --> 00:36:01,799
Speaker 4: I never wanted for anything, never felt like there was

768
00:36:01,840 --> 00:36:04,040
Speaker 4: something that I couldn't do in this world. They pumped

769
00:36:04,040 --> 00:36:07,239
Speaker 4: me with positivity at all points, told me everything that

770
00:36:07,320 --> 00:36:10,719
Speaker 4: I want was accessible to me. It still did not

771
00:36:11,600 --> 00:36:15,160
Speaker 4: erase the fact that as my parents are doing their

772
00:36:15,200 --> 00:36:19,080
Speaker 4: thing because my grandparents think they should right, that there's

773
00:36:19,120 --> 00:36:22,080
Speaker 4: not some sense of maybe abandonment on my end right

774
00:36:22,120 --> 00:36:25,920
Speaker 4: that I feel. So I do have chased abandonment, mostly

775
00:36:26,000 --> 00:36:29,440
Speaker 4: with maybe romantic partners, more so than I had the

776
00:36:29,480 --> 00:36:34,040
Speaker 4: confidence to not chase abandonment with like friends and stuff

777
00:36:34,080 --> 00:36:37,920
Speaker 4: like that, but maybe lovers, right, And then it becomes

778
00:36:37,960 --> 00:36:42,000
Speaker 4: this part of you where you go because I love

779
00:36:42,080 --> 00:36:44,920
Speaker 4: this person so much and because I'm loving, and because

780
00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:46,960
Speaker 4: I'm sweet, and because I think about.

781
00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:48,960
Speaker 5: You, and because I would do anything for you.

782
00:36:49,640 --> 00:36:53,360
Speaker 4: I can't believe that somehow we got to this place

783
00:36:53,400 --> 00:36:57,279
Speaker 4: where you don't value you don't see that as valuable,

784
00:36:57,880 --> 00:37:00,480
Speaker 4: and you think that there's a deficit with the way

785
00:37:00,520 --> 00:37:03,200
Speaker 4: that you are communicating who you are to this person,

786
00:37:03,520 --> 00:37:08,000
Speaker 4: without realizing that it doesn't matter what this person thinks

787
00:37:08,080 --> 00:37:08,719
Speaker 4: or doesn't think.

788
00:37:09,040 --> 00:37:10,720
Speaker 5: If I have been in love.

789
00:37:11,640 --> 00:37:14,600
Speaker 4: I've been in love twice in my life, and for

790
00:37:14,719 --> 00:37:18,880
Speaker 4: the love of God, no matter what I did, I

791
00:37:18,960 --> 00:37:24,040
Speaker 4: kept moving further and further away from whatever started. Because

792
00:37:25,560 --> 00:37:27,439
Speaker 4: the guys that I met that I fell in love

793
00:37:27,520 --> 00:37:32,160
Speaker 4: with met this and the person that they go home

794
00:37:32,239 --> 00:37:36,440
Speaker 4: to is the person that's like, hi, babe, you want

795
00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:37,040
Speaker 4: something to eat?

796
00:37:37,360 --> 00:37:38,520
Speaker 5: And who the fuck is this?

797
00:37:38,680 --> 00:37:41,640
Speaker 4: Who's this right? But they won't let me have both

798
00:37:41,680 --> 00:37:44,120
Speaker 4: of those. It's always got to be like a lot

799
00:37:44,200 --> 00:37:45,719
Speaker 4: to bad da da da dah. And so when I'm

800
00:37:45,760 --> 00:37:49,160
Speaker 4: not that, it's like I'm lying to them somehow, or

801
00:37:49,200 --> 00:37:52,000
Speaker 4: you're not the woman that, oh you're there's some weakness

802
00:37:52,080 --> 00:37:54,920
Speaker 4: because there's some femininity to me, so I don't show

803
00:37:54,960 --> 00:38:00,000
Speaker 4: it right all perception of other people, which I'm try

804
00:38:00,000 --> 00:38:02,200
Speaker 4: trying to get as we grow, we get out of

805
00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:05,840
Speaker 4: and fortunately I'm in comedy, right, so I get to

806
00:38:05,840 --> 00:38:08,160
Speaker 4: talk about a lot of things that irk me and

807
00:38:08,400 --> 00:38:10,799
Speaker 4: make fun of it and processes through that. A lot

808
00:38:10,840 --> 00:38:13,960
Speaker 4: of people don't have that. And when I started to

809
00:38:13,960 --> 00:38:17,840
Speaker 4: get discouraged about how I felt as a person or

810
00:38:17,920 --> 00:38:21,520
Speaker 4: abandonment and things like that, what I realized, especially during

811
00:38:21,560 --> 00:38:25,600
Speaker 4: the pandemic, is I had done a couple of shows

812
00:38:25,640 --> 00:38:27,799
Speaker 4: where I was like, let me just do a standalone

813
00:38:27,840 --> 00:38:30,440
Speaker 4: show at the seller and invite people out to come.

814
00:38:31,120 --> 00:38:34,320
Speaker 4: And what was happening was there were women that were coming,

815
00:38:35,160 --> 00:38:37,200
Speaker 4: and after the show they would come up to me

816
00:38:37,239 --> 00:38:39,959
Speaker 4: and they would be in tears and they would say,

817
00:38:40,760 --> 00:38:42,640
Speaker 4: you know, I've been in this kind of relationship.

818
00:38:42,680 --> 00:38:44,480
Speaker 5: I had this going on. I felt so low. I

819
00:38:44,520 --> 00:38:45,600
Speaker 5: didn't I'm depressed.

820
00:38:45,800 --> 00:38:48,160
Speaker 4: Then I sort of having guys say the same, right,

821
00:38:48,640 --> 00:38:52,560
Speaker 4: And then I said oh, okay, here's what's happening. We

822
00:38:52,880 --> 00:38:56,560
Speaker 4: like trying to hide our vulnerabilities as a people.

823
00:38:56,600 --> 00:38:57,239
Speaker 5: We just want to.

824
00:38:57,239 --> 00:38:59,440
Speaker 4: Be like, Yo, I'm bang, I'm this, I'm cool, I'm this,

825
00:38:59,560 --> 00:39:02,000
Speaker 4: I'm that right, which I give off a lot that

826
00:39:02,080 --> 00:39:04,479
Speaker 4: I'm like the baddest bitch in the room, but also

827
00:39:04,560 --> 00:39:09,200
Speaker 4: at the same time, I am maybe the saddest sometimes,

828
00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:13,080
Speaker 4: maybe I'm the most depressed. Maybe I'm the most lost

829
00:39:13,200 --> 00:39:15,680
Speaker 4: or confused. And I want to be able to have

830
00:39:15,800 --> 00:39:19,560
Speaker 4: all those things happen for me without me having to

831
00:39:19,600 --> 00:39:24,000
Speaker 4: give up my bad bitch title, because sometimes when we

832
00:39:24,040 --> 00:39:25,880
Speaker 4: don't know how to put that down for one second

833
00:39:25,880 --> 00:39:27,440
Speaker 4: and go, this is the human part of me that

834
00:39:27,480 --> 00:39:33,560
Speaker 4: I'm feeling, we are alienating ourselves from growing. And I

835
00:39:33,680 --> 00:39:37,080
Speaker 4: appreciate that where people were telling me not to show

836
00:39:37,160 --> 00:39:39,719
Speaker 4: vulnerability and not to let my audience know that I

837
00:39:39,760 --> 00:39:43,200
Speaker 4: have flaws, that I still did it, and it made

838
00:39:43,239 --> 00:39:46,320
Speaker 4: me connect more with people who go, thank you, because

839
00:39:46,440 --> 00:39:50,400
Speaker 4: I thought I was alone in this, and I'm glad

840
00:39:50,560 --> 00:39:53,320
Speaker 4: somebody like you is also saying, oh you have depression,

841
00:39:54,080 --> 00:39:57,759
Speaker 4: Oh you have anxiety, Oh you have ADHD, And I go, yeah,

842
00:39:57,800 --> 00:40:00,120
Speaker 4: and I'm thankful that you're telling me this because the

843
00:40:00,160 --> 00:40:02,279
Speaker 4: reasons why I wasn't able to say I had anxiety

844
00:40:02,560 --> 00:40:05,360
Speaker 4: or depression or ADHD was because I grew up in

845
00:40:05,400 --> 00:40:08,640
Speaker 4: a society as a black girl or a black child

846
00:40:08,640 --> 00:40:11,520
Speaker 4: in general. Nobody's giving me the access to say there's

847
00:40:11,560 --> 00:40:14,520
Speaker 4: something wrong. You know, I have an eye tic that

848
00:40:14,560 --> 00:40:17,960
Speaker 4: I've been hiding for years, just like if I get anxiety,

849
00:40:18,000 --> 00:40:20,839
Speaker 4: my eyes tick, and I would always do this because

850
00:40:20,840 --> 00:40:23,800
Speaker 4: there's a perception of like, I cannot be what people

851
00:40:23,840 --> 00:40:26,719
Speaker 4: could be considered to be crazy, so I'm stressing myself out.

852
00:40:26,960 --> 00:40:29,000
Speaker 4: I have less of a tick now because I'm not

853
00:40:29,120 --> 00:40:31,600
Speaker 4: going like who's looking at me and trying to be

854
00:40:31,760 --> 00:40:35,080
Speaker 4: some example of I want to be contrary to whatever

855
00:40:35,120 --> 00:40:36,440
Speaker 4: you think a big black woman is.

856
00:40:36,520 --> 00:40:40,200
Speaker 5: Fuck that, Fuck you? Who cares? This is me? This

857
00:40:40,239 --> 00:40:42,040
Speaker 5: is what I'm doing, flaws.

858
00:40:42,360 --> 00:40:46,319
Speaker 3: And all wow, wow, I'm like.

859
00:40:48,000 --> 00:40:48,120
Speaker 2: This.

860
00:40:48,520 --> 00:40:53,000
Speaker 3: I mean, the way that the journey this has been

861
00:40:53,360 --> 00:40:56,239
Speaker 3: on this episode is insane in a good way.

862
00:40:56,800 --> 00:40:59,640
Speaker 2: I have to say so annoying that I now have

863
00:40:59,680 --> 00:41:00,239
Speaker 2: to speak.

864
00:41:00,560 --> 00:41:00,799
Speaker 3: I know.

865
00:41:00,840 --> 00:41:03,319
Speaker 4: I was like damn, no, no no, and I wasn't

866
00:41:03,360 --> 00:41:04,560
Speaker 4: trying to use no, no, no no.

867
00:41:05,600 --> 00:41:08,680
Speaker 2: I'm saying the opposite. I'm like I'm like, I just.

868
00:41:08,960 --> 00:41:10,640
Speaker 3: Well, and this is until like blow smoke, but it

869
00:41:10,719 --> 00:41:13,040
Speaker 3: is when you're talking to someone and you're like, oh,

870
00:41:13,120 --> 00:41:18,200
Speaker 3: you're so much like wiser wiser and like self knowing,

871
00:41:18,520 --> 00:41:20,960
Speaker 3: Like I feel like, like the things I think about

872
00:41:22,040 --> 00:41:24,960
Speaker 3: when when you're talking about this, I'm like, mine aren't

873
00:41:25,080 --> 00:41:29,520
Speaker 3: as don't have as much depth exactly like I've you know,

874
00:41:29,840 --> 00:41:33,120
Speaker 3: when I do stand up, I think about like I'm like,

875
00:41:33,520 --> 00:41:35,759
Speaker 3: I'm not thinking about vulnerability. And even when I like,

876
00:41:35,800 --> 00:41:38,040
Speaker 3: I'm thinking about like what is a funny joke? What

877
00:41:38,280 --> 00:41:40,479
Speaker 3: is a good joke? And then even when I'm trying

878
00:41:40,480 --> 00:41:41,600
Speaker 3: to like, well, I'm like, well, how do I get

879
00:41:41,640 --> 00:41:43,439
Speaker 3: to a good joke? It's like, well, I find something

880
00:41:43,480 --> 00:41:46,600
Speaker 3: within myself that I want to talk about that feels personal.

881
00:41:46,680 --> 00:41:48,799
Speaker 3: But then it's like even that I'm like, I don't

882
00:41:48,840 --> 00:41:51,520
Speaker 3: know how to make it feel like. I don't feel like,

883
00:41:51,520 --> 00:41:53,840
Speaker 3: I mean vulnerable even when I say something that is true,

884
00:41:54,320 --> 00:41:56,480
Speaker 3: like if about me, because I'm like, well, then i

885
00:41:56,480 --> 00:42:01,320
Speaker 3: feel like I'm being almost like revealing for revealing or something.

886
00:42:01,440 --> 00:42:03,600
Speaker 2: And well, I do think vulnerability has been sort of

887
00:42:03,640 --> 00:42:07,200
Speaker 2: like commodified in a way where you almost feel so

888
00:42:07,239 --> 00:42:09,839
Speaker 2: many people do it in an inauthentic way, will get

889
00:42:09,960 --> 00:42:15,200
Speaker 2: up and sort of be very strategic about finding the

890
00:42:15,239 --> 00:42:20,360
Speaker 2: parts of themselves themselves that make them immediately relatable immediately

891
00:42:20,760 --> 00:42:23,239
Speaker 2: you know, it's like, ABC, this is what I stand for.

892
00:42:23,640 --> 00:42:25,600
Speaker 2: That even when you are doing it in an authentic way,

893
00:42:25,640 --> 00:42:27,960
Speaker 2: you feel like you're being hacked somehow that you are

894
00:42:28,000 --> 00:42:31,440
Speaker 2: like getting up and doing something about a hardship you've

895
00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:32,040
Speaker 2: had or something.

896
00:42:32,360 --> 00:42:36,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think it's Yeah, you're like pointing to like

897
00:42:37,520 --> 00:42:42,400
Speaker 3: almost an ability to truly like look inward and be like,

898
00:42:42,440 --> 00:42:45,680
Speaker 3: what would I like to share that? Like I don't

899
00:42:46,080 --> 00:42:49,360
Speaker 3: at this point, Like that's not really how I'm thinking

900
00:42:49,480 --> 00:42:51,560
Speaker 3: in a way. Like hearing you say that, I'm like, yeah,

901
00:42:51,560 --> 00:42:54,480
Speaker 3: that's how I should be thinking or something.

902
00:42:54,840 --> 00:43:00,759
Speaker 4: Well, you know, part of it is is people look

903
00:43:00,800 --> 00:43:03,160
Speaker 4: for the hard thing, right, It's not all hard.

904
00:43:03,400 --> 00:43:08,040
Speaker 5: Everything. What you've heard was around a lot of hardness

905
00:43:08,080 --> 00:43:09,320
Speaker 5: that I've expressed.

906
00:43:09,680 --> 00:43:11,520
Speaker 4: But the thing I take from it is like I

907
00:43:11,560 --> 00:43:13,719
Speaker 4: was in love twice.

908
00:43:13,920 --> 00:43:15,360
Speaker 5: Some people don't have that right.

909
00:43:15,760 --> 00:43:20,440
Speaker 4: So it's in the process of not having somebody weaponize

910
00:43:21,080 --> 00:43:25,960
Speaker 4: whatever I've gone through against me in terms of like example,

911
00:43:26,040 --> 00:43:29,040
Speaker 4: like guys will weaponize if I have a difficult time

912
00:43:29,120 --> 00:43:34,600
Speaker 4: as a woman getting into a relationship, right, they will

913
00:43:34,640 --> 00:43:39,400
Speaker 4: weaponize It's my weight, it's my age, it's my unattractiveness.

914
00:43:39,440 --> 00:43:42,640
Speaker 4: Whatever is there will always weaponize something where I can't

915
00:43:42,719 --> 00:43:46,680
Speaker 4: never if I go from their source, I can never

916
00:43:46,840 --> 00:43:49,799
Speaker 4: really look at what the issue really is because there's

917
00:43:49,840 --> 00:43:52,680
Speaker 4: been so many layers put on it. So I shed

918
00:43:52,760 --> 00:43:58,480
Speaker 4: those things right and I start to look at if

919
00:43:58,680 --> 00:44:01,560
Speaker 4: I am the problem in this situation. Because that's the

920
00:44:01,600 --> 00:44:03,959
Speaker 4: other thing, is like I never act like I can't

921
00:44:04,000 --> 00:44:08,399
Speaker 4: be the problem, which I think people think there's maybe

922
00:44:08,440 --> 00:44:11,000
Speaker 4: a level of arrogance that comes off of me confidence,

923
00:44:11,000 --> 00:44:13,560
Speaker 4: and I think more so, if I'm to be honest,

924
00:44:14,080 --> 00:44:16,440
Speaker 4: it is because I am a black woman in America, right,

925
00:44:16,480 --> 00:44:17,759
Speaker 4: and people won't want to hear it out here we

926
00:44:17,800 --> 00:44:20,040
Speaker 4: go the race thing, but a lot of times because

927
00:44:20,080 --> 00:44:22,919
Speaker 4: of the setup, right who in my I've watched white

928
00:44:22,920 --> 00:44:24,399
Speaker 4: people look at me in the audience and go, who

929
00:44:24,400 --> 00:44:24,800
Speaker 4: the fuck is this?

930
00:44:24,880 --> 00:44:28,160
Speaker 5: Nigga's talking all this shit? For real? Where shit get

931
00:44:28,160 --> 00:44:29,440
Speaker 5: the confidence to talk of this shit?

932
00:44:29,719 --> 00:44:30,000
Speaker 3: Where?

933
00:44:30,920 --> 00:44:33,279
Speaker 5: Really? Where would I get it? Who gave it to me?

934
00:44:33,600 --> 00:44:37,160
Speaker 5: My family? Did I understand we wasn't supposed to be

935
00:44:37,200 --> 00:44:38,839
Speaker 5: given this? Unfortunately for you.

936
00:44:39,320 --> 00:44:41,920
Speaker 4: I said, if I had another two or three albums

937
00:44:41,920 --> 00:44:44,440
Speaker 4: down the line, I'm gonna have an album called I'm

938
00:44:44,480 --> 00:44:45,080
Speaker 4: a Black Karen.

939
00:44:45,200 --> 00:44:48,560
Speaker 5: I completely understand a Karen one thousand percent. I also

940
00:44:48,640 --> 00:44:49,640
Speaker 5: want to speak to the manager.

941
00:44:50,400 --> 00:44:53,200
Speaker 4: But you don't think that that would come from because

942
00:44:53,239 --> 00:44:55,400
Speaker 4: I'm supposed to be Oh, how can I help you?

943
00:44:55,400 --> 00:44:57,520
Speaker 4: I'm supposed to be there. Who can I I be

944
00:44:57,520 --> 00:44:59,480
Speaker 4: best friends with the help? No, no, no, no, I'm

945
00:44:59,520 --> 00:45:01,960
Speaker 4: a different black woman that you've ever experienced. I'm not

946
00:45:02,000 --> 00:45:04,360
Speaker 4: here to fucking help you. Okaddle, you go fuck yourself.

947
00:45:04,480 --> 00:45:06,480
Speaker 4: At the same time, if I like you, then we

948
00:45:06,480 --> 00:45:09,279
Speaker 4: can talk as friends. So there are things where I

949
00:45:09,280 --> 00:45:11,360
Speaker 4: have to go, y'ah, where are you the problem? The

950
00:45:11,520 --> 00:45:14,080
Speaker 4: I'm the problem a lot of the time, and I

951
00:45:14,120 --> 00:45:15,840
Speaker 4: am the problem a lot of times because of some

952
00:45:15,960 --> 00:45:19,120
Speaker 4: traumas in my background. But at the same time, I

953
00:45:19,320 --> 00:45:22,799
Speaker 4: have to figure out where I'm the problem and where

954
00:45:22,840 --> 00:45:26,799
Speaker 4: the real reality of what can be changed to get

955
00:45:26,840 --> 00:45:31,040
Speaker 4: me out of a certain situation. So for me, I

956
00:45:31,160 --> 00:45:34,759
Speaker 4: know that there's very easy targets for me to get

957
00:45:34,800 --> 00:45:37,840
Speaker 4: dismantled by. You may not have the same targets that

958
00:45:37,920 --> 00:45:40,800
Speaker 4: I have, right, so it may not be this access

959
00:45:40,840 --> 00:45:44,239
Speaker 4: to vulnerability that you have. I'm specifically talking for people

960
00:45:44,280 --> 00:45:49,240
Speaker 4: who are like real underdogs, whether it's race, religion, or sexuality,

961
00:45:49,640 --> 00:45:52,919
Speaker 4: or gender, and those are the people that I'm trying

962
00:45:52,920 --> 00:45:55,520
Speaker 4: to reach, and I'm trying to say to them, listen,

963
00:45:56,400 --> 00:45:59,480
Speaker 4: here's how we can kind of move the ball a

964
00:45:59,520 --> 00:46:02,040
Speaker 4: little bit so that we can also not have stress

965
00:46:02,120 --> 00:46:05,560
Speaker 4: all the time. And I'm doing that with comedy, and

966
00:46:05,600 --> 00:46:07,879
Speaker 4: I hope that sometimes the stuff I say it will

967
00:46:07,880 --> 00:46:11,400
Speaker 4: offend people, But at the same time, it's also like,

968
00:46:12,360 --> 00:46:14,799
Speaker 4: shouldn't I just have a joke out right now? I

969
00:46:14,800 --> 00:46:17,520
Speaker 4: have two jokes about a Lizzo everybody.

970
00:46:17,160 --> 00:46:21,359
Speaker 5: Going crazy about. I ain't never heard a girl's name

971
00:46:21,400 --> 00:46:23,200
Speaker 5: so much in my life. I'm gonna be honest with you.

972
00:46:23,239 --> 00:46:25,080
Speaker 4: I don't listen to Lizo because I don't like to

973
00:46:25,080 --> 00:46:26,520
Speaker 4: listen to young girls with positivity.

974
00:46:26,560 --> 00:46:28,919
Speaker 5: I'm an old bitch that knows what's going on. Right.

975
00:46:29,600 --> 00:46:31,360
Speaker 4: Hit me when you forty girl, and we really know

976
00:46:31,400 --> 00:46:32,839
Speaker 4: if you're gonna get your head done and you check

977
00:46:32,840 --> 00:46:36,920
Speaker 4: your nails. So now as we grow into this thing

978
00:46:36,960 --> 00:46:41,080
Speaker 4: with like Lizzo becomes this, she becomes this person right

979
00:46:41,120 --> 00:46:45,000
Speaker 4: where it's like, look at this big black woman who's

980
00:46:45,000 --> 00:46:47,719
Speaker 4: defying the odds and still finding a way to make

981
00:46:47,719 --> 00:46:51,200
Speaker 4: herself feel sexy. And then a lot of white women

982
00:46:51,400 --> 00:46:54,879
Speaker 4: grabbed onto that as they spirit animal, because they're like, well,

983
00:46:54,960 --> 00:46:57,319
Speaker 4: if this big black woman can do it, even though

984
00:46:57,360 --> 00:47:00,839
Speaker 4: I'm Pollyanna Plane Jane, I can do it too, if

985
00:47:00,880 --> 00:47:02,480
Speaker 4: I just take on the spirit of little So then

986
00:47:02,480 --> 00:47:04,560
Speaker 4: they started to hold her up in the place. Right,

987
00:47:04,880 --> 00:47:08,440
Speaker 4: that's unrealistic. You act like she was mother to race

988
00:47:08,520 --> 00:47:11,160
Speaker 4: and she never told you that. She never said none

989
00:47:11,200 --> 00:47:14,040
Speaker 4: of that, and to act like the things that are

990
00:47:14,120 --> 00:47:14,760
Speaker 4: being done.

991
00:47:15,560 --> 00:47:17,080
Speaker 5: And I have no dog in a fight. In terms

992
00:47:17,120 --> 00:47:17,439
Speaker 5: of Lizzo.

993
00:47:17,520 --> 00:47:20,279
Speaker 4: What I will tell you is somebody who doesn't listen

994
00:47:20,400 --> 00:47:22,360
Speaker 4: to her like that. Just like I said, the positivity

995
00:47:22,400 --> 00:47:22,719
Speaker 4: is too.

996
00:47:22,640 --> 00:47:23,000
Speaker 5: Much for me.

997
00:47:23,840 --> 00:47:27,799
Speaker 4: I can tell you the girl is trained a trained musician, right,

998
00:47:28,320 --> 00:47:31,560
Speaker 4: didn't She just took that thousand year old flute and

999
00:47:31,600 --> 00:47:34,360
Speaker 4: nobody touches Benjamin Franklin was getting his toes done in

1000
00:47:34,400 --> 00:47:37,160
Speaker 4: the White House. So what I'm saying is she touching

1001
00:47:37,200 --> 00:47:38,160
Speaker 4: a thousand year old.

1002
00:47:38,040 --> 00:47:42,640
Speaker 5: Flute with her lips, right, Huh? She doing a bunch

1003
00:47:42,680 --> 00:47:46,680
Speaker 5: of dynamic shit. Oh she's fat, shame she's fat.

1004
00:47:48,320 --> 00:47:50,640
Speaker 4: Like if we can't keep it real, like for real,

1005
00:47:50,760 --> 00:47:56,040
Speaker 4: for real, for real, be real. She's fat, bitch and

1006
00:47:56,120 --> 00:47:59,440
Speaker 4: you fat? I'm fat. You're worried about a fat bitch

1007
00:47:59,480 --> 00:48:05,520
Speaker 4: calling you fat? What is happening here? Just be like, yeah, bitch,

1008
00:48:05,600 --> 00:48:06,840
Speaker 4: and you are so fat?

1009
00:48:06,960 --> 00:48:07,440
Speaker 2: You what?

1010
00:48:07,600 --> 00:48:08,080
Speaker 5: And what?

1011
00:48:09,239 --> 00:48:11,000
Speaker 4: That's why I said, it's like two guys arguing in

1012
00:48:11,040 --> 00:48:13,040
Speaker 4: a wheelchair. But who gonna stand up? Neither want of

1013
00:48:13,080 --> 00:48:15,920
Speaker 4: you roll them down the street. It's the end of

1014
00:48:15,920 --> 00:48:18,879
Speaker 4: the day. Some of the stuff we turn on each

1015
00:48:18,920 --> 00:48:23,640
Speaker 4: other as being underdogs, right, we got this bit. Listen

1016
00:48:23,880 --> 00:48:28,040
Speaker 4: when we talk about cancel culture, right all, we don't

1017
00:48:28,280 --> 00:48:30,840
Speaker 4: get rid of cancel. Okay, listen, when we was growing

1018
00:48:30,920 --> 00:48:32,600
Speaker 4: up or when I was growing up in the eighties, Okay,

1019
00:48:32,680 --> 00:48:36,000
Speaker 4: tell you where I'm at, people say all kinds of wild,

1020
00:48:36,239 --> 00:48:39,239
Speaker 4: reckless stuff that we just had to roll the punches on.

1021
00:48:39,640 --> 00:48:42,440
Speaker 4: I'm not saying that we're in a different time. You

1022
00:48:42,480 --> 00:48:45,480
Speaker 4: don't have to roll with the punches. What I'm saying is,

1023
00:48:46,880 --> 00:48:49,400
Speaker 4: understand I was somebody that also had the condition myself

1024
00:48:49,400 --> 00:48:50,840
Speaker 4: to roll with the punches with these same people that

1025
00:48:50,880 --> 00:48:53,279
Speaker 4: you can't stand. So now I have a little bit

1026
00:48:53,320 --> 00:48:55,640
Speaker 4: of a nonsense and me give me some grace to

1027
00:48:55,719 --> 00:48:58,839
Speaker 4: catch up. I don't care about your pronoun baby, that's

1028
00:48:58,880 --> 00:49:02,719
Speaker 4: their thing. I don't want to talk to you at all, right,

1029
00:49:02,920 --> 00:49:04,480
Speaker 4: So whatever, I gotta call you to get you the

1030
00:49:04,480 --> 00:49:05,120
Speaker 4: hell out of my face.

1031
00:49:05,120 --> 00:49:08,640
Speaker 5: I'm gonna call you that, right, beat it it or he?

1032
00:49:09,040 --> 00:49:11,279
Speaker 5: They them? Who got to get out of my face?

1033
00:49:11,360 --> 00:49:13,760
Speaker 5: Them or they? Because I want them all gone.

1034
00:49:18,640 --> 00:49:19,399
Speaker 2: There's so much.

1035
00:49:20,120 --> 00:49:24,719
Speaker 5: Don't try to unpack all of that. You're gonna be

1036
00:49:24,760 --> 00:49:27,080
Speaker 5: here all night. I won't try.

1037
00:49:27,520 --> 00:49:30,480
Speaker 3: You won't try a little bit. That's what he does.

1038
00:49:31,719 --> 00:49:34,200
Speaker 2: Well, I do wanna. I I want to get us

1039
00:49:34,239 --> 00:49:35,960
Speaker 2: to a because I know you have stuff to say

1040
00:49:35,960 --> 00:49:38,560
Speaker 2: about straight straight culture, which is the topic of this podcast.

1041
00:49:38,680 --> 00:49:41,080
Speaker 2: And if I don't, if I don't give you the

1042
00:49:41,600 --> 00:49:45,120
Speaker 2: if I don't turn the spotlight onto that, then then

1043
00:49:45,200 --> 00:49:46,000
Speaker 2: it'll be people.

1044
00:49:47,960 --> 00:49:50,160
Speaker 3: I mean I literally there were moments where I was like,

1045
00:49:50,520 --> 00:49:52,520
Speaker 3: I was like paying attention, but I was like, are

1046
00:49:52,520 --> 00:49:54,880
Speaker 3: we actually gonna ever try to do our segment? Because

1047
00:49:55,040 --> 00:49:57,280
Speaker 3: how insane to try to pivot?

1048
00:49:57,880 --> 00:49:59,440
Speaker 5: Pivot? I'm gonna pivot for you.

1049
00:49:59,600 --> 00:50:01,800
Speaker 2: Well, you know what what's funny is are our segment?

1050
00:50:01,880 --> 00:50:04,120
Speaker 2: We have a first segment that we do, you know,

1051
00:50:04,320 --> 00:50:07,399
Speaker 2: sort of earlier in the episode, and the entire point

1052
00:50:07,400 --> 00:50:09,400
Speaker 2: of it is that it makes no sense, and everyone

1053
00:50:09,400 --> 00:50:11,360
Speaker 2: gets annoyed at us because we're asking you a series

1054
00:50:11,400 --> 00:50:13,880
Speaker 2: of like insane questions, and it would be so funny

1055
00:50:13,880 --> 00:50:15,000
Speaker 2: if we did it for you right now. And we're

1056
00:50:15,040 --> 00:50:25,480
Speaker 2: going to our first segment is called Straight Shooters, and

1057
00:50:25,520 --> 00:50:28,120
Speaker 2: in the segment, we gauge your familiarity with and complicity

1058
00:50:28,160 --> 00:50:30,720
Speaker 2: and straight culture by asking you a series of rapid

1059
00:50:30,719 --> 00:50:32,920
Speaker 2: fire questions where you have to choose this thing or

1060
00:50:32,960 --> 00:50:33,600
Speaker 2: this other thing.

1061
00:50:33,520 --> 00:50:34,200
Speaker 5: In straight culture.

1062
00:50:34,280 --> 00:50:36,960
Speaker 2: That's all you need to do. And the one who spent.

1063
00:50:36,880 --> 00:50:39,280
Speaker 4: Nine years of my life on Fire Island every summer

1064
00:50:39,320 --> 00:50:41,000
Speaker 4: trying to get a gay man to have sex with

1065
00:50:41,080 --> 00:50:43,640
Speaker 4: me in the pines while I did poppers, I don't

1066
00:50:43,640 --> 00:50:48,040
Speaker 4: think I know much about And.

1067
00:50:48,160 --> 00:50:50,319
Speaker 2: The one role is you can't ask you can't ask

1068
00:50:50,320 --> 00:50:52,160
Speaker 2: any follow up questions about how it works. You're gonna

1069
00:50:52,200 --> 00:50:54,160
Speaker 2: you're gonna be confused, and you have to just be

1070
00:50:54,200 --> 00:50:56,680
Speaker 2: okay with that. Okay, Sam, go.

1071
00:50:56,600 --> 00:51:01,080
Speaker 3: Ahead, Okay. Celine Dion or a creamy Dijon.

1072
00:51:04,719 --> 00:51:08,160
Speaker 5: Definitely creamy Dijon, because I know men don't.

1073
00:51:08,000 --> 00:51:12,320
Speaker 2: Like Celinion paying your bills on time or seeking you

1074
00:51:12,520 --> 00:51:14,040
Speaker 2: thrills online.

1075
00:51:15,040 --> 00:51:20,000
Speaker 3: New Thrills, Yeah, okay, praying to the Lord or slaying

1076
00:51:20,040 --> 00:51:20,319
Speaker 3: with a.

1077
00:51:20,280 --> 00:51:30,480
Speaker 2: Sword, praying to the lord, being dry on the page,

1078
00:51:30,680 --> 00:51:34,560
Speaker 2: or being wet. For Nicholas Cage.

1079
00:51:34,480 --> 00:51:35,320
Speaker 5: He's getting worse.

1080
00:51:36,320 --> 00:51:40,160
Speaker 4: They could go either way, I'm telling you, okay, being

1081
00:51:40,239 --> 00:51:41,200
Speaker 4: drawn to pay to be away for.

1082
00:51:43,280 --> 00:51:45,600
Speaker 5: I feel like it's a lot of straight people hold

1083
00:51:45,600 --> 00:51:46,640
Speaker 5: Ancholas Cage up.

1084
00:51:47,280 --> 00:51:47,800
Speaker 3: That's true.

1085
00:51:48,040 --> 00:51:50,240
Speaker 5: I feel like a lot disproportionately.

1086
00:51:51,440 --> 00:51:56,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, but also strays be drowned a page.

1087
00:51:57,920 --> 00:52:00,120
Speaker 2: Well not if you're like a sort of a a

1088
00:52:00,120 --> 00:52:02,520
Speaker 2: guy with a dry sense of humor, true, sort of

1089
00:52:02,520 --> 00:52:05,000
Speaker 2: a David Scenarios type of course.

1090
00:52:05,760 --> 00:52:06,799
Speaker 3: But no, I feel this.

1091
00:52:06,920 --> 00:52:10,400
Speaker 5: Nicholas Cage is it? Okay? All right, good, good, good, Okay.

1092
00:52:10,960 --> 00:52:13,840
Speaker 3: Someone who is a lowly peasant or someone who is

1093
00:52:13,880 --> 00:52:14,760
Speaker 3: low key pleasant?

1094
00:52:20,000 --> 00:52:21,560
Speaker 4: First of all, I manag y'all went to the Jesse

1095
00:52:21,680 --> 00:52:28,360
Speaker 4: Jackson Academy a rhyme it someone who is a lowly

1096
00:52:28,920 --> 00:52:37,239
Speaker 4: peasant was someone who was low key pleasant, that's h

1097
00:52:38,000 --> 00:52:52,840
Speaker 4: And I can't ask a follow I'm really thinking about these.

1098
00:52:56,800 --> 00:52:56,920
Speaker 3: Now.

1099
00:52:56,960 --> 00:52:59,080
Speaker 5: I'm like, what would I am pleasant?

1100
00:52:59,360 --> 00:53:04,200
Speaker 2: Okay, pleasure? Okay, I now pronounce you man and wife

1101
00:53:04,760 --> 00:53:09,120
Speaker 2: or I now denounced this man, Matt Rife.

1102
00:53:11,880 --> 00:53:13,719
Speaker 5: Why did the first one? We said, like, that's it,

1103
00:53:13,800 --> 00:53:15,080
Speaker 5: and then the second will be like death.

1104
00:53:14,960 --> 00:53:26,320
Speaker 6: It I I rife?

1105
00:53:27,320 --> 00:53:32,800
Speaker 3: Okay, this is a three professor, Professor Plumb, Colonel Mustard

1106
00:53:33,000 --> 00:53:37,640
Speaker 3: or Marjorie Taylor Green, Oh.

1107
00:53:37,520 --> 00:53:44,640
Speaker 5: Good Green, Colonel Mussel.

1108
00:53:44,920 --> 00:53:50,160
Speaker 2: Wow, okay, yeah, Monika, I voted for Joe Biden or

1109
00:53:50,280 --> 00:53:52,239
Speaker 2: I farted just now, pardon.

1110
00:53:53,880 --> 00:53:54,400
Speaker 5: I farted?

1111
00:53:55,080 --> 00:53:57,880
Speaker 2: Wow? Wow, amazing, that's it. You know, we rank our

1112
00:53:57,920 --> 00:53:59,960
Speaker 2: guest performance on a scale of one to one thousand.

1113
00:54:00,080 --> 00:54:02,759
Speaker 2: Do that might be perfect? I think that was a

1114
00:54:02,760 --> 00:54:05,799
Speaker 2: perfect That was a perfect thousand does, which we haven't

1115
00:54:05,840 --> 00:54:08,680
Speaker 2: had in a while. Actually, I really gratiz.

1116
00:54:08,320 --> 00:54:10,920
Speaker 4: Because I understand, but I'm like, I get it, I

1117
00:54:10,960 --> 00:54:12,960
Speaker 4: get it. It's so much shit was perfect about that?

1118
00:54:13,000 --> 00:54:14,400
Speaker 4: Oh my god, I love that game.

1119
00:54:14,640 --> 00:54:15,520
Speaker 2: Oh I'm so glad.

1120
00:54:15,600 --> 00:54:16,279
Speaker 5: Yeah, I loved it.

1121
00:54:16,480 --> 00:54:18,719
Speaker 2: Our biggest worry was that you wouldn't like Yeah.

1122
00:54:18,760 --> 00:54:21,480
Speaker 3: We were sort of like, will she be annoyed at us?

1123
00:54:21,640 --> 00:54:21,920
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1124
00:54:22,080 --> 00:54:25,280
Speaker 5: No, I'm a game person. I do.

1125
00:54:25,960 --> 00:54:28,520
Speaker 2: Okay. So this is normally the part where we where

1126
00:54:28,520 --> 00:54:32,520
Speaker 2: you introduce your straight topic for the episode. But you know,

1127
00:54:32,560 --> 00:54:38,120
Speaker 2: as we discussed beforehand, as our senior producer consulting and

1128
00:54:38,200 --> 00:54:43,040
Speaker 2: consulting producers, actually senior consulting producer. You've decided to change

1129
00:54:43,080 --> 00:54:45,480
Speaker 2: the format of the of the podcast for just one episode,

1130
00:54:45,480 --> 00:54:46,760
Speaker 2: and you wanted to talk more broadly.

1131
00:54:47,040 --> 00:54:49,280
Speaker 5: Yeah, I do want to talk more broadly.

1132
00:54:49,360 --> 00:54:50,879
Speaker 4: I think one of the things that I will say

1133
00:54:50,880 --> 00:54:58,200
Speaker 4: that that will play into your structure here is I

1134
00:54:59,160 --> 00:55:04,760
Speaker 4: always find it interesting how straight men make fun of

1135
00:55:05,600 --> 00:55:10,680
Speaker 4: women for wanting engagement rings, you know, and the rings, right,

1136
00:55:10,880 --> 00:55:13,040
Speaker 4: and it's all that like she's got to get the ring,

1137
00:55:13,080 --> 00:55:15,239
Speaker 4: and oh, she's so obsessed with a ring, and then

1138
00:55:15,320 --> 00:55:17,960
Speaker 4: every year they cry if they man don't get a

1139
00:55:18,000 --> 00:55:18,799
Speaker 4: Super Bowl ring.

1140
00:55:19,920 --> 00:55:22,160
Speaker 2: This right, such a genius, right, Yes.

1141
00:55:22,200 --> 00:55:24,879
Speaker 4: It's like y'all was just having a nervous breakdown because

1142
00:55:24,920 --> 00:55:25,680
Speaker 4: he didn't get.

1143
00:55:25,520 --> 00:55:27,839
Speaker 2: What some ring and you don't even know him.

1144
00:55:27,880 --> 00:55:30,200
Speaker 5: You don't know him, you invested in him.

1145
00:55:31,000 --> 00:55:33,799
Speaker 2: It's I mean, it goes back to like anything that's

1146
00:55:33,840 --> 00:55:37,560
Speaker 2: feminine that's ornamental is like bullshit, and anything that's masculine

1147
00:55:37,600 --> 00:55:40,360
Speaker 2: that's ornamental is like the empire state building.

1148
00:55:40,480 --> 00:55:44,120
Speaker 3: Yes, well, it's also the classic dynamic of like this

1149
00:55:44,239 --> 00:55:46,560
Speaker 3: is the person you love in theory and you're annoyed

1150
00:55:46,560 --> 00:55:50,360
Speaker 3: at them. Like the whole point is to perform annoyance

1151
00:55:50,400 --> 00:55:52,960
Speaker 3: at your like, oh partner.

1152
00:55:52,719 --> 00:55:55,160
Speaker 2: Yea, they all in chain who I hate.

1153
00:55:54,920 --> 00:55:59,400
Speaker 5: And I want him right, Like why'd you marry her? Crazy?

1154
00:55:59,520 --> 00:56:01,919
Speaker 3: It? Actually, I think that's actually the thing that would

1155
00:56:02,000 --> 00:56:04,640
Speaker 3: drive me so crazy. I would be whenever there's even

1156
00:56:04,680 --> 00:56:06,560
Speaker 3: like a slight joke at my expense of like, well

1157
00:56:06,600 --> 00:56:08,600
Speaker 3: he always wants this, I'm like, yeah, I do. Actually

1158
00:56:08,880 --> 00:56:10,280
Speaker 3: I always want that and that's fine.

1159
00:56:10,560 --> 00:56:15,400
Speaker 2: Oh interesting, see, Like oh you know this was actually

1160
00:56:15,560 --> 00:56:18,120
Speaker 2: early on something I found out about it. Like there

1161
00:56:18,200 --> 00:56:20,120
Speaker 2: was like there was a period when I, you know,

1162
00:56:20,120 --> 00:56:22,000
Speaker 2: we would host a lot of shows together, and there

1163
00:56:22,080 --> 00:56:25,080
Speaker 2: was to me, my instinct, especially at that time, was

1164
00:56:25,160 --> 00:56:27,840
Speaker 2: like the way to sort of yes and with someone,

1165
00:56:27,880 --> 00:56:32,760
Speaker 2: im prov with someone is to like jokingly insult them basically,

1166
00:56:32,880 --> 00:56:34,920
Speaker 2: Like that was my way. And I feel like that's

1167
00:56:34,920 --> 00:56:36,759
Speaker 2: how I was raised, That's how my parents are, that's

1168
00:56:36,800 --> 00:56:40,319
Speaker 2: how my sisters are. Often, that is how I would

1169
00:56:40,360 --> 00:56:43,960
Speaker 2: be with a romantic partner. And I and Sam is

1170
00:56:44,000 --> 00:56:45,960
Speaker 2: a little different, like he's just like what I.

1171
00:56:46,160 --> 00:56:48,160
Speaker 3: Like a little bit. There's a there's a point where

1172
00:56:48,160 --> 00:56:50,200
Speaker 3: it like crosses over yes, and I'm sort of like,

1173
00:56:50,280 --> 00:56:52,239
Speaker 3: do you want me to change, Like there's a bit

1174
00:56:52,480 --> 00:56:54,120
Speaker 3: like okay, it sounds like you're.

1175
00:56:53,960 --> 00:56:55,680
Speaker 2: There's something there's too much truth.

1176
00:56:55,880 --> 00:56:58,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're like mad at me. Yeah.

1177
00:56:58,160 --> 00:57:02,640
Speaker 4: You think it's because you presenting and I'm not saying

1178
00:57:02,760 --> 00:57:04,960
Speaker 4: presenting to be condescending this lack of a better word,

1179
00:57:05,440 --> 00:57:10,239
Speaker 4: that you're giving this vibe that you think there's no

1180
00:57:10,360 --> 00:57:13,279
Speaker 4: holes in it for to be challenged, right, Like why

1181
00:57:13,320 --> 00:57:15,120
Speaker 4: would you say that about me when I'm presenting this,

1182
00:57:15,280 --> 00:57:16,919
Speaker 4: all this wonderful stuff to you.

1183
00:57:17,320 --> 00:57:19,920
Speaker 3: It's not that necessarily, it's more than I'm like, I

1184
00:57:19,960 --> 00:57:23,240
Speaker 3: don't want to be like like I I think I

1185
00:57:23,280 --> 00:57:27,800
Speaker 3: have a like a peeve around like bickering without substance,

1186
00:57:27,960 --> 00:57:30,080
Speaker 3: Like I'm sort of like, oh you would hate me?

1187
00:57:33,120 --> 00:57:36,280
Speaker 2: No, yeah, but it's like whereas I, yeah, you're not

1188
00:57:36,320 --> 00:57:38,800
Speaker 2: really drawn to it as like a sort of type

1189
00:57:38,840 --> 00:57:42,560
Speaker 2: of performance. Yeah, like you're And actually I've found this

1190
00:57:42,600 --> 00:57:46,040
Speaker 2: sometimes I've never express this to you, but like sometimes

1191
00:57:46,040 --> 00:57:47,640
Speaker 2: like my boyfriend, I will do that thing where it's like,

1192
00:57:47,640 --> 00:57:51,120
Speaker 2: well he's will each sort of be like competing for

1193
00:57:51,160 --> 00:57:54,200
Speaker 2: who is the most like like, well he's annoying because

1194
00:57:54,240 --> 00:57:55,600
Speaker 2: of this, and he's annoying because of this, and for

1195
00:57:55,720 --> 00:57:59,000
Speaker 2: us It never is like hiding that we have some

1196
00:57:59,080 --> 00:58:01,840
Speaker 2: actual big problem, just like a way to joke around.

1197
00:58:01,960 --> 00:58:03,320
Speaker 2: And sometimes we'll do that in front of you and

1198
00:58:03,360 --> 00:58:05,080
Speaker 2: I'll actually see your eyes be like scared. You're like,

1199
00:58:05,120 --> 00:58:07,480
Speaker 2: oh my god, do they not love each other?

1200
00:58:07,600 --> 00:58:09,560
Speaker 3: Like? Do they not love each other? Like it's almost

1201
00:58:09,560 --> 00:58:12,200
Speaker 3: the same as like watching you guys have sex or something.

1202
00:58:12,240 --> 00:58:15,000
Speaker 3: It's like, okay, yeah.

1203
00:58:14,680 --> 00:58:16,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh wow, that's so fascinating.

1204
00:58:16,640 --> 00:58:18,680
Speaker 4: But you know what, something you just said that was

1205
00:58:18,720 --> 00:58:21,800
Speaker 4: also very interesting is the performance.

1206
00:58:21,160 --> 00:58:21,600
Speaker 2: Of it all.

1207
00:58:21,880 --> 00:58:27,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, and I and I know my greeks, baby, I

1208
00:58:27,480 --> 00:58:29,240
Speaker 4: have shout out. I'm not gonna say his name, but

1209
00:58:29,360 --> 00:58:30,880
Speaker 4: I had a little finger going on with a guy

1210
00:58:30,880 --> 00:58:35,200
Speaker 4: on that it worked at a deli and well no,

1211
00:58:35,200 --> 00:58:39,480
Speaker 4: no diner, and uh you know, I get let's just

1212
00:58:39,560 --> 00:58:44,120
Speaker 4: say I get a few things for free. Sure, but uh,

1213
00:58:44,320 --> 00:58:49,240
Speaker 4: the thoughts I've had about that, man, the reality is

1214
00:58:49,560 --> 00:58:50,919
Speaker 4: there is this performance.

1215
00:58:51,400 --> 00:58:52,200
Speaker 5: So so I.

1216
00:58:52,200 --> 00:58:55,280
Speaker 4: See, if you and me it's fun, right, it's like

1217
00:58:55,360 --> 00:58:57,560
Speaker 4: to get into the weeds with somebody and just be

1218
00:58:57,640 --> 00:59:00,200
Speaker 4: joking around. It does, But I understand if that's it's

1219
00:59:00,200 --> 00:59:05,160
Speaker 4: not if that's not your safe space, it's going to

1220
00:59:05,160 --> 00:59:06,040
Speaker 4: be uncomfortable.

1221
00:59:06,240 --> 00:59:08,000
Speaker 2: Well, It's also I feel like it's a way to

1222
00:59:08,040 --> 00:59:11,000
Speaker 2: almost put my sacrifice myself. It's like, oh, I'll be

1223
00:59:11,080 --> 00:59:13,960
Speaker 2: the one me and my partner will will do this

1224
00:59:14,040 --> 00:59:16,600
Speaker 2: little performance of fighting, and then everyone else can be

1225
00:59:16,720 --> 00:59:19,040
Speaker 2: entertained by it, right than like, rather than going to

1226
00:59:19,040 --> 00:59:20,200
Speaker 2: someone else to be like, so, what did you guys

1227
00:59:20,240 --> 00:59:22,600
Speaker 2: do this weekends? On that?

1228
00:59:22,840 --> 00:59:24,400
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.

1229
00:59:24,520 --> 00:59:26,920
Speaker 3: I feel that George hasn't asked what I've been up

1230
00:59:26,920 --> 00:59:28,920
Speaker 3: to this weekend in years.

1231
00:59:30,040 --> 00:59:31,040
Speaker 5: I like that though.

1232
00:59:31,800 --> 00:59:35,960
Speaker 4: I like that none of this conversation has been from

1233
00:59:36,000 --> 00:59:39,520
Speaker 4: my perspective. Anything that I think anybody has to change

1234
00:59:39,600 --> 00:59:44,680
Speaker 4: is just getting to know and figuring out, you know,

1235
00:59:45,920 --> 00:59:49,080
Speaker 4: some I've had to make adjustments for people that I

1236
00:59:49,080 --> 00:59:49,840
Speaker 4: want in my life.

1237
00:59:50,080 --> 00:59:50,320
Speaker 5: Right.

1238
00:59:51,600 --> 00:59:57,280
Speaker 4: I am someone that roasts people all the time, and

1239
00:59:57,440 --> 00:59:59,440
Speaker 4: I'm really good at it, and then I have to

1240
00:59:59,480 --> 01:00:03,880
Speaker 4: remember to not have those gloves on for some of

1241
01:00:03,920 --> 01:00:07,080
Speaker 4: my friends and family who can't.

1242
01:00:08,520 --> 01:00:11,560
Speaker 5: Take it, you know, and knowing that I can't take

1243
01:00:11,600 --> 01:00:11,959
Speaker 5: it either.

1244
01:00:12,040 --> 01:00:13,840
Speaker 4: Sometimes, Like my father says something on my hair the

1245
01:00:13,840 --> 01:00:16,960
Speaker 4: other day and I went into this whole like, maya

1246
01:00:17,040 --> 01:00:20,600
Speaker 4: angelou tell him about my father?

1247
01:00:20,880 --> 01:00:23,080
Speaker 5: How are you with the woman that I am? All

1248
01:00:23,120 --> 01:00:24,840
Speaker 5: you see is hat, you know.

1249
01:00:24,960 --> 01:00:26,240
Speaker 4: And it was just like at the end of my

1250
01:00:26,320 --> 01:00:31,560
Speaker 4: dad and I see him just going like, what did I.

1251
01:00:32,200 --> 01:00:33,880
Speaker 5: But at the end of it, I'm going, Dad, all right,

1252
01:00:33,920 --> 01:00:35,120
Speaker 5: I was being sensitive? Right.

1253
01:00:35,160 --> 01:00:38,880
Speaker 4: I can copy that so I can relate to people

1254
01:00:39,240 --> 01:00:41,400
Speaker 4: not wanting to be in that vibe. Sometimes you gotta go,

1255
01:00:41,520 --> 01:00:42,280
Speaker 4: you know what, my bad.

1256
01:00:43,000 --> 01:00:45,600
Speaker 3: And just for the record, you know, I like when

1257
01:00:45,640 --> 01:00:49,560
Speaker 3: it's playful, I'm like reducing you.

1258
01:00:49,680 --> 01:00:51,840
Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm almost doing in a weird way, I'm

1259
01:00:51,840 --> 01:00:55,680
Speaker 2: actually doing the thing then I said you don't like,

1260
01:00:55,800 --> 01:00:59,840
Speaker 2: which is always like oversimplifying your quote unquote quirks and

1261
01:01:00,240 --> 01:01:00,920
Speaker 2: to make fun of them.

1262
01:01:02,560 --> 01:01:05,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's so meta in that way because it's it's

1263
01:01:05,480 --> 01:01:08,080
Speaker 3: clear to me when it's like a joke and when it's.

1264
01:01:08,000 --> 01:01:10,800
Speaker 2: Like and I don't think you're some sensitive person that

1265
01:01:10,960 --> 01:01:13,000
Speaker 2: I am walking on eggshells around at all.

1266
01:01:13,520 --> 01:01:13,640
Speaker 3: Right.

1267
01:01:16,080 --> 01:01:17,040
Speaker 5: I love you know.

1268
01:01:17,360 --> 01:01:19,920
Speaker 4: This is my first time seeing you guys together, and

1269
01:01:20,560 --> 01:01:22,520
Speaker 4: I do. I love it, Like I love the way

1270
01:01:22,600 --> 01:01:23,360
Speaker 4: that communication.

1271
01:01:23,480 --> 01:01:25,680
Speaker 5: I understand. I've really people and it's hard.

1272
01:01:26,480 --> 01:01:28,760
Speaker 4: I've friends we eyes that can't work with you know,

1273
01:01:28,800 --> 01:01:30,960
Speaker 4: we just can't do it. For whatever, I'm the problem.

1274
01:01:31,000 --> 01:01:32,560
Speaker 4: They we both the problem.

1275
01:01:32,640 --> 01:01:34,200
Speaker 5: It's tough because.

1276
01:01:33,920 --> 01:01:36,920
Speaker 4: It's a lot of You're also in a relationship here,

1277
01:01:37,120 --> 01:01:40,400
Speaker 4: it's a lot of take trust that has to be

1278
01:01:40,560 --> 01:01:45,080
Speaker 4: given and both dynamic people. Sometimes it comes into play

1279
01:01:45,240 --> 01:01:48,840
Speaker 4: like you're I've had this a lot.

1280
01:01:49,760 --> 01:01:49,880
Speaker 3: Uh.

1281
01:01:50,120 --> 01:01:52,280
Speaker 5: Sometimes I've had it with straight guys.

1282
01:01:54,800 --> 01:02:00,840
Speaker 4: Overpowering them in performance right and and feeling like I

1283
01:02:00,960 --> 01:02:04,640
Speaker 4: need to always tuck myself into not overpower because if

1284
01:02:04,720 --> 01:02:07,240
Speaker 4: I do overpower, there will be a judgment instead of

1285
01:02:07,840 --> 01:02:10,720
Speaker 4: me acknowledging. At this point, I only want to be

1286
01:02:11,640 --> 01:02:17,200
Speaker 4: on place in places where everybody's killing it. I don't

1287
01:02:17,240 --> 01:02:18,800
Speaker 4: ever want to be around somebody. It's like, can you

1288
01:02:19,800 --> 01:02:22,880
Speaker 4: not do? Or can you I always tell people when

1289
01:02:23,080 --> 01:02:25,200
Speaker 4: if I'm headlining somewhere and they go, what do you

1290
01:02:25,240 --> 01:02:25,880
Speaker 4: want me not to say?

1291
01:02:25,960 --> 01:02:28,120
Speaker 5: Can I not do it? I'm like, what act have

1292
01:02:28,200 --> 01:02:30,000
Speaker 5: you been doing? Do whatever you've been they got you

1293
01:02:30,120 --> 01:02:32,000
Speaker 5: to this point? What do I care? I don't care

1294
01:02:32,000 --> 01:02:32,720
Speaker 5: if you blue.

1295
01:02:32,520 --> 01:02:33,960
Speaker 4: A D D D da da da da da. Do

1296
01:02:34,040 --> 01:02:35,880
Speaker 4: whatever you're doing, because I'm coming out there to do

1297
01:02:35,920 --> 01:02:38,480
Speaker 4: what I did. And if whatever I'm doing has been

1298
01:02:38,520 --> 01:02:40,680
Speaker 4: impeded or I can't clean up what you did, then

1299
01:02:40,720 --> 01:02:43,880
Speaker 4: there's a problem. I shouldn't be headlining, so you know,

1300
01:02:44,000 --> 01:02:47,600
Speaker 4: we do that and I'm I'm I see that with

1301
01:02:47,760 --> 01:02:51,320
Speaker 4: you guys. You know, I'm sure there's ups and downs

1302
01:02:51,360 --> 01:02:54,160
Speaker 4: in this relationship, but it's good the way you're communicating

1303
01:02:54,280 --> 01:02:56,640
Speaker 4: and the way you were able to say to him, Listen,

1304
01:02:56,720 --> 01:02:59,160
Speaker 4: I understand these things and they affect you in a

1305
01:02:59,240 --> 01:03:02,440
Speaker 4: certain way. And somebody like you, who people probably think

1306
01:03:02,680 --> 01:03:04,000
Speaker 4: never get affected because there's.

1307
01:03:03,840 --> 01:03:06,840
Speaker 5: A sort of this cheery disposition. That also there's things

1308
01:03:06,880 --> 01:03:09,400
Speaker 5: that can, you know, perturb you as well. You're not

1309
01:03:09,600 --> 01:03:11,840
Speaker 5: just some walkover. People can do whatever they want to

1310
01:03:11,840 --> 01:03:12,120
Speaker 5: do to you.

1311
01:03:12,840 --> 01:03:16,880
Speaker 3: It's true, I'm really cranky all the time and no

1312
01:03:16,960 --> 01:03:17,720
Speaker 3: one knows that that.

1313
01:03:17,920 --> 01:03:20,080
Speaker 4: Well, this is taking away from what I said, but

1314
01:03:22,080 --> 01:03:23,880
Speaker 4: we gave you a hard shot about the smoothies. But

1315
01:03:23,920 --> 01:03:24,560
Speaker 4: you're more than that.

1316
01:03:24,960 --> 01:03:27,760
Speaker 3: You are, Yeah, you're more than You're more than a smoothie.

1317
01:03:27,920 --> 01:03:30,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, yes, you think smoothies have real fruit

1318
01:03:30,280 --> 01:03:32,240
Speaker 2: in them, but what else would be in.

1319
01:03:34,720 --> 01:03:36,800
Speaker 4: Have you ever opened up what's those cereal that has

1320
01:03:36,880 --> 01:03:41,280
Speaker 4: the strawberry the special k that's all dehydrated strawberry strawberries?

1321
01:03:41,320 --> 01:03:43,800
Speaker 5: How's strawberry gonna live in a box so.

1322
01:03:43,880 --> 01:03:45,880
Speaker 3: They dry it out? It's nutritional value.

1323
01:03:49,760 --> 01:03:51,000
Speaker 5: I want to see your kidneys.

1324
01:03:58,120 --> 01:04:02,240
Speaker 3: I mean, should we do our fine? It's been I

1325
01:04:02,320 --> 01:04:05,640
Speaker 3: think it is? Is that crazy? I mean I'm a

1326
01:04:05,720 --> 01:04:06,000
Speaker 3: good fi.

1327
01:04:06,200 --> 01:04:11,720
Speaker 2: I mean too, I think right, do you promise you'll

1328
01:04:11,800 --> 01:04:12,240
Speaker 2: keep in touch?

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01:04:12,760 --> 01:04:13,360
Speaker 3: Of course?

1330
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Speaker 5: Camp we can't go back from here. Absolutely. I'm so

1331
01:04:17,880 --> 01:04:20,320
Speaker 5: honored you guys. Ask you if you oh, that means

1332
01:04:20,360 --> 01:04:20,640
Speaker 5: the world.

1333
01:04:20,880 --> 01:04:23,840
Speaker 2: You've been on the top of earlist for so long.

1334
01:04:23,960 --> 01:04:24,160
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1335
01:04:24,320 --> 01:04:26,720
Speaker 2: I was almost like, would you want like because we're

1336
01:04:26,760 --> 01:04:28,800
Speaker 2: not super close for I mean, we've met a couple

1337
01:04:28,800 --> 01:04:30,440
Speaker 2: of times that we're not like really good friends, and

1338
01:04:30,480 --> 01:04:33,240
Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't know, maybe it'll be like the

1339
01:04:33,400 --> 01:04:37,320
Speaker 2: vibe will be not a perfect man performers.

1340
01:04:37,480 --> 01:04:40,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, and that's where listen and I'll say this before

1341
01:04:40,880 --> 01:04:43,120
Speaker 4: we do our last thing I used to do.

1342
01:04:43,760 --> 01:04:43,880
Speaker 3: Uh.

1343
01:04:44,520 --> 01:04:46,680
Speaker 4: The only person would do open mics as long as

1344
01:04:46,720 --> 01:04:49,160
Speaker 4: I did, I mean when I'm already past the professional

1345
01:04:49,240 --> 01:04:51,720
Speaker 4: spots was Mike Lawrence.

1346
01:04:51,840 --> 01:04:53,560
Speaker 5: He also would do that. And that's the thing I

1347
01:04:53,800 --> 01:04:55,480
Speaker 5: liked about our dynamic.

1348
01:04:55,600 --> 01:04:58,040
Speaker 4: He's one of the best writers you ever run into,

1349
01:04:58,320 --> 01:04:59,360
Speaker 4: funniest comics.

1350
01:04:59,560 --> 01:05:00,920
Speaker 5: Just a good person.

1351
01:05:01,120 --> 01:05:06,520
Speaker 4: Now, Dad, and we never thought we were too good

1352
01:05:07,320 --> 01:05:09,800
Speaker 4: to do an open mic and that's not me trying

1353
01:05:09,840 --> 01:05:12,280
Speaker 4: to shave people who go I'm above open mic because

1354
01:05:12,320 --> 01:05:14,840
Speaker 4: unders saying that's a rough game. But at the same time,

1355
01:05:15,320 --> 01:05:18,080
Speaker 4: we both had that feeling of like, where can we

1356
01:05:18,320 --> 01:05:21,960
Speaker 4: go where the energy is still the same of trying

1357
01:05:22,000 --> 01:05:25,960
Speaker 4: to make something happen and to be around that energy

1358
01:05:26,080 --> 01:05:28,280
Speaker 4: and people working out bits and working, and that's what

1359
01:05:28,360 --> 01:05:28,840
Speaker 4: we want to do.

1360
01:05:29,240 --> 01:05:30,960
Speaker 5: We want to work out bits, we want to work.

1361
01:05:31,160 --> 01:05:34,800
Speaker 4: So it's like, I don't have that where I'm like,

1362
01:05:35,040 --> 01:05:37,040
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna do somebody think I'm not gonna I

1363
01:05:37,040 --> 01:05:38,880
Speaker 4: don't have that at all unless I don't like you

1364
01:05:39,040 --> 01:05:40,440
Speaker 4: and I'm like, I want to be bothered with you

1365
01:05:40,640 --> 01:05:44,040
Speaker 4: or if I'm busy. But I've never so many common

1366
01:05:44,240 --> 01:05:45,560
Speaker 4: have my number that should and not have my number,

1367
01:05:46,000 --> 01:05:48,200
Speaker 4: not get my number. Like people just started yesterday and

1368
01:05:48,240 --> 01:05:50,080
Speaker 4: they like you do might show with it and I'm

1369
01:05:50,120 --> 01:05:52,880
Speaker 4: doing some cafe somewhere in the middle of nowhere, and

1370
01:05:53,040 --> 01:05:55,240
Speaker 4: I'm like, yeah, okay, girl, Like we had fun, but

1371
01:05:55,280 --> 01:05:57,480
Speaker 4: you know what I'm saying, it's never going to be that,

1372
01:05:57,560 --> 01:06:01,560
Speaker 4: and it should never be that for something that you love.

1373
01:06:02,120 --> 01:06:07,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it's true. Wow wow Wow.

1374
01:06:08,240 --> 01:06:11,680
Speaker 2: Our final segment okay, I can't wait. Is called shout outs,

1375
01:06:11,760 --> 01:06:15,080
Speaker 2: and so we basically pay homage to the straight tradition

1376
01:06:15,200 --> 01:06:17,440
Speaker 2: of the radio shout out, so things Z one hundred

1377
01:06:17,600 --> 01:06:21,760
Speaker 2: think TRL. It's just like, it's an incredible straight oral

1378
01:06:21,800 --> 01:06:24,320
Speaker 2: tradition of speaking in this way and shouting something else.

1379
01:06:24,480 --> 01:06:26,520
Speaker 2: And by definition we always think of them right on

1380
01:06:26,560 --> 01:06:28,120
Speaker 2: the spot. And I haven't thought of mine yet. I

1381
01:06:28,200 --> 01:06:30,480
Speaker 2: actually have one. Okay, I'm gonna think of one as

1382
01:06:30,520 --> 01:06:31,080
Speaker 2: you're talking.

1383
01:06:30,920 --> 01:06:35,840
Speaker 3: A hard left turn. Okay, okay, what is up everyone

1384
01:06:35,960 --> 01:06:38,760
Speaker 3: around the globe from sea to shining sea. I want

1385
01:06:38,800 --> 01:06:41,120
Speaker 3: to give a huge shout out to hunk on Earth.

1386
01:06:41,520 --> 01:06:43,960
Speaker 3: I have finally watched the show that George was like,

1387
01:06:44,040 --> 01:06:45,680
Speaker 3: you gotta watch it. I think you'll really like it.

1388
01:06:45,880 --> 01:06:47,400
Speaker 3: And I was like, sure, but you know how it

1389
01:06:47,480 --> 01:06:49,800
Speaker 3: is where Susan WI recommend something. I'm not interested anymore

1390
01:06:49,840 --> 01:06:54,120
Speaker 3: because now it's not my idea. But this time I said, okay, fine,

1391
01:06:54,200 --> 01:06:56,840
Speaker 3: I'll watch this show. I'm in love with this show.

1392
01:06:57,000 --> 01:06:59,960
Speaker 3: I finished it in one second. I want to rewatch.

1393
01:07:00,360 --> 01:07:04,439
Speaker 3: It's so funny, jokes are back, her performance is incredible.

1394
01:07:04,920 --> 01:07:07,080
Speaker 3: I've even watched interviews with her now because I'm just

1395
01:07:07,160 --> 01:07:09,680
Speaker 3: like this. She is so good at this, and she's

1396
01:07:09,760 --> 01:07:13,120
Speaker 3: like perfectly cranky. I watched her on seth Myers watch

1397
01:07:13,200 --> 01:07:15,680
Speaker 3: the interview. She's just like He's like, do you like performing?

1398
01:07:15,800 --> 01:07:18,240
Speaker 2: She's like not really, and I'm like, I love you.

1399
01:07:18,640 --> 01:07:23,080
Speaker 3: Finally, somebody who is like this is famous now Kunk

1400
01:07:23,160 --> 01:07:24,600
Speaker 3: on Earth can't get enough of this stuff.

1401
01:07:26,080 --> 01:07:27,360
Speaker 2: Whoop love that?

1402
01:07:27,680 --> 01:07:27,919
Speaker 3: Okay?

1403
01:07:27,920 --> 01:07:28,240
Speaker 5: I thought it?

1404
01:07:28,240 --> 01:07:32,160
Speaker 2: Wo Okay, Okay, what's up listeners out there? Everyone's driving

1405
01:07:32,200 --> 01:07:34,320
Speaker 2: in their car or even in an uber. I want

1406
01:07:34,320 --> 01:07:37,360
Speaker 2: to give a shout out to epistolary novels. You know,

1407
01:07:38,320 --> 01:07:41,400
Speaker 2: novels where it's a bunch of letters, oh written so

1408
01:07:42,400 --> 01:07:45,320
Speaker 2: it'll be like dear Yamnika, dear George, and that's the

1409
01:07:45,480 --> 01:07:48,400
Speaker 2: entire novel. Okay. If you're in a reading rut, guess

1410
01:07:48,440 --> 01:07:51,800
Speaker 2: what's easy? Reading an email? Just you pick up one

1411
01:07:51,840 --> 01:07:53,640
Speaker 2: of these books. It's like you're reading a bunch of emails,

1412
01:07:53,640 --> 01:07:55,720
Speaker 2: a bunch of letters. You get into the groove of things.

1413
01:07:55,840 --> 01:07:58,680
Speaker 2: Usually the chapters are sure because they're letters. I just

1414
01:07:58,720 --> 01:08:01,840
Speaker 2: finished a book called Happiness as Such Benatalia Ginsburg. It

1415
01:08:01,960 --> 01:08:05,360
Speaker 2: is mostly letters between a very past aggressive mother and

1416
01:08:05,440 --> 01:08:09,800
Speaker 2: a maybe LGBT son. I was living we are talking.

1417
01:08:09,880 --> 01:08:13,320
Speaker 2: It is nineteen seventies Italy. He's like, not answering her

1418
01:08:13,440 --> 01:08:15,600
Speaker 2: letters because he's sort of like a flop. She's like,

1419
01:08:16,000 --> 01:08:18,960
Speaker 2: you've disappointed me again, you know, blah blah blah.

1420
01:08:19,280 --> 01:08:20,000
Speaker 3: I was in it.

1421
01:08:20,240 --> 01:08:22,439
Speaker 2: I was into the characters. You find out so much

1422
01:08:22,439 --> 01:08:24,240
Speaker 2: about people when they're the ones writing the letters. Only

1423
01:08:24,280 --> 01:08:27,000
Speaker 2: they're not like an ammunition narrator. So I'm telling you

1424
01:08:27,080 --> 01:08:29,680
Speaker 2: get out there finding a pistolary novel. It'll get you

1425
01:08:29,800 --> 01:08:31,599
Speaker 2: back into reading and then you'll be ready to read.

1426
01:08:31,600 --> 01:08:34,320
Speaker 2: Award a piece, all right, whooo genius?

1427
01:08:35,040 --> 01:08:37,160
Speaker 3: Okay, and how many come whenever you are ready?

1428
01:08:37,479 --> 01:08:44,080
Speaker 4: Okay, Hey there everybody, This is young Anika on the

1429
01:08:44,439 --> 01:08:45,080
Speaker 4: ones and two.

1430
01:08:45,720 --> 01:08:48,559
Speaker 5: Yes, and I know you guys are have an amazing day.

1431
01:08:48,640 --> 01:08:51,200
Speaker 4: I just want to give a special, special shout out

1432
01:08:51,640 --> 01:08:55,320
Speaker 4: to the TSA worker that I ran across last.

1433
01:08:56,960 --> 01:08:59,240
Speaker 5: I didn't get her name, but I believe it might

1434
01:08:59,360 --> 01:09:00,679
Speaker 5: be Bethany.

1435
01:09:02,560 --> 01:09:06,479
Speaker 4: She was so humble in reminding me as I sat

1436
01:09:06,640 --> 01:09:10,360
Speaker 4: there waiting for a TSA agent to check my bag

1437
01:09:10,479 --> 01:09:13,599
Speaker 4: that had been pulled to the side almost seven minutes ago.

1438
01:09:14,920 --> 01:09:17,439
Speaker 4: Uh that when I said to her, is there anybody

1439
01:09:17,760 --> 01:09:21,040
Speaker 4: that can check my bag. Please, I have to catch

1440
01:09:21,040 --> 01:09:24,800
Speaker 4: a flight, and Bethany reminded me everybody here has to

1441
01:09:24,920 --> 01:09:28,080
Speaker 4: catch a flight, and I just wanted to thank her

1442
01:09:28,080 --> 01:09:30,760
Speaker 4: because of course has Of course, you know what, girl,

1443
01:09:30,800 --> 01:09:31,360
Speaker 4: you so right.

1444
01:09:31,520 --> 01:09:33,920
Speaker 5: I did not realize that I was at the airport.

1445
01:09:35,120 --> 01:09:38,360
Speaker 4: What I meant was I immediately got to catch a

1446
01:09:38,439 --> 01:09:39,760
Speaker 4: flight because I'm already late.

1447
01:09:40,080 --> 01:09:42,479
Speaker 5: Now I'm almost serting everybody else in here. It's on

1448
01:09:42,640 --> 01:09:44,360
Speaker 5: time for a flight and they don't need to get

1449
01:09:44,360 --> 01:09:47,160
Speaker 5: to any flight right now. Girl, But minas boreding as

1450
01:09:47,200 --> 01:09:47,719
Speaker 5: we speak.

1451
01:09:49,040 --> 01:09:51,320
Speaker 4: But thank you for that reminder, because you know what,

1452
01:09:51,720 --> 01:09:55,559
Speaker 4: without you, where were they on my flight a lot

1453
01:09:55,680 --> 01:09:57,040
Speaker 4: earlier than I was?

1454
01:09:58,200 --> 01:09:58,439
Speaker 5: Thank you?

1455
01:10:00,160 --> 01:10:00,760
Speaker 2: Is it love that?

1456
01:10:01,320 --> 01:10:04,479
Speaker 3: Wow? I love when people abuse their little positions of power.

1457
01:10:06,280 --> 01:10:11,200
Speaker 5: We all got a girl, please think I'm stupid? Wow?

1458
01:10:11,800 --> 01:10:14,920
Speaker 2: When they like preemptively you're literally putting her bag on

1459
01:10:15,080 --> 01:10:18,479
Speaker 2: and they're like laptops out, like, oh I haven't.

1460
01:10:18,280 --> 01:10:19,880
Speaker 5: Opened it, yeah, yeah, give me a chance.

1461
01:10:19,920 --> 01:10:22,560
Speaker 3: And then the next time I'll brow myself. They're like,

1462
01:10:22,680 --> 01:10:25,160
Speaker 3: actually keep your laptop in. I'm like, oh my god, no, no, no, no, no,

1463
01:10:26,280 --> 01:10:27,960
Speaker 3: give me a set of rules. I will follow them.

1464
01:10:28,240 --> 01:10:32,280
Speaker 2: The other day, someone fully grab my dick and balls.

1465
01:10:32,360 --> 01:10:35,160
Speaker 2: If I may be so bold like when doing like

1466
01:10:35,360 --> 01:10:37,400
Speaker 2: I was like, I've been padded down before. I've never

1467
01:10:37,520 --> 01:10:42,080
Speaker 2: had someone fully just be like, Wow, don't go through

1468
01:10:42,160 --> 01:10:42,479
Speaker 2: it with a.

1469
01:10:42,479 --> 01:10:45,960
Speaker 4: Wig on, because when them bobby pins don't hit the

1470
01:10:46,000 --> 01:10:47,920
Speaker 4: way they need to hit on the register, they will

1471
01:10:48,040 --> 01:10:50,639
Speaker 4: make you take you wiggles and shake it around. Wow.

1472
01:10:50,760 --> 01:10:54,360
Speaker 5: It's embarrassing. So wow, I try to have braids in

1473
01:10:54,439 --> 01:10:54,720
Speaker 5: my hair.

1474
01:10:55,400 --> 01:10:55,759
Speaker 3: Sheesh.

1475
01:10:56,479 --> 01:10:57,719
Speaker 2: Well see you at JFK.

1476
01:10:58,720 --> 01:10:59,880
Speaker 3: Well, thanks so much for doing this.

1477
01:11:00,040 --> 01:11:02,720
Speaker 4: Thank you guys, thank you, and thank you to all

1478
01:11:02,760 --> 01:11:06,040
Speaker 4: the listeners. And I wish everybody nothing but love and

1479
01:11:06,160 --> 01:11:07,840
Speaker 4: success and joy and peace.

1480
01:11:08,880 --> 01:11:10,719
Speaker 3: And with that, good bye bye,