WEBVTT - Don’t Stop Believing, Plus: A Truth Circle to Remember 0:00:02.120 --> 0:00:06.160 Hello, everyone, Welcome back to Bachler Happy Hour. I'm Joe 0:00:06.240 --> 0:00:08.400 and I'm sorry enough and we are so happy to 0:00:08.440 --> 0:00:11.440 be here. Today we are going to be recapping the 0:00:11.480 --> 0:00:14.520 second episode of The Golden Bachelor, second episode of Bachelor 0:00:14.600 --> 0:00:17.520 in Paradise, and then later in the week we have 0:00:17.680 --> 0:00:22.200 two guests, Nancy and Hannah Brown, who stirred up a 0:00:22.280 --> 0:00:25.360 lot of shit in Paradise, which was great. I enjoyed it. 0:00:25.480 --> 0:00:26.239 I enjoyed it too. 0:00:26.800 --> 0:00:29.160 One thing I will say about that before we recap 0:00:29.200 --> 0:00:35.320 Golden the castmates every time she asked something Hannah if 0:00:35.400 --> 0:00:36.920 they felt like they had the answer. 0:00:37.040 --> 0:00:37.920 Oh my god. I know. 0:00:38.720 --> 0:00:42.600 It's so funny when you watch these shows, because you 0:00:42.600 --> 0:00:45.280 would think that there was a gun into their head 0:00:45.360 --> 0:00:49.360 being like answer honestly or you're kicked off the beach, 0:00:49.479 --> 0:00:51.400 and it's like no one would know if you just 0:00:51.520 --> 0:00:54.360 like said like I'm good, things are like lied. 0:00:54.320 --> 0:00:57.240 Yeah, And then you saw like the spark in Hannah's 0:00:57.240 --> 0:01:00.920 face realizing like, oh, they're really just gonna answer everything 0:01:00.960 --> 0:01:01.320 I asked. 0:01:01.880 --> 0:01:04.160 I was like, this is going way better than I expected, 0:01:04.360 --> 0:01:06.640 Like I'm getting everything plus more. 0:01:06.840 --> 0:01:08.679 Yeah, They're all just like, oh, I can't believe you 0:01:08.720 --> 0:01:10.400 asked me that, So now I got to answer, if 0:01:10.400 --> 0:01:10.839 we were. 0:01:10.720 --> 0:01:12.760 To ever go back down and do a cameo in Paradise, 0:01:12.800 --> 0:01:14.920 which hopefully one day we will get the chance to, 0:01:15.640 --> 0:01:16.720 I would love to do the. 0:01:16.720 --> 0:01:19.440 Truth Star Tull circle. Yeah, that's that seems like a 0:01:19.440 --> 0:01:19.960 lot of fun. 0:01:20.000 --> 0:01:22.520 And usually I hate the truth circles because they're always 0:01:22.560 --> 0:01:24.480 like really emotional and you end up getting people's like 0:01:24.480 --> 0:01:27.400 deepest darkest secrets and traumas from their childhood. 0:01:27.400 --> 0:01:29.119 But this one was fun. It was just like stirring 0:01:29.200 --> 0:01:29.520 up shit. 0:01:29.680 --> 0:01:34.160 Yeah, yeah, I agree. Great, Okay, let's recap Golden shall we. 0:01:34.560 --> 0:01:36.039 I'm so ready let's do it. 0:01:36.360 --> 0:01:40.199 So, first thing, we see the women arrive in the mansion, 0:01:40.200 --> 0:01:42.040 which we don't really see that on the show anymore, 0:01:42.080 --> 0:01:43.880 I think because they used to do it probably, but 0:01:43.920 --> 0:01:47.760 like this is the first time that Golden Women have 0:01:47.840 --> 0:01:50.240 ever stepped into the mansion and then are sleeping there, 0:01:50.280 --> 0:01:50.880 you know. Yeah. 0:01:50.920 --> 0:01:53.240 I feel like we usually see like we're here, we're 0:01:53.240 --> 0:01:56.320 at the mansion, yay, like kind of like just the arrival, 0:01:56.440 --> 0:01:58.400 but I feel like we got to see more of 0:01:58.440 --> 0:02:01.400 the mansion than what they usually show us in terms 0:02:01.400 --> 0:02:04.160 of like the bedrooms, the bathrooms and you've never see 0:02:04.200 --> 0:02:05.920 it at the mansion, and neither have I because you 0:02:05.960 --> 0:02:08.679 went home night one and my season was shot at 0:02:08.760 --> 0:02:12.640 NEMA Colin, So I was actually excited to see what 0:02:12.680 --> 0:02:13.680 the bedrooms look like. 0:02:13.880 --> 0:02:16.080 Yeah, it's kind of crazy that neither of us have 0:02:16.280 --> 0:02:18.000 seen the bedrooms in them. 0:02:18.000 --> 0:02:20.000 I've never even stepped foot in the bathroom. 0:02:20.520 --> 0:02:22.000 And we're hosting the official Bachelor. 0:02:22.320 --> 0:02:24.160 I know what makes us qualified to be here. 0:02:24.360 --> 0:02:26.960 Yeah, but it is like it is in one of 0:02:26.960 --> 0:02:29.960 the women like, yeah, like I'm seventy years old, I 0:02:30.000 --> 0:02:33.560 am set in my ways, which I completely understand because 0:02:33.560 --> 0:02:35.840 I feel like I'm setting I'm set in my bedroom 0:02:36.240 --> 0:02:40.040 ways already. You are like, I don't like sharing your 0:02:40.120 --> 0:02:41.680 room with anyone besides you. 0:02:41.960 --> 0:02:44.480 Yeah, you don't like sharing a room with anyone besides me, 0:02:44.480 --> 0:02:47.880 And you really don't like sharing a bathroom with anyone besides. 0:02:47.639 --> 0:02:49.280 Now I need my own bathroom. 0:02:49.360 --> 0:02:52.320 Yeah, it's a big, big issue, not an issue, but 0:02:52.400 --> 0:02:53.560 like it's a big deal for you. 0:02:54.240 --> 0:02:57.000 It's fair. You like your privacy quarters. 0:02:57.360 --> 0:02:59.400 So I can't even imagine how these women felt, being 0:02:59.480 --> 0:03:02.320 like who's And I actually thought about this. I was like, 0:03:02.440 --> 0:03:05.280 how are they going to do this? Bunk bed situation 0:03:05.560 --> 0:03:07.640 because I can imagine it's not easy for all of 0:03:07.639 --> 0:03:09.360 these women to climb up to a top bunk. 0:03:09.600 --> 0:03:10.080 That's true. 0:03:10.120 --> 0:03:11.919 I don't even like climbing up to a top bunk. 0:03:12.040 --> 0:03:13.200 I didn't even think about that. 0:03:14.000 --> 0:03:17.120 Wow, okay, well, it's like what did someone call it? 0:03:17.200 --> 0:03:19.320 Someone called a big girl camp. It's like big girl 0:03:19.360 --> 0:03:21.760 summer camps. It's one of those things. It's a shock 0:03:21.800 --> 0:03:23.359 to the system when you get there. You're probably never 0:03:23.360 --> 0:03:25.400 going to fully love it, but they'll just kind of 0:03:25.400 --> 0:03:26.680 get used to it as it goes on. 0:03:27.240 --> 0:03:33.119 So in walks the camp counselor Jesse himself in it's 0:03:33.160 --> 0:03:34.400 the first date card. 0:03:34.520 --> 0:03:34.680 I know. 0:03:34.760 --> 0:03:37.520 It is a big deal, very exciting, and very funny 0:03:37.560 --> 0:03:41.280 because Nancy, who is one of Joe's favorites and we're 0:03:41.360 --> 0:03:44.440 very excited to talk to her more in our interview, goes, 0:03:44.840 --> 0:03:45.560 oh what. 0:03:45.480 --> 0:03:46.280 Are you going to do with that? 0:03:46.520 --> 0:03:48.360 Oh you're not going to read it like she had 0:03:48.600 --> 0:03:51.840 no clue what was going on, which was very endearing. 0:03:52.080 --> 0:03:54.880 I love Nancy, nance that's my girl. I think I 0:03:54.920 --> 0:03:58.000 got her. I think she's the winner, but we'll see. 0:03:58.520 --> 0:04:01.000 I can't remember who we picked as our top four. 0:04:01.160 --> 0:04:01.920 Nancy's in my top. 0:04:02.120 --> 0:04:03.680 I know she is, I can't remember she's a mine 0:04:03.720 --> 0:04:03.920 or not. 0:04:05.200 --> 0:04:09.760 So then Teresa gets Teresa gets the first day card, 0:04:09.800 --> 0:04:10.880 which was surprising. 0:04:11.320 --> 0:04:14.200 Was it surprising? Who did you think it was going 0:04:14.240 --> 0:04:14.440 to be? 0:04:16.080 --> 0:04:19.039 I didn't. I thought it was maybe going to be 0:04:21.520 --> 0:04:23.119 the blonde's who's the blonde woman? 0:04:23.880 --> 0:04:27.440 There's a few of them, Joan Joan thought it was 0:04:27.480 --> 0:04:27.839 me Joe. 0:04:27.839 --> 0:04:28.640 I thought it was gonna be Jon. 0:04:28.880 --> 0:04:30.839 Okay, I didn't know who's going to be. I thought 0:04:31.600 --> 0:04:35.719 maybe Leslie, maybe Nancy. But Teresa totally made sense to 0:04:35.720 --> 0:04:38.960 me because they did share like a really cute special 0:04:39.000 --> 0:04:42.320 moment on night one with the cupcake and the kiss. 0:04:42.440 --> 0:04:45.720 I just felt that Teresa there was potential of her 0:04:45.760 --> 0:04:48.839 going home and not getting arose that first night because 0:04:48.839 --> 0:04:50.360 she was like one of the last people to talk 0:04:50.440 --> 0:04:51.120 to Gary. 0:04:51.400 --> 0:04:53.159 Yeah, but they like made out hard. 0:04:53.320 --> 0:04:55.800 Yeah, that's true. That's true. That's true. You're right, you're right. 0:04:56.200 --> 0:05:00.480 And I feel like he seems to like in with 0:05:00.560 --> 0:05:06.440 kind of a soft, very sweet, sensitive, caring demeanor. Not 0:05:06.560 --> 0:05:08.880 all of the women, but I feel like like Faith 0:05:09.120 --> 0:05:12.400 and Teresa kind of have that like warmth, like very 0:05:12.480 --> 0:05:13.520 very warm. 0:05:13.920 --> 0:05:17.200 Softness to them. Yeah, not that they're not strong women, 0:05:17.240 --> 0:05:17.920 but you know what I mean. 0:05:18.040 --> 0:05:20.880 Yeah, and I feel like he also kind of has 0:05:20.920 --> 0:05:24.080 that like sensitive softness to him and like he's kind 0:05:24.080 --> 0:05:25.520 of connecting with those kinds of women. 0:05:25.680 --> 0:05:28.200 And Teresa, one thing she said that stuck with me 0:05:28.240 --> 0:05:31.440 is she got married at eighteen, I know, and then 0:05:31.480 --> 0:05:34.680 married for I think it was like forty years plus. Yeah. 0:05:34.680 --> 0:05:37.040 She said that they were high school sweethearts and that 0:05:37.120 --> 0:05:40.880 he got drafted and they got married so very young. 0:05:40.920 --> 0:05:43.200 I mean, when people say that I got married young 0:05:43.240 --> 0:05:45.279 at twenty five, I'm it'd be like, mm hmm, check 0:05:45.279 --> 0:05:46.120 out my girl, Teresa. 0:05:46.480 --> 0:05:49.120 Yeah, Teresa, and it worked so and it worked. There 0:05:49.160 --> 0:05:51.680 we go and now she's ready. She's she seems to 0:05:51.720 --> 0:05:56.679 be very ready today. She seems to be wildly into Gary, 0:05:56.800 --> 0:05:58.400 like she's really into Garty. 0:05:58.520 --> 0:06:02.800 Oh yeah, like emotionally and sexually, she's down for Garrett. 0:06:04.120 --> 0:06:08.040 I agree. Well, let's first let's talk about the death drive. Yeah, 0:06:08.480 --> 0:06:12.520 of him out in LA Highway at night. No had 0:06:12.680 --> 0:06:16.159 no bachelor. You're gonna give this guy a car with 0:06:16.360 --> 0:06:17.360 broken headlights? 0:06:17.440 --> 0:06:21.240 I know, And honestly, like I am a little bit 0:06:21.920 --> 0:06:22.919 of an anxious driver. 0:06:23.240 --> 0:06:24.440 I don't really like driving. 0:06:24.920 --> 0:06:27.640 I'm not a good driver, that's for sure, even with 0:06:27.720 --> 0:06:30.360 my fate confidence. So like, as much as I'm twenty 0:06:30.440 --> 0:06:32.120 five and I can't imagine what it feels like to 0:06:32.160 --> 0:06:34.719 be in that position at seventy one, I would have 0:06:34.760 --> 0:06:37.719 been very, very nervous. Like I would have been white 0:06:37.760 --> 0:06:39.640 knuckling the wheel for sure if I was in their position. 0:06:39.680 --> 0:06:41.839 So I can't even imagine how they felt. 0:06:41.920 --> 0:06:43.640 There you go, that's it. Remember I said I had 0:06:43.720 --> 0:06:45.800 a dream last night where I was driving and I 0:06:45.960 --> 0:06:47.520 lost I lost vision. 0:06:47.880 --> 0:06:48.599 Oh my god. 0:06:48.760 --> 0:06:51.840 Yeah, that's that's definitely what that's from. 0:06:51.920 --> 0:06:52.160 Joe. 0:06:52.279 --> 0:06:53.480 Golden Bachelor is. 0:06:53.680 --> 0:06:55.479 Just dreaming about Golden bachelors. 0:06:55.480 --> 0:06:58.080 I think Golden Bachelor is now at this point has 0:06:58.120 --> 0:07:00.200 given me multiple nightmare It's taking. 0:07:00.080 --> 0:07:02.000 Over your subconscious. This is not the first time you've 0:07:02.080 --> 0:07:05.320 dreamt about this show. It's really impacting your life. 0:07:05.760 --> 0:07:09.080 So Teresa, Gary, they go on a little diner date. 0:07:09.600 --> 0:07:13.040 It's got that Hary met Sally vibe. Very cute, a 0:07:13.040 --> 0:07:17.160 little a little cheesy, but they're having fun. And that's 0:07:17.160 --> 0:07:19.560 like when people when when you see people like really 0:07:19.680 --> 0:07:22.800 enjoying themselves, it's fun to watch. 0:07:23.000 --> 0:07:25.680 Yeah, I feel like when you do a really cheesy 0:07:25.760 --> 0:07:27.840 date and you could tell the people like aren't really 0:07:27.880 --> 0:07:30.200 into it. It feels just like a little awkward and forced. 0:07:30.280 --> 0:07:34.080 But they're both kind of cheesy people, yea, And you 0:07:34.120 --> 0:07:37.120 could just tell, like I was like, oh, this is 0:07:37.160 --> 0:07:40.800 so corny, but like she was smiling so big. You 0:07:40.840 --> 0:07:44.200 could just feel the happiness and excitement like radiating off 0:07:44.240 --> 0:07:46.560 of her of like how special that night was for her. 0:07:47.000 --> 0:07:50.760 So that kind of made it less corny and more cute. 0:07:50.840 --> 0:07:53.360 Yeah, they were, Honestly, they seem to both be having 0:07:53.400 --> 0:07:56.040 the time of their lives. And then after the whole 0:07:56.680 --> 0:08:01.560 dance and the flash mob, Gary was so happy and 0:08:01.840 --> 0:08:05.880 just like Teresa, will you accept this rose? He like 0:08:05.920 --> 0:08:08.520 gave it to her like you're my girlfriend, I know, 0:08:08.720 --> 0:08:09.080 and she. 0:08:09.160 --> 0:08:11.680 Was like yes, Like oh my god. It's like kind 0:08:11.680 --> 0:08:13.200 of a movie moment, to. 0:08:13.080 --> 0:08:15.080 Be honest, I wonder if he picks her. 0:08:15.800 --> 0:08:19.000 Oh, I think she's definitely going far. Like they have 0:08:19.040 --> 0:08:22.000 a real connection. And I do think the conversation of 0:08:22.040 --> 0:08:25.520 them talking about him losing his wife and her losing 0:08:25.600 --> 0:08:29.400 her husband, like you definitely see there's a special connection 0:08:30.520 --> 0:08:33.760 with the women and Gary who have lost their husband. 0:08:33.760 --> 0:08:35.319 See a lot of that this episode, a. 0:08:35.280 --> 0:08:39.440 Lot which actually not really sad but like there's something 0:08:39.480 --> 0:08:42.200 that they're bonded by, right, and they both understand what 0:08:42.240 --> 0:08:42.840 that feels like. 0:08:43.040 --> 0:08:47.680 Yeah, yeah, so let's let's let's cut to uh Franco 0:08:47.920 --> 0:08:52.640 slash Fabio shoot Franco. 0:08:52.440 --> 0:08:55.600 And did you ever meet Franco? Have you ever had 0:08:55.600 --> 0:08:57.320 a date with him? I? 0:08:57.360 --> 0:08:59.800 Actually, I don't know. I don't think so, I don't. 0:08:59.600 --> 0:09:02.559 Okay, he was my first group date on the show 0:09:03.200 --> 0:09:06.400 and we did a wedding dress date and it was 0:09:06.600 --> 0:09:08.079 very similar to this. I feel like this is like 0:09:08.080 --> 0:09:10.600 a staple in the Bachelor franchise, this date where Franko 0:09:10.600 --> 0:09:13.320 comes in, everyone runs, picks their outfits. 0:09:13.360 --> 0:09:14.240 Some people don't like. 0:09:14.200 --> 0:09:17.080 Their outfits, they're stressing out, and then you do the 0:09:17.080 --> 0:09:20.560 photo shoot and honestly, it's it's a good, fun, chill 0:09:20.760 --> 0:09:21.240 first date. 0:09:21.480 --> 0:09:23.720 Yeah, so we see like so I would say, like 0:09:23.720 --> 0:09:26.760 the bigger like, so we see Leslie gets upset that 0:09:26.840 --> 0:09:29.760 Natasha took her outfit and you see you this is 0:09:29.800 --> 0:09:32.360 like the first time you're starting to see like a 0:09:32.400 --> 0:09:33.079 little bit of. 0:09:33.960 --> 0:09:38.120 Like all right, jealousy and competition. Yes, yes, no, Leslie 0:09:38.280 --> 0:09:41.959 was rattled for sure. She was like I wanted that outfit. 0:09:42.200 --> 0:09:45.760 I didn't get it. Are you not feeling my outfit screen. 0:09:45.480 --> 0:09:49.320 Natasha and Leslie. Is something I've noticed and I said 0:09:49.320 --> 0:09:52.880 this to you were watching it. Her voice, she has 0:09:52.920 --> 0:09:55.680 such a young voice when she talks. I'm if I 0:09:55.720 --> 0:09:58.280 close my eyes and she talks, I feel like I'm 0:09:58.280 --> 0:10:00.640 listening to a twenty three year old. 0:10:00.760 --> 0:10:03.840 She's a really young yeah right, yeah, she does for sure. 0:10:04.160 --> 0:10:06.640 And even just the way she talks, like her addiction 0:10:06.800 --> 0:10:10.280 and stuff, I feel like makes her sound younger than 0:10:10.320 --> 0:10:10.679 she is. 0:10:11.200 --> 0:10:14.800 She's she's giving West Coast. I don't know where she's from. 0:10:14.800 --> 0:10:16.640 I don't even think it is West Coast, but that's 0:10:16.640 --> 0:10:18.679 what she's she's giving. 0:10:18.760 --> 0:10:21.120 She's she's giving Westcast. Do you even know what that means? 0:10:21.200 --> 0:10:22.240 Do you know what you're saying? 0:10:22.760 --> 0:10:23.600 I don't know what I'm saying. 0:10:23.640 --> 0:10:26.520 Half the time, her voice is young, it's giving West. 0:10:26.320 --> 0:10:37.400 Coast saying okay that. Another big part of this date 0:10:37.600 --> 0:10:40.960 was Nancy getting upset, which we have Nancy coming on 0:10:41.000 --> 0:10:42.679 the podcast, so we don't need to talk about it 0:10:42.679 --> 0:10:46.120 too much. But it was sad, like thinking about the 0:10:46.200 --> 0:10:48.560 last time you did put on a wedding dress was 0:10:50.559 --> 0:10:53.319 when you married your husband, you know, so that that 0:10:53.440 --> 0:10:56.199 was that was very sad. I really felt fell for her. 0:10:56.280 --> 0:10:58.280 But anything you want. 0:10:58.160 --> 0:10:59.760 To say, No, I think we could talk to her 0:10:59.840 --> 0:11:02.440 more about it when she comes on. But it definitely 0:11:03.480 --> 0:11:09.240 it made absolute sense, Like I could totally imagine putting 0:11:09.240 --> 0:11:11.000 myself in her shoes and like, you know, we just 0:11:11.040 --> 0:11:13.040 got married. If I lost you and then I was 0:11:13.080 --> 0:11:16.120 putting back on a wedding dress, like, I can see 0:11:16.160 --> 0:11:17.520 why she would be really emotional. 0:11:18.480 --> 0:11:20.880 Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's gonna be a rough day for you. 0:11:21.480 --> 0:11:25.520 Don't say that, don't Why would you say that? Okay, 0:11:25.600 --> 0:11:27.520 and that day is never gonna come. 0:11:27.800 --> 0:11:33.480 Just for the record, what did Gary whisper in Leslie's air? 0:11:33.760 --> 0:11:34.280 What do you think? 0:11:34.360 --> 0:11:37.520 I don't know, but like Gary, Gary's getting dirty. 0:11:37.559 --> 0:11:39.760 I feel like I don't think Gary gets dirty. I 0:11:39.760 --> 0:11:42.840 don't think. I don't think she does. You think he 0:11:42.880 --> 0:11:44.640 said something sexual to her. 0:11:44.880 --> 0:11:46.679 No, I don't. I think he said something maybe a 0:11:46.720 --> 0:11:47.440 little flirty. 0:11:48.040 --> 0:11:50.080 I mean he started the convo but basically talking about 0:11:50.080 --> 0:11:51.280 how sexy he thought she was. 0:11:51.440 --> 0:11:55.120 And he's been leaning I've noticed his body language, his 0:11:55.160 --> 0:11:57.719 body language. He's been leaning in for a lot of 0:11:58.080 --> 0:11:59.240 a lot of makeouts. 0:11:59.440 --> 0:12:01.400 Oh yeah, he is getting a lot more comfortable now, 0:12:01.400 --> 0:12:04.840 which is great. I also thought that the way Leslie 0:12:04.880 --> 0:12:07.120 set up the like if you want to whisper sweet 0:12:07.200 --> 0:12:09.520 nothings into my ear, I can hear you, and like 0:12:09.559 --> 0:12:11.800 showed off her hearing aids. I feel like that was 0:12:11.840 --> 0:12:14.040 so Cute'm actually surprised that was never used in like 0:12:14.400 --> 0:12:16.480 a teaser or anything, because I feel like that whole 0:12:16.520 --> 0:12:19.079 moment really screamed like Golden Bachelor. Yeah you know what 0:12:19.120 --> 0:12:21.920 I mean, Like they both have hearads and like, let's 0:12:21.960 --> 0:12:24.880 make out and like bonding over the aging process together 0:12:25.000 --> 0:12:26.920 but still feeling like young and in love. 0:12:27.559 --> 0:12:30.800 So then Joan goes. So then he goes and talks 0:12:30.840 --> 0:12:33.360 to Joan, and Joan kind of. 0:12:33.360 --> 0:12:36.280 Has the same Okay, wait, but not on the group date. 0:12:36.440 --> 0:12:38.480 Not on the group d Now we're on the next day. 0:12:38.559 --> 0:12:41.240 Yeah, next night, Nancy gets the ends up getting the 0:12:41.240 --> 0:12:42.040 group date rows. 0:12:42.120 --> 0:12:44.600 Yes, she does, which that's what I expected, and I 0:12:44.640 --> 0:12:47.640 think she kind of I think that was the right decision, 0:12:47.840 --> 0:12:50.640 you know, giving her that additional reassurance. Yeah, and then 0:12:50.679 --> 0:12:52.760 we're moving on to the next day. We've got a 0:12:52.840 --> 0:12:54.120 birthday party for Gary. 0:12:54.559 --> 0:12:56.240 Yes, Susan popping out of the cake. 0:12:56.840 --> 0:12:58.080 I love Susan so much. 0:12:58.640 --> 0:13:01.040 Oh my god, this is my favorite Nancy. It's a 0:13:01.080 --> 0:13:02.600 battle between Nancy and Susan. 0:13:02.679 --> 0:13:05.319 Well they're different, Like Nancy is like the one. You're like, oh, 0:13:05.400 --> 0:13:06.520 like I hope Gary ends up with her. 0:13:06.559 --> 0:13:06.920 Susan. 0:13:06.960 --> 0:13:08.760 You're like, I don't know if you're gonna up with Gary, 0:13:08.760 --> 0:13:10.480 but I just want to watch you do fuddy shit 0:13:10.600 --> 0:13:11.160 all the time. 0:13:11.480 --> 0:13:13.680 I want to try Susan's cooking. 0:13:14.400 --> 0:13:17.360 Oh, because she talked about chicken peconte. 0:13:17.120 --> 0:13:19.199 Yeah, and pepper sausage and peppers. 0:13:19.240 --> 0:13:22.160 I want to see you're Italian? Yeah, I mean, or 0:13:22.200 --> 0:13:23.520 she just likes Italian. 0:13:23.360 --> 0:13:25.200 Breaking down that meal. She's Italian. 0:13:25.360 --> 0:13:26.040 Yeah, that's true. 0:13:26.040 --> 0:13:26.640 She's Italian. 0:13:26.640 --> 0:13:29.040 For you should send her some of your Sundays with 0:13:29.120 --> 0:13:30.839 Jo Saw. She really should. 0:13:30.960 --> 0:13:35.640 I should. And then a move out of left field 0:13:36.120 --> 0:13:42.280 in my opinion, was Gary, not even her birthday, just 0:13:43.000 --> 0:13:46.200 goes and gives Ellen a gift. Do you remember that? 0:13:46.320 --> 0:13:48.000 I do remember that, And you know what it was giving? 0:13:48.440 --> 0:13:52.680 It was giving charity, bringing Dotton to like private locations 0:13:52.760 --> 0:13:56.280 every single group day. Gary being like, I'm just gonna 0:13:56.320 --> 0:13:59.000 give you a beautiful frame photo of the two of us. 0:13:59.000 --> 0:14:01.199 I was like, whoa, Yeah, Allen. 0:14:01.200 --> 0:14:04.920 Is Ellen Stotton. You know the dotten of the season. 0:14:04.600 --> 0:14:05.640 At least right now she is. 0:14:05.640 --> 0:14:07.640 But you know how in the first episode we were like, 0:14:08.040 --> 0:14:10.240 we love Faith and Gary also loves Faith. 0:14:11.080 --> 0:14:14.360 We love Ellen. Gary loves Alan too. Gary's in love 0:14:14.360 --> 0:14:15.440 with a few women right now. 0:14:15.480 --> 0:14:16.560 Ellen's great too. 0:14:16.720 --> 0:14:19.960 I love Ellen, like, I'm so excited for her one 0:14:20.000 --> 0:14:21.320 on one day to get to watch her more. 0:14:22.360 --> 0:14:23.720 Well, you don't know if she's going to get one. 0:14:23.800 --> 0:14:25.000 She is going to get one, I know it in 0:14:25.000 --> 0:14:27.160 my heart. And she just has the shiniest hair. 0:14:27.760 --> 0:14:31.120 Yeah, yeah, and she's she's seventy. I think she's seventy one. 0:14:31.280 --> 0:14:33.760 Insane. Yeah, I can't wait to have her. Hopefully she 0:14:33.760 --> 0:14:34.600 comes on the podcast. 0:14:34.640 --> 0:14:37.400 She looks great. And then yeah, I mentioned before Joan 0:14:37.560 --> 0:14:40.360 had grabbed Gary and had kind of he went into 0:14:40.440 --> 0:14:43.320 her bedroom, and she's kind of has the same story 0:14:43.480 --> 0:14:46.160 losing her husband, her her husband. 0:14:45.880 --> 0:14:47.520 Semi recently, only two years ago. 0:14:47.680 --> 0:14:49.280 Two years ago, that that was what it was. 0:14:50.080 --> 0:14:51.120 She also has great hair. 0:14:51.200 --> 0:14:56.720 But yeah, a lot of conversations this episode about the 0:14:56.760 --> 0:15:01.040 loss of spouses, which is obviously very real and their 0:15:01.120 --> 0:15:04.880 stories and something that you know you go through more 0:15:04.960 --> 0:15:06.000 likely as you get older. 0:15:06.160 --> 0:15:07.240 But really sad. 0:15:07.520 --> 0:15:10.360 Listen, this show is fun. There's a lot of joy 0:15:10.400 --> 0:15:12.400 in it, but it's fucking sad. 0:15:12.600 --> 0:15:14.480 Yeah, Like I was like, by the time we got 0:15:14.480 --> 0:15:17.200 to you know, we had Teresa, that we had Nancy, 0:15:17.560 --> 0:15:19.160 by the time we got to Joan, I was like, 0:15:19.240 --> 0:15:23.520 oh my gosh, like my heart, it's so sad. Yeah, 0:15:24.080 --> 0:15:27.280 it's also hopeful, like maybe they'll find love again here 0:15:27.320 --> 0:15:27.760 with Gary. 0:15:27.920 --> 0:15:31.840 And then it really it hurts seeing these women. 0:15:31.600 --> 0:15:34.720 Leave, Oh my god, really really hurts. 0:15:34.760 --> 0:15:37.040 And we have three that go home this episode. 0:15:37.120 --> 0:15:39.480 Peggy, who didn't even get a date this week. 0:15:39.520 --> 0:15:44.200 Actually Peggy also, yeah, we don't. We don't see much 0:15:44.200 --> 0:15:48.800 of Peggy. Natasha, who we see a little in this episode. 0:15:48.920 --> 0:15:51.840 She's beautiful, she has such a vibrant personality, but I 0:15:51.960 --> 0:15:54.760 don't really see her with Gary. 0:15:54.960 --> 0:15:59.320 She's Natasha's gonna be fine. Natasha is still like she's 0:15:59.360 --> 0:15:59.840 going out. 0:16:00.120 --> 0:16:00.800 Oh my god. 0:16:00.920 --> 0:16:05.440 Yeah, yeah, her her personality is so big, like she 0:16:05.600 --> 0:16:06.120 she's great. 0:16:06.320 --> 0:16:10.160 Yes, she has a very very youthful personality, like she's 0:16:10.200 --> 0:16:15.280 a young spirit and a very just like vibrant, warm personality. 0:16:15.440 --> 0:16:15.880 I like her. 0:16:15.880 --> 0:16:19.960 If there was a Bachelor Golden Paradise, I think she 0:16:19.960 --> 0:16:20.800 would be so. 0:16:20.640 --> 0:16:21.160 Good on it. 0:16:21.240 --> 0:16:22.160 You think they'll do that. 0:16:22.360 --> 0:16:24.960 I hope so, but I think it maybe not this year, 0:16:25.040 --> 0:16:27.040 maybe one day. And then we saw Genie go home 0:16:27.080 --> 0:16:27.560 as well. 0:16:27.680 --> 0:16:30.280 She was sad too. I think she it seemed that she. 0:16:30.120 --> 0:16:32.480 Really looks like someone. She looks like an actress. I 0:16:32.560 --> 0:16:35.480 kept my finger on it, very like seventies vibe. 0:16:36.360 --> 0:16:37.600 I don't know, you're good with face. 0:16:37.640 --> 0:16:40.160 Because I know too. I know, but I can you agree, 0:16:40.200 --> 0:16:43.160 like there's so much but I can't. I can't take 0:16:43.200 --> 0:16:45.320 my brain there and do this podcast at the same time. 0:16:45.440 --> 0:16:47.680 Okay, maybe later, but I will figure that out. 0:16:47.800 --> 0:16:50.720 Something we did see during the Rose ceremony because Faith 0:16:50.800 --> 0:16:53.080 didn't get a date that week. She got the first 0:16:53.120 --> 0:16:56.880 impression Rose, but she wasn't on the group date. She's 0:16:56.880 --> 0:17:01.960 definitely struggling with some major insecurities at the Row ceremony, 0:17:02.000 --> 0:17:04.240 feeling like she might be going home, and I kind 0:17:04.240 --> 0:17:05.680 of just want to shake her and be like Faith, 0:17:05.800 --> 0:17:07.720 like you're it's okay, you're good. 0:17:07.760 --> 0:17:09.920 But I totally understand how she can get in her head. 0:17:10.280 --> 0:17:12.760 Yeah, And I feel like she was even feeling those 0:17:12.760 --> 0:17:15.680 insecurities night one of like comparing herself to the other women, 0:17:16.440 --> 0:17:16.960 and it's. 0:17:16.840 --> 0:17:18.679 More like think about like a lot of these women 0:17:19.600 --> 0:17:23.679 have taken years and years off of even dating, and 0:17:23.720 --> 0:17:26.360 when you compare it to the Bachelorette or Bachelor, most 0:17:26.359 --> 0:17:29.240 people that go on the show, they're obviously single, but 0:17:29.359 --> 0:17:35.320 they're most likely actively dating. So they kind of get it, 0:17:35.440 --> 0:17:37.600