1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:03,160 Speaker 1: This is the Fred Show, It is the Fread Show. 2 00:00:03,200 --> 00:00:05,760 Speaker 1: Good Morning one O three five Kiss FM, Chicago's number 3 00:00:05,800 --> 00:00:08,079 Speaker 1: one hit music station. I generally feel bad for the 4 00:00:08,119 --> 00:00:11,480 Speaker 1: people who listen to us in other cities, you know, 5 00:00:11,520 --> 00:00:13,760 Speaker 1: because we're talking about fast food and we have just 6 00:00:13,840 --> 00:00:16,720 Speaker 1: elite food in Chicago. I mean just elite fast food, 7 00:00:16,760 --> 00:00:20,919 Speaker 1: regular food, fancy food, not fancy food you Michelin Star 8 00:00:21,079 --> 00:00:23,599 Speaker 1: all the way down to like, you know, neighborhood joint whatever. 9 00:00:23,800 --> 00:00:28,200 Speaker 1: The only problem I have debating local Chicago food with 10 00:00:28,280 --> 00:00:31,639 Speaker 1: people is that everyone's going to tell you when it 11 00:00:31,640 --> 00:00:34,400 Speaker 1: comes to pizza and beef, especially that the local joint 12 00:00:34,400 --> 00:00:37,720 Speaker 1: where they grew up in their neighborhood is the best one. 13 00:00:38,040 --> 00:00:40,639 Speaker 1: And again it comes back to that nostalgia. It may 14 00:00:40,720 --> 00:00:42,879 Speaker 1: be the best one, but it's the best one for 15 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:45,040 Speaker 1: you because of the memory is attached to the thing. 16 00:00:45,320 --> 00:00:47,519 Speaker 1: Do not try and have a beef conversation with a 17 00:00:47,560 --> 00:00:49,959 Speaker 1: lot of locals, because it's just like, no, you got 18 00:00:49,960 --> 00:00:51,199 Speaker 1: to go to Johnny You's know, you got to go 19 00:00:51,200 --> 00:00:53,120 Speaker 1: to and people will tell you OL's, people will tell 20 00:00:53,120 --> 00:00:56,320 Speaker 1: you Portillo's has a competitive Italian be and then there's 21 00:00:56,640 --> 00:00:59,040 Speaker 1: some spot on the South Side that I've never heard 22 00:00:59,080 --> 00:01:00,280 Speaker 1: of it. And there's a spot on an the north 23 00:01:00,280 --> 00:01:01,960 Speaker 1: side that you know, and again you'd have no way 24 00:01:02,000 --> 00:01:03,600 Speaker 1: of knowing unless you grew up there and your grandpa 25 00:01:03,720 --> 00:01:05,960 Speaker 1: lived there and knew the owner, and you know it's 26 00:01:05,959 --> 00:01:09,320 Speaker 1: called it's called Steve's, and you know you know what 27 00:01:09,400 --> 00:01:10,640 Speaker 1: I mean. So like it's a it's a kind of 28 00:01:10,640 --> 00:01:13,959 Speaker 1: a never ending conversation. But we have elite food and 29 00:01:14,040 --> 00:01:16,160 Speaker 1: sadly there are people in our in our thirteen are 30 00:01:16,200 --> 00:01:18,039 Speaker 1: listening audience. You just don't have access to this kind 31 00:01:18,040 --> 00:01:21,440 Speaker 1: of elitness. Bad for them, right, it is said for them. 32 00:01:21,640 --> 00:01:23,040 Speaker 1: But they can just come to Chicago and they can 33 00:01:23,080 --> 00:01:24,480 Speaker 1: figure it out. They can call us. We'll tell them 34 00:01:24,520 --> 00:01:27,400 Speaker 1: where to go. Jonas Brothers in Las Vegas seven thirty. 35 00:01:27,440 --> 00:01:30,240 Speaker 1: Another keyword, and it's not like the other contest where 36 00:01:30,240 --> 00:01:32,600 Speaker 1: you had to remember them all whatever. Each day you've 37 00:01:32,600 --> 00:01:34,400 Speaker 1: got a new fresh chance to win. We give it 38 00:01:34,440 --> 00:01:36,520 Speaker 1: a keyword. Then you jump on the iHeart app one 39 00:01:36,560 --> 00:01:38,520 Speaker 1: O three five Kiss FM, or you can do it 40 00:01:38,520 --> 00:01:40,280 Speaker 1: on the Fred Show too, can't you. Yes, but it's 41 00:01:40,440 --> 00:01:42,160 Speaker 1: doing on one of three five Kiss FM. Leave us 42 00:01:42,160 --> 00:01:45,280 Speaker 1: a talkback message with that keyword and you can enter 43 00:01:45,319 --> 00:01:47,120 Speaker 1: as many times as you want, and each time you 44 00:01:47,240 --> 00:01:50,720 Speaker 1: enter is another chance to win. So seven thirty the keyword. 45 00:01:50,920 --> 00:01:53,120 Speaker 1: So you can see that Jonah's brothers on the Fred Show, 46 00:01:53,240 --> 00:02:01,080 Speaker 1: it's kiss Hey, wake up. So you would date a 47 00:02:01,240 --> 00:02:03,760 Speaker 1: very very average looking person because I guess the six 48 00:02:03,880 --> 00:02:04,400 Speaker 1: is average. 49 00:02:04,560 --> 00:02:08,000 Speaker 2: Yes, so funny with a great personality like a man 50 00:02:08,680 --> 00:02:10,040 Speaker 2: Fred show is on. 51 00:02:10,440 --> 00:02:13,040 Speaker 1: I think the trains on the tracks. Maybe I mean knocking. 52 00:02:13,480 --> 00:02:15,760 Speaker 1: It's Tuesday, March twenty fourth, the French Show's not Hi 53 00:02:15,880 --> 00:02:20,080 Speaker 1: kayleb Hi Jason Hilo Hikeki. Then Marnich Shelby, is she 54 00:02:20,320 --> 00:02:23,160 Speaker 1: lost the last time that we did a show in 55 00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:26,160 Speaker 1: the showdown? One hundred bucks is depress. We did shows 56 00:02:26,280 --> 00:02:28,640 Speaker 1: last time we played the game though she lost, so 57 00:02:28,760 --> 00:02:30,760 Speaker 1: no win streak. One hundred bucks is the price. She's 58 00:02:30,800 --> 00:02:33,400 Speaker 1: never lost two in a row, five five culture questions, 59 00:02:33,400 --> 00:02:36,639 Speaker 1: one and thirty wins all time, only seventy eight losses. 60 00:02:36,639 --> 00:02:38,040 Speaker 1: If you can beat her in about twenty minutes, you 61 00:02:38,040 --> 00:02:41,120 Speaker 1: get paid and make history too. Belahemenes here on the 62 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:42,960 Speaker 1: phone and the text eight five to five, five nine 63 00:02:43,040 --> 00:02:46,280 Speaker 1: one one o three five let's see stay are going 64 00:02:46,400 --> 00:02:51,160 Speaker 1: just a second? Well? Debates and relationship drama blogs and 65 00:02:51,760 --> 00:02:54,200 Speaker 1: Jason's got one of those, and the entertainer reports coming up. 66 00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:57,320 Speaker 3: Kay, we gotta get the secret lives of Mormon wives 67 00:02:57,320 --> 00:03:00,760 Speaker 3: to stage themselves and the cast and the show because 68 00:03:00,760 --> 00:03:04,440 Speaker 3: we now have another restraining order but have nothing to 69 00:03:04,480 --> 00:03:05,919 Speaker 3: do with Taylor or her ex. 70 00:03:06,000 --> 00:03:07,200 Speaker 4: It's a whole other couple. 71 00:03:07,520 --> 00:03:09,239 Speaker 1: A lot of thoughts, and a lot of thoughts have 72 00:03:09,400 --> 00:03:11,320 Speaker 1: just been stacking up over the last week. 73 00:03:11,600 --> 00:03:13,160 Speaker 4: I know, I saw I and Paula didn't really want 74 00:03:13,200 --> 00:03:13,680 Speaker 4: to play long. 75 00:03:14,720 --> 00:03:16,920 Speaker 1: She said she doesn't watch and she says she's sickened 76 00:03:16,919 --> 00:03:19,120 Speaker 1: by all the whole thing. I just ride it to 77 00:03:19,160 --> 00:03:21,639 Speaker 1: her and she's like, this sounds terrible, and I'm like, yeah, 78 00:03:21,680 --> 00:03:24,200 Speaker 1: it's it's pretty bad. There's a lot going on at 79 00:03:24,240 --> 00:03:25,760 Speaker 1: the moment, and I haven't missed a minute of it, 80 00:03:25,800 --> 00:03:28,560 Speaker 1: but yeah, it's pretty bad. But I hope you missed. 81 00:03:28,600 --> 00:03:31,959 Speaker 1: I hope you missed us while we were away briefly partially, 82 00:03:32,160 --> 00:03:35,800 Speaker 1: and we had had a partial show shutdown because I 83 00:03:35,840 --> 00:03:37,720 Speaker 1: went to see Santana and Paula in South America. But 84 00:03:37,800 --> 00:03:40,240 Speaker 1: I just want you to know we appreciate your loyalty 85 00:03:40,280 --> 00:03:42,640 Speaker 1: and you can't find this level of chaos or dysfunction 86 00:03:42,760 --> 00:03:45,280 Speaker 1: or mental illness anywhere else, and it's often imitated, but 87 00:03:45,360 --> 00:03:46,520 Speaker 1: it just cannot be duplicated. 88 00:03:46,800 --> 00:03:48,760 Speaker 4: Why are you doing a blog? We don't know nothing 89 00:03:48,760 --> 00:03:49,120 Speaker 4: about it. 90 00:03:49,880 --> 00:03:52,800 Speaker 1: We heard enough last hour, but maybe I went on 91 00:03:52,800 --> 00:03:54,640 Speaker 1: like a ten minute thing about I need. 92 00:03:54,520 --> 00:03:56,320 Speaker 4: To know, like what you would you do tonight? Tonight? 93 00:03:56,400 --> 00:03:57,400 Speaker 1: Would you e? Who? 94 00:03:57,560 --> 00:03:59,240 Speaker 4: Just see you see if anyone? 95 00:03:59,280 --> 00:03:59,720 Speaker 1: Did you? 96 00:03:59,720 --> 00:04:01,080 Speaker 4: You know, do more than that? 97 00:04:01,320 --> 00:04:01,520 Speaker 5: Yeah? 98 00:04:01,600 --> 00:04:03,920 Speaker 1: Did you? I was saying in my aunt's home, so 99 00:04:04,080 --> 00:04:07,400 Speaker 1: I mean she wouldn't have cared. But no, no, we'll 100 00:04:07,440 --> 00:04:09,480 Speaker 1: get to that. But I want to hear Jason because 101 00:04:09,800 --> 00:04:13,720 Speaker 1: I told people they talk better than these are the 102 00:04:13,840 --> 00:04:16,920 Speaker 1: radio blogs on the Fred Show as much. You have 103 00:04:16,920 --> 00:04:19,480 Speaker 1: to pass the ball, Caitlin, not not not them, Always 104 00:04:19,480 --> 00:04:21,600 Speaker 1: take the shot. You know, I want Jason to take 105 00:04:21,640 --> 00:04:24,760 Speaker 1: the shot. Okay, Smarts, Madgest, for God's sake, take the shot. 106 00:04:24,880 --> 00:04:27,680 Speaker 1: And I've been watching. I've been sending you photos. You 107 00:04:27,839 --> 00:04:34,120 Speaker 1: have Saint John with the buzzer beater not a sentence 108 00:04:34,120 --> 00:04:34,960 Speaker 1: I expect you to hear. 109 00:04:34,839 --> 00:04:36,920 Speaker 4: From you to a video sports banger. 110 00:04:37,440 --> 00:04:40,080 Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, it's good because I feel like the this 111 00:04:40,200 --> 00:04:42,039 Speaker 6: is not my blog, but I feel like the good 112 00:04:42,120 --> 00:04:45,120 Speaker 6: the player's care like NBA. They're like overhands. They're like, 113 00:04:45,120 --> 00:04:47,200 Speaker 6: we're gonna make a billion dollars anyway whether we win 114 00:04:47,279 --> 00:04:48,400 Speaker 6: or lose, and I'm just gonna go home to my 115 00:04:48,440 --> 00:04:49,600 Speaker 6: really hot wife or mistress. 116 00:04:49,920 --> 00:04:53,600 Speaker 1: But like the college people are trying to know, a 117 00:04:53,600 --> 00:04:55,640 Speaker 1: lot of people feel that way about college sports. It's 118 00:04:55,680 --> 00:04:57,800 Speaker 1: it's that for a lot of these guys, this is 119 00:04:57,800 --> 00:04:59,560 Speaker 1: as good as it's gonna get. Yeah, and for a 120 00:04:59,560 --> 00:05:01,599 Speaker 1: lot of these little, tiny teams, you know, they played 121 00:05:01,640 --> 00:05:03,280 Speaker 1: their hearts out and then they beat the big team, 122 00:05:03,400 --> 00:05:06,640 Speaker 1: like that's the story, and you know so, and that's how, yeah, 123 00:05:06,880 --> 00:05:08,800 Speaker 1: anything can happen because it's single game elimination. 124 00:05:08,960 --> 00:05:10,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, you got to come watch with me on Friday. 125 00:05:10,800 --> 00:05:15,200 Speaker 6: Okay, Okay, I'm in it. How about sixteen baby? Okay, 126 00:05:15,240 --> 00:05:18,360 Speaker 6: So anyway, dear blog, Completely unrelated to that, I had 127 00:05:18,400 --> 00:05:23,440 Speaker 6: a very embarrassing moment at my doctor's office last week. So, 128 00:05:23,520 --> 00:05:26,279 Speaker 6: for those that don't know, I had a meniscus repair 129 00:05:26,320 --> 00:05:29,880 Speaker 6: on my knee and so I have some incisions like 130 00:05:29,920 --> 00:05:32,799 Speaker 6: there that have been healing, and so I couldn't put 131 00:05:33,080 --> 00:05:36,760 Speaker 6: any lotion on my legs or soap or anything because 132 00:05:36,760 --> 00:05:37,360 Speaker 6: they were healing. 133 00:05:37,720 --> 00:05:38,920 Speaker 4: Well, your boy. 134 00:05:39,040 --> 00:05:45,480 Speaker 6: Got real ashy, okay, real flaky, just real gross. And 135 00:05:45,520 --> 00:05:47,120 Speaker 6: I've been wearing a lot of shorts, so I didn't 136 00:05:47,120 --> 00:05:49,200 Speaker 6: want one leg to look gross and the other one 137 00:05:49,240 --> 00:05:51,240 Speaker 6: to look not gross. So I've just been doing no 138 00:05:51,360 --> 00:05:54,520 Speaker 6: lotions that they match, right, But I've been real flaky, 139 00:05:54,640 --> 00:05:58,440 Speaker 6: real nasty. So I've been at like physical therapy with 140 00:05:58,520 --> 00:06:01,560 Speaker 6: big Man Dan and just leaving flakes all over the 141 00:06:01,600 --> 00:06:03,919 Speaker 6: table like I'm trying to like brush them off, like 142 00:06:04,120 --> 00:06:08,320 Speaker 6: so gross. Right, So finally I go to the follow 143 00:06:08,440 --> 00:06:12,000 Speaker 6: up with my surgeon and we're talking about pain and 144 00:06:12,080 --> 00:06:13,880 Speaker 6: she's looking at the incisions or whatever, and she goes, 145 00:06:14,440 --> 00:06:17,320 Speaker 6: you know, not to say that you're dry, but you 146 00:06:17,320 --> 00:06:23,240 Speaker 6: could start using lotion again. I'm like, well, thank you, Like, yes, 147 00:06:23,360 --> 00:06:26,839 Speaker 6: I noticed that it's dry. I just didn't want to 148 00:06:26,920 --> 00:06:29,960 Speaker 6: screw up you know, healing or whatever. And she's like, yeah, 149 00:06:30,040 --> 00:06:30,599 Speaker 6: it's okay. 150 00:06:30,640 --> 00:06:32,400 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh god, damn. 151 00:06:35,040 --> 00:06:40,320 Speaker 6: So literally in the parking lot went on Amazon ordered 152 00:06:40,320 --> 00:06:43,919 Speaker 6: some Saravey the big by the by the ton. The 153 00:06:44,000 --> 00:06:47,719 Speaker 6: vat of Sarah Bay got delivered and so we are, 154 00:06:47,920 --> 00:06:49,000 Speaker 6: you know, rehydrating. 155 00:06:49,120 --> 00:06:50,600 Speaker 1: I kind of wish they had a vat of it. It 156 00:06:50,600 --> 00:06:52,120 Speaker 1: would be so much users to jump in. 157 00:06:52,480 --> 00:06:56,600 Speaker 6: Oh my gosh, I'm just soaking there for a little bit. Yeah, 158 00:06:56,640 --> 00:06:59,040 Speaker 6: but yeah, I was so super embarrassing. 159 00:06:59,120 --> 00:07:01,279 Speaker 1: I was like, okay, I think you Wow. The fact 160 00:07:01,320 --> 00:07:03,880 Speaker 1: that your leg was over your head wasn't embarrassing too, 161 00:07:04,080 --> 00:07:06,800 Speaker 1: you know, the stretches that he's doing. Nove me and 162 00:07:06,880 --> 00:07:10,840 Speaker 1: Dan can work me out, ye, Stay or Go? Well, 163 00:07:10,840 --> 00:07:13,600 Speaker 1: debate some relationship drama. Next, the Fresh Show is on, 164 00:07:14,520 --> 00:07:18,160 Speaker 1: Stay or Go? Hi the man, good morning, Welcome to 165 00:07:18,200 --> 00:07:23,640 Speaker 1: Stay or Go? Amanda, huh hi, hi, welcome to the program. 166 00:07:23,640 --> 00:07:26,920 Speaker 1: What's going on with you and your husband? By the way, 167 00:07:27,000 --> 00:07:31,600 Speaker 1: seven months pregnant, says the email. Congratulations, thank you, thank 168 00:07:31,640 --> 00:07:35,120 Speaker 1: you so much. So what's what's the issue? 169 00:07:36,080 --> 00:07:42,000 Speaker 7: So? I so, I am pregnant seven months, but it's 170 00:07:42,080 --> 00:07:42,480 Speaker 7: it's my. 171 00:07:42,520 --> 00:07:44,640 Speaker 4: Second child, and. 172 00:07:46,160 --> 00:07:50,720 Speaker 7: My husband has decided that he is going to take 173 00:07:50,800 --> 00:07:54,640 Speaker 7: a week long work trip next month, and that just 174 00:07:54,720 --> 00:07:58,000 Speaker 7: happens to be the month before I'm supposed to give birth. 175 00:07:58,760 --> 00:08:02,280 Speaker 8: Okay, So I am feeling really. 176 00:08:02,960 --> 00:08:04,760 Speaker 7: Feeling, really nervous and really. 177 00:08:04,560 --> 00:08:05,760 Speaker 1: Anxious about that. 178 00:08:08,600 --> 00:08:12,080 Speaker 7: I asked him if he could not take the trip, 179 00:08:12,240 --> 00:08:14,240 Speaker 7: maybe if he could talk to his boss and his 180 00:08:14,800 --> 00:08:18,200 Speaker 7: you know, his boss could have somebody else take the trip, 181 00:08:18,360 --> 00:08:22,400 Speaker 7: and he said that he had to be the one 182 00:08:23,160 --> 00:08:27,120 Speaker 7: handling the trip. But it's again, it really worries me 183 00:08:27,320 --> 00:08:30,200 Speaker 7: because it's so close to my do date. 184 00:08:31,120 --> 00:08:33,240 Speaker 1: All Right, So you say to him, look, it's possible 185 00:08:33,280 --> 00:08:35,480 Speaker 1: that the baby could come early. This is you know, 186 00:08:35,679 --> 00:08:38,360 Speaker 1: you're cutting it close, and I don't want you to 187 00:08:38,360 --> 00:08:41,640 Speaker 1: be away if that happens. And so what is his response? 188 00:08:41,679 --> 00:08:43,560 Speaker 1: What does he say it has to be him? Like 189 00:08:44,160 --> 00:08:46,240 Speaker 1: do you believe that does it have to be him? 190 00:08:46,320 --> 00:08:48,319 Speaker 1: I mean, it is his job on the line. Is 191 00:08:48,320 --> 00:08:51,520 Speaker 1: is it possible that he's really feeling pressured to try 192 00:08:51,559 --> 00:08:56,000 Speaker 1: and do two things at once? I mean maybe, so 193 00:08:56,120 --> 00:08:57,360 Speaker 1: he has said. 194 00:08:57,240 --> 00:08:59,360 Speaker 7: That he has to be the one to go on 195 00:08:59,400 --> 00:09:03,199 Speaker 7: it because other are people that have been in similar situations. 196 00:09:02,800 --> 00:09:06,360 Speaker 4: Have lost their job over this that they couldn't go. 197 00:09:06,720 --> 00:09:09,000 Speaker 7: To the meeting or any commerce whatever. 198 00:09:09,080 --> 00:09:14,160 Speaker 5: But my goodness, but I would feel like, hey, I 199 00:09:14,240 --> 00:09:22,520 Speaker 5: know his boss, and it's do like saying, hey, my. 200 00:09:20,800 --> 00:09:24,440 Speaker 9: Wife, is this dude to have a baby, Like you 201 00:09:24,440 --> 00:09:25,199 Speaker 9: would think. 202 00:09:25,040 --> 00:09:28,920 Speaker 7: That they would be fine just to have somebody else 203 00:09:29,000 --> 00:09:29,640 Speaker 7: go to it. 204 00:09:29,960 --> 00:09:34,320 Speaker 1: Okay, Now your note says did he Actually I'm gonna 205 00:09:34,320 --> 00:09:35,840 Speaker 1: read what you wrote, and I want to know if 206 00:09:35,840 --> 00:09:38,760 Speaker 1: he actually said this. Did he really say worst case scenario? 207 00:09:38,880 --> 00:09:40,679 Speaker 1: He was there for the birth of your first child, 208 00:09:41,040 --> 00:09:45,320 Speaker 1: so like if I missed the second one, so be it. Yes, 209 00:09:46,880 --> 00:09:50,440 Speaker 1: Now that's not helping your case here, Like that's not 210 00:09:50,520 --> 00:09:52,640 Speaker 1: the approach to take if you have a business or 211 00:09:52,720 --> 00:09:54,319 Speaker 1: that you have to take it. It's a month before 212 00:09:54,320 --> 00:09:56,400 Speaker 1: your baby's being born and you have to take it 213 00:09:56,679 --> 00:09:58,840 Speaker 1: or your job's on the line, that's one thing. But 214 00:09:59,040 --> 00:10:02,520 Speaker 1: just to have attitude like, well, I mean I already 215 00:10:02,559 --> 00:10:06,960 Speaker 1: saw one. So it's about him being present to witness it. 216 00:10:07,000 --> 00:10:08,760 Speaker 1: By the way, it's about him being president present to 217 00:10:08,760 --> 00:10:11,160 Speaker 1: support you exactly. 218 00:10:11,800 --> 00:10:13,679 Speaker 8: And you know, and he keeps saying that, like. 219 00:10:13,679 --> 00:10:17,160 Speaker 9: He has to go because we need this job and 220 00:10:17,240 --> 00:10:19,720 Speaker 9: we need to be able to afford the baby, and 221 00:10:19,800 --> 00:10:24,360 Speaker 9: it's not a vacation, but just because he was there 222 00:10:24,480 --> 00:10:25,960 Speaker 9: for the first one. 223 00:10:26,320 --> 00:10:27,199 Speaker 8: Like I don't, I'm just. 224 00:10:27,320 --> 00:10:29,800 Speaker 10: I that and it makes me really sad. 225 00:10:29,880 --> 00:10:32,080 Speaker 7: But this second baby, it's not like it's not like 226 00:10:32,080 --> 00:10:35,319 Speaker 7: our second child is going to be less important than 227 00:10:35,360 --> 00:10:39,560 Speaker 7: our first child. And I mean, I don't, I don't 228 00:10:39,600 --> 00:10:42,560 Speaker 7: really know how to handle this because I'm just. 229 00:10:43,080 --> 00:10:45,560 Speaker 8: I'm really upset and I'm scared that he's. 230 00:10:45,440 --> 00:10:46,839 Speaker 7: Going to be gone. 231 00:10:47,679 --> 00:10:53,079 Speaker 1: Yeah, and what if the baby is not early? Is 232 00:10:53,080 --> 00:10:54,880 Speaker 1: really right? The only reason even having this to date 233 00:10:55,000 --> 00:10:56,360 Speaker 1: is because if you were to say, like it's a 234 00:10:56,400 --> 00:11:00,480 Speaker 1: guy's trip or a bachelor party or something recreational, then 235 00:11:00,480 --> 00:11:04,199 Speaker 1: this isn't even a conversation, right, That's insane, that's insanely 236 00:11:04,240 --> 00:11:08,160 Speaker 1: insensitive in no way. And but the fact that it's work, 237 00:11:08,240 --> 00:11:11,000 Speaker 1: I mean, that makes this debatable. I guess. I mean 238 00:11:11,320 --> 00:11:14,760 Speaker 1: him hard to believe he would lose his job for 239 00:11:14,920 --> 00:11:16,480 Speaker 1: not going on a trip a month before he had 240 00:11:16,480 --> 00:11:19,240 Speaker 1: a baby, But I mean, stranger things have happened, and 241 00:11:19,320 --> 00:11:21,600 Speaker 1: so I guess him without a job is not helpful 242 00:11:21,920 --> 00:11:22,840 Speaker 1: with the baby coming. 243 00:11:24,240 --> 00:11:26,520 Speaker 3: Does he always go on work trips or is this 244 00:11:26,600 --> 00:11:29,240 Speaker 3: a new thing where he's just popping up needing to 245 00:11:29,240 --> 00:11:29,800 Speaker 3: take a trip. 246 00:11:30,960 --> 00:11:34,360 Speaker 7: No, he always goes on work trips, which usually is fine. 247 00:11:34,720 --> 00:11:37,480 Speaker 1: So well, how quickly could he get back if he 248 00:11:37,559 --> 00:11:39,200 Speaker 1: had to? I mean, are we talking about is he 249 00:11:39,240 --> 00:11:43,400 Speaker 1: going to you know, Zimbabwe or is he going to Toledo? 250 00:11:44,760 --> 00:11:46,959 Speaker 7: No, No, he's going to Florida. 251 00:11:47,559 --> 00:11:50,120 Speaker 1: So it's feasible that he could get back pretty quickly 252 00:11:50,120 --> 00:11:53,040 Speaker 1: if he needed to. So, you know, if it's well, 253 00:11:53,640 --> 00:11:55,559 Speaker 1: I mean, he may have to flap his wings, but 254 00:11:57,480 --> 00:11:59,320 Speaker 1: we can go see our friends. It hurts or whatever, 255 00:11:59,360 --> 00:12:01,480 Speaker 1: but you know, there's there's a chance he could get 256 00:12:01,520 --> 00:12:03,280 Speaker 1: back if he absolutely had to. 257 00:12:05,679 --> 00:12:07,800 Speaker 8: Didn't look point that he needs to stand. 258 00:12:07,600 --> 00:12:08,320 Speaker 3: Up for me. 259 00:12:10,800 --> 00:12:14,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, and this isn't really a fair example, but you 260 00:12:14,920 --> 00:12:16,839 Speaker 1: do hear and in granted they have private jets and 261 00:12:16,880 --> 00:12:18,559 Speaker 1: all kinds of different things, they have access to things, 262 00:12:18,559 --> 00:12:20,520 Speaker 1: but you know, you do hear about athletes going on 263 00:12:20,640 --> 00:12:23,800 Speaker 1: road trips the weekend that there or while their wife 264 00:12:23,880 --> 00:12:26,560 Speaker 1: is in labor and playing in NFL games and NBA games. 265 00:12:26,600 --> 00:12:29,040 Speaker 1: You do hear about this. Again, I think it's a 266 00:12:29,080 --> 00:12:32,160 Speaker 1: little crazy, but it does happen. I mean, we are 267 00:12:32,360 --> 00:12:35,480 Speaker 1: four weeks out of the do date it had The 268 00:12:35,480 --> 00:12:37,200 Speaker 1: baby would have to be pretty early, right, I mean 269 00:12:37,240 --> 00:12:39,679 Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not an obg y N currently licensed, 270 00:12:39,720 --> 00:12:44,080 Speaker 1: but the baby would have to be pretty early, wouldn't it. Yeah, 271 00:12:44,960 --> 00:12:46,000 Speaker 1: I don't want to pop one out. 272 00:12:46,040 --> 00:12:46,400 Speaker 7: I don't know. 273 00:12:46,480 --> 00:12:48,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not licensed that I popped one out unless 274 00:12:48,720 --> 00:12:50,960 Speaker 2: you're high risk. I feel like then maybe there would 275 00:12:50,960 --> 00:12:53,840 Speaker 2: be some reason right to think that this could come early, 276 00:12:54,000 --> 00:12:55,640 Speaker 2: or like I had just sacial diabetes. 277 00:12:55,840 --> 00:12:57,320 Speaker 4: So like I had to be in Douce so week early. 278 00:12:57,679 --> 00:12:59,240 Speaker 2: Doesn't mean that you know, she would have came early, 279 00:12:59,280 --> 00:13:02,280 Speaker 2: but at that time, like me, she was growing rapidly bigger. 280 00:13:02,400 --> 00:13:04,319 Speaker 1: But for you, this sounds like it's not even about 281 00:13:04,320 --> 00:13:06,680 Speaker 1: the fact that he might miss it. It's the fact 282 00:13:06,679 --> 00:13:10,040 Speaker 1: that he You want him to say that's your wish, 283 00:13:10,240 --> 00:13:11,680 Speaker 1: and so you want him to go to work and 284 00:13:11,679 --> 00:13:13,760 Speaker 1: say I'm not going because that's what my wife wants. 285 00:13:13,760 --> 00:13:16,319 Speaker 1: That's what this sounds like this is really about for you. 286 00:13:18,840 --> 00:13:21,480 Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, it really is. 287 00:13:22,520 --> 00:13:24,360 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, I want to take a I want 288 00:13:24,400 --> 00:13:26,120 Speaker 1: to take some opinions on this, because again we have 289 00:13:26,160 --> 00:13:28,200 Speaker 1: one mom in the room. But I don't I guess 290 00:13:28,280 --> 00:13:31,560 Speaker 1: I don't know eight five five five one three five. 291 00:13:32,160 --> 00:13:33,640 Speaker 1: You know, from anybody out there who's marry in a 292 00:13:33,679 --> 00:13:36,679 Speaker 1: relationship who's had a baby, maybe something similar happened. I mean, 293 00:13:36,720 --> 00:13:39,480 Speaker 1: I'm curious if if your partner came to you and said, 294 00:13:39,559 --> 00:13:41,400 Speaker 1: I have to be gone for a week, I really 295 00:13:41,400 --> 00:13:44,440 Speaker 1: do a month before our baby is going to be born. 296 00:13:45,200 --> 00:13:47,440 Speaker 1: Are you standing on business and saying absolutely not, you 297 00:13:47,480 --> 00:13:49,440 Speaker 1: need to you just can't do the trip and risk 298 00:13:49,520 --> 00:13:52,480 Speaker 1: whatever comes with that, or are you saying, no, I 299 00:13:52,520 --> 00:13:54,040 Speaker 1: get it, you got to go. At least it's not 300 00:13:54,120 --> 00:13:56,319 Speaker 1: a week before or the week of or whatever. 301 00:13:56,440 --> 00:13:56,640 Speaker 10: I mean. 302 00:13:56,679 --> 00:14:00,199 Speaker 1: There is a margin here, sans or relatively slim that 303 00:14:00,200 --> 00:14:01,560 Speaker 1: we're going to have an issue, and if we do, 304 00:14:01,679 --> 00:14:04,160 Speaker 1: you would be able to get back here in some 305 00:14:04,400 --> 00:14:06,079 Speaker 1: you know, period of time. You're not You're not going 306 00:14:06,120 --> 00:14:09,360 Speaker 1: to be completely unreachable or something like that. The two 307 00:14:09,400 --> 00:14:11,760 Speaker 1: sides of this. So let me let me take some 308 00:14:11,840 --> 00:14:14,079 Speaker 1: calls eight five five five nine one o three five. 309 00:14:14,080 --> 00:14:16,120 Speaker 1: You can text the same number and Aman had the radio, 310 00:14:16,160 --> 00:14:17,560 Speaker 1: and we'll see what people have to say. But I 311 00:14:17,600 --> 00:14:18,800 Speaker 1: wish you the best. 312 00:14:20,080 --> 00:14:22,080 Speaker 7: Thank you, and I preach you so much for taking 313 00:14:22,120 --> 00:14:25,280 Speaker 7: my call and making me, making me feel less crazy. 314 00:14:25,480 --> 00:14:27,000 Speaker 1: No, and thank you. People hit us up all the 315 00:14:27,040 --> 00:14:29,160 Speaker 1: time Fredshow Radio dot Com, on all the different social 316 00:14:29,160 --> 00:14:30,920 Speaker 1: search for the Fred Show. You can DM us that way. 317 00:14:30,920 --> 00:14:35,880 Speaker 1: Hey Lauren, Hey Lauren, Lauren, you're saying, you're saying, she's 318 00:14:35,880 --> 00:14:38,600 Speaker 1: been dramatic. I am so. 319 00:14:38,720 --> 00:14:41,480 Speaker 11: I gave her to my second last June, and my husband, 320 00:14:41,560 --> 00:14:43,920 Speaker 11: he took a hunting trip three weeks before I ended 321 00:14:43,960 --> 00:14:47,080 Speaker 11: up delivering. So given that this is a work trip, 322 00:14:47,200 --> 00:14:49,640 Speaker 11: I think that there should be some grace there, like 323 00:14:49,720 --> 00:14:51,680 Speaker 11: she doesn't know if she's going to go into labor, 324 00:14:51,760 --> 00:14:53,880 Speaker 11: like you kind of justes have to let him. 325 00:14:53,960 --> 00:14:55,520 Speaker 8: Let him do what he needs to do for work. 326 00:14:56,040 --> 00:14:57,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, it would be I mean, it's a it's an 327 00:14:57,680 --> 00:14:59,800 Speaker 1: unfair situation to be in, but it would be on 328 00:15:00,120 --> 00:15:02,400 Speaker 1: fortunate if he took any kind of penalty from work 329 00:15:02,440 --> 00:15:05,560 Speaker 1: for doing this, right, because now we have we have 330 00:15:05,640 --> 00:15:09,280 Speaker 1: we have layers of other problems then right, but yeah, 331 00:15:09,360 --> 00:15:11,960 Speaker 1: well not right exactly, Laurence. Thank you, have a good day. 332 00:15:12,680 --> 00:15:18,560 Speaker 1: Thanks you do. Amber. Good morning, Amber, Good morning. So 333 00:15:18,600 --> 00:15:20,280 Speaker 1: what do you think you should this guy go to 334 00:15:20,360 --> 00:15:22,440 Speaker 1: his work meeting a month before his wife's about to 335 00:15:22,480 --> 00:15:25,520 Speaker 1: give birth. Again, I think the thing that really you say, yes, 336 00:15:25,640 --> 00:15:27,440 Speaker 1: the thing that really stands out to me, Amber, is 337 00:15:27,680 --> 00:15:29,960 Speaker 1: his attitude, which is why I double checked that he 338 00:15:30,000 --> 00:15:32,640 Speaker 1: actually said this. Well, I mean I saw the first one. 339 00:15:32,800 --> 00:15:36,040 Speaker 1: Don't say that that's not helping your cause here. 340 00:15:37,000 --> 00:15:41,360 Speaker 10: Don't say that. However, to play a devil's advocate, I'm 341 00:15:41,360 --> 00:15:45,000 Speaker 10: gonna say, for his sanity, he might need a little 342 00:15:45,000 --> 00:15:47,560 Speaker 10: bit of a buffer. Okay, men are not equipped the 343 00:15:47,560 --> 00:15:50,400 Speaker 10: way that women are. I think that after having three 344 00:15:50,480 --> 00:15:54,280 Speaker 10: children myself. None of them came early, thank god. But 345 00:15:54,560 --> 00:15:57,040 Speaker 10: she might also need this time to like, you know, 346 00:15:57,560 --> 00:16:00,680 Speaker 10: to feel the pregnancy more like, instead of having expectations 347 00:16:01,080 --> 00:16:03,600 Speaker 10: drop all expectations. Let him go on the work trip. 348 00:16:03,680 --> 00:16:06,640 Speaker 10: Jobs are really important in this economy. He'll come back 349 00:16:06,800 --> 00:16:08,720 Speaker 10: and you'll have a beautiful berth and he's not going 350 00:16:08,800 --> 00:16:11,480 Speaker 10: to miss it. It's a week, it's a month out, Okay, Like, 351 00:16:12,000 --> 00:16:12,600 Speaker 10: let's be real. 352 00:16:12,920 --> 00:16:17,280 Speaker 1: The month sounds like a good margin. Again, a week 353 00:16:17,320 --> 00:16:21,160 Speaker 1: before the week of, I mean, that's that's crazy business. 354 00:16:21,200 --> 00:16:23,960 Speaker 1: But this, I don't know, this sounds fair. I Amber, 355 00:16:24,000 --> 00:16:25,000 Speaker 1: thank you, have a good day. 356 00:16:26,040 --> 00:16:26,400 Speaker 8: Thank you. 357 00:16:26,920 --> 00:16:28,680 Speaker 1: It's kind of why I'm stepping aside on this. Don't 358 00:16:28,760 --> 00:16:30,920 Speaker 1: leaving it to the to the females who've had, you know, 359 00:16:31,080 --> 00:16:33,920 Speaker 1: a baby and maybe have counted on their partner for 360 00:16:33,960 --> 00:16:35,600 Speaker 1: this or how they feel, because I don't. I don't 361 00:16:35,880 --> 00:16:37,080 Speaker 1: believe it or not. I don't know what it's like 362 00:16:37,120 --> 00:16:37,720 Speaker 1: to be pregnant. 363 00:16:37,960 --> 00:16:39,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I have a few friends that have 364 00:16:39,720 --> 00:16:42,240 Speaker 3: had to go in for like emergency birds, so I 365 00:16:42,280 --> 00:16:44,720 Speaker 3: mean you just really never know. It would make me nervous. 366 00:16:44,760 --> 00:16:46,520 Speaker 3: But again, if he's going to lose his job over it, 367 00:16:46,520 --> 00:16:48,240 Speaker 3: then I don't know what I would say. 368 00:16:48,360 --> 00:16:50,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think they need a plan if anything, So 369 00:16:50,200 --> 00:16:51,920 Speaker 2: like if he goes on this work trip, which I think, 370 00:16:52,000 --> 00:16:53,480 Speaker 2: in my opinion, he should be able to go, it's 371 00:16:53,480 --> 00:16:55,400 Speaker 2: a month out. She needs a plan of Okay, if 372 00:16:55,440 --> 00:16:57,440 Speaker 2: I go into labor, who will take me? Who will 373 00:16:57,440 --> 00:16:58,280 Speaker 2: take care of the other kid? 374 00:16:58,360 --> 00:16:58,440 Speaker 8: Right? 375 00:16:58,440 --> 00:17:00,160 Speaker 2: Because they have another child, so someone needs to make 376 00:17:00,200 --> 00:17:02,320 Speaker 2: sure they're with that baby. So I think it's about 377 00:17:02,360 --> 00:17:04,320 Speaker 2: having a plan and being prepared worst case scenario. 378 00:17:04,560 --> 00:17:05,639 Speaker 4: I'm sure it'll be fine. 379 00:17:05,840 --> 00:17:08,640 Speaker 2: He'll be there for the birth right on time when 380 00:17:08,640 --> 00:17:10,480 Speaker 2: it's supposed to happen, but you just never know. 381 00:17:10,640 --> 00:17:12,119 Speaker 1: If my mom is listening, she would tell you that 382 00:17:12,200 --> 00:17:13,840 Speaker 1: I was a full month earlier. 383 00:17:13,920 --> 00:17:14,640 Speaker 4: You were, Yes, you. 384 00:17:14,600 --> 00:17:16,440 Speaker 1: Were, so she would probly for you child. 385 00:17:16,560 --> 00:17:18,040 Speaker 4: That's that's kind of as common. 386 00:17:18,080 --> 00:17:20,520 Speaker 1: I feel like, uh, yes, I was small and feeble, 387 00:17:20,880 --> 00:17:22,240 Speaker 1: and I was going to grow up to be small 388 00:17:22,240 --> 00:17:24,440 Speaker 1: and feeble and look at you. My ego is small 389 00:17:24,480 --> 00:17:27,800 Speaker 1: and feeble, but but my size is certainly not height 390 00:17:28,000 --> 00:17:32,040 Speaker 1: rather WHOA Okay, Hi, uh cold? How you doing, Colaed? 391 00:17:33,320 --> 00:17:36,680 Speaker 1: I'm good? Are you Collad? You're in Cincinnati? We got 392 00:17:36,760 --> 00:17:38,320 Speaker 1: I think we got two? Or is it the same 393 00:17:38,359 --> 00:17:40,640 Speaker 1: one from before. It doesn't matter. We don't have a lot. 394 00:17:40,720 --> 00:17:42,639 Speaker 1: So if you could tell your friends in Cincinnati that 395 00:17:42,640 --> 00:17:44,600 Speaker 1: we're on the radio there, we really appreciate that. It's 396 00:17:44,640 --> 00:17:48,000 Speaker 1: just kind of our survival. It'll do, thank you. So 397 00:17:48,040 --> 00:17:50,040 Speaker 1: what do you think here? If your partner came to 398 00:17:50,080 --> 00:17:52,240 Speaker 1: you and said, you're having a baby in a month, 399 00:17:52,280 --> 00:17:53,720 Speaker 1: I have to go on a week long business trip, 400 00:17:53,720 --> 00:17:55,280 Speaker 1: but I'll be back. I think it'll be fine. What 401 00:17:55,280 --> 00:17:55,880 Speaker 1: would you say? 402 00:17:57,640 --> 00:18:00,359 Speaker 12: I would for me, I've had a baby two months early, 403 00:18:00,400 --> 00:18:02,359 Speaker 12: and I've had a baby a month early, so I 404 00:18:02,400 --> 00:18:04,040 Speaker 12: would tell him absolutely. 405 00:18:03,520 --> 00:18:08,720 Speaker 1: Not for me. Like the fact that you had the 406 00:18:08,760 --> 00:18:10,760 Speaker 1: first one does that mean the second one is likely? 407 00:18:10,800 --> 00:18:12,480 Speaker 1: I mean what I'm saying is it does this matter 408 00:18:12,520 --> 00:18:16,280 Speaker 1: on context? Because I don't know the answer on context. 409 00:18:16,320 --> 00:18:19,600 Speaker 12: If you've had a baby early, it is more likely 410 00:18:19,640 --> 00:18:22,199 Speaker 12: that you were to have this next one early. So 411 00:18:22,240 --> 00:18:26,040 Speaker 12: I've had four babies. Wow, okay, but three of them 412 00:18:26,119 --> 00:18:29,960 Speaker 12: have been premies. So for in my case, I would say. 413 00:18:30,600 --> 00:18:32,200 Speaker 1: Not going anywhere. 414 00:18:32,800 --> 00:18:34,400 Speaker 4: I could have this baby any day. 415 00:18:34,720 --> 00:18:38,160 Speaker 12: In her case, if hers wasn't a premie, it still 416 00:18:38,160 --> 00:18:40,200 Speaker 12: should be the mother first. 417 00:18:40,760 --> 00:18:43,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I think that's likely that her his job. 418 00:18:43,800 --> 00:18:47,199 Speaker 12: Is going to fire him over something. For me, I 419 00:18:47,240 --> 00:18:50,040 Speaker 12: would be suspecting there's another reason he's doing on this 420 00:18:50,119 --> 00:18:52,840 Speaker 12: work trip, and if he doesn't want to prioritize the 421 00:18:52,920 --> 00:18:57,760 Speaker 12: family that needs helping create, then honestly, I would probably 422 00:18:57,800 --> 00:19:00,000 Speaker 12: be putting a divorce lawyer on the line. 423 00:19:00,920 --> 00:19:04,160 Speaker 1: You want, Colled. I know you're new to the program here, 424 00:19:04,200 --> 00:19:07,040 Speaker 1: but but you know, it's amazing how any single time 425 00:19:07,200 --> 00:19:09,800 Speaker 1: that we ever do about relationships, somebody will find a 426 00:19:09,840 --> 00:19:11,159 Speaker 1: way to bring an infidelity. 427 00:19:11,240 --> 00:19:12,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's my kind of girl. 428 00:19:12,160 --> 00:19:16,800 Speaker 1: Oh he is? He is definitely said he met at 429 00:19:16,840 --> 00:19:18,560 Speaker 1: the convention. Yep. 430 00:19:19,280 --> 00:19:21,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, well I don't know. 431 00:19:21,000 --> 00:19:23,040 Speaker 1: That we have to go there, but I hear you 432 00:19:23,280 --> 00:19:25,399 Speaker 1: that's yours because that's what this and I said this before, 433 00:19:25,440 --> 00:19:27,840 Speaker 1: but that's what this sounds like. The way she's communicating. 434 00:19:28,000 --> 00:19:30,480 Speaker 1: It's not that it doesn't make logistical sense. It's what 435 00:19:30,720 --> 00:19:34,920 Speaker 1: she wants and she wants him to want it to Yep, yes. 436 00:19:34,880 --> 00:19:37,320 Speaker 12: Exactly, and especially with her being pregnant. If it weren't 437 00:19:37,320 --> 00:19:39,480 Speaker 12: for her being pregnant, go on the work trip, it's fine, 438 00:19:39,680 --> 00:19:42,760 Speaker 12: But with her being pregnant and she needs him there 439 00:19:42,800 --> 00:19:45,119 Speaker 12: and she needs to feel supported in this and the 440 00:19:45,160 --> 00:19:48,200 Speaker 12: fact that it's their second child. Going from one child 441 00:19:48,200 --> 00:19:49,920 Speaker 12: to two child children is hard. 442 00:19:50,680 --> 00:19:53,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's fair and I appreciate your perspective. Now, now, 443 00:19:53,160 --> 00:19:55,159 Speaker 1: colet hang up the phone and call everybody you know 444 00:19:55,240 --> 00:19:58,280 Speaker 1: and tell him that you were on the Fred Show. Okay, Okay, 445 00:19:58,320 --> 00:20:00,320 Speaker 1: thank you. I have a good day, all right, and 446 00:20:00,359 --> 00:20:03,640 Speaker 1: they'll go who you're on? What? Nadia, how do you doing? 447 00:20:03,720 --> 00:20:04,520 Speaker 1: Good morning. 448 00:20:05,960 --> 00:20:06,400 Speaker 8: Morning. 449 00:20:06,800 --> 00:20:12,560 Speaker 1: Unfortunately, Nadiyat, this story resonates with you. Yes, what happened. 450 00:20:12,560 --> 00:20:16,040 Speaker 8: I was pregnant with my third Yeah. I do have 451 00:20:16,080 --> 00:20:19,160 Speaker 8: a tendency of going into labor early. A few weeks early, 452 00:20:19,480 --> 00:20:23,679 Speaker 8: my husband went to Mexico to sign some contract and 453 00:20:24,200 --> 00:20:27,640 Speaker 8: he was going to go regardless, so he went, will 454 00:20:27,760 --> 00:20:31,600 Speaker 8: come back. I called him, I told him I was 455 00:20:31,640 --> 00:20:32,119 Speaker 8: in labor. 456 00:20:33,760 --> 00:20:34,240 Speaker 1: Okay. 457 00:20:34,840 --> 00:20:37,919 Speaker 8: Then didn't answer my phone for about four hours. 458 00:20:38,280 --> 00:20:40,000 Speaker 1: See now it goes my mom. 459 00:20:40,440 --> 00:20:42,720 Speaker 8: For whatever reason, my mom didn't answer because he was 460 00:20:42,800 --> 00:20:44,440 Speaker 8: freaking out in Mexico. 461 00:20:45,080 --> 00:20:45,639 Speaker 1: Didn't day. 462 00:20:45,760 --> 00:20:48,080 Speaker 8: He remembers that he will never let me live it down, 463 00:20:48,080 --> 00:20:50,080 Speaker 8: that he almost had a heart attack trying to find 464 00:20:50,119 --> 00:20:52,080 Speaker 8: a way to get back to the United States. 465 00:20:52,400 --> 00:20:56,399 Speaker 1: Oh man, that's a little risky. I just Nadia thank you. 466 00:20:56,400 --> 00:21:00,160 Speaker 1: Have a good day. I'm glad you called. Yeah, I'm 467 00:21:00,200 --> 00:21:02,439 Speaker 1: Someone pointed out that, you know, military spouses deal with 468 00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:04,640 Speaker 1: this all the time, that people get deployed, and there's 469 00:21:04,640 --> 00:21:06,320 Speaker 1: not that they can do about it. I don't know, 470 00:21:06,520 --> 00:21:08,800 Speaker 1: would Shelley's Shelley in a minute. We'll have to ask 471 00:21:08,800 --> 00:21:10,199 Speaker 1: her what her perspective on this would be. 472 00:21:11,040 --> 00:21:13,040 Speaker 4: At least you know that that's coming though, you know 473 00:21:13,080 --> 00:21:13,280 Speaker 4: what I. 474 00:21:13,320 --> 00:21:14,560 Speaker 1: Mean, you know that's a possibility. 475 00:21:14,640 --> 00:21:18,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, So it doesn't make it suck any less. 476 00:21:18,080 --> 00:21:20,719 Speaker 4: But she I feel like was kind of taken aback 477 00:21:20,760 --> 00:21:21,080 Speaker 4: by this. 478 00:21:21,600 --> 00:21:24,360 Speaker 1: I feel like, you gotta you gotta have a different attitude. 479 00:21:24,359 --> 00:21:26,840 Speaker 1: If he hadn't made that last comment, maybe maybe he 480 00:21:26,920 --> 00:21:29,080 Speaker 1: get away with this. But it sounds like his whole 481 00:21:29,080 --> 00:21:31,160 Speaker 1: attitude towards this is I don't really care one way 482 00:21:31,240 --> 00:21:33,640 Speaker 1: or the other, which I think if he had a hey, 483 00:21:33,640 --> 00:21:36,040 Speaker 1: I do care. I have to go. But here, to 484 00:21:36,080 --> 00:21:38,840 Speaker 1: Paulina's point, here's the plan, Like if I'm not here, 485 00:21:39,160 --> 00:21:41,399 Speaker 1: this is what you're gonna have. All this support and 486 00:21:41,440 --> 00:21:43,719 Speaker 1: then here are the flights, and there are like fifty 487 00:21:43,760 --> 00:21:45,520 Speaker 1: a day or whatever, and I have I have all 488 00:21:45,520 --> 00:21:48,119 Speaker 1: these different airlines and all these different options, and boss 489 00:21:48,200 --> 00:21:50,840 Speaker 1: is gonna pay for a last minute ticket and whatever, whatever, whatever. 490 00:21:51,320 --> 00:21:53,040 Speaker 1: I have all these different ways to make it right. 491 00:21:53,520 --> 00:21:56,520 Speaker 1: I think if you come, like, you know, proactively, then 492 00:21:56,600 --> 00:21:59,800 Speaker 1: you might have a better chance of someone understanding. But 493 00:21:59,840 --> 00:22:02,760 Speaker 1: the fact and he's like, well I saw one. 494 00:22:03,119 --> 00:22:05,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, like just shut up sometimes, you know. 495 00:22:05,359 --> 00:22:07,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, too many tiny words, got to give it to you. 496 00:22:07,680 --> 00:22:09,560 Speaker 1: I forgot how to be a radio host. I was 497 00:22:09,600 --> 00:22:12,800 Speaker 1: going for. I never really knew, but I definitely forgot 498 00:22:12,840 --> 00:22:15,760 Speaker 1: how to be a radio host. Cactus. That's the keyword. 499 00:22:15,760 --> 00:22:18,360 Speaker 1: Cactus is the keyword. I will do it on time tomorrow, 500 00:22:18,359 --> 00:22:21,440 Speaker 1: Probably not, but maybe around seven thirty, eight thirty, depending 501 00:22:21,440 --> 00:22:23,200 Speaker 1: where you're listening. Cactus is the word. So if you 502 00:22:23,240 --> 00:22:25,040 Speaker 1: want to see the Jonas Brothers in Las Vegas, all 503 00:22:25,080 --> 00:22:27,880 Speaker 1: expenses paid, then jump on the iHeart radio app wherever 504 00:22:27,920 --> 00:22:31,640 Speaker 1: you're listening to us, whatever station, jump on there and 505 00:22:32,600 --> 00:22:36,000 Speaker 1: tune in and then there's a microphone there. Click on that. 506 00:22:36,160 --> 00:22:39,080 Speaker 1: Leave us a talkback message your name where you're listening. 507 00:22:39,160 --> 00:22:41,440 Speaker 1: Cactus is the keyword. You can enter as many times 508 00:22:41,480 --> 00:22:43,760 Speaker 1: as you want. If you want to answer seven thousand times, 509 00:22:43,960 --> 00:22:47,080 Speaker 1: you can do it. And then the more times that 510 00:22:47,119 --> 00:22:49,159 Speaker 1: you enter, the better your chance to win. And is 511 00:22:49,200 --> 00:22:52,000 Speaker 1: it Friday, we'll tell somebody, or is it next week Monday? Monday, 512 00:22:52,040 --> 00:22:54,119 Speaker 1: will tell somebody. Because you've gotta tabulate. We gotta, we 513 00:22:54,160 --> 00:22:56,239 Speaker 1: gotta put it all together. We gotta we gotta get 514 00:22:56,240 --> 00:22:57,879 Speaker 1: the accounting firm in here. We got to get the 515 00:22:57,880 --> 00:22:59,840 Speaker 1: big ball with the wheel and the ball and the 516 00:22:59,840 --> 00:23:02,480 Speaker 1: whole thing. And you know, the wheel and the ball, Jason, 517 00:23:02,560 --> 00:23:04,800 Speaker 1: Wheel and the ball. We got a hand hot. So 518 00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:07,439 Speaker 1: jump on the iHeartRadio app wherever you listen to us. 519 00:23:07,480 --> 00:23:09,400 Speaker 1: If you're doing that, now click on a microphone and 520 00:23:09,680 --> 00:23:11,760 Speaker 1: leave us the message using the word cactus for a 521 00:23:11,880 --> 00:23:15,400 Speaker 1: chance to win. Calon's Entertainment Report. He is on the fread. 522 00:23:15,200 --> 00:23:17,040 Speaker 4: Show The Bachelorette. 523 00:23:17,040 --> 00:23:20,639 Speaker 3: Contestants from Taylor Frankie Paul's canceled season took to social 524 00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:22,280 Speaker 3: media Sunday. I don't know if you guys saw this, 525 00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:25,880 Speaker 3: but posting videos watching blank TV screens. 526 00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:28,440 Speaker 4: One former suitor. 527 00:23:28,320 --> 00:23:31,000 Speaker 3: Mike Turrito, posted a video with the captain today was 528 00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:33,600 Speaker 3: supposed to be the day, by the way, along with 529 00:23:33,720 --> 00:23:37,520 Speaker 3: various angles of him in different positions watching an empty screen. 530 00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:41,760 Speaker 3: Another ex contestant, Johnny LaRosa, posted a video of his 531 00:23:41,800 --> 00:23:45,440 Speaker 3: whole family gathered in the living room anticipating his big day, 532 00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:48,200 Speaker 3: writing when the fan gets together for a watch party, 533 00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:49,399 Speaker 3: but there's nothing to watch. 534 00:23:49,720 --> 00:23:52,960 Speaker 1: Remember, we're supposed to feel bad for these contestants. Yes, yes, 535 00:23:53,240 --> 00:23:56,800 Speaker 1: I think make because you're shot at Influencer Deals is 536 00:23:56,840 --> 00:23:57,240 Speaker 1: over now. 537 00:23:57,880 --> 00:23:59,959 Speaker 3: Well, listen, you miss a lot of work when you 538 00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:01,840 Speaker 3: on the show. I think, we don't think about that. 539 00:24:01,880 --> 00:24:05,760 Speaker 3: And then typically they make it back online. I do 540 00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:07,600 Speaker 3: feel bad. And then also one of them was going 541 00:24:07,680 --> 00:24:10,600 Speaker 3: to be selected to be the Bachelor, and. 542 00:24:10,560 --> 00:24:13,200 Speaker 1: Apparently they're still talking about making some of them Bachelor 543 00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:15,440 Speaker 1: in Paradise contestants. 544 00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:19,520 Speaker 4: Okay, okay, And then there's still some rumor. 545 00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:20,879 Speaker 1: Going around that they're going to post a season on 546 00:24:20,920 --> 00:24:24,240 Speaker 1: Hulu anyway, which I don't know where that's coming from, 547 00:24:24,240 --> 00:24:26,800 Speaker 1: but I guess ABC never from what I understand, and 548 00:24:26,920 --> 00:24:30,800 Speaker 1: again i've been gone. They never actually formally said this 549 00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:33,199 Speaker 1: will never be seen. They just didn't air it. 550 00:24:33,359 --> 00:24:35,640 Speaker 3: Gosh, I just read the quote from them. But yeah, 551 00:24:35,680 --> 00:24:38,080 Speaker 3: I mean, if it was another network, like maybe like 552 00:24:38,119 --> 00:24:41,200 Speaker 3: an HBO, I feel like they would either still air it. 553 00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:43,359 Speaker 4: Or edit some things, or air it with like a warning. 554 00:24:43,359 --> 00:24:46,159 Speaker 3: But I feel like ABC's image is very much not 555 00:24:46,320 --> 00:24:47,480 Speaker 3: with all this controversy. 556 00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:50,480 Speaker 1: But what are your thoughts on this? I missed your commentary. 557 00:24:50,720 --> 00:24:53,719 Speaker 1: The whole thing, the fact that this video resurfaced of 558 00:24:53,760 --> 00:24:56,719 Speaker 1: this woman who's on Secret Wives of Mormon Lives, who 559 00:24:56,840 --> 00:24:58,680 Speaker 1: was set to be the bachelor. It's three years old. 560 00:24:58,960 --> 00:25:01,160 Speaker 1: We hadn't seen the video, but we knew of the incident. 561 00:25:01,440 --> 00:25:03,320 Speaker 1: And then the night before or two days or three 562 00:25:03,400 --> 00:25:07,040 Speaker 1: days before's supposed to air, supposedly ex boyfriend leaks this 563 00:25:07,160 --> 00:25:10,440 Speaker 1: thing or sells it or his buddy sold it or somebody, 564 00:25:10,600 --> 00:25:12,480 Speaker 1: and now we see it, maybe seeds like, oh well, 565 00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:14,160 Speaker 1: now that we can see it, even though we knew 566 00:25:14,200 --> 00:25:16,520 Speaker 1: about it. Literally, we're not going to do this now 567 00:25:16,560 --> 00:25:19,120 Speaker 1: because people are outraged or whatever. I mean, what's your take? 568 00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:22,679 Speaker 3: My take is it's really sad first and foremost, I 569 00:25:22,680 --> 00:25:24,120 Speaker 3: feel awful for the kiddos. 570 00:25:24,560 --> 00:25:26,600 Speaker 4: I think they're the true and only victims. 571 00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:29,280 Speaker 3: I think if you have not watched Secret Lives of 572 00:25:29,320 --> 00:25:33,040 Speaker 3: Mormon Wives, I don't love seeing people's commentary because I 573 00:25:33,080 --> 00:25:36,879 Speaker 3: think we see the short snippet of a video, we 574 00:25:36,920 --> 00:25:40,520 Speaker 3: don't know what happened before. I don't think people just 575 00:25:40,640 --> 00:25:43,360 Speaker 3: get worked up and start raging out of nowhere. 576 00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:44,720 Speaker 4: I think it was very much. 577 00:25:44,560 --> 00:25:49,240 Speaker 3: Catered to look like one person was innocent in the situation, 578 00:25:49,320 --> 00:25:52,080 Speaker 3: when I don't know that they necessarily were. I also 579 00:25:52,119 --> 00:25:54,520 Speaker 3: think if you were so concerned about children being there, 580 00:25:54,840 --> 00:25:58,280 Speaker 3: you would have stopped filming and gotten the child out 581 00:25:58,320 --> 00:26:02,280 Speaker 3: of the situation because he's acting like fearful. He also 582 00:26:02,320 --> 00:26:04,760 Speaker 3: got back together with her multiple times after this. 583 00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:05,480 Speaker 4: ABC. 584 00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:07,879 Speaker 3: You already knew about this arrest. She already plied guilty, 585 00:26:07,920 --> 00:26:10,720 Speaker 3: she already went to court over it. You made her 586 00:26:10,800 --> 00:26:11,520 Speaker 3: the bachelorrete. 587 00:26:12,160 --> 00:26:14,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, I was dming with somebody about this who was 588 00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:16,399 Speaker 1: asking for some reason what I thought about it. I 589 00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:19,960 Speaker 1: have done the vetting process for a reality show before, 590 00:26:20,520 --> 00:26:23,479 Speaker 1: of at this level they knew. It is extensive. They 591 00:26:23,520 --> 00:26:28,480 Speaker 1: do a full background, extensive full health background. A private 592 00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:31,520 Speaker 1: investigator called me from the network and it was like 593 00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:34,119 Speaker 1: two hours long of me answering questions about stuff that 594 00:26:34,200 --> 00:26:36,400 Speaker 1: I don't know how that person knew. And then they 595 00:26:36,440 --> 00:26:38,879 Speaker 1: want references and they asked, you can we call an X. 596 00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:41,680 Speaker 1: They'll ask you like, we'll let you decide which one, 597 00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:44,359 Speaker 1: but like whatever, whatever, and they want to talk to 598 00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:46,520 Speaker 1: people in your life, and then they ask about I 599 00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:47,160 Speaker 1: mean they. 600 00:26:47,119 --> 00:26:49,200 Speaker 4: Knew, so did the contestant, and I've seen the video. 601 00:26:49,200 --> 00:26:51,680 Speaker 1: It's probably more than likely the video they that they knew, 602 00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:53,040 Speaker 1: they knew, they knew what this was. 603 00:26:53,119 --> 00:26:54,159 Speaker 4: They didn't know what was going to come out. 604 00:26:54,200 --> 00:26:57,120 Speaker 3: I also think it's crazy that he's making money off 605 00:26:57,160 --> 00:26:59,680 Speaker 3: the video. He sold it for six figures. I think 606 00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:02,280 Speaker 3: that's a really weird thing to do if you're If 607 00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:05,199 Speaker 3: this whole situation is so heavy, I think she very 608 00:27:05,240 --> 00:27:07,040 Speaker 3: much needs help. But I think if you can't look 609 00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:09,720 Speaker 3: at that video and go okay, there's it's not black 610 00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:11,719 Speaker 3: and white. There's more to the story than I think, 611 00:27:11,760 --> 00:27:13,800 Speaker 3: you're very lucky because you haven't been in a situation 612 00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:17,199 Speaker 3: where your nervous system has been completely out of sorts. 613 00:27:17,280 --> 00:27:18,600 Speaker 4: I think it's just sad. In general. 614 00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:21,600 Speaker 1: No one's hands between those two are clean. 615 00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:24,080 Speaker 3: You watch the show. You know he antagonizes it. He'll 616 00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:27,400 Speaker 3: he'll do things just to get under her skin. Which 617 00:27:27,400 --> 00:27:29,800 Speaker 3: I'm not saying you're not responsible for your own actions, 618 00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:32,000 Speaker 3: but it's not so simple. People look at a video 619 00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:34,040 Speaker 3: and they want to find the villain automatically. 620 00:27:34,280 --> 00:27:36,000 Speaker 4: It's just sad and she needs help. 621 00:27:36,080 --> 00:27:40,480 Speaker 1: I agree with that. My issue is not to make 622 00:27:40,520 --> 00:27:43,520 Speaker 1: it about me. But I was that kid, same and so, 623 00:27:43,960 --> 00:27:46,720 Speaker 1: and that's that will stick with you forever safe. So 624 00:27:46,960 --> 00:27:48,920 Speaker 1: I don't know why we're not we're worried about this child. 625 00:27:49,680 --> 00:27:50,119 Speaker 4: I agree. 626 00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:54,800 Speaker 1: Second of all, I it's her flippant attitude towards this. 627 00:27:55,119 --> 00:27:57,879 Speaker 1: He's a douchebag. Everyone always knew that he was a douchebag. 628 00:27:58,080 --> 00:28:00,240 Speaker 1: That is a toxic cycle that is very sad between 629 00:28:00,240 --> 00:28:01,920 Speaker 1: the two of them. That's deep rooted in both of them. 630 00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:04,480 Speaker 1: I hope they both get help. But the truth is 631 00:28:05,280 --> 00:28:08,120 Speaker 1: for her to be posting these little silly dancing videos 632 00:28:08,119 --> 00:28:10,800 Speaker 1: in response to how like I'm getting burned down but 633 00:28:10,800 --> 00:28:11,560 Speaker 1: I'll reco. 634 00:28:11,440 --> 00:28:13,320 Speaker 3: So that was supposed before the video drop. I saw 635 00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:14,440 Speaker 3: you responded that on TikTok. 636 00:28:14,480 --> 00:28:16,560 Speaker 1: She hasn't posted anything since this came out, and she's 637 00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:17,760 Speaker 1: been commenting on people' stuff. 638 00:28:17,760 --> 00:28:19,840 Speaker 4: But that video was from before all of this. 639 00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:22,240 Speaker 3: She was just talking about all the drama of her 640 00:28:22,320 --> 00:28:23,360 Speaker 3: being the bachelorette. 641 00:28:23,359 --> 00:28:25,639 Speaker 1: That was response, but in general, tho okay, it's like 642 00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:29,600 Speaker 1: it's her sort of I don't know if it's elitist 643 00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:34,080 Speaker 1: or ignorant or defiant attitude to it. I mean, the 644 00:28:34,119 --> 00:28:36,840 Speaker 1: only thing to do here, in my opinion, is to 645 00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:40,800 Speaker 1: say okay, and whether it's to rehabilitate your image or whatever, 646 00:28:40,880 --> 00:28:42,520 Speaker 1: the only thing to do here is say I need 647 00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:44,640 Speaker 1: help and I'm gonna get it. You needs help, and 648 00:28:44,680 --> 00:28:46,400 Speaker 1: maybe she's getting it. I hope she is, But like, 649 00:28:46,440 --> 00:28:48,600 Speaker 1: I don't know, everything seems to be met with this. 650 00:28:49,480 --> 00:28:52,080 Speaker 1: I'll whatever whatever it looks like, I don't care. 651 00:28:52,240 --> 00:28:54,520 Speaker 3: I'll but is there no chance that she's learned and 652 00:28:54,560 --> 00:28:57,000 Speaker 3: grown from that situation since twenty twenty three. 653 00:28:57,680 --> 00:28:59,960 Speaker 1: It doesn't look like in the latest season she's still 654 00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:02,840 Speaker 1: with him, She's still this toxicity is still there, She's 655 00:29:02,880 --> 00:29:05,680 Speaker 1: falling into the same patterns. I think she needs really 656 00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:08,080 Speaker 1: serious help, and I think that's the only thing I'd 657 00:29:08,120 --> 00:29:10,760 Speaker 1: like to see here is, of course this isn't maybe 658 00:29:10,760 --> 00:29:12,760 Speaker 1: this season isn't even about me anymore. It's about my 659 00:29:12,840 --> 00:29:14,880 Speaker 1: kids and my family. And so like I'm gonna go 660 00:29:14,920 --> 00:29:17,720 Speaker 1: get help, I'm going to end the cycle. And whether 661 00:29:17,800 --> 00:29:20,360 Speaker 1: again that's to get her endorsements back, or whether it's 662 00:29:20,400 --> 00:29:24,160 Speaker 1: because it's actually what she should do, like the whole thing. 663 00:29:24,200 --> 00:29:25,680 Speaker 1: If you watch the show, it gives you a lot 664 00:29:25,720 --> 00:29:28,840 Speaker 1: more context as to how sad and cyclical this all 665 00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:29,640 Speaker 1: really is. 666 00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:32,240 Speaker 3: Her dad though, like literally left I think a lot, 667 00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:33,840 Speaker 3: like we're not there's more of the like her dad 668 00:29:33,880 --> 00:29:36,600 Speaker 3: last season said because you slept with Dakota too early, 669 00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:38,160 Speaker 3: you're getting everything you deserve. 670 00:29:38,520 --> 00:29:40,200 Speaker 4: He literally called her the S word. 671 00:29:40,080 --> 00:29:43,040 Speaker 3: And said, you slack at this man too early, and 672 00:29:43,120 --> 00:29:45,920 Speaker 3: you deserve everything he's doing to you. Like, we have 673 00:29:45,960 --> 00:29:48,360 Speaker 3: to think about her family life her like it's. 674 00:29:48,200 --> 00:29:50,840 Speaker 1: Just very no matter what angle you look at. I 675 00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:52,640 Speaker 1: think she needs some support and some help. 676 00:29:52,680 --> 00:29:54,800 Speaker 3: And she shouldn't have gone on the Bachelorette. She was 677 00:29:54,840 --> 00:29:56,959 Speaker 3: not ready all season. Her friends were worried for her 678 00:29:56,960 --> 00:29:57,560 Speaker 3: all season. 679 00:29:58,960 --> 00:30:01,600 Speaker 1: It's it's but for them for ABC to be at 680 00:30:01,640 --> 00:30:03,560 Speaker 1: the last minute, like we didn't know about this or no, 681 00:30:03,640 --> 00:30:06,920 Speaker 1: you knew about it, You didn't you The video just 682 00:30:06,960 --> 00:30:10,000 Speaker 1: looked awful because it was awful, and now you want 683 00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:14,320 Speaker 1: to disassociate with that. That's the only reason this is happening. Yeah, 684 00:30:14,360 --> 00:30:17,360 Speaker 1: and it's one more example of him controlling her with manipulation, 685 00:30:17,520 --> 00:30:21,720 Speaker 1: with its strategized messaging. Yeah, it's the whole thing sick. 686 00:30:21,920 --> 00:30:22,480 Speaker 1: It's sick. 687 00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:25,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, yeah, it's you guys need. 688 00:30:25,280 --> 00:30:25,600 Speaker 4: To watch this. 689 00:30:25,640 --> 00:30:27,280 Speaker 1: But only the only thing I thought about was that kid. 690 00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:28,640 Speaker 1: I don't care about any of the rest of it. 691 00:30:28,760 --> 00:30:30,400 Speaker 1: The only thing I thought about was how sad it 692 00:30:30,480 --> 00:30:32,520 Speaker 1: was for that kid, and that five year old will 693 00:30:32,560 --> 00:30:35,800 Speaker 1: never forget Nope, that and that's not the first time 694 00:30:35,800 --> 00:30:37,200 Speaker 1: that that five year old or any of them have 695 00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:39,280 Speaker 1: seen behavior like this. It's just the only time we've 696 00:30:39,280 --> 00:30:39,680 Speaker 1: seen it. 697 00:30:39,760 --> 00:30:40,400 Speaker 4: I've been the kid. 698 00:30:40,440 --> 00:30:44,760 Speaker 3: I've also been in a situation with abuse, and so 699 00:30:44,840 --> 00:30:47,320 Speaker 3: I can recognize that the situation is layered. 700 00:30:47,360 --> 00:30:49,200 Speaker 4: She should have never been the bachelor atte and I 701 00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:50,000 Speaker 4: feel really sad. 702 00:30:50,480 --> 00:30:52,240 Speaker 3: But I also I am worried that their son is 703 00:30:52,280 --> 00:30:54,240 Speaker 3: now with Dakota, only because. 704 00:30:54,000 --> 00:30:56,760 Speaker 4: I don't trust him either, So I guess we got 705 00:30:56,800 --> 00:30:57,280 Speaker 4: to probably move. 706 00:30:57,360 --> 00:31:00,640 Speaker 1: Someone said this sounds like victim blamy, absolutely opposite of 707 00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:05,760 Speaker 1: the victim blook. No. I I just said, they're both idiots, 708 00:31:05,840 --> 00:31:08,280 Speaker 1: and they both need help. They both need help, they 709 00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:10,320 Speaker 1: both need to see this, and they need to get 710 00:31:10,320 --> 00:31:13,960 Speaker 1: off social media and they need to figure this out. 711 00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:17,160 Speaker 1: They say that they're families, their children's no, No one is. 712 00:31:17,360 --> 00:31:19,600 Speaker 4: No, he's a child, the only victim. 713 00:31:19,880 --> 00:31:22,960 Speaker 1: They're probably all victims. Quite frankly, the whole thing's sad. Yeah, 714 00:31:23,040 --> 00:31:25,240 Speaker 1: but no, this isn't one person's fault to the other, 715 00:31:25,320 --> 00:31:27,360 Speaker 1: that someone needs to intervene. 716 00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:28,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, a. 717 00:31:28,200 --> 00:31:30,640 Speaker 3: Small snapshot of a fight. I just think now the 718 00:31:30,640 --> 00:31:33,840 Speaker 3: whole world's commenting. It makes me really sad. But yes, 719 00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:35,960 Speaker 3: the child is the only victim. I guess I'll move 720 00:31:35,960 --> 00:31:37,640 Speaker 3: on the Friend Show on demand if you want to 721 00:31:37,640 --> 00:31:38,880 Speaker 3: catch up on anything you missed. 722 00:31:38,880 --> 00:31:40,480 Speaker 1: And by the way, they're not they're not idiots for 723 00:31:40,520 --> 00:31:43,520 Speaker 1: being in this situation there or for falling into a 724 00:31:43,560 --> 00:31:45,800 Speaker 1: toxic cycle. I think. I think it's all being played 725 00:31:45,840 --> 00:31:50,520 Speaker 1: out so publicly, and it's like and again, I've been 726 00:31:50,560 --> 00:31:53,760 Speaker 1: watching this show for seasons now, so they've figured out 727 00:31:53,760 --> 00:31:58,120 Speaker 1: a way to sort of monetize this toxicity and elevate it. 728 00:31:58,160 --> 00:32:00,680 Speaker 1: And it's it's really sad to see he's holding the 729 00:32:00,680 --> 00:32:05,800 Speaker 1: camera baiting herself. He's still talking to her the whole time. No, no, 730 00:32:06,240 --> 00:32:08,960 Speaker 1: it's not good all around, all right, Shouby Shelley is 731 00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:11,560 Speaker 1: up next to one hundred bucks she's never lost to in 732 00:32:11,600 --> 00:32:14,160 Speaker 1: a row. We'll see what happens today, We'll get to 733 00:32:14,200 --> 00:32:17,240 Speaker 1: waiting by the phone. The Entertainmer report headlines fun fact. 734 00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:19,880 Speaker 1: It's all next on the Fred Show State More Fread 735 00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:20,640 Speaker 1: Show Next