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Speaker 1: It cannot be ignored the law of attraction. And I'm

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Speaker 1: My name is Vernon? Say what noo? My name is Vernon.

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Speaker 1: the BOS was up? Yeah, knew it. Okay, okay, mister Vernon,

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Speaker 1: Now there's one more person that's on the schedule on

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Speaker 1: Your wife got me the prank phone call you. I'm

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Speaker 1: just be careful. You have bodyguards. I'm just bodyguard where

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Speaker 1: when he goes out because of these pranks, I'm asking,

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Speaker 1: I think I need a prank bodyguard. Yes, you need

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00:28:00,520 --> 00:28:05,320
Speaker 1: to tell Steve say you late on that, and especially

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Speaker 1: the ones you've been doing for the New year. I'm

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Speaker 1: surprised you ain't got your ass beat yet. It's the

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Speaker 1: basic part that's really You don't tell me that's favor,

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Speaker 1: that's that really is Yeah, because somebody should have walked

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Speaker 1: up on you and been stomping you by now. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: you Timmy, why y'all a little heavy with this? Just

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Speaker 1: feel tense right now? It's this. I don't have prank tension.

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Speaker 1: You know, y'all gonna cloud my creativity. Don't do it.

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Speaker 1: You don't have prank tension. Did you listen to the

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Speaker 1: reaction to these people they got talking about their kids.

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Speaker 1: They're pastor, the wife, actor, the church, the wife. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: wait till the next hour, all right, listen. Coming up

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Speaker 1: at the top of the hour, we'll have some entertainment

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Speaker 1: and national news for you right after this. You're listening

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Speaker 1: to show. The NBA has officially postponed tonight to Lakers

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00:29:08,920 --> 00:29:11,840
Speaker 1: versus Clippers game at the Staples Center in Los Angeles.

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Speaker 1: This is all, of course, out of respect for the

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Speaker 1: Lakers organization, which is reeling as we all are, from

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Speaker 1: the death of Kobe Bryant. The decision was made out

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Speaker 1: of respect for the Lakers organization, which is deeply grieving

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Speaker 1: the tragic loss of Lakers legend Kobe Bryant, his daughter Gianna,

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Speaker 1: and seven other people that were in the helicopter crash

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Speaker 1: on Sunday. The NBA set in a statement the game

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Speaker 1: will be Excuse me, I need some water. The game

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00:29:40,960 --> 00:29:44,320
Speaker 1: will be rescheduled at a later date. Lebron James was

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Speaker 1: seen sobbing and crying when he got off the Lakers

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Speaker 1: team playing at lax on Sunday following a game in

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Speaker 1: Brooklyn against the net. Several players, staffers, and other Lakers employees,

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Speaker 1: many of whom have known Kobe four years, are simply

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Speaker 1: inconsolable and just not ready to go to work. They're

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Speaker 1: just not ready to do it right now. Of course,

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Speaker 1: we know that Kobe played for the Lakers for twenty

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Speaker 1: years and built lasting relationships with so many people. I mean,

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Speaker 1: that's those These are the people that knew him. You know,

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Speaker 1: it hit the people that didn't know him. I think

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Speaker 1: I think that we're learning more and more that he

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Speaker 1: not only had an epic career, but this brother had

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Speaker 1: built an epic life. I think that's what a lot

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Speaker 1: of people are coming away with him because like even

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Speaker 1: the pictures, the big pictures that put up on the billboards,

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Speaker 1: you know, the chromatic billboards outside of the latent, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: none of them are him in a basketball jersey. It's

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Speaker 1: him in a suit, you know, which is saying it

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Speaker 1: just just him the man, Yeah, not the player. The

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Speaker 1: man is missing. And I think that I'm even learning.

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Speaker 1: Of course, you know, I knew him, but we weren't

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Speaker 1: like I said, we weren't. We didn't have each other

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Speaker 1: sale number, we didn't never called each other just every

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Speaker 1: time we saw each other, we had we had a

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Speaker 1: we had a mutually respectful conversation. I was complimentary of him.

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Speaker 1: He was always complimenting me whenever we saw each other

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Speaker 1: and Steve. I turned around. One time it was him,

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Speaker 1: I said, Moonber. He turned around this me and like

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Speaker 1: I said, last time I saw him was not at

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Speaker 1: this past World Series, but the time before, and we

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00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:36,000
Speaker 1: both had seats like right on the front road, right

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Speaker 1: behind the dugout or the Boston Red Sox. At last

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Speaker 1: time I saw him and his wife, and you know,

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Speaker 1: it was just cool. I was leaving. My wife, said Steve.

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Speaker 1: That's kovid, he said, Steve. I went out there in front,

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Speaker 1: you know a lot of people looking and stuff, you know,

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Speaker 1: hugged him, shook his head and asking how the family

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Speaker 1: is doing, hugged his wife. That was the last time

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Speaker 1: I ever spoke to the buzz. So I'm not sitting

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Speaker 1: up here trying to perpetrate like he was close friends,

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Speaker 1: because we weren't. But what I'm learning even more and

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Speaker 1: more is what I used to compliment him more about

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Speaker 1: he really pulls his life together. I'm learning more and

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Speaker 1: more of how great of a man he was community wise,

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Speaker 1: and especially as a father father. I didn't know how

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Speaker 1: involved he was in women's basketball. I just you know,

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00:32:28,840 --> 00:32:31,280
Speaker 1: and I'm just learning a lot more about him, which

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Speaker 1: is really really cool. Yeah. And one other thing I

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Speaker 1: heard that you guys had in common, Steve, They said

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Speaker 1: Kobe liked to dress. You mentioned he had. They showed

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Speaker 1: pictures of him not in a basketball uniform, ball and

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00:32:43,480 --> 00:32:45,840
Speaker 1: they said he liked to dress. He was into clothes,

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Speaker 1: He liked cigars, you know, things like that. He was

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Speaker 1: a champion for women's sports. You know. Yeah, you know,

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Speaker 1: just a great guy all around. Um. Well, we're gonna

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00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:01,640
Speaker 1: move on now and time to get caught up the

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Speaker 1: state with miss Anne. Ladies and gentlemen, miss Anne trip

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Speaker 1: do you thank you? This is Awer with the news. Everybody,

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Speaker 1: Good morning. Well, authorities say they've removed three bodies from

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Speaker 1: the Calabasas, California's site where Kobe Bryant's helicopter went down

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Speaker 1: Sunday morning, but they're not saying which bodies, although they

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Speaker 1: have identified everybody now on board. Members of the National

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Speaker 1: Transportation Safety Board they're there. They say the craft was

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Speaker 1: not equipped with a black box, which they say was

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Speaker 1: not required, but there was. They say an iPad used

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Speaker 1: for the flight's itinerary, the weather conditions, and some other

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Speaker 1: things that they're going to be studying and trying to

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Speaker 1: put together. The NTSB also asking the public for photos

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Speaker 1: of the area of the crash to determine what the

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Speaker 1: conditions were like. Meanwhile, the La County Sheriff's office has

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Speaker 1: set up a perimeter around the crash site with offices

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Speaker 1: on horseback and on all terrain vehicles to keep the

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Speaker 1: curious away because even they contaminate the scene and just

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Speaker 1: really messed stuff up. They'd say. The last transmission, by

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Speaker 1: the way, from Kobe's pilot was a statement that he

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Speaker 1: was climbing to avoid some thick cloud and apparently he

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Speaker 1: was told it he was too low at this point

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Speaker 1: and he should watch out. The National Transportation and Safety

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Speaker 1: Boards says their people are going to be there for

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Speaker 1: about five days. They still are not completely sure what happened,

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Speaker 1: but they're still piecing it together. So I don't want

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Speaker 1: to say they said this or they say that. Oh. Thus,

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Speaker 1: just so as you know, the NBA is inducted Kobe

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Speaker 1: posthumously into the NBA Hall of Fame. All the formalities

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00:34:21,960 --> 00:34:24,959
Speaker 1: have been waived. He is in, they say. And also

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Speaker 1: there's a petition out there to make Kobe Bryant shadow

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Speaker 1: the new symbol of the NBA, replacing Jerry West. I

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Speaker 1: don't know if that's going to fly very well, but

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Speaker 1: we'll see. You know. Let people have a lot of

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Speaker 1: respect for Jerry West as well. Now that it's a

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Speaker 1: GOP's chance to defend President Trump against impeachment, they suddenly

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Speaker 1: find themselves on an increased pressure to call former National

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Speaker 1: Security Advisor John Bolton to testify, even though Majority Leader

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Speaker 1: Mitch McConnell's been firm about not considering any new information.

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00:34:48,719 --> 00:34:51,520
Speaker 1: Things might be about to change, though Senate Minority Leader

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Speaker 1: Charles Schumer says the why of it is simple. According

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Speaker 1: to The New York Times, Ambassador Bolton wrote in his

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Speaker 1: book that he was ordered by the President to continue

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Speaker 1: freezing assistance until Ukraine announced the political investigations the president

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Speaker 1: was seeking, including the investigation into the Bidens. Ambassador Bolton

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Speaker 1: essentially confirms the President committed the offenses charged in the

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Speaker 1: first article of impeachment. We have a witness with first

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Speaker 1: hand evidence of the President's actions for which he is

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Speaker 1: on trial. He is ready and willing to testify anyone

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Speaker 1: who says the House case lacks eyewitnesses and then votes

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Speaker 1: to prevent eyewitnesses from testifying is talking out of both

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Speaker 1: sides of their mouth. At least two GOP senators reportedly

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Speaker 1: feeled that revelations in Bolton's soon to be published book

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Speaker 1: or make his testimony crucial. At least two more Republicans, though,

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Speaker 1: are needed to overrule McConnell's witness shutouts, So we'll see

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Speaker 1: how that goes. Finally, today is National Daisy Day. Like

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Speaker 1: in the words of Dark Holiday, I guess you're a

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Speaker 1: daisy if you do to him, you know daisy. Now

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Speaker 1: back to the Steve Harvard Morning Show. You're listening to

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Speaker 1: show Well, Saturday kicks off Black History Month, and on

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Speaker 1: this past Sunday night during the Grammys, this is one

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Speaker 1: of your favorite months. You're got extra day this year.

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Speaker 1: Uh huh he it is sleepier. Yeah. Google premiered a

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Speaker 1: commercial called most Searched. The commercial is about how African

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Speaker 1: Americans have dominated public fascination. So what is the most

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Speaker 1: searched performance? It's Beyonce at Coachella. Remember that? How can

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Speaker 1: we forget that? Yeah? The most searched guitar soloist, Take

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Speaker 1: a guess. Jimmy Hendris Friends, the most searched talk show host,

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Speaker 1: Steve Hardy close, Oprah Winfrey. Yes. The most searched athlete

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Speaker 1: I should know this, Lebron, Yeah, Lebron, Lebron. Yeah. The

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Speaker 1: most ched tennis player Serena m hm. The most searched dunk,

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Speaker 1: hold on, you should know one. The most searched dunk.

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Speaker 1: This isn't during your era. I thought it was Doctor Jay,

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Speaker 1: and then I thought it was Michael Jordan's you throw dunk.

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Speaker 1: That's it, Michael Jordan, Yeah, that's it. The most searched

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Speaker 1: gymnast is of course, yes, yes, all right. The most

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Speaker 1: searched ballerina, Nia Coma Nachi. See that's why I went

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Speaker 1: ahead and said, Misty Copeland, boy, I just yeah, is

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Speaker 1: that a real ballerina gymnast? No, she's a gymnast's Olympic gymnast.

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to get to him. And why about your tone?

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Speaker 1: I'm better get to what I think you're gonna get to.

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Speaker 1: But go in. I know you better watch your tone.

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Speaker 1: The most searched female poet, Maya Angelo, thank you. Uh.

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Speaker 1: The most searched homecoming prave you what home that could

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Speaker 1: be Alabama? Not the one that Beyonce did. No, well

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Speaker 1: that's the one I searched name nobody the most searched speech.

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Speaker 1: I know you guys get this one. King, I have

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Speaker 1: a dream, that's right, So I mean, you know, to

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Speaker 1: sum it all up, we are truly amazing. All right,

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Speaker 1: that's it. Yeah, that's it. Where's the most searched prank

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Speaker 1: called that ain't in there? No, got to be kidding me,

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Speaker 1: that that ain't on the on the paper. No, all right,

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Speaker 1: we'll be back with more. You got to be kidding

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Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to show Kobe Bryant's helicopter

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Speaker 1: pilot misjudged the terrain and didn't slow down. That's what

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Speaker 1: some pilots are saying now. Federal investigators on Monday began

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Speaker 1: working to unravel the mystery of why a helicopter carrying

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Speaker 1: Kobe Bryant, his thirteen year old daughter, and seven other people,

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Speaker 1: including teenage girls, coaches, and some members of their families,

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Speaker 1: crashed into the side of a hill in Calabasa's authority

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Speaker 1: said the investigation is now wide ranging, including looking at

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Speaker 1: the histories of the pilot, helicopter maintenance records, and the

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Speaker 1: foggy conditions, which pilots have said at a level of danger.

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Speaker 1: Kobe began relying on helicopters to travel around Los Angeles

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Speaker 1: so he would have more time with his four daughters,

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Speaker 1: he said in a December twenty eighteen interview, He said

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Speaker 1: the traffic was so bad in Los Angeles that he

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Speaker 1: missed one of his daughter's school plays. Kobe also wanted

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Speaker 1: to figure out a way where he could still train

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Speaker 1: and stay in shape, but still not compromise family time. Wow,

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Speaker 1: like you say, Steve, we keep learning more and more

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Speaker 1: about what a great man and father he was. Yeah, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: just just a really really great dude. And another thing too.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, you know, I haven't looked at a lot

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Speaker 1: of comments, but Kobe was young and famous with money,

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Speaker 1: and he had to make his mistakes in front of everybody.

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Speaker 1: And you know, I think that's the thing that some

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Speaker 1: of us, some people fail to realize that in this

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Speaker 1: day of social media and everything that young people nowadays, man,

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Speaker 1: they make mistakes and it's it's blaring, It really blares

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Speaker 1: out at him. Because of social media. That's why so

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Speaker 1: many young people are suffering getting cyber bullied in and

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Speaker 1: and and and and and suicide, all that and and

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Speaker 1: all of this. Man, because of cyber bullying and what

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Speaker 1: and what that internet means to them, and it's it's

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Speaker 1: it's a it's a it's just a sad state. But this,

630
00:41:13,400 --> 00:41:17,520
Speaker 1: this cat grew up in the limelight in the media,

631
00:41:18,719 --> 00:41:22,520
Speaker 1: and the mistakes he made were just magnified. You know, Yeah,

632
00:41:22,640 --> 00:41:24,600
Speaker 1: they were they were talking about today. You know, he

633
00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:28,080
Speaker 1: wasn't perfect. I want I was just screaming at the screen.

634
00:41:28,640 --> 00:41:32,359
Speaker 1: Who is Yeah? Yeah, they had had social media when

635
00:41:32,400 --> 00:41:39,759
Speaker 1: we were coming up. Oh man, we wouldn't. Yeah. I

636
00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:44,000
Speaker 1: don't even want to think about it. I did. I

637
00:41:44,000 --> 00:41:49,879
Speaker 1: would have never been selected on anything, not a damn thing.

638
00:41:51,000 --> 00:41:53,880
Speaker 1: I wouldn't. They wouldn't even let me on Amateur Night

639
00:41:53,960 --> 00:42:00,520
Speaker 1: at the You didnt want to get up here? Three

640
00:42:00,600 --> 00:42:07,960
Speaker 1: tanks at gas sir? Yeah, yeah, man, But this is

641
00:42:08,000 --> 00:42:11,440
Speaker 1: according to People magazine, Kobe and Vanessa, his wife, had

642
00:42:11,480 --> 00:42:14,600
Speaker 1: a deal if they would never fly on a helicopter together.

643
00:42:16,600 --> 00:42:20,400
Speaker 1: The yeah, our contolens. Condolence is of course going out

644
00:42:20,440 --> 00:42:24,080
Speaker 1: to Kobe's wife, Vanessa, his other children Natalia Bianca Capri,

645
00:42:24,600 --> 00:42:28,280
Speaker 1: and then his parents mister Joe and Missus Pam Bryant,

646
00:42:28,400 --> 00:42:31,960
Speaker 1: and his sisters and his entire family, and praying for

647
00:42:32,080 --> 00:42:35,960
Speaker 1: the other victim families, and definitely the other victims families

648
00:42:36,080 --> 00:42:38,799
Speaker 1: as well, the other seven people in their families. I mean,

649
00:42:39,440 --> 00:42:43,480
Speaker 1: it's just a tragedy, and American tragedy. Yeah. Hey, did

650
00:42:43,520 --> 00:42:46,840
Speaker 1: you know he was playing in Italy? He was playing

651
00:42:46,960 --> 00:42:49,520
Speaker 1: like at the age of eleven twelve, playing against grown me.

652
00:42:49,800 --> 00:42:53,680
Speaker 1: That's what I saw the earlier today, yesterday, Right, I

653
00:42:53,800 --> 00:42:55,680
Speaker 1: can see that. Yeah, I can see that boy was

654
00:42:56,040 --> 00:43:03,359
Speaker 1: balling with adults at a at a young age man. Yeah. Yeah,

655
00:43:04,680 --> 00:43:08,680
Speaker 1: At no point in my life was I at any

656
00:43:08,840 --> 00:43:14,560
Speaker 1: level of Kobe. It's a lot of the I'm pretty

657
00:43:14,640 --> 00:43:18,719
Speaker 1: sure at nine, me and Hill was about Nick and

658
00:43:18,840 --> 00:43:28,680
Speaker 1: neck at one point while I was in college, Hull

659
00:43:28,719 --> 00:43:31,080
Speaker 1: in all his life and actually thought I had a

660
00:43:31,120 --> 00:43:34,799
Speaker 1: little piece of game. Oh you couldn't tell me nothing, man.

661
00:43:36,320 --> 00:43:41,439
Speaker 1: Actually I actually had a little piece of basketball game. Yeah,

662
00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:48,279
Speaker 1: but it never was it Kobe esque. All right, we're

663
00:43:48,360 --> 00:43:51,600
Speaker 1: moving on guys. Coming up next, We're going to switch

664
00:43:51,640 --> 00:43:55,200
Speaker 1: gears here. Trying to laugh just a little bit at

665
00:43:55,239 --> 00:43:57,799
Speaker 1: the nephew and with the nephew with today's prank phone

666
00:43:57,840 --> 00:44:02,239
Speaker 1: call that's coming up right after this. You're listening Stry

667
00:44:02,320 --> 00:44:05,399
Speaker 1: Morning Show coming up at the top of the hour.

668
00:44:05,640 --> 00:44:08,120
Speaker 1: Right about four minutes after, we'll have my strawberry letter

669
00:44:08,200 --> 00:44:11,360
Speaker 1: for today, the subject I never wanted to be the

670
00:44:11,480 --> 00:44:14,800
Speaker 1: other woman. But right now the nephew in the building

671
00:44:14,920 --> 00:44:17,920
Speaker 1: with today's prank phone call, what you got for his net?

672
00:44:18,280 --> 00:44:23,960
Speaker 1: It's twenty twenty, Shirley Here, do you love? Deposi Love?

673
00:44:24,719 --> 00:44:32,720
Speaker 1: Depot Love? What is hello? Oh? I'm trying to reach Tiffany.

674
00:44:33,400 --> 00:44:36,440
Speaker 1: H This is Tiffany who's calling? This is Karan. How

675
00:44:36,560 --> 00:44:43,360
Speaker 1: you doing? I don't know, I didn't know what I know.

676
00:44:43,520 --> 00:44:45,720
Speaker 1: We've been. I know we've been going back and forth

677
00:44:45,840 --> 00:44:50,000
Speaker 1: on the site talking and we haven't you know, really

678
00:44:50,160 --> 00:44:54,320
Speaker 1: talked yet. So yeah, okay, I'm just going to expect

679
00:44:54,360 --> 00:44:56,920
Speaker 1: in the car. But yeah, it's good to hear from you. Um,

680
00:44:57,080 --> 00:44:58,880
Speaker 1: it's good to hear from you now, you know what

681
00:44:58,880 --> 00:45:02,680
Speaker 1: I mean. We've been we've been talking for well a

682
00:45:02,719 --> 00:45:05,560
Speaker 1: long time, well, texting and on the site for at

683
00:45:05,640 --> 00:45:09,319
Speaker 1: least what five weeks now? Yeah? So really I'm glad

684
00:45:09,400 --> 00:45:13,719
Speaker 1: you called real seriously and I love no voice so exciting.

685
00:45:14,080 --> 00:45:20,560
Speaker 1: Hey you know, um, you got anything going on this weekend? Um?

686
00:45:21,760 --> 00:45:23,920
Speaker 1: I don't think so. I just have to, like, you know,

687
00:45:24,040 --> 00:45:26,279
Speaker 1: go grocery shopping or whatever. But like, other than that,

688
00:45:26,400 --> 00:45:29,280
Speaker 1: I'm pretty helping. What I was thinking, maybe we get together,

689
00:45:29,480 --> 00:45:31,400
Speaker 1: get a get a drink or two, just you know

690
00:45:31,560 --> 00:45:34,160
Speaker 1: kind of yeah, and a little bit feel each other

691
00:45:34,280 --> 00:45:36,080
Speaker 1: out and if you if you're feeling that, you know,

692
00:45:36,120 --> 00:45:38,800
Speaker 1: I don't want to Yeah, that's cool. We can't get together.

693
00:45:39,320 --> 00:45:42,759
Speaker 1: I'm interested, you know, like I'm hot for you. Call

694
00:45:42,880 --> 00:45:45,600
Speaker 1: then I would love to see this weekend. Um, you

695
00:45:45,640 --> 00:45:48,920
Speaker 1: got a place in mind? Like, yeah, you know, I

696
00:45:49,040 --> 00:45:51,520
Speaker 1: was thinking about letting you pick something because you know,

697
00:45:51,600 --> 00:45:54,680
Speaker 1: i'd rather go somewhere where you're comfortable, with an atmosphere

698
00:45:54,719 --> 00:45:57,480
Speaker 1: that you used to. I think that would be the

699
00:45:57,560 --> 00:46:00,799
Speaker 1: best thing to do. Okay, well, I let me work.

700
00:46:00,920 --> 00:46:03,319
Speaker 1: I find out. I'll coact you on that. But yeah,

701
00:46:03,320 --> 00:46:09,439
Speaker 1: I'm down this one. Hang out a little bit. Yeah,

702
00:46:10,239 --> 00:46:15,320
Speaker 1: I'm excited. Good, good, what's good for you? Um, you know,

703
00:46:15,320 --> 00:46:17,840
Speaker 1: if you want to do what Saturday is, it's up

704
00:46:17,840 --> 00:46:20,120
Speaker 1: to you. Yeah, let's go on. Let's do Saturday to

705
00:46:20,160 --> 00:46:21,800
Speaker 1: give me, you know, some time to like, you know,

706
00:46:22,080 --> 00:46:26,000
Speaker 1: get myself together six or seven, text me you know

707
00:46:26,080 --> 00:46:28,840
Speaker 1: the location or whatever wherever you want me to you know,

708
00:46:28,880 --> 00:46:31,359
Speaker 1: I'll be there. Okay, Cool? I can't wait to see

709
00:46:31,360 --> 00:46:33,880
Speaker 1: you one thing. Okay, let's let's do this first. Tell

710
00:46:33,920 --> 00:46:35,880
Speaker 1: me this. What what are we wearing? So I'm not

711
00:46:35,920 --> 00:46:37,800
Speaker 1: don't want to be old with dressed or under dressed.

712
00:46:37,920 --> 00:46:39,640
Speaker 1: I don't really trip on that first. They could be

713
00:46:39,719 --> 00:46:41,360
Speaker 1: chill like I'm not. You know, we don't have to

714
00:46:41,440 --> 00:46:44,400
Speaker 1: do like a five hundred dollar dinner or nothing like that.

715
00:46:44,640 --> 00:46:46,920
Speaker 1: You don't need on to touch This ain't the Rock

716
00:46:47,080 --> 00:46:52,400
Speaker 1: Nation brunch, all right? All right, but if you don't mind,

717
00:46:52,840 --> 00:46:54,279
Speaker 1: if I could get you to do something for me,

718
00:46:54,800 --> 00:46:57,080
Speaker 1: could you? Um? Could I give you my cash app

719
00:46:58,400 --> 00:47:01,759
Speaker 1: for what? Well? What I want to do is, you know,

720
00:47:02,440 --> 00:47:05,560
Speaker 1: sometimes these things actually go wrong. You know, I don't

721
00:47:05,600 --> 00:47:07,560
Speaker 1: see it going wrong with me and you because we've

722
00:47:07,600 --> 00:47:09,440
Speaker 1: had you know, the way we've been chit chatting and

723
00:47:09,560 --> 00:47:11,319
Speaker 1: going back and forth on the site. Things have been

724
00:47:11,400 --> 00:47:14,600
Speaker 1: really really well. You know, you know, I would like

725
00:47:14,760 --> 00:47:17,560
Speaker 1: to get you know, like a you know, a love

726
00:47:17,719 --> 00:47:20,400
Speaker 1: deposit of two hundred and fifty dollars that way of

727
00:47:20,520 --> 00:47:23,479
Speaker 1: just go wrong. At least I haven't wasted my time,

728
00:47:23,880 --> 00:47:33,120
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Hold on, I'm just saying,

729
00:47:33,200 --> 00:47:37,680
Speaker 1: what happening? Um? You said you want me to get

730
00:47:37,719 --> 00:47:41,279
Speaker 1: your coss out and send you a move deposit of

731
00:47:41,400 --> 00:47:44,800
Speaker 1: two hundred and some dollars two fifty two fifty, like

732
00:47:44,880 --> 00:47:46,520
Speaker 1: you know that way, I just don't. If this don't

733
00:47:46,560 --> 00:47:49,800
Speaker 1: go right, you know, then at least I haven't you know,

734
00:47:50,640 --> 00:47:52,440
Speaker 1: it's like a love deposit, you know, if it goes

735
00:47:52,560 --> 00:47:54,440
Speaker 1: If it goes right, you know, then I give it

736
00:47:54,520 --> 00:47:55,880
Speaker 1: back to you. If it don't go right, you know,

737
00:47:55,880 --> 00:47:57,640
Speaker 1: at least I haven't wasted my time. You see what

738
00:47:57,680 --> 00:48:03,240
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Cry, you're serious right now? Yeah? Like yeah, okay,

739
00:48:03,719 --> 00:48:08,759
Speaker 1: uh this is super weird and uh yeah this is

740
00:48:08,760 --> 00:48:12,560
Speaker 1: all weird and uh, you know I'm coming. I don't

741
00:48:12,800 --> 00:48:16,000
Speaker 1: really know what to say, like other than um, you

742
00:48:16,080 --> 00:48:18,759
Speaker 1: could probably lose my number, like you a week due,

743
00:48:18,960 --> 00:48:22,560
Speaker 1: Like don't call me like you're corny. I'm not interested.

744
00:48:23,160 --> 00:48:25,560
Speaker 1: You're a bum, Like I'm straight, Like I don't know

745
00:48:25,600 --> 00:48:29,839
Speaker 1: what hold hold on, I wouldn't all let no talking

746
00:48:29,840 --> 00:48:31,600
Speaker 1: about we've been talking. We've been talking for five weeks.

747
00:48:31,640 --> 00:48:33,799
Speaker 1: Everything been good, we've been we've been on the sight

748
00:48:33,920 --> 00:48:36,200
Speaker 1: talking to each other. But two weeks though, you're trying

749
00:48:36,239 --> 00:48:38,520
Speaker 1: to ask me for a cash app for real, a

750
00:48:38,680 --> 00:48:42,719
Speaker 1: love deposit? How corny? Are you? Are you serious? Seriously? Like,

751
00:48:44,760 --> 00:48:47,160
Speaker 1: if you believe listen to tip tip on the real.

752
00:48:47,280 --> 00:48:52,239
Speaker 1: If you believe in yourself, you you you know? If

753
00:48:52,320 --> 00:48:54,879
Speaker 1: I believe in myself, you're so full of last out

754
00:48:54,920 --> 00:48:59,359
Speaker 1: of yours, you have lost your in mind? Okay, would

755
00:48:59,400 --> 00:49:02,880
Speaker 1: you please like gather your thoughts because I don't know

756
00:49:02,960 --> 00:49:04,719
Speaker 1: who you think you're talking to for real? You know

757
00:49:04,719 --> 00:49:06,880
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So I need you to do two things.

758
00:49:07,080 --> 00:49:11,480
Speaker 1: Lose my number and don't don't look for me for real?

759
00:49:11,560 --> 00:49:14,840
Speaker 1: Start up like this is ridiculous Like this, this is stupid.

760
00:49:15,239 --> 00:49:18,800
Speaker 1: You were ignorant for real? Start up? Okay, okay, show me,

761
00:49:19,040 --> 00:49:21,719
Speaker 1: show me where I'm wrong. If you believe in yourself though,

762
00:49:22,200 --> 00:49:24,920
Speaker 1: if I believe in myself, that's dude. What do you mean?

763
00:49:25,040 --> 00:49:27,600
Speaker 1: If I believe in myself? If you believe in yourself,

764
00:49:27,680 --> 00:49:30,719
Speaker 1: your past will move around. Get off the phone. It

765
00:49:30,840 --> 00:49:33,520
Speaker 1: stop wasting my time for real. I'm about to hang

766
00:49:33,560 --> 00:49:35,839
Speaker 1: out right now for real time. Okay. Okay, okay, lit

767
00:49:37,040 --> 00:49:39,799
Speaker 1: my face straight out before you hang up? Joe. Okay,

768
00:49:39,880 --> 00:49:41,640
Speaker 1: you can you can go you you could go your way,

769
00:49:41,680 --> 00:49:43,279
Speaker 1: I can go, mind you don't want to? Can you

770
00:49:43,520 --> 00:49:49,800
Speaker 1: meet to two fifty cool. Got that fifty dude. Okay,

771
00:49:51,600 --> 00:49:54,440
Speaker 1: you know what? What is this your loss? Though? Tis

772
00:49:54,719 --> 00:49:58,319
Speaker 1: this your life? You gotta be out your rabbit ass.

773
00:49:58,400 --> 00:50:01,120
Speaker 1: Mine ain't no loss this here, ain't no lossus, ain't

774
00:50:01,120 --> 00:50:04,040
Speaker 1: no losses. Okay, you know what, you know what? I

775
00:50:04,120 --> 00:50:06,239
Speaker 1: knew this was gonna happen. You know, I want a brother.

776
00:50:06,320 --> 00:50:11,759
Speaker 1: Try to be real when a brother. Hey, hey, you

777
00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:14,560
Speaker 1: might as well hey, turn around, go the other direction.

778
00:50:14,680 --> 00:50:17,719
Speaker 1: Lock yourself up. Seriously, you want to talk about black

779
00:50:18,040 --> 00:50:20,400
Speaker 1: black men and brotherhood like it's a rap for you.

780
00:50:20,880 --> 00:50:23,520
Speaker 1: We don't need you out here good years less straight

781
00:50:23,600 --> 00:50:26,879
Speaker 1: up like, don't call me destroy yourself for real. I'm

782
00:50:26,920 --> 00:50:30,239
Speaker 1: done with that. Can I tell you something else for you?

783
00:50:30,360 --> 00:50:32,880
Speaker 1: Lead real quick? What I just want to let you

784
00:50:33,000 --> 00:50:35,440
Speaker 1: know that this is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey

785
00:50:35,520 --> 00:50:38,640
Speaker 1: Morning Show. Your sisters Shade, let's shape got me to

786
00:50:38,719 --> 00:50:49,000
Speaker 1: plank fall out you. Your sister le Sha said, you

787
00:50:49,120 --> 00:50:52,960
Speaker 1: gotta get my sisters. Keeping on the line on this

788
00:50:53,200 --> 00:50:58,640
Speaker 1: dating site talking to this guy. Sorry, where she got

789
00:50:58,760 --> 00:51:04,640
Speaker 1: this is stupid? We got you, baby, We got you good?

790
00:51:05,400 --> 00:51:07,680
Speaker 1: Did this tray? I'm gonna get her. I'm gonna get

791
00:51:07,719 --> 00:51:14,040
Speaker 1: her this tell me this. It's twenty twenty. Baby. What

792
00:51:14,239 --> 00:51:17,440
Speaker 1: is the baddest and I mean the baddest radio show

793
00:51:17,640 --> 00:51:23,759
Speaker 1: in the land, Steve Harvey Morning Show. Love Deposit, y'all?

794
00:51:24,040 --> 00:51:31,839
Speaker 1: You know, just how did you think though, Tommy, I'm

795
00:51:31,880 --> 00:51:36,960
Speaker 1: gonna ask this girl to cash at me two fifty? Yeah,

796
00:51:37,000 --> 00:51:40,000
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get dum man. This woman had to be gone,

797
00:51:40,680 --> 00:51:50,960
Speaker 1: what right? Normal? But you did ask her nicely, very nice.

798
00:51:51,080 --> 00:51:54,480
Speaker 1: It's a love deposit. You know. If this work out,

799
00:51:54,560 --> 00:51:58,239
Speaker 1: you get your deposit back now to a man she's

800
00:51:58,320 --> 00:52:02,320
Speaker 1: never seen. Yeah right. I don't feel like I should

801
00:52:02,320 --> 00:52:05,680
Speaker 1: be taking these type of risks wasting my time. Do

802
00:52:05,719 --> 00:52:08,680
Speaker 1: you understand why am I wasting my time? Give me

803
00:52:08,719 --> 00:52:11,040
Speaker 1: at least two fifty for my time? Because I don't.

804
00:52:11,080 --> 00:52:14,560
Speaker 1: I don't what I gotta tell you, don't tell me

805
00:52:14,680 --> 00:52:20,920
Speaker 1: in a twisted way. It is very brilliant. No, oh,

806
00:52:21,000 --> 00:52:27,040
Speaker 1: it's creative, is hey? Oh, ain't no doubt about real twist? Well,

807
00:52:27,120 --> 00:52:29,560
Speaker 1: stupid is on the way baby. Valentine's Weekend. It's the

808
00:52:29,640 --> 00:52:33,560
Speaker 1: comedy laugh fest. I'm hanging out. February fourteen, fifteenth, sixteenth.

809
00:52:33,600 --> 00:52:37,000
Speaker 1: The fourteenth is Cleveland, Ohio, the fifteenth to Cincinnati and

810
00:52:37,080 --> 00:52:41,080
Speaker 1: the sixteenth, Memphis, Tennessee Comedy laugh Fest. That's me said

811
00:52:41,120 --> 00:52:45,160
Speaker 1: to entertain the DL Hughley, Dion, Cold and Earthquake shaking

812
00:52:45,200 --> 00:52:46,600
Speaker 1: it up. So you want to get your tickets day

813
00:52:46,640 --> 00:52:50,120
Speaker 1: on sale right now laying in the cut, Montgomery, Alabama

814
00:52:50,480 --> 00:52:53,880
Speaker 1: at the Montgomery Performing Arts Center. That is March the fourteenth,

815
00:52:53,960 --> 00:52:57,120
Speaker 1: Saturday night. Tickets on sale at all ticket Master outlet.

816
00:52:57,360 --> 00:53:02,320
Speaker 1: I'm coming to the gump Baby. The nephew stupid is

817
00:53:02,440 --> 00:53:05,560
Speaker 1: on the way only comes around once every three years.

818
00:53:05,719 --> 00:53:08,800
Speaker 1: Watch like, hey, we get it every day though, we

819
00:53:08,960 --> 00:53:14,960
Speaker 1: get it every day. Yes, all right, listen, thank you nephew.

820
00:53:15,080 --> 00:53:18,239
Speaker 1: Up next Strawberry letter, subject I never wanted to be

821
00:53:18,320 --> 00:53:20,440
Speaker 1: the other woman. We'll get into it right after this.

822
00:53:21,160 --> 00:53:26,839
Speaker 1: You're listening to show Time now for today's Strawberry Letter

823
00:53:27,200 --> 00:53:31,600
Speaker 1: and listen. If you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting,

824
00:53:31,640 --> 00:53:35,120
Speaker 1: and more, please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve Harvey

825
00:53:35,320 --> 00:53:39,440
Speaker 1: FM dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. That's all

826
00:53:39,480 --> 00:53:41,839
Speaker 1: you have to do, and we could rereading your letter

827
00:53:42,000 --> 00:53:44,600
Speaker 1: live on the air, just like we're gonna read this

828
00:53:44,800 --> 00:53:48,520
Speaker 1: one right here today. All right, buckle up, hold on tight,

829
00:53:48,600 --> 00:53:51,120
Speaker 1: we got it full you here it is strawberry letter,

830
00:53:51,520 --> 00:53:54,360
Speaker 1: Thank you nev subject. I never wanted to be the

831
00:53:54,520 --> 00:53:58,120
Speaker 1: other woman. Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm a single mother and

832
00:53:58,200 --> 00:54:00,440
Speaker 1: I'm at a nice guy two years ago at a

833
00:54:00,480 --> 00:54:04,080
Speaker 1: local bar. I wasn't interested at first because he is

834
00:54:04,120 --> 00:54:07,880
Speaker 1: significantly older than me and his overall look is completely

835
00:54:08,000 --> 00:54:11,320
Speaker 1: different than what I typically like in a man. I

836
00:54:11,440 --> 00:54:14,040
Speaker 1: didn't pay him much attention and I didn't give him

837
00:54:14,200 --> 00:54:16,880
Speaker 1: my phone number. As I was leaving the bar, I

838
00:54:17,040 --> 00:54:20,040
Speaker 1: told him how to find me on social media. Later

839
00:54:20,160 --> 00:54:22,400
Speaker 1: that night, he reached out to me on Instagram and

840
00:54:22,520 --> 00:54:24,600
Speaker 1: said it was great meeting me and he wanted to

841
00:54:24,680 --> 00:54:27,960
Speaker 1: make sure I got home safely. He messaged me often

842
00:54:28,280 --> 00:54:31,439
Speaker 1: and I would respond. I started looking forward to hearing

843
00:54:31,520 --> 00:54:34,359
Speaker 1: from him daily, and we really got to know each

844
00:54:34,360 --> 00:54:38,239
Speaker 1: other that way. He was very transparent and he told

845
00:54:38,320 --> 00:54:40,880
Speaker 1: me that he was in a long term relationship with

846
00:54:41,000 --> 00:54:44,719
Speaker 1: a great woman. His honesty made me like him even more,

847
00:54:45,080 --> 00:54:47,920
Speaker 1: and I started opening up to him and we exchanged

848
00:54:48,040 --> 00:54:51,160
Speaker 1: phone numbers. I agreed to meet with him just to talk,

849
00:54:51,440 --> 00:54:53,960
Speaker 1: and it was good to actually see him in person

850
00:54:54,120 --> 00:54:57,960
Speaker 1: after months of messages on Instagram. It was such a

851
00:54:58,040 --> 00:55:00,799
Speaker 1: great meeting that I really started fall for this guy.

852
00:55:01,280 --> 00:55:04,720
Speaker 1: We started meeting up more frequently in public and in private,

853
00:55:04,960 --> 00:55:09,080
Speaker 1: and we eventually had sex. Nothing is changed about him

854
00:55:09,320 --> 00:55:12,600
Speaker 1: and his relationship status, and he tells me that he

855
00:55:12,719 --> 00:55:15,440
Speaker 1: wants to be with me. To make matters worse, his

856
00:55:15,640 --> 00:55:18,520
Speaker 1: girlfriend is my sorority sister and we were at an

857
00:55:18,600 --> 00:55:21,960
Speaker 1: event together recently. I have never met her, but it's

858
00:55:22,080 --> 00:55:25,560
Speaker 1: really weird. If he leaves her for me, which is

859
00:55:25,640 --> 00:55:28,200
Speaker 1: what he tells me he plans to do, this could

860
00:55:28,360 --> 00:55:31,359
Speaker 1: get messy. I like this guy a lot, but he's

861
00:55:31,360 --> 00:55:34,160
Speaker 1: a cheater and I don't know if I would ever

862
00:55:34,360 --> 00:55:37,400
Speaker 1: be able to trust him. Stephen Shirley, what should I

863
00:55:37,520 --> 00:55:40,200
Speaker 1: do in this situation? Do I continue to talk to

864
00:55:40,360 --> 00:55:44,640
Speaker 1: him and see what happens or run for the hills? Okay,

865
00:55:45,120 --> 00:55:47,560
Speaker 1: this is one of those letters where you already know

866
00:55:47,719 --> 00:55:50,680
Speaker 1: the answer before you even write in. You know what

867
00:55:50,800 --> 00:55:53,640
Speaker 1: to do, You know what's going on. You didn't give

868
00:55:53,719 --> 00:55:56,279
Speaker 1: us any ages or how old you are. You said

869
00:55:56,640 --> 00:56:01,319
Speaker 1: just that he's significantly older than you and you liked

870
00:56:01,400 --> 00:56:03,879
Speaker 1: him because he was honest with you about his long

871
00:56:04,040 --> 00:56:08,359
Speaker 1: term relationship with a woman. So this can't be your

872
00:56:08,440 --> 00:56:11,680
Speaker 1: man when you really think about it. I think the

873
00:56:11,800 --> 00:56:15,160
Speaker 1: turn on for you it is just the fact that

874
00:56:15,239 --> 00:56:19,120
Speaker 1: he's unavailable and that he says he wants you, not her.

875
00:56:20,920 --> 00:56:24,200
Speaker 1: You didn't even like him at first. He's an older

876
00:56:24,320 --> 00:56:27,800
Speaker 1: man who knows what to do to get you, and

877
00:56:29,000 --> 00:56:31,400
Speaker 1: he has you right where he wants you. Okay, he

878
00:56:31,520 --> 00:56:33,600
Speaker 1: can go home to his other woman that he's been

879
00:56:33,640 --> 00:56:36,400
Speaker 1: in a relationship with a very long time, and then

880
00:56:36,480 --> 00:56:40,239
Speaker 1: he has you on the side. He was honest about

881
00:56:40,280 --> 00:56:43,120
Speaker 1: telling you about his other woman, but lying through his

882
00:56:43,239 --> 00:56:46,440
Speaker 1: teeth about leaving her for you. All men say that

883
00:56:47,760 --> 00:56:50,600
Speaker 1: it's a lot easier to leave a girlfriend than a wife.

884
00:56:50,680 --> 00:56:53,080
Speaker 1: So why hasn't he left her yet? If he wants

885
00:56:53,120 --> 00:56:56,080
Speaker 1: to be with you as he said so, I tell you,

886
00:56:56,239 --> 00:56:58,600
Speaker 1: don't don't believe the hype. I mean, if you don't

887
00:56:58,640 --> 00:57:01,279
Speaker 1: want to be the other woman, you gotta stop being

888
00:57:01,560 --> 00:57:04,960
Speaker 1: the other woman, as simple as that. I mean, your feelings,

889
00:57:05,040 --> 00:57:07,200
Speaker 1: you know, may be involved, but if you don't want

890
00:57:07,200 --> 00:57:10,200
Speaker 1: to be that, you can stop. I say you do this,

891
00:57:10,480 --> 00:57:15,200
Speaker 1: give him an ultimatum, say her or me, and see

892
00:57:15,239 --> 00:57:17,880
Speaker 1: what he does. He's gonna stay right over there with her,

893
00:57:18,120 --> 00:57:20,880
Speaker 1: and you're gonna be the side piece like you already are.

894
00:57:21,840 --> 00:57:27,760
Speaker 1: He's not gonna choose you, Steve. I never wanted to

895
00:57:28,040 --> 00:57:37,280
Speaker 1: be the other woman, but you is. Let us begin.

896
00:57:39,280 --> 00:57:46,520
Speaker 1: I never wanted to be the other woman, but you is.

897
00:57:48,800 --> 00:57:51,400
Speaker 1: I'm a single mother. Met this nice guy a couple

898
00:57:51,400 --> 00:57:53,919
Speaker 1: of years ago at a local ball the right hill.

899
00:57:55,560 --> 00:58:01,960
Speaker 1: These are old people who meets at a local bar.

900
00:58:03,480 --> 00:58:07,400
Speaker 1: She's on too. Yeah, who meets at a local bar?

901
00:58:08,320 --> 00:58:12,200
Speaker 1: A local bar? Don't nobody go to taverns? No more,

902
00:58:12,600 --> 00:58:17,200
Speaker 1: don't nobody go to the bar up the street? Yeah,

903
00:58:17,280 --> 00:58:21,040
Speaker 1: these deeds both these old people? She old? He old?

904
00:58:21,240 --> 00:58:26,040
Speaker 1: Uh because two years ago, at two years ago, they

905
00:58:26,120 --> 00:58:29,919
Speaker 1: met at a local bar. Who meets at a bar?

906
00:58:32,280 --> 00:58:36,200
Speaker 1: Young people club? And now? Who as a bar? Just

907
00:58:36,480 --> 00:58:39,640
Speaker 1: a local bar where the locals go to? When the

908
00:58:39,760 --> 00:58:43,040
Speaker 1: last time you heard that, I wasn't interested first because

909
00:58:43,080 --> 00:58:46,920
Speaker 1: he's significantly older. He an old ass dude over the bar,

910
00:58:47,120 --> 00:58:51,880
Speaker 1: had a cigarette, a drink, a short, stingy brim on,

911
00:58:53,840 --> 00:58:56,560
Speaker 1: and then you know he overlooked. He completely different to

912
00:58:56,640 --> 00:58:59,200
Speaker 1: what I typically like it. I ain't paying much attention,

913
00:58:59,520 --> 00:59:01,560
Speaker 1: and I get my phone number if I was leaving

914
00:59:01,600 --> 00:59:03,760
Speaker 1: the bar. I told him how to find me on

915
00:59:03,920 --> 00:59:08,840
Speaker 1: social media. She probably said, I'm on my Space he said,

916
00:59:08,960 --> 00:59:15,960
Speaker 1: I still old old. Yeah, yeah, that's probably that. He

917
00:59:16,080 --> 00:59:18,200
Speaker 1: reached out to Instagram, said the great meet me and

918
00:59:18,240 --> 00:59:20,960
Speaker 1: wanted to make sure I got home safely. That's another

919
00:59:21,080 --> 00:59:24,800
Speaker 1: old ass statement. You know how old you got to

920
00:59:24,920 --> 00:59:29,960
Speaker 1: be to make sure a woman get home safely? You

921
00:59:30,120 --> 00:59:34,360
Speaker 1: got to be old do young people don't do that, Steve, No,

922
00:59:34,720 --> 00:59:37,000
Speaker 1: that's an old dude statement. I just want call and

923
00:59:37,080 --> 00:59:39,560
Speaker 1: make sure you got home safe in it. That's an

924
00:59:39,600 --> 00:59:44,720
Speaker 1: old playoff statement. Right, well, we come back. I got

925
00:59:44,760 --> 00:59:47,400
Speaker 1: the rest of this letter for you. All right, We'll

926
00:59:47,440 --> 00:59:51,360
Speaker 1: have part two coming up at twenty three minutes after

927
00:59:51,480 --> 00:59:54,120
Speaker 1: the hour. Today's Strawberry Letter. I never wanted to be

928
00:59:54,520 --> 00:59:57,280
Speaker 1: the other woman. We'll get back into it right after this.

929
00:59:57,840 --> 01:00:02,280
Speaker 1: You're listening harp show, all right, Come on, Steve, let's

930
01:00:02,320 --> 01:00:05,280
Speaker 1: recap today's Strawberry Letters. Subject I never wanted to be

931
01:00:06,000 --> 01:00:12,200
Speaker 1: the other woman, but you he is. These two old

932
01:00:12,360 --> 01:00:17,600
Speaker 1: people met at a local bar. Local they both walk

933
01:00:17,720 --> 01:00:21,560
Speaker 1: up there. I wasn't interested at first because he's significantly

934
01:00:21,680 --> 01:00:25,560
Speaker 1: older than me and his overall look is completely different

935
01:00:25,880 --> 01:00:28,880
Speaker 1: from what I typically like in a man. So she'd

936
01:00:29,000 --> 01:00:32,600
Speaker 1: met this old dude at the ball stany brim on

937
01:00:33,560 --> 01:00:38,760
Speaker 1: short sleep polo shirt bandln you know, got on, got

938
01:00:38,800 --> 01:00:44,120
Speaker 1: on the long jeans, watch Stacy Adam and he dranking

939
01:00:44,360 --> 01:00:49,800
Speaker 1: Brown Dun. Yeah. I didn't pay much attention. I ain't

940
01:00:49,800 --> 01:00:52,200
Speaker 1: giving my phone number. As I was leaving, I told

941
01:00:52,280 --> 01:00:55,160
Speaker 1: him how to find me on social media. Late at night,

942
01:00:55,240 --> 01:00:57,200
Speaker 1: he reached out to me on Instagram and said it

943
01:00:57,320 --> 01:00:59,280
Speaker 1: was great meeting me. He wanted to make sure I

944
01:00:59,400 --> 01:01:02,480
Speaker 1: got home safely. That's an old school player move. Want

945
01:01:02,520 --> 01:01:05,240
Speaker 1: to make sure you got hold safely. He messages me

946
01:01:05,520 --> 01:01:09,040
Speaker 1: often and I would respond, so I started looking forward

947
01:01:09,080 --> 01:01:11,400
Speaker 1: to hear from daily. We got to know each other.

948
01:01:13,040 --> 01:01:16,880
Speaker 1: We got to know each other that way. Now here

949
01:01:17,040 --> 01:01:20,240
Speaker 1: we here go the player move. They always say we're

950
01:01:20,440 --> 01:01:24,520
Speaker 1: very transparent. He told me he was in a long

951
01:01:24,720 --> 01:01:29,480
Speaker 1: term relationship with a great woman. Yeah. Now his honesty

952
01:01:29,600 --> 01:01:35,240
Speaker 1: made me feel made me like him even more. You

953
01:01:35,400 --> 01:01:38,880
Speaker 1: falling from that and I started opening up to him

954
01:01:38,880 --> 01:01:46,880
Speaker 1: and y'all exchange phone numbers. These people still got house numbers, yeah,

955
01:01:48,120 --> 01:01:51,840
Speaker 1: I says. I agreed to meet him just to talk

956
01:01:52,240 --> 01:01:54,000
Speaker 1: and it was good to see me in person at

957
01:01:54,040 --> 01:01:56,920
Speaker 1: the mons on Instagram it was a great meeting. I

958
01:01:57,040 --> 01:02:00,200
Speaker 1: started falling for this guy. We started meeting up more

959
01:02:00,240 --> 01:02:03,960
Speaker 1: frequently in public and private, and we eventually had sex.

960
01:02:05,800 --> 01:02:09,600
Speaker 1: Nothing has changed about him and all and his relationship status.

961
01:02:09,920 --> 01:02:13,560
Speaker 1: But he tells me that he wants to be with me. Yeah,

962
01:02:14,040 --> 01:02:15,960
Speaker 1: that's how you get to be with a woman. You

963
01:02:16,120 --> 01:02:19,760
Speaker 1: tell her you won't hull. But what the words? What's

964
01:02:19,840 --> 01:02:23,680
Speaker 1: what's the new stuff? He tells me that he wants

965
01:02:23,720 --> 01:02:27,800
Speaker 1: to be with me. We all say that, Yeah, we

966
01:02:28,040 --> 01:02:35,520
Speaker 1: posted to make matters worse. His girlfriend is my sorority system.

967
01:02:36,600 --> 01:02:47,040
Speaker 1: She is one of the founders. That's how old is yeah,

968
01:02:48,520 --> 01:02:51,880
Speaker 1: or if she ain't the founder, her mama founder sorority.

969
01:02:55,280 --> 01:02:58,160
Speaker 1: Now they both in the same serrity and they were

970
01:02:58,240 --> 01:03:02,960
Speaker 1: an event together. See, I've never met her, but it

971
01:03:03,160 --> 01:03:09,280
Speaker 1: was really weird. What okay, I'm confused. You all were

972
01:03:09,360 --> 01:03:12,920
Speaker 1: both at an event together. I've never met her, but

973
01:03:13,040 --> 01:03:16,240
Speaker 1: it was really weird. Well, she knew who she was?

974
01:03:16,760 --> 01:03:21,560
Speaker 1: How she know her? Maybe he described her and you know,

975
01:03:22,160 --> 01:03:26,400
Speaker 1: maybe he's told her her name something some clue. How

976
01:03:26,520 --> 01:03:33,240
Speaker 1: small was this event? That's what you're worried about the

977
01:03:33,400 --> 01:03:37,320
Speaker 1: size of the event. Then hold on. If he leaves

978
01:03:37,360 --> 01:03:39,360
Speaker 1: her for me, which is what he tells me, he

979
01:03:39,480 --> 01:03:43,640
Speaker 1: plans to do this could get messy. How's gonna get messy?

980
01:03:43,720 --> 01:03:48,000
Speaker 1: Y'all in the same sorority, I don't understand. I like

981
01:03:48,200 --> 01:03:51,080
Speaker 1: this guy a lot, but he's a cheetah and I

982
01:03:51,160 --> 01:03:57,680
Speaker 1: don't whoah, Oh he's a Cheatah. So you think because

983
01:03:57,760 --> 01:04:00,400
Speaker 1: he been in this long term relationship with this woman

984
01:04:00,760 --> 01:04:03,240
Speaker 1: and he's seeing you, that that just makes him a

985
01:04:03,360 --> 01:04:10,320
Speaker 1: Cheatah you don't. You don't see yourself as a Cheatah. Okay,

986
01:04:11,720 --> 01:04:14,120
Speaker 1: let me let me let me break this down for

987
01:04:14,280 --> 01:04:18,520
Speaker 1: you women. The number one question I get asked when

988
01:04:18,520 --> 01:04:22,360
Speaker 1: I'm touring with the books and anything, Steve White, do

989
01:04:22,800 --> 01:04:24,920
Speaker 1: me and cheat? Do you know what? One of my

990
01:04:25,080 --> 01:04:29,240
Speaker 1: answers is because there are so many women willing to

991
01:04:29,480 --> 01:04:34,800
Speaker 1: cheat with us. If you know that this man is

992
01:04:34,840 --> 01:04:39,000
Speaker 1: in a long term relationship and he's been transparent about it,

993
01:04:39,440 --> 01:04:42,640
Speaker 1: and you sleep with him, he's not the only cheater.

994
01:04:44,920 --> 01:04:50,360
Speaker 1: You're a cheater too. I know you don't want to

995
01:04:50,520 --> 01:04:55,360
Speaker 1: hear this because you own but you're a cheater too.

996
01:04:58,480 --> 01:05:00,880
Speaker 1: I like this guy a lot, but he's a Cheatah.

997
01:05:01,160 --> 01:05:04,800
Speaker 1: What's you? What are you? And I don't know what

998
01:05:05,240 --> 01:05:08,040
Speaker 1: is you? And I don't know if I would ever

999
01:05:08,160 --> 01:05:10,920
Speaker 1: be able to trust him. I don't know if he

1000
01:05:11,160 --> 01:05:16,080
Speaker 1: can trust you because you ain't got no problem sleeping

1001
01:05:16,160 --> 01:05:21,160
Speaker 1: with me, and that's already in relationships. So you're throwing

1002
01:05:21,200 --> 01:05:23,120
Speaker 1: this up in his face. He could throw that up

1003
01:05:23,160 --> 01:05:27,240
Speaker 1: in your face. Stephen Shirley, what do I do in

1004
01:05:27,360 --> 01:05:30,360
Speaker 1: this situation? Do I continue to talk to him and

1005
01:05:30,480 --> 01:05:33,040
Speaker 1: see what happens? Or run for the heels you said

1006
01:05:33,120 --> 01:05:35,400
Speaker 1: at the top of the letter, I never wanted to

1007
01:05:35,480 --> 01:05:38,280
Speaker 1: be the other woman I said you is. And then

1008
01:05:38,360 --> 01:05:40,480
Speaker 1: at the bottom of the letter, do I continue to

1009
01:05:40,560 --> 01:05:42,920
Speaker 1: talk to him and see what happens? The hell you

1010
01:05:43,080 --> 01:05:47,600
Speaker 1: think gonna happen? She already knows. Why wouldn't he leave

1011
01:05:47,720 --> 01:05:50,640
Speaker 1: her to get you when he already got you? Check?

1012
01:05:51,800 --> 01:05:57,080
Speaker 1: All right, Steve, thank you? Men don't do emotions. Oh lord,

1013
01:05:58,000 --> 01:06:00,960
Speaker 1: post your kind of done today's Jobberry. Let Steve Harvey

1014
01:06:01,080 --> 01:06:04,280
Speaker 1: FM on Instagram and Facebook, and check out the Strawberry

1015
01:06:04,360 --> 01:06:07,520
Speaker 1: Letter podcast on demand now coming up at forty six

1016
01:06:07,640 --> 01:06:10,560
Speaker 1: minutes after the hour count down to Super Bowl fifty four.

1017
01:06:10,880 --> 01:06:14,000
Speaker 1: We're gonna talk about it right after this you're listening

1018
01:06:14,280 --> 01:06:21,040
Speaker 1: to well, guys, Yesterday was Super Bowl media day. The

1019
01:06:21,200 --> 01:06:24,320
Speaker 1: Kansas City Chiefs and the San Francisco forty nine ers

1020
01:06:24,360 --> 01:06:27,920
Speaker 1: address the media for the first time. So, guys, if

1021
01:06:28,040 --> 01:06:31,840
Speaker 1: you could ask any one football player any one question

1022
01:06:32,040 --> 01:06:35,320
Speaker 1: and get an honest answer, what would it be. Let's

1023
01:06:35,360 --> 01:06:39,320
Speaker 1: start with you, Junior, because you love sports. Okay, Patrick Mahomes,

1024
01:06:39,600 --> 01:06:41,120
Speaker 1: how much it is? Two hundred met and I'm gonna

1025
01:06:41,120 --> 01:06:45,720
Speaker 1: get when you signed? I can answer for him none.

1026
01:06:47,280 --> 01:06:52,360
Speaker 1: Why it don't hurt to Hey? Yes, come on, Tommy,

1027
01:06:52,400 --> 01:06:56,040
Speaker 1: what you got any ball player? If you could ask

1028
01:06:56,160 --> 01:07:01,040
Speaker 1: any one football player Earl Kim, what was it like

1029
01:07:01,360 --> 01:07:07,520
Speaker 1: running over everybody that's mine back? Yeah, because that's one

1030
01:07:07,560 --> 01:07:09,760
Speaker 1: of my favorite Earl Camera's one of the greatest of

1031
01:07:09,800 --> 01:07:15,760
Speaker 1: all times. Yeah, okay, all right, what about you? I

1032
01:07:15,920 --> 01:07:18,800
Speaker 1: want to say to all of the stars in the

1033
01:07:19,080 --> 01:07:24,560
Speaker 1: NFL that have they have platted or do you want

1034
01:07:24,800 --> 01:07:32,400
Speaker 1: any endorsements at all? Would you consider, if you are

1035
01:07:32,520 --> 01:07:36,520
Speaker 1: star football player, cutting your hair so you can make

1036
01:07:36,920 --> 01:07:41,280
Speaker 1: extra income. I'm curious about that. Well, aren't you hosting

1037
01:07:41,360 --> 01:07:45,280
Speaker 1: the NFL honors Gonna damn show ask them sadday night? Yes,

1038
01:07:47,120 --> 01:07:49,760
Speaker 1: I think it's I don't think it's nothing wrong with it,

1039
01:07:49,840 --> 01:07:52,680
Speaker 1: though you don't think it's nothing wrong with what with

1040
01:07:52,880 --> 01:07:56,040
Speaker 1: their braids? That flat. I don't mind bids. The locks,

1041
01:07:56,840 --> 01:07:59,560
Speaker 1: I don't mind locks. I ain't got no problem. But

1042
01:07:59,680 --> 01:08:02,480
Speaker 1: when you when you part your hair and plant it

1043
01:08:02,600 --> 01:08:12,800
Speaker 1: into six plats, that's the one I don't get, corner dog.

1044
01:08:12,880 --> 01:08:16,679
Speaker 1: I'm cool with this, dreadlocks. I'm cool with the rough

1045
01:08:16,960 --> 01:08:21,400
Speaker 1: tumble look, I'm cool with it. Man. Do you but

1046
01:08:21,640 --> 01:08:26,160
Speaker 1: when you plat your damn hair and everybody black know

1047
01:08:26,280 --> 01:08:30,320
Speaker 1: what I mean by plaque? You put four big parts.

1048
01:08:30,439 --> 01:08:33,120
Speaker 1: You put big parts in your head, take a sack

1049
01:08:33,720 --> 01:08:36,040
Speaker 1: and then braid it and let it drape down into

1050
01:08:36,160 --> 01:08:44,639
Speaker 1: your eye, your ass. Do it? You put some thought

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01:08:44,720 --> 01:08:48,559
Speaker 1: into this, sir. I'm just really, I'm gonna ask them

1052
01:08:48,680 --> 01:08:53,760
Speaker 1: sad to night. You'll be right in front of him. Yeah, man,

1053
01:08:53,840 --> 01:08:56,840
Speaker 1: you know how much money Lamar Jackson is worth right

1054
01:08:56,960 --> 01:09:02,120
Speaker 1: now as the MVP millions? Do you know how much

1055
01:09:02,640 --> 01:09:08,479
Speaker 1: they would pay him endorsing products and aladded his head.

1056
01:09:09,040 --> 01:09:11,519
Speaker 1: I think they're leaving hundreds of millions of dollars on

1057
01:09:11,640 --> 01:09:14,240
Speaker 1: the table, all right? Coming up at the top of

1058
01:09:14,320 --> 01:09:16,920
Speaker 1: the hour, we got to ask this question, what was

1059
01:09:16,960 --> 01:09:21,720
Speaker 1: your most embarrassing accidental text that you've sent to someone? Uh?

1060
01:09:22,479 --> 01:09:27,439
Speaker 1: We want to find out from the fellas right after this.

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01:09:28,080 --> 01:09:36,080
Speaker 1: Now you're listening to so um, I gotta ask you, guys,

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01:09:36,120 --> 01:09:40,280
Speaker 1: because we've all done this, what was your most embarrassing

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01:09:40,720 --> 01:09:44,200
Speaker 1: text that you've ever sent to someone by accident? We've

1064
01:09:44,240 --> 01:09:47,320
Speaker 1: all done this. Uh, you know there's nothing right worse

1065
01:09:47,439 --> 01:09:50,760
Speaker 1: than you're writing a private text to someone personal text

1066
01:09:50,840 --> 01:09:53,479
Speaker 1: and sending it to the wrong person. That is why

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01:09:53,560 --> 01:09:56,960
Speaker 1: I do not do group texts. Yeah, so if you don't,

1068
01:09:57,360 --> 01:09:59,840
Speaker 1: you would not respond on act at all because I

1069
01:10:00,120 --> 01:10:03,240
Speaker 1: forget to turn it off and fairly's response comes back single.

1070
01:10:03,360 --> 01:10:06,840
Speaker 1: It is nobody else told it, and I know what

1071
01:10:07,000 --> 01:10:12,720
Speaker 1: a good text. But so so Junior, have you ever asked, oh, yeah,

1072
01:10:12,800 --> 01:10:16,400
Speaker 1: you need to understand last names. If the two people

1073
01:10:16,479 --> 01:10:20,000
Speaker 1: got to save last name, pick the right one. Because

1074
01:10:20,040 --> 01:10:21,840
Speaker 1: I sent a text to my sister said my mama,

1075
01:10:21,880 --> 01:10:24,240
Speaker 1: get on my damn nerves. I send it right to

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01:10:24,439 --> 01:10:28,320
Speaker 1: my mom. Oh I get so your damn nerves. That's

1077
01:10:28,360 --> 01:10:32,920
Speaker 1: what I do. That's what I do. I should have

1078
01:10:33,040 --> 01:10:37,720
Speaker 1: known that it was really really a rough week. Yeah yeah, yeah.

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01:10:37,960 --> 01:10:42,800
Speaker 1: It was Talicia's space and Alicia's space is really close.

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01:10:42,960 --> 01:10:47,000
Speaker 1: Yeah that's close yea yeah, and I spent Telicia. I

1081
01:10:47,120 --> 01:10:51,040
Speaker 1: should have man, how it's going. Fuck? Tell me, I

1082
01:10:51,200 --> 01:10:53,880
Speaker 1: know you sent some necking pictures to somebody before you

1083
01:10:54,000 --> 01:10:58,080
Speaker 1: were married. I know you did. Surely, How do I

1084
01:10:58,200 --> 01:11:02,880
Speaker 1: paint this? Okay? Let me try to walk this thin

1085
01:11:03,080 --> 01:11:07,200
Speaker 1: land though. Okay, Jackie went on whole way home and said,

1086
01:11:07,920 --> 01:11:10,680
Speaker 1: find us something to eat, you know, find you know,

1087
01:11:11,200 --> 01:11:13,040
Speaker 1: let's see if we got something there to cook to eat.

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01:11:13,320 --> 01:11:16,160
Speaker 1: You know this one this you just got your phone

1089
01:11:16,200 --> 01:11:18,240
Speaker 1: to take pictures and all that, so you don't just

1090
01:11:18,360 --> 01:11:24,080
Speaker 1: trying stuff. I put myself in a hot dog bun

1091
01:11:24,600 --> 01:11:30,599
Speaker 1: with relish and mustard and took the picture and called

1092
01:11:30,680 --> 01:11:33,679
Speaker 1: myself sin it it's saying wait till you get home

1093
01:11:34,600 --> 01:11:38,200
Speaker 1: and get this foot loan. And I hit sin and

1094
01:11:38,560 --> 01:11:45,880
Speaker 1: did not know? Man, I hit the wrong damn Jackie,

1095
01:11:46,479 --> 01:11:57,080
Speaker 1: And oh that was you heard what he said? Si jacket?

1096
01:12:00,360 --> 01:12:03,639
Speaker 1: You can give us this response back. He's still alive.

1097
01:12:03,800 --> 01:12:06,519
Speaker 1: That's good, that's a good sign. But what did the

1098
01:12:06,600 --> 01:12:13,479
Speaker 1: wrong Jackie say? Yeah, you got the wrong jacket, and

1099
01:12:14,040 --> 01:12:15,920
Speaker 1: you know it was a friend of the family jacket.

1100
01:12:16,080 --> 01:12:18,120
Speaker 1: Like when you get home, you're gonna get this foot loan.

1101
01:12:18,479 --> 01:12:22,920
Speaker 1: You got the wrong jacket. But where did you where

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01:12:22,960 --> 01:12:26,080
Speaker 1: did you find where did you find him? Baby? Hot

1103
01:12:26,160 --> 01:12:36,160
Speaker 1: dog bu got up, Steve, don't go along with him. No,

1104
01:12:36,320 --> 01:12:38,519
Speaker 1: I've seen him at wends, but I just didn't never

1105
01:12:38,640 --> 01:12:43,880
Speaker 1: know where to get him. Yeah, you know from Vienna Sausages.

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01:12:47,040 --> 01:12:51,920
Speaker 1: The worst text ever sit Oh, about five six years

1107
01:12:51,960 --> 01:12:56,680
Speaker 1: ago and UH were in this group text me Rashaan

1108
01:12:57,840 --> 01:13:00,599
Speaker 1: a couple other people and the exact could have produce

1109
01:13:00,680 --> 01:13:05,679
Speaker 1: her to show. So the last text had came from Rashawn.

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01:13:07,240 --> 01:13:10,400
Speaker 1: So my executive producer is talking to me, and she's

1111
01:13:10,439 --> 01:13:14,519
Speaker 1: a woman, and she's right in my face, and she

1112
01:13:14,720 --> 01:13:17,360
Speaker 1: just talking to me, and she was so close to

1113
01:13:17,479 --> 01:13:21,360
Speaker 1: my face. I picked my phone up and just text

1114
01:13:21,520 --> 01:13:26,760
Speaker 1: back to Rashawn a man, come get her out your

1115
01:13:27,240 --> 01:13:34,000
Speaker 1: end words face. She too damned close. Seeing I'm thinking,

1116
01:13:34,040 --> 01:13:36,680
Speaker 1: I'm just sending it right back to Rashawn. It's in

1117
01:13:36,760 --> 01:13:40,559
Speaker 1: the group text. He got it too. She two inches

1118
01:13:40,640 --> 01:13:44,320
Speaker 1: from my face. Her phone dings. She looks at it.

1119
01:13:44,439 --> 01:13:50,360
Speaker 1: It says, oh really, Shawan is running from the back

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01:13:50,439 --> 01:13:54,080
Speaker 1: of the bus trying to stop her from looking at

1121
01:13:54,960 --> 01:13:58,800
Speaker 1: I don't know what the hell happened. It's too late, dog,

1122
01:13:58,880 --> 01:14:01,800
Speaker 1: I said that about her. It was right, she was

1123
01:14:01,960 --> 01:14:05,400
Speaker 1: right there. I heard her phone go Dingda. She's getting

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01:14:05,439 --> 01:14:12,240
Speaker 1: a texture coming out. More of today's trending stories on

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01:14:12,320 --> 01:14:14,559
Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. We'll be back at twenty

1126
01:14:14,600 --> 01:14:17,880
Speaker 1: minutes after the hour. Right after this, you're listening to

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01:14:18,320 --> 01:14:24,240
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Kobe Bryant's fatal helicopter crash is

1128
01:14:24,320 --> 01:14:27,519
Speaker 1: hitting close to home for Kylie Jenner. Kylie was a

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01:14:27,600 --> 01:14:31,200
Speaker 1: frequent flyer on that particular chopper and even rented it

1130
01:14:31,360 --> 01:14:36,479
Speaker 1: for one of Dreams birthdays. That's her niece, Rob's daughter Dream.

1131
01:14:37,080 --> 01:14:39,760
Speaker 1: Kylie just broke her silence on the tragic accident that

1132
01:14:39,880 --> 01:14:42,880
Speaker 1: killed Kobe, his thirteen year old daughter Gianna, and seven

1133
01:14:42,960 --> 01:14:46,080
Speaker 1: other Sunday morning in Calabasas and said she knew the

1134
01:14:46,160 --> 01:14:50,840
Speaker 1: pilot and said that hug your loved ones, you know.

1135
01:14:51,000 --> 01:14:54,439
Speaker 1: That was That was her takeaway from it, similar to yours, Steve.

1136
01:14:54,560 --> 01:14:57,400
Speaker 1: Just hug your loved ones, um, you know, let them

1137
01:14:57,479 --> 01:15:02,040
Speaker 1: know that you love them. Multiple multiple reports are saying

1138
01:15:02,080 --> 01:15:04,920
Speaker 1: that one of the pilots said that the pilot on

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01:15:05,080 --> 01:15:08,200
Speaker 1: Kobe's flight was very experienced. He worked as a flight

1140
01:15:08,280 --> 01:15:11,320
Speaker 1: instructor and knew the area very well. So they are

1141
01:15:11,439 --> 01:15:16,280
Speaker 1: baffled about what went wrong. Yeah, I mean if you

1142
01:15:16,560 --> 01:15:20,080
Speaker 1: but if you in that fog, it's foggy. Yeah, it's

1143
01:15:20,200 --> 01:15:25,360
Speaker 1: rough man, that's it's from. Yeah, but you know, because

1144
01:15:25,400 --> 01:15:31,360
Speaker 1: I don't know exactly wait for the investigation. Yeah yeah,

1145
01:15:31,680 --> 01:15:38,800
Speaker 1: they were that. Yeah. You know again, our condolencence go

1146
01:15:38,920 --> 01:15:43,120
Speaker 1: out to everyone involved. Um, and we'll have more of

1147
01:15:43,200 --> 01:15:45,519
Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show and some trending news coming

1148
01:15:45,600 --> 01:15:49,280
Speaker 1: up at thirty three minutes after the hour. That's right, Um,

1149
01:15:49,520 --> 01:15:55,920
Speaker 1: right after this you're listening to. The NBA has officially

1150
01:15:56,040 --> 01:15:59,439
Speaker 1: postponed tonight to Lakers versus Clippers game at the Staples

1151
01:15:59,479 --> 01:16:01,920
Speaker 1: Center in Los Angeles. This is all, of course, out

1152
01:16:01,960 --> 01:16:05,720
Speaker 1: of respect for the Lakers organization, which is reeling as

1153
01:16:05,840 --> 01:16:08,800
Speaker 1: we all are, from the death of Kobe Bryant. The

1154
01:16:08,960 --> 01:16:11,920
Speaker 1: decision was made out of respect for the Lakers organization,

1155
01:16:12,120 --> 01:16:15,719
Speaker 1: which is deeply grieving the tragic loss of Lakers legend

1156
01:16:15,840 --> 01:16:19,439
Speaker 1: Kobe Bryant, his daughter Gianna, and seven other people that

1157
01:16:19,560 --> 01:16:22,840
Speaker 1: were in the helicopter crash on Sunday. The NBA set

1158
01:16:22,880 --> 01:16:25,479
Speaker 1: in a statement the game will be rescheduled at a

1159
01:16:25,600 --> 01:16:29,320
Speaker 1: later date. Lebron James was seen sobbing and crying when

1160
01:16:29,400 --> 01:16:32,040
Speaker 1: he got off the Lakers team playing at lax On

1161
01:16:32,160 --> 01:16:37,400
Speaker 1: Sunday following a game in Brooklyn against the Nets, Several players, staffers,

1162
01:16:37,400 --> 01:16:40,719
Speaker 1: and other Lakers employees, many of whom have known Kobe

1163
01:16:40,880 --> 01:16:44,640
Speaker 1: four years, are simply inconsolable. Of course, we know that

1164
01:16:44,760 --> 01:16:47,320
Speaker 1: Kobe played for the Lakers for twenty years and built

1165
01:16:47,439 --> 01:16:51,479
Speaker 1: lasting relationships with so many people. These are the people

1166
01:16:51,520 --> 01:16:54,600
Speaker 1: that knew him, you know, it hit the people that

1167
01:16:54,800 --> 01:16:58,000
Speaker 1: didn't know him. I think that we're learning more and

1168
01:16:58,200 --> 01:17:02,200
Speaker 1: more that he not only had an epic career, but

1169
01:17:02,400 --> 01:17:05,960
Speaker 1: this brother had built an epic life. I think that's

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01:17:06,000 --> 01:17:09,280
Speaker 1: what a lot of people are coming away with him

1171
01:17:10,040 --> 01:17:14,880
Speaker 1: because like even the pictures, the big pictures that put

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01:17:15,000 --> 01:17:19,479
Speaker 1: up on the billboards, you know, the chromatic billboards outside

1173
01:17:19,520 --> 01:17:23,960
Speaker 1: of the lat Yeah, none of them are him in

1174
01:17:24,000 --> 01:17:28,240
Speaker 1: a basketball jersey. It's him in a suit, you know,

1175
01:17:28,840 --> 01:17:33,519
Speaker 1: which is saying just him the man, not the player.

1176
01:17:34,640 --> 01:17:38,639
Speaker 1: The man is missing. And I think that I'm even learning.

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01:17:38,720 --> 01:17:40,719
Speaker 1: Of course, you know, I knew him, but we weren't

1178
01:17:40,760 --> 01:17:42,920
Speaker 1: like I said, we weren't. We didn't have each other

1179
01:17:43,080 --> 01:17:46,840
Speaker 1: sale number, we didn't never called each other just every

1180
01:17:46,920 --> 01:17:49,320
Speaker 1: time we saw each other. We had we had a

1181
01:17:49,640 --> 01:17:54,479
Speaker 1: we had a mutually respectful conversation. I was complimentary of him.

1182
01:17:54,600 --> 01:17:57,120
Speaker 1: He was always complimented with me whenever we saw each other,

1183
01:17:57,600 --> 01:18:00,280
Speaker 1: and stay, I turned around. One time it was him,

1184
01:18:00,960 --> 01:18:03,479
Speaker 1: I said, Momber. He turned around his meat And like

1185
01:18:03,600 --> 01:18:05,760
Speaker 1: I said, last time I saw him was not at

1186
01:18:05,840 --> 01:18:08,960
Speaker 1: this past World Series, but the time before, and we

1187
01:18:09,200 --> 01:18:12,439
Speaker 1: both had seats like right on the front road, right

1188
01:18:12,520 --> 01:18:15,560
Speaker 1: behind the dug out of the Boston Red Sox. And

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01:18:15,720 --> 01:18:18,880
Speaker 1: last time I saw him and his wife, and you know,

1190
01:18:18,960 --> 01:18:21,960
Speaker 1: it was just cool. I was leaving. My wife, said Steve.

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01:18:22,040 --> 01:18:25,639
Speaker 1: That's kobd. He said, Steve. I went out there in front,

1192
01:18:25,800 --> 01:18:28,000
Speaker 1: you know a lot of people looking and stuff, you know,

1193
01:18:28,200 --> 01:18:30,360
Speaker 1: hugged him, shook his head and asking how the family

1194
01:18:30,439 --> 01:18:32,519
Speaker 1: is doing, hugged his wife. That was the last time

1195
01:18:32,560 --> 01:18:34,599
Speaker 1: I ever spoke to it. But so I'm not sitting

1196
01:18:34,680 --> 01:18:37,439
Speaker 1: up here trying to perpetrate like we was close friends,

1197
01:18:37,439 --> 01:18:41,840
Speaker 1: because we weren't. But what I'm learning even more and more,

1198
01:18:41,840 --> 01:18:44,280
Speaker 1: it's what I used to compliment him more about. He

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01:18:45,080 --> 01:18:48,960
Speaker 1: really pulls his life together. I'm learning more and more

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01:18:49,320 --> 01:18:55,360
Speaker 1: of how great of a man he was community wise

1201
01:18:55,800 --> 01:18:59,080
Speaker 1: and especially as a father. All right, coming up our

1202
01:18:59,160 --> 01:19:01,840
Speaker 1: last break of the day, and some closing remarks from

1203
01:19:01,880 --> 01:19:04,599
Speaker 1: the one and only Steve Harvey at forty nine minutes

1204
01:19:04,640 --> 01:19:11,000
Speaker 1: after the hour, right after this. You're listening, all right, Steve.

1205
01:19:11,120 --> 01:19:14,880
Speaker 1: Here we are our last break of the day. Wow,

1206
01:19:15,120 --> 01:19:18,719
Speaker 1: we got through it. We got through it. Yeah another

1207
01:19:18,800 --> 01:19:26,599
Speaker 1: day yeah yeah, lessons m h for sure. Um yeah.

1208
01:19:27,120 --> 01:19:29,000
Speaker 1: And to get us through the rest of the day.

1209
01:19:29,200 --> 01:19:33,360
Speaker 1: Here's Steve with our closing remarks were today, Steve. Yeah,

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01:19:33,479 --> 01:19:38,720
Speaker 1: you know, Um, I know, I know everybody's focused on

1211
01:19:38,880 --> 01:19:42,920
Speaker 1: the tragedy, but I want to go a different way here.

1212
01:19:44,280 --> 01:19:48,960
Speaker 1: I want to remind everybody that all of us who

1213
01:19:49,040 --> 01:19:54,799
Speaker 1: are here still have so much to live for events

1214
01:19:55,479 --> 01:19:59,400
Speaker 1: as tragic as what happened to Kobe and his daughter

1215
01:19:59,520 --> 01:20:05,280
Speaker 1: and other the people on that helicopter. And like I

1216
01:20:05,400 --> 01:20:09,160
Speaker 1: said earlier, I am not one of those people who

1217
01:20:09,360 --> 01:20:12,519
Speaker 1: pretend to know what God's will is or why God

1218
01:20:13,160 --> 01:20:16,600
Speaker 1: does things sometimes the way he does, I don't know.

1219
01:20:16,720 --> 01:20:22,479
Speaker 1: I've questioned him before when I lost my mother. I've

1220
01:20:22,600 --> 01:20:26,160
Speaker 1: learned over years to not even question it because it's

1221
01:20:26,439 --> 01:20:30,600
Speaker 1: really unapproachable. He's beyond reproach and I don't claim to

1222
01:20:30,760 --> 01:20:33,280
Speaker 1: know what he does. But I do know this that

1223
01:20:33,439 --> 01:20:38,240
Speaker 1: when a person is taken away that was of the

1224
01:20:38,479 --> 01:20:43,240
Speaker 1: magnitude of this young brother, and it happened in such

1225
01:20:43,280 --> 01:20:47,479
Speaker 1: a tragic way. I think what it does is it

1226
01:20:47,920 --> 01:20:57,560
Speaker 1: makes everybody. It gets everybody's undivided attention, and however you

1227
01:20:57,760 --> 01:21:01,559
Speaker 1: choose to analyze it. For you, if it means calling

1228
01:21:01,680 --> 01:21:05,840
Speaker 1: somebody that you love and making sure you touch base

1229
01:21:05,960 --> 01:21:09,920
Speaker 1: with them, or becoming more and more aware of how

1230
01:21:10,080 --> 01:21:13,479
Speaker 1: fleeting life can be, or if it's made you become

1231
01:21:13,640 --> 01:21:17,439
Speaker 1: more grateful and appreciative of where you are and who

1232
01:21:17,600 --> 01:21:21,559
Speaker 1: you are. However it has affected you, this one had

1233
01:21:21,640 --> 01:21:30,479
Speaker 1: a massive effect into nationally, but we are still here,

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01:21:31,320 --> 01:21:35,320
Speaker 1: and in twenty twenty, I want to implore people to

1235
01:21:35,479 --> 01:21:41,120
Speaker 1: do more, get bigger dreams. Have a dream so big

1236
01:21:41,280 --> 01:21:44,200
Speaker 1: that in order to attain it you absolutely have to

1237
01:21:44,320 --> 01:21:48,400
Speaker 1: have God's help. I want to become more light in

1238
01:21:48,560 --> 01:21:52,599
Speaker 1: twenty twenty. I want the light that God has shined

1239
01:21:52,800 --> 01:21:56,560
Speaker 1: in me and through me to come out in a

1240
01:21:56,680 --> 01:22:02,400
Speaker 1: way that it becomes attractive to more people. Like hey, man,

1241
01:22:02,640 --> 01:22:08,639
Speaker 1: if Steve can pull himself together, if Steve can manage

1242
01:22:08,720 --> 01:22:11,519
Speaker 1: to keep getting back up every time it seemed like

1243
01:22:11,560 --> 01:22:14,200
Speaker 1: they're knocking him down, then maybe I can do it.

1244
01:22:14,920 --> 01:22:18,240
Speaker 1: I just want to be a more of a beacon

1245
01:22:18,320 --> 01:22:22,920
Speaker 1: of light to people. I want to become more spiritually

1246
01:22:23,040 --> 01:22:27,760
Speaker 1: connected in twenty two. In twenty twenty, I want to

1247
01:22:27,840 --> 01:22:32,720
Speaker 1: be more aware of my spirituality and how it might

1248
01:22:32,800 --> 01:22:36,679
Speaker 1: be able to help somebody else and me along the way.

1249
01:22:37,400 --> 01:22:42,360
Speaker 1: I want to become a better father. I want to

1250
01:22:42,400 --> 01:22:46,360
Speaker 1: become a better grandfather. I want to be more of

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Speaker 1: a more of an even better husband, you know. I

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Speaker 1: want to be a better man. I want to be

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Speaker 1: a better global citizen. I want to be I want

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Speaker 1: to live up to my African name or two, you see.

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Speaker 1: I want to be considered an helper of people. You know.

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Speaker 1: I want to improve myself on so many levels in

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Speaker 1: the event that I continue to live. You know, I'm

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Speaker 1: really trying to improve myself so that my state, whatever

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Speaker 1: it is that's left on this earth, will be a better,

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Speaker 1: more productive, and more meaningful life. I want to have

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Speaker 1: a legacy of having served people, shared with people, taught people,

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Speaker 1: encouraged people. I think that those things are important to

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Speaker 1: all of us. If those things aren't important to you,

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Speaker 1: then what is important to you. Maybe it's finally getting

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Speaker 1: your dreams on track. Maybe it's finally for the first time,

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Speaker 1: getting a vision boarded, writing down what you really want.

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Speaker 1: Maybe you want to start the process of having a

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Speaker 1: relationship with God. Maybe twenty twenty for you is maybe

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Speaker 1: you want to just get under get out from under

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Speaker 1: the grip of addiction. Maybe in twenty twenty, you just

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Speaker 1: sick and tired of being sick and tied, and you're

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Speaker 1: looking for a change, and you're trying to make a

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Speaker 1: decision about your faith, whatever it is. Get started today,

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Speaker 1: don't delay, don't put off tomorrow. What you can do today.

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Speaker 1: You could do something towards all of your goals today.

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Speaker 1: Every day you wake up is God giving you a

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Speaker 1: new opportunity to make forward steps towards one of your

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Speaker 1: goals or visions. Every day you get a shot, even

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Speaker 1: when you get knocked down. Sometimes just get up. As

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Speaker 1: long as He wakes you up, you got another shot.

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Speaker 1: In so far all of us have been awaken again.

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Speaker 1: Ain't God good? Those are my closing remarks. Oh dropped

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Speaker 1: the man. I'm not dropping the mic in twenty I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna hold on to it, hold down to it. I

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Speaker 1: don't do a mic dropping no more any reason. That's what. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Because just Mike, I need a new mic Cover and

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Speaker 1: the just coming on. You've been dropping I keep dropping it.

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Speaker 1: I thought it was something deep. Thanks for the information today.

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Speaker 1: As always, I was talking about the hot dog bus.

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Speaker 1: Shut up, Junie, we love you. Thank you. I ain't

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