Speaker 1: It's time to catch a cheater. Only on the Jubile Show.
Speaker 1: May is on the phone today for it to catch
Speaker 1: a cheater, and she thinks that her husband of eighteen years,
Speaker 1: well a long time name Jack, might be cheating on her.
Speaker 1: May thank you very much for coming on the show.
Speaker 1: Hopefully we can help you out and either give you
Speaker 1: the proof that you need to move on or set
Speaker 1: your mind at ease. But tell us a little bit more.
Speaker 1: You've been married for eighteen years, Yeah, it's been a
Speaker 1: long time. Have you suspected him cheating before?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 1: I don't know if I think he would cheat.
Speaker 3: It's just that there is someone else involved who is
Speaker 3: trying really hard to get him too. So is he.
Speaker 4: Aware that this person is trying to come after him
Speaker 4: or is it kind of one of those things or
Speaker 4: he's not really aware of it.
Speaker 3: He's not aware of it, but I keep trying to
Speaker 3: explain it to him and he's not getting it.
Speaker 1: So who is this person? This is one of his
Speaker 1: work partners? Okay, what's going on with them?
Speaker 3: Does this thing where like she's constantly talking about what
Speaker 3: a proper wife and partner should be doing.
Speaker 1: You know, she's got all these.
Speaker 3: Like rules and criticisms and hints, and she should be
Speaker 3: making you dinner. She should have dinner waiting for you
Speaker 3: at home. The house should always be clean. You know,
Speaker 3: she's got all these rules and regulations for how a
Speaker 3: proper partner should behave And then she'll never specifically say
Speaker 3: that stuff about me, But what she will say about
Speaker 3: me is she's told him things like, Oh, I would
Speaker 3: never choose to be friends with your wife because she's
Speaker 3: really not my kind of person. Like I've seen her
Speaker 3: reading those gossip magazines and stuff, and I would just
Speaker 3: never That's not the kind of person that I would
Speaker 3: choose to have in my life that I would choose
Speaker 3: to spend time with. Oh, because he tells me, he goes,
Speaker 3: he goes, Yeah, they asked this thing today, and it's like, whoa, whoa,
Speaker 3: this is not okay for your work partner to talk
Speaker 3: about your your partner, your person that you are with
Speaker 3: in that way. And he just he thinks he thinks that.
Speaker 3: I'm not even sure what he thinks. I've tried to
Speaker 3: explain it to him over and over again, and he
Speaker 3: just he's like, Oh, she doesn't mean it that way.
Speaker 4: Has she done anything else? Like kind of more outwardly flirtatious.
Speaker 3: Well, she asked him to help her with things like, Hey,
Speaker 3: can you come over to my house and help me
Speaker 3: move this thing?
Speaker 5: Hey?
Speaker 3: That you and this is what this is? Where the
Speaker 3: big thing is? That is really I don't know how
Speaker 3: to process this. I don't know how to like work
Speaker 3: it out in my mind. But she needed to move
Speaker 3: some stuff across the state to her parents' house. She
Speaker 3: needed to pack it up in a moving van and
Speaker 3: drive it over there. It's an overnight. They would drive
Speaker 3: down and then stay overnight and then drive back. And
Speaker 3: he agreed to this.
Speaker 1: What I'm going to stir up some drama, make this puzzy.
Speaker 4: I'm already thrown off a little bit because I'm single, right,
Speaker 4: But the last thing I'm going to do is ask
Speaker 4: a married man to help me, unless it's my best
Speaker 4: friend's husband or like Victoria, your boyfriend or something, if
Speaker 4: you had one, you know.
Speaker 1: Okay, So.
Speaker 4: That's already off. And for him to agree to that,
Speaker 4: did you tell him no?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 1: I told him this is not okay.
Speaker 3: This is a person who has repeatedly said that they
Speaker 3: don't like me, that I'm not the kind of person
Speaker 3: they would choose to associate with, So for him to
Speaker 3: be going off alone with her is not okay, Like,
Speaker 3: that's not I'm not okay with it. He should not
Speaker 3: be okay with it. And that's the thing is like
Speaker 3: he can't seem to understand why he shouldn't be okay
Speaker 3: with this.
Speaker 1: He sounds completely clueless to me. But also, how could
Speaker 1: you be that clueless? So maybe he's playing clueless, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean? Yeah, like he doesn't get it.
Speaker 1: I don't know what you're talking about. I could definitely
Speaker 1: see that being a more viable option than just complete
Speaker 1: Like you would have to know if you're a woman
Speaker 1: just asked.
Speaker 4: You to help her move across the country or whatever
Speaker 4: you just said, I'm sorry, a couple of states.
Speaker 1: I don't know. But either way, Yeah, spending the night
Speaker 1: with him, it does seem like he's like it's a
Speaker 1: setup to do something. It does yeah to me, Well,
Speaker 1: we'll try to figure out for you already told us
Speaker 1: on grocery store he's a rewards card member at So
Speaker 1: we'll do the usual and we'll call and pretend to
Speaker 1: be from that grocery store and say that every single month,
Speaker 1: we choose one rewards card member at random who gets
Speaker 1: free flowers delivered from our floral apartment, and we'll see
Speaker 1: if he delivers those see you or someone else? Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: all right, we'll play a song come back, and you'll
Speaker 1: get your to Catch a Cheater next if you're just
Speaker 1: joining us for today's to Catch a Cheater. May is
Speaker 1: on the phone and she thinks that her husband of
Speaker 1: eighteen years his name is Jack, might be cheating on
Speaker 1: her and it's just kind of a crazy story. Robot
Speaker 1: to call him and seef he is or isn't, and May,
Speaker 1: why don't you refresh everybody's memory on what the situation
Speaker 1: is before we call him.
Speaker 3: Jack has a work partner who bad enoughs me to
Speaker 3: him repeatedly and then invites him to help her move
Speaker 3: across the state on an overnight trip, just two of
Speaker 3: them together.
Speaker 1: Yeah, ridiculous, And so he just plays like he doesn't
Speaker 1: get it, like what's the big deal?
Speaker 3: Kind of a yeah, no, No, she's just my work partner.
Speaker 3: There's nothing, there's nothing there. I don't see her that way.
Speaker 1: Okay, well we'll try to figure this out for You're
Speaker 1: about to call him right now and pretend to be
Speaker 1: from the grocery store where he's a Rewards Card member
Speaker 1: and tell him that. Every single month, we choose one
Speaker 1: Awards Card member at random who gets free flowers delivered
Speaker 1: from our floral department. We'll see if he sends those
Speaker 1: flowers to you or to what's her name by the way,
Speaker 1: the work person, Crystal Crystal. Okay, well we'll we'll see
Speaker 1: what happens. I'm gonna call him right now. You ready,
Speaker 1: m hmm, Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, this is
Speaker 1: Jordan calling from I was looking for Jack. This is
Speaker 1: sim Jack. How are you? Please don't hang up. This
Speaker 1: is not a marketing phone call. I'm calling to actually
Speaker 1: give you the good news that congratulations, you're this month's
Speaker 1: big winner. What's I'm confused. Every single month, we choose
Speaker 1: one Rewards card member at random who gets free flowers
Speaker 1: delivered from our floral department. We do delivery.
Speaker 3: Now.
Speaker 1: We're trying to get the word out, but also we
Speaker 1: want to say thank you very much for shopping with us.
Speaker 1: So thank you for shopping. You have won thirty six
Speaker 1: long stem red roses, a box of chocolates, and a
Speaker 1: card that can be delivered anywhere within the fifty United
Speaker 1: States absolutely free.
Speaker 2: Oh beautiful, I get so many random calls it I
Speaker 2: didn't know if that's thanks.
Speaker 1: Yeah, if you know who you want to send them to,
Speaker 1: I could take the information in just a minute or
Speaker 1: so over the phone.
Speaker 5: Yeah, let's do it right now.
Speaker 1: Great, Who would you like to send flowers to us?
Speaker 1: So we'll start with the name, first and last name,
Speaker 1: my beautiful wife Mary. Okay, and is there anything you'd
Speaker 1: like to put on a card?
Speaker 2: The beautiful life May eighteen beautiful years with my sweetheart.
Speaker 1: Thank you so much, baby, I love your eighteen years. Whoa,
Speaker 1: that's a long time. Oh yeah, we've been together forever.
Speaker 1: All right. Well, then I'll just tell you that this
Speaker 1: is not the grocery store at all. My name is Jewbell.
Speaker 1: That's a radio show called The Jewbel Show.
Speaker 4: Yay, Hi Jack, I'm Nina also on that show listening
Speaker 4: to everything that just happened, And I'm Victoria.
Speaker 1: What's going on here? We do a segment on the
Speaker 1: show called to Catch a Cheater? And your wife May
Speaker 1: is actually also on the phone and has been listening
Speaker 1: because she suspected you might be messing around.
Speaker 4: May.
Speaker 1: Hey, Jack, what's going on here?
Speaker 3: I'm trying to make a point because you don't seem
Speaker 3: to understand that what Crystal is asking you and her
Speaker 3: trying to undermine our relationship is not okay, And ninety
Speaker 3: nine point five percent of other people also see that
Speaker 3: it's not okay and it's not normal to be asking
Speaker 3: the husband of someone you dislike to go away with you.
Speaker 1: You can also probably celebrate the fact that name didn't
Speaker 1: even cross his mind when he was offered three flours.
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, absolutely, sa I love you. I love you.
Speaker 1: Nothing is going on with Crystal.
Speaker 3: Nothing is my boundary need to be Yes, but we
Speaker 3: need boundaries with Crystal.
Speaker 1: Can I ask why you went on an over a
Speaker 1: night trip with Crystal?
Speaker 5: She just needed help and I'm a nice guy, so
Speaker 5: I'm gonna I'm gonna help.
Speaker 1: She's also my work partner. I've worked with her for
Speaker 1: several years.
Speaker 4: Has me before, Yeah, it doesn't really stap most people. Yeah,
Speaker 4: So what do you do then, Jack? If let's say
Speaker 4: your wife May's concerns are true and Crystal just rolls
Speaker 4: up and is like, well, I'd like to escalate our relationship.
Speaker 1: Like, what do you do if she does try to
Speaker 1: make a move, Well, there's no way that's going to happen.
Speaker 3: I put my foot down, and she knows how much
Speaker 3: I love my wife.
Speaker 1: Doesn't she else talk bad? You're right, I mean she
Speaker 1: has her own way of things.
Speaker 5: And I do fill my wife in about this.
Speaker 1: It's no secret.
Speaker 3: I just think that there needs to be some serious
Speaker 3: boundaries in place with Crystal, like, hey, you know what,
Speaker 3: don't talk about my wife. I don't feel like this
Speaker 3: is a subject we should talk about. Hey, oh you
Speaker 3: need help moving. I know a great moving company that
Speaker 3: will do all the work for you. There are ways
Speaker 3: to keep work and outside of work separate, and I
Speaker 3: feel like that's what Crystal needs is she needs to
Speaker 3: understand that you guys can be totally cordial and friendly
Speaker 3: at work, but she used to stay the hell out
Speaker 3: of her life. She used to keep her nose out
Speaker 3: of it. It's not her business. It's not her concern.
Speaker 3: Whether or not she thinks I'm appropriate for you or
Speaker 3: I'm doing a good job as a wife is not
Speaker 3: appropriate workplace conversation.
Speaker 1: It's just not.
Speaker 2: Yes, I understand, and look, if anything else, she's further
Speaker 2: away from us now, look at that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, because she moved across the states. But I don't
Speaker 3: want her trying to insert herself herself into our lives.
Speaker 1: Well, maybe that's why she's thinking this is a good
Speaker 1: time to shoot her shot, because she's like, well, I'm moving,
Speaker 1: so and take him with her.
Speaker 5: You don't need to worry about Crystal at all. She seriously,
Speaker 5: this is.
Speaker 1: Not no you haven't helped her move yet, or you
Speaker 1: already helped her move.
Speaker 5: She's already moved. She's already across the state. I already went.
Speaker 5: I stayed there. I had a hotel, I locked my door.
Speaker 5: We weren't in the same hotel. It's may I was
Speaker 5: talking with you the whole time. We were communicating the
Speaker 5: whole trip. It's not like I was like hiding and
Speaker 5: being secretive. You knew about the whole thing.
Speaker 2: I know.
Speaker 3: And the point is, the point is whether I know
Speaker 3: about it or not, it's not about you. It's about
Speaker 3: her and her complete lack of boundaries and how she
Speaker 3: keeps crossing lines that are not okay to cross. And
Speaker 3: you need to push back on that. I need you
Speaker 3: to have those boundaries and to say, hey, this is
Speaker 3: not really okay with me.
Speaker 1: Do you still work with her?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Okay, So it needs to be it needs to be said.
Speaker 5: Okay, man, I feel what you're saying and where you're
Speaker 5: coming from.
Speaker 2: You know, I love you, and let's talk more about
Speaker 2: this later, and I will set those boundaries, but let's
Speaker 2: let's just enjoy some time together and we'll put this
Speaker 2: aside and behind us.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, all right, okay.
Speaker 4: Worried about getting phone sex, you will show to catch
Speaker 4: a cheater,