WEBVTT - Second Date Update UPDATE: Family Dinner Drama 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:02.960 Oh, if you remember Grandma wars on this show, then 0:00:03.000 --> 0:00:05.200 you are in for a treat today. Welcome to the 0:00:05.519 --> 0:00:06.680 Second Date Podcast. 0:00:06.800 --> 0:00:08.280 We've got your update update. 0:00:08.680 --> 0:00:10.920 That's where we check in with a couple that was 0:00:11.000 --> 0:00:13.880 on our show and actually win out again after being 0:00:13.920 --> 0:00:16.400 on a second date and see what's happened since. So 0:00:16.680 --> 0:00:19.239 if you remember how this works, we play the original, 0:00:19.320 --> 0:00:20.520 so everybody's up to speed. 0:00:20.680 --> 0:00:23.479 And then on part three, I know you gotta listen 0:00:23.520 --> 0:00:25.680 to the commercials or commercial get for. 0:00:25.760 --> 0:00:28.920 Them, we get them back on the phone. Yes, so 0:00:29.040 --> 0:00:30.960 you definitely want to stay around for the whole thing. 0:00:31.120 --> 0:00:33.200 And first, of course comments. 0:00:33.320 --> 0:00:35.920 Ellen for Mike said, no offense to anyone. 0:00:36.159 --> 0:00:38.720 But my favorite nickname that Jeffrey used for Brook was 0:00:38.800 --> 0:00:39.800 money bags Brook. 0:00:40.280 --> 0:00:43.000 My brother I loved it so much that we call each. 0:00:42.800 --> 0:00:46.600 Other that now money bags Brook or just money bags 0:00:47.080 --> 0:00:47.360 each other. 0:00:47.520 --> 0:00:48.600 I hope money bugs Brooke. 0:00:49.640 --> 0:00:51.280 Good morning, good morning. 0:00:53.159 --> 0:00:55.320 I love it. I love it all right, your second 0:00:55.360 --> 0:00:56.240 date starts right now. 0:00:57.520 --> 0:01:01.120 When you talk about typical red flag moments that ruin 0:01:01.280 --> 0:01:05.759 first dates, normally we hear about a disagreement over who 0:01:05.760 --> 0:01:09.160 pays the bill. Yeah, somebody lied in their profile about 0:01:09.200 --> 0:01:13.720 their age, height or marital status or their date's mom 0:01:13.920 --> 0:01:18.000 showed up unexpectedly and was way hotter and more fun 0:01:18.040 --> 0:01:18.960 than her daughter ever. 0:01:19.040 --> 0:01:20.600 Could be my worst nightmare. 0:01:20.800 --> 0:01:23.520 Yeah, but this may be the only time the red 0:01:23.560 --> 0:01:29.240 flag involved a fight over a casserole recipe. Who never 0:01:29.360 --> 0:01:33.880 thought so much drama could come from one old family meal, 0:01:34.319 --> 0:01:36.759 But it's led us to this where the couples decided 0:01:36.760 --> 0:01:39.679 to come back on our show for a special second 0:01:39.760 --> 0:01:42.360 date update update. We'll do it. 0:01:42.280 --> 0:01:45.720 Next Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning, Second date Updates. 0:01:47.319 --> 0:01:50.600 What are the percentages of how people meet when they 0:01:50.640 --> 0:01:52.840 come to us it's Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. 0:01:54.560 --> 0:01:55.120 I'd say. 0:01:57.480 --> 0:01:58.160 Dating apps. 0:01:58.320 --> 0:01:59.680 I think a couple of years ago that was up 0:01:59.720 --> 0:02:02.720 to like ninety, but lately people have been starting to 0:02:02.720 --> 0:02:05.080 grow tired of that. They're finding new ways to connect, 0:02:05.560 --> 0:02:08.040 and you hear about more people meeting at run clubs 0:02:08.080 --> 0:02:11.560 and yoga classes. One couple even met at the dentist's 0:02:11.560 --> 0:02:13.400 office in the lobby when they were both high on 0:02:13.520 --> 0:02:15.640 nitros waiting for the rides to take them home. 0:02:18.480 --> 0:02:21.920 Maybe just your personal story, Yeah, I'm still sexy and 0:02:22.000 --> 0:02:24.239 worth mentioning, But we don't get a lot of folks 0:02:24.280 --> 0:02:27.680 on this segment who already knew each other for years 0:02:28.080 --> 0:02:30.000 before they ever went out on a date. 0:02:30.200 --> 0:02:32.480 Yeah, because you know they'd be comfortable enough to like 0:02:32.600 --> 0:02:34.000 check in and see what was going on. 0:02:34.200 --> 0:02:36.080 That's what you think. But we're doing it today with 0:02:36.120 --> 0:02:39.040 our listener, Jillian. So, Jillian, welcome to the show. 0:02:39.800 --> 0:02:41.600 Hi, thank you for taking a call. 0:02:42.760 --> 0:02:45.480 I'm like, so, like, you got ghosted by someone who 0:02:45.520 --> 0:02:46.120 is your friend? 0:02:46.440 --> 0:02:47.960 Like, hell, that makes it worse. 0:02:48.120 --> 0:02:50.480 How is how long were they were your friend for? 0:02:51.200 --> 0:02:53.280 So Thomas and I have known each other for almost 0:02:53.400 --> 0:02:54.040 twenty years. 0:02:54.280 --> 0:02:58.480 Wait wait, how how do you guys know each other? 0:02:59.000 --> 0:03:01.400 So we grew up in a say, neighborhood. He could 0:03:01.440 --> 0:03:03.360 be hung out together all the time, you know, the 0:03:03.400 --> 0:03:04.400 barbecues and all that. 0:03:04.560 --> 0:03:07.160 Oh that's like really interwoven. 0:03:07.400 --> 0:03:10.480 Yeah, was he your first kiss ever as as a 0:03:10.560 --> 0:03:11.280 kid growing up. 0:03:12.040 --> 0:03:15.520 No, he did ask me out, like multiple times, like 0:03:15.560 --> 0:03:17.600 over the years he'd asked me out, and I said no, 0:03:18.000 --> 0:03:19.680 not because I don't like him, but just because I 0:03:19.680 --> 0:03:22.080 thought it might be awkward for our families, you know, Like, yeah, 0:03:22.160 --> 0:03:22.960 I didn't want to get. 0:03:22.880 --> 0:03:24.800 Weird families get that close. 0:03:24.919 --> 0:03:26.760 I had somebody who I thought was my cousin my 0:03:26.800 --> 0:03:29.240 whole life and like literally like five ten years ago, 0:03:29.280 --> 0:03:31.680 our parents were like, that's not your cousin, a good 0:03:31.680 --> 0:03:33.959 family friend. I'm like, wait, marias. 0:03:33.760 --> 0:03:34.359 Not my cousin. 0:03:34.880 --> 0:03:35.240 I just. 0:03:36.680 --> 0:03:37.040 Grow up to. 0:03:37.200 --> 0:03:40.119 I mean they feel like blood like you on that one. 0:03:40.280 --> 0:03:40.640 Okay. 0:03:40.720 --> 0:03:43.200 So he was trying for it and you kept shooting 0:03:43.240 --> 0:03:44.440 him down for years. 0:03:44.520 --> 0:03:45.560 Yeah, So what changed? 0:03:45.960 --> 0:03:46.280 Well? 0:03:46.520 --> 0:03:48.360 I saw him a couple of weeks ago and I 0:03:48.440 --> 0:03:50.280 picnic my family was hosting. It has been a while 0:03:50.280 --> 0:03:52.800 since I've seen him, and I'm just gonna lie. He 0:03:52.880 --> 0:03:58.320 looked really good, Thomas, and that. 0:03:58.280 --> 0:03:59.080 Changed your mind? 0:04:00.080 --> 0:04:02.080 Yeah, I was like, forget weird, let's just go for this. 0:04:03.920 --> 0:04:06.240 Yeah okay, so wait, how did you guys turn it 0:04:06.280 --> 0:04:07.920 into a romantic date though? 0:04:08.520 --> 0:04:08.680 Well? 0:04:08.720 --> 0:04:10.120 I hit him up. I hit him up and I 0:04:10.200 --> 0:04:12.160 was just like, hey, you want to meet up hang out? 0:04:12.920 --> 0:04:14.840 And he kind of freaked up a little, you know, 0:04:14.880 --> 0:04:15.960 he was like, when are. 0:04:15.800 --> 0:04:17.080 You free let me cook your dinner. 0:04:17.600 --> 0:04:19.320 Wait, He's like, I waited. 0:04:19.040 --> 0:04:22.520 My whole life, get it all with you. 0:04:23.080 --> 0:04:23.600 That'd be weird. 0:04:24.120 --> 0:04:27.000 It's because you rejected him for so long. No wonder 0:04:27.080 --> 0:04:29.320 he was like totally caught back by it. 0:04:29.400 --> 0:04:31.760 Well, I thought he'd be confused that maybe they were 0:04:31.800 --> 0:04:33.919 just going to hang out as friends. But his response 0:04:34.040 --> 0:04:35.520 definitely doesn't sound like that. 0:04:35.920 --> 0:04:38.559 You said the word date, obviously, you like made it clear. 0:04:39.160 --> 0:04:40.680 I think it was more like in my energy and 0:04:40.720 --> 0:04:41.799 my tone, and that kind. 0:04:41.600 --> 0:04:45.000 Of made it like, Yeah, yeah, let's the eighteen hard 0:04:45.040 --> 0:04:47.200 emojis at the end of the text message and the 0:04:47.279 --> 0:04:48.680 kissing emoji. 0:04:48.279 --> 0:04:49.640 That wasn't the emoji she was using. 0:04:49.760 --> 0:04:52.200 Okay, so that's cool. 0:04:52.240 --> 0:04:53.760 He wanted to cook for you. How did that go? 0:04:54.520 --> 0:04:54.640 Oh? 0:04:54.680 --> 0:04:55.159 It's great. 0:04:55.240 --> 0:04:56.480 We had a fabulous meal. 0:04:56.680 --> 0:04:56.880 You know. 0:04:56.960 --> 0:04:58.640 I did the whole like hanging out in the kitchen 0:04:58.720 --> 0:04:59.520 watching him cook. 0:04:59.640 --> 0:05:02.120 It was like like a coconut curry cast role. 0:05:04.839 --> 0:05:07.960 Was there any awkwardness, because sometimes when you turn these 0:05:08.000 --> 0:05:11.920 friendships into something romantic like there can be I don't know, 0:05:12.040 --> 0:05:13.120 just funny moments, you know. 0:05:13.640 --> 0:05:16.800 To be honest, I was amazed at how comfortable it felt. 0:05:17.320 --> 0:05:18.719 The conversation was really good. 0:05:18.760 --> 0:05:25.480 We did end up like a little makeout session of it. 0:05:26.160 --> 0:05:29.120 Maybe his mind is just still blown and he hasn't 0:05:29.160 --> 0:05:31.880 like come to realize that this wasn't a dream. 0:05:32.080 --> 0:05:33.480 Yeah, did that really happen? 0:05:33.600 --> 0:05:35.120 What happened after the kiss? 0:05:35.560 --> 0:05:35.720 Well? 0:05:35.760 --> 0:05:36.640 I did go home. 0:05:36.800 --> 0:05:40.560 I was a good girl, okay. 0:05:40.160 --> 0:05:42.880 But I got a couple of nice texts from him afterwards, 0:05:42.880 --> 0:05:45.960 you know, thanking me for coming over. But then I've 0:05:46.000 --> 0:05:47.839 texted him a few more times with just sort of 0:05:47.880 --> 0:05:49.839 like some invitations, what are you doing, want to grab 0:05:49.880 --> 0:05:52.080 a drink, et cetera. And he's been sending back the 0:05:52.080 --> 0:05:52.760 word busy. 0:05:53.120 --> 0:05:55.520 Oh, just the word yes. 0:05:55.680 --> 0:05:58.360 Like the total attitude and energy and all of it 0:05:58.400 --> 0:06:01.400 has just changed, and I have no idea what's going 0:06:01.400 --> 0:06:01.800 on with him? 0:06:01.880 --> 0:06:03.400 Do you think he's trying to play hard to get now? 0:06:03.920 --> 0:06:05.440 I think it's really bad at him. 0:06:05.640 --> 0:06:08.640 Yeah, in the script, so does him just texting the 0:06:08.640 --> 0:06:10.200 word busy to you over and over? 0:06:10.320 --> 0:06:12.760 Is that worse than just getting straight up ghosted. 0:06:13.279 --> 0:06:13.800 I don't think he. 0:06:13.880 --> 0:06:18.239 Ghosts, because, like our family is just king really weird. 0:06:18.320 --> 0:06:21.039 But just saying one word busy it implies that he's 0:06:21.080 --> 0:06:22.240 mad at you or something's wrong. 0:06:23.440 --> 0:06:27.360 Though funny busy. 0:06:28.160 --> 0:06:29.919 We're actually kind of busy right now. So we should 0:06:29.920 --> 0:06:31.760 probably move on to the second part of this call, 0:06:31.800 --> 0:06:34.160 where we reach out to Thomas for you and try 0:06:34.160 --> 0:06:35.280 to figure out what's going on. 0:06:35.320 --> 0:06:38.080 Well, he's honestly not super busy. 0:06:38.520 --> 0:06:39.440 It's really important. 0:06:39.600 --> 0:06:41.960 We'll find out where we do your second date update 0:06:42.160 --> 0:06:42.840 right after this. 0:06:42.880 --> 0:06:45.640 Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date Update. 0:06:45.760 --> 0:06:47.599 You're in the middle of a second date update update, 0:06:47.600 --> 0:06:49.560 and we're gonna find out how the couple is doing 0:06:49.880 --> 0:06:50.440 right after you. 0:06:50.520 --> 0:06:51.560 Here part two. 0:06:53.440 --> 0:06:56.680 If you're just joining us, quick recap of Jillian's date 0:06:56.760 --> 0:06:59.760 with Thomas, a guy she's known for twenty years as 0:06:59.760 --> 0:07:02.440 a fan, family friend, and Thomas has actually asked her 0:07:02.480 --> 0:07:05.839 out several times before. She always would say no to 0:07:05.920 --> 0:07:09.840 him until he showed up to a family picnic looking 0:07:09.880 --> 0:07:13.160 like a total snack and she gave Tommy boy the 0:07:13.160 --> 0:07:15.600 old green light. After that if they wanted to sit 0:07:15.640 --> 0:07:19.000 down next to the potato salad. Oh yeah, it doesn't 0:07:19.040 --> 0:07:21.880 get any hotter. So eventually went over to his place. 0:07:21.920 --> 0:07:23.080 He cooked a meal for her. 0:07:23.240 --> 0:07:24.000 It's so sweet. 0:07:24.120 --> 0:07:24.880 It sounds like a lot. 0:07:24.760 --> 0:07:26.680 Of their family gatherings are kind of based around food, 0:07:26.760 --> 0:07:30.120 so that sounds normal. But since then he's only been 0:07:30.160 --> 0:07:33.440 replying to her text with one word busy. 0:07:33.640 --> 0:07:34.480 Ah. 0:07:34.760 --> 0:07:38.920 It's really cold and Jillian doesn't understand why, so we're 0:07:38.920 --> 0:07:40.040 trying to help figure that out. 0:07:40.080 --> 0:07:41.239 Jillian, I'm curious. 0:07:41.280 --> 0:07:43.120 Just going back to the date night, you said he 0:07:43.160 --> 0:07:46.040 cooked like a coconut curry thing for you When you 0:07:46.080 --> 0:07:48.520 bit into it, did you make a weird face or 0:07:48.560 --> 0:07:51.560 something that could have been taken the wrong way by 0:07:51.640 --> 0:07:53.120 him where maybe he got offended. 0:07:53.640 --> 0:07:56.560 No, No, there's no way. Like his coconut curry was amazing. 0:07:56.800 --> 0:07:58.200 I was like gushing if anything. 0:07:58.360 --> 0:08:00.520 Yeah, and they had a makeout session afterwards. 0:08:00.560 --> 0:08:02.920 Well, I've made up with people angrily before when I've 0:08:02.920 --> 0:08:03.880 been mad at them. 0:08:03.920 --> 0:08:06.400 Sometimes you settle differences there. If you're a manager and 0:08:06.480 --> 0:08:08.080 Jeff asked for the manager, do not come. 0:08:08.200 --> 0:08:11.040 Yeah, it's going the way you think you're about to 0:08:11.040 --> 0:08:13.280 get a piece of my mind and my tongue. 0:08:14.120 --> 0:08:16.560 I'm just saying that their first kiss was like crazy, 0:08:16.600 --> 0:08:20.280 because it's like twenty years in the baking. That's wild. 0:08:20.640 --> 0:08:23.160 You even said it all felt natural, the kids felt natural, 0:08:23.240 --> 0:08:24.360 the chemistry, right. 0:08:25.520 --> 0:08:27.760 I mean, there is potential in this if we can 0:08:27.800 --> 0:08:29.600 get hint weird keep going. 0:08:29.720 --> 0:08:31.440 Yeah, So let's just dial his number. 0:08:31.440 --> 0:08:33.679 Hopefully he's not too busy to pick up, and we'll 0:08:33.720 --> 0:08:35.160 see if we can get some answers. 0:08:34.800 --> 0:08:35.199 Out of him. 0:08:35.200 --> 0:08:36.240 But I'm dying right now. 0:08:41.040 --> 0:08:41.360 Hello. 0:08:42.240 --> 0:08:43.199 Hey is this Thomas? 0:08:44.480 --> 0:08:44.680 Yeah? 0:08:44.720 --> 0:08:45.080 Who's this? 0:08:45.600 --> 0:08:47.360 Hey man? We're a radio show. We're called Brook and 0:08:47.440 --> 0:08:54.480 Jeffrey in the morning. Hello, morning, Okay, we're just. 0:08:54.440 --> 0:08:55.080 Going to brag. 0:08:55.320 --> 0:08:59.040 We're yeah, we are very excited to talk to you. 0:08:59.400 --> 0:09:02.200 I am any We've actually we've heard a lot about 0:09:02.240 --> 0:09:04.600 you from someone who asked us to reach out to 0:09:04.640 --> 0:09:05.920 you named Jillian. 0:09:06.920 --> 0:09:08.520 Oh. 0:09:09.640 --> 0:09:13.840 Okay, yeah, okay. We know you know her for a 0:09:13.880 --> 0:09:16.000 long time, and this is a segment we do call 0:09:16.040 --> 0:09:19.640 the second Date Update, because we're trying to figure out 0:09:20.080 --> 0:09:22.640 why after you two hung out the other night and 0:09:22.679 --> 0:09:25.760 had dinner together. I mean, she feels like there should 0:09:25.840 --> 0:09:28.559 be another hangout session and you're not responding. 0:09:29.880 --> 0:09:30.400 Yeah, I don't. 0:09:30.440 --> 0:09:32.679 I don't really know if I'm comfortable talking about this. 0:09:32.880 --> 0:09:35.240 I'm sorry, I gotta Well, she had the date went 0:09:35.320 --> 0:09:36.960 so well? Did it not go well in your eyes? 0:09:37.040 --> 0:09:38.719 I mean, it's such a cute story you two. 0:09:39.280 --> 0:09:41.600 Yeah's been like in the making. 0:09:41.559 --> 0:09:44.320 Right twenty years you finally get out of the friend zone, 0:09:44.320 --> 0:09:45.719 which impresses every man. 0:09:47.160 --> 0:09:48.160 Yeah, yeah, I had. 0:09:48.320 --> 0:09:51.880 I was looking forward to it and it went really well. 0:09:52.040 --> 0:09:57.040 But well, there's just a violation of trust. Unfortunately. 0:09:57.400 --> 0:09:59.920 Oh oh, I. 0:09:58.920 --> 0:10:00.600 I don't think she's aware of that at all. 0:10:01.559 --> 0:10:02.960 Yeah, she probably isn't. 0:10:04.200 --> 0:10:06.400 Well, if you are such good family friends going back 0:10:06.440 --> 0:10:08.960 twenty years. I feel like you should be comfortable enough 0:10:08.960 --> 0:10:10.120 to reach out and talk to her if there was 0:10:10.160 --> 0:10:11.920 an issue, a violation of some sort. 0:10:12.800 --> 0:10:16.040 I mean, I'm not sure like how malicious it was, 0:10:16.200 --> 0:10:21.680 but it's just it's complicated. Unfortunately, because of her, my 0:10:21.760 --> 0:10:22.880 grandmother won't talk to me. 0:10:22.960 --> 0:10:27.480 Right now, Wait, what what what does your grandma have 0:10:27.520 --> 0:10:28.240 to do with Jillian? 0:10:28.440 --> 0:10:32.480 Yeah, well, I didn't realize at the time, but she 0:10:32.600 --> 0:10:35.520 came over and I wanted to treat her right, right, 0:10:35.600 --> 0:10:38.840 So I busted out Grandma's secret recipe. You know. It's 0:10:38.840 --> 0:10:41.880 like this amazing dish that we always make for special 0:10:41.920 --> 0:10:44.720 occasions of coconut curry castle role right. And I guess 0:10:44.800 --> 0:10:47.840 while I was in the kitchen, cooking and doing my thing, 0:10:48.640 --> 0:10:50.920 at some point, I must have had my back turned 0:10:51.160 --> 0:10:54.280 and the family recipe book is just sitting there open. 0:10:54.360 --> 0:10:57.640 It's not supposed to be shared with anybody or anything 0:10:57.720 --> 0:11:02.640 like that. At some point she must have taken a 0:11:02.679 --> 0:11:09.440 photo of the recipe and forwarded it to her grandmother. No, yeah, 0:11:09.480 --> 0:11:11.360 I don't. I don't know if she meant to steal it, 0:11:11.520 --> 0:11:15.920 like maliciously or for whatever reason, but picture of it 0:11:15.920 --> 0:11:18.680 it's now a thing where her grandmother is holding it 0:11:18.720 --> 0:11:21.800 over my grandmother's head. Now, my grandmother's mad at me. 0:11:22.200 --> 0:11:25.240 She's like, why would you share that? You know, she's hissed. 0:11:26.720 --> 0:11:29.040 A petty grandma, right going on. 0:11:29.160 --> 0:11:31.360 Dude, this feels not that petty to me though. 0:11:31.679 --> 0:11:34.800 Like you got you get a signature dish that you 0:11:34.840 --> 0:11:37.160 bring to every event, and everybody wants to know what 0:11:37.200 --> 0:11:39.040 it is, and you can't tell them because then they're 0:11:39.080 --> 0:11:41.280 going to bring it, and then you have to ask like, 0:11:41.320 --> 0:11:42.200 oh are you bringing it? 0:11:42.400 --> 0:11:43.640 I'm going to bring it. It's a whole thing. 0:11:43.920 --> 0:11:45.679 Yeah. I just I feel like at the very least 0:11:45.720 --> 0:11:48.360 you should have like said something or asked me before. 0:11:48.600 --> 0:11:51.079 But like now because of the way it went down 0:11:51.160 --> 0:11:53.640 and I didn't realize and then like you know, these 0:11:53.760 --> 0:11:56.360 these grandma's they they if they got claws. 0:11:56.400 --> 0:11:58.760 You know, did you tell her it was a secret 0:11:58.800 --> 0:11:59.920 recpee before the photo? 0:12:00.080 --> 0:12:02.319 Like she knew, Oh yeah, oh yeah, she knows it's 0:12:02.320 --> 0:12:05.760 my grandma's secret recipe aboutely. Okay, Now my grandmother's like, 0:12:06.000 --> 0:12:09.880 you let some temptress come in and see you. 0:12:10.880 --> 0:12:14.400 Okay, hello, hello, Hello, I'm here, Thomas. 0:12:14.600 --> 0:12:17.880 Okay, hell shoot, all right, yeah, Thomas. That's Jilly, and 0:12:17.880 --> 0:12:19.640 she's been waiting on the other line wanting. 0:12:19.440 --> 0:12:20.479 To talk to you. 0:12:20.520 --> 0:12:21.280 Are you kidding me? 0:12:21.520 --> 0:12:24.040 No, Yeah, that's that's how this segment works. It's kind 0:12:24.040 --> 0:12:26.080 of sneaky, just like grandma. 0:12:26.360 --> 0:12:31.520 No. No, So listen, I didn't know I think it 0:12:31.600 --> 0:12:33.520 was going to be that big of a deal. I 0:12:33.559 --> 0:12:35.800 had no idea that my grandma was going to share 0:12:35.800 --> 0:12:38.640 it with your grandma like that and like literally taunt her. 0:12:39.240 --> 0:12:41.080 I did not know that she was going to do that. 0:12:41.679 --> 0:12:44.360 Well, you've met our grandmothers. They they are like, well, 0:12:44.440 --> 0:12:46.680 they got like old school beef with each other. 0:12:46.960 --> 0:12:50.319 Oh, but I'm thinking it was going to be more 0:12:50.360 --> 0:12:53.280 like like a funny thing. Like I didn't realize there 0:12:53.320 --> 0:12:55.679 was going to be like that, elevated emotionally. 0:12:56.679 --> 0:12:59.960 Yeah, that's hilarious. Now she won't even like answer my 0:13:00.160 --> 0:13:00.800 phone calls. 0:13:01.160 --> 0:13:02.760 Oh that's bad. 0:13:02.840 --> 0:13:05.120 Well you don't really want to answer any grandma phone 0:13:05.120 --> 0:13:06.480 calls to be honest. 0:13:06.760 --> 0:13:08.880 That you should check the will because somebody may be 0:13:08.960 --> 0:13:09.480 written out. 0:13:09.760 --> 0:13:11.240 I mean, maybe I could talk to her. 0:13:11.400 --> 0:13:12.439 Maybe I can talk to her. 0:13:13.200 --> 0:13:15.319 Trust me, she does not want to talk to you. 0:13:15.520 --> 0:13:22.760 I appreciate that, but. 0:13:20.040 --> 0:13:21.880 But I think there's only one way out of this, 0:13:22.160 --> 0:13:24.679 and that's Jullian. You have to go get your grandmother's 0:13:24.720 --> 0:13:25.920 secret recipe and. 0:13:25.880 --> 0:13:29.600 Give it to Thomas's grandmother. It's like tit for tat. 0:13:29.520 --> 0:13:29.720 You know. 0:13:29.960 --> 0:13:31.839 Wait, wait, guys, I don't know. Maybe that's a little 0:13:31.880 --> 0:13:32.280 too far. 0:13:33.000 --> 0:13:36.200 Oh that's too far. But what you did was innocent. 0:13:36.240 --> 0:13:38.200 I think that might actually work. 0:13:38.920 --> 0:13:42.000 I think I know what recipe my grandmother would want. 0:13:42.480 --> 0:13:46.760 Really tell us, don't say it, please, Thomas, Please don't. 0:13:46.640 --> 0:13:52.319 Say it, Grandpa Jones bourbon pecan. 0:13:52.160 --> 0:13:57.920 Pie, pecan pie. That it would be a solution to 0:13:58.200 --> 0:14:00.959 balance things out and restore peace to the neighborhood, into 0:14:01.000 --> 0:14:01.839 the grandma versus. 0:14:02.480 --> 0:14:04.520 If you have to sneak it, I think it's worth it. 0:14:04.640 --> 0:14:06.160 Remember how hot Thomas got? 0:14:06.360 --> 0:14:11.240 Oh yeah, oh. 0:14:11.080 --> 0:14:13.680 You didn't hear that, Thomas. By the way, never mind. 0:14:14.360 --> 0:14:15.920 I mean, I can't believe we're doing this. 0:14:16.000 --> 0:14:18.880 But Jillian, is it possible that you'd be able to 0:14:19.080 --> 0:14:22.120 give one leash, one family recipe in order to make 0:14:22.160 --> 0:14:23.200 things good with Thomas? 0:14:24.120 --> 0:14:25.360 That's right, the peacan pie. 0:14:27.480 --> 0:14:28.280 It's possible. 0:14:31.640 --> 0:14:32.040 Wow. 0:14:32.120 --> 0:14:35.080 Just quick correction, it's not just the peacan pie recipe. 0:14:35.160 --> 0:14:36.920 It is a bourbon peacmpire. 0:14:38.840 --> 0:14:39.040 Yeah. 0:14:39.160 --> 0:14:42.440 All right, that's the one we want a Jillian says 0:14:42.520 --> 0:14:46.120 she's willing to betray her own grandmother and give it 0:14:46.200 --> 0:14:46.720 up to you. 0:14:47.280 --> 0:14:49.120 Well, I'm going to have to ask her, and I'm 0:14:49.480 --> 0:14:51.600 going to take some work, but I'm willing to give 0:14:51.600 --> 0:14:53.359 it a try. 0:14:53.520 --> 0:14:55.520 Well, there you go. Will you say yes to a 0:14:55.520 --> 0:14:58.000 second date? Because if you do, we would pay for it. 0:14:58.600 --> 0:15:00.000 I mean, how can I say? 0:15:00.080 --> 0:15:00.320 I know? 0:15:00.520 --> 0:15:02.120 Yeah, of course, all right. 0:15:05.360 --> 0:15:07.240 After that pecan pie. 0:15:08.440 --> 0:15:09.120 Curry. There you go. 0:15:10.040 --> 0:15:11.200 I'm hungry and turned on. 0:15:12.880 --> 0:15:13.560 That's normal. 0:15:14.120 --> 0:15:16.160 Thank you coming. I want you forward to it. 0:15:16.640 --> 0:15:18.960 Cute. You guys are gonna be cute. 0:15:19.120 --> 0:15:20.120 Yeah, of course. 0:15:20.280 --> 0:15:22.160 And if you come over again, I got the rest 0:15:22.160 --> 0:15:25.080 of your book out. Just promise me you'll you'll ask 0:15:25.120 --> 0:15:27.160 me to close it or no? No wandering eyes? 0:15:27.280 --> 0:15:28.840 Right, yeah, you temptress. 0:15:30.480 --> 0:15:34.080 Rook and Jeffrey in the morning, No surprise. 0:15:34.160 --> 0:15:36.640 That was one of our most popular second date calls 0:15:36.640 --> 0:15:40.440 of last year. And we've got both Thomas and Jillian 0:15:40.760 --> 0:15:43.960 back on the phone with us today for any update updates. 0:15:43.960 --> 0:15:45.640 I didn't know if I wanted them or the Grandma's 0:15:45.680 --> 0:15:46.400 on the phone more. 0:15:47.120 --> 0:15:49.800 I mean, honestly, we just got Tom and Jill today. 0:15:49.800 --> 0:15:52.520 But let's go right to Jillian and ask, because everybody 0:15:52.520 --> 0:15:56.200 wants to know. Did you betray your grandfather and give 0:15:56.240 --> 0:15:58.320 away his secret pie recipe to Thomas? 0:15:59.720 --> 0:16:03.480 Okay, so I didn't give him the recipes, but we 0:16:03.840 --> 0:16:07.440 did reach a compromise where I would bake the pie 0:16:07.720 --> 0:16:08.600 in front of him. 0:16:12.440 --> 0:16:13.760 I didn't tell her grandpa. 0:16:13.920 --> 0:16:16.800 But Thomas, you said you were cool with it. Yeah, yeah, 0:16:16.840 --> 0:16:17.720 I was cool with that. 0:16:17.880 --> 0:16:20.800 Okay, he's seriously taking notes in the background. Yeah. 0:16:20.840 --> 0:16:22.760 I mean some guys just like to sit back and watch. 0:16:22.760 --> 0:16:25.400 I get that, and we we do love food drama, 0:16:25.480 --> 0:16:29.400 but I think we're more interested wondering are you two 0:16:29.440 --> 0:16:30.720 actually dating? Now? 0:16:31.720 --> 0:16:35.240 Well, there's so much competition between our families over the 0:16:35.280 --> 0:16:38.960 food stuff. We kind of agreed that if we went out, 0:16:39.000 --> 0:16:41.680 we needed to do it in secret and not tell anyone. 0:16:42.440 --> 0:16:44.120 Oh, you families couldn't know. 0:16:44.480 --> 0:16:46.600 Kind of like a Romeo and Juliet thing with a 0:16:46.640 --> 0:16:47.440 Waring family. 0:16:47.640 --> 0:16:48.280 It's kind of hot. 0:16:48.440 --> 0:16:52.000