1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:02,960 Speaker 1: Oh, if you remember Grandma wars on this show, then 2 00:00:03,000 --> 00:00:05,200 Speaker 1: you are in for a treat today. Welcome to the 3 00:00:05,519 --> 00:00:06,680 Speaker 1: Second Date Podcast. 4 00:00:06,800 --> 00:00:08,280 Speaker 2: We've got your update update. 5 00:00:08,680 --> 00:00:10,920 Speaker 1: That's where we check in with a couple that was 6 00:00:11,000 --> 00:00:13,880 Speaker 1: on our show and actually win out again after being 7 00:00:13,920 --> 00:00:16,400 Speaker 1: on a second date and see what's happened since. So 8 00:00:16,680 --> 00:00:19,239 Speaker 1: if you remember how this works, we play the original, 9 00:00:19,320 --> 00:00:20,520 Speaker 1: so everybody's up to speed. 10 00:00:20,680 --> 00:00:23,479 Speaker 2: And then on part three, I know you gotta listen 11 00:00:23,520 --> 00:00:25,680 Speaker 2: to the commercials or commercial get for. 12 00:00:25,760 --> 00:00:28,920 Speaker 1: Them, we get them back on the phone. Yes, so 13 00:00:29,040 --> 00:00:30,960 Speaker 1: you definitely want to stay around for the whole thing. 14 00:00:31,120 --> 00:00:33,200 Speaker 1: And first, of course comments. 15 00:00:33,320 --> 00:00:35,920 Speaker 2: Ellen for Mike said, no offense to anyone. 16 00:00:36,159 --> 00:00:38,720 Speaker 1: But my favorite nickname that Jeffrey used for Brook was 17 00:00:38,800 --> 00:00:39,800 Speaker 1: money bags Brook. 18 00:00:40,280 --> 00:00:43,000 Speaker 2: My brother I loved it so much that we call each. 19 00:00:42,800 --> 00:00:46,600 Speaker 3: Other that now money bags Brook or just money bags 20 00:00:47,080 --> 00:00:47,360 Speaker 3: each other. 21 00:00:47,520 --> 00:00:48,600 Speaker 2: I hope money bugs Brooke. 22 00:00:49,640 --> 00:00:51,280 Speaker 4: Good morning, good morning. 23 00:00:53,159 --> 00:00:55,320 Speaker 2: I love it. I love it all right, your second 24 00:00:55,360 --> 00:00:56,240 Speaker 2: date starts right now. 25 00:00:57,520 --> 00:01:01,120 Speaker 3: When you talk about typical red flag moments that ruin 26 00:01:01,280 --> 00:01:05,759 Speaker 3: first dates, normally we hear about a disagreement over who 27 00:01:05,760 --> 00:01:09,160 Speaker 3: pays the bill. Yeah, somebody lied in their profile about 28 00:01:09,200 --> 00:01:13,720 Speaker 3: their age, height or marital status or their date's mom 29 00:01:13,920 --> 00:01:18,000 Speaker 3: showed up unexpectedly and was way hotter and more fun 30 00:01:18,040 --> 00:01:18,960 Speaker 3: than her daughter ever. 31 00:01:19,040 --> 00:01:20,600 Speaker 2: Could be my worst nightmare. 32 00:01:20,800 --> 00:01:23,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, but this may be the only time the red 33 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:29,240 Speaker 3: flag involved a fight over a casserole recipe. Who never 34 00:01:29,360 --> 00:01:33,880 Speaker 3: thought so much drama could come from one old family meal, 35 00:01:34,319 --> 00:01:36,759 Speaker 3: But it's led us to this where the couples decided 36 00:01:36,760 --> 00:01:39,679 Speaker 3: to come back on our show for a special second 37 00:01:39,760 --> 00:01:42,360 Speaker 3: date update update. We'll do it. 38 00:01:42,280 --> 00:01:45,720 Speaker 5: Next Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning, Second date Updates. 39 00:01:47,319 --> 00:01:50,600 Speaker 3: What are the percentages of how people meet when they 40 00:01:50,640 --> 00:01:52,840 Speaker 3: come to us it's Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. 41 00:01:54,560 --> 00:01:55,120 Speaker 2: I'd say. 42 00:01:57,480 --> 00:01:58,160 Speaker 4: Dating apps. 43 00:01:58,320 --> 00:01:59,680 Speaker 3: I think a couple of years ago that was up 44 00:01:59,720 --> 00:02:02,720 Speaker 3: to like ninety, but lately people have been starting to 45 00:02:02,720 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 3: grow tired of that. They're finding new ways to connect, 46 00:02:05,560 --> 00:02:08,040 Speaker 3: and you hear about more people meeting at run clubs 47 00:02:08,080 --> 00:02:11,560 Speaker 3: and yoga classes. One couple even met at the dentist's 48 00:02:11,560 --> 00:02:13,400 Speaker 3: office in the lobby when they were both high on 49 00:02:13,520 --> 00:02:15,640 Speaker 3: nitros waiting for the rides to take them home. 50 00:02:18,480 --> 00:02:21,920 Speaker 6: Maybe just your personal story, Yeah, I'm still sexy and 51 00:02:22,000 --> 00:02:24,239 Speaker 6: worth mentioning, But we don't get a lot of folks 52 00:02:24,280 --> 00:02:27,680 Speaker 6: on this segment who already knew each other for years 53 00:02:28,080 --> 00:02:30,000 Speaker 6: before they ever went out on a date. 54 00:02:30,200 --> 00:02:32,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, because you know they'd be comfortable enough to like 55 00:02:32,600 --> 00:02:34,000 Speaker 2: check in and see what was going on. 56 00:02:34,200 --> 00:02:36,080 Speaker 3: That's what you think. But we're doing it today with 57 00:02:36,120 --> 00:02:39,040 Speaker 3: our listener, Jillian. So, Jillian, welcome to the show. 58 00:02:39,800 --> 00:02:41,600 Speaker 7: Hi, thank you for taking a call. 59 00:02:42,760 --> 00:02:45,480 Speaker 1: I'm like, so, like, you got ghosted by someone who 60 00:02:45,520 --> 00:02:46,120 Speaker 1: is your friend? 61 00:02:46,440 --> 00:02:47,960 Speaker 3: Like, hell, that makes it worse. 62 00:02:48,120 --> 00:02:50,480 Speaker 4: How is how long were they were your friend for? 63 00:02:51,200 --> 00:02:53,280 Speaker 7: So Thomas and I have known each other for almost 64 00:02:53,400 --> 00:02:54,040 Speaker 7: twenty years. 65 00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:58,480 Speaker 2: Wait wait, how how do you guys know each other? 66 00:02:59,000 --> 00:03:01,400 Speaker 7: So we grew up in a say, neighborhood. He could 67 00:03:01,440 --> 00:03:03,360 Speaker 7: be hung out together all the time, you know, the 68 00:03:03,400 --> 00:03:04,400 Speaker 7: barbecues and all that. 69 00:03:04,560 --> 00:03:07,160 Speaker 2: Oh that's like really interwoven. 70 00:03:07,400 --> 00:03:10,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, was he your first kiss ever as as a 71 00:03:10,560 --> 00:03:11,280 Speaker 3: kid growing up. 72 00:03:12,040 --> 00:03:15,520 Speaker 7: No, he did ask me out, like multiple times, like 73 00:03:15,560 --> 00:03:17,600 Speaker 7: over the years he'd asked me out, and I said no, 74 00:03:18,000 --> 00:03:19,680 Speaker 7: not because I don't like him, but just because I 75 00:03:19,680 --> 00:03:22,080 Speaker 7: thought it might be awkward for our families, you know, Like, yeah, 76 00:03:22,160 --> 00:03:22,960 Speaker 7: I didn't want to get. 77 00:03:22,880 --> 00:03:24,800 Speaker 4: Weird families get that close. 78 00:03:24,919 --> 00:03:26,760 Speaker 3: I had somebody who I thought was my cousin my 79 00:03:26,800 --> 00:03:29,240 Speaker 3: whole life and like literally like five ten years ago, 80 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:31,680 Speaker 3: our parents were like, that's not your cousin, a good 81 00:03:31,680 --> 00:03:33,959 Speaker 3: family friend. I'm like, wait, marias. 82 00:03:33,760 --> 00:03:34,359 Speaker 7: Not my cousin. 83 00:03:34,880 --> 00:03:35,240 Speaker 8: I just. 84 00:03:36,680 --> 00:03:37,040 Speaker 7: Grow up to. 85 00:03:37,200 --> 00:03:40,119 Speaker 2: I mean they feel like blood like you on that one. 86 00:03:40,280 --> 00:03:40,640 Speaker 4: Okay. 87 00:03:40,720 --> 00:03:43,200 Speaker 3: So he was trying for it and you kept shooting 88 00:03:43,240 --> 00:03:44,440 Speaker 3: him down for years. 89 00:03:44,520 --> 00:03:45,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, So what changed? 90 00:03:45,960 --> 00:03:46,280 Speaker 8: Well? 91 00:03:46,520 --> 00:03:48,360 Speaker 7: I saw him a couple of weeks ago and I 92 00:03:48,440 --> 00:03:50,280 Speaker 7: picnic my family was hosting. It has been a while 93 00:03:50,280 --> 00:03:52,800 Speaker 7: since I've seen him, and I'm just gonna lie. He 94 00:03:52,880 --> 00:03:58,320 Speaker 7: looked really good, Thomas, and that. 95 00:03:58,280 --> 00:03:59,080 Speaker 4: Changed your mind? 96 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:02,080 Speaker 7: Yeah, I was like, forget weird, let's just go for this. 97 00:04:03,920 --> 00:04:06,240 Speaker 1: Yeah okay, so wait, how did you guys turn it 98 00:04:06,280 --> 00:04:07,920 Speaker 1: into a romantic date though? 99 00:04:08,520 --> 00:04:08,680 Speaker 6: Well? 100 00:04:08,720 --> 00:04:10,120 Speaker 7: I hit him up. I hit him up and I 101 00:04:10,200 --> 00:04:12,160 Speaker 7: was just like, hey, you want to meet up hang out? 102 00:04:12,920 --> 00:04:14,840 Speaker 7: And he kind of freaked up a little, you know, 103 00:04:14,880 --> 00:04:15,960 Speaker 7: he was like, when are. 104 00:04:15,800 --> 00:04:17,080 Speaker 8: You free let me cook your dinner. 105 00:04:17,600 --> 00:04:19,320 Speaker 2: Wait, He's like, I waited. 106 00:04:19,040 --> 00:04:22,520 Speaker 5: My whole life, get it all with you. 107 00:04:23,080 --> 00:04:23,600 Speaker 2: That'd be weird. 108 00:04:24,120 --> 00:04:27,000 Speaker 3: It's because you rejected him for so long. No wonder 109 00:04:27,080 --> 00:04:29,320 Speaker 3: he was like totally caught back by it. 110 00:04:29,400 --> 00:04:31,760 Speaker 1: Well, I thought he'd be confused that maybe they were 111 00:04:31,800 --> 00:04:33,919 Speaker 1: just going to hang out as friends. But his response 112 00:04:34,040 --> 00:04:35,520 Speaker 1: definitely doesn't sound like that. 113 00:04:35,920 --> 00:04:38,559 Speaker 3: You said the word date, obviously, you like made it clear. 114 00:04:39,160 --> 00:04:40,680 Speaker 7: I think it was more like in my energy and 115 00:04:40,720 --> 00:04:41,799 Speaker 7: my tone, and that kind. 116 00:04:41,600 --> 00:04:45,000 Speaker 3: Of made it like, Yeah, yeah, let's the eighteen hard 117 00:04:45,040 --> 00:04:47,200 Speaker 3: emojis at the end of the text message and the 118 00:04:47,279 --> 00:04:48,680 Speaker 3: kissing emoji. 119 00:04:48,279 --> 00:04:49,640 Speaker 2: That wasn't the emoji she was using. 120 00:04:49,760 --> 00:04:52,200 Speaker 3: Okay, so that's cool. 121 00:04:52,240 --> 00:04:53,760 Speaker 4: He wanted to cook for you. How did that go? 122 00:04:54,520 --> 00:04:54,640 Speaker 3: Oh? 123 00:04:54,680 --> 00:04:55,159 Speaker 8: It's great. 124 00:04:55,240 --> 00:04:56,480 Speaker 7: We had a fabulous meal. 125 00:04:56,680 --> 00:04:56,880 Speaker 5: You know. 126 00:04:56,960 --> 00:04:58,640 Speaker 7: I did the whole like hanging out in the kitchen 127 00:04:58,720 --> 00:04:59,520 Speaker 7: watching him cook. 128 00:04:59,640 --> 00:05:02,120 Speaker 8: It was like like a coconut curry cast role. 129 00:05:04,839 --> 00:05:07,960 Speaker 1: Was there any awkwardness, because sometimes when you turn these 130 00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:11,920 Speaker 1: friendships into something romantic like there can be I don't know, 131 00:05:12,040 --> 00:05:13,120 Speaker 1: just funny moments, you know. 132 00:05:13,640 --> 00:05:16,800 Speaker 7: To be honest, I was amazed at how comfortable it felt. 133 00:05:17,320 --> 00:05:18,719 Speaker 8: The conversation was really good. 134 00:05:18,760 --> 00:05:25,480 Speaker 7: We did end up like a little makeout session of it. 135 00:05:26,160 --> 00:05:29,120 Speaker 1: Maybe his mind is just still blown and he hasn't 136 00:05:29,160 --> 00:05:31,880 Speaker 1: like come to realize that this wasn't a dream. 137 00:05:32,080 --> 00:05:33,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, did that really happen? 138 00:05:33,600 --> 00:05:35,120 Speaker 4: What happened after the kiss? 139 00:05:35,560 --> 00:05:35,720 Speaker 1: Well? 140 00:05:35,760 --> 00:05:36,640 Speaker 8: I did go home. 141 00:05:36,800 --> 00:05:40,560 Speaker 5: I was a good girl, okay. 142 00:05:40,160 --> 00:05:42,880 Speaker 7: But I got a couple of nice texts from him afterwards, 143 00:05:42,880 --> 00:05:45,960 Speaker 7: you know, thanking me for coming over. But then I've 144 00:05:46,000 --> 00:05:47,839 Speaker 7: texted him a few more times with just sort of 145 00:05:47,880 --> 00:05:49,839 Speaker 7: like some invitations, what are you doing, want to grab 146 00:05:49,880 --> 00:05:52,080 Speaker 7: a drink, et cetera. And he's been sending back the 147 00:05:52,080 --> 00:05:52,760 Speaker 7: word busy. 148 00:05:53,120 --> 00:05:55,520 Speaker 5: Oh, just the word yes. 149 00:05:55,680 --> 00:05:58,360 Speaker 7: Like the total attitude and energy and all of it 150 00:05:58,400 --> 00:06:01,400 Speaker 7: has just changed, and I have no idea what's going 151 00:06:01,400 --> 00:06:01,800 Speaker 7: on with him? 152 00:06:01,880 --> 00:06:03,400 Speaker 1: Do you think he's trying to play hard to get now? 153 00:06:03,920 --> 00:06:05,440 Speaker 1: I think it's really bad at him. 154 00:06:05,640 --> 00:06:08,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, in the script, so does him just texting the 155 00:06:08,640 --> 00:06:10,200 Speaker 3: word busy to you over and over? 156 00:06:10,320 --> 00:06:12,760 Speaker 4: Is that worse than just getting straight up ghosted. 157 00:06:13,279 --> 00:06:13,800 Speaker 8: I don't think he. 158 00:06:13,880 --> 00:06:18,239 Speaker 7: Ghosts, because, like our family is just king really weird. 159 00:06:18,320 --> 00:06:21,039 Speaker 3: But just saying one word busy it implies that he's 160 00:06:21,080 --> 00:06:22,240 Speaker 3: mad at you or something's wrong. 161 00:06:23,440 --> 00:06:27,360 Speaker 2: Though funny busy. 162 00:06:28,160 --> 00:06:29,919 Speaker 3: We're actually kind of busy right now. So we should 163 00:06:29,920 --> 00:06:31,760 Speaker 3: probably move on to the second part of this call, 164 00:06:31,800 --> 00:06:34,160 Speaker 3: where we reach out to Thomas for you and try 165 00:06:34,160 --> 00:06:35,280 Speaker 3: to figure out what's going on. 166 00:06:35,320 --> 00:06:38,080 Speaker 1: Well, he's honestly not super busy. 167 00:06:38,520 --> 00:06:39,440 Speaker 4: It's really important. 168 00:06:39,600 --> 00:06:41,960 Speaker 3: We'll find out where we do your second date update 169 00:06:42,160 --> 00:06:42,840 Speaker 3: right after this. 170 00:06:42,880 --> 00:06:45,640 Speaker 5: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date Update. 171 00:06:45,760 --> 00:06:47,599 Speaker 1: You're in the middle of a second date update update, 172 00:06:47,600 --> 00:06:49,560 Speaker 1: and we're gonna find out how the couple is doing 173 00:06:49,880 --> 00:06:50,440 Speaker 1: right after you. 174 00:06:50,520 --> 00:06:51,560 Speaker 2: Here part two. 175 00:06:53,440 --> 00:06:56,680 Speaker 3: If you're just joining us, quick recap of Jillian's date 176 00:06:56,760 --> 00:06:59,760 Speaker 3: with Thomas, a guy she's known for twenty years as 177 00:06:59,760 --> 00:07:02,440 Speaker 3: a fan, family friend, and Thomas has actually asked her 178 00:07:02,480 --> 00:07:05,839 Speaker 3: out several times before. She always would say no to 179 00:07:05,920 --> 00:07:09,840 Speaker 3: him until he showed up to a family picnic looking 180 00:07:09,880 --> 00:07:13,160 Speaker 3: like a total snack and she gave Tommy boy the 181 00:07:13,160 --> 00:07:15,600 Speaker 3: old green light. After that if they wanted to sit 182 00:07:15,640 --> 00:07:19,000 Speaker 3: down next to the potato salad. Oh yeah, it doesn't 183 00:07:19,040 --> 00:07:21,880 Speaker 3: get any hotter. So eventually went over to his place. 184 00:07:21,920 --> 00:07:23,080 Speaker 3: He cooked a meal for her. 185 00:07:23,240 --> 00:07:24,000 Speaker 2: It's so sweet. 186 00:07:24,120 --> 00:07:24,880 Speaker 4: It sounds like a lot. 187 00:07:24,760 --> 00:07:26,680 Speaker 3: Of their family gatherings are kind of based around food, 188 00:07:26,760 --> 00:07:30,120 Speaker 3: so that sounds normal. But since then he's only been 189 00:07:30,160 --> 00:07:33,440 Speaker 3: replying to her text with one word busy. 190 00:07:33,640 --> 00:07:34,480 Speaker 2: Ah. 191 00:07:34,760 --> 00:07:38,920 Speaker 3: It's really cold and Jillian doesn't understand why, so we're 192 00:07:38,920 --> 00:07:40,040 Speaker 3: trying to help figure that out. 193 00:07:40,080 --> 00:07:41,239 Speaker 4: Jillian, I'm curious. 194 00:07:41,280 --> 00:07:43,120 Speaker 3: Just going back to the date night, you said he 195 00:07:43,160 --> 00:07:46,040 Speaker 3: cooked like a coconut curry thing for you When you 196 00:07:46,080 --> 00:07:48,520 Speaker 3: bit into it, did you make a weird face or 197 00:07:48,560 --> 00:07:51,560 Speaker 3: something that could have been taken the wrong way by 198 00:07:51,640 --> 00:07:53,120 Speaker 3: him where maybe he got offended. 199 00:07:53,640 --> 00:07:56,560 Speaker 7: No, No, there's no way. Like his coconut curry was amazing. 200 00:07:56,800 --> 00:07:58,200 Speaker 7: I was like gushing if anything. 201 00:07:58,360 --> 00:08:00,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, and they had a makeout session afterwards. 202 00:08:00,560 --> 00:08:02,920 Speaker 3: Well, I've made up with people angrily before when I've 203 00:08:02,920 --> 00:08:03,880 Speaker 3: been mad at them. 204 00:08:03,920 --> 00:08:06,400 Speaker 4: Sometimes you settle differences there. If you're a manager and 205 00:08:06,480 --> 00:08:08,080 Speaker 4: Jeff asked for the manager, do not come. 206 00:08:08,200 --> 00:08:11,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's going the way you think you're about to 207 00:08:11,040 --> 00:08:13,280 Speaker 3: get a piece of my mind and my tongue. 208 00:08:14,120 --> 00:08:16,560 Speaker 2: I'm just saying that their first kiss was like crazy, 209 00:08:16,600 --> 00:08:20,280 Speaker 2: because it's like twenty years in the baking. That's wild. 210 00:08:20,640 --> 00:08:23,160 Speaker 3: You even said it all felt natural, the kids felt natural, 211 00:08:23,240 --> 00:08:24,360 Speaker 3: the chemistry, right. 212 00:08:25,520 --> 00:08:27,760 Speaker 1: I mean, there is potential in this if we can 213 00:08:27,800 --> 00:08:29,600 Speaker 1: get hint weird keep going. 214 00:08:29,720 --> 00:08:31,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, So let's just dial his number. 215 00:08:31,440 --> 00:08:33,679 Speaker 3: Hopefully he's not too busy to pick up, and we'll 216 00:08:33,720 --> 00:08:35,160 Speaker 3: see if we can get some answers. 217 00:08:34,800 --> 00:08:35,199 Speaker 7: Out of him. 218 00:08:35,200 --> 00:08:36,240 Speaker 3: But I'm dying right now. 219 00:08:41,040 --> 00:08:41,360 Speaker 5: Hello. 220 00:08:42,240 --> 00:08:43,199 Speaker 4: Hey is this Thomas? 221 00:08:44,480 --> 00:08:44,680 Speaker 5: Yeah? 222 00:08:44,720 --> 00:08:45,080 Speaker 8: Who's this? 223 00:08:45,600 --> 00:08:47,360 Speaker 3: Hey man? We're a radio show. We're called Brook and 224 00:08:47,440 --> 00:08:54,480 Speaker 3: Jeffrey in the morning. Hello, morning, Okay, we're just. 225 00:08:54,440 --> 00:08:55,080 Speaker 4: Going to brag. 226 00:08:55,320 --> 00:08:59,040 Speaker 1: We're yeah, we are very excited to talk to you. 227 00:08:59,400 --> 00:09:02,200 Speaker 3: I am any We've actually we've heard a lot about 228 00:09:02,240 --> 00:09:04,600 Speaker 3: you from someone who asked us to reach out to 229 00:09:04,640 --> 00:09:05,920 Speaker 3: you named Jillian. 230 00:09:06,920 --> 00:09:08,520 Speaker 5: Oh. 231 00:09:09,640 --> 00:09:13,840 Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, okay. We know you know her for a 232 00:09:13,880 --> 00:09:16,000 Speaker 3: long time, and this is a segment we do call 233 00:09:16,040 --> 00:09:19,640 Speaker 3: the second Date Update, because we're trying to figure out 234 00:09:20,080 --> 00:09:22,640 Speaker 3: why after you two hung out the other night and 235 00:09:22,679 --> 00:09:25,760 Speaker 3: had dinner together. I mean, she feels like there should 236 00:09:25,840 --> 00:09:28,559 Speaker 3: be another hangout session and you're not responding. 237 00:09:29,880 --> 00:09:30,400 Speaker 8: Yeah, I don't. 238 00:09:30,440 --> 00:09:32,679 Speaker 5: I don't really know if I'm comfortable talking about this. 239 00:09:32,880 --> 00:09:35,240 Speaker 4: I'm sorry, I gotta Well, she had the date went 240 00:09:35,320 --> 00:09:36,960 Speaker 4: so well? Did it not go well in your eyes? 241 00:09:37,040 --> 00:09:38,719 Speaker 2: I mean, it's such a cute story you two. 242 00:09:39,280 --> 00:09:41,600 Speaker 4: Yeah's been like in the making. 243 00:09:41,559 --> 00:09:44,320 Speaker 1: Right twenty years you finally get out of the friend zone, 244 00:09:44,320 --> 00:09:45,719 Speaker 1: which impresses every man. 245 00:09:47,160 --> 00:09:48,160 Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, I had. 246 00:09:48,320 --> 00:09:51,880 Speaker 5: I was looking forward to it and it went really well. 247 00:09:52,040 --> 00:09:57,040 Speaker 5: But well, there's just a violation of trust. Unfortunately. 248 00:09:57,400 --> 00:09:59,920 Speaker 4: Oh oh, I. 249 00:09:58,920 --> 00:10:00,600 Speaker 2: I don't think she's aware of that at all. 250 00:10:01,559 --> 00:10:02,960 Speaker 5: Yeah, she probably isn't. 251 00:10:04,200 --> 00:10:06,400 Speaker 3: Well, if you are such good family friends going back 252 00:10:06,440 --> 00:10:08,960 Speaker 3: twenty years. I feel like you should be comfortable enough 253 00:10:08,960 --> 00:10:10,120 Speaker 3: to reach out and talk to her if there was 254 00:10:10,160 --> 00:10:11,920 Speaker 3: an issue, a violation of some sort. 255 00:10:12,800 --> 00:10:16,040 Speaker 5: I mean, I'm not sure like how malicious it was, 256 00:10:16,200 --> 00:10:21,680 Speaker 5: but it's just it's complicated. Unfortunately, because of her, my 257 00:10:21,760 --> 00:10:22,880 Speaker 5: grandmother won't talk to me. 258 00:10:22,960 --> 00:10:27,480 Speaker 1: Right now, Wait, what what what does your grandma have 259 00:10:27,520 --> 00:10:28,240 Speaker 1: to do with Jillian? 260 00:10:28,440 --> 00:10:32,480 Speaker 5: Yeah, well, I didn't realize at the time, but she 261 00:10:32,600 --> 00:10:35,520 Speaker 5: came over and I wanted to treat her right, right, 262 00:10:35,600 --> 00:10:38,840 Speaker 5: So I busted out Grandma's secret recipe. You know. It's 263 00:10:38,840 --> 00:10:41,880 Speaker 5: like this amazing dish that we always make for special 264 00:10:41,920 --> 00:10:44,720 Speaker 5: occasions of coconut curry castle role right. And I guess 265 00:10:44,800 --> 00:10:47,840 Speaker 5: while I was in the kitchen, cooking and doing my thing, 266 00:10:48,640 --> 00:10:50,920 Speaker 5: at some point, I must have had my back turned 267 00:10:51,160 --> 00:10:54,280 Speaker 5: and the family recipe book is just sitting there open. 268 00:10:54,360 --> 00:10:57,640 Speaker 5: It's not supposed to be shared with anybody or anything 269 00:10:57,720 --> 00:11:02,640 Speaker 5: like that. At some point she must have taken a 270 00:11:02,679 --> 00:11:09,440 Speaker 5: photo of the recipe and forwarded it to her grandmother. No, yeah, 271 00:11:09,480 --> 00:11:11,360 Speaker 5: I don't. I don't know if she meant to steal it, 272 00:11:11,520 --> 00:11:15,920 Speaker 5: like maliciously or for whatever reason, but picture of it 273 00:11:15,920 --> 00:11:18,680 Speaker 5: it's now a thing where her grandmother is holding it 274 00:11:18,720 --> 00:11:21,800 Speaker 5: over my grandmother's head. Now, my grandmother's mad at me. 275 00:11:22,200 --> 00:11:25,240 Speaker 5: She's like, why would you share that? You know, she's hissed. 276 00:11:26,720 --> 00:11:29,040 Speaker 4: A petty grandma, right going on. 277 00:11:29,160 --> 00:11:31,360 Speaker 2: Dude, this feels not that petty to me though. 278 00:11:31,679 --> 00:11:34,800 Speaker 1: Like you got you get a signature dish that you 279 00:11:34,840 --> 00:11:37,160 Speaker 1: bring to every event, and everybody wants to know what 280 00:11:37,200 --> 00:11:39,040 Speaker 1: it is, and you can't tell them because then they're 281 00:11:39,080 --> 00:11:41,280 Speaker 1: going to bring it, and then you have to ask like, 282 00:11:41,320 --> 00:11:42,200 Speaker 1: oh are you bringing it? 283 00:11:42,400 --> 00:11:43,640 Speaker 2: I'm going to bring it. It's a whole thing. 284 00:11:43,920 --> 00:11:45,679 Speaker 5: Yeah. I just I feel like at the very least 285 00:11:45,720 --> 00:11:48,360 Speaker 5: you should have like said something or asked me before. 286 00:11:48,600 --> 00:11:51,079 Speaker 5: But like now because of the way it went down 287 00:11:51,160 --> 00:11:53,640 Speaker 5: and I didn't realize and then like you know, these 288 00:11:53,760 --> 00:11:56,360 Speaker 5: these grandma's they they if they got claws. 289 00:11:56,400 --> 00:11:58,760 Speaker 2: You know, did you tell her it was a secret 290 00:11:58,800 --> 00:11:59,920 Speaker 2: recpee before the photo? 291 00:12:00,080 --> 00:12:02,319 Speaker 5: Like she knew, Oh yeah, oh yeah, she knows it's 292 00:12:02,320 --> 00:12:05,760 Speaker 5: my grandma's secret recipe aboutely. Okay, Now my grandmother's like, 293 00:12:06,000 --> 00:12:09,880 Speaker 5: you let some temptress come in and see you. 294 00:12:10,880 --> 00:12:14,400 Speaker 7: Okay, hello, hello, Hello, I'm here, Thomas. 295 00:12:14,600 --> 00:12:17,880 Speaker 3: Okay, hell shoot, all right, yeah, Thomas. That's Jilly, and 296 00:12:17,880 --> 00:12:19,640 Speaker 3: she's been waiting on the other line wanting. 297 00:12:19,440 --> 00:12:20,479 Speaker 4: To talk to you. 298 00:12:20,520 --> 00:12:21,280 Speaker 5: Are you kidding me? 299 00:12:21,520 --> 00:12:24,040 Speaker 4: No, Yeah, that's that's how this segment works. It's kind 300 00:12:24,040 --> 00:12:26,080 Speaker 4: of sneaky, just like grandma. 301 00:12:26,360 --> 00:12:31,520 Speaker 7: No. No, So listen, I didn't know I think it 302 00:12:31,600 --> 00:12:33,520 Speaker 7: was going to be that big of a deal. I 303 00:12:33,559 --> 00:12:35,800 Speaker 7: had no idea that my grandma was going to share 304 00:12:35,800 --> 00:12:38,640 Speaker 7: it with your grandma like that and like literally taunt her. 305 00:12:39,240 --> 00:12:41,080 Speaker 7: I did not know that she was going to do that. 306 00:12:41,679 --> 00:12:44,360 Speaker 5: Well, you've met our grandmothers. They they are like, well, 307 00:12:44,440 --> 00:12:46,680 Speaker 5: they got like old school beef with each other. 308 00:12:46,960 --> 00:12:50,319 Speaker 7: Oh, but I'm thinking it was going to be more 309 00:12:50,360 --> 00:12:53,280 Speaker 7: like like a funny thing. Like I didn't realize there 310 00:12:53,320 --> 00:12:55,679 Speaker 7: was going to be like that, elevated emotionally. 311 00:12:56,679 --> 00:12:59,960 Speaker 5: Yeah, that's hilarious. Now she won't even like answer my 312 00:13:00,160 --> 00:13:00,800 Speaker 5: phone calls. 313 00:13:01,160 --> 00:13:02,760 Speaker 2: Oh that's bad. 314 00:13:02,840 --> 00:13:05,120 Speaker 3: Well you don't really want to answer any grandma phone 315 00:13:05,120 --> 00:13:06,480 Speaker 3: calls to be honest. 316 00:13:06,760 --> 00:13:08,880 Speaker 2: That you should check the will because somebody may be 317 00:13:08,960 --> 00:13:09,480 Speaker 2: written out. 318 00:13:09,760 --> 00:13:11,240 Speaker 7: I mean, maybe I could talk to her. 319 00:13:11,400 --> 00:13:12,439 Speaker 8: Maybe I can talk to her. 320 00:13:13,200 --> 00:13:15,319 Speaker 5: Trust me, she does not want to talk to you. 321 00:13:15,520 --> 00:13:22,760 Speaker 3: I appreciate that, but. 322 00:13:20,040 --> 00:13:21,880 Speaker 1: But I think there's only one way out of this, 323 00:13:22,160 --> 00:13:24,679 Speaker 1: and that's Jullian. You have to go get your grandmother's 324 00:13:24,720 --> 00:13:25,920 Speaker 1: secret recipe and. 325 00:13:25,880 --> 00:13:29,600 Speaker 2: Give it to Thomas's grandmother. It's like tit for tat. 326 00:13:29,520 --> 00:13:29,720 Speaker 6: You know. 327 00:13:29,960 --> 00:13:31,839 Speaker 8: Wait, wait, guys, I don't know. Maybe that's a little 328 00:13:31,880 --> 00:13:32,280 Speaker 8: too far. 329 00:13:33,000 --> 00:13:36,200 Speaker 4: Oh that's too far. But what you did was innocent. 330 00:13:36,240 --> 00:13:38,200 Speaker 8: I think that might actually work. 331 00:13:38,920 --> 00:13:42,000 Speaker 5: I think I know what recipe my grandmother would want. 332 00:13:42,480 --> 00:13:46,760 Speaker 7: Really tell us, don't say it, please, Thomas, Please don't. 333 00:13:46,640 --> 00:13:52,319 Speaker 5: Say it, Grandpa Jones bourbon pecan. 334 00:13:52,160 --> 00:13:57,920 Speaker 3: Pie, pecan pie. That it would be a solution to 335 00:13:58,200 --> 00:14:00,959 Speaker 3: balance things out and restore peace to the neighborhood, into 336 00:14:01,000 --> 00:14:01,839 Speaker 3: the grandma versus. 337 00:14:02,480 --> 00:14:04,520 Speaker 2: If you have to sneak it, I think it's worth it. 338 00:14:04,640 --> 00:14:06,160 Speaker 2: Remember how hot Thomas got? 339 00:14:06,360 --> 00:14:11,240 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, oh. 340 00:14:11,080 --> 00:14:13,680 Speaker 4: You didn't hear that, Thomas. By the way, never mind. 341 00:14:14,360 --> 00:14:15,920 Speaker 4: I mean, I can't believe we're doing this. 342 00:14:16,000 --> 00:14:18,880 Speaker 3: But Jillian, is it possible that you'd be able to 343 00:14:19,080 --> 00:14:22,120 Speaker 3: give one leash, one family recipe in order to make 344 00:14:22,160 --> 00:14:23,200 Speaker 3: things good with Thomas? 345 00:14:24,120 --> 00:14:25,360 Speaker 2: That's right, the peacan pie. 346 00:14:27,480 --> 00:14:28,280 Speaker 8: It's possible. 347 00:14:31,640 --> 00:14:32,040 Speaker 3: Wow. 348 00:14:32,120 --> 00:14:35,080 Speaker 5: Just quick correction, it's not just the peacan pie recipe. 349 00:14:35,160 --> 00:14:36,920 Speaker 5: It is a bourbon peacmpire. 350 00:14:38,840 --> 00:14:39,040 Speaker 8: Yeah. 351 00:14:39,160 --> 00:14:42,440 Speaker 3: All right, that's the one we want a Jillian says 352 00:14:42,520 --> 00:14:46,120 Speaker 3: she's willing to betray her own grandmother and give it 353 00:14:46,200 --> 00:14:46,720 Speaker 3: up to you. 354 00:14:47,280 --> 00:14:49,120 Speaker 8: Well, I'm going to have to ask her, and I'm 355 00:14:49,480 --> 00:14:51,600 Speaker 8: going to take some work, but I'm willing to give 356 00:14:51,600 --> 00:14:53,359 Speaker 8: it a try. 357 00:14:53,520 --> 00:14:55,520 Speaker 3: Well, there you go. Will you say yes to a 358 00:14:55,520 --> 00:14:58,000 Speaker 3: second date? Because if you do, we would pay for it. 359 00:14:58,600 --> 00:15:00,000 Speaker 5: I mean, how can I say? 360 00:15:00,080 --> 00:15:00,320 Speaker 7: I know? 361 00:15:00,520 --> 00:15:02,120 Speaker 5: Yeah, of course, all right. 362 00:15:05,360 --> 00:15:07,240 Speaker 4: After that pecan pie. 363 00:15:08,440 --> 00:15:09,120 Speaker 7: Curry. There you go. 364 00:15:10,040 --> 00:15:11,200 Speaker 2: I'm hungry and turned on. 365 00:15:12,880 --> 00:15:13,560 Speaker 4: That's normal. 366 00:15:14,120 --> 00:15:16,160 Speaker 8: Thank you coming. I want you forward to it. 367 00:15:16,640 --> 00:15:18,960 Speaker 2: Cute. You guys are gonna be cute. 368 00:15:19,120 --> 00:15:20,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, of course. 369 00:15:20,280 --> 00:15:22,160 Speaker 5: And if you come over again, I got the rest 370 00:15:22,160 --> 00:15:25,080 Speaker 5: of your book out. Just promise me you'll you'll ask 371 00:15:25,120 --> 00:15:27,160 Speaker 5: me to close it or no? No wandering eyes? 372 00:15:27,280 --> 00:15:28,840 Speaker 4: Right, yeah, you temptress. 373 00:15:30,480 --> 00:15:34,080 Speaker 6: Rook and Jeffrey in the morning, No surprise. 374 00:15:34,160 --> 00:15:36,640 Speaker 3: That was one of our most popular second date calls 375 00:15:36,640 --> 00:15:40,440 Speaker 3: of last year. And we've got both Thomas and Jillian 376 00:15:40,760 --> 00:15:43,960 Speaker 3: back on the phone with us today for any update updates. 377 00:15:43,960 --> 00:15:45,640 Speaker 2: I didn't know if I wanted them or the Grandma's 378 00:15:45,680 --> 00:15:46,400 Speaker 2: on the phone more. 379 00:15:47,120 --> 00:15:49,800 Speaker 3: I mean, honestly, we just got Tom and Jill today. 380 00:15:49,800 --> 00:15:52,520 Speaker 3: But let's go right to Jillian and ask, because everybody 381 00:15:52,520 --> 00:15:56,200 Speaker 3: wants to know. Did you betray your grandfather and give 382 00:15:56,240 --> 00:15:58,320 Speaker 3: away his secret pie recipe to Thomas? 383 00:15:59,720 --> 00:16:03,480 Speaker 8: Okay, so I didn't give him the recipes, but we 384 00:16:03,840 --> 00:16:07,440 Speaker 8: did reach a compromise where I would bake the pie 385 00:16:07,720 --> 00:16:08,600 Speaker 8: in front of him. 386 00:16:12,440 --> 00:16:13,760 Speaker 2: I didn't tell her grandpa. 387 00:16:13,920 --> 00:16:16,800 Speaker 3: But Thomas, you said you were cool with it. Yeah, yeah, 388 00:16:16,840 --> 00:16:17,720 Speaker 3: I was cool with that. 389 00:16:17,880 --> 00:16:20,800 Speaker 2: Okay, he's seriously taking notes in the background. Yeah. 390 00:16:20,840 --> 00:16:22,760 Speaker 3: I mean some guys just like to sit back and watch. 391 00:16:22,760 --> 00:16:25,400 Speaker 3: I get that, and we we do love food drama, 392 00:16:25,480 --> 00:16:29,400 Speaker 3: but I think we're more interested wondering are you two 393 00:16:29,440 --> 00:16:30,720 Speaker 3: actually dating? Now? 394 00:16:31,720 --> 00:16:35,240 Speaker 5: Well, there's so much competition between our families over the 395 00:16:35,280 --> 00:16:38,960 Speaker 5: food stuff. We kind of agreed that if we went out, 396 00:16:39,000 --> 00:16:41,680 Speaker 5: we needed to do it in secret and not tell anyone. 397 00:16:42,440 --> 00:16:44,120 Speaker 3: Oh, you families couldn't know. 398 00:16:44,480 --> 00:16:46,600 Speaker 2: Kind of like a Romeo and Juliet thing with a 399 00:16:46,640 --> 00:16:47,440 Speaker 2: Waring family. 400 00:16:47,640 --> 00:16:48,280 Speaker 3: It's kind of hot. 401 00:16:48,440 --> 00:16:52,000 Speaker 2: Actually, wait, so were you secretly dating? 402 00:16:52,040 --> 00:16:56,760 Speaker 8: Then? Well it has been six months and we are 403 00:16:57,320 --> 00:16:58,280 Speaker 8: still going strong. 404 00:16:59,000 --> 00:17:00,480 Speaker 4: Okay. 405 00:17:00,680 --> 00:17:03,520 Speaker 8: We wanted to use this podcast to tell everybody to 406 00:17:03,560 --> 00:17:06,399 Speaker 8: tell our families. Oh so we are officially together. 407 00:17:07,040 --> 00:17:12,520 Speaker 1: Oh so you're either going to get congrats or angry texts. 408 00:17:12,880 --> 00:17:17,600 Speaker 5: Yeah, well, we're gonna play the podcast for our families separately, 409 00:17:18,080 --> 00:17:20,960 Speaker 5: ok yeah itself. 410 00:17:21,240 --> 00:17:24,560 Speaker 4: Yeah that makes sense. Okay, so now yeah, you're official. 411 00:17:24,600 --> 00:17:25,520 Speaker 4: That must feel good. 412 00:17:26,280 --> 00:17:28,520 Speaker 8: It does. Oh my gosh, it's so good to not 413 00:17:28,600 --> 00:17:31,040 Speaker 8: be having to make up stories about how I have 414 00:17:31,119 --> 00:17:33,879 Speaker 8: to go meet a friend for coffee or there was 415 00:17:33,880 --> 00:17:35,240 Speaker 8: the one I was like, I have a job interview 416 00:17:35,320 --> 00:17:36,280 Speaker 8: at seven pm. 417 00:17:36,440 --> 00:17:44,160 Speaker 7: You know, it's just ridiculous, remember, But. 418 00:17:45,880 --> 00:17:47,800 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I feel like we need another update 419 00:17:47,840 --> 00:17:49,080 Speaker 1: to see how the families react. 420 00:17:49,280 --> 00:17:52,439 Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, we'll see, you know, if they have 421 00:17:52,480 --> 00:17:54,920 Speaker 5: a problem with it this, so it's gonna be okay. 422 00:17:55,040 --> 00:17:56,480 Speaker 2: Just serve them really good food. 423 00:17:56,520 --> 00:17:59,200 Speaker 1: The family recipes while they listen to the podcast. 424 00:17:59,400 --> 00:18:03,760 Speaker 3: It's like a modern today Thanksgiving, we made peace. Well, 425 00:18:03,800 --> 00:18:05,840 Speaker 3: it's cool to hear from you guys, and you're still together. 426 00:18:05,920 --> 00:18:09,080 Speaker 3: Definitely keep us updated on your relationship, but we appreciate 427 00:18:09,119 --> 00:18:12,200 Speaker 3: you coming back on the show. Abs, It's Brook and 428 00:18:12,280 --> 00:18:13,119 Speaker 3: Jeffrey in the morning.