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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rad and I

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Speaker 1: Heart Radio and two time People's Choice Award winning podcast.

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Speaker 1: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in. We have a really

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Speaker 1: fun show today. I would say, as always, but today

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Speaker 1: is really fun today the celebration because we are celebrating

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Speaker 1: early the birth of Rebecca. Yeah. I walked into Tanya's

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Speaker 1: um office in her apartment with thirty two balloons. Each

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Speaker 1: one has a handwritten note of a reason why she

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Speaker 1: loves me um and a cake with sprinkles in it,

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Speaker 1: surrounded by Dr Pepper cans. Like it really is just

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Speaker 1: my aesthetic in here um. And like when I tell

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Speaker 1: you I spent all day yesterday doing it, I literally did,

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Speaker 1: and it made me. It was like the highlight of

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Speaker 1: my weekend. Like even down to the color, Like so

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Speaker 1: I bought all white cake, all white cake, white frostings.

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Speaker 1: I know I wanted to do like a vibe of sprinkles,

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Speaker 1: but then I was like, do I want to make

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Speaker 1: want to make the frosting pink and the cake white

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Speaker 1: like she did with the thoughts in my head yesterday, Well,

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Speaker 1: it really all came together, and the notes are so funny,

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Speaker 1: Like some of them are really sentimental and sweet, like

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Speaker 1: talking about me falling in love and how it's spent

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Speaker 1: this week to witness it, and then it's like, um.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes it was like, I'll never admit this out loud,

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Speaker 1: but sometimes I crave raising Cane's toast because of you,

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Speaker 1: which is the first she's ever admitted that, So that

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Speaker 1: was significant. It is true. There's something about that toast.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if it's the toe. I think it's

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Speaker 1: the toast. It's the toast and the salt. I know

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Speaker 1: the sauce is good, but there's something about like and

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Speaker 1: I don't like bread really like I'm not like a

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Speaker 1: a good piece of bread, but that toast is like unmatched.

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Speaker 1: That was a satisfying admission for me to read. I

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Speaker 1: was like, there's every time we go she acts so

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Speaker 1: she's this earned off by delicious Texas toast and chicken fingers.

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Speaker 1: Sorry these are really in your But while we're on

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Speaker 1: the topic of While we're on the topic of celebration,

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Speaker 1: we wanted to talk about our live show that we

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Speaker 1: have coming up. It's gonna be on UM November. So basically,

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Speaker 1: what we're gonna do, we're gonna grab some of our

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Speaker 1: good friends who are also nominated for People's Choice Awards.

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Speaker 1: We're going to bring them in for a live just

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Speaker 1: like party essentially and a live Mantle. And we're doing

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Speaker 1: a live mantle, which I know you'll love a mantle,

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Speaker 1: And this one's gonna be really entertaining because it's gonna

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Speaker 1: be live, so nothing will be cut off. And I

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Speaker 1: do think that our dynamic of a podcast shifts a

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Speaker 1: little bit when it's done in in the PM hour.

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Speaker 1: I guess we're always in the PM hour. Well, no,

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Speaker 1: the later p M. At the like happy hour time,

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Speaker 1: which is yeah, when it's starting, so which includes some bevies,

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Speaker 1: some bebbies. So um. The tickets are available on UM.

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Speaker 1: You could just go you could just go to our

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Speaker 1: Instagram at Scrubbing In Pod and it's linked for you

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Speaker 1: right there. And if you don't want to do that,

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Speaker 1: you can go to on location live dot com to

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Speaker 1: get your tickets and it's gonna be a lot of fun.

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Speaker 1: It's gonna start at five pm. Pacific times that will

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Speaker 1: be eight pm for you Easterners. Wow, that's really a party.

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Speaker 1: And then the first one hundred scrubbers to show that

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Speaker 1: they voted twenty five times for the People's Choice Award podcast.

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Speaker 1: This is in the past, so if you voted, they

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Speaker 1: are reaching out to people. Now I'm seeing all the

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Speaker 1: action unfold because since we logged into the scrubbing in

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Speaker 1: I'm like seeing people reach out and respond in lieu

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Speaker 1: of their tickets. So it's all happening now, Okay, And

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Speaker 1: just so you know, the a portion of the proceeds

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Speaker 1: to go to UM Young Survivor Coalition and it's young

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Speaker 1: adults facing breast cancer together. So um, we're gonna have

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Speaker 1: You weren't you were in Orange County. Um. I went

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Speaker 1: weird to say Benny Blanco, but he Benny Blanco really

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Speaker 1: a couple of maybe two years we were we were

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00:22:54,960 --> 00:22:59,640
Speaker 1: just friends for before we he actually asked me out. Um, yeah,

427
00:22:59,680 --> 00:23:03,800
Speaker 1: so we there was some circling say wait, so for

428
00:23:03,840 --> 00:23:06,360
Speaker 1: you though, like Christie popped out of the water every

429
00:23:06,359 --> 00:23:09,159
Speaker 1: now and again. Yeah, Like I'm always so curious. And

430
00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:11,560
Speaker 1: people say that they were friends first because was there

431
00:23:11,680 --> 00:23:13,560
Speaker 1: and there had to have been some attraction and like

432
00:23:13,640 --> 00:23:15,960
Speaker 1: immediately and what took you by so long to like

433
00:23:16,040 --> 00:23:19,800
Speaker 1: jump in, Well, we were we were in the same

434
00:23:19,840 --> 00:23:24,199
Speaker 1: circle of friends, right, So um, so I think it

435
00:23:24,280 --> 00:23:31,760
Speaker 1: was it was just he had other girlfriends, you know,

436
00:23:32,119 --> 00:23:36,040
Speaker 1: hitch you in the giddea up. But but no, But

437
00:23:36,080 --> 00:23:38,760
Speaker 1: also we were. We were in the same circle of

438
00:23:38,880 --> 00:23:41,640
Speaker 1: friends and and and so while we were hanging out,

439
00:23:41,720 --> 00:23:44,320
Speaker 1: it's like, I don't want to make things awkward and uh,

440
00:23:44,440 --> 00:23:47,240
Speaker 1: and you know, the opportunity to never presented itself. You

441
00:23:47,240 --> 00:23:51,480
Speaker 1: were dating somebody when I wasn't dating something. I think

442
00:23:51,560 --> 00:23:54,639
Speaker 1: Chris also like he saw me as a musician, like

443
00:23:54,680 --> 00:23:59,159
Speaker 1: a colleague, not just um, you know a girl. I

444
00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:02,679
Speaker 1: found out she other girlfriend the first year we were married.

445
00:24:02,760 --> 00:24:08,000
Speaker 1: I didn't even know that. We're team ruined the friendship

446
00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:11,439
Speaker 1: over here, We're like, if you the friendship, go for it,

447
00:24:11,440 --> 00:24:13,760
Speaker 1: because if it doesn't work out, then like who cares.

448
00:24:13,760 --> 00:24:16,679
Speaker 1: At least you tried. Yeah, that's what I'm thinking. You know,

449
00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:21,679
Speaker 1: at least you tried. Yeah. So how long did you

450
00:24:21,760 --> 00:24:24,040
Speaker 1: date before you got married? Like? How long was that period?

451
00:24:25,080 --> 00:24:31,760
Speaker 1: Thanks to three we date for three years. Yes, before

452
00:24:31,760 --> 00:24:33,439
Speaker 1: we got married. We had a child for two of

453
00:24:33,480 --> 00:24:36,679
Speaker 1: those or one of those I can't remember. Yeah, we

454
00:24:36,720 --> 00:24:40,480
Speaker 1: had we had a child first and then we got married. Honestly,

455
00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:43,119
Speaker 1: I feel like the real test is when you have

456
00:24:43,240 --> 00:24:45,720
Speaker 1: the kids. I actually have done it the right way,

457
00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:48,679
Speaker 1: according to what I've heard, because everyone I talked to

458
00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:51,280
Speaker 1: they get married, they have kids, and they're like, I

459
00:24:51,320 --> 00:24:54,040
Speaker 1: don't feel like I was probably worn for how hard

460
00:24:54,119 --> 00:24:58,040
Speaker 1: it is to have a baby and work as a partnership.

461
00:24:58,160 --> 00:25:02,760
Speaker 1: So was it was already pretty real by the time

462
00:25:02,800 --> 00:25:05,359
Speaker 1: we tied the Yeah, we're like, okay, we still like

463
00:25:05,440 --> 00:25:09,679
Speaker 1: each other, let's make it official. And so like ad

464
00:25:09,720 --> 00:25:14,000
Speaker 1: being parents together and now also being um bandmates together,

465
00:25:15,080 --> 00:25:22,159
Speaker 1: there's a lot of you know moments, well actual, I

466
00:25:22,200 --> 00:25:24,080
Speaker 1: was actually gonna ask, like, Aaron, this has been something

467
00:25:24,080 --> 00:25:26,040
Speaker 1: that you've been doing, you know, this is like your

468
00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:30,280
Speaker 1: your thing, Chris. Was this something that just because you

469
00:25:30,320 --> 00:25:32,359
Speaker 1: started dating you realize, oh, I want to like tinker

470
00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:34,560
Speaker 1: with this music side, or like, how did you start

471
00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:38,439
Speaker 1: the duo? Um? Well, no, I've been making music for

472
00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:42,119
Speaker 1: a very long time. I've been writing and performing all around. Well,

473
00:25:42,119 --> 00:25:44,720
Speaker 1: I performed around Los Angeles before I even moved to Nashville.

474
00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:46,600
Speaker 1: One of the reasons I got the part was because

475
00:25:46,800 --> 00:25:55,879
Speaker 1: I was a functional musician and and singer and well,

476
00:25:55,960 --> 00:25:59,119
Speaker 1: you know, all of us that were involved with Nashville

477
00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:01,200
Speaker 1: actually had a little bit of you know, a music

478
00:26:01,359 --> 00:26:05,760
Speaker 1: bug and had performed quite a bit. But when we

479
00:26:05,800 --> 00:26:08,600
Speaker 1: got to Nashville, like she said, we were very sort

480
00:26:08,640 --> 00:26:11,680
Speaker 1: of appreciative of the musicians because we had never probably

481
00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:14,600
Speaker 1: speak for myself but probably for the others. Two sort

482
00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:17,080
Speaker 1: of been in a pool of musicians of that caliber

483
00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:19,920
Speaker 1: of talent. So it just kind of blew us away.

484
00:26:19,920 --> 00:26:21,639
Speaker 1: And we all had to, you know, come up to

485
00:26:21,680 --> 00:26:23,960
Speaker 1: the next level. And I think we did. And we

486
00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:27,480
Speaker 1: went for tours, and you know, so music was something.

487
00:26:27,600 --> 00:26:29,720
Speaker 1: And I made an EP myself that I had released,

488
00:26:29,760 --> 00:26:33,480
Speaker 1: and then I toured on a little bit. But when

489
00:26:33,480 --> 00:26:35,560
Speaker 1: we started dating, we started performing together a little bit.

490
00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:39,120
Speaker 1: We performed at the Grand Ole Opry and we performed. Uh,

491
00:26:39,160 --> 00:26:42,800
Speaker 1: somebody actually just tweeted us a video of us performing

492
00:26:42,800 --> 00:26:47,760
Speaker 1: at Cmafest that I had forgotten about umsion. We were

493
00:26:47,760 --> 00:26:51,600
Speaker 1: playing together. But then um, we started writing some songs together,

494
00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:54,520
Speaker 1: and then we started recording a little together, and and

495
00:26:54,520 --> 00:26:58,000
Speaker 1: and we liked the chemistry and we decided to decided

496
00:26:58,040 --> 00:27:01,480
Speaker 1: to pursue it. I was gonna say, so, you do

497
00:27:01,600 --> 00:27:04,919
Speaker 1: you do this together. It's it's your job. You're in

498
00:27:04,960 --> 00:27:08,520
Speaker 1: this band together, you're married, you're parenting together. Do you

499
00:27:08,640 --> 00:27:11,240
Speaker 1: feel like because you're doing it all together, do you

500
00:27:11,280 --> 00:27:15,399
Speaker 1: feel like there's this moment of like, because that music

501
00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:17,560
Speaker 1: is a hobby and it's a passion for people and

502
00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:20,119
Speaker 1: it's kind of what they do to escape. But you

503
00:27:20,119 --> 00:27:23,760
Speaker 1: can't escape each other because you live together, your parents together,

504
00:27:24,480 --> 00:27:29,520
Speaker 1: and you're in a band together. It's the short answer

505
00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:33,240
Speaker 1: is yes, okay, if I'm the kind of person though,

506
00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:35,639
Speaker 1: I'm so happy to do everything together. Like I'm like,

507
00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:38,280
Speaker 1: let's go to the gym together, let's get smoothies together,

508
00:27:38,359 --> 00:27:43,240
Speaker 1: let's do the yoga class together, let's work out. Started

509
00:27:43,280 --> 00:27:49,240
Speaker 1: doing that. I've suddenly developed an interest in plumbing. Hey babe,

510
00:27:49,240 --> 00:27:57,640
Speaker 1: I gotta go plumb under the Haug. Chris definitely likes

511
00:27:57,640 --> 00:28:03,199
Speaker 1: more of his own space. However, that said, uh, with

512
00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:06,920
Speaker 1: the short answer being yes, the long answer is that

513
00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:11,800
Speaker 1: while you know, music was always sort of a space

514
00:28:11,840 --> 00:28:14,600
Speaker 1: I occupied, pied by myself and really enjoyed as this

515
00:28:14,680 --> 00:28:19,600
Speaker 1: sort of sort of sacred loan meditation on songwriting and

516
00:28:19,880 --> 00:28:24,400
Speaker 1: producing and creating and and practicing. UM, I will say

517
00:28:24,440 --> 00:28:27,840
Speaker 1: that if it still occupied that place today, I wouldn't

518
00:28:27,880 --> 00:28:32,000
Speaker 1: get to explore music in the in the way that

519
00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:34,520
Speaker 1: I get to explore it since we do it together.

520
00:28:34,680 --> 00:28:36,080
Speaker 1: You know, it would be it would be sort of

521
00:28:36,160 --> 00:28:40,360
Speaker 1: a much more selfish endeavor that I would have to

522
00:28:40,400 --> 00:28:42,800
Speaker 1: be carving time away from my family to do and

523
00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:46,240
Speaker 1: this in this respect, when I spend time on music,

524
00:28:46,280 --> 00:28:49,920
Speaker 1: I'm spent and investing in our family. Yeah, I mean,

525
00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:52,680
Speaker 1: and you'll probably get to do. I mean music essentially

526
00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:55,880
Speaker 1: a storytelling and y'all are kind of going through things

527
00:28:55,960 --> 00:28:57,880
Speaker 1: as a couple that you probably have a lot to

528
00:28:58,480 --> 00:29:00,960
Speaker 1: say and write songs of out. I would imagine we

529
00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:03,680
Speaker 1: all have, you know, those of us who aren't songwriters

530
00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:07,200
Speaker 1: wish we could write. I wish I could. Oh I

531
00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:11,560
Speaker 1: would write some Oh my gosh, I would write some

532
00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:14,480
Speaker 1: tear jerkers that I just don't have. I don't have

533
00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:17,680
Speaker 1: the music in me. You got it? You got it? Well,

534
00:29:17,720 --> 00:29:21,880
Speaker 1: she's got it in It's just a little tone. Yeah.

535
00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:24,400
Speaker 1: The way this is so this might be like way

536
00:29:24,480 --> 00:29:26,840
Speaker 1: t am I, But I just have to know because

537
00:29:26,880 --> 00:29:29,320
Speaker 1: I think that I've always had this weird. I want

538
00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:33,120
Speaker 1: to say, like fetish is not the right word, because

539
00:29:33,160 --> 00:29:37,680
Speaker 1: I fetish um like no um, Like everybody like there's

540
00:29:37,720 --> 00:29:39,560
Speaker 1: something sexy about like a musician, do you know what

541
00:29:39,560 --> 00:29:40,920
Speaker 1: I mean? Like when you're like at a show and

542
00:29:40,960 --> 00:29:44,840
Speaker 1: you're like, oh, just like that's like the hot you know, right,

543
00:29:45,160 --> 00:29:46,920
Speaker 1: Like is there something like is it weird like when

544
00:29:46,960 --> 00:29:48,920
Speaker 1: you guys performed together, do you just like want to like,

545
00:29:49,280 --> 00:29:53,320
Speaker 1: is this do you get on trying to say, like,

546
00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:56,360
Speaker 1: because it's spice things up in other areas. That's I mean,

547
00:29:56,360 --> 00:29:59,600
Speaker 1: that's why I love I totally hear you. I think

548
00:29:59,640 --> 00:30:02,920
Speaker 1: there's always there's an important thing about chemistry with the

549
00:30:02,920 --> 00:30:06,040
Speaker 1: people you perform with on stage right, And um, I've

550
00:30:06,040 --> 00:30:08,320
Speaker 1: been in so many bands and you have to find

551
00:30:08,320 --> 00:30:10,480
Speaker 1: that chemistry, even if it's like a girl on girl

552
00:30:10,560 --> 00:30:13,600
Speaker 1: and not like a romantic chemistry because I'm well, it's fine,

553
00:30:13,600 --> 00:30:16,840
Speaker 1: but it is, but it's not for me. But I

554
00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:20,480
Speaker 1: think with Chris, we we already have that chemistry, but

555
00:30:20,600 --> 00:30:25,080
Speaker 1: it is amplified when we're performing to together. Um, and

556
00:30:25,440 --> 00:30:27,800
Speaker 1: we are able for aults we can control ourselves. And

557
00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:30,320
Speaker 1: the longer we performed together, the more likely it is

558
00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:36,480
Speaker 1: I'll find somebody in the band to connect with. I'm

559
00:30:36,520 --> 00:30:38,920
Speaker 1: just kidding. Aaron. Aaron makes all of the Aaron says

560
00:30:38,920 --> 00:30:41,360
Speaker 1: all of the serious answers, And I know because I

561
00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:43,640
Speaker 1: think like I sometimes I think, if if like my

562
00:30:43,680 --> 00:30:46,760
Speaker 1: boyfriend were to like perform some sort of guitar or something,

563
00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:51,680
Speaker 1: I would just pummel him that night. She likes or

564
00:30:51,760 --> 00:30:54,440
Speaker 1: something like he'll be cutting fish and she's like, it

565
00:30:54,560 --> 00:30:58,840
Speaker 1: was just so hot. Your boy was probably be start

566
00:30:58,840 --> 00:31:05,120
Speaker 1: writing a song right now. Yeah, there are definitely there's

567
00:31:05,160 --> 00:31:09,080
Speaker 1: definite moments of chemistry when we're performing. I'd say, particularly

568
00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:11,040
Speaker 1: when we when we used to have the opportunity to

569
00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:14,640
Speaker 1: perform on stage. That's a different type of performing and

570
00:31:14,680 --> 00:31:17,800
Speaker 1: adrenaline than than playing in our family room. Even when

571
00:31:17,800 --> 00:31:20,440
Speaker 1: we're doing we've done some Instagram lives and stuff and

572
00:31:20,880 --> 00:31:23,160
Speaker 1: you got an audience, but it's a little different. So

573
00:31:24,200 --> 00:31:26,560
Speaker 1: but it's it's like seeing someone in their elements, seeing

574
00:31:26,600 --> 00:31:30,720
Speaker 1: someone performed that what they do best is always sexy, right.

575
00:31:30,800 --> 00:31:33,440
Speaker 1: I mean like I could watch Chris do his thing

576
00:31:33,480 --> 00:31:38,520
Speaker 1: on you know, acting or plumbing or yeah it's acting world,

577
00:31:38,600 --> 00:31:40,400
Speaker 1: and I'm like, wow, I can't believe you can do that.

578
00:31:40,480 --> 00:31:42,920
Speaker 1: You know. Well, I'm gonna ask, were you a Gray's

579
00:31:42,960 --> 00:31:45,680
Speaker 1: Anatomy Aaron? Were you a Gray's Anatomy fan before he

580
00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:49,440
Speaker 1: got the part of Link? I mean, who who is it? Right?

581
00:31:49,520 --> 00:31:52,640
Speaker 1: I Greas Anatomy. I think I was maybe still in

582
00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:55,400
Speaker 1: high school when it first came out, so I you know,

583
00:31:55,520 --> 00:31:59,479
Speaker 1: I remember watching it, um just anytime it was on

584
00:31:59,640 --> 00:32:03,040
Speaker 1: and get into the storylines and stuff, and then you know,

585
00:32:03,280 --> 00:32:06,200
Speaker 1: life came and I barely have time to watch any TV.

586
00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:08,120
Speaker 1: But of course once you got the part, we caught

587
00:32:08,200 --> 00:32:12,200
Speaker 1: up and um, it's it's just such a you know,

588
00:32:12,680 --> 00:32:17,560
Speaker 1: great show. It just never runs out of stories. You're

589
00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:20,440
Speaker 1: you're actually very lucky because so obviously we're in quarantine,

590
00:32:20,480 --> 00:32:22,520
Speaker 1: so we're not in the studio right now, but we

591
00:32:22,720 --> 00:32:26,520
Speaker 1: have so we're like die hard grays Auty fans. We

592
00:32:26,560 --> 00:32:31,640
Speaker 1: have these pillows with all your faces on them. Tell me,

593
00:32:31,680 --> 00:32:34,240
Speaker 1: tell me there's a link pillow. I think I'm pretty

594
00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:38,320
Speaker 1: sure there's a link pill I mean there's so you know,

595
00:32:38,360 --> 00:32:41,680
Speaker 1: if there isn't, it's okay, that's true. I don't remember

596
00:32:41,720 --> 00:32:44,440
Speaker 1: when we got them, but it was when Camilla was yeah,

597
00:32:44,440 --> 00:32:46,440
Speaker 1: and she saw them and she autographed her face. It

598
00:32:46,480 --> 00:32:49,000
Speaker 1: was so funny because they're just like the scariest looking pillows.

599
00:32:49,120 --> 00:32:56,600
Speaker 1: But who was it? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. So I

600
00:32:56,640 --> 00:32:59,800
Speaker 1: mean we are we're die hard fans and we love

601
00:32:59,800 --> 00:33:02,680
Speaker 1: your character. I have I have switched who I want

602
00:33:02,720 --> 00:33:04,800
Speaker 1: you with. I mean I've gone back and forth. I'm

603
00:33:04,840 --> 00:33:06,880
Speaker 1: like Joe and then I'm like, well, now I has

604
00:33:06,920 --> 00:33:09,280
Speaker 1: a baby, with Amelia, So I'm like rooting for that,

605
00:33:09,360 --> 00:33:11,080
Speaker 1: but I don't think so. I think I'm team Joe.

606
00:33:11,320 --> 00:33:13,640
Speaker 1: I think I'm team Joe. They really opened the door

607
00:33:13,680 --> 00:33:16,719
Speaker 1: when Alex left because y'all had the friendship before, so

608
00:33:16,760 --> 00:33:23,000
Speaker 1: it was like it would have been well, you know hey,

609
00:33:23,280 --> 00:33:29,640
Speaker 1: I yeah, I don't. Let's let's let's leave it at that. Well,

610
00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:32,880
Speaker 1: because you guys started filming recently again, right, we did

611
00:33:32,880 --> 00:33:35,920
Speaker 1: start filming recently. Yes, is the next season going to

612
00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:38,719
Speaker 1: pick up where we were left off? Or are they

613
00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:40,520
Speaker 1: gonna because I know that they said that there were

614
00:33:40,520 --> 00:33:43,880
Speaker 1: episodes that didn't get to air correct, Um, So the

615
00:33:44,200 --> 00:33:47,200
Speaker 1: next season is going to it's going to pick up

616
00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:50,280
Speaker 1: shortly after we left off, but it's going to pick

617
00:33:50,400 --> 00:33:56,320
Speaker 1: up in the current world of COVID and UM. At

618
00:33:56,360 --> 00:33:59,240
Speaker 1: one time I knew the exact time frame, but at

619
00:33:59,240 --> 00:34:03,120
Speaker 1: this point it's fall aggy. I feel like five weeks

620
00:34:03,240 --> 00:34:06,200
Speaker 1: or something like that. UM. And Yes, we did start

621
00:34:06,200 --> 00:34:10,000
Speaker 1: filming some episodes UH that we did not get to

622
00:34:10,040 --> 00:34:13,160
Speaker 1: finish and UH. And I think that they're going to

623
00:34:13,480 --> 00:34:18,240
Speaker 1: incorporate some of that footage into the current UH season

624
00:34:18,280 --> 00:34:20,359
Speaker 1: premier so that we get to see some of what

625
00:34:20,400 --> 00:34:23,919
Speaker 1: we missed last season two. Oh that's exciting when when

626
00:34:23,960 --> 00:34:26,479
Speaker 1: you're here when he comes home from a day on set,

627
00:34:26,520 --> 00:34:29,560
Speaker 1: are you like tell me everything or do you respect

628
00:34:29,560 --> 00:34:32,760
Speaker 1: the fact that he's not supposed to say anything. Well,

629
00:34:32,960 --> 00:34:38,000
Speaker 1: you know, I actually have the awesome job of sometimes

630
00:34:38,040 --> 00:34:44,120
Speaker 1: reading lines with him. I kind of know what's you

631
00:34:44,200 --> 00:34:46,920
Speaker 1: are you're filming today? Oh? That one? You know, so

632
00:34:46,960 --> 00:34:49,919
Speaker 1: I kind of what's going on. But m and most

633
00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:52,520
Speaker 1: of the time I'm you know, Chris has long days

634
00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:54,480
Speaker 1: and he gets home and that's probably the last thing

635
00:34:54,560 --> 00:34:57,000
Speaker 1: he wants to talk about. When we were like such

636
00:34:57,040 --> 00:35:00,120
Speaker 1: geeks everything. We went to the set like the was

637
00:35:00,200 --> 00:35:03,520
Speaker 1: probably like maybe a month before Lockdown or before Quarantine,

638
00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:05,960
Speaker 1: like two weeks before two weeks before Quarantine. We actually

639
00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:08,040
Speaker 1: got to get a tour of the set, and so

640
00:35:08,200 --> 00:35:12,359
Speaker 1: we were like so embarrassing when we tell people on

641
00:35:12,400 --> 00:35:15,839
Speaker 1: the show this, I get so cringe. I don't but

642
00:35:16,239 --> 00:35:19,640
Speaker 1: this isn't like we're like we are his audience. Okay,

643
00:35:19,640 --> 00:35:22,760
Speaker 1: But we wore scrubs to the set and so everyone

644
00:35:22,880 --> 00:35:31,440
Speaker 1: was confused as we were walking around because they were like, yeah, yeah,

645
00:35:31,719 --> 00:35:34,000
Speaker 1: So we were like we saw the stair the staircase,

646
00:35:34,000 --> 00:35:36,000
Speaker 1: and we would like reenact the scenes and we went

647
00:35:36,040 --> 00:35:37,719
Speaker 1: back in the day when they were interns and we're

648
00:35:37,719 --> 00:35:39,640
Speaker 1: like and then we went in the elevator and I

649
00:35:39,680 --> 00:35:44,600
Speaker 1: was just like, this is the elevator. A lot has

650
00:35:44,640 --> 00:35:52,080
Speaker 1: happened that elevator at UM. Well, thank you both so

651
00:35:52,160 --> 00:35:55,600
Speaker 1: much for coming. That's all done. Oh you can't really

652
00:35:55,600 --> 00:35:57,719
Speaker 1: tell us much about Yeah, well, I didn't want to

653
00:35:57,760 --> 00:36:01,200
Speaker 1: take like all their time. I mean I could sit

654
00:36:01,239 --> 00:36:03,360
Speaker 1: here for hours, we could talk about I know, we

655
00:36:03,400 --> 00:36:05,040
Speaker 1: just want to know like that they'd give to people

656
00:36:05,040 --> 00:36:08,120
Speaker 1: who are friends who feel, okay, this is a great

657
00:36:08,160 --> 00:36:10,239
Speaker 1: thing to end. On the other day, Tania and I

658
00:36:10,280 --> 00:36:14,400
Speaker 1: are having a conversation about how she doesn't believe in

659
00:36:15,280 --> 00:36:18,799
Speaker 1: right person, wrong time, and I feel like y'all are

660
00:36:18,840 --> 00:36:20,960
Speaker 1: a great example of that because y'all were friends for

661
00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:25,200
Speaker 1: two years before you were romantically involved. And I was

662
00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:28,040
Speaker 1: shocked that she said this because in my head, I'm like,

663
00:36:28,080 --> 00:36:30,160
Speaker 1: there's so many times when we're not the person that

664
00:36:30,200 --> 00:36:32,400
Speaker 1: we're meant to be when we meet the right person

665
00:36:33,040 --> 00:36:34,480
Speaker 1: or the person that we're supposed to. I think it's

666
00:36:34,520 --> 00:36:39,520
Speaker 1: an excuse. I guess that just you know what, I'm

667
00:36:39,520 --> 00:36:43,200
Speaker 1: gonna guess that Tanya is more of a romantic and

668
00:36:43,200 --> 00:36:45,839
Speaker 1: Beck is more of a pragmatist. Am I right in that? Yeah,

669
00:36:45,880 --> 00:36:50,520
Speaker 1: you're pretty got on, Yeah, because because the romantics are

670
00:36:50,520 --> 00:36:52,400
Speaker 1: the ones who're like, no, you know, just know you

671
00:36:52,560 --> 00:36:55,319
Speaker 1: grab and conquer and you just you just do it,

672
00:36:55,600 --> 00:36:58,080
Speaker 1: go for it. And the pragnomatists are a little bit

673
00:36:58,120 --> 00:37:01,120
Speaker 1: more like, you know, wait, I'll just you know, well,

674
00:37:02,040 --> 00:37:03,759
Speaker 1: there's something going on right now. I don't want to

675
00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:07,120
Speaker 1: ruin their relationship in their life. And and I'm a

676
00:37:07,120 --> 00:37:10,640
Speaker 1: little bit more like that Becca myself, which probably explains

677
00:37:10,680 --> 00:37:13,080
Speaker 1: and probably you well I think you know everything always

678
00:37:13,120 --> 00:37:15,920
Speaker 1: works out for a reason, is yeah, how I live

679
00:37:16,000 --> 00:37:18,440
Speaker 1: my life, so um, you know, whatever is meant to

680
00:37:18,520 --> 00:37:21,960
Speaker 1: be will be. And are you a Capricorn? Becca, I'm

681
00:37:22,000 --> 00:37:26,399
Speaker 1: a Scorpio okay, alright, cancer So I didn't know if

682
00:37:26,600 --> 00:37:30,239
Speaker 1: maybe that was a Capricorn. That's such a Capricorn way

683
00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:36,880
Speaker 1: of thinking. I'm a cancer. So like bleeding emotion, I mean,

684
00:37:36,920 --> 00:37:39,400
Speaker 1: I hear you, but I just feel like if you

685
00:37:40,360 --> 00:37:43,000
Speaker 1: if you're trying to make something happen and you read

686
00:37:43,080 --> 00:37:45,480
Speaker 1: the emotion on the other hand, is not returned from

687
00:37:45,520 --> 00:37:48,800
Speaker 1: the other end. It's it's just you're just setting yourself

688
00:37:48,880 --> 00:37:51,479
Speaker 1: up for which I feel like I've done is set

689
00:37:51,480 --> 00:37:55,200
Speaker 1: myself up for disappointment and um so I don't know,

690
00:37:55,760 --> 00:38:01,360
Speaker 1: just letting you wreak out some realists over here, glory.

691
00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:05,880
Speaker 1: Wait do you hear my epe? Guys? It's got some

692
00:38:06,000 --> 00:38:08,959
Speaker 1: high and SMOs, but I have to put some auto

693
00:38:09,040 --> 00:38:16,120
Speaker 1: dune on it before. Thank you guys, seriously so much

694
00:38:16,120 --> 00:38:19,359
Speaker 1: for joining us again. Their ep stone walls out. Now

695
00:38:21,080 --> 00:38:25,000
Speaker 1: check it out? Yeah, check it out? And then, um

696
00:38:25,080 --> 00:38:33,560
Speaker 1: I should know this. Gray's Anatomy returns November November, errand

697
00:38:33,600 --> 00:38:38,560
Speaker 1: answer enough times online. We just one more quick question

698
00:38:38,600 --> 00:38:40,960
Speaker 1: before we go. Who's your best friend on Gray's Anatomy

699
00:38:41,080 --> 00:38:45,120
Speaker 1: like in real life? Oh? Well, you know, I get

700
00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:47,920
Speaker 1: along very well with people I work with. Camilla and

701
00:38:48,000 --> 00:38:51,960
Speaker 1: Katerina both are They're the ones that I have most

702
00:38:51,960 --> 00:38:54,839
Speaker 1: of my scenes, and I will say that I've got

703
00:38:54,880 --> 00:38:58,040
Speaker 1: along with both of them very well. Okay, who's the

704
00:38:58,040 --> 00:39:06,520
Speaker 1: funniest on set yourself? I'm definitely by no. Camilla cracks

705
00:39:06,560 --> 00:39:13,160
Speaker 1: me up. She's hysterical, hysterically interesting. I would not expect

706
00:39:13,200 --> 00:39:14,960
Speaker 1: that in a very subtle, in a very sort of

707
00:39:14,960 --> 00:39:17,920
Speaker 1: subtle dry way. He just okay, okay, say I imagine

708
00:39:18,000 --> 00:39:22,640
Speaker 1: starcasts like sarcasm and dry humor from him, but always

709
00:39:22,640 --> 00:39:27,520
Speaker 1: pretty on point. I mean, yeah, he's hilarious. All right. Yeah,

710
00:39:27,880 --> 00:39:31,680
Speaker 1: we love the Insider info. Just love it, just love it.

711
00:39:32,440 --> 00:39:36,719
Speaker 1: Like anything, anything you can give us, we'll take. Thank you, guys,

712
00:39:36,760 --> 00:39:45,680
Speaker 1: so mucheah, thank you so much for the aversary. Bye, Bye, Scrubs.

713
00:39:46,000 --> 00:39:53,280
Speaker 1: I know we should next time, next time. Bye. They're

714
00:39:53,360 --> 00:39:56,000
Speaker 1: so cute, so cute. I wish that y'all could have.

715
00:39:56,239 --> 00:39:59,279
Speaker 1: I wish that there was a video so y'all can

716
00:39:59,320 --> 00:40:01,239
Speaker 1: see how cute the look sitting next to each other.

717
00:40:01,280 --> 00:40:03,600
Speaker 1: The lighting was perfect. I know they do, like, actually

718
00:40:03,600 --> 00:40:05,160
Speaker 1: look really in love. We should have told them that,

719
00:40:05,200 --> 00:40:06,920
Speaker 1: because I feel like couples like to hear that. I'm

720
00:40:06,960 --> 00:40:12,239
Speaker 1: sure they'll listen to this episode right. Um, and a correction,

721
00:40:12,520 --> 00:40:15,560
Speaker 1: Gray's Anatomy comes back November twelve, not the seventeen, so

722
00:40:15,600 --> 00:40:18,120
Speaker 1: none of us knew what we were talking about. Um,

723
00:40:18,200 --> 00:40:20,160
Speaker 1: and I'm almost embarrassed. I don't have that memorize. I

724
00:40:20,160 --> 00:40:21,680
Speaker 1: had it in my calendar, but I just like I

725
00:40:21,719 --> 00:40:24,040
Speaker 1: didn't even norm my calendar was I was just so mesmerized.

726
00:40:24,480 --> 00:40:31,799
Speaker 1: So just a correction. Is the season seventeen premiere of

727
00:40:31,840 --> 00:40:50,799
Speaker 1: Gray's Anatomy um So. A couple of weeks ago, we

728
00:40:50,880 --> 00:40:55,280
Speaker 1: had a scrubber post in the group um on behalf

729
00:40:55,280 --> 00:40:58,960
Speaker 1: of a co worker and friend talking about her. She

730
00:40:59,080 --> 00:41:02,120
Speaker 1: was throwing her daughter birthday no one could come like

731
00:41:02,200 --> 00:41:04,279
Speaker 1: a lot of people did an rs VP, and she

732
00:41:04,440 --> 00:41:06,840
Speaker 1: had had another friend who had a birthday party and

733
00:41:06,880 --> 00:41:10,080
Speaker 1: everyone showed up, and so the mom was just like, really,

734
00:41:10,440 --> 00:41:14,520
Speaker 1: you know, sad for her daughter, and just I think

735
00:41:14,560 --> 00:41:17,840
Speaker 1: at the end of it, she said, this hurts my

736
00:41:17,880 --> 00:41:20,600
Speaker 1: heart so much. It always happens to my children. The

737
00:41:20,680 --> 00:41:24,000
Speaker 1: same thing happened to Mason, who's the little girl's brother,

738
00:41:24,000 --> 00:41:28,440
Speaker 1: where none of his friends showed up. So the coworker

739
00:41:28,480 --> 00:41:30,840
Speaker 1: who was a scrubber said, would you mind if I

740
00:41:30,920 --> 00:41:33,520
Speaker 1: shared this with this group that I'm a part of,

741
00:41:33,560 --> 00:41:36,160
Speaker 1: Like they always show up for people when you know

742
00:41:36,200 --> 00:41:39,720
Speaker 1: they're in a tough situation, like we all send cards,

743
00:41:39,760 --> 00:41:41,600
Speaker 1: like would you mind sending your address? And do you

744
00:41:41,600 --> 00:41:43,439
Speaker 1: mind if I share? So she said, sure, that's fine.

745
00:41:44,600 --> 00:41:50,879
Speaker 1: So this post has two seven likes and then I

746
00:41:50,920 --> 00:41:54,279
Speaker 1: can't even tell on my phone how many comments, but

747
00:41:57,960 --> 00:42:01,760
Speaker 1: the amount of people who say this little girl birthday

748
00:42:01,800 --> 00:42:05,799
Speaker 1: gifts and cards from our scrubbing in group was like,

749
00:42:06,719 --> 00:42:08,759
Speaker 1: I mean, I was like sobbing looking at all the

750
00:42:08,800 --> 00:42:14,720
Speaker 1: photos because they were posting like her opening them, and

751
00:42:16,160 --> 00:42:18,319
Speaker 1: I just feel like this is something that I think

752
00:42:18,320 --> 00:42:21,600
Speaker 1: the mom will never forget, like seeing these people show up.

753
00:42:23,120 --> 00:42:25,399
Speaker 1: I just thought it was when Mark said Mark brought

754
00:42:25,440 --> 00:42:26,840
Speaker 1: it up last week, and then I saw it in

755
00:42:26,880 --> 00:42:29,080
Speaker 1: the group and I was just it is It's just

756
00:42:29,120 --> 00:42:33,719
Speaker 1: like it's so special because I just feel like right now, especially,

757
00:42:34,480 --> 00:42:37,400
Speaker 1: everything is so tense and so negative and like people

758
00:42:37,480 --> 00:42:39,680
Speaker 1: just I feel like they're drowning, you know, and it's

759
00:42:39,719 --> 00:42:43,440
Speaker 1: like this community, like you know, our Facebook group is

760
00:42:43,520 --> 00:42:46,680
Speaker 1: podcast It's like it continues to be this light and

761
00:42:46,719 --> 00:42:51,760
Speaker 1: it's so wild. I know. I just there was something.

762
00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:55,840
Speaker 1: So the fact that her brain went can I share

763
00:42:55,880 --> 00:42:59,160
Speaker 1: this in this group that I'm a part of, spoke

764
00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:01,719
Speaker 1: volumes its self and then everybody stepped up. I know

765
00:43:02,040 --> 00:43:04,239
Speaker 1: I shouldn't just share it, and it was like not seen,

766
00:43:04,719 --> 00:43:07,400
Speaker 1: but I just want to say, like, first thanks to

767
00:43:07,440 --> 00:43:11,279
Speaker 1: Ali for posting it and like reaching out, because I

768
00:43:11,280 --> 00:43:16,080
Speaker 1: I know that that mom was probably so grateful that

769
00:43:16,160 --> 00:43:19,680
Speaker 1: you even just acknowledge what was going on. And then

770
00:43:19,719 --> 00:43:21,319
Speaker 1: the fact that you were willing to share it, and

771
00:43:21,360 --> 00:43:24,600
Speaker 1: then the fact that our freaking scrubber showed up like

772
00:43:24,640 --> 00:43:28,480
Speaker 1: they always do, always do. It's just it's it's really

773
00:43:28,520 --> 00:43:31,480
Speaker 1: something else, Like it's really something else and so so special,

774
00:43:31,640 --> 00:43:36,680
Speaker 1: and we have to grow it. We have to grow it. Honestly,

775
00:43:36,680 --> 00:43:38,600
Speaker 1: I feel like we have to grow it, especially with

776
00:43:38,640 --> 00:43:41,000
Speaker 1: everything that's going on right now, you know what I mean.

777
00:43:41,040 --> 00:43:43,640
Speaker 1: And I just feel like negativity and toxicity is taking over.

778
00:43:44,360 --> 00:43:49,040
Speaker 1: We need to grow our community to fight against it. Yeah,

779
00:43:49,080 --> 00:43:55,200
Speaker 1: I mean they're doing it. The Little Engine that Could

780
00:43:55,719 --> 00:43:59,920
Speaker 1: is doing the most. Um so happy seventh birthday to live,

781
00:44:00,000 --> 00:44:04,920
Speaker 1: really happy birthday, Lily. Her birthday was October, so it's

782
00:44:04,920 --> 00:44:08,560
Speaker 1: already passed. But um and like I said, shout out

783
00:44:08,560 --> 00:44:12,280
Speaker 1: to Ali cook into the Scrubbers. Y'all are just the greatest.

784
00:44:12,440 --> 00:44:15,640
Speaker 1: We say it all the time, but those moments, I

785
00:44:15,719 --> 00:44:23,680
Speaker 1: really just feel the immense difference of this group versus

786
00:44:23,760 --> 00:44:30,040
Speaker 1: other social media groups and platforms. Thank you, Um, we

787
00:44:30,120 --> 00:44:32,839
Speaker 1: love you, Yeah, we love you. Also, I just I'm

788
00:44:32,840 --> 00:44:34,479
Speaker 1: not gonna I don't want to toot my own horn.

789
00:44:36,360 --> 00:44:38,520
Speaker 1: But I was really suspect about this cake that I

790
00:44:38,560 --> 00:44:41,080
Speaker 1: baked Rebecca, Like I was like I don't know. I

791
00:44:41,160 --> 00:44:43,279
Speaker 1: used like a different pan, and like all these things,

792
00:44:43,320 --> 00:44:47,479
Speaker 1: it is moist and delicious. It's so good. It's so

793
00:44:47,600 --> 00:44:49,920
Speaker 1: moist that I even hate the word moist. And I

794
00:44:49,960 --> 00:44:53,240
Speaker 1: was like, that was my first description. Because sprinkles didn't

795
00:44:53,360 --> 00:44:56,480
Speaker 1: The sprinkles didn't um like when you cut the cake.

796
00:44:56,480 --> 00:44:58,880
Speaker 1: The sprinkler is supposed to like shoot out like a volcano,

797
00:44:59,040 --> 00:45:02,759
Speaker 1: and it didn't quite do the trick. They didn't do that,

798
00:45:03,560 --> 00:45:06,880
Speaker 1: but it was pretty still had slowly trickled down like

799
00:45:07,000 --> 00:45:10,319
Speaker 1: little little water droplets. I know, for next time, just

800
00:45:10,360 --> 00:45:13,120
Speaker 1: to shove more in there. Yeah, I don't know if

801
00:45:13,160 --> 00:45:16,160
Speaker 1: you want them shooting out. That's why I got like

802
00:45:16,160 --> 00:45:19,960
Speaker 1: a big boat around the cave, shoot right out the boat.

803
00:45:22,080 --> 00:45:24,439
Speaker 1: Um oh wait Mark, before you start, by the way,

804
00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:29,440
Speaker 1: next week is uh what is the day texture X day?

805
00:45:29,440 --> 00:45:32,279
Speaker 1: I think it's actually on October, which is my birthday

806
00:45:32,480 --> 00:45:35,040
Speaker 1: Texture X, which is Friday, but we're gonna go ahead

807
00:45:35,080 --> 00:45:37,680
Speaker 1: and extend it to Monday, and we're both going to

808
00:45:37,760 --> 00:45:41,160
Speaker 1: be texting our exit. Do you know which acts you're

809
00:45:41,200 --> 00:45:46,560
Speaker 1: going to text? I really only have one, so it's

810
00:45:46,560 --> 00:45:50,560
Speaker 1: got to be the one. Shoot no list over there.

811
00:45:51,760 --> 00:45:54,880
Speaker 1: I mean, I I could do. I mean unless I

812
00:45:54,920 --> 00:45:57,239
Speaker 1: went with like Chris Souls or something. But as far

813
00:45:57,280 --> 00:46:02,799
Speaker 1: as options next, yeah, but who will you be? I

814
00:46:02,840 --> 00:46:05,240
Speaker 1: don't know. You know, it's interesting. I didn't really honestly,

815
00:46:05,280 --> 00:46:06,879
Speaker 1: like when they brought up I was like, yeah, sure,

816
00:46:06,920 --> 00:46:08,919
Speaker 1: sounds fun. And then today in our morning show meeting,

817
00:46:08,920 --> 00:46:11,239
Speaker 1: everybody's like, you know, that's lame. We don't want to

818
00:46:11,239 --> 00:46:17,560
Speaker 1: text our exes, and I was like, like, it's true.

819
00:46:17,800 --> 00:46:19,120
Speaker 1: So now I'm like, well, what if some of them

820
00:46:19,120 --> 00:46:20,680
Speaker 1: are married? Like maybe I don't want to go down

821
00:46:20,680 --> 00:46:23,960
Speaker 1: that path, so you don't want to cruise? Well, this

822
00:46:24,239 --> 00:46:27,840
Speaker 1: literally takes us back to our conversation last week about

823
00:46:27,880 --> 00:46:34,160
Speaker 1: texting or that y'all were so against me about maybe

824
00:46:34,200 --> 00:46:37,920
Speaker 1: we scrap it. It's a national holiday. Come on, you

825
00:46:37,960 --> 00:46:41,000
Speaker 1: know where's your text, your X spirit. If you decide

826
00:46:41,040 --> 00:46:43,400
Speaker 1: to do it, will you run it by your current partners? Yeah?

827
00:46:43,440 --> 00:46:45,719
Speaker 1: I mean i'd be respectful at least and say we're

828
00:46:45,840 --> 00:46:52,239
Speaker 1: doing as it's a holiday. Do you mind? I don't

829
00:46:52,280 --> 00:46:56,439
Speaker 1: forget the reason for the season. Yeah, the reason for

830
00:46:56,520 --> 00:46:59,560
Speaker 1: the season. I don't know, Maybe we scrap it. We'll

831
00:46:59,600 --> 00:47:02,360
Speaker 1: just see how I died to see if some of

832
00:47:02,400 --> 00:47:05,600
Speaker 1: mine are entwined. Well, try if you can find one

833
00:47:05,640 --> 00:47:08,799
Speaker 1: that's not entwined. Yeah, the one I was thinking of.

834
00:47:09,080 --> 00:47:13,440
Speaker 1: I have no idea. Who then I can tell you,

835
00:47:13,760 --> 00:47:15,920
Speaker 1: is this like an X that you went on a

836
00:47:15,920 --> 00:47:18,799
Speaker 1: few dates with? No, this is an X from like past,

837
00:47:18,800 --> 00:47:22,440
Speaker 1: like my first kiss. Oh we've had that guy on

838
00:47:22,440 --> 00:47:24,520
Speaker 1: the radio show. Yeah, but I don't know if he's

839
00:47:24,560 --> 00:47:31,040
Speaker 1: married or not. It feels it's not nice if he is. Yeah,

840
00:47:31,160 --> 00:47:33,480
Speaker 1: tis the reason for the season. Right. But then I'm like,

841
00:47:33,480 --> 00:47:35,160
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. Are we be in contradictory because

842
00:47:35,200 --> 00:47:37,200
Speaker 1: literally last week we were like, it's so bad to

843
00:47:37,200 --> 00:47:39,239
Speaker 1: text your X is like, you don't even go down that.

844
00:47:39,400 --> 00:47:41,759
Speaker 1: I mean, know what we said was you shouldn't text

845
00:47:41,760 --> 00:47:45,000
Speaker 1: your X. Hey, how you doing? You? Okay? I hear

846
00:47:45,000 --> 00:47:47,480
Speaker 1: you're having a baby, Like that's bad. That all struck

847
00:47:47,520 --> 00:47:50,040
Speaker 1: me as bad texting your X to say, Hey, it's

848
00:47:50,080 --> 00:47:53,359
Speaker 1: text your X day. How's it going. If you guys

849
00:47:53,360 --> 00:47:55,480
Speaker 1: don't want to do it, I'm totally fine with it.

850
00:47:55,520 --> 00:47:59,360
Speaker 1: I'm just saying it's different. Yeah, I agree, Yeah, I

851
00:47:59,360 --> 00:48:02,040
Speaker 1: think it's fun. I mean, you know, you know my

852
00:48:02,120 --> 00:48:07,680
Speaker 1: views on this. So this feels innocent enough in a

853
00:48:07,760 --> 00:48:13,839
Speaker 1: respectful way are all involved? Correct? Um? So okay, so

854
00:48:13,880 --> 00:48:20,000
Speaker 1: we may or may not be doing either way, you're

855
00:48:20,000 --> 00:48:23,960
Speaker 1: gonna get some great content. I would tune in anyway

856
00:48:23,960 --> 00:48:28,080
Speaker 1: to see what happened. Um okay, how about this? Okay,

857
00:48:28,120 --> 00:48:31,359
Speaker 1: if we don't decide to texture X texture X text

858
00:48:31,360 --> 00:48:36,680
Speaker 1: our xes, we could do something, uh like a little

859
00:48:36,760 --> 00:48:39,520
Speaker 1: racier or something. I don't know, think about it. She

860
00:48:39,600 --> 00:48:41,640
Speaker 1: I love how she acts like she had the idea.

861
00:48:41,680 --> 00:48:43,879
Speaker 1: I got us all locked in, and then she doesn't

862
00:48:43,920 --> 00:48:46,000
Speaker 1: really have the idea. I don't have it yet. But

863
00:48:46,200 --> 00:48:51,280
Speaker 1: a lot of balls turning in here, lots of things

864
00:48:51,400 --> 00:48:56,360
Speaker 1: orbiting around. Yes, yes, yes, alright. Email us from Lindsay.

865
00:48:56,480 --> 00:48:58,080
Speaker 1: I am three, three years old and I have a

866
00:48:58,120 --> 00:49:00,839
Speaker 1: physical disability called spine of it at us, same as

867
00:49:00,880 --> 00:49:03,759
Speaker 1: Zola on Gray's Anatomy. Thank you Lindsay for explaining that

868
00:49:03,800 --> 00:49:06,640
Speaker 1: to us in Gray's Anatomy terms. We get it now.

869
00:49:07,080 --> 00:49:08,480
Speaker 1: I have come to a point in my life where

870
00:49:08,480 --> 00:49:10,879
Speaker 1: I'm ready to move out of my parents house. I've

871
00:49:10,920 --> 00:49:13,200
Speaker 1: struggled for a long time looking for a full time

872
00:49:13,280 --> 00:49:15,120
Speaker 1: job and was lucky enough to find one about two

873
00:49:15,160 --> 00:49:18,120
Speaker 1: years ago. Because of my physical disability, my parents are

874
00:49:18,160 --> 00:49:20,440
Speaker 1: always worried about me. A few weeks ago, I had

875
00:49:20,440 --> 00:49:22,560
Speaker 1: a girl's week kid with my family. When I woke

876
00:49:22,640 --> 00:49:24,239
Speaker 1: up in the morning and opened the bedroom door, I

877
00:49:24,280 --> 00:49:26,759
Speaker 1: overheard my mom and aunt talking about how my mom

878
00:49:26,800 --> 00:49:29,480
Speaker 1: feels like I'm nowhere near being ready to move out.

879
00:49:30,160 --> 00:49:32,520
Speaker 1: I'm struggling with when to make that next stuff and

880
00:49:32,520 --> 00:49:35,720
Speaker 1: feeling somewhat stuck. What would you do? Would you start

881
00:49:35,719 --> 00:49:37,879
Speaker 1: the process now of looking for a place, or would

882
00:49:37,880 --> 00:49:40,160
Speaker 1: you take this time and work on yourself and start

883
00:49:40,200 --> 00:49:43,880
Speaker 1: the process six months from now. Um, I feel like

884
00:49:43,920 --> 00:49:46,279
Speaker 1: this is probably a little bit difficult for all of

885
00:49:46,360 --> 00:49:48,319
Speaker 1: us to answer, because I feel like you're in a

886
00:49:48,400 --> 00:49:53,800
Speaker 1: unique position of your parents obviously care about you and

887
00:49:53,840 --> 00:49:55,880
Speaker 1: they love you, and they don't want you to struggle

888
00:49:56,040 --> 00:49:59,160
Speaker 1: or do something that you're not ready for yet. But

889
00:50:00,040 --> 00:50:02,520
Speaker 1: at the same time, sometimes I think parents can be

890
00:50:02,560 --> 00:50:06,719
Speaker 1: a little um overprotective when it comes to making sure

891
00:50:06,760 --> 00:50:11,040
Speaker 1: that nothing happens to nothing bad happens to their kids. Mark,

892
00:50:11,200 --> 00:50:14,160
Speaker 1: you can correct me if I'm wrong. Absolutely right, especially

893
00:50:14,160 --> 00:50:17,960
Speaker 1: in this situation, they're going to be over protective naturally. Yeah, Yeah,

894
00:50:18,120 --> 00:50:21,279
Speaker 1: So I think you kind of have to. This is

895
00:50:21,360 --> 00:50:23,480
Speaker 1: something like a decision that you're gonna have to make

896
00:50:23,560 --> 00:50:26,600
Speaker 1: for yourself and not think about if your parents think

897
00:50:26,640 --> 00:50:28,960
Speaker 1: you're ready and focus on if you think you're ready

898
00:50:29,000 --> 00:50:30,640
Speaker 1: for it, because it will be a big step and

899
00:50:31,000 --> 00:50:34,200
Speaker 1: there will be discomfort, just like anyone moving out on

900
00:50:34,239 --> 00:50:36,359
Speaker 1: your own for the first time. It's exciting, but there

901
00:50:36,400 --> 00:50:39,680
Speaker 1: also is this sense of it's scary. It doesn't feel

902
00:50:39,680 --> 00:50:42,760
Speaker 1: as safe as like your old home with your parents.

903
00:50:42,840 --> 00:50:46,400
Speaker 1: And um. At the same time, though, if you if

904
00:50:46,440 --> 00:50:48,879
Speaker 1: you're like, Okay, I'm gonna really take time to work

905
00:50:48,880 --> 00:50:51,120
Speaker 1: on myself so I know what I need to do

906
00:50:51,320 --> 00:50:54,839
Speaker 1: to feel ready and to maybe make my parents prove

907
00:50:54,880 --> 00:50:57,520
Speaker 1: to my parents that I am more comfortable and ready.

908
00:50:57,560 --> 00:51:01,000
Speaker 1: But I think it's all it's going to come from you. Yeah,

909
00:51:01,040 --> 00:51:02,400
Speaker 1: I think so too. I think at the end of

910
00:51:02,400 --> 00:51:06,040
Speaker 1: the day, everybody, everybody in your life has an opinion

911
00:51:06,040 --> 00:51:08,799
Speaker 1: on what you should and shouldn't do, regardless of what

912
00:51:08,840 --> 00:51:12,040
Speaker 1: it is moving out like just everything, UM, and I

913
00:51:12,040 --> 00:51:15,120
Speaker 1: think it's important to take everybody's advice and hear people

914
00:51:15,160 --> 00:51:17,040
Speaker 1: out because obviously they love you and want the best

915
00:51:17,080 --> 00:51:18,480
Speaker 1: for you. But at the end of the day, you

916
00:51:18,800 --> 00:51:21,600
Speaker 1: also need to kind of go with your gut and

917
00:51:21,640 --> 00:51:23,239
Speaker 1: if that's a step that you're ready to take it

918
00:51:23,360 --> 00:51:25,920
Speaker 1: a step that you want to take, like, know that

919
00:51:26,800 --> 00:51:30,920
Speaker 1: you are fully equipped to make that decision for yourself,

920
00:51:31,120 --> 00:51:33,600
Speaker 1: and I have no doubt, like you're gonna land on

921
00:51:33,640 --> 00:51:37,719
Speaker 1: your feet. Your parents are never ever going to think

922
00:51:37,719 --> 00:51:40,200
Speaker 1: you're ready because they're not ready, and they're never going

923
00:51:40,239 --> 00:51:42,600
Speaker 1: to be ready. They've been they've been looking after you

924
00:51:42,640 --> 00:51:44,480
Speaker 1: and trying to keep you safe for thirty three years.

925
00:51:44,520 --> 00:51:46,759
Speaker 1: They're never going to think it's the right time. So

926
00:51:46,800 --> 00:51:51,880
Speaker 1: when you do, that's what it's time. And it sounds

927
00:51:51,880 --> 00:51:54,640
Speaker 1: like your parents are always going to be there to

928
00:51:54,719 --> 00:51:57,520
Speaker 1: help you totally you need to help. So don't think

929
00:51:57,560 --> 00:51:59,600
Speaker 1: that once you move out, you never need your parents

930
00:51:59,640 --> 00:52:02,560
Speaker 1: to get because that's not how it works. Yeah. I

931
00:52:02,560 --> 00:52:05,200
Speaker 1: always think that too, Like when you think about big decisions,

932
00:52:05,239 --> 00:52:07,080
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, and they're like they're so final,

933
00:52:07,800 --> 00:52:09,040
Speaker 1: and then it's like, at the end of the day,

934
00:52:09,080 --> 00:52:10,759
Speaker 1: you have your friends and your family that are there

935
00:52:10,800 --> 00:52:12,319
Speaker 1: to pick you up in case you fall. You know,

936
00:52:13,800 --> 00:52:18,440
Speaker 1: it's true, it is true. Wait, what was the election thing? All? Right?

937
00:52:18,560 --> 00:52:21,360
Speaker 1: So I know that we're one week away from election

938
00:52:21,480 --> 00:52:24,279
Speaker 1: day and and everyone says, hey, you gotta vote, and

939
00:52:24,280 --> 00:52:25,920
Speaker 1: make sure you vote everybody vote. And I know it's

940
00:52:25,920 --> 00:52:28,160
Speaker 1: cliche and it sounds trite at this point, and you're

941
00:52:28,160 --> 00:52:29,880
Speaker 1: sick of hearing it. So I tried to come up

942
00:52:29,880 --> 00:52:32,759
Speaker 1: with something that would maybe make it resonate a little more,

943
00:52:32,840 --> 00:52:35,600
Speaker 1: because it is really important to me that everybody votes.

944
00:52:36,480 --> 00:52:39,279
Speaker 1: There there's a kind of a wrap on America, kind

945
00:52:39,280 --> 00:52:41,640
Speaker 1: of a thing people complain about in America that America

946
00:52:41,719 --> 00:52:47,200
Speaker 1: works best for old, rich white dudes, especially old rich

947
00:52:47,520 --> 00:52:51,640
Speaker 1: white straight Christian dudes. Like if you're that, you're gonna

948
00:52:51,719 --> 00:52:53,920
Speaker 1: live a good life and nothing bad is gonna go

949
00:52:54,040 --> 00:52:57,719
Speaker 1: wrong for you ever. Really, so there's a reason for that.

950
00:52:58,120 --> 00:53:01,520
Speaker 1: Those people vote every time. Every time there's an election.

951
00:53:01,520 --> 00:53:03,600
Speaker 1: If you hear there's a fifteen percent turnout, it was

952
00:53:03,680 --> 00:53:06,680
Speaker 1: all old white dudes voting. So the point of this is,

953
00:53:06,719 --> 00:53:08,319
Speaker 1: I know you're sick of it all and you just

954
00:53:08,360 --> 00:53:10,719
Speaker 1: want this season to be over because it's been brutal.

955
00:53:11,480 --> 00:53:13,839
Speaker 1: I'm one of those people. I'm one of those people. Yes,

956
00:53:13,960 --> 00:53:16,040
Speaker 1: I can't wait for it to be done, but also

957
00:53:16,080 --> 00:53:18,320
Speaker 1: scared for it to be done. Well, that's true. Yeah,

958
00:53:18,360 --> 00:53:22,760
Speaker 1: But if you're a woman or transgender or non binary,

959
00:53:22,880 --> 00:53:26,560
Speaker 1: or if you're not rich, or you're young, or you're

960
00:53:26,800 --> 00:53:30,600
Speaker 1: not straight. It is really it is most important that

961
00:53:30,719 --> 00:53:33,440
Speaker 1: you vote because the only way we'll ever get to

962
00:53:33,480 --> 00:53:38,800
Speaker 1: a place where America works for everybody is if everybody votes. Also,

963
00:53:38,920 --> 00:53:41,360
Speaker 1: I know that, like if you're a Trump supporter in

964
00:53:41,400 --> 00:53:44,279
Speaker 1: California or a Biden supporter in Alabama, you feel like, well,

965
00:53:44,320 --> 00:53:46,279
Speaker 1: it's not gonna make any difference who's gonna win my state.

966
00:53:46,360 --> 00:53:50,960
Speaker 1: It doesn't matter governors, representatives, city council, school board is

967
00:53:51,000 --> 00:53:54,040
Speaker 1: a big one in my area. All these propositions, they

968
00:53:54,080 --> 00:53:56,319
Speaker 1: will affect your life in some way. And you have

969
00:53:56,400 --> 00:53:59,200
Speaker 1: a strong opinion on something, I know you do something

970
00:53:59,239 --> 00:54:01,279
Speaker 1: you're really path shoot it about. You got to go

971
00:54:01,320 --> 00:54:03,000
Speaker 1: out and make your voice heard because the people who

972
00:54:03,120 --> 00:54:07,040
Speaker 1: disagree with you on that, they're definitely voting. That's what

973
00:54:07,120 --> 00:54:09,480
Speaker 1: I wanted to say. I think I'm so glad you

974
00:54:09,480 --> 00:54:11,640
Speaker 1: said that because it's so true. I think we're all

975
00:54:11,719 --> 00:54:15,879
Speaker 1: it's just it's been so tense and heavy and you're

976
00:54:15,960 --> 00:54:19,479
Speaker 1: just hearing vote everywhere. But there's a reason why people

977
00:54:19,520 --> 00:54:21,720
Speaker 1: are saying it. It's because a lot of the times

978
00:54:22,000 --> 00:54:24,440
Speaker 1: people don't go out and vote. And I've always been

979
00:54:24,480 --> 00:54:26,960
Speaker 1: one of those people who just kind of went kind

980
00:54:26,960 --> 00:54:29,960
Speaker 1: of guess who I was voting for, not even realizing

981
00:54:30,000 --> 00:54:33,960
Speaker 1: how significant it is that, you know, not just the president.

982
00:54:34,000 --> 00:54:39,840
Speaker 1: I mean that alone is very important and please educate yourself.

983
00:54:39,920 --> 00:54:41,600
Speaker 1: And I know, but I do think a lot of

984
00:54:41,640 --> 00:54:44,160
Speaker 1: people think, like, oh, I don't really want either of them,

985
00:54:44,239 --> 00:54:50,680
Speaker 1: so because there's so much to the ballot, you know

986
00:54:50,680 --> 00:54:52,279
Speaker 1: what I mean, Like there's so much more to be

987
00:54:52,400 --> 00:54:55,440
Speaker 1: voting for, Like it's not it's not just I mean,

988
00:54:55,440 --> 00:54:58,120
Speaker 1: obviously the president is a huge part of it, but

989
00:54:58,200 --> 00:55:02,960
Speaker 1: it's not just that. Yeah, and um I but also

990
00:55:03,080 --> 00:55:05,160
Speaker 1: it's like I'm after this, I'm going home and I'm

991
00:55:05,200 --> 00:55:08,560
Speaker 1: literally going to study all the things that I'm that

992
00:55:08,640 --> 00:55:12,040
Speaker 1: I'm able to vote for in my area, my state,

993
00:55:12,120 --> 00:55:15,200
Speaker 1: Like I'm not just you know, voting for the president

994
00:55:15,239 --> 00:55:18,640
Speaker 1: and then moving on, Like you really do have a

995
00:55:18,800 --> 00:55:21,920
Speaker 1: say in what's going on around you, and we're so

996
00:55:22,040 --> 00:55:25,320
Speaker 1: lucky and that we get to have the privilege of

997
00:55:25,440 --> 00:55:29,239
Speaker 1: voting and the right to vote, and um, like if

998
00:55:29,280 --> 00:55:31,680
Speaker 1: you have the opportunity to take advantage of that, because

999
00:55:32,080 --> 00:55:36,480
Speaker 1: not everyone has that that opportunity for sure, and I

1000
00:55:36,480 --> 00:55:38,200
Speaker 1: know you're gonna spend the day doing this backt but

1001
00:55:38,239 --> 00:55:39,960
Speaker 1: I also don't want it to feel like homework and

1002
00:55:40,000 --> 00:55:42,839
Speaker 1: studying because people are really going to avoid it there too,

1003
00:55:42,840 --> 00:55:45,200
Speaker 1: And so what I recommend to people, there's so many

1004
00:55:45,320 --> 00:55:48,799
Speaker 1: endorsements online. Find a group that you trust and agree with.

1005
00:55:49,320 --> 00:55:52,400
Speaker 1: They will guide you along the propositions they support and

1006
00:55:52,400 --> 00:55:54,360
Speaker 1: the people they support. And that way you don't have

1007
00:55:54,400 --> 00:55:57,520
Speaker 1: to spend an entire day pouring over this and studying

1008
00:55:57,560 --> 00:56:01,080
Speaker 1: all this stuff. And because it's a lot, no no, no, yeah,

1009
00:56:01,120 --> 00:56:04,040
Speaker 1: I have little cheat sheets of like different propositions and

1010
00:56:04,160 --> 00:56:06,919
Speaker 1: what they mean. I can't. I tried to sit down

1011
00:56:06,920 --> 00:56:08,920
Speaker 1: and read the Information Guide and I was like, for

1012
00:56:09,040 --> 00:56:12,080
Speaker 1: a chance, and this is getting me anywhere. But like

1013
00:56:12,120 --> 00:56:15,960
Speaker 1: Mark said, there's so much information on social media. Ful

1014
00:56:16,080 --> 00:56:19,359
Speaker 1: like find the people that you respect there, the people

1015
00:56:19,360 --> 00:56:21,960
Speaker 1: in your family. Like my mom is all into this,

1016
00:56:22,080 --> 00:56:24,960
Speaker 1: like she's so like well educated. So I asked her

1017
00:56:25,000 --> 00:56:27,600
Speaker 1: about so many of the props, like what is this

1018
00:56:28,800 --> 00:56:33,719
Speaker 1: She's like you want yes, I'm like, okay, but she's right,

1019
00:56:33,760 --> 00:56:35,720
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, because we have our values

1020
00:56:35,719 --> 00:56:39,120
Speaker 1: and our you know, are very similar. So yeah, it's

1021
00:56:39,120 --> 00:56:41,359
Speaker 1: true though, but I know we're all feeling the same way.

1022
00:56:41,400 --> 00:56:45,960
Speaker 1: No one's like, no one stoked about this time, right,

1023
00:56:46,000 --> 00:56:50,120
Speaker 1: now it's been pretty dark intense. Though, after you do it,

1024
00:56:50,239 --> 00:56:59,680
Speaker 1: go find something exciting, lighthearted and heartwarming to cleanse your palate. Seriously,

1025
00:57:00,080 --> 00:57:05,640
Speaker 1: here I go, Seriously, Saturday, was it Saturday? Uh? My

1026
00:57:05,719 --> 00:57:08,040
Speaker 1: girlfriend was just like driving back from a lunch she

1027
00:57:08,080 --> 00:57:09,319
Speaker 1: had and we were on the phone and she got

1028
00:57:09,360 --> 00:57:12,040
Speaker 1: stuck in like a Trump rally and I could like

1029
00:57:12,120 --> 00:57:13,320
Speaker 1: hear it was on the phone with her. I like

1030
00:57:13,360 --> 00:57:16,320
Speaker 1: here and it was so gnarly, and I'm on my

1031
00:57:16,400 --> 00:57:19,200
Speaker 1: run and my son run and I like think I

1032
00:57:19,240 --> 00:57:22,720
Speaker 1: have COVID because I'm like, you know that feeling where

1033
00:57:23,240 --> 00:57:25,840
Speaker 1: you drink a lot of coffee, Um, you haven't eaten,

1034
00:57:25,880 --> 00:57:28,320
Speaker 1: so you just feel like there's like weird, like jittery,

1035
00:57:28,360 --> 00:57:31,160
Speaker 1: but like super tired. Like I was just drained. And

1036
00:57:31,200 --> 00:57:33,760
Speaker 1: I was like I have corona, Like I'm running by

1037
00:57:33,800 --> 00:57:36,560
Speaker 1: a Biden rally and like all this is going on

1038
00:57:36,640 --> 00:57:38,720
Speaker 1: matter of like ten minutes, and I just like freak out.

1039
00:57:38,760 --> 00:57:40,080
Speaker 1: I was like I need to go home and like

1040
00:57:40,160 --> 00:57:42,320
Speaker 1: sit on my couch and gather my thoughts. I get

1041
00:57:42,320 --> 00:57:43,880
Speaker 1: on my phone, I look at my calendar and I'm

1042
00:57:43,920 --> 00:57:46,440
Speaker 1: like I'm about to get my periods. So that's what

1043
00:57:46,480 --> 00:57:48,120
Speaker 1: this feeling is but it's like, you know what, I

1044
00:57:48,520 --> 00:57:50,440
Speaker 1: think everything is just adding to it and you just

1045
00:57:50,440 --> 00:57:52,360
Speaker 1: get in your head of like I like, fully was

1046
00:57:52,360 --> 00:57:54,120
Speaker 1: gonna go get tested. She was like, just go get tested,

1047
00:57:54,120 --> 00:57:56,080
Speaker 1: and so you have it and I was like, I'm

1048
00:57:56,120 --> 00:57:58,160
Speaker 1: gonna go st to the couch and like, you know,

1049
00:57:58,280 --> 00:58:00,200
Speaker 1: I didn't. The coffee didn't have any other symptoms. The

1050
00:58:00,560 --> 00:58:03,120
Speaker 1: draining tired was like plaguing me, and I was like,

1051
00:58:03,280 --> 00:58:07,120
Speaker 1: it's COVID. I got it. Who yesterday, I've had several

1052
00:58:07,200 --> 00:58:11,560
Speaker 1: COVID scares. It's all draining though, Like all of this

1053
00:58:11,680 --> 00:58:17,160
Speaker 1: is so emotionally and physically draining, you know. And I

1054
00:58:17,160 --> 00:58:19,240
Speaker 1: I don't know if we've talked about this, but if

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Speaker 1: you haven't watched The Social Dilemma on Netflix, I highly

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Speaker 1: recommend it because it's very eye opening too, not only

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Speaker 1: how toxic social media can be in the sense of

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Speaker 1: you know, like young people in the comparison and all that,

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Speaker 1: but they were saying the political like division that it's

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Speaker 1: cause it's made people, not even it's it's almost it's

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Speaker 1: like tearing apart friendships and relationships and families because it's

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Speaker 1: so geared towards one side either way on social media

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Speaker 1: because that's how they get you to pay attention, and um,

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Speaker 1: I found it to be very eye opening and also

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Speaker 1: kind of like to put my phone down person. Do

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Speaker 1: you know that I've been So I've been going to

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Speaker 1: bed with my phone on airplane mode lately, and it's

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Speaker 1: been helping me a lot, because you know, I've been

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Speaker 1: having some trouble sleeping lately, and I've just been trying

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Speaker 1: to just do like again, I don't want to take anything,

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Speaker 1: so I'm trying to do like natural things. Uh, and

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Speaker 1: one of them is putting my phone on air That's

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Speaker 1: why I texted you Mark the other night and was like,

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Speaker 1: I don't even know what. I asked something about work,

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Speaker 1: but because I have like my schedule and so I

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Speaker 1: just want to make sure my schedules the same for

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Speaker 1: the next day. So I'm like, I'm going on airplane

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Speaker 1: when nobody can reach me. So you don't normally put

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Speaker 1: it on do not Disturb or anything when you go

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Speaker 1: to bed. No, never, it doesn't wake me and my

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Speaker 1: phone doesn't wake me up. But there's this weird sense

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Speaker 1: of like knowing that nobody can get through to me.

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Speaker 1: I'm not like thinking about checking my phone. Does that

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Speaker 1: make sense. It's like a weird mental thing. So I mean,

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Speaker 1: obviously set my alarm for really early, and I think

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Speaker 1: I actually have you. Mark is one of my people

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Speaker 1: that can get through to me. Thank you. I'm one

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Speaker 1: of your favorites. Yeah yea um, but yeah, I've been

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Speaker 1: doing that the past couple of nights and it's been

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Speaker 1: really help me sleep. Okay, last thing before we go,

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Speaker 1: So last night, watch this movie. This new movie on

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Speaker 1: Netflix is called Over the Moon. I thought you were

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Speaker 1: gonna say it with the one I watched. What do

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Speaker 1: you watch? Love guaranteed? Watch that? Okay. This is like

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Speaker 1: an animated movie. It's has anyone heard of this? Over

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Speaker 1: the Moon? Okay? So the movie is very emotional. It's

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Speaker 1: about this girl whose mom like passes away of cancer

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Speaker 1: and then she's trying to get to the moon because

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Speaker 1: there's like someone up there that can grant her a wish.

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Speaker 1: And then she finds out the whole point of the

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Speaker 1: I guess I won't tell you. It's a very emotional movie.

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Speaker 1: And then we found out we were like reading it

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Speaker 1: up on it to see like where the story came from.

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Speaker 1: And I guess the screenwriter also when she was she

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Speaker 1: was going through cancer when she was writing it, and

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Speaker 1: she wrote it for her daughter as a way for

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Speaker 1: her daughter to watch it and be able to like,

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Speaker 1: oh my gosh, move on, you know, like process her death.

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Speaker 1: And I mean we were both just so Haley were

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Speaker 1: I don't think I can handle that right now. Like honestly,

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Speaker 1: I don't think I can handle that right now. It's

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Speaker 1: so sweet and like it's such a it's so well done.

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Speaker 1: It literally was just the cutest little surprise of a

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Speaker 1: movie to watch. Well, if if you are, if you're

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Speaker 1: on the flip side like I, and you can't, I

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Speaker 1: just can't cry, Like I can't. I cook can't watch

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Speaker 1: that right now. Maybe give me a month and I'll

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Speaker 1: watch it. Um and you need just some lighthearted rom com.

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Speaker 1: Love Guaranteed was the cute, like the cheesiest, cutest movie.

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Speaker 1: I literally watched it and was just like quoting it

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Speaker 1: the whole next day. It was so freaking cute. I

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Speaker 1: want to watch it again. It made me feel so

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Speaker 1: good inside. It's not gonna spoil it, but like you're

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Speaker 1: gonna say it's cheesy. That makes me kind of nervous,

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Speaker 1: Like if you're admitting that it's cheesy, well, I know,

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Speaker 1: but it's not. I don't think you would think it

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Speaker 1: was too cheesy. It's just the right amount of cheese,

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Speaker 1: like a lifetime movie. No, no, no, no, like um

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Speaker 1: uh like, how is it going to days? Oh that's

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Speaker 1: a cheesy it's a little cheesy Little Monster Law. Oh

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Speaker 1: you always bring up Monster in Law? Yes it is.

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Speaker 1: You need a little giggle on your day. That's a

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Speaker 1: good movie to throw on. No, I throw on How

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Speaker 1: to Lose You Anton Day's or The Wedding Planners a

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Speaker 1: good one. Um, well, after the Wedding, I need to

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Speaker 1: watch one of those tonight. That's that's what I need tonight.

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Speaker 1: Oh well, after that thrilling movie review from the two

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Speaker 1: of us, I think we're gonna have to call it

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Speaker 1: quits until next Monday, where we may or may not

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Speaker 1: text our X and if we do not, we're gonna

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Speaker 1: get We'll do truth or a surprise truth or drink

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Speaker 1: or something. I'm gonna think of something. I'm gonna think

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Speaker 1: of something out of the box. Okay, okay, until then,

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Speaker 1: have a great week. We love you, Um go vote

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Speaker 1: and we'll see you next or we'll we won't see you.

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Speaker 1: We'll see each other, but we'll talk to you next

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Speaker 1: week and we love you guys as always. Y'all are

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Speaker 1: the best. M m hm