1 00:00:00,280 --> 00:00:13,480 Speaker 1: The Knickkkei Gliser podcast O n Glasers Hello, Oh sorry, hello. 2 00:00:13,600 --> 00:00:16,720 Speaker 1: I don't know why I did that. I was like 3 00:00:17,200 --> 00:00:19,520 Speaker 1: expecting you to do it, and then I was like, wait, 4 00:00:19,600 --> 00:00:20,480 Speaker 1: you should be talking. 5 00:00:21,360 --> 00:00:24,400 Speaker 2: It's like my brain just did it. It's it's labor day. 6 00:00:24,440 --> 00:00:27,560 Speaker 1: Still, It's fine. Can it still be labor day? Does 7 00:00:27,560 --> 00:00:31,200 Speaker 1: anyone else feel like it wasn't long enough? Yes? It 8 00:00:31,320 --> 00:00:35,279 Speaker 1: was so one more day. It was so nice. I 9 00:00:35,360 --> 00:00:39,360 Speaker 1: slept in from set, I got back from a gig 10 00:00:39,400 --> 00:00:42,559 Speaker 1: on Sunday, went to bed at eleven, woke up yesterday 11 00:00:42,680 --> 00:00:47,919 Speaker 1: twelve thirty five. Wow, it was awesome. I woke up 12 00:00:47,960 --> 00:00:50,440 Speaker 1: around nine, you know, and just was like, no, not 13 00:00:50,560 --> 00:00:52,559 Speaker 1: doing it. Chris was taking care of the dog. He 14 00:00:52,600 --> 00:00:55,800 Speaker 1: was already up. I knew that was happening, and yeah, 15 00:00:55,840 --> 00:00:59,360 Speaker 1: it was just it was delightful. Did I feel guilty 16 00:00:59,480 --> 00:01:01,600 Speaker 1: and feel like shit the rest of the day, You 17 00:01:01,720 --> 00:01:05,679 Speaker 1: know it, you know it. But I still loved it 18 00:01:05,840 --> 00:01:07,959 Speaker 1: so much. I'm just I'm like in my sleep era 19 00:01:08,080 --> 00:01:09,720 Speaker 1: right now. I feel like there's a lot of work 20 00:01:09,760 --> 00:01:13,640 Speaker 1: coming up, and I'm just hibernating, trying to like reserve 21 00:01:14,080 --> 00:01:16,040 Speaker 1: get all that, even though that's not how sleep works. 22 00:01:16,080 --> 00:01:19,640 Speaker 1: And we all know that just trying to rest anytime 23 00:01:20,080 --> 00:01:25,200 Speaker 1: I can, saying no to literally everything, everything that's coming 24 00:01:25,240 --> 00:01:27,679 Speaker 1: in besides things that you know I have to do 25 00:01:28,120 --> 00:01:31,080 Speaker 1: and have committed to. That's a new thing. I'm loving that. 26 00:01:31,800 --> 00:01:34,360 Speaker 1: Just knocked a post thing off the wall. Saying no 27 00:01:34,480 --> 00:01:36,520 Speaker 1: to that. It says, put me back up, not gone. 28 00:01:36,560 --> 00:01:38,520 Speaker 1: I actually I want to because it's like my OCD 29 00:01:39,080 --> 00:01:41,280 Speaker 1: like and it's velcro. It should go back up. Sorry 30 00:01:41,319 --> 00:01:44,360 Speaker 1: you guys, if you're not watching the YouTube version, I 31 00:01:44,440 --> 00:01:46,200 Speaker 1: just knocked am. 32 00:01:45,600 --> 00:01:48,280 Speaker 3: Off the wall, gone off the chain. Now she's off 33 00:01:48,280 --> 00:01:48,720 Speaker 3: the rails. 34 00:01:48,720 --> 00:01:52,200 Speaker 1: I mean she's I'm so off the rails, guys. Enjoy 35 00:01:52,240 --> 00:01:52,760 Speaker 1: your weekend. 36 00:01:53,120 --> 00:01:58,640 Speaker 3: I waver between enjoying holidays and despising holidays, depending on 37 00:01:58,720 --> 00:02:01,320 Speaker 3: whether I'm trying to be product or not. I remember like, 38 00:02:01,480 --> 00:02:04,320 Speaker 3: oh yeah, if I'm trying to be productive and it's 39 00:02:04,400 --> 00:02:06,800 Speaker 3: like I need to go to the post office or 40 00:02:06,840 --> 00:02:08,359 Speaker 3: I need to go to the bank, or I need 41 00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:10,920 Speaker 3: people to like respond to an email, and then I 42 00:02:10,960 --> 00:02:14,440 Speaker 3: look and it's like Memorial Day. Yeah, I'm like, why 43 00:02:14,480 --> 00:02:16,200 Speaker 3: the fuck do we have this day off? Even though 44 00:02:16,200 --> 00:02:17,440 Speaker 3: obviously there's good reasons for. 45 00:02:17,440 --> 00:02:19,160 Speaker 2: It to vision you want to get shipped done. 46 00:02:19,320 --> 00:02:21,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, but then there are times when it's like I 47 00:02:21,840 --> 00:02:23,680 Speaker 3: just want to relax, I just need a break. And 48 00:02:23,680 --> 00:02:25,960 Speaker 3: then I look at it and just like a random Wednesday, 49 00:02:25,960 --> 00:02:28,080 Speaker 3: and I'm like, why do we have this to work today? 50 00:02:28,840 --> 00:02:31,079 Speaker 3: So it really is they should have arranged the holidays 51 00:02:31,080 --> 00:02:33,239 Speaker 3: around when I'm trying to be productive, is my point. 52 00:02:33,600 --> 00:02:36,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, I I forget that things are closed in people, 53 00:02:36,480 --> 00:02:39,840 Speaker 1: but things aren't closed, is the thing. Everyone's working, everything's open, 54 00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:43,799 Speaker 1: everything's disgruntled working on Labor Day as. 55 00:02:43,680 --> 00:02:46,399 Speaker 3: They shouldst society has gone out of control. 56 00:02:47,240 --> 00:02:50,960 Speaker 1: It's it's out of control. 57 00:02:50,760 --> 00:02:54,200 Speaker 3: Working from home. We thought that because we're working from home, 58 00:02:54,240 --> 00:02:56,600 Speaker 3: we're gonna have to work less. No, that just means 59 00:02:56,639 --> 00:02:58,239 Speaker 3: you're working twenty four to seven. 60 00:02:58,639 --> 00:03:00,799 Speaker 2: We all know that this is killing us. 61 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:05,560 Speaker 1: And like the greed and the overachieving and trying to 62 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:09,520 Speaker 1: in the hustle culture and proving everyone that we're doing 63 00:03:09,560 --> 00:03:13,000 Speaker 1: things the grind set, just proving that, just proving to 64 00:03:13,080 --> 00:03:15,360 Speaker 1: everyone that we're working so hard. 65 00:03:16,040 --> 00:03:17,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, we all know that it's like not. 66 00:03:17,840 --> 00:03:20,840 Speaker 3: Good for you to get your ice bath today, exactly, 67 00:03:21,200 --> 00:03:22,720 Speaker 3: you got your ice bath five am. 68 00:03:22,880 --> 00:03:25,640 Speaker 1: Even relaxing, that's something self care and that is hard 69 00:03:25,720 --> 00:03:28,480 Speaker 1: like an ice bath is hell, like self care is 70 00:03:28,520 --> 00:03:31,480 Speaker 1: now turning into work too. Now yeah, to suffer and 71 00:03:31,520 --> 00:03:32,840 Speaker 1: shiver in a shower. 72 00:03:33,040 --> 00:03:35,600 Speaker 3: My shock demat, Yeah you are. 73 00:03:36,040 --> 00:03:40,200 Speaker 1: You are trying to lay for your overall well being. 74 00:03:40,200 --> 00:03:41,240 Speaker 1: You lay on spikes. 75 00:03:41,440 --> 00:03:43,800 Speaker 3: Yes, I lay on spikes for thirty minutes before bed 76 00:03:43,840 --> 00:03:45,080 Speaker 3: each day, each night. 77 00:03:45,320 --> 00:03:48,720 Speaker 1: What happened until twelve thirty five on a Sunday? 78 00:03:48,880 --> 00:03:52,040 Speaker 3: Even the nineties anymore? Nikki? This isn't the stoner era? 79 00:03:52,880 --> 00:03:54,720 Speaker 3: You a slacker? 80 00:03:55,200 --> 00:03:55,640 Speaker 1: Yeah? 81 00:03:56,000 --> 00:03:57,320 Speaker 3: Man, it used to be cool. 82 00:03:57,560 --> 00:03:57,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, I know. 83 00:03:58,280 --> 00:04:00,680 Speaker 4: I have a new rule. I think it's like it 84 00:04:00,760 --> 00:04:02,400 Speaker 4: came with a age. Okay, okay. 85 00:04:02,600 --> 00:04:03,880 Speaker 1: Now rule is. 86 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:10,280 Speaker 4: I don't like doing anything strenuous a day before work starts, 87 00:04:10,320 --> 00:04:13,600 Speaker 4: So like Sundays for me, I will not travel. I 88 00:04:13,640 --> 00:04:16,520 Speaker 4: will not do anything ambitious like a big hike or 89 00:04:17,040 --> 00:04:20,520 Speaker 4: sight seeing or anything crazy like that, like dinner, party 90 00:04:20,640 --> 00:04:24,039 Speaker 4: or anything like that. Sundays are just for doing nothing, 91 00:04:24,320 --> 00:04:26,520 Speaker 4: literal nothing, getting ready for my life. 92 00:04:26,520 --> 00:04:28,200 Speaker 1: When the girl's chat, I even went to the park 93 00:04:28,240 --> 00:04:29,560 Speaker 1: to I always go to the park with my dog. 94 00:04:29,560 --> 00:04:31,280 Speaker 1: It's very easy. It makes me feel like I've done something. 95 00:04:31,279 --> 00:04:32,920 Speaker 1: I throw the ball three times. She's worn out and 96 00:04:32,920 --> 00:04:36,159 Speaker 1: then we leave and it's near my house. It's so easy, 97 00:04:36,720 --> 00:04:38,000 Speaker 1: but it makes you feel. 98 00:04:37,760 --> 00:04:38,760 Speaker 2: So much like I've done something. 99 00:04:38,800 --> 00:04:40,960 Speaker 1: It literally takes fifteen minutes between when I leave the 100 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:42,760 Speaker 1: door and I enter back into my apartment. 101 00:04:42,839 --> 00:04:43,640 Speaker 2: It's so easy. 102 00:04:43,760 --> 00:04:45,279 Speaker 1: But I was at the park and I saw a 103 00:04:45,279 --> 00:04:47,359 Speaker 1: guy like flying a kite with his son, and it 104 00:04:47,480 --> 00:04:50,880 Speaker 1: infuriated me because I was like, I can't prob why 105 00:04:50,880 --> 00:04:52,839 Speaker 1: does anyone want to do that? Even though I loved 106 00:04:52,839 --> 00:04:54,440 Speaker 1: flying kites as a kid and we would go up 107 00:04:54,440 --> 00:04:56,040 Speaker 1: to Depara Park all the time with my dad and 108 00:04:56,080 --> 00:04:58,000 Speaker 1: fly kites. And I was so grateful that he wanted 109 00:04:58,040 --> 00:04:59,840 Speaker 1: to do that and was like so game for it, 110 00:05:00,040 --> 00:05:02,800 Speaker 1: and but I was just like I would never want 111 00:05:02,839 --> 00:05:04,240 Speaker 1: to do that now. And then it made me mad 112 00:05:04,240 --> 00:05:06,200 Speaker 1: at myself, like why can't I be someone who wants 113 00:05:06,200 --> 00:05:09,240 Speaker 1: to show a child the world? And I had a 114 00:05:09,320 --> 00:05:11,640 Speaker 1: dream I was pregnant this weekend, and I kind of 115 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:14,039 Speaker 1: like liked being pregnant because I just was like ha haa 116 00:05:14,040 --> 00:05:16,120 Speaker 1: everyone that thought I couldn't do it, like it was 117 00:05:16,240 --> 00:05:19,880 Speaker 1: just a me showing off that I could do I honestly. 118 00:05:19,920 --> 00:05:22,440 Speaker 3: Number three three type, what. 119 00:05:22,320 --> 00:05:25,880 Speaker 1: Do you mean a pregnant just to be like yeah, 120 00:05:25,920 --> 00:05:27,919 Speaker 1: I can do it too, or just like you know, 121 00:05:28,000 --> 00:05:30,360 Speaker 1: like and because I know it is such a physically 122 00:05:30,560 --> 00:05:34,760 Speaker 1: exhausting and difficult thing to even achieve first of all, 123 00:05:34,960 --> 00:05:37,279 Speaker 1: and there's like some kind of like superiority that women 124 00:05:37,320 --> 00:05:42,560 Speaker 1: who can conceive naturally feel that is is wrong and 125 00:05:42,600 --> 00:05:45,560 Speaker 1: I'm not perpetuating that, but it's in our culture that 126 00:05:45,839 --> 00:05:48,000 Speaker 1: feel like shame if you can't conceive. 127 00:05:48,080 --> 00:05:49,080 Speaker 2: And so there was part of that. 128 00:05:49,000 --> 00:05:51,720 Speaker 1: Of like I probably could conceive at forty and a 129 00:05:51,760 --> 00:05:53,919 Speaker 1: half years old, and like so I think in my brain, 130 00:05:54,080 --> 00:05:56,320 Speaker 1: but then I don't. I didn't want to do anything. 131 00:05:56,440 --> 00:05:58,440 Speaker 1: I just wanted to be pregnant and like show everyone. 132 00:05:58,560 --> 00:05:59,919 Speaker 1: But that was that was it, and I got to 133 00:06:00,240 --> 00:06:01,560 Speaker 1: do it in my dream, and that was enough for me. 134 00:06:01,920 --> 00:06:04,880 Speaker 1: And I don't think it's some dying like this like 135 00:06:04,960 --> 00:06:06,960 Speaker 1: secret wish of mine to be a mother. I don't 136 00:06:06,960 --> 00:06:08,680 Speaker 1: think that was what was going on. It was just 137 00:06:08,720 --> 00:06:10,640 Speaker 1: like who knows what it's about dreams? 138 00:06:10,680 --> 00:06:11,360 Speaker 3: Who gets a shit? 139 00:06:11,400 --> 00:06:12,760 Speaker 1: I'm so sorry I told you about a dream. 140 00:06:12,800 --> 00:06:13,760 Speaker 2: I'm so so sorry. 141 00:06:13,880 --> 00:06:16,160 Speaker 1: I am so I like broke my own rule. It 142 00:06:16,200 --> 00:06:18,280 Speaker 1: was supposed to be just an aside. 143 00:06:18,800 --> 00:06:21,240 Speaker 3: I had a dream last night that I was pregnant 144 00:06:21,279 --> 00:06:24,000 Speaker 3: and John Stamos was there, and there was an alien 145 00:06:24,040 --> 00:06:24,680 Speaker 3: telling me. 146 00:06:25,880 --> 00:06:27,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, well that no, that would never be one of 147 00:06:27,640 --> 00:06:30,960 Speaker 1: my dreams because they don't look like cohesive things that 148 00:06:31,000 --> 00:06:33,680 Speaker 1: are happening. It's just glimmers of something. They would never 149 00:06:33,880 --> 00:06:36,039 Speaker 1: Whenever people count their dreams to me, I go, that 150 00:06:36,080 --> 00:06:40,240 Speaker 1: sounds too narrative to me to be a dream. But yeah, 151 00:06:40,320 --> 00:06:43,200 Speaker 1: I mean this weekend was I flew to North Dakota 152 00:06:43,240 --> 00:06:46,880 Speaker 1: on Saturday, which is so great because I had Friday 153 00:06:46,960 --> 00:06:49,480 Speaker 1: to get home in Saint Louis and I never am 154 00:06:49,520 --> 00:06:51,880 Speaker 1: home in Saint Louis on Friday, did nothing on Friday 155 00:06:52,000 --> 00:06:54,400 Speaker 1: night under the guise of like, I have to travel 156 00:06:54,440 --> 00:06:57,240 Speaker 1: tomorrow early, even though I could have done something, but 157 00:06:57,279 --> 00:06:59,840 Speaker 1: I didn't felt guilty about that because my family was 158 00:06:59,880 --> 00:07:01,920 Speaker 1: like hanging out at my parents' cabin and I could 159 00:07:01,960 --> 00:07:07,120 Speaker 1: have driven down. But in Eureka, Missouri, it's like probably 160 00:07:07,120 --> 00:07:09,760 Speaker 1: forty minute drive out. 161 00:07:09,560 --> 00:07:10,520 Speaker 3: But it's like parents. 162 00:07:11,440 --> 00:07:12,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, Wow, how many. 163 00:07:12,640 --> 00:07:14,560 Speaker 2: Times have I've been there in fifteen years? 164 00:07:14,720 --> 00:07:16,400 Speaker 3: Twice? 165 00:07:17,040 --> 00:07:20,440 Speaker 1: I mean welcome home, Nikki gle Oh, yeah, so three times. 166 00:07:20,440 --> 00:07:22,160 Speaker 1: I guess I filmed an episode there too. 167 00:07:22,400 --> 00:07:24,119 Speaker 3: They've had a cabin for fifteen years. 168 00:07:24,240 --> 00:07:27,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, probably longer. It's I'm floted. They've rebuilt it. No, 169 00:07:28,040 --> 00:07:32,160 Speaker 1: it's it is really nice, but I I have like 170 00:07:32,200 --> 00:07:34,840 Speaker 1: an aversion to it because I just feel like I'm 171 00:07:34,880 --> 00:07:36,280 Speaker 1: going to be trapped down there. 172 00:07:36,680 --> 00:07:37,400 Speaker 3: That's the problem. 173 00:07:37,800 --> 00:07:40,720 Speaker 1: I have to like cook things, even though I've never 174 00:07:40,800 --> 00:07:42,720 Speaker 1: been forced to cook. I've never been forced to sit 175 00:07:42,760 --> 00:07:44,600 Speaker 1: around to fire. I don't know what my version is 176 00:07:44,640 --> 00:07:46,880 Speaker 1: to it. I just need I don't know. I got 177 00:07:46,920 --> 00:07:48,600 Speaker 1: to really explore that, and I'm not going to. I've 178 00:07:48,640 --> 00:07:50,480 Speaker 1: been thinking about it for years. I'm not going I 179 00:07:51,000 --> 00:07:53,160 Speaker 1: I do want to get a house on a lake. 180 00:07:53,240 --> 00:07:55,320 Speaker 1: I do want to do that, but this is on 181 00:07:55,360 --> 00:07:57,320 Speaker 1: a river and you have to walk down the steep thing, 182 00:07:57,400 --> 00:07:59,840 Speaker 1: and then my dad's going to be like get the rope, 183 00:07:59,840 --> 00:08:02,080 Speaker 1: and and I just don't want to get that rope, 184 00:08:02,120 --> 00:08:04,800 Speaker 1: and I just don't want to like worry about the 185 00:08:04,840 --> 00:08:07,600 Speaker 1: dogs falling in, and then we just like we just 186 00:08:08,040 --> 00:08:09,800 Speaker 1: cruise on the river. And then my dad points out 187 00:08:09,800 --> 00:08:12,080 Speaker 1: like rookeries and different eagles. 188 00:08:11,600 --> 00:08:13,880 Speaker 2: And hawks, like if you've seen one hawk, you've seen 189 00:08:13,920 --> 00:08:14,120 Speaker 2: them all. 190 00:08:14,120 --> 00:08:15,520 Speaker 1: Even though I do get excited when I see hawks 191 00:08:15,520 --> 00:08:17,800 Speaker 1: because they're beautiful birds, but I just I don't know 192 00:08:17,840 --> 00:08:18,800 Speaker 1: what stresses me out about it. 193 00:08:18,840 --> 00:08:19,600 Speaker 2: I haven't been down there. 194 00:08:20,760 --> 00:08:23,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean my aversion to nature and kites and 195 00:08:23,720 --> 00:08:27,480 Speaker 1: doing things that are like just sitting and breathing and 196 00:08:27,520 --> 00:08:31,640 Speaker 1: like listening to the to nature as hard. That's why 197 00:08:31,680 --> 00:08:35,840 Speaker 1: I've started running again. I'm starting to run again because 198 00:08:35,840 --> 00:08:38,400 Speaker 1: it's the only time that I can do an activity. 199 00:08:38,480 --> 00:08:41,520 Speaker 1: It's running in my pilates class are the only times. 200 00:08:42,440 --> 00:08:45,360 Speaker 1: And this but not this, because I'm talking that I 201 00:08:45,400 --> 00:08:49,920 Speaker 1: am quiet and with my thoughts. And yes, I'm listening 202 00:08:49,920 --> 00:08:51,520 Speaker 1: to music on a run, but I don't really like 203 00:08:51,640 --> 00:08:54,679 Speaker 1: think about the music. So I'm alone with my thoughts 204 00:08:55,120 --> 00:08:58,720 Speaker 1: during pilates and during and running, and those are the 205 00:08:58,720 --> 00:09:00,599 Speaker 1: only times. But PLATES was and giving it to me 206 00:09:00,720 --> 00:09:02,679 Speaker 1: enough because I'm too focused on how hard it is. 207 00:09:03,000 --> 00:09:05,000 Speaker 1: It has to be so like a medium level of 208 00:09:05,080 --> 00:09:07,600 Speaker 1: hard and then your mind can wonder. And I really 209 00:09:07,679 --> 00:09:11,840 Speaker 1: got some things figured out running this weekend. I really 210 00:09:11,880 --> 00:09:13,840 Speaker 1: like I was had to stop and jot notes down. 211 00:09:14,520 --> 00:09:18,400 Speaker 1: I just like the ideas, big ideas for stuff like 212 00:09:18,480 --> 00:09:21,760 Speaker 1: I have this interview coming up where I'm interviewing a 213 00:09:21,800 --> 00:09:29,679 Speaker 1: celebrity who's very very very very famous. Well, I can't 214 00:09:30,160 --> 00:09:32,959 Speaker 1: tell you not playing that game, is it? 215 00:09:34,840 --> 00:09:37,280 Speaker 3: Well, who's the most famous? Is it Barack Obama? 216 00:09:37,920 --> 00:09:40,280 Speaker 1: It's I mean, I would say this person's name is 217 00:09:40,400 --> 00:09:44,160 Speaker 1: just as recognizable as Barack Obama's maybe why I know, 218 00:09:44,360 --> 00:09:47,040 Speaker 1: no one knows, right, Noah, you know right, have to 219 00:09:47,040 --> 00:09:47,960 Speaker 1: show stop guessing. 220 00:09:48,760 --> 00:09:49,400 Speaker 2: Stop guessing. 221 00:09:50,000 --> 00:09:53,840 Speaker 1: But I'm doing an interview of a person who requested 222 00:09:53,840 --> 00:09:55,960 Speaker 1: me to interview them, and so I've been studying this 223 00:09:56,080 --> 00:09:58,720 Speaker 1: person's requested you. Yeah. 224 00:09:58,760 --> 00:10:01,760 Speaker 3: Wow, so this famous this person said I want nick later. 225 00:10:02,200 --> 00:10:03,640 Speaker 1: One of the coolest things that's ever happened to me. 226 00:10:03,760 --> 00:10:04,400 Speaker 3: That's amazing. 227 00:10:04,400 --> 00:10:05,040 Speaker 1: No question and. 228 00:10:06,520 --> 00:10:08,400 Speaker 2: Interview with Oh my. 229 00:10:08,200 --> 00:10:11,520 Speaker 3: God, I can't believe Leonardo DiCaprio. 230 00:10:11,040 --> 00:10:14,760 Speaker 2: Asked you, it's up there, it's there. Wow, I'm not 231 00:10:14,880 --> 00:10:15,320 Speaker 2: joking you. 232 00:10:16,160 --> 00:10:20,400 Speaker 1: He I have to lose I think, twenty years to 233 00:10:20,440 --> 00:10:24,240 Speaker 1: talk to him. But yeah, I don't know how you 234 00:10:24,280 --> 00:10:28,720 Speaker 1: do that, but somehow. But anyway, this I had some 235 00:10:28,880 --> 00:10:31,000 Speaker 1: like I needed to think. I've been like putting off. 236 00:10:31,040 --> 00:10:32,600 Speaker 1: Do you ever have something that's so big and like 237 00:10:32,600 --> 00:10:34,840 Speaker 1: you're nervous about that you just don't work on it? 238 00:10:35,080 --> 00:10:37,560 Speaker 3: Oh god, yes, well that happens with trips for me. 239 00:10:38,400 --> 00:10:40,240 Speaker 3: What do you mean, like if I have a big 240 00:10:40,320 --> 00:10:43,720 Speaker 3: trip coming up, and I'm like nervous about it because 241 00:10:43,760 --> 00:10:45,200 Speaker 3: I don't want to go on it or whatever. I 242 00:10:45,280 --> 00:10:47,520 Speaker 3: just imagine it's not happening until the day I'm on 243 00:10:47,559 --> 00:10:48,040 Speaker 3: the plane. 244 00:10:48,600 --> 00:10:49,880 Speaker 1: Okay, but how do you pack? 245 00:10:51,120 --> 00:10:53,640 Speaker 3: Well, I guess the night before. All right, you got me, Nikki, 246 00:10:53,720 --> 00:10:55,840 Speaker 3: the night before. I uh, I'll pe you. 247 00:10:55,880 --> 00:10:58,480 Speaker 1: That's what I do with trips too. People always like, 248 00:10:58,480 --> 00:10:59,679 Speaker 1: where are you going to be next weekend? I go, 249 00:10:59,720 --> 00:11:02,600 Speaker 1: I don't know. This weekend is what I'm thinking about tomorrow. 250 00:11:02,720 --> 00:11:05,160 Speaker 1: I don't look any I don't want to look ahead. 251 00:11:05,200 --> 00:11:06,960 Speaker 1: But this thing is something that I have to like 252 00:11:07,000 --> 00:11:11,280 Speaker 1: prepare for. So I went on a run, not wanting 253 00:11:11,280 --> 00:11:13,520 Speaker 1: to think about it. But then i'd started. I was 254 00:11:13,600 --> 00:11:16,160 Speaker 1: listening to this person, like I'm studying this person. So 255 00:11:16,200 --> 00:11:18,880 Speaker 1: I was listening to something that they've made while I 256 00:11:18,960 --> 00:11:22,840 Speaker 1: was running, and I got I was very inspired, and 257 00:11:22,880 --> 00:11:25,240 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I think you know you always 258 00:11:25,280 --> 00:11:28,040 Speaker 1: try to I'm not a great interviewer. I've done it 259 00:11:28,080 --> 00:11:31,840 Speaker 1: a ton, but it's not something that i've like, I 260 00:11:31,880 --> 00:11:34,160 Speaker 1: really hone and work at and that's not going to 261 00:11:34,200 --> 00:11:36,480 Speaker 1: be expected of me for this because they're not picking 262 00:11:36,520 --> 00:11:41,080 Speaker 1: me this person didn't pick me because of they've seen 263 00:11:41,120 --> 00:11:43,319 Speaker 1: all of my interviews or whatever, and they're like, they 264 00:11:43,400 --> 00:11:45,959 Speaker 1: just pick me because I'm a person that they I 265 00:11:45,960 --> 00:11:47,520 Speaker 1: don't know why they picked me, but it's not I 266 00:11:47,600 --> 00:11:49,360 Speaker 1: don't have to be a good interviewer, but I do 267 00:11:49,400 --> 00:11:53,040 Speaker 1: want to ask questions that are like interesting. 268 00:11:52,679 --> 00:11:54,600 Speaker 2: And but it's like. 269 00:11:56,040 --> 00:12:01,000 Speaker 1: Has been asked everything. This person's been asked every thing possible. 270 00:12:01,280 --> 00:12:03,480 Speaker 1: My friends are like, you have to ask them about this, 271 00:12:03,520 --> 00:12:06,160 Speaker 1: and it's like some gossipy thing and I'm like, Annia goes, 272 00:12:06,360 --> 00:12:09,640 Speaker 1: You've got to ask about blah blah blah, and just 273 00:12:09,679 --> 00:12:12,400 Speaker 1: imagine it's like, wait, let's says I was interviewing Taylor Swift, 274 00:12:12,440 --> 00:12:14,560 Speaker 1: which is not Taylor Swift, but it would literally be 275 00:12:14,600 --> 00:12:17,360 Speaker 1: Anya being like, well, you gotta ask her what happened 276 00:12:17,400 --> 00:12:21,880 Speaker 1: with Joe? And I go, do you understand that I 277 00:12:21,960 --> 00:12:24,680 Speaker 1: would never ask her what happened with Joe even if 278 00:12:25,000 --> 00:12:27,839 Speaker 1: we were best friends sitting around a fire late at 279 00:12:27,920 --> 00:12:30,800 Speaker 1: night and we've had some cup glasses of wine even 280 00:12:30,840 --> 00:12:32,360 Speaker 1: though I don't drink. But she got me too because 281 00:12:32,360 --> 00:12:34,360 Speaker 1: she's Taylor Swift and she'd give me to do anything. 282 00:12:34,480 --> 00:12:37,480 Speaker 1: I would never, no matter nor how close. I got 283 00:12:37,480 --> 00:12:39,920 Speaker 1: to this person the question, Anya was like, you gotta 284 00:12:40,160 --> 00:12:42,560 Speaker 1: I was like, are you kidding me? Are we having 285 00:12:42,559 --> 00:12:43,200 Speaker 1: this conversation? 286 00:12:43,280 --> 00:12:44,839 Speaker 2: There's no way I'm asking that question. 287 00:12:46,000 --> 00:12:48,680 Speaker 1: But it's you're so good at interviews. 288 00:12:48,720 --> 00:12:51,280 Speaker 4: I just want to let you know that, as a 289 00:12:51,320 --> 00:12:54,720 Speaker 4: person who has listened to you interview many, many people, 290 00:12:55,240 --> 00:12:58,080 Speaker 4: your best quality is that you don't you're. 291 00:12:57,960 --> 00:12:58,680 Speaker 1: Not doing an interview. 292 00:12:58,679 --> 00:13:01,559 Speaker 4: You're just having a conversation with people, and you are 293 00:13:01,600 --> 00:13:03,839 Speaker 4: so good at disarming them and just kind of like 294 00:13:04,000 --> 00:13:06,840 Speaker 4: getting the stuff that is very conversational, which is what 295 00:13:06,840 --> 00:13:07,760 Speaker 4: everybody wants to hear. 296 00:13:08,040 --> 00:13:10,280 Speaker 1: I feel very inspired by this person, and that's a 297 00:13:10,320 --> 00:13:12,520 Speaker 1: really good place to come from, where you're like, oh, 298 00:13:12,720 --> 00:13:15,360 Speaker 1: I'm this always happens to me when I prepare for something. 299 00:13:15,400 --> 00:13:20,200 Speaker 1: I become an intense fan when I was maybe a 300 00:13:20,200 --> 00:13:23,360 Speaker 1: casual fan before, because you just you I read this 301 00:13:23,440 --> 00:13:25,360 Speaker 1: person's book this weekend. 302 00:13:25,559 --> 00:13:27,480 Speaker 2: I just got done reading their. 303 00:13:27,400 --> 00:13:30,800 Speaker 1: Wikipedia, which is you You might roll your eyes at that, 304 00:13:30,880 --> 00:13:33,400 Speaker 1: but that try to read some a very famous person's 305 00:13:33,520 --> 00:13:38,280 Speaker 1: entire Wikipedia. It's a hundred pages. It's so long, and 306 00:13:38,280 --> 00:13:40,960 Speaker 1: there's so many details, and there's so many like dates 307 00:13:41,000 --> 00:13:42,920 Speaker 1: and producers and things that You're just like, I don't 308 00:13:42,920 --> 00:13:46,040 Speaker 1: need this. You know, well, yes, this person has worked 309 00:13:46,040 --> 00:13:48,480 Speaker 1: with producers. But I'm just saying, like Wikipedia is dense 310 00:13:48,520 --> 00:13:53,680 Speaker 1: with like information you don't mean, but oh my god, 311 00:13:53,840 --> 00:13:58,400 Speaker 1: do you think Denzel Washington would be this person? 312 00:13:58,480 --> 00:13:59,839 Speaker 2: Is it's relevant that. 313 00:13:59,800 --> 00:14:03,199 Speaker 1: They pick to me, I will say that it has precedence, 314 00:14:03,720 --> 00:14:08,520 Speaker 1: but it's one of the most notable names on the planet, 315 00:14:08,679 --> 00:14:12,320 Speaker 1: is not christ Toffy, But yeah, so it's it's very exciting. 316 00:14:12,320 --> 00:14:14,200 Speaker 1: But anyway, I got some answers for that when I 317 00:14:14,240 --> 00:14:15,440 Speaker 1: was running, and I hate to be one of those 318 00:14:15,440 --> 00:14:17,640 Speaker 1: people that's like, I don't know, running just like opens 319 00:14:17,720 --> 00:14:21,400 Speaker 1: up my creativity and because running does suck, but I'm 320 00:14:21,440 --> 00:14:24,200 Speaker 1: starting to think that it doesn't and I actually need it, 321 00:14:24,240 --> 00:14:26,200 Speaker 1: and I want to start meditating again. I think that's 322 00:14:26,240 --> 00:14:28,640 Speaker 1: really what I'm in search for, because when I used 323 00:14:28,640 --> 00:14:30,960 Speaker 1: to meditate, I would get answers to things, I would 324 00:14:30,960 --> 00:14:35,280 Speaker 1: get ideas. I would get just big ideas of like 325 00:14:35,320 --> 00:14:36,680 Speaker 1: I should do a reality show. 326 00:14:36,520 --> 00:14:37,600 Speaker 2: And then all of a sudden, I'm like, what would 327 00:14:37,600 --> 00:14:37,960 Speaker 2: that look like? 328 00:14:37,960 --> 00:14:39,800 Speaker 1: And then I just send off an email right in 329 00:14:39,800 --> 00:14:40,960 Speaker 1: the middle of it, and I'm like, I want to 330 00:14:40,960 --> 00:14:42,880 Speaker 1: do a reality show. And then suddenly it's like happening, 331 00:14:42,960 --> 00:14:46,400 Speaker 1: Like you just get these big ideas that sometimes maybe 332 00:14:46,400 --> 00:14:50,440 Speaker 1: you don't want to, Like sometimes you have a big 333 00:14:50,440 --> 00:14:52,800 Speaker 1: idea and then you start it. Everyone can relate to 334 00:14:52,800 --> 00:14:54,520 Speaker 1: starting a project and then being in the middle of 335 00:14:54,560 --> 00:14:56,080 Speaker 1: it and being like, I don't want to really do 336 00:14:56,560 --> 00:14:58,760 Speaker 1: my own backsplash, I should have hired someone for this, 337 00:14:58,880 --> 00:15:00,520 Speaker 1: and like you're in the middle of like bluing all 338 00:15:00,560 --> 00:15:03,200 Speaker 1: these tiles together and you're like, what is this? And 339 00:15:03,240 --> 00:15:05,080 Speaker 1: then but you still have to finish it because you 340 00:15:05,080 --> 00:15:08,680 Speaker 1: can't just have no backsplash, I mean, can't you you can. 341 00:15:08,880 --> 00:15:12,880 Speaker 3: It's not like I think you could survive without a backslash, 342 00:15:12,960 --> 00:15:15,280 Speaker 3: normal lifespan without a light, without a back man. 343 00:15:15,320 --> 00:15:18,080 Speaker 1: When I learned the word backsplash, I really got liberal 344 00:15:18,160 --> 00:15:19,760 Speaker 1: with it because it made me feel cool that I 345 00:15:20,000 --> 00:15:25,000 Speaker 1: knew something about home design scance backsplash. There, I asked Chris, 346 00:15:25,040 --> 00:15:28,600 Speaker 1: what the what the edge around doors are? What's that 347 00:15:28,640 --> 00:15:33,160 Speaker 1: called molding? Molding? Why why can't we call it the edging? 348 00:15:33,800 --> 00:15:35,480 Speaker 1: Like why why is it to be more? Why is 349 00:15:35,520 --> 00:15:37,800 Speaker 1: a sconce Why can't be a light fixture that's on 350 00:15:37,920 --> 00:15:40,840 Speaker 1: the wall, Like why does it have to have a 351 00:15:40,960 --> 00:15:44,440 Speaker 1: name that's confusing and alienating. Oh can I ask a 352 00:15:44,440 --> 00:15:48,000 Speaker 1: football question that no one's been able to answer for me? 353 00:15:48,360 --> 00:15:49,120 Speaker 3: I'll answer it. 354 00:15:49,960 --> 00:15:52,600 Speaker 2: Okay, So sorry. 355 00:15:52,600 --> 00:15:54,800 Speaker 1: If we talked about this on the podcast before, please 356 00:15:55,040 --> 00:15:59,200 Speaker 1: just interrupt me. If we have in football to get 357 00:15:59,240 --> 00:16:05,080 Speaker 1: a first down mm hmm, to get a down? Okay, 358 00:16:05,160 --> 00:16:08,760 Speaker 1: you get four chances, that's right? What are those chances 359 00:16:08,800 --> 00:16:13,520 Speaker 1: called downs? Why is the goal also the name of 360 00:16:13,600 --> 00:16:16,160 Speaker 1: the steps it takes to get the goal? That doesn't 361 00:16:16,160 --> 00:16:19,280 Speaker 1: make sense to me. So in any other in any 362 00:16:19,320 --> 00:16:22,240 Speaker 1: other thing, is the goal the name of the goal 363 00:16:22,680 --> 00:16:26,000 Speaker 1: also the steps? It's like, did I I don't even 364 00:16:26,040 --> 00:16:26,440 Speaker 1: know how to do? 365 00:16:26,960 --> 00:16:29,200 Speaker 2: The rungs of a ladder are not called ladders? 366 00:16:29,680 --> 00:16:30,400 Speaker 1: Do you know what I mean? 367 00:16:31,640 --> 00:16:34,120 Speaker 3: Do you want? Your goal is to get a first down? 368 00:16:34,440 --> 00:16:36,640 Speaker 1: Right? So it's for okay, so your goal is to 369 00:16:36,640 --> 00:16:38,760 Speaker 1: get a first down. But then people go it's first down? 370 00:16:39,080 --> 00:16:40,720 Speaker 1: So did they get it? Or is it the first 371 00:16:40,800 --> 00:16:43,280 Speaker 1: chance to get a first down? Why are they both 372 00:16:43,320 --> 00:16:43,800 Speaker 1: the same? 373 00:16:44,240 --> 00:16:46,280 Speaker 3: I think you have to consider it like there's many 374 00:16:46,280 --> 00:16:48,840 Speaker 3: first downs on a field that every ten yards is 375 00:16:48,840 --> 00:16:49,400 Speaker 3: a first down? 376 00:16:49,480 --> 00:16:53,320 Speaker 1: Okay, okay, but this isn't the issue to get a 377 00:16:53,320 --> 00:16:56,520 Speaker 1: first down, you have four chances to do it, and 378 00:16:56,560 --> 00:16:59,400 Speaker 1: those are called downs. Why is the thing you're trying 379 00:16:59,440 --> 00:17:02,360 Speaker 1: to get also called the steps to get it is 380 00:17:02,360 --> 00:17:04,680 Speaker 1: also the thing? No, what is this making any sense 381 00:17:04,720 --> 00:17:05,000 Speaker 1: to you? 382 00:17:05,080 --> 00:17:07,520 Speaker 4: What's what's clicking in my head? While Brian thinks of 383 00:17:07,560 --> 00:17:11,000 Speaker 4: the answer is that you are basically answering the question 384 00:17:11,080 --> 00:17:12,720 Speaker 4: that you had before this, which is why do we 385 00:17:12,760 --> 00:17:15,760 Speaker 4: call it a scance because there are many light fixtures, 386 00:17:15,840 --> 00:17:18,639 Speaker 4: but a sconce is very specific, so that's why we 387 00:17:18,720 --> 00:17:19,400 Speaker 4: have sconce. 388 00:17:21,160 --> 00:17:24,520 Speaker 1: But why what they name the thing like that I 389 00:17:24,520 --> 00:17:24,840 Speaker 1: don't know? 390 00:17:25,440 --> 00:17:26,640 Speaker 2: Is to get a first down? 391 00:17:27,080 --> 00:17:30,000 Speaker 1: And then you can literally say it's first down and 392 00:17:30,040 --> 00:17:32,440 Speaker 1: we're trying to get to first down. Well, then didn't 393 00:17:32,440 --> 00:17:35,720 Speaker 1: we get it if it's first down? A lot of football, 394 00:17:35,720 --> 00:17:38,280 Speaker 1: it's very confusing when you hear we're trying to get 395 00:17:38,280 --> 00:17:39,840 Speaker 1: a first down and it's first down. 396 00:17:39,880 --> 00:17:41,520 Speaker 2: To get that first down, that is what. 397 00:17:41,840 --> 00:17:43,720 Speaker 3: I can see. Yeah, I can not. 398 00:17:43,720 --> 00:17:47,360 Speaker 1: Be so confusing. Why is everyone not confused by this? 399 00:17:47,960 --> 00:17:51,040 Speaker 3: You get confused? Do you get confused by the concept 400 00:17:51,080 --> 00:17:53,840 Speaker 3: of laps? Like you have to run laps? You have 401 00:17:53,880 --> 00:17:56,159 Speaker 3: to and every time you go around it's another lap. 402 00:17:57,160 --> 00:17:59,040 Speaker 3: So it's circular in. 403 00:17:59,000 --> 00:18:01,960 Speaker 1: A way, I know, but four laps equal a mile, 404 00:18:02,160 --> 00:18:05,359 Speaker 1: it doesn't equal a lap. It's not first lap, second lap, 405 00:18:05,400 --> 00:18:07,679 Speaker 1: third lap, fourth lap, and then you get first lap. 406 00:18:08,200 --> 00:18:10,960 Speaker 1: It's a one mile after four laps. Do you know 407 00:18:11,000 --> 00:18:11,639 Speaker 1: what I'm saying? 408 00:18:12,040 --> 00:18:12,280 Speaker 2: Is this? 409 00:18:12,359 --> 00:18:12,480 Speaker 3: I do? 410 00:18:12,640 --> 00:18:14,639 Speaker 1: Because anytime I talk I talked to Chris about this. 411 00:18:14,680 --> 00:18:16,840 Speaker 1: I think I took to Sean O'Connor about this. They 412 00:18:16,920 --> 00:18:19,320 Speaker 1: don't even seem as frustrated as I am with this. 413 00:18:19,320 --> 00:18:21,439 Speaker 1: This has never this has never occurred to anyone. How 414 00:18:21,480 --> 00:18:23,320 Speaker 1: has this not occurred to anyone else? But the name 415 00:18:23,400 --> 00:18:25,600 Speaker 1: of the steps to get the thing is the thing? 416 00:18:26,440 --> 00:18:28,840 Speaker 3: The name of this. Yeah, it's difficult for me to 417 00:18:28,840 --> 00:18:33,119 Speaker 3: get frustrated because it's hard to even understand what you're saying. 418 00:18:33,520 --> 00:18:35,679 Speaker 1: But when you first how is it hard? 419 00:18:36,240 --> 00:18:39,720 Speaker 3: Well, it's hard for me to understand, uh, the frustration 420 00:18:39,920 --> 00:18:42,199 Speaker 3: behind it. So I need to come up with an analogy. 421 00:18:42,320 --> 00:18:44,760 Speaker 3: That's my goal. It's to come up with an analogy 422 00:18:45,359 --> 00:18:49,520 Speaker 3: outside of football where the same thing happens that we've accepted. 423 00:18:49,840 --> 00:18:51,880 Speaker 1: But okay, when I tell you, hey, so we're trying 424 00:18:51,880 --> 00:18:53,800 Speaker 1: to get a first down here and it's first down, 425 00:18:54,119 --> 00:18:56,280 Speaker 1: that makes sense to you right, that's that is a sentence. 426 00:18:56,480 --> 00:18:58,399 Speaker 1: I mean, no one would say that, but because everyone 427 00:18:58,520 --> 00:18:59,359 Speaker 1: knows first down. 428 00:19:00,320 --> 00:19:03,600 Speaker 3: I'm trying to I'm trying to earn a thousand dollars, 429 00:19:03,960 --> 00:19:07,200 Speaker 3: but I already have one thousand dollars. You can get 430 00:19:07,240 --> 00:19:09,960 Speaker 3: another thousand dollars. You can get it. You can get many. 431 00:19:09,800 --> 00:19:12,639 Speaker 1: First No, no, you, I understand you can get many first downs. 432 00:19:12,800 --> 00:19:16,120 Speaker 1: I'm talking about. The chances that you have to get 433 00:19:16,119 --> 00:19:17,840 Speaker 1: a first down are called downs. 434 00:19:18,600 --> 00:19:19,080 Speaker 3: That's right. 435 00:19:19,280 --> 00:19:21,840 Speaker 1: So it's second down to get a first down, it's 436 00:19:21,880 --> 00:19:24,360 Speaker 1: third down to get a first down. It's so why 437 00:19:24,400 --> 00:19:27,639 Speaker 1: are the chances to get it called the thing? I 438 00:19:27,680 --> 00:19:30,680 Speaker 1: hope anyone listening understands what the fuck I'm talking about, 439 00:19:30,720 --> 00:19:33,199 Speaker 1: because to someone who's learned, it's almost like when you 440 00:19:33,320 --> 00:19:36,320 Speaker 1: learn a language late in life. There are things about 441 00:19:36,320 --> 00:19:40,320 Speaker 1: the English language that are totally confusing, like though and 442 00:19:40,520 --> 00:19:43,560 Speaker 1: rough being the same, like though o g u oug 443 00:19:43,800 --> 00:19:47,119 Speaker 1: h can be uugh off or oh, and it's like 444 00:19:47,320 --> 00:19:49,600 Speaker 1: why And I think that's kind of a similar thing 445 00:19:49,600 --> 00:19:51,280 Speaker 1: I'm going by, which is like I would never have 446 00:19:51,359 --> 00:19:53,639 Speaker 1: noticed the though and rough being different unless I was 447 00:19:53,720 --> 00:19:56,440 Speaker 1: learning the language, and I'm learning the language of football 448 00:19:56,560 --> 00:19:57,919 Speaker 1: and I am confounded by it. 449 00:19:58,200 --> 00:20:01,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I can. I see you're what you're saying. 450 00:20:01,040 --> 00:20:02,600 Speaker 2: And why is a safety a position? 451 00:20:02,760 --> 00:20:05,240 Speaker 1: But it's also a call? 452 00:20:05,240 --> 00:20:07,359 Speaker 3: Why do we park on a driveway and drive on 453 00:20:07,400 --> 00:20:07,920 Speaker 3: a parkway? 454 00:20:08,040 --> 00:20:11,400 Speaker 1: No, I really need an answer here? Is there is there? 455 00:20:12,960 --> 00:20:17,560 Speaker 1: Is there a correlation between the safety position and the 456 00:20:17,600 --> 00:20:20,000 Speaker 1: safety play? Are those two related at all? Or do 457 00:20:20,080 --> 00:20:21,520 Speaker 1: they just happen to have the same name. 458 00:20:22,840 --> 00:20:26,200 Speaker 3: They happen to have the same name. I mean what, 459 00:20:26,359 --> 00:20:29,679 Speaker 3: I guess you could they ran out? Well, this was 460 00:20:29,880 --> 00:20:32,720 Speaker 3: you have to remember, Nikki, that football was invented in 461 00:20:32,760 --> 00:20:34,960 Speaker 3: the nineteen twenties or whatever. 462 00:20:35,280 --> 00:20:36,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, we have less words. 463 00:20:36,720 --> 00:20:39,000 Speaker 3: There were less words back then, and you know what, 464 00:20:39,119 --> 00:20:42,640 Speaker 3: the dictionary was only three pages and if didn't even 465 00:20:42,640 --> 00:20:42,960 Speaker 3: go to Z. 466 00:20:43,320 --> 00:20:46,960 Speaker 1: But it's a confusing game already. Why double up on 467 00:20:47,119 --> 00:20:48,560 Speaker 1: words of meanings? 468 00:20:49,200 --> 00:20:53,320 Speaker 3: No? I get it. Yeah, safety safety is a position 469 00:20:54,600 --> 00:20:58,320 Speaker 3: because they are the last person that can stop you 470 00:20:58,400 --> 00:21:02,879 Speaker 3: from getting a touchdowns line of defense and then getting 471 00:21:02,880 --> 00:21:07,800 Speaker 3: a safety is the worst possible thing that could happen 472 00:21:07,800 --> 00:21:11,000 Speaker 3: to the embarrassing. It's embarrassing. So it's like kind of 473 00:21:12,720 --> 00:21:15,920 Speaker 3: when a safety happens, it is embarrassing, Like, yeah, because 474 00:21:15,920 --> 00:21:19,080 Speaker 3: I get that everything you're backed up, you're backed up 475 00:21:19,080 --> 00:21:20,879 Speaker 3: against your own end zone. You know they're going to 476 00:21:20,960 --> 00:21:22,679 Speaker 3: try to sack you in your own end zone, which. 477 00:21:22,560 --> 00:21:24,440 Speaker 1: Is already embarrassing your own home. 478 00:21:24,840 --> 00:21:28,439 Speaker 3: Yeah, but usually even when you're just watching it happen, 479 00:21:28,560 --> 00:21:31,920 Speaker 3: what the quarterback does to avoid the safety is generally 480 00:21:32,000 --> 00:21:35,520 Speaker 3: goofy and dumb looking like sometimes they'll go back and 481 00:21:35,520 --> 00:21:39,040 Speaker 3: they'll step out of their own end zone backwards. Sometimes 482 00:21:39,200 --> 00:21:41,400 Speaker 3: they'll be like flailing around and stumble, and they'll try 483 00:21:41,440 --> 00:21:44,920 Speaker 3: to like throw the ball haplessly across the line of scrimmage, 484 00:21:44,960 --> 00:21:46,520 Speaker 3: but it'll look stupid, and then they get you. They 485 00:21:46,560 --> 00:21:49,080 Speaker 3: get a penalty, and then it's a safety anyway. Or 486 00:21:49,160 --> 00:21:51,920 Speaker 3: they'll just like try to run forward and get smashed, 487 00:21:51,960 --> 00:21:54,000 Speaker 3: and they're a quarterback and they're not a rushing quarterback, 488 00:21:54,040 --> 00:21:56,680 Speaker 3: so they look like a dufist. It really is one 489 00:21:56,720 --> 00:22:01,280 Speaker 3: of the most embarrassing plays to fall victim too is 490 00:22:01,320 --> 00:22:01,880 Speaker 3: a safety. 491 00:22:02,400 --> 00:22:06,280 Speaker 1: Okay, I'm slowly figuring it out, but I learned nothing 492 00:22:06,280 --> 00:22:09,639 Speaker 1: from this conversation except I'm a little bit more conf'm now. 493 00:22:09,680 --> 00:22:12,480 Speaker 1: I'm just getting frustrated that other people don't understand what 494 00:22:12,520 --> 00:22:15,800 Speaker 1: I'm going through. And if you do Bestie's someone write 495 00:22:15,800 --> 00:22:17,359 Speaker 1: to me if you're confused by the down thing too, 496 00:22:17,440 --> 00:22:18,760 Speaker 1: or if you have an answer for it. I'm sure 497 00:22:18,760 --> 00:22:20,400 Speaker 1: there's some person that will be like, well, the down 498 00:22:20,480 --> 00:22:24,480 Speaker 1: was named after something. I just want to know why 499 00:22:24,680 --> 00:22:27,280 Speaker 1: we have to use the same word for two different 500 00:22:27,280 --> 00:22:31,119 Speaker 1: things within the same concept. And then we're gonna go 501 00:22:31,160 --> 00:22:32,679 Speaker 1: to break. I'm gonna tell you a new word I 502 00:22:32,760 --> 00:22:35,400 Speaker 1: learned this weekend that I am proud I learned because 503 00:22:35,400 --> 00:22:38,399 Speaker 1: I'm trying to learn new vocabulary and I got rid 504 00:22:38,440 --> 00:22:40,000 Speaker 1: of that old app and I got a new app. 505 00:22:40,280 --> 00:22:45,960 Speaker 1: I'll tell you about it, all right, all right, I'm back, Okay. 506 00:22:46,040 --> 00:22:48,840 Speaker 1: So we talked about that app I downloaded last week, Elevate, 507 00:22:49,600 --> 00:22:53,159 Speaker 1: and it just wasn't doing it for me because it 508 00:22:53,200 --> 00:22:56,040 Speaker 1: was repeating games and. 509 00:22:56,480 --> 00:22:58,240 Speaker 2: I learned a little bit, but not enough. 510 00:22:58,280 --> 00:23:00,119 Speaker 1: And so I went on a quest to find like 511 00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:05,159 Speaker 1: a really good new vocab app, and I recommend atlass English. 512 00:23:05,400 --> 00:23:08,159 Speaker 1: So it'll it'll give you groups of five words, and 513 00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:10,840 Speaker 1: I will say you probably know it'll test your your 514 00:23:10,960 --> 00:23:12,879 Speaker 1: level of vocab at first, and you're gonna be like, 515 00:23:12,920 --> 00:23:14,919 Speaker 1: oh my god, this is so stupid. But then it 516 00:23:14,920 --> 00:23:16,840 Speaker 1: gets hard and you're like oh my god, wait, I'm 517 00:23:16,840 --> 00:23:19,159 Speaker 1: so stupid. And then it places you, and then it 518 00:23:19,160 --> 00:23:22,399 Speaker 1: gives you groups of words that you probably know probably 519 00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:24,359 Speaker 1: three out of the five, and then you do all 520 00:23:24,359 --> 00:23:26,119 Speaker 1: these games where you like fill in the blanks and 521 00:23:26,160 --> 00:23:29,119 Speaker 1: you you like go over the definition in many different ways, 522 00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:33,280 Speaker 1: and then you still might not remember the word, because 523 00:23:33,320 --> 00:23:35,600 Speaker 1: like for me, I'm just trying to memorize new words, 524 00:23:35,680 --> 00:23:38,560 Speaker 1: work them into my vocabulary. And this one the other 525 00:23:38,640 --> 00:23:40,440 Speaker 1: day I could not get even though I played like 526 00:23:40,480 --> 00:23:42,760 Speaker 1: six games with it where it was mixed in with 527 00:23:42,840 --> 00:23:46,040 Speaker 1: other words, and I was trying to fill in the blank. Inculpate. 528 00:23:47,040 --> 00:23:49,600 Speaker 1: Did I get it right? Hold on? It sends me 529 00:23:49,640 --> 00:23:56,240 Speaker 1: it every day, so yes, inculpate I nculpat to accuse 530 00:23:56,359 --> 00:23:59,480 Speaker 1: or blame. It was not landing. It is now you know, 531 00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:01,280 Speaker 1: so now in my head. 532 00:24:01,359 --> 00:24:03,879 Speaker 4: Sometimes in words you have other words and it's like 533 00:24:04,040 --> 00:24:07,480 Speaker 4: culprit cold. Yeah, so the words culprit in there, that's. 534 00:24:07,320 --> 00:24:10,560 Speaker 2: Good inculpate to blame someone. But it was not sticking. 535 00:24:10,880 --> 00:24:12,520 Speaker 1: And I was like, damn it, no matter how many 536 00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:14,760 Speaker 1: games I play in the stupid app, it's not gonna stick. 537 00:24:14,760 --> 00:24:16,720 Speaker 1: And I kept trying to like remember it to Chris, 538 00:24:16,760 --> 00:24:18,280 Speaker 1: and I would just go get a drink of water, 539 00:24:18,320 --> 00:24:19,520 Speaker 1: and then I would return and be like, can I 540 00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:23,000 Speaker 1: remember it? No, it's gone. So then I realized, though 541 00:24:23,280 --> 00:24:25,000 Speaker 1: this is right after I downloaded the app and played 542 00:24:25,000 --> 00:24:26,639 Speaker 1: the game. I was like, damn it, it's not working. 543 00:24:26,960 --> 00:24:29,000 Speaker 1: But then I kind of bookmarked it in the app 544 00:24:29,040 --> 00:24:30,920 Speaker 1: to be like I need this. I don't know even 545 00:24:31,040 --> 00:24:33,119 Speaker 1: how I did it. It just said like save words. 546 00:24:33,520 --> 00:24:36,200 Speaker 1: And so now it just shows me throughout the day. 547 00:24:36,240 --> 00:24:38,359 Speaker 1: It'll just pull up inculpate. It'll just send me a 548 00:24:38,359 --> 00:24:40,360 Speaker 1: little like text like boop at the top of my thing. 549 00:24:40,560 --> 00:24:43,880 Speaker 1: Inculpate to accuse or blame, and I swear it's incepted 550 00:24:43,920 --> 00:24:46,120 Speaker 1: me now, And now I've learned that word. I also 551 00:24:46,240 --> 00:24:49,840 Speaker 1: learned mendacious or mendacity, which is a lot like to 552 00:24:50,560 --> 00:24:53,240 Speaker 1: something that lies a lot, if they're mendacious. 553 00:24:53,480 --> 00:24:55,119 Speaker 2: And then I also learned. 554 00:24:55,119 --> 00:24:58,359 Speaker 3: I didn't know that mendacious is an sat word. I 555 00:24:58,359 --> 00:24:59,920 Speaker 3: thought I knew what it meant, and I guess I don't. 556 00:25:00,600 --> 00:25:04,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's I think it's to someone lies a lot, Yeah, 557 00:25:04,920 --> 00:25:08,920 Speaker 1: if you're mendacious. And then the other word, oh my god, 558 00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:14,480 Speaker 1: please let me. It's to castigate. Castigate is to like 559 00:25:15,359 --> 00:25:18,880 Speaker 1: not accuse or blame. Castigate is to like punish. I think, Man, 560 00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:21,680 Speaker 1: did I get it right? Castigate someone? Look it up. 561 00:25:21,840 --> 00:25:25,640 Speaker 1: That's the other word I learned. So I learned. Yeah, 562 00:25:25,680 --> 00:25:28,040 Speaker 1: I'm going to castigate you. So I'm gonna I learned 563 00:25:28,040 --> 00:25:30,919 Speaker 1: three new words this weekend that are locked in, like 564 00:25:30,960 --> 00:25:33,520 Speaker 1: they're for the rest of my life almost, And you 565 00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:35,399 Speaker 1: can do that too, if that's of interest to anyone. 566 00:25:35,440 --> 00:25:37,080 Speaker 1: I don't know if anyone cares about this shit, but 567 00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:39,439 Speaker 1: stuff like that, I love. Stuff matters to me. 568 00:25:40,080 --> 00:25:42,280 Speaker 3: So wait, all you did to get those locked in 569 00:25:42,640 --> 00:25:44,879 Speaker 3: was focused on just those. 570 00:25:44,920 --> 00:25:47,919 Speaker 1: Three Yeah, well, I bookmarked them. I played all the 571 00:25:47,960 --> 00:25:50,359 Speaker 1: games that they had. They're kind of boring games. They're like, 572 00:25:50,359 --> 00:25:52,119 Speaker 1: you know, you have to put them in a blank 573 00:25:52,160 --> 00:25:54,400 Speaker 1: and like you get five words, and so those five 574 00:25:54,440 --> 00:25:57,160 Speaker 1: words become game. You do gameplay with those five words. 575 00:25:57,200 --> 00:25:59,480 Speaker 1: It gives you the definition. You review them, and then 576 00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:01,280 Speaker 1: it gives you sentences and it is a blank and 577 00:26:01,320 --> 00:26:03,320 Speaker 1: then you have to put the five words and put 578 00:26:03,320 --> 00:26:03,680 Speaker 1: them in. 579 00:26:04,040 --> 00:26:06,160 Speaker 2: Then it's like it does. It does a bunch of. 580 00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:09,520 Speaker 1: Different games and you and you think those games help, 581 00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:11,840 Speaker 1: but this sometimes you need extra And then getting those 582 00:26:11,840 --> 00:26:15,560 Speaker 1: alerts all day I'm like, it has been my goal inculpate. 583 00:26:15,640 --> 00:26:18,840 Speaker 1: I don't like the word it mouth to say it. 584 00:26:18,840 --> 00:26:21,439 Speaker 1: It doesn't sound good. It sounds like sound too smart. 585 00:26:22,400 --> 00:26:23,840 Speaker 1: I don't know that I'll use it, but at least 586 00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:27,560 Speaker 1: it's there for me if I want to inculpate. It 587 00:26:27,600 --> 00:26:28,240 Speaker 1: sounds like a. 588 00:26:28,160 --> 00:26:30,520 Speaker 3: Word for trying to use it. 589 00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:31,280 Speaker 1: Thank you? 590 00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:33,560 Speaker 4: Oh does it sound like it sounds like a word 591 00:26:33,600 --> 00:26:36,080 Speaker 4: you could use, like if you're ever doing some kind 592 00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:39,320 Speaker 4: of written interview or just just kind of more for. 593 00:26:39,320 --> 00:26:41,920 Speaker 3: A doesn't sound like a word that you could slip 594 00:26:41,920 --> 00:26:43,639 Speaker 3: into the conversation and considered. 595 00:26:43,800 --> 00:26:47,040 Speaker 2: People are going to go, what, Yeah, excuse me. 596 00:26:47,240 --> 00:26:49,439 Speaker 3: Oh, I guess you're miss smarty pants. 597 00:26:49,440 --> 00:26:52,840 Speaker 1: It's honestly, if I ever meet Sam Harris, I'll try 598 00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:53,760 Speaker 1: to talk about it. 599 00:26:54,320 --> 00:26:56,040 Speaker 2: That's literally that. 600 00:26:55,560 --> 00:26:59,800 Speaker 3: That's casting at you. But I feel inculpated in this. 601 00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:02,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, these are words he would use. For sure. 602 00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:05,520 Speaker 3: I have a word that you can use in any 603 00:27:05,600 --> 00:27:10,000 Speaker 3: situation that makes you sound cool and smart. Yeah, it 604 00:27:10,119 --> 00:27:12,159 Speaker 3: is mercurial. 605 00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:15,120 Speaker 1: Dude, that is so weird you said it. I read 606 00:27:15,160 --> 00:27:17,560 Speaker 1: it in a book to like last week. I've read 607 00:27:17,560 --> 00:27:19,760 Speaker 1: this book The Color of Everything. He said it in 608 00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:22,240 Speaker 1: that I looked it up because I've heard it. I've 609 00:27:22,320 --> 00:27:25,400 Speaker 1: used it twice in one week, yeah, and not called 610 00:27:25,400 --> 00:27:27,800 Speaker 1: it out and just slipped it in because it's a 611 00:27:27,840 --> 00:27:28,840 Speaker 1: great word. Great. 612 00:27:29,400 --> 00:27:31,520 Speaker 3: It makes sense logically because someone. 613 00:27:31,280 --> 00:27:34,280 Speaker 1: Who's moody goes up and down, like you can't predict 614 00:27:34,320 --> 00:27:34,800 Speaker 1: their mood. 615 00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:36,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a word. 616 00:27:36,480 --> 00:27:37,439 Speaker 2: I love it. 617 00:27:37,440 --> 00:27:40,760 Speaker 3: It encapsulates a concept that people can easily understand that 618 00:27:40,800 --> 00:27:42,600 Speaker 3: we don't have a word for. Yeah. 619 00:27:42,840 --> 00:27:43,600 Speaker 1: Yeah. 620 00:27:43,640 --> 00:27:47,320 Speaker 3: And also it's like kind of cool because it's based 621 00:27:47,359 --> 00:27:50,560 Speaker 3: on mercury, the planet and the god, which then people 622 00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:53,240 Speaker 3: can like logically understand even if they don't know the 623 00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:56,520 Speaker 3: definition of the word, they can infer Oh, mercury. That 624 00:27:56,640 --> 00:27:58,399 Speaker 3: sounds like fire at least. 625 00:27:58,520 --> 00:28:02,720 Speaker 1: So it was so crazy, Yeah, we're yeah, that's a 626 00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:03,840 Speaker 1: good way to remember it. 627 00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:06,800 Speaker 3: It could be that as well. 628 00:28:07,160 --> 00:28:09,640 Speaker 1: Crazy that you said that, Brian, because I literally used 629 00:28:09,640 --> 00:28:12,240 Speaker 1: that word on girls Chat. Noah, you could probably find 630 00:28:12,280 --> 00:28:15,639 Speaker 1: the girl like I used it on girls Chat, and 631 00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:17,800 Speaker 1: I felt like, did I just use that correctly? I 632 00:28:17,840 --> 00:28:20,080 Speaker 1: think I did. I can't believe I did it. It 633 00:28:20,200 --> 00:28:22,720 Speaker 1: is very exciting to learn a new word. I will 634 00:28:22,760 --> 00:28:25,480 Speaker 1: say that I was watching I was binging Sarah Silverman 635 00:28:25,640 --> 00:28:27,520 Speaker 1: when I was in North Dakota because I couldn't sleep 636 00:28:27,560 --> 00:28:31,240 Speaker 1: and I just went down a wormhole on her, and 637 00:28:31,440 --> 00:28:34,679 Speaker 1: my god, is she's so funny and she's I've like, 638 00:28:35,080 --> 00:28:37,399 Speaker 1: you know, just haven't paid attention. I guess in the 639 00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:41,000 Speaker 1: past ten years as much as I used to, Like 640 00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:42,960 Speaker 1: I used to be Taylor Swift levels of obsessed with 641 00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:47,239 Speaker 1: Sarah Silverman. Yeah, like I had posters, I had, you know, 642 00:28:47,440 --> 00:28:50,320 Speaker 1: I would buy books that she said in interviews. She 643 00:28:50,560 --> 00:28:53,480 Speaker 1: liked like I was obsessed with her in college to 644 00:28:53,560 --> 00:28:58,040 Speaker 1: a pretty insane degree and concerning degree. And then I 645 00:28:58,120 --> 00:29:00,840 Speaker 1: kind of just like, like, I don't I stop paying attention. 646 00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:02,160 Speaker 1: Maybe I was just like I don't want to be 647 00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:04,440 Speaker 1: influenced anymore because I was sounding so much like her 648 00:29:04,440 --> 00:29:06,239 Speaker 1: early on in my career. Whatever it was I put. 649 00:29:06,280 --> 00:29:09,160 Speaker 1: I went on YouTube wormhol the other day and I 650 00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:10,800 Speaker 1: was up till like three in the morning just watching 651 00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:14,760 Speaker 1: clips of hers. She is so fucking funny, dude, I was. 652 00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:17,080 Speaker 1: She did this one joke where she was talking about 653 00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:23,400 Speaker 1: her dog like licking up like uh like licking her 654 00:29:23,440 --> 00:29:25,800 Speaker 1: after her and her boyfriend had sex, like post coitus, 655 00:29:25,800 --> 00:29:31,960 Speaker 1: and she said he was licking the dety Deti Deutch dirt. Wow, 656 00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:34,760 Speaker 1: what is it called. It's like detrius or something. It's 657 00:29:34,760 --> 00:29:39,480 Speaker 1: a word for like the leftover gunk, like the I 658 00:29:39,520 --> 00:29:41,880 Speaker 1: forget the word for it, but she uses this crazy 659 00:29:41,960 --> 00:29:44,040 Speaker 1: big word. And she was like, I use that because 660 00:29:44,080 --> 00:29:47,120 Speaker 1: I'm talking about com and I wanted to just make 661 00:29:47,200 --> 00:29:50,240 Speaker 1: it sound more palatable, like the detrius or something. She 662 00:29:50,280 --> 00:29:53,760 Speaker 1: was like, he was fricking detritus. She used that word, 663 00:29:53,800 --> 00:29:56,440 Speaker 1: and I like that. Yeah, So she used that to 664 00:29:57,720 --> 00:29:59,960 Speaker 1: uplift the whole joke that was really just like her 665 00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:02,480 Speaker 1: dog licking up come. And then she had a point 666 00:30:02,480 --> 00:30:05,320 Speaker 1: that I have also made before, which is like the 667 00:30:05,400 --> 00:30:08,320 Speaker 1: dog wants to have that, like you would say that's animal, 668 00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:10,720 Speaker 1: because she stopped the dog. She's like, no, no, no, But 669 00:30:10,840 --> 00:30:13,680 Speaker 1: she made the point of like the dog actually does 670 00:30:13,880 --> 00:30:17,080 Speaker 1: want that very badly and would not be disgusted by it, 671 00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:18,440 Speaker 1: and it would be treat for the dog. 672 00:30:18,480 --> 00:30:19,920 Speaker 2: But you can't let the. 673 00:30:19,880 --> 00:30:21,440 Speaker 1: Dog do that. 674 00:30:22,240 --> 00:30:26,520 Speaker 3: My dog's been licking up piss all over town and 675 00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:27,760 Speaker 3: I have to keep stopping. 676 00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:29,840 Speaker 1: Him from because it is like human piss. 677 00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:34,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, human, no, dog probably dog pissed. I mean, I can't. 678 00:30:34,360 --> 00:30:37,680 Speaker 1: Assume that a new trait that they've picked up their 679 00:30:37,720 --> 00:30:40,800 Speaker 1: dogs picked up, she's picked up he. 680 00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:43,000 Speaker 3: He Jack yeah, Jack looking up piss all the time. 681 00:30:43,040 --> 00:30:44,680 Speaker 3: I don't know if it's new, but I'm kind of 682 00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:46,920 Speaker 3: noticing it more and over the last year or so, 683 00:30:46,960 --> 00:30:48,840 Speaker 3: I've been like trying to train him to not do 684 00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:49,440 Speaker 3: it anymore. 685 00:30:50,480 --> 00:30:53,600 Speaker 1: Right, well, because that's then you you want him to 686 00:30:53,640 --> 00:30:55,800 Speaker 1: lick your face too. We're not going to give that up. 687 00:30:56,200 --> 00:30:58,320 Speaker 3: No, I mean I don't actually I don't let him look. 688 00:30:58,200 --> 00:31:00,840 Speaker 1: My face, but really skin is so good. 689 00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:04,520 Speaker 3: He'll lick my hand, that's cute, yeah or something, but 690 00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:06,080 Speaker 3: like no, yeah, I think it's just more like I'm 691 00:31:06,120 --> 00:31:08,400 Speaker 3: worried about like parasites. I'm just like, I don't want 692 00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:10,680 Speaker 3: him to get a disease from Yeah, I piss. 693 00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:13,280 Speaker 1: I remember hearing if your dog sniffs poop that has 694 00:31:13,720 --> 00:31:15,840 Speaker 1: worms in it, they can sniff up the worms in 695 00:31:15,920 --> 00:31:18,800 Speaker 1: their nose. And so whenever my dog's sniffing poop, I'm like, kid, 696 00:31:18,920 --> 00:31:22,400 Speaker 1: what like, yeah, way too, because I just picture worms 697 00:31:22,400 --> 00:31:25,440 Speaker 1: being like like snorting worms so horrible and I can't 698 00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:25,920 Speaker 1: handle it. 699 00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:28,600 Speaker 3: Oh I can't handle it. Oh God, no, okay, no, no, no, 700 00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:33,200 Speaker 3: I do have something. Speaking of Sarah Silverman, did you 701 00:31:33,280 --> 00:31:35,800 Speaker 3: see Adam Sandler's Netflix special that came out. 702 00:31:35,880 --> 00:31:39,640 Speaker 1: I saw the first thirty five minutes of it because 703 00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:42,400 Speaker 1: we got tired. It was way too late at night 704 00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:44,719 Speaker 1: for us to start it. But I was enjoying myself. 705 00:31:44,720 --> 00:31:47,720 Speaker 1: It's a wild ride. I like don't understand even what 706 00:31:47,760 --> 00:31:50,920 Speaker 1: I'm watching sometimes, even though I will say, all the 707 00:31:50,960 --> 00:31:53,480 Speaker 1: songs and all the jokes are so fucking funny and 708 00:31:53,520 --> 00:31:57,200 Speaker 1: like it was almost getting frustrating because I I'm so 709 00:31:57,360 --> 00:31:59,880 Speaker 1: jealous of how his mind works in terms of like creates, 710 00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:03,080 Speaker 1: Like it's just a different mind than mine comedically, and 711 00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:08,200 Speaker 1: I really wish I was of structure, free of any 712 00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:10,240 Speaker 1: like logic. 713 00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:11,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, for a reason. 714 00:32:11,760 --> 00:32:13,720 Speaker 1: And then the voices are so funny and you just 715 00:32:13,760 --> 00:32:18,120 Speaker 1: get lost in the storytelling is crazy and and you 716 00:32:18,160 --> 00:32:20,440 Speaker 1: don't know whether he's telling the truth sometimes, and then 717 00:32:20,440 --> 00:32:23,240 Speaker 1: the story will take a turn that is just so insane, 718 00:32:23,640 --> 00:32:26,400 Speaker 1: but it still works, and it's like such a risks 719 00:32:26,440 --> 00:32:28,680 Speaker 1: to take that and then it pays off. It's just 720 00:32:29,040 --> 00:32:31,040 Speaker 1: it really is incredible. I can't wait to finish it. 721 00:32:31,400 --> 00:32:32,400 Speaker 1: To me your thoughts. 722 00:32:32,400 --> 00:32:35,040 Speaker 3: And it works because it also works because it's Adam Sandler, 723 00:32:35,160 --> 00:32:37,360 Speaker 3: or and he when he starts a story you have this, 724 00:32:37,600 --> 00:32:39,360 Speaker 3: you know who he is. You already like him, you 725 00:32:39,360 --> 00:32:41,640 Speaker 3: have this whole backstory. You imagine he's telling the truth, 726 00:32:41,840 --> 00:32:43,479 Speaker 3: and then he can undercut you. Whereas I think if 727 00:32:43,520 --> 00:32:46,960 Speaker 3: a new comedian came out and started telling like fantastical 728 00:32:47,000 --> 00:32:49,920 Speaker 3: stories of a similar manner, it probably wouldn't work as well. 729 00:32:50,840 --> 00:32:54,080 Speaker 1: I don't know, I disagree. I think this is this 730 00:32:54,160 --> 00:32:56,080 Speaker 1: is why Adam Sandler ever worked. 731 00:32:57,080 --> 00:32:59,160 Speaker 3: Actually, now that you say that, I have an example 732 00:32:59,200 --> 00:33:00,920 Speaker 3: already to pop them in. I had that it did work. 733 00:33:01,520 --> 00:33:06,600 Speaker 3: Who this comedian from Boston named Brian Higginbottom who sadly 734 00:33:06,760 --> 00:33:09,880 Speaker 3: tragically died, but he had this he had he was 735 00:33:09,920 --> 00:33:12,600 Speaker 3: blowing up on TikTok. He's this comedian from Boston who 736 00:33:12,640 --> 00:33:17,000 Speaker 3: everyone liked, and around twenty twenty two or three or something, 737 00:33:17,040 --> 00:33:19,880 Speaker 3: he just started blowing up on TikTok purely by posting 738 00:33:20,360 --> 00:33:24,280 Speaker 3: clips from the one ten minute set that he had recorded. 739 00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:27,360 Speaker 3: It was like the only material he had recorded that 740 00:33:27,400 --> 00:33:29,880 Speaker 3: he like put on the internet, and just those ten 741 00:33:29,920 --> 00:33:32,640 Speaker 3: clips like started he started blowing up. He started getting 742 00:33:33,000 --> 00:33:36,680 Speaker 3: hundreds of thousands of followers, okay, and and like I 743 00:33:36,760 --> 00:33:39,520 Speaker 3: felt like, you know, wow, this guy's I was very 744 00:33:39,520 --> 00:33:41,479 Speaker 3: focused on that because it's like it's another Brian and 745 00:33:41,480 --> 00:33:44,840 Speaker 3: this is my He's like funnier than me, And was 746 00:33:44,880 --> 00:33:45,520 Speaker 3: that part of it. 747 00:33:45,600 --> 00:33:48,160 Speaker 1: I can see myself being like there's another Nikki and 748 00:33:48,160 --> 00:33:49,760 Speaker 1: being like, what's going on here? There's only room for 749 00:33:49,760 --> 00:33:50,560 Speaker 1: one of us on this nome. 750 00:33:50,640 --> 00:33:54,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, well there's already Brian Reagan, so I'm fucked. But yeah, 751 00:33:54,160 --> 00:33:57,600 Speaker 3: this guy was funnier than me, and he was blowing 752 00:33:57,680 --> 00:34:00,280 Speaker 3: up on TikTok and I was like, this guy's of 753 00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:02,080 Speaker 3: a scent in a similar way to let that, like 754 00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:05,320 Speaker 3: Scott Seiss ascended after his Instagram videos? 755 00:34:05,480 --> 00:34:08,040 Speaker 2: Is he the guy that goes the he works in retail? 756 00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:11,160 Speaker 3: Yeah exactly. I thought like the same thing was gonna 757 00:34:11,160 --> 00:34:15,000 Speaker 3: happen to Brian Higginbottom, and unfortunately I think he you know, 758 00:34:15,360 --> 00:34:16,719 Speaker 3: I don't know how he died, but I think it 759 00:34:16,760 --> 00:34:19,960 Speaker 3: was what you would imagine. So he was just about 760 00:34:19,960 --> 00:34:22,480 Speaker 3: to blow up. But I'm sorry he had a This 761 00:34:22,800 --> 00:34:25,120 Speaker 3: part of his bit was talking about his son that 762 00:34:25,200 --> 00:34:28,080 Speaker 3: he didn't have, and he kept just like exaggerating these 763 00:34:28,120 --> 00:34:32,000 Speaker 3: aspects of his son, saying like he's like ten foot tall, 764 00:34:32,040 --> 00:34:34,120 Speaker 3: he's got one eye and one tooth, and he's teaching 765 00:34:34,160 --> 00:34:35,960 Speaker 3: him how to shoot a bow and arrow, and he 766 00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:39,399 Speaker 3: tries to incite the audience to take this kid down 767 00:34:39,440 --> 00:34:41,960 Speaker 3: because he's a menace to society. And like, that's the 768 00:34:42,040 --> 00:34:45,319 Speaker 3: type of exaggeration that Adam Sandler might do, and it 769 00:34:45,360 --> 00:34:48,520 Speaker 3: worked for Brian Higginbottom, an unknown comedian. So I rescind 770 00:34:48,520 --> 00:34:49,919 Speaker 3: my previous statement as the point. 771 00:34:50,000 --> 00:34:53,000 Speaker 1: Okay, I do think that Adam could get. This is 772 00:34:53,040 --> 00:34:56,160 Speaker 1: what built Adam Sandler is, like the voices and like 773 00:34:56,200 --> 00:35:00,760 Speaker 1: the just silly, the silliness, yeah, and just being free 774 00:35:00,840 --> 00:35:04,200 Speaker 1: to be silly and just and seeming just like a 775 00:35:04,239 --> 00:35:07,719 Speaker 1: good dude throughout it all, even though he has a 776 00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:10,320 Speaker 1: joke where his dad's penis pokes him in the eye. 777 00:35:11,719 --> 00:35:14,919 Speaker 1: If there's some crazy stuff in this, he goes down 778 00:35:14,920 --> 00:35:18,200 Speaker 1: on a balloon. It's just so, it's so you guys, 779 00:35:18,239 --> 00:35:20,279 Speaker 1: it's so weird. But what were you going to say, 780 00:35:20,320 --> 00:35:22,239 Speaker 1: did you? 781 00:35:21,600 --> 00:35:23,719 Speaker 2: The song is really good? 782 00:35:24,760 --> 00:35:26,680 Speaker 3: Well, the song at the end, yeah, it's really it's 783 00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:31,000 Speaker 3: a heartfelt song at the end, and and as as 784 00:35:31,000 --> 00:35:35,600 Speaker 3: a person of in comedy, it's doubly uh sad and touching. 785 00:35:36,080 --> 00:35:38,560 Speaker 3: But what stuck out to me for the special was 786 00:35:38,800 --> 00:35:41,520 Speaker 3: the direction, the directing. 787 00:35:41,200 --> 00:35:42,520 Speaker 2: And the oh yeah. 788 00:35:43,880 --> 00:35:46,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, and just the way that he approached the special 789 00:35:46,200 --> 00:35:48,680 Speaker 3: to make it like, you know, he's an arena comedian. 790 00:35:49,239 --> 00:35:51,520 Speaker 3: He's selling on arenas and he chose to shoot like 791 00:35:51,600 --> 00:35:57,080 Speaker 3: a a staged special and a shithole where about the 792 00:35:57,160 --> 00:35:57,880 Speaker 3: things went wrong? 793 00:35:58,080 --> 00:36:00,600 Speaker 1: A lot of things went wrong. Yeah, but don't you 794 00:36:00,680 --> 00:36:02,760 Speaker 1: think that they went wrong on purpose? 795 00:36:03,200 --> 00:36:04,400 Speaker 3: Yes? No, it's all staged. 796 00:36:04,560 --> 00:36:08,960 Speaker 1: Okay, good anyone who's thinking that the screens like I 797 00:36:09,000 --> 00:36:10,640 Speaker 1: read a review of it and they're like, we don't 798 00:36:10,640 --> 00:36:13,319 Speaker 1: know if the screens really didn't work, or if that 799 00:36:13,440 --> 00:36:15,440 Speaker 1: was stage, or if there really was a fight in 800 00:36:15,480 --> 00:36:17,160 Speaker 1: the audience or if that was stage and it's like 801 00:36:17,719 --> 00:36:21,640 Speaker 1: every single or if he didn't I got confused. There 802 00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:24,600 Speaker 1: was one part where he has a coffee and he's like, 803 00:36:24,680 --> 00:36:27,080 Speaker 1: is there is this Stevia And they're like yeah, and 804 00:36:27,520 --> 00:36:29,560 Speaker 1: he's like yeah, and then he's like no, that's splendor 805 00:36:29,600 --> 00:36:32,160 Speaker 1: and I go, oh, that's real, and Chris is like no, 806 00:36:32,200 --> 00:36:35,160 Speaker 1: it's not. No, this is all set up, and it's 807 00:36:35,239 --> 00:36:36,120 Speaker 1: very I said. 808 00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:38,280 Speaker 3: His windshield's broken at the beginning, and the guy. 809 00:36:39,000 --> 00:36:41,960 Speaker 1: Like pay, but there's I'm waiting for any of this 810 00:36:42,040 --> 00:36:43,920 Speaker 1: to pay off, Like the screen's not working, paying off. 811 00:36:43,960 --> 00:36:45,080 Speaker 2: I'm thinking it's just like. 812 00:36:46,800 --> 00:36:50,160 Speaker 1: Embedded in it to create I don't I don't know 813 00:36:50,200 --> 00:36:51,239 Speaker 1: the purpose of it yet. 814 00:36:51,280 --> 00:36:54,759 Speaker 3: I mean ironic because he's Adam Sandler, He's one of 815 00:36:54,760 --> 00:36:57,479 Speaker 3: the biggest stars in the world, and he's okay ship 816 00:36:57,520 --> 00:36:59,279 Speaker 3: all where they can't get the screens to work. But 817 00:36:59,280 --> 00:37:02,800 Speaker 3: then also it's it's comedic trolling for anybody who thinks 818 00:37:02,840 --> 00:37:06,360 Speaker 3: that it's real. And also it's just it's just comedy 819 00:37:06,400 --> 00:37:10,360 Speaker 3: in general. It's just like, isn't it funny? The whole thing. Also, 820 00:37:10,520 --> 00:37:13,440 Speaker 3: just from the start to the finish, I appreciated because 821 00:37:13,480 --> 00:37:15,879 Speaker 3: it felt like not a stand up special. It felt 822 00:37:15,880 --> 00:37:18,200 Speaker 3: like I was watching a movie of somebody trying to 823 00:37:19,360 --> 00:37:20,439 Speaker 3: yes exactly. 824 00:37:20,160 --> 00:37:22,279 Speaker 1: Which I was totally. I thought that was good too, 825 00:37:22,400 --> 00:37:24,239 Speaker 1: and I liked all the things, like it kind of 826 00:37:24,400 --> 00:37:26,640 Speaker 1: showed what his life is like in terms of the 827 00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:29,080 Speaker 1: demand of someone like being like, can you FaceTime with 828 00:37:29,320 --> 00:37:32,440 Speaker 1: my somebody he's he's been a scooter accident. Okay, can 829 00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:35,280 Speaker 1: you sign all these jerseseys it's for an MS charity? 830 00:37:35,520 --> 00:37:38,439 Speaker 1: Can you do like all the asks he's getting before 831 00:37:38,440 --> 00:37:41,040 Speaker 1: he goes on stage. But I'm guessing come from such 832 00:37:41,040 --> 00:37:44,880 Speaker 1: a real place. But I just I just love his 833 00:37:44,960 --> 00:37:46,520 Speaker 1: songs and his his and. 834 00:37:46,560 --> 00:37:47,839 Speaker 3: The comedy is good too on. 835 00:37:47,760 --> 00:37:50,040 Speaker 1: Top of it, but all of it's so good. He's 836 00:37:50,080 --> 00:37:52,000 Speaker 1: so cute, he's so great, he's so likable. 837 00:37:52,560 --> 00:37:56,200 Speaker 3: Fun fact and yeah, this is maybe a Nicky Glazer 838 00:37:56,239 --> 00:37:59,920 Speaker 3: podcast exclusive fact as he dropped the microphone embarrassing that 839 00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:06,359 Speaker 3: I was basically just got a safety of podcast. So 840 00:38:06,680 --> 00:38:14,480 Speaker 3: Adam Sandler filmed that special at the Nocturn Theater in Glendale, California. Okay, 841 00:38:14,920 --> 00:38:19,359 Speaker 3: really close to La. Yeah, and there's only been one 842 00:38:19,480 --> 00:38:23,680 Speaker 3: other comedy special filmed at the Nocturn Theater in Glendale 843 00:38:23,719 --> 00:38:27,040 Speaker 3: at the time. Another one, there's a yeah, there's another one, 844 00:38:27,400 --> 00:38:32,319 Speaker 3: and that was Adam Conover's stand up special, which is 845 00:38:32,360 --> 00:38:35,480 Speaker 3: coming out on Dropout TV this month. 846 00:38:35,840 --> 00:38:36,919 Speaker 2: What is dropout TV? 847 00:38:38,040 --> 00:38:41,719 Speaker 3: Dropout TV is what College Humor has become. It's a 848 00:38:41,760 --> 00:38:46,480 Speaker 3: subscription service online that has bespoke content for pretty much nerds. 849 00:38:47,560 --> 00:38:50,680 Speaker 3: But it's extremely popular and successful and has found an 850 00:38:50,680 --> 00:38:55,000 Speaker 3: incredible niche. It's really quite remarkable how the College Humor 851 00:38:55,200 --> 00:39:00,640 Speaker 3: guy for got his name, Ricky, Yeah, Ricky Valez a committee, 852 00:39:00,640 --> 00:39:03,120 Speaker 3: he's a comedian, No, but he was Mayor Van Veen 853 00:39:03,680 --> 00:39:04,360 Speaker 3: Sam Reich. 854 00:39:05,400 --> 00:39:05,759 Speaker 1: I don't know. 855 00:39:06,719 --> 00:39:11,640 Speaker 3: Okay, Well, anyway, it's amazing how after College Humor ended 856 00:39:12,320 --> 00:39:14,360 Speaker 3: he still managed to create a brand new thing that 857 00:39:14,440 --> 00:39:16,640 Speaker 3: is now almost just as successful as College Humor and 858 00:39:16,719 --> 00:39:17,399 Speaker 3: drop Out TV. 859 00:39:17,800 --> 00:39:19,120 Speaker 1: Okay, well, but the point is. 860 00:39:19,360 --> 00:39:22,120 Speaker 3: The point is two specials filmed with the Nocturne Theater, 861 00:39:22,239 --> 00:39:23,840 Speaker 3: both by comedians named Adam. 862 00:39:24,440 --> 00:39:27,200 Speaker 1: Oh wow, we're on this first name thing again. Yeah, 863 00:39:27,239 --> 00:39:29,280 Speaker 1: are there any other nicky comedians? 864 00:39:30,560 --> 00:39:34,080 Speaker 3: Well, your biggest competition, in my mind, Your biggest competition 865 00:39:34,120 --> 00:39:37,600 Speaker 3: in my mind is Nicky Hayley. Yeah, who spells her 866 00:39:37,680 --> 00:39:40,560 Speaker 3: name the same way and is going totally different directions. 867 00:39:40,600 --> 00:39:42,800 Speaker 2: So interesting to try to be a president. 868 00:39:43,440 --> 00:39:45,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, when your name is NICKI I know, I always 869 00:39:45,719 --> 00:39:47,719 Speaker 1: knew that was never in the cards for me, not 870 00:39:47,760 --> 00:39:50,080 Speaker 1: just because I'm a woman, but also because or I 871 00:39:50,120 --> 00:39:51,919 Speaker 1: felt it wasn't in the cards because I was a woman, 872 00:39:52,080 --> 00:39:56,160 Speaker 1: but also Nicky is just not a serious person. No 873 00:39:56,239 --> 00:40:00,640 Speaker 1: offense to me, Yeah, but it's just like it's just 874 00:40:00,760 --> 00:40:03,879 Speaker 1: not my mom. That my parents gave me the name 875 00:40:03,960 --> 00:40:06,719 Speaker 1: Nicole on my birth certificate in case I wanted to 876 00:40:06,760 --> 00:40:10,800 Speaker 1: be a serious person. That that's what they said, in case, 877 00:40:11,040 --> 00:40:12,759 Speaker 1: you know, when you wanted to be a professional and 878 00:40:12,800 --> 00:40:16,560 Speaker 1: I never needed it, but it is there and I've 879 00:40:16,560 --> 00:40:18,200 Speaker 1: never been called it in my life, but people are 880 00:40:18,239 --> 00:40:20,040 Speaker 1: always surprised that that is my my name. 881 00:40:20,040 --> 00:40:25,640 Speaker 3: But with Bernie, like Bernie Sanders, like that's not a serious. 882 00:40:27,640 --> 00:40:32,080 Speaker 1: I never even thought about that. So I can't stop 883 00:40:32,200 --> 00:40:38,000 Speaker 1: buying Taylor swift merch. It's honestly become a problem. I 884 00:40:38,080 --> 00:40:41,200 Speaker 1: don't I every single day I make a new purchase. 885 00:40:43,040 --> 00:40:47,160 Speaker 1: It's there's too much of it. It's actually I brought 886 00:40:47,239 --> 00:40:50,120 Speaker 1: I bought four three new sweatshirts and a T shirt 887 00:40:50,120 --> 00:40:52,279 Speaker 1: this morning. I got a package last night that Chris 888 00:40:52,360 --> 00:40:54,480 Speaker 1: was cracking up because it's just a bunch of random 889 00:40:54,520 --> 00:40:56,439 Speaker 1: crap that I kind of some of it I already own. 890 00:40:58,000 --> 00:41:01,400 Speaker 1: It's I don't I don't know what's happening why I 891 00:41:01,440 --> 00:41:03,440 Speaker 1: need all this stuff, And I don't even like wear 892 00:41:03,480 --> 00:41:07,239 Speaker 1: it all that often. And when I do, I because 893 00:41:07,280 --> 00:41:09,080 Speaker 1: I do want to connect with other Swifties, and that's 894 00:41:09,120 --> 00:41:11,040 Speaker 1: why I wear it, I think, but I don't really 895 00:41:11,080 --> 00:41:12,960 Speaker 1: get to connect with those. No one ever talks to 896 00:41:12,960 --> 00:41:15,040 Speaker 1: me about it, So I kind of feel just like dumb. 897 00:41:15,200 --> 00:41:18,440 Speaker 1: I feel like a real safety in it sometimes because 898 00:41:18,480 --> 00:41:21,600 Speaker 1: I just feel like, uh, I want to connect, people 899 00:41:21,640 --> 00:41:26,640 Speaker 1: aren't connecting with it. I am also feeling like shopping 900 00:41:26,760 --> 00:41:30,359 Speaker 1: is like bringing me is I'm using it as a 901 00:41:30,560 --> 00:41:35,279 Speaker 1: crutch sometimes. Online shopping, getting packages, getting new things so awarting. 902 00:41:35,680 --> 00:41:38,359 Speaker 2: You just get that little dope, Oh my. 903 00:41:38,360 --> 00:41:42,600 Speaker 3: God, you're addicted to And it's so easy. 904 00:41:42,480 --> 00:41:43,480 Speaker 2: When it's apples. 905 00:41:44,200 --> 00:41:45,840 Speaker 1: Every day I buy a new thing because there's a 906 00:41:45,840 --> 00:41:49,200 Speaker 1: new sale going on yesterday. Emily, my social media girl 907 00:41:49,200 --> 00:41:52,359 Speaker 1: who I talked about last week, she was like, a girl, 908 00:41:52,560 --> 00:41:55,719 Speaker 1: there is a sale on Abercrombie twenty percent off all 909 00:41:55,880 --> 00:41:59,040 Speaker 1: NFL merch You need to get cheap stuff. This stuff 910 00:41:59,080 --> 00:42:01,000 Speaker 1: is so cute. She sent me like four screenshots that 911 00:42:01,080 --> 00:42:02,800 Speaker 1: was like, just send me the links. I need this stuff. 912 00:42:03,080 --> 00:42:05,640 Speaker 1: I bought a Chief's jacket. I bought a Chief sweat, 913 00:42:05,640 --> 00:42:10,560 Speaker 1: two Chief sweatshirts, a Chief's T shirt, all mends. Don't 914 00:42:10,560 --> 00:42:12,680 Speaker 1: really know if I got the right sizing, but that 915 00:42:12,880 --> 00:42:14,960 Speaker 1: counts as Taylor Swiths merchandise too, by the way, Like 916 00:42:15,000 --> 00:42:17,120 Speaker 1: this is not this is this is what it is. 917 00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:19,520 Speaker 1: That's like all I buy now. I really don't know. 918 00:42:19,880 --> 00:42:23,319 Speaker 1: There's really no guide on how to fucking dress as 919 00:42:23,360 --> 00:42:27,200 Speaker 1: a professional like woman in this world try to send 920 00:42:27,200 --> 00:42:30,880 Speaker 1: me and I've asked for this before. There's no one 921 00:42:31,360 --> 00:42:34,439 Speaker 1: telling you how to shop anymore. And some besties sent 922 00:42:34,480 --> 00:42:38,439 Speaker 1: me like Page Disorbo's Amazon account, which was helpful, except 923 00:42:38,520 --> 00:42:40,720 Speaker 1: everything sold out and she hasn't updated it in forever. 924 00:42:40,760 --> 00:42:43,279 Speaker 1: And I will wear anything Page disorber wears because she's 925 00:42:43,280 --> 00:42:44,920 Speaker 1: the cutest, even though it won't look that cute on me. 926 00:42:45,400 --> 00:42:49,719 Speaker 1: But show me a blog where girls put together an 927 00:42:49,760 --> 00:42:52,520 Speaker 1: outfit and you can just buy everything on the outfit. 928 00:42:52,760 --> 00:42:55,720 Speaker 1: Show me one, just give me one. Weren't they around 929 00:42:55,760 --> 00:42:57,840 Speaker 1: a lot? Like, No, it wasn't it was the past. 930 00:42:57,920 --> 00:43:01,040 Speaker 1: This was like twenty thirteen. I remember following cute girls 931 00:43:01,120 --> 00:43:03,960 Speaker 1: blogs blog spots, and you go when you would click 932 00:43:03,960 --> 00:43:05,400 Speaker 1: on the picture and there would be all the links 933 00:43:05,400 --> 00:43:08,040 Speaker 1: to the things that they bought. Now I don't know 934 00:43:08,160 --> 00:43:12,480 Speaker 1: where to go. Like when you type in like cute fault, 935 00:43:12,640 --> 00:43:15,680 Speaker 1: like what sneakers are people wearing this fall? Or like 936 00:43:15,760 --> 00:43:18,319 Speaker 1: what kind of boot style is in this fall? You 937 00:43:18,400 --> 00:43:21,440 Speaker 1: get all different. I don't know what. I don't know 938 00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:25,000 Speaker 1: what type of shoe to wear? Shoes are confounding to 939 00:43:25,080 --> 00:43:28,280 Speaker 1: me girls, I don't know what, because sometimes a style 940 00:43:28,320 --> 00:43:31,800 Speaker 1: will go out so quickly and be so bad looking 941 00:43:32,320 --> 00:43:35,160 Speaker 1: to people who know fashion, and I'm so embarrassed to 942 00:43:35,160 --> 00:43:36,719 Speaker 1: wear it. And sometimes I ask my friend Sara Lena 943 00:43:36,760 --> 00:43:39,160 Speaker 1: because she just has natural good style that like shifts 944 00:43:39,200 --> 00:43:41,000 Speaker 1: with the culture and she doesn't even have to try, 945 00:43:41,320 --> 00:43:43,040 Speaker 1: and so I'll be like, do you think these are cute? 946 00:43:43,160 --> 00:43:45,279 Speaker 1: And she's too nice to be like no, So I 947 00:43:45,280 --> 00:43:47,359 Speaker 1: don't even ask her anymore because I just know she'll 948 00:43:47,360 --> 00:43:49,479 Speaker 1: be nice but like, and I don't want to bother 949 00:43:49,520 --> 00:43:50,960 Speaker 1: her to be like, will you find the right shoe 950 00:43:50,960 --> 00:43:53,520 Speaker 1: for this dress? But I don't know what? I know 951 00:43:53,560 --> 00:43:55,520 Speaker 1: You're like, get a stylist. I do have stylists. They're 952 00:43:55,640 --> 00:43:58,160 Speaker 1: very expensive and I love them so much and they're 953 00:43:58,160 --> 00:44:00,600 Speaker 1: good for like an outfit here and there when I'm 954 00:44:00,640 --> 00:44:02,239 Speaker 1: going to an event where I need to look head 955 00:44:02,239 --> 00:44:04,600 Speaker 1: to so amazing, but I can't afford them on a 956 00:44:04,640 --> 00:44:06,640 Speaker 1: day to day basis. I don't know what you're supposed 957 00:44:06,680 --> 00:44:09,319 Speaker 1: to do, Noah, Like I go to Free People, which 958 00:44:09,360 --> 00:44:10,960 Speaker 1: is like, oh, they have a lot of cute shit. 959 00:44:11,280 --> 00:44:13,360 Speaker 1: I'm overwhelmed. I don't know how to put it together. 960 00:44:13,440 --> 00:44:15,320 Speaker 4: Me too, I have the app and I just spend 961 00:44:15,400 --> 00:44:18,880 Speaker 4: so waste so much time scrolling through. I have the 962 00:44:18,920 --> 00:44:20,799 Speaker 4: same shoe problem. I don't know what shoes to wear. 963 00:44:21,040 --> 00:44:22,200 Speaker 2: I don't know what shoes to wear. 964 00:44:22,520 --> 00:44:25,239 Speaker 1: I don't know if it's cute to have a chunky heel. 965 00:44:25,280 --> 00:44:27,760 Speaker 1: I don't know if it's cute to have big straps. 966 00:44:27,760 --> 00:44:29,480 Speaker 1: I don't know if it's bad to have your feet out. 967 00:44:29,520 --> 00:44:31,400 Speaker 1: I don't know if it's good to have Like, I 968 00:44:31,480 --> 00:44:34,719 Speaker 1: don't know what to wear, and I don't see anyone 969 00:44:34,840 --> 00:44:37,799 Speaker 1: trying to help us. And I am not blunt. No 970 00:44:37,840 --> 00:44:39,960 Speaker 1: one's trying to help us. And so that's why I 971 00:44:39,960 --> 00:44:42,439 Speaker 1: buy Taylor Swift merch because I feel in some way 972 00:44:42,440 --> 00:44:45,560 Speaker 1: it's been approved by Taylor Swift, thus it must be cool. 973 00:44:45,600 --> 00:44:47,840 Speaker 1: Even though she doesn't wear her own merch, which is fine, 974 00:44:48,600 --> 00:44:50,960 Speaker 1: I still feel the ed's approved it, so I will 975 00:44:50,960 --> 00:44:53,439 Speaker 1: wear it. That's why Taylor Swift styled. Whenever they say 976 00:44:53,440 --> 00:44:56,760 Speaker 1: what she wore, I buy it because it's already approved 977 00:44:56,800 --> 00:44:58,800 Speaker 1: by someone. But I don't know who to trust. You 978 00:44:58,880 --> 00:45:00,560 Speaker 1: can't go to shop bop dot co and be like, 979 00:45:00,640 --> 00:45:02,400 Speaker 1: what are the best sellers? They're lying to you when 980 00:45:02,440 --> 00:45:04,400 Speaker 1: it's best sellers. And also I don't even know who's 981 00:45:04,440 --> 00:45:06,560 Speaker 1: buying from Shop pop it could be girls without good style. 982 00:45:06,600 --> 00:45:08,440 Speaker 1: I don't know what's bestseller I can't trust. 983 00:45:08,680 --> 00:45:11,239 Speaker 3: Isn't this what influencers are? Like? I feel like every 984 00:45:11,280 --> 00:45:13,440 Speaker 3: time I see an influencer, they're always saying They're always 985 00:45:13,440 --> 00:45:15,319 Speaker 3: like showing a picture of their clothes and then just 986 00:45:15,360 --> 00:45:16,680 Speaker 3: saying where they got them from? 987 00:45:16,920 --> 00:45:20,280 Speaker 1: No, these girls, I'm not kidding you. I'm I'm sorry. 988 00:45:20,320 --> 00:45:24,600 Speaker 1: Alex Brenstein, not the girl who does the lowest. 989 00:45:24,280 --> 00:45:26,400 Speaker 2: Voice okay on Family Guy. 990 00:45:26,760 --> 00:45:30,080 Speaker 1: But there's another girl that has a similar name, cutest 991 00:45:30,080 --> 00:45:34,200 Speaker 1: style going. I am obsessed with her. Sorry, I haven't 992 00:45:34,280 --> 00:45:36,680 Speaker 1: learned her name. It's something like that. But you know 993 00:45:36,719 --> 00:45:38,400 Speaker 1: how you know someone very well, but you've never like 994 00:45:38,520 --> 00:45:41,360 Speaker 1: read their name. Does that make any sense to anyone? 995 00:45:41,440 --> 00:45:44,120 Speaker 1: And like really put it in your head? It's so embarrassing. 996 00:45:44,120 --> 00:45:46,440 Speaker 1: It happens to me all the time. But she has 997 00:45:46,480 --> 00:45:48,080 Speaker 1: a great style. But I will click and be like, 998 00:45:48,120 --> 00:45:50,759 Speaker 1: what where is this from? And I like can't find it. 999 00:45:50,800 --> 00:45:53,200 Speaker 1: Like they'll just do the link to like the the 1000 00:45:53,760 --> 00:45:56,040 Speaker 1: it's always Chanelle or Gucci or something, and I'm not 1001 00:45:56,040 --> 00:45:58,440 Speaker 1: buying that shit, Like I want to know what to 1002 00:45:58,480 --> 00:45:59,120 Speaker 1: get at Zara. 1003 00:46:00,600 --> 00:46:02,120 Speaker 2: But I also feel bad about that. 1004 00:46:02,120 --> 00:46:03,000 Speaker 3: I don't. I don't know. 1005 00:46:04,320 --> 00:46:05,920 Speaker 1: I just don't know what to wear. And that's I 1006 00:46:05,960 --> 00:46:07,960 Speaker 1: think that's the root of why I'm buying Taylor Swift 1007 00:46:08,040 --> 00:46:10,920 Speaker 1: Merchant because I feel in some way it's been approved 1008 00:46:10,920 --> 00:46:14,880 Speaker 1: by someone whose style I like. Yeah, and it really hasn't. 1009 00:46:15,239 --> 00:46:17,320 Speaker 1: It's just a safe thing for me to buy. 1010 00:46:17,880 --> 00:46:21,520 Speaker 3: In the future and the near future, you're gonna be 1011 00:46:21,560 --> 00:46:25,680 Speaker 3: watching TV Amazon especially, You're going to be seeing someone 1012 00:46:25,719 --> 00:46:28,000 Speaker 3: wearing something on a TV show and then you can 1013 00:46:28,080 --> 00:46:29,920 Speaker 3: just click on that thing they're wearing and you'll be 1014 00:46:29,920 --> 00:46:31,160 Speaker 3: able to buy it from your TV. 1015 00:46:32,200 --> 00:46:36,520 Speaker 1: Why isn't that here yet? This technology was promised to us. 1016 00:46:36,560 --> 00:46:38,799 Speaker 1: I feel like flying cars like many years ago. 1017 00:46:39,120 --> 00:46:41,600 Speaker 3: Like I think Amazon's going to do it first. I 1018 00:46:41,600 --> 00:46:42,640 Speaker 3: guarantee and. 1019 00:46:44,239 --> 00:46:49,200 Speaker 1: Shorts T shirts. Now I look like a scrub everywhere 1020 00:46:49,200 --> 00:46:53,319 Speaker 1: I go. I'm disappointing to the masses who have any 1021 00:46:53,440 --> 00:46:56,080 Speaker 1: kind of Like I went to a store the other 1022 00:46:56,160 --> 00:46:58,920 Speaker 1: day and I looked so disgusting that and I was 1023 00:46:58,960 --> 00:47:01,719 Speaker 1: returning clothes, which is never I'm gonna tell a story 1024 00:47:01,719 --> 00:47:03,080 Speaker 1: I when I get back from break because it's kind 1025 00:47:03,080 --> 00:47:06,640 Speaker 1: of fun. So I went to a store the other 1026 00:47:06,680 --> 00:47:09,480 Speaker 1: day to return some items which I never do. I 1027 00:47:09,480 --> 00:47:11,279 Speaker 1: was so proud of myself, but I'm also nervous because 1028 00:47:11,280 --> 00:47:13,280 Speaker 1: whenever I return items, I always feel like I'm breaking 1029 00:47:13,360 --> 00:47:16,239 Speaker 1: the law somehow, like i've somehow like like I'm not 1030 00:47:16,280 --> 00:47:18,879 Speaker 1: a person who wears things and then returns them, even 1031 00:47:18,880 --> 00:47:20,439 Speaker 1: though I know that's a thing. So I think they 1032 00:47:20,480 --> 00:47:23,120 Speaker 1: think I'm doing that, which is totally gross to do 1033 00:47:23,160 --> 00:47:25,120 Speaker 1: with the kind of ath leisure wear that I was returning. 1034 00:47:25,640 --> 00:47:27,160 Speaker 1: But I walked in the store and I was wearing 1035 00:47:27,160 --> 00:47:28,399 Speaker 1: a grubby tailor swift shirt. 1036 00:47:28,440 --> 00:47:29,920 Speaker 2: Not because it's grubby. 1037 00:47:29,600 --> 00:47:33,319 Speaker 1: Inherently, it was grubby because I everything I wash and 1038 00:47:33,440 --> 00:47:36,200 Speaker 1: dry goes to shit for some reason. Like things just 1039 00:47:36,280 --> 00:47:39,480 Speaker 1: look grubby that I own because I'm stained. I'm a 1040 00:47:39,520 --> 00:47:43,439 Speaker 1: stained person. And so call back to a million episodes ago. 1041 00:47:43,480 --> 00:47:46,040 Speaker 1: But and then I was wearing biker shorts that had 1042 00:47:46,040 --> 00:47:47,600 Speaker 1: like dog hair on them. I just looked like, and 1043 00:47:47,800 --> 00:47:49,319 Speaker 1: this is the day I woke up at twelve thirty five, 1044 00:47:49,360 --> 00:47:53,319 Speaker 1: This was yesterday. Yeah, And so I walked I walked 1045 00:47:53,360 --> 00:47:57,840 Speaker 1: to this place with my dog, and I have a 1046 00:47:57,880 --> 00:47:58,560 Speaker 1: baseball cap on. 1047 00:47:58,640 --> 00:48:00,000 Speaker 2: I just look not good. 1048 00:48:00,200 --> 00:48:03,960 Speaker 1: I know it. My face is puffy, everything's disheveled, and 1049 00:48:04,040 --> 00:48:06,560 Speaker 1: I'm returning these items, which by the way, it wasn't 1050 00:48:06,719 --> 00:48:09,320 Speaker 1: in the bag from the place they went to, like 1051 00:48:09,320 --> 00:48:11,800 Speaker 1: like I'm returning them to so it's like the items 1052 00:48:11,800 --> 00:48:15,080 Speaker 1: are in a different bag, you know what. Like it 1053 00:48:15,200 --> 00:48:17,840 Speaker 1: just it's that doesn't make you feel good. I always 1054 00:48:17,840 --> 00:48:19,360 Speaker 1: feel like a criminal when I'm doing that, Like I 1055 00:48:19,400 --> 00:48:21,360 Speaker 1: always like to find the bag. 1056 00:48:22,280 --> 00:48:25,680 Speaker 3: With grocery store bag. It wasn't like a Ralph's, was it. 1057 00:48:25,840 --> 00:48:29,680 Speaker 2: No random toe. 1058 00:48:29,840 --> 00:48:32,480 Speaker 4: They never take a bag though when I try to 1059 00:48:32,480 --> 00:48:34,279 Speaker 4: return it with the bag, I want them to reuse it, 1060 00:48:34,320 --> 00:48:36,040 Speaker 4: and they just always give it back, so they don't. 1061 00:48:36,080 --> 00:48:37,160 Speaker 2: They'll just throw it away. 1062 00:48:37,239 --> 00:48:39,640 Speaker 1: But it does look you make you look legitimate, like, oh, 1063 00:48:39,719 --> 00:48:42,400 Speaker 1: she's been here before, she shops here. She didn't just 1064 00:48:42,480 --> 00:48:45,080 Speaker 1: buy the like get these on the street first. 1065 00:48:45,120 --> 00:48:47,719 Speaker 3: She was here recently enough that she still has the 1066 00:48:47,760 --> 00:48:48,680 Speaker 3: bag there. 1067 00:48:49,680 --> 00:48:53,480 Speaker 1: It just makes you feel like you belong and that 1068 00:48:53,520 --> 00:48:56,120 Speaker 1: you're not doing anything shifty, even though I wasn't. Even 1069 00:48:56,160 --> 00:48:58,040 Speaker 1: though I did try on the shirt and these the 1070 00:48:58,120 --> 00:49:00,840 Speaker 1: tags at this place are safety pin on, so I 1071 00:49:00,880 --> 00:49:02,319 Speaker 1: took it off because I thought the shirt was one 1072 00:49:02,360 --> 00:49:04,880 Speaker 1: hundred percent gonna fit, and it one hundred percent it 1073 00:49:04,960 --> 00:49:06,319 Speaker 1: like two hundred percent did not fit. 1074 00:49:06,440 --> 00:49:09,280 Speaker 2: It was like three sizes too small. So I immediately 1075 00:49:09,280 --> 00:49:10,000 Speaker 2: put the tag back on. 1076 00:49:10,040 --> 00:49:11,960 Speaker 1: But I didn't know where the tag was safety pinned 1077 00:49:12,160 --> 00:49:15,000 Speaker 1: on it, so I disclosed that. I said, hey, I 1078 00:49:15,000 --> 00:49:17,560 Speaker 1: tried this on. Once I took the safety pin tag off, 1079 00:49:17,600 --> 00:49:19,160 Speaker 1: I put it back on. It's not in the right spot. 1080 00:49:19,200 --> 00:49:20,600 Speaker 1: You're gonna have to put it back in the right spot. 1081 00:49:21,200 --> 00:49:25,800 Speaker 1: She didn't care. She didn't even like I thought, maybe 1082 00:49:25,840 --> 00:49:27,560 Speaker 1: she was like listening to headphones or something. You know 1083 00:49:27,600 --> 00:49:29,160 Speaker 1: when you talk to someone and they don't reply, and 1084 00:49:29,200 --> 00:49:30,920 Speaker 1: you go, oh, headphones. At least that's what I hope 1085 00:49:30,920 --> 00:49:32,480 Speaker 1: people do for me when I don't reply to them, 1086 00:49:32,520 --> 00:49:35,120 Speaker 1: because that is the case. But she didn't say anything. 1087 00:49:35,120 --> 00:49:37,200 Speaker 1: She wasn't listening to headphones. She just heard me, I guess, 1088 00:49:37,280 --> 00:49:39,040 Speaker 1: but didn't care to respond to that. And she's kind 1089 00:49:39,080 --> 00:49:40,920 Speaker 1: of like sorting through these clothes and a couple of 1090 00:49:40,920 --> 00:49:43,200 Speaker 1: them have little like two pieces of dog hair on it. 1091 00:49:43,239 --> 00:49:44,800 Speaker 1: I see it in the light and I'm like, oh, 1092 00:49:44,840 --> 00:49:47,000 Speaker 1: oh my god, this looks so gross. Even though I 1093 00:49:47,040 --> 00:49:48,880 Speaker 1: literally tried it on and like took it right off 1094 00:49:48,960 --> 00:49:50,960 Speaker 1: and I checked for deodorant stains, like it was clear, 1095 00:49:50,960 --> 00:49:52,520 Speaker 1: but it maybe had two pieces of dog hair, but 1096 00:49:52,600 --> 00:49:54,960 Speaker 1: I just felt grubby, like, oh my god, I'm such 1097 00:49:55,000 --> 00:49:55,640 Speaker 1: a bad person. 1098 00:49:56,320 --> 00:49:57,040 Speaker 2: I felt bad. 1099 00:49:57,520 --> 00:49:59,359 Speaker 1: And then I even like was trying to light the mood, 1100 00:49:59,360 --> 00:50:01,080 Speaker 1: and I was like, oh my I literally thought I 1101 00:50:01,120 --> 00:50:02,799 Speaker 1: was two sizes smaller than I was when I bought 1102 00:50:02,840 --> 00:50:03,919 Speaker 1: these blindly the other day. 1103 00:50:04,640 --> 00:50:05,840 Speaker 2: And still nothing. 1104 00:50:06,239 --> 00:50:10,000 Speaker 1: And I go, oh god, you know, I this girl 1105 00:50:10,000 --> 00:50:13,839 Speaker 1: hates me. I hate myself honestly, and I hope she 1106 00:50:13,880 --> 00:50:15,480 Speaker 1: rejects this. And she goes, do you have the receipt? 1107 00:50:15,520 --> 00:50:17,200 Speaker 1: And I was like, yeah, I have an emailed hold 1108 00:50:17,200 --> 00:50:20,520 Speaker 1: on one second, so I'm looking up the receipt. She's like, 1109 00:50:20,560 --> 00:50:24,799 Speaker 1: I'll just get your number. And at this moment, I 1110 00:50:24,840 --> 00:50:27,640 Speaker 1: had the thought that I hope she knows who I am. 1111 00:50:27,760 --> 00:50:30,280 Speaker 1: I've never had that thought. I literally don't have that thought. 1112 00:50:30,560 --> 00:50:32,239 Speaker 1: Maybe once or twice I've been like, oh, so I 1113 00:50:32,239 --> 00:50:33,640 Speaker 1: can get a good table or something, or they can 1114 00:50:33,680 --> 00:50:35,080 Speaker 1: make it work for us to get a table at 1115 00:50:35,080 --> 00:50:37,240 Speaker 1: a place. I've been like, I hope I get recognized, 1116 00:50:37,520 --> 00:50:39,799 Speaker 1: but it's never really on the front. It's it doesn't 1117 00:50:39,800 --> 00:50:41,640 Speaker 1: occur to me. But in this moment, I was like, 1118 00:50:42,280 --> 00:50:46,080 Speaker 1: I want her to know I'm not a scrub, you know, like. 1119 00:50:46,040 --> 00:50:47,840 Speaker 2: I just and that's a quick way to know. 1120 00:50:48,840 --> 00:50:51,239 Speaker 1: And so I give her my number and she goes, oh, 1121 00:50:51,400 --> 00:50:53,319 Speaker 1: oh my god, I love you. Oh my god, why 1122 00:50:53,320 --> 00:50:55,520 Speaker 1: are you here? What are you doing here? And I 1123 00:50:55,560 --> 00:50:57,080 Speaker 1: was like I live here, and she was like, wait, 1124 00:50:57,120 --> 00:50:59,480 Speaker 1: but aren't you on tour? And she was like she 1125 00:50:59,520 --> 00:51:01,799 Speaker 1: like knew at me. And then suddenly she got very 1126 00:51:01,880 --> 00:51:03,759 Speaker 1: nice and was totally understanding of this. But it was 1127 00:51:04,400 --> 00:51:06,759 Speaker 1: but listen, I would have done the same thing. I 1128 00:51:06,760 --> 00:51:08,719 Speaker 1: mean sometimes at work, you're just like not in the 1129 00:51:08,760 --> 00:51:10,360 Speaker 1: mood for shit, and you're just trying to get your 1130 00:51:10,440 --> 00:51:12,520 Speaker 1: job done in its labor day and you're working and. 1131 00:51:12,840 --> 00:51:16,120 Speaker 3: Working doesn't give her, that's for sure. 1132 00:51:16,160 --> 00:51:19,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, for sure. So I didn't even begrudge her. She 1133 00:51:19,760 --> 00:51:22,120 Speaker 1: wasn't didn't have like an attitude before. She just wasn't 1134 00:51:22,160 --> 00:51:25,000 Speaker 1: like she was just doing her job. And then she 1135 00:51:25,120 --> 00:51:28,960 Speaker 1: totally lit up and was so nice, and I felt 1136 00:51:29,080 --> 00:51:32,320 Speaker 1: I felt that, uh, that little like Julia Roberts Pretty 1137 00:51:32,320 --> 00:51:36,439 Speaker 1: Woman moment of like big mistake, huge, like oh now, 1138 00:51:36,640 --> 00:51:39,560 Speaker 1: But instead it was just me returning things, so like, 1139 00:51:40,719 --> 00:51:42,200 Speaker 1: it's not like that you could have made a lot 1140 00:51:42,200 --> 00:51:44,360 Speaker 1: of money off of me. I'm like Wow, you just 1141 00:51:44,480 --> 00:51:46,480 Speaker 1: lost money, and it was it was a huge mistake 1142 00:51:46,520 --> 00:51:48,319 Speaker 1: because I could have walked out of here and not 1143 00:51:48,520 --> 00:51:51,080 Speaker 1: returned these things, Like what was I trying to prove? 1144 00:51:51,400 --> 00:51:54,160 Speaker 2: But it felt good in that moment too. And then 1145 00:51:54,200 --> 00:51:54,799 Speaker 2: I go, I'm sorry. 1146 00:51:54,840 --> 00:51:55,960 Speaker 1: I looked like shit and she was like, no, you 1147 00:51:55,960 --> 00:51:57,840 Speaker 1: look amazing, And that was a lie. 1148 00:51:57,880 --> 00:51:59,239 Speaker 2: But that was so nice of her too. 1149 00:52:00,920 --> 00:52:03,680 Speaker 1: But that was that was like all you returning three 1150 00:52:03,760 --> 00:52:06,440 Speaker 1: items and getting two hundred and twenty one dollars back 1151 00:52:07,000 --> 00:52:09,640 Speaker 1: on some kind of card is a great feeling. It 1152 00:52:09,680 --> 00:52:13,080 Speaker 1: felt like I had earned that money by not keeping 1153 00:52:13,080 --> 00:52:15,680 Speaker 1: those clothes. Is that the way to make you feel 1154 00:52:15,719 --> 00:52:17,600 Speaker 1: like you earn money is just to buy things, in 1155 00:52:17,640 --> 00:52:18,359 Speaker 1: them return them. 1156 00:52:18,600 --> 00:52:20,920 Speaker 3: Well, yeah, because especially if you're a person who'll just 1157 00:52:21,040 --> 00:52:23,080 Speaker 3: throw it out or donate it and then it is 1158 00:52:23,080 --> 00:52:24,799 Speaker 3: all and then it is like you already you spent 1159 00:52:24,840 --> 00:52:27,160 Speaker 3: the money, so you put in the effort because you 1160 00:52:27,200 --> 00:52:29,919 Speaker 3: did do work. I did get the money back. 1161 00:52:30,000 --> 00:52:33,200 Speaker 1: Oh, I only bought the items. Let me be honest 1162 00:52:33,239 --> 00:52:35,799 Speaker 1: with you, because I went, I was bored. This place 1163 00:52:35,840 --> 00:52:38,879 Speaker 1: is near where I live. I walked in. I didn't 1164 00:52:38,880 --> 00:52:41,960 Speaker 1: want to buy anything. I didn't even like anything, but 1165 00:52:42,040 --> 00:52:46,719 Speaker 1: I just felt like the shop person. It was like 1166 00:52:47,239 --> 00:52:50,280 Speaker 1: just kind of I thought, again, like this shop person 1167 00:52:50,320 --> 00:52:52,640 Speaker 1: thinks I'm grubby and things, I don't have money, and 1168 00:52:52,680 --> 00:52:54,680 Speaker 1: I want to just prove that I am like an 1169 00:52:54,800 --> 00:52:57,359 Speaker 1: actual person that like, even though the person was very 1170 00:52:57,400 --> 00:52:58,800 Speaker 1: helpful and was like can I get you a size 1171 00:52:58,800 --> 00:53:01,280 Speaker 1: in that, like, I could just tell that I wanted 1172 00:53:01,320 --> 00:53:03,440 Speaker 1: to make it worth their while that they went and 1173 00:53:03,480 --> 00:53:05,120 Speaker 1: got a size even though I didn't even want to 1174 00:53:05,160 --> 00:53:08,120 Speaker 1: size with it, and so I was I was literally 1175 00:53:08,160 --> 00:53:11,239 Speaker 1: pressured into buying the thing, which and that's why I 1176 00:53:11,280 --> 00:53:13,120 Speaker 1: go like, oh my god, this is why I like 1177 00:53:13,200 --> 00:53:16,600 Speaker 1: online shopping. No one's being like that looks cute on you? 1178 00:53:16,640 --> 00:53:18,160 Speaker 1: Do you want a size on that? What's going on? 1179 00:53:18,719 --> 00:53:20,440 Speaker 1: Thank you so much to people who work in retail. 1180 00:53:20,480 --> 00:53:22,719 Speaker 1: I know it is a thankless and awful job because 1181 00:53:22,760 --> 00:53:25,280 Speaker 1: you like clean up after people and you really realize 1182 00:53:25,280 --> 00:53:29,640 Speaker 1: how like shitty human beings are. But I don't ever 1183 00:53:29,719 --> 00:53:32,560 Speaker 1: need any help ever in a retail store. I don't 1184 00:53:32,560 --> 00:53:34,560 Speaker 1: think I've ever want and I'm maybe not like a 1185 00:53:34,560 --> 00:53:36,359 Speaker 1: lot of people because I'm you know, I have lots 1186 00:53:36,400 --> 00:53:38,320 Speaker 1: of friends who are like like to try on things 1187 00:53:38,560 --> 00:53:41,600 Speaker 1: and like, oh they are excited to have someone go, 1188 00:53:41,719 --> 00:53:44,440 Speaker 1: I'll start a room for you. I've never wanted anyone 1189 00:53:44,440 --> 00:53:47,359 Speaker 1: to start a room for me. I don't I can't 1190 00:53:47,400 --> 00:53:47,959 Speaker 1: buy the item. 1191 00:53:48,040 --> 00:53:49,200 Speaker 3: People try them on at home? 1192 00:53:49,480 --> 00:53:52,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, one time, Oh, if they tell you something looks cute. 1193 00:53:52,920 --> 00:53:56,120 Speaker 3: I rarely ever go into a store to buy clothes, 1194 00:53:56,239 --> 00:53:59,120 Speaker 3: but one time, in my memory, I went to Bonobos. 1195 00:53:59,160 --> 00:54:00,080 Speaker 3: You know Bonobos. 1196 00:54:00,200 --> 00:54:03,400 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, went oh, and they are very customer service heavy. 1197 00:54:03,560 --> 00:54:04,960 Speaker 3: Yeah. They give you like they're like, do you want 1198 00:54:04,960 --> 00:54:08,600 Speaker 3: a beer? And I'm like what, yeah, yeah, And I'm 1199 00:54:08,600 --> 00:54:11,640 Speaker 3: trying on these shorts and I remember I was trying 1200 00:54:11,640 --> 00:54:16,200 Speaker 3: and I was with someone who I barely know, and 1201 00:54:16,440 --> 00:54:19,960 Speaker 3: I tried on these salmon shorts that were like, oh, 1202 00:54:20,000 --> 00:54:23,319 Speaker 3: that's really high, and I was like, wait is this me? 1203 00:54:23,480 --> 00:54:26,600 Speaker 3: Can I actually wear these? And everyone around me was like, oh, 1204 00:54:26,640 --> 00:54:29,080 Speaker 3: those are amazing, They're so good. And so I bought 1205 00:54:29,080 --> 00:54:31,839 Speaker 3: these salmon shorts and the first time I was wearing them, 1206 00:54:31,880 --> 00:54:34,680 Speaker 3: I was like, I feel like a freak. I would 1207 00:54:34,760 --> 00:54:39,640 Speaker 3: never wear high high salmon shorts ever, and this was 1208 00:54:39,640 --> 00:54:42,080 Speaker 3: a huge mistake. And so I was like, so, how 1209 00:54:42,080 --> 00:54:45,560 Speaker 3: could I trust these The retail person who's telling me 1210 00:54:45,600 --> 00:54:49,080 Speaker 3: that it looks so amazing when they were that wrong. 1211 00:54:49,960 --> 00:54:51,279 Speaker 3: Like so Collise, I. 1212 00:54:51,200 --> 00:54:53,000 Speaker 1: Do like when they go, oh, I get to the 1213 00:54:53,040 --> 00:54:54,959 Speaker 1: front counter and I'm buying something, she goes, oh, I 1214 00:54:55,040 --> 00:54:57,919 Speaker 1: love this. Oh my god, I got one of these too. 1215 00:54:58,000 --> 00:55:00,000 Speaker 1: I got this in like every color. I kind of 1216 00:55:00,040 --> 00:55:03,319 Speaker 1: feel validated and that will make me maybe keep it 1217 00:55:03,440 --> 00:55:06,440 Speaker 1: more because I think it's like a hot item. She's like, 1218 00:55:06,440 --> 00:55:08,319 Speaker 1: oh my god, we were almost out of these or something, 1219 00:55:08,320 --> 00:55:11,719 Speaker 1: you know, like you create a need. But overall, I 1220 00:55:11,800 --> 00:55:14,720 Speaker 1: really I don't want to talk to anyone in the store, 1221 00:55:14,880 --> 00:55:16,879 Speaker 1: and I'm really sorry to everyone who works in stores, 1222 00:55:16,920 --> 00:55:18,799 Speaker 1: and that's like your fucking job, and like if you 1223 00:55:18,840 --> 00:55:21,560 Speaker 1: don't do it, you get reprimanded by management, Like you 1224 00:55:21,640 --> 00:55:23,919 Speaker 1: can't not ask me if I want to start a room. 1225 00:55:24,000 --> 00:55:26,600 Speaker 1: But I don't ever want to start a room. I 1226 00:55:26,640 --> 00:55:29,160 Speaker 1: always want to try everything at home. I've said this before. 1227 00:55:29,280 --> 00:55:32,799 Speaker 1: I do think it's a trick that they have bad 1228 00:55:32,880 --> 00:55:35,040 Speaker 1: lighting in those stores, because it discourages you from trying 1229 00:55:35,080 --> 00:55:37,880 Speaker 1: it on in stores, like a little room where you 1230 00:55:37,880 --> 00:55:39,880 Speaker 1: can't even get it far enough away from the mirror 1231 00:55:40,000 --> 00:55:42,000 Speaker 1: that you feel good about your body, like you're like 1232 00:55:42,120 --> 00:55:44,880 Speaker 1: right up close next to it, like I can't know what. 1233 00:55:45,000 --> 00:55:48,319 Speaker 1: Do you shop at stores? Ever? I? Yes, I do. 1234 00:55:48,600 --> 00:55:51,160 Speaker 4: And because I live in a very small area, I 1235 00:55:51,160 --> 00:55:53,239 Speaker 4: always go to the same stores. And there's one store 1236 00:55:53,239 --> 00:55:56,399 Speaker 4: in particular that I love going to, and there's this 1237 00:55:56,600 --> 00:56:00,319 Speaker 4: sales association. She's really really sweet, very nice, does the 1238 00:56:00,320 --> 00:56:03,160 Speaker 4: same thing. Can I help you find something? No, I'm good, 1239 00:56:03,200 --> 00:56:05,279 Speaker 4: thank you. And then I'll be looking at something to 1240 00:56:05,400 --> 00:56:07,279 Speaker 4: be like, oh that would be cute on you. Can 1241 00:56:07,320 --> 00:56:10,240 Speaker 4: I start a fitting room? All that right? And then yeah, 1242 00:56:10,280 --> 00:56:12,759 Speaker 4: of course because I played into it and I talk 1243 00:56:12,800 --> 00:56:15,160 Speaker 4: to her now every time I go there, she has 1244 00:56:15,200 --> 00:56:15,800 Speaker 4: this conversation. 1245 00:56:15,920 --> 00:56:17,680 Speaker 1: She looks me so like deeply in the eyes and all. 1246 00:56:17,640 --> 00:56:19,080 Speaker 3: Like with me. 1247 00:56:19,600 --> 00:56:21,200 Speaker 1: Oh yeah yeah, And. 1248 00:56:21,160 --> 00:56:23,200 Speaker 4: It's like every time I go there, I love the store. 1249 00:56:23,360 --> 00:56:25,000 Speaker 4: But every time I go there, I was like, Okay, 1250 00:56:25,480 --> 00:56:27,800 Speaker 4: she's not working today, so I could just get things done. 1251 00:56:28,080 --> 00:56:31,439 Speaker 1: God, I know, because that's the other thing is when 1252 00:56:31,440 --> 00:56:33,360 Speaker 1: you touch an item and then they're right behind you 1253 00:56:33,400 --> 00:56:36,839 Speaker 1: and they fix it. You've unfolded an item, and then 1254 00:56:36,960 --> 00:56:38,719 Speaker 1: I try to fold it back and I almost make 1255 00:56:38,760 --> 00:56:40,480 Speaker 1: it look perfect, and then they fix it after me. 1256 00:56:40,600 --> 00:56:44,799 Speaker 1: Like I I can't. I want to. 1257 00:56:45,640 --> 00:56:46,439 Speaker 2: I just want to leave. 1258 00:56:46,640 --> 00:56:51,040 Speaker 1: Although let me, just like completely negate everything I just said. 1259 00:56:51,080 --> 00:56:55,120 Speaker 1: Are you ready? Yesterday I was shopping for like new 1260 00:56:55,200 --> 00:56:57,880 Speaker 1: yoga pants or something, final thought. 1261 00:56:57,880 --> 00:57:00,000 Speaker 3: And you're like, first down does make sense? 1262 00:57:00,840 --> 00:57:03,480 Speaker 1: No, it still doesn't. It never will. And I'm honestly 1263 00:57:03,800 --> 00:57:05,720 Speaker 1: pissed off that no one goes Nikki. 1264 00:57:05,719 --> 00:57:07,120 Speaker 2: That's actually an interesting question. 1265 00:57:07,320 --> 00:57:09,480 Speaker 1: That's all I want is people to go that Actually 1266 00:57:09,640 --> 00:57:11,719 Speaker 1: is weird that they name the steps to the thing 1267 00:57:11,800 --> 00:57:15,760 Speaker 1: the same thing as the thing that's interesting, and calling 1268 00:57:15,800 --> 00:57:18,880 Speaker 1: a ladder a wrung when each of the rungs are 1269 00:57:18,920 --> 00:57:23,520 Speaker 1: called rungs. That's what it is, like, Like, Okay, I 1270 00:57:23,560 --> 00:57:25,520 Speaker 1: want to get up to that tree. Okay, so you're 1271 00:57:25,560 --> 00:57:27,880 Speaker 1: gonna do first tree, then second tree, then third tree, 1272 00:57:27,880 --> 00:57:30,960 Speaker 1: and then you're gonna get up to the tree. What 1273 00:57:30,960 --> 00:57:35,640 Speaker 1: what excuse me? I'm first tree again, and then you're 1274 00:57:35,640 --> 00:57:37,360 Speaker 1: gonna start over and then we're gonna start at first 1275 00:57:37,400 --> 00:57:43,400 Speaker 1: tree again and then yeah, it's it's nuts. This takes me. 1276 00:57:44,600 --> 00:57:48,040 Speaker 1: This is completely the other side of the coin. But 1277 00:57:48,160 --> 00:57:50,600 Speaker 1: Chris and I were talking about I was like lamenting 1278 00:57:50,640 --> 00:57:54,480 Speaker 1: about I was trying to buy some ath leisure and 1279 00:57:54,520 --> 00:57:56,640 Speaker 1: I'm like, God, should I try this brand? And he goes, 1280 00:57:56,640 --> 00:58:00,280 Speaker 1: why don't you Have you ever tried Alo? And I said, Chris, 1281 00:58:00,320 --> 00:58:05,800 Speaker 1: that's very interesting. I will never buy clothing from Alo 1282 00:58:06,680 --> 00:58:10,480 Speaker 1: ever intentionally. I mean, if they give me something after 1283 00:58:10,520 --> 00:58:14,480 Speaker 1: this speech, I will. But and I'm saying this as 1284 00:58:14,640 --> 00:58:17,960 Speaker 1: a white woman who has never really felt this way 1285 00:58:18,040 --> 00:58:19,840 Speaker 1: before in my life, and I just want to make 1286 00:58:19,880 --> 00:58:21,840 Speaker 1: that very clear that I'm talking from a place of 1287 00:58:21,920 --> 00:58:24,240 Speaker 1: like I felt like I was ignored and treated as 1288 00:58:24,280 --> 00:58:29,720 Speaker 1: less then, and it's probably me appropriating something in some 1289 00:58:29,800 --> 00:58:32,320 Speaker 1: way I don't even know. Let me just scratch that 1290 00:58:32,800 --> 00:58:34,680 Speaker 1: not you can leave it in, but scratch it. You 1291 00:58:34,720 --> 00:58:37,120 Speaker 1: know from your memories that you just heard it. You 1292 00:58:37,120 --> 00:58:39,240 Speaker 1: get what I'm saying. I went to an Alo yoga 1293 00:58:39,440 --> 00:58:42,160 Speaker 1: in Beverly Hills and I was dressed a little scrubby, 1294 00:58:42,200 --> 00:58:46,520 Speaker 1: but that's fine, and no one talked to me, and 1295 00:58:46,080 --> 00:58:47,360 Speaker 1: I was no one was talking to me, and I 1296 00:58:47,360 --> 00:58:49,080 Speaker 1: saw them talking to other people asking for help, and 1297 00:58:49,080 --> 00:58:50,520 Speaker 1: I was like, oh God, when is this gonna happen? 1298 00:58:50,520 --> 00:58:53,160 Speaker 1: I don't want it to happen. No one. Then I 1299 00:58:53,200 --> 00:58:55,440 Speaker 1: was like, let me just see how long I can 1300 00:58:55,480 --> 00:58:58,680 Speaker 1: stay here and see if anyone asks if I want 1301 00:58:58,680 --> 00:59:00,560 Speaker 1: help for anything, because it seems to be happening all 1302 00:59:00,600 --> 00:59:03,040 Speaker 1: over the place for these girls with rock and bods, 1303 00:59:03,840 --> 00:59:06,120 Speaker 1: and like, I don't have a horrible bod, but at 1304 00:59:06,120 --> 00:59:08,919 Speaker 1: this point I was not like fit and I looked 1305 00:59:08,920 --> 00:59:10,920 Speaker 1: a little scrubby, like maybe I couldn't afford stuff in 1306 00:59:10,960 --> 00:59:12,960 Speaker 1: there or something, or just like not cool enough to 1307 00:59:12,960 --> 00:59:15,120 Speaker 1: wear it. No one helped me, and I was in 1308 00:59:15,120 --> 00:59:17,440 Speaker 1: there for like twenty minutes trying, like just kind of 1309 00:59:17,480 --> 00:59:19,880 Speaker 1: looking around, giving off the vibe if I need help, 1310 00:59:20,360 --> 00:59:22,960 Speaker 1: and I got I go. That really was shitty, and 1311 00:59:23,000 --> 00:59:24,520 Speaker 1: I didn't like how I felt in there, And I'm 1312 00:59:24,520 --> 00:59:27,160 Speaker 1: sure that's how a lot of people feel going places 1313 00:59:27,280 --> 00:59:29,360 Speaker 1: because of other things they can't control about themselves. I 1314 00:59:29,400 --> 00:59:31,360 Speaker 1: don't know what it was. Maybe I had on a 1315 00:59:31,360 --> 00:59:33,720 Speaker 1: cloak of invisibility that day, which was like a dirty 1316 00:59:33,720 --> 00:59:36,040 Speaker 1: tailor swift sweatshirt or something, and they're like, she can't 1317 00:59:36,040 --> 00:59:38,920 Speaker 1: possibly afford alo yoga even though it's not that expensive. 1318 00:59:39,720 --> 00:59:42,480 Speaker 1: And then but that's not it. Then I went to 1319 00:59:42,560 --> 00:59:45,760 Speaker 1: another one months later, even though I was like, I 1320 00:59:45,800 --> 00:59:49,360 Speaker 1: didn't like that experience, went to another one, same thing happened. 1321 00:59:49,440 --> 00:59:51,439 Speaker 1: No one helps me and they were helping everyone else. 1322 00:59:51,720 --> 00:59:55,000 Speaker 1: So I refused to ever buy from them. Again, because 1323 00:59:55,080 --> 00:59:59,440 Speaker 1: I felt like somehow like every girl in there just 1324 00:59:59,480 --> 01:00:02,440 Speaker 1: like thought I would like so gross, like she doesn't 1325 01:00:02,520 --> 01:00:05,600 Speaker 1: deserve to wear our clothes. And I want to also 1326 01:00:05,680 --> 01:00:08,520 Speaker 1: say this about like Rachel and I was talking to 1327 01:00:08,560 --> 01:00:11,600 Speaker 1: the girls chat about this, but like, why is it 1328 01:00:11,840 --> 01:00:15,560 Speaker 1: that when you walk into a place to buy a 1329 01:00:15,600 --> 01:00:19,600 Speaker 1: clothes and it's like, let's just say, like Artesia or like, 1330 01:00:21,400 --> 01:00:23,880 Speaker 1: I guess, like an alo yoga or I'm trying to 1331 01:00:23,880 --> 01:00:26,320 Speaker 1: think of like not even not Zara, but like a 1332 01:00:26,360 --> 01:00:30,760 Speaker 1: place that's like maybe even anthropology. I don't know if 1333 01:00:30,760 --> 01:00:34,800 Speaker 1: it's anthro but like coach, like yeah, Lululemon, No, not 1334 01:00:34,840 --> 01:00:37,960 Speaker 1: even Nordstrom because they're so friendly, But why is it 1335 01:00:38,160 --> 01:00:42,760 Speaker 1: that I think they're cooler than me and I think 1336 01:00:42,760 --> 01:00:46,200 Speaker 1: they're kind of mean girling me, and I desperately want 1337 01:00:46,200 --> 01:00:48,400 Speaker 1: to win over their approval, and I feel like I 1338 01:00:48,440 --> 01:00:50,680 Speaker 1: have to buy things in order to convince them that 1339 01:00:50,720 --> 01:00:52,360 Speaker 1: I deserve to shop there. I know this is my 1340 01:00:52,440 --> 01:00:54,959 Speaker 1: own insecurity and I should just not care what people think. 1341 01:00:55,360 --> 01:00:56,680 Speaker 2: Easier said than done. 1342 01:00:56,960 --> 01:00:58,760 Speaker 1: But I really look at the root of it, and 1343 01:00:58,760 --> 01:01:01,680 Speaker 1: I'm like, there's no I'm throwing no shade because I 1344 01:01:01,680 --> 01:01:06,280 Speaker 1: think retail is a great profession and one that's really difficult, 1345 01:01:06,360 --> 01:01:08,600 Speaker 1: and one that I would I was always scared to 1346 01:01:08,680 --> 01:01:10,520 Speaker 1: do because I just didn't feel like I was cool 1347 01:01:10,600 --> 01:01:12,760 Speaker 1: enough to do it, like even in high school or college. 1348 01:01:12,760 --> 01:01:14,200 Speaker 1: Like I was like, I don't dress well enough to 1349 01:01:14,240 --> 01:01:16,800 Speaker 1: have that job, and I don't carry myself well enough. 1350 01:01:16,800 --> 01:01:19,160 Speaker 1: I'm not like put together enough. I'm a stained person. 1351 01:01:19,520 --> 01:01:23,040 Speaker 1: But these people I treat like they are in a 1352 01:01:23,120 --> 01:01:25,880 Speaker 1: win tour, you know, Like I act like they are 1353 01:01:25,960 --> 01:01:28,000 Speaker 1: so much better than me, and I want to impress them. 1354 01:01:28,040 --> 01:01:30,000 Speaker 1: And I feel like even bad being in their shop. 1355 01:01:30,080 --> 01:01:35,120 Speaker 1: It's not their shop. They're making maybe a little above 1356 01:01:35,240 --> 01:01:38,480 Speaker 1: minimum wage, and I'm acting like they are richer than me, 1357 01:01:38,760 --> 01:01:41,400 Speaker 1: like not that that's like there's a status to. 1358 01:01:41,640 --> 01:01:44,360 Speaker 3: Their well because they're young and hot and so they 1359 01:01:44,400 --> 01:01:46,360 Speaker 3: automatically are the gatekeepers. 1360 01:01:47,720 --> 01:01:50,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess that's it. I guess there was not 1361 01:01:50,160 --> 01:01:52,400 Speaker 1: really much to explore hair except that they're young and hot. 1362 01:01:52,440 --> 01:01:54,080 Speaker 2: You're so right, and I do. 1363 01:01:54,200 --> 01:01:56,720 Speaker 1: Actually, if I quit comedy and was like, you know what, 1364 01:01:56,720 --> 01:01:58,120 Speaker 1: I just want to get a regular job, I would 1365 01:01:58,200 --> 01:02:01,120 Speaker 1: still never do retail, not be because it's like hard 1366 01:02:01,120 --> 01:02:03,560 Speaker 1: work and stuff. Because I don't think I'm cute enough 1367 01:02:03,560 --> 01:02:07,760 Speaker 1: to do it, and so that is a thing that 1368 01:02:07,920 --> 01:02:08,480 Speaker 1: I I do. 1369 01:02:08,600 --> 01:02:15,520 Speaker 3: Work you an auto parts store or like an r E. I, yeah. 1370 01:02:14,240 --> 01:02:17,080 Speaker 1: No riture, but I. 1371 01:02:19,680 --> 01:02:20,400 Speaker 3: Want this stuff. 1372 01:02:20,520 --> 01:02:23,560 Speaker 1: I feel way stupid. I feel way better working at 1373 01:02:23,560 --> 01:02:26,960 Speaker 1: an ri I and faking being into nature than I 1374 01:02:27,000 --> 01:02:33,240 Speaker 1: would at working at a Bloomy's yeah, or like a 1375 01:02:35,400 --> 01:02:37,760 Speaker 1: oh my god, working at a sex I would be 1376 01:02:38,320 --> 01:02:41,320 Speaker 1: how because you have to dress like you shop there, 1377 01:02:41,360 --> 01:02:43,880 Speaker 1: but you make a wage that makes it so you 1378 01:02:43,920 --> 01:02:46,560 Speaker 1: can't even with your discount. 1379 01:02:46,880 --> 01:02:47,840 Speaker 2: I think most of the time. 1380 01:02:47,880 --> 01:02:49,880 Speaker 1: I mean, I think these women that work at sex 1381 01:02:49,920 --> 01:02:51,920 Speaker 1: at least the one I go to make, there's no 1382 01:02:52,040 --> 01:02:54,800 Speaker 1: way they're like that's their only income. There's just no way. 1383 01:02:54,800 --> 01:02:56,720 Speaker 1: They have to have husbands or something like doing something. 1384 01:02:56,720 --> 01:02:58,880 Speaker 1: It's just it's how do you work those high end 1385 01:02:58,920 --> 01:03:02,000 Speaker 1: stores and dress it. I don't know, maybe there's answers 1386 01:03:02,040 --> 01:03:03,840 Speaker 1: out there, but I just the other day I was 1387 01:03:03,880 --> 01:03:07,480 Speaker 1: like the intimidation I feel shopping and going in places 1388 01:03:07,480 --> 01:03:09,560 Speaker 1: where girls are dressed cute, and it's places I want 1389 01:03:09,560 --> 01:03:12,200 Speaker 1: to shop from, But I'm too intimidated by it. Like 1390 01:03:12,360 --> 01:03:15,440 Speaker 1: even though even those things where you like hire like 1391 01:03:15,480 --> 01:03:18,000 Speaker 1: a stitch fix, you like hire a stylist to like 1392 01:03:18,080 --> 01:03:20,320 Speaker 1: put together a box, are you. Yeah, I was like 1393 01:03:20,400 --> 01:03:22,720 Speaker 1: at times too embarrassed to even get one of those 1394 01:03:22,760 --> 01:03:24,760 Speaker 1: because I didn't want them to see like what they're 1395 01:03:24,760 --> 01:03:27,439 Speaker 1: dealing with. Because I have such shame and insecurity about 1396 01:03:27,440 --> 01:03:30,520 Speaker 1: how I dress. Yeah, it's such a weird thing and 1397 01:03:30,520 --> 01:03:32,520 Speaker 1: that I can't let go of. Like I just even 1398 01:03:32,560 --> 01:03:34,880 Speaker 1: though I've learned a lot of stuff to figure out 1399 01:03:34,880 --> 01:03:37,400 Speaker 1: how to be cute, I still at the end of 1400 01:03:37,400 --> 01:03:40,040 Speaker 1: the day always grab the grubbiest. I have nice things 1401 01:03:40,040 --> 01:03:42,040 Speaker 1: in my closet, I'll never wear them because I feel 1402 01:03:42,320 --> 01:03:46,720 Speaker 1: somehow not deserved age. You're killing it. Yeah, on stage, 1403 01:03:46,760 --> 01:03:47,800 Speaker 1: I rent things. 1404 01:03:49,440 --> 01:03:52,040 Speaker 2: I rent rent the rut. 1405 01:03:51,840 --> 01:03:54,840 Speaker 3: Way strange because in the public eye on stage you're 1406 01:03:54,920 --> 01:03:59,840 Speaker 3: like a fashion icon. Yeah, you wear on during your special? 1407 01:04:00,360 --> 01:04:04,000 Speaker 1: Sure? Oh, because I have a stylists, yeah, telling me 1408 01:04:04,040 --> 01:04:07,400 Speaker 1: exactly what to wear, and I trust them literally blindly. 1409 01:04:07,560 --> 01:04:09,920 Speaker 1: There is I mean sometimes I go, I don't know, 1410 01:04:09,960 --> 01:04:11,760 Speaker 1: I'm not comfortable in this, and that's like the most 1411 01:04:11,760 --> 01:04:15,680 Speaker 1: all way in But I can take literally zero credit 1412 01:04:15,720 --> 01:04:18,480 Speaker 1: for that. They'll be like Nikki the Emmy's is coming 1413 01:04:18,520 --> 01:04:20,120 Speaker 1: up this weekend. I gotta text some of them last week. 1414 01:04:20,640 --> 01:04:22,440 Speaker 1: So what are you thinking for the Emmys? I go, 1415 01:04:22,600 --> 01:04:26,720 Speaker 1: I literally whatever you think. I had no direction, no color, 1416 01:04:26,960 --> 01:04:29,520 Speaker 1: no shape, no style. I go, I want I just 1417 01:04:29,560 --> 01:04:32,800 Speaker 1: want the shoes to be like, not bear traps for 1418 01:04:32,920 --> 01:04:34,680 Speaker 1: my feet, so I can kind of walk, but actually 1419 01:04:34,760 --> 01:04:36,680 Speaker 1: make them bear traps. Who cares, I'll just bring flats. 1420 01:04:36,720 --> 01:04:39,840 Speaker 1: I've learned my lesson, so I don't know. I give 1421 01:04:39,960 --> 01:04:43,120 Speaker 1: no direction. I guess it's nice to know when you 1422 01:04:43,320 --> 01:04:45,080 Speaker 1: know what you want, and it's nice to know when 1423 01:04:45,120 --> 01:04:47,560 Speaker 1: you truly don't know and it doesn't matter. And it 1424 01:04:47,600 --> 01:04:49,960 Speaker 1: reminds me of my mom shopping for back to school 1425 01:04:50,000 --> 01:04:53,080 Speaker 1: clothes all through my childhood, and my mom's screaming at 1426 01:04:53,080 --> 01:04:55,880 Speaker 1: me and famous bar going you don't even know what 1427 01:04:55,960 --> 01:04:59,360 Speaker 1: you like and be being like I don't. But for 1428 01:04:59,400 --> 01:05:02,240 Speaker 1: some reason, my mom's tone insinuated that that made me 1429 01:05:02,280 --> 01:05:04,480 Speaker 1: a flawed person, and so it is ingrained in me 1430 01:05:04,800 --> 01:05:07,000 Speaker 1: that there's something wrong with me that I don't know 1431 01:05:07,040 --> 01:05:10,280 Speaker 1: what I like. But I like Taylor Swift merch. Here 1432 01:05:10,280 --> 01:05:12,880 Speaker 1: you go, and that's and you're about to see at 1433 01:05:13,000 --> 01:05:16,240 Speaker 1: least six new shirts in a row on this podcast, 1434 01:05:16,600 --> 01:05:19,640 Speaker 1: because that's all I can give you. And then I 1435 01:05:19,680 --> 01:05:21,920 Speaker 1: will say that if I ever get a compliment on 1436 01:05:21,960 --> 01:05:24,480 Speaker 1: something from someone who I think is stylish aka Serlena, 1437 01:05:24,600 --> 01:05:26,800 Speaker 1: I will buy that thing for the ever. And that's 1438 01:05:26,880 --> 01:05:29,280 Speaker 1: like the thing I'll buy. She complimented some sunglasses I 1439 01:05:29,280 --> 01:05:34,320 Speaker 1: got from Amazon. I've bought thirteen pairs. I've lost twelve. 1440 01:05:34,880 --> 01:05:38,240 Speaker 1: I can't stop buying them. They're seven ninety nine. I'll 1441 01:05:38,440 --> 01:05:42,439 Speaker 1: try to remember to put a link in my thing, 1442 01:05:42,480 --> 01:05:44,640 Speaker 1: but they're they're They're the ones I've worn on the 1443 01:05:44,680 --> 01:05:46,480 Speaker 1: show that are like look like truck or sunglasses like 1444 01:05:46,480 --> 01:05:48,640 Speaker 1: aviator type, like cover like my entire face and sea. 1445 01:05:48,680 --> 01:05:50,720 Speaker 1: Lena was like, those are cute, girl, and I was like, 1446 01:05:50,760 --> 01:05:51,560 Speaker 1: oh my god, they're Amazon. 1447 01:05:51,600 --> 01:05:52,320 Speaker 2: I was like so excited. 1448 01:05:52,320 --> 01:05:54,160 Speaker 1: She was like I kind of don't need them, but 1449 01:05:54,200 --> 01:05:56,600 Speaker 1: she did say they were cute, and so I will 1450 01:05:56,600 --> 01:06:02,040 Speaker 1: buy them forever. I just anytime a cute girl compliments anything, 1451 01:06:02,120 --> 01:06:04,480 Speaker 1: I will remember it the rest of my life. So 1452 01:06:04,520 --> 01:06:06,760 Speaker 1: if you are a girl up there with good style 1453 01:06:06,840 --> 01:06:10,520 Speaker 1: walking around, when you compliment a girl who's a little 1454 01:06:10,520 --> 01:06:13,880 Speaker 1: bit insecure, you are giving her the greatest hip you 1455 01:06:13,920 --> 01:06:17,400 Speaker 1: can't even imagine. We remember it forever. Noah, pull up 1456 01:06:17,400 --> 01:06:19,320 Speaker 1: from your memory a time where a girl that has 1457 01:06:19,360 --> 01:06:22,080 Speaker 1: my hairstylist. What did she say? What was the shoe? 1458 01:06:22,200 --> 01:06:24,720 Speaker 1: What was the thing you were wearing? And let us know. 1459 01:06:24,880 --> 01:06:27,040 Speaker 4: I know it's a black romper that I got from 1460 01:06:27,040 --> 01:06:28,680 Speaker 4: made Well that I was just gonna wear as like 1461 01:06:28,760 --> 01:06:31,680 Speaker 4: an everyday thing. And she's like, that looks so good. 1462 01:06:31,720 --> 01:06:33,240 Speaker 4: Where did you get it from? I need to get one. 1463 01:06:33,880 --> 01:06:35,640 Speaker 1: And she has great style and you respect her and 1464 01:06:35,680 --> 01:06:37,800 Speaker 1: so she never forgotten it and you will never throw 1465 01:06:37,840 --> 01:06:41,000 Speaker 1: that out right, Never, girls, if you have good style 1466 01:06:41,520 --> 01:06:43,480 Speaker 1: days where I look like I have good style, I'm 1467 01:06:43,480 --> 01:06:46,680 Speaker 1: gonna start following my own advice and giving girls compliments 1468 01:06:47,120 --> 01:06:49,520 Speaker 1: because it it fucking matters. 1469 01:06:50,080 --> 01:06:50,440 Speaker 2: All right. 1470 01:06:50,480 --> 01:06:51,920 Speaker 1: We covered a lot today. We'll be back on the 1471 01:06:51,920 --> 01:06:55,080 Speaker 1: pod tomorrow. Can't wait. I think my sister will be here. 1472 01:06:55,080 --> 01:06:57,440 Speaker 1: That'll be exciting. Thank you guys for joining us. We're 1473 01:06:57,440 --> 01:07:00,080 Speaker 1: going to uncover a People article that came out this 1474 01:07:00,160 --> 01:07:05,560 Speaker 1: week that said, uh, get to everything you want to 1475 01:07:05,560 --> 01:07:09,760 Speaker 1: know about Nicki Glazer's sister, which is just next level 1476 01:07:09,800 --> 01:07:11,480 Speaker 1: for all of us in the family. We can't even 1477 01:07:11,480 --> 01:07:13,960 Speaker 1: believe it happened People Magazine. We'll get into that tomorrow 1478 01:07:14,040 --> 01:07:15,400 Speaker 1: and much much more. Thank you for listening to the 1479 01:07:15,440 --> 01:07:18,480 Speaker 1: podcast I Will See You then, uh, don't be good 1480 01:07:18,560 --> 01:07:21,800 Speaker 1: bye ee. The Nicki Glazer Podcast is a production by 1481 01:07:21,840 --> 01:07:25,280 Speaker 1: Will Ferrell's Big Money Players and iHeart Podcasts. 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