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Speaker 2: If I've gotten any work done, and I still look

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Speaker 3: You're a churchman, but you're also a really now that

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Speaker 1: A little everybody, like.

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Speaker 2: Eighty percent of women had never received an you got

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Speaker 4: My wife actually was a virginal when we got married.

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Speaker 2: That is amazing, that's all she I'm the best there

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Speaker 1: I loved that for her. Though.

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Speaker 2: On our wedding day there was a church mother who

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Speaker 4: She's had a long date.

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Speaker 3: Man.

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Speaker 1: We got back to that apartment.

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Speaker 4: She was like me got thingsmel like, don't be a.

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Speaker 1: Within the man. You mean like sealing everybody just drinking,

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Speaker 1: we laughing. I walk up Dawn, Damn, I got long bodies.

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Speaker 1: You don't wear a belt.

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Speaker 4: I have a belt on. I'm weird.

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Speaker 3: That girl said she got a Christian is a Christian BBL.

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Speaker 2: There is a famous celebrity who like DM me delete

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Speaker 4: Another comedian hit me up like, yo.

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Speaker 1: What's up y'all?

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Speaker 5: It's your girl LEXP and it's your girls trading the call.

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Speaker 3: And you are tuned in to another episode of Poor Mind.

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Speaker 1: Where a drunk mind speak sober.

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Speaker 6: We gotta guess, We gotta guess.

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Speaker 3: Now listen now, y'all. Y'all know I do say this

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Speaker 3: a lot, but it be true. They have blown us up.

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Speaker 3: This has been because no for real, because we went

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Speaker 3: to l A. What was that about two or three

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Speaker 1: We did athletes.

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Speaker 6: Yes, it was like it was a wild back. Yeah,

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Speaker 6: but I think Church he might have been three.

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Speaker 4: Yea, y'all for suret three years ago, three years ago.

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Speaker 3: So when we went out there, we had did an

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Speaker 1: Then I was like, oh, I know these.

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Speaker 3: Coming, but we couldn't. We couldn't get our schedules right.

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Speaker 3: So ever since then, they had been blowing us up.

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Speaker 3: So we have a tar produce director, the content creator

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Speaker 3: all of the tours, all of the tours, and he's

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Speaker 2: Y'all, thank you. I'm very happy to be here. I

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Speaker 2: love y'all. Me and Lex love beans. We be fighting

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Speaker 2: the bean fight. I do take all the last I don't.

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Speaker 2: I can't jump up the fight she is.

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Speaker 1: I have to.

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Speaker 2: I got too many wild food takes. I can't add

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Speaker 2: no more to to You know, you got me.

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Speaker 3: Ate up on social media, right because when we did

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Speaker 3: the cookie review, they were.

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Speaker 1: So the video. Why did you let them beat me up?

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Speaker 4: I didn't know they ate you up?

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Speaker 2: But when you spent that cookie out, it felt it

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Speaker 4: I know. Crumble was like, yo, we gotta stop. This

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Speaker 2: It was crumbling for real, like y'all didn't y'all didn't

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Speaker 1: For us, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: And they'd be getting killed all the time. That was

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Speaker 4: hasn't stopped them at all. No, They've got bigger.

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Speaker 6: Like they do all of those collaborations celebrities and stuff.

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Speaker 6: And then it makes people like, oh, I want to

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Speaker 6: Yeah, and I'll be like, oh, I think I want

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Speaker 3: sales are people just buying it to create content.

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Speaker 1: They don't care if you're eating them, if you're enjoying them, you.

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Speaker 4: I've never seen.

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Speaker 2: Never ever, it's always and then you want to go

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Speaker 2: And for them, sales is self yeah, as its ads organically,

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Speaker 3: So they got our because dra called me that morning,

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Speaker 6: The cookies that didn't taste like cookies or look like

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Speaker 3: don't care. I was like, I know, keV, I would

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Speaker 1: Missed cutting people out. I was cutting out of church

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Speaker 3: Mother, I said, I know, Kevi's gonna be like, you

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Speaker 3: I said, you know what, I got to do. What

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Speaker 4: I got this.

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Speaker 2: And ran y'all y'all, and we ain't had no good stuff.

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Speaker 4: Y'all sat in the fellowsip hall of the.

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Speaker 2: People A guy I had no stuff.

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Speaker 2: I'm gone people with snacks. I learned my first movie

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Speaker 1: Yeah. We were having a ball. Like we was out

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Speaker 1: I was like practice. We was our moments. I was like,

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Speaker 4: I love this. I love it.

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Speaker 2: I feel like we at this generation of content creators.

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Speaker 4: We we work well together. Yeah, there's not like there's

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Speaker 2: People understand I'm gonna help you do your thing, you

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Speaker 2: And I think that is the previous generations weren't like that.

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Speaker 1: It's none of that.

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Speaker 3: So how do you pick the clips that you put

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Speaker 3: Because your little head be bobbling around? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Your little head, your little you be doing your little

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Speaker 2: Anything that I feel like I basically scroll TikTok and

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Speaker 2: if I can think of three funny things to say,

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Speaker 2: it's enough to make a.

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Speaker 4: Video, Okay, So I really can't.

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Speaker 2: The only way I can create content at this pace

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Speaker 2: else I got going on. So like today, this lady

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Speaker 1: She was like, I saw that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we're gonna put it together. Absolutely, But most people

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Speaker 4: I've done that.

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Speaker 2: I just think about my thing, like, let me make

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Speaker 1: But I say that now I do disagree with you

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Speaker 3: Can do that, who cast me get get high ass

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Speaker 4: So you're saying the quiet part out loud.

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Speaker 6: I always do the thoughts, be whooping the ass every time.

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Speaker 1: It gives opportunity.

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Speaker 3: For everybody because there's people who they didn't get an opportunity.

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Speaker 6: I interned at ninety seven nine the Box, which is

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I wasn't actually applying for jobs, and it's a

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Speaker 2: And I say that all the time. People are using

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Speaker 4: Do these auditions.

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Speaker 2: Like I got kids, I got a wife, I got

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and then people who got the job, they're not

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Speaker 1: That's where until you die. Get your old ass out

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Speaker 3: Sorry, y'all, I love this version of you. You think that,

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Speaker 6: But I wanted to know, So, how do you deal

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Speaker 4: About the person.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, because it's funny because of maybe two weeks ago

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Speaker 6: Yeah, it's like it's so funny to me because you

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Speaker 4: Dumb or embarrass you.

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Speaker 2: And if everybody's piling on, I'll try to take another

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Speaker 4: Now, I got to say something.

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Speaker 2: So I haven't had like a celebrity be mad publicly,

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Speaker 4: So I was like, why me?

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Speaker 2: But to answer your question, yes, people hit me up

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Speaker 4: You might go whoop me and I don't really need that.

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Speaker 2: I don't even want you mad to see me, like

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Speaker 4: Never that important to me to fight over.

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Speaker 2: And I feel like you can't be a creator at

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Speaker 3: I can't as much as I'm a hater, I'm as.

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Speaker 1: I can't hang on you. You can't hate on me that

442
00:20:33,520 --> 00:20:36,879
Speaker 1: and see that there's not I'm not even ceasitive.

443
00:20:36,920 --> 00:20:39,480
Speaker 6: I'm just gonna go on a rambow rampage and cluss

444
00:20:39,600 --> 00:20:40,560
Speaker 6: all your bitches out.

445
00:20:41,200 --> 00:20:45,840
Speaker 4: All y'all really be John snow Out fighting every y

446
00:20:46,400 --> 00:20:46,840
Speaker 4: we will.

447
00:20:47,000 --> 00:20:49,240
Speaker 2: And then y'all just stopped all of a sudden after

448
00:20:49,280 --> 00:20:51,359
Speaker 2: travel queens are y'all was like, all right, I'm I'm

449
00:20:51,400 --> 00:20:51,880
Speaker 2: done with this.

450
00:20:52,040 --> 00:20:53,720
Speaker 5: I'm a sophisticated lady.

451
00:20:54,119 --> 00:21:04,240
Speaker 7: Got a tap like represent hold on, hold on, long off.

452
00:21:04,520 --> 00:21:06,600
Speaker 1: Since times, you gotta know what battles to fight.

453
00:21:08,680 --> 00:21:11,119
Speaker 2: And they're not gonna let you land on Twitter, like

454
00:21:11,320 --> 00:21:14,399
Speaker 2: the whole point is for you. I feel like my

455
00:21:14,440 --> 00:21:16,359
Speaker 2: day is a number two because may.

456
00:21:16,440 --> 00:21:20,720
Speaker 6: On your ass on Twitter. It's so crazy because camp

457
00:21:20,880 --> 00:21:23,760
Speaker 6: is so nice. But like you said, you don't you

458
00:21:23,880 --> 00:21:26,960
Speaker 6: make lighthearted comedies. So the fact that people be fighting

459
00:21:27,000 --> 00:21:29,159
Speaker 6: an issue with the stuff you say like crazy.

460
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Speaker 2: I said that one day I was shooting all day

461
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Speaker 2: and I get on Twitter.

462
00:21:33,160 --> 00:21:35,199
Speaker 4: I'm getting cooked like this nigga fun of the.

463
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Speaker 1: Remember we was in there and I was like, we

464
00:21:39,320 --> 00:21:44,040
Speaker 1: were long fighting. We took all our jobs. We was

465
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Speaker 1: because I hold on not too much right, not too

466
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Speaker 1: much on it. I couldn't. It was mad.

467
00:21:50,600 --> 00:21:52,359
Speaker 2: It's okay if you don't like me. Why are you

468
00:21:52,400 --> 00:21:55,080
Speaker 2: trying to gather other people together? Like you know what

469
00:21:55,080 --> 00:21:58,320
Speaker 2: I'm saying. So it's like, but nobody is exempt like

470
00:21:58,400 --> 00:22:01,960
Speaker 2: I saw when they came for time and keep like, okay,

471
00:22:02,080 --> 00:22:06,640
Speaker 2: nigga been nobody, nobody is safe. You just anybody can

472
00:22:06,680 --> 00:22:10,000
Speaker 2: get it. I'm not gonna be exempt from either. It's

473
00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:10,760
Speaker 2: just like, but how do.

474
00:22:10,720 --> 00:22:13,240
Speaker 1: You deal with that? Because I think, like, I think.

475
00:22:13,080 --> 00:22:15,040
Speaker 3: You do such a good job of like cause I know,

476
00:22:15,200 --> 00:22:17,520
Speaker 3: like we said, being in this space, when you move

477
00:22:17,600 --> 00:22:19,880
Speaker 3: on to TV, like people usually move on to TV,

478
00:22:19,920 --> 00:22:22,040
Speaker 3: they're like, well, I don't need social media anymore, but

479
00:22:22,119 --> 00:22:25,280
Speaker 3: you still are in social media and you're doing TV.

480
00:22:25,400 --> 00:22:26,680
Speaker 1: You do a lot on TV.

481
00:22:26,800 --> 00:22:27,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, So how do.

482
00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:30,440
Speaker 3: You balance that with like not being canceled or saying

483
00:22:30,480 --> 00:22:32,080
Speaker 3: the wrong thing and still in.

484
00:22:32,080 --> 00:22:34,000
Speaker 1: That I don't know TV world.

485
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Speaker 2: The thing is, I would love to not have to

486
00:22:37,560 --> 00:22:40,280
Speaker 2: use social media, but that's just not how the world

487
00:22:40,320 --> 00:22:44,280
Speaker 2: works anymore. Like it's in the contracts, even for my

488
00:22:44,280 --> 00:22:47,760
Speaker 2: Spectrum commercial, in my contract, you gotta also post it

489
00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:51,200
Speaker 2: on TikTok or Instagram or whatever. So that's part of

490
00:22:51,200 --> 00:22:52,880
Speaker 2: the reason why you get in the job. It's part

491
00:22:52,880 --> 00:22:54,360
Speaker 2: of the reason they hire you, part of the reason

492
00:22:54,400 --> 00:22:56,800
Speaker 2: you get paid what you get paid. The truth is,

493
00:22:57,400 --> 00:23:01,040
Speaker 2: like you, I'm sensitive. I see the stuff and I'd

494
00:23:01,040 --> 00:23:01,360
Speaker 2: be like.

495
00:23:01,359 --> 00:23:03,480
Speaker 4: Nigga, I ain't even buying nobody.

496
00:23:04,240 --> 00:23:07,439
Speaker 2: So what I do as far as responding to negativity,

497
00:23:07,520 --> 00:23:08,679
Speaker 2: I made it because I used to go back and

498
00:23:08,720 --> 00:23:10,960
Speaker 2: forth with people. I'm competitive too, Like Nigga, you ain't

499
00:23:10,960 --> 00:23:11,920
Speaker 2: fitna just go crazy.

500
00:23:12,240 --> 00:23:12,680
Speaker 4: That was me.

501
00:23:13,119 --> 00:23:15,520
Speaker 2: My wife is like, keV you really, you gotta stop

502
00:23:15,800 --> 00:23:17,960
Speaker 2: because I'm a competing y'all do live shows, like you know,

503
00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:20,200
Speaker 2: if you can have a thousand people in the audience

504
00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:23,920
Speaker 2: laughing and two people ain't laughing, your eyes you find

505
00:23:23,960 --> 00:23:25,639
Speaker 2: them too, But what hondare you?

506
00:23:25,800 --> 00:23:27,560
Speaker 1: Y'll have to go why is you here?

507
00:23:27,800 --> 00:23:28,680
Speaker 4: Why are you here?

508
00:23:29,480 --> 00:23:32,840
Speaker 2: Literally a thousand people are laughing and you two don't

509
00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:33,600
Speaker 2: think it's funny.

510
00:23:33,840 --> 00:23:35,000
Speaker 4: Social media is the same way.

511
00:23:35,359 --> 00:23:38,760
Speaker 2: So I challenge myself before I respond to any negative comment,

512
00:23:38,840 --> 00:23:42,240
Speaker 2: I have to respond to ten positive comments on three

513
00:23:42,320 --> 00:23:45,560
Speaker 2: different platforms, and if I still have the energy after that,

514
00:23:45,720 --> 00:23:47,760
Speaker 2: then I can respond. And what I found is I

515
00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:50,760
Speaker 2: never have the energy after I do it, because I

516
00:23:51,520 --> 00:23:52,199
Speaker 2: got to focus on.

517
00:23:52,200 --> 00:23:53,359
Speaker 4: The people who are showing love.

518
00:23:53,800 --> 00:23:55,960
Speaker 2: Because people who are negative stick out way more, but

519
00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:58,680
Speaker 2: there's way more people showing love, and I'd rather make

520
00:23:58,720 --> 00:24:01,359
Speaker 2: their day respond to them than to give somebody who's

521
00:24:01,400 --> 00:24:04,760
Speaker 2: hating or mad or patrolling me sometime and I just

522
00:24:04,800 --> 00:24:07,120
Speaker 2: don't have after thirty, I'd be like, sometimes I don't

523
00:24:07,119 --> 00:24:08,840
Speaker 2: even make it to thirty. I make ten or twelve,

524
00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:10,679
Speaker 2: and I'd be like, bro, I'm not even going back

525
00:24:10,680 --> 00:24:11,159
Speaker 2: and looking at it.

526
00:24:11,119 --> 00:24:12,920
Speaker 1: See. What I used to do was like I would respond.

527
00:24:13,119 --> 00:24:15,320
Speaker 3: I would respond to the negative ones, and then I

528
00:24:15,320 --> 00:24:16,640
Speaker 3: would go to the positive.

529
00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:18,680
Speaker 1: Me feel better. But that's actually a better man.

530
00:24:18,640 --> 00:24:21,520
Speaker 2: Response to the positive first, Yeah, because I know, like

531
00:24:22,359 --> 00:24:25,199
Speaker 2: the TV show You Gotta Live, Twitter, you gotta you know,

532
00:24:25,240 --> 00:24:28,600
Speaker 2: you gotta tune in. Like again, we are driving people

533
00:24:28,600 --> 00:24:30,439
Speaker 2: to something they're not doing as much. When we were

534
00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:33,199
Speaker 2: a kid, we were turning the TV on and just watching.

535
00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:35,800
Speaker 2: We're watching the commercials. We're you know what I'm saying,

536
00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:37,959
Speaker 2: Like your used to be good though, Yeah, and they

537
00:24:38,040 --> 00:24:39,680
Speaker 2: used to be talking about stuff that you also wanted

538
00:24:39,680 --> 00:24:41,760
Speaker 2: to see. Now we're having to get people to do

539
00:24:41,800 --> 00:24:45,040
Speaker 2: something they are not usually doing and stop them and

540
00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:47,360
Speaker 2: then go and you know, focus on them. And they

541
00:24:47,359 --> 00:24:50,840
Speaker 2: are on social media, like social media. The media is

542
00:24:50,840 --> 00:24:54,320
Speaker 2: in the words like it's our media platform and it's

543
00:24:54,320 --> 00:24:57,240
Speaker 2: our direct to consumer marketing platform. So you kind of

544
00:24:57,240 --> 00:24:59,480
Speaker 2: gott to withstand the negativity. But that's that's why I

545
00:24:59,480 --> 00:25:02,320
Speaker 2: feel like is the first one I probably will leave. Yeah,

546
00:25:02,359 --> 00:25:04,600
Speaker 2: because it's the hardest to regulate. And you don't make

547
00:25:05,280 --> 00:25:06,160
Speaker 2: you don't make no money.

548
00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:07,160
Speaker 1: You don't make money.

549
00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:08,880
Speaker 4: You don't make no money from it.

550
00:25:09,320 --> 00:25:12,000
Speaker 2: And on Instagram you can hide come from people you

551
00:25:12,040 --> 00:25:13,760
Speaker 2: don't follow, you can restrict words.

552
00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:17,040
Speaker 4: There's a lot more safeguards. Twitter. They just cooking you,

553
00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:19,760
Speaker 4: and they just cooking you all day.

554
00:25:20,119 --> 00:25:20,399
Speaker 1: Mute.

555
00:25:20,800 --> 00:25:22,680
Speaker 3: I muted a tweet that I had made that people

556
00:25:22,680 --> 00:25:25,080
Speaker 3: were going in on me about I had made a

557
00:25:25,080 --> 00:25:25,880
Speaker 3: tweet about like Cardi.

558
00:25:25,960 --> 00:25:28,240
Speaker 1: I'm like, let Cardi have fun. That's how you're supposed

559
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Speaker 1: to do it.

560
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Speaker 7: Hey Bird, ain't thirty five, stupid bitch you Why are

561
00:25:35,800 --> 00:25:36,480
Speaker 7: you talking?

562
00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:37,600
Speaker 4: Hey Bird?

563
00:25:37,840 --> 00:25:43,480
Speaker 3: But I'm friend rising bird, And I was like, let

564
00:25:43,520 --> 00:25:44,119
Speaker 3: me mute this.

565
00:25:45,880 --> 00:25:48,440
Speaker 6: Mute it now, you're still gonna get to know the cat.

566
00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:50,840
Speaker 1: When you're used to mute it, you wouldn't.

567
00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:53,880
Speaker 4: It don't And that makes it harder because I would

568
00:25:54,000 --> 00:25:54,280
Speaker 4: mute it.

569
00:25:54,359 --> 00:25:56,880
Speaker 2: Things like virus goes outside of the people you who

570
00:25:56,920 --> 00:25:59,480
Speaker 2: follow you into the world, and it's like y'all niggas,

571
00:25:59,720 --> 00:26:02,240
Speaker 2: y'all an trying to get the joke. You just want

572
00:26:02,240 --> 00:26:04,919
Speaker 2: to be mad, and now you can see all the mentions.

573
00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:08,240
Speaker 2: Not just delete the tweet. I mean, yeah, I just

574
00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:09,639
Speaker 2: don't want to hear nobody say that.

575
00:26:09,840 --> 00:26:11,240
Speaker 5: And I need to get to that point because I'd

576
00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:13,000
Speaker 5: be like I said, what the fun I said?

577
00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:15,840
Speaker 6: And this ship gonna stay up. I don't care how

578
00:26:15,920 --> 00:26:17,960
Speaker 6: much y'all trying to cook me. Y'all still ain't got

579
00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:20,000
Speaker 6: no money, that is right up.

580
00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:25,440
Speaker 1: Oh, but life is the people. Though.

581
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Speaker 6: I don't never tell people look how you look unless

582
00:26:32,880 --> 00:26:36,359
Speaker 6: they say some crazy to me, because I am known

583
00:26:36,640 --> 00:26:39,320
Speaker 6: for taking somebody's profile like d Well.

584
00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:42,879
Speaker 2: Sometimes people, especially men, I be like, no, nigga, you

585
00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:48,359
Speaker 2: know what you look the unmitigated gol. You don't have

586
00:26:48,400 --> 00:26:50,280
Speaker 2: an enlargeable body.

587
00:26:50,440 --> 00:26:53,680
Speaker 4: You're not enlargible. You should not ever.

588
00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:55,159
Speaker 2: Have somebody because the first thing they're gonna do is

589
00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:57,200
Speaker 2: let me see what every.

590
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Speaker 1: Time you go to your photos and stuff.

591
00:27:00,840 --> 00:27:03,440
Speaker 2: I'm not eligible. I know, I know my bet, I

592
00:27:04,119 --> 00:27:05,640
Speaker 2: love my wife, I pick up my kids on time.

593
00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:06,800
Speaker 1: I'm not largible.

594
00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:10,800
Speaker 2: I'm bald and heavy set, I'm bad built, don't enlarge meat.

595
00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:14,280
Speaker 2: I'm the hang way by the way. That that that

596
00:27:14,440 --> 00:27:16,359
Speaker 2: dude who got up on y'all show and his crack

597
00:27:16,440 --> 00:27:16,800
Speaker 2: was showing.

598
00:27:16,960 --> 00:27:19,080
Speaker 4: Y'all's response, Oh that.

599
00:27:19,119 --> 00:27:24,600
Speaker 1: Was a real response. I love my worst nightmare.

600
00:27:25,600 --> 00:27:27,280
Speaker 4: I be cracked out for hell.

601
00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:29,320
Speaker 2: I was wanted to beat out to the couch just

602
00:27:29,359 --> 00:27:32,080
Speaker 2: so it could not I was gonna wear I.

603
00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:34,040
Speaker 1: Kept telling them to sit down. I was like, I

604
00:27:34,040 --> 00:27:36,000
Speaker 1: came around, what's up.

605
00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:39,520
Speaker 2: And I'm letting y'all get up because my crack be

606
00:27:39,600 --> 00:27:40,760
Speaker 2: out and I can't help it.

607
00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:42,040
Speaker 1: Why you don't wear a belt?

608
00:27:42,520 --> 00:27:46,640
Speaker 2: I have a belt on. I'm built weird, the crack

609
00:27:46,720 --> 00:27:49,040
Speaker 2: be above the belt. Well, got a long booty. I

610
00:27:49,080 --> 00:27:53,520
Speaker 2: got long booties, long bad, and I don't have a

611
00:27:53,520 --> 00:27:56,800
Speaker 2: big waist like my wife was. I was walking by

612
00:27:56,880 --> 00:27:59,960
Speaker 2: my wife naked. We finish, get I got a shower.

613
00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:02,720
Speaker 2: She was like, you ain't got no waste the right way.

614
00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:04,640
Speaker 2: Your pants ain't got nothing to hang on to. That's

615
00:28:04,640 --> 00:28:05,320
Speaker 2: why your butt.

616
00:28:05,359 --> 00:28:08,600
Speaker 3: It's like, like, I hat heel.

617
00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:10,359
Speaker 4: I don't know what you're saying.

618
00:28:10,400 --> 00:28:13,680
Speaker 1: You hate Hell, hank Hell.

619
00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:15,399
Speaker 4: I thought you were talking to hate Hell. Like a

620
00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:16,359
Speaker 4: woman's type of shoes.

621
00:28:17,720 --> 00:28:20,440
Speaker 1: Yes, exactly, okay, okay, And she was like.

622
00:28:21,240 --> 00:28:23,359
Speaker 4: I get it. You can't help it.

623
00:28:23,560 --> 00:28:25,639
Speaker 1: Roast with with love.

624
00:28:26,080 --> 00:28:27,200
Speaker 4: She was like, oh you got it.

625
00:28:27,359 --> 00:28:28,040
Speaker 1: Start high.

626
00:28:28,119 --> 00:28:28,960
Speaker 4: I'm cut high.

627
00:28:29,560 --> 00:28:32,800
Speaker 1: It's really I'm cut high. Yeah.

628
00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:35,680
Speaker 2: So, and the booty meet there's nothing even in there.

629
00:28:35,840 --> 00:28:38,680
Speaker 2: It's just I don't know why God did mind like that.

630
00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:39,760
Speaker 1: Eat some more.

631
00:28:40,360 --> 00:28:42,760
Speaker 4: It ain't nothing. It's just it's just cracks.

632
00:28:42,800 --> 00:28:45,240
Speaker 1: But you can take the drake row, you can get

633
00:28:45,240 --> 00:28:46,760
Speaker 1: a little bbl you. But I don't know.

634
00:28:48,440 --> 00:28:50,720
Speaker 6: I don't know if it's worse to have no booty

635
00:28:51,120 --> 00:28:52,880
Speaker 6: or to have a rotund booty.

636
00:28:53,160 --> 00:28:56,480
Speaker 2: I kind of got a tear drop booty too. I'm

637
00:28:56,520 --> 00:28:57,360
Speaker 2: sitting on that thing.

638
00:28:58,680 --> 00:29:04,840
Speaker 3: Yea, yeah, I'm quiet.

639
00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:05,720
Speaker 4: And I ain't no dude hit on me.

640
00:29:05,760 --> 00:29:12,560
Speaker 2: He said, you think I said, period, okay, but I

641
00:29:12,640 --> 00:29:15,600
Speaker 2: still got high button crack showing. So it's it's the

642
00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:17,800
Speaker 2: best of both. But having a fat butt as a

643
00:29:17,800 --> 00:29:18,880
Speaker 2: man ain't no benefit.

644
00:29:19,000 --> 00:29:22,120
Speaker 6: Well, no, I said, I don't know which one is worse.

645
00:29:22,560 --> 00:29:25,040
Speaker 6: I feel like you need to be somewhere in the middle.

646
00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:27,960
Speaker 3: He has a little like that means he works out

647
00:29:28,040 --> 00:29:30,000
Speaker 3: like a high booty like the football players have.

648
00:29:30,200 --> 00:29:31,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's like a spotting booty.

649
00:29:32,040 --> 00:29:32,720
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.

650
00:29:33,320 --> 00:29:35,880
Speaker 1: I like a little squat booty. People just got that.

651
00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:37,880
Speaker 3: But let me ask you that because you're on TV,

652
00:29:38,560 --> 00:29:41,000
Speaker 3: it's as quiet as it's kept. A lot of men

653
00:29:41,120 --> 00:29:43,800
Speaker 3: do get surgery fillers, things like that.

654
00:29:44,080 --> 00:29:48,320
Speaker 1: Have you ever gotten any work done? A little bolltops,

655
00:29:48,360 --> 00:29:50,320
Speaker 1: a little never got any work done?

656
00:29:51,800 --> 00:29:55,640
Speaker 4: If I have, I do have my cheek balls.

657
00:29:55,680 --> 00:29:57,480
Speaker 2: If I've gotten any work done and I still look

658
00:29:57,560 --> 00:30:02,120
Speaker 2: like this, what's the point because obviously it's not enough.

659
00:30:02,640 --> 00:30:05,040
Speaker 4: I appear in the world as I am.

660
00:30:05,400 --> 00:30:11,080
Speaker 2: No Turkish hairline, no, no real cheeks, real man boob.

661
00:30:12,360 --> 00:30:16,360
Speaker 2: That's my titties. But they sit. You can't take them move.

662
00:30:16,400 --> 00:30:16,760
Speaker 1: They don't.

663
00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:19,040
Speaker 4: They don't drop low. They sit.

664
00:30:19,320 --> 00:30:21,360
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. I'm not proud of them.

665
00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:22,800
Speaker 2: When I go to shave, I get the mirror down,

666
00:30:22,800 --> 00:30:23,800
Speaker 2: I'll be like you.

667
00:30:25,280 --> 00:30:26,680
Speaker 1: So you would never get no work done?

668
00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:32,920
Speaker 4: Never? What's the point like it? I feel like it

669
00:30:33,040 --> 00:30:33,960
Speaker 4: is better for me.

670
00:30:34,200 --> 00:30:36,280
Speaker 2: First of all, the double standard don't swing that way

671
00:30:36,320 --> 00:30:39,840
Speaker 2: for men like for women it's socially acceptable to have

672
00:30:39,920 --> 00:30:41,520
Speaker 2: work done for minutes.

673
00:30:41,600 --> 00:30:42,280
Speaker 4: It's really not.

674
00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:45,880
Speaker 2: And I found as a man, you if you enter

675
00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:50,320
Speaker 2: the world confidently, you can be bad built and still win.

676
00:30:50,800 --> 00:30:53,320
Speaker 2: It's not the same the way women have, you know,

677
00:30:53,360 --> 00:30:55,640
Speaker 2: beauty standards for men, it's not the same. You can

678
00:30:55,680 --> 00:31:00,640
Speaker 2: be confident, especially if you're funny. Nowadays, more women are

679
00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:04,520
Speaker 2: more open about how do you treat me? Emotional intelligence, kindness,

680
00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:06,880
Speaker 2: and confidence. I think a lot of men's mistake is

681
00:31:06,960 --> 00:31:10,400
Speaker 2: they think how they think about men is how women

682
00:31:10,400 --> 00:31:13,040
Speaker 2: think about men and women. I've seen this on Twitter too.

683
00:31:13,040 --> 00:31:14,920
Speaker 2: Women are trying to tell you like, actually, nah, it ain't.

684
00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:17,200
Speaker 2: It ain't really about that. Men, be like, man, shut up, women,

685
00:31:17,280 --> 00:31:19,600
Speaker 2: I'm telling you what I know what men, I'm like

686
00:31:19,640 --> 00:31:22,760
Speaker 2: the person you're trying to talk to is telling you

687
00:31:22,840 --> 00:31:24,600
Speaker 2: what it is like. Me and my brother in law

688
00:31:24,600 --> 00:31:26,920
Speaker 2: were talking about this was going viral on Twitter around

689
00:31:26,960 --> 00:31:28,680
Speaker 2: the brother Tom Drake did that thing. It was like

690
00:31:28,680 --> 00:31:30,800
Speaker 2: a man with super cut and then he was like

691
00:31:31,080 --> 00:31:34,040
Speaker 2: a body and like a dead body, and the dude

692
00:31:34,120 --> 00:31:37,520
Speaker 2: was like more most women appreciated dad, ye more than

693
00:31:37,560 --> 00:31:40,200
Speaker 2: like a cut up dude. So he did a poll

694
00:31:40,400 --> 00:31:44,400
Speaker 2: and men thought women would like the supercut dude, and

695
00:31:44,520 --> 00:31:47,320
Speaker 2: women actually prefer the dad vibe and most of them

696
00:31:47,320 --> 00:31:49,400
Speaker 2: were like he gonna be talking about macros and micros

697
00:31:49,400 --> 00:31:51,520
Speaker 2: all day, like he not gonna want to have a drink,

698
00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:53,520
Speaker 2: He's not gonna have a good time, Like don't, I

699
00:31:53,560 --> 00:31:55,640
Speaker 2: don't want to do all that. And men saw the

700
00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:57,920
Speaker 2: stuff and they were like, man, nah, And what ends

701
00:31:57,960 --> 00:31:59,959
Speaker 2: up happening is men get super fit, they get kind

702
00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:00,560
Speaker 2: him from.

703
00:32:00,480 --> 00:32:02,920
Speaker 4: Other men more than they do women.

704
00:32:03,040 --> 00:32:05,239
Speaker 2: Women don't look for that the way men think they do.

705
00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:06,800
Speaker 2: So I said all that to say long in the

706
00:32:06,840 --> 00:32:10,560
Speaker 2: way of saying to me, I'm cool. However I am,

707
00:32:11,040 --> 00:32:13,000
Speaker 2: like that's I'm just living my life.

708
00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:13,840
Speaker 4: I ain't got to.

709
00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:14,400
Speaker 1: Have it all.

710
00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:20,800
Speaker 4: Sitting high crack as well. But still.

711
00:32:22,480 --> 00:32:24,600
Speaker 6: That city, I was just saying, vanity in me and

712
00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:25,600
Speaker 6: is just not attracted.

713
00:32:25,880 --> 00:32:28,040
Speaker 4: No, I am the prize.

714
00:32:28,360 --> 00:32:30,880
Speaker 2: I just could never say it even if I were

715
00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:35,479
Speaker 2: the prize, like I'm never gonna verbalize no man like

716
00:32:35,480 --> 00:32:37,680
Speaker 2: like I don't. I don't think it goes that way.

717
00:32:37,800 --> 00:32:40,840
Speaker 2: And I think confidence is key. Women are attracted to confidence,

718
00:32:40,880 --> 00:32:43,560
Speaker 2: I believe, and you can rock it high like Chico

719
00:32:43,600 --> 00:32:45,040
Speaker 2: for example. I just saw his video on the way

720
00:32:45,040 --> 00:32:45,560
Speaker 2: over here.

721
00:32:45,640 --> 00:32:49,000
Speaker 1: That he were watching it too on the sides.

722
00:32:48,880 --> 00:32:51,280
Speaker 4: Like I believe, I agree with him.

723
00:32:51,840 --> 00:32:54,680
Speaker 2: You can confidently rock that and a woman will be

724
00:32:54,720 --> 00:32:55,320
Speaker 2: like a nigga.

725
00:32:55,360 --> 00:32:56,640
Speaker 1: He own it.

726
00:32:56,640 --> 00:33:01,200
Speaker 4: It's much better than you. You know, the fake hairline.

727
00:33:01,240 --> 00:33:03,440
Speaker 1: That's even worse. That's we who are you?

728
00:33:03,760 --> 00:33:06,160
Speaker 5: But when they go to Turkey, it don't be looking

729
00:33:06,200 --> 00:33:06,800
Speaker 5: at mad.

730
00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:13,080
Speaker 1: B the tattoos that they don't.

731
00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:18,000
Speaker 6: When it rains, you need an umbrella lying to you

732
00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:20,320
Speaker 6: can't stand on the mind, That's what I'm saying.

733
00:33:20,880 --> 00:33:24,880
Speaker 1: Elliott said, I can't stand the ring. Yeah, that one, Yeah,

734
00:33:24,880 --> 00:33:26,680
Speaker 1: I did you know that?

735
00:33:27,480 --> 00:33:32,360
Speaker 6: Stand there toos my mom, you can't standing on the mind.

736
00:33:33,040 --> 00:33:34,760
Speaker 1: Let that ship wash off. Let me see the.

737
00:33:34,720 --> 00:33:36,720
Speaker 4: Real I would die. I used to work with a

738
00:33:36,800 --> 00:33:39,760
Speaker 4: nigga with the full paint, like nigga paint than hair.

739
00:33:40,760 --> 00:33:43,160
Speaker 1: Let it go down the pop of the balloon.

740
00:33:43,200 --> 00:33:44,760
Speaker 3: And she was like, oh, I don't like that you

741
00:33:44,880 --> 00:33:47,480
Speaker 3: have the Beijing or whatever, like, oh, this is a

742
00:33:47,600 --> 00:33:50,160
Speaker 3: status thing, Like if you get the Beijing, that means

743
00:33:50,160 --> 00:33:52,440
Speaker 3: you got money. Like he was, no, I feel like

744
00:33:52,480 --> 00:33:54,840
Speaker 3: you got money if you get the surgery. No, but

745
00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:57,280
Speaker 3: he was trying to convince himself and everybody else in

746
00:33:57,280 --> 00:34:00,200
Speaker 3: the room said it was like a status thing. Was

747
00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:01,680
Speaker 3: like where I'm from, if you get this and me,

748
00:34:01,760 --> 00:34:03,320
Speaker 3: He's like, I guess he was trying to say, like

749
00:34:03,360 --> 00:34:04,320
Speaker 3: you got extra money.

750
00:34:04,520 --> 00:34:10,600
Speaker 4: I've never heard. I mean that's I got five more

751
00:34:10,640 --> 00:34:11,240
Speaker 4: than you. Broke.

752
00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:11,560
Speaker 3: Boy.

753
00:34:12,239 --> 00:34:15,000
Speaker 2: Now spread me up and hold the hold the newspaper

754
00:34:15,080 --> 00:34:16,080
Speaker 2: down and get my line.

755
00:34:16,160 --> 00:34:20,080
Speaker 4: Chrispy. Nah, I'm never doing never. I can be bald.

756
00:34:21,920 --> 00:34:24,319
Speaker 6: That's the that's the proper thing to do. If you

757
00:34:24,360 --> 00:34:26,279
Speaker 6: start losing your hair, is a man go bad.

758
00:34:26,520 --> 00:34:28,080
Speaker 4: God has decided for you.

759
00:34:28,760 --> 00:34:29,640
Speaker 1: The Lord did this.

760
00:34:30,280 --> 00:34:34,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm big, I'm forty two big on your un

761
00:34:34,800 --> 00:34:37,160
Speaker 2: is bald A little heavy said let me see that ball, youngster.

762
00:34:38,920 --> 00:34:43,200
Speaker 3: But listen, you aren't the same category as Morris.

763
00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:45,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, well you are.

764
00:34:47,080 --> 00:34:48,000
Speaker 4: I feel you.

765
00:34:48,600 --> 00:34:49,719
Speaker 1: The sentiment is there.

766
00:34:49,800 --> 00:35:00,520
Speaker 8: But Morris, you know I feel you.

767
00:35:00,640 --> 00:35:01,800
Speaker 4: Not appreciate y'all.

768
00:35:02,160 --> 00:35:06,920
Speaker 2: Also, you know is more understand me with about black

769
00:35:06,960 --> 00:35:10,680
Speaker 2: men over forty a ball at a ball, but that's.

770
00:35:10,560 --> 00:35:13,760
Speaker 1: Where it is successful levels.

771
00:35:14,719 --> 00:35:18,239
Speaker 2: But his bought in my ball different balls. You know

772
00:35:18,280 --> 00:35:19,839
Speaker 2: that nigga bore is still that nigga wars.

773
00:35:19,960 --> 00:35:22,960
Speaker 1: But I'm saying, though, it's okay to go ball.

774
00:35:23,520 --> 00:35:26,560
Speaker 4: But they gonna make you more. Just you just a ball, nigga,

775
00:35:26,719 --> 00:35:27,360
Speaker 4: and that's more.

776
00:35:27,560 --> 00:35:30,480
Speaker 1: You wanna be a you could. That's what I'm saying.

777
00:35:30,760 --> 00:35:32,200
Speaker 4: That's why you gotta be good at other stuff.

778
00:35:32,400 --> 00:35:33,280
Speaker 1: You gotta be funny.

779
00:35:33,560 --> 00:35:34,360
Speaker 4: You gotta be funny.

780
00:35:34,440 --> 00:35:36,319
Speaker 1: These niggas do not be That's what I'm saying.

781
00:35:36,360 --> 00:35:38,040
Speaker 2: You gotta be funny. You gotta be cool. You gotta

782
00:35:38,080 --> 00:35:40,560
Speaker 2: be fun to be around. You don't be a weird nigga.

783
00:35:40,600 --> 00:35:42,600
Speaker 2: It's also, oh my god, just.

784
00:35:42,520 --> 00:35:43,560
Speaker 4: Don't be a weird nigga.

785
00:35:43,840 --> 00:35:47,880
Speaker 1: Let's put that at the time. Don't be a weird nigga.

786
00:35:47,920 --> 00:35:50,600
Speaker 4: Man, please, you don't even got to do nothing else.

787
00:35:51,160 --> 00:35:53,800
Speaker 1: Just be cool. He chilling, he don't bother nobody.

788
00:35:54,160 --> 00:35:56,920
Speaker 2: Weird nigga ruined the whole vibe of the whole everything

789
00:35:57,000 --> 00:35:58,600
Speaker 2: in an instant.

790
00:35:58,760 --> 00:36:01,200
Speaker 4: Just don't be a weird nigga. Man, that's smart enough.

791
00:36:01,320 --> 00:36:02,080
Speaker 1: Always killed the.

792
00:36:02,040 --> 00:36:05,360
Speaker 2: Vibe, always killed the vibe. Everybody was like, I'm finna

793
00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:07,600
Speaker 2: go because we sing them ruin the whole little.

794
00:36:07,360 --> 00:36:10,000
Speaker 3: You know, I mean, like selling everybody just drinking, we

795
00:36:10,200 --> 00:36:11,920
Speaker 3: laughing like we are no nigga.

796
00:36:11,960 --> 00:36:18,839
Speaker 1: Walk up, damn what size and titties And everybody's like,

797
00:36:19,920 --> 00:36:20,480
Speaker 1: and why.

798
00:36:20,280 --> 00:36:22,359
Speaker 3: Are you looking at y'all looking like that? Because they

799
00:36:22,600 --> 00:36:25,279
Speaker 3: look that look like terres damn bro.

800
00:36:27,280 --> 00:36:30,680
Speaker 1: You you Dre, I follow you on Instagram, that's what.

801
00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:33,080
Speaker 4: And now you want to leave?

802
00:36:33,360 --> 00:36:34,480
Speaker 1: No, I'm going now.

803
00:36:35,400 --> 00:36:39,000
Speaker 5: I don't never want to leave.

804
00:36:38,800 --> 00:36:42,680
Speaker 2: I gotta go because the whole energy gone with one

805
00:36:42,960 --> 00:36:46,800
Speaker 2: persons enjoying one sentence.

806
00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:52,720
Speaker 1: Kill the whole vibe. Just be saying weird your niggas

807
00:36:53,360 --> 00:36:55,440
Speaker 1: the vibe. But you know what are we drinking to that?

808
00:36:57,480 --> 00:36:57,640
Speaker 4: Yeah?

809
00:36:58,080 --> 00:37:00,000
Speaker 1: You need another one, Dre? Okay, cool, whatever you feel.

810
00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:03,839
Speaker 9: Well, since we're talking about Bald brothers, we're gonna call

811
00:37:03,920 --> 00:37:09,200
Speaker 9: this one the Bald Bro. A tour coming up call

812
00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:11,480
Speaker 9: the ball brother So this one is in tribute to that.

813
00:37:12,120 --> 00:37:17,719
Speaker 1: We have a little bit of gin for Kevan and Cav.

814
00:37:19,000 --> 00:37:21,560
Speaker 5: Okay is perfect.

815
00:37:22,880 --> 00:37:27,920
Speaker 4: People think my name is Kevin, No, it's.

816
00:37:27,800 --> 00:37:30,760
Speaker 1: Cav, so sorry.

817
00:37:30,920 --> 00:37:35,640
Speaker 2: How much of the gin have you had?

818
00:37:37,200 --> 00:37:37,480
Speaker 1: Okay?

819
00:37:37,520 --> 00:37:42,719
Speaker 9: So this one we're gonna call the Bald Bro in

820
00:37:42,840 --> 00:37:46,960
Speaker 9: honor of Kev's upcoming tour the Bald Brothers. All right,

821
00:37:47,120 --> 00:37:48,560
Speaker 9: So he has a little bit of gin in his

822
00:37:48,960 --> 00:37:51,920
Speaker 9: Drea has some tequila, Lex has somebodka. We have some

823
00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:54,480
Speaker 9: watermelon puree, a little bit of lime juice, and then

824
00:37:54,480 --> 00:37:56,720
Speaker 9: it's topped with some tonic water. This one is dripping

825
00:37:56,760 --> 00:37:59,759
Speaker 9: over here, wet wet, and then we have garnished it with.

826
00:38:02,680 --> 00:38:09,799
Speaker 1: Did you have the gen it's dripping. It was the

827
00:38:09,880 --> 00:38:10,640
Speaker 1: perfect file.

828
00:38:12,440 --> 00:38:16,080
Speaker 2: Nothing, no, be yourself. Church wentn't got that wet wet too.

829
00:38:16,200 --> 00:38:19,160
Speaker 2: Let's talk about it. Church's churches full.

830
00:38:21,200 --> 00:38:22,799
Speaker 1: Amen God, it was baptized.

831
00:38:25,520 --> 00:38:28,000
Speaker 9: So we're gonna garnership with a lime wheel and a

832
00:38:28,200 --> 00:38:34,640
Speaker 9: mint sprig and that is the ball bro So cheers.

833
00:38:34,680 --> 00:38:36,760
Speaker 4: It's good too crazy.

834
00:38:36,840 --> 00:38:37,560
Speaker 1: I'm so glad.

835
00:38:37,680 --> 00:38:40,560
Speaker 3: She actually said Kevan because I wanted to ask him

836
00:38:40,560 --> 00:38:43,440
Speaker 3: about that, and I forgot because it was somebody that

837
00:38:43,480 --> 00:38:44,120
Speaker 3: did something.

838
00:38:44,200 --> 00:38:45,799
Speaker 1: It was one of them, like you know how you

839
00:38:45,840 --> 00:38:46,600
Speaker 1: pay people.

840
00:38:46,360 --> 00:38:49,520
Speaker 4: To do the all the cameos cameo.

841
00:38:50,200 --> 00:38:52,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, you had paid somebody for a cameo because that

842
00:38:52,280 --> 00:38:53,440
Speaker 3: was a brilliant marketing.

843
00:38:54,360 --> 00:38:56,560
Speaker 1: But somebody had did it and they were like cave

844
00:38:56,640 --> 00:38:57,200
Speaker 1: on stage.

845
00:39:01,480 --> 00:39:05,120
Speaker 4: They weren't even playing Bond Stitch. It was.

846
00:39:05,440 --> 00:39:09,040
Speaker 2: I said, man, I should have liked I never thought

847
00:39:09,120 --> 00:39:12,360
Speaker 2: you could miss mess that name up that many ways.

848
00:39:12,440 --> 00:39:15,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, Redman was like Van Cavan.

849
00:39:16,520 --> 00:39:18,680
Speaker 2: I think it was James Worthy like Avon Stitch and

850
00:39:18,760 --> 00:39:21,560
Speaker 2: I'm like, brother, you James, I know you didn't see

851
00:39:21,560 --> 00:39:26,200
Speaker 2: those letters in there you ain't seen no t h

852
00:39:26,280 --> 00:39:28,600
Speaker 2: And I'm like, brouh, how are y'all seeing?

853
00:39:29,320 --> 00:39:31,080
Speaker 4: Even if you've never seen those letters?

854
00:39:31,560 --> 00:39:36,000
Speaker 3: Not feel that was the most entertaining marketing. It started

855
00:39:36,040 --> 00:39:37,400
Speaker 3: to get to the point so we were tuning in

856
00:39:37,400 --> 00:39:39,200
Speaker 3: to see how they were gonna say your name.

857
00:39:39,280 --> 00:39:40,880
Speaker 5: But it's funny because I get it.

858
00:39:40,920 --> 00:39:48,640
Speaker 6: I feel like, because people be calling me dreamy cold.

859
00:39:46,560 --> 00:39:50,200
Speaker 1: Dreamy call. Like I had people DM me like.

860
00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:57,160
Speaker 6: What's up, dreaming, and I'd be like, excuse me, dreaming.

861
00:39:57,560 --> 00:40:01,680
Speaker 1: Dreaming call any call exact.

862
00:40:03,080 --> 00:40:07,719
Speaker 6: Dreamy as the yeah, and then called separately, and I'll

863
00:40:07,760 --> 00:40:13,400
Speaker 6: be like, that's funny special.

864
00:40:13,080 --> 00:40:16,320
Speaker 1: Because dream is no le.

865
00:40:17,000 --> 00:40:20,319
Speaker 6: The funny thing about it is like we say our

866
00:40:20,400 --> 00:40:24,120
Speaker 6: names at the beginning of all we be like, hey,

867
00:40:24,200 --> 00:40:25,279
Speaker 6: what's up is your girl?

868
00:40:25,400 --> 00:40:27,880
Speaker 1: Leg speak your girl Drea Nicole.

869
00:40:28,280 --> 00:40:32,799
Speaker 3: When people call you Drea, its dreamy, call dreamy and

870
00:40:32,880 --> 00:40:33,720
Speaker 3: Drea Drea.

871
00:40:33,760 --> 00:40:37,760
Speaker 2: At least you can if you never, like watched the podcast,

872
00:40:37,840 --> 00:40:40,040
Speaker 2: maybe just saw your Instagram or Twitter handle, I could

873
00:40:40,360 --> 00:40:45,000
Speaker 2: get Drea Dreamy call You've never seen nobody else name that,

874
00:40:45,640 --> 00:40:49,440
Speaker 2: Like people believe stage is my last name government, but

875
00:40:49,480 --> 00:40:50,440
Speaker 2: that is some people.

876
00:40:53,080 --> 00:40:54,960
Speaker 4: That's what I asked, who have you ever met?

877
00:40:55,000 --> 00:40:55,040
Speaker 1: That?

878
00:40:55,239 --> 00:40:58,799
Speaker 4: Last name is stage. They'd be like, so your name,

879
00:40:59,160 --> 00:41:04,760
Speaker 4: what your name is? My name is Kevin?

880
00:41:04,920 --> 00:41:11,880
Speaker 3: Oh my god, they say, come on stay ere.

881
00:41:11,880 --> 00:41:14,959
Speaker 1: I never looked at that and solve that.

882
00:41:15,080 --> 00:41:18,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, come on, Oh god, I got it.

883
00:41:18,760 --> 00:41:22,480
Speaker 3: I never saw Covan like I never did I so

884
00:41:22,520 --> 00:41:24,359
Speaker 3: he did the cameo thing and I'm like, oh, they

885
00:41:24,360 --> 00:41:26,200
Speaker 3: are really seeing on and now we know.

886
00:41:31,120 --> 00:41:35,600
Speaker 2: I get Kevan stage like Kevon stage, like dreaming Cold.

887
00:41:36,520 --> 00:41:38,160
Speaker 4: That's an easy way to know people don't know me

888
00:41:38,480 --> 00:41:38,919
Speaker 4: for real.

889
00:41:39,400 --> 00:41:42,400
Speaker 2: But it's also like you do kind of because the internet,

890
00:41:42,480 --> 00:41:44,480
Speaker 2: like if you don't hear me say my name, I

891
00:41:44,520 --> 00:41:47,520
Speaker 2: don't say my name, so they're just reading it.

892
00:41:47,560 --> 00:41:50,120
Speaker 4: So I appreciate it. If you know me, if you

893
00:41:50,239 --> 00:41:51,520
Speaker 4: if you say it wrong or right.

894
00:41:53,280 --> 00:42:00,400
Speaker 3: Is dread under store, never dream you have that.

895
00:42:02,040 --> 00:42:04,960
Speaker 1: You have never told me that. I swear.

896
00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:08,520
Speaker 6: I have gotten so many messages over the years, y'all

897
00:42:08,560 --> 00:42:13,680
Speaker 6: from people Green Call or dreaming Underscore you.

898
00:42:13,760 --> 00:42:16,800
Speaker 1: Have gotten out? I don't.

899
00:42:18,480 --> 00:42:21,960
Speaker 4: Because Le's got the underscore underscore everything.

900
00:42:24,120 --> 00:42:26,440
Speaker 5: And then three E's at the end be fucking people

901
00:42:26,520 --> 00:42:26,839
Speaker 5: up to.

902
00:42:28,640 --> 00:42:30,920
Speaker 6: That is like dre and the call with three E's

903
00:42:31,640 --> 00:42:34,439
Speaker 6: bit is just three e's because dre and the call

904
00:42:34,480 --> 00:42:44,880
Speaker 6: with one E wasaking, like, okay, we need to add Okay,

905
00:42:45,120 --> 00:42:49,200
Speaker 6: i'n't get into the first So, but the first topic,

906
00:42:49,239 --> 00:42:51,560
Speaker 6: we really want us to talk to you about a

907
00:42:51,800 --> 00:42:55,640
Speaker 6: I taking over, especially with us all being content creatives,

908
00:42:55,840 --> 00:42:58,719
Speaker 6: Like it has been such an influx of AI videos

909
00:42:58,760 --> 00:43:01,319
Speaker 6: for like I would say the past three weeks or so,

910
00:43:01,320 --> 00:43:04,080
Speaker 6: so many people have been having a hard time deciphering

911
00:43:04,160 --> 00:43:07,560
Speaker 6: between what's real and what's fake. So how do you

912
00:43:07,680 --> 00:43:12,600
Speaker 6: feel about AI technology and it growing so rapidly, and

913
00:43:12,600 --> 00:43:15,800
Speaker 6: how it's impacting social media, and like, are you afraid

914
00:43:15,880 --> 00:43:19,640
Speaker 6: even maybe that somebody might steal Yoshi's I'm afraid.

915
00:43:20,320 --> 00:43:24,120
Speaker 2: I thought as artists we were safer than we are. Yeah,

916
00:43:24,200 --> 00:43:28,320
Speaker 2: I thought, okay, automated you know phones and computer is programming. Okay,

917
00:43:28,320 --> 00:43:30,880
Speaker 2: that's gonna be automated. AI is gonna take those jobs

918
00:43:31,320 --> 00:43:34,359
Speaker 2: we create art. I thought, oh, robots will never do

919
00:43:34,960 --> 00:43:38,720
Speaker 2: music facts. Yeah, they make music. Yes, they're making beats,

920
00:43:39,080 --> 00:43:42,839
Speaker 2: Timberland uploading beats. Like I was like, okay, music, ain't

921
00:43:42,840 --> 00:43:46,640
Speaker 2: say ro abouts playing chess. Comedy's not that far off.

922
00:43:46,920 --> 00:43:51,040
Speaker 2: Comedy is heavily created in cultural norms. All this stuff is.

923
00:43:51,120 --> 00:43:53,640
Speaker 2: I mean, if you can pull from the Internet and

924
00:43:53,719 --> 00:43:56,600
Speaker 2: I generate a lot of content.

925
00:43:56,560 --> 00:43:59,759
Speaker 4: Tweets, videos, if you're feeding a computer all of.

926
00:43:59,760 --> 00:44:02,360
Speaker 1: Me, they can make it cash.

927
00:44:02,800 --> 00:44:06,200
Speaker 2: It's like pushing t raps about a lot of stuff,

928
00:44:06,200 --> 00:44:07,320
Speaker 2: but he gonna hit cocaine.

929
00:44:07,440 --> 00:44:07,720
Speaker 1: Yeah.

930
00:44:07,840 --> 00:44:11,840
Speaker 2: Right, So if a computer takes in all pusha T's lyrics,

931
00:44:12,239 --> 00:44:14,600
Speaker 2: they might be able to write a verse the way

932
00:44:14,640 --> 00:44:19,239
Speaker 2: he does. So I think it's also moving faster than

933
00:44:19,239 --> 00:44:21,640
Speaker 2: I realized. I feel like last summer, the Will Smith

934
00:44:21,680 --> 00:44:25,560
Speaker 2: eating spaghetti video was so obviously AI and this summer

935
00:44:25,600 --> 00:44:28,280
Speaker 2: it's like, well it ain't.

936
00:44:28,880 --> 00:44:31,760
Speaker 1: They're like, hey, I met the cookout for Fourth of July.

937
00:44:32,680 --> 00:44:36,279
Speaker 1: They have the muckbans. Yes literally, I'm telling.

938
00:44:36,040 --> 00:44:39,359
Speaker 6: You them hands gonna give it away right now. But

939
00:44:39,440 --> 00:44:43,080
Speaker 6: in a few months they won't have a podcast. And

940
00:44:43,120 --> 00:44:44,759
Speaker 6: they have done it to where it looks like me

941
00:44:44,800 --> 00:44:45,960
Speaker 6: and you acts like me.

942
00:44:46,239 --> 00:44:48,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, and they're doing different things that mean you probably

943
00:44:48,680 --> 00:44:51,719
Speaker 3: would never do or haven't thought of, but it's us,

944
00:44:52,440 --> 00:44:54,080
Speaker 3: like chicken bone and.

945
00:44:54,080 --> 00:44:55,239
Speaker 1: Green that part.

946
00:44:55,400 --> 00:44:57,560
Speaker 2: But before she did that, like when you're just scrolling

947
00:44:58,400 --> 00:44:59,319
Speaker 2: do this, I didn't click.

948
00:44:59,400 --> 00:45:02,040
Speaker 4: I didn't click. It didn't I didn't clock.

949
00:45:02,320 --> 00:45:04,480
Speaker 2: She wasn't real until she put the whole chicken in

950
00:45:04,640 --> 00:45:07,000
Speaker 2: glass and I was like, wait, so had she not

951
00:45:07,120 --> 00:45:09,839
Speaker 2: done that, I wouldn't I wouldn't have immediately known.

952
00:45:09,920 --> 00:45:11,040
Speaker 4: I was just talking to my wife about this.

953
00:45:11,120 --> 00:45:13,520
Speaker 2: I was like, what is difference between like AI and

954
00:45:13,560 --> 00:45:17,399
Speaker 2: like CGI? Like movies have done this for a long time,

955
00:45:17,440 --> 00:45:20,279
Speaker 2: and I think it was just access, Like you had

956
00:45:20,280 --> 00:45:22,759
Speaker 2: to have millions of dollars to do that fifteen twenty

957
00:45:22,800 --> 00:45:26,279
Speaker 2: years ago. Now you just text Google. You need a

958
00:45:26,320 --> 00:45:28,840
Speaker 2: five ten dollars subscription and you can do whatever. And

959
00:45:28,880 --> 00:45:31,640
Speaker 2: low key as embarrassing as it is, A few done

960
00:45:31,719 --> 00:45:33,040
Speaker 2: caught me slip it.

961
00:45:33,160 --> 00:45:36,520
Speaker 3: I got caught so bad. I got caught in AI

962
00:45:36,640 --> 00:45:39,320
Speaker 3: so bad. So y'all know I'm a down South girl.

963
00:45:39,360 --> 00:45:41,759
Speaker 1: I love crawfish. It was a.

964
00:45:41,719 --> 00:45:45,560
Speaker 3: Restaurant and it was pink. Everything was pink and the

965
00:45:45,600 --> 00:45:47,520
Speaker 3: crawfish were pink. And it was like, this is for

966
00:45:47,600 --> 00:45:49,960
Speaker 3: women to come eat crawfish, come have a good time.

967
00:45:50,360 --> 00:45:53,040
Speaker 3: I screenshot since the Kells, like why would somebody invest

968
00:45:53,120 --> 00:45:55,920
Speaker 3: millions in a stupid ass, pink ass restaurant. I was

969
00:45:55,960 --> 00:45:58,759
Speaker 3: going off on her messages like why do people have

970
00:45:58,880 --> 00:46:01,720
Speaker 3: so much money and do still? So she was like, friends, Auntie,

971
00:46:01,920 --> 00:46:05,040
Speaker 3: this is may. She said, Auntie, this is a fake restaurant.

972
00:46:05,040 --> 00:46:05,960
Speaker 3: It's AI, babe.

973
00:46:06,600 --> 00:46:08,000
Speaker 1: I was going off.

974
00:46:08,200 --> 00:46:12,480
Speaker 4: The bird was real.

975
00:46:13,080 --> 00:46:14,359
Speaker 1: I was going off.

976
00:46:15,200 --> 00:46:18,480
Speaker 6: Question though, I won't y'all not tell, Like I feel

977
00:46:18,480 --> 00:46:21,759
Speaker 6: like every time I see an AI video, I automatically know,

978
00:46:21,920 --> 00:46:24,280
Speaker 6: like they have a lot of these AI videos going around,

979
00:46:24,400 --> 00:46:27,799
Speaker 6: like these older black women get like dating in relationships,

980
00:46:28,760 --> 00:46:30,239
Speaker 6: and I can tell by the.

981
00:46:30,320 --> 00:46:32,760
Speaker 5: Inflection in their voice, the way that they're speaking.

982
00:46:33,239 --> 00:46:35,680
Speaker 6: And then I can also tell just by like the

983
00:46:35,719 --> 00:46:38,680
Speaker 6: way they the manner reasms, and just the way they

984
00:46:38,719 --> 00:46:40,120
Speaker 6: look like they look fake.

985
00:46:40,320 --> 00:46:40,759
Speaker 4: Here's a thing.

986
00:46:44,680 --> 00:46:48,360
Speaker 2: I feel like, if you're moving too fast, you won't

987
00:46:48,440 --> 00:46:48,880
Speaker 2: catch it.

988
00:46:49,640 --> 00:46:50,440
Speaker 4: Like if you like.

989
00:46:50,480 --> 00:46:52,600
Speaker 2: You analyze, And I also don't know what to look for,

990
00:46:53,239 --> 00:46:55,200
Speaker 2: so you you like, the fingers give it away a

991
00:46:55,239 --> 00:46:58,880
Speaker 2: lot the inflections. But sometimes I'm just looking for a video.

992
00:47:00,480 --> 00:47:02,640
Speaker 2: I'm not not checking. My My sister in law sent

993
00:47:02,719 --> 00:47:06,120
Speaker 2: me a video of an AI video. She's always sent

994
00:47:06,160 --> 00:47:08,399
Speaker 2: me funny stuff. And the white lady tried to jump

995
00:47:08,440 --> 00:47:10,759
Speaker 2: off the boat and hit the platform and fell in things.

996
00:47:10,800 --> 00:47:12,640
Speaker 4: She was like, this is funny. I was like, this

997
00:47:12,760 --> 00:47:13,439
Speaker 4: is not real.

998
00:47:13,560 --> 00:47:17,120
Speaker 2: She's like, oh, like she didn't know, and I can't

999
00:47:17,280 --> 00:47:19,279
Speaker 2: be mad because like I ain't really shared nothing, But

1000
00:47:19,320 --> 00:47:22,000
Speaker 2: there's been a few pictures that I'm just moving fast.

1001
00:47:22,040 --> 00:47:24,360
Speaker 2: The internet's talking about I'm doing my regular thing and

1002
00:47:24,400 --> 00:47:27,640
Speaker 2: I'm not really taking the time to decipher what makes

1003
00:47:27,680 --> 00:47:30,040
Speaker 2: it real or not. And then the pace is better,

1004
00:47:30,200 --> 00:47:33,560
Speaker 2: Like you really got to know what to look for now.

1005
00:47:34,160 --> 00:47:36,279
Speaker 4: I think we talk about today.

1006
00:47:36,320 --> 00:47:40,000
Speaker 2: In twenty twenty five, another year, another five years, it's

1007
00:47:40,040 --> 00:47:44,440
Speaker 2: gonna be nearly indistinguishable from actual human being, especially if

1008
00:47:44,440 --> 00:47:47,880
Speaker 2: it's not like if it's y'all or me, it's easier.

1009
00:47:48,000 --> 00:47:50,600
Speaker 2: Kevin might not say that, Drea or LEXI say that,

1010
00:47:50,680 --> 00:47:52,719
Speaker 2: But if it's just a person that you don't know,

1011
00:47:53,520 --> 00:47:55,640
Speaker 2: you might not do an AI thing.

1012
00:47:55,960 --> 00:47:58,320
Speaker 1: Some company took Dreya's image.

1013
00:47:59,120 --> 00:48:03,239
Speaker 3: Did you see that, your image of you sitting on

1014
00:48:03,280 --> 00:48:06,040
Speaker 3: this couch. They changed the way your mouth was moving

1015
00:48:06,120 --> 00:48:08,360
Speaker 3: and they were selling some type of ad or something.

1016
00:48:08,600 --> 00:48:08,880
Speaker 4: Wow.

1017
00:48:09,200 --> 00:48:11,719
Speaker 3: I oh, I meant, I thought I sent it to you,

1018
00:48:12,080 --> 00:48:14,359
Speaker 3: but I have reported it and flagged it. I don't

1019
00:48:14,360 --> 00:48:15,759
Speaker 3: know if I can pull it up now. But they

1020
00:48:15,880 --> 00:48:18,040
Speaker 3: I mean, you could tell it was fake because they

1021
00:48:18,040 --> 00:48:20,000
Speaker 3: were trying to sell something. But the way your mouth

1022
00:48:20,120 --> 00:48:23,200
Speaker 3: was moving, But ken, is there a way that we

1023
00:48:23,239 --> 00:48:25,759
Speaker 3: can like trademark ourselves.

1024
00:48:26,840 --> 00:48:31,239
Speaker 4: I believe you can. I think the problem is.

1025
00:48:34,239 --> 00:48:37,279
Speaker 2: Anybody can because your public figures and there's so many

1026
00:48:37,280 --> 00:48:39,200
Speaker 2: images of you, and so many pictures of you because

1027
00:48:39,239 --> 00:48:42,160
Speaker 2: you produce a podcast every day. Anybody could put had

1028
00:48:42,200 --> 00:48:44,400
Speaker 2: you bet put dre in the cole and lexp and

1029
00:48:44,480 --> 00:48:46,880
Speaker 2: fisherman's hat and put lungs on silvers. And if it's

1030
00:48:47,040 --> 00:48:49,000
Speaker 2: if it's a company, you'll catch it. But if it's

1031
00:48:49,040 --> 00:48:52,040
Speaker 2: just a person in Oklahoma, you might not see that person.

1032
00:48:52,200 --> 00:48:53,680
Speaker 2: And by the time you go to sue them. You

1033
00:48:53,680 --> 00:48:55,040
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying, like the amount of work it

1034
00:48:55,040 --> 00:48:58,359
Speaker 2: will take to find them, it's gonna be too much work.

1035
00:48:58,400 --> 00:49:01,080
Speaker 2: And that's just one person. Tens of thousands people are

1036
00:49:01,080 --> 00:49:03,359
Speaker 2: doing it just for fun. They're not making money off

1037
00:49:03,360 --> 00:49:05,719
Speaker 2: of it. Y'all gonna be like, I mean, it's it's

1038
00:49:05,800 --> 00:49:08,960
Speaker 2: like the fake pages of us. Yeah, there's so many

1039
00:49:09,000 --> 00:49:11,360
Speaker 2: on each platform. You can't even keep up with this,

1040
00:49:11,440 --> 00:49:12,760
Speaker 2: So you just be like, man, it's.

1041
00:49:12,600 --> 00:49:13,560
Speaker 1: Scared to think about it.

1042
00:49:13,680 --> 00:49:17,120
Speaker 4: There's like twenty of each of us. There's probably twenty.

1043
00:49:17,120 --> 00:49:21,600
Speaker 2: Thirty fake pages per platform, maybe fifty, so it's like,

1044
00:49:21,719 --> 00:49:23,560
Speaker 2: and that's what you can see if you start your

1045
00:49:23,640 --> 00:49:25,840
Speaker 2: name not mentioning who's like using you for catfishing and

1046
00:49:25,840 --> 00:49:28,799
Speaker 2: all that stuff. But I feel like our generation we

1047
00:49:28,880 --> 00:49:32,319
Speaker 2: have been through the absolute most and everything. We've been

1048
00:49:32,360 --> 00:49:35,680
Speaker 2: through so many technological advances. This is just another one

1049
00:49:35,680 --> 00:49:37,919
Speaker 2: that we're just like, dang.

1050
00:49:37,800 --> 00:49:39,600
Speaker 1: You about to go through World War three.

1051
00:49:39,719 --> 00:49:44,000
Speaker 6: I hope not, but I feel about our brain is giving,

1052
00:49:44,800 --> 00:49:51,759
Speaker 6: but I'm weak because I really do feel like that

1053
00:49:51,840 --> 00:49:52,760
Speaker 6: shit is crazy.

1054
00:49:52,800 --> 00:49:55,640
Speaker 5: We really have been through so much as a generation.

1055
00:49:55,880 --> 00:49:56,799
Speaker 1: As millennials.

1056
00:49:56,880 --> 00:49:59,480
Speaker 4: We have been through Columbne happened.

1057
00:49:59,640 --> 00:50:02,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, we thought it could be nothing could be worse

1058
00:50:02,840 --> 00:50:04,160
Speaker 2: than that, And now.

1059
00:50:05,640 --> 00:50:07,120
Speaker 4: Nine to eleven was like, okay, it.

1060
00:50:07,160 --> 00:50:08,759
Speaker 1: Can it can't get worse than it.

1061
00:50:09,040 --> 00:50:12,560
Speaker 2: And it's just like thing after thing after thing for us.

1062
00:50:12,640 --> 00:50:15,520
Speaker 2: But every generation is felt like that, like Vietnam War.

1063
00:50:15,560 --> 00:50:18,600
Speaker 2: Their generation felt like that World War, Like everybody felt

1064
00:50:18,680 --> 00:50:18,880
Speaker 2: like that.

1065
00:50:18,960 --> 00:50:19,799
Speaker 4: But we are right.

1066
00:50:20,040 --> 00:50:21,560
Speaker 1: When Kalami happened.

1067
00:50:21,239 --> 00:50:24,000
Speaker 3: We thought like like, like.

1068
00:50:24,000 --> 00:50:26,239
Speaker 1: You said, what could get worse than then? Yeah?

1069
00:50:26,280 --> 00:50:27,880
Speaker 3: And that's why I said, now we look at it

1070
00:50:27,960 --> 00:50:31,400
Speaker 3: like light work, because when school shootings happened, we're like,

1071
00:50:31,440 --> 00:50:32,960
Speaker 3: oh my god, yeah, that's.

1072
00:50:32,800 --> 00:50:35,759
Speaker 2: Crazy after Sandy Hook happened and it was them kids

1073
00:50:35,960 --> 00:50:37,400
Speaker 2: and nothing really changed after that.

1074
00:50:37,440 --> 00:50:38,680
Speaker 4: I felt like in the moment.

1075
00:50:39,480 --> 00:50:43,080
Speaker 2: Like low key y'all heard about the Texas floods, like yeah,

1076
00:50:43,280 --> 00:50:45,719
Speaker 2: we like, obviously I don't know if you are a

1077
00:50:45,760 --> 00:50:49,680
Speaker 2: Democratic Republican, but like we didn't. I see, I sue,

1078
00:50:50,800 --> 00:50:54,040
Speaker 2: but I said Democrats. That was like that's what they get.

1079
00:50:54,560 --> 00:50:57,080
Speaker 1: The babies they're like sixth grades.

1080
00:50:57,120 --> 00:51:01,879
Speaker 2: Oh, Like I think the Internet has us to humanity,

1081
00:51:02,000 --> 00:51:04,839
Speaker 2: Like maybe their parents voted for Trump, but that don't

1082
00:51:04,840 --> 00:51:07,279
Speaker 2: mean I'm not gonna feel bad about children losing their

1083
00:51:07,320 --> 00:51:09,799
Speaker 2: life in the flood, Like we should never get that

1084
00:51:10,000 --> 00:51:13,520
Speaker 2: bad that we don't feel bad for innocent life.

1085
00:51:13,920 --> 00:51:17,359
Speaker 3: I think growing up with politics though, like being a Republican,

1086
00:51:17,520 --> 00:51:20,480
Speaker 3: it was just like you are the opposite of what

1087
00:51:20,880 --> 00:51:24,440
Speaker 3: I support, but you're not like out for blood.

1088
00:51:24,480 --> 00:51:26,280
Speaker 1: It's just like you believe in this and you believe

1089
00:51:26,280 --> 00:51:26,520
Speaker 1: in that.

1090
00:51:26,680 --> 00:51:31,520
Speaker 3: Now being a Republican or being a Democrats like you are.

1091
00:51:31,400 --> 00:51:35,239
Speaker 1: We can't be free. I can't fuck with you, but

1092
00:51:35,280 --> 00:51:36,200
Speaker 1: it is. Yeah.

1093
00:51:36,480 --> 00:51:39,840
Speaker 2: I remember when when Obama went against John McCain, Like

1094
00:51:39,960 --> 00:51:42,759
Speaker 2: I never felt like if John McCain won, America was

1095
00:51:42,800 --> 00:51:44,880
Speaker 2: gonna fall apart or Romney.

1096
00:51:44,480 --> 00:51:46,720
Speaker 6: Really like or if I had a friend or something

1097
00:51:46,800 --> 00:51:51,400
Speaker 6: that felt like, oh I diied more with Republican views,

1098
00:51:51,800 --> 00:51:54,280
Speaker 6: that's fine. We could still be cold back in them days,

1099
00:51:54,280 --> 00:51:55,720
Speaker 6: back in them day before Trump.

1100
00:51:56,200 --> 00:51:59,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's a humanity.

1101
00:51:59,440 --> 00:52:05,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, those choices end up directly impacting people's life, like

1102
00:52:05,960 --> 00:52:11,239
Speaker 2: Trump equals ice, deportations and stuff like that, like medicaid,

1103
00:52:11,360 --> 00:52:15,879
Speaker 2: like and this is like, you know, I imagine we're

1104
00:52:15,880 --> 00:52:18,520
Speaker 2: doing well in life. That doesn't always extend to all

1105
00:52:18,560 --> 00:52:21,840
Speaker 2: of our family and friends. People be needing stuff like

1106
00:52:21,880 --> 00:52:24,280
Speaker 2: that to survive. And even if it isn't us personally,

1107
00:52:24,360 --> 00:52:27,400
Speaker 2: you like, especially black people, we are usually about the

1108
00:52:27,440 --> 00:52:31,200
Speaker 2: greater good. Even black people who get rich often still

1109
00:52:31,280 --> 00:52:34,480
Speaker 2: vote for the you know, the goodness of the black community.

1110
00:52:34,680 --> 00:52:37,640
Speaker 2: Even if you know, Republican tax credits might help somebody,

1111
00:52:38,239 --> 00:52:40,439
Speaker 2: you know, money wise, but you can't.

1112
00:52:40,440 --> 00:52:41,920
Speaker 4: You don't vote against your community.

1113
00:52:42,440 --> 00:52:44,960
Speaker 2: And I feel like with with Trump in office, it's

1114
00:52:45,000 --> 00:52:48,160
Speaker 2: like you he doing everything he said he was gonna do,

1115
00:52:48,480 --> 00:52:51,600
Speaker 2: but it somehow it's worse than even when he said it,

1116
00:52:51,680 --> 00:52:52,919
Speaker 2: Like the terrorist thing.

1117
00:52:53,080 --> 00:52:56,040
Speaker 4: We sell merchant stuff. It's like, dog, I can't buy

1118
00:52:56,080 --> 00:52:56,640
Speaker 4: no shirts.

1119
00:52:56,760 --> 00:52:59,759
Speaker 2: I could not I can't even charge I would have

1120
00:52:59,760 --> 00:53:01,920
Speaker 2: to try hundred dollars to make it make sense. So

1121
00:53:01,960 --> 00:53:04,600
Speaker 2: we just didn't do it. People are losing their jobs.

1122
00:53:04,640 --> 00:53:08,799
Speaker 2: Unemployment is up for black women the most of all demographics,

1123
00:53:08,800 --> 00:53:11,600
Speaker 2: Black women's unemployment is the most, and they generally are

1124
00:53:11,640 --> 00:53:15,680
Speaker 2: the most educated of any demographic, especially in comparison to

1125
00:53:15,680 --> 00:53:19,240
Speaker 2: black men, So it doesn't correlate that the most educated

1126
00:53:19,640 --> 00:53:22,960
Speaker 2: has the highest unemployment. But that's the choice that you make.

1127
00:53:23,400 --> 00:53:25,560
Speaker 2: And it's really be like, man, what do we what

1128
00:53:25,600 --> 00:53:25,920
Speaker 2: do we do?

1129
00:53:26,000 --> 00:53:30,919
Speaker 3: Because honestly, nowadays, voting Democrat or Republican is literally life

1130
00:53:31,000 --> 00:53:31,319
Speaker 3: or death.

1131
00:53:31,480 --> 00:53:35,319
Speaker 4: It is literally literally no hyperbole, like for real, no.

1132
00:53:35,320 --> 00:53:40,000
Speaker 6: Hyperbolero versus way. Yeah, like, what type of decisions are

1133
00:53:40,040 --> 00:53:42,680
Speaker 6: you making? Are you even making an informed decision? I

1134
00:53:42,719 --> 00:53:45,080
Speaker 6: think a lot of the time people base their political

1135
00:53:45,160 --> 00:53:47,160
Speaker 6: views and who they decide to vote for based off

1136
00:53:47,160 --> 00:53:49,000
Speaker 6: of what they see on social media. People don't do

1137
00:53:49,040 --> 00:53:52,319
Speaker 6: any real research, they don't read books, they don't do

1138
00:53:52,400 --> 00:53:55,320
Speaker 6: what they need to do to make an informed decision.

1139
00:53:55,440 --> 00:53:57,880
Speaker 1: People are stupid. Oh, I didn't want to say that.

1140
00:53:58,000 --> 00:53:59,399
Speaker 4: No, do like I.

1141
00:53:59,440 --> 00:54:05,360
Speaker 2: Needed that because it's like you think that people are

1142
00:54:05,560 --> 00:54:09,200
Speaker 2: operating with the same mindset as like the Medicaid thing.

1143
00:54:09,239 --> 00:54:11,960
Speaker 2: They're like, then in legals they qualify for Medicaid, they

1144
00:54:12,000 --> 00:54:14,520
Speaker 2: don't even they taking that away from American citizen.

1145
00:54:15,200 --> 00:54:17,640
Speaker 4: Right. So it's like when we was in high school,

1146
00:54:18,320 --> 00:54:19,239
Speaker 4: you knew there was.

1147
00:54:19,239 --> 00:54:24,560
Speaker 5: Like, right, why the fuck is he called things?

1148
00:54:25,520 --> 00:54:28,840
Speaker 1: Ain't nothing big and beautiful? But shut up? Girl?

1149
00:54:31,200 --> 00:54:34,920
Speaker 3: Yeah the name of it for me.

1150
00:54:37,239 --> 00:54:40,600
Speaker 1: I'm an easy, breezy, beautiful cover girl. Bitch.

1151
00:54:40,600 --> 00:54:44,280
Speaker 3: Ain't nothing big and beautiful about that goddamn bill.

1152
00:54:45,080 --> 00:54:49,800
Speaker 1: Shut it down. I'm so tired. I'm tired him.

1153
00:54:50,200 --> 00:54:54,000
Speaker 2: Oh man, he just it ain't even like barely been

1154
00:54:54,160 --> 00:54:55,200
Speaker 2: six months.

1155
00:54:55,640 --> 00:54:57,160
Speaker 5: We got three and a half on me.

1156
00:54:57,400 --> 00:55:00,759
Speaker 2: Do y'all remember when when like Clinton or Bush or

1157
00:55:00,800 --> 00:55:03,279
Speaker 2: Obama was president. I feel like there'd be months go

1158
00:55:03,400 --> 00:55:05,440
Speaker 2: by where I didn't think about the president at.

1159
00:55:05,280 --> 00:55:09,680
Speaker 1: All, like them talking to voting literally terms again.

1160
00:55:09,719 --> 00:55:14,520
Speaker 3: Then we come back around Obama, Gray.

1161
00:55:13,280 --> 00:55:18,319
Speaker 4: Was skinny, sdunking. Then the waves they wasn't waving. They

1162
00:55:18,440 --> 00:55:20,200
Speaker 4: was just laid down.

1163
00:55:20,520 --> 00:55:21,959
Speaker 1: The wave wasn't wave.

1164
00:55:22,120 --> 00:55:23,560
Speaker 4: Wasn't that when he first came in.

1165
00:55:23,840 --> 00:55:24,080
Speaker 3: It was.

1166
00:55:26,080 --> 00:55:33,320
Speaker 1: Him. I'm seeing Trump every day every day.

1167
00:55:33,640 --> 00:55:37,480
Speaker 4: Man, beefy. Oh, the girls are fighting.

1168
00:55:38,000 --> 00:55:42,960
Speaker 3: The girls they talk about are you going to deport Elon?

1169
00:55:47,920 --> 00:55:48,480
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1170
00:55:50,360 --> 00:55:54,400
Speaker 2: We're not living in a real world. It's not real,

1171
00:55:55,719 --> 00:55:58,160
Speaker 2: That's what it feels like. It feels like we're not

1172
00:55:58,360 --> 00:56:01,000
Speaker 2: America be the most unstated, perious place ever.

1173
00:56:01,080 --> 00:56:03,080
Speaker 4: People be like, y'all need to move to.

1174
00:56:03,040 --> 00:56:07,000
Speaker 2: Where where we're gonna go? My grandma stay here? Well,

1175
00:56:07,000 --> 00:56:09,640
Speaker 2: I mean not to see my my grandma. You mean

1176
00:56:09,719 --> 00:56:12,000
Speaker 2: to move somewhere. I can't see my my grandma. She

1177
00:56:12,080 --> 00:56:15,640
Speaker 2: made peach cowboys. I can't just go to Watermolla. She

1178
00:56:15,640 --> 00:56:17,280
Speaker 2: ain't gonna go over there. She's scared.

1179
00:56:17,360 --> 00:56:18,720
Speaker 1: They ain't even Ingredy.

1180
00:56:18,800 --> 00:56:21,160
Speaker 2: They're not gonna have the right peaches. You need the

1181
00:56:21,320 --> 00:56:24,520
Speaker 2: right just for that stuff. Bro, I'm stuck. That's where

1182
00:56:24,520 --> 00:56:27,840
Speaker 2: I'm from. I can't go nowhere. I live here, My

1183
00:56:27,920 --> 00:56:32,680
Speaker 2: stuff is here. I need's got school, my stuff, my

1184
00:56:32,760 --> 00:56:36,719
Speaker 2: car is here.

1185
00:56:35,080 --> 00:56:37,680
Speaker 1: The same like I was in Jamaica.

1186
00:56:38,560 --> 00:56:42,200
Speaker 6: My best friend is Jamaican and like her family still

1187
00:56:42,239 --> 00:56:44,040
Speaker 6: lives out there, So she goes out there all the

1188
00:56:44,080 --> 00:56:46,040
Speaker 6: time because they have like a few compounds and stuff.

1189
00:56:46,080 --> 00:56:48,120
Speaker 1: So she goes there. She stays there for like months

1190
00:56:48,120 --> 00:56:48,360
Speaker 1: at the.

1191
00:56:48,360 --> 00:56:51,000
Speaker 6: Time, and she's like, and while I was out there,

1192
00:56:51,080 --> 00:56:56,200
Speaker 6: that's when the bombings happened. Yeah, yeah, yeah, weeks ago,

1193
00:56:56,520 --> 00:56:58,080
Speaker 6: and so she was like, well girl, you know, we

1194
00:56:58,120 --> 00:57:01,200
Speaker 6: don't gotta go back, bit y'all gotta go. I got

1195
00:57:01,200 --> 00:57:06,319
Speaker 6: a new poor mind. My mama live here, Like I

1196
00:57:06,480 --> 00:57:07,200
Speaker 6: have to go.

1197
00:57:07,120 --> 00:57:08,840
Speaker 1: Back and it be funning, like we don't.

1198
00:57:08,880 --> 00:57:11,200
Speaker 2: Like we're just going about our day and it's like

1199
00:57:11,239 --> 00:57:16,400
Speaker 2: America bomb iren. We didn't why didn't even want?

1200
00:57:19,440 --> 00:57:20,640
Speaker 4: They're like death to America.

1201
00:57:21,840 --> 00:57:24,280
Speaker 1: Yo, soccer practice.

1202
00:57:24,280 --> 00:57:26,160
Speaker 4: I ain't have nothing to do with that, man.

1203
00:57:26,600 --> 00:57:29,320
Speaker 3: And I think that's all I'm part about it, Like

1204
00:57:29,720 --> 00:57:32,040
Speaker 3: this is not like we are not in the group

1205
00:57:32,160 --> 00:57:37,520
Speaker 3: chat altogether, and they lick the group chat the politicians.

1206
00:57:37,720 --> 00:57:42,880
Speaker 2: Nigga, bro, this is war, y'all linking the war group chat.

1207
00:57:43,000 --> 00:57:46,320
Speaker 1: Ain't talking about drop that motherfucker.

1208
00:57:47,120 --> 00:57:53,200
Speaker 3: Hey, y, we did not agree to this. Can we

1209
00:57:53,280 --> 00:57:57,800
Speaker 3: do a peace treaty please? That's what I'm talking about,

1210
00:57:58,040 --> 00:58:04,520
Speaker 3: Dreamy threats peace treaty right now.

1211
00:58:07,760 --> 00:58:11,080
Speaker 6: I definitely need to name the episode.

1212
00:58:13,440 --> 00:58:15,640
Speaker 4: You gotta watch the whole episode to even understand why

1213
00:58:15,680 --> 00:58:16,120
Speaker 4: that makes it.

1214
00:58:16,760 --> 00:58:20,600
Speaker 3: Got into I'm like, oh God, because I do so.

1215
00:58:20,760 --> 00:58:24,280
Speaker 3: We all are scared of AI, you know what. I'm

1216
00:58:24,280 --> 00:58:26,320
Speaker 3: scared of it. But I want to find a way

1217
00:58:26,360 --> 00:58:30,120
Speaker 3: to embrace it because honestly, if I'm being real, if

1218
00:58:30,160 --> 00:58:33,880
Speaker 3: I'm like seventy years old, I wouldn't mind having a

1219
00:58:33,960 --> 00:58:36,240
Speaker 3: staff and having a team and having an AI lex

1220
00:58:36,280 --> 00:58:38,800
Speaker 3: P and having love lex.

1221
00:58:38,600 --> 00:58:40,720
Speaker 4: P still going and they do it for you.

1222
00:58:40,960 --> 00:58:43,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, and it's running and it's things that I approve of.

1223
00:58:43,920 --> 00:58:46,240
Speaker 3: But I wouldn't mind it because I feel like I

1224
00:58:46,320 --> 00:58:48,880
Speaker 3: need to be around for years and years and years.

1225
00:58:49,080 --> 00:58:51,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, after I'm going, y'all still need to experience.

1226
00:58:51,520 --> 00:58:53,840
Speaker 2: But then when you're gone, they gonna be saying stuff

1227
00:58:53,880 --> 00:58:54,760
Speaker 2: you never said.

1228
00:58:55,120 --> 00:58:57,200
Speaker 3: Right, But it's gonna be like Apple, you know, like

1229
00:58:57,240 --> 00:58:59,400
Speaker 3: when Steve Jobs died, they feel like Apple just went,

1230
00:58:59,440 --> 00:59:01,080
Speaker 3: hey why, But they don't know.

1231
00:59:03,480 --> 00:59:04,800
Speaker 1: They don't know the difference.

1232
00:59:04,920 --> 00:59:07,720
Speaker 5: Also, if I ain't here no more, not my person.

1233
00:59:10,440 --> 00:59:13,320
Speaker 4: With them, Yeah, I have fun I'm dead.

1234
00:59:13,560 --> 00:59:16,680
Speaker 6: Yes, So I feel like I would like that's what

1235
00:59:16,760 --> 00:59:18,280
Speaker 6: my grandchildren to worry about.

1236
00:59:18,640 --> 00:59:20,240
Speaker 4: That's not my problem.

1237
00:59:20,760 --> 00:59:23,120
Speaker 3: But I do feel like, yeah, I feel like I

1238
00:59:23,120 --> 00:59:25,480
Speaker 3: would like to find a way to take advantage of

1239
00:59:25,520 --> 00:59:27,520
Speaker 3: it to work in my favorite That's all I was like,

1240
00:59:27,520 --> 00:59:31,040
Speaker 3: is there a way that we can like trademark ourselves

1241
00:59:31,040 --> 00:59:33,800
Speaker 3: and our likeness and everything about it to where it

1242
00:59:33,800 --> 00:59:36,200
Speaker 3: can be like you can't do this, but it's just.

1243
00:59:37,160 --> 00:59:40,320
Speaker 6: I kind of feel like maybe, But then I feel

1244
00:59:40,360 --> 00:59:43,120
Speaker 6: like if it was a way, then they wouldn't be

1245
00:59:43,480 --> 00:59:47,280
Speaker 6: using Rihanna's boys, they wouldn't been in Kanye's voice, Beyonce's boys.

1246
00:59:47,280 --> 00:59:50,720
Speaker 6: Like they're using these people who are way bigger public

1247
00:59:50,760 --> 00:59:53,200
Speaker 6: figures than we are, you know what I mean? Because

1248
00:59:53,240 --> 00:59:57,920
Speaker 6: it's early, Yeah, working on that ship right now, trust

1249
00:59:57,920 --> 01:00:04,200
Speaker 6: and belief, trust and believe. She went it's about to be.

1250
01:00:04,160 --> 01:00:08,320
Speaker 3: Called Beyonce's law bit that AI ship. Jay Z is

1251
01:00:08,360 --> 01:00:11,360
Speaker 3: like not my wife. You know, we don't play about

1252
01:00:11,360 --> 01:00:14,360
Speaker 3: his wife. They're already working on it. So it's gonna

1253
01:00:14,400 --> 01:00:17,200
Speaker 3: trickle down to us. We gonna get to Okay, So

1254
01:00:17,240 --> 01:00:18,919
Speaker 3: I want to I have to talk to you about this.

1255
01:00:19,560 --> 01:00:22,320
Speaker 1: I am so intrigued about this topic. I talk about

1256
01:00:22,360 --> 01:00:23,600
Speaker 1: it a lot on Love the Speed.

1257
01:00:24,000 --> 01:00:27,880
Speaker 3: So do you believe that people are using God on

1258
01:00:27,920 --> 01:00:31,720
Speaker 3: their platform for like clicks or like is it really genuine?

1259
01:00:31,760 --> 01:00:35,000
Speaker 3: Because I feel like there's been a you know, the

1260
01:00:35,040 --> 01:00:37,800
Speaker 3: girls are coming like, oh I'm a Christian. God has

1261
01:00:37,840 --> 01:00:40,920
Speaker 3: saved me. I'm different now and it being a churchman.

1262
01:00:42,080 --> 01:00:44,600
Speaker 3: But because you're but you're a churchman, but you're also

1263
01:00:44,800 --> 01:00:45,400
Speaker 3: a realist.

1264
01:00:46,480 --> 01:00:50,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the only thing I can say. I couldn't cuss,

1265
01:00:50,280 --> 01:00:51,720
Speaker 2: but I said it was right.

1266
01:00:51,840 --> 01:00:53,520
Speaker 3: So do you feel like people are trying to be

1267
01:00:53,560 --> 01:00:55,920
Speaker 3: like you know what? I see keV and he be

1268
01:00:56,040 --> 01:00:59,600
Speaker 3: selling them churches out. I want to sell a church out. Yes,

1269
01:01:00,120 --> 01:01:03,680
Speaker 3: say hallelujah.

1270
01:01:03,800 --> 01:01:07,160
Speaker 2: I can't speak to excuse me. I can't speak to

1271
01:01:07,200 --> 01:01:10,040
Speaker 2: their intentions. But I think since the dawn of time,

1272
01:01:10,600 --> 01:01:13,640
Speaker 2: people have turned to the church God for money.

1273
01:01:13,680 --> 01:01:15,360
Speaker 4: Church has always welcome me right.

1274
01:01:15,360 --> 01:01:17,600
Speaker 2: It's like an R and B act In the nineties,

1275
01:01:17,760 --> 01:01:21,000
Speaker 2: you had your moment, they would go back to do

1276
01:01:21,040 --> 01:01:24,080
Speaker 2: a church play. Member Mace was like he was rapping.

1277
01:01:24,120 --> 01:01:26,120
Speaker 2: He was a pastor. He was rapping. He was a pastor.

1278
01:01:27,360 --> 01:01:29,880
Speaker 2: Now he got a podcast, like if you follow his career.

1279
01:01:29,880 --> 01:01:32,520
Speaker 2: People come back to church all the time. I think,

1280
01:01:34,680 --> 01:01:36,280
Speaker 2: I don't want to say this, but it's sometimes I

1281
01:01:36,280 --> 01:01:41,439
Speaker 2: feel sometimes it feels like an easy lick because it's

1282
01:01:41,480 --> 01:01:45,280
Speaker 2: hard to criticize somebody for God's and it's only really

1283
01:01:45,320 --> 01:01:50,240
Speaker 2: for God to know your heart, whether you're genuine or not,

1284
01:01:50,760 --> 01:01:56,160
Speaker 2: and it's not beyond people to trade on God for money.

1285
01:01:56,200 --> 01:01:58,200
Speaker 2: And that's not even like people switching. I mean like

1286
01:01:58,640 --> 01:02:02,400
Speaker 2: pastors musicians. I can't say no names, and I probably wouldn't,

1287
01:02:03,200 --> 01:02:06,480
Speaker 2: but being in the back, being backstage with some of

1288
01:02:06,560 --> 01:02:10,520
Speaker 2: these concerts and stuff, you realize a lot of those

1289
01:02:10,520 --> 01:02:13,480
Speaker 2: gospel artists and pastors are more like me and how

1290
01:02:13,480 --> 01:02:16,400
Speaker 2: they approach life, but they are never comfortable being that

1291
01:02:16,560 --> 01:02:19,560
Speaker 2: open because of how people will feel. So it's like

1292
01:02:20,040 --> 01:02:25,160
Speaker 2: you really creating a caricature, not a character, a character

1293
01:02:25,920 --> 01:02:29,480
Speaker 2: to do work or worship or pastor that you know

1294
01:02:29,520 --> 01:02:32,200
Speaker 2: people will accept, and you know you can't be your

1295
01:02:32,280 --> 01:02:34,840
Speaker 2: true self. And that's low key the reason I am

1296
01:02:34,920 --> 01:02:37,360
Speaker 2: the way I am because I feel like Christianity has

1297
01:02:37,360 --> 01:02:40,880
Speaker 2: gotten a bad rap because people are like, I need

1298
01:02:40,920 --> 01:02:42,400
Speaker 2: to do this because this is what people think of

1299
01:02:42,480 --> 01:02:43,120
Speaker 2: christian is like.

1300
01:02:43,520 --> 01:02:44,840
Speaker 4: And that's why I love Kirk so much.

1301
01:02:44,920 --> 01:02:46,880
Speaker 1: Like Kirk, he does a great job.

1302
01:02:47,200 --> 01:02:51,760
Speaker 2: He lets his failures and his faults be public, but

1303
01:02:51,960 --> 01:02:53,680
Speaker 2: there's very few people who are like him. Like he

1304
01:02:53,720 --> 01:02:57,880
Speaker 2: cussed his son out, he didn't put that out publicly. Yeah,

1305
01:02:57,920 --> 01:03:04,480
Speaker 2: he cuts good, that wasn't the day because he miraculously

1306
01:03:05,120 --> 01:03:10,680
Speaker 2: he was an expert in cut, so that not annoyed

1307
01:03:10,760 --> 01:03:15,880
Speaker 2: that on you, but I think handed, yeah, no, but

1308
01:03:15,920 --> 01:03:18,560
Speaker 2: I feel like he's also been chastised since the beginning

1309
01:03:18,600 --> 01:03:20,959
Speaker 2: of time just for how he made music and stuff.

1310
01:03:21,000 --> 01:03:24,400
Speaker 2: So I feel like, for me, it's about authenticity. This

1311
01:03:24,480 --> 01:03:26,600
Speaker 2: is who I am. I'm also a Christian. That's why

1312
01:03:26,640 --> 01:03:28,360
Speaker 2: I would say I'm a comedian who's a Christian, not

1313
01:03:28,400 --> 01:03:31,200
Speaker 2: a Christian comedian. A Christian comedian feels like you can

1314
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Speaker 2: only talk about church, you can only talk about God.

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Speaker 2: I talk about eating coci because I like to, and

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Speaker 2: absolutely you should, and people be like you a man

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Speaker 2: of God, and then I eat that cat and eat

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Speaker 2: that cat, and it's my wife, and it's my wife

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Speaker 2: that I've got to make sure she's happy, you know

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Speaker 2: what I'm saying.

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Speaker 4: So I feel like you got to be if there's

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Speaker 4: not gonna be a may be trying. And I'm not

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Speaker 4: gonna like keV.

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Speaker 3: When I first the first time I saw you make

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Speaker 3: a joke about that, I was shug.

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Speaker 1: I said, I wasn't like dra was like he always

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Speaker 1: talked like that. I love keV.

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Speaker 6: I love him down fucking funny, I be cracking up.

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Speaker 2: I feel like you don't see people talk, especially in church, right,

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Speaker 2: But like I think I don't know the exact staff,

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Speaker 2: but it's eighty percent of women had never received an orgasm. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and they can because they don't have That is you

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Speaker 2: got to go and ring that doorbell. You're going to

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01:04:45,960 --> 01:04:50,400
Speaker 2: go busting through the doors past the doorbell on the

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Speaker 2: way in. You're just kicking in at the kit kit

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Speaker 2: kit kit kit kid kid pumps, pumps, pumps.

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Speaker 3: But a lot, yes, because I see it.

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Speaker 2: That first lady is sad she got that rose, not

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Speaker 2: of sharing regular that rose, not of sharing that regular rose.

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Speaker 4: And I'm not.

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Speaker 1: Here for it.

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Speaker 2: I'm talking about me and my wife had a podcast

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Speaker 2: called The Love Hour, and I learned a lot in

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Speaker 2: that moment. And I think that's part of the reason

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Speaker 2: why I am so open is because I want people

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Speaker 2: to be for real. Like I literally my nieces and

1347
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Speaker 2: them say you be for real, uncle, but like, be

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Speaker 2: for real. I feel like people can relate to you

1349
01:05:40,040 --> 01:05:44,080
Speaker 2: more if you don't appear perfect. Right, I'm not perfect

1350
01:05:44,080 --> 01:05:48,320
Speaker 2: in anything. I'm happily married, but I'm not perfect. I say, nigga,

1351
01:05:48,360 --> 01:05:51,640
Speaker 2: I'm a Christian. I watch Powerless in a rap you know,

1352
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Speaker 2: whatever it is, and I think there's more people and

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01:05:54,840 --> 01:05:57,560
Speaker 2: I have a lot of pastor friends who I realize

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01:05:57,600 --> 01:06:01,800
Speaker 2: they just are like caged by the thoughts of the saints,

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Speaker 2: like they can't really live their life for fear of

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Speaker 2: what people will say. And I'm not gonna live my

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01:06:07,480 --> 01:06:11,360
Speaker 2: one life all afraid of what people will say, because

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Speaker 2: it doesn't really matter what I do anyway.

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Speaker 4: No matter what I do, they gonna be mad.

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Speaker 2: I remember they killed me because I had a drink

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Speaker 2: at the reunion concert. I had a margarita, and let

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Speaker 2: me tell you, I was up there, and the funny

1363
01:06:27,200 --> 01:06:37,480
Speaker 2: thing is, I wasn't. That's my He's so talented. I

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Speaker 2: will connect y'all with her. Y'all will get along. She

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Speaker 2: is so it is a blessing from the Lord that

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Speaker 2: we crossed passed, so funny, so talented, brilliant actress, brilliant everything.

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Speaker 2: And we get She's like the female version of me,

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Speaker 2: church kid, but literally the same. We get along so well.

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Speaker 2: But the concert was at the Forum. I was at

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Speaker 2: the Forum two months before that watching Bruno, Like they

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Speaker 2: sell liquor there and I wasn't gonna drink, and then

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Speaker 2: not because there was a church concert. Because the lines

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Speaker 2: were longer than they normally were. I was like oh nigga,

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Speaker 2: I'm this line's crazy. So my brother in law brought

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Speaker 2: me margarita. And I didn't even think twice about it

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Speaker 2: because I have a drink from time to time.

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Speaker 4: But people were living. How you drinking that old church?

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Speaker 4: We drink the forum? This is it.

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Speaker 1: I paid for a ticket. I gave them money, like

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Speaker 1: I didn't.

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Speaker 4: Get free tickets to that. I bought those tickets entertained me.

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Speaker 4: And so what happened.

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Speaker 2: I was talking to a pastor backstage on my church

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Speaker 2: tour and he was like, brother, he was he didn't

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Speaker 2: live in la he had been. He went to that

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Speaker 2: concert so he could drink in peace because he had

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Speaker 2: a church in a different city.

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Speaker 4: The pastor and he was like, keV, I let you

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Speaker 4: out there to hang the drive.

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Speaker 2: But I appreciate what you did because I had to

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Speaker 2: go to a different city and that concert came to

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Speaker 2: his city.

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Speaker 4: So I'm like, what, you literally flew to another city.

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Speaker 1: Just enjoy himself, just to enjoy.

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Speaker 2: That's insane. And I didn't want to tell church people

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Speaker 2: grow up.

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Speaker 1: Jesus drunk.

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Speaker 6: He turned water into wine wine.

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Speaker 1: They give cup yes, and we take a little lot

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Speaker 1: of work, but honestly, all seriousness.

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Speaker 3: So because like recently I've been probably it's probably been

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Speaker 3: about six seven months now, I've been going on the

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01:08:28,800 --> 01:08:33,240
Speaker 3: like personal religious journey myself, going to church.

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Speaker 1: I love for you, yes, And you know I have been.

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Speaker 3: I go to therapy and I changed my counselor to

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01:08:39,200 --> 01:08:41,680
Speaker 3: a Christian therapy. It's like I've been doing you know,

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Speaker 3: I'll be reading my Bible. I love this, but it's

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Speaker 3: very private because honestly, like with my platform, I'm not

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Speaker 3: changing who I am and I'm just strengthening my faith.

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Speaker 2: Here's the thing about that, right, I love this for you,

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01:08:54,960 --> 01:08:56,800
Speaker 2: and I'm very happy for you, and I'm glad you

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Speaker 2: shared that. I think you should be able to share that.

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01:09:01,160 --> 01:09:04,680
Speaker 2: The reason you probably don't feel comfortable is because you

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01:09:04,720 --> 01:09:08,040
Speaker 2: don't have a You are still who you are, right,

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01:09:08,080 --> 01:09:10,680
Speaker 2: and it's like you're not gonna do a one eighty,

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01:09:10,880 --> 01:09:12,720
Speaker 2: but people are. Now you go to God and you

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01:09:12,840 --> 01:09:15,599
Speaker 2: still cussing, You're still drinking and stuff like that. And

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Speaker 2: it's like in the Bible they talk about the Pharisees

1419
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Speaker 2: and the Sadduceees a lot, and those were really the

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Speaker 2: thing the people Jesus was the most frustrated with in

1421
01:09:23,720 --> 01:09:27,120
Speaker 2: the Bible wasn't the sinners. It was the overly religious

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Speaker 2: law people that God that Jesus was like, y'all, are

1423
01:09:31,479 --> 01:09:34,639
Speaker 2: y'all are so lawful that you don't care about people.

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Speaker 2: It wasn't the gay people, or the sinners, or the

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Speaker 2: or the harlots. Jesus never got nearly as frustrated with

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Speaker 2: them as he did with the overly religious people.

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Speaker 3: So the harts are safe, well, I mean I'm safe,

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Speaker 3: bitch talk about them now.

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Speaker 6: I just I grew up in church, so for me

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Speaker 6: it's always been I'm gonna cuss in. I'm a praise

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Speaker 6: I grew up in Catholic church too. That's why I

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Speaker 6: feel like I might have me a little drinks. Well,

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01:10:02,360 --> 01:10:04,840
Speaker 6: because we drunk real wine.

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01:10:05,160 --> 01:10:08,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, we drunk real wine. I think cran beer juice.

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Speaker 4: I grow drinking real wine too.

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01:10:10,240 --> 01:10:10,479
Speaker 1: Yeah.

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01:10:10,760 --> 01:10:20,600
Speaker 4: And I was a child, by the way, children.

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Speaker 1: To be having a long put it down little and

1439
01:10:32,720 --> 01:10:35,080
Speaker 1: don't know Catholic Actually.

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01:10:35,080 --> 01:10:38,400
Speaker 3: The funerals that belong no Catholic church is actually short.

1441
01:10:38,560 --> 01:10:44,000
Speaker 3: I feel like no Baptists. I went to a Catholic

1442
01:10:44,080 --> 01:10:46,360
Speaker 3: funeral though, That's what it was. I went to and

1443
01:10:46,400 --> 01:10:52,080
Speaker 3: it was so it's no that yeah, yeah, And I

1444
01:10:52,120 --> 01:10:54,000
Speaker 3: was like, okay, y'all, I think she up there.

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01:10:54,520 --> 01:10:57,280
Speaker 1: I think she was gonna they do the road up.

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01:10:57,560 --> 01:11:20,000
Speaker 6: Sometimes you are like zero, wrap it up, don't.

1447
01:11:19,800 --> 01:11:25,439
Speaker 1: Have to fuck with me, Okay stop.

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01:11:25,600 --> 01:11:28,320
Speaker 4: Oh my god.

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01:11:29,000 --> 01:11:31,240
Speaker 3: I'm glad you talked about this because that makes me

1450
01:11:31,280 --> 01:11:32,439
Speaker 3: feel you know a little more.

1451
01:11:32,600 --> 01:11:34,559
Speaker 6: But but I know I always tell you, I feel

1452
01:11:34,600 --> 01:11:38,400
Speaker 6: like you should be ouping about your journey, your walk

1453
01:11:38,479 --> 01:11:40,559
Speaker 6: with Christy at the end of the day.

1454
01:11:40,640 --> 01:11:42,200
Speaker 1: Why not share it with people?

1455
01:11:42,280 --> 01:11:48,360
Speaker 2: And there's no there's no like like category like people think, oh,

1456
01:11:48,640 --> 01:11:50,960
Speaker 2: say you found Jesus this week and you died and

1457
01:11:51,000 --> 01:11:52,640
Speaker 2: you went to heaven. You're not going to be in

1458
01:11:52,680 --> 01:11:57,200
Speaker 2: a more or less heaven than somebody who was safe because.

1459
01:11:56,920 --> 01:11:58,479
Speaker 1: I got it in before you took me.

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01:11:58,520 --> 01:12:01,400
Speaker 3: And you know I was coming up there all found

1461
01:12:01,880 --> 01:12:04,559
Speaker 3: and I did it myself before you took me.

1462
01:12:04,600 --> 01:12:06,000
Speaker 1: I should be up at Chalon.

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01:12:09,080 --> 01:12:10,519
Speaker 4: You got that headed to the phone.

1464
01:12:11,000 --> 01:12:12,160
Speaker 1: You want a special heaven.

1465
01:12:12,320 --> 01:12:12,920
Speaker 4: I did it.

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01:12:14,640 --> 01:12:17,360
Speaker 3: I found christ seven days before you knew you was

1467
01:12:17,360 --> 01:12:20,960
Speaker 3: on took You need to be like you know what

1468
01:12:21,040 --> 01:12:23,040
Speaker 3: you did, Joe thing girl, come on up and be

1469
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Speaker 3: I p.

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Speaker 1: Send me here. I'm supposed to r ip I just

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01:12:29,880 --> 01:12:37,200
Speaker 1: kicked the club. See why. That's why I was struggling.

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Speaker 2: I love it. It's all a struggle. We all struggling.

1473
01:12:41,000 --> 01:12:44,280
Speaker 2: The Bible says all have sin and falling short of

1474
01:12:44,320 --> 01:12:47,680
Speaker 2: the glory of God. Oh so I'm no better than

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01:12:47,720 --> 01:12:49,519
Speaker 2: anybody when we fall down, but we get up.

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01:12:50,360 --> 01:12:54,479
Speaker 5: Yeah, in the same it's just a sinner down, sail down.

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01:12:54,920 --> 01:13:00,800
Speaker 1: Come on dreaming, you know, dream all I am.

1478
01:13:01,040 --> 01:13:04,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, I see a lot of people do stop. You

1479
01:13:04,840 --> 01:13:05,680
Speaker 4: know what's funny.

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01:13:05,479 --> 01:13:10,439
Speaker 6: Because God forgives all and he knows my heart. One

1481
01:13:10,439 --> 01:13:13,000
Speaker 6: thing about I wake up every day, I pray, I

1482
01:13:13,120 --> 01:13:16,519
Speaker 6: praise God. I listen to my gospel. Play with you

1483
01:13:16,680 --> 01:13:19,800
Speaker 6: this morning. Yeah, bone cuss and I'm gonna have me

1484
01:13:19,840 --> 01:13:20,599
Speaker 6: a little cocktail.

1485
01:13:20,840 --> 01:13:21,639
Speaker 4: You know it's funny.

1486
01:13:21,760 --> 01:13:24,920
Speaker 2: When I moved to La, somebody challenged me on cussing

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01:13:25,000 --> 01:13:26,800
Speaker 2: in a way that I had never been challenged before.

1488
01:13:27,120 --> 01:13:29,080
Speaker 4: He was like, he wasn't even a Christian. He was like,

1489
01:13:30,360 --> 01:13:31,960
Speaker 4: what is worse using what.

1490
01:13:31,920 --> 01:13:35,479
Speaker 2: Language decides is a cuss word, or like cursing someone

1491
01:13:35,640 --> 01:13:37,160
Speaker 2: talking negatively about.

1492
01:13:37,520 --> 01:13:38,400
Speaker 4: Tearing them down?

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01:13:38,720 --> 01:13:41,040
Speaker 2: You know, church people, we can tear somebody down without

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01:13:41,040 --> 01:13:45,040
Speaker 2: ever using a cuss word, whereas cussing is, you know,

1495
01:13:45,120 --> 01:13:47,600
Speaker 2: relative to culture, who you are. Like I grew up,

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01:13:47,600 --> 01:13:50,120
Speaker 2: you could say pissed off, and to some people that's

1497
01:13:50,120 --> 01:13:52,240
Speaker 2: a cuss work. I couldn't say that, right, See, some

1498
01:13:52,240 --> 01:13:54,240
Speaker 2: people couldn't. My wife grew up. You couldn't say live.

1499
01:13:54,439 --> 01:13:56,880
Speaker 2: You had to say story. Lie might as well been

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01:13:56,920 --> 01:14:00,320
Speaker 2: a cuss word. So I think that's culturally differ. Friend,

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01:14:00,360 --> 01:14:03,360
Speaker 2: what that word means, But everybody knows what it means.

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01:14:03,400 --> 01:14:05,080
Speaker 2: If I if I, if I were to tear you

1503
01:14:05,160 --> 01:14:08,040
Speaker 2: down on purpose, sure, or tear you down, that's way

1504
01:14:08,080 --> 01:14:10,439
Speaker 2: worse than cussing. So he was like, he was saying,

1505
01:14:10,479 --> 01:14:14,679
Speaker 2: I think cursing is like cursing somebody, not the words

1506
01:14:14,720 --> 01:14:17,720
Speaker 2: you speak, because you can cuss at somebody in love, right,

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01:14:17,760 --> 01:14:19,680
Speaker 2: You can be joking with your homeboy, I hate you

1508
01:14:19,840 --> 01:14:22,160
Speaker 2: or whatever the thing is and still mean love. And

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01:14:22,200 --> 01:14:23,880
Speaker 2: I really sat with that. I was like, dang, I

1510
01:14:23,960 --> 01:14:26,080
Speaker 2: never thought about that. I was, and listen, I was

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01:14:26,080 --> 01:14:27,920
Speaker 2: so holy than now. I was like, I don't cuss

1512
01:14:27,960 --> 01:14:33,120
Speaker 2: fully fornicating all through high school, but I don't in

1513
01:14:33,240 --> 01:14:33,719
Speaker 2: high school.

1514
01:14:33,800 --> 01:14:37,519
Speaker 4: Dreaming Cold was summer of ninety nine.

1515
01:14:40,080 --> 01:14:43,280
Speaker 3: I was climbing Paul is about to take me out.

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01:14:44,000 --> 01:14:47,679
Speaker 3: I was climbing in this Why you can't tell people

1517
01:14:47,720 --> 01:14:49,160
Speaker 3: who's funny nothing?

1518
01:14:53,040 --> 01:14:54,439
Speaker 1: You know, I'm not letting you down.

1519
01:14:54,760 --> 01:14:57,960
Speaker 2: Whatever I was climbing in the window, I was, I was.

1520
01:14:58,080 --> 01:15:02,720
Speaker 2: I was this before list met Melissa, Queen. I loved

1521
01:15:02,760 --> 01:15:04,759
Speaker 2: my wife, but before I met her, I was in pasta.

1522
01:15:04,800 --> 01:15:09,360
Speaker 2: I was climbing in the deacons uh house, smood smashing

1523
01:15:09,400 --> 01:15:12,120
Speaker 2: his daughter, his granddaughter in the daytime.

1524
01:15:12,240 --> 01:15:12,679
Speaker 1: Melissa.

1525
01:15:12,960 --> 01:15:16,080
Speaker 4: No, no, this before List, before queen or my queen,

1526
01:15:16,120 --> 01:15:16,880
Speaker 4: before when I was a.

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01:15:16,840 --> 01:15:19,960
Speaker 2: Safe and I was a sinner and somebody else so

1528
01:15:20,479 --> 01:15:23,400
Speaker 2: but I felt so saved because I didn't cuss.

1529
01:15:24,000 --> 01:15:27,919
Speaker 4: I'm like, cav what is your I cussed.

1530
01:15:28,520 --> 01:15:30,679
Speaker 2: I just didn't cuss regularly at that time. I didn't

1531
01:15:30,680 --> 01:15:34,120
Speaker 2: cuss at all. But I fully had sex all the time.

1532
01:15:34,600 --> 01:15:35,559
Speaker 2: And it's just like.

1533
01:15:36,240 --> 01:15:43,400
Speaker 1: What that makes you. I wasn't doing it. I wouldn't

1534
01:15:43,439 --> 01:15:43,760
Speaker 1: say it.

1535
01:15:43,840 --> 01:15:45,720
Speaker 2: I was like, god, how I mean, I ate a

1536
01:15:45,720 --> 01:15:48,320
Speaker 2: little couchie from time to time, but I ain't gonna cuss.

1537
01:15:48,320 --> 01:15:48,920
Speaker 4: That's crazy.

1538
01:15:48,960 --> 01:15:51,320
Speaker 1: I'm never gonna let us forget that that.

1539
01:15:51,280 --> 01:15:53,479
Speaker 2: First cutie I ate. It tastes like a nine vote battery.

1540
01:15:53,520 --> 01:15:56,519
Speaker 2: I was like, I'm out a non vote. That thing

1541
01:15:56,720 --> 01:16:01,479
Speaker 2: stung my tongue. I said, she said, try it. I said,

1542
01:16:02,000 --> 01:16:02,599
Speaker 2: I tried it.

1543
01:16:02,680 --> 01:16:03,120
Speaker 1: I'm out.

1544
01:16:04,160 --> 01:16:08,559
Speaker 2: I was like a shark tank. She was younger, we

1545
01:16:08,600 --> 01:16:10,600
Speaker 2: was in tenth grade. She didn't know. I felt like

1546
01:16:10,600 --> 01:16:13,360
Speaker 2: a shark. I was like, this is too spicy for

1547
01:16:13,400 --> 01:16:15,640
Speaker 2: that reason, I'm out. I said, I gotta go.

1548
01:16:15,920 --> 01:16:16,960
Speaker 4: I was like, this is.

1549
01:16:18,760 --> 01:16:21,599
Speaker 2: I think has some rotch on it. You know, But

1550
01:16:21,640 --> 01:16:24,360
Speaker 2: as I got married, you know, it was a different scenario. Yes,

1551
01:16:24,600 --> 01:16:28,559
Speaker 2: so I think it's just my whole point is, you

1552
01:16:28,600 --> 01:16:29,960
Speaker 2: pick and choose what you do.

1553
01:16:30,600 --> 01:16:31,799
Speaker 4: And I realized when I was young.

1554
01:16:31,680 --> 01:16:34,439
Speaker 2: Saved, I was so morally like, my whole point was

1555
01:16:34,479 --> 01:16:37,120
Speaker 2: to feel more safe than you. And I'm trying to

1556
01:16:37,160 --> 01:16:39,360
Speaker 2: decide for myself, like I don't do that and you

1557
01:16:39,439 --> 01:16:39,800
Speaker 2: do this.

1558
01:16:40,280 --> 01:16:45,160
Speaker 4: It's all. It doesn't matter all exactly.

1559
01:16:45,200 --> 01:16:49,920
Speaker 1: I feel exactly. I agree for years though I know,

1560
01:16:49,960 --> 01:16:50,720
Speaker 1: but I guess for me.

1561
01:16:50,760 --> 01:16:53,160
Speaker 3: But the breach will tell her you hit different. No,

1562
01:16:53,400 --> 01:16:56,679
Speaker 3: it don't hit different. It don't because I'm just listening.

1563
01:16:56,720 --> 01:16:59,800
Speaker 3: But I'm learning on my own, my own path, and

1564
01:16:59,840 --> 01:17:01,880
Speaker 3: I'm also doing what I feel comfortable with.

1565
01:17:02,000 --> 01:17:04,400
Speaker 1: But you know, when you told me that, I felt you.

1566
01:17:04,439 --> 01:17:06,800
Speaker 3: When I heard you, but I still have to be

1567
01:17:06,880 --> 01:17:10,960
Speaker 3: comfortable with it. Yeah, and it's it's a journey, you

1568
01:17:11,040 --> 01:17:14,719
Speaker 3: know what I'm saying, because I still feel like again

1569
01:17:14,760 --> 01:17:17,439
Speaker 3: I'm sensitive because as soon as I talk about my

1570
01:17:17,560 --> 01:17:19,720
Speaker 3: journey and somebody be like, lex you still talking about this?

1571
01:17:19,760 --> 01:17:24,679
Speaker 7: Someone say look, bitch, I'm at churchto ad nigga, I'm.

1572
01:17:24,680 --> 01:17:29,000
Speaker 3: Here, bitch, And when I leave you big back, slopping,

1573
01:17:29,400 --> 01:17:32,200
Speaker 3: slow foot, knocked need ass oh.

1574
01:17:33,360 --> 01:17:34,479
Speaker 1: Hose be knocked mee.

1575
01:17:36,240 --> 01:17:39,280
Speaker 5: Nave like I love that.

1576
01:17:39,439 --> 01:17:40,280
Speaker 4: Drell heard all that.

1577
01:17:40,360 --> 01:17:47,160
Speaker 1: It was like, you know what knocking I'm saying, be knocking.

1578
01:17:47,600 --> 01:17:50,200
Speaker 1: I'm a war judging everybody else what I'm saying.

1579
01:17:50,439 --> 01:17:52,719
Speaker 3: So I'm a work in progress. But I'm also learning

1580
01:17:52,760 --> 01:17:55,519
Speaker 3: to take my time. I think at the beginning, when

1581
01:17:55,520 --> 01:17:56,960
Speaker 3: I first started going, I was like, oh, I have

1582
01:17:57,000 --> 01:17:59,160
Speaker 3: to tell everybody, I has to show everybody. Was like, now,

1583
01:17:59,160 --> 01:18:01,000
Speaker 3: I'm like, you know what, I'm doing this on my

1584
01:18:01,040 --> 01:18:04,519
Speaker 3: own part. Whenever I'm ready to talk about it and

1585
01:18:04,560 --> 01:18:06,479
Speaker 3: talk about my growth in my progress, I'll talk about it.

1586
01:18:06,560 --> 01:18:08,840
Speaker 2: And the thing is, because of who y'all are, right,

1587
01:18:09,040 --> 01:18:11,400
Speaker 2: I say this all the time. Because of who y'all are,

1588
01:18:11,439 --> 01:18:14,000
Speaker 2: there's gonna be somebody who sees themselves in you, that

1589
01:18:14,040 --> 01:18:16,880
Speaker 2: they would never see themselves in a pastor or pastor's wife.

1590
01:18:17,080 --> 01:18:19,320
Speaker 2: They'd be like, oh, Lex, I can connect with And

1591
01:18:19,400 --> 01:18:22,320
Speaker 2: that's why I feel like it takes all of us

1592
01:18:22,040 --> 01:18:26,240
Speaker 2: to lead each other to Christ. Because like my niece,

1593
01:18:26,240 --> 01:18:29,360
Speaker 2: for example, she's young, she's twenty two, face tattooed. If

1594
01:18:29,400 --> 01:18:33,000
Speaker 2: she saw oh Lex go to church, she might listen.

1595
01:18:33,439 --> 01:18:36,479
Speaker 2: Or Drea, she listened to Gospels every morning. They will

1596
01:18:36,479 --> 01:18:40,760
Speaker 2: connect with you way more than like Serena Jakes or c. C.

1597
01:18:40,920 --> 01:18:41,240
Speaker 4: Winings.

1598
01:18:41,280 --> 01:18:44,040
Speaker 2: They're like, they don't see themselves in those people, but

1599
01:18:44,080 --> 01:18:45,960
Speaker 2: they might see themselves in y'all. And I think that's

1600
01:18:45,960 --> 01:18:49,040
Speaker 2: why it's important that we are authentic, so that people

1601
01:18:49,120 --> 01:18:52,960
Speaker 2: can see a hope in each of us versus being like, well,

1602
01:18:53,000 --> 01:18:56,760
Speaker 2: there's nobody like me who's trying to do it from

1603
01:18:56,760 --> 01:18:58,960
Speaker 2: my point of view, or who's done the things I've done,

1604
01:18:59,560 --> 01:19:00,080
Speaker 2: or has lived.

1605
01:19:00,120 --> 01:19:00,880
Speaker 4: Life I lived.

1606
01:19:01,360 --> 01:19:03,320
Speaker 2: But lex bi and drew all our life at them.

1607
01:19:03,320 --> 01:19:06,040
Speaker 2: I watched their podcast. They're more like me than I realized.

1608
01:19:06,320 --> 01:19:08,840
Speaker 2: Everybody can't be Sereni Jacks or CC Wines and they

1609
01:19:08,840 --> 01:19:12,000
Speaker 2: have their place. I love them. But my niece twenty

1610
01:19:12,000 --> 01:19:15,439
Speaker 2: two she not checking for CCI, but you know what,

1611
01:19:15,600 --> 01:19:18,479
Speaker 2: saying she'll check me poor would be.

1612
01:19:18,520 --> 01:19:20,679
Speaker 1: Like okay for c C. Was she checking for legs?

1613
01:19:20,720 --> 01:19:22,639
Speaker 4: P nex me and dream?

1614
01:19:23,160 --> 01:19:25,000
Speaker 1: I feel like but I feel like I could.

1615
01:19:24,800 --> 01:19:27,639
Speaker 6: See myself being the first lady in my future life

1616
01:19:27,760 --> 01:19:30,200
Speaker 6: like later down the line, but more like a Shawnee.

1617
01:19:29,800 --> 01:19:31,960
Speaker 4: O News Love Shawne just got.

1618
01:19:31,800 --> 01:19:33,560
Speaker 6: A vaccine to I said, that's gonna be me a

1619
01:19:33,760 --> 01:19:37,400
Speaker 6: first lady, and we're still getting tatted up.

1620
01:19:37,560 --> 01:19:41,880
Speaker 2: Yes, people want a pastor first lady who've been through

1621
01:19:41,920 --> 01:19:43,280
Speaker 2: something done?

1622
01:19:43,439 --> 01:19:44,599
Speaker 4: You ain't got no stories.

1623
01:19:44,800 --> 01:19:47,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, save your whole lify what has God done for you?

1624
01:19:47,880 --> 01:19:50,000
Speaker 2: If you've been saving your whole life? Why we were

1625
01:19:50,080 --> 01:19:50,960
Speaker 2: wasting his sins?

1626
01:19:51,160 --> 01:19:52,599
Speaker 1: I'm telling he got up on that cross.

1627
01:19:52,600 --> 01:19:53,679
Speaker 4: I'm gonna make it worth his while.

1628
01:19:55,080 --> 01:19:57,800
Speaker 1: Do my stuff that cross a long time.

1629
01:19:59,000 --> 01:20:01,240
Speaker 4: I'm gonna do my because he already got up on

1630
01:20:01,280 --> 01:20:01,880
Speaker 4: that cross.

1631
01:20:02,240 --> 01:20:02,719
Speaker 1: Anyway.

1632
01:20:02,840 --> 01:20:04,679
Speaker 4: Yeah, you think I'm gonna waste all that bad?

1633
01:20:04,880 --> 01:20:07,960
Speaker 2: Sure nothing. Do a cent or two so you it's

1634
01:20:07,960 --> 01:20:09,200
Speaker 2: always worth your while.

1635
01:20:09,560 --> 01:20:12,600
Speaker 6: I got a little messy question though, Yeah, so what

1636
01:20:12,760 --> 01:20:16,000
Speaker 6: you think about the Christian content creator.

1637
01:20:18,280 --> 01:20:19,040
Speaker 1: Ran for president.

1638
01:20:22,280 --> 01:20:26,360
Speaker 2: He lost because of excitement. Bigga got excited They were like,

1639
01:20:26,400 --> 01:20:28,759
Speaker 2: you're done, buddy. You want to be president?

1640
01:20:28,840 --> 01:20:29,240
Speaker 1: That bad?

1641
01:20:29,479 --> 01:20:30,240
Speaker 4: Get him out of here.

1642
01:20:30,240 --> 01:20:33,240
Speaker 1: You want to say go home. We don't like that.

1643
01:20:34,680 --> 01:20:36,479
Speaker 5: You need to be a little more maling colleague.

1644
01:20:36,560 --> 01:20:40,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah the job. Let's get messy.

1645
01:20:40,680 --> 01:20:41,599
Speaker 4: You're done, buddy.

1646
01:20:43,800 --> 01:20:47,000
Speaker 6: How do you feel about the Christian content creators they

1647
01:20:47,080 --> 01:20:49,280
Speaker 6: be doing like the get ready with me in a

1648
01:20:49,479 --> 01:20:51,200
Speaker 6: starting off in the underwear.

1649
01:20:53,360 --> 01:20:54,680
Speaker 4: On TikTok.

1650
01:20:56,560 --> 01:20:57,680
Speaker 1: Calvin Klein, you know what?

1651
01:20:57,800 --> 01:21:01,040
Speaker 2: Okay, So this is why I don't put Christian in

1652
01:21:01,080 --> 01:21:04,799
Speaker 2: front of what I do, because now you you've already

1653
01:21:05,200 --> 01:21:09,599
Speaker 2: kind of like pre classified yourself and that low key

1654
01:21:10,720 --> 01:21:13,160
Speaker 2: like obviously everybody gets dressed, right if you're a woman

1655
01:21:13,360 --> 01:21:16,280
Speaker 2: or man, you got underwear, T shirt, socks, draws, you know,

1656
01:21:16,560 --> 01:21:20,400
Speaker 2: pants shirt. But if you are a Christian concreator, content creator,

1657
01:21:20,439 --> 01:21:23,240
Speaker 2: I'm going to church starting off in your panties, It's like, well,

1658
01:21:23,280 --> 01:21:28,160
Speaker 2: that don't go with what I associate that with. It's

1659
01:21:28,200 --> 01:21:29,840
Speaker 2: the same thing I was just I was on podcast

1660
01:21:29,920 --> 01:21:31,479
Speaker 2: with the pastor and he was like, I can't do nothing.

1661
01:21:31,520 --> 01:21:31,840
Speaker 4: You can do.

1662
01:21:32,280 --> 01:21:35,400
Speaker 2: Well, that's because I'm a comedian. People already received me

1663
01:21:35,600 --> 01:21:38,799
Speaker 2: with like keV is being funny, I'm allowed more stuff.

1664
01:21:39,240 --> 01:21:41,360
Speaker 2: I can say the same thing a pastor says, and

1665
01:21:41,600 --> 01:21:44,479
Speaker 2: he's not gonna get the same you know, leniency as

1666
01:21:44,560 --> 01:21:46,479
Speaker 2: I get. And that's the same thing I think about

1667
01:21:46,640 --> 01:21:49,200
Speaker 2: that girls like she's doing, she's not doing. Get ready

1668
01:21:49,200 --> 01:21:51,120
Speaker 2: with me is the way a lot of people doing.

1669
01:21:51,720 --> 01:21:53,320
Speaker 1: She's not supposed to have on draws, she's supposed to

1670
01:21:53,320 --> 01:21:58,280
Speaker 1: have on Nickers have to wear.

1671
01:21:58,800 --> 01:22:03,080
Speaker 4: Spy flipping stockings is for real.

1672
01:22:03,280 --> 01:22:05,960
Speaker 6: Yeah, wear jeans till I turned eighteen. Mom was like,

1673
01:22:06,000 --> 01:22:08,400
Speaker 6: you know, every Sunday, Mom was like, you're not wearing

1674
01:22:08,520 --> 01:22:11,400
Speaker 6: jeans to church? When I turned eighteen, I couldn't wait

1675
01:22:11,439 --> 01:22:16,920
Speaker 6: to put them Levi's on and I put her face

1676
01:22:17,080 --> 01:22:19,599
Speaker 6: and I said, she said, where are you going to church?

1677
01:22:20,080 --> 01:22:22,760
Speaker 4: You had the jeans skirt pants, you know, like a

1678
01:22:22,840 --> 01:22:23,400
Speaker 4: jeans girt.

1679
01:22:24,040 --> 01:22:30,559
Speaker 1: That's but I try to still prove it. We ain't

1680
01:22:30,600 --> 01:22:31,760
Speaker 1: a church right now though.

1681
01:22:32,280 --> 01:22:35,519
Speaker 2: But I think to answer your question, I feel like

1682
01:22:36,720 --> 01:22:41,680
Speaker 2: it's unfortunate that people need to categorize you. They got

1683
01:22:41,800 --> 01:22:43,599
Speaker 2: to put you in a box to make it make sense,

1684
01:22:44,040 --> 01:22:44,559
Speaker 2: and those.

1685
01:22:44,479 --> 01:22:45,920
Speaker 4: Two things don't make sense.

1686
01:22:45,960 --> 01:22:49,120
Speaker 2: You can't be in the panties and the bral to

1687
01:22:49,280 --> 01:22:52,160
Speaker 2: people and then be like I'm a Christian content creator.

1688
01:22:52,560 --> 01:22:54,920
Speaker 2: That's why I don't put that in front of my

1689
01:22:57,200 --> 01:23:00,280
Speaker 2: comedy because I'm not just talking about church, I'm talking

1690
01:23:00,280 --> 01:23:02,920
Speaker 2: about life. So I think sometimes Christian we can be

1691
01:23:02,960 --> 01:23:07,280
Speaker 2: a little bit overbearing, over righteous, and we'd be focused

1692
01:23:07,320 --> 01:23:09,720
Speaker 2: on the wrong stuff. And then you just and then

1693
01:23:09,760 --> 01:23:11,280
Speaker 2: that person be like, I ain't even a Christian content

1694
01:23:11,400 --> 01:23:14,559
Speaker 2: career now, just panties and jaws because it's.

1695
01:23:16,520 --> 01:23:18,160
Speaker 1: Do y'all think of Christian BBL?

1696
01:23:18,400 --> 01:23:21,000
Speaker 3: Is possible that girl says she got a Christian bb

1697
01:23:21,640 --> 01:23:22,719
Speaker 3: isn't Christian BBS?

1698
01:23:22,840 --> 01:23:26,880
Speaker 1: I don't know. Now. I watched her video, so you

1699
01:23:26,960 --> 01:23:28,040
Speaker 1: know exactly what it meant.

1700
01:23:28,080 --> 01:23:30,640
Speaker 3: And I know she had to defend herself, but I

1701
01:23:30,720 --> 01:23:34,040
Speaker 3: think she was maybe saying the reasoning that she got.

1702
01:23:33,920 --> 01:23:35,200
Speaker 1: It was a little different.

1703
01:23:35,439 --> 01:23:38,080
Speaker 4: The reason she got it was a Christian reason God.

1704
01:23:38,040 --> 01:23:38,760
Speaker 1: Wanted her to get there.

1705
01:23:38,840 --> 01:23:40,439
Speaker 3: Well, I think maybe she was just like it was

1706
01:23:40,520 --> 01:23:43,920
Speaker 3: for herself, for her confidence, you know what I'm saying.

1707
01:23:44,240 --> 01:23:46,320
Speaker 1: But I know she's recently trying to like going through

1708
01:23:46,800 --> 01:23:47,560
Speaker 1: a rebrand.

1709
01:23:48,400 --> 01:23:50,759
Speaker 4: I didn't even hear this Christian BBL.

1710
01:23:51,640 --> 01:23:53,200
Speaker 1: It was a girl who got a Christian BBL.

1711
01:23:53,360 --> 01:23:53,920
Speaker 2: What is that?

1712
01:23:54,240 --> 01:23:57,760
Speaker 1: I don't know. That's why I said, BBL is a BBL.

1713
01:23:59,000 --> 01:24:01,680
Speaker 2: Christian because she's a hers was not that means you

1714
01:24:01,720 --> 01:24:05,880
Speaker 2: can have Christian bracest you Christian glasses like this is

1715
01:24:06,000 --> 01:24:09,000
Speaker 2: all cosmetic, correct what you want to.

1716
01:24:11,080 --> 01:24:13,560
Speaker 3: I think that's what I think in her position, the

1717
01:24:13,640 --> 01:24:16,960
Speaker 3: community made her feel like that all of a sudden,

1718
01:24:17,040 --> 01:24:18,840
Speaker 3: she making her content and they're like, where did that

1719
01:24:19,000 --> 01:24:19,800
Speaker 3: ass come from?

1720
01:24:20,439 --> 01:24:22,120
Speaker 1: And you at church where you we.

1721
01:24:22,160 --> 01:24:25,559
Speaker 3: Didn't see that last week? Bitch, because that's me. I'm

1722
01:24:25,600 --> 01:24:31,120
Speaker 3: in the back like this, I'm the hater. Oh where

1723
01:24:31,200 --> 01:24:37,600
Speaker 3: did that ass come from? And I'm looking like that,

1724
01:24:40,760 --> 01:24:43,280
Speaker 3: I'm swisspering where that ass came from?

1725
01:24:43,439 --> 01:24:43,719
Speaker 4: Bitch?

1726
01:24:44,160 --> 01:24:48,640
Speaker 3: I made a TikTok this hold on gotta bba and

1727
01:24:48,760 --> 01:24:52,400
Speaker 3: now she gotta make a video until but maybe it

1728
01:24:52,560 --> 01:24:53,280
Speaker 3: was forced.

1729
01:24:54,080 --> 01:24:57,120
Speaker 4: I don't know why she made it, but that's crazy.

1730
01:24:57,760 --> 01:24:59,960
Speaker 1: She named the video Christian Baby.

1731
01:25:00,200 --> 01:25:05,000
Speaker 4: That's that's just good content creating. I think absolutely. I'm clear.

1732
01:25:05,080 --> 01:25:08,280
Speaker 4: If I saw that, I'm I gotta's.

1733
01:25:07,200 --> 01:25:10,200
Speaker 3: Happened years ago and people are still really yeah, it

1734
01:25:10,320 --> 01:25:12,439
Speaker 3: was years ago. She recently did an interview when they

1735
01:25:12,479 --> 01:25:13,160
Speaker 3: were talking about it.

1736
01:25:13,280 --> 01:25:16,519
Speaker 4: That's that's that's the wild I'm gonna do that.

1737
01:25:16,640 --> 01:25:19,240
Speaker 6: I'm gonna think Christian bb and then when they click

1738
01:25:19,280 --> 01:25:21,679
Speaker 6: on the video and be like watch four Minds every Friday.

1739
01:25:24,080 --> 01:25:25,719
Speaker 4: See Christian Bible.

1740
01:25:25,920 --> 01:25:30,880
Speaker 2: That's what the bblbe, or to bbls in Bible it is.

1741
01:25:31,160 --> 01:25:33,680
Speaker 3: We're gonna keep with the same, you know category, but

1742
01:25:33,840 --> 01:25:38,040
Speaker 3: now it's time to get into the b all the

1743
01:25:38,200 --> 01:25:40,760
Speaker 3: bout about.

1744
01:25:42,320 --> 01:25:46,240
Speaker 1: Value. So that's how you know.

1745
01:25:46,439 --> 01:25:49,920
Speaker 2: I love this is legit podcast, y'all pull the cars up.

1746
01:25:50,240 --> 01:25:52,040
Speaker 2: Let me take a look at my third question.

1747
01:25:53,120 --> 01:25:56,400
Speaker 1: Trying to love? Were having too much mone with certain

1748
01:25:56,400 --> 01:25:58,680
Speaker 1: people and we get off? I love it. We have

1749
01:25:58,760 --> 01:26:00,679
Speaker 1: been completely off. It was great.

1750
01:26:00,760 --> 01:26:03,080
Speaker 4: I'm having a great time. All my dreams are coming true.

1751
01:26:05,360 --> 01:26:07,320
Speaker 5: Some of the band topic we wanted to talk to

1752
01:26:07,320 --> 01:26:09,160
Speaker 5: you about being holy but horny.

1753
01:26:09,439 --> 01:26:12,559
Speaker 4: Yes, because clearly, clearly.

1754
01:26:13,760 --> 01:26:17,040
Speaker 1: Clear, make it clear.

1755
01:26:17,320 --> 01:26:20,000
Speaker 4: Listen, Fozzy, let me let me let you ask y'all

1756
01:26:20,040 --> 01:26:21,320
Speaker 4: questions growing.

1757
01:26:21,160 --> 01:26:24,360
Speaker 5: Up in the church stunts your sexual growth.

1758
01:26:25,320 --> 01:26:29,080
Speaker 2: No, I don't think so at all. I think, if anything,

1759
01:26:29,520 --> 01:26:33,719
Speaker 2: that whole. Like I tried to be celibate until marriage.

1760
01:26:33,800 --> 01:26:34,280
Speaker 4: I tried.

1761
01:26:34,600 --> 01:26:37,400
Speaker 2: I really tried until I was about sixteen. I gave

1762
01:26:37,520 --> 01:26:40,880
Speaker 2: up the ghosts. My wife actually was a virgin when

1763
01:26:40,920 --> 01:26:45,000
Speaker 2: we got married. It was actually a human virgin when

1764
01:26:45,000 --> 01:26:45,799
Speaker 2: we got married.

1765
01:26:46,680 --> 01:26:51,680
Speaker 1: So she's you are, so that is amazing.

1766
01:26:51,760 --> 01:26:55,040
Speaker 2: That's all she done. I'm the best there ever is

1767
01:26:55,160 --> 01:26:58,400
Speaker 2: the best ever would for her though. Yeah, And I

1768
01:26:58,400 --> 01:27:00,479
Speaker 2: remember when we were on our wedding day, there was

1769
01:27:00,720 --> 01:27:02,960
Speaker 2: a church mother who was like, and you better not

1770
01:27:03,080 --> 01:27:03,760
Speaker 2: have no sex with.

1771
01:27:03,800 --> 01:27:04,120
Speaker 1: Her or not.

1772
01:27:04,240 --> 01:27:07,360
Speaker 4: She's had a long day. You've been waited this long.

1773
01:27:07,439 --> 01:27:08,400
Speaker 4: You can wait another night.

1774
01:27:08,600 --> 01:27:12,200
Speaker 2: And I was like, oh dang, Like okay, like man,

1775
01:27:12,320 --> 01:27:16,920
Speaker 2: we got back to that apartment, she was like, I

1776
01:27:17,000 --> 01:27:18,680
Speaker 2: gotta stay with it, like, let me see with that thing.

1777
01:27:18,760 --> 01:27:23,760
Speaker 4: Smell like right, So I think listen.

1778
01:27:25,560 --> 01:27:26,040
Speaker 8: To me.

1779
01:27:26,600 --> 01:27:27,080
Speaker 1: I beat.

1780
01:27:27,320 --> 01:27:30,080
Speaker 2: Sometimes I'd be in that and I'd be like, God,

1781
01:27:30,200 --> 01:27:32,240
Speaker 2: you really did your big one when you created this,

1782
01:27:32,920 --> 01:27:35,000
Speaker 2: because this is as close to you as I ever feel.

1783
01:27:35,920 --> 01:27:36,400
Speaker 4: I'd beat.

1784
01:27:37,080 --> 01:27:40,960
Speaker 2: I'm not in heaven, but I'm outside. I'm six hundred

1785
01:27:40,960 --> 01:27:44,679
Speaker 2: feet away. If we're a GPS, I'm in the realm. So, yeah,

1786
01:27:44,760 --> 01:27:48,280
Speaker 2: my wife is beautiful. I'm attracted to her. I'm hoping

1787
01:27:48,320 --> 01:27:52,160
Speaker 2: for Coochie tonight. I'm like, okay, I get back by

1788
01:27:52,240 --> 01:27:55,200
Speaker 2: ten thirty, about eleven, about thirty minutes out. If I

1789
01:27:55,280 --> 01:27:57,599
Speaker 2: get back by twelve, I'm hoping well, taking shower, take

1790
01:27:57,600 --> 01:27:58,559
Speaker 2: a shop, a long day.

1791
01:27:58,960 --> 01:28:01,799
Speaker 4: I'm hoping. I'm thinking about it right now. Her birthday Friday.

1792
01:28:01,840 --> 01:28:05,320
Speaker 2: I know that's out. It's her birthday. I gotta give

1793
01:28:05,320 --> 01:28:08,680
Speaker 2: your birthday. But Saturday, I'm hoping for a Saturday. You

1794
01:28:08,720 --> 01:28:11,080
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying. Para menopause, I don't know, period

1795
01:28:11,160 --> 01:28:13,479
Speaker 2: coming period go, That's what I want to do. Right

1796
01:28:13,560 --> 01:28:18,200
Speaker 2: So I think I'm a man first, Hey man, primal

1797
01:28:18,720 --> 01:28:21,720
Speaker 2: big she walking by that buddy, I see it.

1798
01:28:22,160 --> 01:28:25,400
Speaker 4: But you want me to marry fine? She is violently fine.

1799
01:28:28,880 --> 01:28:32,600
Speaker 4: She's got great style. God smells amazing, Like what you

1800
01:28:32,680 --> 01:28:33,400
Speaker 4: want me to know?

1801
01:28:33,479 --> 01:28:34,400
Speaker 1: What it is about her?

1802
01:28:34,760 --> 01:28:34,800
Speaker 3: Like?

1803
01:28:35,439 --> 01:28:36,280
Speaker 1: She don't care.

1804
01:28:36,760 --> 01:28:39,760
Speaker 3: She's so confident no matter who cav going on to

1805
01:28:39,840 --> 01:28:43,160
Speaker 3: interview with, what he talking about, what he's doing, She's

1806
01:28:43,200 --> 01:28:45,280
Speaker 3: just like that, Yeah, she.

1807
01:28:45,439 --> 01:28:48,040
Speaker 4: Know where I'm going when I come home. I'm coming

1808
01:28:48,160 --> 01:28:50,640
Speaker 4: home to her. And I appreciate that.

1809
01:28:50,720 --> 01:28:53,280
Speaker 2: She was like, if I know you like you know

1810
01:28:53,320 --> 01:28:57,040
Speaker 2: because I text you know women in this industry, She's like,

1811
01:28:57,240 --> 01:28:59,800
Speaker 2: I trust you. Like we did this a podcast when

1812
01:28:59,880 --> 01:29:01,280
Speaker 2: you to do the Love Hour, she was like, and

1813
01:29:01,360 --> 01:29:02,920
Speaker 2: this wasn't ours, And somebody said that we kind of

1814
01:29:02,920 --> 01:29:05,840
Speaker 2: adopted it. It was like, I'm not finna be checking

1815
01:29:05,880 --> 01:29:08,800
Speaker 2: your phone, checking your email, checking your DMS. I'm gonna

1816
01:29:08,840 --> 01:29:11,280
Speaker 2: give you enough rope to hang yourself, either to pull

1817
01:29:11,320 --> 01:29:14,200
Speaker 2: yourself up or to hang yourself. And she's like, I

1818
01:29:14,360 --> 01:29:16,240
Speaker 2: understand that you work in this industry. You're gonna be

1819
01:29:16,320 --> 01:29:18,960
Speaker 2: having to text women and meat and stuff like that,

1820
01:29:19,560 --> 01:29:21,920
Speaker 2: but I trust you. Don't give me a reason not

1821
01:29:22,040 --> 01:29:24,360
Speaker 2: to trust you, right, And I've never given her a

1822
01:29:24,400 --> 01:29:27,599
Speaker 2: reason not to trust her. And also it's never been

1823
01:29:27,680 --> 01:29:30,000
Speaker 2: even before Muless, it's never been my personality to cheat.

1824
01:29:30,439 --> 01:29:31,320
Speaker 4: I don't have time.

1825
01:29:31,800 --> 01:29:34,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not going to try to navigate three or

1826
01:29:34,800 --> 01:29:38,200
Speaker 2: four different women I low key with. I've realized I'm

1827
01:29:38,280 --> 01:29:42,200
Speaker 2: more creative and efficient and effective because I'm happily married

1828
01:29:42,280 --> 01:29:44,960
Speaker 2: and faithful now because after a show, y'all know, after

1829
01:29:45,000 --> 01:29:48,000
Speaker 2: a show, you you be exhausted. You give it your

1830
01:29:48,040 --> 01:29:49,479
Speaker 2: all on that stage. You want to take a shower,

1831
01:29:49,560 --> 01:29:51,560
Speaker 2: get something to eat, go to bed. After I do that,

1832
01:29:51,600 --> 01:29:54,080
Speaker 2: I text my wife, called my wife for thirty minutes, and.

1833
01:29:54,160 --> 01:29:56,479
Speaker 4: Then I go to sleep. I'm not then like, now

1834
01:29:56,600 --> 01:29:59,479
Speaker 4: let me go out Atlanta. Now let me call Houston, let.

1835
01:29:59,439 --> 01:30:02,040
Speaker 2: Me call I'm in the bed so that I can

1836
01:30:02,080 --> 01:30:05,760
Speaker 2: get up and perform the next night. So I honor her,

1837
01:30:06,560 --> 01:30:08,760
Speaker 2: like I don't even I don't even go to the

1838
01:30:08,880 --> 01:30:09,599
Speaker 2: hotel lobby.

1839
01:30:09,680 --> 01:30:10,280
Speaker 4: Most of the time.

1840
01:30:10,760 --> 01:30:13,000
Speaker 2: I go to the room room service. If we can

1841
01:30:13,040 --> 01:30:17,400
Speaker 2: afford a hotel. You know, I do all right, But

1842
01:30:17,600 --> 01:30:20,200
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, But I also do that stuff.

1843
01:30:20,560 --> 01:30:22,240
Speaker 3: I got to walk down to the lobby and get

1844
01:30:22,320 --> 01:30:25,960
Speaker 3: my Uber eats. Babe, that room service is expensive.

1845
01:30:26,560 --> 01:30:28,719
Speaker 1: You'll be ordering room service.

1846
01:30:28,840 --> 01:30:29,919
Speaker 3: Why would you mint.

1847
01:30:34,520 --> 01:30:34,680
Speaker 4: Order?

1848
01:30:34,800 --> 01:30:37,360
Speaker 1: Because we be checking out in hers and be like

1849
01:30:38,520 --> 01:30:42,880
Speaker 1: twelve hundred. Am I to be like, like, why you're

1850
01:30:42,880 --> 01:30:45,080
Speaker 1: a two hundred ordered room service?

1851
01:30:46,040 --> 01:30:49,760
Speaker 6: See people get out here and lie because I'm a lie.

1852
01:30:49,880 --> 01:30:53,120
Speaker 6: I'm like, hey, I'm finishing stowing up. You go and

1853
01:30:53,200 --> 01:30:55,120
Speaker 6: you get your room service and you go to be and.

1854
01:30:57,200 --> 01:31:00,519
Speaker 4: But yeah, I think it's completely healthy, natural and you

1855
01:31:00,640 --> 01:31:01,600
Speaker 4: should be doing that.

1856
01:31:02,000 --> 01:31:04,560
Speaker 5: We are made to love, what about we made to

1857
01:31:04,640 --> 01:31:05,559
Speaker 5: love one person?

1858
01:31:05,800 --> 01:31:06,040
Speaker 4: Yes?

1859
01:31:06,720 --> 01:31:08,240
Speaker 3: I believe that, But I do feel like, how do

1860
01:31:08,280 --> 01:31:10,880
Speaker 3: you feel about like Preacher's kids? Because like, you know,

1861
01:31:11,000 --> 01:31:13,360
Speaker 3: the I had Okay, I'm gonna tell a story.

1862
01:31:14,080 --> 01:31:16,439
Speaker 1: No no, no, it wasn't me. It was a It

1863
01:31:16,520 --> 01:31:18,200
Speaker 1: was a preacher's kid when we went.

1864
01:31:18,160 --> 01:31:22,920
Speaker 3: To school, and they were very good kids, and the

1865
01:31:23,080 --> 01:31:24,719
Speaker 3: daughter like, she just went missing.

1866
01:31:25,640 --> 01:31:28,160
Speaker 1: Nobody knew where she was. Like, we were all so worried,

1867
01:31:28,200 --> 01:31:29,400
Speaker 1: we know what happened.

1868
01:31:29,439 --> 01:31:31,360
Speaker 3: Come to find out she had ran away with one

1869
01:31:31,400 --> 01:31:34,720
Speaker 3: of the coaches at the school. Oh damn, they had disappeared,

1870
01:31:36,000 --> 01:31:37,760
Speaker 3: and like she had finally reached out to one of

1871
01:31:37,840 --> 01:31:39,960
Speaker 3: her friends and was like, hey, I'm safe, I'm cool,

1872
01:31:40,000 --> 01:31:42,320
Speaker 3: I'm with such and such, and the friend was like,

1873
01:31:42,720 --> 01:31:45,160
Speaker 3: she let everybody know, and it just spread like wildfire.

1874
01:31:45,200 --> 01:31:47,919
Speaker 4: Oh my god, it was so it was such a scandal.

1875
01:31:48,479 --> 01:31:51,560
Speaker 1: I'm so down in Orange. I couldn't wait. I was

1876
01:31:51,600 --> 01:31:52,680
Speaker 1: going to I was going to.

1877
01:31:52,880 --> 01:31:56,519
Speaker 6: Market Basket, that's our HV market. Market Basket is like

1878
01:31:56,600 --> 01:31:57,680
Speaker 6: Kroger h B.

1879
01:31:58,240 --> 01:32:09,200
Speaker 1: And I was like, did you hear what the word?

1880
01:32:10,800 --> 01:32:13,439
Speaker 1: I had to spread the word, y'all? I had to

1881
01:32:13,520 --> 01:32:15,000
Speaker 1: let did you hear about it?

1882
01:32:16,800 --> 01:32:19,839
Speaker 3: Talking to my teachers after social studies lesson, they classes

1883
01:32:19,920 --> 01:32:22,880
Speaker 3: dismissed everybody going on the way and she's like, Pierre.

1884
01:32:22,800 --> 01:32:25,479
Speaker 1: You can go, but did you hear I had to

1885
01:32:25,520 --> 01:32:27,679
Speaker 1: stay after. I just want to make sure you knew

1886
01:32:27,680 --> 01:32:30,960
Speaker 1: that in case you was looking for but it was

1887
01:32:31,000 --> 01:32:32,040
Speaker 1: a preacher's kids.

1888
01:32:33,240 --> 01:32:38,120
Speaker 2: My thing with preacher's kids is this, and p k's

1889
01:32:38,760 --> 01:32:41,880
Speaker 2: are usually no different than the other kids in the church,

1890
01:32:42,400 --> 01:32:45,400
Speaker 2: except they are placed on a pedestal. They are expected

1891
01:32:45,439 --> 01:32:48,200
Speaker 2: to be different because of who their parents are, but

1892
01:32:48,240 --> 01:32:51,120
Speaker 2: they're usually no worse than any other kid in the church.

1893
01:32:51,200 --> 01:32:53,400
Speaker 2: They just are expected to do stuff, and then they're

1894
01:32:53,479 --> 01:32:56,840
Speaker 2: vilified for regular stuff. So then they usually either become

1895
01:32:56,960 --> 01:32:59,840
Speaker 2: super preacher's kids or they lean in. And I feel

1896
01:32:59,880 --> 01:33:02,680
Speaker 2: like if we the Body of Christ, would treat them

1897
01:33:02,840 --> 01:33:05,920
Speaker 2: like everybody else, then they would turn out like everybody else.

1898
01:33:06,200 --> 01:33:09,400
Speaker 2: But we either pushed them further into you know, now

1899
01:33:09,439 --> 01:33:13,400
Speaker 2: they become preachers, or they leave and have sex and

1900
01:33:13,479 --> 01:33:16,160
Speaker 2: have a baby or whatever. But it's usually the expectations

1901
01:33:16,240 --> 01:33:20,600
Speaker 2: that are too heavy and unfairly placed on them. To me,

1902
01:33:20,720 --> 01:33:23,600
Speaker 2: I feel like Sarah Jake's is the great example of that,

1903
01:33:23,840 --> 01:33:29,120
Speaker 2: like just vilified her, destroyed her. But I also think,

1904
01:33:29,240 --> 01:33:30,960
Speaker 2: I don't want to say tragedy is a part of

1905
01:33:30,960 --> 01:33:31,439
Speaker 2: God's plans.

1906
01:33:32,240 --> 01:33:35,080
Speaker 1: She had a kid, all not only she have a kid,

1907
01:33:35,160 --> 01:33:36,760
Speaker 1: you is TD Jake's daughter.

1908
01:33:37,560 --> 01:33:41,000
Speaker 2: She had the nation. I remember hearing about that and

1909
01:33:41,160 --> 01:33:43,200
Speaker 2: I didn't even go to his church. He was like, well,

1910
01:33:43,240 --> 01:33:45,719
Speaker 2: you know TD Jake's daughter, Like she was the PK

1911
01:33:46,040 --> 01:33:49,240
Speaker 2: of p K. So it's like the whole Black church

1912
01:33:49,479 --> 01:33:53,240
Speaker 2: was like you even though she didn't do nothing that

1913
01:33:53,640 --> 01:33:58,120
Speaker 2: was that unusual, like teenage pregnancy was it's very normal

1914
01:33:58,479 --> 01:33:59,320
Speaker 2: among black people and.

1915
01:33:59,400 --> 01:34:00,559
Speaker 1: White kids that time.

1916
01:34:00,840 --> 01:34:05,200
Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, people have like it's not that unusual.

1917
01:34:05,840 --> 01:34:08,439
Speaker 2: But I also believe that because that's her story, she

1918
01:34:08,600 --> 01:34:11,800
Speaker 2: is uniquely placed where she is now because she's not

1919
01:34:12,280 --> 01:34:13,400
Speaker 2: I've been saved all my life.

1920
01:34:13,400 --> 01:34:14,400
Speaker 4: I've never done nothing wrong.

1921
01:34:14,600 --> 01:34:16,479
Speaker 2: I feel like she's the perfect person to be in

1922
01:34:16,520 --> 01:34:19,880
Speaker 2: the position sher and Terra are in because of how

1923
01:34:20,040 --> 01:34:23,519
Speaker 2: she was treated by the church. I think it's like

1924
01:34:23,760 --> 01:34:28,920
Speaker 2: she's perfect and how she approaches that position is only

1925
01:34:29,040 --> 01:34:31,280
Speaker 2: possible because of how she lived her life and how

1926
01:34:31,320 --> 01:34:32,679
Speaker 2: she was treated as a result.

1927
01:34:32,760 --> 01:34:34,439
Speaker 3: That was such a good example because you did say

1928
01:34:34,520 --> 01:34:36,720
Speaker 3: like earlier, like people would like to see us talk

1929
01:34:36,760 --> 01:34:39,639
Speaker 3: about that movie. Yes, but she's actually somebody I listened

1930
01:34:39,680 --> 01:34:41,960
Speaker 3: to because I feel like she's a human.

1931
01:34:42,760 --> 01:34:45,799
Speaker 4: It doesn't give like go to church perfect.

1932
01:34:46,520 --> 01:34:48,960
Speaker 1: She is somebody I can listen to and I really

1933
01:34:49,200 --> 01:34:49,680
Speaker 1: enjoy her.

1934
01:34:49,760 --> 01:34:49,960
Speaker 4: Serr.

1935
01:34:50,200 --> 01:34:52,560
Speaker 1: Yes, she seems like a real person. Yeah, she's so

1936
01:34:52,840 --> 01:34:53,880
Speaker 1: down and she is.

1937
01:34:54,040 --> 01:34:57,600
Speaker 2: She's very cool in person, yes, and I think she

1938
01:34:57,840 --> 01:35:00,040
Speaker 2: she can go in the breakfast club and talking and

1939
01:35:00,080 --> 01:35:01,880
Speaker 2: it be like, Okay, you know what, maybe I was

1940
01:35:01,920 --> 01:35:05,120
Speaker 2: wrong about Christianity and Christians. So I think that's why

1941
01:35:05,160 --> 01:35:07,040
Speaker 2: I say we all need to be who we are

1942
01:35:07,160 --> 01:35:09,280
Speaker 2: and go through what we go through. But Church folks,

1943
01:35:09,560 --> 01:35:11,080
Speaker 2: I don't want to make it seem like we're all bad,

1944
01:35:11,160 --> 01:35:13,559
Speaker 2: but we do what everybody else does. It just seems

1945
01:35:13,560 --> 01:35:17,160
Speaker 2: to have more damage sometimes because you didn't expect it

1946
01:35:17,280 --> 01:35:19,280
Speaker 2: from us, right, Okay, So.

1947
01:35:19,439 --> 01:35:21,439
Speaker 6: How do you feel about because I love that you

1948
01:35:21,640 --> 01:35:24,400
Speaker 6: touched on the fact that your wife was a Vergin

1949
01:35:24,439 --> 01:35:28,160
Speaker 6: when y'all got do you feel like it's really good

1950
01:35:28,320 --> 01:35:31,840
Speaker 6: for women to only explore one partner in life because

1951
01:35:31,880 --> 01:35:34,040
Speaker 6: it's like if you explore that one partner, then you

1952
01:35:34,160 --> 01:35:36,080
Speaker 6: don't know what you missing out one. Yeah, you need

1953
01:35:36,160 --> 01:35:39,599
Speaker 6: to explore everything with that one person and you get

1954
01:35:39,640 --> 01:35:42,320
Speaker 6: to know yourself and then I also feel like the

1955
01:35:42,800 --> 01:35:44,040
Speaker 6: love is just deeper too.

1956
01:35:44,479 --> 01:35:47,040
Speaker 2: If this is your first I feel like I've been

1957
01:35:47,160 --> 01:35:49,799
Speaker 2: blessed even though I didn't deserve it. I was blessed

1958
01:35:49,880 --> 01:35:57,160
Speaker 2: that she only had one partner because there's no expectation, right, listen.

1959
01:35:57,120 --> 01:36:02,479
Speaker 4: Yeah, get and listen, And I only got to be

1960
01:36:02,520 --> 01:36:07,560
Speaker 4: good to you. Yeah, right. And I think what I've found.

1961
01:36:07,720 --> 01:36:09,920
Speaker 2: Because I had sex with other people before her, what

1962
01:36:10,080 --> 01:36:13,640
Speaker 2: I didn't have was like freedom. I remember feeling like

1963
01:36:13,880 --> 01:36:16,640
Speaker 2: super convicted, super guilty. What if she gets pregnant, what

1964
01:36:16,680 --> 01:36:19,120
Speaker 2: if I get an STD Like that's I was like sixteen.

1965
01:36:19,160 --> 01:36:20,679
Speaker 2: I was worried about all those things. What's she gonna

1966
01:36:20,680 --> 01:36:22,519
Speaker 2: tell her friends and all that type of stuff. But

1967
01:36:22,600 --> 01:36:25,639
Speaker 2: I feel like the covenant of marriage there's a certain

1968
01:36:25,760 --> 01:36:29,880
Speaker 2: freedom and trust and relaxation that allows that you can

1969
01:36:29,960 --> 01:36:32,520
Speaker 2: have with each other when you have like complete trust.

1970
01:36:32,680 --> 01:36:34,320
Speaker 4: Even outside of the bedroom.

1971
01:36:34,600 --> 01:36:36,720
Speaker 2: Like if you feel like I got your back as

1972
01:36:36,760 --> 01:36:40,040
Speaker 2: a husband, then you're you'll you'll be more trusting in

1973
01:36:40,120 --> 01:36:40,639
Speaker 2: the bedroom.

1974
01:36:41,040 --> 01:36:41,160
Speaker 4: Right.

1975
01:36:41,240 --> 01:36:44,040
Speaker 2: So I feel like with one person, there's things you

1976
01:36:44,160 --> 01:36:47,320
Speaker 2: can do and be in the bedroom that you might

1977
01:36:47,479 --> 01:36:49,439
Speaker 2: not be if you're just like trying to be with

1978
01:36:49,479 --> 01:36:51,160
Speaker 2: this person, that person, this person, that person, this person,

1979
01:36:51,200 --> 01:36:54,080
Speaker 2: that person. So I feel like that's what I understand

1980
01:36:54,280 --> 01:36:57,679
Speaker 2: and you know, appreciate about marriage. But at the same time,

1981
01:36:57,760 --> 01:37:01,479
Speaker 2: I understand like the Bible days people was getting married

1982
01:37:01,479 --> 01:37:02,360
Speaker 2: at twelve and thirteen.

1983
01:37:03,200 --> 01:37:06,200
Speaker 4: So nowadays we I don't have.

1984
01:37:06,479 --> 01:37:09,960
Speaker 2: The expectation that if my son's not married at thirty

1985
01:37:10,000 --> 01:37:12,800
Speaker 2: five that he would be a virgin. Like I would

1986
01:37:12,880 --> 01:37:15,639
Speaker 2: have the hope, but I would be like, now, if

1987
01:37:15,720 --> 01:37:17,960
Speaker 2: you you done smash the couple of times, you understand,

1988
01:37:18,120 --> 01:37:20,200
Speaker 2: you understand, you know what I'm saying. You did what

1989
01:37:20,320 --> 01:37:22,760
Speaker 2: you could, But I do understand the value of being

1990
01:37:22,840 --> 01:37:25,360
Speaker 2: married or even if you're not married. Of like teaching

1991
01:37:25,400 --> 01:37:28,320
Speaker 2: my boys about consenting sex. It's just like, if you're

1992
01:37:28,360 --> 01:37:31,160
Speaker 2: having a one night stand, your chances of something negative

1993
01:37:31,200 --> 01:37:34,960
Speaker 2: happening are much higher if that's your first interaction. If

1994
01:37:35,000 --> 01:37:37,040
Speaker 2: you are in a committed relationship with her and y'all

1995
01:37:37,080 --> 01:37:38,920
Speaker 2: been together for a few months and you've met her

1996
01:37:38,960 --> 01:37:41,720
Speaker 2: parents and then y'all have sex, you're just less likely

1997
01:37:41,800 --> 01:37:44,240
Speaker 2: that a whole bunch of other negative stuff is gonna happen.

1998
01:37:44,560 --> 01:37:48,120
Speaker 2: So that's I try to parent with God and realism,

1999
01:37:48,560 --> 01:37:51,800
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, versus like my mom was like,

2000
01:37:52,000 --> 01:37:53,080
Speaker 2: don't you have sex ever?

2001
01:37:53,479 --> 01:37:54,880
Speaker 4: And I remember it was nineteen. She was like, you're

2002
01:37:54,880 --> 01:37:56,840
Speaker 4: still a virgin, ain't you? And I was like, no, Mom,

2003
01:37:56,960 --> 01:37:59,920
Speaker 4: she was like I feeled you and then walked off

2004
01:38:00,560 --> 01:38:04,240
Speaker 4: like that ain't that's not realistic. But there was some

2005
01:38:04,400 --> 01:38:04,880
Speaker 4: man Dad.

2006
01:38:05,000 --> 01:38:07,040
Speaker 2: There were some moments in between. We probably should have

2007
01:38:07,040 --> 01:38:08,920
Speaker 2: had a conversation, but y'all was just turning.

2008
01:38:09,000 --> 01:38:09,360
Speaker 4: Y'all blind.

2009
01:38:09,400 --> 01:38:11,479
Speaker 2: Nine, I was climbing out the window. I was riding

2010
01:38:11,520 --> 01:38:13,120
Speaker 2: the bus across town and doing sex.

2011
01:38:13,720 --> 01:38:16,560
Speaker 1: Getting on the Greyhound for some is nuts.

2012
01:38:16,520 --> 01:38:18,360
Speaker 4: In the middle of the day.

2013
01:38:18,960 --> 01:38:20,040
Speaker 1: This was three pm.

2014
01:38:20,240 --> 01:38:22,400
Speaker 4: Sin oh, I got to be home by dark. I

2015
01:38:22,479 --> 01:38:24,720
Speaker 4: can't just be out here. I told my mama was

2016
01:38:24,720 --> 01:38:27,040
Speaker 4: going to the mall. I gotta be back by six.

2017
01:38:27,479 --> 01:38:28,120
Speaker 1: This is grazy.

2018
01:38:28,600 --> 01:38:32,200
Speaker 6: You getting married so young. Did you feel the pressure

2019
01:38:32,400 --> 01:38:34,800
Speaker 6: to get married or were you just very convicted, Like.

2020
01:38:34,920 --> 01:38:37,240
Speaker 4: No, this is my this is my partner, one of

2021
01:38:37,320 --> 01:38:38,400
Speaker 4: my best things in life.

2022
01:38:39,160 --> 01:38:44,439
Speaker 2: Completely convicted, not convicted, convinced. This is as good as

2023
01:38:44,479 --> 01:38:46,720
Speaker 2: it gets for me. I put when I when I

2024
01:38:46,800 --> 01:38:49,640
Speaker 2: convinced her. It took me like a whole semester and

2025
01:38:49,720 --> 01:38:51,960
Speaker 2: a half to convince her to date me. I was

2026
01:38:52,040 --> 01:38:54,000
Speaker 2: a junior in high school and I didn't think I

2027
01:38:54,040 --> 01:38:56,160
Speaker 2: was gonna get married at the time. But in college,

2028
01:38:56,240 --> 01:38:59,880
Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm surveying the land. I'm like, this is

2029
01:39:00,000 --> 01:39:01,639
Speaker 2: as good it's gonna get for and it's.

2030
01:39:01,600 --> 01:39:02,080
Speaker 1: Worse than that.

2031
01:39:03,960 --> 01:39:07,280
Speaker 6: I love who person so young. I feel like that's

2032
01:39:07,320 --> 01:39:09,720
Speaker 6: one of the most amazing things that you can do.

2033
01:39:09,840 --> 01:39:12,360
Speaker 6: That's why I asked you that question about like do

2034
01:39:12,520 --> 01:39:16,840
Speaker 6: you feel like it's pressure to make that person happy?

2035
01:39:16,920 --> 01:39:19,280
Speaker 6: But then at the same time, it's like if you

2036
01:39:19,400 --> 01:39:22,120
Speaker 6: don't know anything else, it's not any pressure.

2037
01:39:22,240 --> 01:39:22,280
Speaker 4: No.

2038
01:39:22,479 --> 01:39:27,280
Speaker 2: We grew up together, and there's benefits and there's drawbacks

2039
01:39:27,320 --> 01:39:29,640
Speaker 2: to being that young. Like, imagine who you were at

2040
01:39:29,680 --> 01:39:34,000
Speaker 2: sixteen and how who you are now. You had so

2041
01:39:34,200 --> 01:39:37,840
Speaker 2: many different changes, even just living life. You've got jobs,

2042
01:39:37,880 --> 01:39:40,680
Speaker 2: you got fired, you move, you have loved ones, you know,

2043
01:39:41,240 --> 01:39:44,080
Speaker 2: born and die. All that affects who you are and

2044
01:39:44,160 --> 01:39:46,200
Speaker 2: how you approach the world. So we've had to navigate

2045
01:39:46,680 --> 01:39:49,080
Speaker 2: that in our lives, that in each other's lives, and

2046
01:39:49,160 --> 01:39:51,439
Speaker 2: then that in the relationship, you know what I'm saying.

2047
01:39:51,520 --> 01:39:54,800
Speaker 2: So it's been more work, but it's also been We

2048
01:39:54,960 --> 01:39:58,320
Speaker 2: have like twenty year old inside jokes, twenty two year

2049
01:39:58,320 --> 01:39:59,240
Speaker 2: old inside jokes.

2050
01:39:59,360 --> 01:40:00,759
Speaker 4: Our kids don't.

2051
01:40:00,560 --> 01:40:03,479
Speaker 2: Remember us not being together. Our siblings they have no

2052
01:40:03,640 --> 01:40:06,600
Speaker 2: memory of not being together. I feel like that is

2053
01:40:06,640 --> 01:40:08,479
Speaker 2: a benefit and it was worth it for me. It

2054
01:40:08,560 --> 01:40:12,080
Speaker 2: was just like I'm very happy with Melissa. Even at twenty,

2055
01:40:12,160 --> 01:40:14,080
Speaker 2: I was like, or eighteen nineteen, I wanted to get

2056
01:40:14,120 --> 01:40:16,280
Speaker 2: married the year prior. I was like, we get good

2057
01:40:16,360 --> 01:40:20,120
Speaker 2: financial aid. If we like girl, we can have an apartment.

2058
01:40:20,320 --> 01:40:21,120
Speaker 1: It was ready.

2059
01:40:21,280 --> 01:40:24,720
Speaker 2: I was ready, that's right, and Loki I was the

2060
01:40:24,840 --> 01:40:26,160
Speaker 2: last of my friends to get married.

2061
01:40:26,240 --> 01:40:27,320
Speaker 1: But I'm not trying to be funny.

2062
01:40:27,360 --> 01:40:29,360
Speaker 6: That's a testament of how good of a person she

2063
01:40:29,680 --> 01:40:32,040
Speaker 6: is because she ain't even put it on yet.

2064
01:40:33,240 --> 01:40:35,439
Speaker 1: I ain't even put it on, and he was ready

2065
01:40:35,520 --> 01:40:36,719
Speaker 1: to you know what I'm saying.

2066
01:40:36,960 --> 01:40:38,840
Speaker 4: And it wasn't just so we can have sex.

2067
01:40:39,240 --> 01:40:41,560
Speaker 2: I was like, I remember, the reason I decided I

2068
01:40:41,640 --> 01:40:44,400
Speaker 2: wanted to propose is because we were like, you know,

2069
01:40:44,479 --> 01:40:46,360
Speaker 2: we're halfway through college, and I'm like, you're starting to

2070
01:40:46,360 --> 01:40:48,120
Speaker 2: think about what your life's gonna be after college, what

2071
01:40:48,120 --> 01:40:49,639
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be do, what I'm gonna do for job.

2072
01:40:49,680 --> 01:40:51,000
Speaker 2: And I was realizing I was gonna be in the

2073
01:40:51,000 --> 01:40:52,720
Speaker 2: Air Force at the time before they kick me down

2074
01:40:52,720 --> 01:40:53,240
Speaker 2: on all TC.

2075
01:40:53,920 --> 01:40:55,679
Speaker 4: And I was like, Okay, so if I get.

2076
01:40:55,600 --> 01:40:58,960
Speaker 2: Stationed here, she's a military girl, she'll understand what it's like.

2077
01:40:59,080 --> 01:41:00,639
Speaker 2: We can get say she get a job blah blah

2078
01:41:00,640 --> 01:41:02,600
Speaker 2: blah blah blah. And I realized I was planning my

2079
01:41:02,680 --> 01:41:04,840
Speaker 2: life with her without even asking her. She wanted to

2080
01:41:04,840 --> 01:41:06,559
Speaker 2: be a part of my plant life. And that's when

2081
01:41:06,560 --> 01:41:08,920
Speaker 2: I realized, oh, I want to marry her because I'm

2082
01:41:08,960 --> 01:41:13,439
Speaker 2: not even factoring a life without her in it. I

2083
01:41:13,520 --> 01:41:16,639
Speaker 2: should maybe ask her if she wants to go through

2084
01:41:16,720 --> 01:41:19,719
Speaker 2: my whole life like that with me. So at that moment,

2085
01:41:19,800 --> 01:41:21,960
Speaker 2: I was like, and I remember her ring was like

2086
01:41:22,160 --> 01:41:25,000
Speaker 2: ninety dollars. Wow, I got he from the PX no

2087
01:41:25,240 --> 01:41:29,600
Speaker 2: tax and it was not real obviously, you know what

2088
01:41:29,640 --> 01:41:31,400
Speaker 2: I'm saying. The gold came off too through.

2089
01:41:34,360 --> 01:41:34,519
Speaker 1: Ring.

2090
01:41:34,680 --> 01:41:37,920
Speaker 4: Now now now it's real. No, I done got her?

2091
01:41:37,960 --> 01:41:38,600
Speaker 4: I done got her?

2092
01:41:38,680 --> 01:41:44,000
Speaker 1: Right, I said, yeah, dig of the damn that's a

2093
01:41:44,120 --> 01:41:44,720
Speaker 1: ring or nothing?

2094
01:41:44,760 --> 01:41:44,960
Speaker 3: I do.

2095
01:41:45,160 --> 01:41:48,519
Speaker 6: I want to know how do you navigate those challenges though,

2096
01:41:48,520 --> 01:41:51,599
Speaker 6: because you spoke on you know obviously y'all getting married

2097
01:41:51,680 --> 01:41:55,639
Speaker 6: really young, Yeah, going through grief, going through different changes

2098
01:41:55,680 --> 01:41:56,080
Speaker 6: in life?

2099
01:41:56,280 --> 01:41:58,640
Speaker 1: How do you navigate that? Is it just good communication?

2100
01:41:59,000 --> 01:41:59,639
Speaker 1: Is it therapy?

2101
01:41:59,720 --> 01:42:02,280
Speaker 6: Because when you marry somebody at such a young age

2102
01:42:02,400 --> 01:42:05,519
Speaker 6: and then now it's twenty years later, you're not the

2103
01:42:05,640 --> 01:42:06,919
Speaker 6: same person anymore.

2104
01:42:07,040 --> 01:42:08,200
Speaker 1: You're a whole different.

2105
01:42:07,960 --> 01:42:09,880
Speaker 4: Person for us.

2106
01:42:11,080 --> 01:42:13,360
Speaker 2: It was all of the above, good communication, but it

2107
01:42:13,479 --> 01:42:17,519
Speaker 2: was therapy for sure. Like we I remember thinking at first, like, man,

2108
01:42:17,640 --> 01:42:19,760
Speaker 2: is that if we gotta go therapy, Like maybe we're

2109
01:42:19,800 --> 01:42:21,120
Speaker 2: not gonna make it right.

2110
01:42:21,160 --> 01:42:22,240
Speaker 4: But the pandemic was like.

2111
01:42:24,000 --> 01:42:27,599
Speaker 2: Tough for everybody everybody, But like I'm on the road

2112
01:42:27,720 --> 01:42:30,400
Speaker 2: traveling and stuff. We both working, like we had not

2113
01:42:30,640 --> 01:42:33,679
Speaker 2: spent twenty four hours a day together every day ever.

2114
01:42:34,000 --> 01:42:35,439
Speaker 2: Even when we were in college we spent a lot

2115
01:42:35,439 --> 01:42:37,479
Speaker 2: of time together. But eventually I went to my dorm,

2116
01:42:37,560 --> 01:42:39,760
Speaker 2: she went to her dorm. When we had our first job,

2117
01:42:39,920 --> 01:42:42,040
Speaker 2: she went to work. All of a sudden, we're here together,

2118
01:42:42,040 --> 01:42:43,360
Speaker 2: and I'm like, man, why do I want to be

2119
01:42:43,439 --> 01:42:47,360
Speaker 2: in my office kind of by myself right now? And

2120
01:42:47,479 --> 01:42:48,960
Speaker 2: She's like, you don't want to be with me? Men,

2121
01:42:49,000 --> 01:42:50,479
Speaker 2: why does she want to be her? She started feeling

2122
01:42:50,720 --> 01:42:52,880
Speaker 2: guilty about that, and I remember it started with like

2123
01:42:54,240 --> 01:42:56,200
Speaker 2: we didn't we hadn't non therapy yet. She was like,

2124
01:42:56,680 --> 01:43:00,280
Speaker 2: we don't really talk deep. That's the language ahead of

2125
01:43:00,280 --> 01:43:02,240
Speaker 2: the time. We don't really have deep conversations. We don't

2126
01:43:02,280 --> 01:43:03,000
Speaker 2: really talk like that.

2127
01:43:03,479 --> 01:43:05,000
Speaker 4: So I'm like, girl, we talk every day, Like what

2128
01:43:05,080 --> 01:43:05,800
Speaker 4: did you talk about.

2129
01:43:05,840 --> 01:43:09,000
Speaker 2: But what she eventually found the words for is like,

2130
01:43:09,560 --> 01:43:12,559
Speaker 2: you're not vulnerable with me. She was like, you don't

2131
01:43:12,600 --> 01:43:15,599
Speaker 2: share your fears with me. And I had to realize

2132
01:43:15,600 --> 01:43:18,840
Speaker 2: because I was doing couple therapy and individual therapy. I

2133
01:43:18,920 --> 01:43:20,599
Speaker 2: had to tell her one day, like, I don't share

2134
01:43:20,640 --> 01:43:24,560
Speaker 2: my fears with myself, so I can't be somebody for

2135
01:43:24,640 --> 01:43:27,280
Speaker 2: you that I'm not even for me. So I had

2136
01:43:27,320 --> 01:43:31,639
Speaker 2: to because to me, if I voice this fear, then

2137
01:43:31,680 --> 01:43:34,720
Speaker 2: that made to real that's how I approached it. So

2138
01:43:35,880 --> 01:43:38,960
Speaker 2: it took therapy to get to this stage. Like we've

2139
01:43:38,960 --> 01:43:41,719
Speaker 2: been together for twenty five years, all in off beautiful.

2140
01:43:41,800 --> 01:43:45,040
Speaker 2: We couldn't have made it without therapy. I had to

2141
01:43:45,120 --> 01:43:46,960
Speaker 2: learn how to be vulnerable. I had to learn how

2142
01:43:47,000 --> 01:43:50,560
Speaker 2: to communicate at her level. She's more emotionally intelligent than me,

2143
01:43:50,720 --> 01:43:53,680
Speaker 2: as women often are, but I couldn't just be like

2144
01:43:53,840 --> 01:43:56,000
Speaker 2: I'm not going to be emotionally intelligent at all, Like

2145
01:43:56,120 --> 01:44:00,400
Speaker 2: I don't have to match her to be to communicate

2146
01:44:00,439 --> 01:44:00,600
Speaker 2: with her.

2147
01:44:00,640 --> 01:44:02,280
Speaker 4: It's like last night I helped her take her braids down.

2148
01:44:02,320 --> 01:44:06,800
Speaker 2: I have this thought, Yeah, I'm like, I'm never gonna

2149
01:44:06,800 --> 01:44:09,680
Speaker 2: be as fast as she is taking her braids down.

2150
01:44:09,920 --> 01:44:11,960
Speaker 4: But that don't mean I can't help. And I think

2151
01:44:12,080 --> 01:44:15,280
Speaker 4: that's really all it takes, is like I'm willing to try.

2152
01:44:15,560 --> 01:44:17,880
Speaker 1: And if it's stuff like that that women fall into

2153
01:44:17,920 --> 01:44:19,760
Speaker 1: the effort, yes, Like and.

2154
01:44:19,800 --> 01:44:22,680
Speaker 2: I'm terrified about cutting her actual hair, Like that's a

2155
01:44:23,000 --> 01:44:26,479
Speaker 2: big job helping her take her braains down and cut them.

2156
01:44:26,840 --> 01:44:31,559
Speaker 3: Because exactly, the bow hoo braids are harder than way

2157
01:44:31,720 --> 01:44:33,320
Speaker 3: hard because it's a lot of hair.

2158
01:44:33,439 --> 01:44:34,920
Speaker 2: So she's like, cut the boho off, and I'm like,

2159
01:44:34,960 --> 01:44:36,679
Speaker 2: but the bow hoo with the real hair at the top,

2160
01:44:36,920 --> 01:44:38,040
Speaker 2: because it's twisted.

2161
01:44:37,680 --> 01:44:38,439
Speaker 4: Around in the real hair.

2162
01:44:38,479 --> 01:44:40,360
Speaker 2: Girl, don't don't give me this. Let me stop on

2163
01:44:40,439 --> 01:44:43,800
Speaker 2: the bottle on the phone. Lop, whoa you asking a

2164
01:44:43,840 --> 01:44:44,320
Speaker 2: lot out of me.

2165
01:44:44,400 --> 01:44:44,639
Speaker 1: I don't.

2166
01:44:44,640 --> 01:44:46,280
Speaker 2: I didn't grow up doing this. I'm only doing this

2167
01:44:46,360 --> 01:44:48,200
Speaker 2: because you my wife, and you asked me. I remember

2168
01:44:48,280 --> 01:44:50,280
Speaker 2: sometime this dude made a video he was so mad

2169
01:44:50,320 --> 01:44:52,400
Speaker 2: at me. What kind of nigga may help his wife

2170
01:44:52,439 --> 01:44:53,240
Speaker 2: take his break down?

2171
01:44:53,880 --> 01:44:58,400
Speaker 3: Nigga, what you mean I happily married man, happily like

2172
01:44:58,560 --> 01:45:05,559
Speaker 3: you talking about That's why all agreed people your messages,

2173
01:45:05,560 --> 01:45:08,639
Speaker 3: I'll do. I'm gonna hit you lext get them hey

2174
01:45:09,320 --> 01:45:11,439
Speaker 3: and I'm right there because I'm always on my phone.

2175
01:45:12,520 --> 01:45:19,200
Speaker 6: Hit me if you just want people, I'll block everybody always, y'all.

2176
01:45:20,160 --> 01:45:22,360
Speaker 1: Actually fuck you goodbye?

2177
01:45:23,240 --> 01:45:27,040
Speaker 6: Block Because why are you saying anything to me like

2178
01:45:27,280 --> 01:45:30,639
Speaker 6: you telling me that I'm wrong for taking my wife's

2179
01:45:30,640 --> 01:45:34,200
Speaker 6: braids down? Toxic masculinity and it's a lot of that

2180
01:45:34,479 --> 01:45:35,680
Speaker 6: existing online, right.

2181
01:45:36,120 --> 01:45:37,320
Speaker 1: I don't understand why.

2182
01:45:37,280 --> 01:45:40,600
Speaker 2: Men think twice about it, Like it's no different to

2183
01:45:40,680 --> 01:45:41,960
Speaker 2: me than like taking the trash out.

2184
01:45:42,000 --> 01:45:42,680
Speaker 1: Can you move my car?

2185
01:45:42,880 --> 01:45:43,800
Speaker 4: Can you pick up my son?

2186
01:45:44,160 --> 01:45:46,400
Speaker 2: Help me take my braids down because I gotta get

2187
01:45:46,439 --> 01:45:48,400
Speaker 2: my hair done tomorrow and not even And here's what

2188
01:45:48,479 --> 01:45:50,000
Speaker 2: I have to learn as a husband too. You can't

2189
01:45:50,080 --> 01:45:53,280
Speaker 2: do everything like to braids. I'm trying to smash. Women

2190
01:45:53,320 --> 01:45:54,320
Speaker 2: can smell that a mile away.

2191
01:45:54,439 --> 01:45:54,639
Speaker 3: Yeah.

2192
01:45:54,960 --> 01:45:57,200
Speaker 2: I remember when I was young and married, I realized

2193
01:45:57,200 --> 01:46:00,200
Speaker 2: if I cooked, I get the draws right. And all

2194
01:46:00,200 --> 01:46:01,800
Speaker 2: I knew how to make was hamburgers at the time,

2195
01:46:02,479 --> 01:46:03,160
Speaker 2: So then I can.

2196
01:46:05,479 --> 01:46:05,759
Speaker 4: Burger.

2197
01:46:06,080 --> 01:46:09,519
Speaker 2: But me, so I came in this is like the

2198
01:46:09,600 --> 01:46:11,719
Speaker 2: first year of mayor six months, I was running this play.

2199
01:46:12,080 --> 01:46:14,360
Speaker 2: Every time she came in the house smeth burger. She

2200
01:46:14,479 --> 01:46:18,840
Speaker 2: was like, no, no, I'm not going no, and I

2201
01:46:18,960 --> 01:46:22,000
Speaker 2: was like, God, dang to come up with something else.

2202
01:46:22,120 --> 01:46:24,000
Speaker 4: I gotta actually just do stuff because I love you.

2203
01:46:24,280 --> 01:46:26,759
Speaker 4: I can't always have Kucia on their mind.

2204
01:46:27,439 --> 01:46:29,040
Speaker 2: So like I help her take a breaks down because

2205
01:46:29,080 --> 01:46:31,639
Speaker 2: she needed help for no other reason, took a shower,

2206
01:46:31,760 --> 01:46:35,080
Speaker 2: went to bed and because that that's being a partner.

2207
01:46:35,760 --> 01:46:39,519
Speaker 2: It ain't all nobody likes when somebody's just doing something.

2208
01:46:39,640 --> 01:46:42,240
Speaker 2: Everything's transactional. You're helping me to get something, helping me

2209
01:46:42,360 --> 01:46:45,040
Speaker 2: to do something, like just help me because I need help,

2210
01:46:45,120 --> 01:46:47,360
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. So this is all things

2211
01:46:47,400 --> 01:46:49,800
Speaker 2: that I've learned over the time. But you can't let

2212
01:46:49,840 --> 01:46:52,040
Speaker 2: no nigga who don't live what you upset the person

2213
01:46:52,080 --> 01:46:54,519
Speaker 2: who's sleeping in your bed. I'm not trying to make

2214
01:46:54,520 --> 01:46:56,200
Speaker 2: your nigga I don't know, happy, Like I ain't taking

2215
01:46:56,200 --> 01:46:59,200
Speaker 2: your brains down, So real, nigga one three four can

2216
01:46:59,280 --> 01:46:59,800
Speaker 2: think I'm real.

2217
01:47:00,560 --> 01:47:01,600
Speaker 1: That's the same thing about it.

2218
01:47:03,160 --> 01:47:06,559
Speaker 5: If I'm not for my gender anymore.

2219
01:47:07,040 --> 01:47:09,479
Speaker 6: I'm building a life with these one person, so it

2220
01:47:09,640 --> 01:47:12,360
Speaker 6: only matters to me with these one person feels about me.

2221
01:47:12,680 --> 01:47:14,360
Speaker 4: Absolutely, I couldn't agree more.

2222
01:47:14,479 --> 01:47:17,720
Speaker 2: Like I'm trying to be married, happily married, like even

2223
01:47:17,800 --> 01:47:19,760
Speaker 2: my mom and grandma, Like I had to tell them,

2224
01:47:20,000 --> 01:47:23,400
Speaker 2: like Melissa sleeps in my bed like when we were young.

2225
01:47:23,439 --> 01:47:24,360
Speaker 1: They're like, come visit us.

2226
01:47:24,360 --> 01:47:26,639
Speaker 4: I was like, we don't have the money. It's three

2227
01:47:26,720 --> 01:47:29,439
Speaker 4: thousand dollars to fly all four of us. Like, well

2228
01:47:29,560 --> 01:47:30,640
Speaker 4: you find it.

2229
01:47:30,960 --> 01:47:34,479
Speaker 2: Oh, but Listen is happy. She is, and she put

2230
01:47:34,520 --> 01:47:37,880
Speaker 2: her body on me at night. That's what I'm going for.

2231
01:47:38,080 --> 01:47:40,599
Speaker 2: I ain't put that moody on me as soft as

2232
01:47:40,640 --> 01:47:42,639
Speaker 2: it is, put it on my thigh. I'm mna sleep

2233
01:47:42,680 --> 01:47:43,240
Speaker 2: better at night.

2234
01:47:43,920 --> 01:47:44,320
Speaker 1: So like.

2235
01:47:45,840 --> 01:47:49,759
Speaker 2: I'm confident in making. I want her to be happy

2236
01:47:49,840 --> 01:47:52,000
Speaker 2: and I want to be happy. And it literally I

2237
01:47:52,040 --> 01:47:55,599
Speaker 2: feel like social media has made me more like focus.

2238
01:47:55,920 --> 01:47:56,759
Speaker 1: People are awful.

2239
01:47:57,000 --> 01:47:59,800
Speaker 4: They're awful, awful to only exist here.

2240
01:48:00,120 --> 01:48:01,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I'm putting this on the charge and I'm

2241
01:48:01,960 --> 01:48:05,320
Speaker 2: going to bed, and I'm booty school, booty school scooch

2242
01:48:05,600 --> 01:48:07,280
Speaker 2: and let me come up on and hold the tenny.

2243
01:48:07,800 --> 01:48:09,040
Speaker 4: I got to come underneath that arm.

2244
01:48:09,000 --> 01:48:09,760
Speaker 1: And I got to cup it.

2245
01:48:10,920 --> 01:48:13,360
Speaker 2: I got to go around, I got to come around

2246
01:48:13,400 --> 01:48:16,320
Speaker 2: on the underneath, on the underneath, and I got.

2247
01:48:16,280 --> 01:48:19,400
Speaker 1: To hold that. Now I know the church, Haten, see

2248
01:48:19,439 --> 01:48:20,400
Speaker 1: you come if.

2249
01:48:20,280 --> 01:48:22,120
Speaker 4: You ain't coming to he's in bed. You're doing this

2250
01:48:22,360 --> 01:48:23,320
Speaker 4: all you're doing?

2251
01:48:23,479 --> 01:48:24,080
Speaker 1: What is all?

2252
01:48:24,920 --> 01:48:28,080
Speaker 4: You ain't coming on the underneath that little school If

2253
01:48:28,120 --> 01:48:29,120
Speaker 4: you're not schooling.

2254
01:48:30,720 --> 01:48:33,840
Speaker 1: The school is what is we doing? We got to

2255
01:48:33,960 --> 01:48:34,759
Speaker 1: go to therapy.

2256
01:48:34,800 --> 01:48:36,200
Speaker 4: If you ain't scooching, I ain't coming.

2257
01:48:36,479 --> 01:48:42,840
Speaker 5: Yeah that's some moo and come now him?

2258
01:48:42,960 --> 01:48:43,800
Speaker 1: What is your sign?

2259
01:48:44,040 --> 01:48:44,479
Speaker 3: I love?

2260
01:48:45,560 --> 01:48:53,320
Speaker 1: Oh my wall, that's why. That's that's why why he first.

2261
01:48:53,720 --> 01:48:59,240
Speaker 1: My mom was April twenty second. Me and her mom

2262
01:48:59,280 --> 01:49:02,479
Speaker 1: had the same birth. Wow, my sisters may seconds.

2263
01:49:02,760 --> 01:49:03,599
Speaker 4: That's why we get along.

2264
01:49:03,640 --> 01:49:05,719
Speaker 1: Grew up around to it. I love tauruses.

2265
01:49:06,560 --> 01:49:07,439
Speaker 4: We're not we'd niggas.

2266
01:49:07,800 --> 01:49:14,080
Speaker 1: That's we're not real and I hate on y'all everything.

2267
01:49:16,640 --> 01:49:21,519
Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, that's big. I got to take over the world.

2268
01:49:21,600 --> 01:49:23,519
Speaker 4: See me, see me. That's Leo.

2269
01:49:24,840 --> 01:49:26,360
Speaker 2: One of my home boys is a leoid and I

2270
01:49:26,439 --> 01:49:29,160
Speaker 2: see the similarity between him and and let That should

2271
01:49:29,200 --> 01:49:31,160
Speaker 2: be me is big Leo energy.

2272
01:49:33,720 --> 01:49:33,960
Speaker 3: I don't.

2273
01:49:35,320 --> 01:49:39,559
Speaker 1: It's like and it's like a Meryl Street in her oscar.

2274
01:49:39,760 --> 01:49:43,799
Speaker 1: That should be be bitch, you stole my oscar hole.

2275
01:49:45,479 --> 01:49:47,000
Speaker 3: And like.

2276
01:49:48,600 --> 01:49:53,559
Speaker 1: Just work harder, shut up. That's im, Like you can

2277
01:49:53,680 --> 01:49:56,280
Speaker 1: have it too. That be me? I mean like that

2278
01:49:56,479 --> 01:50:01,519
Speaker 1: be a wrong. Nothing gonna be out buck that little hole.

2279
01:50:01,760 --> 01:50:02,519
Speaker 1: I could have did that.

2280
01:50:04,120 --> 01:50:08,479
Speaker 4: Lemonade. I did that big ain't number water, sugar and lemon.

2281
01:50:09,240 --> 01:50:10,280
Speaker 4: You ain't no scientist.

2282
01:50:10,640 --> 01:50:12,360
Speaker 3: Every time I see it, I'm like, I could have

2283
01:50:12,439 --> 01:50:17,840
Speaker 3: did do everything. Okay, we gonna move on real quick.

2284
01:50:17,920 --> 01:50:20,080
Speaker 1: The item of the week, Muse beauty. What we got

2285
01:50:20,160 --> 01:50:20,559
Speaker 1: this week?

2286
01:50:21,040 --> 01:50:24,439
Speaker 5: Muse beauty. I have on its giving lip gloss.

2287
01:50:24,560 --> 01:50:27,439
Speaker 6: I have on a chestnut lip liner, and then I

2288
01:50:27,479 --> 01:50:29,840
Speaker 6: also have on the lip plumper and yeah, that's my

2289
01:50:29,960 --> 01:50:30,760
Speaker 6: look for this week.

2290
01:50:30,880 --> 01:50:33,240
Speaker 1: Okay, period, And y'all know I have a new unit.

2291
01:50:33,320 --> 01:50:34,200
Speaker 1: I know a ball.

2292
01:50:34,320 --> 01:50:36,439
Speaker 3: Y'all love the ball we love. Go out to a

2293
01:50:36,640 --> 01:50:38,639
Speaker 3: Rich Look hair, y'all. Make sure y'all go to Instagram.

2294
01:50:38,960 --> 01:50:40,840
Speaker 3: Hit up rich Look hair and get you a little unit.

2295
01:50:40,920 --> 01:50:44,080
Speaker 3: They come ready to wear like she'll literally send it

2296
01:50:44,160 --> 01:50:45,120
Speaker 3: to you, PLoP it on.

2297
01:50:45,160 --> 01:50:48,479
Speaker 1: Your head like I did this morning. Okay, so now

2298
01:50:48,760 --> 01:50:50,080
Speaker 1: it's time to get.

2299
01:50:51,040 --> 01:50:55,519
Speaker 5: The bow.

2300
01:50:55,320 --> 01:51:00,640
Speaker 1: Bow. I'm having a ball. I am keV. Do you

2301
01:51:00,760 --> 01:51:03,520
Speaker 1: can tell the episode nine.

2302
01:51:09,360 --> 01:51:11,479
Speaker 3: Because I'll be ready to cut it off. I'm letting

2303
01:51:11,479 --> 01:51:13,560
Speaker 3: you know I'm having a ball, perfect because I'm the

2304
01:51:13,640 --> 01:51:15,920
Speaker 3: one that cuts people off. I'm like, okay, moving on.

2305
01:51:16,160 --> 01:51:18,760
Speaker 1: And as a tourist, I'd be having a ball. We

2306
01:51:18,800 --> 01:51:21,800
Speaker 1: can do this another yeah, yeah, so I am having

2307
01:51:21,800 --> 01:51:22,320
Speaker 1: a good time.

2308
01:51:22,640 --> 01:51:24,600
Speaker 3: So both of the week is like the music that

2309
01:51:24,680 --> 01:51:27,599
Speaker 3: we've been jamming this week and what we've been listening to. Okay,

2310
01:51:28,080 --> 01:51:31,840
Speaker 3: so my bop this week. K Camp came out with

2311
01:51:32,000 --> 01:51:34,880
Speaker 3: an album. It's called Built Different, And y'all know I

2312
01:51:35,080 --> 01:51:37,840
Speaker 3: am a K Camp saying, I don't think we give

2313
01:51:37,960 --> 01:51:41,200
Speaker 3: k Camp his flowers enough for the box that he

2314
01:51:41,400 --> 01:51:42,439
Speaker 3: used to give to us.

2315
01:51:43,000 --> 01:51:45,280
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like it ain't nothing.

2316
01:51:45,479 --> 01:51:48,800
Speaker 3: Cut that bit, cut that bit off, you know what

2317
01:51:48,880 --> 01:51:51,439
Speaker 3: I'm saying, Like your whole will gets slate.

2318
01:51:52,000 --> 01:51:54,439
Speaker 1: Your whole will get slate. You know what I'm saying.

2319
01:51:55,280 --> 01:51:57,519
Speaker 1: He had, he had so many hits.

2320
01:51:57,600 --> 01:51:59,880
Speaker 3: So he has a new album called Build Different, and

2321
01:52:00,040 --> 01:52:01,960
Speaker 3: he has a song on there called it was You

2322
01:52:02,120 --> 01:52:04,720
Speaker 3: the Whole time? And one thing about K Camp but

2323
01:52:04,840 --> 01:52:07,080
Speaker 3: he knows how to rap to the ladies. One thing

2324
01:52:07,160 --> 01:52:09,400
Speaker 3: about K Camp he don't do too much though, Like

2325
01:52:09,479 --> 01:52:11,200
Speaker 3: he knows how to wrap to the ladies, but relate

2326
01:52:11,240 --> 01:52:12,680
Speaker 3: to the men, because you know, the men getting their

2327
01:52:12,720 --> 01:52:15,479
Speaker 3: feelings and things like that. So it's like I don't

2328
01:52:15,520 --> 01:52:17,400
Speaker 3: know how he does that, but he connects to both

2329
01:52:17,479 --> 01:52:20,200
Speaker 3: audiences and make them come together and have a good time.

2330
01:52:20,600 --> 01:52:23,720
Speaker 3: So y'all make sure y'all go download the album and

2331
01:52:23,880 --> 01:52:26,479
Speaker 3: listen to it. K Camp Built Different, it was you

2332
01:52:26,600 --> 01:52:28,600
Speaker 3: the whole time. Shout out to you, k Camp. We

2333
01:52:28,760 --> 01:52:30,360
Speaker 3: love you over here at Poor Minds and we wait

2334
01:52:30,479 --> 01:52:33,080
Speaker 3: you for you to come on the couch period period.

2335
01:52:33,479 --> 01:52:36,559
Speaker 6: Yeah, so my vibe, y'all know, I be getting into

2336
01:52:36,600 --> 01:52:41,240
Speaker 6: my afrobeat's bag sometimes. So my bop is offered me

2337
01:52:41,760 --> 01:52:45,360
Speaker 6: by the Veto featuring Victoria Money. I tek like if

2338
01:52:45,479 --> 01:52:48,719
Speaker 6: this a summer and so like, it's such a feel

2339
01:52:48,800 --> 01:52:50,720
Speaker 6: good So I love a feel good song where I

2340
01:52:50,720 --> 01:52:53,920
Speaker 6: could put my top down on my card and let

2341
01:52:53,960 --> 01:52:56,200
Speaker 6: the breathe. You got a drop top, I got a

2342
01:52:56,320 --> 01:53:02,360
Speaker 6: range rover can't ring and she could pull off, take.

2343
01:53:02,240 --> 01:53:04,439
Speaker 1: The roof off because my wig might fly, so I'd

2344
01:53:04,479 --> 01:53:06,519
Speaker 1: be like, open it up a little bit dry. I

2345
01:53:06,560 --> 01:53:08,240
Speaker 1: don't even be in the car. I been in the

2346
01:53:08,320 --> 01:53:12,519
Speaker 1: car sometimes my car broke down because my call old.

2347
01:53:12,640 --> 01:53:18,040
Speaker 1: So sometimes I love my ship old than the motherucker.

2348
01:53:18,120 --> 01:53:22,840
Speaker 5: So I love that song. It's such a feel good song.

2349
01:53:23,360 --> 01:53:24,800
Speaker 1: Were feeling breezy.

2350
01:53:26,120 --> 01:53:31,719
Speaker 3: Blow Through the Through the Victoria Monette is so good.

2351
01:53:31,920 --> 01:53:32,400
Speaker 4: I love her.

2352
01:53:32,680 --> 01:53:37,920
Speaker 1: She's so good. The versatility of her she's amazing. She's

2353
01:53:38,040 --> 01:53:41,800
Speaker 1: beautiful too, like she can dance.

2354
01:53:41,600 --> 01:53:44,759
Speaker 4: Her asshole old school artist.

2355
01:53:44,840 --> 01:53:47,560
Speaker 1: Oh and you know she used a lot of instruments

2356
01:53:47,600 --> 01:53:49,360
Speaker 1: in her music. That's what I really like about her.

2357
01:53:49,560 --> 01:53:51,400
Speaker 1: There was a lot of instruments. That was a great

2358
01:53:51,439 --> 01:53:52,040
Speaker 1: bop of the week.

2359
01:53:52,640 --> 01:53:57,160
Speaker 4: You I've been listening to Little Sims. She is a

2360
01:53:57,280 --> 01:53:58,840
Speaker 4: British She's in it UK.

2361
01:53:59,439 --> 01:54:03,519
Speaker 1: I love it so she beds.

2362
01:54:03,880 --> 01:54:04,880
Speaker 4: Did you watch Top Boy?

2363
01:54:05,760 --> 01:54:07,920
Speaker 1: I watched the first few.

2364
01:54:09,479 --> 01:54:12,640
Speaker 2: She's one of She's an actress as well. That's how

2365
01:54:12,640 --> 01:54:14,720
Speaker 2: I found out. My boys like yo. She raps as well.

2366
01:54:14,800 --> 01:54:17,680
Speaker 2: She has a new album called Lotus. Thief is the

2367
01:54:17,760 --> 01:54:20,679
Speaker 2: first track off of it, and it's amazing, Like she's

2368
01:54:21,600 --> 01:54:25,479
Speaker 2: I like when rappers are telling the story of their life.

2369
01:54:25,520 --> 01:54:26,360
Speaker 4: I love themed album.

2370
01:54:26,479 --> 01:54:28,840
Speaker 2: That's why like Kendrick Lamar because he's like each album

2371
01:54:28,960 --> 01:54:31,679
Speaker 2: is like a time capsule about what he's talking about.

2372
01:54:31,920 --> 01:54:33,760
Speaker 2: And I've listened to other albums of hers. This one

2373
01:54:33,840 --> 01:54:36,480
Speaker 2: she's like, it's a little darker. She's talking about some

2374
01:54:36,560 --> 01:54:40,080
Speaker 2: family stuff, some real issues. So I want you to

2375
01:54:40,160 --> 01:54:43,160
Speaker 2: tell me about your life in music. So that's her album,

2376
01:54:43,480 --> 01:54:47,880
Speaker 2: her name Little Sims as I Am. I'm gonna check

2377
01:54:47,960 --> 01:54:48,240
Speaker 2: that out.

2378
01:54:48,600 --> 01:54:50,360
Speaker 4: She's got a good little album. I've been listening to

2379
01:54:50,440 --> 01:54:51,160
Speaker 4: it when I work out.

2380
01:54:51,320 --> 01:54:54,080
Speaker 5: Okay, it's work on music, because i'd be in a

2381
01:54:54,240 --> 01:54:55,280
Speaker 5: gym it be workout.

2382
01:54:55,520 --> 01:54:57,360
Speaker 2: I mean, I listen to anything when I work out,

2383
01:54:57,800 --> 01:55:00,600
Speaker 2: but I feel like some things are better fit, like

2384
01:55:00,600 --> 01:55:01,240
Speaker 2: because gospel.

2385
01:55:01,240 --> 01:55:03,200
Speaker 4: I'll be like, man, I'll be thinking about what he's

2386
01:55:03,240 --> 01:55:05,200
Speaker 4: done for me. I get distracted.

2387
01:55:05,440 --> 01:55:07,920
Speaker 1: I'd be in the gym listening to me. I was

2388
01:55:08,200 --> 01:55:16,920
Speaker 1: he Lamar song. I will listen to anything get me

2389
01:55:17,000 --> 01:55:20,280
Speaker 1: through them real, don't listen to this. I deserve it.

2390
01:55:21,320 --> 01:55:24,560
Speaker 2: That is the greatest gym song because you really end

2391
01:55:24,640 --> 01:55:26,920
Speaker 2: up working for it, and you deserve everything you work for.

2392
01:55:27,080 --> 01:55:32,000
Speaker 6: He's absolutely say a conditioning my week's d like, yeah,

2393
01:55:32,600 --> 01:55:35,400
Speaker 6: I'll deserve it because I'll be conditioning my wi.

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Speaker 4: Absolutely absolutely.

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01:55:40,880 --> 01:55:43,680
Speaker 6: Into our favorite segment of the show, which is pour

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01:55:43,720 --> 01:55:44,800
Speaker 6: your heart out, so you know if you.

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Speaker 4: Have how many mores we got last one? I got

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Speaker 4: a piece so bad?

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Speaker 6: Okay, I almost but we can do this.

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Speaker 1: He's a professional.

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01:55:56,080 --> 01:55:57,360
Speaker 4: I just didn't know we had like four or five.

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01:55:57,400 --> 01:56:02,320
Speaker 1: I'm like, so we can delete that part, Craig, I.

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01:56:02,600 --> 01:56:05,320
Speaker 4: Take it out. I love that I'm not alone, though you.

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01:56:07,880 --> 01:56:11,200
Speaker 1: Love come up. I don't know.

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01:56:13,680 --> 01:56:13,880
Speaker 8: Like this.

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01:56:14,240 --> 01:56:15,880
Speaker 1: Listen, at this age.

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01:56:15,720 --> 01:56:17,640
Speaker 4: We got the pew is not.

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01:56:20,880 --> 01:56:21,200
Speaker 7: What is.

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01:56:21,440 --> 01:56:24,800
Speaker 1: Don't let me too hard. You might have to call

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01:56:24,880 --> 01:56:25,480
Speaker 1: the clean.

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01:56:27,040 --> 01:56:31,840
Speaker 6: It's all right, I've been over here tapping my foot.

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01:56:33,720 --> 01:56:40,640
Speaker 6: I'm not alone. All right, you can leave some of that,

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01:56:43,600 --> 01:56:47,560
Speaker 6: but I'm gonna reintroduce the stigma. Okay, So y'all know,

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01:56:47,760 --> 01:56:50,560
Speaker 6: if y'all have any questions, any testimonials, y'all can send

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01:56:50,600 --> 01:56:53,160
Speaker 6: them to ask Poor Minds at gmail dot com. That's

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01:56:53,280 --> 01:56:55,240
Speaker 6: ask k p Oh you are in my n d

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01:56:55,480 --> 01:56:58,080
Speaker 6: s at gmail dot com. This is our favorite segment.

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01:56:58,160 --> 01:56:59,600
Speaker 1: We love Ask.

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01:57:00,960 --> 01:57:05,680
Speaker 6: Po Let's get into question number one. Hi, ladies, thank

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01:57:05,760 --> 01:57:09,680
Speaker 6: y'all in advance for helping me love the show. And

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01:57:09,920 --> 01:57:12,280
Speaker 6: y'all I look at y'all and I see pieces of

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01:57:12,320 --> 01:57:14,240
Speaker 6: who I want to be one day from each of you.

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01:57:14,880 --> 01:57:15,760
Speaker 5: I'll get to the point.

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01:57:15,840 --> 01:57:15,960
Speaker 1: Now.

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01:57:16,600 --> 01:57:20,960
Speaker 6: Started dating this started dating this guy when I was eighteen.

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01:57:21,160 --> 01:57:24,280
Speaker 6: I'm twenty eight now. I thought, based on his actions

2427
01:57:24,320 --> 01:57:26,440
Speaker 6: and conversations that we had over the years, that we

2428
01:57:26,520 --> 01:57:30,720
Speaker 6: were moving towards marriage. I recently caught this man secretly

2429
01:57:30,760 --> 01:57:34,440
Speaker 6: communicating with another woman. This isn't the first time I

2430
01:57:34,560 --> 01:57:37,280
Speaker 6: have forgiven in the past, because his reasoning made sense.

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01:57:37,720 --> 01:57:40,640
Speaker 6: Each time I catch him doing this, he says something like,

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01:57:40,800 --> 01:57:43,800
Speaker 6: we haven't been having enough sex. He doesn't feel close

2433
01:57:43,880 --> 01:57:47,280
Speaker 6: to me. He seeks the closeness with others, but he

2434
01:57:47,480 --> 01:57:51,520
Speaker 6: only messages them, never anything physical. I know that we

2435
01:57:51,600 --> 01:57:54,800
Speaker 6: could be having sex more, and that sometimes when life

2436
01:57:54,960 --> 01:57:58,360
Speaker 6: is hard, I can be not emotionally and sexually present

2437
01:57:58,440 --> 01:58:01,080
Speaker 6: for him. He is saying that he is so sorry

2438
01:58:01,480 --> 01:58:03,760
Speaker 6: and he wants to work this out and he doesn't

2439
01:58:03,800 --> 01:58:06,080
Speaker 6: want to lose me. There's a voice in my head

2440
01:58:06,240 --> 01:58:08,600
Speaker 6: that's like, if I forgive him, how do I know

2441
01:58:08,720 --> 01:58:11,440
Speaker 6: we want to be here again. But there's another part

2442
01:58:11,480 --> 01:58:14,600
Speaker 6: of me that's like, yeah, he handles it wrong. Maybe

2443
01:58:14,680 --> 01:58:17,440
Speaker 6: I handled it wrong first, and that's what caused all

2444
01:58:17,520 --> 01:58:18,760
Speaker 6: of these What would you do?

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01:58:19,240 --> 01:58:24,600
Speaker 1: Thanks again? Whoo it's a that is ten years man,

2446
01:58:24,880 --> 01:58:27,480
Speaker 1: she said eighteen, and now she's that is.

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01:58:27,960 --> 01:58:31,360
Speaker 4: A great question I do. It's just for me.

2448
01:58:32,200 --> 01:58:36,000
Speaker 2: Sex does make us feel close to women. It becomes

2449
01:58:36,080 --> 01:58:38,520
Speaker 2: a chicken or egg scenario because a lot of times

2450
01:58:38,600 --> 01:58:41,400
Speaker 2: women want to talk and you know, you feel emotionally close,

2451
01:58:41,480 --> 01:58:43,760
Speaker 2: then you want to be sexually close, and if you're

2452
01:58:43,800 --> 01:58:45,400
Speaker 2: not doing that, then it's like, well, it's hard to

2453
01:58:45,480 --> 01:58:48,240
Speaker 2: give my body if you don't have the emotional connection.

2454
01:58:48,600 --> 01:58:51,600
Speaker 2: And for men it's the inverse. If it's hard to

2455
01:58:51,720 --> 01:58:54,000
Speaker 2: want to talk if you not you know, I don't

2456
01:58:54,040 --> 01:58:56,480
Speaker 2: feel sexually connected to you. I don't feel close to you.

2457
01:58:57,120 --> 01:59:01,320
Speaker 2: So what I would say is what has happened in

2458
01:59:01,360 --> 01:59:05,080
Speaker 2: my marriage, one of us has to go in first

2459
01:59:05,640 --> 01:59:08,240
Speaker 2: to draw the other one in. So if we're not

2460
01:59:08,440 --> 01:59:11,040
Speaker 2: having sex, me and my wife, if I were him,

2461
01:59:11,760 --> 01:59:14,120
Speaker 2: I at this stage because you know, messaging another girl

2462
01:59:14,320 --> 01:59:16,640
Speaker 2: like that isn't an option for me in that way,

2463
01:59:17,160 --> 01:59:19,560
Speaker 2: So I would probably lean more into the how can

2464
01:59:19,640 --> 01:59:21,080
Speaker 2: I be more promotionally connected to you?

2465
01:59:21,240 --> 01:59:22,400
Speaker 4: How can we be more close?

2466
01:59:22,720 --> 01:59:24,880
Speaker 2: And hopefully you feel close and you're like, you know what,

2467
01:59:25,040 --> 01:59:30,600
Speaker 2: let me open up myself that way versus going outside

2468
01:59:30,920 --> 01:59:33,960
Speaker 2: is just going to create a greater chasm between us

2469
01:59:34,480 --> 01:59:37,640
Speaker 2: and ultimately makes my you know, my goal of feeling

2470
01:59:37,680 --> 01:59:39,280
Speaker 2: closer that much harder.

2471
01:59:39,400 --> 01:59:41,120
Speaker 4: And then you have the distrust in there.

2472
01:59:41,360 --> 01:59:42,720
Speaker 2: Now every time I'm in my phone, she's like, is

2473
01:59:42,760 --> 01:59:44,720
Speaker 2: he messages somebody else, he's you know what I'm saying now,

2474
01:59:44,760 --> 01:59:48,280
Speaker 2: she's looking over my shoulder. So in my marriage, Melissa

2475
01:59:48,280 --> 01:59:51,800
Speaker 2: and I both taken turns leaning in to help pull

2476
01:59:51,840 --> 01:59:54,520
Speaker 2: the other person back. So that's what I would say

2477
01:59:54,560 --> 01:59:57,600
Speaker 2: to her. She might lean in first when she's not

2478
01:59:57,840 --> 02:00:01,240
Speaker 2: all the way there, and then hopefully if they have

2479
02:00:01,280 --> 02:00:03,400
Speaker 2: a good relationship, he leans in as well.

2480
02:00:04,680 --> 02:00:05,600
Speaker 4: So that's what I would say.

2481
02:00:05,680 --> 02:00:08,480
Speaker 3: And I also think like though two like ten years,

2482
02:00:08,520 --> 02:00:10,200
Speaker 3: she's been with him and she wants to get married

2483
02:00:10,240 --> 02:00:12,720
Speaker 3: and he hasn't taken that step. And instead of him

2484
02:00:12,800 --> 02:00:14,680
Speaker 3: being like, you know what, let me commit to you

2485
02:00:14,800 --> 02:00:17,200
Speaker 3: and take that next step, and instead of him leaning

2486
02:00:17,320 --> 02:00:21,560
Speaker 3: into you after ten years, yeah, and he's deciding to

2487
02:00:21,720 --> 02:00:24,200
Speaker 3: lean into someone else after ten years.

2488
02:00:24,880 --> 02:00:27,600
Speaker 4: This might not be for sure.

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Speaker 6: I think people be so afraid of wasting invested time,

2490
02:00:32,480 --> 02:00:35,080
Speaker 6: but sometimes it's kind of like, Okay, yeah, you might

2491
02:00:35,120 --> 02:00:37,760
Speaker 6: have spent ten years with this person, but do you

2492
02:00:37,840 --> 02:00:38,560
Speaker 6: want to spend.

2493
02:00:38,360 --> 02:00:40,800
Speaker 1: Another ten years or another.

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02:00:40,640 --> 02:00:42,600
Speaker 6: Five years in the situation that you know is not

2495
02:00:42,720 --> 02:00:44,280
Speaker 6: right for you when you could just move on and

2496
02:00:44,320 --> 02:00:47,960
Speaker 6: cut your losses. Yeah, So I agree because with what

2497
02:00:48,120 --> 02:00:50,200
Speaker 6: you were saying, like you're married though.

2498
02:00:50,480 --> 02:00:51,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, that's true.

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02:00:51,760 --> 02:00:53,360
Speaker 1: But I think marriage.

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02:00:53,080 --> 02:00:55,880
Speaker 6: Changes things, like I think it's more of a willingness

2501
02:00:56,040 --> 02:00:57,080
Speaker 6: to work things out.

2502
02:00:57,200 --> 02:00:59,080
Speaker 1: Because we made these vows.

2503
02:00:58,800 --> 02:01:02,120
Speaker 4: To each other weeks. That's a good point.

2504
02:01:02,240 --> 02:01:04,640
Speaker 5: Ten years of dating somebody is no commitment.

2505
02:01:05,120 --> 02:01:06,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's a long time.

2506
02:01:06,520 --> 02:01:08,880
Speaker 2: That's a that's a long time. And you're absolutely right.

2507
02:01:08,960 --> 02:01:12,440
Speaker 2: I think I'm approaching it from my yeah, like a

2508
02:01:12,560 --> 02:01:15,360
Speaker 2: married man. So that's how because I'm you know what

2509
02:01:15,360 --> 02:01:15,720
Speaker 2: I'm saying.

2510
02:01:15,800 --> 02:01:17,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, because you're being married for a while and.

2511
02:01:17,600 --> 02:01:20,720
Speaker 4: Married for for twenty one years, so for her, you

2512
02:01:20,960 --> 02:01:21,440
Speaker 4: don't have that.

2513
02:01:23,080 --> 02:01:24,760
Speaker 1: They was on your ass, toul keV.

2514
02:01:24,960 --> 02:01:27,640
Speaker 6: I was laughing because I was laughing so hard because

2515
02:01:27,680 --> 02:01:29,960
Speaker 6: I remember you had posted about your anniversary the other

2516
02:01:30,080 --> 02:01:32,680
Speaker 6: day and they was like run this bag. You need

2517
02:01:32,760 --> 02:01:38,480
Speaker 6: another They was like, you need another ceremony to redo

2518
02:01:38,600 --> 02:01:39,360
Speaker 6: you'll vows and.

2519
02:01:39,360 --> 02:01:44,280
Speaker 4: You was like, no, no, period. We ran the ticket up.

2520
02:01:44,680 --> 02:01:45,960
Speaker 1: I know it was you.

2521
02:01:46,400 --> 02:01:48,280
Speaker 4: It was amazing. It was like and that's why we

2522
02:01:48,360 --> 02:01:51,160
Speaker 4: have pictures and videos anytime you feel it, if.

2523
02:01:51,080 --> 02:01:53,440
Speaker 1: You if anytime you want to see go back and

2524
02:01:53,520 --> 02:01:58,440
Speaker 1: look at it. Somebody, No, absolutely not.

2525
02:01:59,240 --> 02:02:01,720
Speaker 4: That picture is still my phone from the first time. No,

2526
02:02:02,080 --> 02:02:02,480
Speaker 4: you good?

2527
02:02:02,560 --> 02:02:03,480
Speaker 1: We good? I remember?

2528
02:02:04,400 --> 02:02:05,240
Speaker 4: I remember good?

2529
02:02:05,800 --> 02:02:06,200
Speaker 1: All right?

2530
02:02:06,720 --> 02:02:10,400
Speaker 3: Last question, Hey, Lexandrea, just a little background. Me and

2531
02:02:10,520 --> 02:02:13,520
Speaker 3: my boyfriend have been together for five years. We live

2532
02:02:13,600 --> 02:02:16,680
Speaker 3: together and are really serious. We are four years apart.

2533
02:02:17,080 --> 02:02:20,240
Speaker 3: I pay my own bills and he pays his. He

2534
02:02:20,360 --> 02:02:23,520
Speaker 3: makes about two times what I make. He states how

2535
02:02:23,720 --> 02:02:27,960
Speaker 3: tired he is of being the main spender of our relationship.

2536
02:02:28,360 --> 02:02:31,440
Speaker 3: I don't live above my means, and I do help

2537
02:02:31,520 --> 02:02:34,600
Speaker 3: out when I can. He likes to have nice things

2538
02:02:34,720 --> 02:02:37,880
Speaker 3: and offers me things that I don't always need. I

2539
02:02:38,040 --> 02:02:41,840
Speaker 3: reject them, but he still sometimes decides to get certain

2540
02:02:41,920 --> 02:02:45,000
Speaker 3: things for me or try to talk me into letting

2541
02:02:45,080 --> 02:02:45,560
Speaker 3: him buy.

2542
02:02:45,480 --> 02:02:47,919
Speaker 1: Them for me a new purse, for example.

2543
02:02:48,320 --> 02:02:50,680
Speaker 3: I feel like I'm trying and I'm doing okay with

2544
02:02:50,800 --> 02:02:54,240
Speaker 3: me being in college and working full time. What do

2545
02:02:54,360 --> 02:02:55,520
Speaker 3: y'all think of all of this?

2546
02:02:58,440 --> 02:03:02,560
Speaker 4: I was with you till college, saying I was like, so,

2547
02:03:02,720 --> 02:03:04,160
Speaker 4: y'all been together in high school?

2548
02:03:04,440 --> 02:03:04,640
Speaker 1: Yeah?

2549
02:03:04,800 --> 02:03:12,080
Speaker 2: Stuff, man, the first thought I had. And I don't

2550
02:03:12,080 --> 02:03:13,440
Speaker 2: know if this is the right thing or not, So

2551
02:03:13,480 --> 02:03:17,400
Speaker 2: I'm curious with y'all. Think a lot of times we

2552
02:03:17,480 --> 02:03:22,520
Speaker 2: take social media arguments into our actual relationship, like who's spending.

2553
02:03:22,680 --> 02:03:24,200
Speaker 4: Who's that? How much you make?

2554
02:03:24,280 --> 02:03:27,360
Speaker 2: How much you spend when you're in a relationship, Like

2555
02:03:27,440 --> 02:03:30,800
Speaker 2: with me and Melissa, even before we were married, we

2556
02:03:31,080 --> 02:03:34,280
Speaker 2: was just in relationship. There wasn't like we ain't go

2557
02:03:34,360 --> 02:03:37,080
Speaker 2: fifty to fifty Applebee's ain't no real date, like none

2558
02:03:37,120 --> 02:03:41,560
Speaker 2: of that stuff matter, Like we just going for ice cream.

2559
02:03:41,680 --> 02:03:45,120
Speaker 2: That sounds very like Wonder Years, I'm well aware, but

2560
02:03:45,200 --> 02:03:47,520
Speaker 2: it was also Nigga couldn't afford nothing but ice cream, right,

2561
02:03:47,640 --> 02:03:49,320
Speaker 2: So it's like we going here because I love you,

2562
02:03:49,400 --> 02:03:51,480
Speaker 2: and also we only got the ten and two ice

2563
02:03:51,520 --> 02:03:53,280
Speaker 2: creams is eight, you know what I'm saying. So I

2564
02:03:53,360 --> 02:03:57,800
Speaker 2: feel like we can't. You'll never win your relationship in

2565
02:03:57,920 --> 02:04:02,960
Speaker 2: a social media argument. You just gotta live your relationship.

2566
02:04:02,520 --> 02:04:03,240
Speaker 4: What it is like.

2567
02:04:03,800 --> 02:04:07,000
Speaker 2: So I feel like if he's making more like your

2568
02:04:07,040 --> 02:04:09,520
Speaker 2: big spinning, if beneath your means, and we got to

2569
02:04:09,520 --> 02:04:11,440
Speaker 2: have a conversation about what's what?

2570
02:04:11,800 --> 02:04:12,120
Speaker 1: What is?

2571
02:04:12,520 --> 02:04:13,840
Speaker 4: What is a lot?

2572
02:04:14,280 --> 02:04:16,400
Speaker 2: Right? Because if I'm spending beneath my means, it's to

2573
02:04:16,520 --> 02:04:18,480
Speaker 2: me then and you think I'm going over, then maybe

2574
02:04:18,560 --> 02:04:20,840
Speaker 2: we have a disconnect on what it is.

2575
02:04:21,000 --> 02:04:22,520
Speaker 1: But we might not be aligned.

2576
02:04:22,720 --> 02:04:24,960
Speaker 3: But because it sounds like he wants her to be

2577
02:04:25,080 --> 02:04:28,640
Speaker 3: more flashy, and yeah, she doesn't want to be and

2578
02:04:28,720 --> 02:04:31,440
Speaker 3: that's what I'm saying, so, which is rare because a

2579
02:04:31,480 --> 02:04:33,480
Speaker 3: lot of the time I think I see women online

2580
02:04:33,600 --> 02:04:36,480
Speaker 3: complaining about me and not wanting to spend money yea

2581
02:04:36,680 --> 02:04:39,280
Speaker 3: more so than me, and spending too much money and

2582
02:04:39,360 --> 02:04:40,839
Speaker 3: then wanting to be more reserved.

2583
02:04:41,280 --> 02:04:43,680
Speaker 1: So in a situation like that, I feel like, maybe

2584
02:04:43,720 --> 02:04:44,839
Speaker 1: they're just not aligned.

2585
02:04:44,880 --> 02:04:46,840
Speaker 6: They don't have the same values, they don't have the

2586
02:04:46,920 --> 02:04:50,800
Speaker 6: same goals, they don't place emphasis on the same things

2587
02:04:51,000 --> 02:04:53,640
Speaker 6: when it comes to material positions and stuff like that.

2588
02:04:54,040 --> 02:04:56,400
Speaker 6: So I feel like, in a situation like that, maybe

2589
02:04:56,480 --> 02:04:58,560
Speaker 6: she might need to get her somebody who is more

2590
02:04:59,120 --> 02:05:02,720
Speaker 6: equally op with what she cares about, because clearly he

2591
02:05:02,920 --> 02:05:06,680
Speaker 6: cares about those things. And one thing that I've learned,

2592
02:05:06,760 --> 02:05:09,480
Speaker 6: especially now being in my thirties, when people.

2593
02:05:09,520 --> 02:05:11,920
Speaker 1: Like what they like, that's what they like.

2594
02:05:12,880 --> 02:05:15,000
Speaker 6: They don't like what they like, and you don't like

2595
02:05:15,080 --> 02:05:16,640
Speaker 6: what you like, and either y'all are going to be

2596
02:05:16,720 --> 02:05:19,640
Speaker 6: able to understand each other and be okay with each

2597
02:05:19,680 --> 02:05:22,000
Speaker 6: other's differences and effect that, Oh, this person might be

2598
02:05:22,080 --> 02:05:25,480
Speaker 6: a little more materially stick and I'm not, or you

2599
02:05:25,640 --> 02:05:27,760
Speaker 6: might not be able to be okay, and you might

2600
02:05:27,880 --> 02:05:29,120
Speaker 6: need to find somebody.

2601
02:05:28,840 --> 02:05:32,640
Speaker 5: Who more aligns with your more simplistic.

2602
02:05:33,320 --> 02:05:35,680
Speaker 3: And I think like she needs to be before and

2603
02:05:35,760 --> 02:05:38,240
Speaker 3: I'm not going to say necessarily leave, but because I

2604
02:05:38,240 --> 02:05:40,200
Speaker 3: don't know if she's had a conversation with him, yeah,

2605
02:05:40,280 --> 02:05:43,640
Speaker 3: say hey, I don't care to have purses, I don't

2606
02:05:43,680 --> 02:05:44,560
Speaker 3: care to have shoes.

2607
02:05:45,120 --> 02:05:46,120
Speaker 1: This is what I value.

2608
02:05:46,200 --> 02:05:49,040
Speaker 3: Maybe it's time, maybe it's physical touch. I think we

2609
02:05:49,280 --> 02:05:51,160
Speaker 3: all need to be vocal in what you want in

2610
02:05:51,200 --> 02:05:54,160
Speaker 3: a relationship. We all assume because of social media, every

2611
02:05:54,200 --> 02:05:57,360
Speaker 3: girl wants a Chanelle bag. Every girl wants a trip

2612
02:05:57,480 --> 02:06:01,800
Speaker 3: to Greece. And while that's great, that's not what every

2613
02:06:01,880 --> 02:06:04,120
Speaker 3: girl wants. Some people truly don't like to travel.

2614
02:06:04,280 --> 02:06:07,240
Speaker 6: It is what I want, though, Just if anybody watches

2615
02:06:08,160 --> 02:06:10,440
Speaker 6: this episode, I want.

2616
02:06:12,800 --> 02:06:15,280
Speaker 1: I want to go to Grease, but I want all

2617
02:06:15,320 --> 02:06:17,640
Speaker 1: of it and her situation. She is a girl who

2618
02:06:17,720 --> 02:06:18,800
Speaker 1: doesn't care about that.

2619
02:06:18,960 --> 02:06:20,960
Speaker 3: Right, So I think I wanted to put that out

2620
02:06:20,960 --> 02:06:24,640
Speaker 3: there as you should, Queen, because you deserve it, and

2621
02:06:24,800 --> 02:06:25,200
Speaker 3: I been.

2622
02:06:25,320 --> 02:06:31,200
Speaker 1: Hitting me, you know, so wrisk don't you checking your wrists?

2623
02:06:31,560 --> 02:06:32,560
Speaker 4: Beget hey?

2624
02:06:33,760 --> 02:06:35,120
Speaker 3: But I feel like you have to put it out

2625
02:06:35,120 --> 02:06:36,720
Speaker 3: there you have to put it out there of what

2626
02:06:37,000 --> 02:06:39,840
Speaker 3: you want. Like, if you want that, you have to

2627
02:06:39,880 --> 02:06:41,200
Speaker 3: put it out there of what you want. So I

2628
02:06:41,240 --> 02:06:44,280
Speaker 3: think with her, that's obviously not what she wants. So

2629
02:06:44,640 --> 02:06:47,320
Speaker 3: tell him that if you show it with it, I

2630
02:06:47,360 --> 02:06:49,000
Speaker 3: don't care how much the bag is. You can show

2631
02:06:49,000 --> 02:06:51,800
Speaker 3: it to a girl with a ten thousand dollars nail

2632
02:06:51,840 --> 02:06:54,520
Speaker 3: bag if she's not into Chanelle or things true, it's

2633
02:06:54,560 --> 02:06:55,360
Speaker 3: not gonna matter.

2634
02:06:56,640 --> 02:07:02,160
Speaker 1: It is not gonna matter. That's telling me I just

2635
02:07:02,280 --> 02:07:05,840
Speaker 1: might not be equally old period. All right, keV, let

2636
02:07:06,000 --> 02:07:07,840
Speaker 1: us know where we can find you.

2637
02:07:08,080 --> 02:07:10,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, tour Kevin? What the book?

2638
02:07:10,960 --> 02:07:14,520
Speaker 2: Yes, Successful Failure is coming out uh this fall September

2639
02:07:14,560 --> 02:07:17,960
Speaker 2: twenty third. Play pre order that new album dropping September

2640
02:07:18,000 --> 02:07:20,480
Speaker 2: twenty third. Trying to make the New York Times Bestsellers list.

2641
02:07:20,600 --> 02:07:24,280
Speaker 2: Bob Brothers tour tickets are on sale now. Whenever you

2642
02:07:24,400 --> 02:07:26,720
Speaker 2: watch this, it's on sale. Go to Kemo stage dot

2643
02:07:26,760 --> 02:07:28,800
Speaker 2: com or just follow me if you don't do nothing else,

2644
02:07:28,880 --> 02:07:30,320
Speaker 2: just subscribe to my YouTube page.

2645
02:07:30,360 --> 02:07:32,600
Speaker 4: I'm trying to get a million. I'm like six thousand away.

2646
02:07:32,760 --> 02:07:37,000
Speaker 4: Oh I'm right there. I've been trying for thirteen years.

2647
02:07:37,560 --> 02:07:41,040
Speaker 1: And you said with what Facebook on YouTube? YouTube?

2648
02:07:41,040 --> 02:07:43,080
Speaker 2: I got a million on Facebook and Instagram and TikTok,

2649
02:07:43,200 --> 02:07:48,240
Speaker 2: but YouTube was the first platform. YouTube is hard, especially

2650
02:07:48,240 --> 02:07:51,240
Speaker 2: once they went to like algorithm suggestions. When they show

2651
02:07:51,280 --> 02:07:53,760
Speaker 2: you the stuff without having a subscribe, people think they're subscribing.

2652
02:07:53,800 --> 02:07:54,280
Speaker 4: They're really not.

2653
02:07:54,600 --> 02:07:56,280
Speaker 1: YouTube and Snapchat are the hardest.

2654
02:07:56,480 --> 02:07:57,400
Speaker 4: Snapchat's even worse.

2655
02:07:57,560 --> 02:07:59,920
Speaker 1: Snapchat is so hard. But I said I'm a six

2656
02:08:00,120 --> 02:08:03,080
Speaker 1: on both. Yeah, I got my personal YouTube.

2657
02:08:02,760 --> 02:08:05,720
Speaker 4: Now I saw and I love this for y'all.

2658
02:08:05,920 --> 02:08:08,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, I love that y'all can spread your wings. And

2659
02:08:08,360 --> 02:08:10,960
Speaker 2: still people assume, like we go with this guy, this

2660
02:08:11,160 --> 02:08:12,480
Speaker 2: ain't going nowhere ain't.

2661
02:08:15,360 --> 02:08:17,240
Speaker 1: But we also are going to do other things.

2662
02:08:17,360 --> 02:08:19,240
Speaker 6: But I feel like we have a lot of things

2663
02:08:19,280 --> 02:08:23,200
Speaker 6: that we want to do collectively together poor Mind's other projects, yes,

2664
02:08:23,840 --> 02:08:25,040
Speaker 6: which we're gonna talk to you about.

2665
02:08:25,160 --> 02:08:29,480
Speaker 4: Absolutely talk to me. But then also we work on

2666
02:08:30,640 --> 02:08:31,680
Speaker 4: and that's how it should be.

2667
02:08:32,040 --> 02:08:34,360
Speaker 2: Like me and Tony are going on tour together, but

2668
02:08:34,520 --> 02:08:36,400
Speaker 2: prior to that, I went on my tour, he wanted

2669
02:08:36,440 --> 02:08:38,280
Speaker 2: his tour, and then we come together, and after that

2670
02:08:38,400 --> 02:08:41,400
Speaker 2: we can go separate and come together. Like you ain't

2671
02:08:41,440 --> 02:08:44,120
Speaker 2: got to own you to work with you, right, only me?

2672
02:08:44,960 --> 02:08:47,080
Speaker 2: We can only do stuff together. He looks a movie.

2673
02:08:47,440 --> 02:08:50,400
Speaker 2: That's my nigga. Congratulations, I do a commercial. If I

2674
02:08:50,440 --> 02:08:52,360
Speaker 2: can get him on, I get him on if he

2675
02:08:52,400 --> 02:08:53,000
Speaker 2: ain't tripping.

2676
02:08:53,040 --> 02:08:53,600
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying.

2677
02:08:53,640 --> 02:08:56,120
Speaker 2: But we should celebrate each other even if it ain't

2678
02:08:56,280 --> 02:08:57,560
Speaker 2: together that we're doing the thing.

2679
02:08:57,680 --> 02:09:02,200
Speaker 6: All right, Yeah, yeah as hard. Go follow us all

2680
02:09:02,320 --> 02:09:11,080
Speaker 6: on every everybody bring Dreaming Cold understore on all platforms,

2681
02:09:11,200 --> 02:09:15,440
Speaker 6: and look and muse beauty News, beauty, my cosmetics.

2682
02:09:15,480 --> 02:09:15,680
Speaker 1: Bring.

2683
02:09:15,800 --> 02:09:18,320
Speaker 3: Let's do it, y'all go follow me on Snapchat, lex

2684
02:09:18,360 --> 02:09:20,720
Speaker 3: P zero five, I'm on Facebook now and lex P

2685
02:09:20,960 --> 02:09:22,520
Speaker 3: and we gotta go, Peece speaking of peace.

2686
02:09:22,640 --> 02:09:24,840
Speaker 4: Literally gotta go. I'm gonna let. I'm gonna be a man.

2687
02:09:24,920 --> 02:09:27,400
Speaker 4: Let y'all go first, we got we gotta go back.

2688
02:09:30,040 --> 02:09:31,440
Speaker 1: First, you first.

2689
02:09:31,480 --> 02:09:33,920
Speaker 4: What is I'm gonna take you. I'm gonna take you,

2690
02:09:35,480 --> 02:09:36,240
Speaker 4: take take.

2691
02:09:37,000 --> 02:09:38,880
Speaker 1: But yeah, y'all, make sure y'all follow cove on.

2692
02:09:40,080 --> 02:09:43,320
Speaker 3: Stayt's say y'all next week.

2693
02:09:44,000 --> 02:09:49,680
Speaker 1: Bye y'all, girl, I know this is let me know.

2694
02:09:49,800 --> 02:09:54,760
Speaker 5: If I'm out of order for step you this ways,

2695
02:09:55,000 --> 02:09:57,320
Speaker 5: see then why you.

2696
02:09:57,560 --> 02:10:02,080
Speaker 1: For wow and not just gotta unless you know that.

2697
02:10:02,360 --> 02:10:07,440
Speaker 10: I'm really setting your style and I have to know

2698
02:10:07,960 --> 02:10:12,960
Speaker 10: your name, leave you with my mother, hope.

2699
02:10:12,720 --> 02:10:16,880
Speaker 1: That you would call me someday. If you want, you

2700
02:10:17,120 --> 02:10:18,680
Speaker 1: can give me your suit.

2701
02:10:20,760 --> 02:10:21,880
Speaker 2: I ain't mad at you.

2702
02:10:23,240 --> 02:10:26,960
Speaker 1: I get still be eagle. I ain't trying to pressure you.

2703
02:10:27,720 --> 02:10:29,480
Speaker 1: Just can't stop thinking about you.

2704
02:10:30,160 --> 02:10:34,240
Speaker 6: You ain't even really gotta be my girlfriend.

2705
02:10:35,240 --> 02:10:39,000
Speaker 1: I just wanted to know your name even made me.

2706
02:10:39,240 --> 02:10:43,560
Speaker 4: Sometimes we can hook up, hang out, just.

2707
02:10:45,280 --> 02:10:46,160
Speaker 1: Dropping drey up.

2708
02:10:47,200 --> 02:10:52,320
Speaker 4: I'm surprised that you call so where you walked O way?

2709
02:10:52,560 --> 02:10:56,160
Speaker 2: I thought I wasn't gonna see you no more since

2710
02:10:56,240 --> 02:10:58,960
Speaker 2: you didn't wanna give me your name.

2711
02:10:59,000 --> 02:11:01,520
Speaker 4: I thought it was name of this doctor. You was

2712
02:11:01,680 --> 02:11:04,840
Speaker 4: digging me and wasn't digging me.

2713
02:11:05,760 --> 02:11:11,200
Speaker 2: But anyway, what you do until night, I'm probably be

2714
02:11:11,480 --> 02:11:15,400
Speaker 2: my piece. If it's cool with you, maybe we'll swim.

2715
02:11:15,280 --> 02:11:18,760
Speaker 4: By and you can just chill within up, or you

2716
02:11:18,880 --> 02:11:20,320
Speaker 4: can just cheer with me.

2717
02:11:20,920 --> 02:11:22,400
Speaker 1: Long as you're comfortable.

2718
02:11:22,760 --> 02:11:26,600
Speaker 4: You feel sec when you with me. I'm not trying

2719
02:11:26,680 --> 02:11:30,120
Speaker 4: to impressure you. Just case stop thinking about you.

2720
02:11:30,760 --> 02:11:36,240
Speaker 1: You ain't eating really gotta be my girlfriend. I just

2721
02:11:36,480 --> 02:11:38,640
Speaker 1: want to know your name.

2722
02:11:39,280 --> 02:11:39,640
Speaker 4: Lady.

2723
02:11:39,840 --> 02:11:45,680
Speaker 2: Sometime we can't hook up, hang out, just sit here's

2724
02:11:45,720 --> 02:11:46,360
Speaker 2: the part.

2725
02:11:55,440 --> 02:12:01,320
Speaker 1: Come on last. Maybe the girl. Maybe we can still

2726
02:12:01,440 --> 02:12:05,000
Speaker 1: hang out. Girl, whatever you want to J just let

2727
02:12:05,200 --> 02:12:09,960
Speaker 1: you know it's up to you. I say, start thinking

2728
02:12:10,040 --> 02:12:15,280
Speaker 1: about you. You ain't read here, gotta be my girlfriend.

2729
02:12:16,280 --> 02:12:19,040
Speaker 1: I just want to know your name.

2730
02:12:19,720 --> 02:12:21,560
Speaker 4: Maybe he's sometime.

2731
02:12:34,840 --> 02:12:37,920
Speaker 8: You ain't gonna be my girlfriend.

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Speaker 1: Music. We ain't sen down, we ain't s