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Speaker 1: I mean micro needling, which punches little tiny I've had

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00:23:08,560 --> 00:23:11,960
Speaker 1: this done. This is why I think. I was like, what, Um,

429
00:23:12,000 --> 00:23:15,199
Speaker 1: they punch little tiny needles into your face and it

430
00:23:15,280 --> 00:23:19,000
Speaker 1: like punch it does skin. It injects the plasma back

431
00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:22,400
Speaker 1: into your skin. But it does that by like basically

432
00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:25,760
Speaker 1: those tiny needles giving the little tiny, tiny, tiny miniscule

433
00:23:25,840 --> 00:23:27,760
Speaker 1: Like we can't even see the holes in your face.

434
00:23:28,200 --> 00:23:31,240
Speaker 1: But what happens is it like traumatizes the skin and

435
00:23:31,240 --> 00:23:38,679
Speaker 1: then it rey they make new cells. Yeah, it's like, yeah,

436
00:23:38,680 --> 00:23:41,920
Speaker 1: it's that's what happens when you cut yourself, Like when

437
00:23:41,920 --> 00:23:44,719
Speaker 1: there is a when you harm yourself, your body then

438
00:23:44,760 --> 00:23:50,680
Speaker 1: reacts to fix it. So it's, um, it's a micro trauma. Yeah.

439
00:23:50,800 --> 00:23:52,520
Speaker 1: And so then your face comes out looking like a

440
00:23:52,560 --> 00:23:58,119
Speaker 1: baby's ass, Like it just looks amazing beautiful. However, I

441
00:23:58,119 --> 00:24:00,960
Speaker 1: could never imagine this. I mean, these lady lives are

442
00:24:01,240 --> 00:24:03,480
Speaker 1: like completely took a turn because they're paying to go

443
00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:06,000
Speaker 1: get a fucking facial. Yeah, it ended up being two

444
00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:09,840
Speaker 1: of them have tested positive for HIV. Um. This all

445
00:24:09,880 --> 00:24:13,000
Speaker 1: happened in two thousand eighteen, and official like when and

446
00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:14,800
Speaker 1: to that, it was in September two thou eighteen. The

447
00:24:14,800 --> 00:24:18,360
Speaker 1: Health Inspectors shut down the spot after one woman reportedly

448
00:24:19,040 --> 00:24:24,879
Speaker 1: tested positive after undergoing the facial and UM. This she

449
00:24:25,000 --> 00:24:29,560
Speaker 1: admitted to, like, well, her name is um Maria Ramos

450
00:24:29,640 --> 00:24:35,480
Speaker 1: de Ruez and um she has been charged now with

451
00:24:36,040 --> 00:24:41,960
Speaker 1: um two dozen felonies, including practicing medicine without a license, racketeering, fraud,

452
00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:45,960
Speaker 1: money laundering, and tax evasion. So this woman wasn't even

453
00:24:46,080 --> 00:24:49,560
Speaker 1: licensed to do this, like she had a fake license.

454
00:24:50,080 --> 00:24:52,720
Speaker 1: They had to test a hundred and thirty seven clients

455
00:24:52,720 --> 00:24:56,159
Speaker 1: over the concerns, so she wasn't like they found like

456
00:24:56,600 --> 00:25:00,359
Speaker 1: unwrapped needles. She admitted to not changing the two as

457
00:25:00,480 --> 00:25:04,520
Speaker 1: that the blood was flowing through. Yeah, because you would

458
00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:07,000
Speaker 1: think like, okay, if I'm having my own blood drawn

459
00:25:07,040 --> 00:25:11,199
Speaker 1: and then put back on. Yeah, I mean even if

460
00:25:11,240 --> 00:25:15,480
Speaker 1: you are already HIV positive. It's like, but you if

461
00:25:15,480 --> 00:25:18,119
Speaker 1: someone was HIV positive doing that, it seems like they

462
00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:22,399
Speaker 1: would have to give full disclosure disclosure. Yeah, you can't.

463
00:25:22,440 --> 00:25:24,479
Speaker 1: I mean that's just like, you can't do that if

464
00:25:24,480 --> 00:25:27,080
Speaker 1: you're not if you're messing with blood and needles and rights.

465
00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:30,680
Speaker 1: But that lady, obviously, I mean this is why my

466
00:25:30,840 --> 00:25:33,440
Speaker 1: girl Carry Cloud at the National Beauty Girl is so

467
00:25:33,520 --> 00:25:36,199
Speaker 1: big on doing your research about your people. That is

468
00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:38,200
Speaker 1: the thing she preaches the most, the most, the most.

469
00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:41,640
Speaker 1: This stuff is scary because it does involve needles. It does.

470
00:25:41,680 --> 00:25:43,199
Speaker 1: I mean it's kind of crazy the ship we do

471
00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:45,680
Speaker 1: to our faces to bet me included, you know, like

472
00:25:46,080 --> 00:25:49,040
Speaker 1: it is a little bit bizarre because it's almost like

473
00:25:49,040 --> 00:25:52,119
Speaker 1: a medical experience now, but you have to treat it

474
00:25:52,160 --> 00:25:55,000
Speaker 1: that way, Like I really think it's just like, how

475
00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:58,600
Speaker 1: does this woman who has complete fraud ster obviously even

476
00:25:58,960 --> 00:26:02,240
Speaker 1: how to do this stuff? Like, well, she must have

477
00:26:02,240 --> 00:26:03,880
Speaker 1: watched to you. I mean, you can pretty much find

478
00:26:03,880 --> 00:26:07,280
Speaker 1: anything on YouTube. I could imagine if you found out

479
00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:11,920
Speaker 1: that your facialists had just learned to video, I would die.

480
00:26:12,680 --> 00:26:16,360
Speaker 1: I mean I would legitimately, first of all, the amount

481
00:26:16,400 --> 00:26:18,560
Speaker 1: of rage that would come out of my body if

482
00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:21,080
Speaker 1: I was one of those women, Like I can't even

483
00:26:21,200 --> 00:26:25,320
Speaker 1: that bit better watch out, But also like I just can't.

484
00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:27,960
Speaker 1: I feel so sad for them literally just going to

485
00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:33,320
Speaker 1: get a facial and their their whole entire life. Is Wow,

486
00:26:34,320 --> 00:26:37,720
Speaker 1: that is some wild this that she had unwrapped needles,

487
00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:43,480
Speaker 1: unlabeled blood tubes, fake certificates. I mean, this is crazy.

488
00:26:43,720 --> 00:26:46,920
Speaker 1: Is that woman in jail? Um It doesn't say anything

489
00:26:46,920 --> 00:26:49,000
Speaker 1: about her being arrested her in jail, but I would

490
00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:54,320
Speaker 1: imagine she's at least um probably going to jail um

491
00:26:54,480 --> 00:26:57,480
Speaker 1: two dozen felonies. How are we just hearing about this too?

492
00:26:57,520 --> 00:26:59,000
Speaker 1: Because I feel like I should have heard about this

493
00:26:59,040 --> 00:27:01,160
Speaker 1: in two thousand eighteen. That actually don't know that I'll

494
00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:05,720
Speaker 1: ever get a vampire facial. Yeah, I don't know what.

495
00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:07,720
Speaker 1: I'm just going to google her and see if there's

496
00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:15,879
Speaker 1: any old stories that come up. And dude, it's just like,

497
00:27:16,119 --> 00:27:18,400
Speaker 1: what am I going to do? There's a Facebook profile?

498
00:27:18,560 --> 00:27:21,879
Speaker 1: I mean, this is crazy. She's on Facebook. I can't.

499
00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:26,480
Speaker 1: I can't with this bit. What. Yeah, there's a lot

500
00:27:26,520 --> 00:27:29,399
Speaker 1: of like new stories that looks like it came up,

501
00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:32,239
Speaker 1: But what is her profile read? Well, I'm not I'm

502
00:27:32,280 --> 00:27:35,639
Speaker 1: not on Facebook. It's just she's like I give facials

503
00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:41,320
Speaker 1: and HIV, Like, what do you put in your bio? Well,

504
00:27:41,320 --> 00:27:45,240
Speaker 1: this is crazy. Just googled her name and quotation marks

505
00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:48,560
Speaker 1: to like really narrow the search, and there's UM an

506
00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:51,560
Speaker 1: Albuquerque journal because it's happened in New Mexico. UM, and

507
00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:55,719
Speaker 1: then people dot com there's a story and people need

508
00:27:55,760 --> 00:27:58,600
Speaker 1: to know about this. I'm glad that we're it's two results.

509
00:27:58,640 --> 00:28:02,080
Speaker 1: There's like nothing from two thous Oh my god, we're

510
00:28:02,080 --> 00:28:05,120
Speaker 1: just dropping knowledge on people that this is why my

511
00:28:05,119 --> 00:28:07,080
Speaker 1: my head almost popped off my body when you said

512
00:28:07,119 --> 00:28:08,800
Speaker 1: this story. I'm like, we have to talk about that today.

513
00:28:08,840 --> 00:28:12,560
Speaker 1: It's so ridiculous. This is this woman means to be

514
00:28:12,600 --> 00:28:16,840
Speaker 1: in jail if she's not. And I mean, I feel

515
00:28:16,880 --> 00:28:24,200
Speaker 1: like we're really giving live and from reporting live from people.

516
00:28:24,200 --> 00:28:27,080
Speaker 1: It says Additionally, the investigation turned up foreign and an

517
00:28:27,080 --> 00:28:31,600
Speaker 1: American prescription and dangerous drugs and medical products that required

518
00:28:31,600 --> 00:28:34,760
Speaker 1: an order form from a licensed physician. She must have

519
00:28:34,840 --> 00:28:37,439
Speaker 1: been offering it at a lower rate. There has to be,

520
00:28:37,560 --> 00:28:40,320
Speaker 1: because it doesn't sound like she could have established a

521
00:28:40,400 --> 00:28:43,280
Speaker 1: business that would have looked reputable to where people would

522
00:28:43,280 --> 00:28:46,760
Speaker 1: go to her over you know what I mean. It's

523
00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:49,800
Speaker 1: not the average woman who's like, I want a vampire facial,

524
00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:51,880
Speaker 1: like a lot of people get them. Are you joking?

525
00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:55,840
Speaker 1: But is that like it's a normal thing. It sounds

526
00:28:55,880 --> 00:28:58,520
Speaker 1: fancy to me. I mean it is fancy, but like

527
00:28:58,760 --> 00:29:00,880
Speaker 1: people who spend money on stuff. But that's like a

528
00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:03,160
Speaker 1: normal but our fancy people like let me find the

529
00:29:03,240 --> 00:29:06,880
Speaker 1: cheapest facial, but with that kind of stuff because it

530
00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:09,239
Speaker 1: can add up so much a lot of people. This

531
00:29:09,280 --> 00:29:11,440
Speaker 1: is where like, this is why I'm such a psycho

532
00:29:11,480 --> 00:29:14,200
Speaker 1: about it, and I don't skimp on this stuff. However,

533
00:29:14,680 --> 00:29:16,480
Speaker 1: I do know that, like, you know, a lot of

534
00:29:16,520 --> 00:29:18,880
Speaker 1: people will be like, god, it's so expensive, and like

535
00:29:19,160 --> 00:29:21,400
Speaker 1: you want to get botox and something else, and like

536
00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:24,360
Speaker 1: that is like gonna You're gonna drop a grand in

537
00:29:24,400 --> 00:29:27,560
Speaker 1: a second. You know, it's just so expensive. It's really

538
00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:30,040
Speaker 1: expensive to be a woman. We've talked about this. But

539
00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:33,360
Speaker 1: so if you're like not, you know, if you're making

540
00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:35,520
Speaker 1: a normal living and you're just like not willing to

541
00:29:35,560 --> 00:29:38,400
Speaker 1: spend that much money or you don't have it to spend,

542
00:29:38,400 --> 00:29:40,360
Speaker 1: but you still want to look good, maybe you would

543
00:29:40,400 --> 00:29:45,200
Speaker 1: try it. Right. Her salon was called it was called

544
00:29:45,360 --> 00:29:50,240
Speaker 1: v I P Spa v I P Beauty Salon in Spa. Like,

545
00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:53,360
Speaker 1: I mean, anybody who went there to I mean, I'm

546
00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:56,040
Speaker 1: not saying they deserve that, but like they should have

547
00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:59,960
Speaker 1: been anything that has v I P in the name.

548
00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:05,560
Speaker 1: It's it's like the biggest self call ever, Like, oh,

549
00:30:06,160 --> 00:30:09,360
Speaker 1: I'm the v I P. Yeah yeah, man. All right,

550
00:30:09,400 --> 00:30:13,320
Speaker 1: well let's move into listener questions. Are emails really, we

551
00:30:13,360 --> 00:30:16,200
Speaker 1: have some some funny emails actually got um a couple

552
00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:18,280
Speaker 1: of d m s. Did I read this last week

553
00:30:18,280 --> 00:30:20,720
Speaker 1: where someone said this is perfect for Chip, But the

554
00:30:20,720 --> 00:30:25,120
Speaker 1: New York Post headline of the day was NYSC singles

555
00:30:25,160 --> 00:30:27,840
Speaker 1: ready for a slutty summer of casual sex as COVID

556
00:30:27,920 --> 00:30:32,280
Speaker 1: vaccines rise. I mean this is a thing. Yeah, I

557
00:30:32,320 --> 00:30:35,120
Speaker 1: can't imagine people. I mean also like just being pent

558
00:30:35,240 --> 00:30:36,920
Speaker 1: up and like not being able to go out. I

559
00:30:36,960 --> 00:30:39,760
Speaker 1: think that's it's going to be like the perfect storm

560
00:30:40,000 --> 00:30:42,239
Speaker 1: of people just being like, get me the hell out

561
00:30:42,280 --> 00:30:46,960
Speaker 1: of the house, get me around another human whoever, Well

562
00:30:47,040 --> 00:30:49,920
Speaker 1: right there, just I mean slutter, pellus out seriously. Well,

563
00:30:49,960 --> 00:30:52,360
Speaker 1: that's good to know that there's other people like on

564
00:30:52,400 --> 00:30:54,520
Speaker 1: the same journey. Because I got to get these shirts

565
00:30:54,520 --> 00:30:58,960
Speaker 1: out before summer. I feel like the people need these.

566
00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:02,320
Speaker 1: I mean, it's so like it's just the mentality of everyone.

567
00:31:02,400 --> 00:31:04,560
Speaker 1: It's like, get me out. I haven't been around people.

568
00:31:04,840 --> 00:31:08,200
Speaker 1: A lot of breakups happened, you know, like or divorces.

569
00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:15,080
Speaker 1: During quarantine. People are on the prow. Oh my god. Wow. Um.

570
00:31:15,120 --> 00:31:18,280
Speaker 1: This comes from Laura's She said, Hey, Kelly, love your podcast,

571
00:31:18,440 --> 00:31:21,320
Speaker 1: especially the edge with Chip. I just wanted to mention

572
00:31:21,360 --> 00:31:24,479
Speaker 1: about you guys. Conversation about Colton Underwood from last week's episode.

573
00:31:24,520 --> 00:31:27,280
Speaker 1: The main issue people are having about him coming out

574
00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:29,800
Speaker 1: is that they're forgetting the fact that he literally stopped

575
00:31:29,840 --> 00:31:31,960
Speaker 1: Cassie after they broke up, to the point where she

576
00:31:32,000 --> 00:31:34,320
Speaker 1: was scared for her life. She even had a restraining

577
00:31:34,400 --> 00:31:36,800
Speaker 1: order against him. I'm glad he's living his truth now,

578
00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:38,840
Speaker 1: but people still need to keep him accountable for the

579
00:31:38,960 --> 00:31:41,520
Speaker 1: terrifying and unhealthy things he did to Cassie. Just thought

580
00:31:41,560 --> 00:31:44,600
Speaker 1: i'd mentioned again Love the v podcast. I really do

581
00:31:44,680 --> 00:31:47,760
Speaker 1: hope that girl has a really good therapist, good family

582
00:31:47,880 --> 00:31:50,080
Speaker 1: or whatever she does. I think she's really close with

583
00:31:50,120 --> 00:31:53,320
Speaker 1: her family. Also, her sister and her like two of

584
00:31:53,360 --> 00:31:56,280
Speaker 1: the most beautiful people I've ever seen. They're like that

585
00:31:56,440 --> 00:31:58,200
Speaker 1: kind of pretty that you like stare at them on

586
00:31:58,240 --> 00:32:01,520
Speaker 1: TV and you can't look away. They're just so freaking

587
00:32:01,520 --> 00:32:04,000
Speaker 1: pretty and you can't process that they're real, if that

588
00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:08,240
Speaker 1: makes sense. Not that that makes any of her pain anyway.

589
00:32:08,280 --> 00:32:10,520
Speaker 1: I think that at least she's pretty. I think that,

590
00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:15,320
Speaker 1: like this is a really good point, Like and I do.

591
00:32:15,520 --> 00:32:18,320
Speaker 1: I think we should celebrate him coming out and him

592
00:32:18,360 --> 00:32:22,680
Speaker 1: living truth and all those things, but like we can

593
00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:25,840
Speaker 1: like he also sounds like a bit of a crazy person, Like,

594
00:32:26,480 --> 00:32:28,920
Speaker 1: so we have to also celebrate. We need to figure

595
00:32:28,960 --> 00:32:32,120
Speaker 1: out ways to celebrate Cassie and like what she what

596
00:32:32,320 --> 00:32:36,520
Speaker 1: she like endured and the good qualities in her you know,

597
00:32:36,720 --> 00:32:39,440
Speaker 1: like I would say, what what she needs to show

598
00:32:39,640 --> 00:32:43,440
Speaker 1: is like, um, should be the next bachelorette. She needs

599
00:32:43,440 --> 00:32:48,280
Speaker 1: to be the next bachelorette. And um, she should like

600
00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:49,840
Speaker 1: just to have a bunch of gay friends, Like she

601
00:32:49,840 --> 00:32:54,320
Speaker 1: needs to show where she hangs out with her gay friends. Yeah, Like, also,

602
00:32:54,440 --> 00:32:56,960
Speaker 1: is that offensive, by the way to say the gays?

603
00:32:57,160 --> 00:32:59,640
Speaker 1: I never think so. I mean, it doesn't offend me.

604
00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:02,280
Speaker 1: I feel two of my gay friends I got I

605
00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:06,360
Speaker 1: said something. Um oh, I was clapping back at someone

606
00:33:06,400 --> 00:33:08,800
Speaker 1: who was talking to me one day on Instagram, you know,

607
00:33:08,960 --> 00:33:13,520
Speaker 1: per usual on Tuesday, and um, I said something. I

608
00:33:13,560 --> 00:33:17,280
Speaker 1: think he commented and just said that's gay about something

609
00:33:17,360 --> 00:33:20,080
Speaker 1: I posted. I said, I hope so I love my

610
00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:25,000
Speaker 1: gays or something, and like then someone, some woman clapped

611
00:33:25,040 --> 00:33:27,520
Speaker 1: back at me and said, she said, it's really disturbing

612
00:33:27,560 --> 00:33:29,960
Speaker 1: that you talk about them like they're in accessory. And

613
00:33:30,000 --> 00:33:32,360
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I actually never thought about it

614
00:33:32,400 --> 00:33:34,280
Speaker 1: that way. I didn't I wasn't meaning to be demeaning

615
00:33:34,360 --> 00:33:36,680
Speaker 1: at all, Like I just meant I have a lot

616
00:33:36,680 --> 00:33:39,040
Speaker 1: of really close friends who are gay, Like, but I

617
00:33:39,040 --> 00:33:41,920
Speaker 1: hadn't thought about that term. I mean, in fact, it's

618
00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:46,920
Speaker 1: like the offensive thing that she'd missed was that the

619
00:33:47,000 --> 00:33:50,920
Speaker 1: guy was using the term gay in a deravatory way.

620
00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:53,520
Speaker 1: I mean, that's that's why I clapped back, because I

621
00:33:53,560 --> 00:33:55,720
Speaker 1: was like, shut the funk up. I think I said

622
00:33:56,280 --> 00:33:59,240
Speaker 1: that woman was just looking a lot of them are

623
00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:04,000
Speaker 1: I said to him, I said the thing about, oh,

624
00:34:04,040 --> 00:34:06,280
Speaker 1: I hope so because I love my gays or whatever.

625
00:34:06,320 --> 00:34:08,680
Speaker 1: And then I think I said, um, now, you, on

626
00:34:08,719 --> 00:34:10,239
Speaker 1: the other hand, sound like a duche and I'm not

627
00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:13,239
Speaker 1: sure what to do about that or something, right, ha

628
00:34:13,239 --> 00:34:18,600
Speaker 1: ha ha ha um. Okay, it's weird how people just

629
00:34:18,640 --> 00:34:21,080
Speaker 1: want to start a fight. Aline. Yeah, But the thing

630
00:34:21,200 --> 00:34:22,920
Speaker 1: is is it did I did go. I wrote her

631
00:34:22,920 --> 00:34:25,520
Speaker 1: back publicly and was like, oh, that's interesting. I never

632
00:34:25,600 --> 00:34:28,359
Speaker 1: thought about it. And I'm actually really open to be like, oh,

633
00:34:28,760 --> 00:34:31,640
Speaker 1: I could actually see that, and and I don't think

634
00:34:31,680 --> 00:34:34,560
Speaker 1: of gays as my accessories obviously. I do think that

635
00:34:34,640 --> 00:34:38,680
Speaker 1: gays get put gay men specifically get put in that

636
00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:42,880
Speaker 1: category of like the quintessential you know, gay bestie or whatever,

637
00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:45,239
Speaker 1: which is gross totally, but I also think that there's

638
00:34:45,239 --> 00:34:47,680
Speaker 1: a lot of gay men that want that age, you know,

639
00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:53,360
Speaker 1: they pay so teacher's own. I feel like everybody should

640
00:34:53,400 --> 00:34:54,879
Speaker 1: just be what they want to be and everybody else

641
00:34:54,920 --> 00:34:56,880
Speaker 1: needs to shut the funk up. Yeah, I mean the

642
00:34:56,960 --> 00:34:59,359
Speaker 1: thing about being so offended all the time is like

643
00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:03,000
Speaker 1: that my have a mentor. He used to say to me, Uh,

644
00:35:03,040 --> 00:35:05,280
Speaker 1: you know, they call it take offense for a reason.

645
00:35:05,440 --> 00:35:07,040
Speaker 1: Like I think I've said that on here before, but

646
00:35:07,200 --> 00:35:10,160
Speaker 1: you have to actually take the offense. So like everything

647
00:35:10,200 --> 00:35:12,560
Speaker 1: everyone's doing all the time, it's really about them, not you.

648
00:35:12,960 --> 00:35:15,120
Speaker 1: So like if you are getting so offended by what

649
00:35:15,160 --> 00:35:18,239
Speaker 1: someone's doing, you're taking that like you're picking it up

650
00:35:18,280 --> 00:35:20,640
Speaker 1: instead of being like, ohoh that that's about them, about me.

651
00:35:21,239 --> 00:35:24,560
Speaker 1: The whole idea of political correctness, and I do think

652
00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:27,360
Speaker 1: that to extreme what it has gotten to extreme. But

653
00:35:27,440 --> 00:35:31,200
Speaker 1: like I also I hate the word political correctness because

654
00:35:32,000 --> 00:35:34,799
Speaker 1: it's what we're at. Like, what the word really is

655
00:35:34,920 --> 00:35:40,080
Speaker 1: is kindness. We're just looking for kindness, don't. It's not

656
00:35:40,120 --> 00:35:43,400
Speaker 1: political in any way. It is just about like you

657
00:35:43,520 --> 00:35:46,120
Speaker 1: live your life. I live my life and let's treat

658
00:35:46,160 --> 00:35:49,320
Speaker 1: each other like neighbors and with and and and always

659
00:35:49,320 --> 00:35:51,480
Speaker 1: come from a place of love. If that's the way

660
00:35:51,480 --> 00:35:54,800
Speaker 1: that the world, I would just fucking operate. You imagine

661
00:35:54,800 --> 00:35:57,320
Speaker 1: what a beautiful world we would live in. Well, because also,

662
00:35:57,520 --> 00:35:59,759
Speaker 1: but it's coming at people all the time, is just

663
00:36:00,000 --> 00:36:03,560
Speaker 1: adding to the fire of uh, fear and anger and

664
00:36:03,680 --> 00:36:06,120
Speaker 1: all of just this like controversy constantly. And it's like

665
00:36:06,160 --> 00:36:09,080
Speaker 1: if we all treat each other well and kindly, like

666
00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:13,160
Speaker 1: you're saying, it just eliminates the problem. All right, Well,

667
00:36:13,200 --> 00:36:16,880
Speaker 1: this is a the I just love the subject of

668
00:36:16,920 --> 00:36:20,719
Speaker 1: this email. It's called sled A Paluza submission. So I

669
00:36:20,760 --> 00:36:24,600
Speaker 1: guess this girl. Yeah, Amanda is writing in for the

670
00:36:25,040 --> 00:36:28,280
Speaker 1: yet to be titled a part of this podcast. Although

671
00:36:28,320 --> 00:36:31,200
Speaker 1: a sled A Pealosa submission is actually kind of great.

672
00:36:31,000 --> 00:36:33,000
Speaker 1: I sort of like that because then it's not we're

673
00:36:33,040 --> 00:36:37,439
Speaker 1: not calling Amanda something. We're calling her message something. We're

674
00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:41,040
Speaker 1: also calling just the state of mind something maybe and

675
00:36:41,120 --> 00:36:45,040
Speaker 1: like this time of your life something, but not just mine. Clearly,

676
00:36:45,040 --> 00:36:50,000
Speaker 1: it's the world, the world. God, I need to be

677
00:36:50,040 --> 00:36:52,800
Speaker 1: an international slot. You're literally about to be an international

678
00:36:52,840 --> 00:36:57,520
Speaker 1: super oh, an international superst Wow. Okay, so this comes

679
00:36:57,520 --> 00:36:59,840
Speaker 1: from Amanda. She says, I'm a forty year old woman

680
00:36:59,840 --> 00:37:02,480
Speaker 1: that went on vacation with my parents and my nineteen

681
00:37:02,520 --> 00:37:06,000
Speaker 1: year old niece to Vegas. Yes, Vegas with my parents. Woof,

682
00:37:06,160 --> 00:37:09,120
Speaker 1: that sounds rough. Actually risky, Yeah, very risky, and sharing

683
00:37:09,120 --> 00:37:11,839
Speaker 1: a room with my nineteen year old niece starting off

684
00:37:11,920 --> 00:37:15,960
Speaker 1: my own sled of palooza was nowhere on my radar.

685
00:37:16,000 --> 00:37:19,760
Speaker 1: It's sort of like ship. This actually sounds very familiar.

686
00:37:20,280 --> 00:37:23,000
Speaker 1: We went to an off the strip joint for dinner

687
00:37:23,040 --> 00:37:25,440
Speaker 1: and there was a wait list. While everyone else was gambling.

688
00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:27,440
Speaker 1: As we waited, I stood near the bar watching the

689
00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:30,520
Speaker 1: men's basketball National championship game. This is fresh, This is

690
00:37:30,560 --> 00:37:36,800
Speaker 1: a fresh story. Before I know it, I'm not before

691
00:37:36,840 --> 00:37:38,600
Speaker 1: I know it, I'm invited to sit at the bar

692
00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:41,040
Speaker 1: and a drink is purchased for me, and I'm talking

693
00:37:41,040 --> 00:37:43,799
Speaker 1: to two pilots who were there for an overnight labor

694
00:37:43,920 --> 00:37:45,680
Speaker 1: and also waiting to be seated for dinner. I bet

695
00:37:45,680 --> 00:37:48,520
Speaker 1: pilots are such sluts. Speaking of that's like being on

696
00:37:48,560 --> 00:37:51,799
Speaker 1: the road. I've actually been told by a friend of

697
00:37:51,800 --> 00:37:54,879
Speaker 1: mine who's a nurse, like on Grinder, if someone says

698
00:37:54,920 --> 00:37:58,080
Speaker 1: that they're a pilot or flight attendant do not because

699
00:37:58,080 --> 00:38:02,319
Speaker 1: they're just in for the night, and like that's they're

700
00:38:02,320 --> 00:38:05,680
Speaker 1: doing it in every city. Yeah, exactly, they're like musicians.

701
00:38:07,360 --> 00:38:13,080
Speaker 1: Um and says okay, La La La lost my place

702
00:38:13,239 --> 00:38:15,520
Speaker 1: because we went off on that rant. Okay. I had

703
00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:17,920
Speaker 1: promised my niece that we would walk out around the

704
00:38:18,000 --> 00:38:21,040
Speaker 1: strip that night since she had just stayed in the

705
00:38:21,080 --> 00:38:23,760
Speaker 1: room all day just bored. So that put a hindrance

706
00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:26,120
Speaker 1: on my alternative plans with the single pilot of the two,

707
00:38:26,200 --> 00:38:28,080
Speaker 1: but he agreed to join us on our walk. The

708
00:38:28,160 --> 00:38:30,160
Speaker 1: next morning, I walked across the street to the hotel

709
00:38:30,200 --> 00:38:32,960
Speaker 1: he was staying at and had quote unquote coffee and

710
00:38:33,000 --> 00:38:35,680
Speaker 1: we got it in before the airport shuttle came to

711
00:38:35,680 --> 00:38:38,279
Speaker 1: pick him up for his next flight. Where there is

712
00:38:38,360 --> 00:38:40,520
Speaker 1: a will, there is a way. It had almost been

713
00:38:40,520 --> 00:38:42,960
Speaker 1: a year since I've gotten laid, So now I'm declaring

714
00:38:42,960 --> 00:38:49,160
Speaker 1: sled Upaloosa officially on its way. You go, girl, wow, Amanda,

715
00:38:49,320 --> 00:38:52,520
Speaker 1: and we I feel like we Just before I was

716
00:38:52,560 --> 00:38:54,360
Speaker 1: like I was about to say that's probably what sparked

717
00:38:54,360 --> 00:38:56,600
Speaker 1: her and not to say that like all pilots or whatever.

718
00:38:56,640 --> 00:38:59,080
Speaker 1: And also if that's what you're looking for and that night.

719
00:38:59,160 --> 00:39:02,279
Speaker 1: Then okay, like got all. I mean, depends on what

720
00:39:02,320 --> 00:39:06,040
Speaker 1: you're looking for. No judgment here, And I was about

721
00:39:06,040 --> 00:39:08,560
Speaker 1: to say on that casual, but that's not what this is.

722
00:39:10,200 --> 00:39:12,920
Speaker 1: This is called the subjects of these emails. I can't

723
00:39:12,960 --> 00:39:17,720
Speaker 1: poop story. Okay, this comes from Rachel Kelly and Chip

724
00:39:17,760 --> 00:39:19,880
Speaker 1: was listening to you all stories about shipping your pants

725
00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:21,640
Speaker 1: and knew I needed to share my story with you.

726
00:39:24,400 --> 00:39:27,279
Speaker 1: I was attending a family reunion week for my then

727
00:39:27,360 --> 00:39:30,759
Speaker 1: boyfriend now fiance's family in Memphis. One night, we had

728
00:39:30,760 --> 00:39:33,880
Speaker 1: dinner at his sister's house and headed back to the hotel.

729
00:39:34,000 --> 00:39:36,399
Speaker 1: After We decided to pick up a bottle of wine

730
00:39:36,400 --> 00:39:38,760
Speaker 1: on the way back because we just wanted to keep drinking.

731
00:39:39,040 --> 00:39:41,640
Speaker 1: He dropped me out front to scoop one up at

732
00:39:41,680 --> 00:39:43,840
Speaker 1: the store, so I didn't take anything in with me

733
00:39:43,920 --> 00:39:46,160
Speaker 1: other than my card. As I was standing in the

734
00:39:46,160 --> 00:39:50,480
Speaker 1: wine browsing the bottles, something hit me. I didn't know

735
00:39:50,560 --> 00:39:55,040
Speaker 1: which bottle I wanted and kept shuffling my feet while looking, trying,

736
00:39:55,360 --> 00:39:58,440
Speaker 1: oh looking, trying to distract my stomach. I quickly grabbed

737
00:39:58,440 --> 00:39:59,880
Speaker 1: a bottle because I felt like I was about to

738
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:02,480
Speaker 1: ship myself. I ran to the self checkout, trying to

739
00:40:02,560 --> 00:40:05,120
Speaker 1: check out as fast as I can, barely being able

740
00:40:05,160 --> 00:40:07,600
Speaker 1: to swipe my credit card, I sprinted to the bathroom.

741
00:40:07,640 --> 00:40:10,480
Speaker 1: I could see upfront a customer service. As I'm running

742
00:40:10,480 --> 00:40:13,040
Speaker 1: into the women's room, I felt it coming. The best

743
00:40:13,040 --> 00:40:16,120
Speaker 1: part is I'm wearing a fucking jumpsuit and I try

744
00:40:16,160 --> 00:40:18,560
Speaker 1: to unzip it. Uh the words, They're so hard to

745
00:40:18,560 --> 00:40:20,880
Speaker 1: get out of as I run into the bathroom, and

746
00:40:20,960 --> 00:40:23,279
Speaker 1: I end up having diarrhea all in my jumpsuit and

747
00:40:23,280 --> 00:40:26,680
Speaker 1: then onto the floor. So I'm sitting in the bathroom

748
00:40:26,680 --> 00:40:29,799
Speaker 1: stall was shipped all over my jumpsuit, on the and

749
00:40:30,040 --> 00:40:32,359
Speaker 1: on the floor. The best part is I don't have

750
00:40:32,400 --> 00:40:35,840
Speaker 1: my phone with me. Oh my god, I'm dying, okay dead.

751
00:40:36,280 --> 00:40:39,719
Speaker 1: I literally would have flushed myself down the top just

752
00:40:39,800 --> 00:40:42,400
Speaker 1: jump out the window. So my boyfriend has no idea

753
00:40:42,440 --> 00:40:44,080
Speaker 1: what's going on? How the funk am I going to

754
00:40:44,160 --> 00:40:46,480
Speaker 1: get out of here? After sitting there for contemplating for

755
00:40:46,520 --> 00:40:48,200
Speaker 1: a few minutes, I decide that I'm just going to

756
00:40:48,280 --> 00:40:49,839
Speaker 1: have to make a run for it, So I had

757
00:40:49,840 --> 00:40:53,080
Speaker 1: to put back on my diarrhea jumpsuit and run out.

758
00:40:53,239 --> 00:40:55,439
Speaker 1: The door is about fifty yards from the bathroom half

759
00:40:55,440 --> 00:40:58,000
Speaker 1: of a football field. Oh my god, I'm dead. So

760
00:40:58,040 --> 00:41:01,239
Speaker 1: I have to run by store shoppers with shipped all

761
00:41:01,239 --> 00:41:03,080
Speaker 1: over my clothes. When I get out, my boyfriend pulls

762
00:41:03,120 --> 00:41:04,200
Speaker 1: up to pick me up, and I have to tell

763
00:41:04,280 --> 00:41:06,359
Speaker 1: him my ship myself. I get in the back seat

764
00:41:06,400 --> 00:41:08,760
Speaker 1: and strip naked. I threw my jumpsuit out the window

765
00:41:08,800 --> 00:41:10,480
Speaker 1: on the way back to the hotel. So yes, I'm

766
00:41:10,520 --> 00:41:13,040
Speaker 1: but a snaked at this point. At the hotel, he

767
00:41:13,120 --> 00:41:15,759
Speaker 1: drops me off at the back entrance and we sneak upstairs.

768
00:41:16,280 --> 00:41:19,880
Speaker 1: Mind you, I literally had shipped on my toes. Oh

769
00:41:19,880 --> 00:41:22,840
Speaker 1: my god, this is when I name my fiance was

770
00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:24,680
Speaker 1: the one L O L. He had to drive his

771
00:41:24,719 --> 00:41:26,880
Speaker 1: car around for hours with the windows down to get

772
00:41:26,920 --> 00:41:32,560
Speaker 1: the smell out. XO XO stay edgy bitches. Rachel, Rachel.

773
00:41:32,760 --> 00:41:36,279
Speaker 1: That was maybe the most epic email we've received yet.

774
00:41:36,400 --> 00:41:40,359
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I don't know. It ties up there

775
00:41:40,440 --> 00:41:43,400
Speaker 1: with Brittany breaking her jaw with a blow job or

776
00:41:43,400 --> 00:41:47,120
Speaker 1: whatever she did. You know, in those situations, it's like, honestly,

777
00:41:47,120 --> 00:41:50,080
Speaker 1: they're literally it's one of those things where like you know,

778
00:41:50,160 --> 00:41:52,799
Speaker 1: there's only one outcome, like you gotta just put your

779
00:41:52,800 --> 00:41:55,640
Speaker 1: ship suit back home. And get the funk out. But

780
00:41:55,800 --> 00:41:58,319
Speaker 1: like I would have, I don't know what I would have.

781
00:41:58,640 --> 00:42:00,080
Speaker 1: You have rented it out in the sink and has

782
00:42:00,120 --> 00:42:02,640
Speaker 1: walked out with a wet jumpsuit. That might have been

783
00:42:02,680 --> 00:42:06,279
Speaker 1: my only other adjustment to what Rachel did. Somebody have

784
00:42:06,400 --> 00:42:08,319
Speaker 1: rinsed my body off? Are you going to be like

785
00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:13,360
Speaker 1: standing at the stopping in the bathroom? Is it a

786
00:42:13,400 --> 00:42:16,880
Speaker 1: single stall? I don't know. It doesn't matter that I

787
00:42:16,880 --> 00:42:19,160
Speaker 1: don't even give a ship. If they give a ship,

788
00:42:19,680 --> 00:42:22,080
Speaker 1: I don't care if a woman walks in and I'm naked,

789
00:42:22,080 --> 00:42:24,799
Speaker 1: I'd be like sorry ship myself or sorry accident and

790
00:42:24,800 --> 00:42:28,160
Speaker 1: I'm like naked. But like the running out with this

791
00:42:28,239 --> 00:42:31,600
Speaker 1: ship on top of you, that was just like it's

792
00:42:31,680 --> 00:42:40,880
Speaker 1: too much for me to process. It's a good story. Also,

793
00:42:41,120 --> 00:42:45,720
Speaker 1: this is he's definitely the one that guy is like

794
00:42:46,080 --> 00:42:49,480
Speaker 1: needs a fucking metal Yes, good for him. You know

795
00:42:49,520 --> 00:42:51,560
Speaker 1: what made me just you know what I just thought about.

796
00:42:51,640 --> 00:42:56,520
Speaker 1: I already forgot our new ending. Oh because she said

797
00:42:56,560 --> 00:42:58,719
Speaker 1: stay edgy bitches, And I was like, wait, what what's

798
00:42:58,719 --> 00:43:01,360
Speaker 1: my line again? You say I wish I was just

799
00:43:01,440 --> 00:43:08,200
Speaker 1: so much. We always remember a casual Where did stay

800
00:43:08,280 --> 00:43:10,160
Speaker 1: Edgy Bitches come? From because we said that was the

801
00:43:10,200 --> 00:43:14,400
Speaker 1: week before. Ye stay edgy bitches, because you were like bitches.

802
00:43:15,239 --> 00:43:20,080
Speaker 1: That wasn't low at all. Weren't you say edgy bitches? Bitches? Um?

803
00:43:20,200 --> 00:43:22,600
Speaker 1: So then okay, so what we decided I would do

804
00:43:22,760 --> 00:43:28,640
Speaker 1: is I would say something was something along. When you're

805
00:43:28,719 --> 00:43:33,040
Speaker 1: living on the edge, always remember yes, to act casual,

806
00:43:33,560 --> 00:43:37,319
Speaker 1: to always remember too. This is what the VIC debate was. Like, God,

807
00:43:37,400 --> 00:43:41,719
Speaker 1: one day, you know what I should probably do write this, Yeah,

808
00:43:41,800 --> 00:43:45,120
Speaker 1: but that would make too much. Every week, We'll just

809
00:43:45,160 --> 00:43:47,520
Speaker 1: have a different type of working this out. You know

810
00:43:47,560 --> 00:43:50,080
Speaker 1: what else I'd realized today, I have a headache. You

811
00:43:50,160 --> 00:43:54,879
Speaker 1: keep sniffling and I we don't have COVID, but it's allergies.

812
00:43:54,960 --> 00:43:57,360
Speaker 1: I ate gluten yesterday too, And this is what happens

813
00:43:57,400 --> 00:44:04,440
Speaker 1: to me every day. Maybe that's my problem. Okay, we

814
00:44:04,480 --> 00:44:06,840
Speaker 1: gotta go. Do you have anything do you need to

815
00:44:06,840 --> 00:44:11,400
Speaker 1: say to the people? No, just our tagline. You're like,

816
00:44:11,520 --> 00:44:13,880
Speaker 1: get to it, bitch. I can't wait to get in

817
00:44:13,880 --> 00:44:15,319
Speaker 1: the hot tub this weekend. I hope you guys have

818
00:44:15,360 --> 00:44:22,759
Speaker 1: a fabulous weekend. And when you're living on the look

819
00:44:22,800 --> 00:44:25,600
Speaker 1: at me like that, I'm about to nail it. But

820
00:44:25,640 --> 00:44:28,600
Speaker 1: he literally has this aebrows so raised. Yeah, put your

821
00:44:28,640 --> 00:44:30,480
Speaker 1: hand up. Don't look at me. Stop looking at me.

822
00:44:30,719 --> 00:44:34,480
Speaker 1: I gotta put the mic by my mouth. Okay, Okay, No,

823
00:44:34,600 --> 00:44:36,920
Speaker 1: I can't get it together. Stop looking at me. Here.

824
00:44:36,920 --> 00:44:39,720
Speaker 1: I got I got it, I got it, I got it. Okay,

825
00:44:39,920 --> 00:44:41,600
Speaker 1: you guys, I hope you have a great weekend. And

826
00:44:41,640 --> 00:44:46,080
Speaker 1: just remember that when I knew you were for gonna up. Okay,

827
00:44:46,600 --> 00:44:49,480
Speaker 1: when you're living on the edge, you guys, always remember

828
00:44:49,520 --> 00:44:55,560
Speaker 1: to a casual. I'm gonna be Sorryak